Speaker 1: I got that.
Speaker 2: I love dude, a guy I love catch it up
Speaker 2: with anytime we have a chance to.
Speaker 1: He's a nice felma.
Speaker 3: He's got over fifty million followers, super successful entrepreneur and friend.
Speaker 1: Let's welcome back, Gary Vaynard chew boy.
Speaker 2: Yeah, you're one of those guys that like high school pals,
Speaker 2: people like you know, Gary Vee. It's hilarious. You're reached
Speaker 2: to so many different groups of people. It's so weird.
Speaker 4: I literally, as we just sat down here, said to myself,
Speaker 4: I can't believe you just used that word. I literally
Speaker 4: said to myself, I feel like I went to high
Speaker 4: school with these guys. Like every time I'm here at
Speaker 4: so cozy. First of all, that's very flattery. I think
Speaker 4: it's because and it is really weird when I'm in
Speaker 4: the airport with somebody for the first time. In my companies,
Speaker 4: they're always weirded out by how completely left field the
Speaker 4: people that come up to me. It's like a seventy
Speaker 4: two year old grandma Asian grandma come up and then
Speaker 4: like an eighteen year old like guy, you know, like
Speaker 4: it's it's I think it's because I talk about very
Speaker 4: simple stuff. At the end of the day, which is
Speaker 4: like human right, yeah, you know yeah, it's and I
Speaker 4: think that that means it's going to catch a broad market.
Speaker 1: Gary Ve hanging out you all right, Rich? I feel
Speaker 1: you get an.
Speaker 3: Emotional Get emotional. We're talking about humanity, you know what, Gary.
Speaker 3: I grew up going to crazy eddies, buying cassettes and
Speaker 3: things like that price Price were insane.
Speaker 1: I remember buying Twisted Sister.
Speaker 3: The album was Stay Hungry, Bro, And I say that
Speaker 3: Captain Howdy, Captain had.
Speaker 1: Give me something for that pull. Give me something for
Speaker 1: that pull.
Speaker 2: Yo.
Speaker 1: I love Captain Howdy. We're we're not. Do you understand
Speaker 1: how old are you? Forty eight?
Speaker 4: Yeah?
Speaker 1: Exactly?
Speaker 4: I'm forty nine.
Speaker 1: Bro.
Speaker 4: Can we explain to the kids that are listening that
Speaker 4: Twisted Sister summer when MTV was just becoming MTV, like
Speaker 4: we're not gonna take it?
Speaker 1: Everything was life. I want to life, but.
Speaker 3: I stayed away with life, but I stayed hungry too. Right,
Speaker 3: How do you stay hungry which you have? How do
Speaker 3: you stay humble while doing it?
Speaker 4: Honestly? Good parenting? The answer to my question is I
Speaker 4: was parented well, and I got fortunate that I was.
Speaker 4: I actually I'm glad I'm getting to say this. I
Speaker 4: believe the best thing that could ever happen to you
Speaker 4: is you're born into a family that does not have
Speaker 4: much financially but has a deep happiness and love in
Speaker 4: the home. Because I think what happens to you in
Speaker 4: those first five to seven years as a human being
Speaker 4: is you're consciously and subconsciously learning that money has no
Speaker 4: impact on happiness. I am the byproduct of that. Right,
Speaker 4: we have nothing. We were immigrants from the Soviet Union.
Speaker 4: I lived in a studio apartment in Rigo Park, Queen's
Speaker 4: with six other people in a studio. You know, that
Speaker 4: was my starting point of my memories.
Speaker 1: You know.
Speaker 4: So I think that I'm hungry because I wasn't fed, right, Yeah, right,
Speaker 4: I was. I'm hungry because I wasn't fed. And I'm
Speaker 4: humble because I'm as well parented. I was taught that,
Speaker 4: you know, you treat people well. And all the nice
Speaker 4: things that have happened to me making money and having
Speaker 4: lots of followers, it hasn't It hasn't changed me. It's
Speaker 4: exposed who I am. And I think money and fame
Speaker 4: expose you, they don't change you.
