Speaker 1: Second Dat Update. Here's a question, when should you give
Speaker 1: up searching for love and just accept the fact that
Speaker 1: you're probably gonna die alone? Wow, I think I'm there now.
Speaker 1: When you're twenty four, twenty five, you shouldn't even really
Speaker 1: be even looking at that age. I mean, let's wait
Speaker 1: a couple way, or do you call it quits? On
Speaker 1: this show, we say never never. No matter how many
Speaker 1: times you fail miserably, you get back up on that
Speaker 1: dating horse and you ride, you ride until your backside's
Speaker 1: blistered in blue, and you finally find that special person,
Speaker 1: or at least someone who's willing to spend time with
Speaker 1: you in exchange for money. Yes, and in that spirit,
Speaker 1: we have a listener who was on with us before
Speaker 1: for a second date update. Okay, and we could not
Speaker 1: get it for him the last time to this, but
Speaker 1: even though we failed him, even though we failed him,
Speaker 1: he still trusts us to help him out one more time.
Speaker 1: So let's say welcome back to Noah. What's up Noah?
Speaker 1: Hey guys, Yeah, we're hanging there. Wait, Noah, can you
Speaker 1: just remind me what happened last time you're on the
Speaker 1: phone with us? Oh? Man? So business girl Anna that
Speaker 1: I was really into and I said her a pillow?
Speaker 1: Oh with your face on it? You said her like
Speaker 1: a yeah, she sucks. We're over her. She's dead to us.
Speaker 1: That's right. We're looking forward to the next victim or
Speaker 1: from a love interest, next love interest? What's her name? Noah, prospect?
Speaker 1: I couldn't think of it. So her name is Sandra? Okay,
Speaker 1: she is amazing. I'm like, Okay, Anna's sister. I just
Speaker 1: love no you are obviously a hopeless romantic. You fall hard,
Speaker 1: and I love that you're open about your feelings. Where
Speaker 1: did you meet her? The new girl? So she's actually
Speaker 1: not that new? Um, it was a high school crush
Speaker 1: as well. Why why are we still living in high
Speaker 1: school in our mind? Noah? Why can't we move forward? Okay?
Speaker 1: To be fair? Like this girl, Sandra. I know I
Speaker 1: didn't mention her before because I was really trying to
Speaker 1: make it work with Anna. But she's not even number
Speaker 1: two on the list. She's like one beat on the
Speaker 1: same level as Anna, but just not quite. I kind
Speaker 1: of understand that. I hope he didn't tell her she
Speaker 1: was one bee. So how'd you end up reconnecting with
Speaker 1: Sandra after all these years? Okay? Guys. So here's what happened.
Speaker 1: I asked alf the happy hour and we had a
Speaker 1: great time. We started talking about, you know, high school,
Speaker 1: some of the old days and stuff, and like one
Speaker 1: of the pranks we did was we filled the gymnasium
Speaker 1: with balloons for senior prom. Yeah, guys were a wild bunch.
Speaker 1: It was actually hilarious. It was like a huge McDonald's
Speaker 1: play place. We were laughing so hard about that, and
Speaker 1: we're just having so much fun, Like it was really
Speaker 1: good to think back about high school. Yeah, it sounds
Speaker 1: So what happened then? I mean, did you guys end
Speaker 1: the night or so? We had a few more drinks
Speaker 1: and we ended up back at her play Okay, doing
Speaker 1: the play place at the apartment. Ye didn't see some
Speaker 1: sort of like romance or chemistry there then, right? I
Speaker 1: think so, because we definitely started making out right okay,
Speaker 1: like over the closed stuff. I mean, this is high
Speaker 1: school romance, right. Well, guys, we actually didn't get that
Speaker 1: far because we were interrupted. Oh a roommate. I don't know.
Speaker 1: I just I heard there were some keys at the
Speaker 1: door and suddenly she's like, oh quick in the closet.
Speaker 1: So I had to grab all my stuff and get in,
Speaker 1: get in the closet that's had a good size us there.
