Speaker 1: I'm really sure it's dead. It's coming this way.
Speaker 2: Wait a minute, please.
Speaker 1: Hey Boo, it's me Roz. How are you, my sweet
Speaker 1: sweet angels? I have got a psychic episode. It seems
Speaker 1: like I average about one psychic a year on the show,
Speaker 1: which to some people is not enough. I get that.
Speaker 1: I'm very picky, you know this about me. I'm very
Speaker 1: picky with my psychics. I have been to so many
Speaker 1: psychics in my lifetime. I'm like a psychic fan. I
Speaker 1: literally if there's if there's t shirts for psychics, I
Speaker 1: would wear them, you know, like, if I don't know,
Speaker 1: I've want to. Actually, I'm gonna look up if there's
Speaker 1: merch for like a Long Island medium or don't make
Speaker 1: me make a joke about it being a medium or
Speaker 1: a large I love psychics. I'm a huge fan of them.
Speaker 1: I do think that I've probably been to one hundred
Speaker 1: psychics in my day, of all ranges of success, I
Speaker 1: guess I don't know. I've been. I've called psychics, I've
Speaker 1: done psychic hotlines, I've done storefront psychics, I've done very
Speaker 1: legit famous psychics. I've had all kinds of readings, and
Speaker 1: you know, I have a lot of beliefs about psychics,
Speaker 1: as I've shared many times, but just to recap some
Speaker 1: of my beliefs on psychics, giving them the benefit of
Speaker 1: the doubt, I do think that there's no psychic that
Speaker 1: is one hundred percent right all the time. I think
Speaker 1: that just like with any job, people can have off days,
Speaker 1: or with psychics they can just have a better Wi
Speaker 1: Fi signal spiritually with you. Going along with that, I
Speaker 1: think that sometimes one psychic is amazing for one person,
Speaker 1: they're not so great for another person. It's just like
Speaker 1: they connected better. I don't know. I also think that
Speaker 1: over the past few years of having these conversations on
Speaker 1: the show and both on it and off, I have
Speaker 1: had to learn to sort of rationalize how it can
Speaker 1: be possible for so many things to exist, you know,
Speaker 1: like I just really think that psychics can be legit
Speaker 1: but have their abilities can appear very different among different psychics.
Speaker 1: You know, some will be very based in like your
Speaker 1: loved ones have gone over to heaven and they could
Speaker 1: be like super legit with their readings, and then there's
Speaker 1: other ones that are like, oh, your loved ones are
Speaker 1: in energy around you, like you know, I don't know,
Speaker 1: they just a lot of times they seem to have
Speaker 1: an understanding that they're very sure of and it can
Speaker 1: contradict what other people's understandings are. But it's this thing
Speaker 1: where I don't know, we're not really talking about We're
Speaker 1: talking about stuff that you can't easily explain. So I
Speaker 1: think that, again giving them the benefit of the doubt,
Speaker 1: why could it not be true that maybe all of
Speaker 1: these things are true. They just they're just different for
Speaker 1: different people. Or I don't know, I don't know, I
Speaker 1: don't know. No, no, no, no, I don't know. But it's
Speaker 1: fun and can be very powerful. Now I got to
Speaker 1: talk to charmar Golis. Charmer Golis is a close friend
Speaker 1: of Chris Coulfer and Chris Kulfer recommended and hooked us up.
Speaker 1: And okay, charmer Golis was nice enough to give me
Speaker 1: a reading, and I did have to take some stuff out,
Speaker 1: and I really apologize, but the stuff I took out
Speaker 1: was very, very legit. She picked up on somebody who
Speaker 1: died that I knew, and that would have been that
Speaker 1: was relevant to the conversation that we were having. The
Speaker 1: reading that she was giving me and the things that
Speaker 1: she said that this person is She said that some
Speaker 1: things have been happening and it is because that person's
Speaker 1: spirit is the one that's doing them. And I had
Speaker 1: I had actual witnesses that were in the studio with
Speaker 1: me that were like, whoa that actually that lines up.
Speaker 1: It was crazy. But I don't know, We're just we're
Speaker 1: talking about somebody that has living relatives that I just
Speaker 1: I just don't really. I just I just felt like
Speaker 1: I needed to take it out. It was just a
Speaker 1: little bit, I don't know, it just felt she had
Speaker 1: she had a lot to say about it, and I
Speaker 1: just felt like it was out of respect for that person,
Speaker 1: I decided to take it out. And there was I mean,
Speaker 1: there was so so when you listen to the reading,
Speaker 1: it's it's pretty brief, it would sound like, and some
Speaker 1: of the stuff that we really connected on I did
Speaker 1: have to take out. But there's some stuff that she
Speaker 1: said in there. I mean, I recorded this weeks ago,
Speaker 1: and she did, you know, I'm I'm looking for a manager,
Speaker 1: she said. She asked me if I was looking for
Speaker 1: a manager. I thought that was kind of strange. I
Speaker 1: don't know, it was just it was good. It was
Speaker 1: really good. I highly recommend shar and she does have
Speaker 1: a new book. It's called You Are Psychic. And that's
Speaker 1: the other thing. I think that we all are psychic,
Speaker 1: I really do. I think it's like singing. I've said
Speaker 1: this before. I think that most people have the ability
Speaker 1: to make some kind of musical tone out of their
Speaker 1: voice when they're born. It's technically possible. And I think
Speaker 1: some people just they come out of the womb and
Speaker 1: they can sing. It takes very minimal tuning, fine tuning,
Speaker 1: learning of their abilities, and now they can just all
Speaker 1: of a sudden be on you know, American idol or whatever.
