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Speaker 1: Calling all my sweeties to the forefront.

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Speaker 2: I'm your host, christ and this is the Keeping Positive

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Speaker 2: Sweetish Show. Sweety's my next guest. I've known for a

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Speaker 2: very long time. She's an actress, a wife, a mom,

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Speaker 2: and she's literally living example that God wings happen if

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Speaker 1: Sweeties, give a very warm.

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Speaker 2: Welcome to my dear friend, Edwena Finley Edwena.

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Speaker 3: He love christal of my gosh for united and we

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Speaker 3: are here.

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Speaker 2: It really does. It feels amazing. How are you feeling today?

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Speaker 4: I am blessed, Holly favor, I feel good.

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Speaker 1: You should. I feel amazing.

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Speaker 2: I'm happy to have you here, excited about your book

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Speaker 2: and all the things you have going on.

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Speaker 4: But I want to take it back.

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Speaker 1: Okay, back in the time.

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Speaker 2: Twenty fourteen was when if Loving Years Wrong came out.

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Speaker 2: I was a costumer, you guys, I used to actually

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Speaker 2: put on Edwena's shoes. In twenty fourteen and twenty fifteen

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Speaker 2: came the costume designer, and that's when I learned that

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Speaker 2: jewel Tones was your jam and still it was this

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Speaker 2: day when you came in, I said, jewel Tones is

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Speaker 1: Like you remember absolutely.

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Speaker 2: I think as a costume designer, we learned so much

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Speaker 2: about the person, really, even more than the character. We

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Speaker 2: learned what you like, what you don't, like your body,

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Speaker 2: remember you loved Jewel Tones. So it's like something that

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Speaker 2: just was semented into my head. Jill Tones Readwena. Yes,

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Speaker 2: But I mean I know that's when I met you,

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Speaker 3: So I was born and raised in Washington, d C.

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Speaker 3: And then when I became you know, only kind of

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Speaker 3: And then when I was sixteen years old, I was

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Speaker 3: Right, And there were some people in my family that said, well,

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Speaker 4: And so I really had to pray.

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Speaker 3: And I just remember at sixteen years old hearing God

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Speaker 3: I ended up being accepted into NYU's Teach School of

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Speaker 3: And so I was able to fortunately get an agent.

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Speaker 3: And there was a point where God put it in

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Speaker 1: The assignment was understood. That is so good. Do you

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Speaker 3: Honestly, a lot of that has been poured into this book.

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Speaker 3: The world is waiting for you.

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Speaker 5: So you were practicing then and didn't really even know it, right,

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Speaker 3: So funny enough, when I was on set not too

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Speaker 4: It was like, yes, how do you know that?

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Speaker 3: She said, my mother used to publish them every month

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Speaker 3: Wow, it's like even now things that were done ten

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Speaker 1: It really does? It? Really?

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Speaker 2: Now our industry is over glamorized sometimes you know it's

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Speaker 2: learn to hear the voice of God and trust it

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Speaker 2: and obey it. And when you get those prompts to

445
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Speaker 2: why do I keep feeling like I should do this?

446
00:20:42,520 --> 00:20:43,919
Speaker 1: Because that's God telling you to do it?

447
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Speaker 2: Do it, you know, and move swiftly because we are

448
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Speaker 2: on his timetable and a lot of times things aren't

449
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Speaker 2: moving when we wanted to because we're not in the will.

450
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Speaker 1: That is so oh my god, so profound.

451
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Speaker 2: Wow. I am just like speechless right now. That is beautiful,

452
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Speaker 2: Thank my goodness. So you are a wife, you're a

453
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Speaker 2: mother of two beautiful daughters. You are a powerhouse. How

454
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Speaker 2: do you even manage it all? You know now that

455
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Speaker 2: you your career, you got a book. Now you're traveling

456
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Speaker 2: the world, the world, y'all. She didn't just do a

457
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Speaker 2: state side tour. Okay, you went to Dubai. You were

458
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Speaker 2: just in Africa. You were in Cape Town and then

459
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Speaker 2: Where else did you go to London?

460
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Speaker 4: Yeah? I was justin you had to go to London,

461
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Speaker 4: New York. I haven't been in London yet.

462
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Speaker 1: That's coming, Okay, okay, you gotta go to London.

463
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Speaker 3: Ye.

464
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Speaker 1: Yes, in New York and you're bunting everywhere?

465
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Speaker 2: How are you balancing at marriage and the children and everything?

466
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Speaker 4: You know?

467
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Speaker 3: One of the things that I realized as far as calling,

468
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Speaker 3: yes and even vision right. And so in the book

469
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Speaker 3: and the World is Waiting for You, I talk a

470
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Speaker 3: lot about vision and a lot about calling and how

471
00:21:53,920 --> 00:21:58,000
Speaker 3: you know, our our purpose stays the same, but the

472
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Speaker 3: method shifts, right and the things that we're called to

473
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Speaker 3: shift as well. And so there's seasons maybe when you know,

474
00:22:05,680 --> 00:22:08,800
Speaker 3: and you know as a performer, where the performing part

475
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Speaker 3: is like the main, main part.

476
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Speaker 4: And then there's.

477
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Speaker 3: Seasons where God is calling us to expand our territory

478
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Speaker 3: and that includes family and to be honest. At first,

479
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Speaker 3: like I received prophetic words that I was going to

480
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Speaker 3: have a baby, you know, and that I was going

481
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Speaker 3: to be married, like all these things, I was very

482
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Speaker 3: focused on career. But as the Lord began to open

483
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Speaker 3: up these other parts of my life, just like we

484
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Speaker 3: say about vision, if he.

485
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Speaker 4: Gives you the vision, he'll give you the provision.

486
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Speaker 3: So it's really been about, Okay, having these specific things

487
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Speaker 3: in place to accommodate that enlarge territory, right, So like

488
00:22:46,040 --> 00:22:48,760
Speaker 3: being able to structure my time in such a way

489
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Speaker 3: that I'm giving my husband the time that he needs,

490
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Speaker 3: that I'm giving my children the time that they need,

491
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Speaker 3: while also being called to write a book and also

492
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Speaker 3: being called to travel the world in these different things.

