WEBVTT - Second Date Update: It's All About M.E

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<v Speaker 1>Second date up date.

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<v Speaker 2>Normally, our goal during this second date segment needs to

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<v Speaker 2>get two people back together for a second try, second

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<v Speaker 2>chance for a romantic connection because up with the name, Yeah,

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<v Speaker 2>we know, we put a lot of work into this,

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<v Speaker 2>but maybe there was like a misunderstanding. Maybe someone's fly

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<v Speaker 2>was down on accident or on purpose, doesn't.

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<v Speaker 1>Matter, it's usually.

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<v Speaker 3>It happens.

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<v Speaker 1>Yeah.

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<v Speaker 2>Well, today, before we can even get to any of that,

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<v Speaker 2>we might need to solve a mystery because there's been

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<v Speaker 2>some strange text messages exchanged and I don't know what

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<v Speaker 2>they are, but apparently it wasn't enough for our listener

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<v Speaker 2>Kiki to reach out for help about it.

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<v Speaker 1>So let's talk to our Kiki. Welcome to the show.

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<v Speaker 4>Thank you.

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<v Speaker 5>Okay, okay, you must get that we're getting distracted already, Sorry,

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<v Speaker 5>tangents all over the place, Skiaky, how are you doing?

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<v Speaker 4>I'm doing okay, just a little confused.

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<v Speaker 2>Yeah, I kind of picked that up from your email.

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<v Speaker 2>What's going on with you and this guy that you met?

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<v Speaker 2>What's his name?

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<v Speaker 4>Okay? His name is Chase.

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<v Speaker 3>Okay, I'm guessing you guys met online or on an app?

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<v Speaker 4>Yes, okay, an app? And he checked all my boxes okay,

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<v Speaker 4>one of it sounds like who.

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<v Speaker 3>It's felt like a red flag when she said anybody

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<v Speaker 3>else you.

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<v Speaker 1>Did have a sensual tone.

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<v Speaker 4>I mean, I know I get that a lot. But

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<v Speaker 4>we moved pretty quick. He asked me if I wanted

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<v Speaker 4>to go out that Friday, which was two days after

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<v Speaker 4>we went on the app.

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<v Speaker 3>Is that too fast? I don't know.

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<v Speaker 6>I mean I kind of get just getting to the

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<v Speaker 6>screening instead of texting, and we see your time.

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<v Speaker 2>I guess I would take it as a positive, like

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<v Speaker 2>he's really excited to see you as quickly as possible.

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<v Speaker 4>Yeah, I said, yeah, I was really looking forward to it.

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<v Speaker 1>So how did it go?

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<v Speaker 5>Well?

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<v Speaker 4>The day of, three hours before the date, I get

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<v Speaker 4>a message from him saying he's really sorry, but he

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<v Speaker 4>has to postpone because he had to take care of

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<v Speaker 4>M period E period period.

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<v Speaker 3>White periods, take care of my elephant.

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<v Speaker 1>Oh god, okay, maybe he has an elephant?

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<v Speaker 3>Did you ask him? Like, well, who's who's that? What

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<v Speaker 3>does that mean?

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<v Speaker 4>He googled M E. I was like, either he's working

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<v Speaker 4>on his master's of education or he has something called

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<v Speaker 4>my algic anthemous.

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<v Speaker 3>It's either a positive or negative.

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<v Speaker 6>We're not sure you know what that means, Well, it

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<v Speaker 6>means extreme fatigue.

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<v Speaker 7>Oh and that actually makes sense, super exhausted.

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<v Speaker 1>He's like, I literally have to take care I got.

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<v Speaker 3>I mean if he was super fatigued.

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<v Speaker 5>He didn't seem very fatigued when he was on the app,

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<v Speaker 5>you know, just said so.

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<v Speaker 4>I wasn't here what it was. I wanted to send

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<v Speaker 4>him a message back, with a generic message back to

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<v Speaker 4>figure out.

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<v Speaker 5>What it was. Yeah, like, you don't know if you

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<v Speaker 5>want to say, oh my god, I'm so sorry or congratulations.

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<v Speaker 3>So what did you say?

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<v Speaker 1>Would you write?

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<v Speaker 4>I said, sounds tough.

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<v Speaker 3>Sounds tough.

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<v Speaker 1>Okay, that's true, that's nice middle ground.

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<v Speaker 5>Let's pre schedule, let's reschedule, okay, and did you.

