WEBVTT - Second Date Update UPDATE: In The Closet

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<v Speaker 1>Second Dat Update. Here's a question, when should you give

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<v Speaker 1>up searching for love and just accept the fact that

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<v Speaker 1>you're probably gonna die alone? Wow, I think I'm there now.

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<v Speaker 1>When you're twenty four, twenty five, you shouldn't even really

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<v Speaker 1>be even looking at that age. I mean, let's wait

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<v Speaker 1>a couple way, or do you call it quits? On

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<v Speaker 1>this show, we say never never. No matter how many

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<v Speaker 1>times you fail miserably, you get back up on that

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<v Speaker 1>dating horse and you ride, you ride until your backside's

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<v Speaker 1>blistered in blue, and you finally find that special person,

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<v Speaker 1>or at least someone who's willing to spend time with

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<v Speaker 1>you in exchange for money. Yes, and in that spirit,

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<v Speaker 1>we have a listener who was on with us before

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<v Speaker 1>for a second date update. Okay, and we could not

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<v Speaker 1>get it for him the last time to this, but

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<v Speaker 1>even though we failed him, even though we failed him,

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<v Speaker 1>he still trusts us to help him out one more time.

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<v Speaker 1>So let's say welcome back to Noah. What's up Noah?

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<v Speaker 1>Hey guys, Yeah, we're hanging there. Wait, Noah, can you

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<v Speaker 1>just remind me what happened last time you're on the

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<v Speaker 1>phone with us? Oh? Man? So business girl Anna that

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<v Speaker 1>I was really into and I said her a pillow?

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<v Speaker 1>Oh with your face on it? You said her like

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<v Speaker 1>a yeah, she sucks. We're over her. She's dead to us.

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<v Speaker 1>That's right. We're looking forward to the next victim or

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<v Speaker 1>from a love interest, next love interest? What's her name? Noah, prospect?

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<v Speaker 1>I couldn't think of it. So her name is Sandra? Okay,

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<v Speaker 1>she is amazing. I'm like, Okay, Anna's sister. I just

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<v Speaker 1>love no you are obviously a hopeless romantic. You fall hard,

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<v Speaker 1>and I love that you're open about your feelings. Where

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<v Speaker 1>did you meet her? The new girl? So she's actually

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<v Speaker 1>not that new? Um, it was a high school crush

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<v Speaker 1>as well. Why why are we still living in high

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<v Speaker 1>school in our mind? Noah? Why can't we move forward? Okay?

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<v Speaker 1>To be fair? Like this girl, Sandra. I know I

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<v Speaker 1>didn't mention her before because I was really trying to

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<v Speaker 1>make it work with Anna. But she's not even number

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<v Speaker 1>two on the list. She's like one beat on the

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<v Speaker 1>same level as Anna, but just not quite. I kind

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<v Speaker 1>of understand that. I hope he didn't tell her she

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<v Speaker 1>was one bee. So how'd you end up reconnecting with

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<v Speaker 1>Sandra after all these years? Okay? Guys. So here's what happened.

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<v Speaker 1>I asked alf the happy hour and we had a

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<v Speaker 1>great time. We started talking about, you know, high school,

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<v Speaker 1>some of the old days and stuff, and like one

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<v Speaker 1>of the pranks we did was we filled the gymnasium

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<v Speaker 1>with balloons for senior prom. Yeah, guys were a wild bunch.

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<v Speaker 1>It was actually hilarious. It was like a huge McDonald's

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<v Speaker 1>play place. We were laughing so hard about that, and

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<v Speaker 1>we're just having so much fun, Like it was really

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<v Speaker 1>good to think back about high school. Yeah, it sounds

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<v Speaker 1>So what happened then? I mean, did you guys end

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<v Speaker 1>the night or so? We had a few more drinks

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<v Speaker 1>and we ended up back at her play Okay, doing

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<v Speaker 1>the play place at the apartment. Ye didn't see some

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<v Speaker 1>sort of like romance or chemistry there then, right? I

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<v Speaker 1>think so, because we definitely started making out right okay,

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<v Speaker 1>like over the closed stuff. I mean, this is high

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<v Speaker 1>school romance, right. Well, guys, we actually didn't get that

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<v Speaker 1>far because we were interrupted. Oh a roommate. I don't know.

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<v Speaker 1>I just I heard there were some keys at the

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<v Speaker 1>door and suddenly she's like, oh quick in the closet.