493
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Speaker 3: And so there's some practical aspect of the book If

494
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Speaker 3: Love You is Wrong as well, I mean gets wrong,

495
00:23:05,720 --> 00:23:08,200
Speaker 3: there's some practical aspects of the book The World Is

496
00:23:08,240 --> 00:23:10,480
Speaker 3: Waiting for You as well, where I like, take people

497
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Speaker 3: through a time map and help them to identify what

498
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Speaker 3: are the top.

499
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Speaker 4: Either goals or roles that you have in life, and.

500
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Speaker 3: How can you begin to structure your time every day

501
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Speaker 3: to match the things that you've been called to in

502
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Speaker 3: the different areas of your life and your abundant life.

503
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Speaker 2: Yeah, that is so good because a lot of times,

504
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Speaker 2: especially people who have dreams like we did, a lot

505
00:23:30,680 --> 00:23:34,040
Speaker 2: of times, the resources that they really have in reality

506
00:23:34,160 --> 00:23:36,960
Speaker 2: don't match the dream, you know, so they need those

507
00:23:37,000 --> 00:23:39,480
Speaker 2: practical tips to help them get there or even like

508
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Speaker 2: to be prepared, cause you talk about make sure that

509
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Speaker 2: you are ready for what you're praying for, because a

510
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Speaker 2: lot of times like, God, I'm ready for this, and

511
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Speaker 2: he's like, no, you are not, And you wonder.

512
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Speaker 1: Why he's like delaying it. What you think is a delay.

513
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Speaker 2: Because you're not ready, right, So he has to get

514
00:23:53,000 --> 00:23:55,080
Speaker 2: that toolbox fool, so that when it's time for any

515
00:23:55,040 --> 00:23:57,199
Speaker 2: to be like all right, gone, then you have everything

516
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Speaker 2: you need.

517
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Speaker 4: It's so true.

518
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Speaker 3: And I think also we as women also, like you know,

519
00:24:01,960 --> 00:24:04,040
Speaker 3: we want to have it all, right, you want to

520
00:24:04,080 --> 00:24:06,120
Speaker 3: have it all. We want to be successful in our careers.

521
00:24:06,119 --> 00:24:08,800
Speaker 3: We want husband, we want children, we want all these things.

522
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Speaker 3: But what I've noticed is that there are adjustments that

523
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Speaker 3: we have to be prepared to make in our lives

524
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Speaker 3: in order to accommodate these new things. Okay, if you

525
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Speaker 3: want to be if you want to be a wife,

526
00:24:20,480 --> 00:24:23,159
Speaker 3: right like, okay, then you have to start preparing in

527
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Speaker 3: that way. And there's and a lot of that is service.

528
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Speaker 3: A lot of that is rooted in service. And so

529
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Speaker 3: I think that, like you said, as far as the

530
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Speaker 3: industry and how glamorized it is, if you adopt an

531
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Speaker 3: idea that everything's supposed to be about you.

532
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Speaker 4: Then you may not be prepared to be a wife

533
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Speaker 4: or a.

534
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Speaker 1: Mother because hello, because I've heard you become last.

535
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Speaker 4: When even Jesus.

536
00:24:48,640 --> 00:24:53,120
Speaker 3: Said, the greatest is the least. Yes, right, the greatest

537
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Speaker 3: is the least, and that and that really is true

538
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Speaker 3: when it comes to being a wife and a mother.

539
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Speaker 3: So so you're negotiating these different roles like in the public,

540
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Speaker 3: you baby an author, you maybe a podcast, your baby

541
00:25:03,880 --> 00:25:06,560
Speaker 3: an actor, all these things. But then, and honestly, I

542
00:25:06,640 --> 00:25:08,760
Speaker 3: learned a lot of that from Viola. From Viola Davis,

543
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Speaker 3: I learned.

544
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Speaker 4: A lot living with her.

545
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Speaker 1: Yeah, let's talk about that your life. I'm just like

546
00:25:16,560 --> 00:25:18,840
Speaker 1: this moment, like God has really had his head, like

547
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Speaker 1: he's over, like boo boo boom.

548
00:25:21,200 --> 00:25:24,760
Speaker 2: You live with Viola Davis, and she's like still someone

549
00:25:24,880 --> 00:25:27,000
Speaker 2: very near and dear to your heart and prominent in

550
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Speaker 2: your life. Let's talk about that, because that is I'm

551
00:25:30,240 --> 00:25:33,080
Speaker 2: just like and Wita, life is crazy.

552
00:25:33,520 --> 00:25:35,680
Speaker 3: Well when I told you that, you know, God told

553
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Speaker 3: me to start writing this inspirational column at uenas words

554
00:25:38,520 --> 00:25:42,320
Speaker 3: of Wisdom. She also along with Michael Kay would receive

555
00:25:42,440 --> 00:25:45,920
Speaker 3: them and say, keep going, keep going, keep writing this.

556
00:25:45,920 --> 00:25:47,359
Speaker 4: This is so inspiring to me.

557
00:25:48,119 --> 00:25:51,280
Speaker 3: And so not long after I came out of college,

558
00:25:52,119 --> 00:25:55,600
Speaker 3: she and her husband ended up commissioning me to help

559
00:25:55,680 --> 00:25:59,680
Speaker 3: write this one person show for them, and so that's

560
00:25:59,680 --> 00:26:02,679
Speaker 3: really how our relationships started. And then when I was

561
00:26:02,800 --> 00:26:04,600
Speaker 3: casting a show in LA they said.

562
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Speaker 4: Oh, well you can live with us.

563
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Speaker 1: Wow.

564
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Speaker 3: And so my introduction to Hollywood was really with them

565
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Speaker 3: and through them and living.

566
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Speaker 4: With an introduction, yeah, you know.

