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Speaker 1: With Alexi Napola and Marissa Patton and iHeartRadio Podcast.

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Speaker 2: Hi guys, welcome to another episode of I Put Favored.

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Speaker 2: I'm in my house today and Marisol is at her house,

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Speaker 2: so we'll miss each other. But the reason for that

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Speaker 2: is because we got really really busy this last week, right,

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Speaker 2: and Monday's our only day off from filming, so we

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Speaker 2: decided that we were going to do it from our

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Speaker 2: homes today. Yeah.

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Speaker 1: Well, it's the return of season seven and we have

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Speaker 1: a week of filming behind us.

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Speaker 2: What do you think? How do you feel about it?

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Speaker 2: I'm feel I'm feeling pretty good. Let me tell you.

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Speaker 2: I was really excited to come back meter a year,

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Speaker 2: you know. I think a year is a really long time,

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Speaker 2: I know, and I think we were already, you know.

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Speaker 2: Of course, some of us are more excited to see

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Speaker 2: some you know, some other people, and some of us

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Speaker 2: are excited to see other people, right, But I think

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Speaker 2: as a group, I think we all were really looking

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Speaker 2: forward to starting filming again. And I liked my first week.

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Speaker 1: Yeah, it was good. It was good. It was really good.

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Speaker 1: It was very busy. You were even busier than me,

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Speaker 1: my god, and I thought I was busy they were

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Speaker 1: you were working like a yeah, yeah, you were all

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Speaker 1: over pretty much.

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Speaker 2: Yeah.

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Speaker 1: Yeah, it was good. I had a great time and

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Speaker 1: I had a love when I get to film with you.

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Speaker 1: I got to see you twice last week. That was

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Speaker 1: good and I was really happy to see almost everybody. Yeah. Yeah,

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Speaker 1: I agree with you. It's going to be a little crazy.

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Speaker 1: We had a crazy start. You know, no show is

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Speaker 1: complete without some chaos.

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Speaker 2: Well, I mean, I think that the what's good about

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Speaker 2: taking a little bit of time off and that's starting

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Speaker 2: to film right after your other season gets wrapped up,

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Speaker 2: is the fact that we let our stories develop, you know.

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Speaker 2: And I think that a lot has developed in everyone's lives,

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Speaker 2: you know, last year. So now we're gonna all be

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Speaker 2: sharing it with you.

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Speaker 1: A lot of good stuff developing, Yeah, a lot of

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Speaker 1: good storylines. It's gonna be good. Mm hmm. The news

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Speaker 1: has been quite interesting this week.

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Speaker 2: We need to speak about one particular amount we've been

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Speaker 2: talking about. I think in our podcast previously we're talking

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Speaker 2: about justin Timberlake, and now we're going to be talking

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Speaker 2: about David Girl. So these two guys have been really

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Speaker 2: naughty and then I think they're just trying to take

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Speaker 2: control of the situation and they're creating their own narrative.

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Speaker 2: So let's give you a little update on Justin Timberlake

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Speaker 2: and how he pled guilty and addresses reporters for public apology.

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Speaker 2: Justin Timberlake pleated guilty Friday to a traffic infraction driving

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Speaker 2: while ability impaired to resolve his driving while intoxicated case

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Speaker 2: in the Hamptons. The judge also ordered him to pay

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Speaker 2: a fine, which was ridiculous what he had to pay

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Speaker 2: a five hundred dollars fine and perform community service. Timberlake

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Speaker 2: also agreed to appear in a public servicennouncement about the

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Speaker 2: dangers of drunk driving, which I loved. After the court appointment,

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Speaker 2: he addressed reporters, saying, what I like to say to

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Speaker 2: everyone watching and listening, even if you've had one drink,

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Speaker 2: don't get behind the wheel of a car. There's so

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Speaker 2: many alternatives. Call a friend, take an uber. That's what

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Speaker 2: he should have done. This is a mistake I made,

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Speaker 2: But I'm hoping whoever is watching right now can learn

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Speaker 2: from this mistake, and I know that I certainly have. Okay,

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Speaker 2: so let's start by saying that I like the fact

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Speaker 2: that his willing next to accept responsibility for driving while

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Speaker 2: his ability was repaired by alcohol, and then also holding

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Speaker 2: himself accountable for his misbehavior and for using his platform,

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Speaker 2: most importantly to increase public awareness about the dangers of

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Speaker 2: drunk driving. But with all that being said, you know,

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Speaker 2: I feel that he got away with just a slap

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Speaker 2: DWI driving while intoxicated, and then that was dismissed. And

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Speaker 2: although the word impaired is used, it's not a drunk

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Speaker 2: driving offense, so that kind of changes everything.

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Speaker 1: I have a question. Did he do a sobriety test?

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Speaker 1: He did, He did, and he passed it.

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Speaker 2: No, well, he didn't do the breathalyzer, he didn't do theoizer.

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Speaker 1: All right, So of course they dismissed it because they

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Speaker 2: He said not guilty. Then he had one drink, right,

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Speaker 2: when there's other stories that he had more than one drink,

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Speaker 2: because honestly, he took a stop sign, so he ran

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Speaker 1: It was pretty late in the evening or the early

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Speaker 1: you yeah, you know, you know what I mean too.

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Speaker 2: He said it was a martini. So there's like different

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Speaker 2: stories and from the beginning he said not guilty. By

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Speaker 2: the way, he had incredible legal representation. He has like

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Speaker 2: the best attorney that Handsey's kind of cases. So his

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Speaker 1: Obviously going that was going to be the outcome.

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Speaker 2: No, this happened not only to justin dipper Lake. I

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Speaker 2: mean it happens to other people too that have been

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Speaker 2: happen to me. But which part that they let that

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Speaker 2: they let you go with the stop in the in

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Speaker 2: the wrist or what was your what was your case?

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Speaker 1: Both both My husband was driving the car. After my

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Speaker 1: husband at the time was driving the car, he was impaired.

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Speaker 1: He hit a taxi cab. He got out, he took

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Speaker 1: said to the driver, you know, do you want to

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Speaker 1: and it happened to be my birthday, and I was

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Speaker 1: I'm looking at my husband who got out of the car,

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Speaker 1: And then someone came up to me on a motorcycle

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Speaker 1: I was behind the wheel. I didn't take the test,

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Speaker 1: never did that again, never ever again. So that was

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Speaker 1: two thousand Again did what I never drove again? After

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Speaker 2: When you refuse to do the test the breath of lies,

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Speaker 2: they revoke your driver's license for a whole year. You

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Speaker 1: Mind was not. But my husband at the time, his

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Speaker 1: and he took it, but I didn't take it, so

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Speaker 2: His case, he used the breath the breathalyzer thing. So

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Speaker 2: how do you feel about it? Like, what how do

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Speaker 2: you think? Do you think that do you agree with

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Speaker 2: his not sentence because obviously it's not wasn't even a sentence.

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Speaker 2: But you know, I feel even his fine with the judge,

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Speaker 2: you know, find them three hundred to five hundred dollars

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Speaker 2: is ridiculous. Somebody like justin Timberlake can really, you know,

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Speaker 2: use his money for a charity like Mothers against Drunk Drivers,

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Speaker 2: where he should have had to donate more than five

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Speaker 2: make a statement, you know how money mothers lose their

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Speaker 1: This, especially here in Florida. I le say, how many

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Speaker 1: drunk voting accidents are there where We're losing teenagers in

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Speaker 1: high school? It's terrible, right, No, voting is a different, Yeah,

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Speaker 1: but it's a different creating machinery while impaired. It's so dangerous.

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Speaker 2: But I just think it was like not enough money.

