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Speaker 1: Guess what decision we're about to make. Horrible decisions. Hey, guys,

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Speaker 1: welcome to another episode of horrible Decision. I'm your home

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Speaker 1: girl or not or that bitch or whatever you want

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Speaker 1: to call me any motherfucking day of the week, Mandy

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Speaker 1: b or all of my A k's, and you can

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Speaker 1: make up your own if you want. I ain't gonna listen,

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Speaker 1: as I ain't gonna listen because the people watching have

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Speaker 1: their idea of who I am, and so I am

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Speaker 1: whatever you want to call me. There's those names. I

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Speaker 1: am whatever you want me to be in your life.

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Speaker 1: You could hate me, you could love me either way.

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Speaker 1: I don't give up goddamn reds as just someone. No

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Speaker 1: nobody made me man, it just here. Yeah, listen. People

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Speaker 1: like watching train Rex, people like they don't like at all,

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Speaker 1: Like I don't like watching fights. You know what I do.

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Speaker 1: Don't turn off when I see a fight. So even

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Speaker 1: when people don't like me, they're still gonna tune in.

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Speaker 1: And so for those of you who don't like me

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Speaker 1: or like me, welcome back. Confused the funk out of me?

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Speaker 1: Like like I don't like fights, right, I cringe it fights,

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Speaker 1: But I'm gonna watch a fight. I don't like seeing

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Speaker 1: all this, Like I'll be mad as hell when there's

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Speaker 1: traffic because of an accident. Guess what I do stop

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Speaker 1: and look at the same ship that just made me

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Speaker 1: the funk mad because now I want to see it.

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Speaker 1: So it's the same. I think it's the same way

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Speaker 1: with podcasts, like you know what I mean, like things

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Speaker 1: that people do not like, like let me bring it

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Speaker 1: to this cannot stand certain members of the Real Housewives

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Speaker 1: of multiple franchises. Guess what I do still tune in

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Speaker 1: knowing I don't like Candice, even though they're making me

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Speaker 1: like her this this season. I still tune in even

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Speaker 1: when there's people that I don't like. So it's like that,

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Speaker 1: you know what I mean? Oh well, I don't be

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Speaker 1: Like it's enough to turn our Patreon for five dollars

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Speaker 1: a month and we have edding and if you're on

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Speaker 1: the YouTube, you get to see his cutie pipe face

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Speaker 1: not the cutie pipe wow, because I just feel like,

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Speaker 1: you look really cute right now at the little beer

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Speaker 1: and you got your little like you got the little

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Speaker 1: hoodie done, and we love that you know what you're

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Speaker 1: actually looking like, only because like you took my pictures

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Speaker 1: at uh at my at my college graduation. You look

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Speaker 1: like you're getting money now, like you got the little

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Speaker 1: The way you even cut your hair is different. You

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Speaker 1: don't even look like a full Mexican anymore. Like you

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Speaker 1: look like you look like you look like you could

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Speaker 1: be mixed to black. Now it's the haircut. You go

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Speaker 1: to a black barbaradale edding. No, but he's a Domican know.

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Speaker 1: Um wow, I you even getting money now at age?

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Speaker 1: Go ahead? Getting older? You kind of like you don't

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Speaker 1: have that little kid face. She said, you aging like

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Speaker 1: a white man. No, you like you look you look

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Speaker 1: like a man. Now you're giving a little boy before

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Speaker 1: just being real? How many people can see it in

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Speaker 1: your face? Like you when you're feeling confident about the space,

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Speaker 1: like people can read it on you. Um, let me

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Speaker 1: tell you about the single white female ship? What is?

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Speaker 1: What is single white female addicted to retail? What's going on?

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Speaker 1: I don't know what's going on. So a little birdie

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Speaker 1: told me about someone that I used to date and

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Speaker 1: someone knew that they're dating, and I hung around her

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Speaker 1: at a few parties once or twice. Sounds like really, okay,

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Speaker 1: I guess I could see that. So I see the bitch,

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Speaker 1: why she got to be a bit already, why she

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Speaker 1: can't just be a woman? I saw her. I saw

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Speaker 1: the lovely lady out of party downtown in l A.

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Speaker 1: First off, her nails were black and white, black and

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Speaker 1: white toes, black and white nails, and she also had

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Speaker 1: um braids, which I've never seen her in before. And

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Speaker 1: single white female is the movie. And then saw someone

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Speaker 1: just started copying her right stop looking at her and

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Speaker 1: I said, okay, girl, when did you start doing that?

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Speaker 1: And she was like, oh, I was just getting back

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Speaker 1: into the black and white shoot again. Huh. So I

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Speaker 1: literally said to her like I love your braids. Where

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Speaker 1: do you get him down? And she goes shamelessly, you're

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Speaker 1: a brighter. I said, oh, She's like yeah, you tagged her.

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Speaker 1: I was like, okay, it was weird. You got the braids, ye,

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Speaker 1: you got the dales like me, And I was like

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Speaker 1: ahi whatever. Thirty minutes later, um, I started talking to

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Speaker 1: a dude and he's like, yo, I didn't know you

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Speaker 1: host that podcast for a Decisions. I was like, yeah,

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Speaker 1: he is. I couldn't believe this bitch got a sex

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Speaker 1: just say media marketing type ship. So I'm like, when

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Speaker 1: did you get a sex podcast? She's like, oh, I

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Speaker 1: recently just started like delving into it. It's just always

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Speaker 1: been something I'm passionate about in her thirties, and now

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Speaker 1: you're sucking the nigga that I used to fuck. You

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Speaker 1: got a sex podcast, Braid Black of White Dails. Okay,

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Speaker 1: how so now I'm mad because you really just doing

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Speaker 1: this in my what else? So whatever? We leave. It

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Speaker 1: was bro When I tell you it was weird, it

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Speaker 1: was fucking weird. So we leave and I see her

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Speaker 1: at this party. I'll be going to shout out to

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Speaker 1: Andre Power. I always go to the link up in

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Speaker 1: l A and the bitches there, Mandy, I'm not even playing.

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Speaker 1: I put on an outfit in my story the night

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Speaker 1: before all dental right, like a Canadian suxedo. I'm not

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Speaker 1: saying nobody can wear this, but I specifically wore it

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Speaker 1: with like this lacy black broth posted in my story.

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Speaker 1: The girl was wearing the same offit, and I was like,

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Speaker 1: what are the odds that this could happen? So now

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Speaker 1: at this point, I'm like, this hole gonna steal the

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Speaker 1: hair off my head for a DNA say, but thank

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Speaker 1: god it's not mine. This ship was so fucking weird.

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Speaker 1: So dude, one of my homegirls at the party was like,

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Speaker 1: you know who this bitch is? I said who? She said,

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Speaker 1: she's McDowell's, bro. This bitch is the big Man's mcdowas

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Speaker 1: and bro. When I tell you, like, flattery is one thing,

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Speaker 1: but like that ship is fucking weird. Is fun. So

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Speaker 1: now I'm kind of irritated that, and I'm like, but

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Speaker 1: from somewhere. I'm like, no, I don't work there, and

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Speaker 1: she's like, don't she work for Kenyan Barriss. I'm mad

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Speaker 1: cool with him, Yeah, Like I was working on a

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Speaker 1: TV show with him a while ago. Oh but it

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Speaker 1: wasn't a sex podcast btch and walking a sex podcast?

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Speaker 1: What were you working on and with what else is

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Speaker 1: it home? I was so mad Mandy, I couldn't even

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Speaker 1: Do you work for his podcast division? Also? Do you

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Speaker 1: also host the podcast for Horrible Decisions? And she looked

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Speaker 1: me dead in the face. I can't stay in that ship. Like,

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Speaker 1: here's the thing I think we need to distinguish, sincerely,

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Speaker 1: like that'sh is not cool. I know that that the

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Speaker 1: nigga that she's sucking with, I know he peep peeping

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Speaker 1: that ship because he's definitely talked to me about how

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Speaker 1: people can get weird and two in your space. But

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Speaker 1: like we have to really understand that, yes, you can

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Speaker 1: be flattered by something, but like you can't carbon copy,

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Speaker 1: Like that ship is disgusting and it's embarrassing. And now

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Speaker 1: everybody in the room feeling weird as fun and I'm

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Speaker 1: talking with her nails, her black and white nails bro

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Speaker 1: to where I had to change on the week after.

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Speaker 1: I was so mad and it only came up to

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Speaker 1: me today because the nigga that I'm texting was like, YO,

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Speaker 1: have you ever met so and so she looks like

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Speaker 1: you're twin what's not? And that's all I have to say.

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Speaker 1: You guys had a lot to let go this episode,

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Speaker 1: you know, and I'm really proud of you guys. Oh

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Speaker 1: my god, and shut can you imagine like you literally

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Speaker 1: just go in in the bitch started looking like you

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Speaker 1: what's Nick? Black and white toes? Yes, that's what I'm saying,

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Speaker 1: was it ready? Then I'm starting a sex podcast? What

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Speaker 1: the funk are you going through? Bits? Man? You never

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Speaker 1: had a clone. I don't think I've paid that much

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Speaker 1: attention to other people, Like, well, this was a very

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Speaker 1: I don't know, that's what I mean. I don't know.

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Speaker 1: I don't like if someone cuts their hair and goes behind,

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Speaker 1: like I don't think, oh they want to be me.

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Speaker 1: That's just a haircut. That's just a haircut. It was

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Speaker 1: just black and white nails. At one point, there's a

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Speaker 1: I'm sorry and niga No. It was so weird that,

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Speaker 1: you a little like she with your hair and ship

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Speaker 1: like there's a point in time where like when there's

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Speaker 1: something unique about you. He's like, I'm not um frustrated

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Speaker 1: but an associate, just someone. Did she ever compliment you,

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Speaker 1: she met him through you in association, not like did

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Speaker 1: you know that I used to suck him and now

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Speaker 1: you started sucking him? Because I thought, like what the

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Speaker 1: funk is that? It's fucking weird. But don't get me wrong, though,

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Speaker 1: because niggas will do that ship too. They'll they will

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Speaker 1: love the girl that someone they admire. Talk that's that's weird.

