Speaker 1: Talk, talk Talk. We're just two unapologetically black women with
Speaker 1: an opinion who talks.
Speaker 2: Y'all.
Speaker 3: Thank you for tuning up for a new episode of
Speaker 3: We Talked Back, a show dedicated to all.
Speaker 2: You dreamers and chasers and niggas and bitches.
Speaker 1: Oh wait, we dreamers and chasers this week. Last week,
Speaker 1: y'all was niggas and bitches, y'all. People, All, y'all, family, A.
Speaker 2: Y'all, what's up?
Speaker 1: Tam, hey boo, it's me Tam Bam. I love y'all
Speaker 1: once again. I don't know if I told y'all that
Speaker 1: last week, but I.
Speaker 2: Do, probably giggling too much.
Speaker 1: Yeah, how was your weekend?
Speaker 2: It was good?
Speaker 4: Uh?
Speaker 2: What did I do this weekend?
Speaker 1: Oh?
Speaker 2: Girl, I was doing some nice things this weekend.
Speaker 3: So one of my friends and we're gonna have them
Speaker 3: on the show to talk about cosmetic surgery at one point.
Speaker 3: At some point, Lord, I keep talking about it, but
Speaker 3: it's gonna be a very good episode.
Speaker 2: I think it's actually need yet.
Speaker 3: But one of my friends, she's a she's a cosmetic surgeon, surgeon.
Speaker 3: She had her birthday dinner this weekend on a yacht,
Speaker 3: child at three bedroom yacht. That shit was like a
Speaker 3: damn luxury townhouse right quick.
Speaker 1: I saw you on their real nice Who the fuck she?
Speaker 1: How comes she eat?
Speaker 3: It was right here in Charleston, girl, Because y'all know,
Speaker 3: I was born in Paradise. A lot of people don't
Speaker 3: appreciate how beautiful this city is. But you gotta have
Speaker 3: a boat to really see what the fuck is going on.
Speaker 3: These white folks be everywhere, small islands all over. They
Speaker 3: just be pulling up to the sandbars and chilling on
Speaker 3: a nice Sunday Saturday afternoon. Like we just don't get
Speaker 3: to experience that often unless you know some niggas with
Speaker 3: a boat. But they actually have a boat club out here,
Speaker 3: which we should probably put some money together and join.
Speaker 3: It's five thousand dollars right now. You can you can
Speaker 3: rent a yacht as much as you want for the year.
Speaker 1: Oh that's not bad.
Speaker 3: It's really not up apiece exactly. So I don't know
Speaker 3: how they go about figuring out like who actually signed
Speaker 3: up for it? But why wouldn't you be able to
Speaker 3: split that with somebody else? And or maybe we just
Speaker 3: always have to be together when we go on it,
Speaker 3: but we can have other people. Yeah, I want to
Speaker 3: do that, so That's what I did. We was on
Speaker 3: the yacht Ya riding around.
Speaker 1: We did have something one of those, and we have
Speaker 1: an episode called We Talked Yacht.
Speaker 3: You know, I had to bring the mic on the
Speaker 3: yacht because I am I'm not really paying entertainment, but
Speaker 3: I traveled with a mic.
Speaker 2: Bitch, it was lit.
Speaker 3: Okay, I gotta do all the things and make sure
Speaker 3: niggas hear me what you had going up?
Speaker 1: Well, your weekend was much more eventful than mine. I
Speaker 1: didn't do much.
Speaker 3: Of anything, but you want to see Beyonce twice last week?
Speaker 2: Okay, just flex a little bit.
Speaker 1: You Yeah, sut your ass down.
Speaker 2: I'm mad, Yeah, I did.
Speaker 1: I set my ass down to mind my business. That's it.
Speaker 1: Nothing entertaining happened for me. Let's get in the stupid
Speaker 1: internet news.
Speaker 2: What we got going on?
Speaker 5: Child?
Speaker 2: This goddamn gunplay.
Speaker 3: Now, I thought he was a maniac when I saw
Speaker 3: him giving gifts and the shit to Ricky Rose laying
Speaker 3: in his bed in his bedroom. But apparently this man
Speaker 3: has now pulled a gun out on the woman, the
Speaker 3: mother of his child, actually pulled a gun out on
Speaker 3: both of them, essentially because she's holding the baby, a
Speaker 3: six month old, so he's face safe.
Speaker 1: His wife as well.
Speaker 3: Oh they're married. Okay, excuse me, they're married. So now
Speaker 3: this gunplay is I believe he's forty four, his wife
Speaker 3: is forty three. So these are grown ass adults with
Speaker 3: a small child. I think he has multiple kids. He
Speaker 3: is now facing multiple charges including assault with the deadly weapon,
Speaker 3: false imprisonment, and child abuse. According to the Reporter and
Speaker 3: the Slater, gunplays accused of pointing a rifle at his
Speaker 3: wife while she was holding their six month old child,
Speaker 3: and his wife is done with the shit essentially.
Speaker 1: Yeah, I mean, that's that's awful. It's awful to have anyone.
Speaker 1: Have you ever had someone point a gun at you before?
Speaker 1: It's not a fun thing.
Speaker 3: I have had it happen somebody else's man trying to
Speaker 3: save a hole.
Speaker 2: Yes, has happened to me.
Speaker 1: Yeah, same, Not somebody else's man, somebody Well, yeah, it
Speaker 1: was actually someone else's man. But he was playing with
Speaker 1: a gun and woke me up with a gun pointed
Speaker 1: at my head because he thought it was funny. Yeah,
Speaker 1: I had that happened to me as he thought it
Speaker 1: was a funny, like, oh, let's wake her up with
Speaker 1: a gun at her head ha ha ha, Like for real,
Speaker 1: that's not sir, the guy that happened to me. It's
Speaker 1: not funny at all. It's not a nice way to
Speaker 1: wake anybody up. But I couldn't imagine my husband while
Speaker 1: I'm holding our six month old baby, pointing a gun
Speaker 1: at me because I asked him to be quiet while
Speaker 1: he's playing a video game, and that's what happened to her.
Speaker 1: That's crazy. Now, you do have to take a little
Speaker 1: bit of accountability for a nigga playing with a gun
Speaker 1: with you when he told you his name was Gunplay.
Speaker 4: You guys, take a.
Speaker 1: Look a.
Speaker 2: Little t t.
Speaker 1: Little tt.
Speaker 2: Oh that's terrible, Yeah, Like what the fuck? And you know,
Speaker 2: a lot of times we always have.
Speaker 3: These arguments about femininity versus masculinity, but oftentimes bad shit
Speaker 3: happens when men getting their feelings. Like the most we do,
Speaker 3: for the most part, we fight women, right, we might fight,
Speaker 3: cuss each other out and all that shit, But these
Speaker 3: men are way too emotional nowadays, Like why are you
Speaker 3: pulling a gun out? We saw how emotional he was
Speaker 3: when Dj Envy was trying to talk to him like
Speaker 3: a man on three way with Charlamagne, which I think
Speaker 3: Charlamagne asks, is messy. Don't call don't call these motherfuckers,
Speaker 3: like let them hash at it whenever whatever. But this nigga,
Speaker 3: he's a messy guy, right, unintentionally sometimes right, But we
Speaker 3: saw how emotional that dude was, then like, you know,
Speaker 3: these guys cannot handle their emotions.
Speaker 2: They can't.
Speaker 3: So now you go around abusing and victimizing people, and
Speaker 3: add drugs and alcohol on top of that, and ad
Speaker 3: feled careers on top of that. You know, I think
Speaker 3: a lot of these niggas be having money issues. Why
Speaker 3: they be mad where it's an.
Speaker 1: Ugly it's an ugly, ugly situation. And my heart goes
Speaker 1: out to her and that baby, m h, it's terrible,
Speaker 1: get out right, all right? So I found this thing
Speaker 1: happening in Japan, and I thought it was the cutest
Speaker 1: thing and pulled out my heart strings. There's a Japanese
Speaker 1: restaurant of Mistaken Orders. So in Japan, known as a
Speaker 1: super aging society, dementia is predicted to effect one in
Speaker 1: five people by twenty twenty five. That's a lot in
Speaker 1: such circumstances. An innovative social experiment has caught the attention
Speaker 1: of Japan In the world, and it's the Japanese restaurant
Speaker 1: of Mistaken Orders, where only the waiters. The waiters and
Speaker 1: waitresses are only people with dementia. You not, you gotta
Speaker 1: have dementia to get the job right. So basically they
Speaker 1: might mess up your order, they might bring you the
Speaker 1: wrong plate, but it gives these people a job, it
Speaker 1: gives them some purpose, and it gives them some love.
Speaker 1: I thought it was really dope. So the pop up
Speaker 1: restaurant comes from an encounter between the creator, shiro ogunu Ogoni,
Speaker 1: I don't know if I'm pronouncing it right, and a
Speaker 1: group home where people were with dementia live like everybody else.
Speaker 1: My awareness of dementia at first tended towards negative images
Speaker 1: of people who are radically forgetful and aimlessly wandering about.
Speaker 1: But actually they can cook, they can clean, do laundry,
Speaker 1: go shopping, and do other normal things for themselves. Close up,
Speaker 1: they might be a little off course now and then,
Speaker 1: but they can be grateful to us, and we need
Speaker 1: to be grateful of them because they are our elders.
Speaker 4: Right.
Speaker 1: Yeah, So I just thought it was dope, and it
Speaker 1: had like a lot of nice pictures of these old
Speaker 1: people bringing wrong food to the table and shit like that.
Speaker 2: It was just so cute, So I thought that was dope.
Speaker 3: Would you go to a place like that for I would,
Speaker 3: But my only concern would be, like, do I have
Speaker 3: the option to return this shit? Because like if I
Speaker 3: ordered some fish and you brought me pork, like, I'm mad, I.
Speaker 2: Can't eat that, So do I have an option to
Speaker 2: send it back? Or no?
Speaker 1: Yeah, I think maybe you do have an option to
Speaker 1: send it back. Probably, well, but chicken the next time, Like,
Speaker 1: I wouldn't even I wouldn't even go there hungry. Honestly,
Speaker 1: I would just go there and see them, Yeah, just
Speaker 1: to order a plate and just see what the fuck
Speaker 1: come out. Honestly, take a picture of plate, hug somebody grandma,
Speaker 1: and go, you know, right, So.