Speaker 1: And then there's people like me that technically could make
Speaker 1: a tone, but are better suited for lip syncing or
Speaker 1: you know, with the right amount of auto tune. Anyway,
Speaker 1: I think that's what psychic abilities are. And I think
Speaker 1: that shar has got a good grasp on her psychic abilities.
Speaker 1: She's been doing this for a long time. She's been
Speaker 1: on so many TV shows, she has read I'm sure
Speaker 1: thousands and thousands of people. And now I'm one of
Speaker 1: these people that's like, yep, I believe in her. I
Speaker 1: really do. So we will get into that. Of course,
Speaker 1: I have to tell you to go to Patreon dot com,
Speaker 1: slash raws driz Pales and that link is in the
Speaker 1: description of this episode. I've been doing these weekly podcasts
Speaker 1: of me learning about different states. I just did Illinois,
Speaker 1: and Illinois has some funky and freaky shit that I
Speaker 1: didn't know about. This has been so fun for me.
Speaker 1: I think I've done twenty twenty five or twenty six
Speaker 1: or something like that full length episodes. And my Patreon
Speaker 1: of me just talking. If you go back far enough,
Speaker 1: you'll find a couple of me with guests, all kinds
Speaker 1: of stuff there. It really helps out, helps me out
Speaker 1: and help support the show. Also, you can find a
Speaker 1: video version. I talked to her over zoom. She was
Speaker 1: in Michigan at the time, and you can find that
Speaker 1: also in the description of this episode the link to
Speaker 1: that on YouTube. Hey, Halloween time is upon us, so
Speaker 1: please do me a favor. Tell your friends about the show.
Speaker 1: Get the word out. Okay, here we go. Here is
Speaker 1: me talking to intuitive psychic medium shar Margolis on with
Speaker 1: the show. I am joined by Shar Margolis. Hello, Shar,
Speaker 1: how are you?
Speaker 3: Raz is so lovely to meet you, honey.
Speaker 1: It is so nice to meet you. I am reading
Speaker 1: your book right now.
Speaker 3: You are. Oh you are?
Speaker 1: You are psychic? Now, I know you are psychic?
Speaker 3: Right, everybody psychic?
Speaker 2: You know what.
Speaker 1: I have talked to a lot of psychics in my day,
Speaker 1: and they always tell me that I'm I'm I mean,
Speaker 1: I do. I also believe that everyone is psychic. But
Speaker 1: they always tell me like, you're a little bit maybe
Speaker 1: a little bit more in tune than other people. And
Speaker 1: I think I am because I was reading your book
Speaker 1: and there's a lot of things in there where I'm like, oh,
Speaker 1: I already know that. I already did that part and
Speaker 1: I never no one taught me that. But I think,
Speaker 1: I think I am psychic.
Speaker 3: Of course you are. But also you probably had to
Speaker 3: depend on your intuition more than most people to get
Speaker 3: to where you are because you've taken a lot of
Speaker 3: risks in your life, and you know, you've you kind
Speaker 3: of like have pioneered your way to be where you
Speaker 3: are and and it hasn't been easy. So you you know,
Speaker 3: the people maybe that raised you didn't understand you. And
Speaker 3: also you probably always knew you were a little different
Speaker 3: than most people, but you always lived with your own truth.
Speaker 3: And when we live with our own truth, we're more
Speaker 3: in touch with the universe, and the universe has information
Speaker 3: for us, so you probably have downloaded guidance from your
Speaker 3: spirit guides and your guardian angels and the universe through
Speaker 3: your life so you could be who you are and
Speaker 3: live in your truth.
Speaker 1: Okay, I guess that makes sense.
Speaker 3: It makes good sense, right.
Speaker 1: Yeah. I think I've I think I look at it
Speaker 1: that way. I think that's what I've always thought. I
Speaker 1: don't know. Your book has got me thinking about a
Speaker 1: lot of things. Oh good, Yeah, it's it's it's really good.
Speaker 1: And the stories in here are incredible. And I should
Speaker 1: definitely point out that you were recommended to me by
Speaker 1: our mutual friend Chris Colfer, who he's been on this
Speaker 1: podcast and he is such a magical human being and
Speaker 1: anybody that's a friend of his is a friend of mine,
Speaker 1: and so he recommended you, and he also wrote the
Speaker 1: foreword in this book. And what what a gift, What
Speaker 1: what an amazing gift that forward is to me for me.
Speaker 1: It's so sweet. And you guys met when you were
Speaker 1: doing it was who who? I always get confused of
Speaker 1: what the timeline was?
Speaker 3: Okay, yeah, yeah, and so uh he there's a fly
Speaker 3: in here. He actually he the fun He really tells
Speaker 3: the story in a really funny way. I hope people
Speaker 3: read the book and follow it because it's such it's
Speaker 3: really such a great It's like two people, Chris and myself,
Speaker 3: who you would never think would become such close friends
Speaker 3: because of the age difference to begin with. And he's
Speaker 3: just this really old soul. And I always tell him
Speaker 3: he's older than I am, because he is. He's like,
Speaker 3: he's like an old lady.
Speaker 1: Yeah. And well, you also predicted Kelly or I guess,
Speaker 1: I mean you were able to tell that Kelly Ripple
Speaker 1: was pregnant on TV.
