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Speaker 1: I got that.

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Speaker 2: I love dude, a guy I love catch it up

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Speaker 2: with anytime we have a chance to.

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Speaker 1: He's a nice felma.

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Speaker 3: He's got over fifty million followers, super successful entrepreneur and friend.

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Speaker 1: Let's welcome back, Gary Vaynard chew boy.

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Speaker 2: Yeah, you're one of those guys that like high school pals,

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Speaker 2: people like you know, Gary Vee. It's hilarious. You're reached

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Speaker 2: to so many different groups of people. It's so weird.

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Speaker 4: I literally, as we just sat down here, said to myself,

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Speaker 4: I can't believe you just used that word. I literally

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Speaker 4: school with these guys. Like every time I'm here at

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Speaker 4: so cozy. First of all, that's very flattery. I think

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Speaker 4: it's because and it is really weird when I'm in

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Speaker 4: they're always weirded out by how completely left field the

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Speaker 4: people that come up to me. It's like a seventy

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Speaker 4: it's it's I think it's because I talk about very

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Speaker 4: simple stuff. At the end of the day, which is

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Speaker 4: like human right, yeah, you know yeah, it's and I

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Speaker 4: think that that means it's going to catch a broad market.

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Speaker 1: Gary Ve hanging out you all right, Rich? I feel

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Speaker 1: you get an.

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Speaker 3: Emotional Get emotional. We're talking about humanity, you know what, Gary.

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Speaker 3: I grew up going to crazy eddies, buying cassettes and

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Speaker 1: I remember buying Twisted Sister.

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Speaker 3: The album was Stay Hungry, Bro, And I say that

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Speaker 3: Captain Howdy, Captain had.

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Speaker 1: Give me something for that pull. Give me something for

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Speaker 1: that pull.

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Speaker 2: Yo.

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Speaker 1: I love Captain Howdy. We're we're not. Do you understand

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Speaker 1: how old are you? Forty eight?

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Speaker 4: Yeah?

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Speaker 1: Exactly?

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Speaker 4: I'm forty nine.

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Speaker 4: Can we explain to the kids that are listening that

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Speaker 4: Twisted Sister summer when MTV was just becoming MTV, like

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Speaker 1: Everything was life. I want to life, but.

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Speaker 3: I stayed away with life, but I stayed hungry too. Right,

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Speaker 3: How do you stay hungry which you have? How do

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Speaker 4: Honestly? Good parenting? The answer to my question is I

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Speaker 4: I actually I'm glad I'm getting to say this. I

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Speaker 4: impact on happiness. I am the byproduct of that. Right,

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Speaker 4: we have nothing. We were immigrants from the Soviet Union.

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Speaker 4: So I think that I'm hungry because I wasn't fed, right, Yeah, right,

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Speaker 3: Because how many people have you seen their star rise,

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Speaker 4: a lot of times when you do that. And there's

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Speaker 4: been different versions of this story where like nothing cool

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Speaker 4: It's like I got the man.

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Speaker 4: Little bit of all that stuff. There's times where it

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Speaker 4: There's no all these parents read all these goddamn books. Now,

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Speaker 4: Don't be fully red, don't be fucking fully blue.

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Speaker 3: I always say, a Cavino Taco party of one, how

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Speaker 1: Do you ever get mad? And you're angry. One of

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Speaker 4: actually the reverse. I don't know if I've ever played

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Speaker 3: Hey, speaking of I think the Eagles are playing mad

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Speaker 4: I think at this level and those circumstances, I think

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Speaker 4: then it becomes individual Like I'm watching two NFL players

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Speaker 4: And they're talking and I look at both of them,

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Speaker 4: it varies within them. There's forty one Eagles and forty

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Speaker 4: life depends on it. But don't get it twisted. There'll

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Speaker 4: be twelve that are playing it chill and are thinking

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Speaker 4: And that's okay, That's how life is. Everyone's a little different.

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Speaker 1: You know. Gary loves to talk about how you love losing. Yes,

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Speaker 1: And I'll be honest.

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Speaker 2: Cavino and I debate this all the time that there

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Speaker 1: Listen? Is that how you think a healthy way to operate?

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Speaker 1: It's a tostito, but yes, yes, I.

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Speaker 4: Am very motivated by losing in things that don't matter, sports,

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Speaker 4: If you're listening to the podcast, I'm suffocating this shit.

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Speaker 4: My real life with my right by realizing there is

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Speaker 1: Figure out how far you've come as a business guy? Right?

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Speaker 1: You still gotta be there. You got to show up.

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Speaker 3: Parents are just extending themselves in crazy ways, putting so

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Speaker 4: I think this is a huge issue. And the punchline

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Speaker 4: There's a lot of parents right now just checking the boxes.

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Speaker 2: They don't need you to check every body. By the way,

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Speaker 4: But I'm not surprised. This is the would you ever?

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Speaker 4: I'll be honest with you. Here's why, back to how

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Speaker 4: on the second you go into that world, immediately fifty

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Speaker 3: By the way, is that how you want to be

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Speaker 4: No, Honestly, I really want my inner circle to remember me,

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Speaker 4: I much more care today what you guys think about

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Speaker 4: first time we knew of each other. Yeah, today it

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Speaker 4: More important a stranger Johnny Pants nineteen on social not

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Speaker 4: I do think a lot about being remembered fondly, And

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Speaker 2: Well, to answer your question, when we found out we're

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Speaker 2: seeing you today, was ah, so happy he's killing it and.

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Speaker 1: We love garyve Garvy. I got one more thing I

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Speaker 1: gotta ask you. I know, I know you're being pulled

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Speaker 1: in a million directions.

