WEBVTT - Issa Husband Part 2 0:00:01.320 --> 0:00:06.280 Talk, talk Talk. We're just two unapologetically black women with 0:00:06.360 --> 0:00:08.200 an opinion who talks. 0:00:09.960 --> 0:00:10.240 Y'all. 0:00:10.240 --> 0:00:12.119 Thank you for tuning up for a new episode of 0:00:12.280 --> 0:00:15.120 We Talked Back, a show dedicated to all. 0:00:15.000 --> 0:00:18.640 You dreamers and chasers and niggas and bitches. 0:00:18.720 --> 0:00:21.200 Oh wait, we dreamers and chasers this week. Last week, 0:00:21.280 --> 0:00:31.680 y'all was niggas and bitches, y'all. People, All, y'all, family, A. 0:00:32.320 --> 0:00:32.960 Y'all, what's up? 0:00:33.000 --> 0:00:36.520 Tam, hey boo, it's me Tam Bam. I love y'all 0:00:36.520 --> 0:00:38.080 once again. I don't know if I told y'all that 0:00:38.159 --> 0:00:38.879 last week, but I. 0:00:38.840 --> 0:00:40.440 Do, probably giggling too much. 0:00:41.280 --> 0:00:42.320 Yeah, how was your weekend? 0:00:42.560 --> 0:00:43.080 It was good? 0:00:43.400 --> 0:00:43.559 Uh? 0:00:43.680 --> 0:00:44.680 What did I do this weekend? 0:00:44.680 --> 0:00:44.839 Oh? 0:00:44.920 --> 0:00:47.640 Girl, I was doing some nice things this weekend. 0:00:47.640 --> 0:00:50.639 So one of my friends and we're gonna have them 0:00:50.680 --> 0:00:54.160 on the show to talk about cosmetic surgery at one point. 0:00:54.200 --> 0:00:56.840 At some point, Lord, I keep talking about it, but 0:00:56.880 --> 0:00:58.520 it's gonna be a very good episode. 0:00:58.560 --> 0:01:00.480 I think it's actually need yet. 0:01:00.600 --> 0:01:05.080 But one of my friends, she's a she's a cosmetic surgeon, surgeon. 0:01:05.240 --> 0:01:09.720 She had her birthday dinner this weekend on a yacht, 0:01:09.840 --> 0:01:12.039 child at three bedroom yacht. That shit was like a 0:01:12.120 --> 0:01:14.199 damn luxury townhouse right quick. 0:01:14.520 --> 0:01:17.360 I saw you on their real nice Who the fuck she? 0:01:17.800 --> 0:01:18.479 How comes she eat? 0:01:20.000 --> 0:01:21.920 It was right here in Charleston, girl, Because y'all know, 0:01:21.920 --> 0:01:23.640 I was born in Paradise. A lot of people don't 0:01:23.680 --> 0:01:27.240 appreciate how beautiful this city is. But you gotta have 0:01:27.319 --> 0:01:29.560 a boat to really see what the fuck is going on. 0:01:29.640 --> 0:01:33.360 These white folks be everywhere, small islands all over. They 0:01:33.480 --> 0:01:36.240 just be pulling up to the sandbars and chilling on 0:01:36.319 --> 0:01:39.479 a nice Sunday Saturday afternoon. Like we just don't get 0:01:39.480 --> 0:01:42.600 to experience that often unless you know some niggas with 0:01:42.680 --> 0:01:45.360 a boat. But they actually have a boat club out here, 0:01:45.360 --> 0:01:48.040 which we should probably put some money together and join. 0:01:48.120 --> 0:01:52.120 It's five thousand dollars right now. You can you can 0:01:52.160 --> 0:01:54.720 rent a yacht as much as you want for the year. 0:01:56.600 --> 0:01:57.400 Oh that's not bad. 0:01:57.440 --> 0:02:01.840 It's really not up apiece exactly. So I don't know 0:02:01.840 --> 0:02:06.279 how they go about figuring out like who actually signed 0:02:06.320 --> 0:02:07.880 up for it? But why wouldn't you be able to 0:02:07.880 --> 0:02:09.840 split that with somebody else? And or maybe we just 0:02:09.880 --> 0:02:11.520 always have to be together when we go on it, 0:02:11.560 --> 0:02:14.000 but we can have other people. Yeah, I want to 0:02:14.040 --> 0:02:16.840 do that, so That's what I did. We was on 0:02:16.880 --> 0:02:18.720 the yacht Ya riding around. 0:02:18.760 --> 0:02:20.880 We did have something one of those, and we have 0:02:20.960 --> 0:02:22.440 an episode called We Talked Yacht. 