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Speaker 1: Hello, gorgeous. It's Lala Kent. Welcome to untraditionally. Lala. Hey, babes,

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Speaker 1: it is Laala Kent, Welcome back to untraditionally.

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Speaker 2: Lala.

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Speaker 1: Hello, Tete, how's it going? Did you get your earring fixed? Now?

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Speaker 3: These are my other These are my big Bangers. I

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Speaker 3: stole from Lisa.

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Speaker 1: They're really good.

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Speaker 3: I know she said I used come on me so

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Speaker 3: much he gave them to me.

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Speaker 1: I used to wear those, yeah, and I love the

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Speaker 1: Ravens hat.

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Speaker 3: I got sunburn on my forehead. You're wearing that?

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Speaker 1: Yeah, you guys. There's something about Newport Beach in California,

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Speaker 1: because I know we're all fixated on Real Housewives of

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Speaker 1: Rhode Island right now, so don't get confused. Not Newport

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Speaker 1: out that way, but Newport out this way and the

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Speaker 1: sun there, like, I haven't been burned in years, and

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Speaker 1: I think, obviously it's because I don't go in the sun,

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Speaker 1: like I'm terrified of it. But when you're just out

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Speaker 1: on the beach and you got a few little umbrellas

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Speaker 1: that are, you know, staked into the ground, and as

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Speaker 1: the sun moves, you know it just I got the

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Speaker 1: top of my stomach is burned. I looked like a tourist.

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Speaker 3: Yeah, just everywhere was burnt on me. And then I

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Speaker 3: had a softball practice and my softball party that you saw.

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Speaker 3: So then I went to more and I put sunscreen on.

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Speaker 3: But when you're playing, like I was sweating, so I

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Speaker 3: was like rubbing my face and then before you know it, I.

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Speaker 1: Guess it's just this this strip of forehead.

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Speaker 3: And I didn't want to it's burnt. Yeah, And I

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Speaker 3: didn't wear I just didn't take a hat. I was like,

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Speaker 3: it's just practice, we'll just throw them around and now.

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Speaker 3: And then the one thing that I really did me

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Speaker 3: dirty was the pool. The reflection of the pool. That's

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Speaker 3: what I always forget.

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Speaker 1: I know. But you have to be careful because you

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Speaker 1: have such fair skin. I know, I know, like skin

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Speaker 1: cancer is no joke. You have to be diligent, even

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Speaker 1: if you're the guy who walks around like yes, I know,

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Speaker 1: but you get burned all the time, just here and there,

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Speaker 1: no anytime you're in the sun. And Easton just bakes

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Speaker 1: out there and he's like, yeah, but it'll turn to tan.

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Speaker 1: And in my mind, I'm like, it's going to turn

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Speaker 1: to skin cancer.

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Speaker 3: Who else does that? Who else doesn't go out in

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Speaker 3: the sun a good amount. So when they are, they're like,

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Speaker 3: just give me whatever you can and then it'll be

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Speaker 3: a tan for a good minute. Earn me again.

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Speaker 1: That is like giving me the most anxiety of my life, thinks,

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Speaker 1: I think, maybe an uneducated thing. A I don't think

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Speaker 1: about the future, kind of live fast.

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Speaker 3: I'm here. Whatever comes with me being here is going

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Speaker 3: to come. I I you know, I.

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Speaker 1: Just thinking about the way you're talking, especially because of

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Speaker 1: Mom right now. No I can That's where I am. Okay,

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Speaker 1: So we went. We went to Newport Beach for the week.

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Speaker 1: I think I told you guys a little bit about

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Speaker 1: our plan. We left on a Monday. I rented a

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Speaker 1: beach house with our family friends, the Russins. We had

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Speaker 1: two houses for you know, however many people we had,

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Speaker 1: it was a lot. The rust and clan just keeps growing.

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Speaker 1: Keep in mind, we've been going to Newport since the

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Speaker 1: time Easton and I were like tiny little tots. I

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Speaker 1: mean yeah, since I could form memories like that was

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Speaker 1: just our go to every summer, and my dad would

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Speaker 1: to the beach where if anybody knows about June gloom

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Speaker 1: on the West coast. It is frigid. You need a snowsuit.

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Speaker 1: And we would be out there with literally nobody. It

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Speaker 1: would be so gloomy and almost dark, just wrapped in blankets,

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Speaker 1: and my dad would make us rocket until the sun

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Speaker 1: went down. And every single year I would break out

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Speaker 1: in a heat rash, and so I had to wear

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Speaker 1: like full clothing. I'd to wear full clothing. And my

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Speaker 1: dad cared, but not enough to like not have as to.

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Speaker 3: The point where he was like, grab another umbrella for you.

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Speaker 3: But we were still going on that beach.

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Speaker 1: We're still going to that beach. So I take my

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Speaker 1: maybe it's little like sand mites that are biting them.

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Speaker 1: Sosa is still recovering from her rash on her face.

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Speaker 1: It felt horrible.

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Speaker 3: I'm no doctor, but I also think it's like sand

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Speaker 3: is the rocks. Yeah, and then you have like this

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Speaker 1: Up like a stink bug position, and she would.

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Speaker 3: Push her face on the towel, but the towel was

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Speaker 3: that could very well.

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Speaker 1: Doctor, I don't know. All I know is she was

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Speaker 1: in a sweatsuit when I took her the last day

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Speaker 1: to the beach, and we were we had one more

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Speaker 1: day that we were going to stay down there. And

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Speaker 1: once I took the sweatsuit off because it started getting warm,

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Speaker 1: her entire body had a rash within like minutes. So

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Speaker 1: I don't know. I ended up leaving a day early.

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Speaker 1: I was like, I'm headed home. I gotta like take

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Speaker 1: of us. I need to like get back to normalcy.

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Speaker 1: I left midweek. Uh So we checked in Monday. All

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Speaker 1: of us went back to LA on Wednesday to prepare

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Speaker 1: for Ocean's graduation, and then we filmed the reunion, which

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Speaker 1: Andy posted the seating chart. As you guys know, I

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Speaker 1: cannot deep dive into anything with the valley, but I

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Speaker 1: am very very excited. I think it's going to be

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Speaker 1: a great one. I loved my look. The one thing

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Speaker 1: I'm nervous about, you guys, is the one thing I'm

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Speaker 1: nervous about I was in head to body makeup, and

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Speaker 1: when I took my dress off, it was like makeup

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Speaker 1: all right here? And I knew I was I like

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Speaker 1: told myself because I get like nervous sweats, like I'll

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Speaker 1: be freezing, shaking like a baby deer, but like sweating.

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Speaker 1: And I was like it was disgusting.

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Speaker 3: I'm revulsive.

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Speaker 1: But a few other of my cosmembers like we're saying,

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Speaker 1: They're like, what is this? I don't understand. I'm like, nerves.

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Speaker 1: This is called nerves. We're all just freaking nervous as fuck.

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Speaker 1: We're also probably very hormonal, and some of us could

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Speaker 1: be entering like perimenopause. But we're not even gonna summon.

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Speaker 3: That too up. We're not bringing that there. We're not

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Speaker 1: Onto us right now. No, And so I told myself.

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Speaker 1: I was like, I'm just gonna keep my arms down.

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Speaker 1: You guys know how I talk. I talk like this,

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Speaker 1: I'm hands I'm up in the air.

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Speaker 3: I'm like, she's really aggressive, she adds feet, She's like

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Speaker 3: a dancing spider when she's really pissed off.

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Speaker 1: Yeah, like a little kick here and there. No, I

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Speaker 1: didn't do any of that. I stayed in my seat,

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Speaker 1: but that's still want.

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Speaker 3: That's the one thing I'm nervous about that when.

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Speaker 1: I stand up, no one stood up.

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Speaker 3: That's okay. I needed a little bit of tea if

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Speaker 3: anybody got the pointing standing up, but no one pointing.

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Speaker 3: But no one stood up. No everyone.

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Speaker 1: It was a good reunion. And everyone looked like so

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Speaker 1: stunning and beautiful, you know, that's it. I looked around

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Speaker 1: and I was like, this group cleans up.

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Speaker 3: Nice, No, you've a it's a really good looking cast.

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Speaker 1: I don't know how Jasmine dealt with it, because going

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Speaker 1: from like the highest hige of like marrying the love

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Speaker 1: of your life and then going into that setting like

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Speaker 1: I have been in love, and let me tell you something,

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Speaker 1: when you're in your love bubble, nothing can burst.

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Speaker 3: But if I were, if I were them, I would

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Speaker 3: have been like, Okay, so that's we're gonna get married.

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Speaker 3: We're going to go do this fucking reunion, and then

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Speaker 3: we're gonna get on a plane and go on a honeymoon.

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Speaker 3: So you get like a high and then back and

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Speaker 3: then you get another high. All different types of life too,

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Speaker 3: because the reunion.

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Speaker 1: Is a high.

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Speaker 3: It is, but and most people go and travel after

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Speaker 3: the reunion. Everybody's like they're fleeing. No matter who it is,

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Speaker 3: they're fleeing. It's like, no, they're done working. So what

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Speaker 3: do you do? Like NBA players when the season's over,

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Speaker 3: they all usually travel. They're not fleeing and seasons over.

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Speaker 3: Yeah yeah, yeah, so like that season's over. Now we

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Speaker 3: go have function and it's our honeymoon.

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Speaker 1: Yeah, and we went into but you guys came back

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Speaker 1: and had Ocean's graduation, and because you and Mom were

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Speaker 3: I couldn't can't.

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Speaker 1: It wasn't nervous, your mom was nervous, and so we

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Speaker 1: had CC the nanny come to do Ocean's hair the

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Speaker 1: way she wanted it that morning. But on Wednesday, when

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Speaker 1: reunion and graduation, Ocean knew that I would not be

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Speaker 1: able to go her graduation. And when I had told

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Speaker 3: She was not wrong.

