1 00:00:00,120 --> 00:00:02,160 Speaker 1: Am I the a hole for calling the cops on 2 00:00:02,200 --> 00:00:04,680 Speaker 1: my teenage nephew after he robbed. 3 00:00:04,360 --> 00:00:06,559 Speaker 2: His own grandmother with Alzheimer's? 4 00:00:06,760 --> 00:00:10,879 Speaker 3: Okayop, this is okayop. I'm Samuel Donner and I'm John 5 00:00:10,920 --> 00:00:14,360 Speaker 3: Frye and we tell all the funny stories on the internet. 6 00:00:14,560 --> 00:00:20,600 Speaker 1: Yeah, Samuel, I am curious. Have you ever robbed somebody 7 00:00:20,720 --> 00:00:22,920 Speaker 1: a gun point? It could be a gun point if 8 00:00:22,920 --> 00:00:25,000 Speaker 1: that was what you did back in the good old day, 9 00:00:25,200 --> 00:00:27,520 Speaker 1: back in the good old days. Or stolen anything. 10 00:00:30,000 --> 00:00:33,320 Speaker 3: Back in the eighteen hundreds. I used to hold up 11 00:00:33,360 --> 00:00:38,480 Speaker 3: every bank on the block. They called me old Samy, 12 00:00:38,600 --> 00:00:41,480 Speaker 3: quick hands. No I haven't. I haven't held up anyone 13 00:00:41,479 --> 00:00:42,000 Speaker 3: at good point. 14 00:00:42,120 --> 00:00:43,240 Speaker 2: What about stolen anything? 15 00:00:43,320 --> 00:00:46,680 Speaker 3: In Australia, I was basically starving and I used to 16 00:00:46,720 --> 00:00:48,920 Speaker 3: get two for one groceries. That is what I called. 17 00:00:48,960 --> 00:00:52,280 Speaker 3: It's a self checkout, and so I would just scan 18 00:00:52,520 --> 00:00:57,240 Speaker 3: like every other item. I did not get caught, but 19 00:00:57,840 --> 00:01:00,800 Speaker 3: my like one of my my roommates did and so 20 00:01:01,080 --> 00:01:03,720 Speaker 3: he is banned from all of these stores in all 21 00:01:03,760 --> 00:01:04,440 Speaker 3: of Australia. 22 00:01:04,520 --> 00:01:08,120 Speaker 2: No, you got scared straight, huh? I did? Yeah? 23 00:01:08,160 --> 00:01:10,840 Speaker 3: And stealing is bad. Stealing is not bad. But you 24 00:01:10,880 --> 00:01:14,760 Speaker 3: know I was a starving college student. Yeah, and you 25 00:01:14,800 --> 00:01:17,000 Speaker 3: know protein shakes can only take you so far. 26 00:01:17,120 --> 00:01:18,319 Speaker 2: Yeah, I had so much experience. See. 27 00:01:18,840 --> 00:01:21,759 Speaker 1: My thing is like I had never like done any 28 00:01:21,840 --> 00:01:25,120 Speaker 1: like petty theft or whatever like before I left home 29 00:01:25,160 --> 00:01:27,520 Speaker 1: for college. But after I left home for college, I 30 00:01:27,560 --> 00:01:30,640 Speaker 1: would like not have a ton of money or negative 31 00:01:30,760 --> 00:01:33,080 Speaker 1: money and some credit card limit. 32 00:01:33,440 --> 00:01:34,760 Speaker 2: So what I would do is I would. 33 00:01:34,560 --> 00:01:38,440 Speaker 1: Go to Vonn's or Safeway and get like a granola 34 00:01:38,480 --> 00:01:40,320 Speaker 1: bar or not a granola but like a cliff bar 35 00:01:40,400 --> 00:01:43,160 Speaker 1: or something like, something that felt hearty, and I would 36 00:01:43,200 --> 00:01:46,040 Speaker 1: eat it while I was walking around pretending to look 37 00:01:46,040 --> 00:01:46,520 Speaker 1: at things. 38 00:01:46,680 --> 00:01:49,480 Speaker 2: Oh my god, then just leave. Yeah. So that was 39 00:01:49,520 --> 00:01:50,360 Speaker 2: my like foray. 