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Speaker 1: My fiance called off our wedding a week before. What

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Speaker 1: do I do?

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Speaker 2: I keep it called off?

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Speaker 1: Just bulldoze it trying to get married? This comes from

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Speaker 1: wild lavishness. Forty forty four says So my fiance, my

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Speaker 1: ex fiance, male thirty, has canceled our female thirty wedding

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Speaker 1: a week before it is taking place.

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Speaker 2: That is rough.

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Speaker 1: We have been together for six years and live together.

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Speaker 1: For context, is this a throwback to the last story?

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Speaker 1: Oh god? What happened basically was an argument that escalated.

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Speaker 1: We were heading to my program graduation. It's a smaller

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Speaker 1: event of about ten students and some professors from a

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Speaker 1: community college. On that morning, as we were getting ready,

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Speaker 1: I asked if he would be okay to wear one

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Speaker 1: of his button up shirts instead of the shirt he

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Speaker 1: had on so we could have a nice photo. He

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Speaker 1: was annoyed and snapped, why do I have to do

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Speaker 1: things for others? Why do I have to care.

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Speaker 2: About other people?

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Speaker 1: That's such a funny re sense, so funny, I would

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Speaker 2: I would be like, that is out a society.

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Speaker 1: I told him that he truly doesn't have to. I

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Speaker 1: was just asking, but it's ultimately his choice. You can do.

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Speaker 2: Whatever you want if you're ready for the consequence.

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Speaker 1: Yeah, right.

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Speaker 2: You can punch someone in the face if you're ready

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Speaker 2: for the.

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Speaker 1: Consecut You could put a button up shirt if you're

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Speaker 1: ready to be subject to being a dentured servant to society.

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Speaker 1: He ended up putting the button up as we arrived

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Speaker 1: at the ceremony, so annoying.

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Speaker 2: He just he just threw a fit and then did it.

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Speaker 1: Anyway, I bet he's like shirt button up, that's definitely him.

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Speaker 1: Right now, Everything went fine and he was happy for me. However,

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Speaker 1: on the way home, alway, is it a graduation for

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Speaker 1: op or for him? Like we were heading tom.

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Speaker 2: Heading to my program graduation?

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Speaker 1: Thank you, Sophia. However, on the way home in the car,

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Speaker 1: traffic was filling up, and he was annoyed and also

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Speaker 1: really quick. Even more context, I feel like, because you're

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Speaker 1: celebrating your partner's graduation, that's even more of a reason

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Speaker 1: for you to like It's like it's like when it's

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Speaker 1: someone's birthday and they're like, hey, I want to go

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Speaker 1: to this restaurant. You're not gonna be like ill, what's yeah?

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Speaker 2: Yeah, that's good, Like a really fancy restaurant, Like.

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Speaker 1: Why can't I wear my assles chaps and dinner with

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Speaker 1: your parents for your birthday? Come on, I'm not I

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Speaker 1: have to express myself.

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Speaker 2: What are to care about your birthday?

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Speaker 1: Right? That's basically what this is? Even like a graduation,

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Speaker 1: that's like once in a lifetime maybe, yeah, my god,

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Speaker 1: that's a big deal.

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Speaker 2: Also, program graduation, I think it is even more special

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Speaker 2: than very intimate, yeah, because I mean when I had

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Speaker 2: my theater graduation, it was like forty people who were

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Speaker 2: graduating graduating.

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Speaker 1: This is ten. That's even very intimate. Yeah. However, on

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Speaker 1: the way home in traffic, traffic was filling up and

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Speaker 1: he was annoyed. I offered it an alternative route that

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Speaker 1: I know cut some time. Uh, and the exit to

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Speaker 1: that root was coming up. He didn't take it, and

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Speaker 1: I was slightly annoyed about it because he was cranky

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Speaker 1: with me about the traffic. We have solutions, So I

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Speaker 1: asked why he didn't take it. He started full on

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Speaker 1: yelling that my tone is rude and that he doesn't

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Speaker 1: have to drive the way I tell him to. Something's

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Speaker 1: going on here, humpins up, there's an ICU, there's an

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Speaker 1: ice you in the chat. I see you in the chat.

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Speaker 2: Put a freaking ice you in the chat?

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Speaker 3: Do it?

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Speaker 2: Because I think this relationship is headed to the ICU.

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Speaker 4: Nice.

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Speaker 2: I made a joke before, but I just thought.

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Speaker 1: You know what it was, It worked perfectly. Honestly, we

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Speaker 1: should say that more.

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Speaker 2: Should say that more what don't we?

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Speaker 1: We we should, I replied, saying that I literally just asked,

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Speaker 1: and I don't actually care what route he takes. He

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Speaker 1: was the one having a problem with traffic. You had

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Speaker 1: a problem. I was trying to help you. He blew

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Speaker 1: up and blamed me for getting him upset. That's very dangerous.

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Speaker 1: When we got home, I apologized and explained that I

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Speaker 1: didn't mean to come across as mien. I also said

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Speaker 1: just talk instead. Yes, everything oh he's saying is very logical.

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Speaker 1: He basically explained that an apology doesn't solve anything, and

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Speaker 1: that he needs such things to not happen, otherwise he

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Speaker 1: I listened to him.

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Speaker 2: Boo, that's unhealthy.

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Speaker 1: Uh, honestly, why would you want to marry this guy?

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Speaker 2: Yeah? I feel like he's showing you the reasons he

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Speaker 2: shouldn't marry you.

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Speaker 1: After a few hours we spoke again. He apologized for yelling,

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Speaker 1: and I apologize for the miscommunication that happened. Despite resolving

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Speaker 1: this quote unquote, later that night, I was crying due

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Speaker 1: to the fact that he so easily yells at me

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Speaker 1: when he's upset.

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Speaker 2: Good Flag.

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Speaker 1: I was so upset that, even on such an important

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Speaker 1: day for me, I felt like he picked fights and

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Speaker 1: adding to this, yelling such a red five for me. Yes,

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Speaker 1: there's no reason to yell, no reason unless there's a

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Speaker 1: truck about to hit you, Yeah, and you need them

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Speaker 1: to jump out of the way.

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Speaker 2: I feel like it's the same kind of like thing

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Speaker 2: as using your horn when you're driving. That is like

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Speaker 2: beeping at someone is used when you're about to get

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Speaker 2: an accident.

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Speaker 1: I actually disagree, and we can talk about this at

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Speaker 1: the end of episode, because that's a great discussion.

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Speaker 2: Yeah yeah, sure, well okay, I was just gonna say

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Speaker 2: it's not for showing the question.

