1 00:00:03,760 --> 00:00:06,640 Speaker 1: I know that the clock is sticking, and I know 2 00:00:06,760 --> 00:00:10,399 Speaker 1: that when we've last checked, my account was very low. 3 00:00:11,680 --> 00:00:14,240 Speaker 1: This is my body and no one should tell me 4 00:00:14,280 --> 00:00:15,880 Speaker 1: what I can and cannot do with it. And I 5 00:00:15,920 --> 00:00:18,080 Speaker 1: think God is okay with it. 6 00:00:18,200 --> 00:00:20,599 Speaker 2: The dream of parents, that is one of the biggest 7 00:00:20,760 --> 00:00:24,080 Speaker 2: dreams that we all all live for and work for. 8 00:00:29,680 --> 00:00:33,720 Speaker 1: Hello, everyone, and welcome to another episode of Cheeky's and Chill. 9 00:00:33,800 --> 00:00:35,760 Speaker 1: I'm your host Cheeky's and I hope you all had 10 00:00:35,760 --> 00:00:36,680 Speaker 1: a wonderful weekend. 11 00:00:37,360 --> 00:00:40,040 Speaker 3: I am. I had a really good weekend. Actually, I relaxed. 12 00:00:40,240 --> 00:00:42,360 Speaker 1: I was in Pj's, you know, just doing the thing, 13 00:00:42,479 --> 00:00:45,720 Speaker 1: being more of Jane than Cheeky's, you know. But anyways, 14 00:00:45,960 --> 00:00:49,800 Speaker 1: today's episode is something very personal to me. It's a 15 00:00:49,840 --> 00:00:53,680 Speaker 1: topic that isn't really talked about, especially in the Latin culture. 16 00:00:53,720 --> 00:00:57,520 Speaker 1: I feel it's kind of, I guess, frowned upon in 17 00:00:57,560 --> 00:00:59,200 Speaker 1: a way. I always use this word, but it's true, 18 00:00:59,200 --> 00:01:01,800 Speaker 1: it's kind of taboo. So a couple of years ago, 19 00:01:01,880 --> 00:01:05,200 Speaker 1: I revealed my decision to freeze my eggs. It was 20 00:01:05,280 --> 00:01:08,200 Speaker 1: when I realized that I had a cist in my 21 00:01:08,319 --> 00:01:11,280 Speaker 1: left ovary. I never knew it was there until one 22 00:01:11,400 --> 00:01:14,920 Speaker 1: day I woke up with a horrible pain. I felt 23 00:01:14,920 --> 00:01:17,000 Speaker 1: like I was going to die. It was like, I think, 24 00:01:17,000 --> 00:01:19,640 Speaker 1: like three in the morning, and I had my assistant 25 00:01:20,000 --> 00:01:22,720 Speaker 1: and I'm not one to go to the hospital. I 26 00:01:22,760 --> 00:01:26,440 Speaker 1: can really really tolerate pain. So when I called her 27 00:01:26,440 --> 00:01:27,840 Speaker 1: and I said, I need you to take me to 28 00:01:27,920 --> 00:01:29,920 Speaker 1: the hospital, she knew it was like serious. 29 00:01:29,959 --> 00:01:33,040 Speaker 3: I had her, you know, running red lights and something. 30 00:01:33,040 --> 00:01:34,760 Speaker 1: I don't recommend you guys, but I was in so 31 00:01:34,920 --> 00:01:38,200 Speaker 1: much pain that I just I don't It was horrible. 32 00:01:38,720 --> 00:01:40,360 Speaker 1: When I got to the hospital, they said, well, you 33 00:01:40,400 --> 00:01:42,679 Speaker 1: have as cists. I guess it turned over on itself. 34 00:01:42,720 --> 00:01:46,840 Speaker 1: My ovary because the cists was pretty big, and they 35 00:01:46,840 --> 00:01:48,360 Speaker 1: just said, you can leave it there, you can remove it. 36 00:01:48,400 --> 00:01:50,680 Speaker 1: I decided to leave it there, and then I went 37 00:01:50,720 --> 00:01:52,600 Speaker 1: to a specialist and this is how I met doctor 38 00:01:52,640 --> 00:01:57,000 Speaker 1: Kadeer and he found out that I had endometriosis, something 39 00:01:57,040 --> 00:02:00,600 Speaker 1: I didn't know. This is something I've never shared with anybody. 40 00:02:01,400 --> 00:02:05,000 Speaker 1: I want to share it with you, guys, but I 41 00:02:05,040 --> 00:02:06,760 Speaker 1: don't know if this is one of the reasons why 42 00:02:06,800 --> 00:02:09,400 Speaker 1: I have in demetriosis. I had a miscarriage when I 43 00:02:09,440 --> 00:02:13,560 Speaker 1: was nineteen. I've never talked about it ever, and I 44 00:02:13,600 --> 00:02:16,720 Speaker 1: obviously was afraid. I was scared. I never told my mom, 45 00:02:16,880 --> 00:02:19,200 Speaker 1: I never told anybody. I didn't know what was really happening. 46 00:02:19,760 --> 00:02:21,360 Speaker 1: I knew I was pregnant. I just didn't know how 47 00:02:21,360 --> 00:02:23,880 Speaker 1: to tell my mom. And then I don't know if 48 00:02:23,880 --> 00:02:26,880 Speaker 1: it was a stress. I just started bleeding and stuff 49 00:02:26,919 --> 00:02:29,000 Speaker 1: started coming out in chunks. It was really really crazy. 50 00:02:29,040 --> 00:02:31,880 Speaker 1: Apparently I had a miscarriage. I never went to the 51 00:02:31,919 --> 00:02:35,600 Speaker 1: doctors to take care of it, so they had to 52 00:02:35,600 --> 00:02:38,040 Speaker 1: go in later, like a year later, actually not a 53 00:02:38,080 --> 00:02:40,120 Speaker 1: lot of year later, like six months, eight months later, 54 00:02:40,360 --> 00:02:43,000 Speaker 1: and I went and got a pap smear, and they're like, 55 00:02:43,040 --> 00:02:44,880 Speaker 1: you know what, we need to clean up, Like I 56 00:02:45,000 --> 00:02:47,720 Speaker 1: told them what had happened, and they needed to go 57 00:02:47,800 --> 00:02:50,560 Speaker 1: in there and put me to sleep and basically clean 58 00:02:50,639 --> 00:02:54,400 Speaker 1: up my uterus. And I've always thought, is it because 59 00:02:54,400 --> 00:02:58,079 Speaker 1: of that situation, that's what happened? And then I thought 60 00:02:58,120 --> 00:03:00,839 Speaker 1: they had removed my cysts. Apparently came back and grew 61 00:03:00,919 --> 00:03:04,640 Speaker 1: back and they had to remove it again because I 62 00:03:04,639 --> 00:03:06,840 Speaker 1: don't know. I don't know what happened. I don't know 63 00:03:06,880 --> 00:03:08,040 Speaker 1: if it was a new sis, if it was the 64 00:03:08,080 --> 00:03:10,880 Speaker 1: same sis, I don't know. It was in the same ovary, 65 00:03:10,960 --> 00:03:13,640 Speaker 1: so that was also keeping me from freezing my eggs 66 00:03:13,760 --> 00:03:17,960 Speaker 1: because if you inject too many hormones in your body, well, 67 00:03:18,000 --> 00:03:19,840 Speaker 1: I was just going to be feeding that one cyst 68 00:03:19,840 --> 00:03:21,280 Speaker 1: and it was just going to get bigger and bigger 69 00:03:21,280 --> 00:03:24,160 Speaker 1: and not necessarily my eggs. So that's one thing that 70 00:03:24,280 --> 00:03:27,960 Speaker 1: had me just, you know, I was a little hesitant 71 00:03:28,000 --> 00:03:29,880 Speaker 1: about it. Now I do wish I would have done 72 00:03:29,880 --> 00:03:34,280 Speaker 1: it sooner. I think it's just something that especially as 73 00:03:34,320 --> 00:03:37,520 Speaker 1: a woman and everything that's in our food and in. 74 00:03:37,520 --> 00:03:38,680 Speaker 3: The air, it is just I don't know. 75 00:03:38,760 --> 00:03:40,280 Speaker 1: I think of all these things and I'm like, it 76 00:03:40,360 --> 00:03:43,600 Speaker 1: has to affect our bodies. So I think that the 77 00:03:43,640 --> 00:03:45,760 Speaker 1: sooner you do it, the better because it's just kind 78 00:03:45,760 --> 00:03:48,480 Speaker 1: of like a backup plan. I'm going to try to 79 00:03:48,520 --> 00:03:52,440 Speaker 1: get pregnant naturally with my current partner because right now 80 00:03:52,440 --> 00:03:54,520 Speaker 1: I'm not on birth control. Right now, I am just 81 00:03:55,240 --> 00:03:57,000 Speaker 1: not trying to get pregnant, but not not trying to 82 00:03:57,000 --> 00:03:58,960 Speaker 1: get pregnant, so I don't know what that means. I'm 83 00:03:59,000 --> 00:04:00,640 Speaker 1: just like, if it happens, if it's meant to be, 84 00:04:01,240 --> 00:04:03,280 Speaker 1: then that's what's going to happen. And I just want 85 00:04:03,280 --> 00:04:05,760 Speaker 1: to have my eggs just in case I can't have 86 00:04:05,840 --> 00:04:08,640 Speaker 1: the baby, I can't get pregnant on my own, or 87 00:04:09,440 --> 00:04:11,120 Speaker 1: I don't know, maybe I want to get a surrogate. 88 00:04:11,120 --> 00:04:14,200 Speaker 1: I've thought about that before. I've also thought about my siblings. 89 00:04:14,200 --> 00:04:16,839 Speaker 1: I know this is weird, but I've thought about like Johnny, 90 00:04:17,080 --> 00:04:19,880 Speaker 1: you know, if he wants to have a baby with 91 00:04:19,880 --> 00:04:22,040 Speaker 1: his partner. I know it sounds weird, but I'm like, hey, 92 00:04:22,040 --> 00:04:22,719 Speaker 1: I'm his sister. 