567
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Speaker 3: And she would take me with her everywhere the late

568
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Speaker 3: night talk shows, to interviews, you know, and to magazine

569
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Speaker 3: shoots on set, and I just got a chance to

570
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Speaker 3: soak it all up, to learn to experience. And so

571
00:26:28,440 --> 00:26:32,280
Speaker 3: that level of mentorship and love in those very intimate

572
00:26:32,320 --> 00:26:36,719
Speaker 3: ways were so key. And through her, I saw how

573
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Speaker 3: public life and private life like, I saw the difference.

574
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Speaker 3: I saw, you know, being a star but also being

575
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Speaker 3: a servant, yes, right, and she modeled that in such

576
00:26:46,359 --> 00:26:48,760
Speaker 3: a beautiful way. And so these are some of the

577
00:26:48,960 --> 00:26:51,240
Speaker 3: lessons that have also poured into the book and that

578
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Speaker 3: I've also just cherished in my own life that I

579
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Speaker 3: received from Viola.

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Speaker 1: Yeah, man, that is amazing. Shout out miss Viola Davis.

581
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Speaker 2: She is an icon, a great in our industry and

582
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Speaker 2: even in our culture, something we look up to. So

583
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Speaker 2: that's amazing that you had that firsthand mentorship from her.

584
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Speaker 1: What does mentorship mean to you? And how are you

585
00:27:11,359 --> 00:27:11,800
Speaker 1: giving back?

586
00:27:11,800 --> 00:27:14,520
Speaker 2: So, I know, you and your husband you founded co

587
00:27:14,640 --> 00:27:15,880
Speaker 2: founded Abundant Life.

588
00:27:15,920 --> 00:27:18,560
Speaker 1: You or you're paying it for it, So let's talk

589
00:27:18,600 --> 00:27:19,000
Speaker 1: about that.

590
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Speaker 3: Yeah, I mean, I've been doing Abundant Life University for

591
00:27:22,520 --> 00:27:25,040
Speaker 3: over fifteen years, you know, before.

592
00:27:24,760 --> 00:27:26,879
Speaker 4: Ever getting into the industry.

593
00:27:27,160 --> 00:27:29,919
Speaker 3: You know, like it was always important to me to

594
00:27:29,920 --> 00:27:32,000
Speaker 3: be pouring into other people's lives.

595
00:27:32,320 --> 00:27:34,639
Speaker 4: And that's another thing. No matter where.

596
00:27:34,400 --> 00:27:37,560
Speaker 3: You start, you don't have to have, you know, some

597
00:27:37,600 --> 00:27:40,560
Speaker 3: big podcasts or some big TV show or anything like

598
00:27:40,640 --> 00:27:43,119
Speaker 3: that to affect the people around you.

599
00:27:43,600 --> 00:27:44,919
Speaker 4: The world is waiting for you.

600
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Speaker 3: That's your neighbors, that's your your schoolmates, you know, that's

601
00:27:49,400 --> 00:27:52,119
Speaker 3: the people at church. That can be anyone in your

602
00:27:52,200 --> 00:27:55,159
Speaker 3: neighborhood community. You know, you don't have to have some

603
00:27:55,240 --> 00:27:57,280
Speaker 3: big platform in order to do that. And so when

604
00:27:57,280 --> 00:28:00,320
Speaker 3: I started, I started very small. I was feeding almost

605
00:28:00,359 --> 00:28:03,879
Speaker 3: you know, doing all these things. And meanwhile, during that time,

606
00:28:03,920 --> 00:28:07,440
Speaker 3: my income was right near the poverty line, Like I

607
00:28:07,480 --> 00:28:11,000
Speaker 3: did not have much, but I did have a calling yes,

608
00:28:11,160 --> 00:28:13,600
Speaker 3: and so I knew that whatever it is I have,

609
00:28:14,119 --> 00:28:16,919
Speaker 3: that's what I'm being called to give. And so as

610
00:28:17,040 --> 00:28:20,040
Speaker 3: the platform has grown, you know, that just means that

611
00:28:20,119 --> 00:28:23,320
Speaker 3: more and more people can come in, right, And so

612
00:28:23,480 --> 00:28:26,440
Speaker 3: with Abundant Life you and now this program, the God

613
00:28:26,520 --> 00:28:30,640
Speaker 3: Dreamers Academy, we are just inviting so many people from

614
00:28:30,720 --> 00:28:33,600
Speaker 3: around the world to participate, to go through the book

615
00:28:33,880 --> 00:28:37,120
Speaker 3: and then also to join us in manifesting that God

616
00:28:37,200 --> 00:28:40,720
Speaker 3: dream that's over their lives. My husband, Kelvin and I

617
00:28:40,800 --> 00:28:44,360
Speaker 3: just really believe that God has a purpose and a

618
00:28:44,440 --> 00:28:48,520
Speaker 3: dream over everyone and if people need that help, that

619
00:28:48,520 --> 00:28:51,080
Speaker 3: that guidance to help pull it out of them and

620
00:28:51,120 --> 00:28:54,040
Speaker 3: bring it to past, you know, that's that's what we do.

621
00:28:54,680 --> 00:28:56,320
Speaker 3: So yeah, so anyone you can go to the world

622
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Speaker 3: is Waiting dot org and find out more about the

623
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Speaker 3: God Dreamers Academy.

624
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Speaker 1: Yeah, that's amazing.

625
00:29:01,600 --> 00:29:05,120
Speaker 2: Yes, please tapping you guys, you have said that your

626
00:29:05,160 --> 00:29:07,720
Speaker 2: faith has been the anchor in this industry for you.

627
00:29:08,400 --> 00:29:10,480
Speaker 2: Can you share a moment where leaning on God really

628
00:29:10,560 --> 00:29:12,160
Speaker 2: changed your trajectory in your career?