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Speaker 1: But like once it started to the other ship, I

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Speaker 1: know he gotta be sitting here looking at them. Toldes like, bitch,

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Speaker 1: you did not have to do with red when I

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Speaker 1: met you, And it's fucking weird, and I think, like,

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Speaker 1: there's the thing is like, at what point do I

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Speaker 1: I made the joke about are you also my co host?

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Speaker 1: But like, yeah, I don't know. I'm uncomfortable as fuck,

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Speaker 1: and I just feel like, now I can't even give

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Speaker 1: details about the niggas. I mean, because she's gonna be like,

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Speaker 1: let's see next the next one actor. Would I say,

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Speaker 1: a few weeks ago, what what else does he do? No,

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Speaker 1: this bitch, I'm telling you. It's like, you know, when

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Speaker 1: in Broad City she was into the girl that looked

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Speaker 1: like her as this kid, You're giving all these references

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Speaker 1: and I do not know none of them. Coming to

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Speaker 1: America mcdwell it was like, oh, like the McDonald's. I

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Speaker 1: was like, who is McDowell. Yeah, she's a McDowell's. Oh okay, okay, okay,

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Speaker 1: so okay caught that one real late. Everybody said, look

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Speaker 1: at the big man, that's what she is. No, it's

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Speaker 1: just weird. I us when you like stop dating someone

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Speaker 1: and then you know, we all kind of date someone

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Speaker 1: hi to the people. You're not gonna come on, come on,

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Speaker 1: You're not gonna come over your music candy for that?

425
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Speaker 1: Come on we Wolf? Can you text to Mike? There

426
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Speaker 1: we go. Let me not objectify you work. We should

427
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Speaker 1: all go around and give either our best eating pussy

428
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Speaker 1: tip or one that has been told to us. Suck

429
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Speaker 1: the definitely not too hard. I don't like to Yeah,

430
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Speaker 1: do you know do some thoughts do something right when

431
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Speaker 1: you're especially grabbing the thigh. I love when somebody called

432
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Speaker 1: ask like in their hands and they're like, I mean,

433
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Speaker 1: I'm very visual and I've been using a lot of toys,

434
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Speaker 1: so I would say, um, if you're a woman like

435
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Speaker 1: myself who enjoys penetration, even if like you bring out

436
00:23:02,160 --> 00:23:05,879
Speaker 1: a dildo and have him use the dildo instead of

437
00:23:05,960 --> 00:23:09,440
Speaker 1: his fingers and eat you at the same time, like

438
00:23:10,080 --> 00:23:13,000
Speaker 1: it's again my fantasy of having two partners. If I'm

439
00:23:13,040 --> 00:23:15,359
Speaker 1: getting funck the household on my pussy eight so like

440
00:23:15,640 --> 00:23:18,920
Speaker 1: to be getting penetrated with the dildo, to be okay

441
00:23:18,960 --> 00:23:20,960
Speaker 1: with using a vibrator. But for some reason, I feel

442
00:23:21,000 --> 00:23:26,000
Speaker 1: like dildo throws men off. Would you eat Raise of

443
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Speaker 1: hands in the room. No one knows who's in this room,

444
00:23:28,240 --> 00:23:29,720
Speaker 1: Raise your hands if you would eat a pussy with

445
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Speaker 1: a dildo in it. I love this, all right, I

446
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Speaker 1: love You're the only freak buddy. I love this, But

447
00:23:36,040 --> 00:23:38,760
Speaker 1: you know what, to me, a vibrator is for my clip.

448
00:23:38,840 --> 00:23:40,560
Speaker 1: I don't want to vibrator on my plus. But that's

449
00:23:40,600 --> 00:23:42,879
Speaker 1: what I'm saying. I think, for some reason, holding a

450
00:23:43,040 --> 00:23:46,440
Speaker 1: dick to a man like because in their heads there's

451
00:23:46,480 --> 00:23:48,879
Speaker 1: so many, there's so many dildos. You know what, if

452
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Speaker 1: you're an insecure man listening to this pot and oh, yes,

453
00:23:54,240 --> 00:23:56,399
Speaker 1: I'm calling you out, Yes you right there, who wouldn't

454
00:23:56,400 --> 00:24:00,960
Speaker 1: come out on camera if you're insecure? That's the thing

455
00:24:01,000 --> 00:24:03,520
Speaker 1: about a dildo, right, It doesn't have to look like

456
00:24:03,600 --> 00:24:06,280
Speaker 1: a dick. And what's crazy is there's some now that

457
00:24:06,400 --> 00:24:11,760
Speaker 1: are literally just cylindrical or because Nigga's a childish. I

458
00:24:11,880 --> 00:24:14,720
Speaker 1: have seen dildos that are like that look like an eggplant.

459
00:24:14,760 --> 00:24:18,600
Speaker 1: They're like the emojis. There's bananas. There's things that are

460
00:24:18,720 --> 00:24:21,240
Speaker 1: just like they look like food, or they look like

461
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Speaker 1: a hot dog. That's some New York. Should I hold

462
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Speaker 1: a little motherfucking you're crazy? Then I'm gonna put an

463
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Speaker 1: egg wind though, like nig here with the Hennessey bottom

464
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Speaker 1: and the Spider Man and oh yeah, I know that

465
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Speaker 1: Nigga ain't doing it. That's the most New York have

466
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Speaker 1: you seen him? No, he's a he's a crip Spiderman.

467
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Speaker 1: So the side bottoman sewars red. I'm confused, and he

468
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Speaker 1: is too. Is this whole soup blue? Because Spider Man

469
00:24:52,760 --> 00:24:54,800
Speaker 1: be banging? Was he a good guest? Would he be

470
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Speaker 1: a good guess? Yeah? It was good? Yeah, wait, but

471
00:24:58,760 --> 00:25:00,840
Speaker 1: he probably don't even use a though. I don't want

472
00:25:00,880 --> 00:25:04,240
Speaker 1: anything on the pod to talk about already in a pussy,

473
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Speaker 1: you know what I'm saying. I'm gonna ask if he

474
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Speaker 1: changed the colors on his s I'd I really be

475
00:25:13,720 --> 00:25:16,400
Speaker 1: missing it, Like I'm really like happy to be there

476
00:25:16,760 --> 00:25:18,359
Speaker 1: and like I really enjoyed my time and I'm right

477
00:25:18,400 --> 00:25:20,600
Speaker 1: down the middle. So it's best of both worlds, but

478
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Speaker 1: right to them. Last few days in l A, I'm

479
00:25:23,200 --> 00:25:26,000
Speaker 1: missing niggas talking to me crazy. I'm sorry. I'm not

480
00:25:26,160 --> 00:25:30,520
Speaker 1: saying being objective out it is for everybody, but I

481
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Speaker 1: do like it. I was in Brooklyn yesterday and man,

482
00:25:35,320 --> 00:25:38,000
Speaker 1: I got on the train and I just NASA called

483
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Speaker 1: me an angel? Who's doing that in that way? Nobody

484
00:25:41,040 --> 00:25:43,399
Speaker 1: they're not an angel? Is good? Right? He's like, you

485
00:25:43,760 --> 00:25:51,919
Speaker 1: fucking angel? Myma. I was like, yeah, gracious, um, does

486
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Speaker 1: anyone else have a proceeding tip? But the second I'll

487
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Speaker 1: just say I know I am already said clip second,

488
00:25:57,400 --> 00:26:01,800
Speaker 1: but I'll just say, guys, a a toy is your partner.

489
00:26:02,000 --> 00:26:05,680
Speaker 1: Thank you, not your competitor. Thank you, Edding. I appreciate that.

490
00:26:06,320 --> 00:26:13,720
Speaker 1: Good for you. Thank you over there. Oh yeah, I'm

491
00:26:13,760 --> 00:26:15,800
Speaker 1: not the only one that he's pussy back here. What's

492
00:26:15,840 --> 00:26:24,600
Speaker 1: going on is passing out? You know, you don't. Just

493
00:26:24,680 --> 00:26:26,359
Speaker 1: don't have to breathe when you're down there, Just stop

494
00:26:26,520 --> 00:26:33,240
Speaker 1: at yourself in all right, does anyone here you have siblings?

495
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Speaker 1: And you do? Okay, I don't here for the horrible decision.

496
00:26:37,280 --> 00:26:39,879
Speaker 1: Today is our home mail. Let's get into some brothers

497
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Speaker 1: sister loving. No, we are not doing on the podcast.

498
00:26:43,800 --> 00:26:47,360
Speaker 1: It's not incess, but because a step brother, step sister.

499
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Speaker 1: Oh no him Indian Wheezy love the pod and the

500
00:26:52,400 --> 00:26:55,280
Speaker 1: empowerment you both exude and bring to other people. I

501
00:26:55,359 --> 00:26:56,960
Speaker 1: know you both were saying that you don't want to

502
00:26:57,040 --> 00:26:59,399
Speaker 1: give three some advice anymore, but this is a little different.

