1
00:00:00,280 --> 00:00:04,800
Speaker 1: Fine, what's up?

2
00:00:04,920 --> 00:00:08,240
Speaker 2: Y'all? Is your girl? Next page? Any suggarls right in

3
00:00:08,240 --> 00:00:13,880
Speaker 2: the cold, and you are tuned in to another episode

4
00:00:14,080 --> 00:00:17,840
Speaker 2: of four Minds, where a drunk mind speaks sober thoughts.

5
00:00:17,960 --> 00:00:22,919
Speaker 2: What's up? She went a good move today? Hunt? What

6
00:00:23,040 --> 00:00:28,880
Speaker 2: you been up to? You say? What? Nothing? I was

7
00:00:28,920 --> 00:00:39,360
Speaker 2: scrolling today. I was trying to give share from clueless give.

8
00:00:40,600 --> 00:00:43,159
Speaker 2: I like that. I like that. So what's been out?

9
00:00:43,200 --> 00:00:47,760
Speaker 2: What's new? What you got going on? You know? Just working,

10
00:00:48,080 --> 00:00:50,880
Speaker 2: always doing working? You got a y'all top bitch, I

11
00:00:51,000 --> 00:00:58,560
Speaker 2: be book busy. That's right time. My favorite pastime now

12
00:00:58,640 --> 00:01:01,240
Speaker 2: is to tell people when they email me, talk to

13
00:01:01,280 --> 00:01:08,399
Speaker 2: my manager. Oh, I've got to manage. I like that,

14
00:01:09,160 --> 00:01:11,680
Speaker 2: Like talk to my manager. I don't have time for these.

15
00:01:12,600 --> 00:01:14,920
Speaker 2: What have I been doing this past week? I really

16
00:01:14,920 --> 00:01:18,240
Speaker 2: haven't been doing anything, Like I haven't going to work.

17
00:01:18,400 --> 00:01:20,839
Speaker 2: I've been like, fuck that job. I work for myself.

18
00:01:22,120 --> 00:01:26,440
Speaker 2: No tweet. I think I am in a few weeks.

19
00:01:26,840 --> 00:01:31,399
Speaker 2: We don't have a you know, we love to parties

20
00:01:31,959 --> 00:01:39,160
Speaker 2: because we like the party. Hey, okay, so the topics today,

21
00:01:40,480 --> 00:01:43,480
Speaker 2: these are some good topics. They are hass is crazy?

22
00:01:43,760 --> 00:01:46,760
Speaker 2: How have I just let me tell y'all something y'all

23
00:01:46,760 --> 00:01:49,440
Speaker 2: be thinking it be me that has all the crazy

24
00:01:49,440 --> 00:01:51,440
Speaker 2: shiit to say it. Really, it's hard coming up with

25
00:01:51,480 --> 00:01:54,160
Speaker 2: these topics, and I just be like, what the fuck? Like,

26
00:01:54,240 --> 00:02:00,520
Speaker 2: why are we talking about these? Don't I mean? I

27
00:02:00,720 --> 00:02:02,760
Speaker 2: just be wanting to know. I just want to know

28
00:02:02,760 --> 00:02:05,760
Speaker 2: what the people think. Okay, so today we are going

29
00:02:05,800 --> 00:02:10,080
Speaker 2: to talk about going into a relationship for the second time,

30
00:02:10,600 --> 00:02:13,600
Speaker 2: like going back to your dip. You know this is

31
00:02:13,639 --> 00:02:17,880
Speaker 2: in my ministry. This isn't yours. I love to go back.

32
00:02:17,919 --> 00:02:21,040
Speaker 2: I have, I'm gone. I'm gone back to aboo once

33
00:02:21,120 --> 00:02:25,680
Speaker 2: in my life. You went back multiple times? No, only

34
00:02:25,720 --> 00:02:28,120
Speaker 2: on what was the sick of time I'm talking about.

35
00:02:28,160 --> 00:02:31,200
Speaker 2: It was the same nigga like eight times. What I'm saying,

36
00:02:31,200 --> 00:02:33,840
Speaker 2: it was only one nigga that I ever took back again,

37
00:02:34,080 --> 00:02:40,079
Speaker 2: That's what I'm saying. It was who the big dunkin Dick?

38
00:02:41,000 --> 00:02:43,359
Speaker 2: Do you remember big donkey Dick? To me? Who was

39
00:02:43,480 --> 00:02:50,600
Speaker 2: this really that gift that we always be sitting before?

40
00:02:52,760 --> 00:02:58,560
Speaker 2: I forgot about? Okay, two niggas, but you don't be lying.

41
00:02:58,680 --> 00:03:01,120
Speaker 2: I forgot see that this is me and you is

42
00:03:01,680 --> 00:03:04,760
Speaker 2: you'll be lying. I need forgetting. Shep because once I

43
00:03:04,880 --> 00:03:08,040
Speaker 2: make stupid ass mistakes and stupid ass decisions, I literally

44
00:03:08,040 --> 00:03:10,440
Speaker 2: be deleting that shit out of my mental world of dicks.

45
00:03:10,520 --> 00:03:13,840
Speaker 2: I'm so that was an accident and a slipper because

46
00:03:13,840 --> 00:03:15,920
Speaker 2: I fucked that nigga again. But did I fuck him

47
00:03:15,919 --> 00:03:19,320
Speaker 2: again after that because it hurts? It wasn't even because

48
00:03:19,320 --> 00:03:22,000
Speaker 2: it hurt, It was just a mistake. I shouldn't have

49
00:03:22,000 --> 00:03:25,760
Speaker 2: fucked him again. Okay, I should have let my guns Benna,

50
00:03:25,800 --> 00:03:31,680
Speaker 2: get the hell on you and your mama period. Okay,

51
00:03:31,760 --> 00:03:34,960
Speaker 2: So yes, you know what the thing is for me.

52
00:03:35,400 --> 00:03:39,040
Speaker 2: I don't mind going back to somebody that I dated before, because,

53
00:03:39,240 --> 00:03:41,440
Speaker 2: first of all, I'm a dumb beach because niggas will

54
00:03:41,440 --> 00:03:42,720
Speaker 2: trick the fuck out of me. They'd be like, I'm

55
00:03:42,720 --> 00:03:44,320
Speaker 2: gonna do right this time, bag, and I'll be like,

56
00:03:44,600 --> 00:03:46,600
Speaker 2: I know you are, I love you, and that's your

57
00:03:46,640 --> 00:03:49,960
Speaker 2: first mistake. Get they give me every time. Niggas fooled me,

58
00:03:50,200 --> 00:03:52,760
Speaker 2: every fucking time, Bro, I always believe them and I

59
00:03:52,880 --> 00:03:55,600
Speaker 2: always go back. And you just horny too, So I

60
00:03:55,640 --> 00:03:58,120
Speaker 2: think you just be like a consistent bed. First of all,

61
00:03:58,160 --> 00:04:02,920
Speaker 2: I'm a lady. You see the sweat. I do not

62
00:04:03,080 --> 00:04:07,120
Speaker 2: participation in those girl, Like I said, I think that

63
00:04:07,320 --> 00:04:09,160
Speaker 2: is because you're horny too, so you just like having

64
00:04:09,240 --> 00:04:11,160
Speaker 2: conceised dick. And I think, and I will say this,

65
00:04:11,400 --> 00:04:14,320
Speaker 2: like that is a pro of going back to your

66
00:04:14,320 --> 00:04:16,080
Speaker 2: ex or fucking back with like one of your old

67
00:04:16,120 --> 00:04:19,640
Speaker 2: niggas is dead, you know what I mean. It's deck

68
00:04:19,680 --> 00:04:22,919
Speaker 2: that you done had before. You already know what you

69
00:04:22,960 --> 00:04:25,360
Speaker 2: know what that shit like y'all comfortable with each other body,

70
00:04:25,400 --> 00:04:28,320
Speaker 2: so y'all could just be real nasty. So I think

71
00:04:28,360 --> 00:04:29,279
Speaker 2: that that's what it means.

72
00:04:29,520 --> 00:04:30,479
Speaker 1: Yeah, it is that.

73
00:04:30,560 --> 00:04:33,560
Speaker 2: And like I said, I am a firm believer and

74
00:04:33,760 --> 00:04:36,680
Speaker 2: second chances. I do because I feel like sometimes you

75
00:04:36,760 --> 00:04:38,680
Speaker 2: be with somebody for the first time and things just

76
00:04:38,760 --> 00:04:41,200
Speaker 2: may not be right and you gotta get your shit together.

77
00:04:41,440 --> 00:04:44,200
Speaker 2: But I will honestly say, every time I'm gone back,

78
00:04:44,880 --> 00:04:47,039
Speaker 2: I have really gone back. As one nigga. Everybody know

79
00:04:47,040 --> 00:04:49,440
Speaker 2: about Rapper Bay. We talked about Rapper Bay. If you're

80
00:04:49,440 --> 00:04:51,240
Speaker 2: a new listener, you gotta go back and start from

81
00:04:51,240 --> 00:04:53,919
Speaker 2: the beginning when we talk about Rapper Bay. I've gone

82
00:04:53,920 --> 00:04:56,679
Speaker 2: back to Rapper Bay like so many times, but honestly,

83
00:04:56,720 --> 00:04:59,080
Speaker 2: I like this time we are really done.

84
00:04:59,120 --> 00:05:01,280
Speaker 1: I haven't talked about him we've been done for.

85
00:05:01,279 --> 00:05:04,200
Speaker 2: Money, he'd be coming back to I hate to say, like, oh,

86
00:05:04,279 --> 00:05:06,560
Speaker 2: I keep going back to a nigga. Them niggas be

87
00:05:06,640 --> 00:05:08,800
Speaker 2: coming back to me. That's the only time we've ever

88
00:05:09,080 --> 00:05:11,800
Speaker 2: like hooked back up. He comes back to me every time,

89
00:05:12,560 --> 00:05:15,120
Speaker 2: coming back to us. Yeah, always be going back to them.

90
00:05:15,279 --> 00:05:17,040
Speaker 2: I don't ever go back to a nigga. The only

91
00:05:17,080 --> 00:05:19,000
Speaker 2: time I start talking to a man again is when

92
00:05:19,000 --> 00:05:22,800
Speaker 2: he like text me or hit me up. Yeah. Yeah,

93
00:05:22,800 --> 00:05:24,720
Speaker 2: I'm too stubborn to hit a nigga up first, like

94
00:05:24,760 --> 00:05:27,480
Speaker 2: he definitely a way to suborn. And then again i'd

95
00:05:27,520 --> 00:05:29,200
Speaker 2: be doing a little sheet like but I do be

96
00:05:29,279 --> 00:05:33,679
Speaker 2: doing little sheet dropping your pussy note, no, like I remember,

97
00:05:34,600 --> 00:05:36,440
Speaker 2: I remember one time I didn't talk to like the

98
00:05:36,520 --> 00:05:38,640
Speaker 2: nigga that and you're talking about took back like eight

99
00:05:38,680 --> 00:05:41,200
Speaker 2: times we stopped talking. Remember we stopped talking for a

100
00:05:41,240 --> 00:05:49,360
Speaker 2: long time, and I was like, happy birthday, birthday because

101
00:05:49,400 --> 00:05:52,159
Speaker 2: I knew. I knew it was because he was still

102
00:05:52,200 --> 00:05:54,160
Speaker 2: he was still watching my story all the time, so

103
00:05:54,200 --> 00:05:57,320
Speaker 2: I knew I was still on his mom Okay, he

104
00:05:57,440 --> 00:06:01,240
Speaker 2: was still on his book, like you see nigga Morena

105
00:06:01,360 --> 00:06:04,320
Speaker 2: on his mind to work. So I knew it was

106
00:06:04,320 --> 00:06:06,640
Speaker 2: gonna work, so I slid his DMS and I was like,

107
00:06:06,680 --> 00:06:09,240
Speaker 2: happy Birthday and he was like thank you, and then

108
00:06:09,240 --> 00:06:14,040
Speaker 2: he started going off when his voice because do he

109
00:06:14,160 --> 00:06:18,080
Speaker 2: not talk like that? He scares me. I hate him.

110
00:06:18,120 --> 00:06:22,600
Speaker 2: Thank you, but why you do the whole shit? Dad?

111
00:06:23,120 --> 00:06:27,680
Speaker 2: And we start talking the next day. You know what's

112
00:06:27,720 --> 00:06:31,000
Speaker 2: crazy because last week we just had this conversation and

113
00:06:31,040 --> 00:06:32,800
Speaker 2: I was like, I took somebody back and I didn't

114
00:06:32,839 --> 00:06:34,920
Speaker 2: want to say his name. I took Throwback day Back.

115
00:06:35,040 --> 00:06:36,880
Speaker 2: I didn't say his name last week because I wanted

116
00:06:36,880 --> 00:06:41,440
Speaker 2: to drop on the Patreon first. I'm surprise Surprise throw

117
00:06:41,480 --> 00:06:47,600
Speaker 2: Back day Back. And when he on that same said, ooh,

118
00:06:47,720 --> 00:06:51,960
Speaker 2: surprise Surprise down. Why can't niggas just get shipped together?

119
00:06:52,680 --> 00:06:55,360
Speaker 2: They not, especially when we always take them back. I

120
00:06:55,440 --> 00:06:58,440
Speaker 2: firmly believe that, like, if you constantly consistently take a

121
00:06:58,480 --> 00:07:00,919
Speaker 2: nigga bag, kids is not gonna take you. See you

122
00:07:00,960 --> 00:07:03,600
Speaker 2: know what, You're right, I'm putting my foot down. I'm

123
00:07:03,640 --> 00:07:06,880
Speaker 2: putting my foot down today. I'm not because every time

124
00:07:06,880 --> 00:07:08,919
Speaker 2: we leave the studio hearts calling me, what's the what

125
00:07:08,960 --> 00:07:11,440
Speaker 2: you're doing? What we're going out tonight? We're going to dinner.

126
00:07:11,800 --> 00:07:13,400
Speaker 1: Nah, we ain't going to dinner, nigga.

127
00:07:14,040 --> 00:07:19,800
Speaker 2: I'm going home. I'm not fucking with this nigga no more.

128
00:07:19,840 --> 00:07:23,200
Speaker 2: I'm really not. I'm really letting it go. It really

129
00:07:23,240 --> 00:07:29,040
Speaker 2: wanted to. I really be wanting to believe you because

130
00:07:29,080 --> 00:07:33,920
Speaker 2: I just know I'll be hurting.

131
00:07:33,960 --> 00:07:35,880
Speaker 1: But I hate going back for the second time.

132
00:07:36,040 --> 00:07:39,440
Speaker 2: I feel like the best way to apologize to somebody

133
00:07:39,480 --> 00:07:40,640
Speaker 2: and show them that you really want to be with

134
00:07:40,680 --> 00:07:43,880
Speaker 2: them is changed behavien, and this nigga has not changed.

135
00:07:43,920 --> 00:07:45,920
Speaker 2: It's the same old bullshit. It was good for like

136
00:07:46,040 --> 00:07:49,280
Speaker 2: four days, y'all. I really thought it was gonna be

137
00:07:49,280 --> 00:07:51,920
Speaker 2: different this time. I don't know why I keep believing people.

138
00:07:52,000 --> 00:07:53,920
Speaker 2: You know what it is, though, because I know how

139
00:07:54,040 --> 00:07:56,120
Speaker 2: I am. If I'm trying to come back in your

140
00:07:56,120 --> 00:07:58,360
Speaker 2: life and I'm ready to do shit right, I'm really

141
00:07:58,400 --> 00:08:01,080
Speaker 2: trying to change, Like I'm not trying to waste your time.