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Speaker 2: And the judge also ordered for him to do community

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Speaker 2: hours twenty to forty community hours for any organization of

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Speaker 2: his choice. But that's nothing. Forty hours of him to.

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Speaker 1: Do clean toilets or is he going to perform I

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Speaker 1: think you should do both.

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Speaker 2: He doesn't have to clean toilets, but what he can

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Speaker 2: do is go and dedicate to an organization that works,

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Speaker 2: you know, with families that have been affected by people

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Speaker 2: like him, that have been driving under the influence, and

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Speaker 2: can talk to young kids. You can go to schools

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Speaker 2: and give speeches. You know. I just don't want it

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Speaker 1: Obviously he needed to do this marketing PR his image

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Speaker 2: So you think this is sincere, that he really wanted

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Speaker 1: I have no idea. I don't know much about him.

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Speaker 1: We know he's cheated a little bit and he's been

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Speaker 2: Like this came in a really bad timing obviously. But

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Speaker 2: what I'm trying to say is like I want to

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Speaker 2: see more from him because I think he could really

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Speaker 2: turn this negative into a positive. He's still a young

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Speaker 2: man that a lot of you know, people follow, you know,

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Speaker 2: really do hope and wish that he uses his platform

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Speaker 2: he has children himself, He has children himself, Like what

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Speaker 2: And again, I really hope that that he does that

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Speaker 2: too many other people. There's a lot of people walking

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Speaker 2: that that he's not really just creating this narrative, you know,

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Speaker 1: Like come up with a bit of a discount for

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Speaker 2: They were married for twenty one years. I didn't read anyone.

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Speaker 2: You know, he's such a good guy. He came out clean.

434
00:22:22,000 --> 00:22:24,000
Speaker 2: He's saying his story. But by the way, he had

435
00:22:24,000 --> 00:22:28,280
Speaker 2: already retained an attorney. So he retained an attorney, told

436
00:22:28,320 --> 00:22:31,280
Speaker 2: all the information to the attorney, and so it was

437
00:22:31,320 --> 00:22:34,640
Speaker 2: all like calculators what I'm saying, where he is again

438
00:22:34,880 --> 00:22:39,040
Speaker 2: controlling his narrative, and we'll see what time, how much

439
00:22:39,040 --> 00:22:41,160
Speaker 2: information comes out, because right now we don't know if

440
00:22:41,160 --> 00:22:44,359
Speaker 2: it was something like, for example, Arnold Schwartzenegger, because there's

441
00:22:44,359 --> 00:22:46,400
Speaker 2: been a lot of these guys, you know, and would

442
00:22:46,840 --> 00:22:51,959
Speaker 2: remember that. Yes, so for examplegar like with his housekeeper

443
00:22:52,080 --> 00:22:54,480
Speaker 2: in his house. And they didn't find this out too

444
00:22:54,520 --> 00:22:57,760
Speaker 2: many many many years later, and Maria at Shreiber did

445
00:22:57,800 --> 00:23:00,480
Speaker 2: not forgive them. She filed for divorce. You know, for

446
00:23:00,560 --> 00:23:04,040
Speaker 2: some women, it's an absolute deal breaker. For me, it

447
00:23:04,080 --> 00:23:06,399
Speaker 2: would be as for me too, for me too, for

448
00:23:06,480 --> 00:23:09,080
Speaker 2: me too. So Dad, you couldn't sell me. You could

449
00:23:09,119 --> 00:23:11,000
Speaker 2: do this, you could do that, but you can for me,

450
00:23:11,119 --> 00:23:13,040
Speaker 2: that's the ultimate betrayal for me.

451
00:23:13,200 --> 00:23:17,600
Speaker 1: I think that sometimes women are stuck because they don't

452
00:23:17,640 --> 00:23:20,159
Speaker 1: have their own money, their own job. They need a

453
00:23:20,240 --> 00:23:23,240
Speaker 1: roof over the head, and they stay. I know, my

454
00:23:23,320 --> 00:23:26,520
Speaker 1: cousin was ill, she didn't work, and she just needed someone.

455
00:23:27,160 --> 00:23:28,960
Speaker 1: She knew him, he was the father of her children,

456
00:23:29,000 --> 00:23:31,600
Speaker 1: and she knew she was probably not going to make it,

457
00:23:32,040 --> 00:23:35,040
Speaker 1: and she stayed because she was you know, she didn't

458
00:23:35,040 --> 00:23:36,040
Speaker 1: have any other recourse.

459
00:23:36,119 --> 00:23:36,880
Speaker 2: I can see that.

460
00:23:36,960 --> 00:23:39,960
Speaker 1: I can see that, and I think that that happens

461
00:23:40,000 --> 00:23:42,040
Speaker 1: to a lot of women. But women they have their

462
00:23:42,080 --> 00:23:44,159
Speaker 1: own money and do their own things. Strong women like

463
00:23:44,160 --> 00:23:46,720
Speaker 1: your mother, like you, like me, We're not going to

464
00:23:46,800 --> 00:23:48,800
Speaker 1: put up with that. I'm sorry, I hit the door.

465
00:23:49,119 --> 00:23:51,320
Speaker 2: You're out, well, I mean, for me, it's just the

466
00:23:51,400 --> 00:23:56,359
Speaker 2: ultimate betrayal because and again I think it's very circumstantial.

467
00:23:56,400 --> 00:23:59,480
Speaker 2: In this case, Dave and his wife have been married

468
00:23:59,520 --> 00:24:02,560
Speaker 2: for twenty one years. They have three children, So I

469
00:24:02,640 --> 00:24:05,040
Speaker 2: don't know at what point in time did this happen.

470
00:24:05,320 --> 00:24:07,159
Speaker 2: You know, I don't know if it happened maybe in

471
00:24:07,200 --> 00:24:09,600
Speaker 2: their year seven and now he's finding out about it.

472
00:24:09,840 --> 00:24:13,600
Speaker 2: I don't have the details enough to give my complete

473
00:24:13,600 --> 00:24:16,640
Speaker 2: opinion on it, because you know, the circumstances do change

474
00:24:16,640 --> 00:24:19,560
Speaker 2: a lot of things, my friend, I think the circumstances

475
00:24:19,640 --> 00:24:21,320
Speaker 2: changes a lot of things, and you want to give

476
00:24:21,320 --> 00:24:24,119
Speaker 2: a guy another chance. For example, sometimes you know, you

477
00:24:24,200 --> 00:24:26,480
Speaker 2: don't know whether the couple was taking a break or

478
00:24:26,480 --> 00:24:28,800
Speaker 2: they're on a fight, or you know, when he went

479
00:24:28,880 --> 00:24:31,440
Speaker 2: on his own. Maybe it's like a draw on a band.

480
00:24:31,520 --> 00:24:34,560
Speaker 1: Maybe maybe he says she was just you know, a groupie,

481
00:24:34,840 --> 00:24:36,760
Speaker 1: and she knows that he does that when he's on

482
00:24:36,840 --> 00:24:39,320
Speaker 1: the road, and she's okay with I don't know, right,

483
00:24:39,720 --> 00:24:40,520
Speaker 1: we just don't know.

484
00:24:41,440 --> 00:24:44,320
Speaker 2: So I think to give like a full complete, like

485
00:24:44,359 --> 00:24:47,399
Speaker 2: my opinion, I would have to have more information because

486
00:24:47,520 --> 00:24:49,280
Speaker 2: not that it makes it better. I'm not saying it

487
00:24:49,320 --> 00:24:54,960
Speaker 2: makes it better. I think it's let's make sense get better.