629
00:29:12,440 --> 00:29:18,200
Speaker 3: Yeah? You know, early on I received this offer for

630
00:29:18,280 --> 00:29:21,080
Speaker 3: this huge contract and it was so much money, and

631
00:29:21,120 --> 00:29:22,960
Speaker 3: I told you. I was like, I was living in

632
00:29:23,040 --> 00:29:25,000
Speaker 3: low income house and I did not have a lot

633
00:29:25,000 --> 00:29:28,560
Speaker 3: of money, and suddenly this contract came with all this

634
00:29:28,680 --> 00:29:30,680
Speaker 3: money attached to it, and it was in Hollywood, and

635
00:29:30,680 --> 00:29:32,600
Speaker 3: it was just you know, I was like, Wow, this

636
00:29:32,680 --> 00:29:34,800
Speaker 3: is my big break, Like, oh my god, this is that.

637
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Speaker 4: But it came with a nudity clause.

638
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Speaker 2: Don't they always all the big ones come with It's

639
00:29:40,720 --> 00:29:45,560
Speaker 2: a heavy I was like, why, oh why, what do

640
00:29:45,680 --> 00:29:46,760
Speaker 2: I do right?

641
00:29:47,520 --> 00:29:51,120
Speaker 3: And that was a place of conviction for me, and

642
00:29:51,200 --> 00:29:55,440
Speaker 3: I felt like I want I want what they're offering.

643
00:29:55,960 --> 00:29:57,360
Speaker 4: I want the opportunity.

644
00:29:57,440 --> 00:29:58,360
Speaker 1: I love the role.

645
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Speaker 3: But if that means that I have to perform nude

646
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Speaker 3: in order to get it, then that might mean I

647
00:30:04,400 --> 00:30:05,760
Speaker 3: have to wait a little bit longer.

648
00:30:06,800 --> 00:30:08,520
Speaker 4: And so I didn't sign it.

649
00:30:09,880 --> 00:30:12,600
Speaker 3: And I and I went back to hearing the sirens

650
00:30:12,640 --> 00:30:16,440
Speaker 3: outside my window and the rats running across the street

651
00:30:16,680 --> 00:30:19,880
Speaker 3: and people, you know, stopping drug fights and all these things.

652
00:30:20,280 --> 00:30:21,400
Speaker 4: But I just believed.

653
00:30:21,440 --> 00:30:24,200
Speaker 3: I was like, God, I honored you, and I just

654
00:30:24,280 --> 00:30:26,160
Speaker 3: believe that you're going to open the door for me.

655
00:30:27,040 --> 00:30:30,800
Speaker 3: And three years later, I was invited to Hollywood again.

656
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Speaker 3: This time it was not with this huge contract it

657
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Speaker 3: was not first class everything.

658
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Speaker 4: It was literally two minister.

659
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Speaker 3: It was to speak to other artists of faith, and

660
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Speaker 3: I was phone out there to do that. And the

661
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Speaker 3: next day a friend invited me to a place called

662
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Speaker 3: Running Canyon.

663
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Speaker 4: Yeah.

664
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Speaker 3: You know, it's like kind of this big mountain, you know,

665
00:30:51,960 --> 00:30:53,680
Speaker 3: like this hill right in the middle of Hollywood.

666
00:30:53,680 --> 00:30:54,800
Speaker 4: So we're hiking, hiking, hiking.

667
00:30:54,840 --> 00:30:56,960
Speaker 3: We get to the top and you know, up there,

668
00:30:57,000 --> 00:30:59,360
Speaker 3: you feel like you're just like you can see everything.

669
00:30:59,880 --> 00:31:03,680
Speaker 3: I literally felt like I was overlooking the Promised Land. Wow,

670
00:31:03,800 --> 00:31:07,200
Speaker 3: it just just swept over me. And there was this

671
00:31:07,360 --> 00:31:09,880
Speaker 3: sign in the distance that called my attention, and I

672
00:31:09,880 --> 00:31:11,160
Speaker 3: couldn't make out all the words.

673
00:31:11,200 --> 00:31:12,400
Speaker 4: I was trying to piece it together.

674
00:31:12,680 --> 00:31:15,800
Speaker 3: Yeah, and finally my friend was like, come on, let's go.

675
00:31:15,920 --> 00:31:16,320
Speaker 4: Let's go.

676
00:31:17,680 --> 00:31:20,960
Speaker 3: And so two days later, my last night in La,

677
00:31:21,800 --> 00:31:25,240
Speaker 3: I'm walking with another friend and my camera suddenly takes

678
00:31:25,240 --> 00:31:27,480
Speaker 3: a picture by itself and flashes.

679
00:31:28,840 --> 00:31:30,680
Speaker 4: So I'm looking at her the same way you're looking

680
00:31:30,680 --> 00:31:30,960
Speaker 4: at me.

681
00:31:31,120 --> 00:31:32,800
Speaker 3: We're looking at each other and then looking at the

682
00:31:32,840 --> 00:31:36,760
Speaker 3: camera like, how did that happen? So I picked up

683
00:31:36,800 --> 00:31:38,320
Speaker 3: the camera to turn it over to see what it

684
00:31:38,320 --> 00:31:39,160
Speaker 3: took a picture of.

685
00:31:41,040 --> 00:31:43,840
Speaker 4: It was sign that I saw.

686
00:31:44,680 --> 00:31:49,680
Speaker 3: I got the seals of Running Canyon, Wow, two days prior,

687
00:31:51,160 --> 00:31:55,480
Speaker 3: now up close and perfectly framed inside of my camera,

688
00:31:56,400 --> 00:32:00,280
Speaker 3: and it said, from Harlem to Hollywood, You're a star.

689
00:32:01,040 --> 00:32:02,560
Speaker 4: Congratulations.

690
00:32:03,520 --> 00:32:09,760
Speaker 1: What literally the breakdowns?

691
00:32:11,760 --> 00:32:12,720
Speaker 4: I collapsed.