Speaker 3: Because how many people have you seen their star rise,
Speaker 3: their income rise, and they sort of change and they
Speaker 3: feel themselves a little bit and and I feel.
Speaker 4: They're exposing themselves. I feel like that's who they were,
Speaker 4: that's who they are, and then vice versa. I feel
Speaker 4: like there's a lot of people. Actually it's so weird.
Speaker 4: I know Joe pretty well. Joe Burrow's going on some
Speaker 4: show right now over there. Right, yeah, I've known. I
Speaker 4: recruited him for Vayner Sports before he transferred to LSU. Right,
Speaker 4: He's the same exact human being right now, you can
Speaker 4: tell me that's why's why people love him. And I
Speaker 4: think that's the punchline. I could not recommend more to
Speaker 4: people who are on a journey of getting bigger if
Speaker 4: they feel like they're getting successful, that if you're not,
Speaker 4: you should go into therapy, you should work on something,
Speaker 4: you should fix it, because what's gonna happen is you're
Speaker 4: gonna expose yourself to the world and they're gonna smell
Speaker 4: it and they're gonna figure it out pretty quickly of
Speaker 4: who you are.
Speaker 2: Gary, I have two little kids and now I'm in
Speaker 2: the coaching world, and I wanted to ask you, I mean,
Speaker 2: how do you approach giving these kids confidence, not being
Speaker 2: too tough, yet being tough because I think about what
Speaker 2: you said. There are times, even outside of coaching kids
Speaker 2: going to a theme park, not trying to spoil your kids,
Speaker 2: but wanting to give them crap.
Speaker 1: I never know how to handle all this stuff.
Speaker 4: Every single parent on Earth makes mistakes. We're all just trying. Yeah,
Speaker 4: you know, heck, I mean I My son is weirdly
Speaker 4: good at basketball. You know, he's a twelve year old.
Speaker 4: He's a sixth graders. He made the seventh and eighth
Speaker 4: grade team, which was already like a oh my god.
Speaker 4: Now three games he's the starting point guard. And by
Speaker 4: the way, he's half the size of every sixth grader
Speaker 4: on Earth. He's the size of a third grader. He's
Speaker 4: in the seventh day eighth grade league, and he's cooking
Speaker 4: these kids. And honestly, last game, I'm gonna put him
Speaker 4: on blast. Last game, he's dominating the game. By the way,
Speaker 4: all these kids were so affected by Steph Curdy. The
Speaker 4: reason he's dominating is his handle's crazy. Oh yeah, some
Speaker 4: of these kids, yeah crazy. Anyway, he's dominating the game.
Speaker 4: His heel starts to bother him and he sits for
Speaker 4: the third and the majority fourth quarter. They're up twenty
Speaker 4: with him in, they're up two with two minutes left
Speaker 4: with him out, and I'm like looking at him, and
Speaker 4: I'm like, get you can't curse on this shit.
Speaker 1: This is bonus podcast. We're gonna put. I'm like, get
Speaker 1: your fucking in the game.
Speaker 4: And I know, and I know I'm doing a nineteen
Speaker 4: sixty four dad thing right now, and I'll be I'm
Speaker 4: so glad we're on the podcast. I don't give a fuck.
Speaker 4: I'm like, get in the fucking game. And he and
Speaker 4: he does, and he gets in the game. First, I'm
Speaker 4: full brag mode. First play steals the ball out left pass.
Speaker 4: Now they're up four. Next play steals the ball pass,
Speaker 4: guy gets fouled. The game's open. He and I'm like,
Speaker 4: and to me, I could feel all the other parents
Speaker 4: judgment of me pushing him to go in the game.
