1 00:00:00,080 --> 00:00:03,520 Speaker 1: Today fed up because I hung out with my guy 2 00:00:03,600 --> 00:00:04,400 Speaker 1: best friend. 3 00:00:04,160 --> 00:00:07,040 Speaker 2: At three am. Yeah, I don't know if it's like 4 00:00:07,080 --> 00:00:09,039 Speaker 2: a guy best friend at three Like at three am 5 00:00:09,119 --> 00:00:11,240 Speaker 2: hangout is a booty call, you know. 6 00:00:11,400 --> 00:00:12,840 Speaker 1: It is like what what what? What are you going 7 00:00:12,920 --> 00:00:16,600 Speaker 1: to do at three am? Other than called that booty Yeah, 8 00:00:16,840 --> 00:00:17,799 Speaker 1: that's it they like. 9 00:00:17,880 --> 00:00:21,520 Speaker 2: I think any if you are meeting up with someone 10 00:00:21,720 --> 00:00:27,840 Speaker 2: after definitely after midnight, probably even after eleven. 11 00:00:27,440 --> 00:00:29,760 Speaker 1: Unless unless it's like uh oh hey we're we're at 12 00:00:29,760 --> 00:00:31,000 Speaker 1: dinner at this place right at a club. 13 00:00:32,400 --> 00:00:35,840 Speaker 2: But if you're going over one on one to meet 14 00:00:35,920 --> 00:00:39,120 Speaker 2: up with someone, dude, that's a booty call. That's a 15 00:00:39,120 --> 00:00:41,640 Speaker 2: booty call. That's a booty call. I think before six, 16 00:00:41,880 --> 00:00:46,280 Speaker 2: after eleven, one on one booty call. Agree. Yeah. 17 00:00:46,440 --> 00:00:49,280 Speaker 1: At two am, I eighteen female get a text from 18 00:00:49,280 --> 00:00:52,519 Speaker 1: my guy best friend twenty male asking if. 19 00:00:52,320 --> 00:00:56,480 Speaker 2: I was awake? You up? You up? Maybe? Classic text? 20 00:00:56,560 --> 00:01:00,960 Speaker 1: Classic text, so classic, so thoughtful, especially when it's the 21 00:01:01,040 --> 00:01:03,920 Speaker 1: letter you. You know, it's like I'm being concise for you. 22 00:01:03,960 --> 00:01:06,040 Speaker 1: I'm saving you so much time. 23 00:01:07,240 --> 00:01:10,160 Speaker 2: I told you I got a polaroid camera for this girl. Yes, 24 00:01:10,600 --> 00:01:13,360 Speaker 2: I've wrote a letter. I got a polaroid camera for 25 00:01:13,959 --> 00:01:18,360 Speaker 2: took it to North Carolina. This girl texted a tilely manner. 26 00:01:18,720 --> 00:01:21,360 Speaker 2: I should have just set you up. I'm not salty. 27 00:01:21,400 --> 00:01:25,360 Speaker 2: I'm not salry. Maybe even I'm not salty. It's okay, 28 00:01:25,480 --> 00:01:26,440 Speaker 2: by the way, I'm fine. 29 00:01:26,480 --> 00:01:28,839 Speaker 1: You have to keep listening to every episode to follow 30 00:01:28,840 --> 00:01:30,880 Speaker 1: along in the soccer because you never know when we're 31 00:01:30,880 --> 00:01:32,200 Speaker 1: gonna drop the updates. 32 00:01:32,240 --> 00:01:34,880 Speaker 2: Oh yeah, yeah, yeah, you gotta listen to everysode. I 33 00:01:34,880 --> 00:01:36,880 Speaker 2: love live all right, back to the story. Back to story. 34 00:01:38,560 --> 00:01:42,920 Speaker 1: Uh, and he responded, to which I responded, yeah, I'm awake. 35 00:01:43,560 --> 00:01:45,920 Speaker 1: We then proceeded to update each other on each other. 36 00:01:46,360 --> 00:01:48,920 Speaker 1: We then proceeded to update each other on each other's lives. 