503
00:27:00,040 --> 00:27:02,440
Speaker 1: Oh God. Last weekend I went to hang out with

504
00:27:02,480 --> 00:27:04,120
Speaker 1: a guy that I've been talking to for a while

505
00:27:04,160 --> 00:27:07,560
Speaker 1: on Tinder. For reference, I'm twenty seven and the guy

506
00:27:07,720 --> 00:27:10,040
Speaker 1: was talking to was fifty two. The day I was

507
00:27:10,080 --> 00:27:11,960
Speaker 1: supposed to go over his house to meet for drinks,

508
00:27:12,320 --> 00:27:14,120
Speaker 1: he had sent me a text that said his sister

509
00:27:14,280 --> 00:27:17,120
Speaker 1: was in town, and he sent me a photo of her. Initially,

510
00:27:17,160 --> 00:27:18,760
Speaker 1: I did think it was kind of weird and random

511
00:27:18,840 --> 00:27:20,879
Speaker 1: that he would sent me a picture, but I replied

512
00:27:20,880 --> 00:27:22,320
Speaker 1: saying she was pretty, and I asked what they were

513
00:27:22,400 --> 00:27:25,360
Speaker 1: up to. He responded and told me that she thought

514
00:27:25,440 --> 00:27:31,080
Speaker 1: I was pretty too, Please he was planning ship. Please

515
00:27:31,200 --> 00:27:33,280
Speaker 1: keep in mind that I am pretty far on the

516
00:27:33,320 --> 00:27:36,040
Speaker 1: straight side of the spectrum, not even doing more than

517
00:27:36,080 --> 00:27:38,440
Speaker 1: a peck with another woman on the lips. After a

518
00:27:38,520 --> 00:27:40,159
Speaker 1: little bit more talking he asked if I would be

519
00:27:40,200 --> 00:27:42,960
Speaker 1: okay if his sister hung out with us too. Of course,

520
00:27:43,000 --> 00:27:44,280
Speaker 1: I don't want to be rude, so I said, yeah,

521
00:27:44,280 --> 00:27:46,359
Speaker 1: that's fine, even though I was somewhat uncomfortable meeting his

522
00:27:46,440 --> 00:27:49,080
Speaker 1: sister the first night that I'm meeting him, because again,

523
00:27:49,160 --> 00:27:52,800
Speaker 1: they were meeting on Tinder. So I drive to his house,

524
00:27:53,600 --> 00:27:55,800
Speaker 1: meet him and his sister, and we proceed to take shots,

525
00:27:56,200 --> 00:28:00,239
Speaker 1: do some lines, eat some shrews troops. After a little bit,

526
00:28:00,520 --> 00:28:02,600
Speaker 1: the sister and the guy I'm talking to inform me

527
00:28:02,720 --> 00:28:06,800
Speaker 1: that they aren't blood related, but she was adopted. She's

528
00:28:06,840 --> 00:28:10,000
Speaker 1: the same age as me, and after hearing this info,

529
00:28:10,400 --> 00:28:12,760
Speaker 1: they both get into the pool naked and invite me

530
00:28:12,840 --> 00:28:15,920
Speaker 1: to join me. Already being fucked up, I said, fuck it,

531
00:28:16,040 --> 00:28:18,280
Speaker 1: got naked, got in the pool. After a while in

532
00:28:18,359 --> 00:28:20,720
Speaker 1: the pool, they both started touching on me, kissing on

533
00:28:20,840 --> 00:28:23,080
Speaker 1: my body. I let it go a little further before

534
00:28:23,160 --> 00:28:27,640
Speaker 1: stopping because overthinking. I kept over thinking about the fact

535
00:28:27,720 --> 00:28:30,080
Speaker 1: that they were brother and sister. They invited me back over,

536
00:28:30,200 --> 00:28:32,040
Speaker 1: but I'm not sure if it's too weird having my

537
00:28:32,119 --> 00:28:34,920
Speaker 1: first threesome and my first girl and girl experience with

538
00:28:34,960 --> 00:28:37,320
Speaker 1: her brother and sister. Please give me inside on what

539
00:28:37,400 --> 00:28:40,160
Speaker 1: you think, s os So, I think I think two things.

540
00:28:41,880 --> 00:28:48,640
Speaker 1: One one being one babe, this is absolutely um weird um.

541
00:28:49,120 --> 00:28:52,520
Speaker 1: Here's why they are not blood related, and so because

542
00:28:52,560 --> 00:28:55,720
Speaker 1: of the adoption, I actually don't think they're brother like

543
00:28:55,920 --> 00:28:58,000
Speaker 1: I would be fine with not identifying them as brother

544
00:28:58,040 --> 00:29:01,800
Speaker 1: and sister. However, be of the age difference, not even step,

545
00:29:02,040 --> 00:29:06,480
Speaker 1: but it's also it's adoption. However, because of the age difference,

546
00:29:07,040 --> 00:29:09,440
Speaker 1: how I would look at it that he's a sick

547
00:29:09,520 --> 00:29:13,240
Speaker 1: buck who groomed and manipulated this young girl to being

548
00:29:13,320 --> 00:29:19,040
Speaker 1: that thinking because he's him being fifty two, the sister

549
00:29:19,280 --> 00:29:22,160
Speaker 1: that was adopted being twenty seven. Who knows when this

550
00:29:22,280 --> 00:29:25,360
Speaker 1: relationship started, but to me, it's very to me, it's

551
00:29:25,560 --> 00:29:27,800
Speaker 1: it's it's it reads more like this is a sick buck.

552
00:29:28,320 --> 00:29:32,800
Speaker 1: Like outside of the age difference, this being his sister

553
00:29:33,040 --> 00:29:36,200
Speaker 1: that was adopted, I would just be curious when this began,

554
00:29:36,640 --> 00:29:42,800
Speaker 1: and I would look at him weird like this relationship

555
00:29:43,440 --> 00:29:46,040
Speaker 1: and because he's so much older, to me, it sounds

556
00:29:46,120 --> 00:29:48,960
Speaker 1: more like grooming, like he stepped in and did ship

557
00:29:49,080 --> 00:29:51,480
Speaker 1: that he shouldn't have been doing. As a quote unquote brother,

558
00:29:51,920 --> 00:29:54,600
Speaker 1: I would be completely turned off with him, not with

559
00:29:55,080 --> 00:29:58,160
Speaker 1: their situation, but just looking into not his nigga, a

560
00:29:58,240 --> 00:30:00,840
Speaker 1: freak buck. So I brought up Allen because when I

561
00:30:00,920 --> 00:30:02,800
Speaker 1: was reading it, I thought about Woody Allen. So if

562
00:30:02,840 --> 00:30:06,160
Speaker 1: no one's familiar, there's a documentary I think it's it's

563
00:30:06,200 --> 00:30:12,440
Speaker 1: called Pharaoh something, but basically Farre netflix Oh Mia Farrel

564
00:30:12,480 --> 00:30:14,160
Speaker 1: is a woman that dated. They might have more of

565
00:30:14,200 --> 00:30:17,240
Speaker 1: them Alan Alan versus Farrell, Thank you. That was a

566
00:30:17,280 --> 00:30:19,880
Speaker 1: court case. So Mia Farrow was as an actress, so

567
00:30:19,960 --> 00:30:22,280
Speaker 1: it was what he Alen has made some of the

568
00:30:22,360 --> 00:30:25,080
Speaker 1: best movies ever, but he's a sick fuck. So Mia

569
00:30:25,120 --> 00:30:29,000
Speaker 1: Farrow adopted all these kids, one of them being what's

570
00:30:29,040 --> 00:30:32,560
Speaker 1: her name, Jenny suey m I thing in a rush hour.

571
00:30:35,480 --> 00:30:41,360
Speaker 1: But anyway, he grew up with this girl and was

572
00:30:41,480 --> 00:30:44,520
Speaker 1: her stepfather so to speak. She did exist before with

573
00:30:44,640 --> 00:30:49,800
Speaker 1: Mia Faraoh. So long story short, he is now married

574
00:30:49,840 --> 00:30:56,120
Speaker 1: to her today. Um right, Uh, I'm not gonna get

575
00:30:56,120 --> 00:30:58,520
Speaker 1: into detail about the documentary. It was sick, but to me,

576
00:30:59,720 --> 00:31:02,160
Speaker 1: I'd just don't see how you get to marriage of

577
00:31:02,320 --> 00:31:07,120
Speaker 1: your wife's adopted child without have grooming that relationship the

578
00:31:07,160 --> 00:31:09,880
Speaker 1: whole time. Me and Pharoh and the documentary talks about

579
00:31:09,880 --> 00:31:13,120
Speaker 1: how she found pictures of Sunni like um Polaroid's naked,

580
00:31:13,440 --> 00:31:15,520
Speaker 1: asked her who took them and it was him, of course,

581
00:31:15,840 --> 00:31:20,680
Speaker 1: and like some wild ship. But I just can't understand

582
00:31:20,880 --> 00:31:23,440
Speaker 1: growing up together in that way. Here's the other thing.

583
00:31:23,600 --> 00:31:26,280
Speaker 1: He's fifty two, she's twenty seven. There's probably a chance

584
00:31:26,320 --> 00:31:28,960
Speaker 1: they never grew up in the same house. And to me,

585
00:31:30,280 --> 00:31:36,880
Speaker 1: that's still sick because your family members took in this child. Yeah,

586
00:31:37,720 --> 00:31:41,880
Speaker 1: there's so much fussy everywhere. Yeah, but here's the other

587
00:31:41,960 --> 00:31:44,880
Speaker 1: thing too. I think the situations like this happened because

588
00:31:45,000 --> 00:31:48,760
Speaker 1: being bad feels really good, like to both people, right,

589
00:31:49,040 --> 00:31:52,680
Speaker 1: whether it be you fucking a coworker, you fucking um,

590
00:31:53,960 --> 00:31:56,720
Speaker 1: I don't know, one of your one of your man's friends. Like,

591
00:31:56,960 --> 00:32:00,200
Speaker 1: being bad feels really good when it's consensual. However, when

592
00:32:00,240 --> 00:32:03,600
Speaker 1: there's grooming taking place where someone is significantly younger and

593
00:32:03,720 --> 00:32:09,120
Speaker 1: looks up to this person as uh father figure, to me,

594
00:32:09,480 --> 00:32:12,320
Speaker 1: it more so creates the dynamic of like what Harvey

595
00:32:12,360 --> 00:32:14,640
Speaker 1: Weinstein did, Like, you're a person to power, you're a

596
00:32:14,680 --> 00:32:17,880
Speaker 1: person of influence. You're also someone at one point could

597
00:32:17,920 --> 00:32:19,760
Speaker 1: punish me, could stop me from doing things I had

598
00:32:19,800 --> 00:32:22,800
Speaker 1: to ask permission for and so to me, that takes

599
00:32:22,840 --> 00:32:26,160
Speaker 1: away from both people being bad in this instance only

600
00:32:26,240 --> 00:32:28,640
Speaker 1: because she was young when they met. Yeah, I'm not

601
00:32:28,760 --> 00:32:30,600
Speaker 1: saying it's hot or anything like that, but I think

602
00:32:30,680 --> 00:32:33,320
Speaker 1: this is where all that ship like it's under that umbrella.