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<v Speaker 1>So I had to grab all my stuff and get in,

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<v Speaker 1>get in the closet that's had a good size us there.

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<v Speaker 1>Did you hide? Of course I hid in the closet.

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<v Speaker 1>She's like streaking out about it. I had no idea

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<v Speaker 1>what was going on? You you got to trust people

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<v Speaker 1>high school. You don't have to hide. There's a serial

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<v Speaker 1>tickler on the Lucy's gonna come in and it's obviously yeah,

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<v Speaker 1>and the major thing is never good if you're hiding

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<v Speaker 1>in the closet, is what I'm saying. Did you hear

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<v Speaker 1>a male voice? Did she have a like girlfriend girlfriend?

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<v Speaker 1>Maybe it was a Did you hear a love interest? No,

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<v Speaker 1>it was definitely a guy. Okay, so what did he

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<v Speaker 1>What did they say? I mean, did she? Did she

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<v Speaker 1>live with a boyfriend? I don't know. I guess because

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<v Speaker 1>they definitely were making out. Oh my, well, you just

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<v Speaker 1>stayed in the closet the whole time all that happened. Well,

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<v Speaker 1>I was kind of freaking out. I don't know what

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<v Speaker 1>I was supposed to do. Like, they stay there for

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<v Speaker 1>over an hour and the whole time she's like trying

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<v Speaker 1>to get him to go to a bar and he's like, no,

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<v Speaker 1>I just got back, Why do you want to go

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<v Speaker 1>to the bar is calling her back. She made you

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<v Speaker 1>hide it a closet for an hour while she made

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<v Speaker 1>out with her boyfriend. I mean, I know, I gave

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<v Speaker 1>a big speech about never giving up, but there's a

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<v Speaker 1>time like, you know what, maybe I need to give

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<v Speaker 1>up on this one. Now, why would you want to

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<v Speaker 1>call her? Look, if it's a choice between this guy

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<v Speaker 1>and me, she's gonna pick me, that's what they're going

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<v Speaker 1>And she's gonna pick every other guy that comes along

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<v Speaker 1>and shows her any interest at all. I know there's

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<v Speaker 1>a lot of doubters in here, Noah, but I do

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<v Speaker 1>like your optimism. So let's try this, do this, Let's

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<v Speaker 1>give it a shot. We're gonna play a song, we'll

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<v Speaker 1>come back, we'll call Sandra for you, and we'll try

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<v Speaker 1>and get you your second date update. Okay, thanks so much, guys.

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<v Speaker 1>All right, man, hold on Brook and Jeffrey in the morning.

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<v Speaker 1>You're in the middle of a second date update update,

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<v Speaker 1>and we're gonna find out how the couple is doing

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<v Speaker 1>right after you here Part two. Everybody's worse nightmare is

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<v Speaker 1>going on a date. Things spiral and you turn into

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<v Speaker 1>a closet case. That's what literally happened to one of

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<v Speaker 1>our listeners, Noah, during his date with an old high

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<v Speaker 1>school crush named Sandra. In the middle of hooking up,

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<v Speaker 1>the door to her apartment jiggled and she told Noah

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<v Speaker 1>to go hide in her closet, so he did, and

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<v Speaker 1>he stayed in there for over an hour, listening to

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<v Speaker 1>Sandra make out with some other dude. But if there's

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<v Speaker 1>one thing that we've learned about Noah through all the

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<v Speaker 1>calls we've had with him, it's that he does not

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<v Speaker 1>give up. Noah, no matter how many roadbumps he has

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<v Speaker 1>to clear or closets he has to hide in, he

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<v Speaker 1>wants to find love and still wants us to call Sandra.

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<v Speaker 1>And Noah, we never asked you. Have you tried reaching

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<v Speaker 1>out to her after the date, Like are you guys

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<v Speaker 1>texting at all or anything? Yeah? I texted her a

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<v Speaker 1>couple of times and she didn't get back to me.

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<v Speaker 1>It was just like, what is that all about? And

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<v Speaker 1>yeah nothing. You are too pure, too sweet for this

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<v Speaker 1>Sander woman. Okay, she is going to walk all over

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<v Speaker 1>you like a doormat. Wow, are you absolutely sure that

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<v Speaker 1>you want to make this phone call? No, She's really amazing.