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Speaker 1: She was not wrong. But when we got back, I

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Speaker 1: told her, why don't we go to the mall and

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Speaker 1: And she was like, can I pick it? Can I

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Speaker 1: on it. Well, we did fight about it.

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Speaker 3: She wanted some horrific shit she wanted.

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Speaker 1: She wanted really got awful white shoes to go with

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Speaker 1: her dress. She had on like this red frilly dress.

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Speaker 1: The dress was amazing, dress was great. The shoes.

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Speaker 3: I was like, you look the accessory she was picking

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Speaker 3: picking the Yeah.

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Speaker 1: And she said, you said I could pick whatever I wanted.

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Speaker 3: And I don't like to match.

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Speaker 1: And I was like, oh no, I said, you picked

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Speaker 3: Like if you would have let her, you would have

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Speaker 3: had big daddy type scene of her I can't do it,

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Speaker 3: I can't do it, goggles on. She ended up really

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Speaker 1: Shoes though, that she because once she put them on,

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Speaker 1: because I actually really loved these shoes mom. I was like,

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Speaker 1: I know, it looks freaking great. So you roll up

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Speaker 1: to graduation. She's in her fit, in her fit, all

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Speaker 1: the other kids.

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Speaker 3: It's just so special. It's a special day. And I

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Speaker 3: walked in and it is the cutest little thing. They

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Speaker 3: have huge posters of their like of each individual kid

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Speaker 3: their photo, like their little yearbook photo, and every little

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Speaker 3: kid is just the sweetest, cutest And then they all

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Speaker 3: help the world. And I lost it. I actually started

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Speaker 3: crying there there. She's she's special. That child holds a

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Speaker 3: Gay baseball teammates. Yeah, I saw all of them. Like

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Speaker 3: bunch of like guys that weren't fathers. Yeah, it was

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00:22:15,320 --> 00:22:16,479
Speaker 3: like fun totally.

437
00:22:17,040 --> 00:22:20,680
Speaker 1: I agree. I think Mother's Day the kids should go

438
00:22:20,760 --> 00:22:23,760
Speaker 1: with the dad and on Father's Day and on Father's

439
00:22:23,800 --> 00:22:26,080
Speaker 1: Day all take the kid and you go do your thing.

440
00:22:26,200 --> 00:22:28,159
Speaker 3: I think that's kind of how it is. Though, No,

441
00:22:28,640 --> 00:22:30,960
Speaker 3: like on Mother's Day, I do know like a group

442
00:22:31,040 --> 00:22:34,360
Speaker 3: of girls that go to brunch altogether and they leave

443
00:22:34,359 --> 00:22:37,040
Speaker 3: the kids with that sounds awesome, yeah, and then they

444
00:22:37,080 --> 00:22:38,359
Speaker 3: go home and they do their thing. And then on

445
00:22:38,480 --> 00:22:41,160
Speaker 3: Father's Day, I know, the same group of dudes all

446
00:22:41,320 --> 00:22:43,520
Speaker 3: leave the kids. They all go golfing in the morning

447
00:22:43,600 --> 00:22:46,480
Speaker 3: and grab like lunch, and then they go home and

448
00:22:46,600 --> 00:22:47,320
Speaker 3: hang out with the family.

449
00:22:47,480 --> 00:22:50,280
Speaker 1: I was talking to Michelle, Janet and Brittany and I

450
00:22:50,400 --> 00:22:52,359
Speaker 1: was like, for Mother's Day, we should start a tradition

451
00:22:53,040 --> 00:22:55,640
Speaker 1: where we stay at the we check in on Saturday

452
00:22:55,720 --> 00:22:58,879
Speaker 1: night at Beverly Hills Hotel. We go to brunch in

453
00:22:58,920 --> 00:23:01,639
Speaker 1: the morning where someone brings the kids to us we

454
00:23:01,720 --> 00:23:04,760
Speaker 1: can all eat together. When brunch is over, we punt

455
00:23:04,800 --> 00:23:08,680
Speaker 1: the kids and we lay by the pool and have

456
00:23:08,800 --> 00:23:10,800
Speaker 1: the best day ever, and then we'll check out.

457
00:23:11,320 --> 00:23:12,920
Speaker 3: Better to me than a staycation.

458
00:23:13,320 --> 00:23:15,440
Speaker 1: I love a staycation. Janet does it all the time.

459
00:23:16,800 --> 00:23:19,639
Speaker 1: Our Father's Day was easy, and I did wish my

460
00:23:19,840 --> 00:23:23,320
Speaker 1: fellow single mothers by choice and not by choice, a

461
00:23:23,320 --> 00:23:25,199
Speaker 1: happy Mother's Day because I have a friend Meredith, who

462
00:23:25,320 --> 00:23:29,600
Speaker 1: also had a baby via sperm donor. However, her donor

463
00:23:29,840 --> 00:23:32,879
Speaker 1: is her gay best friend, so fun. I tried to

464
00:23:32,880 --> 00:23:34,840
Speaker 1: get Logan ear Leo to donate sperm to me, but

465
00:23:34,920 --> 00:23:37,000
Speaker 1: they said it would be weird and I was.

466
00:23:37,000 --> 00:23:40,480
Speaker 3: Like, why, Like, not for you, weird for them, and

467
00:23:40,520 --> 00:23:44,359
Speaker 3: I can get Logan said to me.

468
00:23:44,520 --> 00:23:46,080
Speaker 1: He was like, I'll just feel guilty. I'm like, I

469
00:23:46,119 --> 00:23:48,960
Speaker 1: don't expect anything from you, and he goes. You realize

470
00:23:49,080 --> 00:23:51,479
Speaker 1: I'm around ocean and when I leave her, I feel guilty.

471
00:23:51,800 --> 00:23:52,679
Speaker 1: Imagine if it was my.

472
00:23:52,760 --> 00:23:55,399
Speaker 3: Own kid, even though it's not your child. You're like,

473
00:23:55,560 --> 00:23:59,040
Speaker 3: I donated that kind of mine. Yeah, I have that

474
00:23:59,160 --> 00:24:02,200
Speaker 3: back there, so helpless thing but kind of like wonky,

475
00:24:02,520 --> 00:24:04,639
Speaker 3: you know, Like yeah, that's why I couldn't know the person.

476
00:24:15,720 --> 00:24:18,160
Speaker 1: Can I ask you, how do you feel on Father's Day?

477
00:24:18,840 --> 00:24:19,880
Speaker 1: With dad being gone?

478
00:24:21,640 --> 00:24:21,840
Speaker 3: Yeah?

479
00:24:23,040 --> 00:24:25,080
Speaker 1: Enough past, enough time has passed.

480
00:24:25,119 --> 00:24:27,840
Speaker 3: Why it's like it's a good Yeah, true day, You've

481
00:24:27,880 --> 00:24:30,560
Speaker 3: done amazing things I don't think like there's no it

482
00:24:30,600 --> 00:24:33,600
Speaker 3: doesn't take you out. No, yeah, I think I'm getting

483
00:24:33,640 --> 00:24:36,600
Speaker 3: over the taking me out. I'll cry and things like that,

484
00:24:36,760 --> 00:24:39,600
Speaker 3: but like, I don't think anything will debilitate me where

485
00:24:39,600 --> 00:24:41,840
Speaker 3: it's like this case putting me in bed.

486
00:24:42,359 --> 00:24:45,440
Speaker 1: You know, kind of what happens to me is Dad's

487
00:24:45,480 --> 00:24:48,560
Speaker 1: been gone for over eight years now, and I some

488
00:24:48,960 --> 00:24:52,159
Speaker 1: like whenever I hear the word dad, I kind of

489
00:24:53,040 --> 00:24:57,520
Speaker 1: shudder a bit. And yesterday when I was firing off

490
00:24:57,680 --> 00:25:01,960
Speaker 1: like uh, happy father Day text messages and posts to

491
00:25:02,160 --> 00:25:06,000
Speaker 1: like other single moms do I know, I was like,

492
00:25:07,359 --> 00:25:10,959
Speaker 1: You're such a fucking asshole lot. You haven't taken one

493
00:25:11,040 --> 00:25:13,920
Speaker 1: moment to be like you had an amazing dad. And

494
00:25:14,040 --> 00:25:17,800
Speaker 1: the only reason I thought about this was because Sosa

495
00:25:17,960 --> 00:25:21,239
Speaker 1: for five minutes was not freaking out and I had

496
00:25:21,280 --> 00:25:24,159
Speaker 1: a moment to kind of sit on the day and

497
00:25:24,359 --> 00:25:29,520
Speaker 1: be like, I'm I need to like really work on

498
00:25:29,640 --> 00:25:33,159
Speaker 1: that to not be triggered by the word dad, because

499
00:25:34,040 --> 00:25:37,360
Speaker 1: I had such a great one, and I think had

500
00:25:37,480 --> 00:25:44,520
Speaker 1: he not passed before everything went awry, I would be

501
00:25:44,600 --> 00:25:47,920
Speaker 1: able to look at men and fathers differently. But you

502
00:25:48,040 --> 00:25:52,520
Speaker 1: have to remember, like he died like three years before

503
00:25:52,960 --> 00:25:58,480
Speaker 1: all that shit happened, so had if he were still here,

504
00:25:59,000 --> 00:26:00,640
Speaker 1: I think I would look at dad differently. I think

505
00:26:00,640 --> 00:26:03,160
Speaker 1: I would look at men differently because I would see

506
00:26:03,200 --> 00:26:06,000
Speaker 1: my own dad and see him with my mom and

507
00:26:06,080 --> 00:26:08,520
Speaker 1: treating her kindly, and see him with my kids and

508
00:26:08,600 --> 00:26:13,680
Speaker 1: be like and see them see Brandon, I do, but

509
00:26:13,760 --> 00:26:16,720
Speaker 1: you guys are my brothers, Like that was my dad.