142
00:08:01,160 --> 00:08:02,920
Speaker 2: So if I double back, I'm like, you know what,

143
00:08:03,280 --> 00:08:05,640
Speaker 2: let me do shit right this time. So the fact

144
00:08:05,720 --> 00:08:08,000
Speaker 2: that you you wanted to come back in my life

145
00:08:08,040 --> 00:08:11,560
Speaker 2: for what, but feel ain't that fire time should be

146
00:08:11,640 --> 00:08:14,280
Speaker 2: happening because maybe that's why you double back. But like

147
00:08:16,160 --> 00:08:19,200
Speaker 2: one time, when I double back, I was just horny, see,

148
00:08:19,240 --> 00:08:21,760
Speaker 2: And the thing is, he was and it just happened

149
00:08:21,880 --> 00:08:24,120
Speaker 2: like we just happened to be in the same place

150
00:08:24,400 --> 00:08:27,520
Speaker 2: at the same time, and I gave him some hossy

151
00:08:27,600 --> 00:08:30,960
Speaker 2: but I had no We just happened to be in

152
00:08:30,960 --> 00:08:36,640
Speaker 2: the same place. But I had no intention on fucking

153
00:08:36,679 --> 00:08:38,760
Speaker 2: with him for real again. And I knew that while

154
00:08:38,880 --> 00:08:40,839
Speaker 2: I was fucking him, like, I knew that I was

155
00:08:40,880 --> 00:08:42,120
Speaker 2: not about to keep fucking with him. And so he

156
00:08:42,160 --> 00:08:44,920
Speaker 2: started hitting me up on some like oh what you

157
00:08:45,040 --> 00:08:50,800
Speaker 2: doing today? Nothing with you? Cause it's because but it

158
00:08:50,840 --> 00:08:52,920
Speaker 2: wasn't never about to be there for me. I knew

159
00:08:52,920 --> 00:08:55,680
Speaker 2: what it was. I ain't really I'm not gonna say

160
00:08:55,679 --> 00:08:57,360
Speaker 2: I'm like a nigga mentally.

161
00:08:57,600 --> 00:08:59,760
Speaker 1: You kind of are, but I'm way more.

162
00:09:00,559 --> 00:09:02,560
Speaker 2: But I really can't say that though, because I feel

163
00:09:02,600 --> 00:09:05,000
Speaker 2: like no woman is truly really like a nigga mentally,

164
00:09:05,120 --> 00:09:07,240
Speaker 2: Like I'm still a woman, Like I still be emotional,

165
00:09:07,240 --> 00:09:10,560
Speaker 2: i still be tripping off she but I do think

166
00:09:10,600 --> 00:09:12,640
Speaker 2: that I don't know, I guess I just think logically

167
00:09:12,960 --> 00:09:16,560
Speaker 2: about it. I'm not logical at all. So with him,

168
00:09:16,640 --> 00:09:18,440
Speaker 2: it's just kind of like I knew how he was

169
00:09:18,480 --> 00:09:21,000
Speaker 2: the last time. I knew why she didn't work out

170
00:09:21,000 --> 00:09:23,920
Speaker 2: the last time. I knew why we had issues the

171
00:09:24,000 --> 00:09:27,720
Speaker 2: last time. And you have not changed. You're the same person.

172
00:09:27,840 --> 00:09:30,960
Speaker 2: So why would I believe that things are gonna be

173
00:09:31,000 --> 00:09:34,160
Speaker 2: different this time. It's not gonna be different. But you here,

174
00:09:34,240 --> 00:09:36,200
Speaker 2: I'm here, lisz FuG I'm about to go about my

175
00:09:36,240 --> 00:09:39,760
Speaker 2: business tomorrow. Though. I think another thing for me is

176
00:09:40,080 --> 00:09:42,120
Speaker 2: you know me, like you know the real me, like

177
00:09:42,160 --> 00:09:45,160
Speaker 2: you know, not the real heart, the real heart, because

178
00:09:45,160 --> 00:09:47,320
Speaker 2: I feel like I do definitely have two sides of me,

179
00:09:47,440 --> 00:09:49,080
Speaker 2: Like I have my goofy side and I do have

180
00:09:49,120 --> 00:09:51,760
Speaker 2: like a more serious, kind of like spiritual side of me.

181
00:09:52,280 --> 00:09:55,360
Speaker 2: But another thing is for me is I hate opening

182
00:09:55,440 --> 00:09:58,520
Speaker 2: up to people. I hate I feel like a lot

183
00:09:58,600 --> 00:10:01,120
Speaker 2: of times people be like they hang on me, like, oh,

184
00:10:01,200 --> 00:10:03,720
Speaker 2: she's so funny. They take me on date, cracking joke,

185
00:10:04,800 --> 00:10:08,240
Speaker 2: this been funny? What hey, hey, watch a cracking joke

186
00:10:08,280 --> 00:10:10,720
Speaker 2: real quick. And I'm sitting there like, can I just

187
00:10:10,720 --> 00:10:13,080
Speaker 2: get a Marlo please? You know what I'm saying. I

188
00:10:13,080 --> 00:10:14,840
Speaker 2: ain't never sitting there like can I just get a

189
00:10:14,880 --> 00:10:17,920
Speaker 2: Merlin please? If it's a first day and I'm just

190
00:10:17,920 --> 00:10:22,720
Speaker 2: trying to like date with you. Oh yeah, wait, chill, chill,

191
00:10:22,840 --> 00:10:25,000
Speaker 2: chill on me, bro, chill on me, Bro. But I'm

192
00:10:25,000 --> 00:10:27,679
Speaker 2: saying a lot of times I feel like men want

193
00:10:27,760 --> 00:10:31,559
Speaker 2: me for like the entertainment factor. They like the surface

194
00:10:31,640 --> 00:10:33,920
Speaker 2: level shit, they like the idea of me, you know

195
00:10:33,920 --> 00:10:36,160
Speaker 2: what I'm saying. So I feel more comfortable being with

196
00:10:36,280 --> 00:10:38,640
Speaker 2: men that have been with me before and they know

197
00:10:38,760 --> 00:10:40,319
Speaker 2: me and they're really fucking with me, like they don't

198
00:10:40,360 --> 00:10:42,280
Speaker 2: give a fuck about the lex piece shit, like they

199
00:10:42,360 --> 00:10:44,680
Speaker 2: fucking with me for me. What am I the saying?

200
00:10:44,720 --> 00:10:47,960
Speaker 2: That things happen for a reason, like things and for

201
00:10:48,040 --> 00:10:50,080
Speaker 2: a reason. I truly believe that when you break up

202
00:10:50,120 --> 00:10:53,640
Speaker 2: with people, it happens for a reason, like it was

203
00:10:53,679 --> 00:10:55,760
Speaker 2: a reason why you and that person did not. Miss

204
00:10:55,960 --> 00:10:58,880
Speaker 2: y'all couldn't figure out how to make sit work. I

205
00:10:59,000 --> 00:11:02,000
Speaker 2: know I'm having to sometimes you be just having to

206
00:11:02,080 --> 00:11:06,280
Speaker 2: dead that shit. And I feel like closure is a scam.

207
00:11:06,720 --> 00:11:09,760
Speaker 2: Oh I agree a thousand percent. People be always like

208
00:11:10,679 --> 00:11:13,760
Speaker 2: I just went back because I was trying to find closure.

209
00:11:14,559 --> 00:11:16,840
Speaker 2: You don't never get closer from a fucked up person.

210
00:11:17,480 --> 00:11:20,240
Speaker 2: One two, if I if I text you, if any

211
00:11:20,280 --> 00:11:22,959
Speaker 2: of my niggas is watching, if I ever text you

212
00:11:22,960 --> 00:11:25,720
Speaker 2: would say I need some closure, let's talk. I'm just

213
00:11:25,720 --> 00:11:29,080
Speaker 2: trying to come get some deep me too. It's really

214
00:11:29,120 --> 00:11:31,960
Speaker 2: just a way to get give me no damn closure.

215
00:11:32,400 --> 00:11:35,640
Speaker 2: You're about to be beating this ship up. Period. That's

216
00:11:35,640 --> 00:11:44,000
Speaker 2: how we're gonna close closing because for real, like I

217
00:11:44,040 --> 00:11:46,280
Speaker 2: don't know, and I don't know what people's obsession with

218
00:11:46,440 --> 00:11:48,920
Speaker 2: closure is. Like it's so weird to me, Like I

219
00:11:48,960 --> 00:11:52,080
Speaker 2: literally don't look for closure. I don't either. If I

220
00:11:52,080 --> 00:11:54,120
Speaker 2: stay closer, that just means like, let me, let me be.

221
00:11:54,440 --> 00:11:56,960
Speaker 2: When I decide, I just eventually get fed up, then

222
00:11:56,960 --> 00:11:59,080
Speaker 2: I'll be like, fucky I'm doing. I'm leaving. I'm not

223
00:11:59,080 --> 00:12:00,760
Speaker 2: dealing with this ship no more. But I'm not like

224
00:12:00,880 --> 00:12:03,000
Speaker 2: expecting you because even if you do try to come back,

225
00:12:03,000 --> 00:12:06,080
Speaker 2: and even if we do eventually have a conversation and

226
00:12:06,120 --> 00:12:08,120
Speaker 2: talk about shit, I'm not expecting you to give me

227
00:12:08,200 --> 00:12:11,200
Speaker 2: closure on why things didn't work out or why you

228
00:12:11,240 --> 00:12:13,520
Speaker 2: did what you did because you all lie, right, you

229
00:12:13,520 --> 00:12:17,000
Speaker 2: ain't gonna tell me the truth and niggas, I just

230
00:12:17,080 --> 00:12:19,800
Speaker 2: was fucking on hos cause I just wanted some pussy.

231
00:12:19,960 --> 00:12:23,440
Speaker 2: You're you know what's crazy for my situations, It's never

232
00:12:23,520 --> 00:12:26,079
Speaker 2: been other women, Like I know niggas got other women,

233
00:12:26,120 --> 00:12:28,320
Speaker 2: but for me, cause I'm not insecure, I don't really

234
00:12:28,320 --> 00:12:29,040
Speaker 2: care what another.

235
00:12:28,880 --> 00:12:31,640
Speaker 1: Nigga doing, what a nigga doing when I'm not around, It's.

236
00:12:31,480 --> 00:12:34,319
Speaker 2: Always just been like they just be doing stuff to

237
00:12:34,440 --> 00:12:37,400
Speaker 2: push my buttons. It's certain things that push my buttons,

238
00:12:37,440 --> 00:12:39,800
Speaker 2: like if you talking to other girls or I see

239
00:12:39,840 --> 00:12:42,400
Speaker 2: you like another girl picture that stuff doesn't make me mad.

240
00:12:42,960 --> 00:12:44,960
Speaker 1: It just be like I can't even explain it.

241
00:12:45,000 --> 00:12:48,319
Speaker 2: But it's like every time I'm in with somebody, it's

242
00:12:48,360 --> 00:12:50,960
Speaker 2: always on some other shit like niggas just doing careless

243
00:12:51,000 --> 00:12:53,920
Speaker 2: ass shit. Yeah, like why would you it's been like

244
00:12:53,920 --> 00:12:55,040
Speaker 2: two or three days?

245
00:12:55,360 --> 00:12:56,760
Speaker 1: You are you being dry with me?

246
00:12:56,920 --> 00:12:59,000
Speaker 2: If I hit you up? You being real dry? Like

247
00:12:59,200 --> 00:13:01,640
Speaker 2: if I call you to be excited. But you can't

248
00:13:01,640 --> 00:13:03,760
Speaker 2: say that though, because people be going through shit. I

249
00:13:03,760 --> 00:13:07,880
Speaker 2: don't know. I don't give a fuck. Maybe that's my

250
00:13:08,000 --> 00:13:11,199
Speaker 2: problem because so you can't expect somebody to be happy

251
00:13:11,200 --> 00:13:13,280
Speaker 2: and enthus every time they talk to you. Well, I

252
00:13:13,280 --> 00:13:16,000
Speaker 2: don't expect you to be happy in thus but a

253
00:13:16,120 --> 00:13:19,400
Speaker 2: rough day and if I ask you, I always do that,

254
00:13:19,520 --> 00:13:22,880
Speaker 2: how was your day? It was cool? Well, damn, I'm

255
00:13:23,200 --> 00:13:24,719
Speaker 2: he don't, but he don't want to talk about it.

256
00:13:24,800 --> 00:13:25,600
Speaker 1: I mean, that's cool.

257
00:13:25,600 --> 00:13:27,920
Speaker 2: But if i'm your person and we're and this is

258
00:13:27,960 --> 00:13:31,080
Speaker 2: what we're doing, you're gonna keep that shit in. That's

259
00:13:31,080 --> 00:13:34,160
Speaker 2: not healthy, You're But some people like that because I'm

260
00:13:34,200 --> 00:13:36,760
Speaker 2: kind of like that. I mean, but I feel like

261
00:13:36,800 --> 00:13:38,360
Speaker 2: if I ask you if you had a good day

262
00:13:38,480 --> 00:13:40,480
Speaker 2: and you're like, no, I really didn't, I'll be like, Okay,

263
00:13:40,480 --> 00:13:42,480
Speaker 2: well what's wrong what happened? And you'll tell me. But

264
00:13:42,520 --> 00:13:45,480
Speaker 2: you're my friend, and we've been friends for like five years,

265
00:13:45,800 --> 00:13:48,559
Speaker 2: almost sixty years at this point, so I feel comfortable.

266
00:13:48,920 --> 00:13:51,520
Speaker 2: You're one of the very few people that I feel

267
00:13:51,520 --> 00:13:54,360
Speaker 2: comfortable opening up to and talking to about things. If

268
00:13:54,360 --> 00:13:56,079
Speaker 2: I had a bad day, then I feel like I

269
00:13:56,120 --> 00:13:58,560
Speaker 2: could talk to you, but not necessarily. If I just

270
00:13:58,559 --> 00:14:00,560
Speaker 2: started talking to a nigga three months ago or two

271
00:14:00,559 --> 00:14:03,120
Speaker 2: months ago, he asked me, how you like? What what happened?

272
00:14:03,160 --> 00:14:05,720
Speaker 2: Why you are not talking about somebody I've been dealing

273
00:14:05,760 --> 00:14:09,880
Speaker 2: with for three months, seen your booty hole. You should

274
00:14:09,920 --> 00:14:11,880
Speaker 2: be able to open up to me and tell me

275
00:14:12,280 --> 00:14:14,640
Speaker 2: that your nuggets was cold and you had a bad day. Well,

276
00:14:14,679 --> 00:14:16,800
Speaker 2: maybe that's why I feel comfortable talking to you because

277
00:14:16,840 --> 00:14:29,840
Speaker 2: I have seen that chocolate starfish. You know what they're

278
00:14:29,880 --> 00:14:32,400
Speaker 2: saying the girl, I know she didn't make that pushing

279
00:14:32,480 --> 00:14:35,480
Speaker 2: my foe. I really have no no, but I will

280
00:14:35,600 --> 00:14:37,880
Speaker 2: say like, damn, nigga, I haven't seen your ball.

281
00:14:38,040 --> 00:14:39,280
Speaker 1: You didn't seen this cool chee.