Speaker 3: Yeah. What happened was she was auditioning to be the
Speaker 3: co host of of UH with Regis. And the interesting
Speaker 3: thing was is that I kept saying, why don't you
Speaker 3: guys put me on around Halloween? And a dear friend
Speaker 3: of mine, who was the book or at the time,
Speaker 3: her names Joanne Salzman, said no, you're not. You're not
Speaker 3: a Halloween psychic. You're you're the real deal. And she says,
Speaker 3: I think you should go on November or whatever it was,
Speaker 3: and I said maybe fourth or something, and I said okay,
Speaker 3: And Kelly was auditioning and they asked me to read
Speaker 3: for her, and she had just had a child. So
Speaker 3: but her grandma Grace was standing behind her, and her
Speaker 3: nickname was d and I got the name no Esther.
Speaker 3: I'm sorry, your grandma Esther was behind her, and I
Speaker 3: got the name Esther, and then I got a D initial.
Speaker 3: And then I said, well, she's holding a baby, but
Speaker 3: I know you just had a baby, but are you pregnant?
Speaker 3: And Marie just goes, Kelly, are you not telling us something?
Speaker 3: And she goes, oh my god, my bosses don't even
Speaker 3: know my children. Then and it and the you know,
Speaker 3: the the plus to the story is I had them
Speaker 3: on my podcast. I have a podcast called Sharvision, which
Speaker 3: is the sign behind me. And during COVID, during lockdown,
Speaker 3: I had Kelly and her husband, excuse me, Mark and
Speaker 3: Sula's son, and I found out during that interview that
Speaker 3: he was at home and he practically he fell off
Speaker 3: the couch like he like they were the only ones
Speaker 3: that knew she was pregnant.
Speaker 1: Oh my god, well do you think that? I mean
Speaker 1: obviously that she's auditioning for this job. So she's like,
Speaker 1: I can't be on maternity leave as I'm trying to
Speaker 1: get this job. So but hey, it all worked out.
Speaker 3: Yep, exactly, And it's the gift that keeps giving. It
Speaker 3: was like the access Hollywood of the day moment, and
Speaker 3: it keeps coming back. And I was just on it
Speaker 3: for my last book. The universe is calling you right
Speaker 3: before Lockdown, right before they I didn't have a not
Speaker 3: like before they got rid of the audience. And now
Speaker 3: I'll be on again soon, I think the first week
Speaker 3: of September twenty twenty two.
Speaker 1: So what made you want to write this book?
Speaker 3: Well, you know, my books are my children. I don't
Speaker 3: have children, so well except for this, he's my baby. Ah,
Speaker 3: who's that, Sonny Margolis.
Speaker 1: Oh, if you're just listening, it's a little tiny. Is
Speaker 1: that a chihuahua? Yeah?
Speaker 3: Long here chiaha long.
Speaker 1: Hare chia Oh sunny, he's such.
Speaker 3: A good boy. Anyway, So, my books and my children,
Speaker 3: and they're my legacy. It's what I'm hoping to leave
Speaker 3: to all the years of doing this work, that I
Speaker 3: want people to understand that there is no death, that
Speaker 3: when we cross over we see our loved ones again,
Speaker 3: that life is a school and we're here to learn lessons,
Speaker 3: and it's really all about the choices we make life,
Speaker 3: and that everybody has the gift of intuition, and that
Speaker 3: we're guided by the universe and our angels and our
Speaker 3: spirit guides when we listen. And so I try in
Speaker 3: different ways through my podcast, through reading for people, through
Speaker 3: life coaching, through doing talk shows that this is something
Speaker 3: we all can use to help guide us in this
Speaker 3: life because life isn't easy, and people deserve to know
Speaker 3: that they're not alone. Even when they feel alone, that
Speaker 3: there's not other people around them, They're really not alone
Speaker 3: because we all have angels watching over us and guiding us.
Speaker 3: And the truth is is that some things in life
Speaker 3: are predestined excuse me, but most things we create by
Speaker 3: the choices we make.
Speaker 1: I as I was reading it, I was definitely thinking, Okay,
Speaker 1: it's probably going to come up, and it did pretty
Speaker 1: early on the thought of intuition and trusting your gut,
Speaker 1: and because my problem is always you don't act upon it. No, well,
Speaker 1: when I don't, I knew, I always learned that I
Speaker 1: should have, so I'm pretty good at it nowadays. But
Speaker 1: my problem is that I get too concerned that I'm
Speaker 1: being either judgmental of you know, if I get a
Speaker 1: bad vibe off of somebody. I go, maybe I'm just
Speaker 1: being judgmental, or I think you should maybe I'm Maybe
Speaker 1: I'm just living in fear because I'm having this feeling.
Speaker 1: Maybe I should I shouldn't go to that party or whatever.
Speaker 1: And maybe it's just my own social anxiety. So I
Speaker 1: don't how do I figure out the difference?
Speaker 3: Well, usually your first gut feeling about someone is the
Speaker 3: right feeling. Or maybe it's someone you knew in a
Speaker 3: past life and there was karma to be made up
Speaker 3: for in this life, and maybe in the last lifetime
Speaker 3: things didn't work out so well and you're being brought
Speaker 3: back together to fix something or try to fix something.
Speaker 3: But usually your first gud feeling is right. And what
Speaker 3: you said earlier is the way I teach people like
Speaker 3: you have a gud feeling. Maybe it's a romance, maybe
Speaker 3: it's a business deal, maybe it's a friendship, but you
Speaker 3: have a gud feeling, no, you better not do it,
Speaker 3: don't trust it, And you go and you start talking
Speaker 3: to them, and you have things in common, so you
Speaker 3: go and you connect anyway, and then time proves that
Speaker 3: you suffer the consequences because your first gut was right. Now,
Speaker 3: as far as fear. We call fear the four letter
Speaker 3: F word falls evidence appearing real, so you know it.
