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Speaker 1: To Teas in a Pod with Teddy Mellencamp and Camra Jedge.

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Speaker 2: Hi, guys, welcome to another episode of Two Teas and

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Speaker 2: a Pod.

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Speaker 3: It's myself, Teddy Mellencamp.

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Speaker 4: And them back so soon. It's Matt Lafary.

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Speaker 3: It's Matt Laffery, you guys.

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Speaker 2: I feel like there was a bunch of things we

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Speaker 2: needed to talk about, and I just wanted to kind

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Speaker 2: of give everybody a heads up where everything has been going. One.

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Speaker 2: Thank you for so graciously welcoming Matt who stepped in

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Speaker 2: for me. Because Matt is not only one of our producers,

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Speaker 2: he's one of truly one of my best friends, and

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Speaker 2: we talk about these shows at nauseum, so he knows

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Speaker 2: all my opinions, my hot takes, his hot takes, Erica's

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Speaker 2: hot takes, Tamra's hot takes on her shows like it's

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Speaker 2: just it's constant. So I'm so grateful to have such

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Speaker 2: an amazing production team that will allow me to still

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Speaker 2: be able to speak to you guys, even on days

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Speaker 2: that I can't.

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Speaker 3: So that's kind of the update. So a lot of things.

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Speaker 2: Have gone on in the last two days between what

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Speaker 2: happened at my house and me not being able to

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Speaker 2: show up for the POD, and there were two separate

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Speaker 2: instances and one thing that I really wanted to kind

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Speaker 2: of make clear, which I've tried my hardest to do

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Speaker 2: throughout this entire cancer journey, is one, yes, I have

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Speaker 2: stage four cancer. Two, I cannot control exactly how I

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Speaker 2: feel on each given day. Three On the days that

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Speaker 2: I feel really good, I want to take advantage of it,

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Speaker 2: and on the days I feel terrible, I have to

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Speaker 2: listen to my body. So that's kind of where we were.

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Speaker 2: So last week I went with my daughter to her

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Speaker 2: horse show. I only made it a day and a half.

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Speaker 2: I wasn't even riding myself. I was just gonna go

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Speaker 2: watch her. I even stayed in a camper on the

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Speaker 2: facility because I thought, Okay, then I can go back

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Speaker 2: and forth even though I'm not feeling good. Essentially, I

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Speaker 3: I was like, what do you mean? I felt so

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Speaker 2: After the surgeries, and then when I was having radiation

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Speaker 2: and immune therapy, I was feeling good, So why am

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Speaker 2: I not able to do this right now, Like, why

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Speaker 3: And I kind of learned why this week at the doctors.

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Speaker 2: So the day I missed, I went straight to Like

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Speaker 2: but I went for an emergency appointment. I'd been having

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Speaker 2: for that. So I know that Matt and Eric said

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Speaker 2: affect your healthy cells and sometimes things change. Essentially, what

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Speaker 2: we figured out with me was, yes, I started out

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Speaker 2: And what's happening with me is the longer that I'm

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Speaker 3: How's she going to this horse show? How's she doing this?

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Speaker 2: But no, guys, like, it's really hit me, like these

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Speaker 2: And so if I ever feel like I can't give

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Speaker 2: so that you're in the moment, because I know as

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Speaker 2: They did a bunch of scans and everything's looking good.

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Speaker 2: and I think as listeners is, and I don't want

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Speaker 2: I know that that can be a depressing topic, but

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Speaker 2: things are going to change and that's okay. The hardest

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Speaker 3: So that's essentially what's going on.

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Speaker 2: I'm going to keep in close contact with all of

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Speaker 2: I think something I don't talk about often on the

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Speaker 3: It's changed my kid's life. It's changed my relationship with Edwin.

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Speaker 2: Yeah, you guys all know that we were filing for divorce.

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Speaker 2: Nothing's changed in that other than that we're on hold

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Speaker 2: He's like, she's not immune therapy and she's you know,

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Speaker 3: You know, Like, all we're doing.

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Speaker 2: Is craving informations, and sometimes you're not going to be

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Speaker 4: Do you want to clarify just for people who still

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Speaker 4: and you are still in a positive trajectory, correctly, Yeah.

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Speaker 2: Yeah, so this is all still a positive trajectory minus

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Speaker 2: And what I didn't realize is that immunis therapy is

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Speaker 3: You know I do. I love this job so much.

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Speaker 2: I love being able to recap with every single one

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Speaker 2: it's scary and I feel less than on the days

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Speaker 2: so yeah, I mean, don't y'all worry for one second.

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Speaker 2: I already watched The Valley, I watched I watched Real

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Speaker 2: Like I'm going to be there, and I'm hoping that

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Speaker 2: having stage four cancer. As your memory goes a little bit,

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Speaker 4: But yeah, so I just want to say real quick

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Speaker 4: before we move on to the other thing you need

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Speaker 4: and the outpouring of love and support is so beyond

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Speaker 4: anything that you even I think are aware of, because

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Speaker 4: you know, we all are getting in in different places,

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Speaker 4: just the love for you. And I know you get

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Speaker 4: but just everyone's rooting for you, and it's you. People

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Speaker 2: And and I think, you know, people see you see

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Speaker 2: Well, to give you guys a little backstory for those

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Speaker 2: And guys, and to the people that have written Teddy

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Speaker 5: And then people are like, oh, you're just like so

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Speaker 2: Just effit.

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Speaker 4: You and your kids are safe. Everything's great on that

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Speaker 2: No, I just want to say I love you guys.

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Speaker 2: I appreciate you. Any questions that you have. If I

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Speaker 2: don't respond quickly. Just now, you'll be able to find

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Speaker 2: find into his DMS and he'll get right on back

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Speaker 2: to you today. What did I try to teach myself?

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Speaker 2: Did you notice with my long text coming through? I

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Speaker 3: That was a mistake.

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Speaker 4: You taught yourself to thumbs up tap back, which I

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Speaker 3: Oh that was Slate. I don't even know what she

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Speaker 4: Oh boy, I got to watch what I text you now.

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Speaker 3: The Slate's hoping out. But I am listening talking to

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Speaker 2: And it's been some good, juicy episode since I've been gone.

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Speaker 1: Yeah.

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Speaker 2: Yeah, And if you want to watch any scripted shows,

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Speaker 2: I've watched a couple and My and My Sadness Untamed,

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Speaker 3: And when I say paradise, I'm not meaning it, I

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Speaker 3: know it's so good. Well, anyways, we're closing out, but

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Speaker 3: to you then. And thank you so much, Matt, love you,