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Speaker 2: I don't Joy?

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Speaker 4: Look me, come.

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Speaker 1: Come out. You think that.

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Speaker 5: I show will good morning everybody? You are listening to

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Speaker 5: the voice, come on, dig me now. One and only

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Speaker 5: Steve Harvey Man got a radio show, man, Yeah, dude,

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Speaker 5: Steve Harvey got a radio show because I can't tell

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Speaker 5: it to you any other way. Because God has been

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Speaker 5: so so very amazing to me. But the same God,

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Speaker 5: and there is but one that same God he is.

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Speaker 5: It can and will be amazing in your life if

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Speaker 5: you just allow it to happen.

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Speaker 1: You know.

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Speaker 5: I was somewhere, you know, and I was driving on

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Speaker 5: the freeway somewhere, and I saw a billboard and there

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Speaker 5: was a guy in a field on his knees. And

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Speaker 5: on this billboard it said something to the effect when

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Speaker 5: you've run out of answers, try prayer. And I was

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Speaker 5: going somewhere, and I don't even remember I go so much. Man,

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Speaker 5: I was just going somewhere and I saw this billboarding

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Speaker 5: and I thought about that, And man, I cannot tell

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Speaker 5: you how true of a statement that is. When you've

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Speaker 5: run out of answers, when you don't know what to do,

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Speaker 5: when you feel weak, when you are at a low point,

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Speaker 5: when things just seem to keep happening to you, and

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Speaker 5: you don't understand why. Prayer is an amazing weapon. Prayer

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Speaker 5: is available to all of us. Here's a deal. You

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Speaker 5: don't have to go through the all of that you're

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Speaker 5: going through alone. See, I'm talking to men, women, boys, girls, students, leaders, bosses, employees.

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Speaker 5: I don't care what's happening. I don't care what your

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Speaker 5: relationship is jacked up. I don't care if your relationship

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Speaker 5: at work is shot. Your coworkers seem to always make

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Speaker 5: you the buddy end of the joke. You always somebody

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Speaker 5: always talking about you behind your back. You're finding it

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Speaker 5: more and more necessary to try to hold your head

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Speaker 5: up and walk past these people. When some days you

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Speaker 5: can't even get your chin up off your chest. If

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Speaker 5: you're a woman out there and you've been alone by

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Speaker 5: You really want a relationship, you really want to be

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Speaker 5: have a mate, you want to meet your soul mate,

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Speaker 5: whatever it is, whatever it is, prayer.

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Speaker 1: Is the answer.

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Speaker 5: You are listening to a guy who is a direct

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Speaker 5: recipient of prayer. I can't tell you anything that I've

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Speaker 1: Oh, now, there are a lot of things. Hold on,

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Speaker 5: I think my mama was praying for me. And then

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Speaker 5: there's this thing that God has called grace and mercy

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Speaker 5: that he just somehow keeps us all waking up every

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Speaker 5: if you can implement prayer into your day every single day,

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Speaker 1: Now. Look, you don't have to make no sing.

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Speaker 5: You ain't got to let everybody know, Oh I'm spiritual,

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Speaker 5: Somebody to just say, oh, they pray every you know,

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Speaker 5: Please know that's gonna be your reward. What I want

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Speaker 5: I mean, actually go at it with saying, hey, God,

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Speaker 5: I told you the rich and famous that I talk

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Speaker 5: to that pray constantly, it would have made you go

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Speaker 5: Matter of fact, you done already got yourself into trouble.

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Speaker 5: Go talk to God about it. You can't see no

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Speaker 5: something straight crazy. Pump your brakes, partner, Slow down a

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Speaker 5: you know what. Man, Sometimes I've gone to God and

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Speaker 5: I've just said, Hey, God, I don't have a clue.

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Speaker 5: Matter of fact, I'm so jacked up right now. God,

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Speaker 5: there's a poem called Invictis, and the opening line says,

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Speaker 5: be for my unconquerable soul. That this line is so deep.

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Speaker 5: It starts off saying, I am in deep trouble. I'm

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Speaker 5: I'm talking about man. From over there to over there,

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Speaker 5: been in that situation before, y'all, because I have. I'm

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Speaker 5: talking about black as a pit from pole to pole.

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Speaker 5: God is there, God is available. God is always standing by.

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Speaker 5: He just wants you to come to him. See he

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Speaker 5: He's gotten you through some things. And you look at him, going, oh, man,

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Speaker 5: I don't know how the hell. Okay, that's cool, I'm cool.

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Speaker 5: No no, no, no, no, that wasn't cool.

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Speaker 1: That was God.

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Speaker 5: Pray man, when you out of answers and you don't

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Speaker 5: know what to do, pray. If you see some trouble,

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Speaker 5: if you don't know the answers, Pray. If you can't

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Speaker 5: see no way out, pray, Pray man, talk to God.

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Speaker 1: Don't make a scene. Just talk to God, all right,

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Speaker 1: very important.

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Speaker 7: You're listening to the Steve Harvey Morning Show.

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Speaker 5: Ladies and gentlemen, you know another it just keeps happening.

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Speaker 5: I'm I'm gonna keep being in awe of it because.

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Speaker 1: I want you to. Because what God.

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Speaker 5: Does by creating these days repeatedly, it's just incredible.

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Speaker 5: It's just And don't take enlightening. And the fact that

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Speaker 5: you are up for another one? Are you? Are you serious?

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Speaker 5: Are you serious? You have got to understand how good

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Speaker 5: that is. That's such a privilege man, to still be here.

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Speaker 5: I thank God for you know, the older you get

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Speaker 5: when you start going to these reunions and you start

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Speaker 5: hearing about people that you've known, the older you get,

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Speaker 5: the more you hear about people you know leaving this world,

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Speaker 5: and for you not to be one of them, that's

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Speaker 5: a blessing, man.

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Speaker 1: I thank God for that, Ladies and gentlemen.

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Speaker 5: This is is Steve Harvey Morna Show, Sheloy Strawberry calling

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Speaker 5: for real Mississippi Monica and congratulations to Mississippi Monica who

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Speaker 5: has really been on their health journey and looked absolutely amazing.

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Speaker 1: Give it up from Mississippi Monica.

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Speaker 5: Junior and the legend that is nephew Tommy Junior. What's

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Speaker 8: Because I know a lot of us struggle with this man,

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Speaker 8: But it's how did you learn patience?

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Speaker 5: On the patience part, that's one of my struggles patients.

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Speaker 1: I've gotten better at it, you know.

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Speaker 5: The hardest part of patience for me to understand was

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Speaker 5: to trust in God's timing.

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Speaker 1: That one has been.

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Speaker 5: A struggle because God's timing I've discovered in my life,

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Speaker 5: I don't know about yours. You don't ever match up

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Speaker 5: going like, how about today? Then I wake up tomorrow, Hey,

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Speaker 5: But then what happened is when it happens, it was

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Speaker 1: And it happened my way, it would have been messed up.

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Speaker 5: So that's been a tough part to just that part

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Speaker 5: And you know what, man, like another thing that I

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Speaker 5: don't have patience for. Like I'll give you an example.

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Speaker 5: And somebody works for me told me they wasn't feeling good,

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Speaker 5: probably gonna need like three more days.

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Speaker 1: I went like, well, really sick, sick?

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Speaker 9: Yeah, so what what'd you have a problem with about that?

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Speaker 5: Well, because I was with you, why you oh.

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Speaker 5: I don't know why you came up with three more

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Speaker 5: three more days, you know. But no, hold up, listen

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Speaker 5: to this right here. I'm gonna need you about three

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Speaker 5: more days, see that right there, because that don't sound

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Speaker 1: I'm gonna need a deeper cough. I'm gonna have to hear.

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Speaker 9: Something near death day for real.

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Speaker 4: I know.

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Speaker 7: All right, thank you guys. Coming up at thirty two

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Speaker 7: minutes after the hour, we'll hear from the pastors as

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Speaker 7: they deliver a word right after this. You're listening Harvey

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Speaker 7: Morning Show, folks.

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Speaker 1: There are a lot of reasons to like days.

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Speaker 5: Hun Day's done a lot to support American consulers. I mean,

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Speaker 5: they are announced their investment of twenty one billion dollars

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Speaker 5: in the United States over the next three years that

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Speaker 5: will expand manufacturing and create more jobs for Americans.

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Speaker 10: And they just announced that they will not be raising

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Speaker 10: MSRP through June second, no matter what. Called five six

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Speaker 10: two three one four four six zero three for more details.

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Speaker 1: It is time now for the pastors with a word.

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Speaker 5: We we are here to pontificate to annihilation or duration

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Speaker 5: for the congregation. We we gavel in the most by

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Speaker 5: curious way. Yeah, h knowing that you can wonder about this,

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Speaker 5: but you still wonder about that, dell.

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Speaker 1: Yeah.

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Speaker 5: We gather now for word from Deacon Or. We will

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Speaker 5: be preaching from a book. Deacon go ahead.

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Speaker 10: Yes, Pastor, we got the book lined up for you.

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Speaker 1: Listen.

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Speaker 10: So this is what's going on, pastor. Brother Ernest Banks,

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Speaker 10: it has heard that his girl is leaving him. So

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Speaker 10: I took the liberty and we're gonna go from the

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Speaker 10: book of Marvin yay.

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Speaker 1: The Book of Marvin Gay.

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Speaker 10: If you go down to chapter three, verse two, it

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Speaker 10: is I heard it through the great vibe. I heard

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Speaker 10: it through the great vibe. Let me know when you

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Speaker 10: like for me to read. Oh, I bet you're wondering

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Speaker 10: how I knew.

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Speaker 1: I'm assuming I ain't sposed to notice here.

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Speaker 10: About your plans he'll make me blue.

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Speaker 5: Stop right there. You obviously do conjured up some thoughts about.

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Speaker 1: Making me blue. Hurree with some other guy you knew before?

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Speaker 1: Stop right there? Or in the words of or Bill

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Speaker 1: Willen or who is he? And what is he to you?

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Speaker 4: A read.

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Speaker 10: Between the two of us, guys, you know I love

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Speaker 10: you more?

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Speaker 5: Stop right there. He can't love you the way I

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Speaker 5: do him. It took me by surprise. I must say,

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Speaker 5: stop right now, shock.

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Speaker 2: Cut off, God go wield it.

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Speaker 4: Just may.

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Speaker 11: Oh no, look at hill, Look at that read when

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Speaker 11: I found out yesterday.

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Speaker 5: Stop right over there? All right, this just come to me.

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Speaker 5: There wasn't a while ago, just oh yesterday. I mean

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Speaker 5: your phrase today over something I heard yesterday read.

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Speaker 10: Don't you know that I heard it through the grape vine?

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Speaker 5: Stop right there, grapevine talking, Come on, grapevine got lips

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Speaker 5: you have to die, loose lips, sank ships or read.

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Speaker 10: Next line said, not much longer would you be mine?

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Speaker 1: Stop right there. I don't know what plan it is.

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Speaker 2: I don't know what you thought.

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Speaker 5: It was, but the grapevine got the word out come

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Speaker 5: to me that not much longer will you be mine?

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Speaker 5: And where is coming to read?

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Speaker 7: Oh?

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Speaker 5: I'm just about to lose my mind. Stop right there,

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Speaker 5: they've already lost it. Read all right right here?

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Speaker 10: Passed it says, I know a man ain't supposed to cry,

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Speaker 10: stop right there.

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Speaker 5: Come on, I know a man they't supposed to cry? Yeah, lord, yeah,

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Speaker 5: but I got news for you.

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Speaker 1: Come on now. It's some men's crying somewhere, Yes it is. Yeah,

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Speaker 1: Say there's some men's crying somewhere. Come on now.

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Speaker 10: Read but these tears I can't hold inside?

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Speaker 1: Stop right there is obvious. Did you tell that I'm crying?

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Speaker 1: Call you c D T.

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Speaker 6: I.

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Speaker 5: If I held him inside, I wouldn't be crying now

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Speaker 5: would now free?

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Speaker 1: Losing you would in my life? You see? Stop right there.

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Speaker 1: You gotta lose you ain't it ain't gonna be worth living.

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Speaker 5: Read because you mean that much to stop right there

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Speaker 5: and heard the song heard it through the grief.

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Speaker 1: Not much longer? Would you be none?

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Speaker 5: And he tears, I can't hold hisself now, about to

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Speaker 5: lose my mind.

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Speaker 1: Ree, You could have told me, stop right there, talk

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Speaker 1: on it.

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Speaker 5: You could have told me yourself, but I had heard

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Speaker 5: it through the grape vine, Ree, that you the love

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Speaker 5: someone else?

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Speaker 1: Stop right down? Who is he? And what is he

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Speaker 1: that you'm gonna ask?

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Speaker 6: You?

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Speaker 1: Get free? Instead? I heard it through the great stop

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Speaker 1: right there.

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Speaker 5: You'd have told me yourself that you love somebody else.

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Speaker 5: I wouldn't have had heard it through the grape vine.

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Speaker 5: I just told you the grapevine got lips.

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Speaker 1: Preach past ship sank ships read not much longer?

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Speaker 2: Would you be mine?

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Speaker 1: You read?

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Speaker 10: Okay, I heard that through the grayviron and I'm just

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Speaker 10: about to lose my mind.

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Speaker 1: Stop right there, not gonna finish that. Finished that.

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Speaker 5: You can go ahead, honey, honey, well heard it through

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Speaker 5: the gray vine.

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Speaker 1: Stop right there.

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Speaker 5: I want you to know, come on now, that's the

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Speaker 5: problem we had today is because of something I heard yesterday.

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Speaker 5: I didn't hear it from anybody. I heard it through

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Speaker 5: the grapevine.

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Speaker 1: Yes, you did that not much long ago? Would you

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Speaker 1: be mine? Now?

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Speaker 5: Was somebody else involved that you think between the two

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Speaker 5: of us you could make a better choice. But god on,

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Speaker 5: if you want to and pick somebody else, you're gonna

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Speaker 5: find out like they find out everywhere.

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Speaker 1: You need a unit self.

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Speaker 5: You're gonna be needing grain drop from an air plane.

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Speaker 1: You're gonna be needing some soup in a soup line.

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Speaker 1: You gonna need to check.

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Speaker 5: It to a shelter because I'm gonna take everything back

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Speaker 5: I ever gave you.

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Speaker 1: You you think you gonna you don't need you like

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Speaker 1: I promise you. They made her the last of Melo

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Speaker 1: right after that whole word.

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Speaker 7: the COLO, our Chief Love Officer, Steve Harvey. This is

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Speaker 7: from Shell in Kansas City. Shell says, I'm forty four

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Speaker 7: years old. My husband just bought a new car and

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Speaker 7: he doesn't want me to drive it. I don't value

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Speaker 7: material things like he does, so I don't mind if

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Speaker 7: he drives my binds. He said, I drive badly, Well,

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Speaker 7: so does he? Why is he tripping like this over

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Speaker 7: his car?