510
00:26:17,040 --> 00:26:19,240
Speaker 3: That was my dad. But also like you can see

511
00:26:19,280 --> 00:26:21,800
Speaker 3: Brandon and he's in like a very help he is

512
00:26:21,920 --> 00:26:23,480
Speaker 3: Dad really is.

513
00:26:23,640 --> 00:26:25,480
Speaker 1: And when I see them we talked about this on

514
00:26:25,480 --> 00:26:27,480
Speaker 1: the last episode. When I see Brandon and Chryl, I'm like,

515
00:26:28,200 --> 00:26:32,000
Speaker 1: this exists. It does exist, maybe just not in Los Angeles.

516
00:26:33,600 --> 00:26:36,320
Speaker 3: Just the right person. There's no matter where how to

517
00:26:36,359 --> 00:26:38,560
Speaker 3: find the right person. I don't think it depends on

518
00:26:38,640 --> 00:26:39,080
Speaker 3: where you are.

519
00:26:39,800 --> 00:26:41,040
Speaker 1: I know, what are you supposed to go out and

520
00:26:41,119 --> 00:26:43,040
Speaker 1: like search for the right person or do they like

521
00:26:43,240 --> 00:26:44,080
Speaker 1: fall with their laugh?

522
00:26:44,160 --> 00:26:47,280
Speaker 3: I don't know. Well, here's the thing, and I think

523
00:26:47,320 --> 00:26:51,280
Speaker 3: a lot of people, maybe I'll ask that I don't

524
00:26:51,359 --> 00:26:56,600
Speaker 3: like dating apps, okay, like swiping. I don't like that.

525
00:26:57,080 --> 00:26:59,879
Speaker 3: I like authentic in person. So what do I have

526
00:27:00,160 --> 00:27:02,560
Speaker 3: to do? I have to go to go out yeah,

527
00:27:02,760 --> 00:27:04,600
Speaker 3: because I don't want to just meet somebody on a

528
00:27:04,720 --> 00:27:06,840
Speaker 3: dating app. Is it There's something wrong with that?

529
00:27:07,040 --> 00:27:07,159
Speaker 1: Now?

530
00:27:07,440 --> 00:27:12,280
Speaker 3: Not at all. I just here it is. I know

531
00:27:12,359 --> 00:27:14,520
Speaker 3: what I like, and when I'm out and about, I'm like, Okay,

532
00:27:14,560 --> 00:27:15,960
Speaker 3: I like that. I'm going to go and talk to you.

533
00:27:16,240 --> 00:27:18,760
Speaker 3: I don't want to hope to god you're somebody I

534
00:27:19,000 --> 00:27:20,879
Speaker 3: like through a photo and then I meet you and

535
00:27:20,960 --> 00:27:22,920
Speaker 3: I have to hang out with a thousand girls to

536
00:27:23,280 --> 00:27:27,240
Speaker 3: meet one good one. I just not like that. Yeah, like, yeah,

537
00:27:27,240 --> 00:27:28,760
Speaker 3: I have a Tinder date. Like I know people who

538
00:27:28,800 --> 00:27:30,960
Speaker 3: have like Tinder dates nine ten times.

539
00:27:31,119 --> 00:27:33,239
Speaker 1: Friends that have a coffee date and a dinner date.

540
00:27:33,280 --> 00:27:35,440
Speaker 3: That's what I'm saying. They have like a coffee and

541
00:27:35,480 --> 00:27:38,159
Speaker 3: then they'll go to dinner. They'll every day they have

542
00:27:38,359 --> 00:27:41,639
Speaker 3: one to two Tinder dates, and I'm thinking, what a

543
00:27:41,760 --> 00:27:43,480
Speaker 3: waste of time because you have to see her, and

544
00:27:43,640 --> 00:27:45,400
Speaker 3: like they'll even say they're like right when I sat

545
00:27:45,480 --> 00:27:47,440
Speaker 3: down and we like talked for the first minute, I

546
00:27:47,520 --> 00:27:49,679
Speaker 3: knew And it's like that is why I'm not wasting

547
00:27:49,760 --> 00:27:52,000
Speaker 3: my time on these dating apps, because if I saw

548
00:27:52,080 --> 00:27:56,080
Speaker 3: you in person right then, and I don't even need

549
00:27:56,119 --> 00:27:58,040
Speaker 3: to sit down and the pressure has gone to yes,

550
00:27:58,320 --> 00:28:00,560
Speaker 3: and I would have just been like, hey, I'm.

551
00:28:00,960 --> 00:28:02,560
Speaker 1: Numbers, continue the conversation.

552
00:28:02,960 --> 00:28:06,040
Speaker 3: Yeah. So like that's where I'm at. So there's people

553
00:28:06,080 --> 00:28:09,760
Speaker 3: who like dating apps and just want to flip through

554
00:28:09,840 --> 00:28:13,320
Speaker 3: them and they know that that's easy, and that's their character.

555
00:28:13,520 --> 00:28:15,639
Speaker 3: My character is reserved. I'm not just going to go

556
00:28:15,760 --> 00:28:19,040
Speaker 3: by the way. It's like shopping. I go in a

557
00:28:19,119 --> 00:28:21,399
Speaker 3: store and I day and if I see something, I

558
00:28:21,480 --> 00:28:25,080
Speaker 3: go and look. I don't go rack for rat M Totally.

559
00:28:25,119 --> 00:28:27,280
Speaker 3: I'm the same way. If I see something, I'll look

560
00:28:27,320 --> 00:28:30,280
Speaker 3: at it, not it I daze around. I do not

561
00:28:31,080 --> 00:28:34,320
Speaker 3: And that same with dating. I see it all I

562
00:28:34,520 --> 00:28:36,480
Speaker 3: like this and then you go and then.

563
00:28:36,359 --> 00:28:39,240
Speaker 1: I can Yes, you hung out with a girl the

564
00:28:39,280 --> 00:28:40,360
Speaker 1: other night, and I was proud of you.

565
00:28:40,560 --> 00:28:44,760
Speaker 3: I mean until five am. Everybody I know and I feel.

566
00:28:44,600 --> 00:28:47,120
Speaker 1: The same way though Easton I'm like, I do not

567
00:28:47,840 --> 00:28:51,280
Speaker 1: enjoy dating and sitting down and like Amber.

568
00:28:51,200 --> 00:28:53,560
Speaker 3: Graded gram is a little different. I will say, oh,

569
00:28:54,000 --> 00:28:56,960
Speaker 3: fire off like that, like that's a person I'm seeing you.

570
00:28:57,200 --> 00:28:59,880
Speaker 3: You're aesthetic on what you post. I'm getting a little

571
00:28:59,880 --> 00:29:04,000
Speaker 3: bit like I can't tell off of four hinder pictures but.

572
00:29:04,240 --> 00:29:05,959
Speaker 1: Just feels a little too formal and a little too

573
00:29:06,000 --> 00:29:06,520
Speaker 1: much pressure.

574
00:29:06,640 --> 00:29:09,200
Speaker 3: Yeah, so, like I will meet somebody that I've never

575
00:29:09,320 --> 00:29:11,200
Speaker 3: met through Instagram, if you know.

576
00:29:11,680 --> 00:29:11,720
Speaker 1: So.

577
00:29:12,080 --> 00:29:14,120
Speaker 3: I'm not against it. I'm just not a dating app

578
00:29:14,240 --> 00:29:15,840
Speaker 3: kind of guy. And I hear dating apps are just

579
00:29:15,920 --> 00:29:18,160
Speaker 3: like fuck apps, and I'm sorry, I ain't trying to fuck.

580
00:29:19,000 --> 00:29:21,840
Speaker 1: Oh, I'm trying to do it all. I met this

581
00:29:22,280 --> 00:29:26,800
Speaker 1: I was looking for this woman. Someone had recommended her

582
00:29:27,200 --> 00:29:29,880
Speaker 1: to me for like I forgot what it was like,

583
00:29:30,000 --> 00:29:35,240
Speaker 1: some publicist or something. I can't quite remember why I

584
00:29:35,400 --> 00:29:37,400
Speaker 1: was looking for her. But in the midst of trying

585
00:29:37,440 --> 00:29:39,720
Speaker 1: to find her on Instagram, I came across this really

586
00:29:39,800 --> 00:29:43,200
Speaker 1: hot guy and he lives in London, and it was

587
00:29:43,360 --> 00:29:45,920
Speaker 1: really fun and cute and we were like facetiming or whatever.

588
00:29:46,080 --> 00:29:48,120
Speaker 1: But then I think we both got over it because

589
00:29:48,120 --> 00:29:50,800
Speaker 1: of the time difference. By the time we would exchange

590
00:29:50,920 --> 00:29:58,440
Speaker 1: literally one message exactly, I was like, this, this is

591
00:29:58,560 --> 00:30:00,960
Speaker 1: maybe a little too much distance. It was fun while

592
00:30:01,000 --> 00:30:04,040
Speaker 1: it lasted. You look hot on the FaceTime. Wish you

593
00:30:04,120 --> 00:30:05,840
Speaker 1: the best. But by the way, if I ever end

594
00:30:05,920 --> 00:30:07,680
Speaker 1: up in London, I will be hitting him up because

595
00:30:07,720 --> 00:30:11,760
Speaker 1: he was fine, six', three looking like a whole snack.

596
00:30:11,760 --> 00:30:14,040
Speaker 3: OOH i don't get. Them that's WHEN i love THE.

597
00:30:14,160 --> 00:30:17,840
Speaker 3: Dms i'm no, Pressure I'M adm or. TWO i will do.