40 00:01:50,400 --> 00:01:53,600 Speaker 1: And now if there's like teeny teeny tiny things, then 41 00:01:53,960 --> 00:01:56,200 Speaker 1: I'll just take it. If it's if I don't if 42 00:01:56,240 --> 00:01:58,160 Speaker 1: I don't feel like like, for instance, I needed a 43 00:01:58,200 --> 00:02:01,760 Speaker 1: binkie for my Halloween cosme and I didn't feel like 44 00:02:01,760 --> 00:02:03,720 Speaker 1: paying seven dollars for a BANKI that was the only option, 45 00:02:03,800 --> 00:02:05,440 Speaker 1: so I just took it. 46 00:02:05,560 --> 00:02:08,240 Speaker 3: John is a thief, guys arrest me. 47 00:02:08,639 --> 00:02:10,239 Speaker 1: I don't do it often, but every once in a 48 00:02:10,240 --> 00:02:12,679 Speaker 1: while there's a seven dollars binkie that is the only 49 00:02:12,720 --> 00:02:16,799 Speaker 1: object I need that I will take. But today's story, 50 00:02:16,840 --> 00:02:19,560 Speaker 1: we have someone who did a little bit more than 51 00:02:19,600 --> 00:02:22,120 Speaker 1: steal a binkie? Am I the a hole for calling 52 00:02:22,160 --> 00:02:25,000 Speaker 1: the cops on my teenage nephew after he robbed his 53 00:02:25,080 --> 00:02:27,080 Speaker 1: own grandmother with Alzheimer's? 54 00:02:27,480 --> 00:02:30,919 Speaker 3: Why would you rob your grandmother? She's already having her 55 00:02:30,960 --> 00:02:33,799 Speaker 3: memories taken from her. You're going to take her a belonging. 56 00:02:34,040 --> 00:02:37,040 Speaker 1: My mom has late stage Alzheimer's and has been unable 57 00:02:37,080 --> 00:02:39,399 Speaker 1: to manage her money and needs around the clock care. 58 00:02:39,480 --> 00:02:41,239 Speaker 1: It probably would be safer to put her in a 59 00:02:41,320 --> 00:02:44,720 Speaker 1: nursing home, but she made us promise to only do 60 00:02:44,840 --> 00:02:46,400 Speaker 1: that as an absolute last resort. 61 00:02:46,480 --> 00:02:46,880 Speaker 3: This is sad. 62 00:02:46,919 --> 00:02:48,280 Speaker 2: Think GE's spicy later. 63 00:02:48,120 --> 00:02:51,400 Speaker 3: Down the line and spicy Grandma. What was she teach him? 64 00:02:51,480 --> 00:02:53,480 Speaker 1: She had a lot of investments in savings from my 65 00:02:53,600 --> 00:02:56,520 Speaker 1: dad before he passed, so we could hire a professional 66 00:02:56,560 --> 00:02:57,880 Speaker 1: care in her home. 67 00:02:57,840 --> 00:03:01,480 Speaker 3: The money that came from dead parents like Bruce Wayne. 68 00:03:01,240 --> 00:03:03,600 Speaker 1: My sister is the one who lives the closest and 69 00:03:03,720 --> 00:03:06,560 Speaker 1: visits often, so she handles my mom's finances. We give 70 00:03:06,600 --> 00:03:08,520 Speaker 1: my sister about two hundred dollars a month for her 71 00:03:08,520 --> 00:03:11,000 Speaker 1: to run errands, help look after my mom. Since we 72 00:03:11,000 --> 00:03:13,040 Speaker 1: both live out of state, my other sister called me 73 00:03:13,080 --> 00:03:15,480 Speaker 1: to tell me there's been a lot of cash withdrawals 74 00:03:15,560 --> 00:03:18,280 Speaker 1: recently on my mom's card I check and for nearly 75 00:03:18,320 --> 00:03:21,600 Speaker 1: a year there have been a ton of three hundred 76 00:03:21,639 --> 00:03:25,200 Speaker 1: to four hundred dollars withdraws, so like constantly throughout the 77 00:03:25,280 --> 00:03:27,960 Speaker 1: year there have been like withdraws every time three to 78 00:03:28,000 --> 00:03:31,079 Speaker 1: four hundred dollars. We call my sister who's handling the finances, 79 00:03:31,160 --> 00:03:34,040 Speaker 1: and she is also confused and says she never takes 80 00:03:34,080 --> 00:03:36,680 Speaker 1: out cash. She only pays bills with the bank card 81 00:03:36,760 --> 00:03:39,120 Speaker 1: and uses the credit card for groceries, et cetera, so 82 00:03:39,120 --> 00:03:41,520 Speaker 1: she never uses the ATM to withdraw. She freezes the 83 00:03:41,560 --> 00:03:43,640 Speaker 1: bank card and I take a red Eye flight over. 84 00:03:43,800 --> 00:03:46,840 Speaker 1: Long story short, We ask the bank where the ATM 85 00:03:46,920 --> 00:03:50,680 Speaker 1: withdrawals were happening. My sister was shocked when she googled 86 00:03:50,680 --> 00:03:54,680 Speaker 1: the location, she found out that it was right next 87 00:03:55,040 --> 00:03:59,680 Speaker 1: to her son's school. What yep, No, her son is 88 00:03:59,680 --> 00:04:03,720 Speaker 1: still him from Grandma dude, don't do it, nephew. Respectfully, 89 00:04:04,320 --> 00:04:07,120 Speaker 1: we waited until the sun got home, and then we 90 00:04:07,200 --> 00:04:10,600 Speaker 1: confronted him, asked him where he worked, and he said 91 00:04:11,000 --> 00:04:11,880 Speaker 1: a local restaurant. 