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Speaker 1: The nick A Gliser Podcast.

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Speaker 2: Glasers here, I am welcome to the show with the

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Speaker 2: Nicki Glaser Podcast.

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Speaker 3: We are in Los Angeles, California.

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Speaker 2: It's a very special episode because we are actually doing

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Speaker 2: an episode to honor the women who take the mic.

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Speaker 2: I don't know if it's an initiative or like a

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Speaker 2: special episode, but we're honoring women who take the mic.

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Speaker 2: I'm taking this mic home with me. I don't own it,

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Speaker 2: but it's it's part of what the episode is about

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Speaker 2: is that I get to keep this mic. And what

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Speaker 2: we're really doing is we're celebrating with iHeart for International

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Speaker 2: Women's Day, which falls on Friday, March eighth, and it's

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Speaker 2: International Women's say is very important and it's it's starting

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Speaker 2: to catch on in America, but it's like very important

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Speaker 2: in other places. Brian, are you confused or what's going on?

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Speaker 2: This doesn't say anything of relevance. This is like red No,

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Speaker 2: it does. It's on this bottom of the second page.

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Speaker 2: Go to the second page and you'll find it all. Yes,

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Speaker 2: we're taking the mic. And so for the special women's episode,

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Speaker 2: we have a special woman guest. Yes, and I know

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Speaker 2: she's a woman because she's fucking pregnant right now.

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Speaker 1: Oh my god.

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Speaker 2: Not all women get pregnant, though, I don't want to

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Speaker 2: say that that's not there's someone who can't get pressure. Yes,

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Speaker 2: but she is here with us today. I love her

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Speaker 2: so much. She's I would consider you one of my

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Speaker 2: closest friends, and we don't hang out that much, but

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Speaker 2: like I just.

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Speaker 4: I've never been more honored. I literally listen to your podcast.

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Speaker 4: I consider you my best friend.

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Speaker 5: Oh my god, I love you so muche one of

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Speaker 5: the funniest people ever, one of the most naturally talented,

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Speaker 5: uh just cool girls ever.

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Speaker 2: I was just talking about how much I love you

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Speaker 2: to someone because you just to Rick Glassman, actually, I

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Speaker 2: was talking about how you and body, Yeah you're Nemesis.

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Speaker 2: I was really trying to sell you to him. He

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Speaker 2: was he's still on the fence. But I was just saying, like,

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Speaker 2: you're just so cool, like you just like are who

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Speaker 2: you are, which is like the best way to be

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Speaker 2: as a woman is to just not try to be

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Speaker 2: anything except what you are, and you are. Just You're

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Speaker 2: so cool. You're like the coolest person I know. I

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Speaker 2: think you're up there with a couple other people in

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Speaker 2: my life that are cool. But like you are probably

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Speaker 2: one of the coolest people I know.

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Speaker 4: That is so nice, and I actually do believe you

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Speaker 4: because you are so supportive and nice to me, and

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Speaker 4: I look at you like this cool popular girl, like

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Speaker 4: she's like the cheerleader, and I'm like, wait, why she's

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Speaker 4: so nice? But like I believe you. And also, Nikki,

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Speaker 4: thank you. I saw your set. Your stand up is

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Speaker 4: so good and even though it's basically a lot of

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Speaker 4: it is like completely fighting against what I'm currently doing

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Speaker 4: with my body, Like I am on your side. Yeah,

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Speaker 4: Like I'm on your side with everything you you are.

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Speaker 4: And you're like, you're very pregnant right now?

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Speaker 3: Are you eight months?

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Speaker 6: Right now?

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Speaker 4: I'm eight months. Yeah, it's so embarrassing.

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Speaker 3: Thank you for being here.

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Speaker 4: No, don't.

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Speaker 2: I saw you the other night at the comedy store

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Speaker 2: and then you went edit your car and my boyfriend

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Speaker 2: I were walking into the store and you were getting

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Speaker 2: out and you were like you just started laughing when

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Speaker 2: you saw us, and you were like, it's so embarrassing.

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Speaker 3: It's so embarrassing settling around.

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Speaker 4: You're not a person anymore. You're just like a vessel.

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Speaker 4: You realize what it's We're not equal to men.

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Speaker 3: Like it's just are you angry about it? Is there?

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Speaker 6: Like?

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Speaker 3: What are you feeling empowered by?

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Speaker 4: This?

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Speaker 5: Is no?

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Speaker 4: I feel loving, Like I feel really loving towards the

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Speaker 4: father of my child, which I'm glad he's enjoying it

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Speaker 4: now because once the baby comes out, I'm sure my

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Speaker 4: hormones will go back to nasty girls.

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Speaker 3: Some things have changed, like you have become more gentle.

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Speaker 4: And I just feel really sensitive. And I'm like cleaning

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Speaker 4: my house, which is weird. I know, I know.

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Speaker 3: It's a big for you. Maybe I need to get pregnant.

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Speaker 4: I like it's it took like eight months to do it. Yeah, pregnancy,

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Speaker 3: You're just like nesting. You're getting the nest ready.

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Speaker 4: Well, I have not one single item purchased, but I

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Speaker 4: am cleaning just for myself. I think, are you But

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Speaker 4: you're not add not not even a little bit. I

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Speaker 4: hate pregnancy so much that I realized there's something going

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Speaker 4: on in my brain where I'm like, I'll just be

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Speaker 4: pregnant forever, like this is my curse. Yes, and I'm

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Speaker 4: in denial and I haven't given a literal one thought

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Speaker 4: as to what my life will be like when the

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Speaker 4: baby comes.

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Speaker 2: Well that sounds good because it sounds like you're living.

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Speaker 2: You're the present, which is what we all aspire to.

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Speaker 4: I should plan, though some people should plan.

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Speaker 2: Well, it's like the one thing that's guaranteed not to last,

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Speaker 2: like sometimes people have. My brains are like, what if

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Speaker 2: this never goes away? What it like a stomach ache,

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Speaker 2: like nausea or something like that could, but this will definitely.

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Speaker 1: Longer than a few years. I don't know what pregnancy.

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Speaker 3: Is found to be over within a month?

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Speaker 4: Wait? Is it messed up to put you on the

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Speaker 4: spot though, and ask where is your head out on

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Speaker 4: this subject?

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Speaker 2: I'm really good about not having I really am, like

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Speaker 2: you're You're not the only person who's pregnant in my life.

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Speaker 2: Noah our producer who's not here with us right now

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Speaker 2: because she's off getting married, but she is do in March, May,

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Speaker 2: no April, something around there.

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Speaker 1: One of the months.

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Speaker 2: Yeah, maybe next year May, I don't know, twenty twenty five.

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Speaker 2: But she's also pregnant right now. My other friend I

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Speaker 2: have another friend is pregnant. I'm hearing a lot about it.

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Speaker 2: It sounds really hard, and I think I wouldn't be

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Speaker 4: But I really support your choice. Like I and I

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Speaker 4: always thought like, oh, if someone was pregnant had a baby, like,

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Speaker 4: why are they not trying to convince me to do it?

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Speaker 4: And now I see why. I'm like, oh, like, because

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Speaker 4: I for many years was like I don't want kids,

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Speaker 4: and no one was ever like you have to, which

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Speaker 4: It's like it's better. Life was better before so far.

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Speaker 3: Yeah, it hasn't even started yet.

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Speaker 4: This is just I'm excited. You know, there's such a

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Speaker 4: good it's gonna be great. But I'm just I get

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Speaker 4: your point of view. I mean, the physical discomfort is

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Speaker 4: like I could just go on and on. It's really

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Speaker 4: really chilling. And I'm a very selfish person, like when

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Speaker 4: be an issue for me. And this is really a

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Speaker 4: time in my life where like I'm not I cannot

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Speaker 4: put myself first, Like I can't just get high, I

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Speaker 4: can't just eat a big meal because my acid reflex

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Speaker 3: Many comforts too, right, aren't you you're dabbling?

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Speaker 4: Yeah, I'm dabbling. Yeah, I'm getting in heroin? Are you

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Speaker 4: just haro is safe?

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Speaker 3: I didn't even heard anyone say you can't do it.

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Speaker 3: I think it's right.

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Speaker 2: It's not on all the lists that I see. I

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Speaker 2: guess they just maybe assume you wouldn't. But if they

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Speaker 2: don't say no, I'm gonna do it. We do have

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Speaker 2: to talk about women like in this segment, and I

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Speaker 2: want to talk about because we're celebrating International Women's Day

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Speaker 2: March eighth, does this experience being pregnant make you really

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Speaker 2: proud to be a woman? Like, are you learning how

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Speaker 2: like having newfound respect.

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Speaker 3: For your mom? And literally every now that my friends

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Speaker 3: are going through pregnancy.

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Speaker 2: I was at the Super Bowl and I was looking

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Speaker 2: every single person here there was a woman who was like, oh,

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Speaker 2: like for every person, like someone had to go through

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Speaker 2: a whole pregnancy.

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Speaker 3: And have a baby, showers, have.

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Speaker 2: People touching your stomach in public, It's just like it's

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Speaker 2: amazing that there's a strong woman behind every idiot that

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Speaker 4: I do agree with you, and I also am totally

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Speaker 4: seeing that differently, like I'm I'm respecting.

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Speaker 3: My mom more.

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Speaker 4: I'm like and all moms because look, let's be real,

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Speaker 4: moms are pretty lame. They're pretty lame. If it's pretty

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Speaker 4: lame to be a mom. Okay, we all general. What

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Speaker 4: do you mean, Like it's just mom culture brand?

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Speaker 3: Yeah, it really could.

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Speaker 1: Like it's like overlapping with Karen culture a little bit.

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Speaker 4: Yeah, well cultures and by the way, I love weed.

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Speaker 4: I also think weed culture needs a rebrand. I think

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Speaker 4: that's embarrassing too. So it's not just anti mom, but

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Speaker 4: like so I've always felt, you know, mom cultures a

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Speaker 4: Every mom is so strong, so tough, Like they just

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Speaker 4: go through all this and I and like, no one

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Speaker 4: respects them for it, No one cares. We just roll

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Speaker 4: our eyes with their babies cry. Yeah, We're like, get

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Speaker 4: how we treat moms And then going through this, I'm like, oh,

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Speaker 4: women are great.

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Speaker 2: Yeah, and you know what, whether or not, it's like

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Speaker 2: the right decision for your life. Like, once you make it,

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Speaker 2: you have to stick it out. There's no like taking

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Speaker 2: it back. You can't divorce your baby, like they can

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Speaker 2: divorce you at a certain age like Macaulay cul can you,

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Speaker 2: But like you are stuck with that decis It's like

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Speaker 2: that is really strong to me to take a chance

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Speaker 2: that this thing you don't know if you're good at yet.

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Speaker 2: You might have this instinct that I'm gonna be good

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Speaker 2: at it, but like you're doing this thing. Your husband

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Speaker 2: can leave at any time if he wants, and like, yeah,

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Speaker 2: he'll feel like a piece of shit his whole life,

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Speaker 2: but he can like kind of run away from it.

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Speaker 3: You really can't as a woman.

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Speaker 4: No, you're so trapped.

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Speaker 6: I know.

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Speaker 4: It's isn't it weird? Like it's like, oh, she's trying

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Speaker 4: to trap me. The only person who gets trapped in

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Speaker 4: a baby making situation is the woman. Yes, we got

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Speaker 4: it all wrong.

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Speaker 2: Yeah, it's it just as really impressive to me what

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Speaker 2: I'm too selfish to do it.

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Speaker 3: I just like I thought you were too.

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Speaker 4: I'm with you on that.

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Speaker 3: Yeah, I got I can't.

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Speaker 1: too low, you're not going to climb out of that

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00:18:43,400 --> 00:18:45,720
Speaker 1: hole in time. Yes, But if you're so cool, and

444
00:18:45,760 --> 00:18:48,800
Speaker 1: you're surfing all day and everyone's trying to have sex

445
00:18:48,840 --> 00:18:51,040
Speaker 1: with you. In high school, you're going to fail, You're

446
00:18:51,080 --> 00:18:53,360
Speaker 1: gonna you're gonna be a loser adult.

447
00:18:54,800 --> 00:18:55,760
Speaker 3: About mahomes and.

448
00:18:58,600 --> 00:19:01,520
Speaker 1: If you can make it onto Broadway then you're different. Yes,

449
00:19:01,560 --> 00:19:03,960
Speaker 1: but for all the regular people. Yeah, you don't want

450
00:19:03,960 --> 00:19:07,040
Speaker 1: to be the coolest regular person in high school. Now, well,

451
00:19:07,080 --> 00:19:09,520
Speaker 1: I want to ask you about that at the barn, because.

452
00:19:09,400 --> 00:19:12,159
Speaker 2: Actually I could actually ask you, like you seem like

453
00:19:12,200 --> 00:19:15,879
Speaker 2: someone you're you Just I want to phrase this in

454
00:19:15,920 --> 00:19:18,000
Speaker 2: a way that doesn't sound like it's like a backhanded compliment,

455
00:19:18,000 --> 00:19:19,600
Speaker 2: because I hate the way some people can say these

456
00:19:19,640 --> 00:19:21,320
Speaker 2: things and it sounds the opposite of what I want

457
00:19:21,320 --> 00:19:24,480
Speaker 2: to say. You are so admirable, You're so cool, and

458
00:19:24,520 --> 00:19:26,840
Speaker 2: I think your coolness and beautiful and just I just

459
00:19:27,280 --> 00:19:28,959
Speaker 2: watch you and I just like am kind of in

460
00:19:28,960 --> 00:19:29,479
Speaker 2: love with you.

461
00:19:29,880 --> 00:19:30,680
Speaker 3: And I think it's.

462
00:19:30,480 --> 00:19:33,800
Speaker 2: Because and you're so don't you're not trying to be anything.

463
00:19:33,840 --> 00:19:36,480
Speaker 2: You're not like you're interested in like cool things and

464
00:19:36,520 --> 00:19:38,400
Speaker 2: pretty girls and wanting to be that, but you seem

465
00:19:38,440 --> 00:19:40,720
Speaker 2: to have You're not like mad at yourself for not

466
00:19:40,800 --> 00:19:43,600
Speaker 2: being the things that you aren't, whereas I feel like

467
00:19:43,640 --> 00:19:45,720
Speaker 2: I internalize a lot of that, like why was she

468
00:19:45,800 --> 00:19:47,680
Speaker 2: born with that and not me? And like I must

469
00:19:47,680 --> 00:19:50,040
Speaker 2: be bad because I don't have that thing, and it

470
00:19:50,160 --> 00:19:53,560
Speaker 2: like it. It eats it, It eats it. It corrodes

471
00:19:53,600 --> 00:19:55,879
Speaker 2: my soul when I get jealous. And you don't seem

472
00:19:56,000 --> 00:19:58,200
Speaker 2: you can admire things without being mad that you aren't

473
00:19:58,320 --> 00:20:01,960
Speaker 2: them necessarily and you can just among these people and

474
00:20:02,200 --> 00:20:03,880
Speaker 2: therefore be as cool as them.