0:02:28.880 --> 0:02:30.239 You know, I had to bring the mic on the 0:02:30.320 --> 0:02:32.960 yacht because I am I'm not really paying entertainment, but 0:02:33.000 --> 0:02:33.919 I traveled with a mic. 0:02:34.000 --> 0:02:34.920 Bitch, it was lit. 0:02:35.280 --> 0:02:39.560 Okay, I gotta do all the things and make sure 0:02:39.639 --> 0:02:41.400 niggas hear me what you had going up? 0:02:41.880 --> 0:02:44.640 Well, your weekend was much more eventful than mine. I 0:02:44.680 --> 0:02:46.440 didn't do much. 0:02:46.280 --> 0:02:49.160 Of anything, but you want to see Beyonce twice last week? 0:02:49.200 --> 0:02:50.800 Okay, just flex a little bit. 0:02:50.919 --> 0:02:52.160 You Yeah, sut your ass down. 0:02:52.200 --> 0:02:53.959 I'm mad, Yeah, I did. 0:02:54.040 --> 0:02:56.919 I set my ass down to mind my business. That's it. 0:02:57.680 --> 0:03:01.359 Nothing entertaining happened for me. Let's get in the stupid 0:03:01.360 --> 0:03:02.160 internet news. 0:03:03.200 --> 0:03:04.040 What we got going on? 0:03:04.160 --> 0:03:04.480 Child? 0:03:05.600 --> 0:03:06.880 This goddamn gunplay. 0:03:06.919 --> 0:03:08.880 Now, I thought he was a maniac when I saw 0:03:08.960 --> 0:03:13.760 him giving gifts and the shit to Ricky Rose laying 0:03:13.800 --> 0:03:17.000 in his bed in his bedroom. But apparently this man 0:03:17.080 --> 0:03:21.320 has now pulled a gun out on the woman, the 0:03:21.360 --> 0:03:24.639 mother of his child, actually pulled a gun out on 0:03:24.680 --> 0:03:26.520 both of them, essentially because she's holding the baby, a 0:03:26.560 --> 0:03:28.600 six month old, so he's face safe. 0:03:28.760 --> 0:03:29.560 His wife as well. 0:03:29.639 --> 0:03:32.560 Oh they're married. Okay, excuse me, they're married. So now 0:03:32.600 --> 0:03:35.720 this gunplay is I believe he's forty four, his wife 0:03:35.760 --> 0:03:38.040 is forty three. So these are grown ass adults with 0:03:38.080 --> 0:03:42.320 a small child. I think he has multiple kids. He 0:03:42.520 --> 0:03:46.440 is now facing multiple charges including assault with the deadly weapon, 0:03:46.560 --> 0:03:50.360 false imprisonment, and child abuse. According to the Reporter and 0:03:50.400 --> 0:03:52.960 the Slater, gunplays accused of pointing a rifle at his 0:03:53.000 --> 0:03:56.800 wife while she was holding their six month old child, 0:03:57.080 --> 0:03:59.560 and his wife is done with the shit essentially. 0:04:01.640 --> 0:04:04.760 Yeah, I mean, that's that's awful. It's awful to have anyone. 0:04:04.880 --> 0:04:06.880 Have you ever had someone point a gun at you before? 0:04:07.000 --> 0:04:08.480 It's not a fun thing. 0:04:08.600 --> 0:04:11.440 I have had it happen somebody else's man trying to 0:04:11.480 --> 0:04:12.040 save a hole. 0:04:12.800 --> 0:04:14.320 Yes, has happened to me. 0:04:15.400 --> 0:04:18.440 Yeah, same, Not somebody else's man, somebody Well, yeah, it 0:04:18.520 --> 0:04:20.719 was actually someone else's man. But he was playing with 0:04:20.800 --> 0:04:23.000 a gun and woke me up with a gun pointed 0:04:23.040 --> 0:04:25.520 at my head because he thought it was funny. Yeah, 0:04:25.560 --> 0:04:27.640 I had that happened to me as he thought it 0:04:27.680 --> 0:04:29.520 was a funny, like, oh, let's wake her up with 0:04:29.600 --> 0:04:32.440 a gun at her head ha ha ha, Like for real, 0:04:32.520 --> 0:04:34.360 that's not sir, the guy that happened to me. It's 0:04:34.400 --> 0:04:36.880 not funny at all. It's not a nice way to 0:04:36.880 --> 0:04:40.280 wake anybody up. But I couldn't imagine my husband while 0:04:40.279 --> 0:04:43.040 I'm holding our six month old baby, pointing a gun 0:04:43.120 --> 0:04:45.440 at me because I asked him to be quiet while 0:04:45.480 --> 0:04:49.280 he's playing a video game, and that's what happened to her. 0:04:50.400 --> 0:04:52.640 That's crazy. Now, you do have to take a little 0:04:52.680 --> 0:04:55.360 bit of accountability for a nigga playing with a gun 0:04:55.400 --> 0:04:59.200 with you when he told you his name was Gunplay. 