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Speaker 1: It is time now for today's Strawberry Letter.

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Speaker 1: Okay. And you never know.

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Speaker 2: We could hear that, we could be getting your letter,

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Speaker 2: and we could be reading it live on the air,

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Speaker 2: just like we're going to read this one, and you

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Speaker 2: just never know it could be yours.

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Speaker 3: You never know. Buckle up and hold on tight. We

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Speaker 3: got it for you.

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Speaker 4: Here.

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Speaker 3: It is the Strawberry Letter.

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Speaker 1: Thank you, nephew.

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Speaker 2: Subject. If it ain't broke, don't fix it. Dear Stephen Shirley.

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Speaker 2: I'm a fifty two year old married woman and I've

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Speaker 2: been married for twenty one years and we have three

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Speaker 2: teenagers at home. I'm working from home now, so I'm

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Speaker 2: able to cook for the kids and be a bit

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Speaker 2: more hands on. I also have more time to see

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Speaker 2: how ignorant my husband really is. He is a cheater

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Speaker 2: and a very bad one. He's been busted several times,

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Speaker 2: and I've overlooked it because I don't want to break

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Speaker 2: up a happy home. My father is a big influencer

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Speaker 2: in my life. He was a pastor for most of

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Speaker 2: my life, and when he cheated on my mother, he

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Speaker 2: got excommunicated from the church. I know I should not

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Speaker 2: be getting marital advice from him, but he's a wise man,

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Speaker 2: so I'd rather listen to him than a therapist.

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Speaker 1: He's always told me to keep to.

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Speaker 2: Myself and not to look for things, and I will

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Speaker 2: have a long and happy marriage. Being in the house

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Speaker 2: ninety percent of the time shields me from anything my

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Speaker 2: husband might be doing in the streets. That's why I

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Speaker 2: call him ignorant all the time. He can't even cover

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Speaker 2: his tracks like a seasoned womanizer would. I've seen inappropriate

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Speaker 2: emails to his female manager, and I've seen text messages

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Speaker 2: and breastpicks on his phone from random women. That's his thing.

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Speaker 2: He always gets several breast picks from the women he's

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Speaker 2: sleeping with. It can be two or three at a time,

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Speaker 2: and for all I care, but there's no way I

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Speaker 2: should know what he's up to. Women and my family

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Speaker 2: disagree with me all the time and try to tell

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Speaker 2: me things about my husband.

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Speaker 1: I ask them politely.

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Speaker 2: To stop gossiping with me, because I'm not leaving this man.

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Speaker 2: My dad came over the other night and confirmed what

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Speaker 2: I believe.

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Speaker 1: He said.

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Speaker 2: If it ain't broke, don't fix it. My man still

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Speaker 2: makes me feel like I am the only woman for

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Speaker 2: him despite what he does behind my back. Am I

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Speaker 2: a fool for letting the slide? Or do I destroy

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Speaker 2: my family and leave him? What a confusing situation you're

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Speaker 2: in and try to get us in. But let's see

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Speaker 2: if we can help you. I think the first thing

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Speaker 2: you need to do is stop listening to your daddy.

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Speaker 2: That's what I think, because remember, he cheated too. He

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Speaker 2: got kicked out of the church for it. What he's

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Speaker 2: keep doing what he would doing cheating. That way he

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Speaker 2: So please tell him thank you, but no, thank you.

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Speaker 2: I'm good, daddy, I'm good. I know this is hurting you.

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Speaker 2: It's confusing you. Your dad's asking you to turn a

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Speaker 2: blind eye to your husband's infidelity. You're not happy, and

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Speaker 2: even though you say you have a happy home, it's

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Speaker 2: not happy in your home. You're miserable. They all know

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Speaker 2: about your husband, your family. You've sacrificed your happiness for

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Speaker 2: twenty one years listening to your dad's crazy advice. I

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Speaker 2: mean it's time you make some decisions for your own,

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Speaker 2: on your own about your own life. Okay, tell your

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Speaker 2: husband you're no longer going to put up with going.

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Speaker 2: You know, all this goings on that he has, this

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Speaker 2: is crap that he's giving you.

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Speaker 1: You said you're not leaving him. Are you sure?

