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Speaker 1: Talk, talk Talk. We're just two unapologetically black women with

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Speaker 1: an opinion who talks.

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Speaker 2: Y'all.

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Speaker 3: Thank you for tuning up for a new episode of

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Speaker 3: We Talked Back, a show dedicated to all.

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Speaker 2: You dreamers and chasers and niggas and bitches.

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Speaker 1: Oh wait, we dreamers and chasers this week. Last week,

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Speaker 1: y'all was niggas and bitches, y'all. People, All, y'all, family, A.

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Speaker 2: Y'all, what's up?

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Speaker 1: Tam, hey boo, it's me Tam Bam. I love y'all

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Speaker 1: once again. I don't know if I told y'all that

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Speaker 1: last week, but I.

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Speaker 2: Do, probably giggling too much.

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Speaker 1: Yeah, how was your weekend?

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Speaker 2: It was good?

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Speaker 4: Uh?

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Speaker 2: What did I do this weekend?

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Speaker 1: Oh?

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Speaker 2: Girl, I was doing some nice things this weekend.

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Speaker 3: So one of my friends and we're gonna have them

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Speaker 3: on the show to talk about cosmetic surgery at one point.

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Speaker 3: At some point, Lord, I keep talking about it, but

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Speaker 3: it's gonna be a very good episode.

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Speaker 2: I think it's actually need yet.

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Speaker 3: But one of my friends, she's a she's a cosmetic surgeon, surgeon.

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Speaker 3: She had her birthday dinner this weekend on a yacht,

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Speaker 3: child at three bedroom yacht. That shit was like a

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Speaker 3: damn luxury townhouse right quick.

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Speaker 1: I saw you on their real nice Who the fuck she?

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Speaker 1: How comes she eat?

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Speaker 3: It was right here in Charleston, girl, Because y'all know,

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Speaker 3: I was born in Paradise. A lot of people don't

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Speaker 3: appreciate how beautiful this city is. But you gotta have

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Speaker 3: a boat to really see what the fuck is going on.

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Speaker 3: These white folks be everywhere, small islands all over. They

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Speaker 3: just be pulling up to the sandbars and chilling on

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Speaker 3: a nice Sunday Saturday afternoon. Like we just don't get

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Speaker 3: to experience that often unless you know some niggas with

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Speaker 3: a boat. But they actually have a boat club out here,

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Speaker 3: which we should probably put some money together and join.

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Speaker 3: It's five thousand dollars right now. You can you can

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Speaker 3: rent a yacht as much as you want for the year.

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Speaker 1: Oh that's not bad.

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Speaker 3: It's really not up apiece exactly. So I don't know

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Speaker 3: how they go about figuring out like who actually signed

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Speaker 3: up for it? But why wouldn't you be able to

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Speaker 3: split that with somebody else? And or maybe we just

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Speaker 3: always have to be together when we go on it,

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Speaker 3: but we can have other people. Yeah, I want to

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Speaker 3: do that, so That's what I did. We was on

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Speaker 3: the yacht Ya riding around.

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Speaker 1: We did have something one of those, and we have

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Speaker 1: an episode called We Talked Yacht.

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Speaker 3: You know, I had to bring the mic on the

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Speaker 3: yacht because I am I'm not really paying entertainment, but

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Speaker 3: I traveled with a mic.

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Speaker 2: Bitch, it was lit.

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Speaker 3: Okay, I gotta do all the things and make sure

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Speaker 3: niggas hear me what you had going up?

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Speaker 1: Well, your weekend was much more eventful than mine. I

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Speaker 1: didn't do much.

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Speaker 3: Of anything, but you want to see Beyonce twice last week?

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Speaker 2: Okay, just flex a little bit.

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Speaker 1: You Yeah, sut your ass down.

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Speaker 2: I'm mad, Yeah, I did.

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Speaker 1: I set my ass down to mind my business. That's it.

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Speaker 1: Nothing entertaining happened for me. Let's get in the stupid

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Speaker 1: internet news.

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Speaker 2: What we got going on?

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Speaker 5: Child?

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Speaker 2: This goddamn gunplay.

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Speaker 3: Now, I thought he was a maniac when I saw

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Speaker 3: him giving gifts and the shit to Ricky Rose laying

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Speaker 3: both of them, essentially because she's holding the baby, a

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Speaker 1: His wife as well.

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Speaker 3: Oh they're married. Okay, excuse me, they're married. So now

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Speaker 3: this gunplay is I believe he's forty four, his wife

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Speaker 1: Yeah, I mean, that's that's awful. It's awful to have anyone.

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Speaker 1: Have you ever had someone point a gun at you before?

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Speaker 1: It's not a fun thing.

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Speaker 3: I have had it happen somebody else's man trying to

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Speaker 2: Yes, has happened to me.

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Speaker 1: Yeah, same, Not somebody else's man, somebody Well, yeah, it

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Speaker 1: at my head because he thought it was funny. Yeah,

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Speaker 1: I had that happened to me as he thought it

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Speaker 1: that's not sir, the guy that happened to me. It's

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Speaker 1: not funny at all. It's not a nice way to

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Speaker 1: he's playing a video game, and that's what happened to her.

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Speaker 1: That's crazy. Now, you do have to take a little

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Speaker 1: bit of accountability for a nigga playing with a gun

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Speaker 1: with you when he told you his name was Gunplay.

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Speaker 4: You guys, take a.

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Speaker 1: Look a.

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Speaker 2: Little t t.

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Speaker 2: Oh that's terrible, Yeah, Like what the fuck? And you know,

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Speaker 2: a lot of times we always have.

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Speaker 3: These arguments about femininity versus masculinity, but oftentimes bad shit

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Speaker 3: happens when men getting their feelings. Like the most we do,

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Speaker 3: for the most part, we fight women, right, we might fight,

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Speaker 3: cuss each other out and all that shit, But these

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Speaker 3: men are way too emotional nowadays, Like why are you

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Speaker 3: pulling a gun out? We saw how emotional he was

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Speaker 3: Charlamagne asks, is messy. Don't call don't call these motherfuckers,

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Speaker 3: like let them hash at it whenever whatever. But this nigga,

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Speaker 2: They can't.

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Speaker 3: So now you go around abusing and victimizing people, and

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Speaker 1: Ugly it's an ugly, ugly situation. And my heart goes

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Speaker 1: get out right, all right? So I found this thing

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Speaker 1: restaurant of Mistaken Orders. So in Japan, known as a

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Speaker 1: five people by twenty twenty five. That's a lot in

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Speaker 1: such circumstances. An innovative social experiment has caught the attention

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Speaker 1: of Japan In the world, and it's the Japanese restaurant

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Speaker 1: of Mistaken Orders, where only the waiters. The waiters and

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Speaker 1: I thought it was really dope. So the pop up

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Speaker 1: restaurant comes from an encounter between the creator, shiro ogunu Ogoni,

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Speaker 1: I don't know if I'm pronouncing it right, and a

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Speaker 1: My awareness of dementia at first tended towards negative images

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Speaker 1: But actually they can cook, they can clean, do laundry,

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Speaker 1: they might be a little off course now and then,

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Speaker 1: but they can be grateful to us, and we need

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Speaker 4: Right.

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Speaker 1: Yeah, So I just thought it was dope, and it

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Speaker 1: had like a lot of nice pictures of these old

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Speaker 2: It was just so cute, So I thought that was dope.

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Speaker 3: Would you go to a place like that for I would,

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Speaker 3: But my only concern would be, like, do I have

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Speaker 3: ordered some fish and you brought me pork, like, I'm mad, I.

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Speaker 2: Can't eat that, So do I have an option to

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Speaker 1: Yeah, I think maybe you do have an option to

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Speaker 1: send it back. Probably, well, but chicken the next time, Like,

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Speaker 1: I wouldn't even I wouldn't even go there hungry. Honestly,

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Speaker 1: I would just go there and see them, Yeah, just

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Speaker 3: I would, I would attend. I would go there. I

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Speaker 1: They should have like a black one in the US

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Speaker 1: called soul soulful Mistakes, and just it'll be like soul

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Speaker 1: But Grandma bringing it to the town.

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Speaker 3: That's nice because you know, it's it's unprecedented. In mind,

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Speaker 3: I'm it's kind of weird that they can predict that

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Speaker 3: So I'm wondering, like what it looks like in America

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Speaker 3: that's weird, Like what's going on in that area that

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Speaker 2: Like what the fuck?

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Speaker 3: Because that's really what it is, is like real life

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Speaker 3: memory loss, like the computers need to be rebooted. That's weird.

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Speaker 3: That's one of my I'm scared. I don't want to

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Speaker 3: ever experience that's me neither.

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Speaker 1: That's that's a big fear because your mind is the

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Speaker 1: and not remember your family members and your loved ones,

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Speaker 1: it's hard for everybody. It's hard for everybody.

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Speaker 2: And then having to take care of a parent like

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Speaker 2: that too.

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Speaker 1: Yeah, and they don't even remember you, and they asking

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Speaker 1: for you and you're right there, like, that's got to

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Speaker 2: Come work in big hearts, Hold tight, hold tight. Okay.

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Speaker 3: So I'm saying, what would you do right if your husband, like, say,

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Speaker 3: I would you could pull whoever you want, just do

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Speaker 1: Noway?

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Speaker 1: That's fucked up, But I mean life goes are It

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Speaker 1: That is not fair, But sometimes sex, you know, she

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Speaker 1: So that doesn't mean he's a better man than you.

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Speaker 1: He just knew how to hit them buttons and that

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Speaker 2: It, right. Yeah, she want to come with a last time.

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Speaker 1: I wouldn't feel devalued by that as a I mean,

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Speaker 3: It's the ego, you know what I'm saying, Like, so

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Speaker 2: And death two? That's fucked up, right.

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Speaker 1: I saw this joke where this man was like, baby,

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Speaker 6: Yeah? Yeah, I like to come on the piece.

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Speaker 4: Shit a lot of for real.

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Speaker 6: But you know it's like I like what I like it.

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Speaker 7: Yeah, I mean, it takes a lot for me to

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Speaker 6: It's just like relax, you know what I mean.

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Speaker 7: It's like I'm already done with like a hundred different

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Speaker 6: It's like yeah, so you know, it was like but

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Speaker 5: I mean right, Yeah, to to your point that I

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Speaker 5: what I'm saying. Like women just yeah, women, just women

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Speaker 5: say woman to trust them, like leading them. You wantn't

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Speaker 4: Maybe should take that.

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Speaker 3: You know, that's actually what the Bible says about submission

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Speaker 7: Yeah, But you know what it is for guys is

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Speaker 1: Take some time, right guys, that's women.

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Speaker 6: Too, right, right, right, So it's like all right, but.

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Speaker 7: From that point, it takes years to build that trust,

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Speaker 6: Like everybody friends? Everybody?

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Speaker 7: Yeah, everybody, it was like, but it took me growing

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Speaker 5: Issue, right exactly, because now like for me, when it

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Speaker 5: And really to like I can say too because I

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Speaker 5: Like she was just like she was popping out here,

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Speaker 1: Got fat ass, I'm about to marry her.

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Speaker 4: Y'all grow together.

441
00:20:50,680 --> 00:20:53,560
Speaker 5: But so many times you're not with that person, and

442
00:20:53,600 --> 00:20:57,880
Speaker 5: so you one minute, you know, I grew up game

443
00:20:57,920 --> 00:21:00,399
Speaker 5: banging ship. You know, I'm from California, So it's like

444
00:21:00,440 --> 00:21:02,400
Speaker 5: one minute I might be in tall at this other ship,

445
00:21:02,520 --> 00:21:06,040
Speaker 5: and then the next minute, you know, I'm twenty I

446
00:21:06,080 --> 00:21:08,040
Speaker 5: got married twenty five. By the time i was twenty eight.

447
00:21:08,119 --> 00:21:10,479
Speaker 5: I'm like reading every day now, I'm all in. I'm

448
00:21:10,480 --> 00:21:12,480
Speaker 5: watching John here with Card videos every night before I

449
00:21:12,520 --> 00:21:14,840
Speaker 5: go to sleep. I'm in some call different ship. She's

450
00:21:14,840 --> 00:21:16,960
Speaker 5: still going to go to town and do all this crazy

451
00:21:17,000 --> 00:21:20,080
Speaker 5: shit every night with her, Like we just into different ship.

452
00:21:20,240 --> 00:21:25,119
Speaker 5: And so like to last point, you kind of gotould

453
00:21:25,200 --> 00:21:28,200
Speaker 5: do just a better job at vetting those things out,

454
00:21:28,440 --> 00:21:30,080
Speaker 5: you know what I'm saying. But then it's a thin

455
00:21:30,160 --> 00:21:32,480
Speaker 5: line between that because to y'all points, it's like, okay,

456
00:21:32,480 --> 00:21:34,360
Speaker 5: well how long how long.

457
00:21:34,200 --> 00:21:36,520
Speaker 4: Is you know, so it'd be it's such a like

458
00:21:36,640 --> 00:21:37,560
Speaker 4: thin ass line.

459
00:21:37,760 --> 00:21:39,159
Speaker 2: Yeah, you could just do it.

460
00:21:39,240 --> 00:21:40,760
Speaker 3: You can always get a divorce as long as you

461
00:21:40,800 --> 00:21:43,160
Speaker 3: don't add a baby to it.

462
00:21:43,000 --> 00:21:43,040
Speaker 4: It.

463
00:21:44,119 --> 00:21:47,480
Speaker 2: Just do it. My uh my guy friend.

464
00:21:47,520 --> 00:21:49,159
Speaker 3: I had asked him, I said, you want to be

465
00:21:49,200 --> 00:21:51,560
Speaker 3: my boyfriend a couple of weeks ago, right, he was

466
00:21:52,119 --> 00:21:54,879
Speaker 3: want to I want to vet you, not vet you,

467
00:21:54,880 --> 00:21:56,880
Speaker 3: he said. He wanted to court me a little bit more.

468
00:21:57,480 --> 00:21:59,840
Speaker 3: Then I go out of town. Me and town were working.

469
00:22:00,080 --> 00:22:04,359
Speaker 3: I can't be available as much now you're tripping pekai

470
00:22:06,520 --> 00:22:09,920
Speaker 3: pekan side because you can't have you can't have single

471
00:22:10,800 --> 00:22:13,960
Speaker 3: committed a j like it don't work that way, right,

472
00:22:14,119 --> 00:22:15,560
Speaker 3: I'm a real life Gemini.

473
00:22:15,680 --> 00:22:18,199
Speaker 4: Now how you know he was? How you know that

474
00:22:18,280 --> 00:22:20,040
Speaker 4: was the court I press.

475
00:22:19,920 --> 00:22:22,000
Speaker 3: You gotta listen. You gotta be real vocal with me.

476
00:22:22,400 --> 00:22:25,000
Speaker 3: You have to tell me exactly. I don't assume ship.

477
00:22:25,480 --> 00:22:28,640
Speaker 3: I don't like the four what is the four agreements?

478
00:22:29,119 --> 00:22:31,840
Speaker 3: No assump ship. I don't assume anything.

479
00:22:33,040 --> 00:22:33,960
Speaker 2: Absolutely.

480
00:22:34,680 --> 00:22:37,119
Speaker 1: Oftentimes women are committed to a man that is not

481
00:22:37,160 --> 00:22:42,399
Speaker 1: committed to and now she just committed and he'd be like,

482
00:22:42,880 --> 00:22:49,199
Speaker 1: we never said we was right. It wasn't in my

483
00:22:49,320 --> 00:22:53,359
Speaker 1: last relationship, and my last relationship we got engaged after

484
00:22:53,600 --> 00:22:55,360
Speaker 1: after two years, right, but he.

485
00:22:55,320 --> 00:22:58,800
Speaker 3: Didn't consider me anything until he asked me to marry him.