0:05:00.720 --> 0:05:01.400 You guys, take a. 0:05:01.440 --> 0:05:02.039 Look a. 0:05:03.680 --> 0:05:04.240 Little t t. 0:05:06.400 --> 0:05:07.200 Little tt. 0:05:09.040 --> 0:05:11.599 Oh that's terrible, Yeah, Like what the fuck? And you know, 0:05:12.240 --> 0:05:13.640 a lot of times we always have. 0:05:13.720 --> 0:05:19.240 These arguments about femininity versus masculinity, but oftentimes bad shit 0:05:19.360 --> 0:05:23.120 happens when men getting their feelings. Like the most we do, 0:05:23.200 --> 0:05:26.160 for the most part, we fight women, right, we might fight, 0:05:26.560 --> 0:05:28.599 cuss each other out and all that shit, But these 0:05:28.640 --> 0:05:32.359 men are way too emotional nowadays, Like why are you 0:05:32.480 --> 0:05:34.880 pulling a gun out? We saw how emotional he was 0:05:34.920 --> 0:05:36.680 when Dj Envy was trying to talk to him like 0:05:36.720 --> 0:05:39.440 a man on three way with Charlamagne, which I think 0:05:39.520 --> 0:05:42.720 Charlamagne asks, is messy. Don't call don't call these motherfuckers, 0:05:42.720 --> 0:05:45.920 like let them hash at it whenever whatever. But this nigga, 0:05:46.720 --> 0:05:52.160 he's a messy guy, right, unintentionally sometimes right, But we 0:05:52.200 --> 0:05:55.920 saw how emotional that dude was, then like, you know, 0:05:56.320 --> 0:05:58.599 these guys cannot handle their emotions. 0:05:59.000 --> 0:05:59.520 They can't. 0:06:00.080 --> 0:06:04.920 So now you go around abusing and victimizing people, and 0:06:05.040 --> 0:06:07.760 add drugs and alcohol on top of that, and ad 0:06:07.800 --> 0:06:10.920 feled careers on top of that. You know, I think 0:06:10.960 --> 0:06:12.760 a lot of these niggas be having money issues. Why 0:06:12.800 --> 0:06:14.920 they be mad where it's an. 0:06:14.920 --> 0:06:18.640 Ugly it's an ugly, ugly situation. And my heart goes 0:06:18.680 --> 0:06:22.440 out to her and that baby, m h, it's terrible, 0:06:22.960 --> 0:06:27.920 get out right, all right? So I found this thing 0:06:28.520 --> 0:06:30.480 happening in Japan, and I thought it was the cutest 0:06:30.480 --> 0:06:33.760 thing and pulled out my heart strings. There's a Japanese 0:06:33.920 --> 0:06:37.560 restaurant of Mistaken Orders. So in Japan, known as a 0:06:37.600 --> 0:06:41.320 super aging society, dementia is predicted to effect one in 0:06:41.440 --> 0:06:44.480 five people by twenty twenty five. That's a lot in 0:06:44.520 --> 0:06:48.240 such circumstances. An innovative social experiment has caught the attention 0:06:48.320 --> 0:06:52.040 of Japan In the world, and it's the Japanese restaurant 0:06:52.080 --> 0:06:56.159 of Mistaken Orders, where only the waiters. The waiters and 0:06:56.240 --> 0:06:59.840 waitresses are only people with dementia. You not, you gotta 0:06:59.880 --> 0:07:02.560 have dementia to get the job right. So basically they 0:07:02.600 --> 0:07:04.800 might mess up your order, they might bring you the 0:07:04.839 --> 0:07:07.719 wrong plate, but it gives these people a job, it 0:07:07.760 --> 0:07:09.920 gives them some purpose, and it gives them some love. 0:07:10.000 --> 0:07:13.640 I thought it was really dope. So the pop up 0:07:13.680 --> 0:07:19.080 restaurant comes from an encounter between the creator, shiro ogunu Ogoni, 0:07:19.480 --> 0:07:21.480 I don't know if I'm pronouncing it right, and a 0:07:21.520 --> 0:07:25.600 group home where people were with dementia live like everybody else. 0:07:25.640 --> 0:07:29.280 My awareness of dementia at first tended towards negative images 0:07:29.320 --> 0:07:33.720 of people who are radically forgetful and aimlessly wandering about. 