603
00:32:33,400 --> 00:32:35,200
Speaker 1: Like there's so many things that are taboo, and this

604
00:32:35,400 --> 00:32:37,280
Speaker 1: is one of those that just unfortunately cross the lines.

605
00:32:37,320 --> 00:32:40,280
Speaker 1: So she was like, thirty seven, would that make a difference,

606
00:32:40,560 --> 00:32:43,080
Speaker 1: he's fifty two. To me, there will still be grooming

607
00:32:43,200 --> 00:32:47,800
Speaker 1: that No, because in there four years apart. Yeah, I

608
00:32:47,840 --> 00:32:52,040
Speaker 1: think that they're just young. Two young girls makes it weird. Um,

609
00:32:52,280 --> 00:32:54,720
Speaker 1: So that's a hard note for me. And also, you

610
00:32:54,760 --> 00:32:57,440
Speaker 1: want to have a threesome girl there, trust me, day

611
00:32:57,440 --> 00:32:58,640
Speaker 1: own there and I know you know they're tender and

612
00:32:58,640 --> 00:33:00,880
Speaker 1: you could probably get somebody hot or any way. So

613
00:33:05,800 --> 00:33:09,400
Speaker 1: here's another one. Hi, Mandy and Wheezy. My name is

614
00:33:09,920 --> 00:33:12,800
Speaker 1: and I'm from d c Oh. I'm sorry, don't don't

615
00:33:12,800 --> 00:33:19,200
Speaker 1: say please skip that part. I don't understand, which why

616
00:33:19,200 --> 00:33:22,360
Speaker 1: are you telling us there at the end? I love

617
00:33:22,440 --> 00:33:24,200
Speaker 1: you all both so much. My whole male is long,

618
00:33:24,800 --> 00:33:26,720
Speaker 1: so I'll keep it to the point. Please don't judge me,

619
00:33:26,880 --> 00:33:29,720
Speaker 1: which this is not to the point. A quick backstory

620
00:33:29,760 --> 00:33:31,360
Speaker 1: to help you understand how I got to where I

621
00:33:31,400 --> 00:33:34,600
Speaker 1: am now thirty two, married with a one year old son.

622
00:33:35,080 --> 00:33:38,920
Speaker 1: Married for three years, and we've dated eight years prior

623
00:33:39,000 --> 00:33:42,040
Speaker 1: to marriage. When we met we were twenty one. Our

624
00:33:42,080 --> 00:33:44,520
Speaker 1: sex life has always been lacking, but I still married him.

625
00:33:44,800 --> 00:33:47,720
Speaker 1: Over the years, I've always expressed him my desire for

626
00:33:47,840 --> 00:33:50,360
Speaker 1: better sex. I will admit that he tries, but it's

627
00:33:50,440 --> 00:33:52,960
Speaker 1: never what I need. At this point, I have sex

628
00:33:53,040 --> 00:33:56,400
Speaker 1: with him solely for his pleasure. Now skip to the

629
00:33:56,400 --> 00:34:00,560
Speaker 1: good part. November solo vacation in Hawaii. I meet a

630
00:34:00,640 --> 00:34:02,640
Speaker 1: man while strolling on the beach at night. It's just

631
00:34:02,720 --> 00:34:05,640
Speaker 1: something like something I would do. This one six to

632
00:34:06,240 --> 00:34:09,560
Speaker 1: slim and light skin. He approached me and we shared

633
00:34:09,640 --> 00:34:12,239
Speaker 1: small talk. He mentioned the ring on my finger and

634
00:34:12,320 --> 00:34:15,160
Speaker 1: I told him I was married without hesitation. He told

635
00:34:15,160 --> 00:34:18,040
Speaker 1: me his age, He's forty two. I'm thirty two. We

636
00:34:18,200 --> 00:34:20,800
Speaker 1: talked a bit, smoked a joint on the beach, nothing serious,

637
00:34:21,280 --> 00:34:25,400
Speaker 1: had a few nights on v K and he offered

638
00:34:25,440 --> 00:34:27,719
Speaker 1: to send me a list of places I should check

639
00:34:27,760 --> 00:34:31,200
Speaker 1: out before leaving. We exchange numbers, and that night he

640
00:34:31,280 --> 00:34:34,480
Speaker 1: sent the list after returning back home, I got a

641
00:34:34,520 --> 00:34:36,000
Speaker 1: call from him, and over the next week or two,

642
00:34:36,000 --> 00:34:39,120
Speaker 1: we spent hours and hours on the phone, everything talking about,

643
00:34:39,239 --> 00:34:42,360
Speaker 1: including sex, fantasy's kinks, how I like to be fucked,

644
00:34:42,400 --> 00:34:44,440
Speaker 1: how do I get my pussy? And I told him

645
00:34:44,440 --> 00:34:46,320
Speaker 1: how drying my sex life was, and he assured me

646
00:34:46,719 --> 00:34:49,360
Speaker 1: he could fulfill all of my desires with these. A

647
00:34:49,440 --> 00:34:52,239
Speaker 1: month later, he flew out to see me, stayed a

648
00:34:52,360 --> 00:34:55,600
Speaker 1: whole week. We had you four excepts the best sex

649
00:34:55,640 --> 00:34:57,960
Speaker 1: I've ever had in my life. He made me orgasm

650
00:34:58,080 --> 00:35:00,400
Speaker 1: multiple times and it was the first time I've ever agasm,

651
00:35:01,160 --> 00:35:03,680
Speaker 1: mind you, she said she even with our man eight

652
00:35:03,760 --> 00:35:12,840
Speaker 1: years and we even did anal. It was also my

653
00:35:12,920 --> 00:35:15,240
Speaker 1: first time doing anal, and oh my god, he loved

654
00:35:15,280 --> 00:35:17,960
Speaker 1: I loved it every minute, every second. I loved it all.

655
00:35:18,239 --> 00:35:21,080
Speaker 1: He took his time, he was gentle, he talked to me,

656
00:35:21,320 --> 00:35:22,800
Speaker 1: he knew him to go hard, he was perfect, and

657
00:35:22,880 --> 00:35:25,520
Speaker 1: I felt like he knew my body inside out. After

658
00:35:25,600 --> 00:35:27,719
Speaker 1: the sex, I felt glued to him. I didn't want

659
00:35:27,800 --> 00:35:30,240
Speaker 1: him to leave. I was ready to throw everything away

660
00:35:30,280 --> 00:35:32,040
Speaker 1: and tell my baby he got a new step daddy.

661
00:35:32,480 --> 00:35:36,200
Speaker 1: Just kidding but not really. Skipped to ten months later.

662
00:35:36,920 --> 00:35:38,680
Speaker 1: He's come back to visit me two more times, a

663
00:35:38,760 --> 00:35:40,520
Speaker 1: total of three times this year, and he stays no

664
00:35:40,680 --> 00:35:42,719
Speaker 1: less than one week. And the last time he came

665
00:35:42,760 --> 00:35:44,759
Speaker 1: to visit in July, my husband was out of town

666
00:35:44,760 --> 00:35:47,040
Speaker 1: in a work trip, so he stayed with me at

667
00:35:47,040 --> 00:35:50,479
Speaker 1: our home. I'm crazy, I know. We have literally become

668
00:35:50,560 --> 00:35:53,360
Speaker 1: the best of friends. We talked some pictures, sexy and

669
00:35:53,400 --> 00:35:55,680
Speaker 1: normal ones, and next month I'm going to Hawaii to

670
00:35:55,760 --> 00:35:58,279
Speaker 1: see him. This will mark one year since we first met.

671
00:35:58,320 --> 00:36:00,239
Speaker 1: I like him a lot. I've even on to my

672
00:36:00,320 --> 00:36:02,200
Speaker 1: loving because I really do. He said it back, not

673
00:36:02,480 --> 00:36:04,839
Speaker 1: saying I'm in love, but I do definitely love him.

674
00:36:05,080 --> 00:36:11,719
Speaker 1: He's met my son. I told you. Thank God, my

675
00:36:11,800 --> 00:36:13,560
Speaker 1: son doesn't talk in full of sentences yet, so I

676
00:36:13,600 --> 00:36:16,160
Speaker 1: don't have to worry about telling us yet. I could

677
00:36:16,239 --> 00:36:19,399
Speaker 1: use some I dont wuldn't even read this guy, Damn

678
00:36:19,440 --> 00:36:22,719
Speaker 1: all Mail. That's what I think of you. You keep

679
00:36:22,760 --> 00:36:24,640
Speaker 1: going as someone who's been cheated on a lot like

680
00:36:24,960 --> 00:36:27,520
Speaker 1: that's the reality. Should I continue seeing Mr Hawaii? At

681
00:36:27,520 --> 00:36:31,600
Speaker 1: this point, we're two friends who happen to have amazing sex. Friends.

682
00:36:31,920 --> 00:36:34,040
Speaker 1: I have no intention of leaving my husband now or anytime.

683
00:36:34,080 --> 00:36:35,759
Speaker 1: Saying we coparent very well and I like having him

684
00:36:35,760 --> 00:36:40,200
Speaker 1: around to split responsibilities. You're the only issue, which is

685
00:36:40,200 --> 00:36:42,200
Speaker 1: a big one, is to spark our sex life, intimacy,

686
00:36:42,320 --> 00:36:44,680
Speaker 1: the connection. What do you ladies think? Any advice? I

687
00:36:44,840 --> 00:36:47,680
Speaker 1: please don't say marriage counseling. I'd love to hear. Well.