475
00:20:04,080 --> 00:20:07,359
Speaker 4: This is interesting because Okay, as a comedian, don't you

476
00:20:07,480 --> 00:20:10,560
Speaker 4: sort of feel like all of the things about you

477
00:20:10,800 --> 00:20:14,000
Speaker 4: that are like flawed and messed up and like maybe

478
00:20:14,040 --> 00:20:18,160
Speaker 4: even negative and just not like those get you from

479
00:20:18,160 --> 00:20:20,480
Speaker 4: point to point B in the career of comedy, Like

480
00:20:20,520 --> 00:20:23,679
Speaker 4: when I go on stage, Like my breakthrough moment in

481
00:20:23,760 --> 00:20:25,800
Speaker 4: like an open mic in two thousand and nine was

482
00:20:26,119 --> 00:20:27,639
Speaker 4: just going on stage and being like I have a

483
00:20:27,720 --> 00:20:31,440
Speaker 4: yeast infection and like monologuing about that and then that

484
00:20:31,520 --> 00:20:33,320
Speaker 4: being the best that I had had in my first

485
00:20:33,440 --> 00:20:35,879
Speaker 4: year of comedy and there's no jokes in it. But like,

486
00:20:36,560 --> 00:20:41,400
Speaker 4: I just find that this flawed version of me when

487
00:20:41,440 --> 00:20:46,120
Speaker 4: I'm just honest is like the best case scenario. It's

488
00:20:46,119 --> 00:20:49,080
Speaker 4: like it gets me where I want to be what

489
00:20:49,160 --> 00:20:53,040
Speaker 4: I want and like I'm if I was trying to

490
00:20:53,080 --> 00:20:54,959
Speaker 4: be something I'm not, I would fail.

491
00:20:55,640 --> 00:20:58,160
Speaker 3: Yes, Oh okay, I see what you're saying.

492
00:20:57,920 --> 00:21:00,479
Speaker 4: Like, don't you You must relate to that because you

493
00:21:00,520 --> 00:21:02,320
Speaker 4: go out there and you do it.

494
00:21:02,720 --> 00:21:05,320
Speaker 2: But I don't think I consciously have thought about it

495
00:21:05,320 --> 00:21:08,480
Speaker 2: that way of like, oh, whoa this being? This being

496
00:21:08,560 --> 00:21:10,800
Speaker 2: when I like, stop trying to be someone else and

497
00:21:10,840 --> 00:21:13,399
Speaker 2: I'm my weirdest, most authentic version of myself that I

498
00:21:13,480 --> 00:21:16,200
Speaker 2: might be really ashamed of when that slips out because

499
00:21:16,200 --> 00:21:18,720
Speaker 2: I just don't have the defenses for it anymore, or

500
00:21:18,760 --> 00:21:21,320
Speaker 2: out of desperation or just some moment on stage where

501
00:21:21,359 --> 00:21:23,600
Speaker 2: you're like I've had that moment on stage where you go,

502
00:21:23,680 --> 00:21:25,840
Speaker 2: I got HPV, like I like, and I just tell

503
00:21:25,840 --> 00:21:27,879
Speaker 2: a whole room of people I have HPV, including this

504
00:21:27,920 --> 00:21:29,639
Speaker 2: girl who I know hates me and would love to

505
00:21:29,680 --> 00:21:30,320
Speaker 2: know that about me.

506
00:21:30,400 --> 00:21:32,359
Speaker 3: But and I gave her that. But I felt like

507
00:21:32,400 --> 00:21:33,920
Speaker 3: I owned it now.

508
00:21:33,760 --> 00:21:35,399
Speaker 2: Like you know I have HVV because I told you

509
00:21:35,600 --> 00:21:37,439
Speaker 2: good luck gossiping about it. I was the one who

510
00:21:37,480 --> 00:21:41,640
Speaker 2: announced it to a room of people like that has Yes,

511
00:21:41,680 --> 00:21:44,400
Speaker 2: when I'm able to stop trying to be anyone else

512
00:21:44,440 --> 00:21:48,359
Speaker 2: and lean into the weirdest things about me. Yeah, it

513
00:21:48,400 --> 00:21:50,639
Speaker 2: does always, Yeah, that is my ticket.

514
00:21:50,720 --> 00:21:53,240
Speaker 4: I admire you so much, Like if there is anything

515
00:21:53,280 --> 00:21:56,160
Speaker 4: different about you, you wouldn't be Nicki Glazer, and like

516
00:21:56,320 --> 00:21:57,640
Speaker 4: we need Nicki Glazer.

517
00:21:57,760 --> 00:22:00,280
Speaker 2: But then there's the times, though, esther where you get

518
00:22:00,280 --> 00:22:02,639
Speaker 2: Like yesterday, I got so many compliments on like you

519
00:22:02,640 --> 00:22:05,080
Speaker 2: look so pretty because I've come from a photo shirt

520
00:22:05,119 --> 00:22:07,520
Speaker 2: early in the day and so I was like fake

521
00:22:07,520 --> 00:22:09,560
Speaker 2: eyelashes on all day, hair extensions all day. I just

522
00:22:09,640 --> 00:22:13,240
Speaker 2: left my makeup you know, SPRAYTND and the compliments come,

523
00:22:13,400 --> 00:22:16,320
Speaker 2: like you just get more attention from girls guys like everything.

524
00:22:16,320 --> 00:22:19,240
Speaker 2: It feels so nice and it just is like more indication.

525
00:22:19,520 --> 00:22:20,040
Speaker 3: It's not me.

526
00:22:20,600 --> 00:22:23,080
Speaker 2: This was literally not done by me. I can't do

527
00:22:23,200 --> 00:22:25,320
Speaker 2: what this is. And yet I'm getting all this love

528
00:22:25,359 --> 00:22:28,720
Speaker 2: that I've always wanted. So it's like it reinforces to me, like, no,

529
00:22:28,840 --> 00:22:31,439
Speaker 2: that stuff is important. You're getting this attention that feels

530
00:22:31,480 --> 00:22:33,560
Speaker 2: really good. It makes you feel good and I can't

531
00:22:33,600 --> 00:22:35,120
Speaker 2: even you know, but just.

532
00:22:35,040 --> 00:22:37,479
Speaker 4: Because it makes you feel good and gives you attention

533
00:22:37,640 --> 00:22:41,639
Speaker 4: doesn't mean that it's important, you know, Okay, Like and also,

534
00:22:41,720 --> 00:22:44,199
Speaker 4: don't you ever look in the mirror when you're just

535
00:22:44,280 --> 00:22:46,439
Speaker 4: in your sweatpants and you have no makeup on and

536
00:22:46,480 --> 00:22:49,240
Speaker 4: you're like, I look so good.

537
00:22:49,400 --> 00:22:52,200
Speaker 2: Yes, but I do need a spray hand. I can

538
00:22:52,240 --> 00:22:54,080
Speaker 2: be makeup free without a spray hand. And but I'm

539
00:22:54,119 --> 00:22:55,600
Speaker 2: just saying those moments where I go, I look good

540
00:22:55,600 --> 00:22:57,160
Speaker 2: without makeup, they happen.

541
00:22:57,320 --> 00:22:58,639
Speaker 3: But I do have a SPRAYTND when I have them.

542
00:22:59,080 --> 00:23:01,080
Speaker 2: And if there were a permament, permanent spraytands to get,

543
00:23:01,119 --> 00:23:04,760
Speaker 2: I would get one. I keep dreaming about this thing

544
00:23:04,760 --> 00:23:06,960
Speaker 2: where you can like to take a pill and it

545
00:23:07,000 --> 00:23:08,960
Speaker 2: will like turn your skin orange.

546
00:23:09,280 --> 00:23:11,000
Speaker 4: Could eating carrots do that? He does?

547
00:23:11,000 --> 00:23:12,080
Speaker 3: I've seen them on TikTok.

548
00:23:12,720 --> 00:23:13,600
Speaker 1: How many carrots?

549
00:23:13,920 --> 00:23:15,040
Speaker 3: But a lot.

550
00:23:15,119 --> 00:23:16,600
Speaker 2: I think you have to eat like three a day.

551
00:23:16,760 --> 00:23:18,240
Speaker 2: I see a lot of carrots. When I was like

552
00:23:18,280 --> 00:23:20,520
Speaker 2: atrasic and I did get a little orange, and you

553
00:23:20,640 --> 00:23:23,400
Speaker 2: just did three, three whole carrots a day.

554
00:23:24,280 --> 00:23:26,760
Speaker 4: Kind of annoying. I do want to compact with you, though,

555
00:23:26,800 --> 00:23:30,160
Speaker 4: that you do spray tands and not regular tanning, because

556
00:23:30,160 --> 00:23:32,480
Speaker 4: so many people are still out there news in the tan.

557
00:23:32,880 --> 00:23:37,760
Speaker 3: Great you Well, I'm too vain to love.

558
00:23:38,400 --> 00:23:40,760
Speaker 4: I love to hear it.

559
00:23:41,800 --> 00:23:44,160
Speaker 2: Okay, we're back. So my favorite woman in the world

560
00:23:44,640 --> 00:23:46,840
Speaker 2: is obviously Taylor Swift. And she's had the most amazing

561
00:23:47,160 --> 00:23:50,440
Speaker 2: year as a woman out there killing it more than

562
00:23:50,440 --> 00:23:55,040
Speaker 2: anyone's ever killed it ever and sitting the Time magazine

563
00:23:55,080 --> 00:24:00,680
Speaker 2: Woman of the Year, hardworking, friendly, nice like she's dating

564
00:24:00,680 --> 00:24:02,680
Speaker 2: a guy that she used to kind of hide her relationship.

565
00:24:02,680 --> 00:24:03,480
Speaker 3: Now she's dating a guy.

566
00:24:03,520 --> 00:24:06,080
Speaker 2: She's just like herself out like Taylor Swift's at a

567
00:24:06,080 --> 00:24:08,000
Speaker 2: party at the super Bowl, just hanging out amongst people.

568
00:24:08,040 --> 00:24:10,840
Speaker 2: People are filming her constantly. She's keeping her composer. She's

569
00:24:10,840 --> 00:24:13,560
Speaker 2: so cool. I'm going to see her three times in

570
00:24:13,600 --> 00:24:16,840
Speaker 2: the next week. I'm going to Australia randomly for my

571
00:24:17,040 --> 00:24:20,080
Speaker 2: boyfriend's friend's wedding and she happens to be there. Everyone's like, oh,

572
00:24:20,119 --> 00:24:21,919
Speaker 2: she happens to be there, Like, no, I didn't like

573
00:24:22,080 --> 00:24:23,960
Speaker 2: get this, get the wedding scheduled.

574
00:24:24,040 --> 00:24:24,600
Speaker 3: I had no.

575
00:24:25,160 --> 00:24:27,680
Speaker 2: Yes, she it's a coincidence. But I'm going three more

576
00:24:27,720 --> 00:24:28,639
Speaker 2: times we went together.

577
00:24:28,800 --> 00:24:30,840
Speaker 4: It was so fun and I can't believe you're going

578
00:24:30,840 --> 00:24:31,240
Speaker 4: through more.

579
00:24:31,920 --> 00:24:35,439
Speaker 2: It's so far over the summer and that's what I

580
00:24:35,480 --> 00:24:38,439
Speaker 2: loved about you. Okay, So you go to this is

581
00:24:38,560 --> 00:24:41,200
Speaker 2: this is esther for you go to the Swift Taylor

582
00:24:41,240 --> 00:24:43,040
Speaker 2: Swift Show, and you know, it's like a whole event.

583
00:24:43,080 --> 00:24:44,720
Speaker 3: You have to like dress up for it. It's like a

584
00:24:44,760 --> 00:24:45,160
Speaker 3: big thing.

585
00:24:45,600 --> 00:24:49,760
Speaker 2: And she is just wearing her cool pull off like Adidas,

586
00:24:49,800 --> 00:24:54,080
Speaker 2: like button up blue Adidas stripe pants with like sneakers

587
00:24:54,080 --> 00:24:55,880
Speaker 2: and a black shirt. Like she looks like she's going

588
00:24:55,880 --> 00:24:59,520
Speaker 2: to a boy genius show and she's but everyone's decked

589
00:24:59,520 --> 00:25:01,360
Speaker 2: out in sport. I'm wearing the ridiculous.

590
00:25:02,240 --> 00:25:05,480
Speaker 3: I was so happy to be I love that you

591
00:25:05,640 --> 00:25:06,159
Speaker 3: just didn't.

592
00:25:06,240 --> 00:25:08,719
Speaker 2: Like if I were you in that moment, like, and

593
00:25:08,760 --> 00:25:10,439
Speaker 2: I wouldn't have been because you're the coolest person ever,

594
00:25:10,440 --> 00:25:11,560
Speaker 2: but I would have been like, oh no, I didn't

595
00:25:11,600 --> 00:25:12,760
Speaker 2: dress right for the like I would have been.

596
00:25:12,800 --> 00:25:14,040
Speaker 3: So you just don't even care.

597
00:25:14,400 --> 00:25:16,919
Speaker 4: You're like so weird that you're like that. You're because

598
00:25:16,960 --> 00:25:18,480
Speaker 4: you're just a brat.

599
00:25:18,520 --> 00:25:20,160
Speaker 2: Right now, I want to call out myself, like I'm

600
00:25:20,160 --> 00:25:21,680
Speaker 2: doing the thing of like, I love how you dress.

601
00:25:21,720 --> 00:25:23,199
Speaker 3: You just don't care what people think. I know, I

602
00:25:23,359 --> 00:25:23,920
Speaker 3: like that right now.

603
00:25:23,960 --> 00:25:25,480
Speaker 4: It's the compliment you are.

604
00:25:25,880 --> 00:25:26,360
Speaker 3: You are.

605
00:25:26,520 --> 00:25:29,399
Speaker 2: You do look cool like I I think you always

606
00:25:29,400 --> 00:25:31,760
Speaker 2: look cooler than everyone else, and you're so pretty.

607
00:25:31,920 --> 00:25:34,119
Speaker 4: How I feel about you? Oh, remember, yeah, we do this.

608
00:25:34,119 --> 00:25:34,840
Speaker 3: We do this all the time.

609
00:25:34,880 --> 00:25:37,120
Speaker 4: I also remember the pupil's choice words, which you were

610
00:25:37,160 --> 00:25:40,399
Speaker 4: so generous to take me use your date. Literally, Nikki

611
00:25:40,480 --> 00:25:43,400
Speaker 4: shows up and like five inch heels, I'm in flats

612
00:25:43,440 --> 00:25:47,760
Speaker 4: are hYP difference is already not great. I literally look

613
00:25:48,000 --> 00:25:50,960
Speaker 4: like a miniature person next to you, and we're just

614
00:25:51,000 --> 00:25:52,760
Speaker 4: like we're what, we're getting pictures together.

615
00:25:53,000 --> 00:25:54,560
Speaker 3: I love that so much.

616
00:25:54,880 --> 00:25:57,760
Speaker 2: Yeah, it was this like event that I spent thousands

617
00:25:57,800 --> 00:25:59,600
Speaker 2: of dollars to get dressed for and I needed to.