Speaker 4: I could feel it. Yeah, it's twenty twenty five in
Speaker 4: New York City. What the fuck you think I'm dealing with? Yeah,
Speaker 4: And I could feel it. I could feel them judging
Speaker 4: me and feeling bad. And Xander's reacting on the other
Speaker 4: side of it, like not, well, he's like my like,
Speaker 4: he's not it's not like he's it's not like he's
Speaker 4: getting motivated. He's not getting gary Veed. I'm not Gary
Speaker 4: Veed and my son, I'm his dad. He's not getting motivated.
Speaker 4: He's like annoyed with me. But he goes in and
Speaker 4: and when I tell you my conversation with him that
Speaker 4: night and then the next morning I took him to school,
Speaker 4: I could smell what happened. He persevered through something, he
Speaker 4: pushed himself to a place he didn't think he was
Speaker 4: ready to do. And he not only that, it worked
Speaker 4: a lot of times when you do that. And there's
Speaker 4: been different versions of this story where like nothing cool
Speaker 4: happened right in this scenario, a very the kind of
Speaker 4: cool thing that weirdly he might tell forever, like let
Speaker 4: me tell you the game when I was.
Speaker 1: Tweaty, my heel hurt, my dad push and it was
Speaker 1: a great thing.
Speaker 4: By the way, the dad part won't be in that story.
Speaker 4: It's like I got the man.
Speaker 1: Yeah, so here's what I would say.
Speaker 4: Yeah, there's been times I've done that and it didn't
Speaker 4: go well.
Speaker 1: You over pushed a.
Speaker 4: Little bit of all that stuff. There's times where it
Speaker 4: did go. Well, every one of us is struggling with it.
Speaker 4: What I would say to every dad who's listening, every
Speaker 4: mom who's listening, you've got to go with intuition, and
Speaker 4: you've got to try both. If you're like a crazy
Speaker 4: Marinovitch dad, where you're just like driving your kid to
Speaker 4: the ground, and you never have I've gone soft on
Speaker 4: him at times, you gotta.
Speaker 1: Play the situation.
Speaker 4: There's no all these parents read all these goddamn books. Now,
Speaker 4: it's like, just be a human and sometimes push and
Speaker 4: sometimes don't find. You know, back to America right now.
Speaker 4: Don't be fully red, don't be fucking fully blue.
Speaker 2: Be purple. Sometimes you left, sometimes you right. Dad, fucking
Speaker 2: mix it, dude.
Speaker 3: I always say, a Cavino Taco party of one, how
Speaker 3: could you go so far left, so far right? You
Speaker 3: gotta play it by ear fully purple, fully gotta be purple.
Speaker 3: Every situation is different. I remember, I remember, hold on,
Speaker 3: I was, I was.
Speaker 2: I was coaching the kids and I can see the
Speaker 2: girls are like, you're just being lazy seven year old
Speaker 2: girls softball? And I said, hey, girls, like you know,
Speaker 2: how about we play let's play a little mad?
Speaker 1: Do you ever get mad? And you're angry. One of
Speaker 1: the parents is like, I would not tell the kids
Speaker 1: to play mad. I'm like, why not?
Speaker 4: Don't then leave because because it's sports, you have I
Speaker 4: play mad. I was like, the other girls are hustling
Speaker 4: on the other team. Don't you want to beat them?
Speaker 4: Let's play a little mad. I got like, yelled, I'm
Speaker 4: actually the reverse. I don't know if I've ever played
Speaker 4: anything not mad. Yeah, mad is how I play.
Speaker 1: Yeah.
Speaker 3: Hey, speaking of I think the Eagles are playing mad
Speaker 3: because they want revenge. I think the Chiefs want that
Speaker 3: three p Yeah, it's big. So what's more of a
Speaker 3: motivator in your mind? Based on that theory?
Speaker 4: I think at this level and those circumstances, I think
Speaker 4: it's an even steven Okay, yeah, I really do. And
Speaker 4: then it becomes individual Like I'm watching two NFL players
Speaker 4: talk to each other. I think it's Salomon Thomas, Jets
Speaker 4: player currently, but he'll be a free agent.