692
00:32:13,360 --> 00:32:15,560
Speaker 3: And then when I got back to New York the

693
00:32:15,600 --> 00:32:17,719
Speaker 3: next day, you know, I'm sitting with all of this,

694
00:32:18,200 --> 00:32:21,120
Speaker 3: And then I remembered that my uncle, uncle Howard, he

695
00:32:21,240 --> 00:32:23,800
Speaker 3: was a pastor in Maryland who passed just a few

696
00:32:23,880 --> 00:32:26,560
Speaker 3: days before my trip. I remembered that before he passed,

697
00:32:26,560 --> 00:32:28,760
Speaker 3: he a prophesied to me, but I couldn't remember what

698
00:32:28,840 --> 00:32:29,240
Speaker 3: he said.

699
00:32:29,360 --> 00:32:29,680
Speaker 1: Wow.

700
00:32:29,800 --> 00:32:32,080
Speaker 3: So I started looking everywhere. I remember that I recorded it.

701
00:32:32,120 --> 00:32:34,800
Speaker 3: I video recorded it, so I was looking for the video.

702
00:32:34,960 --> 00:32:37,400
Speaker 3: I finally found it. I pushed play, and here is

703
00:32:37,480 --> 00:32:42,200
Speaker 3: my now deceased uncle looking into the camera, prophesying to

704
00:32:42,240 --> 00:32:44,160
Speaker 3: me that God is about to take me to Hollywood

705
00:32:45,440 --> 00:32:51,040
Speaker 3: and the instructions that the law wants me to know, scriptures, instructions, everything.

706
00:32:51,600 --> 00:32:54,719
Speaker 3: Soon there after, I was casting a show in Hollywood,

707
00:32:55,000 --> 00:32:57,360
Speaker 3: living with Viola on red carpets.

708
00:32:57,400 --> 00:32:58,920
Speaker 4: My entire life changed.

709
00:32:59,440 --> 00:33:02,000
Speaker 3: And while we were on the red carpet Forget Hard

710
00:33:02,200 --> 00:33:03,720
Speaker 3: with Kevin Hard, Will Ferrell.

711
00:33:03,960 --> 00:33:06,920
Speaker 4: We're on Hollywood Boulevard in front of the Chinese Theater.

712
00:33:07,360 --> 00:33:09,880
Speaker 3: I'm doing all this press, you know, and then look

713
00:33:10,000 --> 00:33:14,200
Speaker 3: up and I see that I'm standing in the exact

714
00:33:14,720 --> 00:33:19,080
Speaker 3: same spot where I was when that camera took the

715
00:33:19,120 --> 00:33:20,080
Speaker 3: picture by yourself.

716
00:33:20,240 --> 00:33:23,080
Speaker 2: Oh Lord, this God is just winking out over your life,

717
00:33:23,360 --> 00:33:24,200
Speaker 2: just winking.

718
00:33:24,320 --> 00:33:24,720
Speaker 1: He's like.

719
00:33:26,200 --> 00:33:28,160
Speaker 3: I looked up while I was on the red carpet

720
00:33:28,200 --> 00:33:31,240
Speaker 3: and literally almost collapse right there. And so the first

721
00:33:31,320 --> 00:33:33,680
Speaker 3: chapter of the book is from Harlem to Hollywood, and

722
00:33:33,720 --> 00:33:36,480
Speaker 3: it's all about that prophetic journey and the fact that

723
00:33:36,880 --> 00:33:40,480
Speaker 3: God already his vision for us is already ahead of

724
00:33:40,520 --> 00:33:44,760
Speaker 3: where we are. Just take the steps in obedience because

725
00:33:44,760 --> 00:33:46,240
Speaker 3: he already hasn't planned out.

726
00:33:46,760 --> 00:33:48,240
Speaker 4: But that's just an example. You know.

727
00:33:48,360 --> 00:33:51,040
Speaker 3: Sometimes we're being called to say no to things yes,

728
00:33:52,040 --> 00:33:53,840
Speaker 3: and we don't know how it's going to turn out.

729
00:33:53,840 --> 00:33:55,240
Speaker 3: We think, oh, we have to say yes. I have

730
00:33:55,240 --> 00:33:57,080
Speaker 3: to say yes, because if I say no, then what's

731
00:33:57,120 --> 00:34:01,160
Speaker 3: going to happen to me? But when we honor God, yeah,

732
00:34:01,200 --> 00:34:02,400
Speaker 3: he also honors us.

733
00:34:02,440 --> 00:34:05,680
Speaker 2: He does, and it's always way more worth it than

734
00:34:05,760 --> 00:34:07,440
Speaker 2: if you said to say yes to that thing.

735
00:34:07,480 --> 00:34:09,920
Speaker 1: You know, you're suppoed to say no to I'm.

736
00:34:09,800 --> 00:34:14,640
Speaker 2: A living testimony and yeah, you know, and it's always

737
00:34:14,680 --> 00:34:17,719
Speaker 2: that when and then you look back, like I knew

738
00:34:17,760 --> 00:34:20,719
Speaker 2: I shouldn't have done that, you know, and there was

739
00:34:20,760 --> 00:34:23,399
Speaker 2: always that still small voice that was trying to guide

740
00:34:23,440 --> 00:34:24,360
Speaker 2: you in the right direction.

741
00:34:24,920 --> 00:34:29,319
Speaker 1: So you have to listen to that. This is God

742
00:34:29,360 --> 00:34:31,600
Speaker 1: has his hand on your life.

743
00:34:32,080 --> 00:34:33,960
Speaker 4: Do you hear me, not.

744
00:34:34,200 --> 00:34:36,160
Speaker 1: Good Edwin, I'm glad we're sitting down because.

745
00:34:35,960 --> 00:34:41,120
Speaker 4: I did not. Yeah, like we hear time were able.

746
00:34:40,960 --> 00:34:43,040
Speaker 1: To do me too. This is so good.

747
00:34:44,440 --> 00:34:47,680
Speaker 2: Lord have mercy, Okay, because even like when it comes

748
00:34:47,719 --> 00:34:49,719
Speaker 2: to nudity app I'm the same way, like that's something

749
00:34:49,760 --> 00:34:52,799
Speaker 2: I won't do because I haven't had children yet.