618
00:25:59,680 --> 00:26:00,879
Speaker 2: I was like going to be in it. I was

619
00:26:00,920 --> 00:26:03,080
Speaker 2: presenting or whatever, so it was necessary. But like you

620
00:26:03,119 --> 00:26:05,080
Speaker 2: just roll up and you were like you just put together.

621
00:26:05,119 --> 00:26:06,800
Speaker 2: You look so good without having to put in all

622
00:26:06,840 --> 00:26:09,120
Speaker 2: of this effort. And I just love I love being

623
00:26:09,119 --> 00:26:11,879
Speaker 2: around you because you, first of all, you celebrate the

624
00:26:11,880 --> 00:26:13,920
Speaker 2: women in your life so much. You're just like you're

625
00:26:14,560 --> 00:26:17,000
Speaker 2: tried and true a girl's girl, and it's also nice.

626
00:26:17,600 --> 00:26:18,680
Speaker 2: What is a girl's girl?

627
00:26:19,840 --> 00:26:21,960
Speaker 4: I think, Okay, is it kind of like you're into

628
00:26:22,080 --> 00:26:26,320
Speaker 4: girly stuff and you love your girlfriends and you love

629
00:26:26,400 --> 00:26:29,120
Speaker 4: to Like I don't know if that's it right.

630
00:26:29,359 --> 00:26:32,880
Speaker 2: I think to me, it means a girl that you

631
00:26:32,920 --> 00:26:34,760
Speaker 2: know isn't going to be threatened by you, and you're

632
00:26:34,800 --> 00:26:36,000
Speaker 2: not going to be threatened like you.

633
00:26:36,040 --> 00:26:37,439
Speaker 3: Like, I think that's it.

634
00:26:37,440 --> 00:26:38,840
Speaker 2: It's a girl that you know is not going to

635
00:26:38,880 --> 00:26:40,880
Speaker 2: get weird around you because you Oh.

636
00:26:40,880 --> 00:26:43,440
Speaker 4: My god, that's so niche. It's really hard to find that.

637
00:26:43,720 --> 00:26:45,560
Speaker 1: It is a girl's girl to me is like a

638
00:26:45,600 --> 00:26:46,240
Speaker 1: guy's girl.

639
00:26:46,800 --> 00:26:47,320
Speaker 4: What do you mean?

640
00:26:47,840 --> 00:26:49,879
Speaker 1: Okay, a girls girls a girl that hangs out with

641
00:26:49,920 --> 00:26:52,520
Speaker 1: all the girls and is if it's not threatening to anybody,

642
00:26:52,520 --> 00:26:54,280
Speaker 1: then she also could probably hang out with the guys

643
00:26:54,320 --> 00:26:55,440
Speaker 1: without being threatening to them.

644
00:26:56,080 --> 00:26:56,280
Speaker 2: Yeah.

645
00:26:56,359 --> 00:26:59,000
Speaker 4: Probably I was thinking that more too. But the definition

646
00:26:59,080 --> 00:27:01,119
Speaker 4: that you're giving is I just I know we're just

647
00:27:01,160 --> 00:27:04,359
Speaker 4: doing compliments, but like that is part of like the

648
00:27:04,560 --> 00:27:07,160
Speaker 4: huge reason that I'm drawn to you is because there's

649
00:27:07,240 --> 00:27:10,879
Speaker 4: none This is a very competitive business. It's very hard

650
00:27:11,119 --> 00:27:16,280
Speaker 4: like every all genders, everyone's competitive, but like you are,

651
00:27:16,320 --> 00:27:19,119
Speaker 4: like there is just none of that with you, and

652
00:27:19,160 --> 00:27:21,440
Speaker 4: I feel so safe with you. Like I feel like

653
00:27:21,480 --> 00:27:23,560
Speaker 4: I could like we could tell each other the best

654
00:27:23,600 --> 00:27:26,240
Speaker 4: news about it ourselves and it was like no one

655
00:27:26,320 --> 00:27:28,479
Speaker 4: they would just would not be weird.

656
00:27:28,840 --> 00:27:30,840
Speaker 3: Yes, I feel this same I.

657
00:27:30,760 --> 00:27:33,919
Speaker 4: Feel this girl's girl romance with you. Absolutely, Like, so,

658
00:27:33,960 --> 00:27:36,240
Speaker 4: I'm actually really glad you brought that up because and

659
00:27:36,280 --> 00:27:39,400
Speaker 4: I'm like, what is I don't know what makes some way,

660
00:27:39,520 --> 00:27:42,159
Speaker 4: what makes you feel that way? Why you can have

661
00:27:42,240 --> 00:27:45,080
Speaker 4: that with certain people? But I'm just very grateful and

662
00:27:45,119 --> 00:27:46,400
Speaker 4: you are a true girl's girl.

663
00:27:46,560 --> 00:27:47,280
Speaker 3: Well thank you.

664
00:27:47,400 --> 00:27:51,479
Speaker 2: I think that I am. I really love my female friends.

665
00:27:51,560 --> 00:27:53,760
Speaker 2: I love women so much. But you know, and I've

666
00:27:53,760 --> 00:27:55,320
Speaker 2: talked about a lot on this podcast, I do get

667
00:27:55,320 --> 00:27:57,840
Speaker 2: threatened by other women, especially women who are female comics

668
00:27:57,880 --> 00:27:59,800
Speaker 2: who are hilarious, and you know, sometimes they'll see a

669
00:27:59,800 --> 00:28:02,840
Speaker 2: clip of yours and be like why is she so

670
00:28:02,960 --> 00:28:05,439
Speaker 2: much funnier than me? And I'll get like there's a

671
00:28:05,480 --> 00:28:08,520
Speaker 2: moment of like how why am I not that funny?

672
00:28:08,520 --> 00:28:10,359
Speaker 2: And why didn't I think of that angle for that

673
00:28:10,440 --> 00:28:12,160
Speaker 2: kind of thing? And I start going in my head

674
00:28:12,359 --> 00:28:14,560
Speaker 2: and then I'm just like I'm just like so glad

675
00:28:14,600 --> 00:28:16,879
Speaker 2: I get to witness this and like be friends with that.

676
00:28:16,960 --> 00:28:19,520
Speaker 2: There's a split second of that like anger of like

677
00:28:19,560 --> 00:28:21,880
Speaker 2: why am I not this? I want this to go away?

678
00:28:21,960 --> 00:28:25,040
Speaker 2: It's too good, and not because you're my friend. It's

679
00:28:25,400 --> 00:28:27,159
Speaker 2: it's a blink of an eye that goes away. But

680
00:28:27,160 --> 00:28:28,840
Speaker 2: there's some people who aren't my friends. And I can

681
00:28:28,880 --> 00:28:31,600
Speaker 2: get very threatened by other women, and I want you know,

682
00:28:31,600 --> 00:28:34,480
Speaker 2: in years past, I would want to silence them or

683
00:28:34,520 --> 00:28:36,879
Speaker 2: like please just go away, like I'm not going to

684
00:28:36,920 --> 00:28:39,280
Speaker 2: promote him. And I think in the past year and

685
00:28:39,320 --> 00:28:40,920
Speaker 2: a half, maybe two years, and I've talked about on

686
00:28:40,960 --> 00:28:42,800
Speaker 2: the podcast, I make a conscious effort now when I

687
00:28:42,840 --> 00:28:45,880
Speaker 2: get jealous. You don't get to be jealous. If you're jealous, Niki,

688
00:28:45,960 --> 00:28:48,080
Speaker 2: you have to post about them. You have to spread

689
00:28:48,080 --> 00:28:48,440
Speaker 2: the word.

690
00:28:48,560 --> 00:28:48,800
Speaker 4: Wow.

691
00:28:48,920 --> 00:28:51,000
Speaker 2: That gives you the opposite action, Like if you want

692
00:28:51,000 --> 00:28:52,920
Speaker 2: them to go away and you want like to if

693
00:28:52,920 --> 00:28:54,720
Speaker 2: you see a clip of some girl that's really funny

694
00:28:54,760 --> 00:28:56,040
Speaker 2: that threatens you, you got to post it.

695
00:28:56,360 --> 00:29:00,560
Speaker 4: That's amazing, it bold and brave. You are to do that,

696
00:29:00,760 --> 00:29:04,440
Speaker 4: admit to that, Like that is so cool because.

697
00:29:04,160 --> 00:29:06,320
Speaker 3: I should want I want to compete against the best.

698
00:29:06,480 --> 00:29:08,520
Speaker 2: I want people to be comparing me to this girl

699
00:29:08,520 --> 00:29:10,160
Speaker 2: because I want to be on This is going to

700
00:29:10,200 --> 00:29:12,920
Speaker 2: push me to be better, because I'm I'm inspired by this.

701
00:29:13,240 --> 00:29:15,440
Speaker 2: Why why be sad that I'm not as good as

702
00:29:15,480 --> 00:29:17,200
Speaker 2: this dot? Why don't I take this and go like,

703
00:29:17,360 --> 00:29:19,240
Speaker 2: why don't I find a way to be as Because

704
00:29:19,280 --> 00:29:22,719
Speaker 2: usually I'm just jealous of authenticity, is what I'm like,

705
00:29:22,920 --> 00:29:26,360
Speaker 2: because that's kind of what I I dabble in. And

706
00:29:26,400 --> 00:29:28,520
Speaker 2: so when I see other girls finding a way to

707
00:29:28,680 --> 00:29:31,719
Speaker 2: be that in a new way that I haven't, and

708
00:29:31,760 --> 00:29:33,960
Speaker 2: I go, oh, man, why didn't Why can't I be

709
00:29:34,160 --> 00:29:36,720
Speaker 2: like that? Uh? And instead I just go, Okay, how

710
00:29:36,720 --> 00:29:39,320
Speaker 2: can I find a way to to rip that joke off?

711
00:29:39,360 --> 00:29:39,440
Speaker 5: Now?

712
00:29:39,800 --> 00:29:41,440
Speaker 2: How can I find a way to be that? So,

713
00:29:41,800 --> 00:29:43,720
Speaker 2: but it's really helped me. And then the other thing

714
00:29:43,800 --> 00:29:46,200
Speaker 2: is and this is maybe not the best thing. I

715
00:29:46,240 --> 00:29:49,400
Speaker 2: will mute if I'm feeling too triggered, because I mute

716
00:29:49,440 --> 00:29:52,960
Speaker 2: a lot of people because sometimes as a woman, we

717
00:29:53,040 --> 00:29:55,239
Speaker 2: are we do compare ourselves to each other. We we

718
00:29:55,280 --> 00:29:57,720
Speaker 2: do live in a patriarchy where there's isn't space enough

719
00:29:57,760 --> 00:30:00,760
Speaker 2: for us all where men, you know, judge us by

720
00:30:00,880 --> 00:30:04,760
Speaker 2: if we're bangable enough, and that's in there's own in

721
00:30:04,840 --> 00:30:06,840
Speaker 2: when we aren't anymore, it's kind of we feel like

722
00:30:06,880 --> 00:30:09,280
Speaker 2: we have to find some other identity to get attention.

723
00:30:09,320 --> 00:30:11,000
Speaker 2: It's like a very scary world out there, and there

724
00:30:11,000 --> 00:30:12,760
Speaker 2: does seem to be like not enough space for all

725
00:30:12,840 --> 00:30:16,040
Speaker 2: of us. And so to protect myself from going down

726
00:30:16,080 --> 00:30:18,040
Speaker 2: those rabbit holes. When I do feel too sick in

727
00:30:18,080 --> 00:30:19,320
Speaker 2: the head, I will mute.

728
00:30:19,800 --> 00:30:24,560
Speaker 4: I think that's absolutely like, it's it's crazy to even

729
00:30:24,640 --> 00:30:27,320
Speaker 4: consider not doing that. Like there will be times where

730
00:30:27,360 --> 00:30:29,320
Speaker 4: I'm scrolling and whatever it is, I'm like, oh, that

731
00:30:29,360 --> 00:30:32,680
Speaker 4: person's annoying, and I'm like, what, That's not their fault,

732
00:30:32,680 --> 00:30:35,240
Speaker 4: it's my fault for being here. I'm like, put the

733
00:30:35,280 --> 00:30:38,280
Speaker 4: phone down, mute them, or just get off for an hour,

734
00:30:38,480 --> 00:30:41,920
Speaker 4: whatever it is, Like, get out of that because we don't.

735
00:30:42,360 --> 00:30:45,360
Speaker 4: I don't have no one's making me look at someone

736
00:30:45,360 --> 00:30:49,080
Speaker 4: else's stand up clip or photo like yeah, that's I'm

737
00:30:49,120 --> 00:30:52,080
Speaker 4: doing I'm doing that to myself. Yes, And so I

738
00:30:52,080 --> 00:30:56,000
Speaker 4: think any tools like muting, just putting it away, that's

739
00:30:56,120 --> 00:30:57,640
Speaker 4: what that should be the standard.

740
00:30:57,840 --> 00:30:59,360
Speaker 3: It really shouldn't be.

741
00:30:59,360 --> 00:31:02,400
Speaker 4: Subjecting ourselves to shit that's just making us mad.

742
00:31:02,800 --> 00:31:04,600
Speaker 2: And the truth is, you think that when you mute

743
00:31:04,600 --> 00:31:06,720
Speaker 2: something that you've maybe maybe you've been obsessed with some

744
00:31:06,880 --> 00:31:09,000
Speaker 2: certain person. Maybe it's like an ex boyfriend or an

745
00:31:09,000 --> 00:31:11,360
Speaker 2: ex boyfriend's new girlfriend, and you check it all the

746
00:31:11,360 --> 00:31:13,479
Speaker 2: time and you think, well, Nikki, if I mute it,

747
00:31:13,520 --> 00:31:16,000
Speaker 2: I'm still gonna I'm gonna go to her on my

748
00:31:16,200 --> 00:31:18,560
Speaker 2: other account or if I block her or whatever, you

749
00:31:18,640 --> 00:31:21,760
Speaker 2: don't you It's amazing how if you don't see them

750
00:31:21,760 --> 00:31:24,560
Speaker 2: on your feet, that you truly forget they're alive after

751
00:31:24,600 --> 00:31:27,120
Speaker 2: a while. Like it actually works and I would never

752
00:31:27,160 --> 00:31:28,480
Speaker 2: have thought it works, but it really does.

753
00:31:28,560 --> 00:31:28,800
Speaker 3: It does.

754
00:31:29,200 --> 00:31:31,640
Speaker 4: This is why advertising works. It's the opposite of about it.

755
00:31:31,720 --> 00:31:34,840
Speaker 4: But you take it away, you don't see it, you forget. Yes,

756
00:31:35,040 --> 00:31:37,480
Speaker 4: it's like a magic trick. And really we just like

757
00:31:37,520 --> 00:31:40,400
Speaker 4: beat ourselves up. We're like, I'm obsessed with this, but

758
00:31:40,600 --> 00:31:43,280
Speaker 4: it's we're not. We're just in like this habit loop

759
00:31:43,520 --> 00:31:45,760
Speaker 4: that we can just get out of by like taking

760
00:31:45,960 --> 00:31:48,239
Speaker 4: thoughtful action and changing it.