282
00:14:39,200 --> 00:14:42,120
Speaker 2: This booty hall. I hadn't seen your booty hole. You

283
00:14:42,160 --> 00:14:44,520
Speaker 2: want to draw the line and telling me what's wrong.

284
00:14:45,240 --> 00:14:47,400
Speaker 2: You had a bad day. You can't tell me what's wrong.

285
00:14:48,000 --> 00:14:51,200
Speaker 2: We not been ass naked tolls in your mouth and

286
00:14:51,280 --> 00:14:53,640
Speaker 2: niggas be having him funny looking booty cheeks, so they

287
00:14:53,640 --> 00:14:58,240
Speaker 2: shouldn't be clenching, shouldn't be clenched off. It should be

288
00:14:58,280 --> 00:15:05,200
Speaker 2: tight a change, and that's my point. We done did

289
00:15:05,400 --> 00:15:08,680
Speaker 2: all this. But you want to draw the line at

290
00:15:08,880 --> 00:15:11,320
Speaker 2: opening up to me, or when you open when you

291
00:15:11,360 --> 00:15:14,440
Speaker 2: do open up to me, you be like, oh, I'm scared, nigga,

292
00:15:14,480 --> 00:15:16,600
Speaker 2: Shut the fuck up. It is not that serious, Like

293
00:15:16,640 --> 00:15:18,360
Speaker 2: it's really not that I get to hold you that before.

294
00:15:18,360 --> 00:15:20,200
Speaker 2: I never had a nigga tell me oh I'm scared.

295
00:15:20,880 --> 00:15:21,480
Speaker 1: Yeah, I had.

296
00:15:21,720 --> 00:15:25,240
Speaker 2: I had a person that I was dating, like he

297
00:15:25,320 --> 00:15:27,880
Speaker 2: had went through like a really bad relationship and so

298
00:15:27,920 --> 00:15:29,640
Speaker 2: he was really kind of hurt, you know what I'm saying.

299
00:15:29,640 --> 00:15:32,080
Speaker 2: So he was kind of scared to open up to

300
00:15:32,120 --> 00:15:34,560
Speaker 2: me as far as having feelings for me and taking

301
00:15:34,560 --> 00:15:37,240
Speaker 2: things because he wanted to, but it was hard for him.

302
00:15:37,240 --> 00:15:40,280
Speaker 2: But my thing is, you can only tell a person

303
00:15:40,400 --> 00:15:42,880
Speaker 2: I'm different so much because when people tell me they different,

304
00:15:42,920 --> 00:15:44,640
Speaker 2: I don't believe you, you know what I'm saying. But

305
00:15:44,880 --> 00:15:48,160
Speaker 2: I'm not that person that's going to get information from

306
00:15:48,240 --> 00:15:50,880
Speaker 2: you and use it against you later on or try

307
00:15:50,920 --> 00:15:53,280
Speaker 2: to throw that shit in your face. If I'm here

308
00:15:53,320 --> 00:15:55,280
Speaker 2: for you, I'm telling you I'm here for you. If

309
00:15:55,320 --> 00:15:57,320
Speaker 2: I don't care, I'm not gonna ask you, know what

310
00:15:57,320 --> 00:15:59,120
Speaker 2: I'm saying. Like some people just be asking people how

311
00:15:59,240 --> 00:16:01,560
Speaker 2: was their day just because they're trying to have a conversation. No,

312
00:16:01,720 --> 00:16:03,320
Speaker 2: if I'm asking you how was your day or what's

313
00:16:03,360 --> 00:16:06,320
Speaker 2: going on, I genuinely really want to know. I agree,

314
00:16:06,320 --> 00:16:07,200
Speaker 2: because I ain't never.

315
00:16:09,040 --> 00:16:09,640
Speaker 1: That's what I'm saying.

316
00:16:09,680 --> 00:16:12,160
Speaker 2: I'm not an an evil, mean ass person like I

317
00:16:12,240 --> 00:16:14,440
Speaker 2: care about you. I'm not your enemy, you know what

318
00:16:14,480 --> 00:16:16,560
Speaker 2: I'm saying. Like, I think a lot of times people

319
00:16:16,600 --> 00:16:19,160
Speaker 2: deal with people that have ulterior motives and they don't

320
00:16:19,200 --> 00:16:21,760
Speaker 2: know what they want to do, and they're trying to

321
00:16:21,840 --> 00:16:24,040
Speaker 2: get something out the situation that they don't really want

322
00:16:24,080 --> 00:16:26,080
Speaker 2: a lot of women and men to act like they

323
00:16:26,120 --> 00:16:28,600
Speaker 2: care about people when they really don't. They're just trying

324
00:16:28,600 --> 00:16:30,880
Speaker 2: to get something out of the situation. I don't need

325
00:16:30,920 --> 00:16:34,120
Speaker 2: no nigga for nothing, but Dick. That's weird though, because

326
00:16:34,160 --> 00:16:36,160
Speaker 2: how can you deal with somebody that you don't actually

327
00:16:36,200 --> 00:16:40,080
Speaker 2: really care about because people want Chanelle baths or niggas

328
00:16:40,080 --> 00:16:42,760
Speaker 2: won't pussy. I mean, and that's cool, but I honestly

329
00:16:42,800 --> 00:16:45,240
Speaker 2: can say, like any nigga that I've deal with, especially

330
00:16:45,280 --> 00:16:46,960
Speaker 2: for a long period of time, like I really cared

331
00:16:46,960 --> 00:16:51,320
Speaker 2: about them. I did, maybe not loved, but I cared

332
00:16:51,360 --> 00:16:53,640
Speaker 2: about them. Yeah, I mean, they cared about like they

333
00:16:53,680 --> 00:16:56,680
Speaker 2: will be. But I'm just also a big believer in, like,

334
00:16:57,760 --> 00:17:02,240
Speaker 2: you know, getting what you put out the universe. So

335
00:17:02,240 --> 00:17:04,440
Speaker 2: so yes, let us know how y'all feel about going

336
00:17:04,480 --> 00:17:06,440
Speaker 2: back for the second and I've seen that soup. Don't

337
00:17:06,440 --> 00:17:08,480
Speaker 2: think they got away from me. I'll be peeping everything

338
00:17:08,520 --> 00:17:11,920
Speaker 2: what youre talking about. Some that shits strong. That ain't

339
00:17:11,960 --> 00:17:14,920
Speaker 2: why you did, Dick, That is not why you did dig.

340
00:17:16,280 --> 00:17:20,840
Speaker 2: We're about to cut her off, friends, Okay, bring in

341
00:17:20,840 --> 00:17:26,080
Speaker 2: the next topic. Beach. Oh you are so missing, bro,

342
00:17:26,880 --> 00:17:30,119
Speaker 2: I swear, come on, man, So I got a scenario

343
00:17:30,200 --> 00:17:33,040
Speaker 2: for you, right, okay, saw you at the club. You

344
00:17:33,040 --> 00:17:36,840
Speaker 2: and yr nigga, y'all in the saxe, y'all turned up.

345
00:17:37,600 --> 00:17:39,920
Speaker 2: He don't order. He done popped all the bottles in

346
00:17:40,000 --> 00:17:42,760
Speaker 2: the club. He don't order the nineteen forty two by

347
00:17:42,880 --> 00:17:47,200
Speaker 2: ten bottles, Ace of Spades by twelve bottles. Everybody looking

348
00:17:47,240 --> 00:17:55,680
Speaker 2: at y'all, a sparkless, everybody getting tipsy. Y'all late, having

349
00:17:55,720 --> 00:17:58,560
Speaker 2: a good night. Y'all walk out the club. You got

350
00:17:58,640 --> 00:18:06,920
Speaker 2: your minkne your your tom Fords. He got on his

351
00:18:07,200 --> 00:18:11,800
Speaker 2: just sippies, his Masashi. It's a big stuff, big big,

352
00:18:12,359 --> 00:18:17,840
Speaker 2: big stepper, big stepper, y'all icy shining in the moonlight.

353
00:18:19,400 --> 00:18:21,840
Speaker 2: Soe y'all walking out the club, right, nigga walk up

354
00:18:21,840 --> 00:18:27,679
Speaker 2: to your nigga, boom right in the chin two to

355
00:18:27,720 --> 00:18:32,840
Speaker 2: the dome. Damn he fell. Yeah, he knocked his ass. Yeah,

356
00:18:32,920 --> 00:18:36,120
Speaker 2: he knocked his ass, like your nigga just laying there,

357
00:18:37,119 --> 00:18:40,280
Speaker 2: and he was like, what you're gonna do? Is y'all

358
00:18:40,280 --> 00:18:42,080
Speaker 2: gonna be in a relationship the next day? Or will?

359
00:18:42,520 --> 00:18:46,360
Speaker 2: First of all, okay, Okay, let me say this now,

360
00:18:46,400 --> 00:18:50,439
Speaker 2: the way you describe that situation, he snuck my nigga.

361
00:18:51,040 --> 00:18:53,800
Speaker 2: First of all, don't be my nigga. He got your

362
00:18:53,840 --> 00:18:57,040
Speaker 2: sepas on, bitch, this is my bad b. Now you're

363
00:18:57,080 --> 00:18:59,320
Speaker 2: fucking with my bad b Now you're messing with my money.

364
00:19:00,680 --> 00:19:03,160
Speaker 2: Now we got a motherfucking problem. But I'm getting mad

365
00:19:03,200 --> 00:19:06,800
Speaker 2: already cause I'm just met hering the club. I'll tell you,

366
00:19:06,960 --> 00:19:08,840
Speaker 2: I have meeting the club this show nigga. I know,

367
00:19:08,880 --> 00:19:12,119
Speaker 2: I'm just singing a song. Okay, I'm just saying. So

368
00:19:12,280 --> 00:19:15,760
Speaker 2: if he snuffed my nigga, oh we got a fucking problem.

369
00:19:15,880 --> 00:19:18,680
Speaker 2: Which what you gonna do? She about to get her asked, well,

370
00:19:18,720 --> 00:19:21,280
Speaker 2: we're all about to be in the street fighting the

371
00:19:21,400 --> 00:19:27,879
Speaker 2: channel's and all. So, but now if my nigga was

372
00:19:27,960 --> 00:19:31,359
Speaker 2: like ready, like they're trying to like square up and

373
00:19:31,400 --> 00:19:34,880
Speaker 2: he knocked my nigga out, oh you got to go. Okay.

374
00:19:35,040 --> 00:19:37,439
Speaker 2: So if they got in like a real fight, a

375
00:19:37,520 --> 00:19:42,919
Speaker 2: legit fight, you embarrassed your nigga got jumped. No, I

376
00:19:42,920 --> 00:19:45,919
Speaker 2: see that's different. Okay, So I'll let you know what

377
00:19:45,920 --> 00:19:49,960
Speaker 2: happened to me. I've been in a situation like this, Yes, y'all,

378
00:19:49,960 --> 00:19:52,679
Speaker 2: I've been in a situation like this. Oh hell now, okay,

379
00:19:52,760 --> 00:19:55,119
Speaker 2: So I'll start. I was in a serious relationship with

380
00:19:55,160 --> 00:19:58,119
Speaker 2: this guy. We used to live together, like anyway. So

381
00:19:58,600 --> 00:20:00,600
Speaker 2: at the time, he was in college, so he was

382
00:20:00,640 --> 00:20:02,879
Speaker 2: staying in the little you know, dorms or whatever. I

383
00:20:02,960 --> 00:20:04,560
Speaker 2: was pretty young and I don't think I was like

384
00:20:05,080 --> 00:20:09,680
Speaker 2: twenty twenty one. So him and this dude were riding

385
00:20:09,680 --> 00:20:12,360
Speaker 2: in the car together. The dude was driving, my boyfriend

386
00:20:12,440 --> 00:20:15,320
Speaker 2: was in the passenger seat. They get pulled over. The

387
00:20:15,400 --> 00:20:18,440
Speaker 2: dude had warrants, so he was like, yo, switch seats

388
00:20:18,440 --> 00:20:20,320
Speaker 2: with me, and he was like, nah, nigga, like I'm

389
00:20:20,320 --> 00:20:22,600
Speaker 2: not getting in trouble for you type shit, Like my

390
00:20:22,600 --> 00:20:25,119
Speaker 2: boyfriend didn't want to switch seats with him. So the

391
00:20:25,200 --> 00:20:28,600
Speaker 2: dude ended up getting I mean shit, fuck you know

392
00:20:28,640 --> 00:20:31,640
Speaker 2: what I'm saying. So he didn't end up switching seats

393
00:20:31,640 --> 00:20:33,400
Speaker 2: with the nigga. So the nigga got mad at him.

394
00:20:33,840 --> 00:20:36,080
Speaker 2: So he was like going around campus like, oh, when

395
00:20:36,080 --> 00:20:38,440
Speaker 2: I see that nigga, i'm'na beat his ass'm'na beat his ass.

396
00:20:38,920 --> 00:20:43,359
Speaker 2: So we in the room chilling me and my nigga.

397
00:20:43,600 --> 00:20:46,680
Speaker 2: All of a sudden, I hear a bang on the door,

398
00:20:46,720 --> 00:20:48,879
Speaker 2: like boo boo, boo boom, and he was just like

399
00:20:48,920 --> 00:20:51,399
Speaker 2: sitting there, like looking at the ceiling. I didn't know

400
00:20:51,440 --> 00:20:53,199
Speaker 2: what was going on. I'm like, who is that he?

401
00:20:53,400 --> 00:20:55,840
Speaker 2: And I'm like, let me go get the door. He's like, nah, baby,

402
00:20:55,840 --> 00:20:57,159
Speaker 2: don't go get the door. Don't get the door. He

403
00:20:57,240 --> 00:21:00,720
Speaker 2: knew his head it was that nigga. But I'm just like,

404
00:21:00,840 --> 00:21:02,880
Speaker 2: who the fuck is this? You know, like I'm thinking

405
00:21:02,920 --> 00:21:04,800
Speaker 2: it's a bitch or something. I'm like, who the fuck

406
00:21:04,880 --> 00:21:07,439
Speaker 2: is and he got beat up? No, he didn't get

407
00:21:07,480 --> 00:21:09,919
Speaker 2: beat up. Let me finish the story now, so you

408
00:21:10,000 --> 00:21:13,280
Speaker 2: know me, I'm a big bitch. Now, don't get it twisted. Okay.

409
00:21:13,800 --> 00:21:14,719
Speaker 1: So I answered the door.

410
00:21:14,800 --> 00:21:17,280
Speaker 2: He's like, Yo, what is nigga? What the nigga? I said,

411
00:21:17,280 --> 00:21:20,720
Speaker 2: hold on, hold on this nigga big as fuck, y'all.

412
00:21:21,040 --> 00:21:23,320
Speaker 2: I'm a big bitch. I was looking up like, God damn,

413
00:21:23,520 --> 00:21:26,560
Speaker 2: we about to get gift in this motherfucker. Let me

414
00:21:26,560 --> 00:21:28,320
Speaker 2: tell you what happened. He was like, no, I'm about

415
00:21:28,359 --> 00:21:30,480
Speaker 2: to be I literally had to stand in front and

416
00:21:30,560 --> 00:21:33,760
Speaker 2: between them and I'm literally pushing this. This nigga was

417
00:21:33,800 --> 00:21:36,480
Speaker 2: like six three two fifty I'm pushing this nigga back.