688
00:36:49,680 --> 00:36:51,880
Speaker 1: I don't know if Mandy has ever been cheated on

689
00:36:52,000 --> 00:36:55,360
Speaker 1: like I have, but I will tell you this reading

690
00:36:55,440 --> 00:37:00,320
Speaker 1: that was so fucked up. And you sound like Maggie, Maggie, Emma,

691
00:37:01,160 --> 00:37:06,960
Speaker 1: oh lady, there we go. Do you remember who Maggie is? Maggie, No,

692
00:37:07,239 --> 00:37:12,720
Speaker 1: that's a different bit. Maggie is the old white married bitch,

693
00:37:14,160 --> 00:37:16,200
Speaker 1: look at you, I hate you. Her name is Maggie

694
00:37:16,239 --> 00:37:19,040
Speaker 1: and she lives in Australia and she was dating whole Bay.

695
00:37:19,400 --> 00:37:21,600
Speaker 1: What she thought was dating. She would say, I love

696
00:37:21,680 --> 00:37:23,480
Speaker 1: you buying him a bunch of ships. Maybe you're not

697
00:37:23,600 --> 00:37:27,640
Speaker 1: buying him ship but just over the top. And I

698
00:37:27,680 --> 00:37:29,560
Speaker 1: remember seeing a text message she said old Bay is

699
00:37:29,600 --> 00:37:31,360
Speaker 1: talking about how she was going to bring her husband's

700
00:37:31,400 --> 00:37:33,759
Speaker 1: go pro when they went to BALI like, she's a

701
00:37:33,920 --> 00:37:37,000
Speaker 1: fucking asshole and has the nerve to call me ratchet.

702
00:37:37,120 --> 00:37:41,480
Speaker 1: Will never forget that honey bay boo no um. But

703
00:37:41,920 --> 00:37:45,000
Speaker 1: I bring her up because I'm assuming you listen to

704
00:37:45,040 --> 00:37:47,719
Speaker 1: horrible decisions and you've heard how badly I've talked about

705
00:37:47,719 --> 00:37:51,279
Speaker 1: someone who's married in doing this, and like, I don't

706
00:37:51,320 --> 00:37:52,880
Speaker 1: even know she would be as bad to bring the

707
00:37:52,880 --> 00:37:55,960
Speaker 1: whole bay around her children. But I think that for

708
00:37:56,080 --> 00:37:58,520
Speaker 1: you to even say you like splitting responsibilities with your

709
00:37:58,600 --> 00:38:02,440
Speaker 1: husband is so selfish and sucked up, And like, I'm

710
00:38:02,480 --> 00:38:05,360
Speaker 1: not gonna ride your ass too crazy about this because

711
00:38:05,400 --> 00:38:07,200
Speaker 1: I feel like sometimes I get a little too mean.

712
00:38:07,840 --> 00:38:11,040
Speaker 1: But that was probably one of the worst emails we've

713
00:38:11,120 --> 00:38:14,680
Speaker 1: ever been sent. Like, yeah, I wasn't gonna read when

714
00:38:15,000 --> 00:38:16,680
Speaker 1: when I got down to the bottom and she said

715
00:38:16,960 --> 00:38:20,279
Speaker 1: should I continue seeing Mr Hawaiian? It's like, girl, way,

716
00:38:20,440 --> 00:38:22,200
Speaker 1: I think you need to leave your husband because I

717
00:38:22,239 --> 00:38:26,680
Speaker 1: think you're wasting this time. Because here's the thing. You

718
00:38:26,840 --> 00:38:30,799
Speaker 1: asked us if you could continue seeing him. You love

719
00:38:30,840 --> 00:38:36,040
Speaker 1: your husband, you're not ready to leave him, but because nerves, Yeah,

720
00:38:36,400 --> 00:38:39,040
Speaker 1: I'm not ready to leave him. Well, why don't you

721
00:38:39,080 --> 00:38:40,680
Speaker 1: tell him what you're doing and see what he wants

722
00:38:40,719 --> 00:38:43,600
Speaker 1: to do? Maybe, I mean we we, I mean we

723
00:38:43,719 --> 00:38:46,440
Speaker 1: talk about this to me the same and I'm not

724
00:38:46,520 --> 00:38:49,080
Speaker 1: going to bring it all away there, But I believe

725
00:38:49,160 --> 00:38:52,120
Speaker 1: in giving people a choice. You're not even giving your

726
00:38:52,200 --> 00:38:54,400
Speaker 1: husband a choice whether this is something he would be

727
00:38:54,480 --> 00:38:58,080
Speaker 1: open to, and so if this is something where you're

728
00:38:58,120 --> 00:39:00,279
Speaker 1: pretty much probably gonna keep. First off, this is a

729
00:39:00,400 --> 00:39:05,719
Speaker 1: year long relationship now, not a friendship, a relationship. But

730
00:39:05,800 --> 00:39:07,480
Speaker 1: to me, you're not gonna stop sking. To me, you've

731
00:39:07,480 --> 00:39:10,359
Speaker 1: also violated by bringing him around your child and into

732
00:39:10,440 --> 00:39:15,200
Speaker 1: your home. That is nuts. So to me, you're a

733
00:39:15,239 --> 00:39:17,680
Speaker 1: piece of ship. I'm curious, and I hope he finds out.

734
00:39:17,920 --> 00:39:19,760
Speaker 1: I hope he finds out on like the ring camera,

735
00:39:20,160 --> 00:39:23,640
Speaker 1: like the coach got caught. I hope your husband hired

736
00:39:23,680 --> 00:39:28,239
Speaker 1: a detective. I got all that ship that you've been

737
00:39:28,280 --> 00:39:31,600
Speaker 1: the other woman before, Mandy. But I ain't doing this. Oh,

738
00:39:31,800 --> 00:39:34,520
Speaker 1: Nigga has never brought me to his home. I'm not

739
00:39:34,719 --> 00:39:36,759
Speaker 1: doing that. I'm not laying up and sucking you in

740
00:39:36,800 --> 00:39:38,560
Speaker 1: the bed that you and your wife sucking. I'm not

741
00:39:38,680 --> 00:39:42,880
Speaker 1: walking into a home seeing I feel like you have

742
00:39:43,040 --> 00:39:44,880
Speaker 1: you bet their wife. I feel like you've talked about that.

743
00:39:44,880 --> 00:39:48,279
Speaker 1: I met the wife. Yeah, where does this mean? We

744
00:39:48,400 --> 00:39:50,560
Speaker 1: were out in the open and it was raining at

745
00:39:50,600 --> 00:39:52,360
Speaker 1: the football game, and my nigga didn't want me to

746
00:39:52,360 --> 00:39:54,239
Speaker 1: be in the rain. So you say, you gotta come

747
00:39:54,280 --> 00:39:56,440
Speaker 1: up to the suite chill with my niggas and be

748
00:39:56,520 --> 00:40:00,040
Speaker 1: with my niggas and everyone the site, I mean, and

749
00:40:00,080 --> 00:40:02,719
Speaker 1: the wife was there, yes, uh hugged me up with

750
00:40:02,800 --> 00:40:06,480
Speaker 1: another sweet. That's a dog asking you got a bunch

751
00:40:06,520 --> 00:40:09,080
Speaker 1: of Yeah. He said he's gonna be in a sweet

752
00:40:09,120 --> 00:40:13,120
Speaker 1: with my friends, and just I was with his friends.

753
00:40:14,719 --> 00:40:17,479
Speaker 1: I don't know you're still there though I was there,

754
00:40:17,840 --> 00:40:22,000
Speaker 1: but I wasn't in their private home like they like.

755
00:40:22,520 --> 00:40:25,000
Speaker 1: None of them niggas stayed there for a week. That's crazy.

756
00:40:25,000 --> 00:40:28,480
Speaker 1: But also but also I don't even like kids, so

757
00:40:28,760 --> 00:40:30,279
Speaker 1: niggas don't have to bring their kids around me. I

758
00:40:30,280 --> 00:40:33,080
Speaker 1: don't even be knowing how many they have. I don't ask.

759
00:40:33,440 --> 00:40:36,200
Speaker 1: That's not that's not what my relationship normally is with

760
00:40:36,360 --> 00:40:39,960
Speaker 1: anyone married or in a relationship like, I don't get

761
00:40:40,000 --> 00:40:42,600
Speaker 1: involved with family matters. I don't ask about their kid's birthday.

762
00:40:42,760 --> 00:40:45,560
Speaker 1: I don't be knowing the sex. My home girl was like, girl,

763
00:40:45,600 --> 00:40:47,840
Speaker 1: you saw it was such a such a kid's birthday,

764
00:40:48,200 --> 00:40:51,320
Speaker 1: And I said, really, Oh, I didn't even know he

765
00:40:51,360 --> 00:40:55,000
Speaker 1: had kids. Let's reality. You need to snap back into reality.

766
00:40:55,120 --> 00:40:58,279
Speaker 1: So let's make the reality happen for you, baby, he listened.