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Speaker 1: But I feel like like there is literally never an

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Speaker 1: acceptable reason to yell at someone. Yeah, you can tell someone, hey,

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Speaker 1: like you did this, this hurt me. What you're doing

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Speaker 1: is wrong. You need to stop, like, like you can

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Speaker 1: communicate with you what it needs to be said. Yeah,

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Speaker 1: but I feel like yelling, especially in a relationship, especially

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Speaker 2: No, I mean it's like you didn't you didn't progress

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Speaker 2: past Toddler. Yes, if you can only the fact that

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Speaker 2: he said the only way that I can communicate with

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Speaker 2: you is through yelling and through arguing.

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Speaker 1: Crazy crazy crazy crazy crazy. So despite resolving this later

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Speaker 1: upset that on even such an important day for me,

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Speaker 1: I felt like he picked fights and adding to this,

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Speaker 1: yelling is such a red flag to me, and I

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Speaker 1: The next morning, we were having breakfast and he asked

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Speaker 1: asked me to please share with him, so I told

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Speaker 1: He immediately just flipped and started getting angry again. Yeah,

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Speaker 1: this guy's trash. He blamed me for the fights, and

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Speaker 1: when I replied that I don't think it's fair to

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Speaker 1: do this and that I'm not a good communicator, literally

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Speaker 1: the opposite, and that he cannot get married like this again.

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Speaker 1: I see you, there's such a nice here. I was

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Speaker 1: full and shocked. I thought he was. I thought he

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Speaker 1: was talking out of emotion like many times before, but

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Speaker 1: this time he actually ended up sending a mass text

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Speaker 1: to some guests to let them know that the wedding

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Speaker 1: is off. Wait, he's done stuff like this before.

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Speaker 2: Girl leave.

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Speaker 1: I was flabberg acid at the quickness and so confused.

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Speaker 1: We started arguing and then had to leave for our days.

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Speaker 1: He literally created this.

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Speaker 2: He created this argument to get up.

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Speaker 1: Now, not of a mole hill. To the extreme. We

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Speaker 1: went from we went from a pebble to Mount Everest

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Speaker 1: like we have a button to button to Mount Everest.

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Speaker 1: Later that day when he returned. When we returned, I

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Speaker 1: asked if this was something he truly wants to do

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Speaker 1: to call everything off, and he responded with a confident yes.

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Speaker 2: Sikes.

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Speaker 1: What I thought was an action out of anger seemed

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Speaker 1: night and the next and the next day. I try

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Speaker 1: to fix things between us. After many hours of talking

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Speaker 1: and lots of crying from my end, he kept explaining

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Speaker 1: that I don't communicate well and that this cancelation was

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Speaker 1: my fault projecting. I tried to offer some solutions, but

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Speaker 1: he was full on with the decision to cancel and

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Speaker 1: break up. He asked if we could give it another

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Speaker 1: day or two to ensure, to ensure this is what

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Speaker 1: he wants before we cancel the venue. He declined and

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Speaker 1: asked to cancel the venue and vendors immediately, so we did.

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Speaker 1: Let's take a pause right here. This isn't a.

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Speaker 2: Freaking pause, and this goes back to the first story. Honestly,

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Speaker 2: there's an underlying through line of if he wants to

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Speaker 2: break up, this is such a coward move.

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Speaker 1: Yeah, mix Mix, wormy red Pill, Like I wonder if

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Speaker 1: this is the classic went down the red red pill

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Speaker 1: rabbit hole. Yeah, and is now just like just it is.

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Speaker 1: It is so annoying and like frustrating, it's so cowardly,

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Speaker 1: like it I hate this. You're you're you're torturing. Just

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Speaker 1: tell your partner. I don't want to be in a relationship.

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Speaker 2: Yes, use your freaking words.

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Speaker 1: Don't don't torture the person with all of this, yes,

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Speaker 1: my goodness, gracious. Oh well, the next day I went

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Speaker 1: on Errand's and then met up with my friend. It

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Speaker 1: was truly such a hard day and I was heartbroken,

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Speaker 1: still digesting that this is happening. When I came home,

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Speaker 1: he asked to talk and started crying that he regrets

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Speaker 1: everything he said in the last few days.

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Speaker 2: Buddy, gaslight, gaslight.

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Speaker 1: Buddy, I don't believe us for a second.

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Speaker 2: The freaking liar.

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Speaker 1: You don't deserve any sympathy because you were so ridiculous.

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Speaker 2: So ridiculous, Oh my gosh. And also now you've involved

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Speaker 2: other people into your argument. You've told people that you're canceling.

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Speaker 2: It's too late.

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Speaker 1: Yes, one hundred percent. Yeah, great point. Great point that

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Speaker 1: he didn't mean it, and he was angry and didn't

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Speaker 1: think straight. He said he will start therapy and wanted

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Speaker 1: to do Compole's counseling now too, after I offered it

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Speaker 1: many times, so Opie's just off this over and over again.

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Speaker 1: He never accepted it anyway. He apologized profusely and kept

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Speaker 1: asking if we can mend everything or whether he eft up.

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Speaker 1: I mean, you definitely fed up. Pal My god, I

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Speaker 1: was almost sure that this regret would come. And honestly,

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Speaker 1: maybe it was mean, but I said, yeah, you effed

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Speaker 1: up big time. You made a rash decision that hurt

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Speaker 1: our relationship big time. There's no going back from here. Yes, honestly,

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Speaker 1: I do not think that that is mean. I think,

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Speaker 1: oh no, I don't think.

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Speaker 2: That's mean at all. I think it needed to be said.

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Speaker 1: It's very like, listen, you messed up, you fed up

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Speaker 1: big time. Yeah, you made rash decisions and that hurt

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Speaker 1: our relationship big time, and there isn't any going back

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Speaker 1: from here. I think that that that was communicated in

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Speaker 1: Yeah, I got a wife me. I'm married to mass

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Speaker 1: That's great. Should I call this quits and move move

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Speaker 1: We don't have any issues aside from such incidents. But

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Speaker 1: Gardening Gnomes sixteen or nine says, you don't want to

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Speaker 1: Huge Find a place to live, extricate yourself financially from him,

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Speaker 1: Absolutely did the fabric tear says like he yells at

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Speaker 1: and finding one with someone who won't hold a relationship hostage.

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Speaker 1: Every time you have an issue. You'll be amazed once

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Speaker 1: you move on, how much better a healthy relationship will

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Speaker 1: be for you. Oh my God, And there, God, there's

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Speaker 1: still more. There's an update five days later. Let's get

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Speaker 1: right into it. I'm dying to know what happens. Thanks

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Speaker 1: to everyone for the comments and support. Since this all happened.

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Speaker 1: He apologized profusely and offered to return the venue and

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Speaker 1: still going to start his own therapy journey while we're

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Speaker 1: to work on his mental health to address this impulsive

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Speaker 1: it's impossible to forgive what has happened torn between trying

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Speaker 2: Do you all breakups be prefaced with an explanation?

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Speaker 1: Should all breakups be prefaced with an explanation? Which you know?