486
00:22:59,240 --> 00:23:01,920
Speaker 3: Imagine being going from single tame engage that don't even

487
00:23:01,920 --> 00:23:04,560
Speaker 3: make sense. But so he would have to be accountable

488
00:23:04,640 --> 00:23:06,280
Speaker 3: for all the bullshit prior to ask.

489
00:23:06,200 --> 00:23:09,240
Speaker 2: Me to marry him. So you can't assume.

490
00:23:09,000 --> 00:23:13,000
Speaker 3: Just because y'all doing business together, you're fucking raw doing

491
00:23:13,080 --> 00:23:16,280
Speaker 3: all of all the ship starting business. You can't assume.

492
00:23:16,320 --> 00:23:19,639
Speaker 3: You have to tell me so now going forward, I

493
00:23:19,720 --> 00:23:21,040
Speaker 3: need you to write me a letter.

494
00:23:21,320 --> 00:23:24,159
Speaker 2: Okay, you want to be my wife, but do you

495
00:23:24,200 --> 00:23:25,280
Speaker 2: want to be my girlfriend?

496
00:23:25,720 --> 00:23:25,880
Speaker 6: Yes?

497
00:23:25,960 --> 00:23:30,440
Speaker 3: And no, bitch, we don't get that ship notarized and

498
00:23:30,600 --> 00:23:32,720
Speaker 3: put it in a safe because I need to be sure.

499
00:23:33,560 --> 00:23:36,119
Speaker 1: The man I have to watching his kids at his

500
00:23:36,240 --> 00:23:39,080
Speaker 1: mama house, fuming you wrong and still ain't with you,

501
00:23:40,640 --> 00:23:43,320
Speaker 1: my girl, I'm watching your kids.

502
00:23:44,200 --> 00:23:46,199
Speaker 2: I don't even got no kids, do you hear me?

503
00:23:51,320 --> 00:23:53,240
Speaker 4: It's some crazy in the world.

504
00:23:54,960 --> 00:23:57,880
Speaker 5: One thing, one thing I'm a firm believery in though too,

505
00:23:58,000 --> 00:24:01,720
Speaker 5: is like I think that like people ship like once

506
00:24:01,760 --> 00:24:04,919
Speaker 5: you do have that conversation and people in the communication

507
00:24:05,040 --> 00:24:06,399
Speaker 5: line is on point.

508
00:24:07,320 --> 00:24:08,960
Speaker 4: I think that it's important to like.

509
00:24:11,440 --> 00:24:14,240
Speaker 5: Be like if we are in this dating relationship whatever

510
00:24:14,240 --> 00:24:16,960
Speaker 5: you want to call it, before we actually marrything, I

511
00:24:16,960 --> 00:24:19,280
Speaker 5: think it is flying, it's dope, and it's important to

512
00:24:19,440 --> 00:24:22,199
Speaker 5: like show me what kind of wife you're gonna be

513
00:24:22,240 --> 00:24:24,360
Speaker 5: right now, and not only you gotta be doing.

514
00:24:24,200 --> 00:24:26,760
Speaker 4: Everything like like to the max.

515
00:24:26,800 --> 00:24:30,600
Speaker 5: I guess what, though, you know what I'm saying, show

516
00:24:30,680 --> 00:24:33,240
Speaker 5: me everything you would do as a wife and be

517
00:24:33,320 --> 00:24:36,240
Speaker 5: as a wife. And I'm gonna do the same because

518
00:24:36,280 --> 00:24:39,719
Speaker 5: I'm telling you sometimes you I'm with you with it.

519
00:24:39,760 --> 00:24:42,320
Speaker 5: All you gotta do is get divorced. But for me

520
00:24:42,359 --> 00:24:44,800
Speaker 5: and for women like prime example, tam A y'all doing

521
00:24:44,840 --> 00:24:48,880
Speaker 5: y'all ship podcasts, Motherfucker's fright call tomorrow and they want

522
00:24:48,920 --> 00:24:52,200
Speaker 5: to give the ten million dollar endorsement to the podcast,

523
00:24:52,280 --> 00:24:53,240
Speaker 5: et cetera, et cetera.

524
00:24:53,640 --> 00:24:58,720
Speaker 4: Now now we gotta be ye period.

525
00:24:59,040 --> 00:25:01,600
Speaker 5: But now we gotta be intentional about who were just

526
00:25:01,840 --> 00:25:03,800
Speaker 5: partnering with and all that, because it don't just be

527
00:25:03,840 --> 00:25:07,600
Speaker 5: a divorce, like to your point, this is a this

528
00:25:07,680 --> 00:25:08,399
Speaker 5: is a white.

529
00:25:08,119 --> 00:25:10,280
Speaker 4: Man's contract, this is a white man's.

530
00:25:09,960 --> 00:25:13,440
Speaker 5: Structure, period like, and getting divorced was one of the

531
00:25:13,520 --> 00:25:15,399
Speaker 5: hardest things I had to do, not because it was

532
00:25:15,440 --> 00:25:19,680
Speaker 5: hard emotionally, physically and contractually. The ship was so difficult.

533
00:25:19,760 --> 00:25:23,440
Speaker 5: And my exit it's an eight month process. My way

534
00:25:23,560 --> 00:25:25,320
Speaker 5: to the six months to pull back out, we had

535
00:25:25,359 --> 00:25:26,359
Speaker 5: to start the process again.

536
00:25:26,440 --> 00:25:27,240
Speaker 4: This ship was crazy.

537
00:25:27,240 --> 00:25:28,840
Speaker 2: You should have just did an M four.

538
00:25:28,840 --> 00:25:33,959
Speaker 1: H for those of us who don't know what that is.

539
00:25:35,600 --> 00:25:42,720
Speaker 2: You murdify your niggah.

540
00:25:42,800 --> 00:25:50,200
Speaker 1: Noflige.

541
00:25:50,560 --> 00:25:51,440
Speaker 2: If I was Mary J.

542
00:25:51,560 --> 00:25:56,280
Speaker 3: Blige and how old boy did hurt, I would have definitely.

543
00:25:56,840 --> 00:26:00,639
Speaker 2: Fucking un alive his ass. How they say on YouTube all.

544
00:26:00,600 --> 00:26:05,640
Speaker 1: Jokes guys, nah, but so obviously like right, we ain't

545
00:26:05,680 --> 00:26:06,200
Speaker 1: going that far.

546
00:26:06,359 --> 00:26:10,560
Speaker 5: But it really gets it really gets slithery though, it

547
00:26:10,640 --> 00:26:14,960
Speaker 5: really gets slimy, like like it's too many to they

548
00:26:15,760 --> 00:26:18,359
Speaker 5: men and men and female, So right, men and women.

549
00:26:18,440 --> 00:26:22,240
Speaker 5: So I think it's just important to like like like,

550
00:26:22,240 --> 00:26:25,879
Speaker 5: like like La said, really know to their best, to

551
00:26:25,920 --> 00:26:28,639
Speaker 5: your best abilities. We don't fully ever know nobody and

552
00:26:28,720 --> 00:26:32,560
Speaker 5: people are constantly changing growing, So I think it's just

553
00:26:32,640 --> 00:26:35,560
Speaker 5: important though for us to do our best to you know,

554
00:26:35,960 --> 00:26:37,840
Speaker 5: try to get a good idea of what you're getting

555
00:26:37,880 --> 00:26:38,879
Speaker 5: into beforehand.

556
00:26:38,960 --> 00:26:43,280
Speaker 1: But to that point, listen, Oftentimes when people men are

557
00:26:43,280 --> 00:26:45,680
Speaker 1: getting a divorce, they always be like that ain't who

558
00:26:45,680 --> 00:26:46,280
Speaker 1: I married.

559
00:26:46,760 --> 00:26:47,919
Speaker 2: That ain't who I married.

560
00:26:49,280 --> 00:26:51,080
Speaker 1: So you can know them as much as you want.

561
00:26:51,119 --> 00:26:53,800
Speaker 1: But you know, they say it's a thin line between

562
00:26:53,840 --> 00:26:56,679
Speaker 1: love and hate, and that's true. You know, you know,

563
00:26:56,800 --> 00:26:59,280
Speaker 1: I turned into a different person when you're you.

564
00:26:59,200 --> 00:27:01,480
Speaker 7: Know, another thing I realized too, like when people get

565
00:27:01,520 --> 00:27:03,800
Speaker 7: married young, like in the twenties, we're still growing, right,

566
00:27:03,800 --> 00:27:06,880
Speaker 7: We're still growing in our thirties, right, Like I'm thirty eight, thirty.

567
00:27:07,000 --> 00:27:08,560
Speaker 2: Child, this is fuck fy.

568
00:27:08,560 --> 00:27:10,560
Speaker 7: Right, So it's like, yeah, like I feel like that

569
00:27:10,640 --> 00:27:13,399
Speaker 7: twenty and thirty mark is like where we really like grow.

570
00:27:13,880 --> 00:27:16,679
Speaker 6: But anything after thirty five then we're like kind of solid.

571
00:27:16,680 --> 00:27:19,719
Speaker 7: And I say, right, so if you messing with somebody

572
00:27:19,760 --> 00:27:22,600
Speaker 7: from like thirty and you'll get married after thirty five

573
00:27:22,720 --> 00:27:26,000
Speaker 7: and forties. I just like living halfway up after whatever.

574
00:27:26,320 --> 00:27:28,520
Speaker 7: I feel like it gets a little solid fro from

575
00:27:28,520 --> 00:27:31,160
Speaker 7: twenty to thirty. It's like you get married, that's when

576
00:27:31,160 --> 00:27:32,880
Speaker 7: it's like, yo, I'm still growing. Like like you said,

577
00:27:32,920 --> 00:27:35,960
Speaker 7: you started reading you started reading that the youtubes in

578
00:27:36,000 --> 00:27:37,439
Speaker 7: the books of A twenty eight. You got married at

579
00:27:37,440 --> 00:27:39,240
Speaker 7: twenty five, right, and then you're a different person where

580
00:27:39,240 --> 00:27:39,880
Speaker 7: you are at right now.

581
00:27:40,080 --> 00:27:42,040
Speaker 6: We're all different hundreds, you know what I mean. So it's

582
00:27:42,080 --> 00:27:43,600
Speaker 6: like I feel like that twenty.

583
00:27:43,480 --> 00:27:45,000
Speaker 7: Thirty we really got to get out there and get

584
00:27:45,040 --> 00:27:48,520
Speaker 7: it all out, and then after thirty five you can

585
00:27:48,560 --> 00:27:52,480
Speaker 7: really like really like settle down and fuck with you, right.

586
00:27:52,960 --> 00:27:55,200
Speaker 5: Like I love the people that do be getting married,

587
00:27:55,240 --> 00:27:58,400
Speaker 5: Like you know, we all be wishing for not everybody,

588
00:27:58,400 --> 00:28:00,399
Speaker 5: but I'm one of the people that that wish for

589
00:28:00,480 --> 00:28:02,679
Speaker 5: the like fake fairy touches. I love to see the

590
00:28:02,680 --> 00:28:07,080
Speaker 5: people who got married at twenty words still married. That

591
00:28:07,119 --> 00:28:11,520
Speaker 5: should be dope to But to your point, like, because

592
00:28:11,560 --> 00:28:14,680
Speaker 5: I got so many homies, it's just like they not

593
00:28:14,720 --> 00:28:17,600
Speaker 5: slowing down them niggas is trying to hit something every

594
00:28:17,840 --> 00:28:18,800
Speaker 5: day something, dude.

595
00:28:18,880 --> 00:28:21,240
Speaker 4: I was just watching a different podcast when the nigga

596
00:28:21,400 --> 00:28:23,000
Speaker 4: was like, I ain't never getting married.

597
00:28:23,040 --> 00:28:25,320
Speaker 5: I don't even like seeing the same girl. Like I'm like,

598
00:28:25,400 --> 00:28:28,359
Speaker 5: what the are you talking about? Niggas is yeah, niggas

599
00:28:28,400 --> 00:28:34,000
Speaker 5: is out here. So I think it is like you said,

600
00:28:31,560 --> 00:28:41,400
Speaker 5: you can.

601
00:28:36,720 --> 00:28:39,320
Speaker 2: Everybody don't want to willingly fuck you. That's the thing.

602
00:28:40,440 --> 00:28:42,400
Speaker 2: I mean, everybody you can.

603
00:28:42,400 --> 00:28:44,200
Speaker 1: Fuck as many as possible. Let me ask you this,

604
00:28:44,600 --> 00:28:47,680
Speaker 1: do y'all hold like, do you hold you're married friends accountable?

605
00:28:47,920 --> 00:28:50,000
Speaker 1: Because I think oftentimes a lot of men will be

606
00:28:50,040 --> 00:28:52,120
Speaker 1: like a man will be talking about cheating on his

607
00:28:52,160 --> 00:28:53,080
Speaker 1: wife and y'all be like.

608
00:28:53,000 --> 00:28:55,040
Speaker 2: Boy, you here and that's nothing.

609
00:28:55,840 --> 00:28:58,520
Speaker 1: You never like tell him that that's not okay.

610
00:28:58,840 --> 00:29:03,479
Speaker 5: You know, no, one hundred percent to do without without like,

611
00:29:03,520 --> 00:29:06,840
Speaker 5: for instance, my cousin, let me not just.

612
00:29:06,760 --> 00:29:20,280
Speaker 1: Say yeah his cousin the story about somebody, but right,

613
00:29:20,400 --> 00:29:21,800
Speaker 1: but no.

614
00:29:22,840 --> 00:29:27,240
Speaker 4: One of my one of my real ones when they

615
00:29:27,360 --> 00:29:28,240
Speaker 4: was when they.

616
00:29:28,160 --> 00:29:32,640
Speaker 5: Was married, they they because they didn't even fully like

617
00:29:32,680 --> 00:29:35,440
Speaker 5: pull the trigger. They was just entertaining the thought of

618
00:29:36,200 --> 00:29:39,320
Speaker 5: you know, like, Sneaky Links is the worst ship on

619
00:29:39,360 --> 00:29:42,640
Speaker 5: the planet, right, Sneaky Lenks to have a mother fucking.

620
00:29:42,480 --> 00:29:52,040
Speaker 3: Just I'm about to create that day insight sneaky right.

621
00:29:56,160 --> 00:29:56,320
Speaker 1: Right.

622
00:29:57,920 --> 00:30:02,000
Speaker 5: I had to tell my real one like, yo, that

623
00:30:02,240 --> 00:30:05,600
Speaker 5: is not you don't want to do too much of that.

624
00:30:06,200 --> 00:30:09,160
Speaker 5: You so like you just know what you're doing, because like,

625
00:30:09,200 --> 00:30:10,880
Speaker 5: I ain't here to tell no man how to be.

626
00:30:11,240 --> 00:30:15,000
Speaker 3: Yes you are if you're a man, of course correct

627
00:30:15,000 --> 00:30:18,360
Speaker 3: other man, listen follow me ya, niggas to tell us

628
00:30:18,880 --> 00:30:19,760
Speaker 3: the best.

629
00:30:20,360 --> 00:30:22,920
Speaker 5: If you're my partner, but if you just my homegirl,

630
00:30:23,160 --> 00:30:25,160
Speaker 5: I'm only gonna tell you so much too. I'm not

631
00:30:25,160 --> 00:30:27,200
Speaker 5: feeling like you're not my child. I'm gonna tell my

632
00:30:27,280 --> 00:30:29,120
Speaker 5: children what the fuck to do?

633
00:30:29,120 --> 00:30:29,600
Speaker 4: You feel me?

634
00:30:29,880 --> 00:30:32,800
Speaker 5: My niggas, the homies and ship, I'm gonna advise. I'm

635
00:30:32,800 --> 00:30:34,920
Speaker 5: gonna lead by example at the best way possible. I

636
00:30:34,960 --> 00:30:37,440
Speaker 5: got some homies that and I didn't talk their earshill.

637
00:30:37,480 --> 00:30:39,920
Speaker 5: We'd been crying on the phone, and niggas still go

638
00:30:40,080 --> 00:30:42,480
Speaker 5: do somethlas like niggas don't give a fuck with that.