418
00:21:36,640 --> 00:21:41,119
Speaker 2: My nigga hiding behind me. Yeah, he was literally ho

419
00:21:41,320 --> 00:21:44,240
Speaker 2: it was a big dude. He was like, I, Lily,

420
00:21:44,320 --> 00:21:47,080
Speaker 2: hell now, I was literally pushing this nigga back, like, no,

421
00:21:47,200 --> 00:21:49,280
Speaker 2: you're not about to beat my man up, because not

422
00:21:49,440 --> 00:21:51,680
Speaker 2: only you the real bitch, because I would have stepped

423
00:21:51,680 --> 00:21:54,000
Speaker 2: to the side, like my problem. You know what I'm

424
00:21:54,000 --> 00:21:56,639
Speaker 2: saying that when I think back on it, I should

425
00:21:56,720 --> 00:21:57,920
Speaker 2: have to be like, you got it.

426
00:21:58,280 --> 00:22:00,119
Speaker 1: But when I think back on it, I should have.

427
00:22:00,520 --> 00:22:02,439
Speaker 2: But you know what was in my mind, I was like,

428
00:22:02,520 --> 00:22:04,320
Speaker 2: I cannot watch this nigga beat up in front of

429
00:22:04,359 --> 00:22:06,879
Speaker 2: me because I'm gonna be so turned out. And I

430
00:22:06,960 --> 00:22:09,280
Speaker 2: knew he wasn't gonna hit me. Well, no, I didn't

431
00:22:09,280 --> 00:22:11,440
Speaker 2: know that. I really didn't know that. That's why I'm saying.

432
00:22:11,480 --> 00:22:13,520
Speaker 2: That's what I'm saying. That's why you crazy as hell.

433
00:22:13,560 --> 00:22:15,760
Speaker 2: I would have stepped to the side and been like

434
00:22:15,800 --> 00:22:18,480
Speaker 2: here you go, here right here. I did see. I

435
00:22:18,520 --> 00:22:20,040
Speaker 2: couldn't give my nigga up like that. But when he

436
00:22:20,119 --> 00:22:23,400
Speaker 2: left me already, I mean, the nigga already knew where

437
00:22:23,440 --> 00:22:25,800
Speaker 2: he stayed at you not giving him up. He literally

438
00:22:25,800 --> 00:22:27,800
Speaker 2: came to his door, I know, but I was like,

439
00:22:27,840 --> 00:22:29,399
Speaker 2: if y'all gonna do this, y'all not gonna do this

440
00:22:29,440 --> 00:22:31,280
Speaker 2: while I'm here. So he was like, oh, bet I

441
00:22:31,280 --> 00:22:33,800
Speaker 2: got something. I got somebody. Always been a stand up

442
00:22:33,840 --> 00:22:36,600
Speaker 2: beach me. I feel like I'm solid now, But in

443
00:22:36,720 --> 00:22:38,919
Speaker 2: my younger days, y'all okay, he could have had that

444
00:22:39,000 --> 00:22:41,800
Speaker 2: nigga for real. I would have been like, he are no,

445
00:22:41,920 --> 00:22:43,440
Speaker 2: and he I would have went to my back, to

446
00:22:43,480 --> 00:22:45,399
Speaker 2: my door. He was like, oh, I got somebody, so

447
00:22:45,480 --> 00:22:47,400
Speaker 2: you don't going to give my sister. But he never

448
00:22:47,480 --> 00:22:50,679
Speaker 2: came back, so he was really about to give me the.

449
00:22:52,520 --> 00:22:55,480
Speaker 1: I he was really willing I did.

450
00:22:55,320 --> 00:22:58,879
Speaker 2: Did you really put your life on the line for that?

451
00:22:58,880 --> 00:23:02,400
Speaker 2: That's why I didn't even that good. That's what I remember.

452
00:23:03,320 --> 00:23:06,080
Speaker 2: I can't even remember it, you wi. He was broke.

453
00:23:07,160 --> 00:23:09,639
Speaker 2: He was broke too. It was growing up around all

454
00:23:09,680 --> 00:23:13,560
Speaker 2: them carings. That's what hed you doing it? Because I'm

455
00:23:13,680 --> 00:23:17,879
Speaker 2: because growing up you're not gonna say him you're not.

456
00:23:18,040 --> 00:23:20,960
Speaker 2: Because growing up in the hook bead, I know, I

457
00:23:21,000 --> 00:23:24,480
Speaker 2: would have been like, here, go here, right here, you're right.

458
00:23:24,560 --> 00:23:26,840
Speaker 2: That probably has a lot to do with it. Absolutely.

459
00:23:27,680 --> 00:23:30,920
Speaker 2: When I was twenty twenty one, hey, right here, Ridney,

460
00:23:31,040 --> 00:23:34,720
Speaker 2: right here. And you know then, you know, that was

461
00:23:34,760 --> 00:23:37,560
Speaker 2: before I really had a lot of abing on me.

462
00:23:37,800 --> 00:23:40,920
Speaker 2: He was, he was like I would have been like,

463
00:23:40,960 --> 00:23:43,200
Speaker 2: why are you rabbing on me? You should have been

464
00:23:43,200 --> 00:23:45,600
Speaker 2: thinking about that before I really had like a lot

465
00:23:45,640 --> 00:23:47,200
Speaker 2: of black friends. I didn't have a lot of black

466
00:23:47,200 --> 00:23:49,199
Speaker 2: friends then, so you know, I used to talk a

467
00:23:49,200 --> 00:23:53,440
Speaker 2: little different. So I was definitely like, shop, guys, shop,

468
00:23:54,000 --> 00:23:56,400
Speaker 2: You're not gonna do this right here. I'm gonna call

469
00:23:56,440 --> 00:24:08,240
Speaker 2: the police, Get out, get out the money. So that's

470
00:24:08,359 --> 00:24:10,719
Speaker 2: my story of your man almost getting beat up, but

471
00:24:10,760 --> 00:24:13,000
Speaker 2: he didn't get beat up. He did it, but I

472
00:24:13,080 --> 00:24:15,520
Speaker 2: wasn't letting sh go down like that. But now as

473
00:24:15,520 --> 00:24:17,720
Speaker 2: an adult, hey, if a nigga coming at you, you

474
00:24:17,800 --> 00:24:20,119
Speaker 2: got you got to do what you're gonna do? What So,

475
00:24:20,280 --> 00:24:22,760
Speaker 2: what would you do? That's that's my question. What would

476
00:24:22,760 --> 00:24:25,720
Speaker 2: you do if you was in a situation either a

477
00:24:25,960 --> 00:24:29,199
Speaker 2: your nigga got snug while you was there, be your

478
00:24:29,280 --> 00:24:32,080
Speaker 2: nigga got beat the fuck up while you was there,

479
00:24:32,600 --> 00:24:35,960
Speaker 2: or see that nigga got fucking jumped while you were

480
00:24:36,040 --> 00:24:38,040
Speaker 2: standing right there? What the fuck would you do? Would

481
00:24:38,040 --> 00:24:40,919
Speaker 2: you still with that nigga if he was a BDB. Yeah, Like,

482
00:24:41,040 --> 00:24:43,640
Speaker 2: if a nigga got snuck, anybody can get snuck, that's

483
00:24:43,680 --> 00:24:45,879
Speaker 2: not his fault. If a nigga get jumped, that's not

484
00:24:45,920 --> 00:24:48,800
Speaker 2: his fault either. Like you know what I'm saying. If

485
00:24:48,800 --> 00:24:50,840
Speaker 2: a nigga got jump, I can't jump in on niggas

486
00:24:50,880 --> 00:24:54,199
Speaker 2: be getting hard. If a nigga getting jumped, I'm not

487
00:24:54,320 --> 00:25:01,560
Speaker 2: jumping in girls, be like, not my man, and you're

488
00:25:01,560 --> 00:25:08,760
Speaker 2: not gonna touch my man? Anything out held? What? What draw?

489
00:25:09,359 --> 00:25:11,560
Speaker 2: What are you about to air? What out wish? You

490
00:25:11,600 --> 00:25:19,919
Speaker 2: know what? I keeping my birds, not the wire sad Like,

491
00:25:20,040 --> 00:25:22,720
Speaker 2: don't act like you don't know anybody's got that. I

492
00:25:22,720 --> 00:25:24,520
Speaker 2: don't know who the watching it. I'm not about to

493
00:25:24,560 --> 00:25:27,679
Speaker 2: talk about it. I'm not talking about it on camera.

494
00:25:27,920 --> 00:25:30,720
Speaker 2: Got pepper spray, I got said too. If I want

495
00:25:30,720 --> 00:25:37,800
Speaker 2: to jump, ready for you beachy too? But serious, I

496
00:25:37,840 --> 00:25:39,520
Speaker 2: feel like that's what a real beach do. You ain't

497
00:25:39,520 --> 00:25:44,639
Speaker 2: gonna jump He probably just like what's that movie called

498
00:25:44,920 --> 00:25:49,199
Speaker 2: Hall of Night? But then they but then he hit

499
00:25:49,240 --> 00:25:55,600
Speaker 2: her pinky toe. Can't be shooting nobody toe off? But no,

500
00:25:55,880 --> 00:25:58,440
Speaker 2: I feel like shit happens. I wouldn't leave a nigga

501
00:25:58,480 --> 00:26:00,080
Speaker 2: if he got beat up. Now, I would be like

502
00:26:00,240 --> 00:26:03,000
Speaker 2: son in that nigga, like if we got pend on

503
00:26:03,119 --> 00:26:04,960
Speaker 2: why and I'll be like, yeah, that's why that nigga

504
00:26:05,000 --> 00:26:10,119
Speaker 2: beat your ass. Pussy, He's gonna be like, damn, can

505
00:26:10,160 --> 00:26:11,920
Speaker 2: you clean up? Why don't you ask that nigga to

506
00:26:11,960 --> 00:26:16,639
Speaker 2: come clean up? Pussy? He beat your ass'. I don't

507
00:26:16,720 --> 00:26:19,439
Speaker 2: know if it depends. It would depend on why. I

508
00:26:19,440 --> 00:26:21,640
Speaker 2: would have to find out the back story the next day,

509
00:26:21,840 --> 00:26:26,480
Speaker 2: like why this nigga beat you us. I would literally

510
00:26:26,560 --> 00:26:31,199
Speaker 2: ask like sit and ask him, like stop it out yesterday,

511
00:26:32,880 --> 00:26:36,480
Speaker 2: like what happened? Why? And then it would depend on

512
00:26:36,520 --> 00:26:38,960
Speaker 2: the storyline if I stayed with him.

513
00:26:38,800 --> 00:26:40,440
Speaker 1: An ad like if he was in the wrong or

514
00:26:40,440 --> 00:26:41,440
Speaker 1: if the other person.

515
00:26:41,240 --> 00:26:44,760
Speaker 2: Was in the wrong. Yeah, yeah it was. It would

516
00:26:44,760 --> 00:26:47,159
Speaker 2: just depend Yeah, I don't really care about all that,

517
00:26:47,240 --> 00:26:51,000
Speaker 2: Like I just feel like I do. I mean, beat

518
00:26:51,080 --> 00:26:56,520
Speaker 2: up in front of your nigga. That nigga not gonna

519
00:26:56,600 --> 00:27:00,680
Speaker 2: leave you. You never know, he might. My beach ain't

520
00:27:00,720 --> 00:27:02,800
Speaker 2: got no hands, they don't give a fun I'm not

521
00:27:02,800 --> 00:27:05,960
Speaker 2: about to give you front of my nigga. I know

522
00:27:06,080 --> 00:27:09,800
Speaker 2: that's right. You got the gun, you got hands, and

523
00:27:09,840 --> 00:27:16,480
Speaker 2: I got made up got guns got Who the fuck

524
00:27:16,600 --> 00:27:22,320
Speaker 2: are you the fuck you think this bitch? First of all,

525
00:27:22,640 --> 00:27:27,440
Speaker 2: I understand that Dray is five one pounds. I got

526
00:27:27,440 --> 00:27:31,199
Speaker 2: this done, I got the girl. What is you gonna do?

527
00:27:32,280 --> 00:27:35,280
Speaker 2: Oh Lord? Okay, Harry, I'm ready. I don't give a

528
00:27:35,320 --> 00:27:37,119
Speaker 2: fuck though, but I don't know. I would have my

529
00:27:37,200 --> 00:27:39,560
Speaker 2: nigga bag. Okay, I would too.

530
00:27:39,680 --> 00:27:42,879
Speaker 1: Now, yeah, I'm calling something.

531
00:27:42,880 --> 00:27:46,320
Speaker 2: Come out of security. I'm calling security somebody. It ain't

532
00:27:46,320 --> 00:27:48,120
Speaker 2: gonna be the end of it though. It ain't gonna

533
00:27:48,160 --> 00:27:50,679
Speaker 2: be the end of it already, not because I And

534
00:27:50,720 --> 00:27:52,840
Speaker 2: that's maybe that's why I'm still toxic a little bit,

535
00:27:52,840 --> 00:27:54,480
Speaker 2: because I'll be telling my nigga the next day. So

536
00:27:54,640 --> 00:27:56,240
Speaker 2: you just do not let that nigga sneak you like that.

537
00:27:57,280 --> 00:28:02,720
Speaker 2: You're missing jail. What you gonna do by it? No,

538
00:28:02,800 --> 00:28:04,600
Speaker 2: I'm playing. I wouldn't do that. I'll be telling him

539
00:28:04,600 --> 00:28:07,239
Speaker 2: to pray about Okay. So what y'all, y'all nigga, if

540
00:28:07,240 --> 00:28:09,200
Speaker 2: he got beat up in front of you, I say no,

541
00:28:09,840 --> 00:28:13,959
Speaker 2: you say it depends on the situation, Okay. So now

542
00:28:14,000 --> 00:28:18,560
Speaker 2: we're gonna get into the b Hey, the b B.

543
00:28:20,760 --> 00:28:23,400
Speaker 2: It's so crazy. He just looks so different doing it

544
00:28:23,480 --> 00:28:29,680
Speaker 2: like with your conservative sweater old ladies today today.

545
00:28:30,560 --> 00:28:37,720
Speaker 3: You heard what she's saying now, Okay, So I wanted

546
00:28:37,760 --> 00:28:40,840
Speaker 3: to talk about you when you got money.

547
00:28:40,840 --> 00:28:47,120
Speaker 2: That's how you laugh. How you can't like show people

548
00:28:47,160 --> 00:28:53,880
Speaker 2: your teach nigga like you do it, you know, real

549
00:28:53,960 --> 00:28:57,200
Speaker 2: cool nigga. I don't give a fuck. I'm gonna always

550
00:28:57,280 --> 00:29:01,800
Speaker 2: laugh like could she be funniest? Okay, So I wanted

551
00:29:01,840 --> 00:29:06,760
Speaker 2: to talk about morning sex versus night sex. What's up y'all?

552
00:29:06,760 --> 00:29:08,680
Speaker 2: It's your girl Dray in the call and it's your

553
00:29:08,720 --> 00:29:11,360
Speaker 2: girl lex Pete. Okay. It's like, you know, we love

554
00:29:11,440 --> 00:29:14,160
Speaker 2: some smell good shit. You know, the house gotta smell good.

555
00:29:14,240 --> 00:29:16,360
Speaker 2: You gotta smell good, your couch, you gotta smell good.