598
00:30:17,960 --> 00:30:21,040
Speaker 1: THAT i love A. Dm i'm old, school like it's

599
00:30:21,120 --> 00:30:23,320
Speaker 1: going down in THE, dms which came OUT i think

600
00:30:23,360 --> 00:30:25,600
Speaker 1: WHEN i was in LIKE i stay for.

601
00:30:25,800 --> 00:30:27,280
Speaker 3: Me it's still that.

602
00:30:27,480 --> 00:30:32,200
Speaker 1: WAY i am old school antiquated Af, anyway moving on

603
00:30:32,360 --> 00:30:36,960
Speaker 1: to some pop. Culture SO i just, finished, Uh Real

604
00:30:37,000 --> 00:30:40,400
Speaker 1: housewives Of Rhode, island the finale. EPISODE i was expecting

605
00:30:40,480 --> 00:30:42,880
Speaker 1: for it to be a little bit more, explosive but

606
00:30:43,040 --> 00:30:46,000
Speaker 1: THEN i started the reunion And i'm, like this is

607
00:30:46,200 --> 00:30:49,000
Speaker 1: gonna get. GOOD i had to pause it BECAUSE i

608
00:30:49,080 --> 00:30:50,960
Speaker 1: had to come on here with you. Guys But i'm

609
00:30:51,080 --> 00:30:58,600
Speaker 1: in the middle Of rula dancing around If liz had

610
00:30:58,680 --> 00:31:00,800
Speaker 1: cheated on her husband at any point in, time and

611
00:31:00,880 --> 00:31:04,560
Speaker 1: they're talking about How rula Saw liz out with a

612
00:31:04,680 --> 00:31:08,680
Speaker 1: man and they were very close and. Kissy i'm really

613
00:31:08,840 --> 00:31:12,320
Speaker 1: obsessed With Rhode island and what's wild is watching. It

614
00:31:12,600 --> 00:31:16,520
Speaker 1: sometimes with these, shows there are people who you dig

615
00:31:16,600 --> 00:31:19,160
Speaker 1: in people who you. DON'T i actually like all of.

616
00:31:19,280 --> 00:31:21,560
Speaker 3: THEM i like all of. Them is it first?

617
00:31:21,560 --> 00:31:24,360
Speaker 1: Season it's the first, season BUT i mean they were

618
00:31:24,400 --> 00:31:26,720
Speaker 1: putting it all out. THERE i Think brian is a

619
00:31:26,840 --> 00:31:31,080
Speaker 1: fucking clown AND i want to get into his arrest

620
00:31:31,240 --> 00:31:35,840
Speaker 1: because that happened we found out on the finale. Episode But,

621
00:31:36,080 --> 00:31:37,400
Speaker 1: rula the star of the.

622
00:31:37,440 --> 00:31:40,239
Speaker 3: Show is her new. Nose she got a new.

623
00:31:40,320 --> 00:31:43,320
Speaker 1: Nose people are calling it The Jennifer Aiden Knows. LIKE

624
00:31:44,720 --> 00:31:46,560
Speaker 1: i think it's very. CUTE i like.

625
00:31:46,640 --> 00:31:49,720
Speaker 3: It it does have that like that little, point like

626
00:31:49,840 --> 00:31:53,840
Speaker 3: the swoop. Happening, YEAH i won't. LIE i like a swoop.

627
00:31:53,960 --> 00:31:56,560
Speaker 3: Nose do you think they're going to they're. Cuter they're

628
00:31:56,600 --> 00:31:59,600
Speaker 3: cuter when they're all, natural, Though but if you got

629
00:31:59,680 --> 00:32:00,920
Speaker 3: to get, it you got to get.

630
00:32:00,960 --> 00:32:03,000
Speaker 1: It, well how lucky for someone to be able to

631
00:32:03,080 --> 00:32:05,840
Speaker 1: have it all natural? NOSE i, mean look at, Mine

632
00:32:06,320 --> 00:32:09,160
Speaker 1: look at my. Nostrils THIS i like this side of

633
00:32:09,200 --> 00:32:11,920
Speaker 1: my face because it tilts to the side, right but

634
00:32:12,280 --> 00:32:15,480
Speaker 1: it's crooked like my nostril and ocean is the same,

635
00:32:15,520 --> 00:32:17,680
Speaker 1: Thing like this one goes this. Way this one's. Straight

636
00:32:17,800 --> 00:32:20,760
Speaker 1: But i'm worried IF i fuck with, it get it like,

637
00:32:20,880 --> 00:32:24,200
Speaker 1: that Then i'm not gonna like either. SIDE i almost

638
00:32:24,280 --> 00:32:26,320
Speaker 1: want them to make this one more like that. One

639
00:32:26,800 --> 00:32:28,640
Speaker 1: but then you've got a straight, nose and THEN i

640
00:32:28,720 --> 00:32:30,240
Speaker 1: don't have one side THAT i.

641
00:32:30,480 --> 00:32:33,360
Speaker 3: LIKE i was just looking at my nose for a.

642
00:32:33,440 --> 00:32:34,720
Speaker 3: While look up in.

643
00:32:34,720 --> 00:32:37,640
Speaker 1: The, Air look up in the air like, this so

644
00:32:37,760 --> 00:32:38,400
Speaker 1: you've got a straight.

645
00:32:38,480 --> 00:32:42,000
Speaker 3: Nose then look at it this. Way this one's bigger

646
00:32:42,080 --> 00:32:45,120
Speaker 3: than this, one and it looks like, squidward just like somebody.

647
00:32:45,320 --> 00:32:46,320
Speaker 3: Through that is not.

648
00:32:46,440 --> 00:32:48,720
Speaker 1: True you have such a cute little. NOSE i went

649
00:32:48,760 --> 00:32:50,920
Speaker 1: to Doctor diamond AND i told HIM i really want

650
00:32:51,000 --> 00:32:53,600
Speaker 1: my nose, fixed and he told, me if you find

651
00:32:53,640 --> 00:32:56,360
Speaker 1: a doctor that will touch your, Nose i'm gonna need

652
00:32:56,440 --> 00:32:57,200
Speaker 1: you to run the.

653
00:32:57,280 --> 00:32:59,880
Speaker 3: Way so that was.

654
00:33:00,080 --> 00:33:03,960
Speaker 1: GOOD i also stated on the reunion multiple, times, y'all

655
00:33:05,160 --> 00:33:07,920
Speaker 1: if you're looking At, ANDY i don't care If i'm

656
00:33:08,480 --> 00:33:12,560
Speaker 1: next to him on the very very. END i don't

657
00:33:12,600 --> 00:33:15,800
Speaker 1: care if you have me sitting on the fucking. FLOOR

658
00:33:16,800 --> 00:33:20,000
Speaker 1: i have to be on the left side of, him

659
00:33:20,560 --> 00:33:24,080
Speaker 1: so camera hits the right, side and please don't call

660
00:33:24,160 --> 00:33:24,520
Speaker 1: me you know.

661
00:33:24,640 --> 00:33:25,840
Speaker 3: Who it has.

662
00:33:25,920 --> 00:33:28,040
Speaker 1: Nothing i'm. Not if they would have put me on

663
00:33:28,080 --> 00:33:30,480
Speaker 1: the other couch where, this it would have been, like all, right, fine,

664
00:33:30,520 --> 00:33:31,320
Speaker 1: whatever you, know like we.

665
00:33:31,480 --> 00:33:32,640
Speaker 3: Deal BUT i just.

666
00:33:32,880 --> 00:33:37,240
Speaker 1: Prefer to hit him with the cute tilt, side you,

667
00:33:37,320 --> 00:33:39,640
Speaker 1: know because it does have a little swoopy effect from

668
00:33:39,680 --> 00:33:44,000
Speaker 1: this side, anyway. Stupid she was the star of the,

669
00:33:44,080 --> 00:33:48,480
Speaker 1: show she, said Meaning rula's. Nose she also said that

670
00:33:48,600 --> 00:33:51,720
Speaker 1: she had a little lip, lift AND i was, like,

671
00:33:51,800 --> 00:33:52,160
Speaker 1: oh that's.

672
00:33:52,280 --> 00:33:54,800
Speaker 3: Cute Though.

673
00:33:56,400 --> 00:33:58,880
Speaker 1: I've been told like a little bit of botox just To.

674
00:33:58,960 --> 00:34:01,440
Speaker 1: BOB i can tell you some zoning. Out my most

675
00:34:01,480 --> 00:34:04,840
Speaker 1: favorite topic injections and. SKINCARE i do need up.

676
00:34:04,880 --> 00:34:05,680
Speaker 3: Here that's the only.

677
00:34:05,760 --> 00:34:10,279
Speaker 1: THING i Need some boatoks for My, yeah you could

678
00:34:10,360 --> 00:34:12,880
Speaker 1: use you could use a little in the, forehead BUT

679
00:34:13,120 --> 00:34:15,920
Speaker 1: i don't like when men are frozen like they.

680
00:34:15,920 --> 00:34:18,520
Speaker 3: Got to have a little no and TO i just

681
00:34:18,680 --> 00:34:20,239
Speaker 3: want to. Do here's the.

682
00:34:20,360 --> 00:34:24,640
Speaker 2: THING i have a, MOM i had a. Dad but

683
00:34:24,800 --> 00:34:27,480
Speaker 2: my dad was a wrinkly old. Man he was a very,

684
00:34:27,600 --> 00:34:31,000
Speaker 2: rinkly wrinkly. Guy so like that's Where i'm, like you,

685
00:34:31,120 --> 00:34:33,120
Speaker 2: Know i'm very like wrinkly.

686
00:34:33,200 --> 00:34:35,960
Speaker 3: Too like my eyebags are like LIKE i DON'T i

687
00:34:36,000 --> 00:34:39,239
Speaker 3: won't pull, them but like they're there this like.