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Speaker 2: You said you're not leaving him in spite of everything

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Speaker 2: that you've seen and that he's done. But you know

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Speaker 2: you don't have to take this from him my hope. Yes,

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Speaker 2: your marriage is very broken and it does need fixing.

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Speaker 1: So if you really want to.

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Speaker 2: Stay in it, since you said you're not leaving, it's

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Speaker 2: time to let your husband know that he better straighten

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Speaker 2: up or he's got to go.

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Speaker 1: Simple as that, Steve.

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Speaker 3: I don't know how we help a person that don't

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Speaker 4: Yeah, lady, why did you even write us? I mean,

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Speaker 4: you know you said in the letter. Here's a line

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Speaker 4: that sticks out for me. Women in my family disagree

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Speaker 4: me things about my husband. I ask them politely to

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Speaker 4: stop gossiping with me because I'm not leaving this man.

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Speaker 3: Okay, So what you want to do, you ain't leaving.

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Speaker 4: Stay there, stay there, stay there and quick complaining that's

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Speaker 4: all you got to do. Now seemed to me like

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Speaker 4: in this letter you need to learn how to lap it,

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Speaker 4: lick it and like it. Three l lap it, lick

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Speaker 4: it and like it. That's what it seems to me like,

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Speaker 4: because you don't. You're not leaving this man, all right.

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Speaker 4: But now let me tell you, let me get you

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Speaker 4: to this point. You're fifty two, you've been married twenty one,

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Speaker 4: you got three teenagers at home, and now you have

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Speaker 4: more time to spend at home, so you can be

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Speaker 4: a bit more hands on because you work from home now.

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Speaker 4: And now you want to say your husband are only

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Speaker 4: time to see how ignorant my husband really is. So

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Speaker 4: you're married to an ignorant man. Okay, he's a cheater

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Speaker 4: and a very bad one. Now you're married to an

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Speaker 4: ignorant man. That's a cheater. You've busted him several times,

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Speaker 4: and I've overlooked because I don't want to break up

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Speaker 4: a happy home. Who happy in the home? No, I

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Speaker 4: mean the kids might be cool because they don't know

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Speaker 4: he's certainly cool because he can get busted and you

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Speaker 4: overlook it. So I'm not sure that if he's getting

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Speaker 4: you ain't gonna do nothing. So I'm not really sure

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Speaker 4: that he's ignorant. I just think he realized you ain't

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Speaker 4: gonna do nothing. When I come back, I'll straightened it out.

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Speaker 4: They ain't gonna be able to help you, though, but

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Speaker 4: I will.

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Speaker 3: Talk to you.

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Speaker 1: It's day, all right, Thank you, Steve.

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Speaker 2: today's crazy Strawberry letter.

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Speaker 1: The subject if it ain't broke, don't fix it.

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Speaker 3: This is the dumbest letter we've had in a while.

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Speaker 3: This is just dumb.

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Speaker 4: I'm fifty two, been married twenty one years, three teen

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Speaker 4: years at home. You work for home now, so you

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Speaker 4: spend a lot of more time. You're a lot more

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Speaker 4: home are you a lot more hands on now? And

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Speaker 4: you've also had had time to see how ignorant your

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Speaker 4: husband really is now. This is why you say he's ignorant.

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Speaker 4: He's a cheatah and a very bad Okay, then you

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Speaker 4: say he's been busting several times, and I've overlooked it

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Speaker 4: because I don't want.

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Speaker 3: To break up a happy home. You don't want to

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Speaker 3: break up home for who?

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Speaker 4: Because if you happy in that type of situation, there's

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Speaker 4: nothing Man Shirley can do for you. My father is

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Speaker 4: a big influence in my life. He was a pastor

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Speaker 4: for most of my life. When he cheated on my

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Speaker 4: mother and he got excommunicated from the church. I know

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Speaker 4: I should not be getting marriedtal advice from him, but

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Speaker 4: he's a wise man, so I'd rather listen to him

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Speaker 4: than a therapist. You make the most contradictory statements throughout

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Speaker 4: your damn ladder. You live with the man who's ignorant

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Speaker 4: and a bad cheater, and you overlook it because you

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Speaker 4: don't want to break up a happy home. Your father

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Speaker 4: got excommunicated for cheating on your mama, and I know

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Speaker 4: I should not be getting married. Tell advice from him,

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Speaker 4: but he's a wise man, so I'd rather listen to

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Speaker 4: him down a therapist.