750
00:34:52,800 --> 00:34:54,239
Speaker 1: But I'm like, if I do, that's just.

751
00:34:54,120 --> 00:34:56,480
Speaker 2: Something I don't ever want to have to explain or

752
00:34:56,600 --> 00:34:58,080
Speaker 2: just have it out there because now they can do

753
00:34:58,120 --> 00:35:00,239
Speaker 2: anything with your body. And it's just like there are

754
00:35:00,280 --> 00:35:02,319
Speaker 2: certain things I just want to keep sacred, you know,

755
00:35:03,239 --> 00:35:05,319
Speaker 2: There's certain things I'm not gonna show. I was like,

756
00:35:05,320 --> 00:35:06,920
Speaker 2: if there's a way we can do it where I

757
00:35:06,960 --> 00:35:09,120
Speaker 2: will not show these things, then we can work around it.

758
00:35:09,160 --> 00:35:12,319
Speaker 1: But I'm not. These are my hard lines.

759
00:35:12,000 --> 00:35:13,719
Speaker 3: In the sand that I'm not going to cross, and

760
00:35:13,760 --> 00:35:16,360
Speaker 3: I think that's so important to share too. Sometimes we

761
00:35:16,440 --> 00:35:20,160
Speaker 3: can be afraid to have clear lines yes right. And

762
00:35:20,200 --> 00:35:22,480
Speaker 3: so as a young actor, I mean literally, my agents

763
00:35:22,480 --> 00:35:24,640
Speaker 3: were like, well, if you're not willing to appear nude,

764
00:35:24,760 --> 00:35:27,360
Speaker 3: then you'll never work in this town. Like I received

765
00:35:27,480 --> 00:35:30,719
Speaker 3: that kind of messaging and felt, you know, it was

766
00:35:30,800 --> 00:35:34,960
Speaker 3: like God's voice and their voice was just always in conflict.

767
00:35:35,200 --> 00:35:37,600
Speaker 3: So I just want to encourage anybody that's watching. If

768
00:35:37,640 --> 00:35:40,120
Speaker 3: there are certain things that you know that you don't

769
00:35:40,160 --> 00:35:43,200
Speaker 3: feel comfortable with, whether it's in your industry or whether

770
00:35:43,239 --> 00:35:47,160
Speaker 3: it's in your life, lean into that spirit that that's

771
00:35:47,200 --> 00:35:50,960
Speaker 3: telling you, that's gently guiding you no, no, it's okay

772
00:35:51,000 --> 00:35:54,040
Speaker 3: to say no, while also believing that there's a yes

773
00:35:54,239 --> 00:35:58,200
Speaker 3: that's going to come straight from God and that's already

774
00:35:58,239 --> 00:36:00,920
Speaker 3: prepared for you. That's gonna be even and better than

775
00:36:00,960 --> 00:36:01,200
Speaker 3: the no.

776
00:36:01,560 --> 00:36:04,080
Speaker 1: Yes. Oh that's so good. I just got a script.

777
00:36:04,080 --> 00:36:06,520
Speaker 2: I'm doing a movie in Houston in like two weeks,

778
00:36:06,560 --> 00:36:11,000
Speaker 2: thank you. And I remember he was tak telling me

779
00:36:11,000 --> 00:36:12,560
Speaker 2: about and I was like, oh, yeah, this sounds great,

780
00:36:12,920 --> 00:36:14,480
Speaker 2: got the script great?

781
00:36:14,600 --> 00:36:16,560
Speaker 1: And then oh, I just got this idea.

782
00:36:17,040 --> 00:36:18,920
Speaker 2: Have you can I remember the name of the movie

783
00:36:18,920 --> 00:36:20,319
Speaker 2: and I was I was like, okay, so I want

784
00:36:20,360 --> 00:36:22,000
Speaker 2: to see you that. He was like the two couples,

785
00:36:22,160 --> 00:36:23,840
Speaker 2: He's like, they were sitting in chairs, they were in

786
00:36:23,920 --> 00:36:26,239
Speaker 2: the nude and this idea just came to him.

787
00:36:26,239 --> 00:36:27,400
Speaker 1: And that's how I was looking.

788
00:36:27,160 --> 00:36:31,920
Speaker 2: As I'm on the phone like say why not And

789
00:36:32,239 --> 00:36:34,160
Speaker 2: I was like m I was like, I don't. I

790
00:36:34,200 --> 00:36:34,719
Speaker 2: don't do that.

791
00:36:34,760 --> 00:36:36,480
Speaker 1: I don't do nudity, and he was like, no, it's

792
00:36:36,520 --> 00:36:36,840
Speaker 1: gonna be.

793
00:36:37,040 --> 00:36:40,160
Speaker 2: Then it went to even further, well you know, it

794
00:36:40,160 --> 00:36:42,319
Speaker 2: won't even be your breast, like we can like yeah,

795
00:36:42,320 --> 00:36:44,640
Speaker 2: that's exactly how they'll like, it'd be a I like,

796
00:36:44,680 --> 00:36:47,000
Speaker 2: it won't even be it won't even be you. And

797
00:36:47,040 --> 00:36:50,440
Speaker 2: I was like, no, we're not doing that. And the script,

798
00:36:50,640 --> 00:36:54,160
Speaker 2: the final script came out. The contract comes and I

799
00:36:54,200 --> 00:36:57,200
Speaker 2: see nudity in the contract and I'm like, my writer

800
00:36:57,320 --> 00:36:59,560
Speaker 2: says no nudity, like I only have certain things that

801
00:36:59,600 --> 00:37:03,560
Speaker 2: I'll show that I'm okay with. And so he's like, yeah,

802
00:37:03,520 --> 00:37:04,600
Speaker 2: I want to call you and go over the script

803
00:37:04,640 --> 00:37:06,600
Speaker 2: and I said yeah. So it was so funny he

804
00:37:06,680 --> 00:37:08,920
Speaker 2: cause and we're going over the script. He said yeah,

805
00:37:09,000 --> 00:37:11,120
Speaker 2: he was wren thing and I was like yeah, seene six.