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Speaker 1: it's a good what what? What's what's say? What say? You?

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Speaker 2: Danger, I think that having a moment where you expel

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Speaker 1: That is such a great point. It's it's it's you

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Speaker 1: thinking through Okay, what is the reasons why? Confirms it

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Speaker 1: there wasn't any love in this relationship, but if you

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Speaker 1: for okop Rewam. Karen thought I was a teen mom,

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Speaker 1: I call the police. That's Rice getting the boys in

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Speaker 3: Hey, and then I'm gonna make you black and blue

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Speaker 3: beat you up. That's right, you ass put it into

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Speaker 1: You're gonna have all those regrets. Oh hey, Karen, what

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Speaker 1: the fuck are you wearing? Why the fuck you always staring?

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Speaker 1: I hate you and you call me a slute? Hey,

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Speaker 1: bitch you Karen, you can taste my I'm about to

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Speaker 1: Bye. There we go. That is fucking fire. We're getting there.

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Speaker 3: spot of tea me all our UK fans are gonna

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00:22:28,560 --> 00:22:31,800
Speaker 3: get I gotta get that. I have UK friends, you know.

438
00:22:32,640 --> 00:22:38,399
Speaker 3: And uh and I'm American, so sore I one one

439
00:22:38,600 --> 00:22:40,240
Speaker 3: one time America was England.

440
00:22:41,200 --> 00:22:44,520
Speaker 1: We're like fuck that. So basically you're just hating on

441
00:22:44,560 --> 00:22:45,640
Speaker 1: yourself idiots.

442
00:22:45,720 --> 00:22:51,439
Speaker 3: Yeah, Thommy America is like the cooler, cooler brotherly of

443
00:22:51,480 --> 00:22:51,840
Speaker 3: the UK.

444
00:22:52,000 --> 00:22:56,120
Speaker 1: The UK is Carlton and where will Will Smith. That's

445
00:22:56,160 --> 00:22:57,120
Speaker 1: a very active description.

446
00:22:57,200 --> 00:23:00,159
Speaker 3: Yeah it is, it is. You got it spot on

447
00:23:01,160 --> 00:23:04,800
Speaker 3: on on, good good, Goodmorrow.

448
00:23:04,920 --> 00:23:09,280
Speaker 1: Hello govnor how's the queen and chips and chips, isn't it.

449
00:23:09,320 --> 00:23:11,560
Speaker 5: You want to go see the footy? I don't even

450
00:23:11,600 --> 00:23:15,760
Speaker 5: know football football football I want to see or footy

451
00:23:15,880 --> 00:23:20,160
Speaker 5: is maybe Australian. You see the football.

452
00:23:21,280 --> 00:23:25,640
Speaker 1: Football, you want to eat some some brisket. I put

453
00:23:25,640 --> 00:23:30,639
Speaker 1: it in my my misarranged teeth. Have you seen have

454
00:23:30,720 --> 00:23:34,280
Speaker 1: you seen the Queen lately? I did, and she was

455
00:23:34,720 --> 00:23:36,119
Speaker 1: looking quite fine.

456
00:23:36,240 --> 00:23:42,440
Speaker 3: Let's just say those cheeks clapped and little Queen royally clapped.

457
00:23:42,400 --> 00:23:44,880
Speaker 1: Royally clapped by a good chopping.

458
00:23:48,200 --> 00:23:53,000
Speaker 3: Anyway, it was Wimbledon season, whatever the that means, so

459
00:23:53,040 --> 00:23:55,280
Speaker 3: my mom asked me to take my sister to the

460
00:23:55,280 --> 00:23:57,320
Speaker 3: park for a few hours so she could watch it

461
00:23:57,400 --> 00:24:01,159
Speaker 3: in peace. I'm assuming Wimbledon is the good old FUTA

462
00:24:01,240 --> 00:24:04,320
Speaker 3: Bowl or soccer s s Yanks call it?

463
00:24:04,400 --> 00:24:08,520
Speaker 1: Is that? Or maybe it's the the yeah? Or or

464
00:24:08,880 --> 00:24:14,240
Speaker 1: or is it tennis? What's Wimbledon? Yeah? It's tennis? Okay,

465
00:24:14,280 --> 00:24:18,320
Speaker 1: ship tennis? Sorry?

466
00:24:18,400 --> 00:24:24,680
Speaker 3: Sorry England. Wimbledon season more like, when will you be

467
00:24:24,840 --> 00:24:27,840
Speaker 3: done fucking watching that dumb sport?

468
00:24:28,960 --> 00:24:42,360
Speaker 1: When will you see these nuts? Uh? No, that's it? Okay,

469
00:24:42,680 --> 00:24:44,000
Speaker 1: Well we're going.

470
00:24:44,000 --> 00:24:47,560
Speaker 3: To get to some classic English.

471
00:24:47,680 --> 00:24:49,239
Speaker 1: She gave me some money so we could get some

472
00:24:49,640 --> 00:24:50,120
Speaker 1: fish and.

473
00:24:50,119 --> 00:24:55,119
Speaker 3: Chips down and so ice cream at the park there

474
00:24:55,200 --> 00:24:57,399
Speaker 3: was usually an ice cream vand there, so we.

475
00:24:57,480 --> 00:24:59,840
Speaker 1: Got some fish and chips, fish and chips.

476
00:25:00,359 --> 00:25:01,960
Speaker 3: I went to the beach for a bit to buy

477
00:25:02,080 --> 00:25:05,119
Speaker 3: me mom extra time, and then we headed to the park.

478
00:25:05,880 --> 00:25:10,120
Speaker 3: As we approached the park gate, this entitled mother who

479
00:25:10,200 --> 00:25:15,439
Speaker 3: was dragging along her dumb ass child, glared at me, entitled,

480
00:25:15,440 --> 00:25:19,720
Speaker 3: momb you should be a shinened to be yourself your

481
00:25:20,000 --> 00:25:27,000
Speaker 3: damn freakin' yeah, your little sassy. I wanted to use

482
00:25:27,000 --> 00:25:31,280
Speaker 3: an English word that they could use more often in

483
00:25:31,359 --> 00:25:35,360
Speaker 3: England and Australia, right, but it is not used very

484
00:25:35,359 --> 00:25:39,040
Speaker 3: often in America. You know you know where I'm thinking of.

485
00:25:39,960 --> 00:25:44,160
Speaker 1: Oh yeah, but I'm not. But you know everyone knows.

486
00:25:44,080 --> 00:25:48,359
Speaker 3: Go punt of football? Yeah. I looked around, but there

487
00:25:48,440 --> 00:25:51,520
Speaker 3: was nobody else she could have been talking to. Dumbfounded,

488
00:25:51,720 --> 00:25:55,600
Speaker 3: I blankly pointed to myself, me as up to affirm

489
00:25:55,680 --> 00:25:59,600
Speaker 3: she was talking to me. Girls these days are such

490
00:26:00,520 --> 00:26:03,040
Speaker 3: opening their legs to anyone who asks.