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Speaker 3: Okay, okay, lady.

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Speaker 4: And now this is what his father says. He's always

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Speaker 4: told me to keep to myself and not look for things,

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Speaker 4: and I will have a long and happy marriage. What

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Speaker 4: kind of father is this? Listen to me, He's wise,

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Speaker 4: but not to your benefit. He has give you the

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Speaker 4: wisdom of a cheater. He's not giving you the wisdom

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Speaker 4: you need as the person who's being cheated on. And

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Speaker 4: I'm stunned that this is coming from your father. How

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Speaker 3: A lady, come on now, and you fifty two what

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Speaker 4: His old ass fault, this old ass cheating with this

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Speaker 4: written a him. Why are you listening to him? Shut up,

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Speaker 4: keep your mouth closed, Let your man cheat. Head here

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Speaker 4: gold you shut up, keep your mouth closed. Let your

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Speaker 4: man keep cheating on. I said, shut up and keep

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Speaker 4: Let him cheat, let him cheat, cheat on you, and

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Speaker 3: So you have a happy home.

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Speaker 4: Now.

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Speaker 3: Being in the house ninety.

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Speaker 4: Percent of the time, it shields me from anything my

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Speaker 3: No, it don't, lady. That's why I call him ignorant

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Speaker 4: He can't even cover his track like a seasoned Lumanizer Wood.

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Speaker 4: I've seen inappropriate emails to his female manager. I've seen

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Speaker 4: text messages and breastpiics on his phone from random women.

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Speaker 4: Why he need a pass code because if you see it,

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Speaker 4: you've already said you gonna overlook it. And in a

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Speaker 4: minute in the letter, you're finna tell us you ain't

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Speaker 4: finna leave him.

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Speaker 3: So how ignorant is he? He doing it? Because he

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Speaker 3: know you ain't gonna do nothing. That's his thing.

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Speaker 4: He always gets several breast picks from the women he's

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Speaker 3: You're typing this from your happy home.

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Speaker 4: It can be two or three out of time for

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Speaker 4: all I care. But there's no way I should know

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Speaker 4: what he's up to. It's okay that you know what

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Speaker 4: about it for two reasons, cause you don't want to

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Speaker 4: upset your happy home, and your daddy told you to

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Speaker 4: stop looking for stuff. Women in my family disagree with

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Speaker 4: things about my husband. I ask him politely stop gossiping

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Speaker 4: with me, because I am not leaving this man. Okay, now, nah,

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Speaker 4: I got a clear picture of it. You think your

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Speaker 4: husband is a ignorant because he cheats. He's been busting

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Speaker 4: several times, and you keep overlooking it. Your dad isn't

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Speaker 4: told you to stop looking through for stuff, but you

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Speaker 4: find stuff anyway.

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Speaker 3: Female relatives and told you to leave him.

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Speaker 4: You've told him to stop gossiping about you and him

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Speaker 4: because you're not leaving this man.

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Speaker 3: My dad came over the other night.

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Speaker 4: Now here come this old fool your dad came over

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Speaker 4: the other night and confirmed what I believe.

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Speaker 3: He said. If it ain't broke, don't fix it.

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Speaker 4: My man still makes me feel like I'm the only

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Speaker 4: woman for him despite what he does behind my back.

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Speaker 4: Am I a food for letting this slide? Or do

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Speaker 4: I destroy my family and leave him? Lady, listen to me.

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Speaker 4: This man makes you feel like you're the only woman

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Speaker 4: for him. You may he may make you feel like

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Speaker 4: you're the only woman for him, but you ain't the

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Speaker 4: only woman with him. Now. If you done signed up

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Speaker 4: for this open marriage that you're in and don't know it,

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Speaker 4: I'd like to introduce you to it. You are in

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Speaker 4: an open marriage, idle, and as far as your daddy go,

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Speaker 4: listen to me. Man, Please don't advise your daughters based

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Speaker 4: on advise your daughter's based on mistakes you've made, and

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Speaker 4: let them learn from mistakes you've made. Do not make

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Speaker 4: your daughters releive a mistakes so you can be cleared

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Speaker 4: as a cheater.

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Speaker 3: That's the most ignorant mess I've ever heard.

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Speaker 1: This stupid all right, thank you, Steve.

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