Speaker 1: Did you hide? Of course I hid in the closet.
Speaker 1: She's like streaking out about it. I had no idea
Speaker 1: what was going on? You you got to trust people
Speaker 1: high school. You don't have to hide. There's a serial
Speaker 1: tickler on the Lucy's gonna come in and it's obviously yeah,
Speaker 1: and the major thing is never good if you're hiding
Speaker 1: in the closet, is what I'm saying. Did you hear
Speaker 1: a male voice? Did she have a like girlfriend girlfriend?
Speaker 1: Maybe it was a Did you hear a love interest? No,
Speaker 1: it was definitely a guy. Okay, so what did he
Speaker 1: What did they say? I mean, did she? Did she
Speaker 1: live with a boyfriend? I don't know. I guess because
Speaker 1: they definitely were making out. Oh my, well, you just
Speaker 1: stayed in the closet the whole time all that happened. Well,
Speaker 1: I was kind of freaking out. I don't know what
Speaker 1: I was supposed to do. Like, they stay there for
Speaker 1: over an hour and the whole time she's like trying
Speaker 1: to get him to go to a bar and he's like, no,
Speaker 1: I just got back, Why do you want to go
Speaker 1: to the bar is calling her back. She made you
Speaker 1: hide it a closet for an hour while she made
Speaker 1: out with her boyfriend. I mean, I know, I gave
Speaker 1: a big speech about never giving up, but there's a
Speaker 1: time like, you know what, maybe I need to give
Speaker 1: up on this one. Now, why would you want to
Speaker 1: call her? Look, if it's a choice between this guy
Speaker 1: and me, she's gonna pick me, that's what they're going
Speaker 1: And she's gonna pick every other guy that comes along
Speaker 1: and shows her any interest at all. I know there's
Speaker 1: a lot of doubters in here, Noah, but I do
Speaker 1: like your optimism. So let's try this, do this, Let's
Speaker 1: give it a shot. We're gonna play a song, we'll
Speaker 1: come back, we'll call Sandra for you, and we'll try
Speaker 1: and get you your second date update. Okay, thanks so much, guys.
Speaker 1: All right, man, hold on Brook and Jeffrey in the morning.
Speaker 1: You're in the middle of a second date update update,
Speaker 1: and we're gonna find out how the couple is doing
Speaker 1: right after you here Part two. Everybody's worse nightmare is
Speaker 1: going on a date. Things spiral and you turn into
Speaker 1: a closet case. That's what literally happened to one of
Speaker 1: our listeners, Noah, during his date with an old high
Speaker 1: school crush named Sandra. In the middle of hooking up,
Speaker 1: the door to her apartment jiggled and she told Noah
Speaker 1: to go hide in her closet, so he did, and
Speaker 1: he stayed in there for over an hour, listening to
Speaker 1: Sandra make out with some other dude. But if there's
Speaker 1: one thing that we've learned about Noah through all the
Speaker 1: calls we've had with him, it's that he does not
Speaker 1: give up. Noah, no matter how many roadbumps he has
Speaker 1: to clear or closets he has to hide in, he
Speaker 1: wants to find love and still wants us to call Sandra.
Speaker 1: And Noah, we never asked you. Have you tried reaching
Speaker 1: out to her after the date, Like are you guys
Speaker 1: texting at all or anything? Yeah? I texted her a
Speaker 1: couple of times and she didn't get back to me.
Speaker 1: It was just like, what is that all about? And
Speaker 1: yeah nothing. You are too pure, too sweet for this
Speaker 1: Sander woman. Okay, she is going to walk all over
Speaker 1: you like a doormat. Wow, are you absolutely sure that
Speaker 1: you want to make this phone call? No, She's really amazing.