Speaker 3: Maybe you're either being tipped off that you have to
Speaker 3: be careful of this person, or maybe you have psychological
Speaker 3: things from the past it caused you not to want
Speaker 3: to pursue something. Now, that's what we all have to
Speaker 3: figure out. How our minds work and how our brains work.
Speaker 3: And when we get an intuitive feeling, it's a feeling
Speaker 3: that's fed into us. It's not a thought we think,
Speaker 3: it's a thought given to us. But you also have
Speaker 3: to understand, as in everyday life, there are good and
Speaker 3: bad people. In the spirit world, there are good in
Speaker 3: bad spirits, so there's a lot going on all at once.
Speaker 3: So every time I read for people, I always say
Speaker 3: a prayer of protection to make sure that the information
Speaker 3: I'm getting is only from the highest good.
Speaker 1: So with the bad energies. Now, this is a ghosty
Speaker 1: kind of a podcast, and so much of ghosts belief
Speaker 1: and entertain and all of that stuff centers around like
Speaker 1: the idea of demons and these evil energies maybe from
Speaker 1: Hell or wherever. I mean, how does how does that
Speaker 1: look to you? Or what's your understanding of that.
Speaker 3: Well, I believe that there are different quote neighborhoods on
Speaker 3: the other side, okay, And I feel like people resonate
Speaker 3: with who they are as human beings. So I feel
Speaker 3: that there's a dark side, and there's a darker side,
Speaker 3: and even the darkest side, and then there's a light
Speaker 3: side and the lighter side and the lightest side. So
Speaker 3: you know, it just depends you will resonate with the
Speaker 3: energy that you are. You can't hide from the truth
Speaker 3: when you get to the spirit world. You know, if
Speaker 3: you're a politician and you're lying your head off right now,
Speaker 3: when they get to the other side, they will Karma
Speaker 3: is real. What goes around comes around.
Speaker 1: Uh uh, yeah, there's I mean, I guess it is
Speaker 1: kind of judgment day or whatever. I was wondering what
Speaker 1: you mean by you're not always right, but you're never wrong.
Speaker 3: Well, I forgot I said that.
Speaker 1: So, so.
Speaker 3: I let's say I pick up on someone's going to
Speaker 3: meet the love of their life. And let's let's say
Speaker 3: that I'm either off with timing. I might be because
Speaker 3: it's hard to do timing sometimes the timing of it,
Speaker 3: or maybe I might give them a name of somebody,
Speaker 3: but they might meet two people with that same name. Okay,
Speaker 3: So that's why I encourage people to learn about their
Speaker 3: own true gut feeling so that they can help make
Speaker 3: the decisions. They can help it along.
Speaker 1: Right.
Speaker 3: But I teach now because there's a lot of people
Speaker 3: out there doing psychic work who don't know what they're doing,
Speaker 3: and they're not connecting with the highest energy of guide
Speaker 3: for to guide people of goodness and wisdom. And when
Speaker 3: you trust your own instincts and you can trust yourself,
Speaker 3: it can help put you in the right place to
Speaker 3: make the right choice.
Speaker 1: Okay, So there's people that are kind of using the
Speaker 1: lower level energies and it might not always be for
Speaker 1: the best intention. Is that Is that sort of what
Speaker 1: you meant?
Speaker 3: I definitely, you know, I'm on TikTok and I know,
Speaker 3: believe it or not, my friends talk me into getting
Speaker 3: on TikTok, and I do readings on TikTok, and then
Speaker 3: I'm on Sharvision and I am I'm on Instagram and
Speaker 3: and Facebook and Twitter. And there are people who are
Speaker 3: scammers trying to impersonate me.
Speaker 1: Oh yeah, that's really common right now. It's awful.
Speaker 3: They're asking for money and I will never DM people.
Speaker 3: Never I will. You know, if anybody wants to get
Speaker 3: a hold of me, they can go to char dot net,
Speaker 3: cha r dot net and that's it. So yeah, it's
Speaker 3: very it's very frustrating because a lot of people need help,
Speaker 3: and a lot of people have nowhere else to turn,
Speaker 3: and a lot of people can't afford to go to
Speaker 3: a psychologist or psychiatrist. And I don't claim to be
Speaker 3: a psychologist or a psychiatrist, but I can say that
Speaker 3: wisdom does come through me. I've only been practicing this
Speaker 3: work for almost fifty years.
Speaker 1: Oh my god, I love what you were talking about
Speaker 1: in the book that you know. Of course, people want
Speaker 1: to accuse you of googling, which is a common thing
Speaker 1: that I hear when someone gets reading a reading, you know,
Speaker 1: especially a public figure. But you come from a you
Speaker 1: were doing this work before Google.
Speaker 3: I was doing this work when I had a landline
Speaker 3: that was connected to the wall. Yeah, I mean all
Speaker 3: we got was the daily newspaper, and there were four
Speaker 3: networks on the television. There was ABCNBCCBS, only three to
Speaker 3: begin with, and then Fox came along. So I'm but
Speaker 3: I'm happy that I never had any of that around
Speaker 3: because it really nowadays it gets in the way people
Speaker 3: you know, can think that you're you're that you're not
Speaker 3: telling the truth. But you know, the bottom line is
Speaker 3: I know who I am. I live with my truth.