639
00:30:42,560 --> 00:30:45,160
Speaker 5: Don't give a fuck you feel me so like, But

640
00:30:45,440 --> 00:30:47,640
Speaker 5: I'm gonna do my best to like I said, advise,

641
00:30:47,760 --> 00:30:49,040
Speaker 5: lead by example.

642
00:30:49,480 --> 00:30:51,240
Speaker 4: Give you the best game I can give you, and

643
00:30:51,240 --> 00:30:52,480
Speaker 4: then what you do with that you do.

644
00:30:52,560 --> 00:30:55,840
Speaker 5: And luckily my real niggas that do be actually taking

645
00:30:55,880 --> 00:30:59,280
Speaker 5: heat to the ship, you know, because marriage ain't in

646
00:30:59,360 --> 00:31:01,040
Speaker 5: to play with Just go be single.

647
00:31:00,760 --> 00:31:02,720
Speaker 4: There because you can't play with that shit.

648
00:31:03,040 --> 00:31:05,520
Speaker 5: Like once you get to playing I'm talking about the

649
00:31:05,600 --> 00:31:08,560
Speaker 5: karma coins just start going in the negative in that count,

650
00:31:09,160 --> 00:31:10,480
Speaker 5: karma coins go negative.

651
00:31:10,640 --> 00:31:11,320
Speaker 2: I'm karma.

652
00:31:11,480 --> 00:31:14,360
Speaker 3: I knew to come in a fucking round, okay.

653
00:31:15,400 --> 00:31:18,160
Speaker 5: And some people don't believe in karma, right, I'm like karma,

654
00:31:18,200 --> 00:31:21,600
Speaker 5: damnar my religion. I'm a firm as believer in karma.

655
00:31:21,760 --> 00:31:25,160
Speaker 5: So you don't get to just like play with the

656
00:31:25,320 --> 00:31:29,560
Speaker 5: union and like the promises that you made with the

657
00:31:29,600 --> 00:31:31,480
Speaker 5: most highest, you don't get to just play with that

658
00:31:31,560 --> 00:31:31,960
Speaker 5: too much.

659
00:31:32,040 --> 00:31:33,400
Speaker 4: Like you might get to get away with it for

660
00:31:33,400 --> 00:31:35,680
Speaker 4: a little or another thing.

661
00:31:35,760 --> 00:31:37,760
Speaker 5: I'll be like I realized and I'll be making sure

662
00:31:37,760 --> 00:31:41,000
Speaker 5: I tell my niggas is like, just because this person

663
00:31:41,040 --> 00:31:44,280
Speaker 5: gets away with it, you don't have the same like

664
00:31:44,840 --> 00:31:46,600
Speaker 5: spiritual structure you.

665
00:31:46,560 --> 00:31:49,880
Speaker 4: Might get every one time. Yeah, it might take you

666
00:31:49,920 --> 00:31:51,920
Speaker 4: one getting I know.

667
00:31:52,120 --> 00:31:54,120
Speaker 5: I'm that like, I'm so scared to do a certain

668
00:31:54,120 --> 00:31:57,240
Speaker 5: shit because I got them is that beach just trife

669
00:31:57,280 --> 00:31:59,600
Speaker 5: living and them niggas just they just live. It seems

670
00:31:59,600 --> 00:32:00,959
Speaker 5: like they live a great life. I don't know how

671
00:32:00,960 --> 00:32:06,960
Speaker 5: many clinic trips the niggas taking. It seemed like their

672
00:32:07,000 --> 00:32:09,560
Speaker 5: life is just so cracking, But like for me, I'm like, man,

673
00:32:10,240 --> 00:32:11,800
Speaker 5: it don't work like that for me. You know what

674
00:32:11,840 --> 00:32:14,960
Speaker 5: I'm saying. So I was to answer the question, I'm

675
00:32:15,000 --> 00:32:17,600
Speaker 5: a firm believer and definitely like just holding holding just

676
00:32:17,600 --> 00:32:20,240
Speaker 5: people I care about accountable. I don't get fis my homies,

677
00:32:20,240 --> 00:32:22,680
Speaker 5: my own girls. I don't get fuck you married or

678
00:32:22,680 --> 00:32:25,640
Speaker 5: just in a regular relationship because I'm big on one

679
00:32:26,840 --> 00:32:29,400
Speaker 5: not seeing you crash out. And then too, if I

680
00:32:29,440 --> 00:32:31,280
Speaker 5: fuck with you, I love you. I'm around you enough.

681
00:32:31,600 --> 00:32:33,360
Speaker 5: If I didn't get to strike in your way and

682
00:32:33,400 --> 00:32:36,000
Speaker 5: I'm right next to you, get struck by a lot,

683
00:32:36,240 --> 00:32:37,680
Speaker 5: like let me get you in.

684
00:32:37,760 --> 00:32:42,560
Speaker 4: Order something way, Yeah, one hundred percent, you.

685
00:32:42,520 --> 00:32:45,280
Speaker 7: Feel me, but yeah that's my And to pick you

686
00:32:45,320 --> 00:32:47,880
Speaker 7: off a back too, because like, if something does go

687
00:32:47,920 --> 00:32:49,840
Speaker 7: down with your homie and your home gets a divorce,

688
00:32:50,280 --> 00:32:54,280
Speaker 7: we're gonna be hearing about that ship the whole process too.

689
00:32:57,080 --> 00:32:58,800
Speaker 6: Trying to give you advice early in the game, and

690
00:32:58,800 --> 00:33:00,400
Speaker 6: then now we're going to hear this, I don't.

691
00:33:00,480 --> 00:33:09,760
Speaker 7: Hear it after that, and then too, it ain't.

692
00:33:09,520 --> 00:33:14,400
Speaker 5: Nothing worse than Like, it ain't nothing worse than you,

693
00:33:14,440 --> 00:33:17,360
Speaker 5: like co signing your people that you care about doing

694
00:33:17,400 --> 00:33:20,520
Speaker 5: bullshit and then they partner finding out because they might

695
00:33:20,600 --> 00:33:23,320
Speaker 5: be back cool, But y'all would never funk with you.

696
00:33:23,320 --> 00:33:24,760
Speaker 1: You ain't never invited to the cookiout.

697
00:33:25,200 --> 00:33:25,560
Speaker 4: Ye. Yeah.

698
00:33:25,600 --> 00:33:28,479
Speaker 5: The dynamic, the dynamic of that world is forever fu

699
00:33:28,960 --> 00:33:33,480
Speaker 5: anytime you go with me somewhere. Problemly, my homies girls

700
00:33:33,520 --> 00:33:36,040
Speaker 5: love when they will me because I ain't know no fun, Like, now,

701
00:33:36,080 --> 00:33:39,640
Speaker 5: what what your nigga doing? You already if your niggas

702
00:33:39,640 --> 00:33:41,440
Speaker 5: a dog, you already know your niggas a dog, right,

703
00:33:41,640 --> 00:33:43,760
Speaker 5: So it ain't gotten nothing to do it where they're.

704
00:33:43,600 --> 00:33:45,760
Speaker 4: Going out with me or not? Like, don't nobody dictate

705
00:33:45,800 --> 00:33:46,360
Speaker 4: my program?

706
00:33:46,400 --> 00:33:46,560
Speaker 3: You know?

707
00:33:46,720 --> 00:33:50,320
Speaker 1: Some of these niggas is real slick. Some of these yeah,

708
00:33:50,600 --> 00:33:52,360
Speaker 1: a different man with their homies were.

709
00:33:52,240 --> 00:33:53,680
Speaker 2: The holes and nigga.

710
00:33:57,480 --> 00:34:03,960
Speaker 4: Church. You ain't deffe Like.

711
00:34:08,840 --> 00:34:11,200
Speaker 1: I got one last question. Do y'all feel like, all right,

712
00:34:11,239 --> 00:34:13,919
Speaker 1: so you said you were a future fan. Do y'all

713
00:34:13,920 --> 00:34:16,600
Speaker 1: feel like the music has affected the rate of marriage

714
00:34:16,920 --> 00:34:18,919
Speaker 1: with people in the love and hip hop?

715
00:34:20,040 --> 00:34:22,000
Speaker 6: Hell yeah, A lot of these a lot of these

716
00:34:22,040 --> 00:34:25,160
Speaker 6: dudes that's rapping are not married. Mm hmm, you know

717
00:34:25,160 --> 00:34:25,480
Speaker 6: what I mean.

718
00:34:25,560 --> 00:34:27,080
Speaker 7: So it was like, and then a lot of dudes

719
00:34:27,120 --> 00:34:30,040
Speaker 7: that whatever is going on on the GRAM is going

720
00:34:30,080 --> 00:34:32,279
Speaker 7: on with their people's too. It's like, you know what

721
00:34:32,280 --> 00:34:34,480
Speaker 7: I mean, It's like it's kind of like people in

722
00:34:34,480 --> 00:34:36,680
Speaker 7: our circle, like Price could be one of our peoples

723
00:34:36,680 --> 00:34:38,040
Speaker 7: and hanging out with us all the time and he's

724
00:34:38,160 --> 00:34:38,600
Speaker 7: rapping off.

725
00:34:39,239 --> 00:34:40,560
Speaker 6: We're all doing right.

726
00:34:40,960 --> 00:34:42,960
Speaker 7: So it's like, but I feel like, yes, you ain't

727
00:34:42,960 --> 00:34:45,640
Speaker 7: gonna hear about marriage talk from a non marriage nigga.

728
00:34:45,640 --> 00:34:47,360
Speaker 6: You don't hear about what he's doing yesterday.

729
00:34:47,840 --> 00:34:48,239
Speaker 1: Mm hmm.

730
00:34:48,480 --> 00:34:54,920
Speaker 4: Right, Yeah, I think that. I think yet I think.

731
00:34:54,760 --> 00:34:57,440
Speaker 5: Yes, right, But I also think it's deeper than just

732
00:34:57,560 --> 00:35:00,480
Speaker 5: rap because I feel like it's just black.

733
00:35:00,560 --> 00:35:01,640
Speaker 4: It's us as.

734
00:35:01,480 --> 00:35:05,920
Speaker 5: A people not valuing real success, right, because if you

735
00:35:06,000 --> 00:35:08,719
Speaker 5: really think about it, Yeah, like if you think about

736
00:35:08,840 --> 00:35:12,400
Speaker 5: the biggest rapper, the richest rapper is Jay Z, and

737
00:35:12,440 --> 00:35:15,359
Speaker 5: he married regardless of you know.

738
00:35:15,480 --> 00:35:17,640
Speaker 4: The mishoves he may have.

739
00:35:17,600 --> 00:35:20,600
Speaker 5: Had his union or not, He's still married and building

740
00:35:20,600 --> 00:35:22,880
Speaker 5: a family with his women in the legacy with his women.

741
00:35:23,320 --> 00:35:29,640
Speaker 5: Some of the biggest executives, artist producers ever are married

742
00:35:29,680 --> 00:35:30,360
Speaker 5: and being married.

743
00:35:30,840 --> 00:35:31,319
Speaker 4: You feel me.

744
00:35:31,880 --> 00:35:34,640
Speaker 5: And then when you just think of black men period,

745
00:35:35,160 --> 00:35:37,279
Speaker 5: because it's so many great people.

746
00:35:37,120 --> 00:35:40,960
Speaker 4: Like Blad right here, who everybody might.

747
00:35:40,880 --> 00:35:45,080
Speaker 5: Not know on a like a notoriety public level, but

748
00:35:45,120 --> 00:35:46,839
Speaker 5: it's a Mary black man, you know what I'm saying.

749
00:35:46,920 --> 00:35:49,480
Speaker 4: So many successful married black.

750
00:35:49,200 --> 00:35:52,640
Speaker 2: Men, most successful black men are married, are married.

751
00:35:52,800 --> 00:35:55,399
Speaker 5: Yes, you feel me, and it's twenty tweenty three. They're

752
00:35:55,400 --> 00:35:58,520
Speaker 5: married to black women too for the most part. Like

753
00:35:58,760 --> 00:36:01,120
Speaker 5: it ain't just a thing where like, yeah, that narrative

754
00:36:01,200 --> 00:36:03,080
Speaker 5: is kind of getting killed off too, Like it ain't

755
00:36:03,120 --> 00:36:05,200
Speaker 5: just where niggas is rushing to go marry the white girl,

756
00:36:05,280 --> 00:36:05,880
Speaker 5: the little.

757
00:36:05,640 --> 00:36:07,920
Speaker 4: Hispanic with no no shade to you, niggas, But at

758
00:36:07,960 --> 00:36:10,680
Speaker 4: the same time, y'all killing the vibe.

759
00:36:10,680 --> 00:36:13,240
Speaker 6: However, come.

760
00:36:15,239 --> 00:36:20,480
Speaker 5: For sure, But you feel me, but there are It's

761
00:36:20,520 --> 00:36:23,839
Speaker 5: really it speaks to the value that like us as

762
00:36:23,840 --> 00:36:27,440
Speaker 5: the people, we don't value true success. We love the

763
00:36:27,640 --> 00:36:32,319
Speaker 5: like the the glitter you know, the glittering ship, Like

764
00:36:32,360 --> 00:36:34,640
Speaker 5: Future is glittery, and I love the nigga music. But

765
00:36:34,680 --> 00:36:36,520
Speaker 5: Future don't even be drinking lean and we don't be

766
00:36:36,560 --> 00:36:38,840
Speaker 5: doing the shit even talk about this, you know what

767
00:36:38,880 --> 00:36:41,600
Speaker 5: I'm saying. But it's just it looked good to the

768
00:36:41,640 --> 00:36:43,680
Speaker 5: little kid that's in the ghetto and the projects or

769
00:36:43,800 --> 00:36:45,279
Speaker 5: the and you know you're on the west side of

770
00:36:45,280 --> 00:36:46,480
Speaker 5: the fucking confident or the i e.

771
00:36:46,600 --> 00:36:48,120
Speaker 4: Who ain't seen that and don't got nothing.

772
00:36:48,520 --> 00:36:50,760
Speaker 5: Then you see him all the bus down chains popping

773
00:36:50,760 --> 00:36:53,160
Speaker 5: out the rolls Royce and talk about we fucking that bitch,

774
00:36:53,160 --> 00:36:54,120
Speaker 5: and we lay up like you.

775
00:36:54,040 --> 00:36:56,200
Speaker 4: Know what I mean, like like that's what we're doing.

776
00:36:56,760 --> 00:37:00,319
Speaker 4: But if you y'all not listening to the real sex.

777
00:37:00,360 --> 00:37:02,120
Speaker 5: And that was the part of why I got married too,

778
00:37:02,120 --> 00:37:05,240
Speaker 5: because I'm young, I'm around the some of the biggest

779
00:37:05,280 --> 00:37:07,520
Speaker 5: niggas and I'm gonna beat the nigga that pop in

780
00:37:07,560 --> 00:37:09,680
Speaker 5: with chains on and wearing the same shit flyer to

781
00:37:09,719 --> 00:37:12,920
Speaker 5: you niggas all that, But I'm married now that I was.

782
00:37:13,160 --> 00:37:15,080
Speaker 5: That was my attempt to change the narrative, you know,

783
00:37:15,160 --> 00:37:17,759
Speaker 5: And that's still the goal and objective.

784
00:37:17,800 --> 00:37:20,480
Speaker 4: But I think it does play a part.

785
00:37:20,520 --> 00:37:23,520
Speaker 5: But I think, like I said, it's deeper, so much

786
00:37:23,560 --> 00:37:26,279
Speaker 5: deeper than rap because my sons, I'm not a.

787
00:37:26,640 --> 00:37:28,920
Speaker 1: Female rap because you know, a lot of the music

788
00:37:29,000 --> 00:37:33,880
Speaker 1: now that females are making are not saying let's get married.