767
00:40:58,320 --> 00:41:02,480
Speaker 1: Who are you live in d C? Hawaii? By the way,

768
00:41:02,840 --> 00:41:07,359
Speaker 1: have you been yet? No, that's far as That ship

769
00:41:07,400 --> 00:41:10,200
Speaker 1: is six hours from l A. Okay, that's ship far

770
00:41:10,239 --> 00:41:11,960
Speaker 1: as hell. And I only went to Hawaii on that

771
00:41:12,080 --> 00:41:13,520
Speaker 1: Valantine's Day because I was in a fight with the

772
00:41:13,560 --> 00:41:15,000
Speaker 1: whole day and I was like, fucking, I'm already on

773
00:41:15,000 --> 00:41:17,200
Speaker 1: the West coast that ship far as fun. And I

774
00:41:17,280 --> 00:41:18,839
Speaker 1: know you know this because you're probably waiting on your

775
00:41:18,880 --> 00:41:22,320
Speaker 1: NIGD come get you. But what is the reality of

776
00:41:22,440 --> 00:41:25,840
Speaker 1: you even having a stable relationship for your child and

777
00:41:25,960 --> 00:41:28,600
Speaker 1: that that child's father if you're just gonna up and

778
00:41:28,680 --> 00:41:30,600
Speaker 1: move to Hawaii? Because if I live in Hawaii, why

779
00:41:30,640 --> 00:41:32,680
Speaker 1: the funk would I move to d C. So I'm

780
00:41:32,719 --> 00:41:34,879
Speaker 1: sure it's nice for him to just go and fuck

781
00:41:34,960 --> 00:41:37,000
Speaker 1: you whenever he feels like getting away and being back

782
00:41:37,040 --> 00:41:39,680
Speaker 1: in the mainland. I mean, that's probably he's staying in

783
00:41:39,800 --> 00:41:42,800
Speaker 1: d C for the week long that he is, because

784
00:41:42,840 --> 00:41:45,160
Speaker 1: bitch took him eleven hours to get to you, Like,

785
00:41:45,600 --> 00:41:48,360
Speaker 1: that's also why he's even staying that like time, No,

786
00:41:49,120 --> 00:41:52,080
Speaker 1: it's easier to take somebody in London or Paris for you, Like,

787
00:41:52,520 --> 00:41:56,440
Speaker 1: that's how far Hawaii is, so Hawaii whatever. But all

788
00:41:56,480 --> 00:41:59,360
Speaker 1: I'm saying is like, he probably isn't gonna leave Hawaii,

789
00:41:59,400 --> 00:42:01,240
Speaker 1: So what are you gonna you uproot your whole fucking

790
00:42:01,320 --> 00:42:03,560
Speaker 1: life to be around the nigga You've been around for

791
00:42:03,880 --> 00:42:06,840
Speaker 1: what four times in total? Now? And they're also romanticizing

792
00:42:07,080 --> 00:42:10,440
Speaker 1: this relationship to the core. I also know we're dragging you,

793
00:42:10,800 --> 00:42:14,520
Speaker 1: So I'm gonna play devil's advocate real quick. I one

794
00:42:14,719 --> 00:42:17,360
Speaker 1: hundred percent fully support this relationship. If he looks like

795
00:42:17,440 --> 00:42:21,680
Speaker 1: Jason Momoa just saying, just saying, because I'm shallow, and

796
00:42:21,719 --> 00:42:27,960
Speaker 1: if that nigga looks like him, I understand's advocating. I

797
00:42:28,120 --> 00:42:30,120
Speaker 1: want to see what he looks like. We are dragging you,

798
00:42:30,239 --> 00:42:31,719
Speaker 1: but you know, I don't know if you're patron, I

799
00:42:31,760 --> 00:42:34,040
Speaker 1: still want you to listen. I want I want you

800
00:42:34,120 --> 00:42:36,359
Speaker 1: to send us when he looks like because that would

801
00:42:36,400 --> 00:42:38,359
Speaker 1: also help me for this. Actually, let me write her back.

802
00:42:38,560 --> 00:42:41,480
Speaker 1: Is it not just okay? So that relationship she has

803
00:42:41,640 --> 00:42:46,279
Speaker 1: her husband? Yeah, it's right, Wait for sure, hold on,

804
00:42:46,360 --> 00:42:49,759
Speaker 1: she has an update? Oh, what's the up? Day is

805
00:42:49,800 --> 00:42:52,040
Speaker 1: it any good she got caught. If she didn't get caught,

806
00:42:52,080 --> 00:42:54,120
Speaker 1: I want to hear how she just sucked him again.

807
00:42:54,440 --> 00:42:56,080
Speaker 1: That's what I'm saying. No, I kind of want to

808
00:42:56,120 --> 00:42:59,319
Speaker 1: hear her. She's already in deep into it. Might as

809
00:42:59,320 --> 00:43:02,120
Speaker 1: well just keep on Over the following weeks, We've spent

810
00:43:02,200 --> 00:43:05,600
Speaker 1: so many hours on the phone hold on. My husband

811
00:43:05,640 --> 00:43:08,320
Speaker 1: never asked me these questions. Most answers he has to

812
00:43:08,320 --> 00:43:10,840
Speaker 1: squeeze out of me. I feel so deprised in my orgasms.

813
00:43:10,840 --> 00:43:13,080
Speaker 1: I want nothing less not to mention this nigga put

814
00:43:13,120 --> 00:43:14,879
Speaker 1: his dick in my ass. I know him a piece

815
00:43:14,920 --> 00:43:16,799
Speaker 1: of ship. I think about it every day. I think

816
00:43:16,840 --> 00:43:18,080
Speaker 1: about what I've done. I don't want to cheat on

817
00:43:18,120 --> 00:43:19,759
Speaker 1: my husband, and I do need bomb sex. I don't

818
00:43:19,760 --> 00:43:22,480
Speaker 1: think my husband are on the same level sexually. I mean,

819
00:43:22,560 --> 00:43:25,759
Speaker 1: what could I do? Would you see him again just

820
00:43:26,040 --> 00:43:30,359
Speaker 1: for sex? Please? Bro? That ain't a She still want

821
00:43:30,400 --> 00:43:32,400
Speaker 1: to know. Can I still see this nigga from Hawaii?

822
00:43:33,440 --> 00:43:38,239
Speaker 1: Damn bit ruggling girl? She because she know I was

823
00:43:38,360 --> 00:43:40,680
Speaker 1: browsing your podcast on Spotify two weeks ago, and I

824
00:43:40,800 --> 00:43:44,399
Speaker 1: am in love? So how are you gonna say you're

825
00:43:44,400 --> 00:43:47,880
Speaker 1: in love? But it's just the same. You're not doing

826
00:43:47,920 --> 00:43:51,160
Speaker 1: a good case, bro, You're not building a good case

827
00:43:51,360 --> 00:43:54,880
Speaker 1: like you're you need to. You must be a Pisces too,

828
00:43:55,040 --> 00:43:58,160
Speaker 1: because I romanticize everything. If I need someone for five minutes,

829
00:43:58,160 --> 00:43:59,680
Speaker 1: I think about what our kids is gonna look like.

830
00:44:00,080 --> 00:44:01,440
Speaker 1: Does anyone I don't know if anyone else does this.

831
00:44:02,320 --> 00:44:04,640
Speaker 1: It has to be a Pisces thing, like it has to,

832
00:44:04,880 --> 00:44:08,280
Speaker 1: like you were really romanticizing this ship. You can't separate

833
00:44:08,360 --> 00:44:11,320
Speaker 1: the dick at all. You're not doing it. You started

834
00:44:11,400 --> 00:44:14,000
Speaker 1: with I'm in love in all caps and your new message.

835
00:44:14,280 --> 00:44:17,120
Speaker 1: And also like the desperation, that's no shade saying desperate,

836
00:44:17,160 --> 00:44:19,600
Speaker 1: I'd be desperate. Predict to around figuring out what to

837
00:44:19,680 --> 00:44:22,600
Speaker 1: do means he's probably consuming your mind at this point.

838
00:44:22,600 --> 00:44:24,279
Speaker 1: I don't even know how you can continue being a

839
00:44:24,320 --> 00:44:26,840
Speaker 1: good mom if your focus is so far on the

840
00:44:27,000 --> 00:44:29,400
Speaker 1: dick that you got this nigga in the house that

841
00:44:30,040 --> 00:44:32,279
Speaker 1: it's only because their kids can't form synces. It's just

842
00:44:32,520 --> 00:44:35,879
Speaker 1: very shameless and like I'm just say, I think when

843
00:44:35,920 --> 00:44:39,399
Speaker 1: the morality gets to us, like here's the thing, I'm

844
00:44:39,480 --> 00:44:41,560
Speaker 1: sure I've done things I have I'm not proud of,

845
00:44:41,640 --> 00:44:43,160
Speaker 1: and I look back and I'm like, why did I

846
00:44:43,200 --> 00:44:47,880
Speaker 1: suck that nigga? But the thing is like, we're adults now,

847
00:44:48,000 --> 00:44:49,879
Speaker 1: and we have to recognize when we do something wrong,

848
00:44:50,360 --> 00:44:52,439
Speaker 1: you know what I'm saying, whether it be something small

849
00:44:52,520 --> 00:44:54,480
Speaker 1: like drinking too much or even near the day I

850
00:44:54,600 --> 00:44:56,400
Speaker 1: drive only in l A right, I knew had a

851
00:44:56,440 --> 00:44:58,160
Speaker 1: few too many drinks and I was like, I'm only

852
00:44:58,200 --> 00:44:59,719
Speaker 1: eight minutes away from home, and I was like, Niga,

853
00:45:00,640 --> 00:45:03,040
Speaker 1: I let me just leave the car, like you at

854
00:45:03,120 --> 00:45:07,160
Speaker 1: some point gotta just leave the deck or leave your husband.

855
00:45:07,320 --> 00:45:09,400
Speaker 1: But I really think leaving your husband is the appropriate

856
00:45:09,480 --> 00:45:11,560
Speaker 1: thing to do, because all you're gonna do is remember

857
00:45:11,600 --> 00:45:14,200
Speaker 1: and fantasize about this naked and it's just not gonna

858
00:45:14,280 --> 00:45:16,120
Speaker 1: let you go. And this man has given you how

859
00:45:16,200 --> 00:45:19,040
Speaker 1: many years? And if this kid came inform sentences, imagine

860
00:45:19,080 --> 00:45:21,080
Speaker 1: if you're trying to be for that kid long term

861
00:45:21,880 --> 00:45:24,359
Speaker 1: and term, Oh yeah, that can't gonna be saying two

862
00:45:24,400 --> 00:45:29,680
Speaker 1: plus two Jello, that's gonna be your child. We're gonna

863
00:45:29,719 --> 00:45:32,800
Speaker 1: call you Jello moment. But keep telling us what's going on.