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<v Speaker 1>If you guys only knew her like she's really awesome. Yeah,

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<v Speaker 1>you're right, we don't. Okay, Yeah, she left you in

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<v Speaker 1>the closet for an hour and even apologize. You know,

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<v Speaker 1>I hear the lack of hope in this room, and

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<v Speaker 1>I want to remind you Noah believes. So we need

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<v Speaker 1>to believe for Noah. Noah. Okay, for you, for you, Noah.

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<v Speaker 1>We'll muster it up. I just no, no, no, I

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<v Speaker 1>just I just there's just the places he could put

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<v Speaker 1>his energy, that's all. Whatever. I'm going to give the

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<v Speaker 1>laugh laugh here spirit, I do want you to win.

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<v Speaker 1>I don't. I'll tell you that. Don't haters. We're all realists.

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<v Speaker 1>We're all rooting for you. Man. So I'm gonna dial

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<v Speaker 1>Sandra's number. We're gonna try and get your second date

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<v Speaker 1>up day. You ready, all right, let's do it. Okay,

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<v Speaker 1>here we go. Hello. Hey, is this Sandra? Yes, it

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<v Speaker 1>is Can I ask us for calling. Yeah, my name

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<v Speaker 1>is Jeff from the radio show Brooke and Jeffrey in

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<v Speaker 1>the Morning. How are you doing? Okay, I'm good. Good.

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<v Speaker 1>We're in the middle of a segment called a second

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<v Speaker 1>Date Update, and we'd like you to be a part

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<v Speaker 1>of it. Oh um, don't. I don't know what is

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<v Speaker 1>the word. That's a good question. Yeah, it's really simple.

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<v Speaker 1>It's where if you go out on a date with someone,

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<v Speaker 1>and afterwards, if that person isn't calling you back, you

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<v Speaker 1>can email our show and we'll reach out to them

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<v Speaker 1>to help you figure out the reason why. Oh it

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<v Speaker 1>makes sense. Sure. Okay, So recently you went out with

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<v Speaker 1>a guy who really really likes you, and he's confused

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<v Speaker 1>about why you haven't been in touch with him lately.

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<v Speaker 1>His name's Noah. Yes, okay, you remember sweet Noah. Um, yeah,

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<v Speaker 1>we hung out. I wouldn't necessarily say it was a date,

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<v Speaker 1>but I do know him. Okay, you had some chemistry

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<v Speaker 1>with him right while you guys were hanging out. Um, yeah,

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<v Speaker 1>you guys kissed. According to Noah, so I hope that

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<v Speaker 1>you'd have some sort of connection with him, unless you

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<v Speaker 1>just kiss anybody. How much did he tell you about

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<v Speaker 1>what happened? I mean he went to a lot of detail.

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<v Speaker 1>He said that you guys met up, you ended up

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<v Speaker 1>back at your apartment. You guys started to hook up

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<v Speaker 1>a little bit, but then you two were interrupted. Yeah. Yeah,

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<v Speaker 1>I feel really bad about that. I did really like Noah.

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<v Speaker 1>He was really sweet. He's really funny, and I enjoyed

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<v Speaker 1>hanging out with him. It would be nice to have

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<v Speaker 1>someone like him in my life, but okay, I don't

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<v Speaker 1>really have that right now. So do you live with

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<v Speaker 1>your boyfriend? No, we don't live together. Yeah, okay, but

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<v Speaker 1>you have a boyfriend. You're confirming I have been seeing someone. Yeah, well,

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<v Speaker 1>but there's no label on it. How would there not

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<v Speaker 1>be a label on it? He had keys to your place.

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<v Speaker 1>That's how he got in, right, Like the Noah heard

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<v Speaker 1>jingling of keys and someone entering your apartment and you

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<v Speaker 1>told him to get into the closet. It could have

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<v Speaker 1>been a robber that broke in, and she made out

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<v Speaker 1>with him to save her life. Closet, Take whatever you want.

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<v Speaker 1>Is that what happened, Sandra, It's okay if that's what happened. Yeah,

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<v Speaker 1>he's just kind of this on again, off again boyfriend

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<v Speaker 1>type thing. Okay, Well, we're just looking. Is there anything

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<v Speaker 1>possible down the road, even in the future with Noah?