789
00:37:33,960 --> 00:37:36,120
Speaker 1: You know, they're like, you need that money and then

790
00:37:36,200 --> 00:37:39,200
Speaker 1: get it gone like that, get the head and leave.

791
00:37:39,360 --> 00:37:41,359
Speaker 5: You know, I've been in the studio for a month

792
00:37:41,440 --> 00:37:43,600
Speaker 5: with Suweedi finishing her album.

793
00:37:44,080 --> 00:37:45,719
Speaker 4: I was supposed to go today I drove back from

794
00:37:45,760 --> 00:37:46,640
Speaker 4: Vegas today. Didn't go.

795
00:37:47,080 --> 00:37:49,279
Speaker 5: And when we was talking earlier, I almost brought it

796
00:37:49,360 --> 00:37:52,920
Speaker 5: up because how to write We was writing and she

797
00:37:53,000 --> 00:37:56,200
Speaker 5: wanted to say like something about like I don't need

798
00:37:56,200 --> 00:37:58,880
Speaker 5: a nigga like all that, like that's the narrative.

799
00:37:59,440 --> 00:38:00,359
Speaker 4: You feel me it but.

800
00:38:01,239 --> 00:38:04,120
Speaker 3: And be at home crying by yourself or you have

801
00:38:04,200 --> 00:38:08,400
Speaker 3: people like Sierra and even a Beyonce said women that

802
00:38:08,480 --> 00:38:09,359
Speaker 3: don't need no man.

803
00:38:09,640 --> 00:38:11,839
Speaker 1: And I'm like, both of y'all got a man? Why

804
00:38:11,840 --> 00:38:13,239
Speaker 1: are y'all saying that in the song?

805
00:38:13,360 --> 00:38:17,120
Speaker 3: Y'all as programming the same thing we just saw with

806
00:38:17,200 --> 00:38:20,600
Speaker 3: Kiki Palmer, how she got out there performing talking about

807
00:38:20,719 --> 00:38:21,480
Speaker 3: she don't need.

808
00:38:21,320 --> 00:38:25,080
Speaker 2: No nigga girl. You a whole you a whole goddamn

809
00:38:25,120 --> 00:38:27,440
Speaker 2: industry plan. At this point, I don't like that ship.

810
00:38:28,360 --> 00:38:30,399
Speaker 5: And like it because at the end of the day too,

811
00:38:30,440 --> 00:38:35,280
Speaker 5: it's like, all right, we don't necessarily like need nothing

812
00:38:35,280 --> 00:38:40,560
Speaker 5: but Aaron water, right, but we all want like if

813
00:38:40,560 --> 00:38:41,760
Speaker 5: you say you don't want.

814
00:38:44,680 --> 00:38:49,319
Speaker 1: I need a man. I need a nigga running this

815
00:38:49,360 --> 00:38:50,400
Speaker 1: ship by myself.

816
00:38:50,800 --> 00:38:53,800
Speaker 2: I think men need women more than anything for sure.

817
00:38:54,320 --> 00:38:58,880
Speaker 4: Yeah, yeah, niggas need each other. That's what I'm saying.

818
00:38:59,840 --> 00:39:02,480
Speaker 5: I think when it's like a Beyonce, when they get

819
00:39:02,520 --> 00:39:05,319
Speaker 5: to those certain levels where they just papered up and like,

820
00:39:05,360 --> 00:39:07,800
Speaker 5: how y'all said, we could just how you come through

821
00:39:07,920 --> 00:39:10,520
Speaker 5: and send you packing, send you on your way. Actually

822
00:39:10,560 --> 00:39:13,480
Speaker 5: it's a car waiting outside to send you on your NDA.

823
00:39:14,360 --> 00:39:16,680
Speaker 5: You sign this NDA before you get the fuck out

824
00:39:16,719 --> 00:39:19,160
Speaker 5: of your right. It's easy for them to be like,

825
00:39:19,239 --> 00:39:21,200
Speaker 5: I don't need need but you know what I'm saying.

826
00:39:21,200 --> 00:39:23,640
Speaker 5: The real reality is like even with Sweety, I've talked

827
00:39:23,640 --> 00:39:26,479
Speaker 5: to Sweety plenty times, she's just like she wants love,

828
00:39:26,640 --> 00:39:30,319
Speaker 5: like every she wants to be in love, and like

829
00:39:30,560 --> 00:39:34,440
Speaker 5: real love. The problem is like the industries that these

830
00:39:34,440 --> 00:39:36,680
Speaker 5: people are in. It sh is like high school, right,

831
00:39:36,800 --> 00:39:40,640
Speaker 5: And so when you go to high school, it's freshman, sophomore's.

832
00:39:40,120 --> 00:39:44,320
Speaker 4: Junior, seniors. It's very rare that the freshman is fucking

833
00:39:44,360 --> 00:39:44,960
Speaker 4: with us.

834
00:39:45,000 --> 00:39:47,880
Speaker 5: One of the top seniors get on the campus, you

835
00:39:47,920 --> 00:39:51,319
Speaker 5: feel me, and so they feel like they're seniors, you know,

836
00:39:51,400 --> 00:39:54,040
Speaker 5: and they're also they're all dating in their class and

837
00:39:54,160 --> 00:39:58,120
Speaker 5: unfortunately in their class is niggas is just sliming. So

838
00:39:58,160 --> 00:40:01,160
Speaker 5: they don't even want to think about being like they

839
00:40:01,200 --> 00:40:03,160
Speaker 5: want to project and push that I don't need no

840
00:40:03,280 --> 00:40:05,960
Speaker 5: nigga because it's like niggas don't be.

841
00:40:05,920 --> 00:40:07,560
Speaker 2: Wanting to feel manifesting.

842
00:40:08,280 --> 00:40:11,880
Speaker 4: No niggas, that's what you're manifesting for sure, you know.

843
00:40:12,040 --> 00:40:12,879
Speaker 4: And it's a sell.

844
00:40:13,000 --> 00:40:16,279
Speaker 5: It's it's the same way like so to your point, yes,

845
00:40:16,680 --> 00:40:18,440
Speaker 5: because the same way like niggas want to hear the

846
00:40:18,440 --> 00:40:20,560
Speaker 5: street music, niggas want to hear this and that.

847
00:40:21,160 --> 00:40:24,080
Speaker 4: You know, it's a cell point. You know right now women.

848
00:40:26,640 --> 00:40:29,399
Speaker 5: Pink pussy, pink, booty whole brown, that ship is taken

849
00:40:29,440 --> 00:40:30,040
Speaker 5: over the world.

850
00:40:30,080 --> 00:40:30,520
Speaker 2: You know what I mean.

851
00:40:34,120 --> 00:40:35,560
Speaker 1: I blush every time I hear this.

852
00:40:45,560 --> 00:40:48,480
Speaker 2: I be embarrassed. I'd be embarrassed when I had that

853
00:40:48,520 --> 00:40:50,400
Speaker 2: ship in public, like, oh my god.

854
00:40:50,680 --> 00:40:56,640
Speaker 5: Like I love it though, because it's it's so black,

855
00:40:56,840 --> 00:40:57,480
Speaker 5: you know what I mean.

856
00:40:59,480 --> 00:41:01,640
Speaker 4: Clear, this we talking about black women.

857
00:41:02,160 --> 00:41:05,120
Speaker 1: I know, I'm mess with the light skin girls. When

858
00:41:05,120 --> 00:41:06,399
Speaker 1: they sing the lyrics, I'd be like.

859
00:41:06,360 --> 00:41:11,000
Speaker 2: Your booty whole pink too brown? They got brown booty holes.

860
00:41:11,080 --> 00:41:12,560
Speaker 2: Them should be just a dingy girl.

861
00:41:16,320 --> 00:41:18,960
Speaker 3: They don't tell you don't like girls booty holes be

862
00:41:19,040 --> 00:41:19,600
Speaker 3: brown too.

863
00:41:20,560 --> 00:41:25,320
Speaker 2: Listen miss me with that, I ran.

864
00:41:25,200 --> 00:41:25,960
Speaker 4: The constant couple.

865
00:41:29,960 --> 00:41:32,960
Speaker 5: But to your point, yeah, I definitely think that the

866
00:41:33,080 --> 00:41:36,640
Speaker 5: music and all of that is playing a big part

867
00:41:36,640 --> 00:41:39,880
Speaker 5: because it's like the top rappers, if Travis, if Drake,

868
00:41:40,040 --> 00:41:43,839
Speaker 5: if you if Future, if all these niggas popped out

869
00:41:43,920 --> 00:41:47,880
Speaker 5: was married and pushing marriage.

870
00:41:49,640 --> 00:41:53,000
Speaker 7: Sorry to cut you off, and if that was selling too. Yeah,

871
00:41:53,080 --> 00:41:55,160
Speaker 7: that was selling exactly everybody.

872
00:41:56,040 --> 00:41:58,200
Speaker 1: You think about it, It would sell if they pushed

873
00:41:58,239 --> 00:42:00,600
Speaker 1: it more, because think about they pushed. They want to

874
00:42:00,640 --> 00:42:03,719
Speaker 1: push to the people. Like when uh, what's his name?

875
00:42:04,600 --> 00:42:07,280
Speaker 1: The baby little baby had that song that was about

876
00:42:07,640 --> 00:42:12,600
Speaker 1: sticking together. Uh after what's his name? He started out,

877
00:42:13,800 --> 00:42:15,239
Speaker 1: he got the knee in his neck, and he made

878
00:42:15,280 --> 00:42:18,000
Speaker 1: that black stand together song. They did not play that

879
00:42:18,080 --> 00:42:20,200
Speaker 1: song like that. That song was good. They didn't push

880
00:42:20,280 --> 00:42:20,719
Speaker 1: that song.

881
00:42:20,960 --> 00:42:21,160
Speaker 4: You know.

882
00:42:21,400 --> 00:42:24,600
Speaker 1: Yeah, they're pushing everything else but things that uplift us.

883
00:42:24,840 --> 00:42:29,279
Speaker 3: You know, when when kish Kor and Gucci Man got married,

884
00:42:29,320 --> 00:42:31,439
Speaker 3: I text Charlamagne, I said, man, they about to change

885
00:42:31,480 --> 00:42:33,360
Speaker 3: the trajectory of black people.

886
00:42:33,360 --> 00:42:34,880
Speaker 2: Man, Niggas gonna start getting married.

887
00:42:35,200 --> 00:42:37,879
Speaker 3: I just knew that more niggas was gonna start getting

888
00:42:37,880 --> 00:42:39,800
Speaker 3: married because Gucci man got married.

889
00:42:40,280 --> 00:42:40,760
Speaker 6: For sure.

890
00:42:41,080 --> 00:42:43,440
Speaker 2: It really has that nigga.

891
00:42:43,239 --> 00:42:54,360
Speaker 8: Clone that change his whole life right quick.

892
00:42:54,920 --> 00:42:56,560
Speaker 4: Yeah, and then you gotta do it.

893
00:42:56,640 --> 00:42:58,799
Speaker 5: I mean, like to your point, niggas is waiting to

894
00:42:58,840 --> 00:43:01,160
Speaker 5: do it till after they.

895
00:43:00,960 --> 00:43:04,879
Speaker 2: Did stop working. Go ahead, yeah, now.

896
00:43:06,280 --> 00:43:08,200
Speaker 3: Worse sex for the rest of her life. That is

897
00:43:08,280 --> 00:43:10,520
Speaker 3: fucked up. Okay, let's be weird clear.

898
00:43:11,400 --> 00:43:14,080
Speaker 4: We want Zone six good. We want Zone six turned

899
00:43:14,160 --> 00:43:16,080
Speaker 4: up Gucci to get married. You know what I'm saying,

900
00:43:16,719 --> 00:43:18,319
Speaker 4: We want you to get married at that time.

901
00:43:18,360 --> 00:43:20,719
Speaker 5: You know, like Little Baby and janea way that if

902
00:43:20,719 --> 00:43:23,839
Speaker 5: they was married and at the peak of they like ship,

903
00:43:23,960 --> 00:43:26,760
Speaker 5: that ship would inspire so many more of my face.

904
00:43:26,840 --> 00:43:30,200
Speaker 5: But there's so many black men that are rich, way

905
00:43:30,200 --> 00:43:33,040
Speaker 5: more rich than Little Baby, that may not be as famous,

906
00:43:33,040 --> 00:43:35,399
Speaker 5: that's married and married to a black women. So that's

907
00:43:35,400 --> 00:43:38,080
Speaker 5: why I'm saying the real problem is that like we're

908
00:43:38,080 --> 00:43:41,319
Speaker 5: not looking at boys watkins, We're not looking at fucking just.

909
00:43:41,320 --> 00:43:44,799
Speaker 4: So many Lebron Lebron being.

910
00:43:44,440 --> 00:43:47,600
Speaker 5: Married to the same black woman raising two black fucking

911
00:43:47,600 --> 00:43:50,920
Speaker 5: little superstars. It's only gonna We're not looking at that,

912
00:43:51,160 --> 00:43:52,600
Speaker 5: it's something hurt you.

913
00:43:52,719 --> 00:43:54,800
Speaker 3: Now they had two kids before they even got married.

914
00:43:55,120 --> 00:43:59,440
Speaker 3: Then they had yeah, yeah, but even not even the rappers.

915
00:43:59,480 --> 00:44:02,279
Speaker 3: Look at the nancial dudes that's running the internet right now,

916
00:44:02,360 --> 00:44:06,359
Speaker 3: all these finance guys, these uh option traders and all

917
00:44:06,360 --> 00:44:06,719
Speaker 3: this shit.

918
00:44:06,840 --> 00:44:08,759
Speaker 2: Like, none of these niggas married either. So y'all talk

919
00:44:08,800 --> 00:44:12,040
Speaker 2: about generational wealth and legacy, You can't do that without

920
00:44:12,040 --> 00:44:14,239
Speaker 2: a wife, you know, you can't do that when you

921
00:44:14,320 --> 00:44:17,040
Speaker 2: having kids here, a kids there. You spread yourself so thin,

922
00:44:17,440 --> 00:44:19,160
Speaker 2: So how are you going to get to the bag

923
00:44:19,239 --> 00:44:20,000
Speaker 2: in a real way?

924
00:44:20,719 --> 00:44:23,320
Speaker 3: If you got all your children in different households, you

925
00:44:23,360 --> 00:44:25,480
Speaker 3: ain't controlling shit at that point. You don't got the

926
00:44:25,560 --> 00:44:27,520
Speaker 3: control over none of these kids and none of these women.

927
00:44:27,880 --> 00:44:29,759
Speaker 3: Future is not happy, y'all, niggas.

928
00:44:29,960 --> 00:44:32,000
Speaker 2: It's grown men out here saying they would rather their

929
00:44:32,000 --> 00:44:38,000
Speaker 2: son be like Future than Russell Wilson, y'all, any of them.

930
00:44:38,320 --> 00:44:40,720
Speaker 1: Honestly, we don't know if any of them are happy. Honestly,

931
00:44:41,120 --> 00:44:42,640
Speaker 1: you know, all we know is what we see on

932
00:44:42,680 --> 00:44:45,960
Speaker 1: social media, and they could be going home crying every night.

933
00:44:46,040 --> 00:44:46,600
Speaker 1: You never know.

934
00:44:47,000 --> 00:44:47,520
Speaker 2: Well, we got.

935
00:44:47,520 --> 00:44:51,480
Speaker 5: Niggas, Yeah, but I would I would I would rather

936
00:44:51,600 --> 00:44:58,440
Speaker 5: be crying with like nine different baby mamas that I'm

937
00:44:58,480 --> 00:45:01,240
Speaker 5: having to pay monthly different wages.

938
00:45:01,320 --> 00:45:02,560
Speaker 4: One getting that.

939
00:45:05,640 --> 00:45:06,439
Speaker 2: Niggas mad.

940
00:45:07,239 --> 00:45:10,560
Speaker 4: Oh No, I don't feel there's no way that.

