WEBVTT - You've Got Decisons: Am I Moving on Too Fast? 0:00:02.200 --> 0:00:04.800 I want to know when you want to introduce a 0:00:04.840 --> 0:00:07.280 sexual experience to your partner, how do you do it? 0:00:07.360 --> 0:00:10.280 Mandy and I are always saying through porn, set the scene. 0:00:10.520 --> 0:00:13.440 Let's just say tonight, you really want to chew on 0:00:13.480 --> 0:00:15.079 your niggas balls, you want to take your teeth and 0:00:15.160 --> 0:00:15.680 chew on them? 0:00:16.000 --> 0:00:18.360 How are you introducing new sexual shit? 0:00:18.640 --> 0:00:23.280 Something that I've been doing lately is using clips from 0:00:23.720 --> 0:00:25.680 my podcast. I'm like, oh, I had six dollars just 0:00:25.720 --> 0:00:27.960 on and they told me about this, Or I will 0:00:28.040 --> 0:00:30.240 use a clip from Horrible and I'm like, oh, I 0:00:30.240 --> 0:00:31.920 saw this on this podcast. 0:00:31.640 --> 0:00:34.600 Not porn, but you're just showing sterry conversation. 0:00:34.520 --> 0:00:36.800 Just as like, because there's a new relationship. I'm just 0:00:36.880 --> 0:00:39.320 you know, testing the waters. So I was like, do 0:00:39.320 --> 0:00:40.680 you know what compersion is? He was like, no, I 0:00:40.720 --> 0:00:43.120 saw hesw this clip. I saw it and then it 0:00:43.159 --> 0:00:46.360 was Louise explained what compression was, or if it was like, oh, 0:00:46.400 --> 0:00:47.600 what do you think about? 0:00:47.720 --> 0:00:48.480 What's another clip? 0:00:48.520 --> 0:00:48.680 Oh? 0:00:48.760 --> 0:00:51.200 I saw them golden showers, so when you think about 0:00:51.200 --> 0:00:52.920 golden showers? And he was like, yeah, nin into that. 0:00:52.960 --> 0:00:54.200 He was like, you ever did it before? 0:00:55.800 --> 0:00:59.440 Hey, here we are, y'all, Billy not saying he was 0:00:59.440 --> 0:01:01.320 never gonna come again. But it really amped it up 0:01:01.320 --> 0:01:03.040 when that nigga said, this is how I found out 0:01:03.040 --> 0:01:05.360 about King Noir. I went on, need to be studied, 0:01:05.360 --> 0:01:08.240 but we were trying to schedule. He's like, oh, well, 0:01:08.240 --> 0:01:09.959 I have a session with King Noir. But it's okay. 0:01:09.959 --> 0:01:13.119 I said, oh no, nigga, we could push our thing. 0:01:13.600 --> 0:01:16.600 You go get that and they come on home. Now, 0:01:17.440 --> 0:01:19.959 normally I thought King Noir was a female client, but 0:01:20.000 --> 0:01:21.560 he said that he was open for you to talk 0:01:21.560 --> 0:01:23.240 about it. So tell us how you got to the 0:01:23.240 --> 0:01:24.959 point where you finally hire a sex worker. 0:01:25.000 --> 0:01:27.920 All right, So this is where I had to do this. 0:01:28.000 --> 0:01:30.560 So I was in a toxic relationship and I developed 0:01:30.760 --> 0:01:33.600 sexual performance anxiety. So I wasn't confident about my body. 0:01:34.120 --> 0:01:36.200 He wasn't that like, it wasn't pouring into me. So 0:01:36.200 --> 0:01:36.800 I'm like, am I. 0:01:36.760 --> 0:01:39.080 Even good getting hard? Or just getting anxious? 0:01:39.440 --> 0:01:43.360 Just getting anxious, like thinking like am I taking dick 0:01:43.400 --> 0:01:43.800 the right way? 0:01:43.880 --> 0:01:45.679 Or am I stucking his dick property? Because he would 0:01:45.680 --> 0:01:46.080 just be like. 0:01:46.160 --> 0:01:48.880 It was I like, look at I And it made 0:01:48.920 --> 0:01:50.880 me call other niggas like, yo, this isn't my dick game? 0:01:51.000 --> 0:01:56.080 Like can I talk like, yeah, I'm like, so. 0:01:56.000 --> 0:01:58.680 This nigga's bugging. But he was just a toxic motherfucker. 