864
00:45:33,600 --> 00:45:36,440
Speaker 1: What would have been the healthier alternative there is to

865
00:45:36,600 --> 00:45:40,480
Speaker 1: just break up with your partner. That's like, but before

866
00:45:41,320 --> 00:45:44,200
Speaker 1: but before he started coming and you started this long

867
00:45:44,920 --> 00:45:48,359
Speaker 1: withstanding relationship, there should have been a community. There should

868
00:45:48,360 --> 00:45:52,400
Speaker 1: have been a conversation that you weren't sexually pleased, what

869
00:45:52,520 --> 00:45:55,040
Speaker 1: are our options? Because maybe it would have been if

870
00:45:55,080 --> 00:45:57,600
Speaker 1: he's busy or just not that much into sex, he

871
00:45:57,800 --> 00:46:00,239
Speaker 1: possibly would have said, you know, maybe I have to

872
00:46:00,280 --> 00:46:01,800
Speaker 1: meet him, or you know what, maybe we'll do the

873
00:46:01,840 --> 00:46:04,560
Speaker 1: sex club, maybe we'll swing. There's so many alternatives now

874
00:46:04,920 --> 00:46:06,920
Speaker 1: they again, you took the choice away from it. A

875
00:46:06,960 --> 00:46:11,440
Speaker 1: lot of communities there are there. There's a lot of

876
00:46:11,600 --> 00:46:15,120
Speaker 1: healthy ways to get your rocks off without cheating. And

877
00:46:15,360 --> 00:46:18,239
Speaker 1: if you've listened to this podcast, we thought we've given

878
00:46:18,280 --> 00:46:22,160
Speaker 1: you enough options. Bitch, you didn't have some motherfucking cheat

879
00:46:22,200 --> 00:46:25,000
Speaker 1: on the nigga, We say that should be the last resort. Damn,

880
00:46:25,080 --> 00:46:26,759
Speaker 1: I just looked her up on LinkedIn. I don't want

881
00:46:26,800 --> 00:46:28,719
Speaker 1: to see what she looked like. She looks like a

882
00:46:28,760 --> 00:46:35,320
Speaker 1: really nice person. That's what makes it worse. Oh, she

883
00:46:35,440 --> 00:46:38,080
Speaker 1: does look like a nice person. I wish she'd looked

884
00:46:38,080 --> 00:46:42,960
Speaker 1: a little more hoish um anyway, all right next to man.

885
00:46:44,040 --> 00:46:46,520
Speaker 1: So I think this is super basic and I won't

886
00:46:46,560 --> 00:46:48,520
Speaker 1: be asking the men in the room for proceeding steps.

887
00:46:48,560 --> 00:46:50,080
Speaker 1: But I feel like y'all can do this one. Okay,

888
00:46:50,800 --> 00:46:53,760
Speaker 1: I love this uh subject. I'm not in the streets,

889
00:46:53,800 --> 00:46:57,400
Speaker 1: but I am on the sidewalk. I fucking love this podcast.

890
00:46:57,480 --> 00:47:00,719
Speaker 1: It's you broadening, hilarious, empowering him for an of even

891
00:47:00,760 --> 00:47:03,120
Speaker 1: though y'all be out of pocket. I'm grateful to have

892
00:47:03,200 --> 00:47:07,360
Speaker 1: shown what's possible. Been grateful. Sorry, I'm grateful to have

893
00:47:07,520 --> 00:47:11,520
Speaker 1: been shown what's possible for romantic, sexual and platonic relationships.

894
00:47:11,840 --> 00:47:15,360
Speaker 1: I'm over seven months out of a beautiful relationship, just

895
00:47:15,440 --> 00:47:17,080
Speaker 1: moved to a new city, so I'm ready to be

896
00:47:17,160 --> 00:47:19,279
Speaker 1: on the sidewalk. Not the streets because I'm sell a bit,

897
00:47:19,680 --> 00:47:21,480
Speaker 1: but the sidewalk because I will do want to date

898
00:47:21,719 --> 00:47:25,279
Speaker 1: and potentially explore my sexuality with women and make out

899
00:47:25,320 --> 00:47:28,120
Speaker 1: a lot. I definitely could use some flirting tips and

900
00:47:28,239 --> 00:47:32,200
Speaker 1: how to approach someone respectfully but still in a flirty way. Also,

901
00:47:32,520 --> 00:47:34,759
Speaker 1: if you're all moving to a new city, other than

902
00:47:34,880 --> 00:47:37,319
Speaker 1: dating apps in school and work, how do you meet

903
00:47:38,000 --> 00:47:39,759
Speaker 1: and and go about meeting and finding the type of

904
00:47:39,800 --> 00:47:41,520
Speaker 1: person you want a date. I would love to see

905
00:47:41,600 --> 00:47:44,200
Speaker 1: some tips on how to keep a popping social life.

906
00:47:44,440 --> 00:47:49,319
Speaker 1: I look forward to hearing your input, so I got

907
00:47:49,360 --> 00:47:52,080
Speaker 1: a quick tip on where to meet people. Um. A

908
00:47:52,120 --> 00:47:53,640
Speaker 1: few weeks ago, I talked about an actor that I

909
00:47:53,719 --> 00:47:55,960
Speaker 1: met that I kept seeing in parties in different premiers,

910
00:47:56,760 --> 00:48:00,120
Speaker 1: and I met him at the Flea Market and one

911
00:48:00,400 --> 00:48:01,719
Speaker 1: one of the things he said to me when we

912
00:48:01,760 --> 00:48:07,359
Speaker 1: were leaving each other was I love that I got

913
00:48:07,440 --> 00:48:10,239
Speaker 1: to meet you in this space, like you're just going

914
00:48:10,280 --> 00:48:13,040
Speaker 1: about your Sunday. And he was like, because that's really

915
00:48:13,080 --> 00:48:14,680
Speaker 1: what it is, like, you know, I went to the

916
00:48:14,800 --> 00:48:17,359
Speaker 1: Vegan market yesterday, like it was cool to meet somebody there,

917
00:48:17,520 --> 00:48:19,279
Speaker 1: Like I love being able to meet you in your

918
00:48:19,320 --> 00:48:20,960
Speaker 1: element because I know I've seen you other places. I

919
00:48:21,120 --> 00:48:23,080
Speaker 1: got to meet you in your element. And one of

920
00:48:23,120 --> 00:48:25,600
Speaker 1: the last conversations that how it Obey actually months ago

921
00:48:26,560 --> 00:48:28,840
Speaker 1: was something where I made a joke about being on

922
00:48:29,000 --> 00:48:31,440
Speaker 1: Riya and how I hated the dating app, and he's like,

923
00:48:31,880 --> 00:48:33,759
Speaker 1: you're probably going to meet someone when you're at the gym,

924
00:48:33,800 --> 00:48:36,719
Speaker 1: we're out shopping, Like just being yourself is where you're

925
00:48:36,719 --> 00:48:38,359
Speaker 1: gonna meet them. And I really do think that's true.

926
00:48:38,520 --> 00:48:40,440
Speaker 1: I'm not opposed to bars by the way or anything

927
00:48:40,600 --> 00:48:45,399
Speaker 1: or whatever, but I do think like I myself has

928
00:48:45,480 --> 00:48:47,239
Speaker 1: put a lot of pressure on every time I go

929
00:48:47,320 --> 00:48:50,719
Speaker 1: out and like where Yeah you know, I get that. Yeah,

930
00:48:50,880 --> 00:48:52,799
Speaker 1: you definitely told my friends that all the time. They

931
00:48:52,840 --> 00:48:54,920
Speaker 1: always get afraid of, like going to bars or clubs

932
00:48:54,960 --> 00:48:57,880
Speaker 1: to meet people. For me, that's probably has been a thing,

933
00:48:57,960 --> 00:48:59,320
Speaker 1: but for other people, I feel like it's been like

934
00:48:59,400 --> 00:49:07,520
Speaker 1: a go to the library, go to a community because

935
00:49:08,000 --> 00:49:12,239
Speaker 1: remember that MTV show SI, what would you? Where do

936
00:49:12,280 --> 00:49:14,960
Speaker 1: you say meeting people? I mean, I've met my whole

937
00:49:15,000 --> 00:49:18,279
Speaker 1: ex on Zoom, So I don't know where in your life.

938
00:49:18,600 --> 00:49:22,080
Speaker 1: I mean in COVID world, I don't think like the

939
00:49:22,200 --> 00:49:25,920
Speaker 1: normal person meets the person on Zoom. That was definitely

940
00:49:26,360 --> 00:49:32,640
Speaker 1: a COVID love story. Um, but it's weird even black Jesus.

941
00:49:32,920 --> 00:49:37,480
Speaker 1: I met um at a party, I mean, and I

942
00:49:37,560 --> 00:49:39,400
Speaker 1: guess that was my element even though I didn't even

943
00:49:39,400 --> 00:49:43,480
Speaker 1: know I was gonna go. Um. I don't know, because

944
00:49:43,640 --> 00:49:47,040
Speaker 1: I've still met a lot of niggas still, like on Instagram.

945
00:49:47,440 --> 00:49:50,840
Speaker 1: That's still the dating app of my choice. Instagram is

946
00:49:50,840 --> 00:49:54,160
Speaker 1: where a lot of like my excess have come from. Um,

947
00:49:55,040 --> 00:49:57,960
Speaker 1: I've met niggas through fucking with their teammates. I'm the

948
00:49:58,280 --> 00:50:00,560
Speaker 1: I'm the awful way to meet somebody, wait, where are

949
00:50:00,600 --> 00:50:04,040
Speaker 1: the women that the last woman you've dated? Tell us

950
00:50:04,080 --> 00:50:07,480
Speaker 1: that friends? Friends to me is very common too. Yes,

951
00:50:07,640 --> 00:50:10,719
Speaker 1: where do you meet her? The last person you're dated?

952
00:50:10,800 --> 00:50:15,839
Speaker 1: You at a bar? What about you Instagram? Instagram? Yeah?