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<v Speaker 4>Well, sure enough the next day he did for schedule

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<v Speaker 4>for later in the week.

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<v Speaker 1>Okay, all right, we're back on track now.

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<v Speaker 4>The day rolls around and he says, no, you're gonna

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<v Speaker 4>hate me, but I'm totally floating right now.

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<v Speaker 1>Floading floating. Oh is it like.

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<v Speaker 8>Floating like when those pods?

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<v Speaker 5>Or is emmy some sort of drug We don't know

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<v Speaker 5>about a special case.

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<v Speaker 1>It's really weird. Did you know what that means?

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<v Speaker 8>Well?

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<v Speaker 3>I google that.

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<v Speaker 4>I google that.

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<v Speaker 3>Well, I don't think that's going to come up with

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<v Speaker 3>the answers that you want.

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<v Speaker 2>Yeah, you're gonna get like all sorts of things hot

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<v Speaker 2>air balloon buoyancy lessons.

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<v Speaker 1>Yeah.

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<v Speaker 4>Well, apparently it's when you have to pretend to be

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<v Speaker 4>really busy at work for your boss when you're really

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<v Speaker 4>doing nothing.

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<v Speaker 5>Okay, that's floating floating, like floating by at work.

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<v Speaker 4>I don't know if he meant that, but that's what

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<v Speaker 4>I found. So I guess he had a problem around.

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<v Speaker 1>His master's program.

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<v Speaker 5>You're still interested in this guy. He's like talking in

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<v Speaker 5>like weird speak.

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<v Speaker 3>He's like, you're not following through any day?

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<v Speaker 4>Yeah, he didn't cancel twice, he postponed twice.

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<v Speaker 7>Yeah.

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<v Speaker 2>Sure, Okay, it's not very nice to say about someone

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<v Speaker 2>with my algic emphasis.

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<v Speaker 1>And yet I mean.

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<v Speaker 6>We're scheduled to go out it is Saturday. Well no,

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<v Speaker 6>because he's just saying I might have to push it

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<v Speaker 6>back one more day.

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<v Speaker 1>Can I say something?

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<v Speaker 8>Though?

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<v Speaker 1>At least these aren't last second. He's giving her a

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<v Speaker 1>date notice, he even gave her three.

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<v Speaker 2>I don't think he did the other day.

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<v Speaker 1>Yeah, before the date, not for a woman, I think.

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<v Speaker 5>Do you think he's catfishing. You do you think he's

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<v Speaker 5>real Like maybe, like here's the thing, Like he's coming

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<v Speaker 5>real close to the date and then suddenly canceling and

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<v Speaker 5>coming up with a different excuse every time.

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<v Speaker 4>I don't know what's going on. I don't know if

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<v Speaker 4>he has a girlfriend or something.

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<v Speaker 2>Oh oh, okay, we didn't think of that. That Maybe

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<v Speaker 2>he's just like trying to push you off until he

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<v Speaker 2>can get rid of his current girlfriend or something exactly, and.

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<v Speaker 5>The girlfriend keeps being home. I mean, we haven't come

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<v Speaker 5>up with a positive theory yet, is it.

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<v Speaker 1>Yeah.

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<v Speaker 4>I don't want to keep waiting. I just want to

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<v Speaker 4>know what's really happening.

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<v Speaker 2>Okay, Okay, that's something we can do, because honestly, I'm

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<v Speaker 2>tired of guessing of what's really got.

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<v Speaker 1>Let's just give him a call.

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<v Speaker 2>We'll come back and we'll solve this mystery once and

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<v Speaker 2>for all. What's really going on with Chase and his

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<v Speaker 2>M period, E period, floating period, weirdness period.

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<v Speaker 3>If it was just a period, we could figure it out.

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<v Speaker 1>All right. We'll come back and get to the bottom

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<v Speaker 1>of it right after this.

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<v Speaker 2>Second date update Three scheduled dates two have already been postponed,

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<v Speaker 2>and one is on the verge. Yeah, which is where

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<v Speaker 2>we come in to save the day.

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<v Speaker 3>We're always living on the verge, aren't we, Jeffrey.

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<v Speaker 1>I'm a virgin.

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<v Speaker 2>That means we're going to try to get to the

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<v Speaker 2>bottom of this once and for all. Because there's been

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<v Speaker 2>some confusing texts being exchanged between our listener Kiki and

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<v Speaker 2>the guy that she's trying to meet.

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<v Speaker 1>Up with named Chase.