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Speaker 2: I'm sure I love when you talk about because I've

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Speaker 2: read a quote once it's like he or she who

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Speaker 2: can master patients could master anything.

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Speaker 1: I'm impatient. He's impatient. I see it in my kids.

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Speaker 2: As a Ronnie Chen the comedian does Prime now, Prime Now,

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Speaker 2: we can't even wait a day for a package anymore.

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Speaker 1: How do you encourage people to understand patience? They have

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Speaker 1: no choice?

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Speaker 4: When I fucking tell you, the way I embraced patients

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Speaker 4: was through the lens of extreme practicality and truth. Because

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Speaker 4: you have no fucking choice. Friends, News Alert, like I

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Speaker 4: don't give a shit, nor does God, nor does the

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Speaker 4: world that you want something right now. I also want

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Speaker 4: everything that I dream of. I wish i'd been running

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Speaker 4: the jets for the last twenty years.

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Speaker 1: Like I get it.

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Speaker 4: I understand about dreams, ambitions, but even basic stuff. If

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Speaker 4: someone's listening right now, Like, yo, fuck you, Gary, not

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Speaker 4: big stuff like that, Like I just want a better

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Speaker 4: roof over my, you know, kid's house. I'm like, listen, respect,

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Speaker 4: but guess what you trying to do? Shortcuts or scams

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Speaker 4: isn't gonna achieve that, Like, like you're gonna have to

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Speaker 4: put a hard hat on and fucking eat ship for

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Speaker 4: another two years and take an extra job and put

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Speaker 4: a patch over that fucking roof, like real shit, you

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Speaker 4: know what I mean? And so how did I embrace it?

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Speaker 4: By knowing I had no fucking choice?

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Speaker 1: Thank you man? Gary?

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Speaker 3: V two Super Bowl ads if I'm not mistaken, to

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Speaker 3: B and Turis Cell and wow, man the door Cell

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Speaker 3: was the real one to look out for.

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Speaker 1: Vayner Sports Vayner x Vayner Media Vayne Vyner Vayner. By

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Speaker 1: the way, next time we see Gary, is he gonna

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Speaker 1: be a robot? What's your thoughts on AI? Real quick?

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Speaker 1: Do you think we headed in a crazy direction or what? Yeah?

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Speaker 4: And our great great great great grandparents would think we're

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Speaker 4: in a crazy spot now. They'd be like, what's a phone,

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Speaker 4: what's a car? What's a plane?

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Speaker 1: Wait?

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Speaker 4: Wait, you can get to Europe in six hours It

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Speaker 4: used to take us fucking three weeks.

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Speaker 2: People would pack up and leave the country and be like,

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Speaker 2: nice knowing you, I'll never see you again.

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Speaker 4: Bro, we grew up in an era, you and I

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Speaker 4: I were. We grew up in an era where when

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Speaker 4: I'm when me and my friends went to college, that

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Speaker 4: was it. Oh yeah, we joked there's no cell phones,

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Speaker 4: messenger joke about how you'd have it. You'd have a kid,

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Speaker 4: you'd play tackle football within your neighborhood. He could move

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Speaker 4: two towns away to be nice, knowing.

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Speaker 1: You never again.

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Speaker 2: Now kids meet each other like at some event and

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Speaker 2: they have friendships of forty years, texting, social media, literally

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Speaker 2: lost in the ether.

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Speaker 4: You're right a block sometimes in the right city.

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Speaker 1: Guess what's next for Gary ve Man.

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Speaker 4: You know what's funny. I'm a counter puncher by trade.

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Speaker 4: What I mean by that is I'm much more Floyd

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Speaker 4: Mayweather than I'm Mike Tyson. Of course, you know the

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Speaker 4: answer is I'm always building frameworks and paying attention and

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Speaker 4: thinking about what is happening AI. I'll give you an example.

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Speaker 4: I'll give you a scoop. I am working on making

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Speaker 4: an AI influencer, So I am the intellectual property and

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Speaker 4: producer of a person I'm about to make famous, Like

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Speaker 4: I didn't think I was gonna do that three years ago.

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Speaker 4: Look like a much more handsome, younger version of me.

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Speaker 1: Is he wearing a sweet swede jacket? Like but on

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Speaker 1: some real that's crazy.

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Speaker 4: So the blending of being Disney and influencer marketing is coming.

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Speaker 4: Humans are going to own fifty humans but they're not

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Speaker 4: real humans, but they're gonna be big on social and

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Speaker 4: that's a business brand deals marketing. So you know, I think,

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Speaker 4: I think, I'm not sure what's next. I know that

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Speaker 4: I keep my eyes and ears open.

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Speaker 1: For Yeah, awesome man, heyx robots.

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Speaker 4: Yeah you watched the Megan Fox movie.

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Speaker 2: Yes, my wife's like I was like, she's like, because

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Speaker 2: it has a personality. No, I'm like, that's the that's

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Speaker 2: the reason.

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Speaker 1: No, listen.

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Speaker 4: I think, by the way, I've got a hot take.

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Speaker 4: Robots are coming, Relationships with robots is coming. And how

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Speaker 4: about this, I got a hot take. I think for

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Speaker 4: a lot of people in fifty years that is going

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Speaker 4: to help their marriage. I actually predict that relationships with

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Speaker 4: AI robots will actually help some sort of framework. It

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Speaker 4: will be not what people will think, Oh, no one's good.

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Speaker 4: It's always the counter thing that people don't realize.

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Speaker 3: Yeah, yeah, you understand, Yeah completely, Thank you. It's Darry Baynerchuk.

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Speaker 3: Always great to see you on Covino and Ridge Fox

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