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Speaker 1: Ever been left waiting by the phone.

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Speaker 2: It's the Fred Show.

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Speaker 3: Manda, good morning, Hi, good morning, how are you very well?

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Speaker 1: Thanks for being here with us waiting by the phone.

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Speaker 1: How can we help you? What's going on with this guy, Charlie?

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Speaker 1: Tell us about any dates that you've been on and

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Speaker 1: what's happening now.

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Speaker 3: Yeah, So I went on a date with this, like

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Speaker 3: you said, this guy, Charlie. We went out to dinner.

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Speaker 3: It was going like really well, he was funny, we

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Speaker 3: got you know, like the vice were just like totally there,

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Speaker 3: and I was totally expecting to have a second date

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Speaker 3: with him. And I have not heard from him, Like

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Speaker 3: I just have no clue. He's like completely ghosted me.

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Speaker 3: And I just was hoping you could help me out

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Speaker 3: and figuring out.

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Speaker 2: Like what happened.

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Speaker 1: Okay, So you go on this date and you guys

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Speaker 1: are just like the chemistry is good, conversation's good. Which, yeah,

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Speaker 1: you always take that risk. You met on bumble, so

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Speaker 1: you always take that risk of their being you know,

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Speaker 1: kind of cool chemistry. Maybe with tech, even if you

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Speaker 1: FaceTime or talk on the phone, like you know, that's

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Speaker 1: one thing with that in person, you know, you can't

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Speaker 1: account for.

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Speaker 3: That exactly, and like I was worried that it wouldn't transition,

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Speaker 3: but it completely did. After the date, you know, I

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Speaker 3: gave him a ride home. He edited it with like

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Speaker 3: a little peck on the cheek. It was really sweet,

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Speaker 3: and I was like totally looking for the second date,

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Speaker 3: and I mean I've been getting like nothing from him.

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Speaker 1: Okay, all right, well that all sounds pretty good. So

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Speaker 1: you know, let's call this guy Charlie. Not very many times,

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Speaker 1: but sometimes we get a reasonable explanation as to why

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Speaker 1: somebody has disappeared. Actually we almost never do, but but

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Speaker 1: maybe maybe this is the time one of the few

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Speaker 1: times that this guy's gonna say, look, something happened. I'm

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Speaker 1: really sorry, and then we can set you guys up

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Speaker 1: on another date that we pay for. Can you hang

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Speaker 1: on for a second, I'm gonna play one song.

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Speaker 2: We'll be right back.

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Speaker 3: Yeah, I'm great.

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Speaker 2: You've got to hear what happens next.

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Speaker 1: In parts, you're waiting by the phone after Nicki minaj

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Speaker 1: back in two minutes, the friends Amanda, Yeah, all right, hey,

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Speaker 1: let's called Charlie. You guys been on bumble, you went out,

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Speaker 1: had a great time. There's chemistry. You really felt good

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Speaker 1: about your meeting. You dropped the guy off a peck

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Speaker 1: on the cheek you told us about, except now he

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Speaker 1: is nowhere to be found. He's not reached out to you.

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Speaker 1: He's not responding to you. You're being ghosted. You want

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Speaker 1: to know why exactly? Yeah, okay, let's call him now

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Speaker 1: and see if we can figure this out.

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Speaker 2: Good luck?

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Speaker 3: Okay, thinks?

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Speaker 1: Hi is this Charlie? Hey Charlie, Good morning Fred. The

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Speaker 1: whole crew is here from the Fred Show. I'm sorry

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Speaker 1: to bother, but I do have to tell you that

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Speaker 1: we are on the radio right now and I would

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Speaker 1: need your consent to continue with the calls. That okay

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Speaker 1: if we chat for a minute.

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Speaker 3: Yeah, Oh, what's up?

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Speaker 2: Guys, Thank you very much.

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Speaker 1: We're calling on behalf of a woman named Amanda says

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Speaker 1: she met you on bumble and you, guys, I guess,

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Speaker 1: went on a date and remember this girl?

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Speaker 2: Yeah, okay, you do well.

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Speaker 1: He told us about what she thought was a successful date,

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Speaker 1: but said, since she hasn't heard from you, you haven't

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Speaker 1: responded to her, So can you tell us why you're ghosting?

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Speaker 4: Yeah?

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Speaker 5: Well, we you know, we went on a date. We

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Speaker 5: had dinner, I had taken a you know, I had

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Speaker 5: taken an uber to the date and she had had

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Speaker 5: a car.

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Speaker 6: So after we had dinner, she offered.

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Speaker 5: To drive me home and I agreed, And so when

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Speaker 5: I went to her car, it was like a horror movie.

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Speaker 5: Everything changed in my mind.

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Speaker 2: It was like that, like, what do you what do

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Speaker 2: you mean?

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Speaker 1: A horror movie would be like blood and guts, his

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Speaker 1: blood and guts in this woman's car.

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Speaker 2: It may as well have been. It was.

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Speaker 6: There was clothing, shoes, garbage everywhere.

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Speaker 5: I mean, like, I think I saw a rat run by.

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Speaker 5: It was.

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Speaker 6: It was insane.

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Speaker 2: Oh wow, that is pretty gross.

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Speaker 6: Oh man, it was. I couldn't.

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Speaker 5: I couldn't to get out of that car.

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Speaker 2: You can't look past it, though, I mean, is that bad?

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Speaker 1: Like what do you what's your concern is that if

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Speaker 1: if the car is is dirty, that like her house

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Speaker 1: is also dirty? Or I mean, is that like you

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Speaker 1: know that she's disorganized, not just that.

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Speaker 6: You know what they say, dirt, dirty car dirty?