0:01:59.040 --> 0:02:00.720 So I was like, you know what, before I go 0:02:00.760 --> 0:02:02.520 into this, and that's the point in my podcast, like 0:02:02.560 --> 0:02:05.279 I use it to make sure, like I'm learning stuff 0:02:05.400 --> 0:02:07.960 needs to be studied, so I'm learning about my sexual 0:02:08.040 --> 0:02:10.519 needs and how to communicate better relationships. 0:02:10.720 --> 0:02:11.920 So I was like, you know what, I have to 0:02:11.960 --> 0:02:13.840 do it. I have a segment called try It for 0:02:13.880 --> 0:02:14.600 the podcast. 0:02:14.800 --> 0:02:16.639 So I was like, such a good segment name. 0:02:16.720 --> 0:02:19.040 Yes, I mean we say we don't stuck for research 0:02:19.600 --> 0:02:21.520 with research, We're doing it for research over here. 0:02:21.840 --> 0:02:24.800 So I'm like, so I hit him up and I 0:02:24.840 --> 0:02:26.440 was like, do you work with male clients? Because I 0:02:26.440 --> 0:02:28.400 always was trying to figure out who works with male clients. 0:02:28.440 --> 0:02:30.920 I know Ken, No, I know some marvels. But I'm like, so, 0:02:30.960 --> 0:02:32.320 I'm like, well, Ken, I got to do it if 0:02:32.320 --> 0:02:33.640 I seen him suck a couple of dicks. 0:02:33.639 --> 0:02:34.680 So, but he sucked. 0:02:35.000 --> 0:02:39.000 Let's be very clear to separate only because I'm very 0:02:39.000 --> 0:02:44.119 adamant in drawing the line between I've only seen King 0:02:44.160 --> 0:02:50.280 no Art actively publicly suck trans women dicks. That's different 0:02:50.360 --> 0:02:54.600 than medics. Yes, So when you hit him up, and 0:02:54.680 --> 0:02:56.400 I don't know, like I'll say, you stuck a dick. 0:02:56.680 --> 0:03:00.520 Those were attached to women. So what was your question 0:03:00.600 --> 0:03:03.040 to him about dealing with male clients? Because I'm outside 0:03:03.080 --> 0:03:04.960 of like three stooms, I've never seen him deal with 0:03:04.960 --> 0:03:05.519 male clients. 0:03:05.560 --> 0:03:09.040 So I basically was like, oh, I'm interested in learning 0:03:09.080 --> 0:03:11.600 my kings and fetishes, but I don't know anybody that 0:03:11.680 --> 0:03:12.640 will male clients. 0:03:12.639 --> 0:03:14.760 Can you point me to a direction? Who would you know? 0:03:14.760 --> 0:03:22.080 Okay, I'll take your money, Oh not? 0:03:23.280 --> 0:03:24.280 Can you guide me? 0:03:26.080 --> 0:03:29.400 Give meidan where to go? And he said, I, you 0:03:29.560 --> 0:03:32.280 know male conent. I was like, oh, let's talk about this. 0:03:32.360 --> 0:03:36.040 So he told me he was like Donald Telegram, I telegram. 0:03:36.080 --> 0:03:39.200 So he gave me his number and then we started 0:03:39.200 --> 0:03:40.160 speaking about it. 0:03:40.720 --> 0:03:42.880 So did he send you his broundies boundaries too on 0:03:42.960 --> 0:03:45.160 what he does with Yeah, So at first we did 0:03:45.160 --> 0:03:47.360 a consultation. He's asking me well like and I'm like, yeah, 0:03:47.360 --> 0:03:49.880 what were you hiring him for? I just want to know, 0:03:49.920 --> 0:03:52.520 Like I want to do stuff that I never explored. 0:03:52.520 --> 0:03:54.800 So I was like, let's do this session based off 0:03:54.800 --> 0:03:57.080 a century play, like I want to I want to 0:03:57.080 --> 0:03:58.120 see what flogging fils like. 0:03:58.160 --> 0:03:59.920 I want to feel. I want to feel different things 0:04:00.040 --> 0:04:03.000 I want to do. I want to do a professional Okay, 0:04:03.040 --> 0:04:05.800 it's like okay. So then he gave me a list 0:04:05.840 --> 0:04:07.920 of stuff to fill out and my arm to see 0:04:07.920 --> 0:04:10.720 what I'm into? Am I into change? Am I into which? 