941
00:45:10,640 --> 00:45:14,840
Speaker 2: Feels niggas through it because she ain't having it.

942
00:45:16,640 --> 00:45:19,440
Speaker 6: She was she was raised right, people.

943
00:45:21,000 --> 00:45:22,440
Speaker 2: Got roots in that nigga and everything.

944
00:45:23,480 --> 00:45:26,160
Speaker 4: And then they and then they be now you.

945
00:45:26,239 --> 00:45:30,640
Speaker 5: Gotta go and put all your funds and different counts

946
00:45:30,680 --> 00:45:32,920
Speaker 5: to look like you ain't making no money and do

947
00:45:33,040 --> 00:45:35,839
Speaker 5: all this weird ship when it's just like and then

948
00:45:36,000 --> 00:45:39,520
Speaker 5: you do gotta deal with a nigga like Russell who

949
00:45:39,640 --> 00:45:39,960
Speaker 5: come in.

950
00:45:40,080 --> 00:45:42,799
Speaker 2: And playing football with your little son.

951
00:45:42,960 --> 00:45:46,720
Speaker 4: You know what I'm saying. You feel me itself?

952
00:45:49,080 --> 00:45:51,399
Speaker 5: I think that like like you said, we really don't

953
00:45:51,440 --> 00:45:56,239
Speaker 5: know what people are experiencing or feeling. But I mean,

954
00:45:56,400 --> 00:46:00,200
Speaker 5: like we said, like perceptions everything, And if I'm be

955
00:46:00,320 --> 00:46:02,720
Speaker 5: doing anything, I'd rather be doing it like with a partner.

956
00:46:02,760 --> 00:46:05,000
Speaker 4: I like, I like what like Sierra and Russell be doing.

957
00:46:05,200 --> 00:46:05,960
Speaker 4: It looked real good.

958
00:46:06,000 --> 00:46:09,000
Speaker 5: It looked fly for our people, you know, And I

959
00:46:09,080 --> 00:46:11,200
Speaker 5: think it's dope calling corny and ship.

960
00:46:11,080 --> 00:46:14,280
Speaker 1: Like y'all Guardian, The same people who call it corny

961
00:46:14,680 --> 00:46:16,560
Speaker 1: is the same kids that grew up like, oh you

962
00:46:16,640 --> 00:46:19,520
Speaker 1: got a daddy, you whack his head, you know, like

963
00:46:19,640 --> 00:46:20,439
Speaker 1: you're the same people.

964
00:46:21,480 --> 00:46:25,560
Speaker 3: Yeah, but listen, we have a segment on our show, right,

965
00:46:26,200 --> 00:46:31,160
Speaker 3: it's uh dumb bitch stories, right, and then the sequel

966
00:46:31,239 --> 00:46:32,759
Speaker 3: to that not sequel, What is the word I'm looking for,

967
00:46:32,920 --> 00:46:35,520
Speaker 3: Like the equal mal version? Yeah, the male version is

968
00:46:35,640 --> 00:46:38,879
Speaker 3: the SIMP series, right, So when we come back from break,

969
00:46:39,160 --> 00:46:42,120
Speaker 3: we need some stories. We need some SIMP stories from y'all. Okay,

970
00:46:42,800 --> 00:46:47,319
Speaker 3: y'all got it when when I was yeah, a time

971
00:46:47,440 --> 00:46:48,200
Speaker 3: you got played.

972
00:46:48,840 --> 00:46:50,959
Speaker 1: Y'all got played by the opposite sex.

973
00:46:51,320 --> 00:46:53,120
Speaker 2: Y'all stay tuned. We'll be right back.

974
00:46:55,480 --> 00:46:58,600
Speaker 6: Way to say this pure sir.

975
00:47:03,040 --> 00:47:04,759
Speaker 1: Let me just say this. Don't tell us no ship

976
00:47:04,800 --> 00:47:05,960
Speaker 1: from high school. We don't want to.

977
00:47:05,960 --> 00:47:10,160
Speaker 9: Hear like great, no, no, no, no, this is this

978
00:47:10,280 --> 00:47:21,000
Speaker 9: is what before I met my wifelying, this happened yesterday.

979
00:47:23,760 --> 00:47:25,400
Speaker 7: No, it was Remember one time I went on a

980
00:47:25,560 --> 00:47:29,000
Speaker 7: date this ship went to like a comedy show and

981
00:47:29,520 --> 00:47:33,920
Speaker 7: she kept on ordering hot chocolates. Right, I found out

982
00:47:33,920 --> 00:47:35,360
Speaker 7: was kind of weird. It was like a her fourth

983
00:47:35,400 --> 00:47:38,319
Speaker 7: hot chocolate. I'm just like buying them whatever and then

984
00:47:39,760 --> 00:47:40,080
Speaker 7: and then.

985
00:47:43,000 --> 00:47:44,080
Speaker 6: No, it was crazy.

986
00:47:44,120 --> 00:47:45,440
Speaker 7: It was like yo, by the time, and then it

987
00:47:45,600 --> 00:47:47,319
Speaker 7: was like the comedy show was school, it was good

988
00:47:47,360 --> 00:47:49,600
Speaker 7: bye whatever, and she called this dude that was like

989
00:47:50,400 --> 00:47:52,399
Speaker 7: she sees to ride the cabs and used to drive

990
00:47:52,560 --> 00:47:54,120
Speaker 7: every I'm like, yo, this is a man's like no,

991
00:47:54,360 --> 00:47:56,920
Speaker 7: this is due, you know this whatever picked up.

992
00:47:57,000 --> 00:47:59,280
Speaker 6: She gets in the car and kisses him and leaves.

993
00:47:59,480 --> 00:48:03,120
Speaker 6: I'm like, I payed for all your hot chocolates and

994
00:48:03,160 --> 00:48:06,760
Speaker 6: this is what I get. Oh yeah, four hot chocolates.

995
00:48:06,960 --> 00:48:08,040
Speaker 6: I was like, yeah, this was crazy.

996
00:48:08,960 --> 00:48:09,480
Speaker 1: She was hot.

997
00:48:10,520 --> 00:48:12,200
Speaker 6: I know, she was like four twenty five.

998
00:48:13,640 --> 00:48:15,799
Speaker 1: Like she was shipping up or something like I thought

999
00:48:15,840 --> 00:48:16,040
Speaker 1: she was.

1000
00:48:16,320 --> 00:48:16,839
Speaker 4: She had to get home.

1001
00:48:16,840 --> 00:48:18,319
Speaker 6: I don't know what she called doing the caves shed

1002
00:48:18,760 --> 00:48:20,560
Speaker 6: speech was like that was like yeah, she left with

1003
00:48:20,640 --> 00:48:21,040
Speaker 6: him and I got.

1004
00:48:21,040 --> 00:48:23,320
Speaker 2: Traumatized by the heart sound like she was working.

1005
00:48:23,800 --> 00:48:26,520
Speaker 6: Yeah, I would never buy hot chocolates again.

1006
00:48:26,719 --> 00:48:31,960
Speaker 3: Or she's not like a car hopper. I thought she

1007
00:48:32,160 --> 00:48:34,200
Speaker 3: was homeless, Like is she sleeping outside? She need to

1008
00:48:34,280 --> 00:48:34,799
Speaker 3: stay warm?

1009
00:48:34,960 --> 00:48:38,000
Speaker 6: Like it was the weirdest thing. I said, like, you know,

1010
00:48:38,080 --> 00:48:43,719
Speaker 6: because on your fourth one, I'm like that, man, Well, yeah,

1011
00:48:43,800 --> 00:48:44,320
Speaker 6: it's crazy.

1012
00:48:46,480 --> 00:48:47,520
Speaker 1: What about you price to.

1013
00:48:47,600 --> 00:48:49,680
Speaker 5: Some people in fighting for your marriage and my mindset.

1014
00:48:49,680 --> 00:48:51,879
Speaker 5: It was fighting for my marriage at the same time,

1015
00:48:52,000 --> 00:48:53,680
Speaker 5: knowing that that was the person I had no business

1016
00:48:53,680 --> 00:48:53,920
Speaker 5: being with.

1017
00:48:54,200 --> 00:48:54,799
Speaker 4: Some same ship.

1018
00:48:55,440 --> 00:48:59,479
Speaker 5: But one story shirt me and my ex we lived

1019
00:48:59,520 --> 00:49:03,839
Speaker 5: in Atlanta there at the time, and we got into

1020
00:49:03,920 --> 00:49:08,480
Speaker 5: it heavy, and she moved back to California and was like,

1021
00:49:10,520 --> 00:49:13,960
Speaker 5: you know, we're being separated. It was like, we're getting separated,

1022
00:49:14,320 --> 00:49:16,240
Speaker 5: So then I come back to fight for a fight.

1023
00:49:16,160 --> 00:49:17,520
Speaker 4: For the marriage, blah blah blah blah.

1024
00:49:18,560 --> 00:49:21,320
Speaker 5: Ironically, her birthdays around this time, and she kept posting

1025
00:49:21,400 --> 00:49:24,960
Speaker 5: online and she wanted this dog, like a teacup Yorkie.

1026
00:49:25,360 --> 00:49:27,680
Speaker 5: You know what I'm saying. I got my little fence

1027
00:49:27,680 --> 00:49:29,480
Speaker 5: to the page or whatever. Keep looking at her little

1028
00:49:29,520 --> 00:49:31,920
Speaker 5: page to see you know what I'm saying. So I

1029
00:49:32,040 --> 00:49:33,960
Speaker 5: keep seeing that she wants this dumb ass dog, and

1030
00:49:34,040 --> 00:49:36,200
Speaker 5: I'm like, all right, fucking for sure to get the dog.

1031
00:49:36,400 --> 00:49:36,720
Speaker 4: Whatever.

1032
00:49:37,239 --> 00:49:40,800
Speaker 5: So then we ended up getting cool and you know,

1033
00:49:41,320 --> 00:49:45,080
Speaker 5: decided to go somewhere for her birthday. We go where

1034
00:49:45,200 --> 00:49:47,960
Speaker 5: we're going. I'm surprised her with the dog she hyped.

1035
00:49:48,200 --> 00:49:53,600
Speaker 5: So now she's back, you know, yeah, it's all that right,

1036
00:49:54,280 --> 00:49:58,320
Speaker 5: And so I get her phone to take pictures. She

1037
00:49:58,360 --> 00:50:00,120
Speaker 5: wanted me to get pictures and videos of her with

1038
00:50:00,239 --> 00:50:00,600
Speaker 5: the dog.

1039
00:50:00,800 --> 00:50:01,560
Speaker 4: And this is set.

1040
00:50:02,520 --> 00:50:08,720
Speaker 5: But as I'm recording the video, I see text messages

1041
00:50:08,760 --> 00:50:11,160
Speaker 5: popping up on the phone, you know, as I'm holding it,

1042
00:50:11,920 --> 00:50:15,839
Speaker 5: and it was Yeah, it was just not the right

1043
00:50:16,160 --> 00:50:16,920
Speaker 5: kind of text message.

1044
00:50:16,960 --> 00:50:17,880
Speaker 4: And it's on her birthday.

1045
00:50:18,360 --> 00:50:20,520
Speaker 5: So I could tell from the responses from the text

1046
00:50:20,560 --> 00:50:22,640
Speaker 5: messages of kind of like the idea of what she

1047
00:50:22,840 --> 00:50:23,160
Speaker 5: was saying.

1048
00:50:23,840 --> 00:50:25,400
Speaker 4: So I'd be lying if I said I didn't go

1049
00:50:25,480 --> 00:50:27,640
Speaker 4: through the phone when she got.

1050
00:50:27,560 --> 00:50:30,680
Speaker 5: The shower right, so in the phone, so I see,

1051
00:50:31,560 --> 00:50:33,239
Speaker 5: because I really just went straight to that conbo I

1052
00:50:33,239 --> 00:50:35,080
Speaker 5: didn't even give a funk about nothing else. I wanted

1053
00:50:35,080 --> 00:50:37,719
Speaker 5: to see what she was talking about. This nigga should know.

1054
00:50:37,840 --> 00:50:40,400
Speaker 5: She asking the niggah, why you ain't telling me happy birthday?

1055
00:50:40,760 --> 00:50:43,520
Speaker 5: This lambs shit, I'm looking like, niggadn't even tell you

1056
00:50:43,560 --> 00:50:44,200
Speaker 5: happy birthday?

1057
00:50:44,280 --> 00:50:45,960
Speaker 2: Like you, I got you a dog?

1058
00:50:47,880 --> 00:50:49,120
Speaker 4: Right? Were married?

1059
00:50:49,560 --> 00:50:49,719
Speaker 6: All that?

1060
00:50:49,840 --> 00:50:53,719
Speaker 5: We're married, But I'm saying all that to say, so

1061
00:50:54,120 --> 00:50:57,680
Speaker 5: I hold it in though because it had been months,

1062
00:50:57,760 --> 00:50:59,960
Speaker 5: we ain't have no sex nothing, so you want to start.

1063
00:51:01,440 --> 00:51:05,160
Speaker 4: I wanted to get my issue and so boom we

1064
00:51:05,239 --> 00:51:06,879
Speaker 4: do our thing. That next morning.

1065
00:51:06,960 --> 00:51:09,960
Speaker 5: We drive back down from wherever we're at, and I'm steaming,

1066
00:51:10,080 --> 00:51:11,840
Speaker 5: but I ain't say nothing the whole time. I'm just

1067
00:51:11,920 --> 00:51:15,480
Speaker 5: playing the cool. But when we get to our destination,

1068
00:51:15,800 --> 00:51:18,360
Speaker 5: acted like I knew everything. You feel me acting like

1069
00:51:18,400 --> 00:51:20,240
Speaker 5: I knew everything. So she ended up like just confected

1070
00:51:20,239 --> 00:51:22,040
Speaker 5: because I told her about the one text message I

1071
00:51:22,120 --> 00:51:24,880
Speaker 5: seen and then I just like portrayed like I knew everything,

1072
00:51:25,600 --> 00:51:28,760
Speaker 5: and she went for it. So she started telling me everything,

1073
00:51:29,000 --> 00:51:31,120
Speaker 5: like she had a nigga at her mama.

1074
00:51:30,960 --> 00:51:34,840
Speaker 4: House in the pool kissing. It was just all this

1075
00:51:35,000 --> 00:51:39,120
Speaker 4: wild ship. She really had no truice that.

1076
00:51:47,120 --> 00:51:47,359
Speaker 2: Video.

1077
00:51:48,200 --> 00:51:48,399
Speaker 1: Baby.

1078
00:51:53,400 --> 00:51:56,160
Speaker 5: But what makes it the simp story to it for

1079
00:51:56,320 --> 00:51:58,719
Speaker 5: me is that like after that happened, you know, I

1080
00:51:58,880 --> 00:52:02,759
Speaker 5: was crashed. I'm talking abou you know your stomach hell no,

1081
00:52:03,239 --> 00:52:05,560
Speaker 5: But and I said I wouldn't cry. But I didn't cry,

1082
00:52:06,000 --> 00:52:06,880
Speaker 5: but my heart.

1083
00:52:06,760 --> 00:52:09,560
Speaker 4: My stomach, I just had that that stomach feeling, you

1084
00:52:09,640 --> 00:52:10,640
Speaker 4: know what I mean, hurt.

1085
00:52:10,800 --> 00:52:14,640
Speaker 6: I was like, that's that's the full hot choc type

1086
00:52:14,640 --> 00:52:15,279
Speaker 6: of stomach right there.

1087
00:52:18,760 --> 00:52:21,680
Speaker 4: But I stayed. I stayed. You know what I'm saying

1088
00:52:21,880 --> 00:52:24,360
Speaker 4: to me, The simph about it is the fact.

1089
00:52:24,200 --> 00:52:25,520
Speaker 2: That I hold on.