93 00:04:23,000 --> 00:04:23,200 Speaker 2: You know. 94 00:04:23,720 --> 00:04:25,640 Speaker 1: I've thought about so many different things, you guys, I 95 00:04:25,680 --> 00:04:28,840 Speaker 1: just feel like it's a good backup plan just in 96 00:04:28,880 --> 00:04:32,000 Speaker 1: case I'm not able to get pregnant, and I would 97 00:04:32,040 --> 00:04:35,600 Speaker 1: do it on my own or with a partner. I 98 00:04:35,600 --> 00:04:39,600 Speaker 1: think right now, I'm not even thinking about getting pregnant necessarily, 99 00:04:41,480 --> 00:04:45,960 Speaker 1: like at this moment, but I just know that time 100 00:04:46,040 --> 00:04:48,159 Speaker 1: is ticking and I have to get it done. And 101 00:04:48,360 --> 00:04:51,480 Speaker 1: I don't want to feel like, damn, I should have 102 00:04:51,520 --> 00:04:53,360 Speaker 1: done it, you know, would have, could have? 103 00:04:53,400 --> 00:04:53,760 Speaker 2: Should have? 104 00:04:54,200 --> 00:04:55,760 Speaker 1: You know, I kind of want to be like, Okay, 105 00:04:55,800 --> 00:04:57,719 Speaker 1: I have it. That pressure is kind of off, and 106 00:04:57,760 --> 00:04:59,359 Speaker 1: I can kind of just chill a little bit, travel 107 00:04:59,400 --> 00:05:03,040 Speaker 1: a little bit more, and do me you know, I 108 00:05:03,120 --> 00:05:06,200 Speaker 1: just want to do it sooner rather than later, I 109 00:05:06,240 --> 00:05:08,479 Speaker 1: was talking about it on the reality show and I 110 00:05:08,600 --> 00:05:11,080 Speaker 1: met a doctor through the reality show. 111 00:05:11,240 --> 00:05:12,120 Speaker 3: That's one of the great things. 112 00:05:12,160 --> 00:05:13,800 Speaker 1: Actually, there's a lot of really good things about the 113 00:05:13,839 --> 00:05:17,080 Speaker 1: reality show, and I want to think that and be 114 00:05:17,120 --> 00:05:19,440 Speaker 1: grateful for those moments, because even though it was a 115 00:05:19,440 --> 00:05:21,200 Speaker 1: lot of hard work and sometimes it did bring a 116 00:05:21,240 --> 00:05:23,160 Speaker 1: little bit of drama in our life, I got to 117 00:05:23,160 --> 00:05:25,359 Speaker 1: spend a lot of time with my family, with my friends, 118 00:05:25,880 --> 00:05:28,479 Speaker 1: and I also got to meet really cool people, like 119 00:05:28,480 --> 00:05:31,000 Speaker 1: the person that I'm going to speak to today, which is 120 00:05:31,000 --> 00:05:33,559 Speaker 1: actually my doctor, doctor Goodear. And a lot of people 121 00:05:33,560 --> 00:05:35,159 Speaker 1: ask me, did you already freeze your eggs? 122 00:05:35,200 --> 00:05:35,599 Speaker 3: Cheekys. 123 00:05:36,080 --> 00:05:38,279 Speaker 1: No, I have not, and I know he's very upset 124 00:05:38,320 --> 00:05:40,520 Speaker 1: with me about it. He texted me here and there 125 00:05:40,560 --> 00:05:42,480 Speaker 1: He's like, when are we going to do this? Cheeky's 126 00:05:42,760 --> 00:05:45,400 Speaker 1: you know it is time. Before we get further into 127 00:05:45,400 --> 00:05:48,680 Speaker 1: the conversation, I want to welcome doctor Goodear. 128 00:05:49,120 --> 00:05:51,599 Speaker 3: Hello, Doctor good Dear. How are you? He's here with me? 129 00:05:52,920 --> 00:05:54,919 Speaker 2: Hello? Thank you so much for having me. 130 00:05:55,200 --> 00:05:57,159 Speaker 1: Of course, I wish you guys could see him. He 131 00:05:57,279 --> 00:05:59,080 Speaker 1: has the best eyebrows in the world. 132 00:06:00,080 --> 00:06:02,480 Speaker 3: Like your haircut, by the way, Thank you, thank you 133 00:06:02,600 --> 00:06:03,120 Speaker 3: very much. 134 00:06:03,360 --> 00:06:06,000 Speaker 1: So doctor Dear, I know that this is something that 135 00:06:06,000 --> 00:06:08,200 Speaker 1: I need to do as soon as possible. When do 136 00:06:08,240 --> 00:06:11,000 Speaker 1: you recommend, Doctor Dear to freeze your eggs? 137 00:06:12,360 --> 00:06:14,320 Speaker 2: So, first of all, I want to address something that 138 00:06:14,360 --> 00:06:16,640 Speaker 2: you said. You're not the only woman that feels like this. 139 00:06:16,800 --> 00:06:19,320 Speaker 2: It's a big step for people to take, and I 140 00:06:19,400 --> 00:06:22,000 Speaker 2: usually like to tell people just do it and be 141 00:06:22,080 --> 00:06:25,200 Speaker 2: done with it, because I guarantee you afterwards you're going 142 00:06:25,240 --> 00:06:27,479 Speaker 2: to realize that this was so much easier than you 143 00:06:27,560 --> 00:06:31,080 Speaker 2: ever thought. It is a quick ten to twelve day 144 00:06:31,120 --> 00:06:34,000 Speaker 2: process of little injections that we teach you how to 145 00:06:34,080 --> 00:06:36,960 Speaker 2: administer in your belly, and if you can't do it yourself, 146 00:06:37,040 --> 00:06:38,880 Speaker 2: we are happy to help you do them, and we 147 00:06:38,960 --> 00:06:40,719 Speaker 2: can come into the office every day and help you 148 00:06:40,720 --> 00:06:42,680 Speaker 2: do them. We can even send someone to your home 149 00:06:42,720 --> 00:06:45,320 Speaker 2: and do them. But there's a couple of different things involved. 150 00:06:45,680 --> 00:06:48,279 Speaker 2: The sooner and the younger you do this, the better. 151 00:06:48,839 --> 00:06:52,120 Speaker 2: So everyone's peak fertility is probably between the ages of 152 00:06:52,160 --> 00:06:55,159 Speaker 2: like twenty and twenty seven. That is your peak fertility 153 00:06:55,160 --> 00:06:58,760 Speaker 2: as a female, and after that time it just begins 154 00:06:58,760 --> 00:07:00,960 Speaker 2: to decline. Now, there are others things that can affect 155 00:07:00,960 --> 00:07:06,640 Speaker 2: your fertility as well. For example, endometriosis PCOS. And the 156 00:07:06,760 --> 00:07:10,160 Speaker 2: number one thing that affects you eggs is aging. And 157 00:07:11,400 --> 00:07:13,560 Speaker 2: one of the things that you also talked about. I 158 00:07:13,640 --> 00:07:16,720 Speaker 2: think it's very sensitive and should be addressed, is because 159 00:07:16,720 --> 00:07:20,080 Speaker 2: in the Latin culture, because so many people do have 160 00:07:20,160 --> 00:07:23,080 Speaker 2: kids at a younger age, this is something that maybe 161 00:07:23,120 --> 00:07:27,840 Speaker 2: looked as taboo or frowned upon or making you less 162 00:07:27,840 --> 00:07:31,200 Speaker 2: of a woman, but it's not. There are many many 163 00:07:31,360 --> 00:07:34,800 Speaker 2: Latin women patients of mind, and to be honest, from 164 00:07:34,840 --> 00:07:37,760 Speaker 2: all cultures and backgrounds that are coming to my office 165 00:07:37,800 --> 00:07:42,280 Speaker 2: that have become very successful business women, accomplished in many 166 00:07:42,280 --> 00:07:45,320 Speaker 2: different areas of the world and in the world of business, 167 00:07:45,440 --> 00:07:47,480 Speaker 2: and who are just not ready to have a child. 168 00:07:47,520 --> 00:07:50,559 Speaker 2: And there is no reason why you should be giving 169 00:07:50,640 --> 00:07:53,160 Speaker 2: up the dream of parenthood just so you can go 170 00:07:53,280 --> 00:07:55,360 Speaker 2: forward with having a kid at the wrong time in 171 00:07:55,400 --> 00:07:57,800 Speaker 2: your life. And that's what this allows you to do. 172 00:07:58,120 --> 00:08:01,600 Speaker 2: It allows you to preserve your fertility and your right 173 00:08:02,120 --> 00:08:04,560 Speaker 2: to make your decision about when it's right for you 174 00:08:04,640 --> 00:08:06,240 Speaker 2: to have a child. See. 175 00:08:06,280 --> 00:08:09,040 Speaker 1: And that's the thing. When I first started this process, 176 00:08:09,240 --> 00:08:12,000 Speaker 1: I did hear it a lot, even like on media, 177 00:08:12,280 --> 00:08:14,960 Speaker 1: Oh she can't have kids, she's in other words broken, 178 00:08:15,160 --> 00:08:16,760 Speaker 1: you know. And it's not that, it's just it's a 179 00:08:16,880 --> 00:08:21,640 Speaker 1: choice of mine because I wasn't necessarily ready to have children, 180 00:08:22,000 --> 00:08:24,119 Speaker 1: and I said, okay, this is a way of taking 181 00:08:24,120 --> 00:08:27,720 Speaker 1: the pressure off, and I got things like it's going 182 00:08:27,720 --> 00:08:28,720 Speaker 1: against God's will. 183 00:08:29,200 --> 00:08:31,200 Speaker 3: I feel that it is my choice. 