953
00:50:15,920 --> 00:50:19,080
Speaker 1: I mean to me, friends is common. Um, what's your

954
00:50:19,120 --> 00:50:22,279
Speaker 1: Instagram looked like? Let me, hey, send your Instagram through

955
00:50:22,360 --> 00:50:24,279
Speaker 1: after you watch this episode, and how gonna help you

956
00:50:24,320 --> 00:50:27,960
Speaker 1: get your This is her pick. Oh my God, and

957
00:50:28,040 --> 00:50:32,719
Speaker 1: flirting tips for women, So I would say not being

958
00:50:32,760 --> 00:50:36,800
Speaker 1: abrasive with women for me, I went up right to

959
00:50:36,880 --> 00:50:39,680
Speaker 1: them black Jesus for women. She's asked about women. Oh,

960
00:50:39,760 --> 00:50:42,080
Speaker 1: she wants to know about women who know I'm abrasive

961
00:50:42,120 --> 00:50:44,160
Speaker 1: with them too. I send them a drink and like,

962
00:50:44,320 --> 00:50:47,000
Speaker 1: let them know I'm interested. Like to me, like to

963
00:50:47,160 --> 00:50:49,120
Speaker 1: be that I actually want a more abrasive woman. I

964
00:50:49,120 --> 00:50:50,759
Speaker 1: don't want you to flirt like we friends, because now

965
00:50:50,840 --> 00:50:54,440
Speaker 1: I'm not catching a talk. She talks about how she

966
00:50:54,520 --> 00:50:57,120
Speaker 1: just wants to make out and kick it. But my

967
00:50:57,239 --> 00:50:59,560
Speaker 1: point with women, I don't know if you even like

968
00:50:59,680 --> 00:51:02,319
Speaker 1: women enough for me to advance. So to me, if

969
00:51:02,400 --> 00:51:06,200
Speaker 1: you're specifically looking for women, make it be known that

970
00:51:06,360 --> 00:51:08,880
Speaker 1: you're really interested in women. Don't come up to me

971
00:51:08,960 --> 00:51:12,439
Speaker 1: with friendly conversation, Like when you shy away in letting

972
00:51:12,520 --> 00:51:16,040
Speaker 1: me know specifically that you're into women, I can't catch

973
00:51:16,120 --> 00:51:18,760
Speaker 1: the vibe at all. And so to me, where maybe

974
00:51:18,800 --> 00:51:21,879
Speaker 1: some people call it abrasive, I let women know out

975
00:51:21,960 --> 00:51:25,520
Speaker 1: the gate that I'm interested in a woman, And that's

976
00:51:25,560 --> 00:51:28,680
Speaker 1: been my hardest part about dating women altogether. Like I

977
00:51:28,840 --> 00:51:31,239
Speaker 1: feel Tee is by women a lot, and so to me,

978
00:51:31,360 --> 00:51:33,640
Speaker 1: in terms of approaching a woman, I'm gonna let you

979
00:51:33,680 --> 00:51:36,200
Speaker 1: know I'm interested in that way. So I think for her,

980
00:51:36,360 --> 00:51:40,880
Speaker 1: because she's not somebody that she's exploring women, you've got

981
00:51:41,040 --> 00:51:42,879
Speaker 1: to kind of go like and also like, here's two

982
00:51:43,600 --> 00:51:46,200
Speaker 1: two different perspectives, right, Mandy approaches them in that way

983
00:51:46,239 --> 00:51:49,000
Speaker 1: and enjoys women her approaching that way. For me, that

984
00:51:49,080 --> 00:51:52,000
Speaker 1: doesn't work for me. I really do not like when

985
00:51:52,040 --> 00:51:56,239
Speaker 1: girls be too headstrong with me because that's and this

986
00:51:56,440 --> 00:51:59,960
Speaker 1: is again my preference. I don't really like aggressive women period.

987
00:52:00,440 --> 00:52:03,400
Speaker 1: I like really mask niggas, and I'm like, really fem fems.

988
00:52:03,840 --> 00:52:06,680
Speaker 1: So when and you're fem to me, like you don't,

989
00:52:06,920 --> 00:52:09,680
Speaker 1: I don't think you're like some butch bitch or anything

990
00:52:09,760 --> 00:52:11,560
Speaker 1: like that. But I have the same energy as you. Right,

991
00:52:11,680 --> 00:52:14,400
Speaker 1: Like I'm a dominant person, but I do like when

992
00:52:14,440 --> 00:52:16,520
Speaker 1: girls are a little more girly with me. I think

993
00:52:16,600 --> 00:52:18,719
Speaker 1: that there's just like you would flirt with a guy,

994
00:52:19,640 --> 00:52:22,279
Speaker 1: flirt the same way, whether it be twirling your hair

995
00:52:22,640 --> 00:52:25,239
Speaker 1: or saying something they're wearing is cue like, be light,

996
00:52:25,400 --> 00:52:27,320
Speaker 1: be dainty. If that's the way you're gonna go about it.

997
00:52:27,480 --> 00:52:30,239
Speaker 1: And whichever one of those two perspectives feel like the

998
00:52:30,320 --> 00:52:32,560
Speaker 1: one you can lean in with the most, then use

999
00:52:32,600 --> 00:52:35,400
Speaker 1: one of those, because it's really hard to not be

1000
00:52:35,520 --> 00:52:38,640
Speaker 1: yourself when floating. Like I've definitely lost out on men

1001
00:52:38,719 --> 00:52:41,080
Speaker 1: because I'm a little too goofy. But just those are

1002
00:52:41,080 --> 00:52:42,799
Speaker 1: the niggas that ain't for me. You know what I'm

1003
00:52:42,840 --> 00:52:45,080
Speaker 1: saying when I flirt with niggas is definitely me something saying,

1004
00:52:45,120 --> 00:52:48,840
Speaker 1: saying something funny or just I don't even went up

1005
00:52:48,920 --> 00:52:50,160
Speaker 1: dudes and tell me like, I really don't know how

1006
00:52:50,160 --> 00:52:52,279
Speaker 1: to flirt, but I'm I just want to keep this going,

1007
00:52:52,360 --> 00:52:57,080
Speaker 1: so you go next, And maybe he went it too. No,

1008
00:52:57,719 --> 00:53:01,040
Speaker 1: I'm really big with compliments and flattery, like like like

1009
00:53:01,120 --> 00:53:02,759
Speaker 1: I said, like with Black Jesus walked right up to

1010
00:53:02,840 --> 00:53:04,960
Speaker 1: him and I was like, why are you you too

1011
00:53:05,040 --> 00:53:06,560
Speaker 1: fine to be here? Like what are you? What are

1012
00:53:06,600 --> 00:53:09,640
Speaker 1: you actually doing here? Please? And like with women, all

1013
00:53:09,719 --> 00:53:11,600
Speaker 1: let them know as well, like I think you were

1014
00:53:11,600 --> 00:53:15,160
Speaker 1: absolutely gorgeous. I did. I did that with the um

1015
00:53:15,640 --> 00:53:18,080
Speaker 1: with the girl that ended up I ended up unicorning

1016
00:53:18,200 --> 00:53:21,080
Speaker 1: within the couple. She was the person who I approached

1017
00:53:21,200 --> 00:53:24,080
Speaker 1: in that setting. I was like, I just think you're beautiful,

1018
00:53:24,080 --> 00:53:28,359
Speaker 1: and I just haven't seen him because i'm you know, back,

1019
00:53:28,480 --> 00:53:35,560
Speaker 1: you know, i'd be talking to other people, so I

1020
00:53:35,680 --> 00:53:40,200
Speaker 1: talked to other people. So I've just been I'm not

1021
00:53:40,320 --> 00:53:42,080
Speaker 1: in a place now where I want to play that

1022
00:53:42,280 --> 00:53:45,040
Speaker 1: role and be a unicorn for a couple, So I've

1023
00:53:45,080 --> 00:53:47,439
Speaker 1: just been in my own little world, focus on work

1024
00:53:47,920 --> 00:53:52,440
Speaker 1: and friends. Okay, Well, if you guys enjoyed this episode

1025
00:53:52,480 --> 00:53:53,880
Speaker 1: and you really want some more, I go to our

1026
00:53:53,920 --> 00:53:57,879
Speaker 1: patreon Patreon dot com back slash Horrible Decisions. Every month

1027
00:53:57,960 --> 00:53:59,560
Speaker 1: we do a town hall on there for our fifteen

1028
00:53:59,560 --> 00:54:01,960
Speaker 1: dollar patrons. We also got a discord we sent merch

1029
00:54:02,040 --> 00:54:04,719
Speaker 1: on there, and for five dollars you can just listen

1030
00:54:04,760 --> 00:54:07,359
Speaker 1: to our audio. Um. I was going to say, if

1031
00:54:07,400 --> 00:54:09,440
Speaker 1: you enjoy our Solar episodes and you've missed us just

1032
00:54:09,560 --> 00:54:12,680
Speaker 1: being in the room alone. Patreon is definitely where you

1033
00:54:12,800 --> 00:54:15,319
Speaker 1: can get that kink if you're into it. Ed would

1034
00:54:15,360 --> 00:54:17,080
Speaker 1: you like to have them come in your way as

1035
00:54:17,120 --> 00:54:18,759
Speaker 1: will since they got to look at you? Always taken?

1036
00:54:19,080 --> 00:54:20,960
Speaker 1: He's taken, but you can still hit me up like

1037
00:54:21,280 --> 00:54:25,200
Speaker 1: in a good way, Babe. I'm sorry. I think you

1038
00:54:25,280 --> 00:54:27,399
Speaker 1: had wherever you wanted to see me. Come on. Thank you, Edie,

1039
00:54:27,440 --> 00:54:31,680
Speaker 1: thank you Eddie. Hey, y'all, this has been yet another

1040
00:54:31,760 --> 00:54:33,520
Speaker 1: episode of poor decisions by