Speaker 3: I understand that I have my own karma. I understand
Speaker 3: that what goes around comes around. So anybody who's not
Speaker 3: being honest, the karma will come back upon them. I
Speaker 3: ros I have lived to see people who have not
Speaker 3: been honest to me in my life have crazy karma.
Speaker 3: And I never wish bad on anybody ever, but I
Speaker 3: mean crazy like karma where they've been taken out that
Speaker 3: have not honorable to me.
Speaker 1: Okay, well I'm not going to be I'm not going
Speaker 1: to do anything shady. I swear no.
Speaker 3: I would never think you would because I feel like
Speaker 3: you come from a really pure, good place.
Speaker 1: But yeah, but I'm I'm a firm believer in karma
Speaker 1: and all of that, and that's where I'm I'm just like,
Speaker 1: I will not I will not do anything bad because
Speaker 1: I'm so afraid I'm afraid of bad energies, demons, whatever,
Speaker 1: and I'm also afraid of of karma essentially.
Speaker 3: Yeah, right, Well, that's good that you respect it because
Speaker 3: I promise, I promise. What goes around comes around. I've
Speaker 3: lived to see it. I think one of the reasons
Speaker 3: I'm I've been a teacher doing this for so many
Speaker 3: years and hanging in there with it is because I'm
Speaker 3: one of those people that are supposed to teach this
Speaker 3: to people. I'm one of those people that suppose to
Speaker 3: guide people in that way, because you want to make
Speaker 3: sure that when you live your life, you live with
Speaker 3: pure energy so that you end up in a that
Speaker 3: you elevate your soul to a good place. And when
Speaker 3: you ask me about the demons and whatever, I mean,
Speaker 3: they do exist, but I suggest you say a prayer
Speaker 3: to make sure they don't stay with you.
Speaker 1: Yeah, I'll do whatever I have to to keep that
Speaker 1: energy away.
Speaker 3: I teach people this. I teach people to put a
Speaker 3: white light around them, yes, and then and then all
Speaker 3: the goodness and love is around them and the white
Speaker 3: light and then they go inside an egg like this,
Speaker 3: And people who can't see it, who are just hearing
Speaker 3: in this audio, it's it's a it's an egg. That's
Speaker 3: that the shell is a mirror. So anything dark or
Speaker 3: negative going at somebody will the negative will bounce against
Speaker 3: the mirror and go back to where it came from.
Speaker 3: And I always say anything in near, around or about
Speaker 3: me that is not of light, go back to where
Speaker 3: you came from and turn to light if you choose,
Speaker 3: but stay away from me. And I always ask people
Speaker 3: to protect themselves because it's important. It's important because negative
Speaker 3: thoughts attract negative thoughts and bring negative results. But positive
Speaker 3: thoughts bring positive thoughts, and positive thought is prayer. So
Speaker 3: positive tracks positive and brings positive results.
Speaker 1: Makes sense, right. I'm curious your thoughts on ghosts and
Speaker 1: like all of that kind of a thing. What is
Speaker 1: your understanding of a ghost?
Speaker 3: I think people are just dying to talk to me,
Speaker 3: but it being about a boom. Okay, so no, the
Speaker 3: dying ghosts, dead people, Okay, So this is what I think.
Speaker 3: I feel like some places are haunted. I feel like
Speaker 3: some spirits never really go to the white light and
Speaker 3: they stay earth bound in places. And then I feel like,
Speaker 3: and the trick is to try to get them to
Speaker 3: go to the white light so they can elevate their souls.
Speaker 3: But then I feel that some people are they they
Speaker 3: pass away, they crossed over to the other side, but
Speaker 3: when but they like to come back to the earth
Speaker 3: to frequent places that they enjoyed on the earth, like uh,
Speaker 3: I read for years ago. I was like the first
Speaker 3: psychic to go on the Queen Mary and read for
Speaker 3: the ghosts on the Krek Queen Mary. And there was
Speaker 3: there was a woman standing in line who was an accountant,
Speaker 3: who had nothing, didn't believe in any of this stuff
Speaker 3: at all. And when I said to them, well, I
Speaker 3: see a lady in a ball gown and she's dancing
Speaker 3: on the floor, they said, that's what that other lady said,
Speaker 3: who was the accountant, And she saw the vision of
Speaker 3: that woman as well. So I feel that that spirit
Speaker 3: went back to a place where she loved to be,
Speaker 3: on the dance room floor and her ball gown. And
Speaker 3: so I feel like there's different levels and different kinds
Speaker 3: of ghosts and spirits and how we handle them.
Speaker 1: Wait, what happens if there's two mediums talking to a
Speaker 1: spirit like in a haunted place. Have you ever done
Speaker 1: that where like the three of you are all having
Speaker 1: like interaction.
Speaker 3: I'm trying to think. I'm sure I have in the past,
Speaker 3: especially when I started learning this work. Yeah, yeah, there
Speaker 3: were more than one person, more than medium connecting and
Speaker 3: you know, I think that's great when mediums try to
Speaker 3: help each other and try to help because the intent
Speaker 3: is to heal, and if so, if it's to heal
Speaker 3: the ghost or the spirit, to send it to the
Speaker 3: White light, or just to give that spirit some kind
Speaker 3: of confirmation that we hear them and we see them,
Speaker 3: and that they're not alone, and that we know that
Speaker 3: they're trying to connect with us. I mean, imagine being
Speaker 3: a spirit or a loved one on the other side,
Speaker 3: and imagine people ignoring them. They're trying to talk to you,
Speaker 3: they're trying to connect with you, they're trying to tell
Speaker 3: you I love you, I'm here for you, and they're
Speaker 3: being ignored.