488
00:24:55,400 --> 00:24:57,760
Speaker 2: But you know that that's going to really change things

489
00:24:57,800 --> 00:24:59,479
Speaker 2: because it depends on when he did it. I mean

490
00:24:59,440 --> 00:25:01,720
Speaker 2: he just didn't. Now we're like, great, like why are

491
00:25:01,760 --> 00:25:03,280
Speaker 2: you doing that? Like if you did it at a

492
00:25:03,320 --> 00:25:06,040
Speaker 2: time in their marriage, not that again that it's okay,

493
00:25:06,600 --> 00:25:08,399
Speaker 2: But I think that there's going to be like a

494
00:25:08,400 --> 00:25:10,919
Speaker 2: lot of things that you have to think about before

495
00:25:10,920 --> 00:25:13,400
Speaker 2: making that decision. I just think it's funny he's got

496
00:25:13,400 --> 00:25:15,880
Speaker 2: the attorney before she did. I it was like, what

497
00:25:16,880 --> 00:25:18,240
Speaker 2: so he hired an attorney?

498
00:25:18,520 --> 00:25:22,480
Speaker 1: Yeah, well interesting, that's interesting.

499
00:25:22,560 --> 00:25:25,600
Speaker 2: Again. Maybe you know, here are these men, you know,

500
00:25:25,720 --> 00:25:28,520
Speaker 2: trying to control their narrative for their bad behavior because

501
00:25:28,520 --> 00:25:31,280
Speaker 2: we like it or not. Justin's behavior was inappropriate and

502
00:25:31,320 --> 00:25:34,400
Speaker 2: it was bad behavior, and Dave is also bad behavior.

503
00:25:34,880 --> 00:25:36,800
Speaker 1: Well, he had to take care of the situation because

504
00:25:36,800 --> 00:25:39,159
Speaker 1: it was on a fake Instagram account. They were spreading

505
00:25:39,200 --> 00:25:41,600
Speaker 1: it out there right right, and he needed to get

506
00:25:41,600 --> 00:25:44,879
Speaker 1: the right information out there and fire it up, because

507
00:25:44,920 --> 00:25:47,240
Speaker 1: you know, when you let those things go, God forbid,

508
00:25:47,720 --> 00:25:49,760
Speaker 1: it takes on a life of its own. It becomes

509
00:25:50,160 --> 00:25:51,919
Speaker 1: far the farthest thing from the truth.

510
00:25:52,160 --> 00:25:54,359
Speaker 2: I mean, for all we know, they both knew about it.

511
00:25:54,400 --> 00:25:56,520
Speaker 2: I mean she knew, obviously he did. But I'm saying,

512
00:25:56,760 --> 00:26:00,480
Speaker 2: for all we know, his wife and his children already

513
00:26:00,560 --> 00:26:02,600
Speaker 2: knew about it, and it was something that we're trying to,

514
00:26:03,320 --> 00:26:05,600
Speaker 2: you know, keep away from everyone and have it as

515
00:26:05,600 --> 00:26:08,199
Speaker 2: a secret. And now this happens. So he had no

516
00:26:08,240 --> 00:26:10,639
Speaker 2: other choice but to give a public statement, which again

517
00:26:10,760 --> 00:26:13,560
Speaker 2: is what happens with public figures that sooner or later

518
00:26:13,680 --> 00:26:15,479
Speaker 2: you have to come out and address the public.

519
00:26:16,040 --> 00:26:19,080
Speaker 1: Yeah, yeah, it's the It's the right thing to do,

520
00:26:19,200 --> 00:26:23,199
Speaker 1: because you can't let people just assume what happened, because

521
00:26:23,280 --> 00:26:26,160
Speaker 1: the craziest stories will start running wild and it can

522
00:26:26,200 --> 00:26:29,760
Speaker 1: destroy a career, it really can. So they both did

523
00:26:29,760 --> 00:26:30,240
Speaker 1: the right.

524
00:26:30,119 --> 00:26:33,040
Speaker 2: Thing, right, So do you think that both men have

525
00:26:33,160 --> 00:26:36,680
Speaker 2: taken their accountability, that both of them have taken accountability

526
00:26:36,720 --> 00:26:39,160
Speaker 2: for their bad behavior, or like, do you really think

527
00:26:39,160 --> 00:26:42,119
Speaker 2: it's sincere or do you think like they're trying to

528
00:26:42,160 --> 00:26:44,280
Speaker 2: control the narrative or even both.

529
00:26:44,440 --> 00:26:46,879
Speaker 1: They're controlling the narrative. Listen, I don't know them to

530
00:26:46,920 --> 00:26:50,159
Speaker 1: know if they're sincere or not, but it's definitely a

531
00:26:50,240 --> 00:26:53,719
Speaker 1: marketing move to control the narrative and tell the story

532
00:26:53,800 --> 00:26:55,840
Speaker 1: the way they want to tell it and the way

533
00:26:55,840 --> 00:26:59,760
Speaker 1: that it makes them feel the best. Right, And that's

534
00:26:59,800 --> 00:27:01,760
Speaker 1: what I would do same.

535
00:27:01,920 --> 00:27:04,119
Speaker 2: I mean again, I feel like if they would have

536
00:27:04,160 --> 00:27:06,960
Speaker 2: been sincere, you know, they would have come out. You know,

537
00:27:07,080 --> 00:27:08,880
Speaker 2: Justin would have said, yes, I was drunk, I drank

538
00:27:08,920 --> 00:27:11,400
Speaker 2: too much and I did that, and this guy would

539
00:27:11,440 --> 00:27:13,800
Speaker 2: have said years ago whenever it did happen, you know what,

540
00:27:14,080 --> 00:27:17,080
Speaker 2: I made a mistake. You know, I had forgot to

541
00:27:17,160 --> 00:27:20,720
Speaker 2: the woman and I have a baby, right, So so

542
00:27:20,920 --> 00:27:24,320
Speaker 2: I again, I do believe that this was a way

543
00:27:24,359 --> 00:27:25,320
Speaker 2: to control.

544
00:27:25,359 --> 00:27:27,480
Speaker 1: I mean, how do you have an oopsie at your

545
00:27:27,520 --> 00:27:29,960
Speaker 1: age and your rock star? Come on, man, we don't.

546
00:27:29,800 --> 00:27:31,320
Speaker 2: Know if it's now. That's what I wanted to find

547
00:27:31,320 --> 00:27:33,399
Speaker 2: out because now he's fifty five, but it could have

548
00:27:33,440 --> 00:27:35,440
Speaker 2: been six years ago, it could have been ten years ago.

549
00:27:35,560 --> 00:27:39,280
Speaker 2: He's been with this with his twenty one years. He's

550
00:27:39,520 --> 00:27:42,200
Speaker 2: five fifty and his wife is forty eight and they

551
00:27:42,200 --> 00:27:44,800
Speaker 2: have three children, so they've been together for twenty one

552
00:27:44,880 --> 00:27:47,280
Speaker 2: years already, So I don't know you know what I mean?

553
00:27:47,560 --> 00:27:49,560
Speaker 2: You see, And that's why I thought, Like with Maria

554
00:27:49,600 --> 00:27:53,399
Speaker 2: Shreiber when she all for the worst from Arnold, this

555
00:27:53,480 --> 00:27:56,280
Speaker 2: had happened so many years ago, and he score it

556
00:27:56,320 --> 00:28:01,240
Speaker 2: only happened once. That I don't believe I'm assible. Is okay,

557
00:28:01,480 --> 00:28:03,000
Speaker 2: you know I don't want to give you sex. Okay,

558
00:28:03,000 --> 00:28:04,560
Speaker 2: I'll just go into the maidroom and you don't have

559
00:28:04,600 --> 00:28:07,359
Speaker 2: sex with her? Whatever. So I think it did happen

560
00:28:07,400 --> 00:28:09,199
Speaker 2: more than once. But that's the other thing too. Was

561
00:28:09,240 --> 00:28:11,520
Speaker 2: it like a one time thing? Was it continuous? I mean?