0:04:10.720 --> 0:04:12.600 So I'm like, all right, I'm into this, I'm into that. 0:04:13.200 --> 0:04:14.800 And then he was like, all right, I'll be back 0:04:14.800 --> 0:04:16.440 in New York at this time. Let's follow up. 0:04:16.800 --> 0:04:17.880 But then he followed up. 0:04:17.880 --> 0:04:19.960 And then that's when like we start speaking the money. 0:04:20.120 --> 0:04:22.320 I think it's pricey, but it. 0:04:22.320 --> 0:04:25.919 Was expensive, was it under? It was five hundred to 0:04:25.920 --> 0:04:28.120 one thousand, or thousand to fifteen hundred or what. 0:04:28.720 --> 0:04:30.919 I would say it was from twenty five hundred to 0:04:30.920 --> 0:04:31.440 three thousand. 0:04:31.480 --> 0:04:34.359 I was gonna say, So Marvelous is like fifteen hundred 0:04:34.400 --> 0:04:35.080 for two hours. 0:04:35.240 --> 0:04:38.440 Like I have friends that book smarts these mother. 0:04:40.880 --> 0:04:42.000 I can't tell you what he said. 0:04:42.040 --> 0:04:43.960 I saved it. He can't tell it on camera. 0:04:44.279 --> 0:04:46.680 I have friends that have booked So Marvelous for over 0:04:46.760 --> 0:04:51.159 two grand plus flights for like two to three hours. 0:04:51.200 --> 0:04:55.440 Like I will say for anywhere, solo sessions, solo sessions, 0:04:55.640 --> 0:04:56.480 I will say for. 0:04:56.520 --> 0:04:59.159 Anyone listening, anyone that we've come. 0:04:59.080 --> 0:05:03.280 On this podcast and kind of talk to they not cheat, No, no, no, 0:05:04.240 --> 0:05:08.160 she to that girl. Listen, she said six sixty six, 0:05:08.680 --> 0:05:11.360 she said, she said, may you all listen to the 0:05:11.400 --> 0:05:15.600 Dominatrix Jacks. She's the episode that you heard last week. 0:05:16.160 --> 0:05:17.040 She shared her rate. 0:05:17.200 --> 0:05:18.880 She did, these niggas is expensive. 0:05:18.960 --> 0:05:21.880 Yeah, they are. They are. So it was we get it. Yeah, 0:05:21.960 --> 0:05:22.240 it was. 0:05:22.240 --> 0:05:23.279 It was put. 0:05:23.160 --> 0:05:25.440 Him race for two hours or whatever. So I'm like, okay, 0:05:25.839 --> 0:05:28.400 so you know you send a deposit and then. 0:05:31.080 --> 0:05:32.040 Fifty percent deposit? 0:05:32.600 --> 0:05:34.680 Why I say for an hour? When not you have two? 0:05:37.560 --> 0:05:37.760 Now? 0:05:37.839 --> 0:05:41.000 What did you go in paying. 0:05:40.680 --> 0:05:42.479 For an experience? 0:05:42.520 --> 0:05:44.359 So I just I just want to try something like 0:05:44.480 --> 0:05:47.520 I watching you guys show you learned with flog in 0:05:47.839 --> 0:05:49.200 Nobody has a flog in it black. 0:05:50.240 --> 0:05:52.240 I say that all the time. I'll be like, where 0:05:52.240 --> 0:05:53.360 the fuck these niggas? 0:05:53.440 --> 0:05:53.600 Right? 0:05:53.680 --> 0:05:55.240 So you wanted to experience flogging it? 0:05:55.360 --> 0:05:55.480 Right? 0:05:55.640 --> 0:05:55.719 Ye? 0:05:56.240 --> 0:05:58.800 Flogging? Send three play? What other elements of sensory play? 0:06:00.160 --> 0:06:02.400 There was no exact reason. I just wanted to experience 0:06:02.440 --> 0:06:04.239 and say, okay, I did the first round. 0:06:04.279 --> 0:06:05.120 Now for the next round. 