1 00:00:00,240 --> 00:00:02,160 Speaker 1: Buggle up, hold on tight, we got it for you. 2 00:00:02,200 --> 00:00:05,760 Speaker 1: Here it is strawberry letter. Subject is a good heart 3 00:00:05,960 --> 00:00:11,320 Speaker 1: and good personality. Enough, here's Stephen Shirley. I've been dating 4 00:00:11,360 --> 00:00:15,800 Speaker 1: someone special for four months and so far he is amazing. 5 00:00:16,200 --> 00:00:19,160 Speaker 1: He loves the Lord and he has a great personality 6 00:00:19,280 --> 00:00:22,720 Speaker 1: and a great career. When we first started dating, he 7 00:00:22,800 --> 00:00:25,760 Speaker 1: did not want to rush sex, so we waited a 8 00:00:25,760 --> 00:00:29,600 Speaker 1: little beyond it ninety days to become lovers. Since things 9 00:00:29,640 --> 00:00:32,760 Speaker 1: were going so great, I took him to meet my parents. 10 00:00:33,040 --> 00:00:35,720 Speaker 1: He fit in like a glove and they both told 11 00:00:35,760 --> 00:00:37,879 Speaker 1: me that he just might be the one for me. 12 00:00:38,479 --> 00:00:41,480 Speaker 1: The day after my boyfriend met my parents, I told 13 00:00:41,560 --> 00:00:44,000 Speaker 1: him that I would love to meet his family next. 14 00:00:44,400 --> 00:00:48,440 Speaker 1: He totally avoided the conversation and started talking about the 15 00:00:48,560 --> 00:00:52,239 Speaker 1: NBA games. I waited and brought the subject back up 16 00:00:52,360 --> 00:00:56,560 Speaker 1: later before we went to bed. He dismissed me again 17 00:00:56,960 --> 00:00:59,400 Speaker 1: by saying that he does not deal with his family 18 00:00:59,480 --> 00:01:02,840 Speaker 1: like that, so I could stop pressing the issue. So 19 00:01:03,000 --> 00:01:06,920 Speaker 1: here's my problem with what he said. It's a lie. 20 00:01:07,040 --> 00:01:11,000 Speaker 1: Surely he talks to his mom at least twice a week. 21 00:01:11,280 --> 00:01:15,479 Speaker 1: He tuchs his sister daily and shows me funny things 22 00:01:15,480 --> 00:01:18,600 Speaker 1: she posts on social media. He plays basketball at the 23 00:01:18,680 --> 00:01:21,920 Speaker 1: gym with his brothers at least once a week. His 24 00:01:22,000 --> 00:01:25,320 Speaker 1: grandmother recently had surgery, and he goes by her house 25 00:01:25,400 --> 00:01:28,000 Speaker 1: every other day to check on her and keep her company. 26 00:01:28,400 --> 00:01:30,960 Speaker 1: By him not wanting me to meet his family, I'm 27 00:01:31,000 --> 00:01:33,920 Speaker 1: getting a bit self conscious, like maybe I'm not the 28 00:01:33,959 --> 00:01:36,440 Speaker 1: type of woman that he would take home to his family. 29 00:01:36,920 --> 00:01:39,360 Speaker 1: He always says he is dating me for my heart 30 00:01:39,400 --> 00:01:42,800 Speaker 1: and personality, So does that mean I'm not pretty enough 31 00:01:42,880 --> 00:01:47,400 Speaker 1: to meet them? I'm dealing with a lot of self 32 00:01:47,520 --> 00:01:50,440 Speaker 1: doubt and I feel like this might cause our breakup. 33 00:01:50,840 --> 00:01:53,480 Speaker 1: How can I let him know how I feel without 34 00:01:53,600 --> 00:01:57,960 Speaker 1: nagging him? Please help? All right? Well, first of all, 35 00:01:58,040 --> 00:02:01,600 Speaker 1: you guys have only been together for four months. I 36 00:02:01,640 --> 00:02:04,520 Speaker 1: think it takes guys a little longer than it does 37 00:02:04,640 --> 00:02:08,280 Speaker 1: women to decide whether or not to take you to 38 00:02:08,360 --> 00:02:11,480 Speaker 1: their family. Four months is not a lot of time there. 