761
00:31:48,680 --> 00:31:51,920
Speaker 2: Yes, this is you know, my favorite kind of women

762
00:31:52,000 --> 00:31:55,719
Speaker 2: are the women who are vulnerable, who are open about

763
00:31:55,800 --> 00:32:00,000
Speaker 2: what they struggle with or you know, admit to their privilege,

764
00:32:00,200 --> 00:32:02,600
Speaker 2: admit anything about themselves that they're a little bit ashamed of.

765
00:32:02,680 --> 00:32:06,280
Speaker 2: I love that and bringing Taylor's swift back into it,

766
00:32:06,280 --> 00:32:08,360
Speaker 2: because sometimes with Taylor I can get into these things

767
00:32:08,400 --> 00:32:11,280
Speaker 2: of like she's so freaking perfect, Like I just zoom

768
00:32:11,320 --> 00:32:14,520
Speaker 2: in and I look for a crow foot, a crow toe,

769
00:32:15,040 --> 00:32:18,120
Speaker 2: I look for anything, and there's nothing. She's just every

770
00:32:18,160 --> 00:32:19,960
Speaker 2: inch of her skin, and I go, there's not There's

771
00:32:19,960 --> 00:32:22,280
Speaker 2: no way this was photoshopped. This is just an image

772
00:32:22,280 --> 00:32:24,760
Speaker 2: that just came from Getty like two seconds ago. No

773
00:32:24,800 --> 00:32:25,880
Speaker 2: one put this through anything.

774
00:32:25,880 --> 00:32:26,280
Speaker 3: This is her.

775
00:32:26,640 --> 00:32:29,160
Speaker 2: She's just so perfect, the way she speaks, the way

776
00:32:29,200 --> 00:32:31,520
Speaker 2: like even when she does, there's like a whole clip

777
00:32:31,560 --> 00:32:33,840
Speaker 2: of it's like the Era's Tour, but it's called like

778
00:32:33,840 --> 00:32:35,840
Speaker 2: the Errors Tour, and it's like all of her mess

779
00:32:35,920 --> 00:32:38,320
Speaker 2: ups and every mess up she has which is minimal

780
00:32:38,480 --> 00:32:41,440
Speaker 2: or all adorable and like a little slip here and

781
00:32:41,440 --> 00:32:43,160
Speaker 2: there because it was like slippery, like none of them

782
00:32:43,200 --> 00:32:45,920
Speaker 2: are her fault of being like unprepared. She's truly a

783
00:32:45,960 --> 00:32:49,640
Speaker 2: perfect person for my definition of the word. And sometimes

784
00:32:49,640 --> 00:32:51,760
Speaker 2: I can feel triggered by that. But then you know,

785
00:32:51,800 --> 00:32:56,320
Speaker 2: she releases a song like mirror Ball or Anti Hero

786
00:32:56,440 --> 00:32:58,920
Speaker 2: that talks about how she has depression, how she compares herself,

787
00:32:58,920 --> 00:33:00,959
Speaker 2: how she doesn't feel like she's enough, how she she

788
00:33:01,000 --> 00:33:02,920
Speaker 2: feels like she has to keep working because she's never

789
00:33:02,920 --> 00:33:05,360
Speaker 2: been a natural. All she does is try, try, try,

790
00:33:05,400 --> 00:33:08,800
Speaker 2: like and you know that's that really.

791
00:33:08,920 --> 00:33:10,520
Speaker 3: I love that. No matter how.

792
00:33:10,480 --> 00:33:13,520
Speaker 2: Much I project perfection onto people, there's always another story

793
00:33:13,520 --> 00:33:13,800
Speaker 2: to it.

794
00:33:14,360 --> 00:33:17,200
Speaker 4: I agree with you. Also, Anti Hero is my favorite

795
00:33:17,200 --> 00:33:19,280
Speaker 4: song in the world ever, And I know it's.

796
00:33:19,160 --> 00:33:22,680
Speaker 3: Like no, no, no, that's it's it's an amazing song.

797
00:33:22,720 --> 00:33:24,680
Speaker 4: It's so good. But what I wanted to say was

798
00:33:24,840 --> 00:33:27,520
Speaker 4: I found myself this past year because you're like an

799
00:33:27,520 --> 00:33:30,680
Speaker 4: O G Swifty. I was always more of like a Gaga,

800
00:33:30,960 --> 00:33:31,640
Speaker 4: like a Brandy.

801
00:33:32,280 --> 00:33:35,560
Speaker 1: See that we saw her egg.

802
00:33:35,840 --> 00:33:37,560
Speaker 3: We were Lady Goga's egg that she came out of

803
00:33:37,560 --> 00:33:40,200
Speaker 3: on the MTV Movie Awards. We were in Vegas weekend.

804
00:33:40,400 --> 00:33:43,720
Speaker 1: It was like La museum story.

805
00:33:44,080 --> 00:33:44,800
Speaker 4: I love Lady.

806
00:33:45,080 --> 00:33:48,440
Speaker 2: I mean talk about we gotta go see her amazing, Yes,

807
00:33:48,880 --> 00:33:49,960
Speaker 2: and we saw Brittany together.

808
00:33:50,080 --> 00:33:51,240
Speaker 4: Let's not forget in La.

809
00:33:52,040 --> 00:33:54,120
Speaker 1: And I went to go see Brittany and Britney Taylor

810
00:33:54,160 --> 00:33:54,440
Speaker 1: and Ga.

811
00:33:54,840 --> 00:33:58,520
Speaker 3: Yeah during her cage tour. Wow, she was in an

812
00:33:58,520 --> 00:33:58,880
Speaker 3: egg too.

813
00:33:58,960 --> 00:34:01,719
Speaker 4: But it was but so like I'm a pretty newer

814
00:34:01,920 --> 00:34:06,080
Speaker 4: Swiftie like I you know, the ariostour obviously got me

815
00:34:06,240 --> 00:34:09,960
Speaker 4: like all in and I have to say, like all

816
00:34:09,960 --> 00:34:11,520
Speaker 4: of a sudden, I'm like, oh my god, she's the

817
00:34:11,520 --> 00:34:14,160
Speaker 4: most beautiful woman on the planet. But I never thought that.

818
00:34:14,640 --> 00:34:16,840
Speaker 4: And I'm like, oh, this is so exciting. I actually

819
00:34:16,840 --> 00:34:20,440
Speaker 4: now know I find her so perfect and beautiful physically

820
00:34:20,680 --> 00:34:24,399
Speaker 4: because of like what I know about her and her art. Yes,

821
00:34:24,520 --> 00:34:26,919
Speaker 4: so it's not her face, it's not her body, it's

822
00:34:26,920 --> 00:34:29,520
Speaker 4: not her perfect red lip. It's like who she is,

823
00:34:29,560 --> 00:34:31,960
Speaker 4: what she has to say, how she moves through the

824
00:34:31,960 --> 00:34:34,799
Speaker 4: world and influences is all in such a positive way.

825
00:34:34,880 --> 00:34:38,480
Speaker 4: Like that really is impacting. How I literally see her

826
00:34:38,480 --> 00:34:39,200
Speaker 4: with my eyes.

827
00:34:39,120 --> 00:34:40,759
Speaker 2: Like when you fall in love with someone and they

828
00:34:40,800 --> 00:34:43,960
Speaker 2: can be and by the way, she's just without question,

829
00:34:44,120 --> 00:34:46,800
Speaker 2: like just she is a beautiful person. But I fallen

830
00:34:47,040 --> 00:34:49,160
Speaker 2: so deeply in love with her looks even more so

831
00:34:49,680 --> 00:34:52,840
Speaker 2: because I have an intimacy with her now right because

832
00:34:52,880 --> 00:34:55,040
Speaker 2: like she has shared so much in her songs that

833
00:34:55,120 --> 00:34:57,160
Speaker 2: I feel like I know are people people who like

834
00:34:57,200 --> 00:35:00,000
Speaker 2: make fun of Swifties for being for having parasocial relationship

835
00:35:00,280 --> 00:35:03,040
Speaker 2: with her. You don't get it because you don't listen

836
00:35:03,080 --> 00:35:05,279
Speaker 2: to the music and you don't understand what this woman

837
00:35:05,320 --> 00:35:07,560
Speaker 2: has shared with us, way more than any artist that

838
00:35:07,600 --> 00:35:09,520
Speaker 2: you might love has shared with you, Like people don't

839
00:35:09,600 --> 00:35:12,680
Speaker 2: understand if they don't know her discography, like how intimate

840
00:35:12,719 --> 00:35:14,799
Speaker 2: she can get and it's almost like you know, when

841
00:35:14,800 --> 00:35:16,600
Speaker 2: you like have a crush on someone, you're like, I

842
00:35:16,640 --> 00:35:19,040
Speaker 2: don't know if I really am into the way I've

843
00:35:19,120 --> 00:35:20,759
Speaker 2: attracted them and then you get to know them and

844
00:35:20,760 --> 00:35:21,799
Speaker 2: they're so hot to you.

845
00:35:21,920 --> 00:35:23,160
Speaker 3: Yeah, it is that with her.

846
00:35:23,239 --> 00:35:25,600
Speaker 1: If you fall in love with like a disgusting hag,

847
00:35:25,719 --> 00:35:27,439
Speaker 1: you can be attracted to them.

848
00:35:27,600 --> 00:35:27,799
Speaker 4: Yeah.

849
00:35:27,880 --> 00:35:29,680
Speaker 1: Yeah, it all just switches it.

850
00:35:30,160 --> 00:35:32,799
Speaker 3: She can be Yeah, it's it really is that, Like I.

851
00:35:32,960 --> 00:35:35,560
Speaker 4: What's on the inside that counts? Yeah, and we're proving

852
00:35:35,600 --> 00:35:36,120
Speaker 4: it today.

853
00:35:36,800 --> 00:35:39,120
Speaker 3: That's one I always the thing I always question, I'm like,

854
00:35:39,239 --> 00:35:39,400
Speaker 3: is it?

855
00:35:39,400 --> 00:35:41,480
Speaker 1: But it kind of on the inside counts. But that

856
00:35:41,560 --> 00:35:43,799
Speaker 1: just changes your perception of the outside. So really it's

857
00:35:43,800 --> 00:35:45,120
Speaker 1: the outside that chants.

858
00:35:45,360 --> 00:35:48,719
Speaker 2: Wait a second though, I just realized something like being

859
00:35:48,760 --> 00:35:51,120
Speaker 2: hot on the outside is so much work, but we

860
00:35:51,239 --> 00:35:53,560
Speaker 2: haven't talked about like being hot on the inside is

861
00:35:53,719 --> 00:35:54,600
Speaker 2: maybe more work.

862
00:35:56,200 --> 00:35:58,479
Speaker 4: Yeah, and it's you don't think about that often because

863
00:35:58,520 --> 00:36:01,040
Speaker 4: we just assume it comes naturally to be yes, but

864
00:36:01,200 --> 00:36:02,240
Speaker 4: it probably doesn't.

865
00:36:02,640 --> 00:36:06,080
Speaker 2: And being on the inside is just being yourself and

866
00:36:06,120 --> 00:36:09,640
Speaker 2: being unapologetic about it. But like and not like I'm

867
00:36:09,680 --> 00:36:11,800
Speaker 2: just gonna sit however I want or you know, I

868
00:36:11,800 --> 00:36:13,720
Speaker 2: don't care. I'm gonna listen to my phone on speaker

869
00:36:13,760 --> 00:36:16,160
Speaker 2: and I don't care, but you know, not like unapologetic

870
00:36:16,160 --> 00:36:19,480
Speaker 2: in that way, but like just being being being okay

871
00:36:19,480 --> 00:36:20,840
Speaker 2: with who you are is so hot.

872
00:36:21,239 --> 00:36:22,520
Speaker 3: But it's so hard to do.

873
00:36:22,560 --> 00:36:24,239
Speaker 2: I would think it's it's harder than getting all the

874
00:36:24,320 --> 00:36:26,920
Speaker 2: laser facials and all the plastic surgeries and all the

875
00:36:26,920 --> 00:36:30,720
Speaker 2: plates classes. It's it's it's been a way harder endeavor

876
00:36:30,800 --> 00:36:34,880
Speaker 2: for me to be hot inside than outside. But there's

877
00:36:35,040 --> 00:36:38,239
Speaker 2: there's so many great examples of women who are embodying that,

878
00:36:38,320 --> 00:36:41,759
Speaker 2: and like, are just yeah, that's what I just I

879
00:36:41,800 --> 00:36:42,920
Speaker 2: want to keep pursuing that.

880
00:36:43,160 --> 00:36:46,279
Speaker 4: Do you ever like I because I absolutely relate to

881
00:36:46,360 --> 00:36:49,440
Speaker 4: how you're what you're explaining, Like, looks are obviously very

882
00:36:49,440 --> 00:36:51,839
Speaker 4: important to me as well, Like I want to be cute.

883
00:36:51,920 --> 00:36:53,759
Speaker 4: I want to feel good when you look good. You

884
00:36:53,800 --> 00:36:56,520
Speaker 4: feel good. When you feel good, you do better, you know,

885
00:36:57,200 --> 00:37:01,840
Speaker 4: at everything. But do you ever wake up and you're like,

886
00:37:01,840 --> 00:37:03,959
Speaker 4: like maybe you had a little insecurity about your looks

887
00:37:04,000 --> 00:37:07,799
Speaker 4: whatever it is, or you know anything, and then you're like,

888
00:37:08,640 --> 00:37:11,239
Speaker 4: oh my god, I'm so glad I'm a comedian, Like yes,

889
00:37:11,400 --> 00:37:14,160
Speaker 4: because like the thing that I do is not about

890
00:37:14,160 --> 00:37:15,840
Speaker 4: my looks, it's about my mind.

891
00:37:16,520 --> 00:37:18,799
Speaker 3: Yes, But oh I sway that.

892
00:37:20,600 --> 00:37:23,840
Speaker 2: I do feel grateful that I'm a comedian all the

893
00:37:23,880 --> 00:37:26,399
Speaker 2: time because of what you're just saying, Like it isn't

894
00:37:26,440 --> 00:37:28,799
Speaker 2: about my looks, but there is a secret part of me.

895
00:37:28,880 --> 00:37:31,480
Speaker 2: Because I came up and I was billed as like

896
00:37:31,520 --> 00:37:35,080
Speaker 2: a young cute comic, even though I never felt cute,

897
00:37:35,880 --> 00:37:39,520
Speaker 2: it was part of my branding. And so that is

898
00:37:39,560 --> 00:37:42,120
Speaker 2: something that like I felt like did whether I wanted

899
00:37:42,160 --> 00:37:44,160
Speaker 2: it to or not, got me on shows, got me

900
00:37:44,200 --> 00:37:46,640
Speaker 2: attention early on, and so that is something that I

901
00:37:46,640 --> 00:37:50,920
Speaker 2: do feel is part of my appeal. And when that

902
00:37:50,960 --> 00:37:52,920
Speaker 2: goes like, well, people know I'm not really talented. But

903
00:37:52,920 --> 00:37:55,279
Speaker 2: the truth is that the more it goes when I age,

904
00:37:55,400 --> 00:37:57,120
Speaker 2: much like I'm talking about, like I need to do

905
00:37:57,160 --> 00:37:59,560
Speaker 2: the inner work because yeah, my looks are fading. I'm

906
00:37:59,840 --> 00:38:02,279
Speaker 2: approaching forty. It's it's going to be downhill. Yes, I'll

907
00:38:02,280 --> 00:38:05,279
Speaker 2: get more distinguished looking and cooler looking and just more

908
00:38:05,480 --> 00:38:09,239
Speaker 2: rugged looking and like all of the things that come

909
00:38:09,280 --> 00:38:11,840
Speaker 2: with age, more wisdom in my eyes and all that bullshit.