562
00:28:11,600 --> 00:28:14,400
Speaker 2: And Maria Shriver and Arnold's case, like the woman lives

563
00:28:14,440 --> 00:28:17,159
Speaker 2: with him talk about betrayal like in their house and

564
00:28:17,280 --> 00:28:19,280
Speaker 2: raise their son thinking it wasn't their son?

565
00:28:19,400 --> 00:28:21,359
Speaker 1: Like to me, that was like, can I tell you

566
00:28:21,400 --> 00:28:26,240
Speaker 1: a funny story when that broke? They can't. They put

567
00:28:26,359 --> 00:28:29,960
Speaker 1: on Watch What Happens Live a picture of the mistress

568
00:28:29,960 --> 00:28:32,800
Speaker 1: that have the baby side by side with my mother,

569
00:28:32,920 --> 00:28:35,440
Speaker 1: And my mom got so upset and called Andy Cone

570
00:28:35,440 --> 00:28:36,960
Speaker 1: and said, how dare you? I don't look like that

571
00:28:37,200 --> 00:28:38,000
Speaker 1: horrible woman?

572
00:28:39,080 --> 00:28:46,480
Speaker 2: She was? She was she should be a beautiful. She

573
00:28:46,680 --> 00:28:48,640
Speaker 2: was a very ugly woman. But you see, there goes

574
00:28:48,680 --> 00:28:51,680
Speaker 2: to show you that men don't care and they always

575
00:28:51,760 --> 00:28:52,880
Speaker 2: cheat down for.

576
00:28:53,000 --> 00:28:59,000
Speaker 1: Me, I know, I say it a million times. Yeah.

577
00:28:59,080 --> 00:29:01,440
Speaker 2: And besides our look at all these men that have

578
00:29:01,520 --> 00:29:05,400
Speaker 2: been in relationships with women being married or just living

579
00:29:05,440 --> 00:29:08,320
Speaker 2: together or in a boyfriend girl from relationship that have

580
00:29:08,440 --> 00:29:11,880
Speaker 2: fathered kids outside their relationship. In Hollywood. There's like a

581
00:29:11,920 --> 00:29:16,920
Speaker 2: bunch that we can talk about. Tristan Thompson and Eddie Murphy.

582
00:29:17,200 --> 00:29:19,360
Speaker 1: God, yeah, oh my god. In Murphy I was like

583
00:29:19,400 --> 00:29:22,800
Speaker 1: eighteen children. Yeah, really good.

584
00:29:23,080 --> 00:29:26,160
Speaker 2: Eric clapped it. Just so many of them, and you know,

585
00:29:26,520 --> 00:29:29,320
Speaker 2: I feel like it's like it's okay, you know what

586
00:29:29,360 --> 00:29:31,440
Speaker 2: I mean. It's like Therman, so like it's okay, you

587
00:29:31,440 --> 00:29:35,880
Speaker 2: can do that. But it's something that for me would

588
00:29:35,920 --> 00:29:39,080
Speaker 2: never work because to me, that is the ultimate betrayal.

589
00:29:39,520 --> 00:29:41,480
Speaker 1: I have to tell you, I was a little worried

590
00:29:41,480 --> 00:29:44,600
Speaker 1: when my father passed away that some somebody was going

591
00:29:44,680 --> 00:29:46,560
Speaker 1: to come out of the woodwork from Europe and he

592
00:29:46,600 --> 00:29:50,240
Speaker 1: had a whole other family because he was never home.

593
00:29:50,320 --> 00:29:52,760
Speaker 1: He was always in Europe working because you know, he

594
00:29:52,800 --> 00:29:55,240
Speaker 1: built yachts, and the big yachts are all built in

595
00:29:55,280 --> 00:29:58,520
Speaker 1: Europe and Asia. And he had a home in Italy

596
00:29:58,560 --> 00:30:02,000
Speaker 1: and he was gone all the time, and I kept thinking,

597
00:30:02,200 --> 00:30:05,560
Speaker 1: maybe have any Italian brother or sister. I think they

598
00:30:05,560 --> 00:30:08,800
Speaker 1: would have come around by now, because he passed to

599
00:30:08,880 --> 00:30:10,560
Speaker 1: be six and a half years ago.

600
00:30:10,880 --> 00:30:13,600
Speaker 2: And some people, you know, some kids never get recognized,

601
00:30:13,600 --> 00:30:16,479
Speaker 2: you know, because their mothers are very proud and they

602
00:30:16,520 --> 00:30:19,640
Speaker 2: don't really want to or they want to protect the child.

603
00:30:19,640 --> 00:30:21,520
Speaker 2: They want the child just to be for them. And

604
00:30:21,600 --> 00:30:24,320
Speaker 2: some women really never come out. We find out about

605
00:30:24,320 --> 00:30:25,120
Speaker 2: these cases.

606
00:30:25,520 --> 00:30:28,000
Speaker 1: Nobody. I figured they'd come out for the money.

607
00:30:28,520 --> 00:30:30,800
Speaker 2: No, my love, But we find out about these cases

608
00:30:30,880 --> 00:30:34,840
Speaker 2: because it's Hollywood and their actors and athletes and musicians, right,

609
00:30:34,840 --> 00:30:36,800
Speaker 2: that's what we're talking about them. But you know how

610
00:30:36,800 --> 00:30:40,520
Speaker 2: many times, unfortunately women get pregnant or fortunately if that's

611
00:30:40,520 --> 00:30:44,400
Speaker 2: what they want, by these men that are married men

612
00:30:44,720 --> 00:30:47,240
Speaker 2: or are emotionally unavailable men that don't want to be

613
00:30:47,280 --> 00:30:49,560
Speaker 2: with them, and they have these children on their own,

614
00:30:49,640 --> 00:30:53,040
Speaker 2: and the children never know who their father is. So

615
00:30:53,160 --> 00:30:55,440
Speaker 2: I mean, I think in these cases, all these women

616
00:30:55,760 --> 00:30:57,640
Speaker 2: want the kids to know who their father is because

617
00:30:57,640 --> 00:30:59,480
Speaker 2: they're all like pretty bad asses, right.

618
00:30:59,640 --> 00:31:02,360
Speaker 1: And it's a good paydayout the pay.

619
00:31:02,280 --> 00:31:05,680
Speaker 2: Day, it's both. It's both for sure, but again, you

620
00:31:05,720 --> 00:31:08,400
Speaker 2: know these women that do. I'm not saying that it's impossible.

621
00:31:08,800 --> 00:31:11,040
Speaker 2: I'm just saying that I can't do it because I

622
00:31:11,120 --> 00:31:14,640
Speaker 2: do know women and I have friends that have forgiven

623
00:31:14,880 --> 00:31:19,160
Speaker 2: their spouses for cheating and they've been able to move on.

624
00:31:19,360 --> 00:31:22,600
Speaker 2: And they have even found out about you know, them

625
00:31:22,680 --> 00:31:26,440
Speaker 2: fothering children outside of their marriage and they have been

626
00:31:26,520 --> 00:31:31,760
Speaker 2: able to move on. I think it takes an incredible

627
00:31:32,000 --> 00:31:37,240
Speaker 2: amount of empathy forgiveness.

628
00:31:35,920 --> 00:31:40,360
Speaker 1: I don't like a really strong blind eye, because that

629
00:31:40,560 --> 00:31:41,960
Speaker 1: is a hard one to get over.