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<v Speaker 2>She is tired of waiting and postponing and postponing. She

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<v Speaker 2>just wants an answer.

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<v Speaker 3>I think this was good. I think it's good she

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<v Speaker 3>came to us.

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<v Speaker 1>Yeah, that's what you said, Broke. Should we just call

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<v Speaker 1>Chase and figure this out?

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<v Speaker 5>I think that he owes you some explanation, Kiki. Oh,

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<v Speaker 5>he definitely does all of us I feel, I mean,

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<v Speaker 5>we don't need to come out him hard or anything, but.

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<v Speaker 1>You just speak for yourself. Wait a minute, don't do this.

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<v Speaker 2>Has been waiting like it sounds like a month to

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<v Speaker 2>get this date locked down, So it's time to finally

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<v Speaker 2>get to it.

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<v Speaker 1>Here we go. I'm gonna dial his number right now.

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<v Speaker 8>Hello.

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<v Speaker 1>Hey, we're gonna speak with Chase.

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<v Speaker 8>Uh speaking Okay, Hey, Chase.

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<v Speaker 1>We're a radio show called Brook and Jeffrey in the morning.

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<v Speaker 8>Okay, or radio show's.

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<v Speaker 3>Ray it still exists.

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<v Speaker 2>We're doing something called a second Date Update, which is

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<v Speaker 2>a segment where we're trying to help out one of

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<v Speaker 2>our listeners, you know, smooth out the bumps in their

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<v Speaker 2>dating life, not that they have any bumps, and just

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<v Speaker 2>that's weird.

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<v Speaker 1>I'm sorry, bumps. That was a terrible thing. She said

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<v Speaker 1>he was going to come out of hard. Now this

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<v Speaker 1>it's a bump free lady. And her name, her name

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<v Speaker 1>is some curves. Well, I don't know, bendy wady lady.

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<v Speaker 2>I don't know anything about what she looks like or

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<v Speaker 2>anything about her body.

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<v Speaker 1>I know she seems really sweet when we talked to her.

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<v Speaker 1>Name's Kiki.

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<v Speaker 8>What is going on with Seky?

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<v Speaker 3>Yeah we heard you guys have plans this weekend.

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<v Speaker 1>Yeah, well tentative plans. Here's the deal.

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<v Speaker 2>You've already postponed on her twice, at least that's what

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<v Speaker 2>she told us.

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<v Speaker 9>Yeah, I guess that's technically true.

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<v Speaker 1>Okay, if the dates didn't happen, then yeah, that would

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<v Speaker 1>be true.

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<v Speaker 3>And you're the one that said let's do it another.

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<v Speaker 2>Time, and you've already sent her that you might have

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<v Speaker 2>to postpone again for your date on Saturday. It's just

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<v Speaker 2>leaving her with a lot of questions because your texts

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<v Speaker 2>have been a little bit mysterious.

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<v Speaker 1>For why happening?

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<v Speaker 5>He told you my text Well, I mean not all

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<v Speaker 5>of it, not the personal ones, just the ones that

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<v Speaker 5>she didn't get.

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<v Speaker 2>Yeah, Like, for example, she told us about one message

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<v Speaker 2>where you said you're totally floating right now.

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<v Speaker 1>And you can't make it.

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<v Speaker 8>Oh, yeah, we.

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<v Speaker 3>Just assumed you're on drugs.

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<v Speaker 1>Yeah.

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<v Speaker 3>No, no, we all thought I'm joking. I'm joking. What

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<v Speaker 3>does that mean?

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<v Speaker 1>We don't understand.

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<v Speaker 8>I meant like I had had a long day at

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<v Speaker 8>work and I was in the bath when I texted that,

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<v Speaker 8>So I meant like, I'm just kind of floating in

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<v Speaker 8>the water.

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<v Speaker 1>Right now, that literal literally floating in the water.

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<v Speaker 8>Yeah, I didn't want to get out.

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<v Speaker 5>You canceled a date because you wanted to take a

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<v Speaker 5>longer bath.

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<v Speaker 8>Well, it's not an excuse. I really needed it.

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<v Speaker 2>Okay, Okay, I'm still not one hundred percent clear on

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<v Speaker 2>what you mean.

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<v Speaker 3>There was he's a man that needs baths, Jeff.

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<v Speaker 1>Okay, Yeah, hygiene is a good thing.

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<v Speaker 2>Can we go to your other text that you sent

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<v Speaker 2>where you said that you were taking care of M

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<v Speaker 2>period e period?