910
00:38:12,760 --> 00:38:13,280
Speaker 3: It will.

911
00:38:13,760 --> 00:38:15,719
Speaker 2: I do have to amp up other things, like I

912
00:38:15,760 --> 00:38:18,080
Speaker 2: am working harder on my stand up because I don't

913
00:38:18,080 --> 00:38:19,960
Speaker 2: have my looks to fall. I can't be just cute,

914
00:38:20,040 --> 00:38:23,399
Speaker 2: like you just have to, and we're getting older, we're

915
00:38:23,400 --> 00:38:26,200
Speaker 2: not as tapped into what the younger generation's doing. Like

916
00:38:26,239 --> 00:38:27,960
Speaker 2: as you get older, you just have to try harder,

917
00:38:28,000 --> 00:38:29,879
Speaker 2: you have to work harder to achieve.

918
00:38:29,600 --> 00:38:29,920
Speaker 3: The same thing.

919
00:38:29,960 --> 00:38:33,160
Speaker 2: So I think I'm just it's making me focus on

920
00:38:33,400 --> 00:38:35,720
Speaker 2: the more important things that I can control.

921
00:38:35,960 --> 00:38:40,480
Speaker 4: Totally agree, And I'm actually loving this step in direction

922
00:38:40,560 --> 00:38:43,839
Speaker 4: for myself so much more. Like I still look, I

923
00:38:43,880 --> 00:38:46,560
Speaker 4: love makeup, I love all the girly girl things. But

924
00:38:46,880 --> 00:38:50,120
Speaker 4: in my twenties I was a little more into like

925
00:38:50,239 --> 00:38:53,440
Speaker 4: finding the perfect highlighter and the perfect fleshed tone for

926
00:38:53,520 --> 00:38:56,680
Speaker 4: my skin. And it's like I spend a little less

927
00:38:56,680 --> 00:38:58,640
Speaker 4: time on that now and a little more time on like,

928
00:38:59,160 --> 00:39:00,840
Speaker 4: how do I really feel abut this subject that I

929
00:39:00,840 --> 00:39:03,560
Speaker 4: want to do a bit about and testing it and

930
00:39:03,560 --> 00:39:07,680
Speaker 4: and this version which might seem sadder because it's like

931
00:39:08,080 --> 00:39:11,719
Speaker 4: just about being uglier and older, it's better. I like

932
00:39:11,840 --> 00:39:13,879
Speaker 4: it better. I'm not just saying if.

933
00:39:13,800 --> 00:39:15,680
Speaker 2: You didn't have to worry about your looks, like what

934
00:39:15,719 --> 00:39:17,600
Speaker 2: could you do, Like if it was really not a

935
00:39:17,640 --> 00:39:19,040
Speaker 2: concern at all, Like what.

936
00:39:18,920 --> 00:39:19,480
Speaker 4: Could you do?

937
00:39:19,640 --> 00:39:19,759
Speaker 5: What?

938
00:39:19,880 --> 00:39:21,480
Speaker 4: Thought? Actually just like scares me.

939
00:39:21,640 --> 00:39:25,200
Speaker 2: It's not even like conceivable to me to like pack

940
00:39:25,320 --> 00:39:28,120
Speaker 2: for shows and not bring the heels and the dresses

941
00:39:28,120 --> 00:39:30,080
Speaker 2: and the spray tan and all the things. And people

942
00:39:30,120 --> 00:39:31,640
Speaker 2: say you can just give that stuff up and not

943
00:39:31,640 --> 00:39:33,520
Speaker 2: worry about it, and like, yeah, try try it.

944
00:39:33,600 --> 00:39:34,920
Speaker 3: Not wearing makeup on stage.

945
00:39:34,719 --> 00:39:37,719
Speaker 2: Just like it will be it will be a thing

946
00:39:37,840 --> 00:39:40,080
Speaker 2: if I don't, I have to ease into not wearing

947
00:39:40,080 --> 00:39:40,400
Speaker 2: me up.

948
00:39:40,520 --> 00:39:43,560
Speaker 4: I wouldn't want to walk away from that because it's

949
00:39:43,600 --> 00:39:46,680
Speaker 4: so fun like doing it, Like it's it's fun to

950
00:39:46,920 --> 00:39:49,960
Speaker 4: feel good about yourself and there's no shame in it.

951
00:39:50,040 --> 00:39:52,680
Speaker 4: Like because so I'm like we talked about I mean

952
00:39:52,760 --> 00:39:54,800
Speaker 4: months pregnant and the first three months of the pregnancy,

953
00:39:55,040 --> 00:39:58,840
Speaker 4: first trimester just absolute misery. Couldn't get out of bed,

954
00:39:59,160 --> 00:40:02,560
Speaker 4: like just everything was yucky to me. Even my daughter.

955
00:40:02,560 --> 00:40:06,160
Speaker 2: Version like my friend is having the hardest time being

956
00:40:06,200 --> 00:40:10,560
Speaker 2: pregnant with food sucks. She is nauseous all the time,

957
00:40:10,640 --> 00:40:12,239
Speaker 2: but she can look at a pile of blankets that

958
00:40:12,360 --> 00:40:15,360
Speaker 2: look like food. Seriously these other day that day she

959
00:40:15,360 --> 00:40:17,080
Speaker 2: sent the pictures of blankets on her couch and she

960
00:40:17,160 --> 00:40:19,280
Speaker 2: was like, it just looks like a pile of food.

961
00:40:19,440 --> 00:40:22,279
Speaker 2: And we were like, what this like blanket, like she's sick,

962
00:40:22,400 --> 00:40:23,320
Speaker 2: sticking by everything.

963
00:40:23,560 --> 00:40:26,279
Speaker 4: Literally, like I will be in bed. I would be

964
00:40:26,320 --> 00:40:29,040
Speaker 4: in bed, and then Dave would be on a different

965
00:40:29,200 --> 00:40:32,719
Speaker 4: floor in the home, putting a drop of oil in

966
00:40:32,800 --> 00:40:37,040
Speaker 4: a pan, and I'm like, how dare you? Yes, you're

967
00:40:37,040 --> 00:40:39,960
Speaker 4: trying to kill me. It's so nauseating. But my point

968
00:40:40,040 --> 00:40:43,000
Speaker 4: is is like after being like in three months of

969
00:40:43,080 --> 00:40:47,200
Speaker 4: just not feeling myself at all, all I craved was

970
00:40:47,320 --> 00:40:49,799
Speaker 4: like I wanted to feel pretty. I wanted to like

971
00:40:50,640 --> 00:40:54,560
Speaker 4: and and why that's okay with me? Like wanting to

972
00:40:54,640 --> 00:40:58,640
Speaker 4: feel pretty and get cute or whatever is because it's

973
00:40:58,680 --> 00:41:01,560
Speaker 4: all up to me and how I feel, like the

974
00:41:01,640 --> 00:41:04,160
Speaker 4: makeup that I do. If I like it and I

975
00:41:04,360 --> 00:41:07,360
Speaker 4: then I feel good. I'm the judge of it. Yeah,

976
00:41:07,400 --> 00:41:09,520
Speaker 4: it might look to it might someone might get a

977
00:41:09,560 --> 00:41:11,560
Speaker 4: picture of it, it looks really bad, and no one

978
00:41:11,600 --> 00:41:14,360
Speaker 4: else likes it. It's all on me. If I feel

979
00:41:14,360 --> 00:41:17,040
Speaker 4: good about it, then like that's awesome. And so like

980
00:41:17,080 --> 00:41:19,359
Speaker 4: when you do your shows, when you're on tour and

981
00:41:19,400 --> 00:41:21,399
Speaker 4: you put your outfit on, in your heels and your

982
00:41:21,480 --> 00:41:26,680
Speaker 4: makeup and you feel so good, that's there's nothing wrong

983
00:41:26,719 --> 00:41:27,800
Speaker 4: with that.

984
00:41:27,360 --> 00:41:29,640
Speaker 3: That's you're so right. I struggle though.

985
00:41:29,760 --> 00:41:32,080
Speaker 2: The other night, I was in Vegas and I got

986
00:41:32,080 --> 00:41:34,560
Speaker 2: this really cute red corset top that I wanted to

987
00:41:34,560 --> 00:41:37,319
Speaker 2: wear to one of like the Chiefs events because it's

988
00:41:37,320 --> 00:41:39,640
Speaker 2: like red, and I wore it with these like high

989
00:41:39,640 --> 00:41:41,960
Speaker 2: waisted pants. It was so cute, and then I wore it,

990
00:41:42,040 --> 00:41:43,680
Speaker 2: I got a I needed a blazer for it, so

991
00:41:43,680 --> 00:41:45,160
Speaker 2: I went and got a blazer from Zara, and it

992
00:41:45,239 --> 00:41:46,239
Speaker 2: just like was this cute upfit.

993
00:41:46,320 --> 00:41:48,880
Speaker 6: And then I was walking around this casino and I

994
00:41:48,960 --> 00:41:51,080
Speaker 6: kind of asked, I'm not joking you twice in a

995
00:41:51,160 --> 00:41:54,560
Speaker 6: row of like where the bathrooms, people thought I watched

996
00:41:54,560 --> 00:41:58,000
Speaker 6: there and I felt so like it took me out

997
00:41:58,040 --> 00:41:58,520
Speaker 6: of it so much.

998
00:41:58,520 --> 00:42:01,480
Speaker 2: And my boyfriend's laughing. And my boyfriend notoriously doesn't like

999
00:42:01,480 --> 00:42:03,880
Speaker 2: blazers on women women. He's like, I don't know where

1000
00:42:03,920 --> 00:42:06,160
Speaker 2: women I've never once seen a blazer on a woman

1001
00:42:06,200 --> 00:42:09,279
Speaker 2: and thought that was like a good look, and that

1002
00:42:09,800 --> 00:42:11,920
Speaker 2: whenever I wear a blazer around him, I feel even

1003
00:42:11,960 --> 00:42:14,279
Speaker 2: though I feel and I tried to do things of like, well,

1004
00:42:14,320 --> 00:42:17,160
Speaker 2: I like it, that's what I do with David, But

1005
00:42:17,680 --> 00:42:20,319
Speaker 2: I gotta be honest, it felt a little bit I

1006
00:42:20,480 --> 00:42:22,560
Speaker 2: wasn't as excited. I'm like, I know I'm turning off

1007
00:42:22,600 --> 00:42:25,640
Speaker 2: my boyfriend actively right now. It doesn't so I don't

1008
00:42:25,680 --> 00:42:27,359
Speaker 2: know if this is good enough for me, even though

1009
00:42:27,360 --> 00:42:28,799
Speaker 2: I just kept being like, well, I like.

1010
00:42:28,800 --> 00:42:31,839
Speaker 3: It, You'll chase like it's fine. He goes no, Like

1011
00:42:31,880 --> 00:42:32,920
Speaker 3: you shouldn't dress for me.

1012
00:42:32,960 --> 00:42:35,480
Speaker 2: It's not like every woman should wear a blazer because

1013
00:42:35,480 --> 00:42:37,160
Speaker 2: I don't think they're good looking. I just never have

1014
00:42:37,239 --> 00:42:38,960
Speaker 2: seen one that makes me think that that's like a

1015
00:42:39,080 --> 00:42:41,359
Speaker 2: good look for a woman. I'm like, I get it,

1016
00:42:41,440 --> 00:42:44,960
Speaker 2: like it, but that stuff that sticks in my head

1017
00:42:45,000 --> 00:42:47,280
Speaker 2: now and now I'm like, oh god, every time now

1018
00:42:47,880 --> 00:42:49,560
Speaker 2: if I wear a blazer around him, I'm like, it's

1019
00:42:49,560 --> 00:42:51,279
Speaker 2: a sign of like I don't want to have sex

1020
00:42:51,320 --> 00:42:51,600
Speaker 2: with you.

1021
00:42:51,840 --> 00:42:53,359
Speaker 3: It's like that's that's how I feel.

1022
00:42:53,440 --> 00:42:55,279
Speaker 2: What I'm saying, like he's not gonna be attracted to me,

1023
00:42:55,320 --> 00:42:59,080
Speaker 2: and that's important. Like being attractive to men, yeah, is

1024
00:42:59,080 --> 00:42:59,760
Speaker 2: still important.

1025
00:43:00,040 --> 00:43:01,160
Speaker 3: It's like, but I do.

1026
00:43:01,160 --> 00:43:04,160
Speaker 2: Agree with you that it is. It feels good to

1027
00:43:04,160 --> 00:43:06,800
Speaker 2: feel good about yourself. But I recently like went a

1028
00:43:06,800 --> 00:43:09,200
Speaker 2: little darker with my hair color because I'm tired of

1029
00:43:09,239 --> 00:43:11,239
Speaker 2: getting my hair done. That's the thing that I'm like,

1030
00:43:11,680 --> 00:43:13,920
Speaker 2: you know, I've been complaining about it for years of

1031
00:43:13,960 --> 00:43:16,200
Speaker 2: my life. Of like every every six weeks, I've just

1032
00:43:16,239 --> 00:43:18,239
Speaker 2: sit somewhere for four hours with someone I don't want

1033
00:43:18,280 --> 00:43:21,560
Speaker 2: to talk to. I say this lighting and stare in

1034
00:43:21,600 --> 00:43:24,960
Speaker 2: a mirror and this horrible lighting. With these magazines that

1035
00:43:24,960 --> 00:43:27,600
Speaker 2: are just like all they have is like Vogue and

1036
00:43:27,640 --> 00:43:30,640
Speaker 2: people just magazines that are filled with people that are hot,

1037
00:43:30,760 --> 00:43:31,320
Speaker 2: you should.

1038
00:43:31,080 --> 00:43:33,680
Speaker 1: Be able to select conversation preferences.

1039
00:43:33,160 --> 00:43:36,080
Speaker 4: Like on Uber, Oh my god, yes, I never, by

1040
00:43:36,120 --> 00:43:37,280
Speaker 4: the way, ever click.

1041
00:43:37,840 --> 00:43:38,399
Speaker 1: They're going to hate.

1042
00:43:38,520 --> 00:43:39,560
Speaker 4: I know. I never click.

1043
00:43:39,600 --> 00:43:41,920
Speaker 3: Oh I do quiet? You do yeah, and sometimes they

1044
00:43:41,920 --> 00:43:43,680
Speaker 3: give you ship. They go, I hear, so I see

1045
00:43:43,680 --> 00:43:45,080
Speaker 3: that you don't want conversation, and I just.

1046
00:43:45,040 --> 00:43:49,400
Speaker 1: Go, that's what I'm avoiding. But then I do have

1047
00:43:49,400 --> 00:43:50,320
Speaker 1: a long conversation.