630
00:31:42,240 --> 00:31:44,880
Speaker 2: That is a hard way, I agree, Yeah, And they

631
00:31:44,920 --> 00:31:48,520
Speaker 2: really have to be willing to rebuild the trust. And

632
00:31:48,600 --> 00:31:50,320
Speaker 2: how do you come back from that right.

633
00:31:52,200 --> 00:31:54,320
Speaker 1: That? You know that every time there'd be a fight

634
00:31:54,400 --> 00:31:56,920
Speaker 1: and I would just pull up and we'll throw that

635
00:31:56,960 --> 00:31:59,560
Speaker 1: put out there, like wow, you had a baby with

636
00:31:59,720 --> 00:32:02,040
Speaker 1: some else. I mean you know that would come up

637
00:32:02,080 --> 00:32:05,160
Speaker 1: in every argument and you I just would never be

638
00:32:05,160 --> 00:32:05,880
Speaker 1: able to let it go.

639
00:32:06,640 --> 00:32:07,720
Speaker 2: Better not live like.

640
00:32:07,720 --> 00:32:14,240
Speaker 1: That you had a baby with somebody else. You can't

641
00:32:14,240 --> 00:32:15,320
Speaker 1: even talk anymore.

642
00:32:16,120 --> 00:32:18,360
Speaker 2: No, that's that for me is a deal breaker. But

643
00:32:18,440 --> 00:32:21,400
Speaker 2: you know, for those women or relationships that are taking

644
00:32:21,600 --> 00:32:25,000
Speaker 2: out there, you know, I respect you. I'm not as

645
00:32:25,120 --> 00:32:28,600
Speaker 2: you know, as empathetic or forgiving. But then again, people

646
00:32:28,760 --> 00:32:29,920
Speaker 2: choose I'm not.

647
00:32:30,360 --> 00:32:33,600
Speaker 1: I'm not judging anybody. I'm just saying I couldn't do it.

648
00:32:33,760 --> 00:32:34,000
Speaker 2: You know.

649
00:32:34,400 --> 00:32:37,920
Speaker 1: I wish I could be a little more forgiving and

650
00:32:38,080 --> 00:32:41,640
Speaker 1: patient with all that sinning. But I just I don't

651
00:32:41,680 --> 00:32:44,320
Speaker 1: have it in me because I have a certain code

652
00:32:44,360 --> 00:32:48,440
Speaker 1: of conduct that I, you know, live by and if

653
00:32:48,480 --> 00:32:50,360
Speaker 1: you're not on the same page with me, then I

654
00:32:50,400 --> 00:32:52,000
Speaker 1: can't be with you. I just cannot.

655
00:33:00,720 --> 00:33:06,800
Speaker 2: Let's talk a little bit about sex and sexiness and age. Okay,

656
00:33:06,800 --> 00:33:10,000
Speaker 2: So Kate Winslet is getting candid about her sex drive.

657
00:33:10,880 --> 00:33:13,760
Speaker 2: The actor said during a September tenth episode of the

658
00:33:13,880 --> 00:33:16,680
Speaker 2: How To Fail with Elizabeth Day podcast that her libido

659
00:33:16,720 --> 00:33:21,479
Speaker 2: got a major boost after undergoing testosterone replacement therapy. A

660
00:33:21,520 --> 00:33:23,800
Speaker 2: lot of people don't know this, but women have to

661
00:33:23,880 --> 00:33:28,000
Speaker 2: stosterone in their body. When it runs out like eggs,

662
00:33:28,040 --> 00:33:30,719
Speaker 2: it's gone and once it's gone, you have to replace it.

663
00:33:30,800 --> 00:33:32,720
Speaker 2: And that is something that can be done and you'll

664
00:33:32,720 --> 00:33:37,080
Speaker 2: feel sexy again. I know that. She also opened up

665
00:33:37,080 --> 00:33:39,640
Speaker 2: about feeling sexy at her age. By the way, how

666
00:33:39,640 --> 00:33:43,880
Speaker 2: old is she She's only in her forties. We're so conditioned. Yeah,

667
00:33:43,920 --> 00:33:47,080
Speaker 2: we're so conditioned women in our forties to think, oh well,

668
00:33:47,200 --> 00:33:50,320
Speaker 2: I'm creeping closer to the end. You think you're going

669
00:33:50,320 --> 00:33:52,760
Speaker 2: into menopause and you'll stop having sex. Your booths are

670
00:33:52,800 --> 00:33:54,960
Speaker 2: going to go saggy, and your skin's gonna go creepy,

671
00:33:55,040 --> 00:33:58,840
Speaker 2: she explained. First of all, First of all, so what

672
00:33:59,120 --> 00:34:02,479
Speaker 2: And secondly, is just conditioning. I think women as they

673
00:34:02,480 --> 00:34:05,680
Speaker 2: get older get juicier and sexier and more embedded in

674
00:34:05,720 --> 00:34:08,840
Speaker 2: the truth of who they are and more powerful, ye

675
00:34:09,239 --> 00:34:12,400
Speaker 2: more able to walk through the world and careless. And

676
00:34:12,440 --> 00:34:15,960
Speaker 2: that is an empowering thing. I say to my friends

677
00:34:16,000 --> 00:34:18,239
Speaker 2: all the time, you look amazing.

678
00:34:18,600 --> 00:34:20,719
Speaker 1: Wait till she gets to her fifties. She's gonna feel

679
00:34:20,760 --> 00:34:21,240
Speaker 1: even better.

680
00:34:21,560 --> 00:34:24,920
Speaker 2: Right in your sixties, She's going to be like, you know,

681
00:34:25,040 --> 00:34:26,960
Speaker 2: I feel like the biggest you know. I think it

682
00:34:27,000 --> 00:34:29,319
Speaker 2: has obviously a lot to do right with ourselves, the

683
00:34:29,360 --> 00:34:32,960
Speaker 2: way we feel inside. And that's what people don't realize, Like,

684
00:34:33,080 --> 00:34:36,560
Speaker 2: if you feel really good about yourself inside, then it

685
00:34:36,640 --> 00:34:39,880
Speaker 2: shows in the outside. But it is scary, you know,

686
00:34:39,960 --> 00:34:42,360
Speaker 2: especially a beautiful woman like Kate Winsley. You know, I

687
00:34:42,360 --> 00:34:47,720
Speaker 2: feel like beautiful women as we start getting older because

688
00:34:47,719 --> 00:34:50,840
Speaker 2: I'm going to include ourselves in that because I feel like,

689
00:34:50,880 --> 00:34:53,200
Speaker 2: you know, all women are beautiful, but I believe that

690
00:34:53,360 --> 00:34:55,640
Speaker 2: when you're beautiful, as you start getting older, it's I

691
00:34:55,719 --> 00:34:58,239
Speaker 2: got pressure we have, you know, with society, not only

692
00:34:58,280 --> 00:35:02,399
Speaker 2: with ourselves, especially business. Yes, and we have to look

693
00:35:02,400 --> 00:35:04,520
Speaker 2: a certain way. And this woman has been beautiful in

694
00:35:04,600 --> 00:35:07,760
Speaker 2: her life and she'll continue to be beautiful. But again,

695
00:35:08,560 --> 00:35:11,560
Speaker 2: if her insides, which are her libido and her sex drive,

696
00:35:11,719 --> 00:35:14,840
Speaker 2: aren't working, you're gonna kind of like put everything together

697
00:35:14,920 --> 00:35:17,960
Speaker 2: and feel like a piece of shit. Right. So I

698
00:35:18,040 --> 00:35:21,120
Speaker 2: love that she's sharing this with people. I love that

699
00:35:21,200 --> 00:35:25,479
Speaker 2: she's opening up and she's actually she was answering somebody's question.