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<v Speaker 3>What does emmy mean?

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<v Speaker 8>What it means like me.

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<v Speaker 1>As in yourself? Why do you put periods in it?

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<v Speaker 1>But got another bath?

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<v Speaker 9>Were I just thought it was like a fun way

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<v Speaker 9>to say me, like, what were you doing.

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<v Speaker 3>To take care of you? What kind of self care

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<v Speaker 3>are we talking about here?

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<v Speaker 8>So I went home and I laid in my massage chair,

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<v Speaker 8>had some Ben and Jerry's, and I just exfoliated for

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<v Speaker 8>the entire night and it was awesome.

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<v Speaker 1>Just put off her for that.

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<v Speaker 9>If I can't take care of myself, who can I

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<v Speaker 9>take care of?

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<v Speaker 2>But it sounds like I mean the saying is if

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<v Speaker 2>somebody is really important to you, you'll make time for them.

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<v Speaker 9>Yeah.

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<v Speaker 8>Yeah, I postponed it, didn't cancel.

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<v Speaker 1>It is important to me, not as important as you are.

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<v Speaker 5>I mean, I will say I feel like men don't

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<v Speaker 5>take enough time with their personal care, like they usually

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<v Speaker 5>just consider toilet time that.

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<v Speaker 1>So, so you're.

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<v Speaker 3>Saying this is an okay, excuse me.

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<v Speaker 2>Maybe a whole pint of Ben and Jerry's is more

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<v Speaker 2>important than going on the.

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<v Speaker 5>First or he could have invited her over to share

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<v Speaker 5>the Ben and Jerry's like, that would have been.

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<v Speaker 8>Why did you do that on the first day? That

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<v Speaker 8>would have been a bit creepy.

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<v Speaker 5>Okay, you're already all right, so I'm not anti any

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<v Speaker 5>of what he's said.

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<v Speaker 2>Well, I guess Brook's not. But that's not the person

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<v Speaker 2>whose opinion really matters. The one we need to ask

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<v Speaker 2>is Kiki, who I need to tell you has been

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<v Speaker 2>on the other line listening this entire time.

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<v Speaker 1>Probably need to do some self care of her own

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<v Speaker 1>after this.

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<v Speaker 4>Yeah, I'm here.

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<v Speaker 1>That's how this works. We have them on the other phone.

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<v Speaker 4>I'm just confused.

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<v Speaker 8>I didn't know I was going to be on there.

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<v Speaker 6>You Well, it's just funny because what you're saying it

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<v Speaker 6>sounds like something a woman would do.

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<v Speaker 3>I mean, it does sound lovely, It sounds amazing.

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<v Speaker 9>I believe everyone should self care all the time.

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<v Speaker 2>Okay, Well, can you go back to your like messages Chase, Like,

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<v Speaker 2>is there a reason why you had to cancel or

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<v Speaker 2>sorry postponed the dates on her? Or is this just

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<v Speaker 2>something that you do at random?

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<v Speaker 9>I remember one of the time I had forgotten my

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<v Speaker 9>lunch at home.

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<v Speaker 8>That just there, your whole day off.

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<v Speaker 1>I you didn't need anything, No.

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<v Speaker 9>I had a bagel while I was there and bought something.

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<v Speaker 5>It was yours.

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<v Speaker 1>You were a little stressed by that, you know.

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<v Speaker 9>I knew I had to go home and just have

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<v Speaker 9>a night to myself on the couch.

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<v Speaker 3>Because you were so upset about the lunch.

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<v Speaker 1>Well, what do you like just by yourself? What do

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<v Speaker 1>you do?

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<v Speaker 9>So I just went home that day and I got

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<v Speaker 9>some box wine retail therapy on Amazon, got myself like

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<v Speaker 9>four new pairs of shoes.

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<v Speaker 1>Four pairs?

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<v Speaker 3>How much?

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<v Speaker 5>Why do you have to drink to talk yourself into

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<v Speaker 5>four pairs or one?

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<v Speaker 1>He's taking full care of himself. Are cool?

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<v Speaker 8>All right?

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<v Speaker 1>Okay?

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<v Speaker 3>And that means you couldn't go out with her?

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<v Speaker 1>Yeah? How do you feel hearing all that?

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<v Speaker 8>I mean.

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<v Speaker 4>He comes very high maintenance.

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<v Speaker 3>Yeah, I feel like he's so low maintenance.