92 00:04:11,920 --> 00:04:14,480 Speaker 2: We said, hey, we would love to go with you 93 00:04:14,760 --> 00:04:15,160 Speaker 2: to the. 94 00:04:15,120 --> 00:04:18,599 Speaker 1: Restaurant to confirm that he worked there, and he got 95 00:04:18,640 --> 00:04:22,919 Speaker 1: really really panicked and said, uh, the management has changed, 96 00:04:22,920 --> 00:04:25,039 Speaker 1: so they wouldn't know who I am. 97 00:04:25,480 --> 00:04:28,640 Speaker 3: Oh sounds like he's totally innocent. 98 00:04:28,800 --> 00:04:29,719 Speaker 2: Oh, innocent, this guy. 99 00:04:30,520 --> 00:04:34,200 Speaker 1: I asked him then for his paycheck, and he finally 100 00:04:34,760 --> 00:04:38,560 Speaker 1: finally gives in and admits he doesn't have a job. 101 00:04:38,920 --> 00:04:41,919 Speaker 1: I wonder where he's been getting that money. My sister 102 00:04:41,960 --> 00:04:44,479 Speaker 1: asked him where the money for the new stuff he 103 00:04:44,520 --> 00:04:48,920 Speaker 1: bought comes from, and then he finally broke down and 104 00:04:49,000 --> 00:04:53,359 Speaker 1: he said, yes, I've been stealing the bank card to 105 00:04:53,560 --> 00:04:58,400 Speaker 1: make cash with draws from my own grandmother's bank account, 106 00:04:58,800 --> 00:05:01,680 Speaker 1: and I don't even I feel bad about it. Then 107 00:05:01,720 --> 00:05:04,360 Speaker 1: I asked him where did he even get the pin 108 00:05:04,520 --> 00:05:07,360 Speaker 1: for the bank card. Then my sister piped up and 109 00:05:07,440 --> 00:05:10,640 Speaker 1: confessed she writes her pins on sticky notes so she 110 00:05:10,720 --> 00:05:11,760 Speaker 1: doesn't forget them. 111 00:05:11,960 --> 00:05:15,600 Speaker 3: Oh see this is you know, like like, obviously the 112 00:05:16,120 --> 00:05:21,360 Speaker 3: sun is terrible for stealing his grandma's crap. But uh, 113 00:05:22,200 --> 00:05:24,479 Speaker 3: but you got to you gotta practice some safe security. 114 00:05:24,640 --> 00:05:27,400 Speaker 3: You know, you can't just write down your pins everywhere 115 00:05:27,680 --> 00:05:30,000 Speaker 3: you know, for the whole world to see. Come on, 116 00:05:31,080 --> 00:05:33,360 Speaker 3: protect yourself with NordVPN. 117 00:05:33,480 --> 00:05:36,120 Speaker 1: I take the bank statements and I calculate that he 118 00:05:36,320 --> 00:05:41,559 Speaker 1: owes all whopping fourteen thousand and three hundred and eight 119 00:05:42,080 --> 00:05:47,240 Speaker 1: dollars fourteen thousand dollars. He's stolen over fourteen thousand dollars. Bro, 120 00:05:47,279 --> 00:05:50,480 Speaker 1: What is he buying? Jordan's Are you getting bro? At 121 00:05:50,520 --> 00:05:53,240 Speaker 1: this point, I laid down the law. I told him 122 00:05:53,320 --> 00:05:54,400 Speaker 1: he has to pay it back. 123 00:05:54,600 --> 00:05:54,960 Speaker 2: Now. 124 00:05:55,560 --> 00:05:58,039 Speaker 1: I am going to file a police report on him 125 00:05:58,040 --> 00:05:58,600 Speaker 1: for theft. 126 00:05:58,960 --> 00:06:01,400 Speaker 3: Wow, really and down the log? Good for you. 127 00:06:01,800 --> 00:06:05,320 Speaker 1: At this point, my sister begs me not to, saying 128 00:06:05,400 --> 00:06:07,640 Speaker 1: if he has anything on his record, he might not 129 00:06:07,800 --> 00:06:08,880 Speaker 1: get into college. 