0:06:05.120 --> 0:06:09.760 I know I wanted to up thinking that like okay, 0:06:09.760 --> 0:06:11.279 he's guy said my yes, and nose. 0:06:11.320 --> 0:06:12.520 You're gonna get me whatever you got. 0:06:12.560 --> 0:06:14.160 I'm thinking, like, we're gonna do whatever you got. 0:06:14.200 --> 0:06:16.280 But he's like, Okay, when we get there, I'll show 0:06:16.320 --> 0:06:18.360 you what type of tools and the equipments that I 0:06:18.360 --> 0:06:19.480 have and we'll go through it. 0:06:19.520 --> 0:06:22.880 And his voice crazy that ship, that's it indeed. 0:06:23.360 --> 0:06:25.440 So now we get there, so you have to book 0:06:25.480 --> 0:06:27.359 the hotel yourself and then you tell him where to go. 0:06:27.440 --> 0:06:30.760 Wait, you got to pay him and pay for the room. 0:06:30.800 --> 0:06:34.320 So I booked the hotel on Time Square, okay, and 0:06:34.360 --> 0:06:36.440 he came over and then he just came in. He 0:06:36.480 --> 0:06:38.200 was like, you know, his voice is so deep there 0:06:38.200 --> 0:06:41.159 and find it's so sexy. I'm thriking about him too. 0:06:46.440 --> 0:06:48.760 So he was like, did he put the I don't 0:06:48.760 --> 0:06:50.840 know what radio station. I think it's a snow All 0:06:51.200 --> 0:06:51.680 radio station. 0:06:53.640 --> 0:06:56.320 Not you know about sex playlist, Nigga pointed me. When 0:06:56.320 --> 0:07:03.760 you say I didn't watch my ship, then playlist is it? 0:07:04.000 --> 0:07:04.279 Okay? 0:07:04.400 --> 0:07:06.160 Then he started taking the stuff out and then he 0:07:06.279 --> 0:07:07.760 was like, all right, this room was a little small, 0:07:07.800 --> 0:07:09.400 you know, it's New York City, Tom Square. He was like, 0:07:09.400 --> 0:07:11.680 all right, we're gonna make this work though, So then 0:07:11.720 --> 0:07:13.240 he started saying you want to be butt. 0:07:13.160 --> 0:07:16.560 Naked, and I'm like, I'll keep my clothing for right now, 0:07:16.680 --> 0:07:17.440 you know, like I just. 0:07:17.440 --> 0:07:19.240 Want to I've been nervous to get naggd too. 0:07:19.360 --> 0:07:19.560 Yeah. 0:07:19.640 --> 0:07:22.720 So then he's like telling me like layout and then 0:07:22.840 --> 0:07:25.040 like so I started explaining to him why I want 0:07:25.120 --> 0:07:27.240 to do it. I was having second so, like I 0:07:27.360 --> 0:07:29.040 was insecure about my body and I just want to 0:07:29.040 --> 0:07:31.600 build that confidence back. Yeah, he's already were gonna get 0:07:31.640 --> 0:07:33.960 you there right, So and I told him I want 0:07:34.000 --> 0:07:36.680 to be dominated, like I love a good dominant person 0:07:36.800 --> 0:07:38.200 like and I love being a little bitch ass. So 0:07:39.040 --> 0:07:40.680 so he told me spread out archie back. 0:07:41.600 --> 0:07:43.400 He said that you weren't naked. 0:07:43.840 --> 0:07:47.040 That wasn't that yet. He said, I have a great 0:07:47.200 --> 0:07:49.720 arch and I think every person that needs to know 0:07:49.840 --> 0:07:50.800 that I have a great arch. 0:07:52.320 --> 0:07:52.920 A great art. 0:07:53.240 --> 0:07:57.960 She said, my name Ke had a great art. Okay, 0:07:58.200 --> 0:08:00.480 all right, So he had me like right out and 0:08:00.520 --> 0:08:01.560 then he started flogging me. 0:08:02.240 --> 0:08:04.800 Then he so he started using ice down my back, 0:08:05.440 --> 0:08:07.240 and then he told me he was like, from now 0:08:07.400 --> 0:08:09.960 here on out, every time you talk to me, you 0:08:10.040 --> 0:08:11.440 have to say yes, king sir. 0:08:12.160 --> 0:08:15.560 So I'm just like, so he smacking my ass yes, 0:08:15.680 --> 0:08:18.840 king sir, you like this. Yes. At one point I 0:08:19.040 --> 0:08:21.040 was my mind. I said, yes, king daddy. 