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Speaker 4: Roll?

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Speaker 1: First of all, let's deal with what you said.

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Speaker 5: Okay, you said you don't value material.

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Speaker 1: Things like he does, but like he does, but you

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Speaker 1: let him dry your binds.

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Speaker 5: Yes, think that was necessary in this conversation because really

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Speaker 5: what we're talking about is he don't want you to

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Speaker 5: drive his car, but you all materialist because if you

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Speaker 5: wasn't you winn the bough of bens. You the bought

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Speaker 5: to PreO you buy business so you could flex well

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Speaker 5: because he know you are not the X part the

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Speaker 5: second part, he don't want you to drive his car

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Speaker 5: cause you drive bad. See when he said because you

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Speaker 5: drive bad. You didn't say no, I don't. You said

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Speaker 5: he does too. What means the rims on that bens

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Speaker 5: is scarred up? You got little dings and dits all

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Speaker 5: over your bins because you drive badly. What you need

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Speaker 5: to get one of them cars with that automatic park

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Speaker 5: thing on it.

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Speaker 1: That's what you need to do.

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Speaker 5: And he not gonna let you ding up his new

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Speaker 5: rims and put all the little beings on his car.

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Speaker 1: You drive bad, No, we're not gonna. We done.

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Speaker 5: Gotta get him out of they ain't on that. Why

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Speaker 5: when you drive your car, always something gotta happen.

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Speaker 7: So I'm a little close to the car.

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Speaker 1: Next, you ain't not close? You too close? You hit it?

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Speaker 2: You try bad?

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Speaker 1: Yeah, but I don't hit.

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Speaker 7: Nothing driver because you have a driver.

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Speaker 1: You don't even drive.

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Speaker 7: Next question A to Nita and Madison says, a good

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Speaker 7: friend of mine has gained weight, and she goes to

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Speaker 7: eat with our group, and we all feel like we're

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Speaker 7: doing her a disservice by not saying anything to her.

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Speaker 7: Should I pull her to the side and risk hurting

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Speaker 7: her feelings? Or should I mind my business to.

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Speaker 1: The side.

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Speaker 5: Out now called fat shamming? So to avoid that, I

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Speaker 5: must answer this question different. Okay, let me just use

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Speaker 5: me and my friends as an example.

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Speaker 1: Okay, so I'm not even talking to this letter.

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Speaker 5: We have friends in our group that have gained weight,

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Speaker 5: and right now it's a health issue, so we have

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Speaker 5: to talk to them different. They don't take hints, they eat.

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Speaker 1: They eat.

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Speaker 5: Yeah, so like when the bill come, we just hand

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Speaker 5: the bill to them. Because you are the the most,

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Speaker 5: and if we split this even it don't work out

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Speaker 5: because you had the most. You ordered full appetizers because

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Speaker 5: you couldn't make up your mind which one you wanted,

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Speaker 5: so you.

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Speaker 1: Wanted to taste everything.

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Speaker 5: You split two on trees because you couldn't figure out

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Speaker 5: which one you want. So you are that both of

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Speaker 5: them and dessert. Now them sides you got. The lady

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Speaker 5: told us these are share plates. How you eat all

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Speaker 5: the coin mash all of them? You ain't all other

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Speaker 5: skillet potatoes all of them? And we love you and

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Speaker 5: we want you here. You have got to scoot your

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Speaker 5: big behind. I'm under this table. That's just how I

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Speaker 5: know you finna eat a lot? Will you take your

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Speaker 5: shoes off to eat?

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Speaker 1: You find something rest? This is way past unsnapping your pants.

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Speaker 5: You have took your shoes off so you could dig

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Speaker 5: your toes into the hard wood so when you chewing

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Speaker 5: you can get extra grip.

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Speaker 1: That's a big person. Those are big people tactics. When they.

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Speaker 5: Are you quite done, you insist that they bring you

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Speaker 5: a chair with arms on it so you can lean

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Speaker 5: to the side while you chewing. See, that's that's big

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Speaker 5: people do stuff like that as a desk chair. You

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Speaker 5: excuse me, excuse me because I did two extra naps.

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Speaker 1: Who does that?

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Speaker 7: You didn't mind your own business?

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Speaker 1: You really you.

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Speaker 5: Put one up round your shirt collar. You gotta lay

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Speaker 5: one in your lap and one for your mouth because

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Speaker 5: it's too much food.

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Speaker 1: All right, we're moving on right here, we're moving on.

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Speaker 7: This is from Caleb.

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Speaker 1: We are done. I said, excuse me, I'm gonna need full.

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Speaker 7: Fox check please check me, please check please, because you're crazy.

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Speaker 1: I'm gonna need fox.

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Speaker 7: We're moving on. Caleb in Albany writes, my wife called

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Speaker 7: me and I was in the bathroom at work, and

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Speaker 7: she kept asking me questions after I told her I

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Speaker 7: would call it right back. I'm sick of her not

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Speaker 7: respecting me when I tell her I can't talk. But

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Speaker 7: if I start hanging up on her. Will she understand that, Well, you.

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Speaker 1: Was in the bathroom because of what you ordered yesterday.

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Speaker 5: Technic, this is the same person, because when you're in

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Speaker 5: that bathroom you have to focus. You can't take phone

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Speaker 5: calls because when you're done eight the all the coin

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Speaker 5: mash by yourself and had that extra broccolini with that

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Speaker 5: cheese on it, and you ordered them for Fox. This

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Speaker 5: is what's happening now. Now you're in the bathroom and

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Speaker 5: you need total.

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Speaker 1: Privacy, then go together. He had weren't using the bathroom.

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Speaker 5: Now he got the time and waiting on people to

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Speaker 5: leave out so he could flush.

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Speaker 2: Stop the other the letter was from Tanita.

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Speaker 1: This is from Calum.

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Speaker 2: And is a different party.

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Speaker 5: Caleb is flushing, flushing faux five times.

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Speaker 1: You in here too much. I'm just telling.

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Speaker 7: You, Okay, all right, we're moving on because you obviously

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Speaker 7: have new help for this person.

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Speaker 5: Okay, don't worry about that. It's just from what you

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Speaker 5: ate yesterday. Caleb, say that name, Caleb. You ever seen

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Speaker 5: a skinny Caleb?

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Speaker 1: Caleb? Just we're moving on. This is the last one.

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Speaker 7: Demetria in Charleston, I know, right at church on Easter Sunday,

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Speaker 7: the pastor asked the pastors asked the visitors to stand,

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Speaker 7: and he couldn't.

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Speaker 1: I guess because huh say it again?

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Speaker 12: Stand?

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Speaker 1: I know, cause you couldn't because of what you ate

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Speaker 1: the other day.

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Speaker 5: Now you're in church and they didn't asked you to stand,

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Speaker 5: and you're big behind, can't get up because you pulled

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Speaker 5: the pew last time and total and total total book

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Speaker 5: rack off of it.

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Speaker 1: But they had the little hymn books.

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Speaker 5: You tried to pull that and you told that him

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Speaker 5: book racked off the back of a pew. So not

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Speaker 5: asking you to stand, and you can't stand because of

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Speaker 5: what you ate the whole order corn mash.

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Speaker 2: Now you've been in the bathroom mash.

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Speaker 5: Now you are at the church, Oh Euston, you can't

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Speaker 5: stand what it calls.

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Speaker 2: Your master suiting.

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Speaker 1: There you bought two weeks ago. Don't snap in the front,

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Speaker 1: all right, fellow, you have really you have got to.

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Speaker 5: Help these people with these weight problems. And quick, where

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Speaker 5: about hurting a feelings?

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Speaker 7: Entertainment coming up next? Right after this. You're listening hard

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Speaker 7: morning show. All right, guys, let's just get right to it.

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Speaker 7: The weekend's NFL draft. I know you guys were watching it.

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Speaker 7: Group text, we're flying, Well, what do you think let's

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Speaker 7: want to.

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Speaker 4: See to it.

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Speaker 1: I won't want to say thank you, thank you, my law.

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Speaker 5: I was happy for him because I know what they

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Speaker 5: did to him, and I was happy that he did

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Speaker 5: get drafted.

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Speaker 1: Yeah, of course, the conversation is the truth.

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Speaker 5: I don't know why people think black people just be

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Speaker 5: sitting around making up theories about collusion and racism. And

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Speaker 5: I don't know why you think we just got time

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Speaker 5: for that. It's just that we recognize it instantly because

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Speaker 5: we've seen it so many times in so many forms,

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Speaker 5: So for us, it's easy to recognize. What has amazed

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Speaker 5: me is the number of people who aren't black who

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Speaker 5: recognized it. Also made it even more The president, Yeah,

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Speaker 5: he said, yeah, he was on this side too.

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Speaker 1: Yeah, he was what what I'm here for? What did

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Speaker 1: he say?

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Speaker 7: He said the coaches were stupid for not hiring him,

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Speaker 7: for not picking him.

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Speaker 1: Here's what I think.

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Speaker 5: I think the owners got together and said we're gonna

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Speaker 5: make an example out of him because this is not

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Speaker 5: what we want in the NFL. We don't want these

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Speaker 5: guys coming in and show bolting thinking they have control

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Speaker 5: of power.

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Speaker 1: He comes in already a millionaire.

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Speaker 5: He's wearing NFL jewelry, NFL watches already, he's coming there

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Speaker 5: talking about where he might not play, where he might play,

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Speaker 5: and we're gonna make an example. So they agreed for

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Speaker 5: four rounds, nobody chooses him. So when the Browns in

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Speaker 5: round three chose the quarterback from Oregon, I knew something

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Speaker 5: was up. So then round five comes along and they

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Speaker 5: picked your door because they the owners would not let

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Speaker 5: the GM or the coaches do what they wanted to do.

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Speaker 5: That's not a GM or coach who would set that

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Speaker 5: at long and let that happen unless the owners said,

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Speaker 5: leave him alone four rounds. We're gonna teach them a lesson.

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Speaker 5: And then after that the Browns traded up to get him.

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Speaker 1: Here.

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Speaker 5: Of course it is, of course, it's no other explanation

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Speaker 5: for it. Now here's the thing. And I may do

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Speaker 5: this and I don't know, but here's the thing. Every

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Speaker 5: time a black father is active in their son's life,

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Speaker 5: that here comes they a villain. So the first villain

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Speaker 5: was Tiger Woods daddy, he's interfering with what.

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Speaker 1: Earl Woods was the villain.

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Speaker 5: Then it was the Venus, and Serena's daddy, Richard, he

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Speaker 5: was the villain. It wasn't for either one of them

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Speaker 5: guys doing what they did in the beginning, you would

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Speaker 5: have none of.

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Speaker 1: These people that were speaking about the greatness.

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Speaker 5: And then the LeVar Ball's Naim daddy got villainized. But

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Speaker 5: he was in their boys life from the get going.

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Speaker 5: You see where all three of them are. And now

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Speaker 5: it's prime time. But well, Lebron and Lebron right, But now,

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Speaker 5: when Archie Manning did it with Eli, what nothing said.

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Speaker 5: He even told them, don't trade me. I'm not playing

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Speaker 5: for y'all. But it goes deeper than that. When the

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Speaker 5: Kennedys do it, they all in the White House, they steal.

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Speaker 5: They got another Kennedy in the White House right now.

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Speaker 5: The Bushes made sure they boys became president. Come on,

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Speaker 5: Jerry Jones turned over the operation of the Cowboys to

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Speaker 5: his kids, and ain't nothing wrong with none of this.

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Speaker 5: Jerry Busten died and left his daughter, who don't know

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Speaker 5: deadly about basketball, to the Lakers. I could just go on,

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Speaker 5: the Rockefellers do it.

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Speaker 9: It's a problem when we do it, the highest family

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Speaker 9: does it.

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Speaker 5: But the moment we do it he does anything making

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Speaker 5: the mockery of the system.

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Speaker 1: Who does he think he is. I'm proud of the

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Speaker 1: Sanders family.

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Speaker 5: I'm proud that you doer got hurt drafted, Silo signed

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Speaker 5: as a free agent down in Tampa.

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Speaker 1: It's on the cracker. But see now, let me take

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Speaker 1: what handle now.

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Speaker 5: The yeah, oh and the celebration they had, man, which

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Speaker 5: shows he just wants to play football. Yeah, that's that

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Speaker 5: reaction that should do it them had was not the

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Speaker 5: reaction of an arrogant person.

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Speaker 9: Yeah, he said he was grateful for the opportunity, like

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Speaker 9: all the players that.

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Speaker 7: I love, legendary.

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Speaker 1: Yeah right.

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Speaker 7: I'm so glad you brought that up out, Steve, about

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Speaker 7: the black fathers, because that is not the narrative they

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Speaker 7: want out there that black fathers care about their families

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Speaker 7: and their children and they're there for them. You know,

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Speaker 7: that's not the narrative they want. They want the regular

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Speaker 7: stereotype that black fathers all we're doing their family.

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Speaker 5: It's what every other father wants to do for his family,

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Speaker 5: is to give your children a better life than the

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Speaker 5: one you had. Lebron James, and anybody mad at Lebron James,

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Speaker 5: you a sucker and a fool, And I don't care

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00:36:32,239 --> 00:36:34,880
Speaker 5: who you are, especially the black people that's got a

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Speaker 5: problem with that. Quit lock these sportscasts. Man, what is

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00:36:40,280 --> 00:36:41,240
Speaker 5: the matter with y'all?

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Speaker 1: True? That's right, that's absolutely well. So I just.

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Speaker 5: Appreciate the non blacks who got on board and understood

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Speaker 5: that also because it was two in your face.

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Speaker 1: Well, now what you're gonna do? Because now he's fit

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Speaker 1: to play?

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Speaker 5: And I'm telling you right now, it ain't four quarterback

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Speaker 5: on Cleveland team better than this boy.

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Speaker 1: I'll pay you that right now. Y'all got five of them? Bro,

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Speaker 1: you got fine? We need all five over too.

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Speaker 7: Coming up home after the hour more sports news. Junior

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Speaker 7: Shennon Sharp has stepped away from first take.

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Speaker 1: We'll talk about it after this.

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Speaker 7: You're listening Steve Harvey Morning Show.

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Speaker 7: Shed and Sharpen's chosen to take a leave of absence

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Speaker 7: from his co hosting job at ESPN's First Take in

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Speaker 7: light of his sexual assault and battery lawsuit by a

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Speaker 7: twenty two year old female that he said he is

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Speaker 7: said to have had a rocky two year consensual relationship with.

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Speaker 7: Last Thursday, Shannon issued this statement on Instagram. He said, quote,

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Speaker 7: my statement is found here, and this is the truth.

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Speaker 7: The relationship in question was one hundred percent consensual. At

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Speaker 7: this juncture, I'm electing to step aside temporarily from my

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Speaker 7: ESPN duties. I will be devoting this time to my

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Speaker 7: family and responding to and dealing with these false and

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Speaker 7: disruptive allegations set against me. I planned a return to

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Speaker 7: ESPN at the start of the NFL preseason.