491
00:26:03,320 --> 00:26:04,399
Speaker 1: Who got you knocked up?

492
00:26:04,480 --> 00:26:07,640
Speaker 3: By well, I mean guess you don't freaking know, your

493
00:26:07,640 --> 00:26:13,359
Speaker 3: little dry slip monkey. I stared blankly at her for

494
00:26:13,480 --> 00:26:20,280
Speaker 3: a minute. Me, uh, this is my ill sister. Entitled

495
00:26:20,280 --> 00:26:21,720
Speaker 3: mother rolled.

496
00:26:21,359 --> 00:26:22,560
Speaker 1: Her eyes and loyd at me.

497
00:26:23,880 --> 00:26:29,080
Speaker 3: Yeah, we had little sisters in my day too. I

498
00:26:29,119 --> 00:26:34,000
Speaker 3: love how like like she's getting more like old sailor vine. Yeah.

499
00:26:34,280 --> 00:26:38,240
Speaker 3: I just said uh, okay bye and walked away because

500
00:26:38,280 --> 00:26:41,120
Speaker 3: I was uncomfortable with conflict and just wanted to get

501
00:26:41,119 --> 00:26:41,840
Speaker 3: out of the situation.

502
00:26:42,480 --> 00:26:45,080
Speaker 1: Entitled mother, don't.

503
00:26:44,800 --> 00:26:48,800
Speaker 3: You go into the park and spread your filthy diseases

504
00:26:48,880 --> 00:26:49,440
Speaker 3: all over.

505
00:26:49,320 --> 00:26:50,400
Speaker 1: That slip and slide.

506
00:26:50,680 --> 00:26:53,760
Speaker 3: I don't want my son catching any of these diseases

507
00:26:53,800 --> 00:26:57,040
Speaker 3: that you're carrying in that wizard sleeve you got between

508
00:26:57,080 --> 00:27:01,200
Speaker 3: your legs. I ignored her and rushed into the park.

509
00:27:01,680 --> 00:27:03,919
Speaker 3: Surely she'd leave me alone. When I was surrounded by

510
00:27:03,920 --> 00:27:09,000
Speaker 3: other kids and parents. Right wrong and titled mother followed

511
00:27:09,040 --> 00:27:12,560
Speaker 3: me around the park, demanding that I leave. The more

512
00:27:12,600 --> 00:27:16,080
Speaker 3: I ignored her, the matter she got. She kept repeating.

513
00:27:15,760 --> 00:27:22,720
Speaker 1: Over and over, you're not allowed here. Wow.

514
00:27:22,840 --> 00:27:25,840
Speaker 3: At this point a few parents noticed one mom. Let's

515
00:27:25,840 --> 00:27:29,920
Speaker 3: call her f mum for friend mum. Yeah, yeah, I

516
00:27:30,000 --> 00:27:34,119
Speaker 3: want to f your mom as a friend though, as

517
00:27:34,160 --> 00:27:39,200
Speaker 3: a friend, Yeah yeah, this is a prank. Broprank who

518
00:27:39,280 --> 00:27:42,199
Speaker 3: my mom and I often chatted with immediately stood up

519
00:27:42,240 --> 00:27:46,440
Speaker 3: and rushed over, just as entitled mother grabbed my arm

520
00:27:46,800 --> 00:27:51,000
Speaker 3: and yanked at me. Friend Mom, Why who are you

521
00:27:51,040 --> 00:27:51,879
Speaker 3: grabbing a child?

522
00:27:52,200 --> 00:27:52,679
Speaker 1: Let her go?

523
00:27:52,960 --> 00:27:59,800
Speaker 3: Who are you, entitled mother? My dear freaking business friend, Mom,

524
00:28:00,119 --> 00:28:03,840
Speaker 3: Let her go, I'm calling the police. Entitled mother let

525
00:28:03,920 --> 00:28:06,880
Speaker 3: her go, but turned her anger towards friend Mom, shouting

526
00:28:06,920 --> 00:28:09,639
Speaker 3: that she was just making the park safe for her child,

527
00:28:09,880 --> 00:28:12,240
Speaker 3: and I shouldn't be here because I might spread some

528
00:28:12,359 --> 00:28:15,560
Speaker 3: nasty little diseases all over the place. She never specified

529
00:28:15,800 --> 00:28:19,080
Speaker 3: what disease. I'm just guessing she meant an STI or something.

530
00:28:20,600 --> 00:28:20,800
Speaker 1: More.

531
00:28:20,880 --> 00:28:23,560
Speaker 3: Parents started coming over to see what's going on. Seeing

532
00:28:23,680 --> 00:28:27,000
Speaker 3: she was outnumbered, Entitled mother eventually left, dragging her child

533
00:28:27,000 --> 00:28:30,600
Speaker 3: behind her, screaming obscenities at us as she slinked.

534
00:28:30,359 --> 00:28:35,240
Speaker 1: Away, like real football fish and chip whatever.

535
00:28:35,280 --> 00:28:45,320
Speaker 3: English obscenities are your bloody fool you you dastily custard, you.

536
00:28:47,880 --> 00:28:48,680
Speaker 1: Royal chip?

537
00:28:49,280 --> 00:28:52,880
Speaker 3: Yeah yeah you polished ted.

538
00:28:53,000 --> 00:29:01,920
Speaker 1: Yeah you unpushed onpossibly pokily poopy head. Ooh you are

539
00:29:01,960 --> 00:29:03,720
Speaker 1: a royal poopy head. Yes right.

540
00:29:05,640 --> 00:29:08,080
Speaker 3: Friend Mom gave us a lift home to make sure

541
00:29:08,120 --> 00:29:10,400
Speaker 3: we were safe. When I told my mom what happened,

542
00:29:10,560 --> 00:29:13,640
Speaker 3: she was furious, She packed us into the car and

543
00:29:13,720 --> 00:29:15,920
Speaker 3: drove us around town to look for the woman, but

544
00:29:16,080 --> 00:29:19,080
Speaker 3: we didn't spot her, and thankfully I never saw the

545
00:29:19,120 --> 00:29:19,720
Speaker 3: woman again.

546
00:29:20,840 --> 00:29:21,600
Speaker 1: The audacity.

547
00:29:21,680 --> 00:29:24,520
Speaker 3: The audacity, dude, like like who I go? Like, there's

548
00:29:24,640 --> 00:29:27,320
Speaker 3: so many assumptions that you have to make to go

549
00:29:27,480 --> 00:29:31,440
Speaker 3: from Like I see this girl. It's not even like

550
00:29:31,480 --> 00:29:34,040
Speaker 3: the girl is pregnant. She just like to see this

551
00:29:34,200 --> 00:29:38,800
Speaker 3: girl with a younger girl. And it was like, I've

552
00:29:38,840 --> 00:29:39,880
Speaker 3: seen this one before.