0:07:34.080 --> 0:07:36.760 But actually they can cook, they can clean, do laundry, 0:07:36.840 --> 0:07:40.040 go shopping, and do other normal things for themselves. Close up, 0:07:40.120 --> 0:07:42.160 they might be a little off course now and then, 0:07:42.720 --> 0:07:46.040 but they can be grateful to us, and we need 0:07:46.040 --> 0:07:48.320 to be grateful of them because they are our elders. 0:07:48.680 --> 0:07:48.800 Right. 0:07:49.000 --> 0:07:50.800 Yeah, So I just thought it was dope, and it 0:07:50.880 --> 0:07:53.160 had like a lot of nice pictures of these old 0:07:53.160 --> 0:07:55.880 people bringing wrong food to the table and shit like that. 0:07:56.000 --> 0:07:58.400 It was just so cute, So I thought that was dope. 0:07:59.160 --> 0:08:01.080 Would you go to a place like that for I would, 0:08:01.080 --> 0:08:03.440 But my only concern would be, like, do I have 0:08:03.720 --> 0:08:05.760 the option to return this shit? Because like if I 0:08:05.880 --> 0:08:08.720 ordered some fish and you brought me pork, like, I'm mad, I. 0:08:08.680 --> 0:08:11.000 Can't eat that, So do I have an option to 0:08:11.040 --> 0:08:11.760 send it back? Or no? 0:08:14.360 --> 0:08:16.480 Yeah, I think maybe you do have an option to 0:08:16.520 --> 0:08:21.240 send it back. Probably, well, but chicken the next time, Like, 0:08:21.400 --> 0:08:24.120 I wouldn't even I wouldn't even go there hungry. Honestly, 0:08:24.200 --> 0:08:27.160 I would just go there and see them, Yeah, just 0:08:27.200 --> 0:08:29.360 to order a plate and just see what the fuck 0:08:29.400 --> 0:08:34.479 come out. Honestly, take a picture of plate, hug somebody grandma, 0:08:34.760 --> 0:08:38.080 and go, you know, right, So. 0:08:37.480 --> 0:08:39.120 I would, I would attend. I would go there. I 0:08:39.160 --> 0:08:40.840 would patronize that business. 0:08:41.160 --> 0:08:43.560 They should have like a black one in the US 0:08:43.720 --> 0:08:48.600 called soul soulful Mistakes, and just it'll be like soul 0:08:48.679 --> 0:08:51.319 food and you don't know what the fuck you're gonna get, 0:08:51.320 --> 0:08:52.640 But Grandma bringing it to the town. 0:08:53.000 --> 0:08:56.080 That's nice because you know, it's it's unprecedented. In mind, 0:08:56.120 --> 0:08:58.800 I'm it's kind of weird that they can predict that 0:08:58.840 --> 0:09:01.240 in twenty twenty five. By twenty twenty five, one and 0:09:01.440 --> 0:09:04.160 five people will have dementia. How do y'all come up 0:09:04.200 --> 0:09:06.160 with these numbers? How do y'all know that? What is 0:09:06.200 --> 0:09:08.720 the trajectory? Like, how do y'all know that's where we're headed? 0:09:09.000 --> 0:09:11.160 So I'm wondering, like what it looks like in America 0:09:11.200 --> 0:09:13.240 because one of my friends his mom passed away of 0:09:13.280 --> 0:09:16.520 dementia last year, and he literally said that most of 0:09:16.559 --> 0:09:19.840 the old people on his mom street, like people parents 0:09:19.840 --> 0:09:22.280 he grew up with, have dementia. And I just think 0:09:22.320 --> 0:09:25.280 that's weird, Like what's going on in that area that 0:09:25.679 --> 0:09:28.000 we have people hard drives or wiped out? 0:09:28.559 --> 0:09:29.160 Like what the fuck? 0:09:29.200 --> 0:09:31.400 Because that's really what it is, is like real life 0:09:31.559 --> 0:09:35.920 memory loss, like the computers need to be rebooted. That's weird. 