0:08:25.280 --> 0:08:29.040 Yes, he said, she'd be saying, my dick. 0:08:29.960 --> 0:08:33.360 Literally, I get to the ship instead of what was 0:08:33.400 --> 0:08:36.080 easy to come dick, okay, keep going, keep going. 0:08:36.160 --> 0:08:38.839 Now he's doing that. I'm just like, all right, this 0:08:38.920 --> 0:08:41.080 feels good. So now he tried to use another thing, 0:08:41.160 --> 0:08:42.840 but it was like a what I think it's called 0:08:42.880 --> 0:08:43.680 like a dragontail. 0:08:44.440 --> 0:08:45.120 That ship hurt. 0:08:45.200 --> 0:08:50.160 It felt like I was on roots, like, oh, so, 0:08:50.640 --> 0:08:53.360 thank you for mentioning that. So it was red, green 0:08:53.600 --> 0:08:55.760 or yellow. So it was at one point when he 0:08:55.880 --> 0:09:00.240 was using the whips, I said red that Nigga stought 0:09:00.240 --> 0:09:01.040 the music so fast. 0:09:01.080 --> 0:09:04.839 I like, he said, you stuck everything. I was like, yoo, 0:09:05.080 --> 0:09:05.560 don't kick. 0:09:07.640 --> 0:09:09.599 Yellow to me. 0:09:09.880 --> 0:09:14.000 I love something because he's got to check in that music. 0:09:14.080 --> 0:09:18.120 I said, right that Nigga jumped over so fast something yellow. 0:09:19.200 --> 0:09:20.040 Really happy to hear that. 0:09:20.080 --> 0:09:20.520 I like that. 0:09:20.640 --> 0:09:22.800 I like to click this because now we know what 0:09:22.880 --> 0:09:25.520 it was safe for. It really should be looking like everything, 0:09:25.720 --> 0:09:31.040 including back on you when you're out of sea. 0:09:32.720 --> 0:09:36.160 I looking at the nigga like everything he said. 0:09:36.200 --> 0:09:41.800 You said, right, nigga, you said your head let me gorsh. 0:09:43.520 --> 0:09:45.680 So then you know he's a speeding me affirmation. 0:09:45.840 --> 0:09:47.800 He was like, yo, you did that. He was like, 0:09:47.960 --> 0:09:50.079 you took three strong wits. I'm like you, nigga, that 0:09:50.080 --> 0:09:53.079 shit hurt. So he then from there he's back to 0:09:53.160 --> 0:09:55.439 the ice play. Then he's telling me like, your body 0:09:55.559 --> 0:09:59.600 is beautiful. Whatever your ex putting to you is poison. 0:09:59.800 --> 0:10:03.800 And he's like, I was just like, so now I've 0:10:03.840 --> 0:10:06.760 been over. He's standing on me right this not here 0:10:07.280 --> 0:10:07.880 a zip word. 0:10:08.400 --> 0:10:11.560 You just got a little taste of the Horrible Decisions Patreon, 0:10:11.880 --> 0:10:14.320 But why it's up there. Tap in for the full, 0:10:14.559 --> 0:10:18.280 uncut and way naster episodes over on Patreon. 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If you haven't got it yet, please 0:13:31.880 --> 0:13:34.760 go out and get that hunt. Now, I'm going to 0:13:34.800 --> 0:13:37.679 read an update from a previous letter before we get 0:13:37.800 --> 0:13:39.720 to this week's question. 0:13:41.400 --> 0:13:44.640 Now, this one is a follow up from I Can't 0:13:44.720 --> 0:13:45.520 Get My Nut. 0:13:46.200 --> 0:13:48.520 If you want to see where that is, you can 0:13:48.640 --> 0:13:53.120 go to our Instagram feed and literally it'll most likely 0:13:53.200 --> 0:13:57.520 be titled I Can't get my nut on the YGD portion. 