37 00:01:49,360 --> 00:01:53,160 Speaker 1: I'm currently having issues with my boyfriend, and I told. 38 00:01:52,920 --> 00:01:56,560 Speaker 2: Him that, dude, when you're when you're going to the 39 00:01:56,600 --> 00:02:00,000 Speaker 2: guy best friend from your relationship problems, like you're getting 40 00:02:00,320 --> 00:02:06,880 Speaker 2: danous territory. That's like, to be fair, I ooh, to 41 00:02:06,920 --> 00:02:11,280 Speaker 2: be fair. One of my girlfriends has been going to 42 00:02:11,360 --> 00:02:12,919 Speaker 2: me for her relationship problem. 43 00:02:12,960 --> 00:02:18,119 Speaker 1: But like I think generally, like it's it's not good. 44 00:02:18,160 --> 00:02:20,440 Speaker 1: I think it can be fine if you're if it's 45 00:02:20,440 --> 00:02:23,800 Speaker 1: the right person. Yeah, but still it's it's it's still dicey. 46 00:02:23,919 --> 00:02:25,800 Speaker 1: It's dicey territory, you know. 47 00:02:26,120 --> 00:02:27,360 Speaker 2: Yes, it definitely is. 48 00:02:27,680 --> 00:02:29,440 Speaker 1: He tells me he wants to get out of the house, 49 00:02:29,520 --> 00:02:32,000 Speaker 1: and I tell him that I want to do the same. 50 00:02:32,639 --> 00:02:34,600 Speaker 1: He tells me he can pick me up and we 51 00:02:34,639 --> 00:02:37,560 Speaker 1: can go to the park, and I'm like, perfect, I 52 00:02:37,639 --> 00:02:40,440 Speaker 1: have a chance to clear my head. That's exactly what 53 00:02:40,520 --> 00:02:43,400 Speaker 1: he's thinking too. Let's go at three am and clear 54 00:02:43,440 --> 00:02:44,239 Speaker 1: our heads. 55 00:02:44,840 --> 00:02:48,119 Speaker 2: Yo, you're gonna be polished in that head. His head 56 00:02:48,160 --> 00:02:50,519 Speaker 2: is gonna be clear. His head's gonna be clear, I 57 00:02:50,680 --> 00:02:53,640 Speaker 2: tell you that much. He's gonna be just shooting ghosts 58 00:02:53,639 --> 00:02:56,640 Speaker 2: into that night. By the time he gets to my house, 59 00:02:56,720 --> 00:02:59,400 Speaker 2: it's around three am. We go to a park because 60 00:02:59,440 --> 00:03:02,240 Speaker 2: I wanted We go to a park because I wanted 61 00:03:02,240 --> 00:03:04,320 Speaker 2: to swing, but it was way too dark. So then 62 00:03:04,360 --> 00:03:06,639 Speaker 2: we go to a gas station. He buys me snacks, 63 00:03:07,000 --> 00:03:09,200 Speaker 2: and then we go to the park by his house 64 00:03:09,480 --> 00:03:12,400 Speaker 2: with no swings. Okay, I think, guess they were looking 65 00:03:12,400 --> 00:03:13,480 Speaker 2: for swings, I guess. 66 00:03:13,480 --> 00:03:16,079 Speaker 1: So since there were no swings, we just sat in 67 00:03:16,120 --> 00:03:18,920 Speaker 1: the car talking like normal, and we even played a 68 00:03:18,919 --> 00:03:22,680 Speaker 1: little music. At this point, his seat is leaning back 69 00:03:22,760 --> 00:03:24,960 Speaker 1: and he looks to me and asked, if I want 70 00:03:25,000 --> 00:03:25,320 Speaker 1: to do. 71 00:03:26,080 --> 00:03:33,600 Speaker 2: It, what's it? Fuck? I love I love when you 72 00:03:33,800 --> 00:03:36,480 Speaker 2: just wait for us, like and I just just don't 73 00:03:36,520 --> 00:03:40,320 Speaker 2: beat around. The bushes were straight through. 74 00:03:41,160 --> 00:03:43,760 Speaker 1: I look at him and laugh because he had to 75 00:03:43,800 --> 00:03:46,080 Speaker 1: be joking, right, sweetheart. 76 00:03:45,760 --> 00:03:48,720 Speaker 2: Sweetheart, it's three as it's three am. You're alone in 77 00:03:48,760 --> 00:03:49,160 Speaker 2: a park. 78 00:03:51,120 --> 00:03:53,720 Speaker 1: Read the room to read the park, Read the park, 79 00:03:53,800 --> 00:03:58,200 Speaker 1: Read the car, read the car. No, he was serious. 