Speaker 1: Your eyes are better than mine, broh.
Speaker 4: And they're talking and I look at both of them,
Speaker 4: and what you really learn is on the fifty three men,
Speaker 4: it varies within them. There's forty one Eagles and forty
Speaker 4: one Chiefs. This Sunday that are gonna play like their
Speaker 4: life depends on it. But don't get it twisted. There'll
Speaker 4: be twelve that are playing it chill and are thinking
Speaker 4: about their vacation like you'd be surprised, right, you know,
Speaker 4: And that's okay, That's how life is. Everyone's a little different.
Speaker 1: You know. Gary loves to talk about how you love losing. Yes,
Speaker 1: And I'll be honest.
Speaker 2: Cavino and I debate this all the time that there
Speaker 2: are times where I feel like he's not vote motivated
Speaker 2: in less is a chip on his shoulder?
Speaker 1: Listen? Is that how you think a healthy way to operate?
Speaker 1: It's a tostito, but yes, yes, I.
Speaker 4: Am very motivated by losing in things that don't matter, sports,
Speaker 4: more games, in life. I do think a chip on
Speaker 4: the shoulder is a good one, but I fear when
Speaker 4: it becomes too big. I think you can get a
Speaker 4: little bit Darth Vader, do you know what I mean?
Speaker 4: I think there's a dark side to the chip, like
Speaker 4: like Michael Jordan, right, you know, like, yeah, I think
Speaker 4: it's dark over there. Documentary opened honestly, that was his documentary,
Speaker 4: just so yeah, it gets way darker than that. It's
Speaker 4: way darker than that.
Speaker 2: When you saw him in that documenty sitting there like,
Speaker 2: this guy's a little bit of a crazy man.
Speaker 4: Way darker than that. So you know, I think, I
Speaker 4: think that a chip on the shoulder is good, especially
Speaker 4: when it's silly stuff, a softball game, a game of monopoly,
Speaker 4: like I love. I love competition that is erratic and
Speaker 4: ridiculous in lightweight stuff. I don't like it as much
Speaker 4: in life, Like you're so mad at your dad for
Speaker 4: the way he parented you, that your whole life's about, Like,
Speaker 4: I'll show dad it's I think there's a point where
Speaker 4: that becomes so unhealthy, and I feel like there I
Speaker 4: would like to see a little more purple. Does that
Speaker 4: make sense?
Speaker 1: Yeah?
Speaker 3: Speaking of competition, Gary v could Know and Rich with
Speaker 3: Gary Vaynerchuk got to ask you, who is your competition?
Speaker 1: How do you view that? Do you see these other
Speaker 1: entrepreneurs on social media? I know I'm good for them.
Speaker 4: I'm good like that.
Speaker 1: Yeah.
Speaker 4: I'm a big believer that no one's taking your food,
Speaker 4: Nobody's winning is coming out of my winning. I believe
Speaker 4: in massive abundance. Look there, listen, I'm I'm competitive, like
Speaker 4: I anything I start, I want to be as good
Speaker 4: at it as possible. I this is where I don't
Speaker 4: go evil. This is where my optimism kicks in. If
Speaker 4: somebody comes along and has a bigger podcast, a mass
Speaker 4: is more followers, or gets heat for similar things I
Speaker 4: talk about, I'd cheer for them. When I did the
Speaker 4: NFTs You Friends was a monster, and then out of nowhere,
Speaker 4: bored Ape Yacht Club came and passed us. I was
Speaker 4: happy for those dudes. Do I want Did I want
Speaker 4: V Friends to be bigger? Of course I did, But no,
Speaker 4: I don't. I don't have a lot of envy or jealousy.