184 00:08:31,200 --> 00:08:34,040 Speaker 1: It's my body. I'm very, very pro choice in a 185 00:08:34,040 --> 00:08:36,160 Speaker 1: lot of things. So this is something that is my 186 00:08:36,240 --> 00:08:38,719 Speaker 1: body and no one should tell me what I can 187 00:08:38,760 --> 00:08:40,480 Speaker 1: and cannot do with it. And I think God is 188 00:08:40,480 --> 00:08:42,880 Speaker 1: okay with it. Doctor Gooder exists for a reason. 189 00:08:43,520 --> 00:08:46,640 Speaker 2: God gave us this technology. I think if it's against 190 00:08:46,720 --> 00:08:51,040 Speaker 2: someone's morals, religious thoughts, beliefs in this world, then they 191 00:08:51,080 --> 00:08:54,000 Speaker 2: shouldn't do it. But for many people who are out 192 00:08:54,040 --> 00:08:57,480 Speaker 2: there that they believe in science, and they believe in technology, 193 00:08:57,720 --> 00:09:00,120 Speaker 2: and they believe in the field of medicine and how 194 00:09:00,160 --> 00:09:03,240 Speaker 2: amazing we've become and how advanced we are. My field 195 00:09:03,240 --> 00:09:05,760 Speaker 2: of medicine has only existed for thirty years. I mean, 196 00:09:05,800 --> 00:09:08,080 Speaker 2: that's it. And then it's only been in the last 197 00:09:08,120 --> 00:09:10,120 Speaker 2: I want to say, ten to fifteen years that we've 198 00:09:10,120 --> 00:09:12,439 Speaker 2: become really good at it. And I want to say, 199 00:09:12,440 --> 00:09:14,840 Speaker 2: in the egg freezing world, it's only been around for 200 00:09:14,880 --> 00:09:18,320 Speaker 2: about ten years, so we've only gotten really good at it, 201 00:09:18,400 --> 00:09:21,439 Speaker 2: i'd say in the last maybe few years, so we're 202 00:09:21,760 --> 00:09:24,760 Speaker 2: very good at it now. There's been other reality TV 203 00:09:24,840 --> 00:09:27,360 Speaker 2: show stars who came and froze their eggs at the 204 00:09:27,400 --> 00:09:29,680 Speaker 2: age of forty four and came back and had those 205 00:09:29,760 --> 00:09:32,720 Speaker 2: kids at the age of forty six and delivered at 206 00:09:32,760 --> 00:09:35,120 Speaker 2: forty seven and did amazing. And I'm sure most people 207 00:09:35,160 --> 00:09:37,440 Speaker 2: know who I'm talking about, But I think it's a 208 00:09:37,559 --> 00:09:40,240 Speaker 2: very personal decision. I do not think it's fair for 209 00:09:40,400 --> 00:09:44,360 Speaker 2: anyone to judge if it's God's choice or God is allowing, 210 00:09:44,440 --> 00:09:47,640 Speaker 2: or God looks down in your eyes. If the person 211 00:09:47,920 --> 00:09:51,320 Speaker 2: believes that it's against their religious beliefs, then I don't 212 00:09:51,440 --> 00:09:54,080 Speaker 2: promote that for them. But for most people, I think 213 00:09:54,160 --> 00:09:57,680 Speaker 2: science is on their side, and the dream of parenthood 214 00:09:57,720 --> 00:10:00,679 Speaker 2: is one of the biggest dreams that we all all 215 00:10:00,720 --> 00:10:03,400 Speaker 2: live for and work for. And I don't believe it's 216 00:10:03,400 --> 00:10:06,400 Speaker 2: someone's position to kind of be negative about it against 217 00:10:06,400 --> 00:10:07,240 Speaker 2: someone else's. 218 00:10:07,400 --> 00:10:08,600 Speaker 3: I agree. I agree. 219 00:10:08,640 --> 00:10:10,640 Speaker 1: I'm all about live and let live. Whatever you want 220 00:10:10,640 --> 00:10:12,360 Speaker 1: to do, I respect it. Whatever I want to do, 221 00:10:12,480 --> 00:10:14,800 Speaker 1: you should respect it, you know. And it's not even 222 00:10:14,840 --> 00:10:17,360 Speaker 1: because of what they've said, or what my family may 223 00:10:17,360 --> 00:10:19,600 Speaker 1: think or some of my family should I say, I 224 00:10:19,640 --> 00:10:20,280 Speaker 1: haven't done it. 225 00:10:20,280 --> 00:10:22,040 Speaker 3: It's just has been one thing or another. 226 00:10:22,080 --> 00:10:24,960 Speaker 1: But I know that the clock is sticking, and I 227 00:10:25,040 --> 00:10:28,880 Speaker 1: know that when we've last checked, my account was very low. 228 00:10:29,480 --> 00:10:32,360 Speaker 1: So I guess in a way, I'm a little afraid 229 00:10:32,559 --> 00:10:35,360 Speaker 1: of going and getting all the tests done again, and 230 00:10:35,400 --> 00:10:37,840 Speaker 1: then what if I they're even lower, which I'm sure 231 00:10:37,880 --> 00:10:39,840 Speaker 1: is going to happen, because, like you said, it's age 232 00:10:40,280 --> 00:10:41,120 Speaker 1: when is too late. 233 00:10:41,600 --> 00:10:43,080 Speaker 2: There are a lot of clinics at the age of 234 00:10:43,120 --> 00:10:45,800 Speaker 2: like forty close their doors. Some clinics close their doors 235 00:10:45,800 --> 00:10:47,959 Speaker 2: at the age of forty two, some clinics at the 236 00:10:48,000 --> 00:10:50,959 Speaker 2: age of forty four. We don't close our doors. Every 237 00:10:51,000 --> 00:10:54,400 Speaker 2: single patient is their own human being, and we like 238 00:10:54,440 --> 00:10:57,760 Speaker 2: to assess and have discussions. So I've had discussions with 239 00:10:57,840 --> 00:11:01,520 Speaker 2: patients saying that listen, you may they make very few eggs, 240 00:11:01,679 --> 00:11:04,040 Speaker 2: but then again, I have had people make very few 241 00:11:04,080 --> 00:11:08,040 Speaker 2: eggs and be successful and do incredibly well with the 242 00:11:08,080 --> 00:11:11,240 Speaker 2: whole journey and the process. So would I tell my 243 00:11:11,280 --> 00:11:13,680 Speaker 2: little sister, oh, you're only going to make one or 244 00:11:13,679 --> 00:11:15,640 Speaker 2: two or three eggs, just don't do it. I would 245 00:11:15,679 --> 00:11:20,040 Speaker 2: say absolutely the opposite. One egg on ice is better 246 00:11:20,080 --> 00:11:22,920 Speaker 2: than no eggs on ice. And I think that keeping 247 00:11:22,960 --> 00:11:26,800 Speaker 2: yourself in the game, keeping whatever your body is able 248 00:11:26,880 --> 00:11:29,679 Speaker 2: to help you produce, and keeping it there for your 249 00:11:29,679 --> 00:11:33,240 Speaker 2: future at least keeps a door open. Even if it 250 00:11:33,280 --> 00:11:36,400 Speaker 2: doesn't work, you will know that you did every single 251 00:11:36,480 --> 00:11:39,679 Speaker 2: thing you could, and we have plan B. There's always 252 00:11:39,679 --> 00:11:42,440 Speaker 2: the use of other people's eggs and egg donation and 253 00:11:42,480 --> 00:11:46,400 Speaker 2: things like that. But you're a perfect, perfect example of 254 00:11:46,480 --> 00:11:50,960 Speaker 2: the busy young woman in her thirties who doesn't have 255 00:11:51,000 --> 00:11:54,160 Speaker 2: the time to do this, a perfect example for someone 256 00:11:54,200 --> 00:11:57,720 Speaker 2: who is a little scared of doing it because no 257 00:11:57,760 --> 00:12:00,559 Speaker 2: one walks in is excited about this. But it's one 258 00:12:00,559 --> 00:12:02,680 Speaker 2: of those things in life where we do it and 259 00:12:02,720 --> 00:12:05,959 Speaker 2: we need to move on. I tell everyone the best 260 00:12:06,000 --> 00:12:07,920 Speaker 2: piece of advice I can give you to freeze your 261 00:12:07,920 --> 00:12:10,880 Speaker 2: eggs is start it, do it, and be done with it, 262 00:12:11,320 --> 00:12:14,160 Speaker 2: because once you start, a month later, you're going to 263 00:12:14,160 --> 00:12:17,160 Speaker 2: bed at night saying, wow, I'm so happy. Now my 264 00:12:17,240 --> 00:12:20,400 Speaker 2: eggs are in the freezers at doctor Gadear's office. He's 265 00:12:20,400 --> 00:12:23,160 Speaker 2: doing all the babysitting, he's doing all the work now 266 00:12:23,320 --> 00:12:25,400 Speaker 2: and I can go to bed at night, knowing that 267 00:12:25,480 --> 00:12:28,080 Speaker 2: I did what I needed to do, and if you 268 00:12:28,120 --> 00:12:30,160 Speaker 2: needed to do it more than once, then people have 269 00:12:30,200 --> 00:12:32,040 Speaker 2: done it more than once. I had one patient that 270 00:12:32,080 --> 00:12:34,959 Speaker 2: did it five times. She said to me, doctor Gadeir, 271 00:12:35,320 --> 00:12:38,079 Speaker 2: I'm going to have my four kids on my timeline 272 00:12:38,120 --> 00:12:40,080 Speaker 2: and I'm going to do everything that I can to 273 00:12:40,160 --> 00:12:43,200 Speaker 2: promote that and to keep my doors open. And she 274 00:12:43,280 --> 00:12:44,960 Speaker 2: did it. She did it five times that she had 275 00:12:45,000 --> 00:12:46,960 Speaker 2: over fifty eggs by the time she was done. 276 00:12:47,240 --> 00:12:49,839 Speaker 1: Wow, oh my goodness. Okay, well, I'm just going to 277 00:12:49,920 --> 00:12:53,360 Speaker 1: pray that I have like at least five. I think 278 00:12:53,400 --> 00:12:55,040 Speaker 1: I'm going to have more than that. I'm going to 279 00:12:55,080 --> 00:12:57,319 Speaker 1: be positive. Well, you mentioned right now it takes ten 280 00:12:57,360 --> 00:12:59,840 Speaker 1: to twelve days. Can you explain the process? 