1090
00:52:26,080 --> 00:52:30,960
Speaker 3: I got dragged Instagram because we did another podcast and

1091
00:52:31,040 --> 00:52:33,200
Speaker 3: I said, if you cheat on your nigga and he

1092
00:52:33,440 --> 00:52:36,279
Speaker 3: find out, you better leave that nigga because y'all wont

1093
00:52:36,360 --> 00:52:39,799
Speaker 3: troll in the relationship, like you want me to stay

1094
00:52:39,880 --> 00:52:41,719
Speaker 3: and you want to troll me the whole time while

1095
00:52:41,760 --> 00:52:42,200
Speaker 3: I'm here.

1096
00:52:43,440 --> 00:52:45,280
Speaker 4: Right, So, No, I didn't troller.

1097
00:52:46,400 --> 00:52:47,040
Speaker 1: I just was.

1098
00:52:47,800 --> 00:52:49,319
Speaker 4: I went through a little season where I was.

1099
00:52:49,400 --> 00:52:55,440
Speaker 2: Mean, that's what I'm talking about, But no, you gotta

1100
00:52:55,520 --> 00:52:56,239
Speaker 2: let me get through.

1101
00:52:56,719 --> 00:52:56,919
Speaker 4: Nah.

1102
00:52:58,400 --> 00:53:01,440
Speaker 2: Yeah, he separate from me.

1103
00:53:01,920 --> 00:53:07,160
Speaker 5: That No, that's that's scary. That's tricky because hell is separately.

1104
00:53:07,719 --> 00:53:10,480
Speaker 5: I might get up, I might get under somebody to

1105
00:53:10,680 --> 00:53:13,759
Speaker 5: try to get over you, and they come back around

1106
00:53:13,800 --> 00:53:19,160
Speaker 5: you come back you know, or or don't if it

1107
00:53:19,200 --> 00:53:22,440
Speaker 5: ain't meant if it ain't. But then we ended up

1108
00:53:22,480 --> 00:53:24,719
Speaker 5: having my son after all of that, which was the

1109
00:53:24,800 --> 00:53:28,439
Speaker 5: craziest part, Like we actually ended up having my son

1110
00:53:28,800 --> 00:53:30,600
Speaker 5: when it was really like the tail end.

1111
00:53:32,200 --> 00:53:35,880
Speaker 4: Of each other. Yeah, so yeah, that was my.

1112
00:53:36,480 --> 00:53:38,120
Speaker 1: I had a friend who got caught cheating on her

1113
00:53:38,200 --> 00:53:41,320
Speaker 1: man and they like worked it out, but for a

1114
00:53:41,400 --> 00:53:43,080
Speaker 1: long time, she said, I used to think he was

1115
00:53:43,120 --> 00:53:45,000
Speaker 1: trying to kill me because we.

1116
00:53:45,040 --> 00:53:47,400
Speaker 2: Would fucking he would mash a pillow on my face.

1117
00:53:51,400 --> 00:53:56,120
Speaker 2: I've been I be that is real.

1118
00:53:56,680 --> 00:54:00,400
Speaker 4: I've been there before we go, before you go or

1119
00:54:00,480 --> 00:54:04,480
Speaker 4: switch the topic. So you been there, like you didn't it.

1120
00:54:04,680 --> 00:54:08,960
Speaker 2: No, I didn't cheat teated town, I never cheated.

1121
00:54:09,120 --> 00:54:10,560
Speaker 1: I don't know what you're talking about.

1122
00:54:13,080 --> 00:54:13,319
Speaker 2: Okay.

1123
00:54:13,520 --> 00:54:16,279
Speaker 3: Because of the self awareness that I have about myself, now,

1124
00:54:16,400 --> 00:54:19,440
Speaker 3: I know that I need to be single in a relationship.

1125
00:54:20,320 --> 00:54:28,880
Speaker 1: Let me explain, Yes I.

1126
00:54:29,000 --> 00:54:33,560
Speaker 3: Am, because listen, in a relationship, I'm very very loyal, right,

1127
00:54:34,080 --> 00:54:36,680
Speaker 3: But I want people to stop pretending that they don't

1128
00:54:36,760 --> 00:54:41,440
Speaker 3: frightnize right that you don't entertain messages you might get

1129
00:54:41,520 --> 00:54:44,239
Speaker 3: sometimes and no, you still got it a little bit right.

1130
00:54:45,000 --> 00:54:46,120
Speaker 2: Everybody does it.

1131
00:54:46,239 --> 00:54:48,400
Speaker 3: You just don't want somebody to see it like in

1132
00:54:48,520 --> 00:54:50,239
Speaker 3: your ship and see it like a motherfucker. Be not

1133
00:54:50,360 --> 00:54:52,520
Speaker 3: misinterpreting some ship because it was never for your eyes

1134
00:54:52,560 --> 00:54:55,600
Speaker 3: in the first place. So I don't touch people things, right,

1135
00:54:55,760 --> 00:54:58,400
Speaker 3: don't touch my ship. When I said I want to

1136
00:54:58,440 --> 00:55:00,600
Speaker 3: be single in a relationship, I I want to be

1137
00:55:00,719 --> 00:55:04,680
Speaker 3: able to tell my person everything about me. So if

1138
00:55:04,719 --> 00:55:07,879
Speaker 3: I like to flirt, even if we together and I'm

1139
00:55:07,960 --> 00:55:10,839
Speaker 3: we just ordering coffee or some ship, And I said oh,

1140
00:55:10,880 --> 00:55:13,080
Speaker 3: thank you baby. Like in my last relationship, just calling

1141
00:55:13,160 --> 00:55:15,680
Speaker 3: somebody baby was a problem. And I don't mean to

1142
00:55:15,760 --> 00:55:18,759
Speaker 3: buy it, Like my mom calls everybody baby. Like I

1143
00:55:18,840 --> 00:55:21,120
Speaker 3: grew up like that. So if you talking to a kid,

1144
00:55:21,400 --> 00:55:23,160
Speaker 3: a grown person, a woman, or a man, it's like,

1145
00:55:23,360 --> 00:55:23,919
Speaker 3: thank your baby.

1146
00:55:24,719 --> 00:55:26,440
Speaker 2: That was a problem. I don't want that to be

1147
00:55:26,520 --> 00:55:27,040
Speaker 2: a problem.

1148
00:55:27,400 --> 00:55:29,080
Speaker 1: No, that's a problem for me because if you my

1149
00:55:29,920 --> 00:55:31,759
Speaker 1: if you was my woman and you call him a

1150
00:55:31,800 --> 00:55:33,800
Speaker 1: nigga baby, your head going between the Washington.

1151
00:55:35,440 --> 00:55:37,839
Speaker 3: But I never really call it a grown person a baby,

1152
00:55:37,920 --> 00:55:40,960
Speaker 3: like grown man baby, while with my significant other it

1153
00:55:41,000 --> 00:55:44,320
Speaker 3: would be like a younger person, somebody younger than me,

1154
00:55:44,520 --> 00:55:46,520
Speaker 3: you know what I'm saying, not like some grown fine

1155
00:55:46,520 --> 00:55:47,040
Speaker 3: as nigga.

1156
00:55:47,040 --> 00:55:49,719
Speaker 2: I'm like, thank you baby. No, that never happened, you

1157
00:55:49,840 --> 00:55:54,160
Speaker 2: know what I mean, That never happened.

1158
00:55:55,600 --> 00:55:57,080
Speaker 4: That a little.

1159
00:55:58,680 --> 00:56:00,640
Speaker 2: What's your signs? What's your sign?

1160
00:56:00,840 --> 00:56:04,759
Speaker 1: What's your too?

1161
00:56:05,480 --> 00:56:06,480
Speaker 4: I'm a Sagittarian.

1162
00:56:06,600 --> 00:56:08,160
Speaker 1: Oh I like that terrorists.

1163
00:56:10,480 --> 00:56:13,640
Speaker 3: I'm a Gemini, So Sagittarius is like the opposite, the

1164
00:56:13,800 --> 00:56:15,080
Speaker 3: opposite of Gemini.

1165
00:56:15,360 --> 00:56:16,040
Speaker 6: What's your birthday?

1166
00:56:17,280 --> 00:56:19,680
Speaker 2: June eighth? I like to tell people me and Kanye

1167
00:56:19,800 --> 00:56:23,239
Speaker 2: got the same birthday. Y'all just to put a little bit.

1168
00:56:26,840 --> 00:56:34,480
Speaker 1: What about you, I'm a cancer July into June into July.

1169
00:56:35,760 --> 00:56:38,040
Speaker 6: That's like my mom my brother is a cancer.

1170
00:56:38,920 --> 00:56:43,839
Speaker 1: Yeah, loving cry babies right the fact sound like my mom.

1171
00:56:44,800 --> 00:56:47,240
Speaker 5: Yeah, okay, see, I'll be I'll be knowing the signs.

1172
00:56:47,280 --> 00:56:50,800
Speaker 5: I just don't really be knowing them birthdays or just

1173
00:56:50,840 --> 00:56:53,000
Speaker 5: the birthdays. I actually be knowing the traits more than

1174
00:56:54,120 --> 00:56:55,720
Speaker 5: the times.

1175
00:56:55,120 --> 00:56:55,680
Speaker 4: That make you.

1176
00:56:55,800 --> 00:56:59,560
Speaker 3: Yeah, having all my niggas sign up for let me

1177
00:56:59,800 --> 00:57:01,400
Speaker 3: say i'd be having all the nigga.

1178
00:57:03,000 --> 00:57:03,719
Speaker 8: I may I have.

1179
00:57:04,360 --> 00:57:06,200
Speaker 2: When I meet somebody, I have them sign up a

1180
00:57:06,280 --> 00:57:08,439
Speaker 2: co star? Is this app Like I need to see

1181
00:57:08,440 --> 00:57:10,320
Speaker 2: your fucking birth yard, dog, Not because I want to

1182
00:57:10,360 --> 00:57:12,800
Speaker 2: manipulate you. It's just like it's like a good.

1183
00:57:12,760 --> 00:57:17,120
Speaker 3: Starting point to see, like who somebody is, right, I

1184
00:57:17,240 --> 00:57:19,200
Speaker 3: need to know, like how your planet's alone.

1185
00:57:19,680 --> 00:57:22,080
Speaker 4: I never get to know, like if I'm a half

1186
00:57:22,240 --> 00:57:23,919
Speaker 4: moon or this and that and all that ship.

1187
00:57:27,120 --> 00:57:29,840
Speaker 1: I don't believe in that ship. Like we're all individuals.

1188
00:57:30,120 --> 00:57:32,600
Speaker 1: Like some of that stuff is true to a degree,

1189
00:57:32,720 --> 00:57:34,840
Speaker 1: but for the most part, I think it's your life

1190
00:57:34,880 --> 00:57:35,880
Speaker 1: experiences that make it.

1191
00:57:36,080 --> 00:57:40,360
Speaker 2: You are right and upbringing. Y'all got to find out

1192
00:57:40,360 --> 00:57:42,960
Speaker 2: who people mom and daddy is, who the people people is?

1193
00:57:43,080 --> 00:57:46,080
Speaker 1: Yeah, before you start meeting with him, Yeah, said do

1194
00:57:46,160 --> 00:57:48,120
Speaker 1: y'all feel like that's important your upbringing?

1195
00:57:48,360 --> 00:57:50,800
Speaker 2: Like yeah, that's like the main thing.

1196
00:57:51,040 --> 00:57:53,520
Speaker 1: Do you hear that? Do you use that to pick

1197
00:57:53,560 --> 00:57:53,919
Speaker 1: a woman?

1198
00:57:54,040 --> 00:57:58,000
Speaker 7: Like I don't see, I don't do that, No, no, no,

1199
00:57:58,200 --> 00:58:00,440
Speaker 7: I know with me like I said, like earlier, like

1200
00:58:00,480 --> 00:58:03,720
Speaker 7: I had communication issues and I didn't trust a lot

1201
00:58:03,720 --> 00:58:05,280
Speaker 7: of people, right, And that's something that I had to

1202
00:58:05,360 --> 00:58:08,080
Speaker 7: catch myself as I got older. Right, So in between

1203
00:58:08,160 --> 00:58:09,920
Speaker 7: that and me not knowing, I was just like a

1204
00:58:10,000 --> 00:58:12,840
Speaker 7: cold hearted like yo, you get in a relationship for

1205
00:58:12,960 --> 00:58:15,200
Speaker 7: like a good three years, like I'm out all right,

1206
00:58:16,040 --> 00:58:16,560
Speaker 7: I'm out.

1207
00:58:18,400 --> 00:58:20,960
Speaker 6: Too, because it was like it was I never really

1208
00:58:21,040 --> 00:58:23,480
Speaker 6: got too close, right, So I was like.

1209
00:58:23,560 --> 00:58:26,080
Speaker 7: Okay, But as I got older, I realized, but you

1210
00:58:26,120 --> 00:58:28,720
Speaker 7: know a lot of people, like I said, growing up

1211
00:58:29,480 --> 00:58:32,920
Speaker 7: any therapy and yeah, you know what I mean, we

1212
00:58:33,040 --> 00:58:35,840
Speaker 7: all can probably use therapy right now, open up, sure

1213
00:58:35,920 --> 00:58:37,280
Speaker 7: you know what I mean? So I was like, sure,

1214
00:58:37,600 --> 00:58:39,560
Speaker 7: I try to be that to like people I'm hanging

1215
00:58:39,600 --> 00:58:41,200
Speaker 7: out with all the time, Like yo, just like as

1216
00:58:41,240 --> 00:58:42,960
Speaker 7: a you know, a free therapist.

1217
00:58:42,600 --> 00:58:45,200
Speaker 5: And ship you know, Yeah, I like getting to know

1218
00:58:45,320 --> 00:58:48,240
Speaker 5: who people family is, not even for the sake of like, oh,

1219
00:58:48,280 --> 00:58:49,520
Speaker 5: whether I'm a funk with you or.

1220
00:58:49,560 --> 00:58:53,800
Speaker 4: Not, But that's just it helps me understand who I'm

1221
00:58:53,840 --> 00:58:55,120
Speaker 4: fucking with a lot better.

1222
00:58:55,280 --> 00:58:57,440
Speaker 5: Like you said, so like if you got a family

1223
00:58:57,560 --> 00:59:03,760
Speaker 5: that's like my family, we got we communicate, but we

1224
00:59:03,880 --> 00:59:05,640
Speaker 5: can we get angry, you know what I'm saying. So

1225
00:59:05,760 --> 00:59:07,520
Speaker 5: we get to my mom allowed, she get to go

1226
00:59:07,600 --> 00:59:09,440
Speaker 5: in the fuck off. She can really just break you

1227
00:59:09,560 --> 00:59:11,440
Speaker 5: and beat you down with words. We ain't got to

1228
00:59:11,440 --> 00:59:12,160
Speaker 5: put our hands on you.

1229
00:59:12,200 --> 00:59:14,440
Speaker 4: We just chew you away with words, you know, like

1230
00:59:16,480 --> 00:59:18,400
Speaker 4: you know shit like that. But then I come from

1231
00:59:19,400 --> 00:59:22,360
Speaker 4: family with angry issues and alcoholism and things like that.

1232
00:59:22,520 --> 00:59:24,400
Speaker 4: So you want to know some of those things so

1233
00:59:24,440 --> 00:59:25,480
Speaker 4: that you can know like like.

1234
00:59:25,640 --> 00:59:28,480
Speaker 5: Anxiety issues, things like that, so you can kind of

1235
00:59:28,560 --> 00:59:30,560
Speaker 5: know trigger exactly you feel.

1236
00:59:30,400 --> 00:59:32,120
Speaker 4: Me, so you can know who you're dealing with, how

1237
00:59:32,240 --> 00:59:33,840
Speaker 4: to deal with him, right you feel me?

1238
00:59:33,880 --> 00:59:36,440
Speaker 5: It's important Sometimes people don't be wondering I don't want

1239
00:59:36,440 --> 00:59:37,120
Speaker 5: to meet your family.

1240
00:59:37,120 --> 00:59:38,000
Speaker 4: I'm good on the family.