553
00:29:40,040 --> 00:29:41,720
Speaker 1: And you know, it's one thing to make the assumption,

554
00:29:42,160 --> 00:29:45,719
Speaker 1: it's another to follow her and harass her to get

555
00:29:45,720 --> 00:29:48,280
Speaker 1: out of the park, to not spread her diseases, Like like,

556
00:29:49,320 --> 00:29:52,360
Speaker 1: I'm like, bro, you know how does those diseases spread? Right?

557
00:29:52,440 --> 00:29:55,440
Speaker 3: So, like, as long as your son it's fucking opie,

558
00:29:55,680 --> 00:29:56,600
Speaker 3: you're gonna be fine.

559
00:29:56,880 --> 00:29:59,360
Speaker 1: Nah. She she also also you know what you know,

560
00:29:59,400 --> 00:30:01,160
Speaker 1: And I would would have been like, so she was

561
00:30:01,200 --> 00:30:04,440
Speaker 1: like grabbing her or whatever, I'd be like, well, yeah,

562
00:30:04,480 --> 00:30:06,200
Speaker 1: you know, it's it's too bad. I just spread my

563
00:30:06,280 --> 00:30:06,920
Speaker 1: disease to you.

564
00:30:06,960 --> 00:30:12,240
Speaker 3: Now you just got urpies super herpes. You're welcome my

565
00:30:12,360 --> 00:30:12,840
Speaker 3: gift to you.

566
00:30:13,200 --> 00:30:15,760
Speaker 1: I'm definitely doing if that ever happens to me, I'm

567
00:30:15,760 --> 00:30:16,560
Speaker 1: definitely doing that?

568
00:30:16,600 --> 00:30:19,840
Speaker 3: What given? Giving them a super herpes, Giving Karen super herpes,

569
00:30:20,040 --> 00:30:24,960
Speaker 3: give all Karen super hurries for the culture? Okayop? This

570
00:30:25,200 --> 00:30:28,240
Speaker 3: is Okayop, I'm saying O, daughter, and I'm John Fry,

571
00:30:28,360 --> 00:30:32,959
Speaker 3: and today we're telling the scariest stories from REDDITO.

572
00:30:34,560 --> 00:30:38,680
Speaker 1: And John. This is don't look outside on Christmas Eve?

573
00:30:39,440 --> 00:30:43,200
Speaker 1: But I love looking outside on Christmas Eve. Actually there's

574
00:30:43,240 --> 00:30:44,720
Speaker 1: no I was going to say there's snow, but there's

575
00:30:44,720 --> 00:30:47,080
Speaker 1: no snows. There's no snow. There's no snow outside on

576
00:30:47,120 --> 00:30:49,640
Speaker 1: Christmas Eve because we're in Los Angeles.

577
00:30:49,800 --> 00:30:55,720
Speaker 3: That's why you should look outside, folks, trick. We're ruined

578
00:30:55,800 --> 00:30:58,080
Speaker 3: the beauty of Christmas.

579
00:30:58,080 --> 00:30:58,520
Speaker 1: That's right.

580
00:30:58,600 --> 00:31:02,600
Speaker 3: My hands are trembling as I write this because it's cold.

581
00:31:04,000 --> 00:31:07,080
Speaker 1: Come on, bru, because you're scared old.

582
00:31:07,520 --> 00:31:10,800
Speaker 3: I'm hiding in my towel closet. I called the cops,

583
00:31:11,040 --> 00:31:13,680
Speaker 3: but I don't think they'll be here in time. I mean,

584
00:31:14,080 --> 00:31:16,880
Speaker 3: who takes calls on Christmas Eve? And who has a

585
00:31:16,960 --> 00:31:18,840
Speaker 3: towel towel closet?

586
00:31:18,880 --> 00:31:19,880
Speaker 1: You, Richie, rich Bro.

587
00:31:20,040 --> 00:31:22,960
Speaker 3: They probably think I'm some teenager prank calling them since

588
00:31:22,960 --> 00:31:25,440
Speaker 3: I have nothing better to do than take away from

589
00:31:25,480 --> 00:31:28,960
Speaker 3: someone's time on Christmas. Who believe what I have to say?

590
00:31:29,000 --> 00:31:31,000
Speaker 1: Anyway, what do you got to say? Yeah, we'll see.

591
00:31:31,120 --> 00:31:33,280
Speaker 3: Let me back things up and set the scene for you.

592
00:31:33,320 --> 00:31:35,600
Speaker 3: I live alone, two states away from my family. I

593
00:31:35,640 --> 00:31:38,040
Speaker 3: feel terrible for not being able to visit them this year.

594
00:31:38,080 --> 00:31:41,000
Speaker 3: I've been having financial struggles as of recent. Paying off

595
00:31:41,040 --> 00:31:44,520
Speaker 3: student loans is no joke. This is the first time

596
00:31:44,600 --> 00:31:46,240
Speaker 3: I've been able to live on my own. I'm renting

597
00:31:46,280 --> 00:31:50,760
Speaker 3: a cabin in the middle of bum f nowhere with Godson.

598
00:31:51,200 --> 00:31:52,000
Speaker 1: Well, here's the thing.

599
00:31:52,440 --> 00:31:55,080
Speaker 4: If you buy you buy a cabin in middle of

600
00:31:55,080 --> 00:31:57,240
Speaker 4: the nower, you're asking for horror to Yeah.

601
00:31:57,240 --> 00:32:03,080
Speaker 3: You're asking for spooky, spooky Christmas eves. All that's around

602
00:32:03,160 --> 00:32:05,400
Speaker 3: is a convenience store and a bar, So you're either

603
00:32:05,440 --> 00:32:09,440
Speaker 3: getting drunk or you're eating twinkies or both, or both,

604
00:32:09,560 --> 00:32:12,640
Speaker 3: preferably both. Yeah, the place is nice and the rent

605
00:32:12,720 --> 00:32:15,440
Speaker 3: is cheap, so who am I to complaint? One bed,

606
00:32:15,560 --> 00:32:18,920
Speaker 3: one bath in a cramp kitchen that's right behind the living.

607
00:32:18,760 --> 00:32:21,280
Speaker 1: Room would be kind of nice to live in a cabin. Yeah, yeah, yeah,

608
00:32:21,280 --> 00:32:23,120
Speaker 1: I mean if it's warm, I got a fireplace.

609
00:32:23,240 --> 00:32:27,400
Speaker 3: Yeah, Oh, the living room has a nice fireplace too.