281 00:13:00,080 --> 00:13:02,160 Speaker 2: So yeah, let's go through the process, because I think 282 00:13:02,160 --> 00:13:04,800 Speaker 2: it's really important for a young woman who's out there. 283 00:13:04,840 --> 00:13:09,160 Speaker 2: First of all, I want everyone to check their medical insurance, 284 00:13:09,720 --> 00:13:13,120 Speaker 2: call HR at their office and find out if they 285 00:13:13,160 --> 00:13:17,400 Speaker 2: have coverage. The saddest thing I'm noticing, okay, there are 286 00:13:17,440 --> 00:13:20,400 Speaker 2: people that have coverage and don't even know they have 287 00:13:20,440 --> 00:13:23,120 Speaker 2: coverage for egg freezing and for fertility treatment. That is 288 00:13:23,160 --> 00:13:25,800 Speaker 2: the saddest thing ever for me. So all of the 289 00:13:25,840 --> 00:13:32,720 Speaker 2: big everyone who works at Disneyland, at Disney, Netflix, Apple, Google, Snapchat, 290 00:13:33,000 --> 00:13:35,960 Speaker 2: any of the big tech companies, they all have the 291 00:13:36,000 --> 00:13:38,920 Speaker 2: most amazing coverage that there is. Now. There are a 292 00:13:39,040 --> 00:13:43,280 Speaker 2: lot of other companies, large companies, law firms, lots of 293 00:13:43,320 --> 00:13:46,800 Speaker 2: these places. They have this amazing coverage that people just 294 00:13:46,880 --> 00:13:49,679 Speaker 2: don't even know what their coverage is. So I don't 295 00:13:49,679 --> 00:13:52,199 Speaker 2: know about your personal employer, but that's the first thing 296 00:13:52,240 --> 00:13:55,280 Speaker 2: I would do. If you have the coverage, take advantage 297 00:13:55,280 --> 00:13:59,040 Speaker 2: of it. Freeze your eggs, take advantage of it. If 298 00:13:59,080 --> 00:14:02,600 Speaker 2: you don't have any coverage, don't be scared because we 299 00:14:02,679 --> 00:14:06,000 Speaker 2: have financing options. So first of all, we put together 300 00:14:06,080 --> 00:14:08,120 Speaker 2: one of the best specials that exists in the world 301 00:14:08,200 --> 00:14:10,880 Speaker 2: of fertility because we're a large clinic and we have 302 00:14:10,920 --> 00:14:14,040 Speaker 2: the opportunity if we want to give back and help people. 303 00:14:14,200 --> 00:14:17,199 Speaker 2: So we've decided for twenty twenty two to be giving 304 00:14:17,240 --> 00:14:17,960 Speaker 2: back a lot. 305 00:14:18,240 --> 00:14:18,920 Speaker 3: Oh nice. 306 00:14:19,160 --> 00:14:21,360 Speaker 2: So we are going to be opening the doors and 307 00:14:21,400 --> 00:14:25,240 Speaker 2: giving the opportunity. If anyone looks at my social media channel, 308 00:14:25,240 --> 00:14:28,240 Speaker 2: which is the doctor Shahean Goadeer channel on Instagram, the 309 00:14:28,600 --> 00:14:32,800 Speaker 2: specials are popping up left and right. Our clinic also SCRCIVF. 310 00:14:33,000 --> 00:14:35,440 Speaker 2: The specials are popping up there as well. We have 311 00:14:35,520 --> 00:14:37,840 Speaker 2: webinars that people can attend and at the end of 312 00:14:37,880 --> 00:14:40,160 Speaker 2: the webinar they're able to do their consultation for a 313 00:14:40,240 --> 00:14:43,560 Speaker 2: much lower price by doing so. But if with all 314 00:14:43,600 --> 00:14:46,720 Speaker 2: of that you still have trouble, we have options for 315 00:14:46,840 --> 00:14:49,640 Speaker 2: financing that help you get this to as low as 316 00:14:49,640 --> 00:14:53,600 Speaker 2: like one hundred and sixty hundred and seventy dollars. 317 00:14:58,840 --> 00:14:59,880 Speaker 3: What is the cost. 318 00:15:01,040 --> 00:15:03,520 Speaker 2: The cost can range. When we do our specials, they're 319 00:15:03,520 --> 00:15:07,440 Speaker 2: in the six thousand plus six thousand something range, and 320 00:15:07,520 --> 00:15:10,440 Speaker 2: when there's no specials, they're in the eight thousand something range. 321 00:15:10,680 --> 00:15:13,520 Speaker 2: But with the financing options, we're able to help people 322 00:15:13,520 --> 00:15:15,560 Speaker 2: get it as low as in the one hundred and 323 00:15:15,600 --> 00:15:18,000 Speaker 2: something dollars a month. Now, it varies, it varies on 324 00:15:18,040 --> 00:15:20,120 Speaker 2: your credit, it varies on what you're doing, it varies 325 00:15:20,160 --> 00:15:22,920 Speaker 2: on how many cycles you sign up for, but it's 326 00:15:22,960 --> 00:15:26,600 Speaker 2: there so financially, I think is the number one reason 327 00:15:26,640 --> 00:15:29,880 Speaker 2: people fear this process. Once we have set up a 328 00:15:29,920 --> 00:15:33,320 Speaker 2: consultation and we go over everything in someone's health and 329 00:15:33,360 --> 00:15:36,000 Speaker 2: we go over their menstrual cycle, what their goal is. 330 00:15:36,040 --> 00:15:37,760 Speaker 2: If someone tells me they want to have four kids 331 00:15:37,840 --> 00:15:39,920 Speaker 2: versus one kid. I think it's a little different how 332 00:15:39,960 --> 00:15:42,200 Speaker 2: many eggs they need to have frozen for the future. 333 00:15:42,760 --> 00:15:45,240 Speaker 2: If someone is twenty nine about to be thirty and 334 00:15:45,280 --> 00:15:47,600 Speaker 2: they're ready to go the second day turn thirty, it's 335 00:15:47,640 --> 00:15:49,840 Speaker 2: a little different than someone who's like thirty nine about 336 00:15:49,880 --> 00:15:52,440 Speaker 2: to be forty. So these are all things that I 337 00:15:52,520 --> 00:15:55,160 Speaker 2: need to take into consideration when making an overall plan 338 00:15:55,240 --> 00:15:57,880 Speaker 2: for someone. And I think it's really important that we're 339 00:15:57,920 --> 00:16:01,960 Speaker 2: on the same page. So the initial consultation, and these 340 00:16:02,040 --> 00:16:04,440 Speaker 2: days it's super easy. We do them by phone. You 341 00:16:04,480 --> 00:16:06,120 Speaker 2: don't have to leave your home, you don't have to 342 00:16:06,200 --> 00:16:08,160 Speaker 2: leave work. You could do them from wherever you want. 343 00:16:08,560 --> 00:16:11,360 Speaker 2: And I've noticed that people are a lot more comfortable, 344 00:16:11,480 --> 00:16:13,600 Speaker 2: and I've noticed that people are a lot more open 345 00:16:13,640 --> 00:16:17,280 Speaker 2: with me, and they are much more just relaxed doing 346 00:16:17,320 --> 00:16:20,200 Speaker 2: these consultations on the phone, rather than coming to my 347 00:16:20,280 --> 00:16:23,120 Speaker 2: office in La sitting in my waiting room, coming and 348 00:16:23,160 --> 00:16:25,720 Speaker 2: sitting here with me, which would give some people a 349 00:16:25,760 --> 00:16:28,720 Speaker 2: lot of anxiety. So with that being said, we've made 350 00:16:28,720 --> 00:16:31,680 Speaker 2: that as easy as possible. When the time comes, and 351 00:16:31,720 --> 00:16:34,840 Speaker 2: it always happens with your period, So people call us 352 00:16:34,880 --> 00:16:37,760 Speaker 2: on the first day of their period. On day two, three, 353 00:16:37,840 --> 00:16:40,440 Speaker 2: or four of their cycle, we generally set them up 354 00:16:40,440 --> 00:16:43,760 Speaker 2: to come in and do a quick ultrasound of their ovaries. 355 00:16:43,800 --> 00:16:46,160 Speaker 2: It's a vaginal ultrasound that looks at the ovary and 356 00:16:46,200 --> 00:16:49,000 Speaker 2: tells me how youthful, how young, and how healthy those 357 00:16:49,000 --> 00:16:51,160 Speaker 2: ovaries look, and then we put them on a birth 358 00:16:51,200 --> 00:16:55,480 Speaker 2: control pill to stop their natural ovulation cycle. Now, if 359 00:16:55,520 --> 00:16:58,200 Speaker 2: you are already on birth control pill and have been 360 00:16:58,240 --> 00:17:01,000 Speaker 2: on it for a while, we usually recommend for people 361 00:17:01,000 --> 00:17:02,920 Speaker 2: to go off their birth control for a month or 362 00:17:02,960 --> 00:17:06,199 Speaker 2: two before so their natural hormones just come back to 363 00:17:06,280 --> 00:17:09,960 Speaker 2: life and are doing really, really well. So that's a 364 00:17:10,160 --> 00:17:13,200 Speaker 2: really important thing for us to do, and we kind 365 00:17:13,240 --> 00:17:16,720 Speaker 2: of do that really quickly, and once we have people 366 00:17:17,280 --> 00:17:19,879 Speaker 2: coming back to normal, we are ready to start. So 367 00:17:20,080 --> 00:17:23,440 Speaker 2: after about ten to fifteen days of birth control, we 368 00:17:23,600 --> 00:17:26,760 Speaker 2: teach you how to give yourself these injections that last 369 00:17:26,800 --> 00:17:30,760 Speaker 2: for about ten to twelve days. They're tiny, tiny means. 