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<v Speaker 1>Yeah, because he's maintaining himself. Yeah, he requires zero.

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<v Speaker 5>But it's like, where's the room to help her, you know,

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<v Speaker 5>to like take on anybody else's it's there.

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<v Speaker 8>I just got to get through my stuff.

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<v Speaker 3>I don't think always going to have a bad day

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<v Speaker 3>if affect you that much. Yeah, forgetting your luge and stuff,

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<v Speaker 3>it's shut.

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<v Speaker 8>Down the whole day. I'm not gonna go anywhere, did

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<v Speaker 8>you guys not hear me?

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<v Speaker 9>I had to buy a bagel.

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<v Speaker 2>We're sorry for your plight, okay, and I don't want

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<v Speaker 2>to add any more onto your plate.

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<v Speaker 5>Here, My god, can you imagine the self care you're

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<v Speaker 5>going to have to do after this phone call?

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<v Speaker 6>Yeah?

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<v Speaker 2>I mean I can tell this is already really winding

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<v Speaker 2>you up. Hopefully to put you at ease. We're going

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<v Speaker 2>to take a lot off your plate and pay for

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<v Speaker 2>your next date with Kiki.

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<v Speaker 1>If you're willing to go out with her. Yeah, no pressure,

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<v Speaker 1>no stress.

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<v Speaker 8>Man, Yeah no, I still want to go out with her,

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<v Speaker 8>just not on the self care days.

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<v Speaker 5>Well, is there any day of any day of the

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<v Speaker 5>week that is not a self care day?

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<v Speaker 8>It just it depends on what happens on that day.

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<v Speaker 1>Okay, so every day morning?

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<v Speaker 4>Yeah, I could do a breakfast date.

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<v Speaker 5>Okay, what if he gets a bad night's sleep though, Hey,

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<v Speaker 5>you got to roll the dice sometimes in.

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<v Speaker 2>Just don't order a bagel at breakfast or are you

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<v Speaker 2>cool with that breakfast date?

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<v Speaker 8>We can put it on callundar and see what happened.

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<v Speaker 2>Okay, Well, sous closes, we're gonna get Kiki. So congratulations,

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<v Speaker 2>you've got scheduled.

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<v Speaker 4>Your day, Chase. I'm looking forward to seeing you.

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<v Speaker 3>That may be the most understanding woman.

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<v Speaker 1>We're all gonna need to take a mental health day

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<v Speaker 1>after this. Rooking Jeffrey in the morning.

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<v Speaker 2>I think it's funny like if the gender roles were

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<v Speaker 2>reversed here, and I'm not even saying like you Brook

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<v Speaker 2>or Alexis, I feel like our audience as a whole

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<v Speaker 2>would be sending in totally different text messages than the

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<v Speaker 2>ones that we're getting right now saying you know what,

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<v Speaker 2>totally girl, you deserve a break, self care for the wind,

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<v Speaker 2>put yourself first, men's seconds.

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<v Speaker 5>I'll tell you the reason why it sits wrong with me.

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<v Speaker 5>It's not because I think self care is great for

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<v Speaker 5>men or women. But this is the type of guy

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<v Speaker 5>that's going to tell you that the pregnancy and the

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<v Speaker 5>labor and everything was harder on him the actual woman.

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<v Speaker 3>And that's my issue.

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<v Speaker 2>Well, I do think it would be pretty hard on you.

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<v Speaker 2>That's a lot of suffering when he has to go through,

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<v Speaker 2>like the screaming that goes into.

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<v Speaker 1>His ear drums, and that's hard for him.

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<v Speaker 2>But I do think it is good that guys are

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<v Speaker 2>starting to do this and put themselves first.

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<v Speaker 1>We should, you.

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<v Speaker 3>Know what, men have never been first in this society.

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<v Speaker 2>It's true, right, I think what everybody, man or woman

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<v Speaker 2>should be putting themselves first. If we all put ourselves first,

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<v Speaker 2>the world would be a much better place.

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<v Speaker 3>There'd be no seconds.

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<v Speaker 7>That's yeah, alright, So here's and here's for fighting for men, right,

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<v Speaker 7>that's right, yeah, right, everybody wins with today's second Day

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<v Speaker 7>and update.

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<v Speaker 2>You know what, go find more winners and more of

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<v Speaker 2>our second Day calls. We have them up in our

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<v Speaker 2>podcast wherever you gets yours at Brook and Jeffrey