700
00:35:25,640 --> 00:35:27,759
Speaker 2: Somebody called in and asked her, like, what would you

701
00:35:27,800 --> 00:35:29,960
Speaker 2: do this that not? And then that's when she shared

702
00:35:30,320 --> 00:35:32,360
Speaker 2: that she had struggled, you know, with her sex life

703
00:35:32,360 --> 00:35:33,359
Speaker 2: and how she made it better.

704
00:35:33,960 --> 00:35:39,560
Speaker 1: Yeah. Well, there's nothing worse than menopause. It is brutal.

705
00:35:39,960 --> 00:35:43,239
Speaker 1: But I mean she's already going through it because I mean, oh,

706
00:35:43,320 --> 00:35:45,840
Speaker 1: she says she's in her forties. She didn't talk about menopause,

707
00:35:45,880 --> 00:35:48,120
Speaker 1: but she says she had low libido, low sex drive,

708
00:35:48,880 --> 00:35:53,040
Speaker 1: and she told actually this collar they called in that

709
00:35:53,120 --> 00:35:55,319
Speaker 1: it could be either related to fibroids if you had

710
00:35:55,400 --> 00:35:59,560
Speaker 1: firework problems. Oh right, so to check that out and

711
00:35:59,600 --> 00:36:04,400
Speaker 1: then to also check out her sistosterone level. Mm hmmm, yes, yeah.

712
00:36:04,600 --> 00:36:09,680
Speaker 1: Testosterone is a game changer, a game changer. I started

713
00:36:09,719 --> 00:36:12,839
Speaker 1: taking it, and you know, because I you know, I

714
00:36:12,880 --> 00:36:16,520
Speaker 1: went through menopause obviously quite a while ago. And it's true,

715
00:36:16,560 --> 00:36:22,160
Speaker 1: your libido dumps, you can't sleep, you're tired, you're you're

716
00:36:22,200 --> 00:36:25,279
Speaker 1: crying for no reason, like you're all your hormones are

717
00:36:25,280 --> 00:36:27,880
Speaker 1: out of whack. And it was the greatest thing I

718
00:36:27,920 --> 00:36:32,680
Speaker 1: ever did. I had energy again. I was sleeping, I was,

719
00:36:33,200 --> 00:36:36,960
Speaker 1: you know, performing like a porn star. You know, I

720
00:36:37,000 --> 00:36:39,760
Speaker 1: was really getting you know, my life was back on track.

721
00:36:39,880 --> 00:36:43,399
Speaker 1: It's a wonderful, wonderful thing. And you know, the aging thing.

722
00:36:43,440 --> 00:36:46,640
Speaker 1: As you get older, you honestly you really start to

723
00:36:46,680 --> 00:36:49,120
Speaker 1: care less about the little things. And the less you

724
00:36:49,160 --> 00:36:52,240
Speaker 1: care about the little things, the more powerful and stronger

725
00:36:52,280 --> 00:36:56,279
Speaker 1: you feel. And you can walk through life just as

726
00:36:56,320 --> 00:37:02,360
Speaker 1: a very more positive and stronger person. And it all

727
00:37:02,360 --> 00:37:05,839
Speaker 1: comes together, comes with age and is a wonderful part

728
00:37:05,880 --> 00:37:09,640
Speaker 1: of helping all of that. I'm all here for it,

729
00:37:09,960 --> 00:37:14,040
Speaker 1: and I definitely recommend it if you're you know, low,

730
00:37:14,560 --> 00:37:17,680
Speaker 1: low on libido and energy or going through the change.

731
00:37:17,880 --> 00:37:19,759
Speaker 2: You know. I love that she said that, and she

732
00:37:19,840 --> 00:37:22,759
Speaker 2: opened up, you know, about her sex life and she

733
00:37:22,920 --> 00:37:26,480
Speaker 2: recommended these things. But obviously before getting onto sosterone, you

734
00:37:26,520 --> 00:37:28,200
Speaker 2: have to do like tests and you know, they say

735
00:37:28,320 --> 00:37:31,799
Speaker 2: you have core art and blood vessel and you know,

736
00:37:32,000 --> 00:37:34,840
Speaker 2: liver disease. You know, it's not good for you obviously

737
00:37:34,960 --> 00:37:36,719
Speaker 2: if you've had breast cancer or.

738
00:37:36,719 --> 00:37:39,360
Speaker 1: You can't have that varying breast cancer.

739
00:37:39,480 --> 00:37:41,560
Speaker 2: So it's not like everybody should go out there and say,

740
00:37:41,600 --> 00:37:43,520
Speaker 2: oh my god, you know, I haven't had sex and

741
00:37:43,600 --> 00:37:45,759
Speaker 2: like three months I'm going to get ontosterone. It doesn't

742
00:37:45,800 --> 00:37:46,239
Speaker 2: work like that.

743
00:37:46,320 --> 00:37:48,440
Speaker 1: You can't get it unless the doctor gives it to

744
00:37:48,480 --> 00:37:50,600
Speaker 1: you and they're going to give you blood work first. Right.

745
00:37:50,640 --> 00:37:52,359
Speaker 2: Well, I mean here you can get anything you want,

746
00:37:52,520 --> 00:37:59,040
Speaker 2: but people are very careless, you know what I mean.

747
00:37:59,080 --> 00:38:02,680
Speaker 2: And again I believe that people are just like very

748
00:38:02,760 --> 00:38:05,680
Speaker 2: quick to just go to like the medication to fix

749
00:38:05,760 --> 00:38:09,399
Speaker 2: the problem. When sometimes if you're not performing and you're

750
00:38:09,440 --> 00:38:12,240
Speaker 2: not having sex, it's maybe you're going through other things.

751
00:38:12,239 --> 00:38:14,600
Speaker 2: It's not only because you know your your body is

752
00:38:14,680 --> 00:38:19,799
Speaker 2: lacking testosterone. In my case, I was. I had my

753
00:38:19,880 --> 00:38:23,879
Speaker 2: period till my fifties, so almost my mid fifties, I.

754
00:38:23,800 --> 00:38:26,080
Speaker 1: Know, I was so I hated it. Anytime me told

755
00:38:26,120 --> 00:38:28,520
Speaker 1: me you had it, I'm like, what, You're still getting it?

756
00:38:28,840 --> 00:38:29,759
Speaker 1: What's happened you?

757
00:38:30,000 --> 00:38:31,680
Speaker 2: I loved my period because for me, it was like

758
00:38:31,719 --> 00:38:33,840
Speaker 2: a sign of youth, Like I loved it, you know

759
00:38:33,880 --> 00:38:35,680
Speaker 2: how I hated it when I was like a teenager,

760
00:38:35,920 --> 00:38:37,760
Speaker 2: and then I started loving it as I got older

761
00:38:37,760 --> 00:38:39,640
Speaker 2: and older because I was like, my friend, that was

762
00:38:39,719 --> 00:38:41,000
Speaker 2: one of the few you.

763
00:38:40,960 --> 00:38:44,040
Speaker 1: Know, you bragged about it like it was you want

764
00:38:44,040 --> 00:38:45,160
Speaker 1: an oscar.

765
00:38:45,480 --> 00:38:48,040
Speaker 2: But I kind of did because that's remarkable. And by

766
00:38:48,080 --> 00:38:51,040
Speaker 2: the way, I'm not a testosterone and I and I

767
00:38:51,080 --> 00:38:53,280
Speaker 2: don't need it, which I can tell.

768
00:38:53,600 --> 00:38:57,080
Speaker 1: Well, we already know you have an overload of testosterone. Yeah,

769
00:38:57,320 --> 00:38:58,520
Speaker 1: carry it around for a while.

