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Speaker 1: Today's show is pre recorded. Y'all know what time. I

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Speaker 1: don't know. Y'all have a sun giving them like the

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Speaker 1: that turn you're going to do? You are you gotta

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Speaker 1: turn to turn them out? Turn? You haven't got to

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Speaker 1: Come come on your fa uh huh, I shall will

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Speaker 1: come morning. Everybody you're listening to the voice, come on

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Speaker 1: dig me now. One and only Steve Harvey got a

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Speaker 1: radio show man, o man o man? How many times

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Speaker 1: I got to say that before I get tired of it.

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Speaker 1: I think it's gonna be a minute, folks. I gotta

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Speaker 1: be real with you, because, boy, that Steve Harvey got

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Speaker 1: a radio show man, clear indication of how God can

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Speaker 1: do some unexpected wonderful things for you, how he leads

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Speaker 1: your life in directions that you never ever saw coming.

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Speaker 1: You know. I was talking with somebody the other day

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Speaker 1: and they were talking about how man, they were young

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Speaker 1: and they were doing things, and they never knew that

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Speaker 1: the things that they were doing as a youngster would

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Speaker 1: come and helped form who they were today as an adult.

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Speaker 1: This guy's fifty years old, and you know, the same

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Speaker 1: thing for you, If you look back on your life

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Speaker 1: and all of the things that you've done, it helps

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Speaker 1: shape you into who you are now. This is provided

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Speaker 1: now that you take the positive approach. Now, when I

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Speaker 1: say look back at your life and see what you've done,

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Speaker 1: that doesn't mean dwell on the misfortunate moments, because the

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Speaker 1: misfortunate moments were necessary. I know it. It's hard to

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Speaker 1: moments are necessary. You know, what really makes you appreciate

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Speaker 1: it's because you've been down. See if you are up

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Speaker 1: all the time. Just the nature of us as human beings,

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Speaker 1: we would lose our appreciation for because it becomes case urah,

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Speaker 1: just what what what you take it for? Granted, it

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Speaker 1: becomes expected. But what happens in life, say, is it

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Speaker 1: has so many twisting turns and then you learn how

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Speaker 1: to deal with those twisting turns, which makes you now

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Speaker 1: a more experienced person. And then when the sunny days come, man,

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Speaker 1: Now here's what I came to say today to everybody

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Speaker 1: I can't tell you what it's done for me, But

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Speaker 1: a lot of people are struggling with moving forward with

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Speaker 1: their future, their future plans, their future goals, their future aspirations,

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Speaker 1: A lot of people trying to having a hard time

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Speaker 1: about it? What do I do next? I want to

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Speaker 1: terms with the quickest way to lose focus on your

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Speaker 1: I know people who were on drugs who finally, man

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Speaker 1: I know Catess Soul Dope. Well, he went to prison.

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Speaker 1: He told me one time, he said Steve. He said, Man,

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Speaker 1: So he looks back on his incarceration, even his drug abuse,

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Speaker 1: And so I've taken all of that and used it

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Speaker 1: Sometimes the breakup is the blessing. I know it's hard

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Speaker 1: But man, but when you're in misery, When you was

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Speaker 1: So if you're sitting behind him walls, brothers and sisters,

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Speaker 1: I'm talking directly to you sometimes. Man, you just got

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Speaker 1: that's for? Who is that for? How ignorant can you

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Speaker 1: be to keep giving your life back to the penal system?

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Speaker 1: Be free, man, walk the streets, do the right thing.

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Speaker 1: Ask God to help connect you. He could do anything.

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Speaker 1: You think he can't give you a job? Are you serious? Man?

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Speaker 1: Put some faith on it. Let's move forward, y'all. Let

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Speaker 1: here another day? Man? I'm glad about this right here?

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Speaker 1: You know what, if you say, man, seem like Steve

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Speaker 1: glad about every day, it's because I am. Man. I

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Speaker 1: All I do all day long is make decisions, decisions, decisions, decisions.

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Speaker 1: Mister Harvey, can we have this, h Can we do this? Baby?

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Speaker 1: Can you do this for me? That one right there? Baby?

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Speaker 1: Why But I'm grateful though, Yes I am Steve Foban

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Speaker 1: Morty show y'all, Charley Strawberry caller for real, Mile Thur

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Speaker 1: I would say, Junior, what's on your mind? To David?

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Speaker 1: for people that want to be entertainers, the people that

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Speaker 1: First of all, you yourself, are not the determining factor

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Speaker 1: They determine who becomes stars in this world. And that

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Speaker 1: got a whole lot to do with God's grace and favor.

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Speaker 1: Ain't no, ain't no. I set out to be a

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Speaker 1: ain't as simple as that? No suck. Now, Once you

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Speaker 1: and it is hard work, just like it is hard

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Speaker 1: It's hard because most people that have reached a level

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Speaker 1: because they can't come on all right, Coming up at

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Speaker 1: after this. You're listening Steve Harvey Morning Show. It is

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Speaker 1: time now to start your morning off with the nephew

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Speaker 1: as he runs that Frank back what you got for

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Speaker 1: Steve Harvey Ginger and Shreveport, says, or love that name Ginger.

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Speaker 1: Ginger writes, my husband and I were invited to her

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Speaker 1: but you know, and everybody in there was fine. You know,

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Speaker 1: it was a disaster. I was in the room full

425
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Speaker 1: of fine after everybody was fine in there, but meet,

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Speaker 1: I was so damn got comfortable. I didn't want to

427
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Speaker 1: do I'm just I'm not the man for this skill,

428
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Speaker 1: ain't TWI business. This isn't notice what I do. Clearly,

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Speaker 1: I'm trying to split the time up evenly. I don't.

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Speaker 1: I didn't. I didn't know how to do it A

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Speaker 1: kiss you. It was confused up to the second. I

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Speaker 1: ain't know. I was, Yeah, I ain't know nothing there.

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Speaker 1: I ain't I ain't even here to watch, so damn,

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Speaker 1: I don't even know that part of it. I management.

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Speaker 1: I'm in here trying to participate. I had one job

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Speaker 1: to do. I had to work at the years of

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Speaker 1: this skill set. All I know is my job. I

438
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Speaker 1: ain't even here to watch. I don't do point out

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00:26:54,359 --> 00:26:56,280
Speaker 1: y'alls was in here, so I need to be sitting

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Speaker 1: up drinking coffee watching. That ain't why we're in here. Now.

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00:27:00,160 --> 00:27:02,360
Speaker 1: You need to go back to the restaurant. If that's

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Speaker 1: what he do. And y'all do do you that I

443
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Speaker 1: ain't got nothing to do with it, Lord him mercy

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Speaker 1: m but do you think do you know she would

445
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Speaker 1: want to come play with y'all? See you guys? Yeah, yeah,

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Speaker 1: she said, ever been cussed out by Jamaican before, but

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Speaker 1: if it's extensive, I haven't you I've never been cussed

448
00:27:29,760 --> 00:27:33,120
Speaker 1: out by Jamaican, but I've seen him cuss dog And

449
00:27:33,359 --> 00:27:37,040
Speaker 1: everybody clear out the way because you want rob cool

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Speaker 1: and brought. I'm so black, black stupid. All right, let's

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00:27:46,359 --> 00:27:51,040
Speaker 1: get to this last one. Stude Aaron and high Point says,

452
00:27:51,119 --> 00:27:53,160
Speaker 1: my boyfriend and I have been together for a year

453
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Speaker 1: and he used to put a lot of thought into

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Speaker 1: buying me gifts for Christmas and for my birthday. He

455
00:27:58,800 --> 00:28:01,680
Speaker 1: sent me money through hell and that was it. Did

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00:28:01,680 --> 00:28:04,040
Speaker 1: he buy the gifts in the beginning to lure me in?

457
00:28:04,920 --> 00:28:11,480
Speaker 1: Yeah yeah, it didn't got comfortable. See why, y'all be surprised,

458
00:28:13,119 --> 00:28:15,880
Speaker 1: you know what. I couldn't work hard in the beginning.

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Speaker 1: A lot of men change over the years. You've all

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00:28:18,280 --> 00:28:25,840
Speaker 1: experienced it. Yeah, all of you has experienced it. Keep

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00:28:25,880 --> 00:28:29,400
Speaker 1: it up like they did in the beginning, not even

462
00:28:29,440 --> 00:28:34,080
Speaker 1: the great ones like meat falling off a little bit?

463
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Speaker 1: Yeah yeah, yeah, why I used to be in he

464
00:28:39,080 --> 00:28:42,680
Speaker 1: slowed down a little bit. Yeah yeah, I couldn't keep

465
00:28:42,720 --> 00:28:48,640
Speaker 1: up with my damnself. Yeah. Yeah, you need to elevate

466
00:28:48,680 --> 00:28:53,920
Speaker 1: you see, idea too much, you know. Coming up at

467
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Speaker 1: the top of the hour. Thank you, Fielo. We'll have

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Speaker 1: some entertainment news for you right after this. You're listening.

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Speaker 1: She's a Steven show. Well, Usher has a new song,

470
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Speaker 1: and he released the tease of the news video. The

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Speaker 1: video stars someone you know very well, Steve. Her name

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Speaker 1: is Laurie Harvey, and she's beautiful. Have you seen it, Dad? Yes,

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Speaker 1: I don't think he won't. Yeah, I saw it. Okay,

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Speaker 1: we've on his volume kind of Well, she's beautiful in

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Speaker 1: the video. Moving on, moving on. Oh and and here's

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Speaker 1: a debate that fans of Usher are having. They think

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Speaker 1: Usher should be next year's Super Bowl halftime performer. I'm

478
00:29:46,640 --> 00:29:49,920
Speaker 1: not mad at that. I'm not mad at Yeah. By

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Speaker 1: the way, super Bowl is in fifty eight, is in

480
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Speaker 1: Las Vegas. Next year, we're going on in Vegas, in Vegas, Vegas.

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Speaker 1: We need to come. We don't care who going. No, not,

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00:30:03,440 --> 00:30:08,800
Speaker 1: that'd be too much super Bowl and Vegas. That's too much.

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00:30:09,720 --> 00:30:11,520
Speaker 1: I ain't I don't know if I could survive it.

484
00:30:12,120 --> 00:30:20,160
Speaker 1: You could survive ye. Gambling, that's gambling with the other athletes,

485
00:30:23,440 --> 00:30:25,720
Speaker 1: all all of them high rollers out there. I'm not

486
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Speaker 1: there competing now, Steve, would you go to sleep at

487
00:30:30,200 --> 00:30:34,600
Speaker 1: all of the whole Super Bowl? No, you're asking a

488
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Speaker 1: man gambles while he's having lunch. That's eyes so rid.

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Speaker 1: Will he go to sleep? No? He barely eats, all right.