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Speaker 5: That was his statement, Steve, you know, I hope for

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Speaker 5: his sake it works out exactly that way. Now, he

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Speaker 5: didn't step away just to handle this. That That wasn't volunteer.

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Speaker 8: Yeah, it was necessary.

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Speaker 5: Oh no, they went to him and said, we're gonna

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Speaker 5: give you a chance to step away. Just step away, right,

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Speaker 5: now or we're gonna have to, you know, because that's

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Speaker 5: the normal procedure.

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Speaker 1: Thing it is.

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Speaker 5: I have not cared the way man Stephen a man.

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Speaker 5: He did another take on this where he got up

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Speaker 5: from behind the desk and walked out to the front

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Speaker 5: to talk about this. And you know, I just wish

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Speaker 5: he would run some of his statements by somebody.

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Speaker 7: Person or no one or just himself.

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Speaker 1: But he needs some other counsel.

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Speaker 5: I can't explain it because he didn't really say anything

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Speaker 5: except now I'm talking about this. I'm not talking about

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Speaker 5: Shannon Shop, but you were talking exactly about Shannon Sharp

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Speaker 5: in your statement because you were talking about you don't

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Speaker 5: understand why these players are not understanding what's going on.

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Speaker 5: Then he's self absorbed. You know why you never see

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Speaker 5: anything like this going on about me. Careful, brother, careful.

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Speaker 5: You have to be careful because false accusations can happen

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Speaker 5: to anybody, and they can tie to some form of truth.

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Speaker 5: Now do I believe that Shannon Shop had a consensual

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Speaker 5: relationship with this person.

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Speaker 1: Absolutely.

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Speaker 5: The problem is this consensual relationship has a claim in

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Speaker 5: it of some force happening.

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Speaker 1: That's where his problem is.

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Speaker 5: It ain't the consensual and then a new little dude

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Speaker 5: or somebody coming out and that ain't what person's preference,

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Speaker 5: and all that is is not against the law. What's

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Speaker 5: against the law's force of any kind? You know, the

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Speaker 5: me too, that's the problem. And so I just wish

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Speaker 5: that date rape.

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Speaker 9: You could go out with somebody on a date and

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Speaker 9: you consented to have a date with them, but if

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Speaker 9: they poced themselves on you, then that's right. So just

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Speaker 9: because they had a consensual relationship that particular day, she

667
00:41:07,120 --> 00:41:08,279
Speaker 9: may have said no.

668
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Speaker 7: All right, Coming up next, we're gonna switch gears here.

669
00:41:13,600 --> 00:41:16,279
Speaker 7: Coming up next, we'll switch gears. We'll have more of

670
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Speaker 7: the Steve Harvey Morning Show right after this. You're listening

671
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Speaker 7: Steve Harvey Morning Show. Well, ladies and gentlemen, as promised,

672
00:41:28,400 --> 00:41:29,080
Speaker 7: she is here.

673
00:41:29,160 --> 00:41:33,520
Speaker 1: The one is happening to me?

674
00:41:36,160 --> 00:41:39,160
Speaker 2: Whoa what in the world.

675
00:41:38,920 --> 00:41:46,760
Speaker 1: Is happening to me? He lives. Hey, good mornings everyone, morning,

676
00:41:48,080 --> 00:41:51,640
Speaker 1: Good morning. What's going on today?

677
00:41:51,880 --> 00:41:55,920
Speaker 7: Well, I mean, we just of course celebrated Resurrection Day, Easter,

678
00:41:57,160 --> 00:42:00,840
Speaker 7: and of course wedding season. Sister O'Dell is around the corner,

679
00:42:01,000 --> 00:42:03,040
Speaker 7: and we wanted to talk to you about that because

680
00:42:03,040 --> 00:42:05,800
Speaker 7: you have had a few weddings. And how many times

681
00:42:05,840 --> 00:42:11,640
Speaker 7: exactly were you married? Le woo wow eleven e?

682
00:42:12,640 --> 00:42:19,120
Speaker 5: Well only two resulted in all? Just acycled I both differences?

683
00:42:19,880 --> 00:42:29,200
Speaker 1: Yes, the other one Cisterdell. They died. Oh you had

684
00:42:29,360 --> 00:42:33,919
Speaker 1: nine husband, it wasn't in shape. Well, can I tee

685
00:42:35,480 --> 00:42:36,000
Speaker 1: take care of you?

686
00:42:36,120 --> 00:42:41,640
Speaker 7: So were you cooking healthy meals for them at the

687
00:42:41,760 --> 00:42:42,760
Speaker 7: time when you were married?

688
00:42:43,800 --> 00:42:45,480
Speaker 1: How many all we all ate?

689
00:42:45,600 --> 00:42:45,799
Speaker 4: Say?

690
00:42:45,920 --> 00:42:47,680
Speaker 1: Thanks? Fried chicken, poak chops.

691
00:42:47,719 --> 00:42:47,959
Speaker 2: Mother?

692
00:42:48,680 --> 00:42:53,279
Speaker 5: You know grease, macaroni, cheese, corn bread.

693
00:42:53,480 --> 00:42:54,600
Speaker 7: Not considered healthy.

694
00:42:56,760 --> 00:43:00,160
Speaker 1: I'm still here. Know what I've been eating? Yes, you

695
00:43:00,239 --> 00:43:04,000
Speaker 1: still eat fried? Poor girl? I had I had a

696
00:43:04,120 --> 00:43:05,759
Speaker 1: kale salad New Year's Day?

697
00:43:06,640 --> 00:43:09,080
Speaker 7: Oh did you now that's healthy? That's healthy?

698
00:43:09,320 --> 00:43:12,880
Speaker 1: But I has one every quarter because it's April. Now

699
00:43:12,960 --> 00:43:15,640
Speaker 1: you're talking about jay. Well, let's time for another one.

700
00:43:15,640 --> 00:43:21,080
Speaker 1: I have them quarterly. You eat healthy quarterly? Okay? Oh no,

701
00:43:21,280 --> 00:43:23,799
Speaker 1: say that. I said I have a kale salad quarter.

702
00:43:23,800 --> 00:43:27,799
Speaker 7: Yes, ma'am. Well, kel is supposed to be healthy.

703
00:43:26,440 --> 00:43:27,000
Speaker 2: But it ain't.

704
00:43:27,040 --> 00:43:29,400
Speaker 5: It don't taste good though. You need square teeth to

705
00:43:29,400 --> 00:43:35,359
Speaker 5: eat kale and full leave chale is really a full

706
00:43:35,480 --> 00:43:39,759
Speaker 5: legged animal. Oh yeah, they had a kale saln. They

707
00:43:39,760 --> 00:43:40,640
Speaker 5: don't chop it up.

708
00:43:40,960 --> 00:43:45,920
Speaker 1: You can't do anything rough, that's right? Yeah? Yeah.

709
00:43:45,960 --> 00:43:49,480
Speaker 7: Well how long was your longest marriage, Sister Odell?

710
00:43:50,080 --> 00:43:55,600
Speaker 1: Twenty years? Oh he was good. Yeah for the history books, right,

711
00:43:55,800 --> 00:43:58,319
Speaker 1: three of them were six months. One of them he.

712
00:43:58,400 --> 00:43:58,960
Speaker 9: Died on.

713
00:44:04,719 --> 00:44:05,279
Speaker 4: Wedding night.

714
00:44:05,760 --> 00:44:06,840
Speaker 7: What happened?

715
00:44:06,920 --> 00:44:07,759
Speaker 1: Yeah, well, you know.

716
00:44:07,840 --> 00:44:10,759
Speaker 5: I'm a Christian, so we was practicing abstinist.

717
00:44:11,640 --> 00:44:14,399
Speaker 1: Uh absolute, yeah.

718
00:44:14,400 --> 00:44:17,279
Speaker 5: And then well it wasn't absentee wed night when I

719
00:44:17,360 --> 00:44:18,400
Speaker 5: showed up, I brung it.

720
00:44:20,000 --> 00:44:27,440
Speaker 1: That's had an at Wow, sister Hotel, what was down?

721
00:44:27,600 --> 00:44:28,799
Speaker 7: Huh?

722
00:44:29,480 --> 00:44:30,080
Speaker 1: Ray Olphus?

723
00:44:30,920 --> 00:44:33,880
Speaker 9: Oh okay, ray Opus.

724
00:44:34,600 --> 00:44:39,359
Speaker 7: So you're you're always in usherboard white, Sister Odell, always.

725
00:44:39,040 --> 00:44:43,719
Speaker 5: The missionary white. Missionary board wears blue.

726
00:44:44,200 --> 00:44:45,640
Speaker 7: Oh yes, ma'am, yes, ma'am.

727
00:44:45,760 --> 00:44:47,920
Speaker 1: So did you wear houses in white? Gloves?

728
00:44:47,920 --> 00:44:48,240
Speaker 4: Blood?

729
00:44:48,239 --> 00:44:49,680
Speaker 1: You ain't been in the churchen in a while? Hell

730
00:44:49,760 --> 00:44:51,080
Speaker 1: you sweeping?

731
00:44:51,160 --> 00:44:53,839
Speaker 7: No, no, ma'am. Did you wear white dresses to all

732
00:44:53,880 --> 00:44:57,120
Speaker 7: of your weddings? What as you're saying they don't wear

733
00:44:57,160 --> 00:44:59,360
Speaker 7: white if they've been married more than once or twice,

734
00:44:59,600 --> 00:44:59,920
Speaker 7: You know that.

735
00:45:00,719 --> 00:45:03,640
Speaker 1: Nobody said that. No, I won't white every single time

736
00:45:04,120 --> 00:45:07,080
Speaker 1: I was three? As you driven snow eleven times.

737
00:45:07,080 --> 00:45:10,360
Speaker 7: You were pure as the driven snow each time I.

738
00:45:10,480 --> 00:45:13,680
Speaker 5: Hunted my vile Sidney share and health good Richard Poe,

739
00:45:14,080 --> 00:45:18,160
Speaker 5: Yes to death to your partner. You you died, we parted,

740
00:45:18,840 --> 00:45:20,080
Speaker 5: I started, so hope a baby.

741
00:45:20,120 --> 00:45:21,480
Speaker 1: I don't bring the baggage with me.

742
00:45:23,400 --> 00:45:27,840
Speaker 5: The only thing I do is I've been married ninety

743
00:45:27,880 --> 00:45:28,800
Speaker 5: seven years.

744
00:45:30,120 --> 00:45:33,000
Speaker 7: Ninety seven years old but not old person.

745
00:45:33,080 --> 00:45:37,080
Speaker 9: You said, I'll keep a running total it guess, ma'am,

746
00:45:38,719 --> 00:45:39,480
Speaker 9: So you're single?

747
00:45:39,600 --> 00:45:42,800
Speaker 1: Now, won't you say? Tommy single and read it and mingle?

748
00:45:43,239 --> 00:45:46,719
Speaker 5: Oh, one hundred and thirteen is how old I mean

749
00:45:46,840 --> 00:45:48,040
Speaker 5: is if you really want to know?

750
00:45:48,760 --> 00:45:52,160
Speaker 7: Oh all right, okay, well thank you sister.

751
00:45:52,480 --> 00:45:54,880
Speaker 1: Listen Tommy, do I sign one hundred and thirteen?

752
00:45:55,040 --> 00:45:56,960
Speaker 2: Nope? Oh so good?

753
00:45:57,160 --> 00:45:59,239
Speaker 7: Thank you answered one.

754
00:45:59,200 --> 00:46:02,880
Speaker 1: Hundred and thirteen. You know, okay.

755
00:46:03,400 --> 00:46:05,560
Speaker 7: Coming up next to it is the Wait.

756
00:46:05,400 --> 00:46:09,279
Speaker 1: A minute, I'm changed. I'm not al I changed it now?

757
00:46:09,440 --> 00:46:13,359
Speaker 1: What are you now? I'm a shaver of two time.

758
00:46:15,719 --> 00:46:19,279
Speaker 7: Bring phone call with the nephew. You're listening to the

759
00:46:19,360 --> 00:46:26,560
Speaker 7: Steve Harvey Morning Show. Coming up at the top of

760
00:46:26,600 --> 00:46:29,440
Speaker 7: the hour, right about four minutes after it's my strawberry

761
00:46:29,480 --> 00:46:31,840
Speaker 7: letter for today. It's one of our favorites, and the

762
00:46:31,880 --> 00:46:35,560
Speaker 7: subject is my three way love affair. We'll get into

763
00:46:35,560 --> 00:46:37,440
Speaker 7: that and find out what that's all about just a

764
00:46:37,480 --> 00:46:40,920
Speaker 7: few but it's pretty self explanatory, right, My three way

765
00:46:41,000 --> 00:46:41,840
Speaker 7: love works.

766
00:46:41,880 --> 00:46:43,879
Speaker 1: If y'all weren't at it, you know it can work.

767
00:46:45,600 --> 00:46:52,359
Speaker 10: Ni Yo, Wait happened and he ain't taken here, ain't

768
00:46:52,400 --> 00:46:57,240
Speaker 10: taking now applications, so don't don't wow phone might be.

769
00:46:57,080 --> 00:47:00,520
Speaker 7: Finn't care one well and then talk to me. Okay,

770
00:47:00,719 --> 00:47:02,759
Speaker 7: all right, right now, the nephew is here. You're here

771
00:47:02,960 --> 00:47:05,120
Speaker 7: with today's prank phone. Call what you got for us?

772
00:47:05,160 --> 00:47:05,359
Speaker 5: Now?

773
00:47:05,719 --> 00:47:05,959
Speaker 1: Early.

774
00:47:06,040 --> 00:47:08,200
Speaker 10: You know, at these jobs, some of these ladies, you know,

775
00:47:09,120 --> 00:47:11,239
Speaker 10: come in there looking like this and looking like that,

776
00:47:11,360 --> 00:47:13,480
Speaker 10: and you know sometimes you just got to put them

777
00:47:13,520 --> 00:47:15,759
Speaker 10: to the side. So you know, this is this is

778
00:47:15,800 --> 00:47:18,400
Speaker 10: one of those situations. The title of this one is Mona,

779
00:47:19,160 --> 00:47:24,000
Speaker 10: you need to fix your appearance? Mona, are you okay?

780
00:47:24,200 --> 00:47:28,600
Speaker 10: I'm like what yeah? First of all, I'm a I'm

781
00:47:28,600 --> 00:47:31,880
Speaker 10: a I'm human resources. And second of all, I'm in

782
00:47:31,920 --> 00:47:37,600
Speaker 10: the prankster, so that gives me. Yeah, that overrides everything.

783
00:47:37,680 --> 00:47:41,920
Speaker 10: I'm the price. Oh yeah, Mona, you need to fix

784
00:47:42,560 --> 00:47:43,360
Speaker 10: your appearance.