Speaker 3: I would, I would attend. I would go there. I
Speaker 3: would patronize that business.
Speaker 1: They should have like a black one in the US
Speaker 1: called soul soulful Mistakes, and just it'll be like soul
Speaker 1: food and you don't know what the fuck you're gonna get,
Speaker 1: But Grandma bringing it to the town.
Speaker 3: That's nice because you know, it's it's unprecedented. In mind,
Speaker 3: I'm it's kind of weird that they can predict that
Speaker 3: in twenty twenty five. By twenty twenty five, one and
Speaker 3: five people will have dementia. How do y'all come up
Speaker 3: with these numbers? How do y'all know that? What is
Speaker 3: the trajectory? Like, how do y'all know that's where we're headed?
Speaker 3: So I'm wondering, like what it looks like in America
Speaker 3: because one of my friends his mom passed away of
Speaker 3: dementia last year, and he literally said that most of
Speaker 3: the old people on his mom street, like people parents
Speaker 3: he grew up with, have dementia. And I just think
Speaker 3: that's weird, Like what's going on in that area that
Speaker 3: we have people hard drives or wiped out?
Speaker 2: Like what the fuck?
Speaker 3: Because that's really what it is, is like real life
Speaker 3: memory loss, like the computers need to be rebooted. That's weird.
Speaker 3: That's one of my I'm scared. I don't want to
Speaker 3: ever experience that's me neither.
Speaker 1: That's that's a big fear because your mind is the
Speaker 1: most powerful thing that you have, So to lose it
Speaker 1: and not remember your family members and your loved ones,
Speaker 1: it's hard for everybody. It's hard for everybody.
Speaker 2: And then having to take care of a parent like
Speaker 2: that too.
Speaker 1: Yeah, and they don't even remember you, and they asking
Speaker 1: for you and you're right there, like, that's got to
Speaker 1: be hard, you know. So my love goes out to
Speaker 1: everyone with a family member with dementia, and with everybody
Speaker 1: with dementia, and we might open a restaurant where your
Speaker 1: grandma could.
Speaker 2: Come work in big hearts, Hold tight, hold tight. Okay.
Speaker 3: So I'm saying, what would you do right if your husband, like, say,
Speaker 3: you were married to a man for about I don't know,
Speaker 3: fifteen years or so, and he comes down with some
Speaker 3: type of terminal illness and he's like, man, you remember
Speaker 3: so and so with that fat ass man, I just
Speaker 3: want to fuck on her one more time before I die?
Speaker 2: Are you allowing him to do that?
Speaker 1: Call her up, Call her up, call all of it.
Speaker 3: Just as far if you're about to get up out
Speaker 3: of here, like, who am I to stop here to
Speaker 3: tell you.
Speaker 1: That you can't have these experiences? You want to do
Speaker 1: some coke, You want to fuck.
Speaker 2: Your old bitch, what you want to do, what you want.
Speaker 1: To do, because I want to give you everything that
Speaker 1: you want to have experience before you leave here. That's
Speaker 1: what real love is about, I think I don't think
Speaker 1: it's about like trying to control or stifle experiences, right, yeah,
Speaker 1: but initially if a nick about the die.
Speaker 3: But we should be able to be like that in
Speaker 3: relationships with the living and people who aren't terminally ill.
Speaker 2: Right, they should be able to.
Speaker 1: Say that's the only exception.
Speaker 3: So a woman right with only nine months left to live,
Speaker 3: asked her husband if she could sleep with her extras
Speaker 3: one last time. So A heartbroken husband has a veal
Speaker 3: that his dying wife has expressed a very specific wish.
Speaker 3: Because he felt like there was no one I can tell,
Speaker 3: he took to Reddit to open up about his horrific situation.
Speaker 2: A husband writes that he was intentionally excuse me.
Speaker 3: He was initially destroyed after finding out that the love
Speaker 3: of his life, his wife of.
Speaker 2: Ten years, has a terminal disease.
Speaker 3: He says that he was only expected she's only expected
Speaker 3: to live for another nine months at the most. I
Speaker 3: don't remember life without her, and I don't know what
Speaker 3: I'm going to do when she's gone. I have been
Speaker 3: doing my best to make the last days of my
Speaker 3: life good and grant excuse me, the last days of
Speaker 3: her life life good and grant whatever wish I can,
Speaker 3: he says. So, the doctor said that she was likely
Speaker 3: to need a wheelchair in four to five months and
Speaker 3: then by eight. By month eight, she'll be red bedridden
Speaker 3: for the last few weeks if she doesn't decline faster.
Speaker 2: Right, So, she basically.
Speaker 3: Asked him, like before, she's no longer physically able to
Speaker 3: move around, asked him before, she's no longer physically able
Speaker 3: to move around? If she kid he said one of
Speaker 3: her exes. He said no, He said, she gave a
Speaker 3: whole monologue about how sex sometimes it's just physical and
Speaker 3: how emotionally fulfilling sex is with me, but it was
Speaker 3: bullshit to get to that point, the man continued, So
Speaker 3: now I'm left with this deny for the excuse me,
Speaker 3: Now I'm left with this deny my dying wife a
Speaker 3: wish of her own ego, or let her go fuck
Speaker 3: another man who she feels was better.
Speaker 1: Man. Let that girl get them rocks off.
Speaker 3: I would you could pull whoever you want, just do
Speaker 3: with all all the shit, because once you're going on
Speaker 3: and get me a new nigga.
Speaker 1: Noway?
Speaker 2: Anyway, So right.
Speaker 1: That's fucked up, But I mean life goes are It
Speaker 1: just seems selfish to say no, yes, because she's gonna
Speaker 1: die and you're gonna move on, right, and you're gonna
Speaker 1: fuck whoever you want when she's gone, So just let
Speaker 1: her have that.
Speaker 3: I think the only thing maybe is like you had
Speaker 3: to how do you know your ex want to even fuck?
Speaker 3: Like you had to have already been having this conversation
Speaker 3: with this person to know.
Speaker 2: Oh, she's just putting it out there. Yeah, I don't know,
Speaker 2: he said.
Speaker 3: I feel like I'm put in a position where I
Speaker 3: have to say yes because she's dying. Yes, Okay, Yeah,
Speaker 3: I know what I want to say, but I don't
Speaker 3: know if that's right. I'm so hurt that sex with
Speaker 3: an X was apparently so good that she needs to
Speaker 3: do it once more before dying. I just everything about
Speaker 3: this that is kind of about up. It's like I've
Speaker 3: been settling for this mediocre meat this whole time. Now
Speaker 3: I'm about to die, Like man, I listen, and that's
Speaker 3: what I'd be saying, like y'all want to wait until
Speaker 3: y'all did stop working and want to again get a
Speaker 3: damn wife and just give her the worst dick of
Speaker 3: her life.
Speaker 1: That is not fair, But sometimes sex, you know, she
Speaker 1: married this man, probably because everything else about him was
Speaker 1: the best, you know, and the sex may not have
Speaker 1: been the best, but everything else about him was the best,
Speaker 1: and she chose you for a life partner. Now, this
Speaker 1: person might have I'd had some good, good dick from
Speaker 1: a person that was just awful person, right, you know,
Speaker 1: So that doesn't mean he's a better man than you.
Speaker 1: He just knew how to hit them buttons and that
Speaker 1: was probably just.
Speaker 2: It, right. Yeah, she want to come with a last time.
Speaker 1: I wouldn't feel devalued by that as a I mean,
Speaker 1: I guess it's different for men. He was attached to
Speaker 1: their penis.
Speaker 3: It's the ego, you know what I'm saying, Like, so
Speaker 3: you want to you want to own her?
Speaker 2: And death two? That's fucked up, right.
Speaker 1: I saw this joke where this man was like, baby,
Speaker 1: is there any way that you can make me feel
Speaker 1: happy and sad at the same time? He said, yeah,
Speaker 1: I certainly can. He said, how he's like all your friends,
Speaker 1: Dick is smaller than you. Yo, y'all, we got part
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Speaker 6: Yeah? Yeah, I like to come on the piece.
Speaker 2: Another one. I don't like that piece.
Speaker 4: Shit a lot of for real.
Speaker 6: But you know it's like I like what I like it.
Speaker 1: I want to come home to piece, but don't bring
Speaker 1: no peace.
Speaker 7: Yeah, I mean, it takes a lot for me to
Speaker 7: like really like boil up and like really spas. Right,
Speaker 7: So if I'm coming home, like it gets a little
Speaker 7: it may get a little crazy, I may you know,
Speaker 7: entertain it. But majority of times, if I'm working, especially
Speaker 7: like eighteen seventeen hour days, I just want to go home.
Speaker 6: It's just like relax, you know what I mean.
Speaker 7: It's like I'm already done with like a hundred different
Speaker 7: people in different personalities. So it's like the last one
Speaker 7: I want that to be is my wife at home
Speaker 7: and you know, just like like married.
Speaker 6: It's like yeah, so you know, it was like but
Speaker 6: the same thing too is like you know, vice versa.
Speaker 7: I would want peace to be at home, you know
Speaker 7: what I mean, well for her and myself, you know.
Speaker 5: I mean right, Yeah, to to your point that I
Speaker 5: think you were saying, Aja, like a great like partner,
Speaker 5: whether that's a wife or husband. But I'll say like
Speaker 5: a wife, like for a man, a great partner, you
Speaker 5: get like great counsel. That's where like that balance is
Speaker 5: what we're talking about, because like a woman gonna tell
Speaker 5: a woman's like your mama, like your mama when you
Speaker 5: bring certain people through the as like I don't like him,
Speaker 5: you don't even know, don't even know why. Like I
Speaker 5: remember so many of my homies when I was younger
Speaker 5: that my mama didn't like it. Didn't have to say why,
Speaker 5: and all the niggas time to be snakes, you know
Speaker 5: what I'm saying. Like women just yeah, women, just women
Speaker 5: just you know, they got that intuition and that's a
Speaker 5: real thing I don't sleep on. And and men need that,
Speaker 5: you know what I mean, because sometimes we just going
Speaker 5: we we on the movie. So it's like sometimes you
Speaker 5: need that partner that you can trust in like the
Speaker 5: same way like a woman you want a man wants
Speaker 5: say woman to trust them, like leading them. You wantn't
Speaker 5: to be able to trust your lady to be able
Speaker 5: to like lead you as well with just the information
Speaker 5: of guidance. Sometimes that like I don't think you should
Speaker 5: do that.
