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Speaker 1: When you're twenty four, twenty five, you shouldn't even really

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Speaker 1: a couple way, or do you call it quits? On

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Speaker 1: this show, we say never never. No matter how many

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Speaker 1: times you fail miserably, you get back up on that

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Speaker 1: dating horse and you ride, you ride until your backside's

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Speaker 1: blistered in blue, and you finally find that special person,

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Speaker 1: or at least someone who's willing to spend time with

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Speaker 1: you in exchange for money. Yes, and in that spirit,

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Speaker 1: we have a listener who was on with us before

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Speaker 1: So let's say welcome back to Noah. What's up Noah?

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Speaker 1: Hey guys, Yeah, we're hanging there. Wait, Noah, can you

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Speaker 1: phone with us? Oh? Man? So business girl Anna that

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Speaker 1: Oh with your face on it? You said her like

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Speaker 1: a yeah, she sucks. We're over her. She's dead to us.

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Speaker 1: That's right. We're looking forward to the next victim or

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Speaker 1: from a love interest, next love interest? What's her name? Noah, prospect?

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Speaker 1: I couldn't think of it. So her name is Sandra? Okay,

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Speaker 1: she is amazing. I'm like, Okay, Anna's sister. I just

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Speaker 1: love no you are obviously a hopeless romantic. You fall hard,

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Speaker 1: To be fair? Like this girl, Sandra. I know I

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Speaker 1: Sandra after all these years? Okay? Guys. So here's what happened.

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Speaker 1: I asked alf the happy hour and we had a

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Speaker 1: great time. We started talking about, you know, high school,

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Speaker 1: good to think back about high school. Yeah, it sounds

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Speaker 1: So what happened then? I mean, did you guys end

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Speaker 1: All right, man, hold on Brook and Jeffrey in the morning.

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Speaker 1: You're in the middle of a second date update update,

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Speaker 1: and we're gonna find out how the couple is doing

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Speaker 1: right after you here Part two. Everybody's worse nightmare is

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Speaker 1: I don't. I'll tell you that. Don't haters. We're all realists.

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Speaker 1: We're all rooting for you. Man. So I'm gonna dial

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Speaker 1: the Morning. How are you doing? Okay, I'm good. Good.

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Speaker 1: We're in the middle of a segment called a second

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Speaker 1: of it. Oh um, don't. I don't know what is

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Speaker 1: It's where if you go out on a date with someone,

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Speaker 1: to help you figure out the reason why. Oh it

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Speaker 1: makes sense. Sure. Okay, So recently you went out with

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