688
00:34:39,880 --> 00:34:44,279
Speaker 1: You're elevens stop doing. That but, yeah a little bit

689
00:34:45,440 --> 00:34:48,080
Speaker 1: WHAT i want to like put IN i tell you.

690
00:34:48,239 --> 00:34:50,960
Speaker 1: Something you continue to get in the, sun you're going

691
00:34:51,040 --> 00:34:52,359
Speaker 1: to start getting, lines.

692
00:34:52,120 --> 00:34:55,759
Speaker 3: Right, oh, well that is WHAT i needed. Today but

693
00:34:55,840 --> 00:34:58,719
Speaker 3: dad is really playing with. Fire, okay well it was

694
00:34:58,840 --> 00:34:59,880
Speaker 3: a week in the sun and.

695
00:35:00,080 --> 00:35:02,759
Speaker 1: Yesterday do it all the time you need to Be

696
00:35:03,719 --> 00:35:06,719
Speaker 1: you should be the guy who walks around in full

697
00:35:06,920 --> 00:35:09,120
Speaker 1: zinc And i'm not a Shoking, well then you're going

698
00:35:09,160 --> 00:35:12,640
Speaker 1: to be a wrinkly old man like you're. Doing, well

699
00:35:12,680 --> 00:35:14,960
Speaker 1: you're not chaking very well of preventing it right. Now

700
00:35:16,239 --> 00:35:21,239
Speaker 1: so When brian was, arrested it's Because rula had a

701
00:35:21,360 --> 00:35:24,520
Speaker 1: feeling that she was being. Tracked, now keep in, Mind

702
00:35:24,920 --> 00:35:27,680
Speaker 1: brian has been accused the entire season of having an.

703
00:35:27,680 --> 00:35:30,680
Speaker 1: Affair rula knows about this. Affair what she doesn't know

704
00:35:30,880 --> 00:35:37,080
Speaker 1: is that it's still. Ongoing so the season wraps And

705
00:35:37,320 --> 00:35:40,560
Speaker 1: rula has this like weird suspicion that she is being.

706
00:35:40,719 --> 00:35:43,439
Speaker 1: Followed so she takes her car TO bmw and, SAYS

707
00:35:43,480 --> 00:35:45,840
Speaker 1: i have this like feeling that there's a tracker on my.

708
00:35:46,000 --> 00:35:48,279
Speaker 1: Car can you guys try to find. It they're, like

709
00:35:48,360 --> 00:35:49,800
Speaker 1: we can't touch the, car but you got to go

710
00:35:49,880 --> 00:35:53,120
Speaker 1: to like the nearest body. Shop she goes the nearest body.

711
00:35:53,160 --> 00:35:56,400
Speaker 1: Shop they do find a tracker on her. Car rula

712
00:35:56,640 --> 00:36:01,160
Speaker 1: in scene, SAYS i think that he had a tracking

713
00:36:01,239 --> 00:36:05,399
Speaker 1: device on my car because he wanted to know WHERE

714
00:36:05,480 --> 00:36:08,759
Speaker 1: i was IF i was approaching the house or IF

715
00:36:08,800 --> 00:36:11,520
Speaker 1: i did a drive by to the mistress's. House And i'm, like, Yes,

716
00:36:11,680 --> 00:36:14,600
Speaker 1: rula all season, long you have been denying that this

717
00:36:14,719 --> 00:36:16,840
Speaker 1: affair has been going, on and let me tell you.

718
00:36:16,880 --> 00:36:18,680
Speaker 1: Something where they's, smoke there's, Fire but this is the

719
00:36:18,719 --> 00:36:22,200
Speaker 1: first time where she's right on the. Money this guy

720
00:36:22,360 --> 00:36:25,359
Speaker 1: was tracking her car because he needed to make sure

721
00:36:25,719 --> 00:36:28,640
Speaker 1: that he was not caught with this woman if she

722
00:36:28,840 --> 00:36:30,880
Speaker 1: just shows up at the office and the mistress is

723
00:36:30,920 --> 00:36:34,480
Speaker 1: in there and they're doing funky. Business he needed to

724
00:36:34,560 --> 00:36:39,239
Speaker 1: know if the mistress needed to abort. Mission AND i

725
00:36:39,360 --> 00:36:43,240
Speaker 1: always found it so in my ex's old office space

726
00:36:44,320 --> 00:36:47,160
Speaker 1: and it all clicks. Now he chose this office where

727
00:36:47,200 --> 00:36:50,520
Speaker 1: you walk in but you enter through one. Wave but

728
00:36:50,640 --> 00:36:52,960
Speaker 1: then on the side where his desk, was there were

729
00:36:53,080 --> 00:36:57,000
Speaker 1: stairs to exit the. Building And i'm, like oh my,

730
00:36:57,160 --> 00:37:01,359
Speaker 1: God i'm sure every TIME i arrived and that door

731
00:37:01,520 --> 00:37:05,279
Speaker 1: was closed and, locked and he would yell, Like i'm

732
00:37:05,320 --> 00:37:08,040
Speaker 1: on the, phone someone, UNLOCKED i can't unlock the. Door

733
00:37:08,320 --> 00:37:10,360
Speaker 1: that there was probably a girl and he would sneak

734
00:37:10,400 --> 00:37:10,759
Speaker 1: her out the.

735
00:37:10,800 --> 00:37:13,480
Speaker 3: Bag what a piece of Shan't we.

736
00:37:13,480 --> 00:37:17,120
Speaker 1: Won't even get into, that But i'm curious to know

737
00:37:17,239 --> 00:37:19,439
Speaker 1: in this reunion it's only two, parts which is normal

738
00:37:19,480 --> 00:37:22,360
Speaker 1: BECAUSE i think they only had twelve episodes if she

739
00:37:22,960 --> 00:37:27,440
Speaker 1: acknowledges any of, this Because brian is at the fucking,

740
00:37:27,640 --> 00:37:31,920
Speaker 1: reunion he sits Behind, rula and he's been arrested for domestic.

741
00:37:32,040 --> 00:37:35,320
Speaker 1: Violence AND i learned so much ABOUT dv you guys

742
00:37:35,400 --> 00:37:39,000
Speaker 1: during my custody battle and what falls under that, category

743
00:37:39,640 --> 00:37:45,719
Speaker 1: and that very much a tracking device does fall under domestic.

744
00:37:45,800 --> 00:37:49,000
Speaker 1: Violence there are so many little things THAT i freaking,

745
00:37:49,160 --> 00:37:53,279
Speaker 1: learned AND i didn't like how they downplayed. It they were, like,

746
00:37:53,360 --> 00:37:55,759
Speaker 1: no it was nothing. Physical it's, like bottom line is

747
00:37:56,080 --> 00:38:00,400
Speaker 1: this man was fucking tracking. You it's, stalking focking.

748
00:38:00,480 --> 00:38:01,839
Speaker 3: You that is a big.

749
00:38:01,920 --> 00:38:04,879
Speaker 1: Deal like, no he didn't lay his hands on, you thank,

750
00:38:05,040 --> 00:38:09,279
Speaker 1: God BUT i didn't want it to be so, like,

751
00:38:10,760 --> 00:38:13,320
Speaker 1: oh you, know the headlines made it a bigger. Deal it's, like,

752
00:38:13,480 --> 00:38:15,359
Speaker 1: well it is a big. Deal it's a fucking big

753
00:38:15,440 --> 00:38:18,920
Speaker 1: deal that this man took it upon himself without you

754
00:38:19,080 --> 00:38:23,719
Speaker 1: knowing to purchase a fucking tracking device and attach it

755
00:38:23,800 --> 00:38:26,560
Speaker 1: to your car so that you wouldn't. Know that's a big.

756
00:38:26,600 --> 00:38:31,440
Speaker 1: Deal this guy's. Insane this guy is, insane and he should.

757
00:38:31,440 --> 00:38:33,439
Speaker 1: BE i loved that he wasn't allowed in the, house

758
00:38:33,520 --> 00:38:36,080
Speaker 1: like she filed some sort of restraining order or like

759
00:38:36,160 --> 00:38:38,640
Speaker 1: a no contact order where like he couldn't come. Around

760
00:38:39,080 --> 00:38:42,440
Speaker 1: clearly that went. Away because he's at the reunion with.

761
00:38:42,520 --> 00:38:45,000
Speaker 1: HER i am so curious to see what he has

762
00:38:45,120 --> 00:38:45,480
Speaker 1: to say for.

763
00:38:45,600 --> 00:38:46,360
Speaker 3: Him it's gonna be so.

764
00:38:46,560 --> 00:38:49,200
Speaker 1: Crazy And i'm curious to see How rula comes At,

765
00:38:49,239 --> 00:38:52,640
Speaker 1: joellen because let me tell you, SOMETHING i didn't Think

766
00:38:52,719 --> 00:38:54,440
Speaker 1: joellen was in the wrong at.

767
00:38:54,520 --> 00:38:55,520
Speaker 3: All neither was the.

768
00:38:55,640 --> 00:38:59,200
Speaker 1: One she was the one exposing. Things and WHEN i say,

769
00:38:59,280 --> 00:39:02,600
Speaker 1: exposing she would bring it To, rula like these things,

770
00:39:02,640 --> 00:39:04,799
Speaker 1: exist and, yeah she talks about it amongst the, group

771
00:39:04,840 --> 00:39:07,400
Speaker 1: because that's just what we fucking do when we're filming a.

772
00:39:07,440 --> 00:39:07,880
Speaker 3: Show you.