Speaker 1: Or people are going, ah, scary.
Speaker 3: That's true too, that's true too.
Speaker 1: I know I always think about that, like a ghost
Speaker 1: just trying to be like, hey, I'm here, and people
Speaker 1: are like, that's the scariest thing I've ever heard, you know,
Speaker 1: like whispering in someone's ear, Like I don't want to
Speaker 1: scare them, so I'm just going to be like, Hi,
Speaker 1: it's me. And then you know that would terrify most
Speaker 1: human beings.
Speaker 3: Right right, it is. It's scary.
Speaker 1: So what are some scary experiences I mean, I don't know.
Speaker 1: Is it scary to you to have these experiences?
Speaker 3: Well, I saw a spirit at the foot of my
Speaker 3: bed when I was eight years old, and I could
Speaker 3: see through him, and he was wearing rags, and he
Speaker 3: had a pouch, and he went in his pouch and
Speaker 3: he took these lights and threw them at me, and
Speaker 3: they landed on me, and they evaporated as they touched
Speaker 3: my body. And I was scared to death because our
Speaker 3: house had been broken into two weeks before that. And
Speaker 3: I woke up the next morning, I threw the blankets
Speaker 3: over my head. I was pinching myself. And the next
Speaker 3: morning I said, Mommy, Mommy, the burglars were here again today.
Speaker 3: I was eight years old, and she's my mom was amazing.
Speaker 3: She said, no, honey, that was just a sandman. I said, oh,
Speaker 3: there's a sand man and she said yeah. I said, oh, okay.
Speaker 3: So I was afraid to sleep alone. To go to
Speaker 3: sleep at night, I had to have the light on
Speaker 3: or someone stand in the room with me till I
Speaker 3: fell asleep. From the time I was eight years old
Speaker 3: till probably the time I got married. When I was
Speaker 3: twenty or twenty one, I went to summer camp, so
Speaker 3: I wouldn't be alone because both my sisters were older
Speaker 3: than me and out of the house and married by
Speaker 3: the time they were, you know, by the time I
Speaker 3: was eleven, and I was definitely afraid to be alone
Speaker 3: at night. And the funniest thing is I was a
Speaker 3: counselor at a camp, a horseback riding camp, and the
Speaker 3: kids knew that I was like a little bit freaked
Speaker 3: out about things like that. And you know, they one
Speaker 3: night they made a dead body out of pillowcases, and
Speaker 3: they took a rope and they threw it over the
Speaker 3: roof of the house and put it outside my window.
Speaker 3: And then they were on the other side of the
Speaker 3: house because we were upstairs and a second storied house,
Speaker 3: an old, old farmhouse, and they would go like they
Speaker 3: would like pull the rope up and down and up
Speaker 3: and down, and I'd see this image outside my window,
Speaker 3: like going up and down and up and down. Scared
Speaker 3: the shit out of me.
Speaker 1: Well, how do you tell when it's a spirit or
Speaker 1: a living person? How does that look for you?
Speaker 3: Well, spirits, I can usually see through them. I once
Speaker 3: was on a book tour about twenty seven years ago,
Speaker 3: maybe thirty years ago, now in Oregon, and they had
Speaker 3: on the book tours. We used to have to go
Speaker 3: do it signing at night, get up early, go to
Speaker 3: the local Fox station or TV station. No sleep, and
Speaker 3: I'm not good with no sleep. And I was at
Speaker 3: this this hotel and I had I had, I had
Speaker 3: no sleep, and I was woken up and it was
Speaker 3: an old hotel like like all like old furniture and
Speaker 3: tea sets and all kinds of stuff. And I woke
Speaker 3: up and there was a man standing at the foot
Speaker 3: of my bed and I could see through him, and
Speaker 3: I screamed and I said, go away, you're not welcome here.
Speaker 3: He turned around, walked to the window and jumped out
Speaker 3: of it and went through the window. So the next
Speaker 3: day I said, can I see the manager? And I said,
Speaker 3: I don't know that if you know who I am,
Speaker 3: but I'm I'm I'm a in two I'm a psychic
Speaker 3: and I see spirits and I'm here doing a book
Speaker 3: tour and I'm on the morning show and blah blah
Speaker 3: blah blah blah. And I said, has anybody seen anybody
Speaker 3: like this? And he goes, well, we don't. We don't
Speaker 3: advertise it. But I think I was on like the
Speaker 3: fourth floor, like and there was probably six floors or
Speaker 3: something to this place. I was, let's I forgot. I
Speaker 3: was probably like in four oh two or something. Well,
Speaker 3: it turns out four oh one, four oh two, four
Speaker 3: oh three, four oh four, four oh five, four oh
Speaker 3: six have had have had apparitions of this man in
Speaker 3: this in there in those rooms. And also the housekeepers
Speaker 3: talk about how all the furniture gets moved around, and
Speaker 3: that some of the tea sets were moved around in
Speaker 3: the room, and there's there's definitely they they think that
Speaker 3: he committed suicide and he never left. He just keeps
Speaker 3: going committing suicide. Did you ever see the movie Ghost?
Speaker 1: Yeah, of course.
Speaker 3: Okay, so remember the guy.
Speaker 1: On the the subway.
Speaker 3: Subway who never got off?
Speaker 1: Uh huh.