0:13:58.080 --> 0:14:01.599 So hey, just wanted to say thank you both for 0:14:01.720 --> 0:14:05.200 the advice. It really came through. After watching, I went 0:14:05.280 --> 0:14:08.040 to the sex door, grabbed a new toy, some lube 0:14:08.320 --> 0:14:11.840 and lingerie, set the mood with music and body oil 0:14:12.000 --> 0:14:16.160 per Wheezy suggestion, and ended up squirting four times back 0:14:16.200 --> 0:14:16.520 to back. 0:14:16.920 --> 0:14:19.280 Now, to go from not. 0:14:19.360 --> 0:14:22.040 Getting a nut to squirting back to back four times, 0:14:22.440 --> 0:14:24.360 let's you know, we kind of know what we'd be 0:14:24.440 --> 0:14:27.560 talking about up here. Now we are unofficial experts on 0:14:27.680 --> 0:14:30.120 all things, but baby, I think we kind of know 0:14:30.200 --> 0:14:31.600 what we're talking when it comes to kind of the 0:14:31.640 --> 0:14:37.320 bitch right. Ever since, it's been easier and way more consistent, 0:14:37.920 --> 0:14:42.000 like something finally clicked. I've even caught myself trying to 0:14:42.320 --> 0:14:45.440 run from it. I know that's right, what I've picked up. 0:14:46.160 --> 0:14:51.840 Stop overthinking. Suction toys work well for me. Moaning makes 0:14:51.920 --> 0:14:55.440 the difference. Mandy, this sent me over the edge. And 0:14:55.560 --> 0:15:00.560 number four, no need to rush. Appreciate y'all for real, 0:15:00.680 --> 0:15:06.560 for real. Now that's always been kind of like my tidbit. 0:15:08.160 --> 0:15:10.760 And I guess it depends if you actually like verbal 0:15:10.840 --> 0:15:16.640 sex or not. But moaning, baby, I will ask. I'll 0:15:16.640 --> 0:15:18.640 be like, I will tell the man I don't hear you. 0:15:19.240 --> 0:15:19.800 I don't hear you. 0:15:20.240 --> 0:15:20.840 Let me hear you. 0:15:21.440 --> 0:15:23.840 Signify that what I'm doing is good. And then for 0:15:24.000 --> 0:15:34.080 me moaning just oh it just made me feel good 0:15:34.240 --> 0:15:44.600 or whatever. All right, let's get into this week's You 0:15:44.800 --> 0:15:48.480 Got Decisions. If you have a question that you want 0:15:48.640 --> 0:15:52.560 us to read here on You Got Decisions, please please 0:15:52.640 --> 0:15:55.000 please email us now at. 0:15:55.280 --> 0:15:59.720 Decisions pod at gmail dot com and just. 0:15:59.760 --> 0:16:00.240 See you know. 0:16:00.880 --> 0:16:03.960 If you'd like to see the full video of the 0:16:04.040 --> 0:16:04.960 You Got Decisions for. 0:16:05.000 --> 0:16:09.240 The week, head on over a Baby to Patreon dot 0:16:09.320 --> 0:16:16.760 com backslash Horrible Decisions. All right, let's see disciple sasshold. 0:16:16.800 --> 0:16:20.600 I need some help, she said, needs your advice. Hey, girls, 0:16:21.280 --> 0:16:23.680 I'm a new fan who loves listening to your podcast 0:16:24.000 --> 0:16:26.560 and will love to get your advice on my current situation, 0:16:26.760 --> 0:16:30.280 so I just had to email. I am recently out 0:16:30.440 --> 0:16:34.400 of an eleven year relationship and we have two young children. 0:16:35.080 --> 0:16:38.160 We are for sure over and I am ready to 0:16:38.280 --> 0:16:41.440 move on with my life. Of course, there's a lot 0:16:41.520 --> 0:16:43.440 more to it, but for the sake of not writing 0:16:43.480 --> 0:16:46.560 you guys a whole book. Basically, he just stopped showing 0:16:46.600 --> 0:16:49.720 me love, and after eleven years, we still weren't married 0:16:50.040 --> 0:16:52.760 and I just have fallen out of love. He still 0:16:52.800 --> 0:16:55.200 wants to work things out, but I am one hundred 0:16:55.200 --> 0:16:59.920 percent done with that relationship for many