39 00:02:11,840 --> 00:02:14,000 Speaker 1: But as far as letting him know how you feel, 40 00:02:14,320 --> 00:02:16,680 Speaker 1: just let him know. Just because you tell a person 41 00:02:16,680 --> 00:02:19,640 Speaker 1: how you feel doesn't mean you're nagging him. It's going 42 00:02:19,720 --> 00:02:23,560 Speaker 1: to be a discussion, a conversation period, And it is 43 00:02:23,560 --> 00:02:25,840 Speaker 1: a problem that he lied to you about his family. 44 00:02:25,880 --> 00:02:28,920 Speaker 1: I mean, it clearly looks like he doesn't want you 45 00:02:28,960 --> 00:02:31,520 Speaker 1: to meet them. I mean he's either not ready, and 46 00:02:31,560 --> 00:02:33,560 Speaker 1: that could be the case because you guys haven't been 47 00:02:33,639 --> 00:02:36,919 Speaker 1: dating that long, only four months, or he has no 48 00:02:37,040 --> 00:02:40,440 Speaker 1: plans whatsoever to introduce you. That could be the other thing. 49 00:02:40,480 --> 00:02:42,359 Speaker 1: But the only way you're going to find out is 50 00:02:42,400 --> 00:02:45,200 Speaker 1: to actually have an open conversation. I think you should 51 00:02:45,280 --> 00:02:47,320 Speaker 1: leave it alone after you tell him how you feel 52 00:02:47,800 --> 00:02:51,640 Speaker 1: and you know he doesn't have to lie about it. 53 00:02:51,680 --> 00:02:54,080 Speaker 1: I mean, I'm sorry you feel like you know it. 54 00:02:54,160 --> 00:02:58,160 Speaker 1: Maybe your looks, but if he specifically said he's dating 55 00:02:58,200 --> 00:03:01,440 Speaker 1: you for your heart and personality, there could be something 56 00:03:01,520 --> 00:03:04,920 Speaker 1: to that. Hopefully we'll all come out when you guys 57 00:03:05,200 --> 00:03:09,400 Speaker 1: have your talk. Um, but before um, you know, before 58 00:03:09,440 --> 00:03:12,239 Speaker 1: I go and hand it over to Steve, I really 59 00:03:12,280 --> 00:03:14,480 Speaker 1: don't want you to lose your self confidence, in your 60 00:03:14,520 --> 00:03:20,040 Speaker 1: self esteem here, let it go to you. I see 61 00:03:20,040 --> 00:03:23,000 Speaker 1: it slipping all through this matter. You gotta know that 62 00:03:23,040 --> 00:03:25,760 Speaker 1: you are enough, and please don't let anyone tell you 63 00:03:25,800 --> 00:03:28,959 Speaker 1: any differently. Okay, all right, come on, Steve that anyone 64 00:03:29,040 --> 00:03:33,480 Speaker 1: I'm seeing this let us started with a lot of 65 00:03:33,560 --> 00:03:36,520 Speaker 1: confidence and that you win. On he just started to 66 00:03:36,640 --> 00:03:40,080 Speaker 1: Peel and all. It's not my job to hold people together. 67 00:03:41,520 --> 00:03:43,400 Speaker 1: You know, if you fall in a party, he'll don't 68 00:03:43,440 --> 00:03:46,119 Speaker 1: write me. I don't know how to keep you from 69 00:03:46,160 --> 00:03:49,280 Speaker 1: falling apart. I just have to help you with the truth. 