Speaker 4: Maybe should take that.
Speaker 3: You know, that's actually what the Bible says about submission
Speaker 3: and right, it says a man should love his wife
Speaker 3: as Christ love the church, and.
Speaker 2: Don't say nothing about women loving men.
Speaker 3: But I'm gonna just go that in there, right, And
Speaker 3: you are supposed to consult with your wife. You are
Speaker 3: supposed to counsel, counsel with, not counsel your wife. You're
Speaker 3: supposed to counsel with your wife because women do come
Speaker 3: with wisdom, right, So it's just not about you moving
Speaker 3: through this world by yourself and having to make all
Speaker 3: the decisions, like you're supposed to do that with a woman.
Speaker 7: Yeah, But you know what it is for guys is
Speaker 7: like it's so hard to trust people. Right, So it's like, Yo,
Speaker 7: that's gonna.
Speaker 1: Take some time, right guys, that's women.
Speaker 6: Too, right, right, right, So it's like all right, but.
Speaker 2: That's you're not used to it.
Speaker 7: But once you hit that zone and it's like, yo,
Speaker 7: the trust is there is locked in. It's like, oh,
Speaker 7: that's that's gonna be a sweet zone from from moving forward.
Speaker 7: From that point, it takes years to build that trust,
Speaker 7: especially with me because you know, my dad left when
Speaker 7: I was aid to untrust nobody for a long time, right, right,
Speaker 7: that was my dad that left me, you know what
Speaker 7: I mean.
Speaker 2: So I was like, you know, but is it the
Speaker 2: women you can't trust?
Speaker 6: Like everybody friends? Everybody?
Speaker 7: Yeah, everybody, it was like, but it took me growing
Speaker 7: up and realizing like, yo, that's that's a meat.
Speaker 5: Issue, right exactly, because now like for me, when it
Speaker 5: comes to trust, I feel like, I like, I like
Speaker 5: clean slates, right, So I'm gonna trust you to you
Speaker 5: show me I shouldn't trust you, and that could be
Speaker 5: very quick. That could be a couple of different ups
Speaker 5: depending on the mask. Yeah, right, but I'm big on
Speaker 5: I be coming in a ship blind, which is why
Speaker 5: sometimes ship play out like with my ex wife, you
Speaker 5: feel me.
Speaker 4: It's like when when I look back and stuff like
Speaker 4: I have no business being married to your ass. But
Speaker 4: at the same time you feel.
Speaker 2: Me like that's man, Like, what the fuck? What about me?
Speaker 2: Attracted this motherfucker?
Speaker 5: And really to like I can say too because I
Speaker 5: was young that you know.
Speaker 4: I'm married my.
Speaker 5: Ex for a lot of the right reasons, but so
Speaker 5: many of the wrong reasons too, you know what I'm saying,
Speaker 5: Like she was just like she was popping out here,
Speaker 5: you know what I mean, like all this little corny shit, right,
Speaker 5: so she.
Speaker 1: Got fat ass, I'm about to marry her.
Speaker 5: She didn't have a fast, but she was just like really,
Speaker 5: you know what I'm saying. You know, it just it
Speaker 5: was like popping. But that that actually turned out to
Speaker 5: be part of the yeah.
Speaker 4: Part of the reason we didn't clash.
Speaker 5: And then another thing too, there's not enough credit given
Speaker 5: to is like people actually do grow apart. Like growing
Speaker 5: apart is a real fucking thing. I'm really I'm a
Speaker 5: firm believer in that. So if you's not with the
Speaker 5: person you're supposed to be with, if you with just
Speaker 5: like your real deal life, so may again.
Speaker 4: Y'all grow together.
Speaker 5: But so many times you're not with that person, and
Speaker 5: so you one minute, you know, I grew up game
Speaker 5: banging ship. You know, I'm from California, So it's like
Speaker 5: one minute I might be in tall at this other ship,
Speaker 5: and then the next minute, you know, I'm twenty I
Speaker 5: got married twenty five. By the time i was twenty eight.
Speaker 5: I'm like reading every day now, I'm all in. I'm
Speaker 5: watching John here with Card videos every night before I
Speaker 5: go to sleep. I'm in some call different ship. She's
Speaker 5: still going to go to town and do all this crazy
Speaker 5: shit every night with her, Like we just into different ship.
Speaker 5: And so like to last point, you kind of gotould
Speaker 5: do just a better job at vetting those things out,
Speaker 5: you know what I'm saying. But then it's a thin
Speaker 5: line between that because to y'all points, it's like, okay,
Speaker 5: well how long how long.
Speaker 4: Is you know, so it'd be it's such a like
Speaker 4: thin ass line.
Speaker 2: Yeah, you could just do it.
Speaker 3: You can always get a divorce as long as you
Speaker 3: don't add a baby to it.
Speaker 4: It.
Speaker 2: Just do it. My uh my guy friend.
Speaker 3: I had asked him, I said, you want to be
Speaker 3: my boyfriend a couple of weeks ago, right, he was
Speaker 3: want to I want to vet you, not vet you,
Speaker 3: he said. He wanted to court me a little bit more.
Speaker 3: Then I go out of town. Me and town were working.
Speaker 3: I can't be available as much now you're tripping pekai
Speaker 3: pekan side because you can't have you can't have single
Speaker 3: committed a j like it don't work that way, right,
Speaker 3: I'm a real life Gemini.
Speaker 4: Now how you know he was? How you know that
Speaker 4: was the court I press.
Speaker 3: You gotta listen. You gotta be real vocal with me.
Speaker 3: You have to tell me exactly. I don't assume ship.
Speaker 3: I don't like the four what is the four agreements?
Speaker 3: No assump ship. I don't assume anything.
Speaker 2: Absolutely.
Speaker 1: Oftentimes women are committed to a man that is not
Speaker 1: committed to and now she just committed and he'd be like,
Speaker 1: we never said we was right. It wasn't in my
Speaker 1: last relationship, and my last relationship we got engaged after
Speaker 1: after two years, right, but he.
Speaker 3: Didn't consider me anything until he asked me to marry him.
Speaker 3: Imagine being going from single tame engage that don't even
Speaker 3: make sense. But so he would have to be accountable
Speaker 3: for all the bullshit prior to ask.
Speaker 2: Me to marry him. So you can't assume.
Speaker 3: Just because y'all doing business together, you're fucking raw doing
Speaker 3: all of all the ship starting business. You can't assume.
Speaker 3: You have to tell me so now going forward, I
Speaker 3: need you to write me a letter.
Speaker 2: Okay, you want to be my wife, but do you
Speaker 2: want to be my girlfriend?
Speaker 6: Yes?
Speaker 3: And no, bitch, we don't get that ship notarized and
Speaker 3: put it in a safe because I need to be sure.
Speaker 1: The man I have to watching his kids at his
Speaker 1: mama house, fuming you wrong and still ain't with you,
Speaker 1: my girl, I'm watching your kids.
Speaker 2: I don't even got no kids, do you hear me?
Speaker 4: It's some crazy in the world.
Speaker 5: One thing, one thing I'm a firm believery in though too,
Speaker 5: is like I think that like people ship like once
Speaker 5: you do have that conversation and people in the communication
Speaker 5: line is on point.
Speaker 4: I think that it's important to like.
Speaker 5: Be like if we are in this dating relationship whatever
Speaker 5: you want to call it, before we actually marrything, I
Speaker 5: think it is flying, it's dope, and it's important to
Speaker 5: like show me what kind of wife you're gonna be
Speaker 5: right now, and not only you gotta be doing.
Speaker 4: Everything like like to the max.
Speaker 5: I guess what, though, you know what I'm saying, show
Speaker 5: me everything you would do as a wife and be
Speaker 5: as a wife. And I'm gonna do the same because
Speaker 5: I'm telling you sometimes you I'm with you with it.
Speaker 5: All you gotta do is get divorced. But for me
Speaker 5: and for women like prime example, tam A y'all doing
Speaker 5: y'all ship podcasts, Motherfucker's fright call tomorrow and they want
Speaker 5: to give the ten million dollar endorsement to the podcast,
Speaker 5: et cetera, et cetera.
Speaker 4: Now now we gotta be ye period.
Speaker 5: But now we gotta be intentional about who were just
Speaker 5: partnering with and all that, because it don't just be
Speaker 5: a divorce, like to your point, this is a this
Speaker 5: is a white.
Speaker 4: Man's contract, this is a white man's.
Speaker 5: Structure, period like, and getting divorced was one of the
Speaker 5: hardest things I had to do, not because it was
Speaker 5: hard emotionally, physically and contractually. The ship was so difficult.
Speaker 5: And my exit it's an eight month process. My way
Speaker 5: to the six months to pull back out, we had
Speaker 5: to start the process again.
Speaker 4: This ship was crazy.
Speaker 2: You should have just did an M four.
Speaker 1: H for those of us who don't know what that is.
Speaker 2: You murdify your niggah.
Speaker 1: Noflige.
Speaker 2: If I was Mary J.
Speaker 3: Blige and how old boy did hurt, I would have definitely.
Speaker 2: Fucking un alive his ass. How they say on YouTube all.
Speaker 1: Jokes guys, nah, but so obviously like right, we ain't
Speaker 1: going that far.
Speaker 5: But it really gets it really gets slithery though, it
Speaker 5: really gets slimy, like like it's too many to they
Speaker 5: men and men and female, So right, men and women.
Speaker 5: So I think it's just important to like like like,
Speaker 5: like like La said, really know to their best, to
Speaker 5: your best abilities. We don't fully ever know nobody and
Speaker 5: people are constantly changing growing, So I think it's just
Speaker 5: important though for us to do our best to you know,
Speaker 5: try to get a good idea of what you're getting
Speaker 5: into beforehand.
Speaker 1: But to that point, listen, Oftentimes when people men are
Speaker 1: getting a divorce, they always be like that ain't who
Speaker 1: I married.
Speaker 2: That ain't who I married.
Speaker 1: So you can know them as much as you want.
Speaker 1: But you know, they say it's a thin line between
Speaker 1: love and hate, and that's true. You know, you know,
Speaker 1: I turned into a different person when you're you.