0:09:35.960 --> 0:09:38.120 That's one of my I'm scared. I don't want to 0:09:38.160 --> 0:09:40.280 ever experience that's me neither. 0:09:40.400 --> 0:09:43.319 That's that's a big fear because your mind is the 0:09:43.320 --> 0:09:46.200 most powerful thing that you have, So to lose it 0:09:46.280 --> 0:09:48.760 and not remember your family members and your loved ones, 0:09:48.960 --> 0:09:51.360 it's hard for everybody. It's hard for everybody. 0:09:51.360 --> 0:09:53.120 And then having to take care of a parent like 0:09:53.160 --> 0:09:53.560 that too. 0:09:54.880 --> 0:09:57.280 Yeah, and they don't even remember you, and they asking 0:09:57.320 --> 0:09:59.319 for you and you're right there, like, that's got to 0:09:59.360 --> 0:10:02.560 be hard, you know. So my love goes out to 0:10:02.600 --> 0:10:06.360 everyone with a family member with dementia, and with everybody 0:10:06.360 --> 0:10:08.720 with dementia, and we might open a restaurant where your 0:10:08.720 --> 0:10:09.360 grandma could. 0:10:09.240 --> 0:10:13.880 Come work in big hearts, Hold tight, hold tight. Okay. 0:10:13.920 --> 0:10:17.559 So I'm saying, what would you do right if your husband, like, say, 0:10:17.600 --> 0:10:19.440 you were married to a man for about I don't know, 0:10:19.559 --> 0:10:23.160 fifteen years or so, and he comes down with some 0:10:23.280 --> 0:10:26.720 type of terminal illness and he's like, man, you remember 0:10:26.800 --> 0:10:28.920 so and so with that fat ass man, I just 0:10:28.960 --> 0:10:32.160 want to fuck on her one more time before I die? 0:10:32.440 --> 0:10:33.840 Are you allowing him to do that? 0:10:34.679 --> 0:10:38.120 Call her up, Call her up, call all of it. 0:10:38.280 --> 0:10:39.600 Just as far if you're about to get up out 0:10:39.640 --> 0:10:41.719 of here, like, who am I to stop here to 0:10:41.800 --> 0:10:42.240 tell you. 0:10:42.200 --> 0:10:44.960 That you can't have these experiences? You want to do 0:10:45.000 --> 0:10:46.319 some coke, You want to fuck. 0:10:46.200 --> 0:10:49.520 Your old bitch, what you want to do, what you want. 0:10:49.320 --> 0:10:51.719 To do, because I want to give you everything that 0:10:51.800 --> 0:10:55.000 you want to have experience before you leave here. That's 0:10:55.000 --> 0:10:56.880 what real love is about, I think I don't think 0:10:56.880 --> 0:11:00.840 it's about like trying to control or stifle experiences, right, yeah, 0:11:00.880 --> 0:11:02.360 but initially if a nick about the die. 0:11:02.440 --> 0:11:03.640 But we should be able to be like that in 0:11:03.679 --> 0:11:06.800 relationships with the living and people who aren't terminally ill. 0:11:06.920 --> 0:11:07.920 Right, they should be able to. 0:11:07.920 --> 0:11:13.240 Say that's the only exception. 0:11:13.720 --> 0:11:17.400 So a woman right with only nine months left to live, 0:11:17.559 --> 0:11:20.120 asked her husband if she could sleep with her extras 0:11:20.160 --> 0:11:23.319 one last time. So A heartbroken husband has a veal 0:11:23.400 --> 0:11:26.600 that his dying wife has expressed a very specific wish. 0:11:26.800 --> 0:11:29.600 Because he felt like there was no one I can tell, 0:11:29.920 --> 0:11:33.559 he took to Reddit to open up about his horrific situation. 0:11:33.679 --> 0:11:36.920 A husband writes that he was intentionally excuse me. 0:11:36.960 --> 0:11:40.640 He was initially destroyed after finding out that the love 0:11:40.720 --> 0:11:42.480 of his life, his wife of. 0:11:42.440 --> 0:11:44.560 Ten years, has a terminal disease. 