70 00:03:49,640 --> 00:03:54,600 Speaker 1: You're dating somebody special for full months. He's amazing, you know. 71 00:03:54,640 --> 00:03:57,880 Speaker 1: It makes him love amazing everybody. He loves the Lord. 72 00:03:59,080 --> 00:04:02,520 Speaker 1: He's got a great personality and a great career. When 73 00:04:02,520 --> 00:04:05,000 Speaker 1: we first started dating, he didn't even want to rush sex. 74 00:04:06,200 --> 00:04:09,560 Speaker 1: I want you to underline this word. He did not 75 00:04:10,920 --> 00:04:18,280 Speaker 1: want to rush sex, asked the first clue in this 76 00:04:18,360 --> 00:04:22,400 Speaker 1: letter right there. So we waited a little bit beyond 77 00:04:22,520 --> 00:04:31,200 Speaker 1: ninety days, I'll be down past. We didn't went down 78 00:04:31,240 --> 00:04:34,000 Speaker 1: the ninety day Ruse hillwave with Steve. I need more time. 79 00:04:35,080 --> 00:04:38,440 Speaker 1: This was him. Since things were going so great, I 80 00:04:38,520 --> 00:04:41,039 Speaker 1: took him to meet my parents. He fit in like 81 00:04:41,120 --> 00:04:44,320 Speaker 1: a glove and they both told me he just might 82 00:04:44,440 --> 00:04:47,480 Speaker 1: be the one at each side just read the one 83 00:04:47,560 --> 00:04:50,440 Speaker 1: for me. The day after my boyfriend met my parents, 84 00:04:50,839 --> 00:04:52,800 Speaker 1: I told him I would love to meet his family 85 00:04:52,920 --> 00:04:56,760 Speaker 1: next if arted. The conversation talk talking about the NBA, Wow, 86 00:04:57,279 --> 00:05:02,840 Speaker 1: who was gonna get drafted? What happened to Houston. Come 87 00:05:02,960 --> 00:05:08,400 Speaker 1: Lebroun went to Cleveland, and then you thought you brought 88 00:05:08,440 --> 00:05:11,440 Speaker 1: the subject back up before we went to bed. He 89 00:05:11,600 --> 00:05:14,240 Speaker 1: dismissed me again by saying that he don't deal with 90 00:05:14,279 --> 00:05:17,719 Speaker 1: his family like that. Wow, so I could stop pressing issue. 91 00:05:18,160 --> 00:05:21,400 Speaker 1: So here my problem with what he said. It's a lie, Shirley. 92 00:05:22,200 --> 00:05:25,839 Speaker 1: See now she's not talking to me anymore because she 93 00:05:25,960 --> 00:05:29,080 Speaker 1: already know why Aulden did already. So so here's my 94 00:05:29,200 --> 00:05:33,480 Speaker 1: problem with what he said. It's a lie, Shirley because 95 00:05:33,480 --> 00:05:37,120 Speaker 1: she knows. Shirley gonna side with her about this guy. 96 00:05:37,360 --> 00:05:41,359 Speaker 1: Don't ask Steve because stec through this already. He talks 97 00:05:41,400 --> 00:05:43,760 Speaker 1: to his mom at least twice a week. He texts 98 00:05:43,760 --> 00:05:46,200 Speaker 1: his sister daily, and he shows me funny things she 99 00:05:46,279 --> 00:05:48,960 Speaker 1: posts on social media. He played basketball at the Damn 100 00:05:49,000 --> 00:05:51,600 Speaker 1: gym with his brothers. Lease was a week. His grandmother 101 00:05:51,720 --> 00:05:54,279 Speaker 1: recently had surgery, and he go by her house every 102 00:05:54,279 --> 00:05:57,800 Speaker 1: other day check on her and keep her company. By 103 00:05:57,880 --> 00:06:00,599 Speaker 1: him not wanting me to meet his family, I'm getting 104 00:06:00,600 --> 00:06:03,640 Speaker 1: a bit self conscious, like maybe I'm not the type 105 00:06:03,640 --> 00:06:07,320 Speaker 1: of woman he would take home to his family. He 106 00:06:07,480 --> 00:06:09,880 Speaker 1: keeps telling you he me he's dating me for my 107 00:06:10,000 --> 00:06:15,160 Speaker 1: heart and personality. Need to write that down. Hold on 108 00:06:16,200 --> 00:06:20,640 Speaker 1: for heart and personality is a good heart and good personality. 