770
00:38:58,800 --> 00:39:01,000
Speaker 2: Super And I'm super proud. And I guess that that's

771
00:39:01,040 --> 00:39:04,200
Speaker 2: why my sex tyfe is so great because I've never honestly,

772
00:39:04,280 --> 00:39:06,839
Speaker 2: I can't relate, you know, to that. I can't relate

773
00:39:06,880 --> 00:39:10,160
Speaker 2: to other problems, but not to sex problems. But you know,

774
00:39:10,280 --> 00:39:14,120
Speaker 2: I love that there's things out there and there's alternatives,

775
00:39:14,160 --> 00:39:16,160
Speaker 2: you know, for women to be able to feel better

776
00:39:16,160 --> 00:39:18,280
Speaker 2: about themselves, because you know, I think that's very important,

777
00:39:18,520 --> 00:39:20,840
Speaker 2: just as I'm so important for a man because the

778
00:39:20,880 --> 00:39:24,000
Speaker 2: man also needs to check this posturel level. And see,

779
00:39:24,080 --> 00:39:27,200
Speaker 2: I think it's just as important for a woman. And

780
00:39:27,280 --> 00:39:30,000
Speaker 2: you know there's things out there, there's creams, there's different things.

781
00:39:30,280 --> 00:39:32,799
Speaker 2: And then the part about feeling like you said that

782
00:39:32,880 --> 00:39:34,960
Speaker 2: she feels, you know, the forties and you know your

783
00:39:35,000 --> 00:39:38,360
Speaker 2: skin does start to change. It's not going to lie

784
00:39:38,400 --> 00:39:40,279
Speaker 2: like in your fifties. You see, that has to be

785
00:39:40,320 --> 00:39:43,600
Speaker 2: a little bit more worried obviously, because like what is

786
00:39:43,640 --> 00:39:45,560
Speaker 2: there for that? Like I don't need the other thing

787
00:39:45,680 --> 00:39:48,839
Speaker 2: that don't need a testosterol, but I may need. Right,

788
00:39:48,960 --> 00:39:52,480
Speaker 2: you have to exercise. So that's what I do. Hire

789
00:39:52,520 --> 00:39:55,320
Speaker 2: the trainer again. I'm going to the gym and training

790
00:39:55,320 --> 00:39:58,160
Speaker 2: with him, like at least three times a week. And

791
00:39:58,400 --> 00:40:01,360
Speaker 2: all you can do is take care of your body

792
00:40:01,680 --> 00:40:05,480
Speaker 2: and you take care of your internal You just connect.

793
00:40:05,560 --> 00:40:08,160
Speaker 2: It connects and you know you feel good. You know,

794
00:40:08,200 --> 00:40:11,319
Speaker 2: I think it's so important that you have to be

795
00:40:11,560 --> 00:40:15,520
Speaker 2: happy while you're aging. You know what I mean. We

796
00:40:15,560 --> 00:40:17,960
Speaker 2: can't no matter how many surgeries we do. No matter

797
00:40:18,120 --> 00:40:21,800
Speaker 2: how good we try to look, we are that age

798
00:40:21,880 --> 00:40:24,240
Speaker 2: and we have to accept it and do the best

799
00:40:24,239 --> 00:40:27,120
Speaker 2: that we can. So I think the mentally to be accepted.

800
00:40:27,760 --> 00:40:30,319
Speaker 2: It's kind of like happy aging, Like you're aging, but

801
00:40:30,400 --> 00:40:33,719
Speaker 2: you're happy and you're empowering because guess what we at

802
00:40:33,800 --> 00:40:35,799
Speaker 2: least I mean, don't you think you're better at sex

803
00:40:35,840 --> 00:40:37,400
Speaker 2: now than when you were, like in your twenties.

804
00:40:38,080 --> 00:40:40,120
Speaker 1: Well, I've learned a lot through the years, you know.

805
00:40:40,400 --> 00:40:42,880
Speaker 1: It's like going to college for a long time and

806
00:40:42,920 --> 00:40:45,320
Speaker 1: getting all these degrees. I got all these sex degrees.

807
00:40:45,360 --> 00:40:47,920
Speaker 1: I got better, for sure, That's what I'm saying.

808
00:40:47,960 --> 00:40:49,880
Speaker 2: So it's like, okay, well, well they're younger, they might

809
00:40:49,960 --> 00:40:52,440
Speaker 2: have more libido. But guess what, we know what we

810
00:40:52,480 --> 00:40:55,759
Speaker 2: want and we you know, and we know how to

811
00:40:55,760 --> 00:40:56,399
Speaker 2: do it right.

812
00:40:57,560 --> 00:40:59,960
Speaker 1: I want to put a disclaimer out there about the cremata,

813
00:41:00,120 --> 00:41:03,360
Speaker 1: the hormone, because I had to switch from that to

814
00:41:03,480 --> 00:41:06,359
Speaker 1: a pellet. I get a little pellet inserted in the

815
00:41:06,640 --> 00:41:10,080
Speaker 1: inside the skin of my buttocks, and it's slow, it's

816
00:41:10,120 --> 00:41:13,440
Speaker 1: slow releasing. It's wonderful because I forget to use stuff.

817
00:41:13,640 --> 00:41:16,279
Speaker 1: But if you have the cremy, there's a cream with

818
00:41:16,360 --> 00:41:19,239
Speaker 1: the hormones on it, and if your partner rubs on it,

819
00:41:19,320 --> 00:41:22,440
Speaker 1: he could grow boobs. So I'm just telling you that

820
00:41:22,520 --> 00:41:27,239
Speaker 1: you took hair, yeah, but that the hormones get on

821
00:41:27,320 --> 00:41:31,080
Speaker 1: their skin and then they can get boobies the men. Yeah,

822
00:41:31,120 --> 00:41:33,160
Speaker 1: So I switched to the Pellett because I don't like

823
00:41:33,200 --> 00:41:34,160
Speaker 1: a man with boobs.

824
00:41:34,200 --> 00:41:37,840
Speaker 2: Just where is going to grow in his boots, in

825
00:41:37,880 --> 00:41:38,560
Speaker 2: his chest.

826
00:41:38,960 --> 00:41:42,600
Speaker 1: And in their chest? Yes, yes, it's a thing. It's

827
00:41:42,640 --> 00:41:44,120
Speaker 1: a thing. And you know, when you're laying in bed

828
00:41:44,160 --> 00:41:47,320
Speaker 1: and you're rubbing legs and sweating and everything starts rubbing

829
00:41:47,360 --> 00:41:51,239
Speaker 1: off on everybody, they could have boobies and that's not cute.

830
00:41:51,280 --> 00:41:54,600
Speaker 2: You don't want that, and you don't want that your.

831
00:41:54,520 --> 00:41:56,759
Speaker 1: Man, and you don't want it.

832
00:41:59,680 --> 00:42:02,960
Speaker 2: Interesting facts. Yeah, well, I mean you seem to know

833
00:42:03,120 --> 00:42:06,040
Speaker 2: a lot about the subjects. So whenever I need some

834
00:42:06,080 --> 00:42:07,880
Speaker 2: of your help, I will reach out to you. I

835
00:42:08,400 --> 00:42:10,080
Speaker 2: know that I would get that little pellet in my

836
00:42:10,080 --> 00:42:12,600
Speaker 2: book because that looks like it would hurt.

837
00:42:12,960 --> 00:42:14,360
Speaker 1: I don't think you're ever gonna have to call me

838
00:42:14,360 --> 00:42:16,160
Speaker 1: because you don't have your period until you die, I

839
00:42:16,160 --> 00:42:20,560
Speaker 1: guess anymore. Oh, you fly don't have it.