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Speaker 1: But I'm not mad at that Usher. I'm not in

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Speaker 1: my mind that that's a good look right there. Yeah. Yeah,

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00:30:51,320 --> 00:30:54,480
Speaker 1: And Laura is doing Laurie's beautiful in the video. Dad,

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Speaker 1: you just want to give her props. I don't say

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Speaker 1: that they would struggle with should be caused of the

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00:31:02,080 --> 00:31:06,640
Speaker 1: crossover appeal. Too many are records. That's what your saying. Well, yeah,

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Speaker 1: I mean he's he was. He started as an R

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Speaker 1: and B star, you know he's not. Yeah, yeah, he's

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Speaker 1: na pop star. But you know, Beyonce is a pop star.

499
00:31:15,440 --> 00:31:21,320
Speaker 1: Katie Perry, hop star, Prison Megastar, Michael Megastar, Beyonce. You

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Speaker 1: gotta look at it like that. He's worthy. He got

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00:31:23,880 --> 00:31:26,480
Speaker 1: the hits. Oh we'd be jamming, but it'd be so

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Speaker 1: many white people off. Yeah, he got some popstars. But

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00:31:32,120 --> 00:31:39,400
Speaker 1: passing out the rations? All right, all right now confession

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00:31:41,680 --> 00:31:50,480
Speaker 1: just passing out the rations not damn really all right,

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Speaker 1: let's get to this story before we run out of time. Um.

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Speaker 1: On a recent episode of Sherry Shepherd and Kim Whitley's podcast,

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Speaker 1: they discussed Monique and her role in the new movie

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Speaker 1: The Reading. Sherry said about Monique, she's a great actress

509
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Speaker 1: personality wise, she's always getting in trouble always. Sherry continued,

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Speaker 1: If it's not with another comic, del hugely, it is

511
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Speaker 1: with the industry, and a lengthy in this Instagram post,

512
00:32:19,760 --> 00:32:23,400
Speaker 1: here's some of what Monique said. In response. Monique said,

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Speaker 1: first she thanked the comedians Sherry and Kim. Then Monique

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00:32:28,520 --> 00:32:31,000
Speaker 1: went on to say quote, you then attempted to show

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00:32:31,040 --> 00:32:35,080
Speaker 1: a connection between my personality and me being blackballed along

516
00:32:35,160 --> 00:32:38,880
Speaker 1: with the fallout I had with brother Dale hugely. In addition,

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Speaker 1: you two, within the same breath mentioned how we as

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Speaker 1: comics are quote underestimated. First thing, kids with their parents,

519
00:32:47,240 --> 00:32:50,240
Speaker 1: criminals with the law, and slaves with their masters get

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00:32:50,320 --> 00:32:53,280
Speaker 1: into trouble, and last time I checked, I don't fit

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Speaker 1: into any of these categories to get in trouble with

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Speaker 1: anyone mentioned. Do. You two then noted my personality is

523
00:33:02,520 --> 00:33:05,160
Speaker 1: of such where I have to speak up and out

524
00:33:05,320 --> 00:33:10,160
Speaker 1: against injustices so we can stop being, as you both said, underrated.

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00:33:10,600 --> 00:33:14,840
Speaker 1: And if you notice, I haven't ever started a conversation

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Speaker 1: about you two that involved any negativity in any way

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00:33:19,000 --> 00:33:22,360
Speaker 1: in all of the years. Anytime the team of you

528
00:33:22,480 --> 00:33:24,600
Speaker 1: two sisters would like to speak with the team of

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Speaker 1: my husband and I, we welcome it. Thank you too

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00:33:27,760 --> 00:33:32,440
Speaker 1: again for the compliments, though backhanded, and please know regardless,

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Speaker 1: I still love you both to life. Sisters. I hate

532
00:33:41,200 --> 00:33:45,040
Speaker 1: to see this. They weren't complimenting her, and I think

533
00:33:45,120 --> 00:33:49,280
Speaker 1: they were just trying to state that and be funny. Yes,

534
00:33:49,480 --> 00:33:52,160
Speaker 1: but she's always getting in trouble to trouble. Yeah, and

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00:33:53,400 --> 00:33:56,760
Speaker 1: that rubbed Monique the wrong way she want to. She

536
00:33:56,880 --> 00:33:59,600
Speaker 1: didn't like it at all. So yeah, but she invited

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00:34:00,080 --> 00:34:05,680
Speaker 1: to compliment and then neative that's what she said, backhanded compliment. Yeah.

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00:34:06,040 --> 00:34:08,600
Speaker 1: It's like if you if you ask someone something and

539
00:34:08,719 --> 00:34:10,839
Speaker 1: they answer you, but they put that butt in there,

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00:34:11,239 --> 00:34:14,200
Speaker 1: so you know everything that preceded the butt. Yes, Steve

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00:34:14,719 --> 00:34:18,600
Speaker 1: meant nothing. Y'all know. Good? Well, I don't say so.

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00:34:20,760 --> 00:34:24,800
Speaker 1: We thinking you're gonna jump into conversation. Yeah, oh no,

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00:34:26,719 --> 00:34:30,319
Speaker 1: in my studio. All right, we're moving on. Hopefully they'll

544
00:34:30,360 --> 00:34:33,359
Speaker 1: work it out. Maybe they will meet and work it out. Yeah,

545
00:34:33,600 --> 00:34:36,040
Speaker 1: it'll be a great thing. I think a crush y'all

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00:34:36,120 --> 00:34:38,440
Speaker 1: that don't start. No more, don't want any more beefs,

547
00:34:38,760 --> 00:34:42,600
Speaker 1: No more wars please, yeah, just enough? Yes, you know

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Speaker 1: all right. Finally, in trending fashion news, Louis Vaton, the

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00:34:46,360 --> 00:34:52,040
Speaker 1: French luxury brand, announced that Farrell Williams Pharrell Williams is

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Speaker 1: the brand new Men's creative Director at Louis Vaton. He

551
00:34:55,400 --> 00:34:59,200
Speaker 1: succeeds Virgil Ablow. Louis Vatan said in a statement, mister

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Speaker 1: Williams is a visionary whose creative universes, expand from music,

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00:35:04,080 --> 00:35:07,800
Speaker 1: to art and to fashion, establishing himself as a cultural

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00:35:07,920 --> 00:35:17,520
Speaker 1: global icon. Congratulations Pharrell, right now, Okay, this June Fashion

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00:35:17,640 --> 00:35:22,719
Speaker 1: Men's Week in June nine. Yeah, get your mind right.

556
00:35:23,320 --> 00:35:25,560
Speaker 1: You're about to kill him. You're about your mind right.

557
00:35:25,760 --> 00:35:33,120
Speaker 1: I might have to go out there all right now? Alright,

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Speaker 1: Congratulations again, Farrell. Coming up in twenty minutes after the

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Speaker 1: hour and trending political news. We'll tell you what Donald

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Speaker 1: Trump wants to reportedly bring back if he is re

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Speaker 1: elected president. We'll talk about it right after this. You're

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Speaker 1: listening to the Steve Harvey Morning Show. In trending political news,

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Speaker 1: Nicky Haley, the former Republican governor of South Carolina and

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Speaker 1: Ambassador to the United Nations under the Trump administration, posted

565
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Speaker 1: a video on Twitter recently announcing that she is running

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Speaker 1: for president. She says it's time for a new generation

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Speaker 1: of leadership. I'm Nicki Haley and I'm running for president.

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Speaker 1: Oh and speak yeah. Speaking of twenty twenty four, the

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Speaker 1: presidential candidates, according to Rolling Stone magazine, Donald Trump has

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Speaker 1: been discussing with his team listen to this guy's the

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Speaker 1: expansions of the federal death penalty and bringing back death

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Speaker 1: by fire, squad and hanging. Trump also reportedly yeah yeah, yeah, yeah, yeah, yeah,

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Speaker 1: yeah yeah, this is what he's reportedly discussing with his team,

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Speaker 1: you know, death by firing, squad, hanging. Trump also reportedly

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Speaker 1: mentioned to his team the idea of the executions being televised.

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00:36:45,320 --> 00:36:51,040
Speaker 1: See that appeals to that right wing, malicious Southern hell

577
00:36:51,200 --> 00:36:56,640
Speaker 1: billy biggie, that appeals to the bigotry in their party.

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00:36:57,080 --> 00:37:00,560
Speaker 1: All of those constituents of his will Ama and all

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00:37:00,640 --> 00:37:03,880
Speaker 1: the black people that they'll be hanging and shoot and

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00:37:04,040 --> 00:37:08,239
Speaker 1: putting it on TV. That's for them. See, he gonna

581
00:37:08,280 --> 00:37:11,840
Speaker 1: give that to them. Oh no, he gonna get that

582
00:37:11,960 --> 00:37:15,040
Speaker 1: to them. And then he'll have some other stuff for

583
00:37:15,160 --> 00:37:21,400
Speaker 1: the little bit more more more, you know, moderate Republicans.

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00:37:21,560 --> 00:37:29,759
Speaker 1: He'll have that cutting back on taxist government. Should we

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00:37:29,960 --> 00:37:32,280
Speaker 1: hang and and put people on the fire and squard

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00:37:32,360 --> 00:37:34,919
Speaker 1: that was at the insurrection and climbing it, well should

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00:37:35,560 --> 00:37:38,239
Speaker 1: because that was a federal that's federal. Come on, come on,

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00:37:39,560 --> 00:37:46,759
Speaker 1: protest and Tommy, those were white people. Yeah, we're not.

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00:37:46,920 --> 00:37:50,919
Speaker 1: We're not talking about hanging and shooting whites. That ain't

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00:37:50,960 --> 00:37:54,120
Speaker 1: what that's for. And he knows exactly who he talking

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00:37:54,120 --> 00:37:59,440
Speaker 1: about what he's doing because they people of color, the

592
00:37:59,480 --> 00:38:01,200
Speaker 1: ones who don't have the money to get out of

593
00:38:01,360 --> 00:38:04,600
Speaker 1: things like this. You ain't shoot You can't understand somebody

594
00:38:04,640 --> 00:38:06,960
Speaker 1: with this much hate. What're the last person? No, no, no,

595
00:38:07,080 --> 00:38:09,719
Speaker 1: don't don't antybody shooting no white person. You gotta be kid.