109 00:06:20,800 --> 00:06:24,520 Speaker 1: Enough is the subject dating somebody special. He loved the 110 00:06:24,640 --> 00:06:29,440 Speaker 1: Lord great personality career. When we started dating, he he 111 00:06:29,520 --> 00:06:33,719 Speaker 1: want to rush sake. So they waited beyond ninety days. 112 00:06:34,480 --> 00:06:37,159 Speaker 1: Damn you told us to write that down. That was 113 00:06:37,240 --> 00:06:42,560 Speaker 1: his ideal. He needed mot because you're trying to work 114 00:06:42,560 --> 00:06:45,800 Speaker 1: all this out in his head. I'm gonna do this 115 00:06:50,960 --> 00:06:53,320 Speaker 1: and he felt the pressure. When the ninety days was up. 116 00:06:53,360 --> 00:07:00,040 Speaker 1: He saw my book sitting on your coffee somebody I 117 00:07:01,360 --> 00:07:07,800 Speaker 1: know she didn't rest the books first chapter none today 118 00:07:07,880 --> 00:07:12,840 Speaker 1: about see how long I can play this? Then you 119 00:07:12,840 --> 00:07:15,080 Speaker 1: wouldn't met his parents and the boyfriend you took him 120 00:07:15,080 --> 00:07:17,400 Speaker 1: meet your parents. They said that he could be the one. 121 00:07:17,680 --> 00:07:20,200 Speaker 1: They were shocked though that's not in the letter, but 122 00:07:20,320 --> 00:07:22,520 Speaker 1: they was. When you came in the house with him. 123 00:07:23,360 --> 00:07:28,120 Speaker 1: They were surprised. They were surprised. Steve Harvey. Now he 124 00:07:28,360 --> 00:07:31,720 Speaker 1: was set. They was, they was. They was pretty surprised. 125 00:07:31,920 --> 00:07:33,840 Speaker 1: He fitted in like a glove and he told me 126 00:07:33,880 --> 00:07:36,040 Speaker 1: he might just be the one. They were surprised though. 127 00:07:36,560 --> 00:07:38,040 Speaker 1: Then the day after that, you told him you want 128 00:07:38,040 --> 00:07:40,400 Speaker 1: to meet the family. He changed the subject, bought off basketball, 129 00:07:41,280 --> 00:07:44,400 Speaker 1: and then before you went to bed, you asked him again, 130 00:07:44,480 --> 00:07:48,240 Speaker 1: and then he told you that he closed his family 131 00:07:48,320 --> 00:07:50,840 Speaker 1: like that, and then you said, well, that's the last Charlot. 132 00:07:51,640 --> 00:07:53,560 Speaker 1: He talked to his mom at least twice a week, 133 00:07:53,920 --> 00:07:56,760 Speaker 1: and don't be talking sports with me. He texts his 134 00:07:56,880 --> 00:07:59,360 Speaker 1: sister Daly showed me funny thing she pulled and he 135 00:07:59,440 --> 00:08:02,600 Speaker 1: played bad about with his brothers. Wants his grandmom got seen. 136 00:08:02,680 --> 00:08:04,680 Speaker 1: He go by to every day checking on her, but 137 00:08:04,840 --> 00:08:06,680 Speaker 1: him not wanting me to meet his family. I'm getting 138 00:08:06,680 --> 00:08:08,560 Speaker 1: a bit self conscious, here would go. This is what 139 00:08:08,640 --> 00:08:11,040 Speaker 1: this letter is all about. Like, maybe I'm not the 140 00:08:11,080 --> 00:08:14,840 Speaker 1: type of woman that he would take home to his family. Now, 141 00:08:14,880 --> 00:08:19,360 Speaker 1: when