Speaker 7: Know, another thing I realized too, like when people get
Speaker 7: married young, like in the twenties, we're still growing, right,
Speaker 7: We're still growing in our thirties, right, Like I'm thirty eight, thirty.
Speaker 2: Child, this is fuck fy.
Speaker 7: Right, So it's like, yeah, like I feel like that
Speaker 7: twenty and thirty mark is like where we really like grow.
Speaker 6: But anything after thirty five then we're like kind of solid.
Speaker 7: And I say, right, so if you messing with somebody
Speaker 7: from like thirty and you'll get married after thirty five
Speaker 7: and forties. I just like living halfway up after whatever.
Speaker 7: I feel like it gets a little solid fro from
Speaker 7: twenty to thirty. It's like you get married, that's when
Speaker 7: it's like, yo, I'm still growing. Like like you said,
Speaker 7: you started reading you started reading that the youtubes in
Speaker 7: the books of A twenty eight. You got married at
Speaker 7: twenty five, right, and then you're a different person where
Speaker 7: you are at right now.
Speaker 6: We're all different hundreds, you know what I mean. So it's
Speaker 6: like I feel like that twenty.
Speaker 7: Thirty we really got to get out there and get
Speaker 7: it all out, and then after thirty five you can
Speaker 7: really like really like settle down and fuck with you, right.
Speaker 5: Like I love the people that do be getting married,
Speaker 5: Like you know, we all be wishing for not everybody,
Speaker 5: but I'm one of the people that that wish for
Speaker 5: the like fake fairy touches. I love to see the
Speaker 5: people who got married at twenty words still married. That
Speaker 5: should be dope to But to your point, like, because
Speaker 5: I got so many homies, it's just like they not
Speaker 5: slowing down them niggas is trying to hit something every
Speaker 5: day something, dude.
Speaker 4: I was just watching a different podcast when the nigga
Speaker 4: was like, I ain't never getting married.
Speaker 5: I don't even like seeing the same girl. Like I'm like,
Speaker 5: what the are you talking about? Niggas is yeah, niggas
Speaker 5: is out here. So I think it is like you said,
Speaker 5: you can.
Speaker 2: Everybody don't want to willingly fuck you. That's the thing.
Speaker 2: I mean, everybody you can.
Speaker 1: Fuck as many as possible. Let me ask you this,
Speaker 1: do y'all hold like, do you hold you're married friends accountable?
Speaker 1: Because I think oftentimes a lot of men will be
Speaker 1: like a man will be talking about cheating on his
Speaker 1: wife and y'all be like.
Speaker 2: Boy, you here and that's nothing.
Speaker 1: You never like tell him that that's not okay.
Speaker 5: You know, no, one hundred percent to do without without like,
Speaker 5: for instance, my cousin, let me not just.
Speaker 1: Say yeah his cousin the story about somebody, but right,
Speaker 1: but no.
Speaker 4: One of my one of my real ones when they
Speaker 4: was when they.
Speaker 5: Was married, they they because they didn't even fully like
Speaker 5: pull the trigger. They was just entertaining the thought of
Speaker 5: you know, like, Sneaky Links is the worst ship on
Speaker 5: the planet, right, Sneaky Lenks to have a mother fucking.
Speaker 3: Just I'm about to create that day insight sneaky right.
Speaker 1: Right.
Speaker 5: I had to tell my real one like, yo, that
Speaker 5: is not you don't want to do too much of that.
Speaker 5: You so like you just know what you're doing, because like,
Speaker 5: I ain't here to tell no man how to be.
Speaker 3: Yes you are if you're a man, of course correct
Speaker 3: other man, listen follow me ya, niggas to tell us
Speaker 3: the best.
Speaker 5: If you're my partner, but if you just my homegirl,
Speaker 5: I'm only gonna tell you so much too. I'm not
Speaker 5: feeling like you're not my child. I'm gonna tell my
Speaker 5: children what the fuck to do?
Speaker 4: You feel me?
Speaker 5: My niggas, the homies and ship, I'm gonna advise. I'm
Speaker 5: gonna lead by example at the best way possible. I
Speaker 5: got some homies that and I didn't talk their earshill.
Speaker 5: We'd been crying on the phone, and niggas still go
Speaker 5: do somethlas like niggas don't give a fuck with that.
Speaker 5: Don't give a fuck you feel me so like, But
Speaker 5: I'm gonna do my best to like I said, advise,
Speaker 5: lead by example.
Speaker 4: Give you the best game I can give you, and
Speaker 4: then what you do with that you do.
Speaker 5: And luckily my real niggas that do be actually taking
Speaker 5: heat to the ship, you know, because marriage ain't in
Speaker 5: to play with Just go be single.
Speaker 4: There because you can't play with that shit.
Speaker 5: Like once you get to playing I'm talking about the
Speaker 5: karma coins just start going in the negative in that count,
Speaker 5: karma coins go negative.
Speaker 2: I'm karma.
Speaker 3: I knew to come in a fucking round, okay.
Speaker 5: And some people don't believe in karma, right, I'm like karma,
Speaker 5: damnar my religion. I'm a firm as believer in karma.
Speaker 5: So you don't get to just like play with the
Speaker 5: union and like the promises that you made with the
Speaker 5: most highest, you don't get to just play with that
Speaker 5: too much.
Speaker 4: Like you might get to get away with it for
Speaker 4: a little or another thing.
Speaker 5: I'll be like I realized and I'll be making sure
Speaker 5: I tell my niggas is like, just because this person
Speaker 5: gets away with it, you don't have the same like
Speaker 5: spiritual structure you.
Speaker 4: Might get every one time. Yeah, it might take you
Speaker 4: one getting I know.
Speaker 5: I'm that like, I'm so scared to do a certain
Speaker 5: shit because I got them is that beach just trife
Speaker 5: living and them niggas just they just live. It seems
Speaker 5: like they live a great life. I don't know how
Speaker 5: many clinic trips the niggas taking. It seemed like their
Speaker 5: life is just so cracking, But like for me, I'm like, man,
Speaker 5: it don't work like that for me. You know what
Speaker 5: I'm saying. So I was to answer the question, I'm
Speaker 5: a firm believer and definitely like just holding holding just
Speaker 5: people I care about accountable. I don't get fis my homies,
Speaker 5: my own girls. I don't get fuck you married or
Speaker 5: just in a regular relationship because I'm big on one
Speaker 5: not seeing you crash out. And then too, if I
Speaker 5: fuck with you, I love you. I'm around you enough.
Speaker 5: If I didn't get to strike in your way and
Speaker 5: I'm right next to you, get struck by a lot,
Speaker 5: like let me get you in.
Speaker 4: Order something way, Yeah, one hundred percent, you.
Speaker 7: Feel me, but yeah that's my And to pick you
Speaker 7: off a back too, because like, if something does go
Speaker 7: down with your homie and your home gets a divorce,
Speaker 7: we're gonna be hearing about that ship the whole process too.
Speaker 6: Trying to give you advice early in the game, and
Speaker 6: then now we're going to hear this, I don't.
Speaker 7: Hear it after that, and then too, it ain't.
Speaker 5: Nothing worse than Like, it ain't nothing worse than you,
Speaker 5: like co signing your people that you care about doing
Speaker 5: bullshit and then they partner finding out because they might
Speaker 5: be back cool, But y'all would never funk with you.
Speaker 1: You ain't never invited to the cookiout.
Speaker 4: Ye. Yeah.
Speaker 5: The dynamic, the dynamic of that world is forever fu
Speaker 5: anytime you go with me somewhere. Problemly, my homies girls
Speaker 5: love when they will me because I ain't know no fun, Like, now,
Speaker 5: what what your nigga doing? You already if your niggas
Speaker 5: a dog, you already know your niggas a dog, right,
Speaker 5: So it ain't gotten nothing to do it where they're.
Speaker 4: Going out with me or not? Like, don't nobody dictate
Speaker 4: my program?
Speaker 3: You know?
Speaker 1: Some of these niggas is real slick. Some of these yeah,
Speaker 1: a different man with their homies were.
Speaker 2: The holes and nigga.
Speaker 4: Church. You ain't deffe Like.
Speaker 1: I got one last question. Do y'all feel like, all right,
Speaker 1: so you said you were a future fan. Do y'all
Speaker 1: feel like the music has affected the rate of marriage
Speaker 1: with people in the love and hip hop?
Speaker 6: Hell yeah, A lot of these a lot of these
Speaker 6: dudes that's rapping are not married. Mm hmm, you know
Speaker 6: what I mean.
Speaker 7: So it was like, and then a lot of dudes
Speaker 7: that whatever is going on on the GRAM is going
Speaker 7: on with their people's too. It's like, you know what
Speaker 7: I mean, It's like it's kind of like people in
Speaker 7: our circle, like Price could be one of our peoples
Speaker 7: and hanging out with us all the time and he's
Speaker 7: rapping off.
Speaker 6: We're all doing right.
Speaker 7: So it's like, but I feel like, yes, you ain't
Speaker 7: gonna hear about marriage talk from a non marriage nigga.
Speaker 6: You don't hear about what he's doing yesterday.
Speaker 1: Mm hmm.
Speaker 4: Right, Yeah, I think that. I think yet I think.
Speaker 5: Yes, right, But I also think it's deeper than just
Speaker 5: rap because I feel like it's just black.
Speaker 4: It's us as.
Speaker 5: A people not valuing real success, right, because if you
Speaker 5: really think about it, Yeah, like if you think about
Speaker 5: the biggest rapper, the richest rapper is Jay Z, and
Speaker 5: he married regardless of you know.
Speaker 4: The mishoves he may have.
Speaker 5: Had his union or not, He's still married and building
Speaker 5: a family with his women in the legacy with his women.
Speaker 5: Some of the biggest executives, artist producers ever are married
Speaker 5: and being married.
Speaker 4: You feel me.
Speaker 5: And then when you just think of black men period,
Speaker 5: because it's so many great people.
Speaker 4: Like Blad right here, who everybody might.
Speaker 5: Not know on a like a notoriety public level, but
Speaker 5: it's a Mary black man, you know what I'm saying.
Speaker 4: So many successful married black.
Speaker 2: Men, most successful black men are married, are married.