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00:38:10,000 --> 00:38:12,920
Speaker 1: The last time you heard that? What police? You know,

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00:38:13,160 --> 00:38:16,880
Speaker 1: go shoot a white person and for Steven be disgusting

598
00:38:16,920 --> 00:38:20,040
Speaker 1: to do. This country is so sick to even allow

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00:38:20,200 --> 00:38:23,680
Speaker 1: his ass back it to run for anything. Yeah, what

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00:38:23,840 --> 00:38:27,960
Speaker 1: all these accusation? Guy? This the sickness of this country,

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00:38:28,719 --> 00:38:32,800
Speaker 1: the hypocrisy of the United States to allow this and

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00:38:33,880 --> 00:38:36,960
Speaker 1: question tell me about the insurrection, but you know nothing's

603
00:38:36,960 --> 00:38:39,960
Speaker 1: gonna be done about it. Coming up at thirty four

604
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Speaker 1: minutes after the hour? Has your spouse made you go

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00:38:42,719 --> 00:38:45,440
Speaker 1: somewhere you didn't want to go? Were you miserable like

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Speaker 1: Ben Affleck at the Grammys? We'll talk about it right

607
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Speaker 1: after this. You're listening to this morning show. Well, if

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00:38:57,719 --> 00:39:00,239
Speaker 1: you saw the Grammys, you all saw the look Ben

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Speaker 1: afflex Space. He was miserable at the grass. He just

610
00:39:04,480 --> 00:39:07,319
Speaker 1: looked like he didn't want to be there. I mean,

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00:39:08,320 --> 00:39:12,759
Speaker 1: Space said at all word has it that Ben's wife,

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00:39:12,840 --> 00:39:21,560
Speaker 1: Jennifer Lopez whispered in his ear, look motivated face. Ben

613
00:39:21,680 --> 00:39:24,160
Speaker 1: just couldn't play it off. He just wanted to go home,

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00:39:24,520 --> 00:39:26,560
Speaker 1: all right. He did not want to be there. So

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00:39:26,719 --> 00:39:30,480
Speaker 1: here's a question for you, Stephen, Tommy, has your spouse

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00:39:30,640 --> 00:39:33,279
Speaker 1: ever dragged you out to a function that you did

617
00:39:33,400 --> 00:39:35,080
Speaker 1: not want to be at? You didn't want to go?

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00:39:35,640 --> 00:39:43,000
Speaker 1: What happened, Tommy? I went with my wife to a funeral.

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Speaker 1: I did not even know who the person was. And

620
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Speaker 1: it was so long drawn out, miserable. Everybody want to call.

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Speaker 1: And then when we getting ready to leave, which I

622
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Speaker 1: think is so disrespectful, then everybody want to pitch. You

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Speaker 1: can we get a picture with tom if really at

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Speaker 1: a field in the room? Come on, man, I was

625
00:40:01,760 --> 00:40:06,799
Speaker 1: just bored. I was just and I can't go by yeah,

626
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Speaker 1: And I just sat there and just hate. Then you

627
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Speaker 1: got the near to asked me to go by the repair.

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Speaker 1: We're going, No, damn repair. I'm not doing that point.

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Speaker 1: I can't do it. I ain't going to the cemetery

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00:40:21,400 --> 00:40:23,319
Speaker 1: and I'm not going to the repairs. And don't ask

631
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Speaker 1: me no more. I will ober my ass home. I'm

632
00:40:26,080 --> 00:40:31,600
Speaker 1: not born. You had that been that flex faith because

633
00:40:31,640 --> 00:40:33,759
Speaker 1: you've been at the funeral so long you ain't even

634
00:40:33,800 --> 00:40:38,600
Speaker 1: like the dead person. No more goodness, I'm listening up

635
00:40:38,600 --> 00:40:40,600
Speaker 1: the man and start thinking of stuff I ain't liked

636
00:40:40,640 --> 00:40:45,320
Speaker 1: about here. Then he wasn't all that. I'll tell you

637
00:40:45,360 --> 00:40:49,360
Speaker 1: the one that got me the But Marjorie convinced me

638
00:40:50,120 --> 00:40:55,279
Speaker 1: to go with her and the grandkids to see the Nutcracker.

639
00:40:56,000 --> 00:41:04,719
Speaker 1: Oh made you? Won't it to kill myself? First of all? Due,

640
00:41:05,160 --> 00:41:10,160
Speaker 1: hey man, let me tell you something. About eight minutes in,

641
00:41:10,640 --> 00:41:12,920
Speaker 1: I was sitting back with one of the grandkids. I

642
00:41:13,000 --> 00:41:15,040
Speaker 1: was sitting behind it. I leaned over and tap, My

643
00:41:15,160 --> 00:41:18,600
Speaker 1: wife was a baby. When is that gonna start talking?

644
00:41:21,160 --> 00:41:25,839
Speaker 1: I did not know that at ballet they don't talk.

645
00:41:28,360 --> 00:41:34,520
Speaker 1: So now I'm already don't know the story, and I

646
00:41:34,680 --> 00:41:37,120
Speaker 1: can't keep up with a story when ain't nobody talking?

647
00:41:38,480 --> 00:41:41,080
Speaker 1: Because I'm trying to figure out why is the rats

648
00:41:41,160 --> 00:41:45,360
Speaker 1: running around on this damn stage? Ain't nobody trying to

649
00:41:45,480 --> 00:41:52,880
Speaker 1: kill the rat? I didn't understand that DoD that opened

650
00:41:53,000 --> 00:41:56,600
Speaker 1: up and the white girl got out. I didn't what

651
00:41:56,840 --> 00:42:02,280
Speaker 1: is we dancing for? The dude was springing crack? Where's

652
00:42:02,320 --> 00:42:07,640
Speaker 1: your pans at? I had so many questions. Doing the nutcracker?

653
00:42:11,200 --> 00:42:15,440
Speaker 1: Where the nuts we're supposed to be cracking? No, I

654
00:42:15,680 --> 00:42:20,600
Speaker 1: kept waiting. That's what I couldn't understand. We ain't crack now,

655
00:42:20,640 --> 00:42:24,000
Speaker 1: I'm nut in here. Ain't no shells on the floor,

656
00:42:24,360 --> 00:42:30,920
Speaker 1: anybody knowing me? None of this? Why are we in here? Man? Well,

657
00:42:31,040 --> 00:42:34,080
Speaker 1: let me tell you something. I could not understand that.

658
00:42:34,400 --> 00:42:38,000
Speaker 1: So at intermission, Yeah, y'all out in the lobby, I'm

659
00:42:38,480 --> 00:42:42,440
Speaker 1: so confused, And they was a, oh man, this is

660
00:42:42,520 --> 00:42:45,359
Speaker 1: a lovely production. This is amazing. I'm what is y'all

661
00:42:45,440 --> 00:42:49,320
Speaker 1: talking about? Y'all watching the same thing I'm watching. You

662
00:42:49,440 --> 00:42:52,120
Speaker 1: know what they're saying about? Nothing? Man, he's slacking ass costume.

663
00:42:52,719 --> 00:42:55,959
Speaker 1: Nobody talks are of Steve. Oh man. I was going

664
00:42:56,000 --> 00:42:59,080
Speaker 1: about to die after that. Man, I didn't give a

665
00:42:59,440 --> 00:43:04,640
Speaker 1: damn nutcrack. So did Marjorie tell you to be quiet?

666
00:43:04,840 --> 00:43:08,000
Speaker 1: But she's shishing you? Did you keep asking her questions? Yeah?

667
00:43:08,040 --> 00:43:11,279
Speaker 1: Because I kept going because even my little grandson, Noah,

668
00:43:11,360 --> 00:43:14,320
Speaker 1: was sitting next to me. He asked me, Papa, what

669
00:43:14,440 --> 00:43:21,520
Speaker 1: they're doing? Look? Yeah, what I don't know? Hell, I

670
00:43:21,560 --> 00:43:23,120
Speaker 1: don't know what's going on. I can't help you with

671
00:43:23,200 --> 00:43:25,080
Speaker 1: this story. I don't know what he was going on.

672
00:43:25,360 --> 00:43:27,440
Speaker 1: I couldn't follow it. I ain't seen no purpose to it.

673
00:43:27,719 --> 00:43:31,000
Speaker 1: When they got to the end, nobody was in there

674
00:43:31,040 --> 00:43:32,640
Speaker 1: were happier than me. And then they came out to

675
00:43:32,680 --> 00:43:38,120
Speaker 1: do the little encores and people clamp said, Man, but no, damn,

676
00:43:39,400 --> 00:43:40,960
Speaker 1: I don't know, and I think I was in there.

677
00:43:41,080 --> 00:43:43,440
Speaker 1: Man felt to me, it felt like about left My hour.

678
00:43:44,600 --> 00:43:47,959
Speaker 1: Coming up next, it is the Nephew and today's Frank

679
00:43:48,080 --> 00:43:53,000
Speaker 1: Bone called right after this. You're listening Steve Harvey Morning Show.

680
00:43:55,520 --> 00:43:57,680
Speaker 1: Coming up at the top of the hour, right about

681
00:43:57,719 --> 00:44:00,360
Speaker 1: four minutes after. It's my Strawberry letter for today and

682
00:44:00,400 --> 00:44:04,959
Speaker 1: the subject is tweetl D He's with me. We'll find

683
00:44:05,000 --> 00:44:07,359
Speaker 1: out get to that and find out what it's all about. Yeah,

684
00:44:07,480 --> 00:44:10,040
Speaker 1: tweetle d He's with me is the subject. Right now,

685
00:44:10,080 --> 00:44:13,239
Speaker 1: it's time for the Nephew with today's prank phone call.

686
00:44:13,320 --> 00:44:16,320
Speaker 1: What you got for us? Nap, Well, brace yourself, ladies

687
00:44:16,320 --> 00:44:20,960
Speaker 1: and gentlemen. You didn't fall and you ain't getting no money.

688
00:44:23,880 --> 00:44:28,799
Speaker 1: You didn't fall and you ain't getting no money. Hey,

689
00:44:28,840 --> 00:44:33,800
Speaker 1: let's glow. Let's go kid. Though, Hello, I'm trying to

690
00:44:33,840 --> 00:44:37,920
Speaker 1: reach a Glenda and place. How you doing. My name

691
00:44:38,080 --> 00:44:41,760
Speaker 1: is Brad. I'm actually with the A and C Department

692
00:44:41,800 --> 00:44:44,759
Speaker 1: Accidents and Conditions. Wanted to give you a call and

693
00:44:44,840 --> 00:44:48,640
Speaker 1: see how you're doing this morning. I'm getting great, great now.

694
00:44:49,600 --> 00:44:53,440
Speaker 1: I am the the Accident and Condition coordinated, the last

695
00:44:53,480 --> 00:44:56,279
Speaker 1: person that it goes to before actually issuing out a check,

696
00:44:56,920 --> 00:44:59,120
Speaker 1: and just wanted to give you a call and see

697
00:44:59,160 --> 00:45:01,480
Speaker 1: how everything is going going have you Have you been

698
00:45:01,520 --> 00:45:03,759
Speaker 1: to the doctor on your fall, and just just wanted

699
00:45:03,800 --> 00:45:06,040
Speaker 1: to do a follow up with you and make sure

700
00:45:06,080 --> 00:45:11,120
Speaker 1: everything is okay? Yeah, everything, Have you needed to do

701
00:45:11,239 --> 00:45:14,480
Speaker 1: any any rehabilitation work or anything like that. This is

702
00:45:14,560 --> 00:45:16,880
Speaker 1: just a random procedure of all the notes that I

703
00:45:16,960 --> 00:45:18,920
Speaker 1: have to write down, and like I said, this is

704
00:45:18,960 --> 00:45:21,640
Speaker 1: the final step of of getting you out of check. Now,

705
00:45:21,719 --> 00:45:25,080
Speaker 1: the last heard you were offered two thousand dollars? Is

706
00:45:25,080 --> 00:45:28,680
Speaker 1: that correct? If you were there, you go ahead to supervisor.

