Speaker 1: It's time to Catch a Cheater. Only on the Table Show,
Speaker 1: Kim is on the phone today for to Catch a Cheater.
Speaker 1: She's been with her husband Rob for four years, but
Speaker 1: now she thinks something might be going on. So in
Speaker 1: a few minutes, we're going to call and see if
Speaker 1: we can catch him if he is cheating, but hopefully
Speaker 1: he's not. Kim, what's going on? Why do you think
Speaker 1: Bob might be cheating on you?
Speaker 2: Basically when we met, we met at a time when
Speaker 2: we were just kind of done with the whole dating scene.
Speaker 2: Bob had actually been married before before we met. They
Speaker 2: separated amicably. They all still keep in touch. You know.
Speaker 2: They had met at Berkeley and they both were kind
Speaker 2: of like weird hippie type, so they clicked. Rob, in
Speaker 2: his own words, is kind of like grown up since then,
Speaker 2: and he's happy where he's at. We don't really fight
Speaker 2: much at all, and he's never really been the laundering
Speaker 2: eye type of guy. He still is very loving and doting,
Speaker 2: and after forty years, like he still treats me to
Speaker 2: romantic nights out and gives me gifts and buys me flowers.
Speaker 3: That kind of.
Speaker 2: Feels a little silly that I'm even calling.
Speaker 3: But basically.
Speaker 2: Rob's ex wife, Emily, like I said, they still talk
Speaker 2: a little bit. We've met a few times. She's been
Speaker 2: our wedding. She's wonderful. They have a son, but he's
Speaker 2: grown and older, and nothing like trying them really together much,
Speaker 2: you know. And also with having a son, I understand
Speaker 2: there's going to be co parenting, there's going to be
Speaker 2: conversations together and stuff.
Speaker 4: So that's not a.
Speaker 3: Problem with me.
Speaker 2: They are on good terms and I appreciate that. I've
Speaker 2: never felt threatened by his relationship with her until lately.
Speaker 2: So basically the last three weeks, it seems like they've
Speaker 2: been talking a lot more than usual. Again, not like
Speaker 2: a big deal, but he's been secretive about it, like
Speaker 2: when she calls, he kind of leaves the room or
Speaker 2: text he'll like get up and walk away. I've tried
Speaker 2: really hard not to pry. He's a drama free kind
Speaker 2: of guy, so he's very open and usually shares everything
Speaker 2: with me. So I thought it was weird that he
Speaker 2: was kind of sneaking away sim if there's anything wrong,
Speaker 2: if there was anything I could do to help him,
Speaker 2: you know, because he seemed a little closed off and
Speaker 2: he just basically responded like, don't worry, I'm handling things
Speaker 2: and left it at that.
Speaker 3: So I don't know.
Speaker 2: I just want to know if there's something I need
Speaker 2: to worry about, if he's rekindling something with his ex,
Speaker 2: or maybe there's something more.
Speaker 4: I just don't know. That's something that's super vague.
Speaker 5: He says, I'm handling it, and it makes it sound
Speaker 5: like there's a problem.
Speaker 2: I don't know. It's not like it was an emergency situation.
Speaker 2: It just seems like I don't know. They're having a conversation.
Speaker 2: He doesn't want me to see it or hear it,
Speaker 2: And that's.
Speaker 1: Yeah, strange. It's been four years and everything's been cool,
Speaker 1: and now you're having concerns. That means something's changed.
Speaker 4: You'd be surprising you.
Speaker 1: Yeah, like your birthday son.
Speaker 2: The other thing is, like you know, I said, she
Speaker 2: and I are.
Speaker 3: We're not close by any means we.
Speaker 4: Know each other.
Speaker 2: But it would be weird that he.
Speaker 3: Would plan something.
Speaker 4: Good.