773
00:39:07,960 --> 00:39:12,840
Speaker 1: Know But i'm, like how are we so mad At

774
00:39:12,960 --> 00:39:16,480
Speaker 1: joellen when, like your man is in a car with

775
00:39:16,640 --> 00:39:18,400
Speaker 1: this mistress who you know he's cheated on you with

776
00:39:18,520 --> 00:39:20,400
Speaker 1: before there's a timestamp and they're, like well you can

777
00:39:20,480 --> 00:39:25,600
Speaker 1: make up time, stamps like not, really not, Really she

778
00:39:25,800 --> 00:39:27,840
Speaker 1: like is filming him the mistress and then takes a

779
00:39:27,920 --> 00:39:31,040
Speaker 1: video of the car dashboard where it says the date and.

780
00:39:31,160 --> 00:39:47,160
Speaker 3: Time i'm, like you can't make that. Up does anybody

781
00:39:47,280 --> 00:39:51,000
Speaker 3: Knows steve McBee Senior bravo, Show oh.

782
00:39:51,080 --> 00:39:54,800
Speaker 1: The McBee, Dynasty, yeah that. Guy know what happens in?

783
00:39:54,880 --> 00:39:57,000
Speaker 3: Prison oh the dad? Right?

784
00:39:57,239 --> 00:40:01,719
Speaker 1: Ye like two million dollars something For, oh he's.

785
00:40:01,840 --> 00:40:05,120
Speaker 3: Up he's in. Tweble he's in. Tweble and not only

786
00:40:05,239 --> 00:40:08,960
Speaker 3: is he In, tweble my Homie moe is with. Him

787
00:40:13,040 --> 00:40:15,680
Speaker 3: he called me yesterday and he, goes, BRO i got

788
00:40:15,800 --> 00:40:18,880
Speaker 3: something crazy for. You he, goes you Know steve. McBee

789
00:40:19,320 --> 00:40:21,160
Speaker 3: i go, no he goes he said he was On

790
00:40:21,280 --> 00:40:26,799
Speaker 3: bravo or. SOMETHING i was, like, no, ship, wait he's

791
00:40:26,920 --> 00:40:30,279
Speaker 3: in prison With steve. McBee what a small?

792
00:40:30,360 --> 00:40:34,239
Speaker 1: World? Right didn't tell him my friend is On.

793
00:40:34,400 --> 00:40:38,000
Speaker 3: Bravo So bravo was on some of the shows while they're,

794
00:40:38,040 --> 00:40:41,279
Speaker 3: there And The valley was on review and he, goes no.

795
00:40:41,719 --> 00:40:43,719
Speaker 3: Way he was, like The valley was on.

796
00:40:43,840 --> 00:40:47,040
Speaker 5: And he, goes, hey that's like my, sister and that's

797
00:40:47,040 --> 00:40:49,400
Speaker 5: when it's. Started he was, like that's like my sister right,

798
00:40:49,480 --> 00:40:51,680
Speaker 5: there and that's when it. Started he was, like, OH

799
00:40:51,800 --> 00:40:54,439
Speaker 5: i was On bravo and he, goes and, then, yeah

800
00:40:54,640 --> 00:40:54,880
Speaker 5: there it.

801
00:40:55,040 --> 00:40:56,440
Speaker 3: Was but he told me. Yesterday he was, like, Yeah

802
00:40:56,440 --> 00:40:59,160
Speaker 3: i'm in here With steve McBee. Man, Wow, Mo.

803
00:41:03,080 --> 00:41:08,920
Speaker 1: Wow, Yeah i'm so happy you brought that. Up how

804
00:41:08,960 --> 00:41:10,439
Speaker 1: did you not tell me this after the phone?

805
00:41:10,440 --> 00:41:13,279
Speaker 3: CALL i kind of forgot until right. Now that's WHY

806
00:41:13,280 --> 00:41:16,000
Speaker 3: i looked at. IT i have, that BUT i was,

807
00:41:16,040 --> 00:41:17,719
Speaker 3: LIKE i have to look it up next TIME i

808
00:41:17,800 --> 00:41:18,920
Speaker 3: chat WITH, mo, Though i'll bring.

809
00:41:18,840 --> 00:41:19,160
Speaker 4: You in on.

810
00:41:19,280 --> 00:41:21,480
Speaker 1: It. Wow that's fucking amazing next.

811
00:41:21,520 --> 00:41:23,560
Speaker 3: TIME i don't know when he'll, call But i'll be.

812
00:41:23,840 --> 00:41:26,359
Speaker 3: Ready you stay ready for those.

813
00:41:26,600 --> 00:41:30,160
Speaker 1: Already you have a call from an inmate at the

814
00:41:30,520 --> 00:41:31,919
Speaker 1: blah blah blah blah blah blah.

815
00:41:31,960 --> 00:41:35,439
Speaker 2: Blah you can look up where they are now, obviously

816
00:41:35,880 --> 00:41:36,840
Speaker 2: and Is?

817
00:41:36,920 --> 00:41:36,960
Speaker 1: Mo?

818
00:41:38,200 --> 00:41:40,600
Speaker 3: Mo CAN i talk about talk About?

819
00:41:40,640 --> 00:41:41,160
Speaker 1: Mo how we know?

820
00:41:41,280 --> 00:41:48,160
Speaker 3: Them funny? Enough So PALAZZO. M my mom and sister were.

821
00:41:48,160 --> 00:41:48,840
Speaker 1: THERE i was.

822
00:41:48,880 --> 00:41:53,879
Speaker 3: There they WERE mo was literally two units away from

823
00:41:54,040 --> 00:41:56,640
Speaker 3: my mom and. Sister so they were moving a HUGE

824
00:41:56,800 --> 00:41:59,600
Speaker 3: tv in and they were waiting for the elevator and

825
00:41:59,680 --> 00:42:01,879
Speaker 3: people just kept going in front of. Them so my mother,

826
00:42:02,040 --> 00:42:04,360
Speaker 3: goes do you guys not see that they're trying to

827
00:42:04,480 --> 00:42:07,839
Speaker 3: move A tv? In the elevator and so like they,

828
00:42:07,960 --> 00:42:10,000
Speaker 3: said thank. You so my mom got in with. Them

829
00:42:10,280 --> 00:42:13,560
Speaker 3: they started, talking and then every time they'd see each

830
00:42:13,600 --> 00:42:18,000
Speaker 3: other lily and then Had lily and they looked at

831
00:42:18,040 --> 00:42:20,640
Speaker 3: me and they, go isn't this some old lady and

832
00:42:21,040 --> 00:42:24,399
Speaker 3: girls old? Dog, yeah isn't this an older lady's. Dog

833
00:42:24,440 --> 00:42:27,359
Speaker 3: AND i was, like, oh, yeah my, mom and they,

834
00:42:27,440 --> 00:42:29,959
Speaker 3: go we were about to press you because we didn't

835
00:42:30,040 --> 00:42:32,719
Speaker 3: know if you were stealing the. DOG i was, like

836
00:42:32,880 --> 00:42:35,960
Speaker 3: oh my. Goodness so they had my mom's back already

837
00:42:36,000 --> 00:42:38,000
Speaker 3: AND i was, like no. Way so that Was that's

838
00:42:38,080 --> 00:42:38,600
Speaker 3: the reading of.

839
00:42:38,760 --> 00:42:39,680
Speaker 1: Moment they moved.

840
00:42:39,760 --> 00:42:46,120
Speaker 3: In, moo, Sico, FYI i do have to make music

841
00:42:46,200 --> 00:42:48,680
Speaker 3: With you've talked about. It, yeah they are coming out now,

842
00:42:49,000 --> 00:42:52,960
Speaker 3: yet we got the the files. Back everything is now

843
00:42:53,520 --> 00:42:55,640
Speaker 3: hours were, licensed So i'm going to release.

844
00:42:55,680 --> 00:42:56,520
Speaker 6: Them THIS i.

845
00:42:56,640 --> 00:42:58,799
Speaker 3: Love we got two songs coming. Out one is Called

846
00:42:58,880 --> 00:43:01,920
Speaker 3: baggage and the other one is Called shovel And baggage

847
00:43:02,000 --> 00:43:03,880
Speaker 3: is coming. Out but we want to do a remix with.

848
00:43:04,040 --> 00:43:07,640
Speaker 1: You really, yeah if you want, TO i do want.

849
00:43:07,719 --> 00:43:09,440
Speaker 3: To we want to do one with you for the

850
00:43:09,520 --> 00:43:09,759
Speaker 3: hell of.

851
00:43:09,800 --> 00:43:10,480
Speaker 1: It sounds so.

852
00:43:10,560 --> 00:43:12,839
Speaker 3: Cute here's the, thing, guys baggage is about my ex

853
00:43:12,920 --> 00:43:16,360
Speaker 3: and how MUCH i love. Her that's WHAT i wanted to.

854
00:43:16,400 --> 00:43:19,040
Speaker 3: WRITE i. Know, yeah we talked about, it just to

855
00:43:19,120 --> 00:43:21,040
Speaker 3: let you guys. Know, also when you hear these, Songs

856
00:43:21,040 --> 00:43:23,960
Speaker 3: i've been sing on them for like three, years so

857
00:43:24,160 --> 00:43:26,960
Speaker 3: like one is LIKE i was still like popping pills and,

858
00:43:27,040 --> 00:43:29,239
Speaker 3: Shit i've just been sitting on them for three. YEARS i,

859
00:43:29,320 --> 00:43:30,320
Speaker 3: thought why not release?

860
00:43:30,360 --> 00:43:33,120
Speaker 1: THEM i think it's. Great so that's Who moe. Is SO.

861
00:43:34,960 --> 00:43:38,000
Speaker 3: I shook it to my very. Core IF i can

862
00:43:38,040 --> 00:43:42,440
Speaker 3: get some inside stories from the, penitent yeah you. Should.

863
00:43:43,040 --> 00:43:44,400
Speaker 3: Yeah love it.