707
00:45:29,080 --> 00:45:32,080
Speaker 1: You would knew how that if you worked there. Okay, Well,

708
00:45:32,160 --> 00:45:34,279
Speaker 1: I'm just looking at the file that I have. Man,

709
00:45:34,320 --> 00:45:37,160
Speaker 1: I don't have everything. You got that rode down that's

710
00:45:37,200 --> 00:45:41,120
Speaker 1: what they offer. Okay, Well listen, here's what we're doing. Um.

711
00:45:41,800 --> 00:45:44,800
Speaker 1: I've also been brought some other records is this the

712
00:45:44,920 --> 00:45:48,600
Speaker 1: first time you've actually had an incident like this? What

713
00:45:49,600 --> 00:45:51,480
Speaker 1: is this the first time you've had an incident of

714
00:45:51,560 --> 00:45:57,480
Speaker 1: actually falling? Yeah, yeah, that's my first time. Okay, Well, actually,

715
00:45:57,560 --> 00:46:01,480
Speaker 1: what we're doing, uh looking over the records here, I've

716
00:46:01,520 --> 00:46:04,720
Speaker 1: got some actual incidents that it seems like you've actually

717
00:46:04,800 --> 00:46:09,600
Speaker 1: fallen several times in other places. And uh, what what

718
00:46:09,760 --> 00:46:12,120
Speaker 1: I'm having to do here, ma'am, is let you know

719
00:46:12,320 --> 00:46:15,279
Speaker 1: that I am not going to sign off on this

720
00:46:15,480 --> 00:46:17,840
Speaker 1: at all. So the money that has been offered to you,

721
00:46:18,400 --> 00:46:20,480
Speaker 1: I am no longer going to be. Uh, I'm not

722
00:46:20,600 --> 00:46:23,000
Speaker 1: gonna confirm this check to go out to you. I

723
00:46:23,080 --> 00:46:26,359
Speaker 1: don't think that there's anything wrong with you. I don't

724
00:46:26,360 --> 00:46:28,359
Speaker 1: think that you have a problem. I think that there's

725
00:46:28,400 --> 00:46:31,040
Speaker 1: something that you deliberately did in one of our stores.

726
00:46:32,040 --> 00:46:35,840
Speaker 1: I could care less about what you think. What happened

727
00:46:35,960 --> 00:46:38,960
Speaker 1: was that I was on the floor. I fail. I'm

728
00:46:38,960 --> 00:46:42,200
Speaker 1: gonna they don't have to pay for the claim. No,

729
00:46:42,360 --> 00:46:44,800
Speaker 1: we're not gonna. Actually, ma'am, what I'm gonna have to

730
00:46:44,880 --> 00:46:47,520
Speaker 1: do is get you to come down and sign uh

731
00:46:47,719 --> 00:46:50,879
Speaker 1: an agreement. Yes, I'm gonna need you to come down

732
00:46:50,920 --> 00:46:53,919
Speaker 1: and sign an agreement that you actually made this whole

733
00:46:54,000 --> 00:46:58,120
Speaker 1: thing up, and I need that in wrong nowhere. Look, ma'am,

734
00:46:58,200 --> 00:47:00,160
Speaker 1: I don't care if you come down or I have

735
00:47:00,239 --> 00:47:02,520
Speaker 1: to come down and haul your tin because I'm not

736
00:47:02,719 --> 00:47:05,480
Speaker 1: signing over a check to you for somebody that deliberately

737
00:47:05,600 --> 00:47:07,440
Speaker 1: laid down in the floor and act like something was

738
00:47:07,480 --> 00:47:11,799
Speaker 1: wrong with them. Good and mine deliberately done it. How

739
00:47:11,920 --> 00:47:15,799
Speaker 1: exactly it was. Witnesses, you need to talk to them.

740
00:47:16,200 --> 00:47:18,440
Speaker 1: I've spoken to every witness and you know what, man,

741
00:47:18,600 --> 00:47:23,120
Speaker 1: everyone witness because my friend was there, you haven't spoken

742
00:47:23,160 --> 00:47:25,320
Speaker 1: to her. There's a lot of people that assume that

743
00:47:25,400 --> 00:47:29,719
Speaker 1: you're lying. Well, I don't kill what they are. Man,

744
00:47:29,960 --> 00:47:32,239
Speaker 1: let me explain something. We can take this thing further.

745
00:47:32,400 --> 00:47:36,399
Speaker 1: I even have you on video actually deliberately laying down

746
00:47:36,440 --> 00:47:38,080
Speaker 1: in the middle of the floor as if you have

747
00:47:39,920 --> 00:47:43,600
Speaker 1: no No, I am not man. We're not gonna give

748
00:47:43,640 --> 00:47:46,160
Speaker 1: you two We're not going to give you two dollars.

749
00:47:46,400 --> 00:47:50,200
Speaker 1: What's your name? My name is Brad with the ANC department. Well,

750
00:47:50,239 --> 00:47:52,040
Speaker 1: you want to be him the job? Too much going

751
00:47:52,040 --> 00:47:54,719
Speaker 1: on because you're a fool. No, No, I'm not a fool.

752
00:47:54,760 --> 00:47:56,839
Speaker 1: I want to make sure that you understand. I want

753
00:47:56,840 --> 00:48:00,719
Speaker 1: to make sure that you understand. You understand that this

754
00:48:00,960 --> 00:48:03,520
Speaker 1: is not something that you can do or continue to do.

755
00:48:04,080 --> 00:48:05,640
Speaker 1: Now I want to hear it out of your mouth.

756
00:48:05,800 --> 00:48:08,160
Speaker 1: You tell me, did you lay down on that floor deliberately?

757
00:48:08,520 --> 00:48:12,120
Speaker 1: If you think I'm going to city here and tell

758
00:48:12,200 --> 00:48:16,640
Speaker 1: you I deliberately laid down in a floor? Am I crazy?

759
00:48:16,680 --> 00:48:18,320
Speaker 1: Am I crazy? For you sitting here and tell me

760
00:48:18,440 --> 00:48:24,640
Speaker 1: the tale that it as all? No, deliberately laid down

761
00:48:24,719 --> 00:48:27,080
Speaker 1: on that floor and you're deliberately trying to get two

762
00:48:27,160 --> 00:48:29,320
Speaker 1: thousand dollars worth the money that does not belong to you.

763
00:48:29,640 --> 00:48:33,239
Speaker 1: What you just review the damn cape and uh you

764
00:48:33,280 --> 00:48:35,360
Speaker 1: will see what happened. Would you like for me to

765
00:48:35,400 --> 00:48:37,480
Speaker 1: get authorities to come over man and bring you in?

766
00:48:38,120 --> 00:48:42,399
Speaker 1: Because what we who you get get whether you want

767
00:48:42,440 --> 00:48:44,719
Speaker 1: to get. If I need to send authorities down there,

768
00:48:45,640 --> 00:48:50,200
Speaker 1: you send them over here. I'm either I don't think

769
00:48:51,280 --> 00:48:53,560
Speaker 1: I'm not. I'm not. They're gonna bring you in and

770
00:48:53,600 --> 00:48:56,359
Speaker 1: you're gonna sign this form I have that deliberately laid

771
00:48:56,400 --> 00:48:59,200
Speaker 1: down on that floor. You a fool, the nerving you

772
00:48:59,320 --> 00:49:03,479
Speaker 1: black people. I'm not coming in. I'm not signing nothing

773
00:49:03,880 --> 00:49:07,120
Speaker 1: now what Utah man, I don't know. I ain't ever

774
00:49:07,280 --> 00:49:10,399
Speaker 1: heard this, Utah man. Now, I want you to bring

775
00:49:10,880 --> 00:49:12,840
Speaker 1: your little narrow black behind in here so we can

776
00:49:12,920 --> 00:49:15,480
Speaker 1: get this stuff rectified. Is what I want done. Are

777
00:49:15,520 --> 00:49:19,080
Speaker 1: you crazy or dasa? You ain't your sharpest tool? And

778
00:49:19,160 --> 00:49:21,840
Speaker 1: to share that? Tell you that I am not coming in.

779
00:49:22,400 --> 00:49:24,680
Speaker 1: I don't know what I would have to come in. Fuck.

780
00:49:25,120 --> 00:49:27,200
Speaker 1: I want you to sign a form that you deliberately

781
00:49:27,239 --> 00:49:29,960
Speaker 1: laid down in this floor and it was all fictitiously,

782
00:49:30,160 --> 00:49:33,440
Speaker 1: No wonder would I do something like that and hedn't

783
00:49:33,440 --> 00:49:35,400
Speaker 1: go to jail. Why would you lay down in the

784
00:49:35,480 --> 00:49:37,480
Speaker 1: floor in the in the first place, and when you

785
00:49:37,560 --> 00:49:40,040
Speaker 1: knew nothing. I told you I didn't do that. Yes

786
00:49:40,120 --> 00:49:42,320
Speaker 1: she did, Yes she did. It's in front of you.

787
00:49:42,400 --> 00:49:44,279
Speaker 1: I can look you in your eyes and tell when

788
00:49:44,320 --> 00:49:47,879
Speaker 1: you're lying. I'm told you I told you what. Hell,

789
00:49:48,040 --> 00:49:51,000
Speaker 1: that's it. That's all back? Hey, can I say? Let

790
00:49:51,080 --> 00:49:58,680
Speaker 1: me say one more Hello? Call it right back? Hello. Well,

791
00:49:58,800 --> 00:50:01,160
Speaker 1: I don't want to continue to go back and forth. Look,

792
00:50:01,280 --> 00:50:05,240
Speaker 1: look you're really pissed. Look I told you what happened.

793
00:50:05,400 --> 00:50:07,160
Speaker 1: I'm not going to keep on telling you that. I

794
00:50:07,160 --> 00:50:09,919
Speaker 1: don't know why you keep calling me. Let me speak

795
00:50:10,040 --> 00:50:12,759
Speaker 1: to your damn supervisor. Let me first of all, man,

796
00:50:13,120 --> 00:50:14,719
Speaker 1: First of all, I am the supervis. This is what

797
00:50:14,840 --> 00:50:17,080
Speaker 1: I want. I think we can get this car. Look

798
00:50:17,320 --> 00:50:20,040
Speaker 1: what the I'm gonna come in time. What's what I

799
00:50:20,120 --> 00:50:22,320
Speaker 1: want you to if you come down and sell it together.

800
00:50:22,400 --> 00:50:25,400
Speaker 1: You think I'm going to come and stign some papers

801
00:50:25,640 --> 00:50:28,239
Speaker 1: saying that laid on them float? It ain't. None of

802
00:50:28,320 --> 00:50:31,759
Speaker 1: that true was on the float. I fail. That's it.