80 00:03:58,680 --> 00:04:01,160 Speaker 1: I told him, what the fun? You know, I have 81 00:04:01,240 --> 00:04:03,720 Speaker 1: a boyfriend, and he said, well, you guys are having 82 00:04:03,760 --> 00:04:05,280 Speaker 1: problems anyways. 83 00:04:05,320 --> 00:04:09,480 Speaker 2: Just because there's a goalie told me like school. I 84 00:04:09,640 --> 00:04:10,280 Speaker 2: was in shock. 85 00:04:10,720 --> 00:04:14,640 Speaker 1: He looked salty and I said, no, he looks salty 86 00:04:14,680 --> 00:04:21,680 Speaker 1: that I said no, and that salty. Oh he looks 87 00:04:21,680 --> 00:04:24,159 Speaker 1: salty that I said no, but I was salty that 88 00:04:24,200 --> 00:04:25,560 Speaker 1: He even asked. 89 00:04:25,520 --> 00:04:28,080 Speaker 2: Yeah, she's thinking, oh my god, my guy friend. Like 90 00:04:28,160 --> 00:04:30,360 Speaker 2: we're we're this is just my guy friend. 91 00:04:30,440 --> 00:04:33,960 Speaker 1: Yeah, we're just we're just dishing. We're just spilling teat No. No, no, no, 92 00:04:33,960 --> 00:04:37,960 Speaker 1: no no no. Maybe if it was like, like, hey, 93 00:04:37,960 --> 00:04:40,039 Speaker 1: could we meet at like, you know, twelve on a 94 00:04:40,080 --> 00:04:44,520 Speaker 1: Sunday or something pm PM. 95 00:04:44,560 --> 00:04:47,159 Speaker 2: I always get my ams and p like, why why 96 00:04:47,160 --> 00:04:51,359 Speaker 2: do they start at am at twelve. It's dumb. That's 97 00:04:51,480 --> 00:04:52,080 Speaker 2: so dumb. 98 00:04:52,120 --> 00:04:56,080 Speaker 1: Why don't we start days when sunlight comes out? Because 99 00:04:56,080 --> 00:04:57,920 Speaker 1: you say early in the morning is two am. I'm 100 00:04:57,920 --> 00:05:01,360 Speaker 1: asleep at two am. Excuse me. Yeah, I'm awake at 101 00:05:01,400 --> 00:05:03,599 Speaker 1: like six thirty when the sun is out. 102 00:05:03,800 --> 00:05:07,000 Speaker 2: Yeah, so it's no, it's night, it's night. Still, we 103 00:05:07,040 --> 00:05:10,160 Speaker 2: need we need to fix these things. These are the 104 00:05:10,279 --> 00:05:12,800 Speaker 2: things that must change. That's right, Like how they like 105 00:05:12,920 --> 00:05:17,880 Speaker 2: change daylight savings? You know? Yeah they don't? Yeah, what 106 00:05:17,960 --> 00:05:19,279 Speaker 2: we know? They got rid of it, didn't didn't they 107 00:05:19,320 --> 00:05:20,919 Speaker 2: get rid of it? Said it's one hundred percent. I 108 00:05:20,920 --> 00:05:23,160 Speaker 2: think so I thought that's good. Maybe I heard that's 109 00:05:23,200 --> 00:05:25,240 Speaker 2: good on daylight savings. I need my son. 110 00:05:26,520 --> 00:05:28,680 Speaker 1: I was hurt and disgusted, and I didn't tell my 111 00:05:28,720 --> 00:05:31,640 Speaker 1: boyfriend until five pm, to which he proceeded to be 112 00:05:31,680 --> 00:05:34,480 Speaker 1: mad at me because I should have told him earlier. 113 00:05:37,320 --> 00:05:39,840 Speaker 1: She told She told him the same day, same day. 114 00:05:39,880 --> 00:05:43,200 Speaker 1: I think, is okay, Yeah, that's fine, but there's an update. 115 00:05:43,520 --> 00:05:44,240 Speaker 2: What's the update? 116 00:05:44,400 --> 00:05:45,680 Speaker 1: A lot of you would be happy to know that 117 00:05:45,720 --> 00:05:48,359 Speaker 1: my boyfriend and I aren't together anymore? 118 00:05:48,680 --> 00:05:51,000 Speaker 2: Wown big bruhs. 119 00:05:51,320 --> 00:05:54,040 Speaker 1: Yeah, really, it's not due to this it's due to 120 00:05:54,080 --> 00:05:56,120 Speaker 1: the past problems that we haven't solved. 121 00:05:56,600 --> 00:05:56,960 Speaker 2: Makes sense. 