785
00:47:43,440 --> 00:47:44,360
Speaker 1: You understand what I'm saying.

786
00:47:44,440 --> 00:47:46,840
Speaker 10: See, some of y'all come up in these offices and

787
00:47:46,880 --> 00:47:48,360
Speaker 10: you too, you're too top heavy.

788
00:47:48,560 --> 00:47:51,840
Speaker 1: You understand I'm saying, what your top here? Have you lost?

789
00:47:52,040 --> 00:47:52,360
Speaker 2: Okay?

790
00:47:52,440 --> 00:47:53,359
Speaker 7: Your borderline?

791
00:47:53,400 --> 00:47:54,120
Speaker 1: Now? Yeah?

792
00:47:56,280 --> 00:47:56,520
Speaker 4: Real?

793
00:47:56,760 --> 00:48:00,719
Speaker 1: Hrre that age all?

794
00:48:01,040 --> 00:48:01,239
Speaker 4: Yeah?

795
00:48:01,280 --> 00:48:04,880
Speaker 10: Tell me some of y'all too top heavy and it's listen, listen.

796
00:48:04,960 --> 00:48:05,880
Speaker 1: It's a distraction.

797
00:48:07,480 --> 00:48:12,960
Speaker 7: But you got a high butt. So now what o.

798
00:48:15,200 --> 00:48:17,520
Speaker 10: Y'all must like it? Ain't nobody anybody saying nothing about it.

799
00:48:17,600 --> 00:48:24,600
Speaker 10: Y'all must like it. It's evidently not. It's not bothering you.

800
00:48:24,760 --> 00:48:31,120
Speaker 1: It's bothering U. Well, Mona, are jobs? Mona is bothering us?

801
00:48:31,360 --> 00:48:33,000
Speaker 1: So let's address moment right now.

802
00:48:33,719 --> 00:48:35,720
Speaker 2: She's bothering you, Mona.

803
00:48:35,840 --> 00:48:37,200
Speaker 1: You need to fix your pearance.

804
00:48:37,320 --> 00:48:41,560
Speaker 6: Let's go cat dog Helloa. Hello, I'm trying to reach

805
00:48:41,600 --> 00:48:45,880
Speaker 6: a Mona. Please jesus her, Hi, how you doing? My

806
00:48:46,000 --> 00:48:50,120
Speaker 6: name is James over with the corporation. I'm with your

807
00:48:50,160 --> 00:48:52,880
Speaker 6: corporate wardrobe. You've been with the company for about eight

808
00:48:52,960 --> 00:48:54,480
Speaker 6: years now, Am I correct? Mona?

809
00:48:55,040 --> 00:48:55,200
Speaker 5: Yes?

810
00:48:55,239 --> 00:48:59,440
Speaker 6: Sir, okay, correct? Like I said, I'm from a corporate wardrobe.

811
00:49:00,040 --> 00:49:02,239
Speaker 6: Need to kind of give you a call. There's been

812
00:49:02,239 --> 00:49:04,200
Speaker 6: some conversation about it, but wanted to give you a

813
00:49:04,239 --> 00:49:09,560
Speaker 6: call about your appearance in the office. Okay, okay, now

814
00:49:10,480 --> 00:49:13,920
Speaker 6: your your your appearance seems to be pretty much intact

815
00:49:13,920 --> 00:49:16,200
Speaker 6: as far as your clothing is concerned. So it's nothing

816
00:49:16,239 --> 00:49:17,239
Speaker 6: that has nothing to do with that.

817
00:49:17,920 --> 00:49:18,400
Speaker 7: Okay.

818
00:49:18,840 --> 00:49:22,319
Speaker 12: Now, first of all, what are my parents have to

819
00:49:22,320 --> 00:49:24,440
Speaker 12: do with your corporation?

820
00:49:24,960 --> 00:49:27,440
Speaker 6: Well? What's going on? Like I said, you you've been

821
00:49:27,480 --> 00:49:30,160
Speaker 6: with court for about what eight years? Now? Am I right?

822
00:49:30,600 --> 00:49:31,040
Speaker 12: Yes, sir?

823
00:49:31,080 --> 00:49:32,360
Speaker 6: I have okay?

824
00:49:32,680 --> 00:49:36,719
Speaker 12: And you calling me telling me something by my kids?

825
00:49:37,040 --> 00:49:39,239
Speaker 6: Right? What I what I wanted to talk to you

826
00:49:39,280 --> 00:49:43,120
Speaker 6: about is that what what what some of the workers

827
00:49:43,120 --> 00:49:45,839
Speaker 6: in the office are having a problem with. And what

828
00:49:45,880 --> 00:49:47,880
Speaker 6: we want to do is get you an actual doctor's

829
00:49:47,880 --> 00:49:52,279
Speaker 6: appointment because we want to see about helping you get

830
00:49:52,920 --> 00:49:53,880
Speaker 6: a breast reduction.

831
00:49:54,640 --> 00:49:57,680
Speaker 12: Oh what reduction?

832
00:49:58,160 --> 00:49:58,480
Speaker 6: Okay?

833
00:49:58,520 --> 00:49:58,680
Speaker 5: Now?

834
00:49:58,719 --> 00:49:59,160
Speaker 4: You you?

835
00:49:59,160 --> 00:50:02,399
Speaker 6: You you mean from from my understanding that your your

836
00:50:02,440 --> 00:50:03,480
Speaker 6: breasts are too large?

837
00:50:04,360 --> 00:50:06,279
Speaker 12: Hold up, hold on, now who is this friend? Who was?

838
00:50:07,600 --> 00:50:09,880
Speaker 6: My name is James? Like I said, I'm with corporate

839
00:50:09,920 --> 00:50:13,160
Speaker 6: Wardrobe and I'm calling you actually pretty much from human

840
00:50:13,200 --> 00:50:14,520
Speaker 6: resources of corporation.

841
00:50:15,120 --> 00:50:17,360
Speaker 12: Okay, Now, if you ain't kind of hear by something

842
00:50:17,400 --> 00:50:21,040
Speaker 12: else certainly what we do here. So you calling me

843
00:50:21,120 --> 00:50:23,920
Speaker 12: telling me somebody giving me a breast reduction, what you

844
00:50:24,000 --> 00:50:26,240
Speaker 12: need to do is try and dig up slow, because

845
00:50:26,239 --> 00:50:28,560
Speaker 12: what I'm doing over in here, I'm gonna wear them.

846
00:50:28,960 --> 00:50:31,200
Speaker 12: They was over here and I'm gonna were them they

847
00:50:31,239 --> 00:50:32,200
Speaker 12: came out, I wear them.

848
00:50:32,200 --> 00:50:34,359
Speaker 6: Problem, Lona. All we want to do is we want

849
00:50:34,400 --> 00:50:36,560
Speaker 6: to get you a doctor's appointment so we can help

850
00:50:36,600 --> 00:50:39,440
Speaker 6: you get your get your breast reduced. So you know

851
00:50:39,560 --> 00:50:41,760
Speaker 6: you you'll feel a lot more comfortable and the people

852
00:50:41,760 --> 00:50:43,400
Speaker 6: in the office will be a lot more comfortable.

853
00:50:43,440 --> 00:50:46,200
Speaker 12: Okay, I'm not You ain't gonna do it. Man. You

854
00:50:46,200 --> 00:50:48,719
Speaker 12: ain't gonna come in and tell me some what y'all

855
00:50:48,760 --> 00:50:51,279
Speaker 12: gonna do to me? What you talking about? I'm even

856
00:50:51,360 --> 00:50:54,279
Speaker 12: just being this foremost eight years and I ain't never

857
00:50:54,360 --> 00:50:57,120
Speaker 12: had no problem when nobody's telling me something about my friends.

858
00:50:57,360 --> 00:50:59,800
Speaker 12: So what you need to do is find out who's

859
00:50:59,840 --> 00:51:02,399
Speaker 12: going around here making these rumors. And first of all,

860
00:51:02,400 --> 00:51:04,520
Speaker 12: I'm gonna dig up because if everyone's up in here

861
00:51:04,640 --> 00:51:06,719
Speaker 12: talking about me and you know, jealous because I'm on

862
00:51:06,840 --> 00:51:09,000
Speaker 12: top of my and they jealous of me, I'm on

863
00:51:09,239 --> 00:51:11,080
Speaker 12: you know, I'm on my ass and they round here

864
00:51:11,120 --> 00:51:11,959
Speaker 12: got top of my brain.

865
00:51:12,160 --> 00:51:14,480
Speaker 6: Look, ma'am, my job is to get your breast reduced.

866
00:51:14,600 --> 00:51:16,360
Speaker 6: I gotta get I gotta bring them down.

867
00:51:17,640 --> 00:51:21,200
Speaker 12: Big too. Can you reduce that? Excuse me, my big

868
00:51:21,239 --> 00:51:22,120
Speaker 12: Can you reduce that?

869
00:51:22,440 --> 00:51:25,120
Speaker 6: Ma'am? Listen, I gotta get your breast down to it.

870
00:51:25,239 --> 00:51:27,799
Speaker 6: I gotta get a death. I gotta bring them down.

871
00:51:28,640 --> 00:51:31,240
Speaker 12: What you're gonna get downe is that's what you're gonna

872
00:51:31,239 --> 00:51:35,239
Speaker 12: get done and start worrying about my break. So you

873
00:51:35,360 --> 00:51:38,600
Speaker 12: and whoever whoever calling you are telling you something about

874
00:51:38,680 --> 00:51:41,319
Speaker 12: what I'm doing at this desk, tell him, I said,

875
00:51:41,360 --> 00:51:43,479
Speaker 12: the kids mind to why do you do I'm gonna

876
00:51:43,520 --> 00:51:45,880
Speaker 12: do me? So they don't like that, then hey, how

877
00:51:46,000 --> 00:51:48,200
Speaker 12: at them? Because I'm ana find whoever doing it because

878
00:51:48,239 --> 00:51:50,960
Speaker 12: they jealous. I'm a bad They don't understand it, and

879
00:51:51,000 --> 00:51:51,839
Speaker 12: the man's come in.

880
00:51:52,000 --> 00:51:53,000
Speaker 6: What woo whoop?

881
00:51:53,040 --> 00:51:55,080
Speaker 12: When they come to who they come to my desk

882
00:51:55,080 --> 00:51:56,959
Speaker 12: and ask for who, they ask for me.

883
00:51:57,040 --> 00:51:59,680
Speaker 6: Mona mana, I understand that. But what I'm saying is

884
00:51:59,719 --> 00:52:02,319
Speaker 6: your brain started distraction in the office, and I gotta

885
00:52:02,360 --> 00:52:04,200
Speaker 6: get your breast brought down first.

886
00:52:04,280 --> 00:52:06,399
Speaker 12: While whoever you are you might need to come see

887
00:52:06,400 --> 00:52:08,560
Speaker 12: you sit up in the front of my head and

888
00:52:08,640 --> 00:52:10,520
Speaker 12: see how it look. You might want to come back

889
00:52:10,560 --> 00:52:11,040
Speaker 12: and bring.

890
00:52:10,920 --> 00:52:15,719
Speaker 6: Out your crew, Lona. I can't. I can't. I don't

891
00:52:15,719 --> 00:52:17,919
Speaker 6: want to come set your desk and see your your

892
00:52:18,000 --> 00:52:21,399
Speaker 6: your I gotta get you to a doctor and get

893
00:52:21,440 --> 00:52:23,800
Speaker 6: your breast reduced. Now to when you wanted a point.

894
00:52:23,719 --> 00:52:25,920
Speaker 12: I ain't gonna see No, I'm going.

895
00:52:25,760 --> 00:52:26,440
Speaker 4: To a dorty.

896
00:52:26,520 --> 00:52:28,240
Speaker 6: No, Mona, you're going to a doctor.

897
00:52:28,800 --> 00:52:31,440
Speaker 12: You bringing so he is? I ain't going no doctors.

898
00:52:31,760 --> 00:52:34,520
Speaker 12: What you talking about? The doctor whoever you mean to

899
00:52:34,520 --> 00:52:36,600
Speaker 12: go see? I ain't trying to hear yeh.

900
00:52:38,719 --> 00:52:41,359
Speaker 6: What I'm gonna do is they said you would act

901
00:52:41,400 --> 00:52:43,719
Speaker 6: like this, Mona. They said you would react just this way.

902
00:52:43,920 --> 00:52:45,840
Speaker 6: This is what the people in the office are talking about.

903
00:52:45,960 --> 00:52:48,480
Speaker 12: I don't give it what they I'll be in this company,

904
00:52:48,480 --> 00:52:50,640
Speaker 12: so I'm gonna pay years. I ain't no hand, nobody

905
00:52:50,719 --> 00:52:53,640
Speaker 12: counting me telling me something? My friend, what you need

906
00:52:53,680 --> 00:52:55,279
Speaker 12: to do. First of all, you need to come in

907
00:52:55,360 --> 00:52:57,439
Speaker 12: and see me because it might like what you see.

908
00:52:57,600 --> 00:53:01,919
Speaker 12: Because I'm a big bad bowl woman. You better year. Well,

909
00:53:02,400 --> 00:53:05,040
Speaker 12: what's your name? And now what's your what's your name?

910
00:53:05,400 --> 00:53:06,399
Speaker 6: Why do you need my name?

911
00:53:06,520 --> 00:53:08,160
Speaker 12: I don't need your names because I ain't never had

912
00:53:08,160 --> 00:53:11,240
Speaker 12: somebody to call my job to tell me some my bras.

913
00:53:11,280 --> 00:53:12,920
Speaker 12: I need to know your name because IM gonna get

914
00:53:13,000 --> 00:53:15,560
Speaker 12: some lobdy in this because I don't play this shit

915
00:53:15,640 --> 00:53:18,400
Speaker 12: I need. I don't play that. So whoever you is

916
00:53:18,480 --> 00:53:20,600
Speaker 12: and your carpet or whoever kind of by my breast,

917
00:53:21,000 --> 00:53:23,719
Speaker 12: I don't play that. I need your name, I really do,

918
00:53:23,840 --> 00:53:25,919
Speaker 12: because you don't. I'm gonna find out who this is.

919
00:53:27,800 --> 00:53:28,960
Speaker 6: Who do you want to know my name?

920
00:53:29,400 --> 00:53:31,600
Speaker 12: I want to know your name? Hell, y'all, I want

921
00:53:31,600 --> 00:53:32,799
Speaker 12: to know your name. What is it?

922
00:53:33,200 --> 00:53:36,920
Speaker 6: Are you listening? What is this? Is? Mess you Tommy

923
00:53:37,000 --> 00:53:39,960
Speaker 6: from the Steve Harby Morning Show. You just got pranked

924
00:53:40,040 --> 00:53:41,120
Speaker 6: by your girlfriend?

925
00:53:42,160 --> 00:53:47,759
Speaker 12: You what pres bigger than mine?

926
00:53:47,840 --> 00:53:48,000
Speaker 6: You know?