803
00:50:32,040 --> 00:50:35,040
Speaker 1: That's out. Now what the are you talking about? Have

804
00:50:35,160 --> 00:50:39,120
Speaker 1: you been drinking? Have you been drinking? You've been drinking.

805
00:50:39,239 --> 00:50:41,279
Speaker 1: I want to rinking. Got to do it any time

806
00:50:41,320 --> 00:50:47,080
Speaker 1: when I doing my own personal time? Is my bus drinking?

807
00:50:47,280 --> 00:50:50,239
Speaker 1: Don't keep calling me with that. Okay, I'm gonna say

808
00:50:50,280 --> 00:50:53,680
Speaker 1: one more thing. Still hurt and you're telling me like

809
00:50:53,760 --> 00:50:56,000
Speaker 1: you ain't gonna give me no money? You paying a

810
00:50:56,360 --> 00:50:58,800
Speaker 1: damn gonna get some money? They should have hate that

811
00:50:59,040 --> 00:51:06,360
Speaker 1: step off the blow. Then I'm gonna be having to drinking. Glenda.

812
00:51:06,400 --> 00:51:07,680
Speaker 1: I'm gonna say one more thing to you and then

813
00:51:07,719 --> 00:51:10,960
Speaker 1: I'm gonna let you go. What this is Nephew timming

814
00:51:11,040 --> 00:51:15,080
Speaker 1: from Steve Harvey morning, you just got preak by your

815
00:51:15,200 --> 00:51:25,919
Speaker 1: brother Jake ta Ja James, Baby, James. I don't. Yeah, James,

816
00:51:26,000 --> 00:51:30,239
Speaker 1: I'm gonna get him when he gets home. This is

817
00:51:30,360 --> 00:51:33,560
Speaker 1: nephew Timmy. How are you doing, baby? You stand your ground, Baby,

818
00:51:34,560 --> 00:51:41,320
Speaker 1: stand your ground, Baby standing you are? Yeah, I'm fine.

819
00:51:41,560 --> 00:51:43,799
Speaker 1: I'm fine. My pressure was going up a little bit,

820
00:51:43,880 --> 00:51:47,359
Speaker 1: but now I'm fine. Now everybody here to Steve Harvey

821
00:51:47,440 --> 00:51:51,759
Speaker 1: Morning Show. We love you, Glenda, Okay, thank you too.

822
00:51:54,600 --> 00:51:57,840
Speaker 1: You ain't found. You ain't getting no money. I said it,

823
00:51:58,920 --> 00:52:02,440
Speaker 1: I said it, and I say it again. How that

824
00:52:02,520 --> 00:52:07,680
Speaker 1: boy'll be pranking on it? Talking about yourself right now

825
00:52:07,880 --> 00:52:09,640
Speaker 1: in the third part of that boy that bought time

826
00:52:09,680 --> 00:52:11,680
Speaker 1: and be pranking, boy, that's what that boy to that

827
00:52:11,800 --> 00:52:13,880
Speaker 1: boy be pranking, he'd be pranking and he'd be ignorant.

828
00:52:13,960 --> 00:52:17,240
Speaker 1: Now he ignorant. This weekend in Memphis, Tennessee at Chuckles.

829
00:52:17,320 --> 00:52:20,320
Speaker 1: That's two Friday too Saturday, two Friday too, Saturday. Tickets

830
00:52:20,360 --> 00:52:24,279
Speaker 1: about going Chuckles Comedy Club. Laying in the cut is

831
00:52:24,360 --> 00:52:28,560
Speaker 1: the comedy Factory in Baltimore, Maryland that's laying in the cut.

832
00:52:28,920 --> 00:52:32,200
Speaker 1: And I will be there next weekend Friday, And said

833
00:52:32,360 --> 00:52:34,839
Speaker 1: to Friday to Saturday, I'm out all right, They ain't

834
00:52:34,840 --> 00:52:37,200
Speaker 1: no eight nine ten showld i'me ain't doing all that.

835
00:52:37,520 --> 00:52:40,400
Speaker 1: It's four shows too on Friday, too on Saturday, and

836
00:52:40,520 --> 00:52:45,719
Speaker 1: then you can catch me sexy Friday Night, Ready to

837
00:52:45,840 --> 00:52:50,279
Speaker 1: Love on the Old Network. See my transition as I

838
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Speaker 1: go from stupid to sexy. Yeah, all right, coming up

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Speaker 1: next Strawberry Letters. Subject tweetled He's with me into that

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Speaker 1: Right after this you're listening to this Stave Harvey Morning Show.

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Speaker 1: It is time now for today's Strawberry Letter. And if

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Speaker 1: you need advice on relationships, dating, work, sex, parenting, and more.

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Speaker 1: Please baby, please submit your Strawberry Letter to Steve HARBFM

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Speaker 1: dot com and click submit Strawberry Letter. We could be

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Speaker 1: reading your letter live on the air, just like we're

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Speaker 1: gonna read this one right here, right now, and you

847
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Speaker 1: never know it could be yours. You never know. Buckle

848
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Speaker 1: up and hold on tight. We got it for you. Here.

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Speaker 1: It is Strawberry Letter. Thank you nephew. Subject Tweedlede, He's

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Speaker 1: with me. Dear Stephen Shirley, I'm thirty eight years old

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00:53:40,800 --> 00:53:43,000
Speaker 1: and I moved back to my hometown to take care

852
00:53:43,040 --> 00:53:46,080
Speaker 1: of my daddy. My eighteen year old son lives more

853
00:53:46,640 --> 00:53:50,319
Speaker 1: lives there temporarily to attend a vocational school and he's

854
00:53:50,400 --> 00:53:53,319
Speaker 1: living with his daddy while he's there. Before I moved

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00:53:53,360 --> 00:53:56,200
Speaker 1: back to town, my son's daddy was begging me to

856
00:53:56,280 --> 00:53:59,000
Speaker 1: stay with him and my son. I told him I'd

857
00:53:59,080 --> 00:54:01,880
Speaker 1: rather stay with my dad because my son told him

858
00:54:02,160 --> 00:54:05,000
Speaker 1: that his dad has a crazy girlfriend and she pops

859
00:54:05,080 --> 00:54:07,960
Speaker 1: up at the house all the time. I was expecting

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Speaker 1: to have a lot of great sex with my son's dad,

861
00:54:10,800 --> 00:54:14,000
Speaker 1: because he is the best I've ever had. Little did

862
00:54:14,080 --> 00:54:16,719
Speaker 1: I know that the great sex would come with so

863
00:54:16,960 --> 00:54:20,720
Speaker 1: much unnecessary drama. As soon as I got back to town,

864
00:54:21,200 --> 00:54:24,719
Speaker 1: my son's dad wouldn't stop sweating me. He begged me

865
00:54:24,800 --> 00:54:26,960
Speaker 1: to go out on dates, and he loved showing me

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00:54:27,040 --> 00:54:30,719
Speaker 1: off to all of his friends. In the process of

867
00:54:30,840 --> 00:54:33,840
Speaker 1: doing that, I guess he forgot he had a girlfriend.

868
00:54:34,160 --> 00:54:37,480
Speaker 1: I started getting harassed by an older lady named Tish.

869
00:54:37,880 --> 00:54:40,560
Speaker 1: I found out that she's like twenty years older than us.

870
00:54:40,920 --> 00:54:43,920
Speaker 1: She would follow us around town and too much is

871
00:54:43,960 --> 00:54:47,359
Speaker 1: happening nowadays with love triangle, so I was scared of her.

872
00:54:47,920 --> 00:54:50,359
Speaker 1: It wasn't until she got smart with a cashier at

873
00:54:50,400 --> 00:54:53,160
Speaker 1: the grocery store one day and got her tail beat

874
00:54:53,440 --> 00:54:56,520
Speaker 1: that I realized she wasn't a threat That's when I

875
00:54:56,600 --> 00:54:59,520
Speaker 1: started giving her the same energy she was giving me.

876
00:55:00,160 --> 00:55:02,879
Speaker 1: She posted a photo of me and my son's dad

877
00:55:03,000 --> 00:55:06,719
Speaker 1: on Facebook and captioned it Tweedle d and Tweedle dumb

878
00:55:07,080 --> 00:55:11,000
Speaker 1: because everyone calls me d. So I comment at Tweedle

879
00:55:11,080 --> 00:55:14,399
Speaker 1: d he's with me and it started a big mess.

880
00:55:14,840 --> 00:55:17,960
Speaker 1: Now all of her old friends are attacking me on Facebook.

881
00:55:18,360 --> 00:55:21,279
Speaker 1: Great sex with my ex started a big mess with

882
00:55:21,480 --> 00:55:24,600
Speaker 1: Tish and them. How can I get these older ladies

883
00:55:24,719 --> 00:55:29,560
Speaker 1: to chill? Well, how can you get these older ladies

884
00:55:29,640 --> 00:55:31,680
Speaker 1: to chill? You're probably not gonna be able to get

885
00:55:31,719 --> 00:55:34,800
Speaker 1: them to chill because they don't have anything better to do.

886
00:55:35,120 --> 00:55:37,120
Speaker 1: I mean if they did, if they had a life,

887
00:55:37,360 --> 00:55:40,320
Speaker 1: they wouldn't be messing with you and harassing you. Tish

888
00:55:40,480 --> 00:55:43,680
Speaker 1: thinks you've stolen her man, and she's got her girls

889
00:55:43,760 --> 00:55:46,520
Speaker 1: on board to help get you out of the way.

890
00:55:47,280 --> 00:55:50,319
Speaker 1: And what is with you and him anyway? I mean,

891
00:55:50,719 --> 00:55:53,000
Speaker 1: did he cheat on you? Like he's cheating on you

892
00:55:53,960 --> 00:55:57,200
Speaker 1: like he's cheating on Tish with you? Is that why

893
00:55:57,280 --> 00:55:59,879
Speaker 1: you guys broke up? I mean, do you still want

894
00:56:00,080 --> 00:56:02,880
Speaker 1: him or you guys trying to get back together? What

895
00:56:03,160 --> 00:56:05,160
Speaker 1: is going on? He's showing you off to his friends

896
00:56:05,200 --> 00:56:08,799
Speaker 1: and taking you on dates and stuff. Does he wants

897
00:56:08,800 --> 00:56:10,760
Speaker 1: you to stay at his house? I'm trying to figure

898
00:56:10,800 --> 00:56:13,560
Speaker 1: this out. What is going on with this relationship. It

899
00:56:13,640 --> 00:56:16,640
Speaker 1: sounds like you two get along outside of the great sex.