Speaker 5: Yes, you feel me, and it's twenty tweenty three. They're
Speaker 5: married to black women too for the most part. Like
Speaker 5: it ain't just a thing where like, yeah, that narrative
Speaker 5: is kind of getting killed off too, Like it ain't
Speaker 5: just where niggas is rushing to go marry the white girl,
Speaker 5: the little.
Speaker 4: Hispanic with no no shade to you, niggas, But at
Speaker 4: the same time, y'all killing the vibe.
Speaker 6: However, come.
Speaker 5: For sure, But you feel me, but there are It's
Speaker 5: really it speaks to the value that like us as
Speaker 5: the people, we don't value true success. We love the
Speaker 5: like the the glitter you know, the glittering ship, Like
Speaker 5: Future is glittery, and I love the nigga music. But
Speaker 5: Future don't even be drinking lean and we don't be
Speaker 5: doing the shit even talk about this, you know what
Speaker 5: I'm saying. But it's just it looked good to the
Speaker 5: little kid that's in the ghetto and the projects or
Speaker 5: the and you know you're on the west side of
Speaker 5: the fucking confident or the i e.
Speaker 4: Who ain't seen that and don't got nothing.
Speaker 5: Then you see him all the bus down chains popping
Speaker 5: out the rolls Royce and talk about we fucking that bitch,
Speaker 5: and we lay up like you.
Speaker 4: Know what I mean, like like that's what we're doing.
Speaker 4: But if you y'all not listening to the real sex.
Speaker 5: And that was the part of why I got married too,
Speaker 5: because I'm young, I'm around the some of the biggest
Speaker 5: niggas and I'm gonna beat the nigga that pop in
Speaker 5: with chains on and wearing the same shit flyer to
Speaker 5: you niggas all that, But I'm married now that I was.
Speaker 5: That was my attempt to change the narrative, you know,
Speaker 5: And that's still the goal and objective.
Speaker 4: But I think it does play a part.
Speaker 5: But I think, like I said, it's deeper, so much
Speaker 5: deeper than rap because my sons, I'm not a.
Speaker 1: Female rap because you know, a lot of the music
Speaker 1: now that females are making are not saying let's get married.
Speaker 1: You know, they're like, you need that money and then
Speaker 1: get it gone like that, get the head and leave.
Speaker 5: You know, I've been in the studio for a month
Speaker 5: with Suweedi finishing her album.
Speaker 4: I was supposed to go today I drove back from
Speaker 4: Vegas today. Didn't go.
Speaker 5: And when we was talking earlier, I almost brought it
Speaker 5: up because how to write We was writing and she
Speaker 5: wanted to say like something about like I don't need
Speaker 5: a nigga like all that, like that's the narrative.
Speaker 4: You feel me it but.
Speaker 3: And be at home crying by yourself or you have
Speaker 3: people like Sierra and even a Beyonce said women that
Speaker 3: don't need no man.
Speaker 1: And I'm like, both of y'all got a man? Why
Speaker 1: are y'all saying that in the song?
Speaker 3: Y'all as programming the same thing we just saw with
Speaker 3: Kiki Palmer, how she got out there performing talking about
Speaker 3: she don't need.
Speaker 2: No nigga girl. You a whole you a whole goddamn
Speaker 2: industry plan. At this point, I don't like that ship.
Speaker 5: And like it because at the end of the day too,
Speaker 5: it's like, all right, we don't necessarily like need nothing
Speaker 5: but Aaron water, right, but we all want like if
Speaker 5: you say you don't want.
Speaker 1: I need a man. I need a nigga running this
Speaker 1: ship by myself.
Speaker 2: I think men need women more than anything for sure.
Speaker 4: Yeah, yeah, niggas need each other. That's what I'm saying.
Speaker 5: I think when it's like a Beyonce, when they get
Speaker 5: to those certain levels where they just papered up and like,
Speaker 5: how y'all said, we could just how you come through
Speaker 5: and send you packing, send you on your way. Actually
Speaker 5: it's a car waiting outside to send you on your NDA.
Speaker 5: You sign this NDA before you get the fuck out
Speaker 5: of your right. It's easy for them to be like,
Speaker 5: I don't need need but you know what I'm saying.
Speaker 5: The real reality is like even with Sweety, I've talked
Speaker 5: to Sweety plenty times, she's just like she wants love,
Speaker 5: like every she wants to be in love, and like
Speaker 5: real love. The problem is like the industries that these
Speaker 5: people are in. It sh is like high school, right,
Speaker 5: And so when you go to high school, it's freshman, sophomore's.
Speaker 4: Junior, seniors. It's very rare that the freshman is fucking
Speaker 4: with us.
Speaker 5: One of the top seniors get on the campus, you
Speaker 5: feel me, and so they feel like they're seniors, you know,
Speaker 5: and they're also they're all dating in their class and
Speaker 5: unfortunately in their class is niggas is just sliming. So
Speaker 5: they don't even want to think about being like they
Speaker 5: want to project and push that I don't need no
Speaker 5: nigga because it's like niggas don't be.
Speaker 2: Wanting to feel manifesting.
Speaker 4: No niggas, that's what you're manifesting for sure, you know.
Speaker 4: And it's a sell.
Speaker 5: It's it's the same way like so to your point, yes,
Speaker 5: because the same way like niggas want to hear the
Speaker 5: street music, niggas want to hear this and that.
Speaker 4: You know, it's a cell point. You know right now women.
Speaker 5: Pink pussy, pink, booty whole brown, that ship is taken
Speaker 5: over the world.
Speaker 2: You know what I mean.
Speaker 1: I blush every time I hear this.
Speaker 2: I be embarrassed. I'd be embarrassed when I had that
Speaker 2: ship in public, like, oh my god.
Speaker 5: Like I love it though, because it's it's so black,
Speaker 5: you know what I mean.
Speaker 4: Clear, this we talking about black women.
Speaker 1: I know, I'm mess with the light skin girls. When
Speaker 1: they sing the lyrics, I'd be like.
Speaker 2: Your booty whole pink too brown? They got brown booty holes.
Speaker 2: Them should be just a dingy girl.
Speaker 3: They don't tell you don't like girls booty holes be
Speaker 3: brown too.
Speaker 2: Listen miss me with that, I ran.
Speaker 4: The constant couple.
Speaker 5: But to your point, yeah, I definitely think that the
Speaker 5: music and all of that is playing a big part
Speaker 5: because it's like the top rappers, if Travis, if Drake,
Speaker 5: if you if Future, if all these niggas popped out
Speaker 5: was married and pushing marriage.
Speaker 7: Sorry to cut you off, and if that was selling too. Yeah,
Speaker 7: that was selling exactly everybody.
Speaker 1: You think about it, It would sell if they pushed
Speaker 1: it more, because think about they pushed. They want to
Speaker 1: push to the people. Like when uh, what's his name?
Speaker 1: The baby little baby had that song that was about
Speaker 1: sticking together. Uh after what's his name? He started out,
Speaker 1: he got the knee in his neck, and he made
Speaker 1: that black stand together song. They did not play that
Speaker 1: song like that. That song was good. They didn't push
Speaker 1: that song.
Speaker 4: You know.
Speaker 1: Yeah, they're pushing everything else but things that uplift us.
Speaker 3: You know, when when kish Kor and Gucci Man got married,
Speaker 3: I text Charlamagne, I said, man, they about to change
Speaker 3: the trajectory of black people.
Speaker 2: Man, Niggas gonna start getting married.
Speaker 3: I just knew that more niggas was gonna start getting
Speaker 3: married because Gucci man got married.
Speaker 6: For sure.
Speaker 2: It really has that nigga.
Speaker 8: Clone that change his whole life right quick.
Speaker 4: Yeah, and then you gotta do it.
Speaker 5: I mean, like to your point, niggas is waiting to
Speaker 5: do it till after they.
Speaker 2: Did stop working. Go ahead, yeah, now.
Speaker 3: Worse sex for the rest of her life. That is
Speaker 3: fucked up. Okay, let's be weird clear.
Speaker 4: We want Zone six good. We want Zone six turned
Speaker 4: up Gucci to get married. You know what I'm saying,
Speaker 4: We want you to get married at that time.
Speaker 5: You know, like Little Baby and janea way that if
Speaker 5: they was married and at the peak of they like ship,
Speaker 5: that ship would inspire so many more of my face.
Speaker 5: But there's so many black men that are rich, way
Speaker 5: more rich than Little Baby, that may not be as famous,
Speaker 5: that's married and married to a black women. So that's
Speaker 5: why I'm saying the real problem is that like we're
Speaker 5: not looking at boys watkins, We're not looking at fucking just.
Speaker 4: So many Lebron Lebron being.
Speaker 5: Married to the same black woman raising two black fucking
Speaker 5: little superstars. It's only gonna We're not looking at that,
Speaker 5: it's something hurt you.
Speaker 3: Now they had two kids before they even got married.
Speaker 3: Then they had yeah, yeah, but even not even the rappers.
Speaker 3: Look at the nancial dudes that's running the internet right now,
Speaker 3: all these finance guys, these uh option traders and all
Speaker 3: this shit.
Speaker 2: Like, none of these niggas married either. So y'all talk
Speaker 2: about generational wealth and legacy, You can't do that without
Speaker 2: a wife, you know, you can't do that when you
Speaker 2: having kids here, a kids there. You spread yourself so thin,
Speaker 2: So how are you going to get to the bag
Speaker 2: in a real way?
Speaker 3: If you got all your children in different households, you
Speaker 3: ain't controlling shit at that point. You don't got the
Speaker 3: control over none of these kids and none of these women.
Speaker 3: Future is not happy, y'all, niggas.
Speaker 2: It's grown men out here saying they would rather their
Speaker 2: son be like Future than Russell Wilson, y'all, any of them.
Speaker 1: Honestly, we don't know if any of them are happy. Honestly,
Speaker 1: you know, all we know is what we see on
Speaker 1: social media, and they could be going home crying every night.
Speaker 1: You never know.
Speaker 2: Well, we got.
Speaker 5: Niggas, Yeah, but I would I would I would rather
Speaker 5: be crying with like nine different baby mamas that I'm
Speaker 5: having to pay monthly different wages.
Speaker 4: One getting that.
Speaker 2: Niggas mad.
Speaker 4: Oh No, I don't feel there's no way that.
Speaker 2: Feels niggas through it because she ain't having it.
Speaker 6: She was she was raised right, people.