Speaker 4: I really don't. It's I'm very fortunate. And again I
Speaker 4: say that, not like I'm cool or awesome. That's the
Speaker 4: luck of the draw of the moment my parents had
Speaker 4: sex and I was formed. That's the DNA ship, you
Speaker 4: know what I mean? Yeah, yeah, that was just never
Speaker 4: in me. I'm competitive, but I really do not think
Speaker 4: that somebody's podcast, listen, somebody's sale of a bottle of wine.
Speaker 4: I don't think a new wine store that affects wine.
Speaker 4: Text you know, is like, I'm not mad at them,
Speaker 4: but I'm competing.
Speaker 1: I want to win.
Speaker 2: Yeah, you know, talking about the unhealthy. I was telling
Speaker 2: Kevino story I'd never told her before. We're having the
Speaker 2: uh little pizza dinner. Yes, my daughter's soccer team. One
Speaker 2: of the dad, the one dad who's the guy that's
Speaker 2: pacing every game, yelling and screening our Sabrina. You know, Becky,
Speaker 2: this guy's yelling the whole time.
Speaker 4: He's into it.
Speaker 2: He stands up at the dinner and he's like, I
Speaker 2: just want to apologize all the parents for me being
Speaker 2: very intense this year. It's because my dad never loved me,
Speaker 2: and I just want my kids to be proud. And
Speaker 2: we all looked at each other, like, Wow, this guy's
Speaker 2: that's a lot of weight, man, a lot of it's
Speaker 2: I really believe in that ship.
Speaker 4: I I genuinely believe that every single person's bad behavior
Speaker 4: is completely predicated on insecurity.
Speaker 1: Yeah.
Speaker 4: I like, like everybody who does bad ship in the world,
Speaker 4: every single person that does bad ship in the world
Speaker 4: is doing it because they're insecure. I genuinely believe.
Speaker 1: From speaking of insecure, we talk all the time about
Speaker 1: how social media.
Speaker 2: Creates a lot of insecurity because I think younger people
Speaker 2: don't realize that's the highlight reel and every you know
Speaker 2: that mindset young people have, like everyone's living a better
Speaker 2: life than I am. How do you convince a young
Speaker 2: person they're not buddy that this is all fake shit?
Speaker 4: Honestly, listen, you guys know this. We grew up with
Speaker 4: MTV cribs. We grew up with lifestyles of the rich
Speaker 4: and famous. Were you know, like like this this excuse
Speaker 4: that's social has I think this is bad parenting. I
Speaker 4: don't think it's social. I think that our parents were
Speaker 4: different thirty They were different when when when we were like,
Speaker 4: h I'm sad that I don't have a Mercedes Benz
Speaker 4: Dad's in eighty four were like, shut the fuck up
Speaker 4: and get to work and buy Mercedes if you want one.
Speaker 4: Now we're like, I'll buy it for you, Johnny. Let's
Speaker 4: just get to the punchline.
Speaker 1: Listen.
Speaker 4: If you're listening to the podcast, I'm suffocating this shit.
Speaker 4: Stop blaming Instagram, stop blaming China, stop blaming fucking all
Speaker 4: this other bullshit. You're a fucking parent if you don't.
Speaker 4: If you don't like that your kids are on TikTok,
Speaker 4: delete the app, especially right now because they can't reload it. Actually,
Speaker 4: right now, by the way parents, Once and for all,
Speaker 4: you're so fucking scared of TikTok and so bad when
Speaker 4: your kid is sleeping, delete it. They can't get it
Speaker 4: back on their phone. Step up, Oh Gary, I can't
Speaker 4: do that. All his friends, all her friends have it.
Speaker 4: What the fuck are you talking about? You're folding the
Speaker 4: sixth grade peer pressure? Once and for all. We are
Speaker 4: filled with excuses. Be a fucking parent, Gary, your kids?
Speaker 2: What four years or so away from does Gary Vee
Speaker 2: get his kid a new car when the time is
Speaker 2: right or is it an old school lesson of like
Speaker 2: you got to earn the yeah, man?
Speaker 1: Like, how does that work in your world?