122 00:05:57,040 --> 00:06:00,400 Speaker 1: Okay, both of us were too immature for an actual relationship, 123 00:06:00,480 --> 00:06:03,080 Speaker 1: and we both are at fault for many different things. 124 00:06:03,560 --> 00:06:05,960 Speaker 2: Okay, mature, I've been taking responsibility. 125 00:06:06,080 --> 00:06:08,640 Speaker 1: It sucks, though, because this is the first person I've 126 00:06:08,720 --> 00:06:10,880 Speaker 1: truly ever loved, and I know you guys are going 127 00:06:10,960 --> 00:06:13,000 Speaker 1: to be like, well, how could you love him? 128 00:06:13,040 --> 00:06:16,360 Speaker 2: You're like eighteen or like whatever. I feel like some 129 00:06:16,400 --> 00:06:19,640 Speaker 2: of like, the most intense emotional experiences are when you're 130 00:06:19,680 --> 00:06:21,720 Speaker 2: like super young and in love. Facts. 131 00:06:21,800 --> 00:06:26,360 Speaker 1: So yes, yes, honestly, to answer your question, I don't know. 132 00:06:27,000 --> 00:06:30,480 Speaker 1: But what I do know is that but I do 133 00:06:30,560 --> 00:06:34,040 Speaker 1: know that I have done and would still do anything 134 00:06:34,080 --> 00:06:36,640 Speaker 1: to make him happy. I don't even know. I don't 135 00:06:36,680 --> 00:06:38,440 Speaker 1: even know what to say. I wanted to answer a 136 00:06:38,440 --> 00:06:41,200 Speaker 1: lot of questions. I honestly thought it was strictly botonic 137 00:06:41,279 --> 00:06:43,520 Speaker 1: between me and my ex friend. 138 00:06:44,160 --> 00:06:47,000 Speaker 2: Oh ex friend, I am boyfriend and ex friend. Bro, 139 00:06:47,120 --> 00:06:50,039 Speaker 2: she's stacked in all yeah, good god, it's a tick 140 00:06:50,080 --> 00:06:52,960 Speaker 2: tac toe up in this bitch. I am no longer 141 00:06:53,000 --> 00:06:55,440 Speaker 2: friends with that person. I don't know what else to 142 00:06:55,480 --> 00:06:58,560 Speaker 2: write now. My head is fuzzy and I'm currently bawling 143 00:06:58,600 --> 00:07:02,760 Speaker 2: my eyes out. I love when everyone's like sad in 144 00:07:02,920 --> 00:07:06,320 Speaker 2: the most depressed state. They're like, I'm all like my eyes. 145 00:07:07,720 --> 00:07:13,960 Speaker 1: Either crying or they're like fucking fewers like yeah keyboards, 146 00:07:16,640 --> 00:07:17,240 Speaker 1: I didn't break that. 147 00:07:17,840 --> 00:07:20,280 Speaker 2: Yeah yeah, that keyboard is kind of funky too, Like 148 00:07:20,360 --> 00:07:22,920 Speaker 2: you're this is this is like straight from China, like 149 00:07:23,520 --> 00:07:28,720 Speaker 2: not nice? No, did treat it nicely? It'll effect on you. Yeah, yeah, 150 00:07:28,720 --> 00:07:32,240 Speaker 2: whisper sweet. Nothing's into its ear, John, But damn bro, 151 00:07:32,400 --> 00:07:38,400 Speaker 2: I mean like I think I think it is. I 152 00:07:38,440 --> 00:07:45,720 Speaker 2: think it is fine for you. M hmm. Okay, we 153 00:07:45,920 --> 00:07:52,320 Speaker 2: question question for you, John. If a friend has feelings 154 00:07:52,840 --> 00:07:58,400 Speaker 2: for that other friend and they're in a relationship, is 155 00:07:58,400 --> 00:08:02,800 Speaker 2: it always a dick move to confess those feelings. 156 00:08:04,240 --> 00:08:06,880 Speaker 1: I don't necessarily think it's a dick move. It definitely depends. 