Speaker 2: Got roots in that nigga and everything.
Speaker 4: And then they and then they be now you.
Speaker 5: Gotta go and put all your funds and different counts
Speaker 5: to look like you ain't making no money and do
Speaker 5: all this weird ship when it's just like and then
Speaker 5: you do gotta deal with a nigga like Russell who
Speaker 5: come in.
Speaker 2: And playing football with your little son.
Speaker 4: You know what I'm saying. You feel me itself?
Speaker 5: I think that like like you said, we really don't
Speaker 5: know what people are experiencing or feeling. But I mean,
Speaker 5: like we said, like perceptions everything, And if I'm be
Speaker 5: doing anything, I'd rather be doing it like with a partner.
Speaker 4: I like, I like what like Sierra and Russell be doing.
Speaker 4: It looked real good.
Speaker 5: It looked fly for our people, you know, And I
Speaker 5: think it's dope calling corny and ship.
Speaker 1: Like y'all Guardian, The same people who call it corny
Speaker 1: is the same kids that grew up like, oh you
Speaker 1: got a daddy, you whack his head, you know, like
Speaker 1: you're the same people.
Speaker 3: Yeah, but listen, we have a segment on our show, right,
Speaker 3: it's uh dumb bitch stories, right, and then the sequel
Speaker 3: to that not sequel, What is the word I'm looking for,
Speaker 3: Like the equal mal version? Yeah, the male version is
Speaker 3: the SIMP series, right, So when we come back from break,
Speaker 3: we need some stories. We need some SIMP stories from y'all. Okay,
Speaker 3: y'all got it when when I was yeah, a time
Speaker 3: you got played.
Speaker 1: Y'all got played by the opposite sex.
Speaker 2: Y'all stay tuned. We'll be right back.
Speaker 6: Way to say this pure sir.
Speaker 1: Let me just say this. Don't tell us no ship
Speaker 1: from high school. We don't want to.
Speaker 9: Hear like great, no, no, no, no, this is this
Speaker 9: is what before I met my wifelying, this happened yesterday.
Speaker 7: No, it was Remember one time I went on a
Speaker 7: date this ship went to like a comedy show and
Speaker 7: she kept on ordering hot chocolates. Right, I found out
Speaker 7: was kind of weird. It was like a her fourth
Speaker 7: hot chocolate. I'm just like buying them whatever and then
Speaker 7: and then.
Speaker 6: No, it was crazy.
Speaker 7: It was like yo, by the time, and then it
Speaker 7: was like the comedy show was school, it was good
Speaker 7: bye whatever, and she called this dude that was like
Speaker 7: she sees to ride the cabs and used to drive
Speaker 7: every I'm like, yo, this is a man's like no,
Speaker 7: this is due, you know this whatever picked up.
Speaker 6: She gets in the car and kisses him and leaves.
Speaker 6: I'm like, I payed for all your hot chocolates and
Speaker 6: this is what I get. Oh yeah, four hot chocolates.
Speaker 6: I was like, yeah, this was crazy.
Speaker 1: She was hot.
Speaker 6: I know, she was like four twenty five.
Speaker 1: Like she was shipping up or something like I thought
Speaker 1: she was.
Speaker 4: She had to get home.
Speaker 6: I don't know what she called doing the caves shed
Speaker 6: speech was like that was like yeah, she left with
Speaker 6: him and I got.
Speaker 2: Traumatized by the heart sound like she was working.
Speaker 6: Yeah, I would never buy hot chocolates again.
Speaker 3: Or she's not like a car hopper. I thought she
Speaker 3: was homeless, Like is she sleeping outside? She need to
Speaker 3: stay warm?
Speaker 6: Like it was the weirdest thing. I said, like, you know,
Speaker 6: because on your fourth one, I'm like that, man, Well, yeah,
Speaker 6: it's crazy.
Speaker 1: What about you price to.
Speaker 5: Some people in fighting for your marriage and my mindset.
Speaker 5: It was fighting for my marriage at the same time,
Speaker 5: knowing that that was the person I had no business
Speaker 5: being with.
Speaker 4: Some same ship.
Speaker 5: But one story shirt me and my ex we lived
Speaker 5: in Atlanta there at the time, and we got into
Speaker 5: it heavy, and she moved back to California and was like,
Speaker 5: you know, we're being separated. It was like, we're getting separated,
Speaker 5: So then I come back to fight for a fight.
Speaker 4: For the marriage, blah blah blah blah.
Speaker 5: Ironically, her birthdays around this time, and she kept posting
Speaker 5: online and she wanted this dog, like a teacup Yorkie.
Speaker 5: You know what I'm saying. I got my little fence
Speaker 5: to the page or whatever. Keep looking at her little
Speaker 5: page to see you know what I'm saying. So I
Speaker 5: keep seeing that she wants this dumb ass dog, and
Speaker 5: I'm like, all right, fucking for sure to get the dog.
Speaker 4: Whatever.
Speaker 5: So then we ended up getting cool and you know,
Speaker 5: decided to go somewhere for her birthday. We go where
Speaker 5: we're going. I'm surprised her with the dog she hyped.
Speaker 5: So now she's back, you know, yeah, it's all that right,
Speaker 5: And so I get her phone to take pictures. She
Speaker 5: wanted me to get pictures and videos of her with
Speaker 5: the dog.
Speaker 4: And this is set.
Speaker 5: But as I'm recording the video, I see text messages
Speaker 5: popping up on the phone, you know, as I'm holding it,
Speaker 5: and it was Yeah, it was just not the right
Speaker 5: kind of text message.
Speaker 4: And it's on her birthday.
Speaker 5: So I could tell from the responses from the text
Speaker 5: messages of kind of like the idea of what she
Speaker 5: was saying.
Speaker 4: So I'd be lying if I said I didn't go
Speaker 4: through the phone when she got.
Speaker 5: The shower right, so in the phone, so I see,
Speaker 5: because I really just went straight to that conbo I
Speaker 5: didn't even give a funk about nothing else. I wanted
Speaker 5: to see what she was talking about. This nigga should know.
Speaker 5: She asking the niggah, why you ain't telling me happy birthday?
Speaker 5: This lambs shit, I'm looking like, niggadn't even tell you
Speaker 5: happy birthday?
Speaker 2: Like you, I got you a dog?
Speaker 4: Right? Were married?
Speaker 6: All that?
Speaker 5: We're married, But I'm saying all that to say, so
Speaker 5: I hold it in though because it had been months,
Speaker 5: we ain't have no sex nothing, so you want to start.
Speaker 4: I wanted to get my issue and so boom we
Speaker 4: do our thing. That next morning.
Speaker 5: We drive back down from wherever we're at, and I'm steaming,
Speaker 5: but I ain't say nothing the whole time. I'm just
Speaker 5: playing the cool. But when we get to our destination,
Speaker 5: acted like I knew everything. You feel me acting like
Speaker 5: I knew everything. So she ended up like just confected
Speaker 5: because I told her about the one text message I
Speaker 5: seen and then I just like portrayed like I knew everything,
Speaker 5: and she went for it. So she started telling me everything,
Speaker 5: like she had a nigga at her mama.
Speaker 4: House in the pool kissing. It was just all this
Speaker 4: wild ship. She really had no truice that.
Speaker 2: Video.
Speaker 1: Baby.
Speaker 5: But what makes it the simp story to it for
Speaker 5: me is that like after that happened, you know, I
Speaker 5: was crashed. I'm talking abou you know your stomach hell no,
Speaker 5: But and I said I wouldn't cry. But I didn't cry,
Speaker 5: but my heart.
Speaker 4: My stomach, I just had that that stomach feeling, you
Speaker 4: know what I mean, hurt.
Speaker 6: I was like, that's that's the full hot choc type
Speaker 6: of stomach right there.
Speaker 4: But I stayed. I stayed. You know what I'm saying
Speaker 4: to me, The simph about it is the fact.
Speaker 2: That I hold on.
Speaker 3: I got dragged Instagram because we did another podcast and
Speaker 3: I said, if you cheat on your nigga and he
Speaker 3: find out, you better leave that nigga because y'all wont
Speaker 3: troll in the relationship, like you want me to stay
Speaker 3: and you want to troll me the whole time while
Speaker 3: I'm here.
Speaker 4: Right, So, No, I didn't troller.
Speaker 1: I just was.
Speaker 4: I went through a little season where I was.
Speaker 2: Mean, that's what I'm talking about, But no, you gotta
Speaker 2: let me get through.
Speaker 4: Nah.
Speaker 2: Yeah, he separate from me.
Speaker 5: That No, that's that's scary. That's tricky because hell is separately.
Speaker 5: I might get up, I might get under somebody to
Speaker 5: try to get over you, and they come back around
Speaker 5: you come back you know, or or don't if it
Speaker 5: ain't meant if it ain't. But then we ended up
Speaker 5: having my son after all of that, which was the
Speaker 5: craziest part, Like we actually ended up having my son
Speaker 5: when it was really like the tail end.
Speaker 4: Of each other. Yeah, so yeah, that was my.
Speaker 1: I had a friend who got caught cheating on her
Speaker 1: man and they like worked it out, but for a
Speaker 1: long time, she said, I used to think he was
Speaker 1: trying to kill me because we.
Speaker 2: Would fucking he would mash a pillow on my face.
Speaker 2: I've been I be that is real.
Speaker 4: I've been there before we go, before you go or
Speaker 4: switch the topic. So you been there, like you didn't it.
Speaker 2: No, I didn't cheat teated town, I never cheated.
Speaker 1: I don't know what you're talking about.
Speaker 2: Okay.
Speaker 3: Because of the self awareness that I have about myself, now,
Speaker 3: I know that I need to be single in a relationship.
Speaker 1: Let me explain, Yes I.
Speaker 3: Am, because listen, in a relationship, I'm very very loyal, right,
Speaker 3: But I want people to stop pretending that they don't
Speaker 3: frightnize right that you don't entertain messages you might get
Speaker 3: sometimes and no, you still got it a little bit right.
Speaker 2: Everybody does it.