927
00:53:48,000 --> 00:53:52,880
Speaker 12: I try a limp? Me and y'all need to clean. Boy,

928
00:53:52,920 --> 00:53:53,719
Speaker 12: you're gonna make me go.

929
00:53:56,120 --> 00:53:56,279
Speaker 6: Right.

930
00:53:57,200 --> 00:54:02,600
Speaker 12: I can't believe it's in her breast bigger than mass.

931
00:54:02,719 --> 00:54:07,520
Speaker 12: And then she got a limp. I listened to this

932
00:54:07,640 --> 00:54:11,319
Speaker 12: show every morning, and I just can't believe I got

933
00:54:12,160 --> 00:54:15,279
Speaker 12: he said she did it, She got me, got me.

934
00:54:15,360 --> 00:54:17,560
Speaker 12: But I'm gonna catch her lips. I'm gonna catch the watching.

935
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Speaker 12: It's okay.

936
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Speaker 12: Maybe you already know that one and only Steve Harvey

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Speaker 12: Morning Show and Tom and guess what play on this

941
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Speaker 12: head phone. I just want to let you know. I'm

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Speaker 12: a side sixteen with a low cut.

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Speaker 2: And there you have it.

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Speaker 1: What is supposed to be for no reason though, but

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Speaker 7: All right, And if you thank you? Coming up next, Strawberry.

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Speaker 7: Letter of the subject is I'm sorry I'm blucked out

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Speaker 7: wake up my three way love affair. We'll get into

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974
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975
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Speaker 1: for you here. It is just strawberry letter.

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Speaker 7: Thank you, nephew. Subject my three way love affair. Dear

979
00:56:52,800 --> 00:56:55,840
Speaker 7: Stephen Shirley, I'm a forty year old married woman and

980
00:56:55,960 --> 00:56:59,160
Speaker 7: my husband and I have a sister friend that has

981
00:56:59,280 --> 00:57:01,600
Speaker 7: been a major part of my life since I was

982
00:57:01,680 --> 00:57:05,719
Speaker 7: seven years old. We did everything together, even went to

983
00:57:05,880 --> 00:57:08,959
Speaker 7: college the same college and graduated at the same time.

984
00:57:09,040 --> 00:57:12,600
Speaker 7: When I got engaged, she got engaged. Our fiancees didn't

985
00:57:12,600 --> 00:57:15,960
Speaker 7: get along, so my man would always take my bestie

986
00:57:16,120 --> 00:57:18,600
Speaker 7: side when she was having an issue with her fiance.

987
00:57:19,200 --> 00:57:22,040
Speaker 7: A few weeks after we got engaged, my man told

988
00:57:22,080 --> 00:57:24,840
Speaker 7: me that my besties man was cheating on her. I

989
00:57:25,040 --> 00:57:27,040
Speaker 7: was shocked and hurt when I saw the video of

990
00:57:27,080 --> 00:57:32,120
Speaker 7: her fiance asleep naked over his side chick's house. My

991
00:57:32,280 --> 00:57:35,000
Speaker 7: man and I decided not to tell her anything, but

992
00:57:35,240 --> 00:57:37,800
Speaker 7: then my man got really upset with the dude and

993
00:57:37,920 --> 00:57:41,000
Speaker 7: went out and went and told my bestie about the cheating.

994
00:57:41,440 --> 00:57:45,000
Speaker 7: She was so devastated she stayed with us for two

995
00:57:45,080 --> 00:57:48,680
Speaker 7: weeks and called off their engagement. So now that we're married,

996
00:57:48,800 --> 00:57:52,800
Speaker 7: she's part of our family. She travels with my husband, hubby,

997
00:57:52,880 --> 00:57:56,200
Speaker 7: and I, and she comes for weekly movie nights at

998
00:57:56,240 --> 00:57:59,360
Speaker 7: our house. She's dating again, and when she meets men,

999
00:58:00,200 --> 00:58:02,880
Speaker 7: she brings them to meet us so we can pass

1000
00:58:02,960 --> 00:58:06,320
Speaker 7: judgment on them. I've been noticing lately that my husband

1001
00:58:06,440 --> 00:58:09,360
Speaker 7: is more opinionated than usual, and none of the guys

1002
00:58:09,400 --> 00:58:12,000
Speaker 7: have been good enough for my bestie. That's a red

1003
00:58:12,040 --> 00:58:15,040
Speaker 7: flag for me. So I jokingly asked him if he'd

1004
00:58:15,160 --> 00:58:17,880
Speaker 7: like to clone himself so my bestie could be with

1005
00:58:18,040 --> 00:58:21,080
Speaker 7: a man just like him. He got very irritated with me,

1006
00:58:21,320 --> 00:58:23,640
Speaker 7: So I have been wondering if something is going on

1007
00:58:23,840 --> 00:58:27,080
Speaker 7: with him and my bestie. As a test, I told

1008
00:58:27,200 --> 00:58:30,080
Speaker 7: him that we're going on on an anniversary trip alone.

1009
00:58:30,560 --> 00:58:33,520
Speaker 7: He said it would be weird to leave my bestie out.

1010
00:58:34,040 --> 00:58:35,960
Speaker 7: I asked him if we are in a three way

1011
00:58:36,040 --> 00:58:38,920
Speaker 7: love affair. He laughed it off and said no, But

1012
00:58:39,080 --> 00:58:45,360
Speaker 7: does he really care about her feelings? What's going on here? Well, yeah,

1013
00:58:47,120 --> 00:58:50,120
Speaker 7: he does care about her feelings, as do you. I

1014
00:58:50,240 --> 00:58:52,840
Speaker 7: mean you called her your sister friend. You guys have

1015
00:58:52,920 --> 00:58:57,800
Speaker 7: been together since seven years old, So yeah, he cares

1016
00:58:57,800 --> 00:59:01,120
Speaker 7: about her for sure, and if you ask me, he's

1017
00:59:01,160 --> 00:59:05,560
Speaker 7: certainly acting like a guilty, jealous man when she brings

1018
00:59:05,640 --> 00:59:09,400
Speaker 7: other men around. I'm very surprised it took you so

1019
00:59:09,560 --> 00:59:12,040
Speaker 7: long to notice the red flag. I think there have

1020
00:59:12,120 --> 00:59:16,040
Speaker 7: been several First, and most importantly, when you guys agreed

1021
00:59:16,320 --> 00:59:19,080
Speaker 7: when you and your husband agreed not to tell your bestie.

1022
00:59:19,480 --> 00:59:23,320
Speaker 7: He's the one who told about the cheating. That's a

1023
00:59:23,400 --> 00:59:27,280
Speaker 7: major red flag. That's not really what men do. They

1024
00:59:27,320 --> 00:59:32,080
Speaker 7: don't snitch on each other. Now, he's so concerned about

1025
00:59:32,120 --> 00:59:35,439
Speaker 7: her and who she dates. You guys have movie nights

1026
00:59:35,480 --> 00:59:39,040
Speaker 7: together and she travels with you. What your feeling is right?

1027
00:59:39,400 --> 00:59:42,280
Speaker 7: You know it is a three way love affair. Who

1028
00:59:42,600 --> 00:59:45,920
Speaker 7: or what couple do you know whose husband can behave?

1029
00:59:46,480 --> 00:59:49,720
Speaker 7: How your husband is behaving about her and that there's

1030
00:59:49,840 --> 00:59:53,360
Speaker 7: nothing going on. Just think about that. He's doing way

1031
00:59:53,480 --> 00:59:55,360
Speaker 7: too much when it comes to her, and you need

1032
00:59:55,480 --> 00:59:57,920
Speaker 7: to check them both. You don't have to catch them

1033
00:59:57,960 --> 00:59:59,840
Speaker 7: in the act or anything like that to know what

1034
01:00:00,160 --> 01:00:03,600
Speaker 7: going on. You already suspect them anyway. So I say

1035
01:00:03,680 --> 01:00:05,720
Speaker 7: you confront them and get it over with.

1036
01:00:06,240 --> 01:00:06,520
Speaker 10: Steve.

1037
01:00:07,280 --> 01:00:12,560
Speaker 5: Wow, Well, it's interesting. It's an interesting letter. I will

1038
01:00:12,640 --> 01:00:17,760
Speaker 5: say this about women. Most of the time what you

1039
01:00:18,120 --> 01:00:24,080
Speaker 5: feel is real. Most of the time, it's because God

1040
01:00:24,200 --> 01:00:26,680
Speaker 5: gifted you all with this thing called intuition.

1041
01:00:26,920 --> 01:00:28,560
Speaker 1: He gave it to you more than he gave it

1042
01:00:28,640 --> 01:00:32,560
Speaker 1: to me. Women are born with it. You should trust

1043
01:00:32,600 --> 01:00:34,560
Speaker 1: it and lean on it. So usually what you think

1044
01:00:34,680 --> 01:00:37,880
Speaker 1: or feel is usually real. You're a forty year old

1045
01:00:37,960 --> 01:00:40,720
Speaker 1: married women. Your husband and I have a sister, Fred.

1046
01:00:42,520 --> 01:00:46,320
Speaker 1: That's interesting. That's been a major part of my life

1047
01:00:46,400 --> 01:00:47,360
Speaker 1: since I was seven.

1048
01:00:48,200 --> 01:00:52,760
Speaker 5: We did everything together. This is very important in this

1049
01:00:52,880 --> 01:00:58,479
Speaker 5: whole letter. We did everything together. Now pay attention to y'all.

1050
01:00:59,240 --> 01:01:05,200
Speaker 5: Even when to the same college, graduated at the same time.

1051
01:01:07,000 --> 01:01:14,640
Speaker 5: When I got engaged, she got engaged. That's everything dies. Everything.

1052
01:01:15,760 --> 01:01:19,280
Speaker 5: Our fiances didn't get along, so my man would always

1053
01:01:19,400 --> 01:01:22,320
Speaker 5: take my best dee side when she was having an

1054
01:01:22,400 --> 01:01:27,520
Speaker 5: issue with her fiance. A few weeks after we got engaged,

1055
01:01:28,400 --> 01:01:32,480
Speaker 5: my man told me that my besties man was cheating

1056
01:01:32,560 --> 01:01:37,200
Speaker 5: on her. I was shocked and hurt when I saw

1057
01:01:37,320 --> 01:01:42,920
Speaker 5: the video of her fiance asleep naked over his side

1058
01:01:43,040 --> 01:01:43,720
Speaker 5: chick's house.

1059
01:01:45,320 --> 01:01:48,320
Speaker 1: Stop, wait a minute, what? Wait a minute.

1060
01:01:51,640 --> 01:01:56,640
Speaker 5: You're saying that your man told you that your besties

1061
01:01:56,760 --> 01:02:00,280
Speaker 5: man was cheating on her, and then right after that

1062
01:02:00,400 --> 01:02:03,240
Speaker 5: you said, I'm shocked and hurt when I saw the

1063
01:02:04,000 --> 01:02:07,840
Speaker 5: video of her fiance a sleep naked over his side

1064
01:02:07,960 --> 01:02:12,800
Speaker 5: chick's house. Where your man get the video from? What

1065
01:02:13,000 --> 01:02:20,440
Speaker 5: did your man get the video from? Now, let's just

1066
01:02:20,560 --> 01:02:22,320
Speaker 5: do some hood logicill.

1067
01:02:23,480 --> 01:02:25,120
Speaker 1: One of two things was happening.

1068
01:02:27,480 --> 01:02:36,600
Speaker 5: Either the fiance who don't get along, Hello, the fiances

1069
01:02:36,640 --> 01:02:42,680
Speaker 5: that don't get along. He gave your husband the video, like, hey,

1070
01:02:42,920 --> 01:02:48,840
Speaker 5: check me out all your husband made the video. Maybe

1071
01:02:48,880 --> 01:02:56,880
Speaker 5: two things can happen. Maybe two things can happen. Hello, Hello, y'all,

1072
01:02:56,920 --> 01:02:57,800
Speaker 5: do everything young?

1073
01:02:57,920 --> 01:03:01,959
Speaker 1: Hello, Bobby, all that thought.

1074
01:03:02,040 --> 01:03:05,120
Speaker 7: We'll have part two of your response coming up at

1075
01:03:05,200 --> 01:03:08,200
Speaker 7: twenty three minutes after the hour. Today's Strawberry letter subject

1076
01:03:08,280 --> 01:03:11,960
Speaker 7: my three way love affair. We'll get back into it

1077
01:03:12,120 --> 01:03:20,920
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Speaker 7: All right, come on, Steve, let's recap today's Strawberry letter.

1087
01:03:51,680 --> 01:03:55,200
Speaker 7: The subject is my three way love affair.

1088
01:03:55,120 --> 01:03:58,160
Speaker 5: Forty you old marywoman and husband. They have a sister

1089
01:03:58,240 --> 01:04:00,720
Speaker 5: free what is a husband now? But we're gonna take

1090
01:04:00,760 --> 01:04:02,800
Speaker 5: you on this journey and the sister friend have been

1091
01:04:02,800 --> 01:04:04,000
Speaker 5: a major part of this woman's life.

1092
01:04:04,080 --> 01:04:06,000
Speaker 1: And tell your seven they do everything together. Keep that

1093
01:04:06,120 --> 01:04:06,439
Speaker 1: in mind.

1094
01:04:06,680 --> 01:04:09,000
Speaker 5: Even went to the same college, graduated at the same time.

1095
01:04:09,040 --> 01:04:12,840
Speaker 5: When I got engaged, she got engaged. Our fiances didn't

1096
01:04:12,880 --> 01:04:16,960
Speaker 5: get along, so my man, which is her fiance the

1097
01:04:17,080 --> 01:04:20,040
Speaker 5: writer of this letter, would always take my bestie side

1098
01:04:20,080 --> 01:04:22,840
Speaker 5: when she was having an issue with her fiance. Now,

1099
01:04:22,920 --> 01:04:28,000
Speaker 5: a few weeks after everybody got engaged, my man told.

1100
01:04:27,800 --> 01:04:30,080
Speaker 1: Me that my besties man was cheating on her.

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Speaker 5: I was shocking hurt when I saw the video of

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Speaker 5: her fiance asleep naked over his side chick's house. I'm confused,

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Speaker 5: where did your man get this video from? Because they

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01:04:48,160 --> 01:04:52,720
Speaker 5: don't get along, the two fiances don't get along, and

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01:04:52,880 --> 01:04:54,760
Speaker 5: the two fiances don't.

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Speaker 1: Like each other. He always siding with the girl. Where

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Speaker 1: did he get the video?

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Speaker 5: Because of if I don't like a dude that we

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01:05:01,320 --> 01:05:03,800
Speaker 5: ain't cool, why would I show him a video of

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01:05:03,960 --> 01:05:05,840
Speaker 5: me or sleep over another chick's house?

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01:05:06,160 --> 01:05:09,520
Speaker 1: What purpose did that, sir, unless your man was there

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01:05:09,920 --> 01:05:17,560
Speaker 1: and took you hit him? Crick Did you hit him? Crickets?