900
00:56:17,000 --> 00:56:19,759
Speaker 1: So what is it? Because it sure sounds like more

901
00:56:19,920 --> 00:56:22,600
Speaker 1: than just a sexual relationship here. I mean, we need

902
00:56:22,719 --> 00:56:26,440
Speaker 1: some answers. The problem is You've got to decide if

903
00:56:26,480 --> 00:56:29,200
Speaker 1: the great sex or the best sex ever as you say,

904
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Speaker 1: is worth all the drama with Tishan him because it

905
00:56:32,400 --> 00:56:35,040
Speaker 1: doesn't sound like Tishan the Golden Girls are gonna stop

906
00:56:35,120 --> 00:56:39,040
Speaker 1: harassing you anytime soon. So this is a decision you're

907
00:56:39,080 --> 00:56:41,680
Speaker 1: gonna have to make. Either go over there and stay

908
00:56:41,760 --> 00:56:44,560
Speaker 1: with him, or leave him and just be with your

909
00:56:44,640 --> 00:56:50,319
Speaker 1: daddy and mind your own business. Steve, Wow, you're thirty eight,

910
00:56:50,880 --> 00:56:53,000
Speaker 1: Move back to your hometown, take care of your daddy.

911
00:56:53,360 --> 00:56:56,239
Speaker 1: You got a son to say eighteen, leals with awe

912
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Speaker 1: daddy while he's there, and before you move back. Your

913
00:57:01,480 --> 00:57:03,759
Speaker 1: son's daddy was begging you to stay with him and

914
00:57:03,920 --> 00:57:06,840
Speaker 1: your son. I told him I'd rather stay with my

915
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Speaker 1: dad because my son told me that his dad has

916
00:57:09,719 --> 00:57:11,839
Speaker 1: a crazy girl friendsh She popped up at the house

917
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Speaker 1: all the time. I'm gonna tell you why. I was

918
00:57:15,480 --> 00:57:17,240
Speaker 1: expecting to have a lot of great sex with my

919
00:57:17,360 --> 00:57:19,560
Speaker 1: son's dad, because he's the best ever had a little

920
00:57:19,600 --> 00:57:21,600
Speaker 1: Did I know that the great sect would come with

921
00:57:21,800 --> 00:57:25,480
Speaker 1: so much unnecessary drama. So as soon as you got

922
00:57:25,560 --> 00:57:28,240
Speaker 1: back to town, your son's daddy wouldn't stop sweating you,

923
00:57:28,960 --> 00:57:32,320
Speaker 1: beg you out on dates, love, showing you off to

924
00:57:32,400 --> 00:57:36,760
Speaker 1: all the friends. And then in the process he forgot

925
00:57:36,920 --> 00:57:44,280
Speaker 1: he had a girl. I started getting harassed by older

926
00:57:44,440 --> 00:57:49,200
Speaker 1: lady named Tish. Now let's stop right here. First of all,

927
00:57:49,360 --> 00:57:53,560
Speaker 1: her name is not Tish. It's not no when you

928
00:57:53,640 --> 00:57:58,760
Speaker 1: are older woman, see like she's probably like overfitted. Yeah,

929
00:57:58,840 --> 00:58:03,200
Speaker 1: she's twenty years older. Now, Oh so she at least

930
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Speaker 1: fifty eight. God dog, Well, then her name is not Tish.

931
00:58:10,160 --> 00:58:13,040
Speaker 1: Nobody was named Tish back then. That was the nickname.

932
00:58:14,360 --> 00:58:21,440
Speaker 1: Her name to Sheena. Her name is to Sheina. So

933
00:58:21,640 --> 00:58:24,400
Speaker 1: let's get that straight right now. So already you have

934
00:58:24,600 --> 00:58:28,320
Speaker 1: a problem because you're dealing with somebody that was born

935
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Speaker 1: before nineteen seven. Oh, I can't tell you what come

936
00:58:35,920 --> 00:58:39,919
Speaker 1: with this. It's a lot come with this girl. She's

937
00:58:40,000 --> 00:58:43,680
Speaker 1: twenty years older than us. She follows around on town.

938
00:58:45,360 --> 00:58:49,040
Speaker 1: You know, it's too much happening nowadays. She got time

939
00:58:49,080 --> 00:58:56,440
Speaker 1: to follow you around. She retired, she's retired. She following

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00:58:56,480 --> 00:59:00,040
Speaker 1: you around, you in a love triangle. And then you

941
00:59:00,160 --> 00:59:02,280
Speaker 1: found out that she wasn't all that threatening you. You

942
00:59:02,360 --> 00:59:04,360
Speaker 1: were scared of it. Then she got an ask by

943
00:59:04,400 --> 00:59:07,960
Speaker 1: a cash down at the grocery store. That's another sign

944
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Speaker 1: that you old you're not fighting by coopons and everything.

945
00:59:12,800 --> 00:59:17,200
Speaker 1: She was. Why you fighting me the cash? Either you

946
00:59:17,440 --> 00:59:23,920
Speaker 1: got the money or you don't this some coopons, Or

947
00:59:24,120 --> 00:59:27,760
Speaker 1: she told you you had to put something back and

948
00:59:28,000 --> 00:59:32,080
Speaker 1: you felt like you didn't have to. Or she asked

949
00:59:32,120 --> 00:59:34,760
Speaker 1: for a price check and you said, I'm telling you

950
00:59:34,920 --> 00:59:37,480
Speaker 1: right now it's a dollar eighty. Well, we're gonna do

951
00:59:37,560 --> 00:59:40,320
Speaker 1: a price check. That's how you got in the fight

952
00:59:40,400 --> 00:59:43,720
Speaker 1: with the cash. He old she got these coopons that

953
00:59:43,800 --> 00:59:47,360
Speaker 1: y'all wouldn't give her that two somebody got to pay.

954
00:59:48,000 --> 00:59:50,080
Speaker 1: Well that first two of your response coming up at

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Speaker 1: twenty three minutes after um Today's Strawberry Letters, subject tweetled

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00:59:54,480 --> 00:59:57,280
Speaker 1: d he's with me. We'll get back into it right

957
00:59:57,320 --> 01:00:02,880
Speaker 1: after this. You're listening, all right, Come on, Steve Let's

958
01:00:02,920 --> 01:00:06,320
Speaker 1: recap today's Strawberry Letter. The subject is tweetlede. He's with

959
01:00:06,480 --> 01:00:09,200
Speaker 1: me thirty eight year old lady to mess around and

960
01:00:09,280 --> 01:00:12,920
Speaker 1: got involved with her ex that's the father of her child.

961
01:00:13,400 --> 01:00:15,480
Speaker 1: He move She moving back in town to help her

962
01:00:15,560 --> 01:00:18,120
Speaker 1: daddy out. He wanted her to move back in with them.

963
01:00:18,640 --> 01:00:21,320
Speaker 1: He's great sex, best she ever had. She was thinking

964
01:00:21,360 --> 01:00:23,720
Speaker 1: about it, but her son called at one time and said,

965
01:00:23,840 --> 01:00:26,720
Speaker 1: be careful. He got this crazy girlfriend to pop up

966
01:00:26,760 --> 01:00:29,600
Speaker 1: all time. That's cause she retired, so she ain't got

967
01:00:29,680 --> 01:00:32,000
Speaker 1: to be at work. You know, she go to bingo

968
01:00:32,200 --> 01:00:35,240
Speaker 1: night and then come over. You know she doing all this?

969
01:00:35,400 --> 01:00:38,080
Speaker 1: Is she old? She said in the letter. She twenty

970
01:00:38,160 --> 01:00:40,800
Speaker 1: years older than us. So the woman is fifty eight.

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01:00:42,480 --> 01:00:44,640
Speaker 1: And you say her name is Tish. I told you

972
01:00:44,760 --> 01:00:49,000
Speaker 1: that's not her name. If she's fifty eight, she was

973
01:00:49,120 --> 01:00:55,680
Speaker 1: born probably before nineteen seventy, would that be right? Yeah? Before? Yeah, So,

974
01:00:55,760 --> 01:01:01,280
Speaker 1: ain't nobody name Tish before? That's a nickname. Her name

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Speaker 1: is Toshina. Shout out to Tina Arnolds and to and

976
01:01:07,600 --> 01:01:12,360
Speaker 1: to shechinah is up your back now you now you

977
01:01:13,080 --> 01:01:16,120
Speaker 1: he's showing you off round town and everything. And he

978
01:01:16,200 --> 01:01:19,000
Speaker 1: didn't forgot he got this crazy girlfriend. She just started

979
01:01:19,080 --> 01:01:21,240
Speaker 1: running up on you, threatening you and everything. And then

980
01:01:21,280 --> 01:01:22,840
Speaker 1: you found out she got in the fight at the

981
01:01:22,880 --> 01:01:26,680
Speaker 1: grocery store and got her asshood who fights a cash

982
01:01:26,720 --> 01:01:31,120
Speaker 1: shill at a grocery store? Old people? And what did

983
01:01:31,200 --> 01:01:39,440
Speaker 1: you fight at the cash hill about coupon? Who still

984
01:01:40,240 --> 01:01:44,600
Speaker 1: cutting out coupon? She ain't got no app none of that.

985
01:01:45,520 --> 01:01:48,880
Speaker 1: She's sending hum in that newspaper collecting him coupon. And

986
01:01:49,040 --> 01:01:52,640
Speaker 1: they were fighting over some Uncle Ben's because Uncle Bean said,

987
01:01:52,680 --> 01:01:54,840
Speaker 1: if you buy one, you get one free. But her

988
01:01:54,920 --> 01:01:58,440
Speaker 1: coupon had expired, and she thought she well, she couldn't

989
01:01:58,440 --> 01:02:00,240
Speaker 1: get down here last week because she had to go

990
01:02:00,360 --> 01:02:02,840
Speaker 1: pick up her medicine. And you ought to understand that

991
01:02:03,240 --> 01:02:05,520
Speaker 1: and let her have this extra box of right, but

992
01:02:05,680 --> 01:02:09,440
Speaker 1: you didn't, So to ha swung on the ass, notw

993
01:02:09,520 --> 01:02:12,320
Speaker 1: a young girl what have it? And a young girl

994
01:02:12,400 --> 01:02:16,200
Speaker 1: beat the ass about that uncle bred. Right, So now

995
01:02:17,560 --> 01:02:20,960
Speaker 1: now you didn't start giving her the same mess she

996
01:02:21,120 --> 01:02:24,680
Speaker 1: giving you. So anyway, she didn't posted a picture you

997
01:02:24,800 --> 01:02:28,240
Speaker 1: and your son's daddy on Facebook and capture it, tweetle

998
01:02:28,400 --> 01:02:33,480
Speaker 1: d and tweetle dumb. Because everybody called me d, so,

999
01:02:33,680 --> 01:02:37,720
Speaker 1: I commented tweetle d he's with me and all that

1000
01:02:37,880 --> 01:02:41,120
Speaker 1: started a big mess. Now all of her old friends

1001
01:02:41,160 --> 01:02:43,680
Speaker 1: are attacking me on Facebook. And let me tell you something.

1002
01:02:43,680 --> 01:02:47,560
Speaker 1: You up against something because old people on Facebook, they

1003
01:02:47,560 --> 01:02:52,720
Speaker 1: ain't on Instagram, they ain't on TikTok. Old ass people

1004
01:02:52,880 --> 01:02:56,720
Speaker 1: is on Facebook. Now her old ass friends is attacking.