556
00:29:16,720 --> 00:29:20,960
Speaker 2: Everything ain't gotta smell good. So I've been obsessed with

557
00:29:21,040 --> 00:29:24,720
Speaker 2: these candles from Good Day since lately. They smell so amazing,

558
00:29:24,840 --> 00:29:27,760
Speaker 2: Like literally, when I walk into my house, it just

559
00:29:28,040 --> 00:29:31,080
Speaker 2: takes over. Yes, it's gonna light your whole place up,

560
00:29:31,080 --> 00:29:33,680
Speaker 2: whether you got apartment on home, are you living in

561
00:29:33,720 --> 00:29:36,680
Speaker 2: a box under eighty five, it's gonna make your stuff

562
00:29:36,760 --> 00:29:39,680
Speaker 2: smell good. So make sure you visit www dot good

563
00:29:39,760 --> 00:29:42,800
Speaker 2: Day since dot com and use cold poor that's p

564
00:29:43,000 --> 00:29:46,560
Speaker 2: o R and you'll get twenty five percent off your candles.

565
00:29:46,760 --> 00:29:49,120
Speaker 2: And mind you, y'all they're black owned. You know we're

566
00:29:49,120 --> 00:29:51,520
Speaker 2: doing we supporting the black owed. Yeah, it's all twenty

567
00:29:51,560 --> 00:29:53,760
Speaker 2: twenty one. So make sure you get your good day

568
00:29:53,800 --> 00:29:59,200
Speaker 2: sense candle and you know, level up period. What do

569
00:29:59,240 --> 00:29:59,760
Speaker 2: you prefer?

570
00:30:01,240 --> 00:30:02,400
Speaker 1: Do you like morning sex?

571
00:30:02,480 --> 00:30:05,400
Speaker 2: I like morning six, but don't kiss me. I'm dead

572
00:30:06,840 --> 00:30:11,239
Speaker 2: dead ass. Don't bitch. If we just woke up and

573
00:30:11,280 --> 00:30:13,080
Speaker 2: you're rolling over and you're trying to get some pussy

574
00:30:13,240 --> 00:30:15,360
Speaker 2: and you have not brushed your teeth, do not fuck it,

575
00:30:15,440 --> 00:30:16,720
Speaker 2: keeps me, don't breathe on me.

576
00:30:17,240 --> 00:30:19,480
Speaker 1: None of this that ginger bities nigga, I want it

577
00:30:19,640 --> 00:30:20,200
Speaker 1: nast now.

578
00:30:21,760 --> 00:30:24,280
Speaker 2: I don't want to next me. No, thank you? Well

579
00:30:24,320 --> 00:30:26,280
Speaker 2: let me not lie. I really do not like more

580
00:30:26,320 --> 00:30:28,720
Speaker 2: than sex. I don't I really don't like. I don't

581
00:30:28,760 --> 00:30:31,240
Speaker 2: mind it, but don't kiss me. You know, I feel like,

582
00:30:31,280 --> 00:30:34,000
Speaker 2: how but how sick? How good can six be? You

583
00:30:34,080 --> 00:30:37,760
Speaker 2: can't really be into me? You know? Like I feel

584
00:30:37,760 --> 00:30:40,920
Speaker 2: like morning sex is cool cause it's like spontaneous, but

585
00:30:41,240 --> 00:30:43,360
Speaker 2: I really don't care for it. Like when I have sex,

586
00:30:43,400 --> 00:30:47,239
Speaker 2: I like to prepare for it. I like to like

587
00:30:47,400 --> 00:30:49,320
Speaker 2: be ready, like I know I'm about to fuck, like

588
00:30:49,360 --> 00:30:50,760
Speaker 2: I like to get in the mood like.

589
00:30:50,720 --> 00:30:52,640
Speaker 1: Sometimes like you know when you have a morning sex,

590
00:30:52,720 --> 00:30:53,720
Speaker 1: like niggas.

591
00:30:53,400 --> 00:30:55,720
Speaker 2: Will roll over me like good morning, slide that dick

592
00:30:55,760 --> 00:30:58,800
Speaker 2: in like hold on, nigga, go, I feel a yawn

593
00:30:58,840 --> 00:31:02,920
Speaker 2: and and shit, she crust all them all, yo, eye

594
00:31:03,680 --> 00:31:08,760
Speaker 2: a partnership, bitch if I'm not up up when she

595
00:31:08,800 --> 00:31:10,640
Speaker 2: looking at me like bitch this nigga, I'm like the

596
00:31:10,760 --> 00:31:13,920
Speaker 2: nigga trip like it'd be too much going on in

597
00:31:14,720 --> 00:31:16,240
Speaker 2: it do. I just don't like it.

598
00:31:16,280 --> 00:31:20,520
Speaker 1: I don't like it. I love having sound.

599
00:31:20,920 --> 00:31:24,440
Speaker 2: I don't like mourning bricks. I don't like me. Do

600
00:31:24,560 --> 00:31:26,520
Speaker 2: not kiss me? And don't you dare think you about

601
00:31:26,560 --> 00:31:29,280
Speaker 2: to put your nasty as moth on my pussy, That's

602
00:31:29,280 --> 00:31:31,920
Speaker 2: what I'm saying. And then niggas got a pee so

603
00:31:32,000 --> 00:31:36,040
Speaker 2: they did like staying hard and shit like please just stop.

604
00:31:36,480 --> 00:31:38,560
Speaker 2: I like to have sex like at night, but it

605
00:31:38,600 --> 00:31:42,160
Speaker 2: doesn't have to be spontaneous. I mean it doesn't. I like, well,

606
00:31:42,200 --> 00:31:44,480
Speaker 2: I guess what I'm trying to say is I like spontaneous. See,

607
00:31:45,080 --> 00:31:47,800
Speaker 2: so it's not about it being spontaneous. It's just about

608
00:31:47,840 --> 00:31:51,200
Speaker 2: the act of like just waking up and just I

609
00:31:51,280 --> 00:31:53,280
Speaker 2: feel like, if you know you're about to have morning

610
00:31:54,480 --> 00:31:57,920
Speaker 2: your eye, Yeah, nigga be heating and missionary, be like

611
00:31:57,920 --> 00:32:04,640
Speaker 2: you got something like the nigga crust, got that little drool,

612
00:32:04,840 --> 00:32:08,800
Speaker 2: You got the little drool thing right there? Be hell no,

613
00:32:08,800 --> 00:32:11,800
Speaker 2: no thank you. I sound like if I'm gonna have

614
00:32:11,840 --> 00:32:14,840
Speaker 2: morning sex, like wake up, go to the bathroom, do

615
00:32:14,920 --> 00:32:17,120
Speaker 2: your thing. Let me wake up, go to the bathroom.

616
00:32:17,280 --> 00:32:19,640
Speaker 2: You can lay back in bed, chill for a little minute,

617
00:32:19,680 --> 00:32:22,160
Speaker 2: talk and then you know, we can make something happen.

618
00:32:23,080 --> 00:32:25,120
Speaker 2: Like you gotta go do with brush tea for me,

619
00:32:26,800 --> 00:32:29,880
Speaker 2: like wipe off your face, go pee. You know what

620
00:32:29,920 --> 00:32:32,680
Speaker 2: I'm saying, Like, let me pee. I can't. I hate,

621
00:32:32,920 --> 00:32:36,680
Speaker 2: I cannot fuck with a gut full of pinsts neither

622
00:32:37,160 --> 00:32:40,400
Speaker 2: nigga got the fuck nigga be like, oh yeah, she squirked. Nigga,

623
00:32:40,400 --> 00:32:46,200
Speaker 2: I'm pissing the fuck like that. It's not squirt. I'd

624
00:32:46,200 --> 00:32:48,640
Speaker 2: be like, fuck it. You don't want to stop seeing

625
00:32:48,720 --> 00:32:55,200
Speaker 2: the pe staying for PC hey, cause you only gonna

626
00:32:55,200 --> 00:32:59,600
Speaker 2: fuck me for so long. Hey, nigga, Okay, I'm just

627
00:32:59,600 --> 00:33:02,720
Speaker 2: saying so gess, I do not fuck with morning sex.

628
00:33:02,920 --> 00:33:05,400
Speaker 2: I don't like it. I do like spontaneous sex, but

629
00:33:05,440 --> 00:33:08,080
Speaker 2: I feel like if it's morning sex and we gotta

630
00:33:08,080 --> 00:33:11,120
Speaker 2: get ready, I definitely prefer night six though. And it's

631
00:33:11,160 --> 00:33:13,480
Speaker 2: because I don't know the nights. I just come alive.

632
00:33:13,520 --> 00:33:15,480
Speaker 2: What we're gonna said, I come alive in the nights?

633
00:33:15,560 --> 00:33:17,680
Speaker 2: Or is it dre It was one of them on

634
00:33:17,720 --> 00:33:22,600
Speaker 2: their song together. But yeah, I love nighttime. I'm really

635
00:33:22,640 --> 00:33:25,200
Speaker 2: a night person. I'm a morning person too. I do

636
00:33:25,240 --> 00:33:27,040
Speaker 2: feel like I think we both are morning people too.

637
00:33:27,040 --> 00:33:29,200
Speaker 2: Though we be up earlier, you'll be up earliest.

638
00:33:29,520 --> 00:33:31,400
Speaker 1: But I do feel like I'm just a night out.

639
00:33:31,760 --> 00:33:36,600
Speaker 2: But I am saying, look in the morning, I'm not

640
00:33:36,680 --> 00:33:39,960
Speaker 2: sucking no dick. I'm not riding no dick. I'm about

641
00:33:39,960 --> 00:33:42,440
Speaker 2: to just roll over to the side. Get this side.

642
00:33:42,520 --> 00:33:44,719
Speaker 2: Put in period facts if we gonna have if we're

643
00:33:44,720 --> 00:33:46,640
Speaker 2: gonna have morning sex, you definitely about to get it

644
00:33:46,680 --> 00:33:49,200
Speaker 2: from the side. Period. I'm not doing lifting extra. You

645
00:33:49,240 --> 00:33:52,280
Speaker 2: don't you dare trying to lift my leg up? Don't

646
00:33:52,320 --> 00:33:57,600
Speaker 2: you dare? Nigga? You know that nigga beat you up

647
00:33:57,600 --> 00:33:59,400
Speaker 2: at the club, But I get beat up right now.

648
00:34:00,800 --> 00:34:03,360
Speaker 2: I'm saying, you dare lift my leg goods. I definitely,

649
00:34:03,720 --> 00:34:06,320
Speaker 2: but I definitely love night sex. And then you know it,

650
00:34:06,440 --> 00:34:11,960
Speaker 2: nights in the nighttime you be you know, drugs high.

651
00:34:12,160 --> 00:34:14,600
Speaker 1: We always we already talked about drunk sex and.

652
00:34:17,719 --> 00:34:22,719
Speaker 2: It'd be all So let us know what do y'all

653
00:34:22,760 --> 00:34:27,680
Speaker 2: prefer morning sex or night sex? So now we're gonna

654
00:34:27,760 --> 00:34:36,799
Speaker 2: get into dubiu. Hey, what's your beach? Y'all already know

655
00:34:36,800 --> 00:34:40,600
Speaker 2: what my bop of the week is? So do we? Yes?

656
00:34:40,760 --> 00:34:42,520
Speaker 2: Hold on, let me pull it up. Let me pull up. Look,

657
00:34:42,600 --> 00:34:47,320
Speaker 2: y'all we professional. We got I pass now, y'all? Okay,

658
00:34:47,360 --> 00:34:53,160
Speaker 2: So my bop of the week is Hotels by Jasmine Sullivan.

659
00:34:53,560 --> 00:34:55,680
Speaker 2: If you know that it's gonna be your ride. Yes,

660
00:34:55,760 --> 00:34:58,280
Speaker 2: If you know me, you know I'm a huge Jazzmine

661
00:34:58,280 --> 00:35:01,520
Speaker 2: Sullivan fan. I feel like I always say this every week.

662
00:35:01,560 --> 00:35:04,160
Speaker 2: If you are a person who says R and.

663
00:35:04,080 --> 00:35:06,920
Speaker 1: B is dead, you just don't. You're a lazy music listener.

664
00:35:07,000 --> 00:35:09,080
Speaker 2: You just don't listen to music because R and B

665
00:35:09,360 --> 00:35:13,360
Speaker 2: is nowhere near dead. And Jasmine Sullivan proved that with

666
00:35:13,560 --> 00:35:17,759
Speaker 2: the drop of her album Hotels. So she has a

667
00:35:17,800 --> 00:35:21,040
Speaker 2: song on there with her called girl Like Me and

668
00:35:21,120 --> 00:35:23,760
Speaker 2: let Me Tell You something that I love about Jasmine Sullivan.

669
00:35:24,239 --> 00:35:28,239
Speaker 2: Jasmine Sullivan lets the real be known because I feel

670
00:35:28,239 --> 00:35:30,120
Speaker 2: like a lot of men and women they look at

671
00:35:30,160 --> 00:35:33,800
Speaker 2: the girls that are like artsy and the earthy girls,

672
00:35:33,800 --> 00:35:35,799
Speaker 2: and they're like, oh, they don't care about nothing. They

673
00:35:35,920 --> 00:35:37,880
Speaker 2: just want to be in their own world living. But

674
00:35:37,920 --> 00:35:40,839
Speaker 2: on girl like me, she explains, like, Nigga, you played

675
00:35:40,920 --> 00:35:43,000
Speaker 2: me for an Instagram bitch, So do I need to

676
00:35:43,040 --> 00:35:46,040
Speaker 2: have a smaller waiste a fatter ass? Like? I think

677
00:35:46,080 --> 00:35:49,239
Speaker 2: that's a feeling that all women feel. Though I'm dead,

678
00:35:49,320 --> 00:35:51,640
Speaker 2: but I'm saying like, I feel like she's real because

679
00:35:51,680 --> 00:35:53,239
Speaker 2: a lot of them, a lot of men would love

680
00:35:53,760 --> 00:35:57,040
Speaker 2: to be with Jazzmine Sullivan like love. But the fact

681
00:35:57,040 --> 00:35:58,799
Speaker 2: of the matter is is that she's this person in

682
00:35:58,840 --> 00:36:02,040
Speaker 2: this position and she still has feelings like that because

683
00:36:02,040 --> 00:36:04,279
Speaker 2: I think, no matter what position you get in and life,

684
00:36:04,320 --> 00:36:06,799
Speaker 2: you still gonna deal with like every day struggles in

685
00:36:06,880 --> 00:36:09,120
Speaker 2: normal sit Yeah, and that's what I like about her.

686
00:36:09,160 --> 00:36:12,000
Speaker 2: I feel like she's super transparent. Yeah, you know, she's

687
00:36:12,040 --> 00:36:14,239
Speaker 2: just like us. She talked about suckond Dck. She got

688
00:36:14,239 --> 00:36:16,840
Speaker 2: a song called on It with Ari Lennox. She was

689
00:36:16,840 --> 00:36:19,120
Speaker 2: talking about spinning on that Dick, I said, hold on,

690
00:36:19,239 --> 00:36:24,719
Speaker 2: little Jazz, all right, now you cutting up. She was

691
00:36:24,760 --> 00:36:27,160
Speaker 2: cutting up her and Ari. So I feel like the

692
00:36:27,200 --> 00:36:30,160
Speaker 2: whole album is good. We know Ari cooks something about

693
00:36:30,160 --> 00:36:34,239
Speaker 2: her she put my finger on it. Well. The thing

694
00:36:34,320 --> 00:36:36,480
Speaker 2: about the thing about hotels that I really like is

695
00:36:36,520 --> 00:36:40,319
Speaker 2: between every song she has like these women talking and

696
00:36:40,360 --> 00:36:43,080
Speaker 2: telling their hotel of things that they went through. So

697
00:36:43,120 --> 00:36:46,040
Speaker 2: then it introduces the next song that it goes into.