Speaker 3: You just don't want somebody to see it like in
Speaker 3: your ship and see it like a motherfucker. Be not
Speaker 3: misinterpreting some ship because it was never for your eyes
Speaker 3: in the first place. So I don't touch people things, right,
Speaker 3: don't touch my ship. When I said I want to
Speaker 3: be single in a relationship, I I want to be
Speaker 3: able to tell my person everything about me. So if
Speaker 3: I like to flirt, even if we together and I'm
Speaker 3: we just ordering coffee or some ship, And I said oh,
Speaker 3: thank you baby. Like in my last relationship, just calling
Speaker 3: somebody baby was a problem. And I don't mean to
Speaker 3: buy it, Like my mom calls everybody baby. Like I
Speaker 3: grew up like that. So if you talking to a kid,
Speaker 3: a grown person, a woman, or a man, it's like,
Speaker 3: thank your baby.
Speaker 2: That was a problem. I don't want that to be
Speaker 2: a problem.
Speaker 1: No, that's a problem for me because if you my
Speaker 1: if you was my woman and you call him a
Speaker 1: nigga baby, your head going between the Washington.
Speaker 3: But I never really call it a grown person a baby,
Speaker 3: like grown man baby, while with my significant other it
Speaker 3: would be like a younger person, somebody younger than me,
Speaker 3: you know what I'm saying, not like some grown fine
Speaker 3: as nigga.
Speaker 2: I'm like, thank you baby. No, that never happened, you
Speaker 2: know what I mean, That never happened.
Speaker 4: That a little.
Speaker 2: What's your signs? What's your sign?
Speaker 1: What's your too?
Speaker 4: I'm a Sagittarian.
Speaker 1: Oh I like that terrorists.
Speaker 3: I'm a Gemini, So Sagittarius is like the opposite, the
Speaker 3: opposite of Gemini.
Speaker 6: What's your birthday?
Speaker 2: June eighth? I like to tell people me and Kanye
Speaker 2: got the same birthday. Y'all just to put a little bit.
Speaker 1: What about you, I'm a cancer July into June into July.
Speaker 6: That's like my mom my brother is a cancer.
Speaker 1: Yeah, loving cry babies right the fact sound like my mom.
Speaker 5: Yeah, okay, see, I'll be I'll be knowing the signs.
Speaker 5: I just don't really be knowing them birthdays or just
Speaker 5: the birthdays. I actually be knowing the traits more than
Speaker 5: the times.
Speaker 4: That make you.
Speaker 3: Yeah, having all my niggas sign up for let me
Speaker 3: say i'd be having all the nigga.
Speaker 8: I may I have.
Speaker 2: When I meet somebody, I have them sign up a
Speaker 2: co star? Is this app Like I need to see
Speaker 2: your fucking birth yard, dog, Not because I want to
Speaker 2: manipulate you. It's just like it's like a good.
Speaker 3: Starting point to see, like who somebody is, right, I
Speaker 3: need to know, like how your planet's alone.
Speaker 4: I never get to know, like if I'm a half
Speaker 4: moon or this and that and all that ship.
Speaker 1: I don't believe in that ship. Like we're all individuals.
Speaker 1: Like some of that stuff is true to a degree,
Speaker 1: but for the most part, I think it's your life
Speaker 1: experiences that make it.
Speaker 2: You are right and upbringing. Y'all got to find out
Speaker 2: who people mom and daddy is, who the people people is?
Speaker 1: Yeah, before you start meeting with him, Yeah, said do
Speaker 1: y'all feel like that's important your upbringing?
Speaker 2: Like yeah, that's like the main thing.
Speaker 1: Do you hear that? Do you use that to pick
Speaker 1: a woman?
Speaker 7: Like I don't see, I don't do that, No, no, no,
Speaker 7: I know with me like I said, like earlier, like
Speaker 7: I had communication issues and I didn't trust a lot
Speaker 7: of people, right, And that's something that I had to
Speaker 7: catch myself as I got older. Right, So in between
Speaker 7: that and me not knowing, I was just like a
Speaker 7: cold hearted like yo, you get in a relationship for
Speaker 7: like a good three years, like I'm out all right,
Speaker 7: I'm out.
Speaker 6: Too, because it was like it was I never really
Speaker 6: got too close, right, So I was like.
Speaker 7: Okay, But as I got older, I realized, but you
Speaker 7: know a lot of people, like I said, growing up
Speaker 7: any therapy and yeah, you know what I mean, we
Speaker 7: all can probably use therapy right now, open up, sure
Speaker 7: you know what I mean? So I was like, sure,
Speaker 7: I try to be that to like people I'm hanging
Speaker 7: out with all the time, Like yo, just like as
Speaker 7: a you know, a free therapist.
Speaker 5: And ship you know, Yeah, I like getting to know
Speaker 5: who people family is, not even for the sake of like, oh,
Speaker 5: whether I'm a funk with you or.
Speaker 4: Not, But that's just it helps me understand who I'm
Speaker 4: fucking with a lot better.
Speaker 5: Like you said, so like if you got a family
Speaker 5: that's like my family, we got we communicate, but we
Speaker 5: can we get angry, you know what I'm saying. So
Speaker 5: we get to my mom allowed, she get to go
Speaker 5: in the fuck off. She can really just break you
Speaker 5: and beat you down with words. We ain't got to
Speaker 5: put our hands on you.
Speaker 4: We just chew you away with words, you know, like
Speaker 4: you know shit like that. But then I come from
Speaker 4: family with angry issues and alcoholism and things like that.
Speaker 4: So you want to know some of those things so
Speaker 4: that you can know like like.
Speaker 5: Anxiety issues, things like that, so you can kind of
Speaker 5: know trigger exactly you feel.
Speaker 4: Me, so you can know who you're dealing with, how
Speaker 4: to deal with him, right you feel me?
Speaker 5: It's important Sometimes people don't be wondering I don't want
Speaker 5: to meet your family.
Speaker 4: I'm good on the family.
Speaker 2: I've been making jokes saying I don't like niggas with mamas.
Speaker 2: Is that I don't like niggas with mamas and.
Speaker 3: Sisters who are not in healthy relationships with a man,
Speaker 3: right because here I am dating your son, dating your brother,
Speaker 3: and you mad at me because he's no longer like
Speaker 3: doing the things he used to do for you, because
Speaker 3: you don't have a good relationship with a man. I
Speaker 3: don't want to have to smack your sisters about to
Speaker 3: say her mom.
Speaker 6: I don't want to flag.
Speaker 4: Your mom, but.
Speaker 2: I'm not. I won't leave your ass because of your mama.
Speaker 4: I'm not mom. Hell no, it's crazy.
Speaker 5: I really just had this conversation, but I think it's important,
Speaker 5: like to what we was talking about earlier. But that
Speaker 5: is all based on the type of man, like if
Speaker 5: you would pushover ass nigga, if you're a nigga who
Speaker 5: you know get talked too crazy and ran over ran
Speaker 5: on by whoever.
Speaker 4: Because even if it's your mama, like.
Speaker 5: It could be your mama, you can be your mama's
Speaker 5: boy all of that, you can have all the left
Speaker 5: for your mom, support.
Speaker 4: Your mom, be the ones doing this, this and that.
Speaker 4: But it's still ordered. It's still lines you aren't allowed
Speaker 4: to cross. And I'm gonna check you mom or not.
Speaker 4: You know, I got hummies. That's I got big hommies
Speaker 4: that won't like talk back to their mom or just
Speaker 4: or check they mom, you know what I mean, or
Speaker 4: check they I would check my mom quick as a motherfucker.
Speaker 3: Yeah, you're not your lady. Your woman is having to
Speaker 3: deal with this woman and I'm not. I don't want
Speaker 3: to have to check your mom. I feel like you should, yes.
Speaker 5: Yeah, yeah, yeah, But then it's too like also like
Speaker 5: it's important for the man to kind of have that
Speaker 5: conversation with like like what we're talking about, like let
Speaker 5: you know some.
Speaker 4: Of the pain points of his mom or that your parents,
Speaker 4: et cetera, et cetera. So it's like.
Speaker 5: This is because like my mom a prime example, my mom,
Speaker 5: she's single now, she ain't got no man, but she
Speaker 5: don't give a like my mom don't want me to
Speaker 5: be her man. You know, I got hommies who they
Speaker 5: mama think that they they her man. You know what
Speaker 5: I'm saying, Like that ain't my mom. But if my
Speaker 5: mom needs something or is hurting or whatever, the fuck,
Speaker 5: like she don't want to see me just fucking I'm
Speaker 5: balling out over here and ain't doing nothing help, which
Speaker 5: you feel me. So that's more of a me thing.
Speaker 5: And but the moment that that translates over to you know,
Speaker 5: your relationship or your partner is feeling that shit, then
Speaker 5: it's like, all right, moms, I gotta let you you know,
Speaker 5: gotta let you.
Speaker 4: Know what it is.
Speaker 5: Because one thing, I'm a big friend believer as a
Speaker 5: being a parent, it taught me that, like, Okay, everybody's
Speaker 5: gonna go off and do their own thing for the
Speaker 5: most part, right, Like my two sons, I love them
Speaker 5: to death, they love me, they love their mamas for
Speaker 5: show they love me. But when y'all little niggas get
Speaker 5: probably sixteen, the Texan CAUs.
Speaker 4: Is gonna slow.
Speaker 5: By the time y'all little niggas is eighteen nineteen, y'all
Speaker 5: gonna be doing your own fucking thing.
Speaker 4: And eventually y'all gonna go get married.
Speaker 5: Like when my mom was married, she her husband came first,
Speaker 5: Your partner come first, you know what I'm saying.
Speaker 4: And like your mom, because we.
Speaker 2: Ain't good at the relationship, but the kids is not
Speaker 2: gonna be good.
Speaker 3: I do think you have to be like we don't
Speaker 3: have kids, right, but I do think you it gotta
Speaker 3: be fucking kids when you got a husband a wife,
Speaker 3: you know what I mean.
Speaker 4: Yeah, it's ordered to it. It's ordered because I mean,
Speaker 4: at the end of the day, like I said, the
Speaker 4: kids gonna grow up and they gonna go do their own.
Speaker 5: Thing, like and you won't even talk to these little
Speaker 5: niggas for who knows how long they just doing their
Speaker 5: own thing, you feel me.
Speaker 4: And so you got some people who like to vote.
Speaker 5: They woll like to their children, want to follow their
Speaker 5: children around everything they do, and when they go get
Speaker 5: get older and move to Minnesota for college, they want
Speaker 5: to move to Minnesota to be close.