Speaker 1: If you guys only knew her like she's really awesome. Yeah,
Speaker 1: you're right, we don't. Okay, Yeah, she left you in
Speaker 1: the closet for an hour and even apologize. You know,
Speaker 1: I hear the lack of hope in this room, and
Speaker 1: I want to remind you Noah believes. So we need
Speaker 1: to believe for Noah. Noah. Okay, for you, for you, Noah.
Speaker 1: We'll muster it up. I just no, no, no, I
Speaker 1: just I just there's just the places he could put
Speaker 1: his energy, that's all. Whatever. I'm going to give the
Speaker 1: laugh laugh here spirit, I do want you to win.
Speaker 1: I don't. I'll tell you that. Don't haters. We're all realists.
Speaker 1: We're all rooting for you. Man. So I'm gonna dial
Speaker 1: Sandra's number. We're gonna try and get your second date
Speaker 1: up day. You ready, all right, let's do it. Okay,
Speaker 1: here we go. Hello. Hey, is this Sandra? Yes, it
Speaker 1: is Can I ask us for calling. Yeah, my name
Speaker 1: is Jeff from the radio show Brooke and Jeffrey in
Speaker 1: the Morning. How are you doing? Okay, I'm good. Good.
Speaker 1: We're in the middle of a segment called a second
Speaker 1: Date Update, and we'd like you to be a part
Speaker 1: of it. Oh um, don't. I don't know what is
Speaker 1: the word. That's a good question. Yeah, it's really simple.
Speaker 1: It's where if you go out on a date with someone,
Speaker 1: and afterwards, if that person isn't calling you back, you
Speaker 1: can email our show and we'll reach out to them
Speaker 1: to help you figure out the reason why. Oh it
Speaker 1: makes sense. Sure. Okay, So recently you went out with
Speaker 1: a guy who really really likes you, and he's confused
Speaker 1: about why you haven't been in touch with him lately.
Speaker 1: His name's Noah. Yes, okay, you remember sweet Noah. Um, yeah,
Speaker 1: we hung out. I wouldn't necessarily say it was a date,
Speaker 1: but I do know him. Okay, you had some chemistry
Speaker 1: with him right while you guys were hanging out. Um, yeah,
Speaker 1: you guys kissed. According to Noah, so I hope that
Speaker 1: you'd have some sort of connection with him, unless you
Speaker 1: just kiss anybody. How much did he tell you about
Speaker 1: what happened? I mean he went to a lot of detail.
Speaker 1: He said that you guys met up, you ended up
Speaker 1: back at your apartment. You guys started to hook up
Speaker 1: a little bit, but then you two were interrupted. Yeah. Yeah,
Speaker 1: I feel really bad about that. I did really like Noah.
Speaker 1: He was really sweet. He's really funny, and I enjoyed
Speaker 1: hanging out with him. It would be nice to have
Speaker 1: someone like him in my life, but okay, I don't
Speaker 1: really have that right now. So do you live with
Speaker 1: your boyfriend? No, we don't live together. Yeah, okay, but
Speaker 1: you have a boyfriend. You're confirming I have been seeing someone. Yeah, well,
Speaker 1: but there's no label on it. How would there not
Speaker 1: be a label on it? He had keys to your place.
Speaker 1: That's how he got in, right, Like the Noah heard
Speaker 1: jingling of keys and someone entering your apartment and you
Speaker 1: told him to get into the closet. It could have
Speaker 1: been a robber that broke in, and she made out
Speaker 1: with him to save her life. Closet, Take whatever you want.
Speaker 1: Is that what happened, Sandra, It's okay if that's what happened. Yeah,
Speaker 1: he's just kind of this on again, off again boyfriend
Speaker 1: type thing. Okay, Well, we're just looking. Is there anything
Speaker 1: possible down the road, even in the future with Noah?