she came to the conclusion, this is you saying 142 00:08:19,480 --> 00:08:22,200 Speaker 1: I'm not the type of woman that he would take 143 00:08:22,240 --> 00:08:26,400 Speaker 1: home to his family. He always says he's dating me 144 00:08:26,440 --> 00:08:31,000 Speaker 1: from my heart and personality, So does that mean I'm 145 00:08:31,040 --> 00:08:34,840 Speaker 1: not pretty enough to meet them? Well, he says he's 146 00:08:34,920 --> 00:08:38,720 Speaker 1: dating me from my heart and personality, and you can't 147 00:08:38,760 --> 00:08:45,000 Speaker 1: see either one of him. Most of them is invisible. 148 00:08:46,920 --> 00:08:49,040 Speaker 1: You can't see that. So does that mean that I'm 149 00:08:49,080 --> 00:08:53,600 Speaker 1: not pretty? Enough to meet them. Well, let's go back 150 00:08:54,520 --> 00:08:56,520 Speaker 1: all the way back to the top of this letter. 151 00:08:58,520 --> 00:09:01,000 Speaker 1: When he first started dating and he did not want 152 00:09:01,040 --> 00:09:05,040 Speaker 1: to rush sex, but man, you know, trying to get 153 00:09:05,080 --> 00:09:08,040 Speaker 1: to the promise as soon as he can. That was 154 00:09:08,040 --> 00:09:11,320 Speaker 1: your first clue that maybe he had to work his nerves. 155 00:09:12,760 --> 00:09:15,600 Speaker 1: Then he waited a little bit beyond ninety days. That's 156 00:09:15,600 --> 00:09:21,240 Speaker 1: just going to damn father. Then when you took him 157 00:09:21,240 --> 00:09:24,000 Speaker 1: to meet his pasty, he met them and saw what 158 00:09:24,080 --> 00:09:36,640 Speaker 1: they looked like when he decided this ain't work. He 159 00:09:36,840 --> 00:09:42,440 Speaker 1: saw yo, mother and father. This is what she said. 160 00:09:42,480 --> 00:09:45,240 Speaker 1: This high went on. What y'all listen comfort Because his 161 00:09:45,360 --> 00:09:51,720 Speaker 1: name is Jerome, Mama, daddy. This Drone did jern here Jerome. 162 00:09:52,360 --> 00:10:07,600 Speaker 1: This was Drone's reaction. He hey, Jerome, Jerome gasp he gasped, 163 00:10:08,960 --> 00:10:15,680 Speaker 1: because y'all parents, your mama, and he would damn Lord, 164 00:10:16,120 --> 00:10:20,440 Speaker 1: have message. Doesn't go chance sheep and to get cute. 165 00:10:21,960 --> 00:10:27,240 Speaker 1: Nobody in this house look at her mama and daddy. 166 00:10:28,720 --> 00:10:31,000 Speaker 1: So now let's go back to the letter. By them 167 00:10:31,120 --> 00:10:33,040 Speaker 1: not wanting me to meet his family, I'm getting a 168 00:10:33,080 --> 00:10:35,520 Speaker 1: bit self conscious, like maybe I'm not the type of 169 00:10:35,600 --> 00:10:38,800 Speaker 1: woman that he would take home to his family. He 170 00:10:38,960 --> 00:10:41,400 Speaker 1: always says he's dating me for my heart, and so 171 00:10:41,559 --> 00:10:43,800 Speaker 1: does that mean I'm not pretty enough to meet them? 172 00:10:44,080 --> 00:10:46,680 Speaker 1: I'm dealing with a lot of self doubt and you should. 