0:11:45.440 --> 0:11:48.280 He says that he was only expected she's only expected 0:11:48.320 --> 0:11:50.679 to live for another nine months at the most. I 0:11:50.679 --> 0:11:53.199 don't remember life without her, and I don't know what 0:11:53.240 --> 0:11:55.400 I'm going to do when she's gone. I have been 0:11:55.440 --> 0:11:57.280 doing my best to make the last days of my 0:11:57.360 --> 0:11:59.719 life good and grant excuse me, the last days of 0:11:59.720 --> 0:12:02.240 her life life good and grant whatever wish I can, 0:12:02.679 --> 0:12:05.800 he says. So, the doctor said that she was likely 0:12:05.840 --> 0:12:08.200 to need a wheelchair in four to five months and 0:12:08.240 --> 0:12:12.080 then by eight. By month eight, she'll be red bedridden 0:12:12.840 --> 0:12:16.480 for the last few weeks if she doesn't decline faster. 0:12:17.400 --> 0:12:19.880 Right, So, she basically. 0:12:20.920 --> 0:12:24.800 Asked him, like before, she's no longer physically able to 0:12:24.840 --> 0:12:28.080 move around, asked him before, she's no longer physically able 0:12:28.080 --> 0:12:32.520 to move around? If she kid he said one of 0:12:32.559 --> 0:12:35.680 her exes. He said no, He said, she gave a 0:12:35.720 --> 0:12:39.040 whole monologue about how sex sometimes it's just physical and 0:12:39.080 --> 0:12:42.680 how emotionally fulfilling sex is with me, but it was 0:12:42.760 --> 0:12:45.880 bullshit to get to that point, the man continued, So 0:12:46.200 --> 0:12:50.200 now I'm left with this deny for the excuse me, 0:12:50.400 --> 0:12:53.840 Now I'm left with this deny my dying wife a 0:12:53.880 --> 0:12:57.640 wish of her own ego, or let her go fuck 0:12:57.679 --> 0:13:00.160 another man who she feels was better. 0:13:01.920 --> 0:13:03.920 Man. Let that girl get them rocks off. 0:13:06.679 --> 0:13:09.800 I would you could pull whoever you want, just do 0:13:09.960 --> 0:13:12.040 with all all the shit, because once you're going on 0:13:12.080 --> 0:13:12.959 and get me a new nigga. 0:13:13.000 --> 0:13:13.280 Noway? 0:13:13.320 --> 0:13:15.280 Anyway, So right. 0:13:16.480 --> 0:13:18.679 That's fucked up, But I mean life goes are It 0:13:19.480 --> 0:13:22.720 just seems selfish to say no, yes, because she's gonna 0:13:22.760 --> 0:13:26.160 die and you're gonna move on, right, and you're gonna 0:13:26.160 --> 0:13:28.640 fuck whoever you want when she's gone, So just let 0:13:28.720 --> 0:13:29.200 her have that. 0:13:29.679 --> 0:13:32.120 I think the only thing maybe is like you had 0:13:32.120 --> 0:13:33.880 to how do you know your ex want to even fuck? 0:13:34.160 --> 0:13:36.040 Like you had to have already been having this conversation 0:13:36.080 --> 0:13:37.560 with this person to know. 0:13:39.160 --> 0:13:43.240 Oh, she's just putting it out there. Yeah, I don't know, 0:13:43.520 --> 0:13:43.880 he said. 0:13:43.920 --> 0:13:45.720 I feel like I'm put in a position where I 0:13:45.760 --> 0:13:49.480 have to say yes because she's dying. Yes, Okay, Yeah, 0:13:49.800 --> 0:13:51.720 I know what I want to say, but I don't 0:13:51.760 --> 0:13:54.400 know if that's right. I'm so hurt that sex with 0:13:54.480 --> 0:13:57.720 an X was apparently so good that she needs to 0:13:57.760 --> 0:14:01.200 do it once more before dying. I just everything about 0:14:01.240 --> 0:14:04.199 this that is kind of about up. It's like I've 0:14:04.200 --> 0:14:07.080 been settling for this mediocre meat this whole time. Now 0:14:07.120 --> 0:14:09.959 I'm about to die, Like man, I listen, and that's 0:14:09.960 --> 0:14:11.520 what I'd be saying, like y'all want to wait until 0:14:11.559 --> 0:14:13.480 y'all did stop working and want to again get