Speaker 4: In my personal situation, my ex wife is gonna we're
Speaker 4: in a situation where she'll make some decisions that I
Speaker 4: can't fully control. So will I buy them a new car?
Speaker 3: No?
Speaker 4: I will not. Will they have a brand new car?
Speaker 1: Probably?
Speaker 4: It's you know, I don't want to speak for her,
Speaker 4: but like, it's it's in the cards.
Speaker 1: It's in the cards.
Speaker 3: Hey listen, I co parent and there's a lot of
Speaker 3: people in that situation. How do you balance your work
Speaker 3: life harmony?
Speaker 1: Like, how do you do that? Right now?
Speaker 4: My real life with my right by realizing there is
Speaker 4: no balance, there is no harmony. Obviously, my kids have
Speaker 4: the best mom in the world. That she's an incredible mother,
Speaker 4: and so I'm very fortunate on that front. Like, you
Speaker 4: do the best you can. This is like the whole
Speaker 4: thing for all parents. We're just all doing the best
Speaker 4: we can. Like, what is balance? Is it? Are you
Speaker 4: fifty fifty?
Speaker 1: Figure out how far you've come as a business guy? Right?
Speaker 1: You still gotta be there. You got to show up.
Speaker 1: That's a major part of your life.
Speaker 4: Yeah, honestly, like some days the business takes to ll
Speaker 4: some days the kids don't get you there. But the
Speaker 4: other thing I would say to people that have very
Speaker 4: young kids, I want them to hear this, this concept
Speaker 4: that you have to be at every single thing. Again,
Speaker 4: this goes to purple. We've become too left. Everybody overcompensated
Speaker 4: the red with the blue pill. We got to get
Speaker 4: the purple. In fact, I actually think it's healthy for
Speaker 4: a kid that's seven that you've gone to thirteen straight
Speaker 4: recitals or basketball games that if you miss one.
Speaker 1: I couldn't agree more. Man, that's real.
Speaker 3: Parents are just extending themselves in crazy ways, putting so
Speaker 3: much pressure on themselves, and I mean there's certain things
Speaker 3: that you get.
Speaker 2: By the way, and it's always like Wednesday at two pm,
Speaker 2: and I'm like, and I'm always trying to manage my schedule.
Speaker 2: Thank you for that, because now I'm like, today I
Speaker 2: felt a little guilty and me has a little thing
Speaker 2: at the school and Sarah's like, I'll tape it on
Speaker 2: my phone.
Speaker 1: I'm like, okay, should I FaceTime you? I'm like, no,
Speaker 1: it's I think we'll be okay.
Speaker 4: I think this is a huge issue. And the punchline
Speaker 4: is your kids care about the depth, not the width.
Speaker 4: There's a lot of parents right now just checking the boxes.
Speaker 4: So great, I'm glad you went to Emmy's little thing.
Speaker 4: You were looking at your phone the whole time and
Speaker 4: Emmy saw it. Yeah, so me knows that actually doesn't
Speaker 4: give a ship like like like to me, it's like
Speaker 4: we're checking boxes. These kids are not dumb. Yeah, do
Speaker 4: you actually give a shit about them? Are you in
Speaker 4: their life?
Speaker 1: Do you talk to them? Do you care?
Speaker 2: They don't need you to check every body. By the way,
Speaker 2: there's our next president, Stephen A.
Speaker 1: Smith. There is Stephen A President President President. Yeah.
Speaker 4: I mean I think you know I think that there's
Speaker 4: just a lot, a lot, a lot to this whole game,
Speaker 4: and it all is finding the middle. The extremes have
Speaker 4: fucked up everything politically, in parenting, in society. Are you
Speaker 4: fascinated to when you see half the people you know
Speaker 4: thinking the world's coming to an end now and half
Speaker 4: of your friends like this is the greatest time ever? Like, No,
Speaker 4: because that's that's been the way for years. I've been
Speaker 4: I like politics, yeah, and I like human behavior.
Speaker 1: Yeah.