806
00:37:12,520 --> 00:37:17,680
Speaker 2: Let's go on and get to that. Let him go

807
00:37:17,719 --> 00:37:20,759
Speaker 2: over heres, and it says in the nude. And I

808
00:37:20,880 --> 00:37:23,440
Speaker 2: was like, so this is what I will do and

809
00:37:23,480 --> 00:37:25,040
Speaker 2: what I want to do. And he was like, I

810
00:37:25,040 --> 00:37:27,239
Speaker 2: can work with that, but if you have to stay

811
00:37:27,280 --> 00:37:31,360
Speaker 2: in your ground, you know, because if not, you'll be

812
00:37:31,400 --> 00:37:33,799
Speaker 2: doing things that you'll look back and regret. Yeah, and

813
00:37:33,800 --> 00:37:35,000
Speaker 2: I don't want to look back and regret.

814
00:37:35,080 --> 00:37:39,200
Speaker 3: Can I just insert this story because this is really important.

815
00:37:39,640 --> 00:37:42,359
Speaker 3: I had a very dear friend in the industry who

816
00:37:42,880 --> 00:37:45,640
Speaker 3: got a huge break, like when we came out of college.

817
00:37:45,680 --> 00:37:49,600
Speaker 3: I mean, he got a huge break and said yes

818
00:37:49,640 --> 00:37:51,759
Speaker 3: to it. But there were a lot of things. There

819
00:37:51,760 --> 00:37:54,480
Speaker 3: were a lot of things in it that really compromised

820
00:37:54,520 --> 00:37:55,760
Speaker 3: his values and morals.

821
00:37:55,960 --> 00:37:58,880
Speaker 4: But he said yes to it and became a big star.

822
00:37:59,239 --> 00:38:02,120
Speaker 3: Big star was on the cover of buzzes and on

823
00:38:02,160 --> 00:38:05,560
Speaker 3: the cover of magazines, and on the cover of billboards.

824
00:38:04,960 --> 00:38:06,000
Speaker 4: And you know, all these things.

825
00:38:06,000 --> 00:38:09,520
Speaker 3: Became a big star, earned lots of money. But then

826
00:38:09,560 --> 00:38:13,759
Speaker 3: he became an alcoholic because it was very difficult for

827
00:38:13,920 --> 00:38:19,319
Speaker 3: him on the inside to grapple with what he was

828
00:38:19,400 --> 00:38:22,480
Speaker 3: doing every day. It was like the stardom and the

829
00:38:22,520 --> 00:38:26,279
Speaker 3: fanfare and the money was not enough to fill him

830
00:38:26,520 --> 00:38:31,000
Speaker 3: up compared to how he was giving his soul every day.

831
00:38:31,800 --> 00:38:35,759
Speaker 3: And unfortunately he's no longer with us. And so I

832
00:38:35,880 --> 00:38:38,799
Speaker 3: just want to say that as a cautionary tale. We

833
00:38:38,960 --> 00:38:42,879
Speaker 3: can think that the money, that the fame, that the

834
00:38:42,960 --> 00:38:46,520
Speaker 3: followers you know, are all just like, oh, that's what

835
00:38:46,640 --> 00:38:49,640
Speaker 3: life is about. And then you get there and it's

836
00:38:49,800 --> 00:38:53,920
Speaker 3: not enough. But if you know that you are rooted

837
00:38:53,960 --> 00:38:56,839
Speaker 3: and grounded and you are in the place where God

838
00:38:56,840 --> 00:38:59,480
Speaker 3: has called you to be, there's a sense of peace

839
00:38:59,719 --> 00:39:03,719
Speaker 3: that there the prosperity is coming. But you don't have

840
00:39:03,840 --> 00:39:07,480
Speaker 3: to compromise your peace for prosperity. You can have both.

841
00:39:08,000 --> 00:39:09,160
Speaker 1: You can really have both.

842
00:39:10,000 --> 00:39:13,719
Speaker 2: Eduena, I don't know what's left to say.

843
00:39:14,680 --> 00:39:17,560
Speaker 1: That was good. I've been blessed.

844
00:39:17,760 --> 00:39:19,879
Speaker 2: It's funny you said that because I just had tied

845
00:39:19,960 --> 00:39:21,799
Speaker 2: Trivin on and he was talking about when he got

846
00:39:21,800 --> 00:39:24,120
Speaker 2: his first two Grammys and he said he got back

847
00:39:24,120 --> 00:39:26,000
Speaker 2: to the room, he said, look about the box, and

848
00:39:26,040 --> 00:39:28,440
Speaker 2: it was just like it was a reminder of everything

849
00:39:28,440 --> 00:39:33,560
Speaker 2: he sacrificed, his family, children, time, and it was like

850
00:39:33,760 --> 00:39:34,480
Speaker 2: was it worth it?

851
00:39:34,840 --> 00:39:37,400
Speaker 1: And it didn't feel him the way he thought it would.

852
00:39:37,160 --> 00:39:42,319
Speaker 2: And that changed his mindset and perspective on how he

853
00:39:42,360 --> 00:39:43,600
Speaker 2: looked at it. And I said, yeah, and I said,

854
00:39:43,680 --> 00:39:45,600
Speaker 2: you wanted the next time because you weren't coveting it.

855
00:39:46,000 --> 00:39:46,640
Speaker 1: He got it again.

856
00:39:46,640 --> 00:39:50,240
Speaker 3: He wasn't even because he wasn't what he wasn't hitting.

857
00:39:50,640 --> 00:39:53,480
Speaker 3: He wasn't coveting. Did you see that biblical language? He

858
00:39:53,640 --> 00:39:57,239
Speaker 3: wasn't coveting it, and therefore the Lord gave him even

859
00:39:57,680 --> 00:39:58,440
Speaker 3: even more.