698
00:36:46,120 --> 00:36:49,880
Speaker 2: So every song literally has something that you know somebody

699
00:36:49,920 --> 00:36:54,160
Speaker 2: went through. So yeah, what's your bapa the weeks So

700
00:36:54,480 --> 00:37:03,200
Speaker 2: remember they came out with their game Ghetto, go ahead,

701
00:37:03,239 --> 00:37:06,640
Speaker 2: go ahead, man period. So remember they came out with

702
00:37:06,680 --> 00:37:10,160
Speaker 2: their game, the poor Mind's Game, and they talking about

703
00:37:10,239 --> 00:37:12,880
Speaker 2: every time Drea have a bo by a little Baby

704
00:37:13,040 --> 00:37:16,759
Speaker 2: take a shot. Well, bitch, take a shine. You got

705
00:37:16,760 --> 00:37:19,719
Speaker 2: another little Baby song. It ain't his song though. I

706
00:37:19,760 --> 00:37:21,560
Speaker 2: remember Russ the dude. They came out with that song

707
00:37:22,280 --> 00:37:29,040
Speaker 2: you were Yeah, okay, best on Earth. So Russ had

708
00:37:29,080 --> 00:37:32,080
Speaker 2: that song which was about and I think there was

709
00:37:32,120 --> 00:37:35,040
Speaker 2: one of our bobs before. So now he has a song.

710
00:37:35,040 --> 00:37:37,200
Speaker 2: He has a new single that's out featuring Little Baby.

711
00:37:37,239 --> 00:37:43,279
Speaker 2: It's called Ugly. Okay, okay, I'll say this love this song.

712
00:37:43,960 --> 00:37:46,279
Speaker 2: If you don't have a little baby feature, you really

713
00:37:46,280 --> 00:37:49,680
Speaker 2: ain't gonna do nothing. You ain't got no money. Okay,

714
00:37:49,960 --> 00:37:53,120
Speaker 2: because two hundred occasion he said he don't went up

715
00:37:55,800 --> 00:37:58,279
Speaker 2: three hundred. I feel like, honestly, if you get a

716
00:37:58,280 --> 00:38:01,600
Speaker 2: little baby feature and your song fly, you gotta fucking suck.

717
00:38:01,880 --> 00:38:04,440
Speaker 2: I don't even think that though, because his verse is

718
00:38:04,480 --> 00:38:06,399
Speaker 2: gonna be hard, but the rest of the song could

719
00:38:06,440 --> 00:38:07,240
Speaker 2: still be trash.

720
00:38:07,440 --> 00:38:09,040
Speaker 1: But I mean, I'm saying about the.

721
00:38:09,040 --> 00:38:11,440
Speaker 2: Song as a whole, like I actually like Ross as

722
00:38:11,440 --> 00:38:14,040
Speaker 2: an artist, right, and then I like the But you've

723
00:38:14,080 --> 00:38:16,719
Speaker 2: never heard a song that's like somebody verse so hard

724
00:38:16,719 --> 00:38:19,760
Speaker 2: and makes you like the song now, because I definitely

725
00:38:19,800 --> 00:38:21,960
Speaker 2: heard songs where Nicki was featured on the song and

726
00:38:22,000 --> 00:38:24,200
Speaker 2: I still didn't like the song. Nik Niki verse was

727
00:38:24,239 --> 00:38:27,080
Speaker 2: hard though, come on, bar but I'm just being Honey's

728
00:38:27,160 --> 00:38:29,520
Speaker 2: Nicki versus was hard, but I didn't I still didn't

729
00:38:29,560 --> 00:38:32,480
Speaker 2: like the song, Okay, you know, so, I mean it

730
00:38:32,600 --> 00:38:36,440
Speaker 2: happens because if a song is trashed, she's trashed. I

731
00:38:36,480 --> 00:38:38,239
Speaker 2: agree with you on that. I can't agree with you

732
00:38:38,280 --> 00:38:40,680
Speaker 2: on that. Shout out to Nicki Minaj just because she's

733
00:38:40,680 --> 00:38:43,440
Speaker 2: the queen of this shit and her baby is so cute.

734
00:38:44,000 --> 00:38:47,640
Speaker 2: All right, calm them ovaries down, Okay, So y'all we

735
00:38:47,680 --> 00:38:51,040
Speaker 2: have started doing the breakdown lyrics. So of course y'all know,

736
00:38:51,560 --> 00:38:54,239
Speaker 2: since Hotels was my bop of the week, we have

737
00:38:54,280 --> 00:38:56,399
Speaker 2: to break down a song by Jazz and Sullian because

738
00:38:56,400 --> 00:39:00,160
Speaker 2: it's lease as much jazz jazz, I feel like we

739
00:39:00,239 --> 00:39:03,120
Speaker 2: on far name bathing right now, y'all night. As much

740
00:39:03,120 --> 00:39:07,160
Speaker 2: as I love you, why the fuck let me? Okay?

741
00:39:07,480 --> 00:39:10,600
Speaker 2: The song is called put It Down, and I'm going

742
00:39:10,680 --> 00:39:12,160
Speaker 2: to read the verse for you.

743
00:39:13,000 --> 00:39:15,960
Speaker 1: So it says this first sentence is piecing me off.

744
00:39:16,000 --> 00:39:19,440
Speaker 2: Already, the whole song pieced me off. So she said

745
00:39:20,000 --> 00:39:22,320
Speaker 2: he lived with his mama, but I treat him like

746
00:39:22,360 --> 00:39:27,759
Speaker 2: a king. Why why why haven't it? Why have you

747
00:39:27,880 --> 00:39:33,720
Speaker 2: lost your mother? Okay, it gets worse. Why Jasmine? Why? Oh?

748
00:39:34,840 --> 00:39:37,640
Speaker 2: Every time he come around, he got me acting like

749
00:39:37,640 --> 00:39:40,239
Speaker 2: a fake. When he be asking me for money, I

750
00:39:40,280 --> 00:39:45,720
Speaker 2: can never tell him no, I can't relate. If a nigga,

751
00:39:45,760 --> 00:39:48,000
Speaker 2: you know how quick see for some money, my pussy

752
00:39:48,040 --> 00:39:50,520
Speaker 2: would drive up so quickly. I'm gonna change my number

753
00:39:50,560 --> 00:39:53,000
Speaker 2: as soon as I leave. You won't even be able

754
00:39:53,000 --> 00:39:57,800
Speaker 2: to call me on the way home. Oh motherfucking money.

755
00:39:58,160 --> 00:40:00,279
Speaker 2: And when he say he want to see me, I

756
00:40:00,400 --> 00:40:03,680
Speaker 2: drop everything to go. I know he make me look pray.

757
00:40:04,200 --> 00:40:07,160
Speaker 2: I do whatever you say, Tell me the time and

758
00:40:07,239 --> 00:40:11,400
Speaker 2: the place. You know that I'm on my way. This

759
00:40:11,480 --> 00:40:14,360
Speaker 2: is where you were pray because you're letting a nigga

760
00:40:14,440 --> 00:40:17,080
Speaker 2: ask you for some money. Not only that, but y'all

761
00:40:17,080 --> 00:40:19,200
Speaker 2: have to stop being on call for these niggas.

762
00:40:19,960 --> 00:40:21,920
Speaker 1: Why would you be on call for a nigga?

763
00:40:22,000 --> 00:40:23,960
Speaker 2: Now, Jazz, I fuck with you for being you know,

764
00:40:24,120 --> 00:40:29,440
Speaker 2: transparent or love. How you just calling her jazs like

765
00:40:29,440 --> 00:40:31,200
Speaker 2: like me and Jazz go way back, like two flats

766
00:40:31,200 --> 00:40:36,600
Speaker 2: on a Cadillac Beach. Okay, this is where it gets worse, y'all,

767
00:40:36,920 --> 00:40:40,359
Speaker 2: It gets worse. Give him the keys to my car.

768
00:40:41,320 --> 00:40:44,759
Speaker 2: He bring it back by tomorrow. I got whatever you

769
00:40:44,880 --> 00:40:49,359
Speaker 2: need long as you give me that d She's not

770
00:40:49,400 --> 00:40:54,400
Speaker 2: like a d from baby boy that ain't even have

771
00:40:54,520 --> 00:40:57,560
Speaker 2: no carding nigga at a bike used to be riding

772
00:40:57,560 --> 00:41:00,680
Speaker 2: around the hood on a fucking bike. Him borrow her

773
00:41:00,760 --> 00:41:03,520
Speaker 2: card up. I'm not fucking with no nigga who ain't

774
00:41:03,560 --> 00:41:05,960
Speaker 2: got no car. There is no dick on this earth.

775
00:41:06,239 --> 00:41:09,120
Speaker 2: That's that good to make you deal with a nigga

776
00:41:09,200 --> 00:41:12,160
Speaker 2: living with his mom. You're giving him money. Ain't got

777
00:41:12,160 --> 00:41:15,000
Speaker 2: no car, no car, bring it back by tomorrow. All

778
00:41:15,000 --> 00:41:16,200
Speaker 2: you gonna do is get in your car to go

779
00:41:16,200 --> 00:41:18,600
Speaker 2: see other hosts. She's gonna find them condoms like of

780
00:41:18,680 --> 00:41:21,680
Speaker 2: it be when they was at the Taco Spike. Okay,

781
00:41:21,719 --> 00:41:23,200
Speaker 2: so let me go to the second verse because it

782
00:41:23,239 --> 00:41:25,160
Speaker 2: gets worse, and then we're gonna wrap this shit up,

783
00:41:25,520 --> 00:41:28,160
Speaker 2: Wrap this up. It says, I'm gonna skip a few lines.

784
00:41:28,200 --> 00:41:30,360
Speaker 2: It says, he keep me wetter than water.

785
00:41:31,400 --> 00:41:32,880
Speaker 1: He brings me up in the morning.

786
00:41:33,640 --> 00:41:34,520
Speaker 2: I got that check.

787
00:41:34,560 --> 00:41:37,360
Speaker 4: If he asked me I pay his rent, if he

788
00:41:37,480 --> 00:41:46,239
Speaker 4: nash first back, Brock, I know, I know, I know,

789
00:41:46,640 --> 00:41:46,840
Speaker 4: I know.

790
00:41:47,640 --> 00:41:53,120
Speaker 2: All right, so let you take it. Lets you take it,

791
00:41:53,160 --> 00:41:55,239
Speaker 2: bro First of all, what was the first line, because

792
00:41:55,280 --> 00:41:58,440
Speaker 2: that's what really got me. She said, he keep me

793
00:41:58,520 --> 00:42:01,800
Speaker 2: wetter than water, He bring me up in the morning.

794
00:42:03,239 --> 00:42:07,560
Speaker 2: Everybody know broke niggas always got good dig dug, but

795
00:42:07,640 --> 00:42:11,200
Speaker 2: they brokes. He do't matter, So it don't matter. I

796
00:42:11,200 --> 00:42:13,399
Speaker 2: would not be just fucking out on nigga because he'd

797
00:42:13,400 --> 00:42:17,160
Speaker 2: be making my boosy weed. Like so cash is would

798
00:42:17,160 --> 00:42:19,879
Speaker 2: make my coucie gold chean chin. You know that's right,

799
00:42:22,239 --> 00:42:24,600
Speaker 2: you know, Golfield brings her. Oh you ain't got no cash.

800
00:42:24,600 --> 00:42:28,440
Speaker 2: We got the credit card reader right, charge it period.

801
00:42:29,239 --> 00:42:32,400
Speaker 2: That's why this fucking she says she pay his rent.

802
00:42:33,280 --> 00:42:37,839
Speaker 2: I'm not paying your rent. I'm not paying your rent

803
00:42:37,920 --> 00:42:41,520
Speaker 2: and you can't come stay with me. So, yes, Jasmine,

804
00:42:42,080 --> 00:42:43,960
Speaker 2: don't pay half the rent. But clearly he can't even

805
00:42:44,000 --> 00:42:45,560
Speaker 2: pay his alln rent. So how you gonna pay half?

806
00:42:45,920 --> 00:42:48,160
Speaker 1: Yes, Jazz, we love the album, but you really got.

807
00:42:48,080 --> 00:42:50,520
Speaker 2: Us fucked up. But I lied. He can't even pay

808
00:42:50,560 --> 00:42:56,000
Speaker 2: half the rent. He gotta pay the whole rent. Okay,

809
00:42:56,360 --> 00:42:59,240
Speaker 2: So now I'm going to get into the questions portion

810
00:42:59,400 --> 00:43:01,080
Speaker 2: of the show. If you want your question to answered

811
00:43:01,080 --> 00:43:03,760
Speaker 2: on the show, make sure you email us at Askpoorminds

812
00:43:03,800 --> 00:43:06,719
Speaker 2: at gmail dot com. If you are a Patreon member

813
00:43:06,760 --> 00:43:08,279
Speaker 2: on the top tier, you get to skip the line

814
00:43:08,320 --> 00:43:12,440
Speaker 2: and you get your questions answered beforehand. So let's go

815
00:43:12,440 --> 00:43:17,320
Speaker 2: ahead and get into it. Okay, this says advice question.

816
00:43:17,600 --> 00:43:19,000
Speaker 1: Please keep me anonymous.

817
00:43:19,080 --> 00:43:21,239
Speaker 2: Okay, ladies, I want to start off by saying how

818
00:43:21,320 --> 00:43:23,200
Speaker 2: much I love you girls, and I am so proud

819
00:43:23,239 --> 00:43:23,920
Speaker 2: of you.

820
00:43:23,920 --> 00:43:25,560
Speaker 1: You guys, gift is on the way.

821
00:43:25,760 --> 00:43:28,360
Speaker 2: Oh, she sent us a gift oohee. So I know

822
00:43:28,440 --> 00:43:30,440
Speaker 2: that you guys have talked about cutting friends off on

823
00:43:30,480 --> 00:43:32,880
Speaker 2: the show, and I just need some advice. I had

824
00:43:32,920 --> 00:43:35,480
Speaker 2: a best friend for years. She was someone I consider

825
00:43:35,600 --> 00:43:39,719
Speaker 2: my sister. We spent every Sunday together for years, and holidays, vacations,

826
00:43:39,800 --> 00:43:40,319
Speaker 2: you name it.

827
00:43:40,320 --> 00:43:41,319
Speaker 1: We were inseparable.

828
00:43:41,640 --> 00:43:44,759
Speaker 2: In May of twenty nineteen, I noticed her being very

829
00:43:44,800 --> 00:43:47,839
Speaker 2: distant with me, not answering my text. She stopped coming

830
00:43:47,880 --> 00:43:50,960
Speaker 2: over on Sundays, she wouldn't answer my calls. I finally

831
00:43:51,000 --> 00:43:53,399
Speaker 2: called her out on it and asked her what was up.

832
00:43:53,680 --> 00:43:55,719
Speaker 2: She replied and said that she needed time to work

833
00:43:55,719 --> 00:43:58,440
Speaker 2: on herself. She had just started seeing a therapist and

834
00:43:58,480 --> 00:44:01,120
Speaker 2: she just needed to focus on herself because she constantly

835
00:44:01,120 --> 00:44:03,640
Speaker 2: put others first and it wasn't good for her mental health.