1241
00:59:42,120 --> 00:59:44,560
Speaker 2: I've been making jokes saying I don't like niggas with mamas.

1242
00:59:45,240 --> 00:59:47,320
Speaker 2: Is that I don't like niggas with mamas and.

1243
00:59:47,440 --> 00:59:50,280
Speaker 3: Sisters who are not in healthy relationships with a man,

1244
00:59:50,440 --> 00:59:52,920
Speaker 3: right because here I am dating your son, dating your brother,

1245
00:59:53,520 --> 00:59:55,400
Speaker 3: and you mad at me because he's no longer like

1246
00:59:55,480 --> 00:59:57,320
Speaker 3: doing the things he used to do for you, because

1247
00:59:57,400 --> 01:00:00,080
Speaker 3: you don't have a good relationship with a man. I

1248
01:00:00,160 --> 01:00:06,040
Speaker 3: don't want to have to smack your sisters about to

1249
01:00:06,040 --> 01:00:06,520
Speaker 3: say her mom.

1250
01:00:06,520 --> 01:00:07,440
Speaker 6: I don't want to flag.

1251
01:00:07,200 --> 01:00:07,600
Speaker 4: Your mom, but.

1252
01:00:10,360 --> 01:00:14,520
Speaker 2: I'm not. I won't leave your ass because of your mama.

1253
01:00:14,840 --> 01:00:17,960
Speaker 4: I'm not mom. Hell no, it's crazy.

1254
01:00:18,040 --> 01:00:21,480
Speaker 5: I really just had this conversation, but I think it's important,

1255
01:00:21,520 --> 01:00:24,240
Speaker 5: like to what we was talking about earlier. But that

1256
01:00:24,520 --> 01:00:26,440
Speaker 5: is all based on the type of man, like if

1257
01:00:26,440 --> 01:00:28,800
Speaker 5: you would pushover ass nigga, if you're a nigga who

1258
01:00:29,680 --> 01:00:32,480
Speaker 5: you know get talked too crazy and ran over ran

1259
01:00:32,560 --> 01:00:33,400
Speaker 5: on by whoever.

1260
01:00:33,480 --> 01:00:35,440
Speaker 4: Because even if it's your mama, like.

1261
01:00:36,240 --> 01:00:38,000
Speaker 5: It could be your mama, you can be your mama's

1262
01:00:38,000 --> 01:00:39,400
Speaker 5: boy all of that, you can have all the left

1263
01:00:39,440 --> 01:00:40,440
Speaker 5: for your mom, support.

1264
01:00:40,200 --> 01:00:41,920
Speaker 4: Your mom, be the ones doing this, this and that.

1265
01:00:42,640 --> 01:00:45,360
Speaker 4: But it's still ordered. It's still lines you aren't allowed

1266
01:00:45,400 --> 01:00:46,960
Speaker 4: to cross. And I'm gonna check you mom or not.

1267
01:00:47,240 --> 01:00:50,360
Speaker 4: You know, I got hummies. That's I got big hommies

1268
01:00:50,440 --> 01:00:53,120
Speaker 4: that won't like talk back to their mom or just

1269
01:00:53,280 --> 01:00:54,680
Speaker 4: or check they mom, you know what I mean, or

1270
01:00:54,760 --> 01:00:57,440
Speaker 4: check they I would check my mom quick as a motherfucker.

1271
01:00:57,880 --> 01:01:00,360
Speaker 3: Yeah, you're not your lady. Your woman is having to

1272
01:01:00,400 --> 01:01:02,520
Speaker 3: deal with this woman and I'm not. I don't want

1273
01:01:02,560 --> 01:01:05,160
Speaker 3: to have to check your mom. I feel like you should, yes.

1274
01:01:05,360 --> 01:01:08,960
Speaker 5: Yeah, yeah, yeah, But then it's too like also like

1275
01:01:09,040 --> 01:01:11,120
Speaker 5: it's important for the man to kind of have that

1276
01:01:11,160 --> 01:01:14,160
Speaker 5: conversation with like like what we're talking about, like let

1277
01:01:14,280 --> 01:01:14,760
Speaker 5: you know some.

1278
01:01:14,880 --> 01:01:18,120
Speaker 4: Of the pain points of his mom or that your parents,

1279
01:01:18,200 --> 01:01:19,480
Speaker 4: et cetera, et cetera. So it's like.

1280
01:01:21,160 --> 01:01:23,400
Speaker 5: This is because like my mom a prime example, my mom,

1281
01:01:23,720 --> 01:01:25,800
Speaker 5: she's single now, she ain't got no man, but she

1282
01:01:25,840 --> 01:01:27,600
Speaker 5: don't give a like my mom don't want me to

1283
01:01:27,640 --> 01:01:30,760
Speaker 5: be her man. You know, I got hommies who they

1284
01:01:30,840 --> 01:01:33,800
Speaker 5: mama think that they they her man. You know what

1285
01:01:33,840 --> 01:01:37,600
Speaker 5: I'm saying, Like that ain't my mom. But if my

1286
01:01:37,720 --> 01:01:40,280
Speaker 5: mom needs something or is hurting or whatever, the fuck,

1287
01:01:40,400 --> 01:01:42,600
Speaker 5: like she don't want to see me just fucking I'm

1288
01:01:42,680 --> 01:01:46,919
Speaker 5: balling out over here and ain't doing nothing help, which

1289
01:01:47,000 --> 01:01:48,600
Speaker 5: you feel me. So that's more of a me thing.

1290
01:01:49,120 --> 01:01:51,960
Speaker 5: And but the moment that that translates over to you know,

1291
01:01:52,040 --> 01:01:54,960
Speaker 5: your relationship or your partner is feeling that shit, then

1292
01:01:55,000 --> 01:01:57,960
Speaker 5: it's like, all right, moms, I gotta let you you know,

1293
01:01:58,120 --> 01:01:58,600
Speaker 5: gotta let you.

1294
01:01:58,640 --> 01:01:59,120
Speaker 4: Know what it is.

1295
01:02:00,000 --> 01:02:02,200
Speaker 5: Because one thing, I'm a big friend believer as a

1296
01:02:02,280 --> 01:02:06,600
Speaker 5: being a parent, it taught me that, like, Okay, everybody's

1297
01:02:06,640 --> 01:02:08,560
Speaker 5: gonna go off and do their own thing for the

1298
01:02:08,680 --> 01:02:11,080
Speaker 5: most part, right, Like my two sons, I love them

1299
01:02:11,120 --> 01:02:13,240
Speaker 5: to death, they love me, they love their mamas for

1300
01:02:13,320 --> 01:02:15,560
Speaker 5: show they love me. But when y'all little niggas get

1301
01:02:15,960 --> 01:02:18,880
Speaker 5: probably sixteen, the Texan CAUs.

1302
01:02:18,720 --> 01:02:19,200
Speaker 4: Is gonna slow.

1303
01:02:19,280 --> 01:02:21,680
Speaker 5: By the time y'all little niggas is eighteen nineteen, y'all

1304
01:02:21,880 --> 01:02:23,320
Speaker 5: gonna be doing your own fucking thing.

1305
01:02:23,720 --> 01:02:25,440
Speaker 4: And eventually y'all gonna go get married.

1306
01:02:26,320 --> 01:02:30,080
Speaker 5: Like when my mom was married, she her husband came first,

1307
01:02:30,360 --> 01:02:32,200
Speaker 5: Your partner come first, you know what I'm saying.

1308
01:02:32,280 --> 01:02:37,240
Speaker 4: And like your mom, because we.

1309
01:02:37,240 --> 01:02:39,280
Speaker 2: Ain't good at the relationship, but the kids is not

1310
01:02:39,360 --> 01:02:39,880
Speaker 2: gonna be good.

1311
01:02:40,040 --> 01:02:42,040
Speaker 3: I do think you have to be like we don't

1312
01:02:42,080 --> 01:02:44,600
Speaker 3: have kids, right, but I do think you it gotta

1313
01:02:44,640 --> 01:02:46,960
Speaker 3: be fucking kids when you got a husband a wife,

1314
01:02:47,040 --> 01:02:47,640
Speaker 3: you know what I mean.

1315
01:02:47,840 --> 01:02:50,600
Speaker 4: Yeah, it's ordered to it. It's ordered because I mean,

1316
01:02:50,600 --> 01:02:51,680
Speaker 4: at the end of the day, like I said, the

1317
01:02:51,760 --> 01:02:54,040
Speaker 4: kids gonna grow up and they gonna go do their own.

1318
01:02:53,960 --> 01:02:56,360
Speaker 5: Thing, like and you won't even talk to these little

1319
01:02:56,400 --> 01:02:58,600
Speaker 5: niggas for who knows how long they just doing their

1320
01:02:58,640 --> 01:03:00,120
Speaker 5: own thing, you feel me.

1321
01:03:00,200 --> 01:03:02,959
Speaker 4: And so you got some people who like to vote.

1322
01:03:02,960 --> 01:03:05,760
Speaker 5: They woll like to their children, want to follow their

1323
01:03:05,800 --> 01:03:08,480
Speaker 5: children around everything they do, and when they go get

1324
01:03:08,720 --> 01:03:11,040
Speaker 5: get older and move to Minnesota for college, they want

1325
01:03:11,080 --> 01:03:12,320
Speaker 5: to move to Minnesota to be close.

1326
01:03:12,360 --> 01:03:14,120
Speaker 2: I wish I got a homegirl like that.

1327
01:03:15,000 --> 01:03:17,080
Speaker 3: I'm like, I know for sure her someone to fucking

1328
01:03:17,160 --> 01:03:19,720
Speaker 3: run away and he's about to and he wants to

1329
01:03:19,760 --> 01:03:21,640
Speaker 3: go to college on the West Coast.

1330
01:03:21,680 --> 01:03:24,200
Speaker 2: She's like, I'm moving. I'm like, that is not that's

1331
01:03:24,280 --> 01:03:26,120
Speaker 2: not your nigga, right.

1332
01:03:28,120 --> 01:03:31,120
Speaker 4: Let little bro do his thing please. I would tell

1333
01:03:31,200 --> 01:03:33,320
Speaker 4: my mom so quickly, listen, you're staying here.

1334
01:03:37,880 --> 01:03:38,360
Speaker 6: I'll be back.

1335
01:03:38,800 --> 01:03:41,200
Speaker 2: Her videos on social media as her and her son.

1336
01:03:41,240 --> 01:03:42,800
Speaker 2: I'm like, Yo, this is not healthy.

1337
01:03:43,640 --> 01:03:46,360
Speaker 5: Yeah it's beautiful though, but it's just like you gotta

1338
01:03:46,400 --> 01:03:48,240
Speaker 5: be balanced and gotta be ordered man like.

1339
01:03:48,520 --> 01:03:50,080
Speaker 4: And unfortunately it.

1340
01:03:50,120 --> 01:03:51,520
Speaker 5: Do be the fact, like you said, they don't be

1341
01:03:51,560 --> 01:03:53,600
Speaker 5: having a relationships, don't be having men in their life.

1342
01:03:54,080 --> 01:03:55,720
Speaker 4: But you can't.

1343
01:03:56,440 --> 01:03:59,480
Speaker 5: I would hate to see you not be potentially with

1344
01:03:59,600 --> 01:04:02,280
Speaker 5: like a great man because his mama don't got.

1345
01:04:02,240 --> 01:04:06,280
Speaker 4: The man, you know what I'm saying, Like that shouldn't

1346
01:04:06,320 --> 01:04:08,280
Speaker 4: just be the reason to just write something off, you

1347
01:04:08,360 --> 01:04:09,160
Speaker 4: know what I mean right away?

1348
01:04:09,320 --> 01:04:13,240
Speaker 1: But based on just sh me, mama make it hard.

1349
01:04:13,320 --> 01:04:15,880
Speaker 1: It's like you fighting for position with your man all

1350
01:04:15,960 --> 01:04:19,280
Speaker 1: the time because of the mama just feels like she should.

1351
01:04:18,960 --> 01:04:19,600
Speaker 4: Come from saying.

1352
01:04:20,040 --> 01:04:25,000
Speaker 7: Now that's different that a jane do you guys cut

1353
01:04:25,080 --> 01:04:27,920
Speaker 7: off a lot of guys just so for like little ship.

1354
01:04:29,960 --> 01:04:31,800
Speaker 2: Tolerance When I tell you.

1355
01:04:35,000 --> 01:04:41,080
Speaker 4: Tolerant the fine.

1356
01:04:40,920 --> 01:04:41,680
Speaker 1: Little ship.

1357
01:04:45,560 --> 01:04:47,400
Speaker 6: Like the way that niggas sneezed yesterday.

1358
01:04:48,280 --> 01:04:51,400
Speaker 2: Not like yeah you I can't fuck with you.

1359
01:04:55,720 --> 01:04:59,160
Speaker 7: I don't think cut people off for small things like that, right,

1360
01:04:59,240 --> 01:05:01,240
Speaker 7: so you keep you because I'm a lot of people

1361
01:05:01,240 --> 01:05:04,160
Speaker 7: I know to like little ship is like short.

1362
01:05:04,760 --> 01:05:10,360
Speaker 1: Really a lot of females, it'd be big ship though,

1363
01:05:10,480 --> 01:05:12,720
Speaker 1: like oh he's a gambler, or he's just in the

1364
01:05:12,760 --> 01:05:15,840
Speaker 1: streets too much, or you know, things like that.

1365
01:05:16,040 --> 01:05:18,160
Speaker 4: What's the last thing you had to cut a nigga off.

1366
01:05:19,240 --> 01:05:20,680
Speaker 4: What's the last nigga got cut off?

1367
01:05:20,720 --> 01:05:24,200
Speaker 1: And why the last nigga that got cut off? He

1368
01:05:24,400 --> 01:05:26,640
Speaker 1: was he was doing all the things. He was really

1369
01:05:26,720 --> 01:05:30,120
Speaker 1: really nice talking. Everything was right right. And then my

1370
01:05:30,200 --> 01:05:33,520
Speaker 1: homegirl she's her man is friends with the guy.

1371
01:05:33,800 --> 01:05:33,920
Speaker 4: Right.

1372
01:05:34,400 --> 01:05:36,040
Speaker 1: She was like, girl, he is on the run from

1373
01:05:36,040 --> 01:05:43,120
Speaker 1: the police right now. Out that cut.

1374
01:05:51,960 --> 01:05:58,160
Speaker 2: Like a mortgage, We're not locked in. We're not locked in.

1375
01:06:03,480 --> 01:06:03,960
Speaker 4: Mortgage.

1376
01:06:06,080 --> 01:06:08,960
Speaker 2: I like a lot of Morgan area.

1377
01:06:09,960 --> 01:06:10,640
Speaker 4: Too much money.

1378
01:06:11,440 --> 01:06:14,800
Speaker 6: You got a little too much d D money, a

1379
01:06:15,160 --> 01:06:16,320
Speaker 6: little blue collar crime.

1380
01:06:17,120 --> 01:06:18,160
Speaker 2: Yeah, White.

1381
01:06:22,280 --> 01:06:24,080
Speaker 7: It's a great convo for you guys if be having

1382
01:06:24,160 --> 01:06:26,360
Speaker 7: right now too, because it's like a lot of people

1383
01:06:26,400 --> 01:06:27,320
Speaker 7: I feel like not even.

1384
01:06:27,240 --> 01:06:29,760
Speaker 6: Having this conversation at all, you know. I mean it's

1385
01:06:29,840 --> 01:06:33,000
Speaker 6: like you got younger girls just walking around here thinking,

1386
01:06:33,040 --> 01:06:35,560
Speaker 6: don't they lost? They don't even know what to do? Yeah,

1387
01:06:35,800 --> 01:06:38,280
Speaker 6: mento met And I.