1113
01:05:17,640 --> 01:05:18,000
Speaker 1: Just nothing?

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01:05:19,560 --> 01:05:22,320
Speaker 5: I got you thinking, ain't nothing. My man and I

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01:05:22,520 --> 01:05:25,640
Speaker 5: decided not to tell her anything. But then my man

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01:05:25,760 --> 01:05:28,520
Speaker 5: got really upset with the dude and went and told

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01:05:28,600 --> 01:05:30,320
Speaker 5: my bestie about the cheats.

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01:05:30,920 --> 01:05:36,400
Speaker 1: Like Shirley said, what man do that? What man does that?

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Speaker 5: She was so devastated she stayed with us for two

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Speaker 5: weeks and called off her engagement. So now that we're married,

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01:05:43,880 --> 01:05:46,880
Speaker 5: now y'all married. Now she's part of our family. She

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01:05:47,080 --> 01:05:50,120
Speaker 5: travels with my husband and our husband and I. She

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01:05:50,280 --> 01:05:56,600
Speaker 5: comes for weekly movie nights in our house. She's dating again,

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01:05:57,000 --> 01:06:00,760
Speaker 5: which means that she ain't got no probably meeting men.

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01:06:01,160 --> 01:06:03,080
Speaker 5: But check this out, and when she meets me, and

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01:06:03,160 --> 01:06:04,960
Speaker 5: she brings them to meet us, so we can pass

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01:06:05,040 --> 01:06:07,600
Speaker 5: judgment on her. So it don't take this chick long

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01:06:07,760 --> 01:06:10,919
Speaker 5: to meet men, because she ain't got no problem meeting men.

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Speaker 5: So I'm assuming that your girl is attractive, and I

1130
01:06:15,400 --> 01:06:20,880
Speaker 5: think your girl is attractive to your husband, so attractive

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01:06:20,920 --> 01:06:26,680
Speaker 5: that he wants her around everywhere. So now y'all traveling together,

1132
01:06:28,200 --> 01:06:32,920
Speaker 5: y'all doing movie nights at the house. I've been noticing,

1133
01:06:33,040 --> 01:06:36,160
Speaker 5: lady that my husband is more opinionated than usual, and

1134
01:06:36,280 --> 01:06:38,720
Speaker 5: none of the guys have been good enough for my besties.

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01:06:39,600 --> 01:06:41,000
Speaker 1: That's a red flag for me.

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01:06:42,760 --> 01:06:44,480
Speaker 5: I had a lady on my talk show one time

1137
01:06:44,560 --> 01:06:49,959
Speaker 5: said women should stop collecting red flags. It's a red

1138
01:06:50,080 --> 01:06:52,600
Speaker 5: flag for a reason. Stop collecting them. But you don't

1139
01:06:52,640 --> 01:06:55,120
Speaker 5: put this one in the backseat of the car. So

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01:06:55,280 --> 01:06:59,440
Speaker 5: I jokingly asked him, I'm joke, you know, would you

1141
01:06:59,600 --> 01:07:02,000
Speaker 5: like to on yourself so your bessie could be with

1142
01:07:02,080 --> 01:07:05,680
Speaker 5: a man just like him? He got irritated with me,

1143
01:07:05,920 --> 01:07:08,080
Speaker 5: So I've been wondering if something is going on with

1144
01:07:08,200 --> 01:07:11,960
Speaker 5: him and my bestie. As a test, I told him

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01:07:11,960 --> 01:07:14,960
Speaker 5: that we're going on our anniversary trip alone. He said

1146
01:07:15,000 --> 01:07:17,360
Speaker 5: it'd be weird to leave your bestie out. I asked

1147
01:07:17,440 --> 01:07:19,200
Speaker 5: him if we were in a three way love affair.

1148
01:07:19,480 --> 01:07:21,960
Speaker 5: He laughed at off and said no, but he does

1149
01:07:22,120 --> 01:07:27,240
Speaker 5: really care about her feeling. What's going on here? Okay, okay, okay,

1150
01:07:27,320 --> 01:07:27,720
Speaker 5: you ready?

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01:07:28,080 --> 01:07:28,560
Speaker 1: You ready?

1152
01:07:28,920 --> 01:07:32,800
Speaker 5: What you think going on? Because that's what you wrote

1153
01:07:32,800 --> 01:07:37,160
Speaker 5: the letter for. Usually what women think and feel is

1154
01:07:37,280 --> 01:07:40,280
Speaker 5: the deal. I've said that.

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01:07:42,520 --> 01:07:42,680
Speaker 1: Now.

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01:07:44,920 --> 01:07:49,120
Speaker 5: The fact that this whole letter took you this long

1157
01:07:49,240 --> 01:07:52,200
Speaker 5: to write, and then your last question is what's going

1158
01:07:52,280 --> 01:07:58,160
Speaker 5: on here? It's really amazing to me now when he said,

1159
01:07:58,560 --> 01:08:01,440
Speaker 5: when you told him y'all was going on anniversary trip alone,

1160
01:08:02,080 --> 01:08:05,320
Speaker 5: and he said it'd be weird to leave my bestie out, ask.

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01:08:05,240 --> 01:08:07,760
Speaker 1: Him if we are in a three way love affairs. Yeah,

1162
01:08:07,880 --> 01:08:12,360
Speaker 1: that's what. Yeah, that's what you're wan. That's what you wan.

1163
01:08:14,320 --> 01:08:16,400
Speaker 1: But you know you got to be careful what you

1164
01:08:16,520 --> 01:08:18,439
Speaker 1: say and let come out your mouth. You did say,

1165
01:08:18,479 --> 01:08:22,920
Speaker 1: y'all do everything to Kevin Day, that's what you said.

1166
01:08:25,280 --> 01:08:28,880
Speaker 5: Didn't y'all invite this third party into y'all's life and home?

1167
01:08:30,960 --> 01:08:35,600
Speaker 1: Don't she go on all the trips with y'all and

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01:08:35,720 --> 01:08:36,439
Speaker 1: she eager to go.

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01:08:36,600 --> 01:08:39,400
Speaker 5: She don'll never say, girl, y'all do y'all y'all need

1170
01:08:39,479 --> 01:08:40,960
Speaker 5: some boot time. I ain't even to go up there

1171
01:08:40,960 --> 01:08:44,240
Speaker 5: and be no third wheel, because that's what most people say. Girl.

1172
01:08:44,320 --> 01:08:45,960
Speaker 5: Let me sitting up and having no dinner with y'all

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01:08:46,040 --> 01:08:47,760
Speaker 5: and everything, and I'm the only one. I ain't got

1174
01:08:47,800 --> 01:08:50,160
Speaker 5: no man. Well, she ain't saying that because she got

1175
01:08:50,240 --> 01:08:56,000
Speaker 5: a man. Yeah, because when he go down there to

1176
01:08:56,040 --> 01:08:58,600
Speaker 5: get the coffee, where do you think he stopped.

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01:09:00,960 --> 01:09:02,720
Speaker 1: When he go to the gym and the spa on

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01:09:02,800 --> 01:09:03,120
Speaker 1: the trip.

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01:09:03,240 --> 01:09:04,960
Speaker 5: Well, who you think at the gym in the spa

1180
01:09:05,840 --> 01:09:10,240
Speaker 5: his gym work getting done in that other room. Let

1181
01:09:10,320 --> 01:09:12,280
Speaker 5: me ask you another question. You ever noticed that the

1182
01:09:12,600 --> 01:09:14,880
Speaker 5: two of y'all ain't ever alone together. I'm talking about you.

1183
01:09:14,840 --> 01:09:20,519
Speaker 1: And your girlfriend. You ever noticed that? Oh? Wow, uh huh?

1184
01:09:21,280 --> 01:09:22,519
Speaker 1: You have you picked that game?

1185
01:09:23,280 --> 01:09:25,080
Speaker 5: When y'all go on the trips, it ain't ever you

1186
01:09:25,160 --> 01:09:27,160
Speaker 5: and your girl going down for coffee or tea. He

1187
01:09:27,240 --> 01:09:30,479
Speaker 5: always going somewhere by hisself. But you don't see her.

1188
01:09:30,800 --> 01:09:32,519
Speaker 5: She don't cause girl says he's going to the gym.

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01:09:32,560 --> 01:09:35,400
Speaker 5: I'm gonna come on up now because the gym work

1190
01:09:35,439 --> 01:09:41,679
Speaker 5: getting done in her room. Push up, push ups, sit ups,

1191
01:09:41,880 --> 01:09:45,200
Speaker 5: pull ups, jumping jacks, longing climbers.

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01:09:46,160 --> 01:09:48,920
Speaker 1: Yeah, you know a lot of cardio, Yeah, a lot

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01:09:49,000 --> 01:09:52,240
Speaker 1: of cardio. Knee beings right, big overs, a lot of

1194
01:09:52,360 --> 01:10:00,800
Speaker 1: downward dogs. We're doing Yoga's.

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Speaker 7: Strawberry Letter and Instagram and Facebook. Steve HARVEYSM dot com

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01:10:01,760 --> 01:10:05,120
Speaker 7: and check out the Strawberry Letter podcast down out coming

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01:10:05,200 --> 01:10:07,759
Speaker 7: up at forty six minutes after the hour. It's Junior

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01:10:07,880 --> 01:10:11,000
Speaker 7: and Sports talk right after this you're listening to the

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Speaker 7: Steve Harvey Morning Show.

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Speaker 1: Folks, there are a lot of reasons to like Hyundais.

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01:10:20,520 --> 01:10:24,200
Speaker 5: Hyundai's done a lot to support American consumers. I mean,

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01:10:24,680 --> 01:10:28,160
Speaker 5: they announced their investment of twenty one billion dollars in

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01:10:28,240 --> 01:10:30,920
Speaker 5: the United States over the next three years that will

1204
01:10:30,960 --> 01:10:34,440
Speaker 5: expand manufacturing and create more jobs for Americans.

1205
01:10:34,600 --> 01:10:37,320
Speaker 10: And they just announced that they will not be raising

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01:10:37,560 --> 01:10:41,559
Speaker 10: MSRP through June second, no matter what, call five six

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Speaker 10: two three one four forty six zero three for more details.

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Speaker 7: It is time now for junior and sports talk. What

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01:10:50,160 --> 01:10:50,840
Speaker 7: you got junior?

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01:10:51,160 --> 01:10:54,040
Speaker 8: Well, Hirlott, let's just talk about shador Standers was the

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01:10:54,120 --> 01:10:56,920
Speaker 8: one hundred and forty fourth pick of the Cleveland.

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Speaker 1: Browns in the fifth round. All right, let's go, come

1213
01:11:00,760 --> 01:11:05,000
Speaker 1: on Cleveland, and let's let's just talk about it. Fifth round.

1214
01:11:05,280 --> 01:11:07,879
Speaker 1: He slid four rounds drafted on Saturday.

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01:11:08,400 --> 01:11:11,080
Speaker 8: Was this a message not just for him, but was

1216
01:11:11,200 --> 01:11:13,880
Speaker 8: this a message that the NFL was sending to you

1217
01:11:14,040 --> 01:11:17,160
Speaker 8: have to be humble or your attitude or everything else?

1218
01:11:17,479 --> 01:11:19,480
Speaker 1: How it looked for everybody.

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01:11:19,200 --> 01:11:22,120
Speaker 8: Else to say, Okay, come on, now, he's arrogant, he's this,

1220
01:11:22,400 --> 01:11:24,320
Speaker 8: he's that you know, we don't we don't want that

1221
01:11:24,479 --> 01:11:27,400
Speaker 8: type of attitude. But you use his name all the

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01:11:27,400 --> 01:11:29,080
Speaker 8: way up to the draft, you put him in all

1223
01:11:29,080 --> 01:11:32,160
Speaker 8: the commercials for the draft, you use him all the way.

1224
01:11:32,080 --> 01:11:34,120
Speaker 1: Up till the draft day. To let him sit to

1225
01:11:34,200 --> 01:11:35,680
Speaker 1: the fifth day, I mean to the third day.

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01:11:36,400 --> 01:11:41,679
Speaker 5: There. Have you ever seen anybody watch round three, never

1227
01:11:42,439 --> 01:11:44,839
Speaker 5: say four five of the draft.

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01:11:45,240 --> 01:11:49,719
Speaker 1: I've never seen that. I've never seen ratings. I never watched.

1229
01:11:52,520 --> 01:11:55,599
Speaker 1: But you know it was it was obvious collusion. There

1230
01:11:55,720 --> 01:11:57,360
Speaker 1: is no other way to look at this.

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01:11:57,560 --> 01:12:02,280
Speaker 5: It's no way thirty one teams passed on him full times.

1232
01:12:03,320 --> 01:12:06,320
Speaker 5: That's just doesn't make any sense. He was too high

1233
01:12:06,439 --> 01:12:10,200
Speaker 5: on the on the depth chart in everybody's pre draft.

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01:12:10,680 --> 01:12:14,200
Speaker 5: That was nothing on his field or off the field

1235
01:12:14,320 --> 01:12:17,559
Speaker 5: actions that should have caused ulde. This was the owners

1236
01:12:17,600 --> 01:12:19,760
Speaker 5: got together and did what the owners do to show

1237
01:12:19,800 --> 01:12:23,479
Speaker 5: that they're powerful. And you know, stop thinking that we're

1238
01:12:23,479 --> 01:12:26,360
Speaker 5: sitting up in there creating some another theory.

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01:12:26,479 --> 01:12:30,200
Speaker 1: No, we just recognize that we've seen it before. So that's.

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01:12:33,080 --> 01:12:39,800
Speaker 5: But thet But the blessing is he has a deal

1241
01:12:39,920 --> 01:12:44,200
Speaker 5: in place already. You know, he made money in college,

1242
01:12:44,560 --> 01:12:46,720
Speaker 5: you know, and and so he has a deal and

1243
01:12:47,360 --> 01:12:50,439
Speaker 5: he'll be fine. But he finished, he finish show. These people,

1244
01:12:50,520 --> 01:12:54,559
Speaker 5: so Lord, no, I couldn't figure out.

1245
01:12:54,720 --> 01:12:57,480
Speaker 10: I couldn't figure out if they if they were targeting

1246
01:12:57,760 --> 01:12:59,280
Speaker 10: the door or what they're targeting.

1247
01:12:59,360 --> 01:13:03,880
Speaker 1: His fought. It's the same thing. Yeah, it's the same thing.

1248
01:13:05,160 --> 01:13:08,280
Speaker 7: And shout out to good fathers, black fathers everywhere.

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01:13:08,479 --> 01:13:12,000
Speaker 1: Shout out to them. It's the exact same thing what

1250
01:13:12,160 --> 01:13:15,599
Speaker 1: they did, and and and and shout out to good uncles.

1251
01:13:15,640 --> 01:13:15,760
Speaker 6: Man.