Speaker 4: So this, I mean, this goes back to bush Gore
Speaker 4: for me. This is like this has been going on
Speaker 4: for a much longer time. Obviously it's now amplified, but
Speaker 4: I've had Republican friends and Democrat friends for twenty years
Speaker 4: telling me they're moving to Canada every four years. Meanwhile,
Speaker 4: news alert, no one's moved to Canada. So humans are
Speaker 4: full of shit, right, and so I pay attention to it.
Speaker 4: But I'm not surprised. This is the would you ever?
Speaker 4: Would you ever dabble in that world? I don't think so,
Speaker 4: I'll be honest with you. Here's why, back to how
Speaker 4: this interview started. Yeah, I feel like I can make
Speaker 4: a bigger impact on humanity from the perch I'm sitting
Speaker 4: on the second you go into that world, immediately fifty
Speaker 4: percent of the people will not listen to a word
Speaker 4: you say.
Speaker 3: By the way, is that how you want to be
Speaker 3: remembered I made an impact on humanity or yeah, businessman like?
Speaker 4: No, Honestly, I really want my inner circle to remember me,
Speaker 4: like as a good dude. Like I'm very, very passionate
Speaker 4: that the people that actually know me like the way
Speaker 4: I know you guys, dude right, acquaintance slash, like we
Speaker 4: just have a good vibe.
Speaker 1: Yeah, exactly.
Speaker 4: I much more care today what you guys think about
Speaker 4: me than when you when you knew I remember the
Speaker 4: first time we knew of each other. Yeah, today it
Speaker 4: matters to me much more what you think about me
Speaker 4: than four years ago, six years ago. My family, It's
Speaker 4: the most important. The people I've worked with for a decade.
Speaker 4: More important a stranger Johnny Pants nineteen on social not
Speaker 4: as much, you know, And so i'd like, yes, I do.
Speaker 4: I do think a lot about being remembered fondly, And
Speaker 4: I do not believe that can be achieved by me
Speaker 4: making a lot of money. I think it is achieved
Speaker 4: by how I show up every day of the week,
Speaker 4: for my family, from my acquaintances, for my friends, and
Speaker 4: for my strangers.
Speaker 2: Well, to answer your question, when we found out we're
Speaker 2: seeing you today, was ah, so happy he's killing it and.
Speaker 1: We love garyve Garvy. I got one more thing I
Speaker 1: gotta ask you. I know, I know you're being pulled
Speaker 1: in a million directions.
Speaker 2: I'm sure I love when you talk about because I've
Speaker 2: read a quote once it's like he or she who
Speaker 2: can master patients could master anything.
Speaker 1: I'm impatient. He's impatient. I see it in my kids.
Speaker 2: As a Ronnie Chen the comedian does Prime now, Prime Now,
Speaker 2: we can't even wait a day for a package anymore.
Speaker 1: How do you encourage people to understand patience? They have
Speaker 1: no choice?
Speaker 4: When I fucking tell you, the way I embraced patients
Speaker 4: was through the lens of extreme practicality and truth. Because
Speaker 4: you have no fucking choice. Friends, News Alert, like I
Speaker 4: don't give a shit, nor does God, nor does the
Speaker 4: world that you want something right now. I also want
Speaker 4: everything that I dream of. I wish i'd been running
Speaker 4: the jets for the last twenty years.
Speaker 1: Like I get it.
Speaker 4: I understand about dreams, ambitions, but even basic stuff. If
Speaker 4: someone's listening right now, Like, yo, fuck you, Gary, not
Speaker 4: big stuff like that, Like I just want a better
Speaker 4: roof over my, you know, kid's house. I'm like, listen, respect,
Speaker 4: but guess what you trying to do? Shortcuts or scams
Speaker 4: isn't gonna achieve that, Like, like you're gonna have to
Speaker 4: put a hard hat on and fucking eat ship for
Speaker 4: another two years and take an extra job and put
Speaker 4: a patch over that fucking roof, like real shit, you
Speaker 4: know what I mean? And so how did I embrace it?