173 00:10:47,160 --> 00:10:49,440 Speaker 1: And I feel like this might cause I break up. 174 00:10:49,679 --> 00:10:55,120 Speaker 1: Y'all already broke up. He broke up with you when 175 00:10:55,160 --> 00:10:59,439 Speaker 1: he saw your man. How can I let him know 176 00:10:59,559 --> 00:11:01,640 Speaker 1: how I feel? I ain't got to tell him how 177 00:11:01,720 --> 00:11:05,040 Speaker 1: you feel. You know how you feel. That's why I 178 00:11:05,160 --> 00:11:07,160 Speaker 1: love you for your heart and your personality, because you're 179 00:11:07,200 --> 00:11:11,280 Speaker 1: so strong to keep waking up looking like this, and 180 00:11:11,360 --> 00:11:13,679 Speaker 1: he admires your heart and personality. But now I even 181 00:11:13,720 --> 00:11:15,360 Speaker 1: met your mom and daddy, he know this ain't gonna 182 00:11:15,400 --> 00:11:19,000 Speaker 1: get better. It's gonna get worse. He's ain't that chance. 183 00:11:19,040 --> 00:11:21,720 Speaker 1: You're getting cute and a sad thing about your baby. 184 00:11:21,800 --> 00:11:23,880 Speaker 1: I ain't even gonna lie to you. Probably look like 185 00:11:24,080 --> 00:11:29,800 Speaker 1: your daddy, and which is messing him up even more 186 00:11:29,800 --> 00:11:32,600 Speaker 1: because you know your mama. Your mama had a chance 187 00:11:32,679 --> 00:11:34,800 Speaker 1: with him. But when you walked in in you and 188 00:11:34,920 --> 00:11:45,360 Speaker 1: your daddy, girl, you look jet like you dad. All right? Listen, uh, 189 00:11:46,000 --> 00:11:50,160 Speaker 1: you can email us your Instagram coming up at forty 190 00:11:50,240 --> 00:11:52,640 Speaker 1: six after the hour, I told you. He was dating 191 00:11:52,679 --> 00:11:55,640 Speaker 1: you for your heart and personality. I think we're gonna 192 00:11:55,640 --> 00:12:01,520 Speaker 1: go ahead and do part three of today's three subject 193 00:12:01,840 --> 00:12:05,679 Speaker 1: is a good heart and a good personality enough. Apparently not, 194 00:12:05,920 --> 00:12:08,880 Speaker 1: according to mister Harvey, We're gonna do a part three 195 00:12:08,960 --> 00:12:11,520 Speaker 1: of today's Strawberry letter. The subject is a good heart 196 00:12:11,600 --> 00:12:15,000 Speaker 1: and good personality enough. A young lady wrote in She's 197 00:12:15,040 --> 00:12:17,800 Speaker 1: been dating a guy for four months so far. He's amazing. 198 00:12:17,880 --> 00:12:21,240 Speaker 1: He loves the Lord, great personality, great career. She took 199 00:12:21,320 --> 00:12:24,440 Speaker 1: him to meet her parents. He fit right in. Her 200 00:12:24,520 --> 00:12:26,480 Speaker 1: parents told her he might be the one for her. 201 00:12:27,040 --> 00:12:30,120 Speaker 1: So she in turn told him, well now I think 202 00:12:30,160 --> 00:12:34,120 Speaker 1: it's time for me to meet your parents. Ouation, he 203 00:12:34,280 --> 00:12:40,520 Speaker 1: changed the subjects, started talking about the NBA. You take 204 00:12:40,559 --> 00:12:44,960 Speaker 1: it from there, Steve, go ahead. And then before they 205 00:12:45,040 --> 00:12:47,400 Speaker 1: went to bed, she thought she'd bring it up again. 206 00:12:48,640 --> 00:12:50,880 Speaker 1: Why can't I meet your parents? So then he trying 207 00:12:50,920 --> 00:12:53,079 Speaker 1: to let her down, he said, look, me and my 208 00:12:53,200 --> 00:12:56,920 Speaker 1: family were in close like that. Then she told Shirley, Shirley, 209 00:12:57,000 --> 00:13:01,839 Speaker 1: that's a lie. That is a lie. He talks to 210 00:13:01,960 --> 00:13:05,000 Speaker 1: his mama twice a week. He texts his sisters every day. 211 00:13:05,240 --> 00:13:07,400 Speaker 1: He showed me for tough day posts on social media. 