157 00:08:06,960 --> 00:08:11,000 Speaker 1: Like if you have like an awful, terrible like partner, 158 00:08:11,040 --> 00:08:13,120 Speaker 1: like an actually some of partner's actually the person has 159 00:08:13,120 --> 00:08:15,400 Speaker 1: a partner's actually terrible, and you're like, Okay, look like 160 00:08:15,480 --> 00:08:17,200 Speaker 1: I just want to be honest and get the soft 161 00:08:17,200 --> 00:08:19,200 Speaker 1: mant chest and like let you know how I genuinely feel. 162 00:08:19,400 --> 00:08:24,000 Speaker 1: I think that scenario could be fine. But this guy's 163 00:08:24,120 --> 00:08:26,240 Speaker 1: he was just trying to get it. So this is 164 00:08:26,560 --> 00:08:28,920 Speaker 1: not that. But I think there are scenarios where it 165 00:08:29,080 --> 00:08:30,040 Speaker 1: probably is okay. 166 00:08:30,040 --> 00:08:33,160 Speaker 2: But I think most scenarios it's like, yeah, it's pretty tough. 167 00:08:33,240 --> 00:08:35,600 Speaker 1: You gotta let like, if you actually care about them, 168 00:08:35,640 --> 00:08:38,040 Speaker 1: you have to let them a be happy. And also 169 00:08:38,160 --> 00:08:40,800 Speaker 1: it's their life and decisions. Yeah, so like you can't 170 00:08:41,760 --> 00:08:43,040 Speaker 1: like make their decisions for them. 171 00:08:43,400 --> 00:08:46,240 Speaker 2: Yeah, but like like if like if you let's say, 172 00:08:46,400 --> 00:08:52,440 Speaker 2: in a in a different scenario, right, Like this guy 173 00:08:52,720 --> 00:08:54,920 Speaker 2: is like, Hey, you know, I know you've been going 174 00:08:54,920 --> 00:08:58,680 Speaker 2: through some relationship problems and I'm always here for you, 175 00:08:59,080 --> 00:09:01,320 Speaker 2: but I just want to let you know, like since 176 00:09:01,400 --> 00:09:06,280 Speaker 2: like talking with you about this stuff and and and 177 00:09:06,360 --> 00:09:10,319 Speaker 2: really like being there for you. I think emotionally, I've 178 00:09:11,040 --> 00:09:17,480 Speaker 2: I'm developing feelings for you and I don't really know 179 00:09:17,520 --> 00:09:20,440 Speaker 2: what to do with those, and I don't expect you 180 00:09:20,480 --> 00:09:21,199 Speaker 2: to reciprocate. 181 00:09:21,800 --> 00:09:24,920 Speaker 1: But this is how I feel. That's how do you 182 00:09:24,960 --> 00:09:26,680 Speaker 1: think about that? That's how you have to say it. 183 00:09:26,760 --> 00:09:31,959 Speaker 1: But the problem is, I think the problem is you 184 00:09:32,000 --> 00:09:33,640 Speaker 1: are unintentionally taking. 185 00:09:33,400 --> 00:09:36,760 Speaker 2: Advantage of a vulnerable exactly. That's the issue. 186 00:09:36,880 --> 00:09:39,280 Speaker 1: So like this person is like, oh, I'm having problems. 187 00:09:39,360 --> 00:09:41,160 Speaker 1: Even if you don't intend that to be the case, 188 00:09:41,200 --> 00:09:42,000 Speaker 1: you're kind of praying on. 189 00:09:42,000 --> 00:09:45,880 Speaker 2: A vulnerable situation. Yeah. One of my one of my 190 00:09:46,520 --> 00:09:50,240 Speaker 2: good friends had that happen to her when she she 191 00:09:50,400 --> 00:09:53,760 Speaker 2: she lives abroad, but like she was going through some 192 00:09:53,960 --> 00:09:55,959 Speaker 2: tough times with her boyfriend and then one of her 193 00:09:55,960 --> 00:09:58,360 Speaker 2: best guy friends that she's known for years, like at 194 00:09:58,360 --> 00:10:02,840 Speaker 2: that moment confesses his love for her, and initially she 195 00:10:02,880 --> 00:10:03,480 Speaker 2: was confused. 