864
00:43:46,080 --> 00:43:50,160
Speaker 1: To. Mo thanks for the, content. Buddy in other, news

865
00:43:50,200 --> 00:43:52,120
Speaker 1: WHEN i was In, NEWPORT i saw the headline come

866
00:43:52,160 --> 00:43:54,920
Speaker 1: through That Jelly roll And bunny ix so are getting, divorced.

867
00:43:54,560 --> 00:43:57,040
Speaker 3: AND i was so. SHOCKED i was, shocked and THEN

868
00:43:57,040 --> 00:44:00,560
Speaker 3: i was sad to hear her. Side, well tell us

869
00:44:00,600 --> 00:44:06,400
Speaker 3: about her. Side it wasn't, mutual it was one. Sided

870
00:44:07,280 --> 00:44:07,839
Speaker 3: she didn't want.

871
00:44:07,880 --> 00:44:11,359
Speaker 1: It, well she, SAID i feel LIKE i always loved

872
00:44:11,440 --> 00:44:13,359
Speaker 1: my husband a little more than he loved.

873
00:44:13,440 --> 00:44:18,040
Speaker 3: Me, yeah and then to see, Like I'm i'm sorry

874
00:44:18,200 --> 00:44:20,160
Speaker 3: she was with you when you were he.

875
00:44:20,280 --> 00:44:22,520
Speaker 1: Was a, bigger a bigger. Guy and then he knew,

876
00:44:22,560 --> 00:44:26,600
Speaker 1: that like it was a health, issue so that and

877
00:44:26,680 --> 00:44:30,800
Speaker 1: it's like and THEN i started booking really huge collaborations.

878
00:44:29,960 --> 00:44:32,000
Speaker 3: With like really big. Artist, yeah and it's, like you

879
00:44:32,160 --> 00:44:34,040
Speaker 3: had A ride Or die and it's LIKE i feel

880
00:44:34,080 --> 00:44:36,680
Speaker 3: like you think you outgrew her or something or there's

881
00:44:36,760 --> 00:44:38,520
Speaker 3: better out, there and it's, like, dude you had the.

882
00:44:38,719 --> 00:44:42,279
Speaker 3: Best she's So ride Or. Die she's. BEAUTIFUL i bet

883
00:44:42,360 --> 00:44:42,799
Speaker 3: She's AND.

884
00:44:42,800 --> 00:44:45,600
Speaker 1: I think she was down for like open relationship type

885
00:44:45,680 --> 00:44:47,440
Speaker 1: not open, relationship but like bringing.

886
00:44:49,080 --> 00:44:51,560
Speaker 3: Which Is But i'm not going to lie to you

887
00:44:51,680 --> 00:44:54,040
Speaker 3: if that was my, wife nobody. Else i'm not sharing

888
00:44:54,120 --> 00:44:57,000
Speaker 3: that with, anybody And i'm not being shared with anybody that's.

889
00:44:57,080 --> 00:45:01,360
Speaker 1: Mine she also talked to on their podcast that they

890
00:45:01,600 --> 00:45:04,400
Speaker 1: fully even though the divorce is, happening they fully intend

891
00:45:04,680 --> 00:45:09,600
Speaker 1: on having a baby via surrogate and agreeing to co.

892
00:45:09,760 --> 00:45:13,200
Speaker 1: Parent And i'm, like, NO i just want to get

893
00:45:13,239 --> 00:45:16,239
Speaker 1: it out to say, no don't do, It, yes don't do.

894
00:45:16,400 --> 00:45:18,400
Speaker 1: That the person that you were once in love, WITH

895
00:45:18,680 --> 00:45:21,200
Speaker 1: i have heard is is not the person you. Divorce

896
00:45:21,239 --> 00:45:22,920
Speaker 1: and even THOUGH i didn't go through a, divorce the

897
00:45:23,040 --> 00:45:26,040
Speaker 1: person that you break up with just in general is

898
00:45:26,200 --> 00:45:30,000
Speaker 1: not the person who you met at the. Beginning the

899
00:45:30,160 --> 00:45:34,520
Speaker 1: person that you're gonna coparent with is not the parent

900
00:45:34,760 --> 00:45:36,440
Speaker 1: you thought you were going to. HAVE i really hope they.

901
00:45:36,440 --> 00:45:40,640
Speaker 3: Don't just do, It just do it by. Yourself, yeah

902
00:45:41,440 --> 00:45:43,120
Speaker 3: if you want a. Baby but by the, way he's

903
00:45:43,160 --> 00:45:45,600
Speaker 3: always on the Road's i'm, like what do you mean

904
00:45:45,719 --> 00:45:46,600
Speaker 3: you're now seeing.

905
00:45:46,440 --> 00:45:51,000
Speaker 1: Now you're giving this never going to be around, Success.

906
00:45:50,360 --> 00:45:52,239
Speaker 3: But, like there's my. Thing it's, like you might as

907
00:45:52,280 --> 00:45:55,160
Speaker 3: well just do it yourself and not have him, attached

908
00:45:55,239 --> 00:45:57,080
Speaker 3: BECAUSE i don't think he's going to give you. Much,

909
00:45:57,840 --> 00:46:00,200
Speaker 3: no he. Can't he's always on the, road the.

910
00:46:00,239 --> 00:46:03,840
Speaker 1: Performer now you're gonna have to ask him for permission

911
00:46:04,000 --> 00:46:08,080
Speaker 1: for things like school and freaking. Medical you want a,

912
00:46:08,160 --> 00:46:11,280
Speaker 1: baby go have it on your, own or go find

913
00:46:11,480 --> 00:46:14,120
Speaker 1: like the love of your life or What I've if

914
00:46:14,200 --> 00:46:17,840
Speaker 1: she is also into, women go have a baby with another.

915
00:46:17,880 --> 00:46:18,839
Speaker 1: Woman mm.

916
00:46:18,880 --> 00:46:21,320
Speaker 3: Hmmm, yeah we just were so in.

917
00:46:21,440 --> 00:46:26,359
Speaker 1: Sync we think, ALIKE i don't, know have a baby

918
00:46:26,400 --> 00:46:29,759
Speaker 1: with your. BESTIE i have a baby just, so that's

919
00:46:29,760 --> 00:46:32,279
Speaker 1: WHAT i. RECOMMEND a baby with, him a baby with your,

920
00:46:32,320 --> 00:46:35,640
Speaker 1: mom who with your brother or your, Sister that's WHAT i.

921
00:46:35,800 --> 00:46:41,400
Speaker 1: Recommend easiest co parent exiguation and villain on the. Planet all,

922
00:46:41,480 --> 00:46:43,680
Speaker 1: right let's jump to our aches and relief of the.

923
00:46:43,719 --> 00:46:45,759
Speaker 1: Week do you have an ache te? Teeth?

924
00:46:46,200 --> 00:46:48,920
Speaker 3: Yeah this and needing to get my life. Together my

925
00:46:49,080 --> 00:46:51,800
Speaker 3: ache is me not being smart this, uh this past

926
00:46:51,880 --> 00:46:55,680
Speaker 3: week on. Sunscreen i'm feeling. It last NIGHT i was

927
00:46:55,800 --> 00:47:01,359
Speaker 3: hot as could. Be and my relief of the week,

928
00:47:02,640 --> 00:47:08,000
Speaker 3: is honestly mom's doctor's. Appointments, OKAY i like. That, YEAH

929
00:47:08,120 --> 00:47:11,120
Speaker 3: i think we're going to get some answers for. Her

930
00:47:11,280 --> 00:47:13,880
Speaker 3: and it's not like for, me it's. Not, YEAH i

931
00:47:13,920 --> 00:47:16,719
Speaker 3: think my relief is for somebody, else AND i hope

932
00:47:16,719 --> 00:47:18,880
Speaker 3: it's for my mother to get some. Answers, yeah and

933
00:47:18,960 --> 00:47:20,279
Speaker 3: that would be a relief for me for the.

934
00:47:20,320 --> 00:47:23,120
Speaker 1: WEEK i Think i'm having so much anxiety right. Now,

935
00:47:23,400 --> 00:47:25,880
Speaker 1: Well i've had anxiety this whole. Reside here's the, thing

936
00:47:25,960 --> 00:47:29,440
Speaker 1: it's just it's not my. Mother but the sad thing

937
00:47:29,600 --> 00:47:33,680
Speaker 1: is is my mother knows it's not. Her. Yeah and

938
00:47:34,520 --> 00:47:36,160
Speaker 1: a lot of you guys have been asking for her

939
00:47:36,239 --> 00:47:38,439
Speaker 1: to be on the, podcast and you're, saying like she looks.

940
00:47:38,520 --> 00:47:41,120
Speaker 1: GREAT i, like did she have a? Facelift not a hip?

941
00:47:41,200 --> 00:47:46,320
Speaker 1: Surgery and, like my mom does not look like my.

942
00:47:46,480 --> 00:47:48,680
Speaker 1: Mother my mom is not acting like my. Mother and

943
00:47:48,800 --> 00:47:50,160
Speaker 1: as much AS i want to get her on the,

944
00:47:50,200 --> 00:47:52,160
Speaker 1: PODCAST i don't even think she could be on the

945
00:47:52,200 --> 00:47:56,560
Speaker 1: podcast right. Now my ache is definitely my mom BECAUSE

946
00:47:56,600 --> 00:48:00,520
Speaker 1: i like do not recognize her at, all And i'm really.

947
00:48:00,560 --> 00:48:05,560
Speaker 3: Scared i'm like really really, scared and.

948
00:48:05,600 --> 00:48:07,920
Speaker 1: This morning because she just got back From newport last

949
00:48:08,040 --> 00:48:10,239
Speaker 1: night and she's really trying to like be out and

950
00:48:10,280 --> 00:48:13,640
Speaker 1: about and keep her mental, strong but like she has

951
00:48:14,000 --> 00:48:17,480
Speaker 1: tremors and she feels foggy and she's having a lot of.