Speaker 1: That'd be a strange person to plan your birthday. Would
Speaker 1: all right, well, well, yeah, plays song come back. You
Speaker 1: already told us a grocery store he's a rewards card
Speaker 1: member at, so we'll call and pretend to be from
Speaker 1: the grocery store and say that every single month, we
Speaker 1: choose one random Rewards card member who gets free flowers
Speaker 1: delivered from our Floria department, and we'll see if he
Speaker 1: sends them to you or to somebody else. Okay, sounds good,
Speaker 1: Thank you, I appreciate it. Plaus On, come back and
Speaker 1: get you to catch a cheeter next, if you're just
Speaker 1: joining us for today's to Catch a Cheater. Kim is
Speaker 1: on the phone and she's been married to her husband,
Speaker 1: Bob for four years, but now she thinks he might
Speaker 1: be cheating. So in a second, we're going to call
Speaker 1: him and pretend to be from the grocery store that
Speaker 1: he's a rewards card member at, and say that every
Speaker 1: single month, we choose one rewards member who gets free
Speaker 1: flowers delivered from our floral department, totally free, and see
Speaker 1: if he believes us, and if he does, see who
Speaker 1: he sends them to, if he sends them to his
Speaker 1: wife or to someone else. So, Kim, before we do that,
Speaker 1: why don't you catch everybody up on your situation.
Speaker 2: Yeah, my husband husband Bob, and I have been married
Speaker 2: for four years. He was previously married to his ex
Speaker 2: wife Emily. They stay in communication, but not much, and
Speaker 2: lately he's been sneaking off to speak with her and
Speaker 2: it's making me question thing.
Speaker 1: Okay, all right, you ready? First to Colin? Yeah, okay,
Speaker 1: here we go.
Speaker 3: Hello.
Speaker 1: Hi, this is Corbyn calling from So I was looking
Speaker 1: for our Rewards card member named Bob.
Speaker 3: Yeah, that's me, Bob.
Speaker 1: Please don't hang up. This is not a market phone call.
Speaker 1: I'm actually calling to say congrats. Here this month's big winner.
Speaker 3: Oho. What surpris or is there? Yeah?
Speaker 1: Every single month we choose one Rewards Card member to
Speaker 1: say thank you very much for shopping with us and
Speaker 1: being a loyal customer. You've just won thirty six long
Speaker 1: stem red roses, a box of chocolates, and a card
Speaker 1: to be delivered to anybody that you want within the
Speaker 1: fifty United States.
Speaker 3: Oh cool, awesome.
Speaker 1: I can take the information down over the phone.
Speaker 3: I know go one going to send it, so I
Speaker 3: can tell you over the phone.
Speaker 1: So first I'll need the first last name of the
Speaker 1: person who'd likes to send them to.
Speaker 3: Kim. Okay, same as mine. We're married.
Speaker 1: Oh, your this is your wife.
Speaker 3: In my life. Yeah.
Speaker 1: Anything you want to put on a card?
Speaker 3: Uh sure, I'll say I love you and we should talk.
Speaker 1: Sim Well, I guess you can talk to her right now,
Speaker 1: because Bob, this is actually the Jewbill Show. It's a
Speaker 1: radio show. My name is jeubel Hi, I'm Nina Hi,
Speaker 1: and I'm Victoria and we do a segment on the
Speaker 1: show called to Catch a Cheater where if you think
Speaker 1: your significant other mind me messing around, you can try
Speaker 1: to see what they send flowers to. And your wife,
Speaker 1: Kim is actually on the phone, Taba.
Speaker 3: See what's up. Why I'm a little bit college guard.
Speaker 3: Why did you set this up?
Speaker 2: Well, I am. I wasn't really sure what else to do.
Speaker 2: I kind of feel like there's something going on with
Speaker 2: Emily that you're not telling me.
Speaker 3: You're right, yeah, are you?
Speaker 2: Yeah?