1252
01:13:15,800 --> 01:13:18,120
Speaker 1: Because when I get this show and it's man, don't

1253
01:13:18,120 --> 01:13:22,840
Speaker 1: get upset. That is my show. You know what I'm saying.

1254
01:13:23,120 --> 01:13:26,439
Speaker 1: You don't get man, Timmy the show. Yeah, he left

1255
01:13:26,479 --> 01:13:29,360
Speaker 1: Tommy the Show. You're not gonna have a draft anything.

1256
01:13:29,920 --> 01:13:32,000
Speaker 1: Ain't no draft with this radio. But that's not happening now.

1257
01:13:33,160 --> 01:13:37,040
Speaker 2: First round, second round, right away.

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01:13:36,920 --> 01:13:42,880
Speaker 1: It's immediate, you know what. I think that may be

1259
01:13:43,120 --> 01:13:46,200
Speaker 1: some potential there, but I just want you to know

1260
01:13:47,720 --> 01:13:49,400
Speaker 1: that will be a fee attached.

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Speaker 7: Coming over to the top of the hour, my wife

1262
01:13:54,439 --> 01:13:57,160
Speaker 7: thinks her husband is less affectionate now because she makes

1263
01:13:57,200 --> 01:13:59,760
Speaker 7: more money than him. We'll talk about it. She needs

1264
01:13:59,800 --> 01:14:02,840
Speaker 7: some advice. Right after this, you're listening to the Steve

1265
01:14:03,000 --> 01:14:09,400
Speaker 7: Harvey Morning Show. All right, Steve, this one is from

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01:14:09,520 --> 01:14:12,680
Speaker 7: Shiva in Tallahassee. Shiva says, I'm a nurse and I'm

1267
01:14:12,760 --> 01:14:16,360
Speaker 7: on my feet all day. My husband used to rub

1268
01:14:16,439 --> 01:14:19,160
Speaker 7: my feet and run my backwater when we first got married,

1269
01:14:19,240 --> 01:14:21,320
Speaker 7: but now he barely kisses me when I walk in.

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01:14:22,040 --> 01:14:24,720
Speaker 7: He's been demoted at work, and I think he's resentful

1271
01:14:24,800 --> 01:14:28,880
Speaker 7: of me because I make more money. Do I need

1272
01:14:28,960 --> 01:14:31,439
Speaker 7: to address this or should I let him work through

1273
01:14:31,520 --> 01:14:32,800
Speaker 7: this on his own?

1274
01:14:34,240 --> 01:14:37,560
Speaker 1: Well you should address it, but not in the what

1275
01:14:37,720 --> 01:14:39,040
Speaker 1: can you do for me lately?

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01:14:39,160 --> 01:14:42,920
Speaker 5: Thing. Just find out what's going on with him and

1277
01:14:43,040 --> 01:14:45,280
Speaker 5: then he may come around back to what he used

1278
01:14:45,280 --> 01:14:48,000
Speaker 5: to be. But obviously something is going on with him,

1279
01:14:48,040 --> 01:14:50,479
Speaker 5: and he's picked it up as a wife, so you

1280
01:14:50,560 --> 01:14:52,639
Speaker 5: know he's got it demoted. You know it might affected

1281
01:14:52,720 --> 01:14:55,120
Speaker 5: him some kind of way. So why don't you talk

1282
01:14:55,160 --> 01:14:57,360
Speaker 5: about that. You know you're getting your feet love and

1283
01:14:57,520 --> 01:15:01,000
Speaker 5: when your bathwater rent. If you make that the issue,

1284
01:15:01,000 --> 01:15:03,800
Speaker 5: you're gonna throw him on the defense, and in his mind,

1285
01:15:03,840 --> 01:15:06,559
Speaker 5: he gonna go, it's always about her. She don't never

1286
01:15:06,760 --> 01:15:08,840
Speaker 5: know what's going on with me, So you gotta be

1287
01:15:08,920 --> 01:15:11,439
Speaker 5: careful right here. So that's my suggestion.

1288
01:15:12,320 --> 01:15:15,200
Speaker 7: All right, we have time for another one. This one

1289
01:15:15,320 --> 01:15:19,920
Speaker 7: is from Clark and Richmond. I'm dating two women, Clark says,

1290
01:15:19,960 --> 01:15:22,120
Speaker 7: and I want to get married, but I don't know

1291
01:15:22,240 --> 01:15:25,519
Speaker 7: if I can make the best choice. What should I

1292
01:15:25,560 --> 01:15:28,080
Speaker 7: look for in a wife? What characteristics are the most

1293
01:15:28,120 --> 01:15:30,000
Speaker 7: important when I make my decisions?

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01:15:30,000 --> 01:15:33,439
Speaker 1: Hey, br you know that you don't need to be married.

1295
01:15:34,840 --> 01:15:36,000
Speaker 1: I'm gonna tell you that right now.

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01:15:36,160 --> 01:15:36,760
Speaker 7: He's not ready.

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01:15:37,160 --> 01:15:39,680
Speaker 5: Yeah, you won't even know what you won't and I

1298
01:15:39,800 --> 01:15:42,479
Speaker 5: can't give it to you in a phone call. You're

1299
01:15:42,520 --> 01:15:46,880
Speaker 5: not ready to get married because you I mean in

1300
01:15:47,000 --> 01:15:50,280
Speaker 5: this this radio show. I mean, you know I can't.

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01:15:50,640 --> 01:15:52,559
Speaker 5: What should I be looking for in a wife? Bru

1302
01:15:52,640 --> 01:15:53,800
Speaker 5: You're not ready to get married.

1303
01:15:53,880 --> 01:15:56,559
Speaker 7: He should already know that if he's thinking about getting married.

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01:15:57,160 --> 01:15:57,400
Speaker 1: Bruh.

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01:15:57,439 --> 01:16:00,880
Speaker 5: It ain't about choosing between these two either. One you

1306
01:16:00,960 --> 01:16:06,479
Speaker 5: don't know what you want, and then marriage ain't just

1307
01:16:06,600 --> 01:16:12,120
Speaker 5: about what you want. What can you offer these two women? See,

1308
01:16:12,160 --> 01:16:16,280
Speaker 5: that's the other part that some people leave out. So, brother,

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01:16:16,960 --> 01:16:18,760
Speaker 5: you know what you should be looking for in a

1310
01:16:18,840 --> 01:16:23,400
Speaker 5: woman is somebody that seems to care about you, deeply

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Speaker 5: concerned about your welfare and your being supportive, loyal, you know,

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Speaker 5: willing to help you build your dreams. But at the

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Speaker 5: same time, you got to offer all of that to

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Speaker 5: a woman. Now, if you're not offering that to a woman,

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Speaker 5: what is she getting out the deal.

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Speaker 7: There's still good questions from him. If he's considering getting

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Speaker 7: married characteristic I think he should be The question what

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Speaker 7: should he look for in a wife is a very

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Speaker 7: good question. I think that's a good question. People need

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Speaker 7: to know what they what they should look for in

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Speaker 7: a wife. He doesn't, he's not ready, but I think

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Speaker 7: it's a good question. And what are the most important

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Speaker 7: characteristics when he makes a decision about marriage.

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Speaker 5: Maybe he wants what Leo wants, you know, maybe he

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01:17:10,520 --> 01:17:19,360
Speaker 5: won't see where we go. That's why, Hey, Tommy, they see.

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Speaker 5: That's why we don't have something that Hey Tommy's sake,

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Speaker 5: why what do you think?

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Speaker 1: What do you say.

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Speaker 6: That?

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Speaker 7: But that's why I said they were good questions because

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01:17:31,120 --> 01:17:34,479
Speaker 7: at least he's asking questions. Some people just go get

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Speaker 7: married and then it turns out to be terrible because

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Speaker 7: they don't ask questions before.

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Speaker 5: Because you know, look, he might have come from a

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01:17:41,800 --> 01:17:44,680
Speaker 5: single parent home and he's never had a bird's our

1336
01:17:44,800 --> 01:17:47,400
Speaker 5: view of it. He might not know what it is Okay,

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01:17:47,479 --> 01:17:50,240
Speaker 5: I respect that young brother. Yeah, that's why I just

1338
01:17:50,520 --> 01:17:53,320
Speaker 5: but I'm telling you what you should look for. But

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01:17:53,560 --> 01:17:57,720
Speaker 5: now you have to be ready to reciprocate that. Are

1340
01:17:57,840 --> 01:18:02,120
Speaker 5: you willing to be a provider? Are you willing to

1341
01:18:02,240 --> 01:18:08,040
Speaker 5: put her in front of you at all times? Do

1342
01:18:08,200 --> 01:18:11,479
Speaker 5: you have the ability to love someone else more than

1343
01:18:11,520 --> 01:18:14,800
Speaker 5: you love yourself? That's what a man needs to start researching.

1344
01:18:15,439 --> 01:18:19,360
Speaker 5: And the sad part of our society has changed and

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01:18:19,760 --> 01:18:21,559
Speaker 5: there are a lot of men who are not looking

1346
01:18:21,600 --> 01:18:25,920
Speaker 5: at it this way anymore. And that's the sad truth

1347
01:18:26,080 --> 01:18:29,720
Speaker 5: of it. You're right, that's the sad truth of it.

1348
01:18:30,520 --> 01:18:34,120
Speaker 5: Are you willing to love somebody more than you love yourself?

1349
01:18:34,600 --> 01:18:36,600
Speaker 5: Are you willing to put somebody in front of you

1350
01:18:36,840 --> 01:18:40,080
Speaker 5: all times? And are you willing to provide and protect

1351
01:18:40,120 --> 01:18:42,559
Speaker 5: a family? If you ain't willing to do that, man,

1352
01:18:42,680 --> 01:18:44,360
Speaker 5: we will take your slower somewhere.

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Speaker 1: All right.

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Speaker 7: We'll have more of a Steve Harvey Morning Show coming

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01:18:48,680 --> 01:18:51,880
Speaker 7: up right after this. You're listening to the Steve Harvey

1356
01:18:51,960 --> 01:18:59,360
Speaker 7: Morning Show on Inside the NBA. Last Monday, I should say,

1357
01:18:59,479 --> 01:19:02,000
Speaker 7: shot guy up and bolted off the set while the

1358
01:19:02,080 --> 01:19:04,479
Speaker 7: cameras were rolling because he had to go to the

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01:19:04,560 --> 01:19:08,280
Speaker 7: bathroom now, Kenny Smith teased Shaq, saying, yeah, that's that

1360
01:19:08,439 --> 01:19:12,080
Speaker 7: olive oil you've been drinking. Charles Barkley said, hey, take

1361
01:19:12,160 --> 01:19:15,840
Speaker 7: some matches with you, leaving no question that Shaq was

1362
01:19:15,880 --> 01:19:17,680
Speaker 7: making a run for the toilet.

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Speaker 1: Well just everywhere, right.

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Speaker 5: Yeah, I saw it, Yeah, I saw it. Take some

1365
01:19:27,400 --> 01:19:31,200
Speaker 5: matches with you. Asked that olive oil you drink, then

1366
01:19:31,320 --> 01:19:31,799
Speaker 5: go harder.

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Speaker 1: That's just.

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Speaker 6: So.

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Speaker 7: So, where's the worst place you've ever been? When the

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Speaker 7: urge hitchen.

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Speaker 1: Home Depot live remote Atlanta, Georgia, we didn't even know.

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01:19:45,200 --> 01:19:47,679
Speaker 2: Did you guys know it? There were there?

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01:19:49,920 --> 01:19:50,639
Speaker 1: What happened?

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01:19:52,280 --> 01:19:52,519
Speaker 2: Boy?

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01:19:52,800 --> 01:19:57,839
Speaker 1: I had Now I'm in home depot.

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01:19:59,160 --> 01:20:01,360
Speaker 5: So what I did it was, and this is a

1377
01:20:01,439 --> 01:20:05,400
Speaker 5: true statement, if bathroom was back there by the wood.

1378
01:20:05,920 --> 01:20:10,640
Speaker 5: I got two sheet supply wood and put them in

1379
01:20:10,800 --> 01:20:13,439
Speaker 5: the stalls so I could have a door all the

1380
01:20:13,520 --> 01:20:20,000
Speaker 5: way down to the floor on the sides, because I

1381
01:20:20,080 --> 01:20:22,160
Speaker 5: got to take my pants off and hang them on

1382
01:20:22,240 --> 01:20:23,519
Speaker 5: the hook on the back of the door.

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01:20:24,000 --> 01:20:27,080
Speaker 1: We did not know this. We didn't. Oh, I have to.

1384
01:20:27,680 --> 01:20:32,719
Speaker 5: I can't ball my pants around my ankle. I gotta

1385
01:20:32,720 --> 01:20:35,599
Speaker 5: hang my pants about the back of the dope, all.

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Speaker 7: Right, listen coming up next? Would you rather right after this?

1387
01:20:39,439 --> 01:20:41,880
Speaker 7: You're listening to the Steve Harvey Morning Show.

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01:20:46,000 --> 01:20:49,479
Speaker 1: Folks, there are a lot of reasons to like Dais.

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01:20:49,720 --> 01:20:53,439
Speaker 5: Hyundai's done a lot to support American consumers. I mean,

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01:20:53,840 --> 01:20:57,360
Speaker 5: they announced their investment of twenty one billion dollars in

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Speaker 5: the United States over the next three years that will

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01:21:00,040 --> 01:21:03,440
Speaker 5: spread manufacturing and create more jobs for Americans.

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01:21:03,560 --> 01:21:06,160
Speaker 10: And they just announced that they will not be raising

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01:21:06,400 --> 01:21:08,480
Speaker 10: ms RP through June second.

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Speaker 1: No matter what.

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Speaker 10: Call five six two three one four four six zero

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Speaker 10: three for more details.

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Speaker 7: All right, guys, it's time now for a round of

1399
01:21:16,880 --> 01:21:19,200
Speaker 7: would you rather? Would you rather have sex on a

1400
01:21:19,240 --> 01:21:21,679
Speaker 7: bed of hay or sex on a bed of gravel?

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01:21:22,920 --> 01:21:23,080
Speaker 5: Hey?

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01:21:24,080 --> 01:21:30,840
Speaker 7: Hey, only wear white? Would you rather only wear white

1403
01:21:30,960 --> 01:21:33,280
Speaker 7: after Memorial Day? Or whenever you want?

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01:21:34,320 --> 01:21:38,680
Speaker 1: I won't yeah? Right around again, tickets on when when

1405
01:21:38,720 --> 01:21:41,280
Speaker 1: you wear white? Whenever? I won't yeah.

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01:21:41,400 --> 01:21:45,120
Speaker 5: Their rules to it, well, they don't have the moves,

1407
01:21:45,200 --> 01:21:47,640
Speaker 5: no more than la overseas.

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01:21:47,760 --> 01:21:50,080
Speaker 7: They don't, you know, they don't know?

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01:21:50,520 --> 01:21:50,840
Speaker 6: All right?