836
00:44:03,840 --> 00:44:06,200
Speaker 2: And I respected it because I've always wanted the best

837
00:44:06,200 --> 00:44:08,399
Speaker 2: for her. Well, here we are about to go into

838
00:44:08,400 --> 00:44:10,600
Speaker 2: twenty twenty one and we still don't talk and I

839
00:44:10,640 --> 00:44:13,400
Speaker 2: haven't seen and haven't seen each other since twenty nineteen.

840
00:44:13,760 --> 00:44:16,759
Speaker 2: I recently got engaged in September, and she commented on

841
00:44:16,800 --> 00:44:19,880
Speaker 2: my post with the playing congratulations. She didn't call me

842
00:44:20,040 --> 00:44:23,080
Speaker 2: or say anything else. I sent her two text messages,

843
00:44:23,360 --> 00:44:26,520
Speaker 2: one on her birthday and another a few days before Christmas,

844
00:44:26,600 --> 00:44:28,480
Speaker 2: telling her how much I missed her and loved her

845
00:44:28,719 --> 00:44:31,200
Speaker 2: and would love to be there for her. Both messages

846
00:44:31,239 --> 00:44:34,000
Speaker 2: she didn't reply. She just hit the light button. So

847
00:44:34,040 --> 00:44:36,319
Speaker 2: my question is do I reach out again and tell

848
00:44:36,320 --> 00:44:38,600
Speaker 2: her I want her in my life or just let

849
00:44:38,640 --> 00:44:41,239
Speaker 2: it be because her actions are speaking loudest fluck to me.

850
00:44:41,760 --> 00:44:43,400
Speaker 2: I want her to be in my wedding and a

851
00:44:43,400 --> 00:44:45,160
Speaker 2: part of my life, but it seems like she doesn't

852
00:44:45,160 --> 00:44:47,360
Speaker 2: want to be in mind. I don't think people realize

853
00:44:47,360 --> 00:44:49,719
Speaker 2: how hard breaking up with your friends hurts, and in

854
00:44:49,719 --> 00:44:56,760
Speaker 2: my case, I have no closure or real reason help will.

855
00:45:00,000 --> 00:45:02,200
Speaker 2: That's how I feel about that. I feel like it

856
00:45:02,280 --> 00:45:05,600
Speaker 2: is always hard to cut your friends off and stop

857
00:45:05,640 --> 00:45:07,680
Speaker 2: being friends with people that you've been cool with for

858
00:45:07,719 --> 00:45:10,719
Speaker 2: a long time, but it's necessary when you live in

859
00:45:10,760 --> 00:45:13,400
Speaker 2: life and you doing shit and people not happy for you.

860
00:45:13,440 --> 00:45:16,680
Speaker 2: Actions always speak louder than words. So perce could tell

861
00:45:16,680 --> 00:45:18,960
Speaker 2: you all day that they happy for you, you gotta

862
00:45:19,000 --> 00:45:21,440
Speaker 2: look at what they show you. Because I don't have

863
00:45:21,800 --> 00:45:23,640
Speaker 2: plenty of people tell me that they was happy for

864
00:45:23,680 --> 00:45:25,680
Speaker 2: me about she But then I look at how they

865
00:45:25,719 --> 00:45:27,640
Speaker 2: treat me, and I look at the things that they do,

866
00:45:28,040 --> 00:45:30,960
Speaker 2: and their actions don't reflect what they telling me and

867
00:45:31,000 --> 00:45:32,919
Speaker 2: how they say that they feel, you know what I mean.

868
00:45:32,960 --> 00:45:35,880
Speaker 2: So it's like, you know what's right? You know? I

869
00:45:35,880 --> 00:45:37,840
Speaker 2: feel like if your friend not being supportive and she

870
00:45:38,000 --> 00:45:40,799
Speaker 2: not there for you, and because getting engaged is like

871
00:45:40,840 --> 00:45:44,319
Speaker 2: a huge thing, you know what I mean, That's one

872
00:45:44,320 --> 00:45:46,000
Speaker 2: of the biggest things that's gonna happen in your life

873
00:45:46,080 --> 00:45:48,880
Speaker 2: is getting engaged and get married. So if you're friends

874
00:45:48,880 --> 00:45:51,840
Speaker 2: with somebody and ain't not happy for you, okay, I

875
00:45:51,880 --> 00:45:55,400
Speaker 2: mean in normal people lives, it's not our not our life,

876
00:45:56,200 --> 00:45:59,279
Speaker 2: but for most people, that's one of the biggest things

877
00:45:59,280 --> 00:46:01,000
Speaker 2: that's gonna happen my life, you know what I mean.

878
00:46:01,160 --> 00:46:03,320
Speaker 2: And even if it's not, you still want your friends

879
00:46:03,320 --> 00:46:05,400
Speaker 2: to be there and be supportive of your decisions and

880
00:46:05,520 --> 00:46:08,879
Speaker 2: supportive of what you have going on. So so Beach

881
00:46:08,920 --> 00:46:13,719
Speaker 2: can't be supportive of that? The hell well, I'll say,

882
00:46:13,760 --> 00:46:17,520
Speaker 2: you all unsupportive as people and friends are bech Okay,

883
00:46:19,239 --> 00:46:22,839
Speaker 2: I say, for once, I actually agree with Dray's advice girl.

884
00:46:22,880 --> 00:46:27,000
Speaker 2: She always first and foremost, she always agreed with me. No, Yeah,

885
00:46:27,040 --> 00:46:29,719
Speaker 2: she is right. I feel like if she's actually speak

886
00:46:29,760 --> 00:46:31,640
Speaker 2: loud of the words, she's showing you that she really

887
00:46:31,680 --> 00:46:34,520
Speaker 2: doesn't care. Like we just said earlier in the show,

888
00:46:34,560 --> 00:46:36,959
Speaker 2: we really don't believe in closure. Let her do her thing,

889
00:46:37,040 --> 00:46:38,840
Speaker 2: you know what I'm saying. This just may be a

890
00:46:38,880 --> 00:46:40,560
Speaker 2: sign that you may just need to move forward in

891
00:46:40,560 --> 00:46:42,439
Speaker 2: your life and the things that you have going on. Yeah,

892
00:46:42,480 --> 00:46:45,000
Speaker 2: I definitely don't believe in closure. I'm having show i've

893
00:46:45,000 --> 00:46:46,440
Speaker 2: had because I don't know what keeps telling me I

894
00:46:46,440 --> 00:46:49,000
Speaker 2: need to verify something the Peasantry.

895
00:46:49,160 --> 00:46:50,680
Speaker 1: Of course, you can use my iPad.

896
00:46:51,800 --> 00:46:57,600
Speaker 2: I'm a lady. What's up you guys. I'm a big

897
00:46:57,640 --> 00:46:59,279
Speaker 2: fan of the show, and I love the both of

898
00:46:59,320 --> 00:47:01,440
Speaker 2: you guys. I'm gonna make this really short because I

899
00:47:01,440 --> 00:47:03,960
Speaker 2: don't want dre Or rolling her eyes and me at

900
00:47:04,040 --> 00:47:08,759
Speaker 2: least you know sies. But let me get right to it.

901
00:47:08,840 --> 00:47:11,040
Speaker 2: I've been with my boyfriend for almost a year and

902
00:47:11,080 --> 00:47:13,839
Speaker 2: a half, and lately he's been really decent. We don't

903
00:47:13,840 --> 00:47:15,680
Speaker 2: see each other much, and every time I ask him

904
00:47:15,719 --> 00:47:18,240
Speaker 2: to spend time with me, he always says he's busy.

905
00:47:18,400 --> 00:47:20,040
Speaker 2: He does work a lot, But I feel like that

906
00:47:20,200 --> 00:47:22,719
Speaker 2: to no excuse, he's not a BDB, but I love him.

907
00:47:25,320 --> 00:47:28,799
Speaker 2: I just say nothing. This is my first real relationship.

908
00:47:28,840 --> 00:47:31,920
Speaker 2: I'm twenty six, by the way. And to make things worse,

909
00:47:31,960 --> 00:47:34,799
Speaker 2: he didn't even give me anything for cheat on him.

910
00:47:35,640 --> 00:47:38,239
Speaker 2: I'm not sure what I should do cheat on him?

911
00:47:39,040 --> 00:47:41,920
Speaker 2: Should I leave him? Cheat on him? What would you

912
00:47:41,960 --> 00:47:51,279
Speaker 2: guys do? Cheat on him? There you go, that's cheuse.

913
00:47:51,320 --> 00:47:53,040
Speaker 2: How the fuck you don't give me nothing for christ Me?

914
00:47:53,239 --> 00:47:56,160
Speaker 2: Oh hell no, I feel like even if you don't

915
00:47:56,200 --> 00:47:58,120
Speaker 2: got a BDB, because you did say he not a BDB.

916
00:47:58,440 --> 00:48:00,319
Speaker 2: So even if a nigga is not a BDB, it's

917
00:48:00,480 --> 00:48:02,919
Speaker 2: three times of the year at least where he should

918
00:48:02,960 --> 00:48:06,719
Speaker 2: get you a fucking gu bro, and that's Christmas, Valentine's Day,

919
00:48:06,920 --> 00:48:10,200
Speaker 2: and your mother fucking birthday. At least at least you

920
00:48:10,200 --> 00:48:11,920
Speaker 2: know why didn't get you nothing for Christmas? Beach? She

921
00:48:11,920 --> 00:48:15,160
Speaker 2: don't really fuck with you like that. Literally, flowers at

922
00:48:15,200 --> 00:48:18,520
Speaker 2: Kroger's are ten fucking dollar, So guess what I would

923
00:48:18,560 --> 00:48:20,760
Speaker 2: like some flowers in a car and say, you know what, babe,

924
00:48:20,960 --> 00:48:22,640
Speaker 2: I really don't got it this year, but I want

925
00:48:22,680 --> 00:48:23,480
Speaker 2: you to have something.

926
00:48:23,480 --> 00:48:26,240
Speaker 1: I want you to know that I'm thinking of you can't.

927
00:48:26,040 --> 00:48:28,719
Speaker 2: Get you nothing, but you could have at least even

928
00:48:28,760 --> 00:48:34,080
Speaker 2: got you a gas card gas highest fuck. What the

929
00:48:34,200 --> 00:48:38,480
Speaker 2: fu nigga? That nigga trash, big trash. So he's asked

930
00:48:38,520 --> 00:48:44,720
Speaker 2: away or cheat on him? Period. Okay, So next question, Oh,

931
00:48:44,800 --> 00:48:46,440
Speaker 2: we're gonna go to this one because it's not the

932
00:48:46,440 --> 00:48:53,440
Speaker 2: top tier. You gotta be the top tier. Hunh damn.

933
00:48:53,480 --> 00:48:57,359
Speaker 2: This ship long. Okay, Hey, ladies, so proud of all

934
00:48:57,360 --> 00:48:59,560
Speaker 2: the changes and the new things that you're doing. I

935
00:48:59,560 --> 00:49:01,839
Speaker 2: can't wait. I can't wait to see what else you

936
00:49:01,880 --> 00:49:04,240
Speaker 2: have in store for us. I have a question for y'all.

937
00:49:04,239 --> 00:49:07,000
Speaker 2: Please keep me anonymous or call me big l I

938
00:49:07,040 --> 00:49:10,120
Speaker 2: wrote to you ladies previously and appreciate the feedback. Girls,

939
00:49:10,120 --> 00:49:12,560
Speaker 2: This is random and I'm gonna try to keep it short. No,

940
00:49:12,600 --> 00:49:16,640
Speaker 2: you didn't. I was dealing with this dude around August

941
00:49:16,719 --> 00:49:19,560
Speaker 2: and September, and we had a falling out around November.

942
00:49:19,920 --> 00:49:22,239
Speaker 2: We have been on and off texting each other since then,

943
00:49:22,320 --> 00:49:24,640
Speaker 2: and I haven't seen him for a while. I finally

944
00:49:24,680 --> 00:49:26,640
Speaker 2: went to his house to see him recently, and it

945
00:49:26,719 --> 00:49:28,799
Speaker 2: was obvious he just fucked the girl in the house

946
00:49:28,840 --> 00:49:31,160
Speaker 2: because there was a condom wrapper in the bathroom and

947
00:49:31,280 --> 00:49:33,879
Speaker 2: mark's on the mirror. I know what those marks are from.

948
00:49:34,000 --> 00:49:36,160
Speaker 2: We fucked in the bathroom before, in the same spot.

949
00:49:36,800 --> 00:49:40,719
Speaker 2: Girl I left mad. I'm curious now, maybe she's spin

950
00:49:40,800 --> 00:49:51,080
Speaker 2: on it home. I don't know. I'm curious. It was him. Okay,

951
00:49:51,120 --> 00:49:55,919
Speaker 2: sorry to be a player. Okay, so girl, I left Mad.

952
00:49:56,000 --> 00:49:57,880
Speaker 2: I said I was done for good, and I should be,

953
00:49:58,280 --> 00:50:01,000
Speaker 2: not necessarily because he was fucking else. But you knew

954
00:50:01,040 --> 00:50:03,759
Speaker 2: I was coming over. Now, don't be careless. Try to

955
00:50:03,800 --> 00:50:06,520
Speaker 2: hide it a little bit or something. Anyways, his friend

956
00:50:06,600 --> 00:50:09,000
Speaker 2: hit me up via DM talking about we're having a

957
00:50:09,040 --> 00:50:11,960
Speaker 2: dinner party for some other friend a third person, and

958
00:50:12,000 --> 00:50:14,520
Speaker 2: it wouldn't make him the guy I'm dealing with happy

959
00:50:14,600 --> 00:50:16,840
Speaker 2: if I came, Girl, what the hell is that? I

960
00:50:16,880 --> 00:50:19,160
Speaker 2: would totally ignore it if I wasn't actually kind of

961
00:50:19,200 --> 00:50:21,880
Speaker 2: feeling this dude. But I am, and the situation is

962
00:50:21,920 --> 00:50:24,440
Speaker 2: completely toxic, and I'm tempted to show up to the dinner.

963
00:50:24,800 --> 00:50:26,680
Speaker 2: I told the friend to double check with old boy

964
00:50:26,760 --> 00:50:29,000
Speaker 2: to make sure he's comfortable with me coming, and he

965
00:50:29,080 --> 00:50:31,520
Speaker 2: said yes, he would love it. Y'all. Last time I

966
00:50:31,520 --> 00:50:33,360
Speaker 2: spoke to dude, I cussed him out via text and

967
00:50:33,400 --> 00:50:36,680
Speaker 2: he didn't respond. I'm so confused because his friend asked

968
00:50:36,680 --> 00:50:40,560
Speaker 2: me all of this after our altercations. Help. Sorry if

969
00:50:40,600 --> 00:50:42,320
Speaker 2: it was so long. I try to keep it short.

970
00:50:42,400 --> 00:50:44,640
Speaker 2: Lord knows I left some stuff out. Thank you, ladies,

971
00:50:44,719 --> 00:50:51,479
Speaker 2: Love y'all and keep being trill. I don't, I don't.

972
00:50:51,520 --> 00:50:55,080
Speaker 2: I wouldn't go me neither. I feel like, and let

973
00:50:55,080 --> 00:50:57,839
Speaker 2: me tell you why I wouldn't go because niggas try

974
00:50:57,840 --> 00:51:00,640
Speaker 2: to be funny, So I feel like he probably invited

975
00:51:00,680 --> 00:51:03,359
Speaker 2: all of his hoes and he was like, oh yeah,

976
00:51:03,360 --> 00:51:05,160
Speaker 2: I got all my holes in the building and everybody

977
00:51:05,160 --> 00:51:08,040
Speaker 2: being cool. No bitch, cause niggas would do shit like that.