Speaker 1: Is there a chance? Look like, I have been seeing
Speaker 1: this other guy, but I do kind of like know
Speaker 1: Ah better. I just think he's a better person. Oh
Speaker 1: that's great. Look, you know what, let's find out what
Speaker 1: Noah thinks about this, because he's on the other line
Speaker 1: listening and wants to talk to you, and I'm willing
Speaker 1: to bet he's on board again. Yeah, I know. Are
Speaker 1: you there, jump out of the closet, Sandra, it's me
Speaker 1: what you have a radio station called me? Oh my god. Sorry,
Speaker 1: I didn't really know how to get in touch with you,
Speaker 1: and I've been texting and like, I was just really
Speaker 1: nervous to be honest, and like, I really like you
Speaker 1: a lot, but I didn't. I don't know. I kind
Speaker 1: of thought you were just blowing me off. No, I wasn't.
Speaker 1: I wasn't intentionally trying to blow you off. To be honest,
Speaker 1: I felt the same way. I did, feel like there's
Speaker 1: a connection. Oh, I just didn't know really how serious
Speaker 1: you were about it. Noah, do you think this is
Speaker 1: something that you would take seriously? If you feel like
Speaker 1: that guy is not good for you, then I'm open. Wait,
Speaker 1: this is a way to do it. You date around
Speaker 1: till the guy calls a radio station, you pick him. Yeah.
Speaker 1: Are we all just going to ignore the fact that, Sandra,
Speaker 1: you haven't even apologized yet for leaving him in the closet,
Speaker 1: That he sounds happy lying about having a boyfriend, Like,
Speaker 1: why are you trying to I'm not digging anything up.
Speaker 1: It's like right there on the start trying to start
Speaker 1: a fight. I go trying to start a fight. I'm
Speaker 1: just saying, Sandra, like what was going through your mind
Speaker 1: when you're making out with some boyfriend while he was
Speaker 1: in the closet. I know it looks really bad. The
Speaker 1: thing is is that this guy that I've been seeing,
Speaker 1: he's just kind of trouble. I mean, he has been
Speaker 1: in and out of prison and does have a little
Speaker 1: bit of a mean streak, not to me, but others
Speaker 1: who have wronged him. Yeah, Sandra, you deserve better than that.
Speaker 1: You guys, listen, this guy's gonna find out about their
Speaker 1: relationship and he's gonna kill him. So he's not kind
Speaker 1: of like violent mean is He's just more like loud,
Speaker 1: angry mean bro, you went to prison, not for like
Speaker 1: emotionally yelling at somebody. Sandra. You know, I don't think
Speaker 1: I should talk about everything he's done because I don't
Speaker 1: want to get him in trouble and I don't want
Speaker 1: to block that out onto the error. But like Noah,
Speaker 1: like I said, and I told these guys. You're the
Speaker 1: type of person that I need in my life, and
Speaker 1: I am really interested, and I think it makes sense
Speaker 1: we could have something. Okay, I feel like there's something
Speaker 1: here to work with. Still, yeah, I mean between the
Speaker 1: prison guy and Noah, she chooses Noah. That's got to
Speaker 1: feel good. You're right. Wait, does that mean you're actually
Speaker 1: going to break up? Like break up break up with
Speaker 1: prison dude? It's not going to be easy. But I
Speaker 1: think if I sit and talk with him and kind
Speaker 1: of tell him everything and tell him about Noah, then
Speaker 1: oh maybe he'll understand. Maybe I don't think so. Yeah. Wait,
Speaker 1: why do you have to tell him about me? Yeah? Well,
Speaker 1: he's gonna want to know who I'm seeing no So
Speaker 1: can't you just tell him that's none of your business?
Speaker 1: I mean, I told you he has an angry issue,
Speaker 1: so he's gonna want to know. I'm probably gonna want
Speaker 1: to meet him. But like, I think it's going to
Speaker 1: be fine. Well, maybe we can help make that happened,
Speaker 1: because we would love to send you guys out on
Speaker 1: another day. We will pay for it, and you, Noah
Speaker 1: and the prison guy can all meet and discuss leaving
Speaker 1: your relationship to just being with Noah. That sounds like
Speaker 1: it's going to be civil. I mean, I'm sure he'll
Speaker 1: be the reasonable one between the three of you. Yeah, Sandra,
Speaker 1: what do you say? I'm down to try and see
Speaker 1: if this can work with Nolla in whatever way possible.