reasons. We broke 0:17:00.160 --> 0:17:03.880 up officially in October of last year, and I recently 0:17:03.920 --> 0:17:07.400 started fucking a new man. My closest friend has told 0:17:07.480 --> 0:17:10.800 me over and over again that she does not think 0:17:11.280 --> 0:17:14.720 I should be sleeping with anyone so soon, and has 0:17:14.800 --> 0:17:17.800 made it very clear that she doesn't agree with my choices, 0:17:18.200 --> 0:17:20.680 and it just makes me kind of second guess what 0:17:20.720 --> 0:17:24.080 I'm doing. I kind of like this new guy, and 0:17:24.200 --> 0:17:27.440 I definitely enjoy the casual sex we've been having. So 0:17:28.280 --> 0:17:30.960 do you guys think I'm moving on too fast? And 0:17:31.040 --> 0:17:34.200 am I wrong for moving on knowing it would hurt 0:17:34.280 --> 0:17:35.440 The father of my children. 0:17:35.680 --> 0:17:36.040 PS. 0:17:36.600 --> 0:17:38.200 I love what you guys are doing and pray you 0:17:38.280 --> 0:17:43.040 continue to thrive love death. Now, I guess let's start 0:17:43.200 --> 0:17:47.760 with friends and their opinions on what the fuck you 0:17:47.960 --> 0:17:51.600 do with yo kuchi yo dick and your heart? Okay, 0:17:52.960 --> 0:17:56.560 for me and how I operate, Let me share how 0:17:56.640 --> 0:17:59.280 I operate, just so that you know where this advice. 0:17:59.080 --> 0:18:05.119 Is coming from. I am someone that and y'all have 0:18:05.200 --> 0:18:06.800 heard me say this time and time again. 0:18:07.280 --> 0:18:10.200 I don't think I have one friend who's relationship I envy, 0:18:10.480 --> 0:18:13.080 or that I can look up to, or that I'm like, ooh, 0:18:13.640 --> 0:18:16.120 they got it right, not one. 0:18:16.640 --> 0:18:19.360 I think everyone has their ups and downs. I think 0:18:19.440 --> 0:18:20.040 we all have. 0:18:21.520 --> 0:18:25.440 Different ways that we view relationship dynamics, the way that 0:18:25.520 --> 0:18:26.800 we view looks. 0:18:27.480 --> 0:18:32.159 Because bitch, that's another thing. My friends like media ugly niggas, 0:18:32.280 --> 0:18:35.680 so we never agree on who to talk to who 0:18:35.840 --> 0:18:36.040 not to. 0:18:36.280 --> 0:18:38.000 I just say, if you like it, I love it, sis, 0:18:39.000 --> 0:18:43.960 And so for me, I normally come to my friends 0:18:45.160 --> 0:18:48.920 and share the dirt after I already did it. You 0:18:49.040 --> 0:18:52.639 know why, because bitch, I wasn't gonna care what you 0:18:52.800 --> 0:18:57.359 said anyways. So let me go through the. 0:18:57.800 --> 0:18:59.639 Dirt, the mud, the blood, get. 0:18:59.560 --> 0:19:03.080 My heart broke, feel stupid, feel dumb, and then I'm 0:19:03.119 --> 0:19:04.600 gonna come to you and be like, bitch'all was a 0:19:04.640 --> 0:19:06.600 dumb ass, bitch, let me tell you what I did, Like, 0:19:06.800 --> 0:19:09.960 I literally just did that where I brought somebody back 0:19:09.960 --> 0:19:12.280 from the past for like the fucking fifty eleventh time 0:19:13.040 --> 0:19:16.399 that didn't deserve to be in my present, and he 0:19:16.560 --> 0:19:20.880 showed his ass embarrassed me again. And I literally came 0:19:20.920 --> 0:19:22.879 to my friends with the embarrassment, and I was like, 0:19:23.440 --> 0:19:25.520 let me tell y'all why I really cut this nigga 0:19:25.560 --> 0:19:28.000 off now, Because I wasn't gonna tell y'all, I was 0:19:28.080 --> 0:19:29.159 letting him creep back in. 0:19:30.760 --> 0:19:32.879 But let me tell y'all why I don't talk to 0:19:33.000 --> 0:19:33.399