Speaker 3: I kind of think that's what happened to this man.
Speaker 1: Uh yeah, it's sort of that what do they call it?
Speaker 1: A residual haunting where you're just sort of doing the
Speaker 1: same thing, maybe not so conscious. Maybe maybe that guy
Speaker 1: that Now, this is what a lot of people, I mean,
Speaker 1: I'm sure you have your your insight on this, but
Speaker 1: a lot of people will say that maybe a spirit
Speaker 1: like that doesn't even really interact with you. If you
Speaker 1: were to say, don't jump, would it even know what
Speaker 1: Kennedy see you? I don't. Do you think that he.
Speaker 3: See You're right? I think you're right because it was
Speaker 3: like he was in another dimension.
Speaker 1: Yeah.
Speaker 3: Yeah, it's like you can turn on the TV and
Speaker 3: see the actors but they can't see you.
Speaker 1: Yeah. I guess so, But it's weird when it's in person,
Speaker 1: right in front of you. Right, Okay, Well I have
Speaker 1: to ask, are you picking up on any vibes?
Speaker 3: So am I? First of all? Whenever I read for someone,
Speaker 3: I ask permission.
Speaker 1: So you have my permission you're giving. I would be honored.
Speaker 3: Well, let's let's see what I can get. So just
Speaker 3: be open about everybody living in deceased and if more
Speaker 3: than one person share the same name or initial, if
Speaker 3: you could let me know that that will help me.
Speaker 3: I always I'm going to say my prayer protection if you.
Speaker 1: Don't mind, Okay, sure.
Speaker 3: We asked the universal consciousness and God that whole to
Speaker 3: the highest spiritual power of knowledge, wisdom, and truth to
Speaker 3: guide and protect us as we communicate with our guides
Speaker 3: and angels in the spirit world and tap into the
Speaker 3: wisdom of the universe. We respect this opportunity and take
Speaker 3: full responsibility to use this not for ego or controlling others,
Speaker 3: but with the pure intention of spreading love and healing
Speaker 3: life on this earth and beyond. Anything that is in near,
Speaker 3: around or about us that is not of light. Go
Speaker 3: back to where you came from and turn to light
Speaker 3: if you choose, but stay away from us. So I
Speaker 3: see somebody that's a jay or M initial. Do you
Speaker 3: have family that's a j r and M? Or did
Speaker 3: you have somebody to cease such a j r and M.
Speaker 1: I'm trying to think.
Speaker 3: It could be a first name, middle name, or a
Speaker 3: last name.
Speaker 1: Oh yeah, last name M.
Speaker 3: Is that is that your family name or your mom's.
Speaker 1: Made a name or my mom's made a name?
Speaker 3: Okay, because I feel like there's people like that around you.
Speaker 3: And is there an A or E initial?
Speaker 1: My grandfather's middle name was with an A.
Speaker 3: Is it spelled a N or a L or a
Speaker 3: R a L? Is it like Albert or Alfred or Allen?
Speaker 1: It's aloishes Alo wishes.
Speaker 3: I wouldn't have gotten that one, but I think your
Speaker 3: grandpa's spirit may be around And uh, did you have
Speaker 3: somebody that committed suicide around.
Speaker 1: You that I know of?
Speaker 3: Was there did you know of somebody that committed suicide
Speaker 3: or that or that odd or that maybe didn't commit suicide,
Speaker 3: but that ohdeed.
Speaker 1: I have known people, maybe not super close to me
Speaker 1: or not recent or anything like that, but I have
Speaker 1: over the years.
Speaker 3: Was there somebody with an S or C or do
Speaker 3: not remember their names?
Speaker 1: I'm just trying to think of the people that I
Speaker 1: know in that situation.
Speaker 3: And also, do you know if there was somebody with
Speaker 3: an A or M. Do you remember anybody that was
Speaker 3: like that? Did you know Michael or Matthew or m
Speaker 3: or Mark? I don't know the name. I'm not sure
Speaker 3: what the name is.
Speaker 1: I don't know. Do they have a message or something.
Speaker 3: Was there a friend of a friend that passed a
Speaker 3: friend of a friend that passed that? Either you don't
Speaker 3: you don't know this studio? You're not sure.
Speaker 1: I can't think of who that is.
Speaker 3: Is there anyone around you that's not that that's a
Speaker 3: Michael or Mark or Matthew's.
Speaker 1: Yeah, Michael, Mark or Matthew? Who is that?
Speaker 3: You don't know?
Speaker 1: Not anyone super close?
Speaker 3: Okay? Are you are you wanting to do something new
Speaker 3: with a career move or uh, doing a new career situation.
Speaker 1: I want new opportunities in my career.
Speaker 3: I feel like there's going to be something coming up
Speaker 3: for you. Are you thinking of getting somebody to manage you?
Speaker 3: Or yeah, okay, I think you're going to do something
Speaker 3: with a product or I don't know. I'm hearing music,
Speaker 3: but I'm not saying you're going to do music, but
Speaker 3: something like I don't know if it's makeup or creative
Speaker 3: or clothing or something like that. Have you thought about
Speaker 3: doing something like that?
Speaker 1: I used to do drag, you use, so I've kind
Speaker 1: of gone away from wearing a bunch of makeup and clothes.
Speaker 1: Are you telling me I need to go back to drag?
Speaker 3: Have you thought about doing.
Speaker 1: That going back?
Speaker 3: No, you don't want to.
Speaker 1: No, now you don't have to.