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<v Speaker 1>Is there a chance? Look like, I have been seeing

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<v Speaker 1>this other guy, but I do kind of like know

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<v Speaker 1>Ah better. I just think he's a better person. Oh

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<v Speaker 1>that's great. Look, you know what, let's find out what

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<v Speaker 1>Noah thinks about this, because he's on the other line

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<v Speaker 1>listening and wants to talk to you, and I'm willing

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<v Speaker 1>to bet he's on board again. Yeah, I know. Are

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<v Speaker 1>you there, jump out of the closet, Sandra, it's me

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<v Speaker 1>what you have a radio station called me? Oh my god. Sorry,

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<v Speaker 1>I didn't really know how to get in touch with you,

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<v Speaker 1>and I've been texting and like, I was just really

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<v Speaker 1>nervous to be honest, and like, I really like you

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<v Speaker 1>a lot, but I didn't. I don't know. I kind

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<v Speaker 1>of thought you were just blowing me off. No, I wasn't.

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<v Speaker 1>I wasn't intentionally trying to blow you off. To be honest,

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<v Speaker 1>I felt the same way. I did, feel like there's

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<v Speaker 1>a connection. Oh, I just didn't know really how serious

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<v Speaker 1>you were about it. Noah, do you think this is

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<v Speaker 1>something that you would take seriously? If you feel like

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<v Speaker 1>that guy is not good for you, then I'm open. Wait,

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<v Speaker 1>this is a way to do it. You date around

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<v Speaker 1>till the guy calls a radio station, you pick him. Yeah.

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<v Speaker 1>Are we all just going to ignore the fact that, Sandra,

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<v Speaker 1>you haven't even apologized yet for leaving him in the closet,

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<v Speaker 1>That he sounds happy lying about having a boyfriend, Like,

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<v Speaker 1>why are you trying to I'm not digging anything up.

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<v Speaker 1>It's like right there on the start trying to start

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<v Speaker 1>a fight. I go trying to start a fight. I'm

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<v Speaker 1>just saying, Sandra, like what was going through your mind

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<v Speaker 1>when you're making out with some boyfriend while he was

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<v Speaker 1>in the closet. I know it looks really bad. The

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<v Speaker 1>thing is is that this guy that I've been seeing,

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<v Speaker 1>he's just kind of trouble. I mean, he has been

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<v Speaker 1>in and out of prison and does have a little

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<v Speaker 1>bit of a mean streak, not to me, but others

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<v Speaker 1>who have wronged him. Yeah, Sandra, you deserve better than that.

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<v Speaker 1>You guys, listen, this guy's gonna find out about their

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<v Speaker 1>relationship and he's gonna kill him. So he's not kind

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<v Speaker 1>of like violent mean is He's just more like loud,

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<v Speaker 1>angry mean bro, you went to prison, not for like

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<v Speaker 1>emotionally yelling at somebody. Sandra. You know, I don't think

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<v Speaker 1>I should talk about everything he's done because I don't

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<v Speaker 1>want to get him in trouble and I don't want

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<v Speaker 1>to block that out onto the error. But like Noah,

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<v Speaker 1>like I said, and I told these guys. You're the

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<v Speaker 1>type of person that I need in my life, and

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<v Speaker 1>I am really interested, and I think it makes sense

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<v Speaker 1>we could have something. Okay, I feel like there's something

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<v Speaker 1>here to work with. Still, yeah, I mean between the

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<v Speaker 1>prison guy and Noah, she chooses Noah. That's got to

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<v Speaker 1>feel good. You're right. Wait, does that mean you're actually

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<v Speaker 1>going to break up? Like break up break up with

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<v Speaker 1>prison dude? It's not going to be easy. But I

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<v Speaker 1>think if I sit and talk with him and kind

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<v Speaker 1>of tell him everything and tell him about Noah, then

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<v Speaker 1>oh maybe he'll understand. Maybe I don't think so. Yeah. Wait,

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<v Speaker 1>why do you have to tell him about me? Yeah? Well,

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<v Speaker 1>he's gonna want to know who I'm seeing no So

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<v Speaker 1>can't you just tell him that's none of your business?

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<v Speaker 1>I mean, I told you he has an angry issue,

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<v Speaker 1>so he's gonna want to know. I'm probably gonna want

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<v Speaker 1>to meet him. But like, I think it's going to

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<v Speaker 1>be fine. Well, maybe we can help make that happened,

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<v Speaker 1>because we would love to send you guys out on

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<v Speaker 1>another day. We will pay for it, and you, Noah

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<v Speaker 1>and the prison guy can all meet and discuss leaving

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<v Speaker 1>your relationship to just being with Noah. That sounds like

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<v Speaker 1>it's going to be civil. I mean, I'm sure he'll

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<v Speaker 1>be the reasonable one between the three of you. Yeah, Sandra,

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<v Speaker 1>what do you say? I'm down to try and see

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<v Speaker 1>if this can work with Nolla in whatever way possible.