1410
01:21:51,040 --> 01:21:54,120
Speaker 7: Would you rather steal water or sparkling water?

1411
01:21:55,120 --> 01:21:57,360
Speaker 1: Steal steal?

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01:21:58,280 --> 01:21:58,320
Speaker 6: Like?

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01:21:58,439 --> 01:21:59,240
Speaker 1: Just still? Okay?

1414
01:21:59,560 --> 01:22:02,120
Speaker 7: Would you rather get two teeth pulls? Or would you

1415
01:22:02,200 --> 01:22:03,759
Speaker 7: rather have a bunion removed?

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01:22:04,360 --> 01:22:07,640
Speaker 1: Oh, Steve, okay't I can't do nothing else in my

1417
01:22:07,800 --> 01:22:12,360
Speaker 1: mouth it It'd be five years before I go back to.

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01:22:16,680 --> 01:22:17,719
Speaker 7: Get your clean.

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01:22:18,560 --> 01:22:19,479
Speaker 1: Ain't gonta get him clean?

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01:22:19,600 --> 01:22:19,760
Speaker 9: For what?

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01:22:20,160 --> 01:22:24,559
Speaker 1: All right? Brush inby five year before I go back

1422
01:22:24,600 --> 01:22:28,120
Speaker 1: to a die. Promise you twenty thirty?

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01:22:29,880 --> 01:22:30,240
Speaker 4: All right?

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01:22:31,320 --> 01:22:34,599
Speaker 7: Would you rather have a six pack or have six stacks?

1425
01:22:35,600 --> 01:22:36,559
Speaker 7: Six thousand dollars?

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01:22:36,680 --> 01:22:36,960
Speaker 4: Okay?

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01:22:37,800 --> 01:22:40,240
Speaker 7: Would you rather have a six pack or six stacks?

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01:22:40,960 --> 01:22:43,840
Speaker 1: I'd rather have a six pack? Oh pack?

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01:22:45,200 --> 01:22:46,120
Speaker 2: Six thousand?

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01:22:47,160 --> 01:22:47,360
Speaker 1: Yeah?

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01:22:47,680 --> 01:22:54,519
Speaker 13: Yeah, give me the six pack, Junior? Yes, okay, right

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01:22:54,640 --> 01:22:59,519
Speaker 13: now for a six pack? Yeah, okay, all right, I'll give.

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01:22:59,400 --> 01:23:04,120
Speaker 5: You sixty thousand if you give me a six pack? Dang,

1434
01:23:05,240 --> 01:23:06,320
Speaker 5: yeah without surgery?

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01:23:06,520 --> 01:23:08,960
Speaker 1: Hell yeah, all right?

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01:23:09,320 --> 01:23:14,080
Speaker 7: Would you rather have a mustache like Junior? Or mustache

1437
01:23:14,160 --> 01:23:16,120
Speaker 7: like Steve Harvey? You know?

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01:23:16,360 --> 01:23:24,400
Speaker 1: Sorry? Sorry, Junior? Would rather have man? Start there? You

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01:23:24,479 --> 01:23:30,200
Speaker 1: can't you don't start here? Hey, you don't. You don't

1440
01:23:30,360 --> 01:23:36,919
Speaker 1: downgrade my much dange talking about I start there? Finished?

1441
01:23:37,200 --> 01:23:43,000
Speaker 1: Prop up? You got to go years to get this, Junior,

1442
01:23:43,160 --> 01:23:45,040
Speaker 1: and that little thing you growing right there?

1443
01:23:46,400 --> 01:23:48,960
Speaker 8: Yeah, if I if I want one, I wanted to

1444
01:23:49,000 --> 01:23:50,840
Speaker 8: be like that, you know, how fool it is.

1445
01:23:51,360 --> 01:23:53,080
Speaker 1: You know you still see my skin in the mind,

1446
01:23:53,360 --> 01:23:55,320
Speaker 1: you know, Yeah.

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01:23:55,280 --> 01:24:00,360
Speaker 9: The thickness of Steve. Yeah, what you're saying, I'm gonna

1448
01:24:00,360 --> 01:24:01,360
Speaker 9: pay you a compliment.

1449
01:24:01,880 --> 01:24:06,160
Speaker 1: I would rather have your mustache than Steven A. Smith's.

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01:24:10,640 --> 01:24:15,920
Speaker 1: You just say, man, you finna get a phone call? Yeah,

1451
01:24:16,000 --> 01:24:16,840
Speaker 1: what is gonna say?

1452
01:24:20,080 --> 01:24:21,160
Speaker 7: This is your friend?

1453
01:24:22,840 --> 01:24:25,280
Speaker 1: What is Stephen A. Smith won't say to me?

1454
01:24:28,040 --> 01:24:30,720
Speaker 7: All Right, guys, that's today's round of would you rather?

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01:24:31,120 --> 01:24:33,360
Speaker 7: Coming up next? It is our last break of the day,

1456
01:24:33,400 --> 01:24:35,120
Speaker 7: and we'll close out the show with the one and

1457
01:24:35,200 --> 01:24:37,880
Speaker 7: only Steve Harvey right after this.

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01:24:38,760 --> 01:24:45,280
Speaker 1: You're listening to the Steve Harvey Morning Show. Hey, this

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Speaker 1: is John Legend. Hi, this is Felicious Shot. Hey, this

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Speaker 1: Chris Rock. Hey, guys, what's up?

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Speaker 7: our last break of the day, and it's been a

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Speaker 7: good day. It's been a good day.

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Speaker 5: Hey, you know what I had to come to the

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01:25:36,120 --> 01:25:40,240
Speaker 5: realization kind of want to share this with people, but

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01:25:40,479 --> 01:25:45,320
Speaker 5: you know, I want to talk about there's a cost.

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01:25:47,479 --> 01:25:51,960
Speaker 1: There is a cost. You know, when you make the

1480
01:25:52,160 --> 01:25:57,439
Speaker 1: decision to be successful comes with a cost.

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01:25:59,360 --> 01:26:02,599
Speaker 5: And as as much as I've tried to negate the cost,

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01:26:03,800 --> 01:26:07,519
Speaker 5: as much as I've tried to alleviate the cost, as

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01:26:07,600 --> 01:26:09,800
Speaker 5: much as I've oftentimes just tried to.

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Speaker 1: Not talk up the cost, the cost is real.

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01:26:15,240 --> 01:26:18,200
Speaker 5: You know, I got in trouble, not really trouble, but

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01:26:18,280 --> 01:26:20,559
Speaker 5: I got a bunch of haters that came online one

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01:26:20,680 --> 01:26:23,760
Speaker 5: time when they saw me give a speech about if

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01:26:23,800 --> 01:26:27,439
Speaker 5: you want to be successful and really really successful as something,

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01:26:27,520 --> 01:26:32,320
Speaker 5: you can't sleep eight hours. And I believe that, you know,

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01:26:32,640 --> 01:26:37,240
Speaker 5: somebody counted it with Oprah says she gets eight hours sleep.

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01:26:37,560 --> 01:26:37,760
Speaker 1: Well.

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Speaker 5: Oprah's wealthy, though, But if you go back on her

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01:26:41,760 --> 01:26:45,920
Speaker 5: journey and asked her when she was hustling trying to

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01:26:46,040 --> 01:26:48,720
Speaker 5: make it what she getting eate, I don't think the

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01:26:48,800 --> 01:26:55,920
Speaker 5: answer would be yes. Everybody I know that's grinding, that's

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01:26:56,320 --> 01:27:02,639
Speaker 5: in the hustle, trying to really really have more than normal.

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01:27:03,160 --> 01:27:07,280
Speaker 5: If you want above average, it comes at a cost.

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Speaker 5: And I've tried not to talk about it because I

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01:27:12,240 --> 01:27:16,400
Speaker 5: don't want to, you know, knock anybody down about it.

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Speaker 5: But man, there's a cost for everything. And you know,

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01:27:22,720 --> 01:27:26,160
Speaker 5: I know a lot of successful people who have health issues.

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01:27:26,200 --> 01:27:28,439
Speaker 5: I've had my share of myself. Tommy can tell you

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01:27:28,560 --> 01:27:31,479
Speaker 5: about his, Junior can tell you about his. All of

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01:27:31,600 --> 01:27:37,200
Speaker 5: us can tell you about health issues. It's sometimes, you know,

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01:27:37,560 --> 01:27:39,920
Speaker 5: it just it's a part of it. I don't know

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01:27:40,040 --> 01:27:42,600
Speaker 5: how to explain it. Now. You don't want to sacrifice

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01:27:42,760 --> 01:27:48,880
Speaker 5: one for the other, but sometimes it's unavoidable because there

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01:27:49,000 --> 01:27:51,400
Speaker 5: is a cost, and a lot of times you end

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01:27:51,479 --> 01:27:54,599
Speaker 5: up sometimes you have health issues because you just don't

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01:27:54,720 --> 01:27:57,600
Speaker 5: know any better. You know, and that's why knowledge is

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01:27:57,680 --> 01:27:59,960
Speaker 5: so important, because when you know better you can do better.

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01:28:00,720 --> 01:28:03,920
Speaker 5: You know, had I known a long long time ago

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Speaker 5: that everything I put into my body was gonna have

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01:28:06,800 --> 01:28:08,640
Speaker 5: an effect on me, I would have made some.

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Speaker 1: Changes a long long time ago.

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Speaker 5: I just really started understanding this in the last fifteen

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Speaker 5: twenty years of my life. You know, the how important

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01:28:18,200 --> 01:28:20,840
Speaker 5: eating the right thing is, how important it is to

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01:28:21,000 --> 01:28:24,599
Speaker 5: take supplements, how important it is to take regular visits

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01:28:24,640 --> 01:28:28,559
Speaker 5: to your doctor. And as black men, I'm talking especially

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01:28:28,640 --> 01:28:31,280
Speaker 5: to black men, we find it so hard to go

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01:28:31,439 --> 01:28:34,200
Speaker 5: to these doctors. I got a partner right now, man

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01:28:34,880 --> 01:28:38,320
Speaker 5: that's trying to get out the hospital right now because

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01:28:38,400 --> 01:28:42,960
Speaker 5: he ain't been to the doctor in eight years. But

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01:28:43,120 --> 01:28:45,640
Speaker 5: he's seventy and it ain't been to the doctor in

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01:28:45,720 --> 01:28:49,759
Speaker 5: eight years. We can't do that because we've been grinding.

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01:28:49,920 --> 01:28:53,280
Speaker 5: And I understood something about grinding recently. When you're grinding,

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Speaker 5: grinding means actually to wear down. But in order to

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01:28:57,760 --> 01:29:00,639
Speaker 5: have something, you got to get in to wear down process,

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01:29:00,920 --> 01:29:03,960
Speaker 5: and the thing you end up wearing down is your body. Now,

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Speaker 5: I'm not saying you should exchange your health for wealth.

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Speaker 5: I wish that wasn't the cost, but oftentimes that's the

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Speaker 5: cost factor. And people who don't want it, you don't

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Speaker 5: have to do it. But then there's a cost with

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Speaker 5: being poor. To see, there's a cost factor when you

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Speaker 5: decide not to be anything. It's a cost factor when

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Speaker 5: you decide I'm just gonna ride it out, I'm just

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Speaker 5: gonna mail it in. There's a cost factor for that.

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Speaker 5: I notice when old people who've been working their whole

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Speaker 5: life finally retire and they don't and they able to

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01:29:35,960 --> 01:29:41,880
Speaker 5: stop being active. I watch them wear down, dissipate, just

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01:29:42,160 --> 01:29:47,040
Speaker 5: wither away because that work, that thing called the grind

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01:29:47,080 --> 01:29:49,599
Speaker 5: of getting up going to work every day. It gave

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Speaker 5: them something to live for. It gave them something to

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01:29:51,960 --> 01:29:55,200
Speaker 5: do and made them active. It's just a cost, man.

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01:29:55,720 --> 01:29:58,000
Speaker 5: But you have to decide which one of the costs

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Speaker 5: you want to pay. Do you want to pay the

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Speaker 5: the cost of being successful or do you want to

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Speaker 5: be the cost you want to pay the cost of

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Speaker 5: being poor. Now, when I say poor, I mean really poor.

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Speaker 5: I don't mean like if you make a hundred thousand dollars.

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Speaker 5: I ain't talking about like that. You're doing great, man,

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01:30:12,120 --> 01:30:14,240
Speaker 5: your life is good. I think people are that that

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01:30:14,400 --> 01:30:16,479
Speaker 5: make one hundred thousand dollars doing fine with your life

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01:30:16,520 --> 01:30:18,880
Speaker 5: that's not what I'm saying, so please don't misunderstand me.

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Speaker 5: I'm talking about when you don't have enough to eat,

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Speaker 5: you can't put a roof over your family's head, you

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01:30:27,479 --> 01:30:31,160
Speaker 5: can't get them to the store. And then you got

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01:30:31,240 --> 01:30:33,760
Speaker 5: to do more. Man, you got to do more. But

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01:30:33,840 --> 01:30:36,400
Speaker 5: it's a cost for it, one way or the other.

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Speaker 5: I suggest, though, if I look back on it, all,

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Speaker 5: you have to find a way to create a balance.

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Speaker 5: But the balance ain't gonna be even even, it's just

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01:30:50,840 --> 01:30:53,519
Speaker 5: gotta be. You got to grind, you got to rest,

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01:30:53,920 --> 01:30:56,639
Speaker 5: You got to grind, You got to rest. You got

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01:30:56,680 --> 01:31:03,519
Speaker 5: to grind, you got to rest. If you just grind, grind, grind, grind, grind, grind, grind, grind, grind,

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01:31:04,000 --> 01:31:06,960
Speaker 5: then try to rest, the cost factor's gonna be greater.

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01:31:07,840 --> 01:31:11,200
Speaker 5: So find the balance for yourself. I can't tell anybody

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Speaker 5: what that is, but there is a cost to being successful.

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01:31:16,000 --> 01:31:19,280
Speaker 5: But there is a cost to not being successful. And

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01:31:19,439 --> 01:31:21,560
Speaker 5: you have to decide which one of the costs you

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01:31:21,720 --> 01:31:24,519
Speaker 5: have to pay. Now that's just real talk. You can

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01:31:24,600 --> 01:31:28,200
Speaker 5: say it ain't so, but yes, it is not being

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01:31:28,280 --> 01:31:32,120
Speaker 5: able to provide for your family. That's a cost being

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01:31:32,240 --> 01:31:35,200
Speaker 5: able to provide for your family. There is a cost.

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01:31:35,800 --> 01:31:38,360
Speaker 5: You have to decide which cost you're willing to pay

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01:31:39,479 --> 01:31:42,000
Speaker 5: and then find a balance in there. That's what I

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Speaker 5: had to discover. So those are my clothes remarks. That's

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Speaker 5: it for today. Hey listen, y'all have a great day.

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Speaker 5: Talk to God today. He loved to hear from you.

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