a 0:14:13.559 --> 0:14:15.920 damn wife and just give her the worst dick of 0:14:15.920 --> 0:14:16.320 her life. 0:14:16.320 --> 0:14:19.800 That is not fair, But sometimes sex, you know, she 0:14:19.960 --> 0:14:23.080 married this man, probably because everything else about him was 0:14:23.120 --> 0:14:25.400 the best, you know, and the sex may not have 0:14:25.480 --> 0:14:28.720 been the best, but everything else about him was the best, 0:14:28.760 --> 0:14:30.960 and she chose you for a life partner. Now, this 0:14:31.000 --> 0:14:34.080 person might have I'd had some good, good dick from 0:14:34.080 --> 0:14:36.600 a person that was just awful person, right, you know, 0:14:36.960 --> 0:14:38.960 So that doesn't mean he's a better man than you. 0:14:39.240 --> 0:14:41.960 He just knew how to hit them buttons and that 0:14:42.080 --> 0:14:42.800 was probably just. 0:14:42.840 --> 0:14:46.440 It, right. Yeah, she want to come with a last time. 0:14:47.440 --> 0:14:51.160 I wouldn't feel devalued by that as a I mean, 0:14:51.200 --> 0:14:54.120 I guess it's different for men. He was attached to 0:14:54.120 --> 0:14:55.160 their penis. 0:14:55.480 --> 0:14:58.240 It's the ego, you know what I'm saying, Like, so 0:14:58.280 --> 0:14:59.560 you want to you want to own her? 0:14:59.600 --> 0:15:02.240 And death two? That's fucked up, right. 0:15:03.160 --> 0:15:05.480 I saw this joke where this man was like, baby, 0:15:05.840 --> 0:15:08.000 is there any way that you can make me feel 0:15:08.040 --> 0:15:11.760 happy and sad at the same time? He said, yeah, 0:15:11.920 --> 0:15:15.240 I certainly can. He said, how he's like all your friends, 0:15:15.280 --> 0:15:31.680 Dick is smaller than you. Yo, y'all, we got part 0:15:31.720 --> 0:15:35.560 two of the conversation with lad and the Price. We're 0:15:35.560 --> 0:15:38.160 about to get back into it after this commercial, y'all 0:15:38.200 --> 0:15:46.440 say too, Okay, y'all, We're back with Ladin Price and 0:15:46.480 --> 0:15:49.760 this is part two. Do y'all believe happy wife, Happy life? 0:15:51.160 --> 0:15:55.280 Yeah? Yeah, I like to come on the piece. 0:15:57.560 --> 0:15:59.120 Another one. I don't like that piece. 0:15:58.920 --> 0:16:00.400 Shit a lot of for real. 0:16:00.920 --> 0:16:02.720 But you know it's like I like what I like it. 0:16:02.840 --> 0:16:04.640 I want to come home to piece, but don't bring 0:16:04.680 --> 0:16:05.080 no peace. 0:16:05.400 --> 0:16:08.600 Yeah, I mean, it takes a lot for me to 0:16:08.680 --> 0:16:11.680 like really like boil up and like really spas. Right, 0:16:12.080 --> 0:16:14.960 So if I'm coming home, like it gets a little 0:16:14.960 --> 0:16:16.560 it may get a little crazy, I may you know, 0:16:16.760 --> 0:16:19.640 entertain it. But majority of times, if I'm working, especially 0:16:19.640 --> 0:16:21.960 like eighteen seventeen hour days, I just want to go home. 0:16:21.960 --> 0:16:23.680 It's just like relax, you know what I mean. 0:16:23.720 --> 0:16:25.960 It's like I'm already done with like a hundred different 0:16:25.960 --> 0:16:28.600 people in different personalities. So it's like the last one 0:16:28.640 --> 0:16:30.960 I want that to be is my wife at home 0:16:31.160 --> 0:16:33.480 and you know, just like like married. 0:16:37.760 --> 0:16:39.160 It's like yeah, so you know, it was like but 0:16:39.160 --> 0:16:40.880 the same thing too is like you know, vice versa. 