610
00:32:28,040 --> 00:32:29,920
Speaker 3: It keeps the house warm all through the night. So

611
00:32:30,000 --> 00:32:32,680
Speaker 3: now you've got the picture. I need to share my experience,

612
00:32:32,960 --> 00:32:35,160
Speaker 3: no matter how few people see it. I didn't have

613
00:32:35,240 --> 00:32:38,040
Speaker 3: big plans for the holidays. Stay at home, watch TV,

614
00:32:38,280 --> 00:32:41,120
Speaker 3: and eat some frozen pizza if I was lucky. That's sad,

615
00:32:41,400 --> 00:32:43,680
Speaker 3: I know, bro, Oh, you gotta you gotta get it

616
00:32:43,760 --> 00:32:45,000
Speaker 3: more festive, at.

617
00:32:44,800 --> 00:32:47,240
Speaker 1: Least at least make a Christmas tree or some ham

618
00:32:47,560 --> 00:32:50,960
Speaker 1: I don't know, mashed potatoes.

619
00:32:50,560 --> 00:32:54,520
Speaker 3: No big fancy desert, no big fancy dinner, no visitors,

620
00:32:54,600 --> 00:32:55,520
Speaker 3: Just an average night.

621
00:32:55,760 --> 00:32:57,640
Speaker 1: That's just what happened.

622
00:33:00,360 --> 00:33:02,680
Speaker 3: I came back on the couch with pizza in hand

623
00:33:02,720 --> 00:33:06,000
Speaker 3: and watched Christmas movies until my eyes grew heavy. But

624
00:33:06,040 --> 00:33:08,440
Speaker 3: then I was awakened by a knock at the door.

625
00:33:08,480 --> 00:33:10,640
Speaker 3: And around eleven forty five knocks at the door. Loan

626
00:33:10,760 --> 00:33:14,160
Speaker 3: forty five, don't answer. It's not a cabin in the woods,

627
00:33:14,600 --> 00:33:18,240
Speaker 3: running like who's knocking. You're in the middle of nowhere.

628
00:33:18,440 --> 00:33:20,680
Speaker 3: It's dark and snow be out per usual this time

629
00:33:20,720 --> 00:33:24,640
Speaker 3: of year. I don't get visitors, ope he nor could

630
00:33:24,640 --> 00:33:26,760
Speaker 3: I see who it was. So I looked out the

631
00:33:26,840 --> 00:33:30,000
Speaker 3: small window in the living room, frost cloaked the glass,

632
00:33:30,280 --> 00:33:32,680
Speaker 3: making it kind of hard to see who was waiting

633
00:33:32,680 --> 00:33:35,520
Speaker 3: for my answer. I could make out a human like figure.

634
00:33:35,640 --> 00:33:37,840
Speaker 3: My gut was telling me to stay the hell away

635
00:33:37,920 --> 00:33:39,840
Speaker 3: from what was at the door. Before I even got

636
00:33:39,880 --> 00:33:42,120
Speaker 3: a chance to move, the snow was falling so heavily

637
00:33:42,320 --> 00:33:44,400
Speaker 3: that it was hard to see anything beyond six feet

638
00:33:44,440 --> 00:33:47,640
Speaker 3: from my house. I trusted my gut and moved to

639
00:33:47,680 --> 00:33:49,480
Speaker 3: my room. So hope he's not having any of it.

640
00:33:49,560 --> 00:33:51,320
Speaker 3: He's not going towards that door.

641
00:33:51,400 --> 00:33:53,480
Speaker 4: For a second, I thought I was gonna say my

642
00:33:53,520 --> 00:33:56,560
Speaker 4: gut was telling me this, but instead I did, Yeah, road,

643
00:33:56,600 --> 00:33:57,440
Speaker 4: trust your gun.

644
00:33:57,840 --> 00:34:00,000
Speaker 1: Your gun knows okay, He followed his guy.

645
00:34:00,680 --> 00:34:02,680
Speaker 3: I began to think I was a bad person for

646
00:34:02,800 --> 00:34:05,920
Speaker 3: leaving whoever was out there in an icy mess. Just

647
00:34:05,960 --> 00:34:09,520
Speaker 3: as the thought entered my mind, the knocking grew louder.

648
00:34:09,719 --> 00:34:12,040
Speaker 3: I covered my ears in response to the noise beyond

649
00:34:12,040 --> 00:34:14,960
Speaker 3: my door. I faced away, but it only got worse.

650
00:34:16,040 --> 00:34:18,960
Speaker 3: Bang bang bang. I was right to trust my goat,

651
00:34:19,760 --> 00:34:25,160
Speaker 3: I was I always trust my goat, I said, no, really,

652
00:34:26,040 --> 00:34:28,839
Speaker 3: I was right to trust my gut. I shouldn't open

653
00:34:28,880 --> 00:34:31,799
Speaker 3: the door. I can't let this go on. I exhaled

654
00:34:31,800 --> 00:34:34,880
Speaker 3: deeply and threw my legs over the bed and reluctantly

655
00:34:34,920 --> 00:34:37,840
Speaker 3: shuffled over to my door. I twisted the knob outside.

656
00:34:37,880 --> 00:34:40,680
Speaker 3: The cold weather nipped at my face as a reply hello,

657
00:34:41,120 --> 00:34:43,480
Speaker 3: I peered through the crack. Hi, the person started. I

658
00:34:43,520 --> 00:34:45,960
Speaker 3: began to make out facial features and realized it was

659
00:34:46,000 --> 00:34:46,840
Speaker 3: a young woman.

660
00:34:47,000 --> 00:34:51,799
Speaker 1: Oh, oh, okay, I should redo that high because it's

661
00:34:51,840 --> 00:34:52,399
Speaker 1: a young woman.

662
00:34:52,520 --> 00:34:57,400
Speaker 3: Yeah, so let's run it back. Oh, very good, person started.

663
00:34:57,480 --> 00:35:00,560
Speaker 3: I began to make out facial characteristics in real it

664
00:35:00,600 --> 00:35:01,360
Speaker 3: was a young woman.

665
00:35:01,560 --> 00:35:04,680
Speaker 1: My car broke down and this seemed like a good

666
00:35:04,760 --> 00:35:08,920
Speaker 1: place to seek shelter. Oh, yeah, you can seek shelter.

667
00:35:09,080 --> 00:35:13,520
Speaker 3: Ah you wam, baby, you get warm the night. That

668
00:35:13,680 --> 00:35:16,240
Speaker 3: was a red flag for me. There's a convenience store

669
00:35:16,239 --> 00:35:18,680
Speaker 3: in a bar within a mile of each other. Why

670
00:35:18,719 --> 00:35:20,520
Speaker 3: show up to a random house for help?

671
00:35:20,520 --> 00:35:20,719
Speaker 1: Now?

672
00:35:20,800 --> 00:35:23,960
Speaker 3: I consider myself a nice guy, but the holidays don't

673
00:35:23,960 --> 00:35:26,600
Speaker 3: make me a giving person. I don't like my sleep

674
00:35:26,640 --> 00:35:27,560
Speaker 3: being interrupted.