Speaker 3: I mean there's yeah. So I don't really want to
Speaker 3: be doing this over the sun. But Emily, as I've
Speaker 3: told you, is still working in economic development. She's developing
Speaker 3: programs around the US. She's obviously had a more lucrative
Speaker 3: career than me, so the hippie stuff that we used
Speaker 3: to do did not help me in the same way
Speaker 3: as you have joked. She's an economic specialist. As I've
Speaker 3: told you that she recently started a new job at
Speaker 3: the Peace Corps and she's being sent abroad to a
Speaker 3: particularly dangerous place. But there is a good chance that
Speaker 3: she won't come back. Yeah, So we've been communicating more
Speaker 3: than we normally do since the news of her relocation.
Speaker 2: Wow, I mean I believe that because I know you
Speaker 2: did mention.
Speaker 4: That she was working for the Peace Corps.
Speaker 2: But I still don't understand why the sinking around.
Speaker 3: So it's pretty sensitive information, Like she didn't I ever
Speaker 3: want to say what she's doing over there, and so
Speaker 3: she wanted to meet me in person, and I suspected
Speaker 3: that she wanted to tell me something other than just
Speaker 3: details about the job. I suspected maybe she felt something
Speaker 3: for me, and I was right. She said that she
Speaker 3: still loved me very much, and I was clear about
Speaker 3: the fact that I love my wife, you Kim. Last
Speaker 3: week we talked for some time and she told me this.
Speaker 3: She wanted to tell me in person before she left
Speaker 3: because there's a solid chance that she never would see
Speaker 3: me again. She told you that she still loved you.
Speaker 4: Great, she's just going to be working over there and
Speaker 4: not coming back. Like, what are you saying?
Speaker 5: Yeah, because this is kind of intense, like it's I
Speaker 5: don't know this said the time it's changed.
Speaker 3: It is really intense. I mean the nature of her
Speaker 3: work over there and just the location. It's like incredibly dangerous.
Speaker 4: So there is a So of course.
Speaker 5: You say that you love somebody if you think that
Speaker 5: this is going to be the end, right, I don't understand,
Speaker 5: But okay.
Speaker 4: I understand that I do.
Speaker 3: But she expressed feelings for me and we did have sex.
Speaker 1: Oh wow, whoa.
Speaker 3: Okay, I am really ashamed of it, and it was
Speaker 3: a mutual choice to do it. I regret it. I
Speaker 3: think in the moment it felt like I might never
Speaker 3: see this person again.
Speaker 1: Is that what you said you need to talk about
Speaker 1: in the card?
Speaker 3: Yeah? Yeah, I've been planning to tell you today or
Speaker 3: the next time we got a chance. I know we've
Speaker 3: been in and out the last few days. I haven't
Speaker 3: really called each other at a good time.
Speaker 5: But I know I don't know a lot about the
Speaker 5: Peace Corps. But is it normal for them to be
Speaker 5: in places that are so dangerous that they're risking their
Speaker 5: lives to this extreme? I thought sometimes or is this
Speaker 5: her using this as a way to get to you
Speaker 5: by saying that I'm not going to see you, because
Speaker 5: that's also really disturbing.
Speaker 2: I I kind of don't know what to say right now.
Speaker 2: Obviously we need to talk in person. Yeah, I just
Speaker 2: think I'm sorry that we went about it this way.
Speaker 2: But yeah, I'm going to probably come home right now
Speaker 2: and we'll talk about this.
Speaker 4: You're apologizing to him.
Speaker 5: I told you that he slept with his exy mostly.
Speaker 2: To you guys in the listener right now that Oh.
Speaker 1: Don't apologize us, go handle your business. I mean, it's totally, totally, totally.
Speaker 1: I'm glad you found out, even though it sounds like
Speaker 1: Bob was going to tell you anyway, but you never know.
Speaker 3: Yeah, I'm sorry for a lot of reasons and a
Speaker 3: lot of things, but I'm also sorry for you finding
Speaker 3: out this way.
Speaker 2: I'll be it.
Speaker 3: I'll be at home, okay, all.
Speaker 1: Right, Well, kim uh let us know if we can
Speaker 1: help in any way.
Speaker 2: Yeah, thank you guys, thanks for having me on the show.
Speaker 3: I appreciate it.
Speaker 4: I'm sorry for all of the things. Good luck, Thank you.
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