370 00:17:31,800 --> 00:17:33,879 Speaker 2: Some people don't even feel them. Like we get phone 371 00:17:33,880 --> 00:17:37,280 Speaker 2: calls all the time, like I'm so sorry to my nurses. 372 00:17:37,320 --> 00:17:38,640 Speaker 2: You know, they say, I don't know if I'm getting 373 00:17:38,680 --> 00:17:40,959 Speaker 2: the injection, Like I don't even feel it. But we 374 00:17:41,040 --> 00:17:42,720 Speaker 2: see that their eggs are growing, and we see that 375 00:17:42,760 --> 00:17:45,600 Speaker 2: their estrogen levels are going up, so we know that 376 00:17:45,600 --> 00:17:47,959 Speaker 2: they are doing well, and they're doing they are growing, 377 00:17:48,040 --> 00:17:50,920 Speaker 2: so they're very small. During those ten to twelve days 378 00:17:50,920 --> 00:17:53,600 Speaker 2: of injections, we usually have people come in about three 379 00:17:53,680 --> 00:17:55,800 Speaker 2: or four times for ultrasounds and blood tests to make 380 00:17:55,840 --> 00:17:58,639 Speaker 2: sure that everything is growing and everything is coming along 381 00:17:58,680 --> 00:18:01,040 Speaker 2: really well. And then towards the end of the ten 382 00:18:01,080 --> 00:18:03,240 Speaker 2: to twelve days, we usually say, you know what, you're 383 00:18:03,280 --> 00:18:05,600 Speaker 2: ready to have your eggs come out. We bring patients 384 00:18:05,600 --> 00:18:07,960 Speaker 2: to our surgery center, which is right here in our office. 385 00:18:08,359 --> 00:18:11,120 Speaker 2: You've been there before. You're in there for about an hour, 386 00:18:11,240 --> 00:18:14,119 Speaker 2: hour and a half. The actual procedure is under a 387 00:18:14,200 --> 00:18:18,040 Speaker 2: light anesthetic that my anesthesiologist gives. You fall asleep, you 388 00:18:18,080 --> 00:18:20,680 Speaker 2: wake up, and it's all done. It takes about three 389 00:18:20,680 --> 00:18:22,960 Speaker 2: to five minutes for the eggs to come out. It's 390 00:18:22,960 --> 00:18:25,080 Speaker 2: a special little needle that goes at the tip of 391 00:18:25,119 --> 00:18:29,000 Speaker 2: an ultrasound machine. The eggs get what we call retrieved, 392 00:18:29,320 --> 00:18:31,960 Speaker 2: and then those eggs then go off to the IVF 393 00:18:32,080 --> 00:18:35,160 Speaker 2: laboratory and all of the eggs that are mature get 394 00:18:35,200 --> 00:18:37,760 Speaker 2: frozen to be used. Whenever you're ready to use them 395 00:18:37,800 --> 00:18:38,359 Speaker 2: in the future. 396 00:18:38,600 --> 00:18:40,480 Speaker 1: So quote unquote healthy, right, because there are some that 397 00:18:40,480 --> 00:18:42,359 Speaker 1: are come out that probably are not usable. 398 00:18:42,440 --> 00:18:42,959 Speaker 3: Is that correct. 399 00:18:43,920 --> 00:18:47,040 Speaker 2: So the only thing we're able to check is if 400 00:18:47,080 --> 00:18:50,240 Speaker 2: the egg is mature or immature. 401 00:18:50,359 --> 00:18:50,920 Speaker 3: Oh, I see. 402 00:18:51,000 --> 00:18:53,520 Speaker 2: Now, if you come in with a partner and say, 403 00:18:53,560 --> 00:18:56,480 Speaker 2: this is my partner, we want to make embryos, that's 404 00:18:56,520 --> 00:18:59,000 Speaker 2: when the egg and the sperm are put together. When 405 00:18:59,000 --> 00:19:01,600 Speaker 2: we put the egg in them together, then we watch 406 00:19:01,640 --> 00:19:05,520 Speaker 2: the embryo grow for a week. Whatever embryo makes it 407 00:19:05,560 --> 00:19:10,199 Speaker 2: to the full grown stage at that point, then we 408 00:19:10,280 --> 00:19:12,760 Speaker 2: are able to do a little biopsy, freeze the embryo, 409 00:19:12,840 --> 00:19:15,480 Speaker 2: and I can tell you a week later if the 410 00:19:15,520 --> 00:19:20,600 Speaker 2: embryo is genetically normal or genetically abnormal. Okay, that's completely 411 00:19:20,640 --> 00:19:23,640 Speaker 2: different than the egg. The egg I can only tell 412 00:19:23,680 --> 00:19:26,439 Speaker 2: you is mature. Let's say you come back with someone 413 00:19:26,480 --> 00:19:28,959 Speaker 2: with great sperm a few years later, there's a good 414 00:19:29,040 --> 00:19:31,120 Speaker 2: chance you're going to make a really good embryo. Let's 415 00:19:31,119 --> 00:19:33,000 Speaker 2: say you come back with someone who has really poor 416 00:19:33,080 --> 00:19:35,240 Speaker 2: sperm in the future. I don't know, maybe you're not 417 00:19:35,280 --> 00:19:38,000 Speaker 2: going to make as many good embryos later. So I 418 00:19:38,080 --> 00:19:41,399 Speaker 2: can't tell you if your egg is gonna be giving 419 00:19:41,440 --> 00:19:44,719 Speaker 2: you a beautiful, healthy child or not until the future 420 00:19:44,760 --> 00:19:47,040 Speaker 2: when you make the embryo, I have some woman to 421 00:19:47,080 --> 00:19:49,000 Speaker 2: tell me. I know I'm gonna have a kid, and 422 00:19:49,080 --> 00:19:51,719 Speaker 2: I'm not going to be getting married or having a husband. 423 00:19:51,840 --> 00:19:53,840 Speaker 2: I want to use donor sperm. So we use donor 424 00:19:53,880 --> 00:19:56,160 Speaker 2: sperm and they know the result now. But for people 425 00:19:56,240 --> 00:19:59,080 Speaker 2: that are waiting for mister Wright, and I have my 426 00:19:59,320 --> 00:20:04,880 Speaker 2: eye looking everywhere for mister right. For some people, yeah, 427 00:20:04,960 --> 00:20:07,399 Speaker 2: I think that the best smartest thing to do is 428 00:20:07,440 --> 00:20:10,080 Speaker 2: freezing the egg and that's when you get to use 429 00:20:10,119 --> 00:20:11,280 Speaker 2: it later on in the future. 430 00:20:11,760 --> 00:20:14,600 Speaker 1: Okay, So within those ten to twelve days when you're 431 00:20:14,600 --> 00:20:16,600 Speaker 1: injecting yourself, are you bloated? 432 00:20:16,840 --> 00:20:19,520 Speaker 3: Do you are you uncomfortable? What's the experience? 433 00:20:19,880 --> 00:20:23,760 Speaker 2: That's a really really good question. So during those ten 434 00:20:23,800 --> 00:20:26,359 Speaker 2: to twelve days, you do get a little bloated. So 435 00:20:26,400 --> 00:20:29,159 Speaker 2: your ovaries are usually small. They're the size of like 436 00:20:29,200 --> 00:20:32,399 Speaker 2: two little apricots or two little walnuts, or whatever you 437 00:20:32,440 --> 00:20:35,240 Speaker 2: want to call them. As these different little eggs grow, 438 00:20:35,400 --> 00:20:38,440 Speaker 2: they begin to grow, grow, grow, grow, grow in an ideal, 439 00:20:38,680 --> 00:20:41,480 Speaker 2: great world. If you've responded and done really well, your 440 00:20:41,520 --> 00:20:45,879 Speaker 2: two little apricots become two huge grapefruits, okay, all with 441 00:20:46,000 --> 00:20:49,160 Speaker 2: eggs growing around them. Each one is called a little follicle. 442 00:20:49,600 --> 00:20:53,239 Speaker 2: If you have two grapefruits squeezed into your belly, you 443 00:20:53,280 --> 00:20:56,720 Speaker 2: are going to have a sensation of feeling full and bloated. 444 00:20:57,440 --> 00:21:00,120 Speaker 2: And after your eggs come out, it takes about a 445 00:21:00,160 --> 00:21:03,639 Speaker 2: good solid week before those ovaries start shrinking back to 446 00:21:03,720 --> 00:21:07,080 Speaker 2: getting to be the small little walnuts and apricots again, 447 00:21:07,400 --> 00:21:09,960 Speaker 2: so you're going to have that sensation. We also tell 448 00:21:10,000 --> 00:21:12,239 Speaker 2: people after like the third or fourth or fifth day 449 00:21:12,280 --> 00:21:14,440 Speaker 2: of injections, once they start to feel a little bloated, 450 00:21:14,760 --> 00:21:17,719 Speaker 2: to actually not exercise and not have intercourse because as 451 00:21:17,760 --> 00:21:20,280 Speaker 2: your ovary gets bigger, if you decide to do a 452 00:21:20,320 --> 00:21:22,840 Speaker 2: spinning class, you have a chance of twisting that over 453 00:21:23,320 --> 00:21:25,960 Speaker 2: and that could be a disaster called the very intrsion. 