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Speaker 2: Who wait, are you kidding me? Wait what you guys

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Speaker 2: have never heard that?

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Speaker 1: No, no, no.

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Speaker 4: I didn't.

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Speaker 2: I didn't make it up another regions.

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Speaker 1: Okay, so you're saying that, And by the way, I

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Speaker 1: forgot to mention that Amanda's here, So Amanda, your car

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Speaker 1: is dirt?

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Speaker 2: Is your car dirty? Admittedly?

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Speaker 3: I am so disgusted right now, Like I cannot be.

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Speaker 2: Believe you just said that. Okay, but is your car up?

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Speaker 2: I agree? But is your car dirty? Bill? It was

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Speaker 3: I mean, yeah, yeah, I'm like in between cleaning's right

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Speaker 3: now and I'm like moving out of my apartment. So yeah,

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Speaker 3: there's like a lot of stuff in there. But like,

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Speaker 3: I just cannot believe he's judging me for that. I

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Speaker 3: was nice enough to give him a ride home, Like,

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Speaker 3: I'm yeah, I'm dirty.

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Speaker 2: I don't no.

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Speaker 1: One's ever said what he's I don't. I don't think

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Speaker 1: that's a real thing what he said. But I mean

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Speaker 1: I will say that if someone's house is really gross,

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Speaker 1: or if their car is really gross, then I kind

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Speaker 1: of got to wonder how they how well they take

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Speaker 1: care of themselves. I'm not suggesting that that particular part

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Speaker 1: of your body as an issue, but I mean, like,

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Speaker 1: if everything around you is dirty, then why why would

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Speaker 1: I think that you're clean?

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Speaker 3: Because I have a busy lifestyle.

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Speaker 4: It doesn't mean that I don't have time to shower.

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Speaker 4: It just means that I don't have, you know, the

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Speaker 4: thirty minutes out of the day to take to clean

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Speaker 4: my car. Like, it's not that big of a deal.

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Speaker 4: I think a lot of people.

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Speaker 3: Have gross, dirty cars, and that does not make them

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Speaker 3: a dirty person. You just throw something over your shoulder,

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Speaker 3: like you know, in the back seat, it's not a

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Speaker 3: big deal.

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Speaker 1: No, you do not just throw something over your happy

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Speaker 2: We'll get to it someday.

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Speaker 1: So you're gonna stand by whatever you said that if

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Speaker 1: the cars gross, then she must be gross, and and

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Speaker 1: so you're not interested.

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Speaker 5: Look, it doesn't get to that level unless uh, something

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Speaker 5: is out of order.

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Speaker 1: Okay, but you you talked to her, you saw pictures

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Speaker 1: of her, you met her. You you didn't get that

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Speaker 3: Yeah, like I said, it was.

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Speaker 6: It was that moment in the horror movie where the

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Speaker 6: where the where the very fast dark music plays and

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Speaker 6: everything comes, you know, every everything comes to you. Look

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Speaker 6: And and if her cars like that, I'm sure her

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Speaker 6: brain's a mass too.

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Speaker 1: Oh Okay, So this is a metaphor, is what you're saying.

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Speaker 1: So the nether regions are no good the brain's no good. Yeah,

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Speaker 1: I mean, I will.

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Speaker 5: Say, it tells me everything I need to know.

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Speaker 1: If the cars gross, the house is gross, that wouldn't

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Speaker 1: work out for me, just because I like to sort

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Speaker 1: of be organized and clean. But I don't know that

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Speaker 1: I would go as far as to assume, I assume

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Speaker 1: that someone's stuff is not good. But I mean, I

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Speaker 1: guess I would say, what's the point in taking a shower,

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Speaker 1: Amanda and getting all cleaned up and all, you know,

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Speaker 1: if you're just gonna get into a nasty car or

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Speaker 1: if your house isn't clean. I mean, seriously, like, I'm

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Speaker 1: not trying to get the showers roll around in the dirt.

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Speaker 2: That's kind of a reach.

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Speaker 3: Well, no, that's that's that's ridiculous. Are you trying to

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Speaker 3: tell me that like a bus, a city bus is

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Speaker 3: super clean, or a subway or a tax do you

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Speaker 3: a debt in the same thing?

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Speaker 2: Those things get clean? Yeah compared to your car? Yeah right,

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Speaker 2: privates aren't touching our car. See, come on, at least

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Speaker 2: as many options on the CTA. I don't have to

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Speaker 2: sit in the filth.

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Speaker 5: Yeah, you know, you don't walk onto a bus and

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Speaker 5: see the bus driver's clothes drying all over the set.

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Speaker 2: He's just throwing over his shoulder.

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Speaker 1: Ye, I'm doing this, takes it, takes his beer can

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Speaker 1: and throws it over his shoulder. All right, so not

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Speaker 1: a match. I guess aman that you're disgusted. He's a

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Speaker 1: little crass and disgusted.

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Speaker 4: So guys, yeah, I think I dodged a bullet.

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Speaker 1: Okay, well I think he thinks that. I think he

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Speaker 1: dodged some guy.

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Speaker 2: That's not cool.

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Speaker 1: I don't I don't agree with that, but okay, all right,

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Speaker 1: guys here I know the guy who doesn't change his

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Speaker 1: ownywhere overright here? Now, all of a sudden, he's he's

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Speaker 1: concerned about this woman. Man, I'm sorry. Best of luck

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Speaker 1: to you, Charlie, thank you for your time.

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Speaker 2: I mean, I guess it's really happening.

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Speaker 1: Caitlin the entertainment report where well, maybe you shouldn't. I

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Speaker 1: have a lot to say. Two minutes from that we'll

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Speaker 1: do with the French shows up.