0:16:40.960 --> 0:16:42.920 I would want peace to be at home, you know 0:16:42.960 --> 0:16:44.840 what I mean, well for her and myself, you know. 0:16:44.840 --> 0:16:49.320 I mean right, Yeah, to to your point that I 0:16:49.320 --> 0:16:53.840 think you were saying, Aja, like a great like partner, 0:16:54.280 --> 0:16:56.280 whether that's a wife or husband. But I'll say like 0:16:56.320 --> 0:16:59.600 a wife, like for a man, a great partner, you 0:16:59.680 --> 0:17:03.080 get like great counsel. That's where like that balance is 0:17:03.120 --> 0:17:06.120 what we're talking about, because like a woman gonna tell 0:17:06.200 --> 0:17:08.320 a woman's like your mama, like your mama when you 0:17:08.320 --> 0:17:10.440 bring certain people through the as like I don't like him, 0:17:10.920 --> 0:17:13.760 you don't even know, don't even know why. Like I 0:17:13.840 --> 0:17:15.840 remember so many of my homies when I was younger 0:17:15.880 --> 0:17:18.120 that my mama didn't like it. Didn't have to say why, 0:17:18.119 --> 0:17:20.280 and all the niggas time to be snakes, you know 0:17:20.320 --> 0:17:23.760 what I'm saying. Like women just yeah, women, just women 0:17:23.920 --> 0:17:26.679 just you know, they got that intuition and that's a 0:17:26.720 --> 0:17:30.919 real thing I don't sleep on. And and men need that, 0:17:31.000 --> 0:17:32.760 you know what I mean, because sometimes we just going 0:17:32.840 --> 0:17:36.760 we we on the movie. So it's like sometimes you 0:17:36.800 --> 0:17:39.240 need that partner that you can trust in like the 0:17:39.240 --> 0:17:42.200 same way like a woman you want a man wants 0:17:42.200 --> 0:17:44.960 say woman to trust them, like leading them. You wantn't 0:17:44.960 --> 0:17:46.680 to be able to trust your lady to be able 0:17:46.720 --> 0:17:50.080 to like lead you as well with just the information 0:17:50.160 --> 0:17:53.000 of guidance. Sometimes that like I don't think you should 0:17:53.040 --> 0:17:54.480 do that. 0:17:55.240 --> 0:17:56.280 Maybe should take that. 0:17:56.359 --> 0:17:59.920 You know, that's actually what the Bible says about submission 0:18:00.119 --> 0:18:02.560 and right, it says a man should love his wife 0:18:02.720 --> 0:18:04.080 as Christ love the church, and. 0:18:04.040 --> 0:18:05.640 Don't say nothing about women loving men. 0:18:05.640 --> 0:18:08.919 But I'm gonna just go that in there, right, And 0:18:09.000 --> 0:18:11.760 you are supposed to consult with your wife. You are 0:18:11.800 --> 0:18:15.320 supposed to counsel, counsel with, not counsel your wife. You're 0:18:15.320 --> 0:18:18.240 supposed to counsel with your wife because women do come 0:18:18.280 --> 0:18:21.359 with wisdom, right, So it's just not about you moving 0:18:21.400 --> 0:18:23.560 through this world by yourself and having to make all 0:18:23.560 --> 0:18:26.040 the decisions, like you're supposed to do that with a woman. 0:18:26.920 --> 0:18:28.639 Yeah, But you know what it is for guys is 0:18:28.640 --> 0:18:32.400 like it's so hard to trust people. Right, So it's like, Yo, 0:18:32.560 --> 0:18:33.359 that's gonna. 0:18:33.080 --> 0:18:36.280 Take some time, right guys, that's women. 0:18:36.119 --> 0:18:39.040 Too, right, right, right, So it's like all right, but. 0:18:41.200 --> 0:18:43.239 That's you're not used to it. 0:18:43.480 --> 0:18:45.600 But once you hit that zone and it's like, yo, 0:18:45.680 --> 0:18:47.439 the trust is there is locked in. It's like, oh, 0:18:47.560 --> 0:18:49.960 that's that's gonna be a sweet zone from from moving forward. 0:18:50.040 --> 0:18:52.480 From that point, it takes years to build that trust, 0:18:52.600 --> 0:18:55.280 especially with me because you know, my dad left when 0:18:55.280 --> 0:18:58.080 I was aid to untrust nobody for a long time, right, right, 0:18:58.480 --> 0:18:59.800 that was my dad that left me, you know what 0:18:59.800 --> 0:19:00.000 I mean. 0:19:00.080 --> 0:19:03.119