Speaker 1: I think that's good if you need a healthy relationship. Yes, Noah,
Speaker 1: you're still up for this, Sandra. I really want to
Speaker 1: make things work with you. But I'm I'm a little
Speaker 1: nervous about you know this guy. Yeah, come on, Sandra.
Speaker 1: He doesn't have to meet him, does he. Yeah, just
Speaker 1: tell him your name is like Jeffrey de bou or something. Okay,
Speaker 1: running out of time. I think it's gonna be fine.
Speaker 1: It's probably going to take him a few days to
Speaker 1: get over it, but I think we'll be okay. Okay,
Speaker 1: I don't know how I feel positive right now, but
Speaker 1: I do don't know. You don't look at Sandra take
Speaker 1: in charge of her own life, making decisions for herself.
Speaker 1: Good jobs. It sounds like someone's about to go back
Speaker 1: to prison. Yeah, Jeffrey in the morning. That was an
Speaker 1: update from months ago. Oh yeah, I totally forgot about
Speaker 1: that one. So we reached out to Noah and Sandra
Speaker 1: to check in see if they had any new information
Speaker 1: from us. Okay, sorry, see if Noah is alive, that's
Speaker 1: a very good Now they emailed us back. They said
Speaker 1: they never made that three way date with Sandra's boyfriend
Speaker 1: ever happened, but they are on the line right now
Speaker 1: to tell us what's new in their relationship. Noah, Sandra,
Speaker 1: welcome back to the show. YEAHI thank you. Noah. Wait
Speaker 1: are you there? Noah, I'm here. Okay, thank you guys.
Speaker 1: So what's going on with you guys? Are you still
Speaker 1: together or what's happened? Yeah? I know we've we're together.
Speaker 1: We've been dating. Oh my god, that's awesome. Wait what
Speaker 1: happened with the felon ex boyfriend? Now? Um, it's still
Speaker 1: a little bit complicated. Oh what do you mean, Well,
Speaker 1: technically I am still seeing my I guess boyfriend from previously. Okay, okay,
Speaker 1: this is one of those like you have two boyfriends
Speaker 1: or are you all doing a throuttle together? No, we're
Speaker 1: not doing a throttle. Um, you know everything, like Noah
Speaker 1: knows everything. Um, I definitely want to break up with him,
Speaker 1: but still we're just trying to find the right time
Speaker 1: to do it. And it's been months. I know, you
Speaker 1: can find one moment lots like half of a year
Speaker 1: to be like this is over. It just hasn't been
Speaker 1: the right time. No, you're a psite piece. Then does
Speaker 1: the felon boyfriend know about Noah? No, he doesn't know
Speaker 1: about me, and you know, I kind of want to
Speaker 1: keep it that way to be honest. Are you still
Speaker 1: in a closet right now? I do hope he breaks
Speaker 1: up with him soon. But for one, I'm not wanted
Speaker 1: to control her, you know. And he also that dude
Speaker 1: intimidates me, and I don't really mean that. I want
Speaker 1: to be on the other side of that. So yeah, no,
Speaker 1: that's true. You know what, you don't want to be
Speaker 1: the guy that's telling your woman like, hey, you need
Speaker 1: to dump him. No, No, I mean it's fine. We're
Speaker 1: gonna figure this out. You know. I want to be
Speaker 1: with Noah. I think we're meant to be together. So well, yeah,
Speaker 1: good luck. I definitely we need to stay in contact
Speaker 1: with you. We need to know the second that the
Speaker 1: other relationship ends. Yeah, we're working on it. We're working
Speaker 1: on it, and when the time comes, I think everyone
Speaker 1: will be happy. Maybe just make the time just an
Speaker 1: idea that sounds kind of hard. Yeah, And Jeffrey in
Speaker 1: the Morning