952
00:48:17,520 --> 00:48:21,360
Speaker 1: Anxiety the sleep abnea mask is not. Helping SO i

953
00:48:21,520 --> 00:48:23,520
Speaker 1: did look at your GUYS'S dms and.

954
00:48:23,960 --> 00:48:29,640
Speaker 3: Because the CLAUSTROPHOBIA i could, work, yes but the, claustrophobia.

955
00:48:29,120 --> 00:48:32,680
Speaker 1: My amazing our amazing listeners talked about like a mouthguard

956
00:48:32,719 --> 00:48:35,160
Speaker 1: that she goes in tomorrow to explore and hopefully we

957
00:48:35,239 --> 00:48:38,920
Speaker 1: can get. Her that she comes home last night and

958
00:48:39,040 --> 00:48:41,279
Speaker 1: we wake up this morning And i'm making coffee AND

959
00:48:41,320 --> 00:48:43,279
Speaker 1: i asked her how she's, feeling and she, said you,

960
00:48:43,320 --> 00:48:46,600
Speaker 1: KNOW i googled and then she just loses it and, said,

961
00:48:47,160 --> 00:48:49,880
Speaker 1: Like i'm really worried THAT i have parkin since BECAUSE

962
00:48:50,560 --> 00:48:54,040
Speaker 1: i have a lot of those symptoms And i'm, like

963
00:48:54,160 --> 00:48:55,200
Speaker 1: really pranking To god that.

964
00:48:55,280 --> 00:48:58,239
Speaker 3: It's not THAT i will say right. Now my mother

965
00:48:58,320 --> 00:49:00,560
Speaker 3: has been to enough doctor's appointments THAT i think this

966
00:49:00,640 --> 00:49:03,680
Speaker 3: would have been pinpointed. ALREADY i don't know saying this and.

967
00:49:03,760 --> 00:49:07,600
Speaker 1: THAT i called her doctor like very early this, morning

968
00:49:07,640 --> 00:49:09,760
Speaker 1: AND i, said you, know this is what she's feeling.

969
00:49:09,960 --> 00:49:12,719
Speaker 1: Like AND i know that we've done blood, work but

970
00:49:12,880 --> 00:49:16,920
Speaker 1: she googled and now she's worried About Parkinson's and he,

971
00:49:16,960 --> 00:49:19,960
Speaker 1: said is there any family? History AND i, said, yeah her.

972
00:49:20,000 --> 00:49:22,640
Speaker 1: Grandmother so he, SAID i want her to go into

973
00:49:22,719 --> 00:49:25,240
Speaker 1: a neurologist two. Days so after we wrap this, Episode

974
00:49:25,320 --> 00:49:27,960
Speaker 1: easton AND i are going to take her to that doctor's.

975
00:49:27,960 --> 00:49:31,400
Speaker 1: Appointment so just, LIKE i don't, know.

976
00:49:31,520 --> 00:49:33,120
Speaker 3: Send good vibes and. PRAY i.

977
00:49:33,200 --> 00:49:33,880
Speaker 1: GUESS i don't. KNOW.

978
00:49:34,840 --> 00:49:38,040
Speaker 3: M i'm freaking out, though mm.

979
00:49:38,120 --> 00:49:41,640
Speaker 6: Hmm and my, RELIEF i guess is, just you, know

980
00:49:42,160 --> 00:49:45,759
Speaker 6: one more doctor's appointment that we can check off the

981
00:49:45,880 --> 00:49:48,200
Speaker 6: list and hopefully it's nothing and we will get to.

982
00:49:48,200 --> 00:49:48,719
Speaker 3: The bottom of.

983
00:49:48,800 --> 00:49:56,279
Speaker 6: It i'm just feeling very. NERVOUS. M, Sorry, no you're.

984
00:49:56,360 --> 00:50:01,720
Speaker 6: GOOD i MEAN i feel nervous and just worried about

985
00:50:01,760 --> 00:50:05,840
Speaker 6: her and she's she was really really struggling this, morning

986
00:50:06,040 --> 00:50:09,000
Speaker 6: just like sobbing with her whole.

987
00:50:09,080 --> 00:50:13,200
Speaker 3: Body it was really hard to. Watch, Anyway.

988
00:50:15,000 --> 00:50:20,520
Speaker 6: I'm gonna keep positive thoughts and just put positive energy

989
00:50:20,560 --> 00:50:24,480
Speaker 6: out there that my mom is, gonna you, know bounce,

990
00:50:24,600 --> 00:50:27,640
Speaker 6: back and maybe this is just a reaction to a

991
00:50:27,719 --> 00:50:28,680
Speaker 6: foreign object in her.

992
00:50:28,760 --> 00:50:29,799
Speaker 1: BODY i don't.

993
00:50:29,800 --> 00:50:33,360
Speaker 3: Know that's the other thing THAT i keep telling everybody

994
00:50:33,680 --> 00:50:36,680
Speaker 3: in this family IS i was there WHEN i picked

995
00:50:36,719 --> 00:50:39,040
Speaker 3: up my mom from the, hip and they, said three

996
00:50:39,160 --> 00:50:45,520
Speaker 3: months is like when you start to feel better and get.

997
00:50:45,600 --> 00:50:48,320
Speaker 3: Better some people are better at three. Months and he

998
00:50:48,400 --> 00:50:50,280
Speaker 3: looked at me and he, said but with her, age

999
00:50:50,760 --> 00:50:53,360
Speaker 3: it could be six months to a, year because a

1000
00:50:53,440 --> 00:50:55,879
Speaker 3: lot of people do take a full. Year my mom

1001
00:50:56,000 --> 00:51:00,920
Speaker 3: is at two. Months, Yeah AND i tell, her like

1002
00:51:01,160 --> 00:51:04,000
Speaker 3: because she, can't she won't just sit, out like she won't.

1003
00:51:04,160 --> 00:51:05,719
Speaker 1: Wants to crawl out of her own. Skin and she,

1004
00:51:05,760 --> 00:51:07,719
Speaker 1: SAID i feel like my feet are on fire and

1005
00:51:07,800 --> 00:51:10,200
Speaker 1: there's pins and needles in, them and like when she

1006
00:51:10,400 --> 00:51:16,279
Speaker 1: goes to do anything like even yawn like. Face but

1007
00:51:16,360 --> 00:51:19,840
Speaker 1: WHEN i was hugging, her LIKE i know she was,

1008
00:51:19,960 --> 00:51:21,960
Speaker 1: crying but you could it was almost like there were

1009
00:51:22,040 --> 00:51:23,319
Speaker 1: tremors on the inside of her.

1010
00:51:23,400 --> 00:51:28,920
Speaker 3: Body, YEAH i JUST i, mean there's obviously a solution to,

1011
00:51:28,960 --> 00:51:32,360
Speaker 3: EVERYTHING i feel, like and we'll find. It but the

1012
00:51:32,440 --> 00:51:34,040
Speaker 3: one THING i always want mom to do is like

1013
00:51:34,360 --> 00:51:36,480
Speaker 3: give YOUR i, know your feet her And i'm, sorry

1014
00:51:36,560 --> 00:51:39,839
Speaker 3: but LIKE i need you to give Yourself grace's in two,

1015
00:51:39,960 --> 00:51:42,960
Speaker 3: Months you're allowed to go up on the. Couch you're

1016
00:51:42,960 --> 00:51:46,280
Speaker 3: allowed to just sit there and watch a show at eleven. Am,

1017
00:51:46,920 --> 00:51:52,160
Speaker 3: one put your feet, up order some. FOOD I i

1018
00:51:52,320 --> 00:51:54,840
Speaker 3: just want my mom to take care of herself because

1019
00:51:54,840 --> 00:51:58,440
Speaker 3: she never. Has, yeah but WHEN i told, her you

1020
00:51:58,640 --> 00:52:02,520
Speaker 3: were not prepared for this in any. Capacity BUT i have,

1021
00:52:03,800 --> 00:52:06,680
Speaker 3: hope AND i have high, hope AND i feel good about,

1022
00:52:06,719 --> 00:52:09,040
Speaker 3: it AND i feel like we'll say.

1023
00:52:08,920 --> 00:52:11,920
Speaker 1: Get back, yeah And i'll keep you guys posted on

1024
00:52:12,040 --> 00:52:17,240
Speaker 1: what that doctor's appointment looks like. Today i'm really hopeful

1025
00:52:17,280 --> 00:52:19,560
Speaker 1: that that's not. It but we just have to keep

1026
00:52:19,719 --> 00:52:22,839
Speaker 1: like doing the process of elimination until we get down

1027
00:52:22,880 --> 00:52:24,759
Speaker 1: to the bottom of. It so my my relief is

1028
00:52:24,880 --> 00:52:29,239
Speaker 1: definitely THAT i know with every doctor's appointment that we

1029
00:52:29,440 --> 00:52:33,680
Speaker 1: check off the, list we're closer to finding out what's

1030
00:52:33,960 --> 00:52:36,920
Speaker 1: what's going on with my. Mama, ANYWAY i love you

1031
00:52:37,000 --> 00:52:39,360
Speaker 1: guys so. Much thank you for listening to another episode

1032
00:52:39,400 --> 00:52:41,840
Speaker 1: Of Untraditionally. Lala we're gonna catch you On monday for the.

1033
00:52:41,920 --> 00:52:46,400
Speaker 1: Bonus remember regular episodes air Every, wednesday And An Unlikely

1034
00:52:46,440 --> 00:52:49,400
Speaker 1: affair With myself And Amber childers is Every thursday night

1035
00:52:49,440 --> 00:52:51,160
Speaker 1: at nine. Pm love you. Guys, bye