Speaker 3: But there's something else that I see you doing. That's
Speaker 3: like business or product where you sell a product. Okay,
Speaker 3: And because I think you're looking for ways to bring
Speaker 3: in another.
Speaker 1: Income, Yeah I could use some money.
Speaker 3: Yeah, well everybody probably can. And who else is c
Speaker 3: A C? Like? Is there anyone else besides our friend Chris?
Speaker 1: That's the first person I thought.
Speaker 3: There anyone else that's a Charls or Chris.
Speaker 1: Or someone that's living that's in my life.
Speaker 3: I think, And all that's okay. I'm not sure what
Speaker 3: I think there's gonna be like a you didn't have
Speaker 3: anyone to cease, it's like deceased. That's a c or
Speaker 3: an SNS. No, okay, you might remember these things after Yeah,
Speaker 3: maybe maybe not. But I'm seeing you doing something with
Speaker 3: producing or production, and I think you want to do
Speaker 3: something behind the scenes with producing or production. I think
Speaker 3: you're gonna end up doing something with technology or are
Speaker 3: you on other platforms besides this, Are you on like
Speaker 3: TikTok or reluctantly?
Speaker 1: I don't love it.
Speaker 3: I think you should take more advantage of it.
Speaker 1: Yeah, probably, and.
Speaker 3: And bring the people to your to your podcast. Yeah,
Speaker 3: I think you need to. I think you should use
Speaker 3: it more to bring people to your podcast. But I
Speaker 3: think you're just in the beginning of doing your career.
Speaker 3: I think that there's many more doors that you're going
Speaker 3: to open up. But there's also something with technology you're
Speaker 3: going to do as well. So but it's all good.
Speaker 3: I think there's really like I think you've always thought
Speaker 3: of yourself as a star and that you're going to
Speaker 3: manifest that.
Speaker 1: Yeah, right, well, thank you. I so appreciate that.
Speaker 3: You are so welcome.
Speaker 1: Okay, we only have a couple more minutes left. But gosh,
Speaker 1: what else could I ask you? How do you turn
Speaker 1: it off? I?
Speaker 3: I turn it off all the time. I only turn
Speaker 3: it on when I have to, Okay, less unless there's
Speaker 3: a spirit that is really strong and really is trying
Speaker 3: to get to somebody to let them know they're okay.
Speaker 1: And then yeah, like the classic grocery store situation where
Speaker 1: you're out in public and you have to give someone
Speaker 1: a message.
Speaker 3: Right, and I feel responsible to try to help them.
Speaker 3: That's what I do. You know, That's the only time
Speaker 3: I and and and then I asked permission, because you
Speaker 3: should never just read for people, should never just attack people.
Speaker 1: Yeah, how does that usually go? If you go up
Speaker 1: to someone, do they sometimes go what?
Speaker 3: No? Yeah? Yeah, some people don't want to know, but
Speaker 3: most people want to know. Yeah, I bet most people
Speaker 3: want to know what's going on. But you know, it's
Speaker 3: your generation that's going to help bring this to the
Speaker 3: fore in a much bigger, better way. There's still it's
Speaker 3: your generation that's going to bring the truth out into
Speaker 3: the world. What do you mean, well, my generation kind
Speaker 3: of screwed up. I mean of politics. Look at global warming,
Speaker 3: global warming, and I feel like it's your generation that's
Speaker 3: going to try to save the planet, and it's not
Speaker 3: going to put up with all the bullshit and make
Speaker 3: it all about money. The older generation was more about money.
Speaker 3: Not that you won't make money, but there's a responsibility
Speaker 3: with living with the truth and all the stuff that's
Speaker 3: going on with you know, the reason that the pandemic
Speaker 3: happened is so that we all would be more compassionate
Speaker 3: to one another. It's not really happening yet, but eventually
Speaker 3: it will. Eventually. I feel like your generation will help
Speaker 3: try to save the planet.
Speaker 1: I hope.
Speaker 3: So it's scary.
Speaker 1: Well, shar thank you for your time. I so appreciate it.
Speaker 3: Of course, it's my honor. I'm so thrilled that you
Speaker 3: even wanted me on.
Speaker 1: Are you kidding? Where are people going to get you
Speaker 1: our psychic.
Speaker 3: Oh, it'll be at bookstores, but you can order it
Speaker 3: online at Amazon dot com and Barnes and Noble and Target.
Speaker 3: And you know, my wish is for everybody to learn
Speaker 3: to listen to their own intuition to prevent problems and
Speaker 3: at ten goals in their lives and find more peace
Speaker 3: and happiness.
Speaker 1: Well, you've given me peace and happiness today. And you're
Speaker 1: you're very busy. You also have podcasts, you're on social media.
Speaker 1: I love the series that you did with RuPaul's Drag
Speaker 1: Race Drag Queens, which is on I believe YouTube. You
Speaker 1: can watch. You're busy girl. All be about to do
Speaker 1: is google Sharbargolis and they will have endless amounts of
Speaker 1: content to consume. So and I love it all. I
Speaker 1: think you're I feel like you're the real deal. For sure.
Speaker 1: My psychic intuition is telling me you're the real deal.
Speaker 3: Well I accept that with the gracious heart. Thank you.
Speaker 1: Thank you so much to Shar Margolis. I am so
Speaker 1: happy that I got to talk to her and have
Speaker 1: a reading with her. Also, she did not predict that
Speaker 1: I'm pregnant, unlike Kelly Rippa, and you know what, I'm
Speaker 1: not pregnant, So so hey, there's that too. That was
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