1005
01:02:57,560 --> 01:03:02,960
Speaker 1: So now Gerardine, an't you, Paul Letter, in't you Gwenn

1006
01:03:03,080 --> 01:03:12,400
Speaker 1: in't you? Clara, the whole gang, old lass names too, Barbara, Betty,

1007
01:03:14,240 --> 01:03:18,920
Speaker 1: Susan names don't nobody have no more? Nobody gives the

1008
01:03:19,120 --> 01:03:28,600
Speaker 1: girl let Yeah, yeah, so you know all these names

1009
01:03:28,720 --> 01:03:32,840
Speaker 1: right here. So now you didn't got into this old world,

1010
01:03:32,880 --> 01:03:35,480
Speaker 1: but it's real simple to get out of. You say,

1011
01:03:35,560 --> 01:03:38,800
Speaker 1: great sex with my ex started a big mess and

1012
01:03:38,960 --> 01:03:46,680
Speaker 1: tishing it with Tish Niel. Let's see, that's that's Tessina, Giordane,

1013
01:03:48,480 --> 01:03:57,600
Speaker 1: Paul Letter, Gwen and Clara, Clara fo nobody naming their

1014
01:03:57,680 --> 01:04:02,760
Speaker 1: baby clart, no girl, no body. They're sitting around. They

1015
01:04:03,200 --> 01:04:08,280
Speaker 1: they're going to bingo night. They they in a quick contest.

1016
01:04:11,080 --> 01:04:16,920
Speaker 1: They down there participant in participating in bakeoffs. They're doing. Uh,

1017
01:04:17,080 --> 01:04:21,360
Speaker 1: let me see what else they're doing. Oh they play cards, Yeah,

1018
01:04:22,880 --> 01:04:25,480
Speaker 1: but they play cards. Now they play pinockle. You you

1019
01:04:25,680 --> 01:04:29,680
Speaker 1: don't hardly nobody know how to play Pinockley. They playing

1020
01:04:29,760 --> 01:04:33,920
Speaker 1: Pinockle and tunk. You got to be hood to play tune.

1021
01:04:35,720 --> 01:04:38,040
Speaker 1: So now you up against that? How do I get

1022
01:04:38,120 --> 01:04:43,360
Speaker 1: these older ladies to chill? First of all, ignore them

1023
01:04:43,560 --> 01:04:49,480
Speaker 1: on Facebook? There is no back and forth if you

1024
01:04:49,560 --> 01:04:53,760
Speaker 1: don't go back. See fourth get old when you ain't

1025
01:04:53,760 --> 01:04:56,800
Speaker 1: nobody talking back to the problem y'all had. And I

1026
01:04:56,880 --> 01:05:00,080
Speaker 1: had to teach this to my son one time. He

1027
01:05:00,200 --> 01:05:03,320
Speaker 1: was being attacked online and I said, bro, you keep typing.

1028
01:05:03,640 --> 01:05:09,880
Speaker 1: Stop typing, m stop typing. Back and forth ends when

1029
01:05:09,920 --> 01:05:14,800
Speaker 1: it ain't no back. So fourth, fourth ain't nothing that's

1030
01:05:14,840 --> 01:05:18,240
Speaker 1: gonna get old at the while. So Jesse ignored him

1031
01:05:18,320 --> 01:05:23,840
Speaker 1: on Facebook. Don't say nothing else and just let it go.

1032
01:05:25,360 --> 01:05:28,400
Speaker 1: Now know this, and I know this gonna sound ugly,

1033
01:05:28,440 --> 01:05:30,080
Speaker 1: but I'm gonna just have to tell you the truth.

1034
01:05:31,560 --> 01:05:37,800
Speaker 1: If you just be patient, yeah, wait them out, they're

1035
01:05:37,840 --> 01:05:41,880
Speaker 1: gonna start dying. No, just tell you that, just telling you,

1036
01:05:42,480 --> 01:05:44,680
Speaker 1: I'm just telling you. I don't know who you are.

1037
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Speaker 1: I don't know who that. I don't know who Paul

1038
01:05:46,120 --> 01:05:48,400
Speaker 1: let a goin neilm Is. But if you just wait

1039
01:05:48,480 --> 01:05:54,400
Speaker 1: them out, they're gonna start dying. Blanch ro Sophia blanch

1040
01:05:54,480 --> 01:06:00,360
Speaker 1: because hally nobody ain't blanch no ever. But your lunch

1041
01:06:01,920 --> 01:06:04,840
Speaker 1: rock sand don't worry about it all right? Post your

1042
01:06:04,880 --> 01:06:10,480
Speaker 1: comments on today. See Barry FM on Instagram and Facebook.

1043
01:06:10,840 --> 01:06:14,000
Speaker 1: Please check out the Strawberry Letter podcast on demand now

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Speaker 1: coming up at forty six minutes after the hour, we'll

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Speaker 1: talk about sports. We'll do sports talk right after this.

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Speaker 1: You're listening to Steve Harvey Morning Show. Well, the NBA

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Speaker 1: All Star Game is this weekend in Salt Lake City,

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Speaker 1: including the three point Contest and slam dunk Contest. Here's

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Speaker 1: a question for you, Stephen Tommy, in your opinion, and

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Speaker 1: I know you have an opinion on this. In your opinion,

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Speaker 1: who were some of the best slam dunkers in the

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Speaker 1: league and how do you rank them? Let's go by rankings.

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Speaker 1: How do you rank these guys? First one out the

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Speaker 1: gate ranked number one? For you feel spud Wheel, They're

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Speaker 1: just hands down, hands down, he jumping high. Anybody out

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Speaker 1: there short by far By Okay, I ain't buy Okay,

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Speaker 1: that's first numb number one for me is Vince Carter. Yes,

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Speaker 1: I just can't Vince Carter man with Jesse. Okay, well

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Speaker 1: you got next to Tommy. Come on, Oh it's gonna

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Speaker 1: be Nate. Y'all know Nate, don't you? Nate Robinson? Come on,

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Speaker 1: Nate Robinson. These are people that's jumping higher than anybody.

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Speaker 1: I'm just saying, all right, come on, come on. Who

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Speaker 1: you got Steve the human Highlight, Real Dominique Wilkins, who, yes,

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Speaker 1: all right, let me go the one that's got the

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Speaker 1: most babies ever, Sean Kilp. That boy right there though

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Speaker 1: he wasn't short, he wasn't short, but that boy that

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Speaker 1: he could dunk out this world. I don't know this

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Speaker 1: guy's name. I think it's Levine Za Zack Levine. Yeah,

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Speaker 1: this is boy. He he he did the coldest dunk

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Speaker 1: I've ever seen when he jumped over that mascot in

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Speaker 1: the seated position, took the ball out of his hands

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Speaker 1: under his butt, and then boded around and dunk it. Doc.

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Speaker 1: Do you know how high this boy was sitting in

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Speaker 1: the air? That high? Okay, you gotta put MJ in

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Speaker 1: there because I mean, I mean it from what was

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Speaker 1: it from the free throw line? Up from the free throw. Yeah,

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Speaker 1: you know they didn't done that now, but you know,

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Speaker 1: Michael Jordan is the best but back then the best

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Speaker 1: end game in the game in okay, in the actual

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Speaker 1: playing the game, not the contest. Is that what you're saying,

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Speaker 1: Eric Jordan? Now covid and put down some nasty stuff too. Yeah, yeah,

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Speaker 1: Cobe Coby put some stuff down on them, you know,

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Speaker 1: But that's I mean, I'm pretty sure I'm missing a

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Speaker 1: whole bunch of people, but the doctor, you know, sir. Yeah,

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Speaker 1: I'm old school, so I'm missing one though, Mugs Bows.

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Speaker 1: What all right? Coming up at the top of the hour,

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Speaker 1: some social media advice. This person wants to know how

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Speaker 1: do I tell my parents I'm not going to their college.

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Speaker 1: We'll talk about it right after this. You're listening to

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Speaker 1: Morning show, all right. Steve Samantha on Facebook says, all

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Speaker 1: my life, I've been groomed to go to college that

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Speaker 1: my parents went to. We go to all the games,

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Speaker 1: and nearly everyone in my family went there, including my

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Speaker 1: older siblings. I've always assumed I would go there, but

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Speaker 1: I applied to several schools anyway, just in case I

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Speaker 1: didn't get in, And now I want to go to

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Speaker 1: one of the other schools where I was accepted. I

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Speaker 1: know it's going to be a disappointment to everyone in

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Speaker 1: my family that I'm not going to the same school

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Speaker 1: they all went to, but I think the Southern school

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Speaker 1: would be a better fit for me personally. So Uncle Steve,

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Speaker 1: how do I break the news to my parents? And

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Speaker 1: did you deal with this with your kids about your college? Absolutely? Absolutely,

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Speaker 1: you dealt with it. I wanted to go somewhere, and

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Speaker 1: they told me they wanted to go somewhere, So I said, fine,

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Speaker 1: you know your life. You know you can go to

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Speaker 1: that school if you want to. I'm paying for mohau. Oh,

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Speaker 1: you tell your sons that obviously they didn't take your

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Speaker 1: ass where you want to Mohause, Well why can't they

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Speaker 1: pick school though? Dog? Why can't well you know what

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Speaker 1: I mean, why your daughter got to go you little

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Speaker 1: ragget ass school. You know, I ain't you the first

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Speaker 1: first black ass person to come out with a damn

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Speaker 1: DAS degree? Sound like okay, and that's something wrong with

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Speaker 1: that man right now? Oh? Oh, we little tight about

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Speaker 1: the little jokes about this little school like you bought it. Sorry,

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Speaker 1: you know, you know your baby is getting straight here.

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Speaker 1: I ain't say nothing about that. I just said, okay,

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Speaker 1: can we help the lad because this ain't proud. It's

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Speaker 1: about timing clearly, okay. So what is the question she

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Speaker 1: wants she wants to know? Is it okay? Okay? How

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Speaker 1: does she break the news to her parents? Parents should

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Speaker 1: be open to let you. I wish I had let

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Speaker 1: my sons go where they wanted to go. Why Why

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Speaker 1: do you feel differently now? You know? Maybe they ain't

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Speaker 1: have been better? You know, I thought it was good

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Speaker 1: teach them a lot more. They learned a lot down

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Speaker 1: there at the house. That's a great institution. But you know,

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Speaker 1: you know, you can't can't guy them where you want

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Speaker 1: him to go, you know. Then then after that, after that,

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Speaker 1: I let everybody go wherever they want to go. Then

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Speaker 1: that ain't work out either with them boys, So matter

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Speaker 1: I couldn't get mad. Hell, y'all ain't doing good at school.