675
00:35:27,800 --> 00:35:28,759
Speaker 1: Yeah, I hear that.

676
00:35:28,840 --> 00:35:31,920
Speaker 3: I wasn't sure how to respond, and her behavior was off,

677
00:35:32,120 --> 00:35:34,640
Speaker 3: to say the least. She was glancing over her shoulder

678
00:35:34,880 --> 00:35:37,400
Speaker 3: as if she could see anything through the darkness and snow.

679
00:35:37,520 --> 00:35:39,760
Speaker 3: I don't like that I can give you a number

680
00:35:39,760 --> 00:35:42,200
Speaker 3: for a towing company. There should be an inn at

681
00:35:42,280 --> 00:35:44,600
Speaker 3: least a few miles from here. The towing company can

682
00:35:44,640 --> 00:35:48,800
Speaker 3: take you. She didn't seem satisfied. Are you sure, she inquired,

683
00:35:49,440 --> 00:35:52,279
Speaker 3: It's awfully cold out here, and I don't know how

684
00:35:52,320 --> 00:35:55,160
Speaker 3: long it will take them to get here. She began

685
00:35:55,200 --> 00:35:58,080
Speaker 3: to look more paranoid. Her eyes darted from side to side,

686
00:35:58,160 --> 00:36:00,799
Speaker 3: up and down. It's really freaking me out. Listen, hon,

687
00:36:00,920 --> 00:36:02,440
Speaker 3: my house is a wreck, and it's the middle of

688
00:36:02,480 --> 00:36:04,719
Speaker 3: the night. I'm sorry. I know it's the holidays, but

689
00:36:04,800 --> 00:36:07,080
Speaker 3: I have a thing about letting strangers into my.

690
00:36:07,040 --> 00:36:10,440
Speaker 1: House, which damn straight. Yeah, have you seen the purge?

691
00:36:11,080 --> 00:36:14,040
Speaker 1: Don't let anyone into your house? Good for Opie putting

692
00:36:14,040 --> 00:36:14,560
Speaker 1: his food down.

693
00:36:14,600 --> 00:36:18,720
Speaker 3: I immediately regretted saying those words. Her fear turned to anger.

694
00:36:18,840 --> 00:36:22,279
Speaker 3: At this point, she became hysterical. She kicked, punched, and

695
00:36:22,320 --> 00:36:25,440
Speaker 3: beat my door, trying to force herself in. Her polite

696
00:36:25,480 --> 00:36:33,000
Speaker 3: words were now screams, God, no, thank you. The Jane

697
00:36:33,080 --> 00:36:36,200
Speaker 3: Doe at my door pounded harder and harder. Seemed like

698
00:36:36,200 --> 00:36:37,920
Speaker 3: my door was about to break. What the hell are

699
00:36:37,960 --> 00:36:39,680
Speaker 3: you supposed to do in this situation? So In the

700
00:36:39,680 --> 00:36:41,800
Speaker 3: spur of the moment, I just locked the door. The

701
00:36:41,880 --> 00:36:46,560
Speaker 3: knob rattled violently, then stopped abruptly. I picked up my

702
00:36:46,600 --> 00:36:49,839
Speaker 3: phone and alerted authorities that there was a maniac woman

703
00:36:49,880 --> 00:36:53,160
Speaker 3: outside my house. At this point, I figured she had

704
00:36:53,200 --> 00:36:55,319
Speaker 3: given up and left, so I sat down in front

705
00:36:55,320 --> 00:36:57,480
Speaker 3: of the TV and tried to enjoy the rest of

706
00:36:57,480 --> 00:37:01,799
Speaker 3: the night. I pondered why was she so upset? No

707
00:37:01,960 --> 00:37:05,759
Speaker 3: family trauma, None of the theories added up. Just as

708
00:37:05,800 --> 00:37:09,279
Speaker 3: my thinking concluded and I began to relax, I heard

709
00:37:09,280 --> 00:37:13,160
Speaker 3: a faint sound, a sound that was so quiet but

710
00:37:13,280 --> 00:37:16,240
Speaker 3: seems so loud. It was the shuffling of snow outside

711
00:37:16,239 --> 00:37:20,520
Speaker 3: my window. I pulled my blinds back and peeked outside. Oh,

712
00:37:20,840 --> 00:37:23,360
Speaker 3: the dim light from the street lamps shone onto my

713
00:37:23,400 --> 00:37:27,280
Speaker 3: white lawn. The woman was making a circle in the snow.

714
00:37:27,400 --> 00:37:30,279
Speaker 1: A circle. What kind of aliens are you to do?

715
00:37:30,320 --> 00:37:33,400
Speaker 1: Some crop circles? We gotta stop. Demons are being summoned

716
00:37:33,440 --> 00:37:36,520
Speaker 1: in my front on leave. This is not okay.

717
00:37:36,719 --> 00:37:39,640
Speaker 3: I squinted, trying not to reveal my presence. My eyes

718
00:37:39,719 --> 00:37:42,359
Speaker 3: began to adjust to the darkness outside. It was now

719
00:37:42,440 --> 00:37:45,600
Speaker 3: one am. There were symbols I couldn't recognize and a

720
00:37:45,760 --> 00:37:47,920
Speaker 3: large pentagram in the center.

721
00:37:48,280 --> 00:37:49,880
Speaker 1: This lady's summoned in satan.

722
00:37:50,400 --> 00:37:54,200
Speaker 4: I'm a goodness sleep, oh my God, in my creepy

723
00:37:54,239 --> 00:37:54,880
Speaker 4: ass cavin.

724
00:37:55,120 --> 00:37:58,480
Speaker 3: When she finished her artwork, she looked right at me.

725
00:37:58,800 --> 00:38:01,480
Speaker 3: She was staring into my soul. Her gaze sent her

726
00:38:01,520 --> 00:38:05,399
Speaker 3: gaze sent chills down my spine. Her mouth opened at

727
00:38:05,480 --> 00:38:11,120
Speaker 3: inhuman angles. Just then a scream was released. I fell

728
00:38:11,160 --> 00:38:13,359
Speaker 3: back into the couch. What the f do I do?

729
00:38:13,600 --> 00:38:15,759
Speaker 3: I called the cops for a second time, writing this,

730
00:38:16,040 --> 00:38:18,640
Speaker 3: I'll be censoring my address for my own security. Here's

731
00:38:18,640 --> 00:38:21,640
Speaker 3: how the phone call went address. I need police, Please

732
00:38:21,680 --> 00:38:24,000
Speaker 3: come quick, sir. We already have the shareff him back

733
00:38:24,040 --> 00:38:26,080
Speaker 3: upon their way. They should be there within the hour.