1048
00:43:50,440 --> 00:43:50,840
Speaker 3: I'm doing it.

1049
00:43:51,360 --> 00:43:55,480
Speaker 4: But your like piercing icy blue eyes with dark hair

1050
00:43:55,640 --> 00:43:59,520
Speaker 4: would be so sexy. Okay, Like I could see that

1051
00:44:00,000 --> 00:44:04,040
Speaker 4: it's so hot. All right, there's something going on there.

1052
00:44:04,280 --> 00:44:06,080
Speaker 3: I think it might be the blazer of hair for

1053
00:44:06,200 --> 00:44:08,600
Speaker 3: my boyfriend. So we'll see.

1054
00:44:08,600 --> 00:44:13,000
Speaker 4: Speaking of a blazer. My thing is like every two weeks,

1055
00:44:13,040 --> 00:44:14,600
Speaker 4: I'll be in the car with Dave and I'll be like,

1056
00:44:15,920 --> 00:44:21,240
Speaker 4: is that like glitter on your face, and I'm just like, no, yeah.

1057
00:44:21,280 --> 00:44:25,359
Speaker 2: Just absolutely got there, just twars on this little tube

1058
00:44:25,400 --> 00:44:28,719
Speaker 2: of it. Yeah yeah, they like hate it like they

1059
00:44:28,719 --> 00:44:29,320
Speaker 2: hate glitter.

1060
00:44:29,640 --> 00:44:32,640
Speaker 3: They just any like obvious efforts.

1061
00:44:32,640 --> 00:44:33,200
Speaker 1: Mind glitter.

1062
00:44:33,719 --> 00:44:34,359
Speaker 3: You don't mind glitter?

1063
00:44:34,400 --> 00:44:35,920
Speaker 1: Really, I don't mind glitter. There's a lot of things

1064
00:44:35,960 --> 00:44:37,080
Speaker 1: I do mind, but not glitter.

1065
00:44:37,160 --> 00:44:37,799
Speaker 3: What do you mind?

1066
00:44:38,000 --> 00:44:40,720
Speaker 4: You might just not know what glitter is. No offense, like, okay,

1067
00:44:40,920 --> 00:44:41,520
Speaker 4: a shimmer.

1068
00:44:42,520 --> 00:44:44,520
Speaker 1: Maybe I don't know what glimmer with shimmer.

1069
00:44:44,800 --> 00:44:46,440
Speaker 4: Yeah, I feel like guys don't.

1070
00:44:46,280 --> 00:44:48,440
Speaker 1: Really know it, so when I know when I see it,

1071
00:44:49,400 --> 00:44:52,839
Speaker 1: I don't like. Really, I don't like lip injections, yeah really,

1072
00:44:52,960 --> 00:44:56,760
Speaker 1: especially if they're really big. Yeah. I don't like really

1073
00:44:56,800 --> 00:45:05,600
Speaker 1: heavy makeup. I think I don't like uh big scars,

1074
00:45:05,600 --> 00:45:06,759
Speaker 1: bleeding ulcers.

1075
00:45:08,040 --> 00:45:09,480
Speaker 3: Those are so in right now though.

1076
00:45:10,280 --> 00:45:12,560
Speaker 1: Remember when the like if you're wearing a band aid

1077
00:45:12,719 --> 00:45:16,080
Speaker 1: was in, like the kids aid with no injury.

1078
00:45:16,280 --> 00:45:16,960
Speaker 3: Yeah that's cool.

1079
00:45:17,239 --> 00:45:18,000
Speaker 1: Is that still cool?

1080
00:45:18,239 --> 00:45:18,439
Speaker 5: Yeah?

1081
00:45:18,440 --> 00:45:20,239
Speaker 2: I think now you can do pimple patches like out

1082
00:45:20,239 --> 00:45:22,479
Speaker 2: star Face Yeah, yeah, yeah, that's cool.

1083
00:45:22,600 --> 00:45:26,080
Speaker 4: Starface is like the coolest thing. Even jen Elfha is like,

1084
00:45:26,239 --> 00:45:29,280
Speaker 4: we're making this work. They just wear little pimple patches

1085
00:45:29,320 --> 00:45:31,680
Speaker 4: and they're cue and so it's like, look, I'm showing

1086
00:45:31,680 --> 00:45:33,440
Speaker 4: off that I have acne and not covering it up.

1087
00:45:33,480 --> 00:45:34,160
Speaker 3: That's awesome.

1088
00:45:34,640 --> 00:45:38,400
Speaker 2: Oh my god, does acne need like a rebrand?

1089
00:45:38,520 --> 00:45:40,160
Speaker 4: Yeah? It's it. Got it cool?

1090
00:45:40,640 --> 00:45:44,080
Speaker 2: Yeah, because it's so unavoidable, it's so just. It doesn't

1091
00:45:44,080 --> 00:45:46,480
Speaker 2: mean any It makes you feel like you look dirty

1092
00:45:46,560 --> 00:45:48,279
Speaker 2: or that you're doing something wrong, but it does not

1093
00:45:48,360 --> 00:45:50,280
Speaker 2: mean that you are, and it's just it's the fucking

1094
00:45:51,080 --> 00:45:52,799
Speaker 2: it's the worst. I feel so bad for people who

1095
00:45:52,800 --> 00:45:54,919
Speaker 2: suffer with it. I really I love that for them.

1096
00:45:55,080 --> 00:45:56,239
Speaker 2: I know I would love to wear a.

1097
00:45:56,200 --> 00:45:58,320
Speaker 3: Bunch of goddamn stickers on my face in high school.

1098
00:45:58,480 --> 00:46:00,840
Speaker 4: I know I don't wear the bag.

1099
00:46:00,640 --> 00:46:05,360
Speaker 2: Stickers like stickers for everything. I'll never do you remember

1100
00:46:05,400 --> 00:46:08,040
Speaker 2: like the worst, like comments boys made about your face

1101
00:46:08,120 --> 00:46:09,960
Speaker 2: or like anything in high school. I remember this one

1102
00:46:09,960 --> 00:46:12,760
Speaker 2: time John Reiner was just like, you look tired today,

1103
00:46:13,360 --> 00:46:15,440
Speaker 2: and I just will never forget. And I remember my

1104
00:46:15,480 --> 00:46:17,319
Speaker 2: eyes were really puffy and I went and looked at

1105
00:46:17,320 --> 00:46:19,120
Speaker 2: the mirror and I was like, you're just like I

1106
00:46:19,360 --> 00:46:21,279
Speaker 2: remember where it happened, where I was walking, when I

1107
00:46:21,320 --> 00:46:22,000
Speaker 2: was wearing like.

1108
00:46:22,000 --> 00:46:24,239
Speaker 4: You were in high school. Yeah, that's so funny because

1109
00:46:24,239 --> 00:46:27,279
Speaker 4: like a tired high schooler. That sounds like such a

1110
00:46:27,600 --> 00:46:31,040
Speaker 4: good look. Like, my god, I'm like so into Like

1111
00:46:31,120 --> 00:46:33,160
Speaker 4: when young people look tired.

1112
00:46:32,880 --> 00:46:34,680
Speaker 1: I'm like they have a hoodie with their hood up

1113
00:46:34,680 --> 00:46:35,280
Speaker 1: and a coffee.

1114
00:46:35,440 --> 00:46:38,240
Speaker 4: Yeah, dark, that's so cool.

1115
00:46:38,480 --> 00:46:38,680
Speaker 5: Yeah.

1116
00:46:38,680 --> 00:46:41,560
Speaker 2: Sometimes I do look really young when I'm tired because

1117
00:46:41,560 --> 00:46:42,960
Speaker 2: my face is really puffy.

1118
00:46:43,160 --> 00:46:45,759
Speaker 3: I guess sometimes I like it now.

1119
00:46:46,200 --> 00:46:49,000
Speaker 2: Yeah, okay, you were like studying the trends on like

1120
00:46:49,040 --> 00:46:51,240
Speaker 2: you're very active on TikTok.

1121
00:46:51,800 --> 00:46:53,279
Speaker 4: Yes, do you feel like it's good?

1122
00:46:53,640 --> 00:46:56,080
Speaker 2: No, you're not at all. I think it's cool like

1123
00:46:56,280 --> 00:46:58,440
Speaker 2: that what's going on in there? Like what are you

1124
00:46:58,560 --> 00:47:02,040
Speaker 2: looking at? Like, what are what's like the latest? Well,

1125
00:47:02,040 --> 00:47:04,000
Speaker 2: how are you feeling about gen z gen Alpha?

1126
00:47:04,040 --> 00:47:07,600
Speaker 3: I guess no, that's after gend Oh my.

1127
00:47:07,520 --> 00:47:10,080
Speaker 1: God, there's another one. Yeah, I know that existed.

1128
00:47:10,960 --> 00:47:15,239
Speaker 4: It seems like people are really like all the things

1129
00:47:15,280 --> 00:47:18,360
Speaker 4: that I always thought were in style are cool but

1130
00:47:18,960 --> 00:47:22,640
Speaker 4: I apparently weren't. But it's like being really authentic and

1131
00:47:22,680 --> 00:47:26,680
Speaker 4: honest and open about your flaws and also like being

1132
00:47:27,400 --> 00:47:30,319
Speaker 4: like budgeting out loud is like a new topic, so

1133
00:47:30,360 --> 00:47:34,279
Speaker 4: it's like being instead of quiet luxury, which like we're

1134
00:47:34,320 --> 00:47:36,960
Speaker 4: moving away from already like that does the trends moves

1135
00:47:37,000 --> 00:47:40,320
Speaker 4: so fast? Yeah, now that it's like you'll be dizzy

1136
00:47:40,360 --> 00:47:42,440
Speaker 4: if you try to keep up, which there was a

1137
00:47:42,480 --> 00:47:44,400
Speaker 4: minute where I was like, oh, I'll buy this, and

1138
00:47:44,640 --> 00:47:47,480
Speaker 4: then now I'm just like no, whatever, I can't keep up.

1139
00:47:47,760 --> 00:47:51,440
Speaker 4: But like, budgeting out loud is very popular of being

1140
00:47:51,560 --> 00:47:54,480
Speaker 4: like vocal about things you can't afford or like how

1141
00:47:54,520 --> 00:47:56,799
Speaker 4: you're trying to save money and not being embarrassed of that,

1142
00:47:56,960 --> 00:47:59,080
Speaker 4: because don't you guys feel like the last like five

1143
00:47:59,239 --> 00:48:03,000
Speaker 4: ten whatever years, it was all about like I've got

1144
00:48:03,040 --> 00:48:05,279
Speaker 4: the Louis Vuitton and I'm rich and this and that

1145
00:48:05,360 --> 00:48:08,680
Speaker 4: and just showing that off. That's like icky. Now, I

1146
00:48:08,719 --> 00:48:11,719
Speaker 4: think that's great. I need that. I know it's so

1147
00:48:11,800 --> 00:48:12,400
Speaker 4: much better.

1148
00:48:12,840 --> 00:48:16,720
Speaker 1: Like we need rap songs about that. Yeah, five dollars

1149
00:48:16,920 --> 00:48:18,600
Speaker 1: almost cht and lay away.

1150
00:48:18,760 --> 00:48:20,400
Speaker 4: I know we need a little dicky. We need a

1151
00:48:20,440 --> 00:48:21,240
Speaker 4: Jewish rapp.

1152
00:48:21,160 --> 00:48:24,759
Speaker 1: Right, probably already did that to think about it.

1153
00:48:25,360 --> 00:48:28,680
Speaker 2: Yeah, Okay, that's interesting that they're being there. It's cool

1154
00:48:28,760 --> 00:48:32,200
Speaker 2: now to be like careful about money. Yeah, and how

1155
00:48:32,400 --> 00:48:35,240
Speaker 2: because there's no other way. We're not going to survive

1156
00:48:35,320 --> 00:48:37,800
Speaker 2: unless we get cool about no being.

1157
00:48:38,320 --> 00:48:41,360
Speaker 4: No one has money, there's no money left.

1158
00:48:41,120 --> 00:48:44,160
Speaker 1: No, so these kids are just walking around with like

1159
00:48:44,360 --> 00:48:46,719
Speaker 1: pimple faces talking about how they're poor.

1160
00:48:47,640 --> 00:48:50,440
Speaker 4: This is what's very cool, guys, trust me, I'm not

1161
00:48:50,480 --> 00:48:51,879
Speaker 4: trying to sabotage you at all.

1162
00:48:52,120 --> 00:48:53,520
Speaker 3: Young kids love Sephora.

1163
00:48:53,600 --> 00:48:56,799
Speaker 2: Now, Like, aren't ten year olds like, yeah, populating Sephorahn't

1164
00:48:56,800 --> 00:48:57,800
Speaker 2: they obsessed with skincare?

1165
00:48:57,880 --> 00:48:58,600
Speaker 3: What's that about?

1166
00:48:58,640 --> 00:49:02,799
Speaker 4: Okay, so this is this is like surprising people, which

1167
00:49:02,840 --> 00:49:04,759
Speaker 4: I am not surprised by this at all. Don't you

1168
00:49:04,840 --> 00:49:07,239
Speaker 4: feel like when you buy makeup and skincare it's just

1169
00:49:07,320 --> 00:49:09,440
Speaker 4: like buying toys pillipocket?

1170
00:49:09,600 --> 00:49:11,279
Speaker 3: Yes, yes, like of.

1171
00:49:11,320 --> 00:49:13,360
Speaker 4: Course the ten year olds are going crazy.

1172
00:49:13,920 --> 00:49:16,719
Speaker 2: Little like Barbie accessories. They're all in a beautiful like

1173
00:49:16,880 --> 00:49:17,920
Speaker 2: girly packaging.

1174
00:49:18,440 --> 00:49:19,560
Speaker 4: It's made for kids.

1175
00:49:19,680 --> 00:49:22,720
Speaker 2: May Care is opening and closing something and a little

1176
00:49:22,840 --> 00:49:24,520
Speaker 2: there's a little brush that comes with it.

1177
00:49:24,680 --> 00:49:27,000
Speaker 3: Yes, it's like little pet shop like little thing.

1178
00:49:27,120 --> 00:49:31,160
Speaker 4: It's totally made for a little kids collectibles. It's fun. Like,

1179
00:49:31,320 --> 00:49:33,400
Speaker 4: I am not surprised by this at all, and I

1180
00:49:33,440 --> 00:49:36,960
Speaker 4: think like, also for me, what got me really into

1181
00:49:37,040 --> 00:49:41,400
Speaker 4: skincare like in the you know, twenty fifteen sixteens, was

1182
00:49:41,440 --> 00:49:43,799
Speaker 4: like I got really bad anxiety when there was all

1183
00:49:43,840 --> 00:49:47,600
Speaker 4: the like mass shootings and stuff, and I just felt like, oh,

1184
00:49:47,640 --> 00:49:48,920
Speaker 4: I don't want to go out. I don't want to

1185
00:49:48,920 --> 00:49:52,120
Speaker 4: do anything. And so like watching skincare videos on YouTube

1186
00:49:52,120 --> 00:49:55,399
Speaker 4: became very soothing and this like form of self care.