196 00:10:03,520 --> 00:10:05,720 Speaker 1: She's like, oh shit, yeah, it's really got to be 197 00:10:06,080 --> 00:10:09,160 Speaker 1: really hard for the woman. Yeah, she was just like, oh, 198 00:10:09,200 --> 00:10:12,040 Speaker 1: here's some which is fair. Like friends help and support 199 00:10:12,040 --> 00:10:14,040 Speaker 1: each other. So it's like, here's a friend that's like listening, 200 00:10:14,280 --> 00:10:16,480 Speaker 1: hearing me out, and then all of a sudden, right 201 00:10:16,520 --> 00:10:19,240 Speaker 1: at the moment where it's like I'm in a vulnerable place, 202 00:10:19,360 --> 00:10:22,760 Speaker 1: they like put you in this awkward thing, you know 203 00:10:22,760 --> 00:10:23,200 Speaker 1: what I mean. 204 00:10:23,400 --> 00:10:26,559 Speaker 2: So yeah, I think it would have to be, like you, 205 00:10:26,800 --> 00:10:29,959 Speaker 2: it would have to be after the relationship ended. That's 206 00:10:30,080 --> 00:10:32,040 Speaker 2: that's the right I think that's the right move. Yeah. 207 00:10:32,040 --> 00:10:34,800 Speaker 1: Now if it's like a really crazy terrible scenario, maybe, 208 00:10:35,000 --> 00:10:36,600 Speaker 1: but like you, if. 209 00:10:36,559 --> 00:10:38,400 Speaker 2: It's a crazy terrible I think even if it's a 210 00:10:38,400 --> 00:10:42,280 Speaker 2: crazy terrible scenario. It's not like it shouldn't be it's 211 00:10:42,400 --> 00:10:45,320 Speaker 2: really really really really bad then, But but like you know, 212 00:10:45,480 --> 00:10:47,920 Speaker 2: even if it's really really really bad, I think I like, like, 213 00:10:47,960 --> 00:10:50,120 Speaker 2: what does you can say, like, hey, like this is 214 00:10:50,160 --> 00:10:52,520 Speaker 2: for safety is in danger. That's what I'm That's what 215 00:10:52,600 --> 00:10:56,040 Speaker 2: I'm like. I think I'm saying even if for safety 216 00:10:56,080 --> 00:10:58,360 Speaker 2: is in danger, Huh, I think you can. You can. 217 00:10:58,440 --> 00:11:01,040 Speaker 2: You should say like, hey, get out of get out 218 00:11:01,040 --> 00:11:03,400 Speaker 2: of relationship, this is not good for you. But I 219 00:11:03,440 --> 00:11:06,480 Speaker 2: don't think you can confess your feelings there. I don't. Yeah, 220 00:11:06,480 --> 00:11:08,439 Speaker 2: I don't think you confess your feelings there because that 221 00:11:08,760 --> 00:11:11,600 Speaker 2: goes back to like, regardless of what they're experiencing, they're 222 00:11:11,600 --> 00:11:15,000 Speaker 2: still in an emotionally vulnerable spot, and to capitalize on 223 00:11:15,040 --> 00:11:19,640 Speaker 2: that moment for your own like relational benefit, yeah, feels 224 00:11:20,520 --> 00:11:21,320 Speaker 2: feels a little wrong. 225 00:11:21,559 --> 00:11:24,040 Speaker 1: If the best way would be you you do that 226 00:11:24,200 --> 00:11:26,880 Speaker 1: and then afterwards and then you confess it and you're like, 227 00:11:26,920 --> 00:11:30,120 Speaker 1: you know, I wanted to make sure that I wasn't 228 00:11:30,160 --> 00:11:33,959 Speaker 1: like unintentionally like praying on your vulnerable Yeah, you know 229 00:11:34,040 --> 00:11:36,080 Speaker 1: what I mean. It's like I was trying to trying 230 00:11:36,080 --> 00:11:38,520 Speaker 1: to do the best I could by you. 231 00:11:37,960 --> 00:11:41,440 Speaker 2: You know, at least make it yea too. Hey, so 232 00:11:41,480 --> 00:11:43,120 Speaker 2: now we got the blueprint. There we go. If you 233 00:11:43,160 --> 00:11:46,040 Speaker 2: got feelings for your friend, just talk to them at 234 00:11:46,040 --> 00:11:47,680 Speaker 2: three am. No God,