212 00:13:07,600 --> 00:13:09,880 Speaker 1: He played basketball at jim with his brother's least once 213 00:13:09,920 --> 00:13:12,719 Speaker 1: a week. His grandmama got sick head. Certainly he go 214 00:13:12,800 --> 00:13:14,719 Speaker 1: bout the house of day check. He lying to me 215 00:13:14,800 --> 00:13:17,959 Speaker 1: shut he close to his family, but not wanting me 216 00:13:18,040 --> 00:13:20,560 Speaker 1: to meet his family. I'm getting a little bit self conscious, 217 00:13:20,720 --> 00:13:23,559 Speaker 1: like maybe I'm not the type of woman that he 218 00:13:23,600 --> 00:13:25,920 Speaker 1: would take home to his family. You already know that 219 00:13:27,760 --> 00:13:29,920 Speaker 1: you're the one bought it up. I wasn't gonna say 220 00:13:30,000 --> 00:13:32,720 Speaker 1: nothing about the letter, but you said I'm not the type. 221 00:13:33,320 --> 00:13:36,160 Speaker 1: He always says he's dating me for my heart and personality. 222 00:13:36,400 --> 00:13:38,120 Speaker 1: That's what he told you. He ain't saying he's dating 223 00:13:38,160 --> 00:13:42,319 Speaker 1: you for your looks. He loves your heart and your personality. 224 00:13:42,840 --> 00:13:47,920 Speaker 1: Now you're gonna have to just trust in that, because 225 00:13:48,000 --> 00:13:50,040 Speaker 1: that's he ain't giving you nothing else. He's not in 226 00:13:50,200 --> 00:13:52,800 Speaker 1: it for your looks. He's in and you're dating you 227 00:13:52,920 --> 00:13:56,840 Speaker 1: because of your heart and your personality, and you're probably 228 00:13:56,880 --> 00:14:01,120 Speaker 1: pretty good. I'm just saying, yeah, he never said it. 229 00:14:01,360 --> 00:14:03,960 Speaker 1: She never said he told her that she was beautiful 230 00:14:04,200 --> 00:14:07,720 Speaker 1: or anything that. Because well, you know, let me explain something. 231 00:14:09,520 --> 00:14:12,640 Speaker 1: If you never heard a person tell you in your life. 232 00:14:12,720 --> 00:14:16,679 Speaker 1: You're beautiful, it's probably cause you're not well. She didn't 233 00:14:16,760 --> 00:14:20,120 Speaker 1: say that in the letters, Steve. Huh, she didn't say 234 00:14:20,200 --> 00:14:22,320 Speaker 1: that in the letter. Oh, it's all in this litter 235 00:14:26,280 --> 00:14:31,920 Speaker 1: is in this damn man. He always says he's dating 236 00:14:31,960 --> 00:14:35,360 Speaker 1: me for my heart and personality. That means you're not acute. 237 00:14:35,560 --> 00:14:38,440 Speaker 1: You ain't cute. So does that mean I'm not pretty 238 00:14:38,560 --> 00:14:41,280 Speaker 1: enough to meet them? Are you pretty enough to meet him? 239 00:14:41,800 --> 00:14:44,920 Speaker 1: But he's not gonna introduce you as his woman? Oh 240 00:14:45,680 --> 00:14:47,720 Speaker 1: that's all you can go. You can meet him anytime, 241 00:14:47,800 --> 00:14:55,960 Speaker 1: but just don't tell him y'all been together? How can 242 00:14:56,000 --> 00:14:57,920 Speaker 1: I let him know how I feel? Just walk around 243 00:14:57,920 --> 00:14:59,720 Speaker 1: and know what you love Glass and tell him, Hey, 244 00:15:00,920 --> 00:15:05,760 Speaker 1: all right, I'm not feeling this here, all right? Look, Cad, 245 00:15:05,920 --> 00:15:09,440 Speaker 1: we you're listening to The Dave Harvey Morning Show