978
00:51:08,360 --> 00:51:10,120
Speaker 2: They'll have a bitch in they section right here and

979
00:51:10,160 --> 00:51:13,440
Speaker 2: that other bitch right over here. So I would definitely

980
00:51:13,480 --> 00:51:16,120
Speaker 2: not go, Like if y'all not getting along, fuck his birthday,

981
00:51:16,440 --> 00:51:20,360
Speaker 2: the fuck fuck his birthday. Fuck that nigga. You already

982
00:51:20,360 --> 00:51:22,319
Speaker 2: done found out that he fucking of the beaches, So

983
00:51:22,360 --> 00:51:24,400
Speaker 2: it's just kind of like and then on top of that,

984
00:51:24,480 --> 00:51:28,479
Speaker 2: he acting up cut. Yeah, I feel like, like I said,

985
00:51:28,480 --> 00:51:31,040
Speaker 2: a lot of times, men get a kick out of

986
00:51:32,040 --> 00:51:36,720
Speaker 2: just doing stuff that's like unnecessary. So I definitely think

987
00:51:36,760 --> 00:51:39,520
Speaker 2: that I'm bored with it for you, hunt, Yeah, I

988
00:51:39,520 --> 00:51:43,440
Speaker 2: feel like he doesn't have good intentions and yeah, you

989
00:51:43,480 --> 00:51:45,840
Speaker 2: definitely need to cut. But these niggas don't be having

990
00:51:45,880 --> 00:51:49,400
Speaker 2: good intentions like yeah, I don't the majority of the

991
00:51:49,440 --> 00:51:52,240
Speaker 2: time because if he invites you over right after somebody left,

992
00:51:52,239 --> 00:51:55,160
Speaker 2: like damn, he ain't even clean up. Eh, niggas is

993
00:51:55,200 --> 00:51:57,600
Speaker 2: dirty and he probably ain't even changed his sheets. He

994
00:51:57,680 --> 00:52:00,880
Speaker 2: had ouchi juice on the sheet. COUCHI juice.

995
00:52:01,320 --> 00:52:03,080
Speaker 1: Okay, last question.

996
00:52:04,840 --> 00:52:09,520
Speaker 2: Your girl is dick press ooh wee, big pressy girl.

997
00:52:09,640 --> 00:52:10,920
Speaker 2: What that means? I don't know.

998
00:52:11,000 --> 00:52:13,759
Speaker 1: I ain't never it's something big mama man.

999
00:52:13,920 --> 00:52:18,600
Speaker 2: I ain't the proud of no dick now we know, Okay,

1000
00:52:18,719 --> 00:52:22,399
Speaker 2: forgive me, but this is hello long oh fucking I'll

1001
00:52:22,440 --> 00:52:26,200
Speaker 2: be glad that y'all know, and y'all still righty. That's

1002
00:52:26,200 --> 00:52:29,440
Speaker 2: the crazy. That's the crazy part about it. How you

1003
00:52:29,520 --> 00:52:33,520
Speaker 2: apologizing then you're still writing Hey, girlies, you can call

1004
00:52:33,640 --> 00:52:36,040
Speaker 2: me Kree. I'm a new listener to the show, and

1005
00:52:36,040 --> 00:52:38,040
Speaker 2: I musa say I love you both. I watch you

1006
00:52:38,080 --> 00:52:40,319
Speaker 2: guys on eighty five South and being hooked since so

1007
00:52:40,400 --> 00:52:43,080
Speaker 2: I'm eighteen, but I don't look more act like an

1008
00:52:43,080 --> 00:52:46,120
Speaker 2: average eighteen year old. This is giving me that, This

1009
00:52:46,200 --> 00:52:52,040
Speaker 2: is giving me more revived. Come on, bro, you know

1010
00:52:52,080 --> 00:52:59,239
Speaker 2: how them girls will be all mory. I'm fourteen, and

1011
00:52:59,400 --> 00:53:04,320
Speaker 2: yeah I be, but I don't act like I'm fourteen.

1012
00:53:04,840 --> 00:53:13,720
Speaker 2: I'll be on the klona this he's giving me. Who said,

1013
00:53:14,960 --> 00:53:18,600
Speaker 2: come on, man, I've been told out, I've been sold.

1014
00:53:18,640 --> 00:53:23,160
Speaker 2: I haven't all sold all my life. So earlier this year,

1015
00:53:23,680 --> 00:53:26,640
Speaker 2: I moved from my hometown from Louisiana to Oh you're

1016
00:53:26,640 --> 00:53:30,040
Speaker 2: from Louisiana. It makes me so to the Wix Coast

1017
00:53:30,600 --> 00:53:34,200
Speaker 2: with one of my brothers leaving friends and family. Anyways,

1018
00:53:34,280 --> 00:53:36,359
Speaker 2: I'm in college, but planning to seed it out and

1019
00:53:36,440 --> 00:53:39,640
Speaker 2: take a break after this semester because of financial problems.

1020
00:53:40,000 --> 00:53:43,680
Speaker 2: I'm sorry. I feel in love with the idea of

1021
00:53:43,719 --> 00:53:46,839
Speaker 2: starting the business and plan to pursue with high fate

1022
00:53:46,960 --> 00:53:51,640
Speaker 2: to lunch next time, next year, next time. Okay. With

1023
00:53:51,840 --> 00:53:55,600
Speaker 2: all that being said, I haven't had any big almost

1024
00:53:55,640 --> 00:53:59,800
Speaker 2: a year since almost a girl. Okay. The eighteen is

1025
00:54:00,200 --> 00:54:04,440
Speaker 2: in a little bit since I moved from my home

1026
00:54:04,520 --> 00:54:06,879
Speaker 2: and if a God blink at me, I think I'm

1027
00:54:06,880 --> 00:54:12,600
Speaker 2: going to buzz. However, I tea However, I tend to

1028
00:54:12,640 --> 00:54:15,000
Speaker 2: be a flirt when I see something I like, But

1029
00:54:15,040 --> 00:54:17,719
Speaker 2: it's not too many fine niggas out here. Plus I

1030
00:54:17,840 --> 00:54:20,360
Speaker 2: barely be out because I don't have anyone to be

1031
00:54:20,440 --> 00:54:23,279
Speaker 2: out weed. I don't really want a relationship right now

1032
00:54:23,280 --> 00:54:25,879
Speaker 2: because I'm trying to get me together and niggas ain't shit.

1033
00:54:26,400 --> 00:54:28,640
Speaker 2: But I don't want to just get some deck and leave.

1034
00:54:29,040 --> 00:54:31,880
Speaker 2: A conversation would be nice, a nice dinner, get my

1035
00:54:31,960 --> 00:54:34,880
Speaker 2: hair done, you know, work for this wet type delight,

1036
00:54:39,920 --> 00:54:44,319
Speaker 2: damn problem, nothing on tight. This is what we gonna

1037
00:54:44,360 --> 00:54:48,120
Speaker 2: name this episode. We tight delight. I know that's right. Huh.

1038
00:54:48,800 --> 00:54:51,480
Speaker 2: There's this Hispanic guy. I really want to put these

1039
00:54:51,520 --> 00:54:55,319
Speaker 2: wop on, but he's twenty four, have a job, a car.

1040
00:54:55,480 --> 00:54:58,000
Speaker 2: I mean, he's no BDB or anything. Well, the deck

1041
00:54:58,120 --> 00:55:00,640
Speaker 2: might be big with the kids, then, from what I

1042
00:55:00,680 --> 00:55:03,000
Speaker 2: heard from my brother's roommate, off and on with his

1043
00:55:03,080 --> 00:55:06,880
Speaker 2: baby mama, we texted for about a couple days straight,

1044
00:55:07,160 --> 00:55:09,600
Speaker 2: and when we did text it was a cool little combo.

1045
00:55:10,160 --> 00:55:12,320
Speaker 2: I mean, we don't know each other all that will,

1046
00:55:12,440 --> 00:55:15,200
Speaker 2: but still I can make him laugh, and a fine

1047
00:55:15,280 --> 00:55:19,520
Speaker 2: nigga that would. But I can make him laugh and

1048
00:55:19,600 --> 00:55:23,600
Speaker 2: a fine nigga I can make laugh can get this ass.

1049
00:55:23,960 --> 00:55:26,120
Speaker 2: I was invited by the roommate to go to a

1050
00:55:26,160 --> 00:55:29,200
Speaker 2: Halloween party with them, so let's see how these playouts.

1051
00:55:29,320 --> 00:55:32,760
Speaker 2: I just want to know you girls.

1052
00:55:31,760 --> 00:55:33,760
Speaker 1: Get this letter Halloween.

1053
00:55:33,320 --> 00:55:45,920
Speaker 2: When October thirty. I just want to know Cree, Priggy, everybody, priy.

1054
00:55:46,040 --> 00:55:48,759
Speaker 2: I just want to know you girl's perspective on my situation.

1055
00:55:48,880 --> 00:55:50,759
Speaker 2: Should I be straight up with him? What do y'all

1056
00:55:50,800 --> 00:55:53,120
Speaker 2: think I should do? I think that you're eighteen and

1057
00:55:53,160 --> 00:55:55,520
Speaker 2: you're young, and you don't know what you like. Like.

1058
00:55:56,400 --> 00:55:58,480
Speaker 2: Let me tell y'all for the young listeners, listen. If

1059
00:55:58,480 --> 00:56:02,399
Speaker 2: you're the ages of like eight and twenty five, yeah,

1060
00:56:02,520 --> 00:56:04,799
Speaker 2: if you find somebody that you really like, focus on that,

1061
00:56:04,840 --> 00:56:06,480
Speaker 2: and you want to focus on your relationship and your

1062
00:56:06,480 --> 00:56:08,200
Speaker 2: business and whatever you have going on, do that.

1063
00:56:08,280 --> 00:56:08,960
Speaker 1: But if you're just.

1064
00:56:09,000 --> 00:56:12,600
Speaker 2: Dating, stop putting so much pressure on yourself. You're young.

1065
00:56:13,080 --> 00:56:15,560
Speaker 2: Have fun. The niggas that I used to like when

1066
00:56:15,560 --> 00:56:17,759
Speaker 2: I was eighteen and twenty five, it's not the same

1067
00:56:17,840 --> 00:56:21,640
Speaker 2: dudes I like now. It's totally totally different. So stop

1068
00:56:21,640 --> 00:56:25,240
Speaker 2: putting so much pressure on like situations. If you're talking

1069
00:56:25,320 --> 00:56:27,279
Speaker 2: or dating somebody, that's all I can say. Just have fun.

1070
00:56:27,320 --> 00:56:29,480
Speaker 2: It's not that serious, like this is not the man

1071
00:56:29,480 --> 00:56:31,600
Speaker 2: you're gonna marry. When I was eighteen, I used to

1072
00:56:31,600 --> 00:56:34,720
Speaker 2: be in the Butterfly Lounge and club next every weekend,

1073
00:56:35,719 --> 00:56:39,239
Speaker 2: popping up. I was not worried, like it's just it's

1074
00:56:39,320 --> 00:56:42,520
Speaker 2: so crazy to me, how like how times have changed

1075
00:56:42,600 --> 00:56:44,359
Speaker 2: over the years, you know what I mean? And like

1076
00:56:44,480 --> 00:56:47,400
Speaker 2: me at eighteen, so like twenty two, people feel so

1077
00:56:47,520 --> 00:56:51,120
Speaker 2: much pressure these days to just have a man and

1078
00:56:51,800 --> 00:56:54,040
Speaker 2: be doing certain sheet Because when I was eighteen and

1079
00:56:54,080 --> 00:56:55,960
Speaker 2: twenty two, I was literally like I mean, I was

1080
00:56:55,960 --> 00:56:59,040
Speaker 2: in college, but I was having fun. I was living

1081
00:56:59,040 --> 00:57:01,520
Speaker 2: my life. I wouldn't worry about these niggas. I ain't

1082
00:57:01,560 --> 00:57:03,839
Speaker 2: not worrying about these niggas till like two years ago.

1083
00:57:04,640 --> 00:57:09,759
Speaker 2: If we being honies, Oh yeah, I don't. Yes, it's

1084
00:57:09,800 --> 00:57:11,840
Speaker 2: not a part of our ministry. Not a part of

1085
00:57:11,880 --> 00:57:18,000
Speaker 2: our ministry. So I'm ready for the song this week.

1086
00:57:18,040 --> 00:57:21,320
Speaker 2: I'm excited. This is my theme song. Anyway. If y'all

1087
00:57:21,360 --> 00:57:23,080
Speaker 2: want your question answer, I y'all make sure you email

1088
00:57:23,160 --> 00:57:25,800
Speaker 2: us at ask poor Minds at gmail dot com. Amen.

1089
00:57:26,080 --> 00:57:27,720
Speaker 2: So now we're gonna get into the bop of the week,

1090
00:57:27,720 --> 00:57:30,080
Speaker 2: and I'm ski we already did the bop of the week.

1091
00:57:30,120 --> 00:57:33,200
Speaker 2: You mean we're gonna do your song? Yeah, I mean,

1092
00:57:33,280 --> 00:57:37,560
Speaker 2: I'm sorry, I don't know what we put. Can I skip?

1093
00:57:37,560 --> 00:57:40,600
Speaker 2: I'm gonna skip this part, this part. I'm seeing this part.

1094
00:57:40,640 --> 00:57:42,800
Speaker 2: We're gonna go to this part. So this is your part? Me?

1095
00:57:43,200 --> 00:57:47,040
Speaker 1: Yes, okay, you ready.

1096
00:57:48,000 --> 00:57:49,920
Speaker 2: She's a very kinky girl.

1097
00:57:51,480 --> 00:57:53,360
Speaker 1: Then you don't take come to mother.

1098
00:57:55,120 --> 00:57:59,160
Speaker 2: She will never let your spirits down once you get

1099
00:57:59,280 --> 00:58:00,480
Speaker 2: up off the street. Ta.

1100
00:58:01,560 --> 00:58:03,479
Speaker 1: Yeah, the girl is pretty wild.

1101
00:58:03,640 --> 00:58:06,400
Speaker 2: Now the girls are super freak, the kind of girl

1102
00:58:06,560 --> 00:58:11,600
Speaker 2: read about New Way magazine. The girl is pretty king cat. Really,

1103
00:58:12,920 --> 00:58:16,120
Speaker 2: I really love to taste her every time we meet.

1104
00:58:16,680 --> 00:58:21,680
Speaker 2: She's all right, she's all right out. That girl's all

1105
00:58:21,880 --> 00:58:37,520
Speaker 2: right with me. Yeah. Hey, oh, Ship was too much?

1106
00:58:38,320 --> 00:58:42,520
Speaker 2: All right? All right? Thank you for wish you at

1107
00:58:42,520 --> 00:58:48,240
Speaker 2: one point you love me? Thank God, and we'll see

1108
00:58:48,280 --> 00:59:01,240
Speaker 2: one next week. You thought wrong, oh Ship, bro, I cannot.

1109
00:59:03,720 --> 00:59:06,080
Speaker 2: I told Joe asked to send me the lyrics. You say,

1110
00:59:06,120 --> 00:59:09,520
Speaker 2: I forgot my party. I forgot to send them to you.