454 00:21:26,840 --> 00:21:29,880 Speaker 2: It's painful and it's not fun, and it's a life 455 00:21:29,920 --> 00:21:32,879 Speaker 2: threatening emergency where we have to untwist your ovary and 456 00:21:32,960 --> 00:21:35,840 Speaker 2: make sure that it didn't get irreversibly damaged and has 457 00:21:35,880 --> 00:21:37,879 Speaker 2: to be removed. So we tell people to kind of 458 00:21:37,880 --> 00:21:39,960 Speaker 2: take it easy for a week, and also the week 459 00:21:40,000 --> 00:21:41,679 Speaker 2: after their eggs come out, we tell people to take 460 00:21:41,720 --> 00:21:42,720 Speaker 2: it easy for another week. 461 00:21:42,920 --> 00:21:44,199 Speaker 1: Okay, good to know that was going to be my 462 00:21:44,240 --> 00:21:47,239 Speaker 1: next question now now that I know that, because I'm 463 00:21:47,280 --> 00:21:49,600 Speaker 1: asking for myself to you guys, because I kind of forgot. 464 00:21:49,640 --> 00:21:52,280 Speaker 1: It's been a while since I've gone to see doctor Kadeer. 465 00:21:52,359 --> 00:21:54,359 Speaker 1: But I'm I'm going to do it next month. I 466 00:21:54,359 --> 00:21:56,399 Speaker 1: already told him. He probably doesn't believe me, but I'm 467 00:21:56,400 --> 00:21:56,679 Speaker 1: gonna have. 468 00:21:56,680 --> 00:21:57,080 Speaker 3: To show here. 469 00:21:57,080 --> 00:21:59,639 Speaker 2: Okay, guys, I just want everyone has to keep this 470 00:21:59,720 --> 00:22:03,159 Speaker 2: young woman accountable. Yes, she has made this promise to 471 00:22:03,200 --> 00:22:07,560 Speaker 2: me multiple times, and I cannot be on this earth 472 00:22:07,800 --> 00:22:10,639 Speaker 2: and not freeze for eggs because one day we are 473 00:22:10,680 --> 00:22:14,119 Speaker 2: going to be very upset. So I need everyone to 474 00:22:14,200 --> 00:22:18,040 Speaker 2: send her messages show her love and support. And I 475 00:22:18,080 --> 00:22:20,840 Speaker 2: got to tell you something. We have this unbelievable special. 476 00:22:20,880 --> 00:22:23,240 Speaker 2: It was my idea and my marketing department and all 477 00:22:23,240 --> 00:22:25,720 Speaker 2: my partners loved it. We have a special that if 478 00:22:25,760 --> 00:22:28,639 Speaker 2: you freeze your eggs with another friend of yours, you 479 00:22:28,720 --> 00:22:31,560 Speaker 2: both get a special discount. If you freeze your eggs 480 00:22:31,640 --> 00:22:34,120 Speaker 2: with two other friends, all three of you get an 481 00:22:34,160 --> 00:22:38,520 Speaker 2: amazing discount. We did this because when you're coming in 482 00:22:38,560 --> 00:22:40,440 Speaker 2: here with a man to do this, you have each 483 00:22:40,480 --> 00:22:43,280 Speaker 2: other you go home, you talk about it, You're there 484 00:22:43,280 --> 00:22:46,080 Speaker 2: for each other, you have someone by your side. When 485 00:22:46,080 --> 00:22:49,360 Speaker 2: you're doing this as a single female, people feel very 486 00:22:49,480 --> 00:22:53,720 Speaker 2: very vulnerable and alone. And yes, exactly, and as much 487 00:22:53,720 --> 00:22:56,040 Speaker 2: as I care about you and love you, I'm not 488 00:22:56,080 --> 00:22:58,560 Speaker 2: going home and I can't be there at night when 489 00:22:58,560 --> 00:23:00,119 Speaker 2: you're like, oh my god, what am I doing? And 490 00:23:00,200 --> 00:23:00,880 Speaker 2: I'm freaking out? 491 00:23:00,920 --> 00:23:03,280 Speaker 3: Well, because it is an emotional process, right. 492 00:23:03,880 --> 00:23:07,080 Speaker 2: It is. It's a very emotional process to be reassessing 493 00:23:07,160 --> 00:23:10,479 Speaker 2: everything about your life. Because some women patients somewhere are 494 00:23:10,520 --> 00:23:12,760 Speaker 2: like doctor goodyear. This is so depressing for me. I 495 00:23:12,800 --> 00:23:15,159 Speaker 2: thought at thirty five, I'm gonna have three kids and 496 00:23:15,200 --> 00:23:18,600 Speaker 2: a husband. Instead, I'm a lawyer. But still I don't know. 497 00:23:18,760 --> 00:23:21,800 Speaker 2: So whatever it may be, whatever it may be, everyone 498 00:23:21,840 --> 00:23:24,760 Speaker 2: has their own story. And I realized once I had 499 00:23:24,800 --> 00:23:28,040 Speaker 2: friends come in together to do it, and I saw, wow. 500 00:23:28,600 --> 00:23:30,960 Speaker 2: Every time they come in, they come in together. Their 501 00:23:30,960 --> 00:23:33,840 Speaker 2: egg retrievals fell within one day of each other. One 502 00:23:33,960 --> 00:23:35,840 Speaker 2: drove one that day and then the other one drove 503 00:23:35,880 --> 00:23:38,360 Speaker 2: her the other day. They were there for each other, 504 00:23:38,400 --> 00:23:42,320 Speaker 2: and it was so amazing. I loved the idea that 505 00:23:42,359 --> 00:23:44,639 Speaker 2: you can do this with your best friend. A friend, 506 00:23:44,760 --> 00:23:48,680 Speaker 2: a cousin, someone, So if you could think of someone 507 00:23:48,720 --> 00:23:50,679 Speaker 2: by next month, I think it'd be a great idea 508 00:23:50,760 --> 00:23:54,159 Speaker 2: if you had someone to do it with. If not, 509 00:23:54,400 --> 00:23:56,840 Speaker 2: we are going to be there. My team is amazing. 510 00:23:56,920 --> 00:23:59,720 Speaker 2: They hold your hand. No one's going to leave anyone 511 00:23:59,720 --> 00:24:02,240 Speaker 2: be alone. My team is amazing, and we are there 512 00:24:02,280 --> 00:24:02,720 Speaker 2: for you. 513 00:24:03,119 --> 00:24:06,440 Speaker 1: Honestly, you do have an amazing team. They're always so nice, 514 00:24:06,480 --> 00:24:08,560 Speaker 1: so patient with me, because again, I've been there so 515 00:24:08,600 --> 00:24:11,600 Speaker 1: many times, you guys. This has been a very hard 516 00:24:11,600 --> 00:24:14,879 Speaker 1: decision for me, especially because you get bloated and you're emotional. 517 00:24:14,920 --> 00:24:17,320 Speaker 1: I'm already I'm a cancer, you guys, So I'm very emotional. 518 00:24:17,600 --> 00:24:19,480 Speaker 1: So I know that I have to inject hormones, but 519 00:24:19,520 --> 00:24:22,119 Speaker 1: I know it's for a good cause. It's just I'm like, 520 00:24:22,200 --> 00:24:24,280 Speaker 1: when is the right time? So now I'm like, okay, 521 00:24:24,280 --> 00:24:26,240 Speaker 1: next month, I'm going to have more time. I already 522 00:24:26,280 --> 00:24:29,359 Speaker 1: told him I got to do it because I feel young. 523 00:24:29,720 --> 00:24:32,040 Speaker 1: But you know what, my ovaries are saying something else. 524 00:24:32,560 --> 00:24:35,760 Speaker 1: So anyways, I love that special that you guys have. 525 00:24:36,160 --> 00:24:38,720 Speaker 1: I think I have someone already here that they you know, 526 00:24:38,800 --> 00:24:40,560 Speaker 1: sent me a message that they. 527 00:24:40,560 --> 00:24:42,680 Speaker 3: Want to do it with me. So that's a great deal. 528 00:24:42,920 --> 00:24:49,880 Speaker 2: Okay, already, that's fantastic. Hasn't even aired already, Yeah, I swear. 529 00:24:49,720 --> 00:24:51,159 Speaker 1: Yeah, she just told me. She's like, I'll do it 530 00:24:51,160 --> 00:24:52,679 Speaker 1: with you Cheeiz. I don't know if she wants me to, like, 531 00:24:52,920 --> 00:24:55,560 Speaker 1: you know, say her name, so I'd rather not. But anyways, 532 00:24:55,800 --> 00:24:58,240 Speaker 1: so now that we're talking about all of this, I'm 533 00:24:58,240 --> 00:25:01,200 Speaker 1: assuming it's different for every woman. But during the process 534 00:25:01,760 --> 00:25:04,680 Speaker 1: you can either be you know, moody and stuff that 535 00:25:04,680 --> 00:25:05,479 Speaker 1: that's common. 536 00:25:06,600 --> 00:25:08,920 Speaker 2: So I will be very honest. I've seen it all. 537 00:25:09,320 --> 00:25:12,560 Speaker 2: I've had people come and do this. Usually these injections 538 00:25:12,600 --> 00:25:15,360 Speaker 2: make you feel really good. They make you feel rather energetic. 