1187
00:49:55,920 --> 00:49:59,719
Speaker 4: But I personally do not believe in any of it.

1188
00:50:00,560 --> 00:50:02,600
Speaker 2: I just watched a clip of you on Whitney's podcast,

1189
00:50:02,640 --> 00:50:03,680
Speaker 2: and you don't moisturize.

1190
00:50:03,760 --> 00:50:05,560
Speaker 4: Do you lotion your body?

1191
00:50:05,719 --> 00:50:10,160
Speaker 2: Yes, because because I'm part of the problem, because it's

1192
00:50:10,200 --> 00:50:11,560
Speaker 2: like do you it's like chapstick.

1193
00:50:12,000 --> 00:50:14,280
Speaker 3: I wouldn't need it if I didn't do it once.

1194
00:50:14,760 --> 00:50:15,279
Speaker 3: So because I.

1195
00:50:17,320 --> 00:50:19,480
Speaker 2: Don't use chapstick, and sometimes I'm a little chapped up,

1196
00:50:19,520 --> 00:50:20,760
Speaker 2: but I never used chapstick.

1197
00:50:21,680 --> 00:50:23,759
Speaker 1: I do believe that you get like your body gets

1198
00:50:23,840 --> 00:50:25,600
Speaker 1: used to it, then use it.

1199
00:50:25,520 --> 00:50:28,720
Speaker 2: Like if I if I go, I could rid myself

1200
00:50:28,719 --> 00:50:30,600
Speaker 2: of the need of lotion if I went months without it.

1201
00:50:30,640 --> 00:50:33,279
Speaker 2: I do believe that. But because I've used it, I

1202
00:50:33,360 --> 00:50:35,120
Speaker 2: need it and my skin will be so flaky and

1203
00:50:35,160 --> 00:50:35,760
Speaker 2: dry and discussing.

1204
00:50:37,640 --> 00:50:38,520
Speaker 3: I just use whatever.

1205
00:50:38,600 --> 00:50:40,719
Speaker 2: I For a while, I was on this stuff that

1206
00:50:40,840 --> 00:50:44,120
Speaker 2: smells like medicated because I had like bumpy skin, come

1207
00:50:44,360 --> 00:50:47,239
Speaker 2: called em lactin and that stuff was really good for

1208
00:50:47,400 --> 00:50:49,880
Speaker 2: like Rosebud Baker turned me onto that years ago. But

1209
00:50:49,960 --> 00:50:52,720
Speaker 2: I just use like whatever the I just take hotel

1210
00:50:53,040 --> 00:50:55,200
Speaker 2: lotions and use those just body oceans, and I really

1211
00:50:55,200 --> 00:50:55,799
Speaker 2: just do my legs.

1212
00:50:55,840 --> 00:50:57,360
Speaker 3: That's where it really needs it. Arms nuts.

1213
00:50:57,360 --> 00:50:59,200
Speaker 2: That's how I know because I don't do anything to my.

1214
00:50:59,200 --> 00:51:00,200
Speaker 3: Arms, and my arms are fine.

1215
00:51:00,320 --> 00:51:02,880
Speaker 4: And I wonder if this is spray TND related. This

1216
00:51:02,960 --> 00:51:04,879
Speaker 4: is like a spray tan maintenance thing that you're doing.

1217
00:51:04,920 --> 00:51:06,799
Speaker 2: I definitely have to do lotion for spray tand but

1218
00:51:06,920 --> 00:51:08,040
Speaker 2: I don't get them all the time.

1219
00:51:08,239 --> 00:51:08,719
Speaker 3: But do you not?

1220
00:51:08,840 --> 00:51:10,920
Speaker 2: Like what's your skincare routine for your face? And I

1221
00:51:11,000 --> 00:51:12,000
Speaker 2: want to ask you the same thing.

1222
00:51:11,920 --> 00:51:15,759
Speaker 3: Brian, Brian, you have amazing skin. You don't pull on

1223
00:51:15,800 --> 00:51:16,160
Speaker 3: it like that.

1224
00:51:16,200 --> 00:51:17,080
Speaker 4: Are you thirteen?

1225
00:51:17,600 --> 00:51:20,520
Speaker 2: Doesn't he have great skin? It's like supple, it has

1226
00:51:20,520 --> 00:51:23,879
Speaker 2: like such a good coloring to it. Yeah, there's no blemishes.

1227
00:51:23,920 --> 00:51:26,600
Speaker 2: It's really good skin. You have great face skin. So

1228
00:51:26,640 --> 00:51:27,279
Speaker 2: what do you Brian?

1229
00:51:27,320 --> 00:51:27,840
Speaker 3: We'll start with you.

1230
00:51:27,880 --> 00:51:30,120
Speaker 1: What do you do?

1231
00:51:29,800 --> 00:51:29,880
Speaker 6: Well?

1232
00:51:30,200 --> 00:51:31,640
Speaker 1: I just put moisturizer on it.

1233
00:51:31,600 --> 00:51:32,759
Speaker 2: And I kind.

1234
00:51:34,200 --> 00:51:35,600
Speaker 3: Keels men love keyling.

1235
00:51:35,719 --> 00:51:37,719
Speaker 1: I know, I don't know what that is. I need

1236
00:51:37,760 --> 00:51:41,319
Speaker 1: that because my the moisturizer that I've been using is

1237
00:51:41,480 --> 00:51:43,560
Speaker 1: no longer being made and I have like three bottles

1238
00:51:43,640 --> 00:51:46,480
Speaker 1: left and it's going to run out. Okay, it's just

1239
00:51:46,560 --> 00:51:50,680
Speaker 1: like a standard probably like I don't know, like nutrigena.

1240
00:51:50,800 --> 00:51:54,240
Speaker 1: Might as well be sure some standard or la Okay,

1241
00:51:54,239 --> 00:51:56,440
Speaker 1: some standard brand that has like nothing in it. That's

1242
00:51:56,480 --> 00:52:00,520
Speaker 1: like dermatologists no scent, and I put it my face

1243
00:52:00,560 --> 00:52:02,359
Speaker 1: and it does like probably nothing like.

1244
00:52:02,400 --> 00:52:04,240
Speaker 3: Night and day And do you wear sunscreen?

1245
00:52:04,440 --> 00:52:06,319
Speaker 1: Only after I shower? And I just don't go in

1246
00:52:06,360 --> 00:52:08,960
Speaker 1: the sun. I think that's what it is, right, I

1247
00:52:09,000 --> 00:52:11,360
Speaker 1: have low vitamin D. I have to take vitamin D pills.

1248
00:52:11,360 --> 00:52:13,879
Speaker 1: The doctor said, you don't go in the sun enough.

1249
00:52:14,080 --> 00:52:15,080
Speaker 4: Yeah, I think everyone else.

1250
00:52:15,120 --> 00:52:17,360
Speaker 3: I think I think everyone should take vitamin depaills.

1251
00:52:17,440 --> 00:52:18,080
Speaker 1: No, I'm special.

1252
00:52:18,320 --> 00:52:22,360
Speaker 2: My doctor said, I have another thing, but that methyl

1253
00:52:22,400 --> 00:52:24,080
Speaker 2: fol light I have to take. It's so weird to

1254
00:52:24,120 --> 00:52:26,320
Speaker 2: see like on your thing that like and one Vitamin

1255
00:52:26,400 --> 00:52:28,600
Speaker 2: D for the rest of your life, just for the

1256
00:52:28,640 --> 00:52:30,480
Speaker 2: rest of your life, as like a supple bit is

1257
00:52:30,480 --> 00:52:30,960
Speaker 2: just scary.

1258
00:52:31,000 --> 00:52:32,040
Speaker 3: But yeah, got it.

1259
00:52:32,120 --> 00:52:33,560
Speaker 2: In the summer, I could take off a little bit,

1260
00:52:33,600 --> 00:52:35,279
Speaker 2: but I don't think stuf because I wear SPF too much,

1261
00:52:35,280 --> 00:52:36,080
Speaker 2: it covers it all up.

1262
00:52:36,160 --> 00:52:37,440
Speaker 3: What do you do for your skincare?

1263
00:52:37,719 --> 00:52:40,279
Speaker 4: I'm doing very little right now because pregnancy is just

1264
00:52:40,400 --> 00:52:42,480
Speaker 4: like made me not care about anything.

1265
00:52:42,560 --> 00:52:44,359
Speaker 2: Oh that's so interesting. All my friends are not doing

1266
00:52:44,400 --> 00:52:46,320
Speaker 2: anything that are pregnant because they're scared of putting chemicals

1267
00:52:46,320 --> 00:52:46,799
Speaker 2: in their body.

1268
00:52:46,840 --> 00:52:48,319
Speaker 3: And you're just like, it makes me not care.

1269
00:52:48,440 --> 00:52:51,680
Speaker 2: They like won't touch any They won't really they won't

1270
00:52:51,680 --> 00:52:54,280
Speaker 2: wear like little lemon leggings because there could be plastic

1271
00:52:54,320 --> 00:52:54,920
Speaker 2: in the leggings.

1272
00:52:55,520 --> 00:52:56,480
Speaker 3: Like they're at that level.

1273
00:52:56,640 --> 00:53:00,640
Speaker 2: Yeah, I mean, fertility stuff scares every women of a

1274
00:53:00,680 --> 00:53:01,200
Speaker 2: certain age.

1275
00:53:01,200 --> 00:53:03,880
Speaker 4: Every fetus that gets tested has plastic in it, like

1276
00:53:03,920 --> 00:53:07,640
Speaker 4: there's no escaping it. So I'm just like chill about that.

1277
00:53:08,640 --> 00:53:12,840
Speaker 4: I am eating fish. I am also controversially eating sushi.

1278
00:53:12,960 --> 00:53:16,000
Speaker 4: There's a lot of research that like that's not like

1279
00:53:16,239 --> 00:53:18,759
Speaker 4: basically there's all these rules about pregnancy and they're just

1280
00:53:18,760 --> 00:53:20,759
Speaker 4: like these really strict rules that no one has like

1281
00:53:21,440 --> 00:53:23,759
Speaker 4: looked into and for a while, and there's this book

1282
00:53:23,800 --> 00:53:26,000
Speaker 4: Expecting Better by Emily Austter that she kind of like

1283
00:53:26,360 --> 00:53:27,160
Speaker 4: busts the myths.

1284
00:53:27,280 --> 00:53:29,759
Speaker 1: So have you been eating peanut butter?

1285
00:53:31,040 --> 00:53:31,279
Speaker 4: Yeah?

1286
00:53:31,320 --> 00:53:34,680
Speaker 1: Why, Well, I believe that parents should eat peanut butter

1287
00:53:34,840 --> 00:53:39,560
Speaker 1: to give their kids an immunity to peanut allergies. It's

1288
00:53:39,600 --> 00:53:41,040
Speaker 1: not based on no science at all.

1289
00:53:41,160 --> 00:53:44,520
Speaker 4: I actually heard that, but I'm like that, does that

1290
00:53:44,560 --> 00:53:47,120
Speaker 4: mean that, like all peanut allergies are just because mommy

1291
00:53:47,160 --> 00:53:48,320
Speaker 4: didn't crave peanut.

1292
00:53:48,080 --> 00:53:49,759
Speaker 1: Butter, I think, and you don't, and they don't feed

1293
00:53:49,800 --> 00:53:52,040
Speaker 1: the kids peanut butter also, and then they grow up,

1294
00:53:52,040 --> 00:53:54,359
Speaker 1: they turn six and they go to kindergarten and they're

1295
00:53:54,360 --> 00:53:56,600
Speaker 1: scares to peanuts for the first time in their lives

1296
00:53:56,840 --> 00:53:58,359
Speaker 1: and their body is not used to it and they

1297
00:53:58,400 --> 00:54:01,440
Speaker 1: have a reaction. If that's true or not, that's probably

1298
00:54:01,440 --> 00:54:05,759
Speaker 1: a complete anti science lot, But I do believe you

1299
00:54:05,760 --> 00:54:08,520
Speaker 1: should be eating gobs of peanut butter every day to

1300
00:54:08,560 --> 00:54:11,080
Speaker 1: avoid your Okay, well.

1301
00:54:10,960 --> 00:54:13,279
Speaker 3: We'll get you some on the way up. Uh, what

1302
00:54:13,320 --> 00:54:14,920
Speaker 3: do you What do you do for skincare? Normally?

1303
00:54:14,960 --> 00:54:18,719
Speaker 4: I'm just very little so I as you know, and

1304
00:54:18,760 --> 00:54:20,279
Speaker 4: you were a guest on I used to host a

1305
00:54:20,280 --> 00:54:23,279
Speaker 4: skincare podcast called Glowing Up with Caroline Goldfarb, who you

1306
00:54:23,320 --> 00:54:28,359
Speaker 4: love and loves you. And after like five years of

1307
00:54:28,520 --> 00:54:33,239
Speaker 4: just trying every product, reading about researching, being obsessed, I'm like,

1308
00:54:33,520 --> 00:54:36,919
Speaker 4: I don't the opposite effect happened to me. I don't

1309
00:54:36,920 --> 00:54:39,080
Speaker 4: believe in any of it. I think there's like some

1310
00:54:39,239 --> 00:54:42,760
Speaker 4: science that like vitamin C cerums are good for whatever,

1311
00:54:43,360 --> 00:54:47,920
Speaker 4: but SPF obviously, But like I almost do next to nothing.

1312
00:54:48,040 --> 00:54:51,320
Speaker 4: Like I will maybe like do a little oil cleanser

1313
00:54:51,360 --> 00:54:53,560
Speaker 4: to get the makeup off the face. Yeah, maybe even

1314
00:54:53,640 --> 00:54:56,520
Speaker 4: just like wipe it with a toner of massilla water. Yea,

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00:54:57,360 --> 00:55:01,560
Speaker 4: maybe an oil if I'm a little dry. But I'm Nikkia.

1316
00:55:01,600 --> 00:55:05,360
Speaker 4: I'm so I gotta be solo maintenance. Yes, I hate

1317
00:55:05,400 --> 00:55:06,359
Speaker 4: maintenance me too.

1318
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Speaker 1: You're gonna run out of time once you have the baby.

1319
00:55:08,719 --> 00:55:10,320
Speaker 1: It's like all that time runs away.

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Speaker 4: I know.

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Speaker 2: I just bought one of these solo wave things that

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00:55:13,239 --> 00:55:15,960
Speaker 2: you like, Oh, I have that you're ready like ten

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00:55:16,000 --> 00:55:17,920
Speaker 2: minutes a day, and even that, I haven't even done

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00:55:17,960 --> 00:55:19,520
Speaker 2: it once and I'm supposed to be doing it every

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Speaker 2: single day.

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Speaker 3: Okay, So I can't do this stuff.

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00:55:21,320 --> 00:55:23,799
Speaker 4: I have that, And then I was like immediately, I'm like,

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Speaker 4: why don't I just have a red light mask? This

1329
00:55:26,040 --> 00:55:26,520
Speaker 4: is I know.

1330
00:55:27,120 --> 00:55:28,920
Speaker 3: Now I have to like comb over it.