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<v Speaker 1>I think that's good if you need a healthy relationship. Yes, Noah,

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<v Speaker 1>you're still up for this, Sandra. I really want to

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<v Speaker 1>make things work with you. But I'm I'm a little

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<v Speaker 1>nervous about you know this guy. Yeah, come on, Sandra.

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<v Speaker 1>He doesn't have to meet him, does he. Yeah, just

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<v Speaker 1>tell him your name is like Jeffrey de bou or something. Okay,

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<v Speaker 1>running out of time. I think it's gonna be fine.

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<v Speaker 1>It's probably going to take him a few days to

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<v Speaker 1>get over it, but I think we'll be okay. Okay,

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<v Speaker 1>I don't know how I feel positive right now, but

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<v Speaker 1>I do don't know. You don't look at Sandra take

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<v Speaker 1>in charge of her own life, making decisions for herself.

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<v Speaker 1>Good jobs. It sounds like someone's about to go back

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<v Speaker 1>to prison. Yeah, Jeffrey in the morning. That was an

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<v Speaker 1>update from months ago. Oh yeah, I totally forgot about

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<v Speaker 1>that one. So we reached out to Noah and Sandra

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<v Speaker 1>to check in see if they had any new information

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<v Speaker 1>from us. Okay, sorry, see if Noah is alive, that's

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<v Speaker 1>a very good Now they emailed us back. They said

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<v Speaker 1>they never made that three way date with Sandra's boyfriend

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<v Speaker 1>ever happened, but they are on the line right now

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<v Speaker 1>to tell us what's new in their relationship. Noah, Sandra,

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<v Speaker 1>welcome back to the show. YEAHI thank you. Noah. Wait

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<v Speaker 1>are you there? Noah, I'm here. Okay, thank you guys.

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<v Speaker 1>So what's going on with you guys? Are you still

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<v Speaker 1>together or what's happened? Yeah? I know we've we're together.

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<v Speaker 1>We've been dating. Oh my god, that's awesome. Wait what

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<v Speaker 1>happened with the felon ex boyfriend? Now? Um, it's still

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<v Speaker 1>a little bit complicated. Oh what do you mean, Well,

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<v Speaker 1>technically I am still seeing my I guess boyfriend from previously. Okay, okay,

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<v Speaker 1>this is one of those like you have two boyfriends

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<v Speaker 1>or are you all doing a throuttle together? No, we're

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<v Speaker 1>not doing a throttle. Um, you know everything, like Noah

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<v Speaker 1>knows everything. Um, I definitely want to break up with him,

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<v Speaker 1>but still we're just trying to find the right time

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<v Speaker 1>to do it. And it's been months. I know, you

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<v Speaker 1>can find one moment lots like half of a year

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<v Speaker 1>to be like this is over. It just hasn't been

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<v Speaker 1>the right time. No, you're a psite piece. Then does

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<v Speaker 1>the felon boyfriend know about Noah? No, he doesn't know

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<v Speaker 1>about me, and you know, I kind of want to

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<v Speaker 1>keep it that way to be honest. Are you still

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<v Speaker 1>in a closet right now? I do hope he breaks

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<v Speaker 1>up with him soon. But for one, I'm not wanted

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<v Speaker 1>to control her, you know. And he also that dude

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<v Speaker 1>intimidates me, and I don't really mean that. I want

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<v Speaker 1>to be on the other side of that. So yeah, no,

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<v Speaker 1>that's true. You know what, you don't want to be

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<v Speaker 1>the guy that's telling your woman like, hey, you need

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<v Speaker 1>to dump him. No, No, I mean it's fine. We're

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<v Speaker 1>gonna figure this out. You know. I want to be

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<v Speaker 1>with Noah. I think we're meant to be together. So well, yeah,

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<v Speaker 1>good luck. I definitely we need to stay in contact

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<v Speaker 1>with you. We need to know the second that the

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<v Speaker 1>other relationship ends. Yeah, we're working on it. We're working

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<v Speaker 1>on it, and when the time comes, I think everyone

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<v Speaker 1>will be happy. Maybe just make the time just an

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<v Speaker 1>idea that sounds kind of hard. Yeah, And Jeffrey in

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<v Speaker 1>the Morning