734
00:38:26,200 --> 00:38:28,440
Speaker 3: Lock your doors. I heard a click on their other end. Well,

735
00:38:28,480 --> 00:38:29,520
Speaker 3: what am I supposed to do now?

736
00:38:29,600 --> 00:38:30,000
Speaker 1: What is it?

737
00:38:30,000 --> 00:38:31,920
Speaker 3: I hope he's supposed to do now? He called the polize.

738
00:38:32,040 --> 00:38:36,360
Speaker 3: Just wait in fear for the frozen piece. Get the shotgun. Yeah,

739
00:38:36,400 --> 00:38:39,200
Speaker 3: I'm alone in this house, which seems much more ominous

740
00:38:39,200 --> 00:38:42,000
Speaker 3: than the night before. There's some psycho ladies standing in

741
00:38:42,000 --> 00:38:43,120
Speaker 3: my yard in the middle of the night.

742
00:38:43,400 --> 00:38:44,040
Speaker 1: To stop it off.

743
00:38:44,040 --> 00:38:46,480
Speaker 3: The cops that should be arresting this woman. Are probably

744
00:38:46,560 --> 00:38:48,840
Speaker 3: out for drinks because it's Christmas. I let out an

745
00:38:48,880 --> 00:38:51,720
Speaker 3: audible sigh and sat on the floor with my back

746
00:38:51,840 --> 00:38:53,840
Speaker 3: and sat on the floor with my back to the couch.

747
00:38:53,960 --> 00:38:56,480
Speaker 3: This was not what I thought was an ideal quick

748
00:38:56,640 --> 00:38:59,160
Speaker 3: This is not what I thought of as an ideal Christmas.

749
00:38:59,200 --> 00:39:03,400
Speaker 1: I'll say this is the.

750
00:39:02,080 --> 00:39:04,080
Speaker 3: I figured I might as well freshen up and get

751
00:39:04,120 --> 00:39:06,560
Speaker 3: ready for about. Any sliver of hope left in me

752
00:39:06,920 --> 00:39:09,680
Speaker 3: was gone. I picked myself up off the floor and

753
00:39:09,760 --> 00:39:11,440
Speaker 3: made my way to the bathroom. I didn't want to

754
00:39:11,560 --> 00:39:13,759
Speaker 3: risk her seeing me, so I just used a dim

755
00:39:13,800 --> 00:39:16,040
Speaker 3: flashlight on my phone. I brushed my teeth, ri ince

756
00:39:16,120 --> 00:39:18,080
Speaker 3: my face, and I thought that would make me feel

757
00:39:18,120 --> 00:39:18,920
Speaker 3: better and more alert.

758
00:39:19,000 --> 00:39:19,640
Speaker 1: But I was wrong.

759
00:39:19,719 --> 00:39:22,240
Speaker 3: Once I had finished, I heard a knock at the door,

760
00:39:22,560 --> 00:39:27,000
Speaker 3: followed by a scream. It was deep, unlike the shrieks

761
00:39:27,000 --> 00:39:31,080
Speaker 3: previously heard from a girl. Something in me clicked. I

762
00:39:31,160 --> 00:39:34,239
Speaker 3: mustered the strength to peek outside. There were blue and

763
00:39:34,280 --> 00:39:38,480
Speaker 3: red lights flashing, signaling help had arrived, but something was wrong.

764
00:39:39,560 --> 00:39:42,719
Speaker 3: The lights from the car further illuminated my lawn, and

765
00:39:42,760 --> 00:39:46,400
Speaker 3: there were two mangled bodies left inside of it. Oh

766
00:39:46,440 --> 00:39:50,319
Speaker 3: my God, Oh my God, there, let me try again.

767
00:39:50,600 --> 00:39:53,440
Speaker 3: There were two mangled bodies left inside of what I

768
00:39:53,440 --> 00:39:55,920
Speaker 3: can only describe as the altar.

769
00:39:56,320 --> 00:39:57,520
Speaker 1: Oh my God.

770
00:39:57,880 --> 00:40:00,760
Speaker 3: Remnants of the black uniforms informed me who they were.

771
00:40:01,120 --> 00:40:01,520
Speaker 1: Police.

772
00:40:01,760 --> 00:40:04,960
Speaker 3: Another guttural howl was worth oh my God, only a

773
00:40:04,960 --> 00:40:06,960
Speaker 3: few feet away from my window. I did the only

774
00:40:07,000 --> 00:40:09,840
Speaker 3: thing I could think of and hide, and that brings

775
00:40:09,880 --> 00:40:12,560
Speaker 3: me to Now. I'm in my towel closet. There are

776
00:40:12,560 --> 00:40:15,920
Speaker 3: two dead bodies in the snow. Something outside my house.

777
00:40:16,320 --> 00:40:20,200
Speaker 3: Something not human. I don't know when she, or it,

778
00:40:20,360 --> 00:40:21,960
Speaker 3: or whatever the F you want to call it will

779
00:40:21,960 --> 00:40:24,600
Speaker 3: get inside. But my gut is saying that she will.

780
00:40:25,320 --> 00:40:27,440
Speaker 3: I couldn't have picked a worst spot to hide. I

781
00:40:27,480 --> 00:40:29,600
Speaker 3: feel like an idiot friend in a horror movie that

782
00:40:29,640 --> 00:40:33,440
Speaker 3: gets plucked off first. Please, if you're reading this, protect

783
00:40:33,440 --> 00:40:36,640
Speaker 3: yourself this holiday season. Don't let it know you're there.

784
00:40:37,120 --> 00:40:40,080
Speaker 3: Don't be like me. Please save yourself and your family.

785
00:40:40,160 --> 00:40:42,839
Speaker 3: I just heard something come down the chimney, and it's

786
00:40:42,920 --> 00:40:43,720
Speaker 3: not Santa.

787
00:40:44,560 --> 00:40:52,240
Speaker 1: She's inside for the end that ending. It's not Santa Santa.

788
00:40:52,280 --> 00:40:53,520
Speaker 1: This ain't Rudolph three.

789
00:40:54,320 --> 00:41:01,359
Speaker 4: My god, God just made the whole spooky, spooky bro

790
00:41:01,480 --> 00:41:04,680
Speaker 4: So wait, so wait, so so this this demon lady

791
00:41:04,800 --> 00:41:06,520
Speaker 4: just just took out to two cops.

792
00:41:06,640 --> 00:41:10,160
Speaker 1: Took two cops. Demons, demons be schemens at that point.

793
00:41:10,239 --> 00:41:13,040
Speaker 1: At that point, you got to run out, like grab

794
00:41:13,160 --> 00:41:16,040
Speaker 1: shotguns or whatever, and just go for it like this

795
00:41:16,120 --> 00:41:17,279
Speaker 1: is a demon that we're dealing.

796
00:41:17,360 --> 00:41:21,200
Speaker 3: Just go rambo on that that that demon demon lady