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Speaker 1: The Jewels Show on demand, Jewels dirty Little Secret. Oh

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Speaker 1: it's the Jewels Show. Yes, hi, hi, Hi. I'm not

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Speaker 1: gonna ask what your name is because you have a

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Speaker 1: dirty little secret to tell us, right I do, Yes, okay, Well,

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Speaker 1: it's nice to meet you, whatever your name is, nice

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Speaker 1: to meet you, cagot. Yes, I'm ready to say it. Okay,

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Speaker 1: whenever you're ready. Okay, so ready. And I mothed into

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Speaker 1: my husband's Facebook account and Messenger account and he has

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Speaker 1: no idea. Oh so he has this thing where he

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Speaker 1: doesn't want me to see his phone. He's always fanned

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Speaker 1: away before we got married and even afterwards. That's shady me,

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Speaker 1: a little bit of suspicious. You find anything, well kind

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Speaker 1: of what is the kind of There's some I guess

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Speaker 1: dirty messages with growth. I have no idea. Oh hell

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Speaker 1: now they are? Are these just like random girls that

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Speaker 1: he's met like on the like online or in person? No,

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Speaker 1: so I've actually stocked them right, so actually from the

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Speaker 1: same place where he's from the same count. Um, I

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Speaker 1: guess they're friends. He's never talked about them, he's never

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Speaker 1: mentioned them, but um, there are messages like around like

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Speaker 1: eleven o'clock maybe midnight. Yeah, no matter what. Though. Yeah,

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Speaker 1: he has this thing where he says, you know, something

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Speaker 1: has to be private in the marriage. That's actually one

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Speaker 1: that you shouldn't be open about in your marriage. Yes,

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Speaker 1: I'm sorry. Yeah, and you should be cool with it

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Speaker 1: so that you don't feel like you have to check it. Yeah,

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Speaker 1: I mean, is this somebody that you see yourself most

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Speaker 1: likely that you want to be with forever? Or because

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Speaker 1: I've been in a situation like this and I knew

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Speaker 1: that it was for I knew that it wouldn't be forever, right,

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Speaker 1: and he was shady with his phone, and like I

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Speaker 1: didn't check because I just knew, right, I just didn't care.

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Speaker 1: But if you care, if you want to be with him,

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Speaker 1: that's a different story. Yeah, I guess that makes sense. Yeah,

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Speaker 1: it is a different story. Now. I don't know if

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Speaker 1: he's just you know, like, what are his intentions, Yeah,

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Speaker 1: it's not really weird, be trying something, or if he's

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Speaker 1: just being friendly. Well, if I have any advice for

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Speaker 1: you at all, even though you didn't ask, just keep checking,

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Speaker 1: keep checking, keep I'm hoping for the best, but I'm

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Speaker 1: going to be prepared for the words. Can I ask

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Speaker 1: you a question we should do more the roses we

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Speaker 1: should who we could. Here's my question to you, Okay,

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Speaker 1: because ultimately I believe everybody knows everything that's going on

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Speaker 1: in their life if they truly pay attention. Okay. Are

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Speaker 1: you looking for proof or are you keeping tabs? Just

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Speaker 1: be honest? Both both? Okay, So you're looking for proof? Okay,

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Speaker 1: because I don't want to, you know, accuse him of

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Speaker 1: anything like that. At the same time, I want to

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Speaker 1: be one step ahead of him. Right. Yeah, he might

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Speaker 1: not be cheating, but might not be. He still should

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Speaker 1: not be messaging those girls out he's walking the line.

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Speaker 1: That's my other question. Is it cool with you that

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Speaker 1: he messages girls at eleven o'clock at night? None? Yeah? Yeah,

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Speaker 1: I mean most people probably would not be cool with it, right. Yes,

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Speaker 1: I just don't want to be that crazy one. But

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Speaker 1: I kind of feel crazy. That is so stressful. Yeah,

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Speaker 1: that is super stressful, and that will make you go crazy.

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Speaker 1: Here's what I would you if you want some other

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Speaker 1: advice they didn't ask for. Log out of it. Okay,

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Speaker 1: log out of it. Don't forget about it. Log out

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Speaker 1: so you don't have to keep feeling like a crazy person,

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Speaker 1: checking and checking and checking and checking and checking, waiting

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Speaker 1: until you find the proof. Just log out except the

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Speaker 1: fact that you saw something you're not cool with, and

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Speaker 1: then figure out how you're going to bring it up,

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Speaker 1: because you should, absolutely should. Whether you need to find proof, yes,

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Speaker 1: is not cool with you, right, it's not percent. Your

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Speaker 1: needs are important, just like his needs are important. But

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Speaker 1: your needs are important. And if you're his wife and

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Speaker 1: you're not cool with that, which I don't think a

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Speaker 1: lot of wives would be cool, right, Alex with that?

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Speaker 1: That's correct? Yeah, and you should definitely log out of it.

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Speaker 1: You got the proof you need and and do something

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Speaker 1: about it, you know, I think, Yeah, I have to

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Speaker 1: just get it together and confront them about this. Yeah, yeah,

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Speaker 1: you'd feel better. Yep. But if you want to do

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Speaker 1: it in a ward of the roses to catch a cheater,

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Speaker 1: we can let us know, Hey will Yeah, I'll definitely

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Speaker 1: think about it. Okay, Okay, Well, good luck with everything. Yeah, Well,

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Speaker 1: thank you for telling us your dirty little secret, and

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Speaker 1: good luck, thank you for listening, Thank you, and you

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Speaker 1: welcome The Jebel Show on Demand