Speaker 4: By knowing I had no fucking choice?
Speaker 1: Thank you man? Gary?
Speaker 3: V two Super Bowl ads if I'm not mistaken, to
Speaker 3: B and Turis Cell and wow, man the door Cell
Speaker 3: was the real one to look out for.
Speaker 1: Vayner Sports Vayner x Vayner Media Vayne Vyner Vayner. By
Speaker 1: the way, next time we see Gary, is he gonna
Speaker 1: be a robot? What's your thoughts on AI? Real quick?
Speaker 1: Do you think we headed in a crazy direction or what? Yeah?
Speaker 4: And our great great great great grandparents would think we're
Speaker 4: in a crazy spot now. They'd be like, what's a phone,
Speaker 4: what's a car? What's a plane?
Speaker 1: Wait?
Speaker 4: Wait, you can get to Europe in six hours It
Speaker 4: used to take us fucking three weeks.
Speaker 2: People would pack up and leave the country and be like,
Speaker 2: nice knowing you, I'll never see you again.
Speaker 4: Bro, we grew up in an era, you and I
Speaker 4: I were. We grew up in an era where when
Speaker 4: I'm when me and my friends went to college, that
Speaker 4: was it. Oh yeah, we joked there's no cell phones,
Speaker 4: messenger joke about how you'd have it. You'd have a kid,
Speaker 4: you'd play tackle football within your neighborhood. He could move
Speaker 4: two towns away to be nice, knowing.
Speaker 1: You never again.
Speaker 2: Now kids meet each other like at some event and
Speaker 2: they have friendships of forty years, texting, social media, literally
Speaker 2: lost in the ether.
Speaker 4: You're right a block sometimes in the right city.
Speaker 1: Guess what's next for Gary ve Man.
Speaker 4: You know what's funny. I'm a counter puncher by trade.
Speaker 4: What I mean by that is I'm much more Floyd
Speaker 4: Mayweather than I'm Mike Tyson. Of course, you know the
Speaker 4: answer is I'm always building frameworks and paying attention and
Speaker 4: thinking about what is happening AI. I'll give you an example.
Speaker 4: I'll give you a scoop. I am working on making
Speaker 4: an AI influencer, So I am the intellectual property and
Speaker 4: producer of a person I'm about to make famous, Like
Speaker 4: I didn't think I was gonna do that three years ago.
Speaker 4: Look like a much more handsome, younger version of me.
Speaker 1: Is he wearing a sweet swede jacket? Like but on
Speaker 1: some real that's crazy.
Speaker 4: So the blending of being Disney and influencer marketing is coming.
Speaker 4: Humans are going to own fifty humans but they're not
Speaker 4: real humans, but they're gonna be big on social and
Speaker 4: that's a business brand deals marketing. So you know, I think,
Speaker 4: I think, I'm not sure what's next. I know that
Speaker 4: I keep my eyes and ears open.
Speaker 1: For Yeah, awesome man, heyx robots.
Speaker 4: Yeah you watched the Megan Fox movie.
Speaker 2: Yes, my wife's like I was like, she's like, because
Speaker 2: it has a personality. No, I'm like, that's the that's
Speaker 2: the reason.
Speaker 1: No, listen.
Speaker 4: I think, by the way, I've got a hot take.
Speaker 4: Robots are coming, Relationships with robots is coming. And how
Speaker 4: about this, I got a hot take. I think for
Speaker 4: a lot of people in fifty years that is going
Speaker 4: to help their marriage. I actually predict that relationships with
Speaker 4: AI robots will actually help some sort of framework. It
Speaker 4: will be not what people will think, Oh, no one's good.
Speaker 4: It's always the counter thing that people don't realize.
Speaker 3: Yeah, yeah, you understand, Yeah completely, Thank you. It's Darry Baynerchuk.
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