539 00:25:15,400 --> 00:25:18,440 Speaker 2: Your estrogen levels are going up, so you feel great. Okay. 540 00:25:18,960 --> 00:25:22,720 Speaker 2: Sometimes afterwards, when they come down, as estrogen comes down, 541 00:25:22,840 --> 00:25:25,880 Speaker 2: some people do get a little emotional. I have seen 542 00:25:25,920 --> 00:25:28,760 Speaker 2: people get emotional during the process because it brought too 543 00:25:28,880 --> 00:25:32,040 Speaker 2: much of their life right in front of them and 544 00:25:32,080 --> 00:25:34,960 Speaker 2: they had to address things that they did and decisions 545 00:25:35,000 --> 00:25:37,879 Speaker 2: that they made. But with all of that being said, 546 00:25:38,040 --> 00:25:42,120 Speaker 2: it's okay, everyone. Everything in this world that is good 547 00:25:42,119 --> 00:25:46,320 Speaker 2: for you is not easy, yes, Okay, becoming successful, becoming 548 00:25:46,400 --> 00:25:49,880 Speaker 2: a great parent, freezing and thinking for the future. All 549 00:25:49,920 --> 00:25:52,240 Speaker 2: of the things in the world that are challenging and 550 00:25:52,320 --> 00:25:55,879 Speaker 2: important for us are challenges, and those are not the 551 00:25:55,960 --> 00:25:58,760 Speaker 2: easiest things in life, but we have to conquer them, 552 00:25:58,800 --> 00:26:01,120 Speaker 2: and we have to know that two weeks from now 553 00:26:01,160 --> 00:26:02,880 Speaker 2: I will be done. I'm going to go to bed 554 00:26:03,040 --> 00:26:05,560 Speaker 2: knowing my eggs are frozen. And by the way, just 555 00:26:05,600 --> 00:26:08,239 Speaker 2: a couple myths that we have to address. When you 556 00:26:08,280 --> 00:26:10,359 Speaker 2: freeze your eggs, we are not taking all of your 557 00:26:10,359 --> 00:26:12,639 Speaker 2: eggs out of your body. It's only the eggs that 558 00:26:12,760 --> 00:26:16,440 Speaker 2: we're going to die off. Anyways, during that one ovulation, 559 00:26:16,920 --> 00:26:19,719 Speaker 2: about a thousand eggs die off. So the more fertile 560 00:26:19,760 --> 00:26:21,760 Speaker 2: you are, the more of those thousand we can try 561 00:26:21,760 --> 00:26:24,840 Speaker 2: to get to keep and freeze, or what we call recruit, 562 00:26:25,200 --> 00:26:26,960 Speaker 2: and the less fertile you are, the less of those 563 00:26:27,000 --> 00:26:29,160 Speaker 2: we can get. So you are not going to get 564 00:26:29,160 --> 00:26:31,560 Speaker 2: an earlier menopause. You are not going to get all 565 00:26:31,600 --> 00:26:34,920 Speaker 2: your eggs taken out. You are not going to become crazy. 566 00:26:35,440 --> 00:26:37,960 Speaker 2: You are not going to be gaining weight. You may 567 00:26:38,040 --> 00:26:41,080 Speaker 2: gain a little fluid because your ovaries have fluid in them, 568 00:26:41,320 --> 00:26:45,320 Speaker 2: but it will go down if you don't eat ravenously. 569 00:26:45,480 --> 00:26:48,199 Speaker 2: You're not going to get overweight. Okay, it's good to know. 570 00:26:48,680 --> 00:26:51,000 Speaker 2: So these are all the major myths that people are 571 00:26:51,000 --> 00:26:54,560 Speaker 2: thinking about, and unfortunately most of them are just not true. 572 00:27:00,160 --> 00:27:03,960 Speaker 1: Okay, now do you recommend therapy sessions during this time? 573 00:27:04,840 --> 00:27:09,359 Speaker 2: You know, we have an in house acupuncturist. She is 574 00:27:09,520 --> 00:27:12,439 Speaker 2: so amazing, and I have a couple other acupuncturists in 575 00:27:12,480 --> 00:27:15,600 Speaker 2: town that I adore. First of all, acupuncture helps fertility, 576 00:27:15,640 --> 00:27:19,240 Speaker 2: It helps you. Overys respond really nicely. They are so calm, 577 00:27:19,400 --> 00:27:22,840 Speaker 2: cool and collected. They've almost become like therapists for my patients. Now, 578 00:27:23,119 --> 00:27:26,320 Speaker 2: if you have a therapist that you talk to regularly, 579 00:27:26,920 --> 00:27:30,679 Speaker 2: absolutely you should tell them from beforehand I'm about to 580 00:27:30,720 --> 00:27:33,119 Speaker 2: do this, I may need to talk to you. You 581 00:27:33,160 --> 00:27:36,560 Speaker 2: should probably schedule something during that time period just to 582 00:27:36,640 --> 00:27:39,719 Speaker 2: have them there at your side. I just think it's very, 583 00:27:40,119 --> 00:27:44,520 Speaker 2: very important to have support, whether it's a family member, 584 00:27:44,760 --> 00:27:48,080 Speaker 2: whether it's a friend, whether it's your doctor and their team. 585 00:27:48,560 --> 00:27:50,719 Speaker 2: You know, you're not going to the right doctor if 586 00:27:50,720 --> 00:27:52,600 Speaker 2: they don't have a great support system there that you 587 00:27:52,600 --> 00:27:54,880 Speaker 2: could pick up the phone and talk to. I hear 588 00:27:55,000 --> 00:27:58,200 Speaker 2: my nurses outside of my door talking to my patients, 589 00:27:58,560 --> 00:28:01,280 Speaker 2: and I just thank god they are on my team 590 00:28:01,520 --> 00:28:04,600 Speaker 2: because they are so lovely and so caring, and my 591 00:28:04,680 --> 00:28:08,000 Speaker 2: patients absolutely love them. Okay, and just for people to know, 592 00:28:08,280 --> 00:28:10,879 Speaker 2: you know, every time we talk, I have people that 593 00:28:11,040 --> 00:28:15,280 Speaker 2: listen and you're such a beautiful voice that teaches people, 594 00:28:15,280 --> 00:28:18,080 Speaker 2: which I love about you. I've had people from around 595 00:28:18,080 --> 00:28:20,320 Speaker 2: the country reach out to me that listen to you 596 00:28:20,720 --> 00:28:24,080 Speaker 2: and watch you and learn from you. We've had people 597 00:28:24,359 --> 00:28:29,359 Speaker 2: from Miami, New York, and Texas all do consults by phone. 598 00:28:29,560 --> 00:28:31,760 Speaker 2: We start them with their injections and there are local 599 00:28:31,800 --> 00:28:35,800 Speaker 2: talents with a local fertility doctor, and just before the procedure, 600 00:28:35,840 --> 00:28:38,320 Speaker 2: we have them fly in, get their eggs out, put 601 00:28:38,320 --> 00:28:40,000 Speaker 2: them in our state of the art lab here, which 602 00:28:40,000 --> 00:28:41,880 Speaker 2: is one of the best in the country, and then 603 00:28:41,920 --> 00:28:43,960 Speaker 2: they are good to go back and they are sitting 604 00:28:44,040 --> 00:28:46,200 Speaker 2: here waiting for them, and if not, I try to 605 00:28:46,200 --> 00:28:47,360 Speaker 2: find someone in their hometown. 606 00:28:47,960 --> 00:28:48,360 Speaker 3: Okay. 607 00:28:48,480 --> 00:28:50,400 Speaker 1: See, this is why I love doctor g You guys, 608 00:28:50,560 --> 00:28:54,600 Speaker 1: He's so informative, he's so patient. And I'm telling you 609 00:28:54,640 --> 00:28:56,560 Speaker 1: because again, I ask a lot of questions. I've asked 610 00:28:56,600 --> 00:28:58,600 Speaker 1: same questions over and over, but I wanted you guys 611 00:28:58,640 --> 00:29:01,920 Speaker 1: to hear it from him. I have a question that 612 00:29:01,960 --> 00:29:05,200 Speaker 1: they were asking okay. So once they're extracted our eggs, 613 00:29:05,560 --> 00:29:08,640 Speaker 1: they are literally frozen. Right, They're in the fridge, they're 614 00:29:08,680 --> 00:29:10,440 Speaker 1: somewhere where you store them. Right. 615 00:29:11,320 --> 00:29:16,960 Speaker 2: We have a very very private, safe location in my building. 616 00:29:17,800 --> 00:29:21,680 Speaker 2: It has seismic control, so things are tied down to earthquakes, 617 00:29:21,960 --> 00:29:25,840 Speaker 2: don't do anything. All of the tanks are checked every 618 00:29:25,880 --> 00:29:28,880 Speaker 2: single day by two of my embryologists that go into 619 00:29:28,920 --> 00:29:31,480 Speaker 2: a walkthrough. They are all on cameras, they are all 620 00:29:31,520 --> 00:29:35,000 Speaker 2: on alarms. They have backup generators in case the electricity 621 00:29:35,040 --> 00:29:38,280 Speaker 2: goes out. So we do every single thing to keep 622 00:29:38,320 --> 00:29:41,800 Speaker 2: your eggs frozen in time. So they get frozen and 623 00:29:41,840 --> 00:29:44,800 Speaker 2: they become almost like a glass. Okay, it's like a 624 00:29:44,800 --> 00:29:48,200 Speaker 2: glass like state. It's called vitrification. And this is how 625 00:29:48,240 --> 00:29:51,880 Speaker 2: fast they get frozen in one second. Wow. Okay, it's 626 00:29:51,920 --> 00:29:56,000 Speaker 2: called fast freezing. Okay. Vitrification is the fastest, the newest 627 00:29:56,040 --> 00:29:58,600 Speaker 2: and most advanced technique to freeze an egg. And that's 628 00:29:58,600 --> 00:29:59,880 Speaker 2: how we do them in my office. 629 00:30:00,120 --> 00:30:00,560 Speaker 3: Okay. 630 00:30:00,680 --> 00:30:04,240 Speaker 1: And once we're ready, then you take them out and 631 00:30:04,360 --> 00:30:07,080 Speaker 1: you insert them right with the sperm of your choice. 