840
00:42:20,960 --> 00:42:26,560
Speaker 2: I brought off I lost David. Yeah, I guess from

841
00:42:26,600 --> 00:42:27,439
Speaker 2: my nerves or whatever.

842
00:42:27,640 --> 00:42:31,000
Speaker 1: But yeah, I lost a decade ago. You know how

843
00:42:31,000 --> 00:42:32,600
Speaker 1: I loved decade with you.

844
00:42:32,840 --> 00:42:34,960
Speaker 2: I was with you at the Hampton It's kind of like,

845
00:42:35,000 --> 00:42:37,000
Speaker 2: I know when you got this is so funny. It's

846
00:42:37,080 --> 00:42:38,719
Speaker 2: kind of like when you get your period and you

847
00:42:38,760 --> 00:42:40,240
Speaker 2: know the day you got it with your best friend.

848
00:42:40,520 --> 00:42:42,960
Speaker 2: So you lost your period with me in the Hamptons.

849
00:42:43,560 --> 00:42:46,600
Speaker 1: I know. I kept jumping and shows Aaron swimming pool

850
00:42:46,640 --> 00:42:48,799
Speaker 1: at two, three, four, five o'clock in the morning because

851
00:42:48,800 --> 00:42:50,840
Speaker 1: I couldn't sleep and I was sweating.

852
00:42:50,440 --> 00:42:53,160
Speaker 2: And you so hot my clothes.

853
00:42:53,280 --> 00:42:56,279
Speaker 1: Yeah, I made you get in the pool and like

854
00:42:56,320 --> 00:42:58,360
Speaker 1: take off your clothes and skinny dip with me.

855
00:42:59,400 --> 00:43:02,680
Speaker 2: I was like is row with her? I know company

856
00:43:03,040 --> 00:43:05,960
Speaker 2: I can't sleep well. But you know what, but you

857
00:43:06,040 --> 00:43:07,680
Speaker 2: took it very nice. You know you took it well

858
00:43:07,680 --> 00:43:09,359
Speaker 2: because you know, I feel like some people, like I said,

859
00:43:09,400 --> 00:43:11,759
Speaker 2: it's all about your mind, like your mind needs to

860
00:43:11,800 --> 00:43:15,000
Speaker 2: control you know, your your emotions and your feelings. And

861
00:43:15,040 --> 00:43:17,520
Speaker 2: it is like a shocking thing, you know, to assume.

862
00:43:17,640 --> 00:43:19,880
Speaker 2: And also because not only is it mentally, it's like

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00:43:19,920 --> 00:43:22,479
Speaker 2: your body's also going through these changes. Like you said,

864
00:43:22,520 --> 00:43:24,800
Speaker 2: you're like, it's super hot, like it was crazy, you

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00:43:24,840 --> 00:43:26,960
Speaker 2: couldn't see by night. I mean, it's you a real thing.

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00:43:27,400 --> 00:43:29,520
Speaker 1: It's horrible and you at first you don't even know

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00:43:29,560 --> 00:43:32,960
Speaker 1: what's going on. And my mom wasn't around when it

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00:43:33,040 --> 00:43:35,880
Speaker 1: happened to me, so I couldn't like ask her, And

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00:43:35,960 --> 00:43:38,760
Speaker 1: even if she had been, she had had a hysterectomy

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00:43:38,800 --> 00:43:41,799
Speaker 1: when she was young, so she really never went through it.

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00:43:42,040 --> 00:43:44,560
Speaker 1: So I know what was happening to me because I

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00:43:44,560 --> 00:43:46,640
Speaker 1: had no one to talk to me about it. I

873
00:43:46,680 --> 00:43:51,480
Speaker 1: was just going through this weirdness. It was horrible. I

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00:43:51,520 --> 00:43:54,799
Speaker 1: got it bad. But here I am on the other

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00:43:54,880 --> 00:43:56,520
Speaker 1: side and I don't have any.

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Speaker 2: Behind You look good, feel good, good, you're performing. I'm performing.

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00:44:06,760 --> 00:44:10,600
Speaker 2: I'm kidding it. I love it, my friend. You look amazing,

878
00:44:11,120 --> 00:44:15,239
Speaker 2: you feel amazing. We have a beautiful life. Yeah, so

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00:44:15,280 --> 00:44:16,680
Speaker 2: we're very grateful for all that.

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00:44:16,760 --> 00:44:20,720
Speaker 1: God is good. Totally. Well, that was fun.

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Speaker 2: It's always fun talking to you, my friend. Even though

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00:44:25,640 --> 00:44:27,239
Speaker 2: I know so much about you, I always find more

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00:44:27,280 --> 00:44:27,719
Speaker 2: things out.

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Speaker 1: I've always got a Steve's always like you've got the

885
00:44:30,920 --> 00:44:34,480
Speaker 1: most twisted stories. You always have a twisted story about everything.

886
00:44:34,840 --> 00:44:37,080
Speaker 1: I'm like, I've seen a lot. I don't know not much.

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00:44:37,200 --> 00:44:40,320
Speaker 1: Jade's me. I got some weird stories of my sleeve

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00:44:40,440 --> 00:44:41,120
Speaker 1: all the time.

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Speaker 2: I've got a lot of stories. But for me, I

890
00:44:43,480 --> 00:44:45,400
Speaker 2: feel like mine are normal. I mean that might be

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00:44:45,440 --> 00:44:46,320
Speaker 2: weird to other people.

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00:44:46,480 --> 00:44:50,160
Speaker 1: Well, you have you have lived far from a normal life,

893
00:44:50,400 --> 00:44:53,640
Speaker 1: that's for sure. You've lived a television movie.

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Speaker 2: I guess that I've like normalized it, right, because I'm

895
00:44:56,480 --> 00:44:58,799
Speaker 2: like I've learned so much, like throughout the process that

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00:44:58,840 --> 00:45:02,640
Speaker 2: I've learned to like accept and just you know, learn

897
00:45:02,680 --> 00:45:05,160
Speaker 2: from it. And for me, it's like all normal. It's

898
00:45:05,200 --> 00:45:08,520
Speaker 2: like part of the process, Like I'm a working process,

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00:45:08,520 --> 00:45:10,200
Speaker 2: Like I had to go through all that to where

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Speaker 2: I am today.

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00:45:11,040 --> 00:45:13,799
Speaker 1: Yeah, it made you who you are right now. Yeah,

902
00:45:14,520 --> 00:45:17,520
Speaker 1: and I love you. So that's good. You're pretty, You're

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00:45:17,560 --> 00:45:18,320
Speaker 1: pretty awesome.

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Speaker 2: I love you too, my friend. Well, here's the aging.

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Speaker 2: We don't have a cocky because that's what I was

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00:45:24,480 --> 00:45:24,880
Speaker 2: going to do.

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00:45:25,200 --> 00:45:27,440
Speaker 1: I know, I want. I'm about to scream in my

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00:45:27,480 --> 00:45:30,920
Speaker 1: microphone to Steve to bring me on. I'm dry.

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Speaker 2: Yeah. Cheers to happy aging, Cheers to sex, Cheers to

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00:45:36,200 --> 00:45:39,800
Speaker 2: not drinking and driving, not drinking, Cheers to not cheating

911
00:45:39,840 --> 00:45:41,040
Speaker 2: and putting up with the cheaters.

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Speaker 1: Don't put your wiener and another woman if it's not

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Speaker 1: your wife, and if you do so there exactly don't

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00:45:51,040 --> 00:45:52,839
Speaker 1: be a dumb dumb right.

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Speaker 2: Okay, guys, So this wraps up another episode of I

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Speaker 2: Pull Forward until next time.

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