860
00:39:59,040 --> 00:40:01,120
Speaker 2: Yeah, but it's a real thing, like we think, like

861
00:40:01,160 --> 00:40:04,120
Speaker 2: the followers, like you said, the money, all these things

862
00:40:04,120 --> 00:40:07,400
Speaker 2: are gonna make us happy. And yes, you have upsense

863
00:40:07,440 --> 00:40:08,960
Speaker 2: of peace when you don't have to worry about how

864
00:40:08,960 --> 00:40:11,239
Speaker 2: you're gonna get your next meal. You know, it does

865
00:40:11,280 --> 00:40:14,080
Speaker 2: bring that, but it does not feel your soul, especially

866
00:40:14,120 --> 00:40:17,560
Speaker 2: when you're selling it. Honey, you just you ap preach

867
00:40:17,600 --> 00:40:19,960
Speaker 2: for me. Y'all, going and get the book. The world

868
00:40:20,040 --> 00:40:22,640
Speaker 2: is waiting because it is waiting for you. All right,

869
00:40:25,080 --> 00:40:26,879
Speaker 2: this is so good? Is there anything else you want

870
00:40:26,880 --> 00:40:27,560
Speaker 2: to share with us?

871
00:40:27,719 --> 00:40:27,839
Speaker 1: Is?

872
00:40:27,920 --> 00:40:28,239
Speaker 4: I would?

873
00:40:28,239 --> 00:40:30,319
Speaker 2: We would love to follow you or we can find

874
00:40:30,360 --> 00:40:32,280
Speaker 2: where we can we buy the book, all the things

875
00:40:32,400 --> 00:40:33,359
Speaker 2: we want to support you.

876
00:40:33,400 --> 00:40:38,040
Speaker 4: Thank you, thank you. So I know, right, so far

877
00:40:38,120 --> 00:40:39,080
Speaker 4: and so like.

878
00:40:39,640 --> 00:40:41,560
Speaker 3: Oh but I knew we were going to be this full,

879
00:40:41,600 --> 00:40:45,920
Speaker 3: And I do want to say to you, Crystal, because

880
00:40:45,920 --> 00:40:47,920
Speaker 3: I feel like you embody a lot of the things

881
00:40:47,920 --> 00:40:50,120
Speaker 3: that I'm talking about and that we're talking about in

882
00:40:50,160 --> 00:40:51,000
Speaker 3: this conversation.

883
00:40:51,800 --> 00:40:54,360
Speaker 4: You from the moment I met you, I feel like

884
00:40:54,400 --> 00:40:55,839
Speaker 4: you've had such a servants heart.

885
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Speaker 3: You've had such a servant's heart, You've had such a

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Speaker 3: humble heart, and it's been beautiful to see how God

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Speaker 3: has exalted you. Thank you, you know, and the fact

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Speaker 3: that you know it's not lost on me that you

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Speaker 3: started this interview saying I used to I used to

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Speaker 3: put on her shoes on if loving you is wrong, right,

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Speaker 3: And now you're an actress yourself, and now you have

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Speaker 3: this great platform and great career.

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Speaker 4: You know.

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Speaker 3: But but that just goes to show those when we

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Speaker 3: humble ourselves, we will be exalted. A lot of times

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00:41:26,200 --> 00:41:27,759
Speaker 3: we think we have to exalt ourselves, we have to

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00:41:27,800 --> 00:41:30,160
Speaker 3: exalt ourselves. We got to tell everybody about ourselves. We

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Speaker 3: got to make sure we put ourselves out there.

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Speaker 4: You know. But like you started your career serving.

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Speaker 1: Yeah, and I loved it and loved.

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Speaker 4: It because you have a gift of service.

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Speaker 3: And now even through the podcast and all the other

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00:41:44,120 --> 00:41:47,279
Speaker 3: wonderful things that are happening. You're still serving it's but

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Speaker 3: it's now a greater level. So I just want to

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00:41:49,760 --> 00:41:53,160
Speaker 3: express how proud I am of you who you are,

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Speaker 3: who you've become, but you are the same person.

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Speaker 1: Thank you so much.

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Speaker 2: Yes, I mean that, and you are to thank you

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Speaker 2: you as well, and you are still in Waena like, yes,

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Speaker 2: thank you so much.

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Speaker 4: Yeah.

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Speaker 3: For those of you who want to join the community,

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00:42:08,120 --> 00:42:09,960
Speaker 3: the world is waiting for you. You can get the

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Speaker 3: book everywhere books are sold. You can also come on

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00:42:13,320 --> 00:42:16,080
Speaker 3: over to the website The World is Waiting dot org.

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Speaker 3: We have the Dreamers Academy. You can also connect directly

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Speaker 3: in with me. You can also follow me on Instagram,

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Speaker 3: on Twitter or x on Instagram, on x TikTok at

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Speaker 3: Edwena Findley and on Facebook Atwena Finley Dickerson.

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Speaker 4: Come on the journey.

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Speaker 3: The world is waiting for you, and I cannot wait

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Speaker 3: to see what God is going to do in your

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Speaker 3: life by this time next year.

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Speaker 1: Thank you so much, Adwena.

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Speaker 2: I am proud of you and I'm just this is amazing.

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Speaker 2: This conversation has blessed me. I am fool Yeah, thank you.

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Speaker 2: I see everybody shaking their head behind the scenes is yeah.

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Speaker 1: Everybody's like, yes, this has been good. Thank you so much.

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Speaker 4: Welcome, Yes the counsitive sweetie.

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Speaker 1: Yes, the world is waiting for you. Get it now

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Speaker 1: because I'll say it so you're like, this is all

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Speaker 1: we gotta do. That video was like this is my

933
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Speaker 1: friend and Weena, she wrote a new book. You better

934
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Speaker 1: go get it. And then they be like, no time

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Speaker 1: about your book, Sonase, thank.

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Speaker 2: You so much for joining me for another conversation. Remember

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Speaker 2: you don't have to have a big platform to affect

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Speaker 2: the people around you. The world is waiting for you

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Speaker 2: until next time. He did positive sweeties,