632 00:30:07,120 --> 00:30:10,280 Speaker 2: Once, yes, once you are ready, we thought them okay, 633 00:30:10,520 --> 00:30:14,280 Speaker 2: and then we inseminate them with sperm. Nice, we create embryos. 634 00:30:14,400 --> 00:30:17,440 Speaker 2: We allow the embryos to grow in our incubators, and 635 00:30:17,480 --> 00:30:20,880 Speaker 2: then they are biopsied and frozen, and the biopsies that 636 00:30:20,960 --> 00:30:23,360 Speaker 2: one tiny little cell off the edge of it goes 637 00:30:23,400 --> 00:30:25,720 Speaker 2: out for genetic testing, and then we can tell you 638 00:30:25,800 --> 00:30:29,160 Speaker 2: which one of your embryos are genetically normal or abnormal, 639 00:30:29,240 --> 00:30:31,320 Speaker 2: and all the normal ones, we also can tell you 640 00:30:31,320 --> 00:30:33,240 Speaker 2: what their genders were if you want, you want to know. 641 00:30:33,360 --> 00:30:36,360 Speaker 1: Okay, Nice, Okay, So these eggs can be inserted in 642 00:30:36,360 --> 00:30:38,960 Speaker 1: either in yourself or also you can have aserrogate. 643 00:30:39,000 --> 00:30:40,640 Speaker 3: Correct. Either way, the procedures the same. 644 00:30:40,960 --> 00:30:42,719 Speaker 2: Correct. Okay, Yes you can, Yes you can. 645 00:30:42,760 --> 00:30:43,080 Speaker 3: Awesome. 646 00:30:43,120 --> 00:30:44,920 Speaker 1: Now I just have one question before you go, mister 647 00:30:45,440 --> 00:30:49,520 Speaker 1: or doctor Gadeir, do you think that maybe miscarriages or 648 00:30:49,600 --> 00:30:51,800 Speaker 1: abortions that affects your fertility? 649 00:30:53,360 --> 00:30:57,000 Speaker 2: So yes, and no, okay, if you've had miscarriages and 650 00:30:57,040 --> 00:30:59,040 Speaker 2: they were taken care of well, like if you had 651 00:30:59,040 --> 00:31:02,120 Speaker 2: miscarriages where they're like scraping the inside of your uterus 652 00:31:02,160 --> 00:31:05,360 Speaker 2: like horribly hard, and yes, it could damage the lining 653 00:31:05,440 --> 00:31:07,200 Speaker 2: of your uterus and it may be hard to implant. 654 00:31:07,520 --> 00:31:11,040 Speaker 2: But I've had patients have seven miscarriages and they were 655 00:31:11,080 --> 00:31:14,920 Speaker 2: all done correctly and softly and gently and in a 656 00:31:15,360 --> 00:31:18,520 Speaker 2: smart doctor's office, and nothing ever happened to her uterus, 657 00:31:18,600 --> 00:31:21,000 Speaker 2: and she carried a beautiful pregnancy when she was ready. 658 00:31:21,440 --> 00:31:25,280 Speaker 2: So miscarriages, I think are nothing to be worried about. 659 00:31:25,360 --> 00:31:28,640 Speaker 2: Abortions as well, if they're done correctly, they really shouldn't 660 00:31:28,680 --> 00:31:31,440 Speaker 2: be affecting things in the long run. So all the 661 00:31:31,480 --> 00:31:35,000 Speaker 2: things that have to do with your overall fertility should 662 00:31:35,000 --> 00:31:37,080 Speaker 2: not be affecting the freezing of the eggs. Okay. 663 00:31:37,120 --> 00:31:39,480 Speaker 1: So neither of those two have anything to do with 664 00:31:39,920 --> 00:31:42,400 Speaker 1: how many eggs you have, or it just happens. It's 665 00:31:42,440 --> 00:31:44,400 Speaker 1: just age, really right, or things that you eat or 666 00:31:44,440 --> 00:31:47,280 Speaker 1: anything like that. Does that affect No, no. 667 00:31:47,040 --> 00:31:49,280 Speaker 2: No, I have some of This is la, guys, This 668 00:31:49,360 --> 00:31:51,640 Speaker 2: is la. We have some of the healthiest women in 669 00:31:51,680 --> 00:31:56,200 Speaker 2: the entire country who do yoga and pilates, are vegetarian 670 00:31:56,240 --> 00:31:58,960 Speaker 2: and eat healthy and watch their weight come in and 671 00:31:58,960 --> 00:32:01,080 Speaker 2: they're thirty nine years old and suddenly I have to 672 00:32:01,120 --> 00:32:03,560 Speaker 2: tell them that their fertility is very, very low and 673 00:32:03,600 --> 00:32:06,360 Speaker 2: there's absolutely nothing we can do about it. So okay, 674 00:32:06,400 --> 00:32:08,840 Speaker 2: so it all just sadly, there's not much you can do. 675 00:32:09,880 --> 00:32:10,800 Speaker 3: Okay, Doctor Gadeir. 676 00:32:10,840 --> 00:32:11,960 Speaker 1: I know you got to go, and I just want 677 00:32:12,000 --> 00:32:14,280 Speaker 1: to say thank you again, thank you for taking the 678 00:32:14,280 --> 00:32:16,920 Speaker 1: time to explain this, for being so wonderful. You and 679 00:32:16,960 --> 00:32:19,200 Speaker 1: your staff are great. I want you to let people 680 00:32:19,240 --> 00:32:21,160 Speaker 1: know where they can find you. If there's a number 681 00:32:21,160 --> 00:32:24,080 Speaker 1: of website, anyone that's listening to us that wants to do. 682 00:32:24,080 --> 00:32:27,400 Speaker 2: This, absolutely we'll let everybody know right now. So I 683 00:32:27,440 --> 00:32:31,840 Speaker 2: can be followed at doctor Shaheen Gadeir on Instagram. I 684 00:32:31,960 --> 00:32:35,080 Speaker 2: have my own podcasts now called The Fertile Life, and 685 00:32:35,160 --> 00:32:37,520 Speaker 2: thank you so much. I am beyond excited to have 686 00:32:37,560 --> 00:32:39,960 Speaker 2: you on as a guest where we get to delve 687 00:32:40,000 --> 00:32:42,600 Speaker 2: into this even deeper and learn a little bit more 688 00:32:42,600 --> 00:32:45,720 Speaker 2: about your life. It's not only about fertility. It's about 689 00:32:45,960 --> 00:32:48,680 Speaker 2: some really amazing guests that I've had and sometimes I 690 00:32:48,760 --> 00:32:50,280 Speaker 2: just do them alone when I just talk about a 691 00:32:50,320 --> 00:32:54,120 Speaker 2: topic like endometriosis or PCOS. So The Fertile Life podcast 692 00:32:54,160 --> 00:32:58,080 Speaker 2: is there. Southern California Reproductive Center is my center. We're 693 00:32:58,120 --> 00:33:01,080 Speaker 2: in the heart of Beverly Hills, have an office in Pasadena, 694 00:33:01,160 --> 00:33:04,480 Speaker 2: and office in Ventura County, and an office in Santa Barbara, 695 00:33:04,520 --> 00:33:07,320 Speaker 2: so we're kind of all over southern California, and we 696 00:33:07,360 --> 00:33:10,760 Speaker 2: are doing consults around the entire country. So if those 697 00:33:10,800 --> 00:33:13,600 Speaker 2: things will definitely help everyone find me wherever they go. 698 00:33:14,160 --> 00:33:16,960 Speaker 1: Yes, yes, you guys, and I will be sharing more 699 00:33:16,960 --> 00:33:19,520 Speaker 1: information or my Instagram as well. The good thing is 700 00:33:19,560 --> 00:33:21,600 Speaker 1: you guys can listen to the podcast over and over. 701 00:33:21,640 --> 00:33:23,480 Speaker 1: If you guys miss anything, and if you have any 702 00:33:23,520 --> 00:33:26,280 Speaker 1: other questions, DM me you guys, I'm going to let 703 00:33:26,320 --> 00:33:26,480 Speaker 1: you go. 704 00:33:26,600 --> 00:33:27,720 Speaker 3: Doctor goodear, Thank you. 705 00:33:27,680 --> 00:33:31,440 Speaker 2: Again, thank you for being so inspired by the way. 706 00:33:31,600 --> 00:33:32,360 Speaker 3: Thank you, thank you. 707 00:33:33,000 --> 00:33:35,560 Speaker 1: Before we end this episode, I want to just tell 708 00:33:35,600 --> 00:33:39,280 Speaker 1: you guys, live and let live. What does that mean? 709 00:33:40,320 --> 00:33:45,400 Speaker 1: Just allow yourself to make your own decisions. Don't let 710 00:33:45,480 --> 00:33:49,080 Speaker 1: anyone else rule what you should or shouldn't do. It's 711 00:33:49,400 --> 00:33:52,080 Speaker 1: what are you meant to do? What do you want 712 00:33:52,080 --> 00:33:55,600 Speaker 1: to do? If you're not hurting anybody else, it's really 713 00:33:55,600 --> 00:33:58,520 Speaker 1: no one else's business, So you can keep it private. 714 00:33:58,600 --> 00:34:01,400 Speaker 1: You can tell people or not. It's your decision. It's 715 00:34:01,440 --> 00:34:03,880 Speaker 1: a personal decision. It's your body at the end of 716 00:34:03,920 --> 00:34:06,360 Speaker 1: the day, and just the way you shouldn't tell anyone 717 00:34:06,360 --> 00:34:09,600 Speaker 1: else to do whatever they want with their body, no one. 718 00:34:09,640 --> 00:34:11,120 Speaker 3: Should tell you what to do with yours. 719 00:34:14,640 --> 00:34:15,120 Speaker 2: This is a. 720 00:34:15,080 --> 00:34:19,359 Speaker 1: Production of iHeartRadio and Mike Wueltura podcast Network. 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