1388
01:06:38,280 --> 01:06:41,400
Speaker 1: Think oftentimes when men and women have this conversation, it

1389
01:06:41,480 --> 01:06:46,360
Speaker 1: gets hostile instead of yeah, we can laugh and talk

1390
01:06:46,400 --> 01:06:48,680
Speaker 1: about the things that you know aren't working for us

1391
01:06:48,800 --> 01:06:50,120
Speaker 1: without being to each other.

1392
01:06:50,280 --> 01:06:50,440
Speaker 3: You know.

1393
01:06:51,040 --> 01:06:53,320
Speaker 7: That's why I'm all about the non traditional, changing the

1394
01:06:53,360 --> 01:06:54,560
Speaker 7: whole status quo of things.

1395
01:06:54,600 --> 01:06:54,720
Speaker 4: You know.

1396
01:06:54,760 --> 01:06:57,600
Speaker 7: I mean, if it works, this works as a platform

1397
01:06:57,680 --> 01:07:00,280
Speaker 7: where it can open a dialogue with everybody, then let's

1398
01:07:00,280 --> 01:07:00,440
Speaker 7: do it.

1399
01:07:00,480 --> 01:07:02,000
Speaker 4: Why not? Right? Right?

1400
01:07:02,160 --> 01:07:02,360
Speaker 1: Yeah?

1401
01:07:02,760 --> 01:07:04,800
Speaker 2: You know, I really don't even like men that talk,

1402
01:07:05,400 --> 01:07:06,600
Speaker 2: so I think like the men.

1403
01:07:06,600 --> 01:07:12,240
Speaker 1: That we want a deaf ute nigga.

1404
01:07:12,640 --> 01:07:14,200
Speaker 2: No, No, I don't want. I don't want to.

1405
01:07:16,040 --> 01:07:17,960
Speaker 3: I want a man who walks in the room and

1406
01:07:18,040 --> 01:07:20,560
Speaker 3: everybody knows that's a man without him opening his mouth.

1407
01:07:20,760 --> 01:07:22,840
Speaker 3: That's what I mean by I don't like niggas that talk,

1408
01:07:23,320 --> 01:07:26,640
Speaker 3: like these these podcast niggas. I can't get with these

1409
01:07:26,720 --> 01:07:29,400
Speaker 3: podcast niggas. Y'all talk too much, y'a chatty pattys y'all

1410
01:07:29,440 --> 01:07:32,400
Speaker 3: are I know y'all was raised by black women. That's

1411
01:07:32,440 --> 01:07:34,880
Speaker 3: what I mean when I say I don't like niggas

1412
01:07:34,920 --> 01:07:36,000
Speaker 3: that talk. I like.

1413
01:07:36,360 --> 01:07:39,040
Speaker 2: I like quiet men. I like to know that my

1414
01:07:39,160 --> 01:07:41,640
Speaker 2: nigga wants to mack the shit out of you quietly.

1415
01:07:42,480 --> 01:07:45,160
Speaker 2: How would you feel like a man he liked quiet women?

1416
01:07:45,880 --> 01:07:47,240
Speaker 2: You know I'm not for you.

1417
01:07:47,400 --> 01:07:49,240
Speaker 3: I talk a lot for the both of us, okay,

1418
01:07:49,440 --> 01:07:51,560
Speaker 3: So I don't need you talking, nigga.

1419
01:07:53,880 --> 01:07:55,880
Speaker 1: She don't like a nigga who talks. You don't like

1420
01:07:56,040 --> 01:07:58,919
Speaker 1: mamas niggas with mama's niggas who talk.

1421
01:07:59,640 --> 01:07:59,680
Speaker 4: No.

1422
01:08:00,040 --> 01:08:02,040
Speaker 3: I like men with moms, right. I like men who

1423
01:08:02,080 --> 01:08:04,120
Speaker 3: have good relationships their mom. But the mom has to

1424
01:08:04,200 --> 01:08:06,520
Speaker 3: be happy. It has to be a happy mom and

1425
01:08:06,600 --> 01:08:08,240
Speaker 3: a happy sister. That's all I mean by that.

1426
01:08:08,560 --> 01:08:12,480
Speaker 4: Yeah, damn, So podcast niggas don't get no.

1427
01:08:13,600 --> 01:08:14,720
Speaker 2: They be be the ones arguing.

1428
01:08:14,800 --> 01:08:16,479
Speaker 3: You see how we are able to y'all don't do

1429
01:08:16,600 --> 01:08:19,000
Speaker 3: podcasting right, and we're able to have this conversation with

1430
01:08:19,120 --> 01:08:21,920
Speaker 3: no bickering or us getting mad and y'all get you know,

1431
01:08:22,160 --> 01:08:25,000
Speaker 3: without it getting weird. You see these arguments on these

1432
01:08:25,080 --> 01:08:29,040
Speaker 3: podcasts because it's too much feminine energy going on, Like

1433
01:08:29,200 --> 01:08:32,600
Speaker 3: women are yeaty. These guys are being caddy with the

1434
01:08:32,680 --> 01:08:34,280
Speaker 3: women that they have on these platforms.

1435
01:08:35,000 --> 01:08:35,439
Speaker 9: Yeah, and.

1436
01:08:37,439 --> 01:08:39,280
Speaker 4: So, what's some of your What's some of before y'all

1437
01:08:39,280 --> 01:08:39,760
Speaker 4: get to rap it?

1438
01:08:39,880 --> 01:08:42,320
Speaker 1: What's some of your What don't I like in a man?

1439
01:08:43,040 --> 01:08:45,760
Speaker 4: Is that what a man not liking you?

1440
01:08:48,479 --> 01:08:51,200
Speaker 1: What what they might not like they look about me?

1441
01:08:51,280 --> 01:08:51,800
Speaker 4: What do you mean?

1442
01:08:52,120 --> 01:08:57,439
Speaker 1: I'm confused that the question. Okay, honestly, I think one

1443
01:08:57,520 --> 01:09:00,880
Speaker 1: thing that a man might not like about me? I

1444
01:09:01,040 --> 01:09:04,120
Speaker 1: can be real slick at the mouth when I get mad.

1445
01:09:04,520 --> 01:09:05,240
Speaker 2: That's black women.

1446
01:09:05,600 --> 01:09:07,479
Speaker 1: I'm not. I'm not as bad as I used to be.

1447
01:09:07,600 --> 01:09:11,160
Speaker 1: I do like think, like, okay, would I like someone

1448
01:09:11,240 --> 01:09:13,920
Speaker 1: to say this to me before I say it? You know,

1449
01:09:14,120 --> 01:09:16,000
Speaker 1: there was a time where I be like that, ain't

1450
01:09:16,040 --> 01:09:19,840
Speaker 1: even your motherfucking baby, you know, like just really really

1451
01:09:19,960 --> 01:09:24,360
Speaker 1: like we we arguing over what we're gonna eat? How

1452
01:09:24,439 --> 01:09:26,320
Speaker 1: did how did it get this far? You know, Like

1453
01:09:30,200 --> 01:09:33,920
Speaker 1: so you know, I'm better about it now. I think

1454
01:09:33,960 --> 01:09:35,400
Speaker 1: that's my biggest thing, is.

1455
01:09:36,920 --> 01:09:43,639
Speaker 3: My slick mouth, using people got them, Yeah, yeah, yeah,

1456
01:09:44,320 --> 01:09:44,760
Speaker 3: that's good.

1457
01:09:45,320 --> 01:09:47,720
Speaker 1: Other than that, I'm like, I'm like a homie with

1458
01:09:48,000 --> 01:09:51,040
Speaker 1: my man, Like we be like homies, and sometimes I

1459
01:09:51,120 --> 01:09:54,960
Speaker 1: guess that's to a flaw because they get too familiar

1460
01:09:55,120 --> 01:09:58,799
Speaker 1: sometimes m h yeah, Like okay, I'm.

1461
01:10:00,280 --> 01:10:03,679
Speaker 2: Don't you get to come the boat? Yeah?

1462
01:10:05,600 --> 01:10:09,599
Speaker 1: Yeah, Like my last relationship, like you know, I said,

1463
01:10:09,600 --> 01:10:11,320
Speaker 1: I was a very submissive woman when I with a

1464
01:10:11,400 --> 01:10:14,080
Speaker 1: man like I like to cater to and serve on

1465
01:10:14,680 --> 01:10:17,599
Speaker 1: Sundays with football Sunday. He'd be like, Sunday, I'm watching

1466
01:10:17,640 --> 01:10:21,120
Speaker 1: football all day. Don't bother me. Really, right, And that's cool,

1467
01:10:21,160 --> 01:10:23,080
Speaker 1: you know that's your thing because I'm gonna want you

1468
01:10:23,120 --> 01:10:25,960
Speaker 1: to watch Housewives with me, you know, on Tuesday night.

1469
01:10:26,080 --> 01:10:28,479
Speaker 1: So that's fine. But he got to the point where

1470
01:10:28,880 --> 01:10:31,400
Speaker 1: he'd be drinking his beer and then when he finished

1471
01:10:31,439 --> 01:10:33,840
Speaker 1: his beer, he just hold hey, babe, and hold a

1472
01:10:33,840 --> 01:10:37,240
Speaker 1: bottle off in the air and shaky. Nigga.

1473
01:10:37,720 --> 01:10:39,160
Speaker 2: Is that how you ask for something?

1474
01:10:39,840 --> 01:10:43,960
Speaker 1: That you just hold a bottle on the air and

1475
01:10:44,000 --> 01:10:45,719
Speaker 1: shake it like I'm some fucking servant.

1476
01:10:46,720 --> 01:10:50,000
Speaker 3: I can't somebody say I need you to That gets

1477
01:10:50,000 --> 01:10:51,760
Speaker 3: on my nerves. You don't need me to do ship,

1478
01:10:51,800 --> 01:10:54,200
Speaker 3: I need you need to ask me to do something,

1479
01:10:54,280 --> 01:10:56,800
Speaker 3: then yeah, I need you to go down to the

1480
01:10:56,840 --> 01:11:01,680
Speaker 3: stow it up now. So that's when an old bay

1481
01:11:01,720 --> 01:11:03,920
Speaker 3: shit got me fucked up, because you you'd be able

1482
01:11:04,000 --> 01:11:05,600
Speaker 3: to say I need you to such and such. No,

1483
01:11:05,760 --> 01:11:07,960
Speaker 3: that's not how you ask another adult to.

1484
01:11:08,040 --> 01:11:11,400
Speaker 1: Do anything, like yeah, I don't mind saying I need

1485
01:11:11,640 --> 01:11:14,080
Speaker 1: I need you to do something. It's just no words

1486
01:11:14,120 --> 01:11:15,880
Speaker 1: at all, just holding ship up in the air and

1487
01:11:15,960 --> 01:11:18,720
Speaker 1: shaking it like so like I'm a fucking puppy. Like no,

1488
01:11:19,000 --> 01:11:21,519
Speaker 1: I don't like that. So it can be a slippery

1489
01:11:21,600 --> 01:11:24,760
Speaker 1: slope when you are submissive to a man and he

1490
01:11:24,960 --> 01:11:28,160
Speaker 1: just yeah, take advantage of it.

1491
01:11:29,479 --> 01:11:30,559
Speaker 4: Yeah, that's just a.

1492
01:11:33,880 --> 01:11:35,960
Speaker 5: Niggas the way to take advantage of it, you know,

1493
01:11:36,080 --> 01:11:37,679
Speaker 5: take anybody's kindness for weakness.

1494
01:11:37,800 --> 01:11:40,760
Speaker 4: It's like who the fuck is holding the empty beer

1495
01:11:41,000 --> 01:11:41,519
Speaker 4: talking about that?

1496
01:11:43,200 --> 01:11:47,120
Speaker 1: Shaking it in there, y'all. Tell everybody where they can

1497
01:11:47,200 --> 01:11:49,400
Speaker 1: find you, where they can follow you, what you're into,

1498
01:11:49,560 --> 01:11:51,320
Speaker 1: like what you're doing next. Tell everybody that.

1499
01:11:53,640 --> 01:11:57,080
Speaker 5: You can follow me at the price th h E

1500
01:11:57,280 --> 01:12:01,880
Speaker 5: p R I CE on Instagram. The website is c

1501
01:12:02,120 --> 01:12:04,960
Speaker 5: l R D E n T dot com. We're going

1502
01:12:05,040 --> 01:12:09,280
Speaker 5: crazy with these. I am A Generational cure is our latest,

1503
01:12:09,360 --> 01:12:13,840
Speaker 5: like merch drop. I wrote a book late last year.

1504
01:12:13,960 --> 01:12:18,560
Speaker 5: It's called Generational Cures. We all are generational cures. So

1505
01:12:18,640 --> 01:12:23,080
Speaker 5: that's what we're pushing heavy. I go on tour October

1506
01:12:23,240 --> 01:12:25,479
Speaker 5: with my hommy Cutter of the Friend, which is gonna

1507
01:12:25,479 --> 01:12:26,840
Speaker 5: be pretty sick for about a month.

1508
01:12:27,680 --> 01:12:31,200
Speaker 4: And in the week and a half or on.

1509
01:12:31,280 --> 01:12:33,280
Speaker 5: The twenty fifth of September, I don't know when this airs,

1510
01:12:33,320 --> 01:12:35,840
Speaker 5: but the twenty fifth, I mean of August. I'm dropping

1511
01:12:35,880 --> 01:12:39,000
Speaker 5: a single called Massa Musa with the hommying, so I'm

1512
01:12:39,040 --> 01:12:39,760
Speaker 5: excited about that.

1513
01:12:40,040 --> 01:12:43,080
Speaker 4: Yeah. So we're working though we're just talking our ship

1514
01:12:43,160 --> 01:12:44,120
Speaker 4: and living life.

1515
01:12:44,280 --> 01:12:46,800
Speaker 1: All right, y'all follow price and check out his day.

1516
01:12:46,800 --> 01:12:47,400
Speaker 2: I want to head that.

1517
01:12:50,400 --> 01:12:54,360
Speaker 7: You can find me on I G blad Underscore P

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Speaker 7: lea yeah, v l A D Underscore p I V

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Speaker 7: E R G e R You got.

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01:13:00,160 --> 01:13:01,599
Speaker 6: No tailor, right, mm hmmm.

1521
01:13:01,840 --> 01:13:03,400
Speaker 7: So Taylor, you know I'm trying to trying to get

1522
01:13:03,640 --> 01:13:05,439
Speaker 7: more into her producing bags. So me and her going

1523
01:13:05,520 --> 01:13:07,679
Speaker 7: to work on a film that a friend of mine wrote.

1524
01:13:08,200 --> 01:13:10,080
Speaker 6: Uh, pretty good.

1525
01:13:10,160 --> 01:13:13,240
Speaker 7: So more see more Taylor and me more behind the

1526
01:13:13,280 --> 01:13:15,879
Speaker 7: scenes producing film projects.

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Speaker 1: Okay, I want to audition for a roles.

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Speaker 4: I got you.

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Speaker 6: I'll send you the script.

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Speaker 4: Helad Man. How many you know how to speak?

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Speaker 6: Freak me all morning? French?

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Speaker 7: So French is like a little bit you know propers

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Speaker 7: like the more you know broken dialect so fluently?

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Speaker 4: How many?

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Speaker 5: How many before you was married you didn't cracked off

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Speaker 5: the I appreciate this build. I appreciate you'll considering me

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Speaker 5: having me on your platform and in your space.

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Speaker 2: We appreciate it.

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Speaker 1: Really good conversation came, thank you.

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Speaker 4: I appreciate it, guys, thanks for having us. Appreciate it

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Speaker 4: all right, man, look forward to seeing seeing more.

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Speaker 2: What Thank you all? Right, guys listen.

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Speaker 3: If you enjoyed this episode, please tune in every Thursday

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Speaker 3: podcast at Sashi Girl AJ Holiday two point oh.

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Speaker 1: Y'all follow me on Instagram. What's up, Tam, y'all, It's official,

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Speaker 1: Tam Bam. Y'all Follow me on Instagram.

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Speaker 2: Remember to speak now and never hold your peace.