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00:55:28,880 --> 00:55:30,560
Speaker 4: I know. So then I just stopped using it. I

1332
00:55:30,600 --> 00:55:32,360
Speaker 4: never got the red light mask. But I just I

1333
00:55:32,400 --> 00:55:34,800
Speaker 4: had one of those. I just give them my sister eventually,

1334
00:55:34,800 --> 00:55:36,279
Speaker 4: and then she doesn't use them. Then she's going to

1335
00:55:36,320 --> 00:55:37,960
Speaker 4: pass them down to her daughter who won't use them.

1336
00:55:38,000 --> 00:55:39,000
Speaker 3: But yeah, I do this.

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00:55:39,160 --> 00:55:40,880
Speaker 2: I just use one serum and that's all I use,

1338
00:55:40,880 --> 00:55:42,440
Speaker 2: and I wash my face every night, and then I

1339
00:55:42,440 --> 00:55:44,279
Speaker 2: don't wash my face in the morning anymore because Selma

1340
00:55:44,320 --> 00:55:46,480
Speaker 2: Hyaks said she didn't, So that gave me license to

1341
00:55:46,480 --> 00:55:48,239
Speaker 2: stop washing my face in the morning. Because you want

1342
00:55:48,239 --> 00:55:50,439
Speaker 2: to have the natural oils, agreed, and then just put

1343
00:55:50,880 --> 00:55:54,120
Speaker 2: and then an SPF. It's like so simple. But I

1344
00:55:54,160 --> 00:55:57,120
Speaker 2: do get laser facials, I do get micro needling.

1345
00:55:57,160 --> 00:55:58,320
Speaker 3: I do get all that stuff.

1346
00:55:58,360 --> 00:56:01,640
Speaker 4: And my needling is the one that I'm very keep

1347
00:56:01,680 --> 00:56:03,319
Speaker 4: saying I want to do it because that's the one

1348
00:56:03,360 --> 00:56:05,400
Speaker 4: that seems like it has some scientific backing.

1349
00:56:05,640 --> 00:56:08,000
Speaker 2: I think they definitely do. I mean, there are certain

1350
00:56:08,040 --> 00:56:11,600
Speaker 2: slems that have an amazing, amazing skin tone, and it's

1351
00:56:11,640 --> 00:56:12,640
Speaker 2: like it's got to be that stuff.

1352
00:56:12,640 --> 00:56:14,839
Speaker 3: It's nothing topical. I just am not buying it.

1353
00:56:14,960 --> 00:56:15,799
Speaker 4: That's how I feel.

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00:56:15,840 --> 00:56:18,399
Speaker 2: Don't don't spend any more than ten dollars on whatever

1355
00:56:18,400 --> 00:56:20,120
Speaker 2: you use on your face. I think it's I think

1356
00:56:20,440 --> 00:56:22,560
Speaker 2: the stuff I use is eight bucks and I will

1357
00:56:22,640 --> 00:56:23,200
Speaker 2: use it for life.

1358
00:56:23,200 --> 00:56:24,799
Speaker 3: There's no I'm never gonna change.

1359
00:56:24,560 --> 00:56:26,680
Speaker 4: I know, like unless it's like, oh I love the

1360
00:56:26,719 --> 00:56:29,000
Speaker 4: way this smells and how it makes me feel, Like

1361
00:56:29,160 --> 00:56:30,800
Speaker 4: that's kind of what I'm looking for if there's like

1362
00:56:30,840 --> 00:56:33,480
Speaker 4: a feel good experience. But I'm with you, like I

1363
00:56:33,560 --> 00:56:35,600
Speaker 4: just kind of don't buy intune anymore. Maybe it's like

1364
00:56:35,600 --> 00:56:38,280
Speaker 4: our age, we've just like seen it all. I also

1365
00:56:38,320 --> 00:56:41,200
Speaker 4: think like diet is yea.

1366
00:56:41,160 --> 00:56:43,560
Speaker 3: And water, which I can't seem to do that. I

1367
00:56:43,600 --> 00:56:44,960
Speaker 3: hate water, I know.

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00:56:45,280 --> 00:56:46,640
Speaker 1: So I skin starts from within.

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00:56:47,400 --> 00:56:50,880
Speaker 2: Yes, this is there's anything we've learned here today that's like,

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Speaker 2: it's what's inside that counts, yeah, for you to make

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00:56:54,640 --> 00:56:55,279
Speaker 2: your outside great.

1372
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Speaker 1: And I went to the dermatologists today, no way before

1373
00:56:58,719 --> 00:57:02,000
Speaker 1: I got it, before I go yearly to get checked

1374
00:57:02,160 --> 00:57:05,600
Speaker 1: everything checked out. They say, well, it's just interesting. No,

1375
00:57:05,880 --> 00:57:08,040
Speaker 1: it's just interesting. When you go to the dermatologists, they

1376
00:57:08,080 --> 00:57:10,560
Speaker 1: just go through your over your body and they point

1377
00:57:10,600 --> 00:57:12,520
Speaker 1: out all the things that are wrong with it. Yeah,

1378
00:57:12,640 --> 00:57:14,160
Speaker 1: they go like, oh, you got a rash, you got

1379
00:57:14,160 --> 00:57:17,720
Speaker 1: a mole there, you're you're you're washing their hands too much.

1380
00:57:18,000 --> 00:57:20,600
Speaker 1: You need to use a different shampoo, and it's.

1381
00:57:20,480 --> 00:57:24,240
Speaker 2: Like there's so many new growths that show up as

1382
00:57:23,000 --> 00:57:25,560
Speaker 2: as I like, I have a skin tag on my

1383
00:57:25,640 --> 00:57:28,200
Speaker 2: thigh that I just like pulling at and I don't

1384
00:57:28,200 --> 00:57:29,800
Speaker 2: even want it to go away. I like like it,

1385
00:57:29,840 --> 00:57:31,600
Speaker 2: like when I'm stressed out in bed, I like, like

1386
00:57:32,360 --> 00:57:33,120
Speaker 2: just play with it.

1387
00:57:33,560 --> 00:57:34,440
Speaker 3: But it's not a skin tag.

1388
00:57:34,480 --> 00:57:37,040
Speaker 2: It's like a little it's not it's that's I shouldn't

1389
00:57:36,960 --> 00:57:38,920
Speaker 2: have said that, but it's it's gross. But it's International

1390
00:57:38,920 --> 00:57:40,680
Speaker 2: Women's Day, so I feel free that I can talk

1391
00:57:40,720 --> 00:57:42,840
Speaker 2: about it because I do believe it's a female skin tag.

1392
00:57:43,160 --> 00:57:44,920
Speaker 3: But it's just like spots over.

1393
00:57:45,120 --> 00:57:46,200
Speaker 2: And then you took a picture of me at the

1394
00:57:46,200 --> 00:57:48,360
Speaker 2: game where I'm like with parnoculars and I see these

1395
00:57:48,480 --> 00:57:51,280
Speaker 2: three lumps on the side of my face little bumps,

1396
00:57:51,520 --> 00:57:53,120
Speaker 2: and I go, I gotta go with the dermatologist to

1397
00:57:53,320 --> 00:57:56,520
Speaker 2: like I don't want those anymore. And I just never

1398
00:57:56,520 --> 00:57:58,040
Speaker 2: even thought to go with the dermatogists. I just go

1399
00:57:58,080 --> 00:58:01,240
Speaker 2: to a esthetician, like I should go and get the

1400
00:58:01,360 --> 00:58:08,240
Speaker 2: like health of my skin checked out, not just the aesthetics.

1401
00:58:05,960 --> 00:58:09,280
Speaker 4: In LA though, you go to the dermatologists and it's

1402
00:58:09,360 --> 00:58:12,440
Speaker 4: not like how it was back in the Midwest. They're like, now,

1403
00:58:12,880 --> 00:58:14,480
Speaker 4: would you like to see what we could do to

1404
00:58:14,520 --> 00:58:18,320
Speaker 4: inject you? And like I'm like, I didn't ask for that, Like.

1405
00:58:18,280 --> 00:58:20,480
Speaker 1: This is this is supposed to be a doctor.

1406
00:58:20,360 --> 00:58:20,640
Speaker 5: I know.

1407
00:58:21,840 --> 00:58:25,560
Speaker 4: So it's all the same with this, okay. But one

1408
00:58:25,560 --> 00:58:27,800
Speaker 4: time I went I had this rash on my stomach

1409
00:58:28,000 --> 00:58:32,200
Speaker 4: and not to brag, and I went to the dermatologist

1410
00:58:33,280 --> 00:58:35,919
Speaker 4: and she's like looking at my stomach and she's like, oh,

1411
00:58:36,800 --> 00:58:42,680
Speaker 4: this looks like secondary syphilis. And I was like, I

1412
00:58:42,680 --> 00:58:46,000
Speaker 4: have an STD that I missed the whole first round

1413
00:58:46,040 --> 00:58:49,480
Speaker 4: of it and I'm on the second round. I was

1414
00:58:49,480 --> 00:58:51,760
Speaker 4: so free. It wasn't that, but like there was a

1415
00:58:51,840 --> 00:58:54,920
Speaker 4: day where I was like, I'm wow, I'm living in

1416
00:58:54,960 --> 00:58:58,440
Speaker 4: a dumpster. Line wasn't true. No, it wasn't that. It

1417
00:58:58,520 --> 00:59:01,480
Speaker 4: was just literally like nothing.

1418
00:59:00,040 --> 00:59:04,000
Speaker 3: You don't even have the original version.

1419
00:59:04,120 --> 00:59:08,120
Speaker 4: No, I know the sequel, and you're so I just

1420
00:59:08,520 --> 00:59:09,560
Speaker 4: missed a whole version.

1421
00:59:10,520 --> 00:59:12,160
Speaker 2: I love you so much, Esther, thank you for being

1422
00:59:12,160 --> 00:59:14,320
Speaker 2: here for this special show. I mentioned at the start

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00:59:14,320 --> 00:59:16,040
Speaker 2: of the show, this is the Nicky Laser Podcast and

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00:59:16,200 --> 00:59:18,200
Speaker 2: we are a part of the International Women's Day celebration

1425
00:59:18,360 --> 00:59:21,520
Speaker 2: this week and For more programming honoring the incredible women

1426
00:59:21,560 --> 00:59:24,400
Speaker 2: at the network and worldwide, head over to iHeart Podcast

1427
00:59:24,480 --> 00:59:28,280
Speaker 2: International Women's Day feed by searching Women Take the Mic.

1428
00:59:28,440 --> 00:59:29,800
Speaker 3: Wherever you look for your podcast.

1429
00:59:29,920 --> 00:59:33,920
Speaker 2: We are featured alongside such shows as Dear Chelsea, you

1430
00:59:33,960 --> 00:59:36,520
Speaker 2: Know That Chelsea Handler Show and very special episodes with

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00:59:36,600 --> 00:59:40,120
Speaker 2: Danish Schwartz That's Women Take the Mic on the iHeartRadio

1432
00:59:40,120 --> 00:59:42,320
Speaker 2: app or wherever you get your podcasts.

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00:59:42,680 --> 00:59:45,520
Speaker 3: Esther, I love you so much. Thank you for coming

1434
00:59:45,520 --> 00:59:46,480
Speaker 3: on eight months pregnant.

1435
00:59:46,680 --> 00:59:47,800
Speaker 2: When I asked you to be here, I was like,

1436
00:59:47,840 --> 00:59:50,080
Speaker 2: there's no way, and you said yes, and you drove

1437
00:59:50,080 --> 00:59:51,240
Speaker 2: all the way here, and I love you so much.

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00:59:51,280 --> 00:59:52,800
Speaker 4: Thank you. And I'm so sad that you're going to

1439
00:59:52,840 --> 00:59:54,280
Speaker 4: be out of town for my movie premiere.

1440
00:59:54,440 --> 00:59:54,720
Speaker 1: I know.

1441
00:59:54,840 --> 00:59:55,360
Speaker 3: Oh my god.

1442
00:59:55,360 --> 00:59:56,840
Speaker 2: Can we talk about that. You have a new movie

1443
00:59:56,880 --> 00:59:58,400
Speaker 2: coming out called drug Store June.

1444
00:59:58,160 --> 00:59:59,280
Speaker 4: Which we tried to get you in.

1445
00:59:59,520 --> 01:00:04,000
Speaker 3: You're busy. I can't wait to see this.

1446
01:00:04,040 --> 01:00:05,880
Speaker 2: You got to check out the trailer for drug Store June.

1447
01:00:06,000 --> 01:00:08,880
Speaker 2: Esther's new movie coming out. When is it coming out?

1448
01:00:08,880 --> 01:00:10,960
Speaker 2: And where can people find it? I cannot wait to

1449
01:00:10,960 --> 01:00:11,240
Speaker 2: see this.

1450
01:00:11,320 --> 01:00:15,840
Speaker 4: Select Theater Server twenty third, Expanding Cities March first, it's

1451
01:00:15,840 --> 01:00:21,080
Speaker 4: my birthday. My mind's March second, twin. But yeah, I'm

1452
01:00:21,160 --> 01:00:23,080
Speaker 4: I'm really excited for people to see it. I know

1453
01:00:23,120 --> 01:00:25,360
Speaker 4: you'll love it. Also, when you were on my show

1454
01:00:25,360 --> 01:00:27,160
Speaker 4: alone together, it was the best day of my life.

1455
01:00:27,200 --> 01:00:30,120
Speaker 4: You're such a funny actress, like I'm gonna make you

1456
01:00:30,240 --> 01:00:32,760
Speaker 4: be like a movie start like you. I know you

1457
01:00:32,800 --> 01:00:35,840
Speaker 4: never want to do stuff because you're just like you

1458
01:00:35,920 --> 01:00:36,760
Speaker 4: just want to be you.

1459
01:00:36,760 --> 01:00:38,320
Speaker 2: You made me feel so good that day because you

1460
01:00:38,360 --> 01:00:41,120
Speaker 2: are such a naturally amazing actress. I can't wait to

1461
01:00:41,120 --> 01:00:43,320
Speaker 2: see you in this I thank you for asking me

1462
01:00:43,360 --> 01:00:44,000
Speaker 2: to be in your movie.

1463
01:00:44,000 --> 01:00:44,680
Speaker 3: That was so nice.

1464
01:00:44,680 --> 01:00:46,360
Speaker 2: I wish I could have made that day work because

1465
01:00:46,560 --> 01:00:48,040
Speaker 2: I can't wait to see next one.

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01:00:48,080 --> 01:00:50,800
Speaker 4: You're gonna whatever I'm doing next year, Well, I'm gonna

1467
01:00:50,800 --> 01:00:53,760
Speaker 4: be a movie together with you all the time. Yes,

1468
01:00:53,960 --> 01:00:55,600
Speaker 4: let's let's actually talk about.

1469
01:00:55,480 --> 01:00:57,200
Speaker 3: Going to start that right all right?

1470
01:00:57,200 --> 01:00:59,080
Speaker 2: Guys, thank you for listening to podcasts. Don't be cut

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01:00:59,080 --> 01:01:00,320
Speaker 2: and we'll see you next time.

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Speaker 4: By me,