Speaker 2: I wish I got a homegirl like that.
Speaker 3: I'm like, I know for sure her someone to fucking
Speaker 3: run away and he's about to and he wants to
Speaker 3: go to college on the West Coast.
Speaker 2: She's like, I'm moving. I'm like, that is not that's
Speaker 2: not your nigga, right.
Speaker 4: Let little bro do his thing please. I would tell
Speaker 4: my mom so quickly, listen, you're staying here.
Speaker 6: I'll be back.
Speaker 2: Her videos on social media as her and her son.
Speaker 2: I'm like, Yo, this is not healthy.
Speaker 5: Yeah it's beautiful though, but it's just like you gotta
Speaker 5: be balanced and gotta be ordered man like.
Speaker 4: And unfortunately it.
Speaker 5: Do be the fact, like you said, they don't be
Speaker 5: having a relationships, don't be having men in their life.
Speaker 4: But you can't.
Speaker 5: I would hate to see you not be potentially with
Speaker 5: like a great man because his mama don't got.
Speaker 4: The man, you know what I'm saying, Like that shouldn't
Speaker 4: just be the reason to just write something off, you
Speaker 4: know what I mean right away?
Speaker 1: But based on just sh me, mama make it hard.
Speaker 1: It's like you fighting for position with your man all
Speaker 1: the time because of the mama just feels like she should.
Speaker 4: Come from saying.
Speaker 7: Now that's different that a jane do you guys cut
Speaker 7: off a lot of guys just so for like little ship.
Speaker 2: Tolerance When I tell you.
Speaker 4: Tolerant the fine.
Speaker 1: Little ship.
Speaker 6: Like the way that niggas sneezed yesterday.
Speaker 2: Not like yeah you I can't fuck with you.
Speaker 7: I don't think cut people off for small things like that, right,
Speaker 7: so you keep you because I'm a lot of people
Speaker 7: I know to like little ship is like short.
Speaker 1: Really a lot of females, it'd be big ship though,
Speaker 1: like oh he's a gambler, or he's just in the
Speaker 1: streets too much, or you know, things like that.
Speaker 4: What's the last thing you had to cut a nigga off.
Speaker 4: What's the last nigga got cut off?
Speaker 1: And why the last nigga that got cut off? He
Speaker 1: was he was doing all the things. He was really
Speaker 1: really nice talking. Everything was right right. And then my
Speaker 1: homegirl she's her man is friends with the guy.
Speaker 4: Right.
Speaker 1: She was like, girl, he is on the run from
Speaker 1: the police right now. Out that cut.
Speaker 2: Like a mortgage, We're not locked in. We're not locked in.
Speaker 4: Mortgage.
Speaker 2: I like a lot of Morgan area.
Speaker 4: Too much money.
Speaker 6: You got a little too much d D money, a
Speaker 6: little blue collar crime.
Speaker 2: Yeah, White.
Speaker 7: It's a great convo for you guys if be having
Speaker 7: right now too, because it's like a lot of people
Speaker 7: I feel like not even.
Speaker 6: Having this conversation at all, you know. I mean it's
Speaker 6: like you got younger girls just walking around here thinking,
Speaker 6: don't they lost? They don't even know what to do? Yeah,
Speaker 6: mento met And I.
Speaker 1: Think oftentimes when men and women have this conversation, it
Speaker 1: gets hostile instead of yeah, we can laugh and talk
Speaker 1: about the things that you know aren't working for us
Speaker 1: without being to each other.
Speaker 3: You know.
Speaker 7: That's why I'm all about the non traditional, changing the
Speaker 7: whole status quo of things.
Speaker 4: You know.
Speaker 7: I mean, if it works, this works as a platform
Speaker 7: where it can open a dialogue with everybody, then let's
Speaker 7: do it.
Speaker 4: Why not? Right? Right?
Speaker 1: Yeah?
Speaker 2: You know, I really don't even like men that talk,
Speaker 2: so I think like the men.
Speaker 1: That we want a deaf ute nigga.
Speaker 2: No, No, I don't want. I don't want to.
Speaker 3: I want a man who walks in the room and
Speaker 3: everybody knows that's a man without him opening his mouth.
Speaker 3: That's what I mean by I don't like niggas that talk,
Speaker 3: like these these podcast niggas. I can't get with these
Speaker 3: podcast niggas. Y'all talk too much, y'a chatty pattys y'all
Speaker 3: are I know y'all was raised by black women. That's
Speaker 3: what I mean when I say I don't like niggas
Speaker 3: that talk. I like.
Speaker 2: I like quiet men. I like to know that my
Speaker 2: nigga wants to mack the shit out of you quietly.
Speaker 2: How would you feel like a man he liked quiet women?
Speaker 2: You know I'm not for you.
Speaker 3: I talk a lot for the both of us, okay,
Speaker 3: So I don't need you talking, nigga.
Speaker 1: She don't like a nigga who talks. You don't like
Speaker 1: mamas niggas with mama's niggas who talk.
Speaker 4: No.
Speaker 3: I like men with moms, right. I like men who
Speaker 3: have good relationships their mom. But the mom has to
Speaker 3: be happy. It has to be a happy mom and
Speaker 3: a happy sister. That's all I mean by that.
Speaker 4: Yeah, damn, So podcast niggas don't get no.
Speaker 2: They be be the ones arguing.
Speaker 3: You see how we are able to y'all don't do
Speaker 3: podcasting right, and we're able to have this conversation with
Speaker 3: no bickering or us getting mad and y'all get you know,
Speaker 3: without it getting weird. You see these arguments on these
Speaker 3: podcasts because it's too much feminine energy going on, Like
Speaker 3: women are yeaty. These guys are being caddy with the
Speaker 3: women that they have on these platforms.
Speaker 9: Yeah, and.
Speaker 4: So, what's some of your What's some of before y'all
Speaker 4: get to rap it?
Speaker 1: What's some of your What don't I like in a man?
Speaker 4: Is that what a man not liking you?
Speaker 1: What what they might not like they look about me?
Speaker 4: What do you mean?
Speaker 1: I'm confused that the question. Okay, honestly, I think one
Speaker 1: thing that a man might not like about me? I
Speaker 1: can be real slick at the mouth when I get mad.
Speaker 2: That's black women.
Speaker 1: I'm not. I'm not as bad as I used to be.
Speaker 1: I do like think, like, okay, would I like someone
Speaker 1: to say this to me before I say it? You know,
Speaker 1: there was a time where I be like that, ain't
Speaker 1: even your motherfucking baby, you know, like just really really
Speaker 1: like we we arguing over what we're gonna eat? How
Speaker 1: did how did it get this far? You know, Like
Speaker 1: so you know, I'm better about it now. I think
Speaker 1: that's my biggest thing, is.
Speaker 3: My slick mouth, using people got them, Yeah, yeah, yeah,
Speaker 3: that's good.
Speaker 1: Other than that, I'm like, I'm like a homie with
Speaker 1: my man, Like we be like homies, and sometimes I
Speaker 1: guess that's to a flaw because they get too familiar
Speaker 1: sometimes m h yeah, Like okay, I'm.
Speaker 2: Don't you get to come the boat? Yeah?
Speaker 1: Yeah, Like my last relationship, like you know, I said,
Speaker 1: I was a very submissive woman when I with a
Speaker 1: man like I like to cater to and serve on
Speaker 1: Sundays with football Sunday. He'd be like, Sunday, I'm watching
Speaker 1: football all day. Don't bother me. Really, right, And that's cool,
Speaker 1: you know that's your thing because I'm gonna want you
Speaker 1: to watch Housewives with me, you know, on Tuesday night.
Speaker 1: So that's fine. But he got to the point where
Speaker 1: he'd be drinking his beer and then when he finished
Speaker 1: his beer, he just hold hey, babe, and hold a
Speaker 1: bottle off in the air and shaky. Nigga.
Speaker 2: Is that how you ask for something?
Speaker 1: That you just hold a bottle on the air and
Speaker 1: shake it like I'm some fucking servant.
Speaker 3: I can't somebody say I need you to That gets
Speaker 3: on my nerves. You don't need me to do ship,
Speaker 3: I need you need to ask me to do something,
Speaker 3: then yeah, I need you to go down to the
Speaker 3: stow it up now. So that's when an old bay
Speaker 3: shit got me fucked up, because you you'd be able
Speaker 3: to say I need you to such and such. No,
Speaker 3: that's not how you ask another adult to.
Speaker 1: Do anything, like yeah, I don't mind saying I need
Speaker 1: I need you to do something. It's just no words
Speaker 1: at all, just holding ship up in the air and
Speaker 1: shaking it like so like I'm a fucking puppy. Like no,
Speaker 1: I don't like that. So it can be a slippery
Speaker 1: slope when you are submissive to a man and he
Speaker 1: just yeah, take advantage of it.
Speaker 4: Yeah, that's just a.
Speaker 5: Niggas the way to take advantage of it, you know,
Speaker 5: take anybody's kindness for weakness.
Speaker 4: It's like who the fuck is holding the empty beer
Speaker 4: talking about that?
Speaker 1: Shaking it in there, y'all. Tell everybody where they can
Speaker 1: find you, where they can follow you, what you're into,
Speaker 1: like what you're doing next. Tell everybody that.
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Speaker 4: And in the week and a half or on.
Speaker 5: The twenty fifth of September, I don't know when this airs,
Speaker 5: but the twenty fifth, I mean of August. I'm dropping
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Speaker 4: Yeah. So we're working though we're just talking our ship
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Speaker 6: No tailor, right, mm hmmm.
Speaker 7: So Taylor, you know I'm trying to trying to get
Speaker 7: more into her producing bags. So me and her going
Speaker 7: to work on a film that a friend of mine wrote.
Speaker 6: Uh, pretty good.
Speaker 7: So more see more Taylor and me more behind the
Speaker 7: scenes producing film projects.
Speaker 1: Okay, I want to audition for a roles.
Speaker 4: I got you.
Speaker 6: I'll send you the script.
Speaker 4: Helad Man. How many you know how to speak?
Speaker 6: Freak me all morning? French?
Speaker 7: So French is like a little bit you know propers
Speaker 7: like the more you know broken dialect so fluently?
Speaker 4: How many?
Speaker 5: How many before you was married you didn't cracked off
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Speaker 5: having me on your platform and in your space.
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