130 00:06:09,560 --> 00:06:11,400 Speaker 3: Oh no, I should have thought about that before he 131 00:06:11,560 --> 00:06:13,160 Speaker 3: take Vanda to grandma's. 132 00:06:13,600 --> 00:06:16,800 Speaker 1: I told her I won't if she pays it, but 133 00:06:16,960 --> 00:06:19,560 Speaker 1: she said she's struggling and doesn't really have the money. 134 00:06:19,720 --> 00:06:20,599 Speaker 2: She's a single mother. 135 00:06:20,760 --> 00:06:25,000 Speaker 1: I told her that isn't good enough, and she complains 136 00:06:25,120 --> 00:06:28,160 Speaker 1: her son is only sixteen years old and he doesn't 137 00:06:28,160 --> 00:06:31,039 Speaker 1: know any better. That works if he stole like twenty dollars. 138 00:06:31,320 --> 00:06:33,400 Speaker 1: I told her they won't put a sixteen year old 139 00:06:33,440 --> 00:06:36,200 Speaker 1: in jail, but he might do it again when he's older, 140 00:06:36,279 --> 00:06:38,960 Speaker 1: so it's much better for him to learn his lesson now. 141 00:06:39,160 --> 00:06:40,760 Speaker 1: She said, we could just take it out of her 142 00:06:40,760 --> 00:06:44,200 Speaker 1: son's inheritance that would be coming from his grandmother. And 143 00:06:44,520 --> 00:06:46,560 Speaker 1: I yell at her that if our mom was in 144 00:06:46,640 --> 00:06:49,560 Speaker 1: a state to judge, she would write him out of 145 00:06:49,600 --> 00:06:52,400 Speaker 1: her will for this. Call my lawyer and I ask 146 00:06:52,760 --> 00:06:55,920 Speaker 1: what I should do, and he suggests filing a police report, 147 00:06:56,200 --> 00:06:59,080 Speaker 1: but not including my nephew's name just yet. 148 00:06:59,279 --> 00:07:00,680 Speaker 2: I did just that. 149 00:07:01,320 --> 00:07:04,760 Speaker 1: I filed the police reports, and my sister is screaming 150 00:07:04,800 --> 00:07:08,320 Speaker 1: at me that I ruined her son's life by involving 151 00:07:08,320 --> 00:07:10,280 Speaker 1: the police, and he's only a kid. 152 00:07:10,400 --> 00:07:11,600 Speaker 2: I'm not happy about it. 153 00:07:11,720 --> 00:07:14,920 Speaker 1: But at sixteen, if he's stealing from his own grandmother 154 00:07:15,000 --> 00:07:18,320 Speaker 1: with Alzheimer's, who look at who looked after him when 155 00:07:18,360 --> 00:07:21,520 Speaker 1: his own mother was sick, I can't imagine what he's 156 00:07:21,560 --> 00:07:23,200 Speaker 1: gonna do when he's older. 157 00:07:23,320 --> 00:07:26,040 Speaker 3: Curb that behavior now before it gets any worse. I 158 00:07:26,080 --> 00:07:29,040 Speaker 3: feel like that kid ain't raised right, you know, not 159 00:07:29,160 --> 00:07:31,680 Speaker 3: at all. You gotta you gotta, you gotta get some hard, 160 00:07:31,880 --> 00:07:36,480 Speaker 3: hard knocks lessons in there asap, because he's gonna is 161 00:07:36,520 --> 00:07:38,160 Speaker 3: it's only gonna get worse, but. 162 00:07:38,240 --> 00:07:41,600 Speaker 2: You know what will always raise someone right saying. 163 00:07:41,320 --> 00:07:45,560 Speaker 3: Oh us, okay, ophe, let us be your. 164 00:07:45,480 --> 00:07:49,160 Speaker 1: Daddy's we'rey's now guy exaties. 165 00:07:49,600 --> 00:07:54,280 Speaker 3: Follow us on Spotify, TikTok uh, subscribe to us on YouTube. 166 00:07:54,360 --> 00:07:55,920 Speaker 3: You want to be a real one, support this other 167 00:07:56,000 --> 00:07:57,960 Speaker 3: patrioch because we got a did scord where you can 168 00:07:58,080 --> 00:07:58,600 Speaker 3: talk to us. 169 00:07:58,920 --> 00:08:01,840 Speaker 1: Yeah, and joined everyone on discord Aerial Cases of Furious 170 00:08:01,880 --> 00:08:04,920 Speaker 1: to Vina Mohammed, Amanda, Will Connor, Desire, Keegan Simmons, and 171 00:08:05,120 --> 00:08:08,000 Speaker 1: Kevin Quigley Get the quick SASO