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Speaker 1: Just don't say the word raggedy. Okay, Okay, Oh you're

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Speaker 1: gonna put some salt on it. Go ahead, I'm putting

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Speaker 1: salt on it. Military everything. You got another one? Yeah,

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Speaker 1: A couple of days ago. This is from Andrea a

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Speaker 1: couple of days ago. I was running late coming home

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Speaker 1: from work. When I got home, I apologized to my

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Speaker 1: boyfriend for being late. He said not to worry about it,

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Speaker 1: and that he knew where I was the whole time.

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Speaker 1: I asked him how, and he showed me the app

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Speaker 1: on my phone that he uses to track me. It

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Speaker 1: kind of freaked me out for a minute, but he

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Speaker 1: also showed me how I can use the same app

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Speaker 1: to find out where he is any time. My boyfriend

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Speaker 1: handles all the tech stuff around the house, and I

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Speaker 1: actually prefer that. But now I don't know if I

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Speaker 1: should be mad at him about tracking me without asking

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Speaker 1: my permission? Am I blowing this out of proportion? Or

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Speaker 1: is it legit that I should be concerned and see

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Speaker 1: this as controlling behavior. It's not controlling behavior. It's called concerned.

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Speaker 1: It's called concerned. You know, women sometimes you know, ladies

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Speaker 1: not understand. You know. You might might have been cool

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Speaker 1: if he'd told you about it. Yes, yeah, but I

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Speaker 1: don't think it's nothing about control. It could be concerned.

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Speaker 1: You know. It's okay, I knew where you was, man,

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Speaker 1: but didn't guess what. You got it on your phone

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Speaker 1: where you can track him? Now if you couldn't track him,

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Speaker 1: but he could track you. You got a problem, But

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Speaker 1: he said, baby, this is where I am all the time,

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Speaker 1: because things happen in this world. Now you can track

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Speaker 1: where a person and you can track where you left

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Speaker 1: your phone. Now, Yeah, so I wouldn't. I wouldn't make

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Speaker 1: that bigger deal out of it because he showed you

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Speaker 1: that you can track him too. Okay, that ain't that

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Speaker 1: big of a deal to me. I think she just

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Speaker 1: wanted to be. But you're gonna get some bigger stuff

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Speaker 1: come down your way, because somebody gonna tell you one

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Speaker 1: day you got raggedy ass phone, and then you're gonna

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Speaker 1: have to deal with day coming up with twenty minutes

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Speaker 1: after the hour, we'll have more of the Steve Harvey

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Speaker 1: Morning Show right after this. You're listening Steve Harvey Morning Show.

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Speaker 1: All right, listen. Word of advice, don't mess with Iced

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Speaker 1: Tea's wife, Coco. Okay, Iced Tea does not play when

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Speaker 1: it comes to Coco. A social media troll recently tweeted

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Speaker 1: that Coco had addressed that was too small for her

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Speaker 1: voluptuous figure at the Grammys. The troll's name is Maureene,

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Speaker 1: and she compared singer Adele to Coco. Marine tweeted the

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Speaker 1: back when singer Back when singer Adele was heavier, she

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Speaker 1: was classy and didn't have to be in dresses three

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Speaker 1: sizes too small. Iced Tea's response, Marine, when was the

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Speaker 1: last time you had some? You know what? That's the

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Speaker 1: problem lol. Iced Tea went on to tweet. We never attack,

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Speaker 1: but we retaliate. Keeping it as real as possible was

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Speaker 1: always a goal for me. Leave that man alone. This

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Speaker 1: this man's wife, they got some real they've been together

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Speaker 1: a long time. But see some of that people always

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Speaker 1: commenting on somebody else. No, let her live her life now.

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Speaker 1: If you got a problem with the problem, because you

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Speaker 1: can't wear what you want to wear yourself all the

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Speaker 1: time about people. I know why she got that on,

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Speaker 1: Why she went on him? Where about that? I Tea

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Speaker 1: got one more left in him now, don't run up

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Speaker 1: on him like you said before. Most grown ass men

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Speaker 1: got a good one in him. I'm just telling you, man,

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Speaker 1: I read somewhere it's best to let an old man

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Speaker 1: have his bourbon and his cigars and just leave him alone.

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Speaker 1: He ball than you. I ain't got but one guilt

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Speaker 1: when your ass I'm no lay around would you rather,

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Speaker 1: Right after you're listening, it is time for a round.

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Speaker 1: If would you rather? Would you rather never be able

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Speaker 1: to lie again? Be Steve? Or never be able to

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01:16:26,280 --> 01:16:32,400
Speaker 1: smile again? Oh? M, gott a smile for your work?

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Speaker 1: Now you all laugh all the time? Never be able

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Speaker 1: to lie? Laugh the good for the soul. Look at him,

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Speaker 1: he's so so torn? Which one is? It's Steve? Laugh

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Speaker 1: for a lie? Which one? What about? You? Tell me

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Speaker 1: why he's deciding? I gotta laugh? I got okay, I

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Speaker 1: gotta tell you so you'll never lie again, So you'll

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Speaker 1: tell the truth all the time, all the time, and

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Speaker 1: laughing every time I want to lie? Laugh, I tell

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Speaker 1: you right now, if I have to stop lying? Do

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Speaker 1: you notice sadness that's gonna be into my life? Do

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Speaker 1: you know the misery that's coming my way? If I

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Speaker 1: got to tell the truth all the damn time, I

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Speaker 1: probably ain't gonna smile no more? Know how? So? Hey man,

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Speaker 1: what's wrong with you? Told her the truth? What is

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Speaker 1: wrong with the truth? All right? Would you rather always

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Speaker 1: say whatever you're thinking? Or never be able to speak again?

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Speaker 1: We are that the Would you rather always say whatever

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Speaker 1: you're thinking or never be able to speak again. Oh no,

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Speaker 1: you come on, get it right between nine. Yeah, I

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Speaker 1: said what I said firing off. Well, I told y'all

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Speaker 1: how important line was. But you want that it is

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Speaker 1: right face? Would you rather be huh? Would you say, Tommy?

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Speaker 1: I wouldn't. I said dead in the face. I'm telling

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Speaker 1: you would. Y'all your relationship with crumble that they over?

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Speaker 1: M hmm, Yeah, I don't told Passta some stuff. I

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Speaker 1: didn't just say it everything the past. Yeah yeah. Would

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Speaker 1: you rather be stuck on an island with your partner

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Speaker 1: for a year but without any food, or without your

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Speaker 1: partner with enough food to survive for a year? Oh yeah, yeah,

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Speaker 1: Hey baby, baby, I'll see you next summer. Done together? Fulk,

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Speaker 1: Hey baby, I'll see you next summer. Eat up, enjoy

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Speaker 1: your life. Remember me, ain't got nothing for you. We're

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Speaker 1: gonna make it. I'm looking at her like a piece

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Speaker 1: of hamburger. Mean yeah, all right, you guys coming on show,

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Speaker 1: but without crying. No. Forty nine minutes after the hour,

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Speaker 1: last break of the day and some closing from the

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Speaker 1: one and only Steve Harvey. Right after this, you're listening

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Speaker 1: to show. Here we are our last break of the

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Speaker 1: day on this Thursday, it's been a good day. It's

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Speaker 1: been a good day. Yeah, every day it's a good day. Yeah.

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Speaker 1: A man, when you get to Thursday, it's it's it's

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Speaker 1: it's a home scratch around. We go mad. I'm not

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Speaker 1: mad at Thursday and Friday. No, tell me doesn't like Fridays.

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Speaker 1: They'll remember because they're too when you right back in,

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Speaker 1: you know what I mean? You just seem like it's

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Speaker 1: but tell me you did you did want to ask

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Speaker 1: Steve a question before you get out of here? Yeah, so, uncle,

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Speaker 1: because I talked to a lot of people in the

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Speaker 1: entertainment business, you know that. It's oh yeah, I'm sorry, Yeah,

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Speaker 1: I said, just sound like this gonna be my closest

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Speaker 1: marks for less might be might be? So tell me this,

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Speaker 1: un But those are those stars that are coming up

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Speaker 1: of people that want to be stars? And and what

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Speaker 1: does it take to keep your light on? How much

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Speaker 1: work did you have to put in to keep your

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Speaker 1: light on as a star. I think a lot of

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Speaker 1: people don't realize once once you are considered a star,

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Speaker 1: and now you're trying to keep the light on. Now

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Speaker 1: you're trying to continue to keep your star as bright

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Speaker 1: as possible. What does it take. You've been a star

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Speaker 1: for a long time, your star being bright for a

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Speaker 1: long time. I don't know one time where it's gotten

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Speaker 1: dim on. You probably know more than I do. When

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Speaker 1: you're star got a little dim a little brighter. Right

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Speaker 1: now it's shining bright as all get out. What what? What?

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Speaker 1: What can you tell entertainers or people that want to

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Speaker 1: be entertainers about keeping that star bright or even being

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Speaker 1: a star period? All right, let me explain it to

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Speaker 1: you this way. First of all, stardom everybody to seek

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Speaker 1: and fame and start them. It's not up to you.

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Speaker 1: You can wish for it, you can hope for it,

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Speaker 1: you can put it on your vision board, you can

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Speaker 1: dream about it. You can you can you can, you

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Speaker 1: can try to map it out. A person becoming a

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Speaker 1: star is not up to you. That is completely up

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Speaker 1: to the masses. The public decides who becomes stars and

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Speaker 1: who doesn't. And the only way to become a star

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Speaker 1: is by the grace of God. It is the only way.

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Speaker 1: It is the only way. There is no what' on

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Speaker 1: how to become a star. There is no there is

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Speaker 1: no course on how to become a star. You can

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Speaker 1: get all the likes you won't you can get all

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Speaker 1: the views and it clicks, you won't. That does not

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Speaker 1: make you a star. That those instant views you're getting

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Speaker 1: in clicks is that one time, that one time you

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Speaker 1: you are flashing the pan. That's not what stardom is, man,

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Speaker 1: And so many people are after it nowadays, thinking that

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Speaker 1: they can get it through clicks and views. That ain't

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Speaker 1: gonna make you no star. It's the masses that make

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Speaker 1: you a star over continuous period of time, and that

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Speaker 1: ain't up to you. That can only happen by God's

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Speaker 1: grace and favor. It ain't a person in here that

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Speaker 1: can tell you how to be a star. That person

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Speaker 1: don't exist. Who are there? You know much money you

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Speaker 1: can make if you could make people stars? Come on, man,

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Speaker 1: that's not how it works. Now. If you are fortunate

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Speaker 1: enough that that is your dream and it comes true,

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Speaker 1: Lord have mercy. I cannot tell you how daunting over

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Speaker 1: a task that is, because in all your endeavors and

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Speaker 1: all your trials and tribulations you got to overcome to

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Speaker 1: try to make it to that point of a star

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Speaker 1: who had millions of people know your name on site.

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Speaker 1: See you you can stop all this star? Oh I

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Speaker 1: thought that was I thought, that's all. I ain't show

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Speaker 1: no no long when they say your name, when they

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Speaker 1: see you millions of people and you've arrived at that point.

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Speaker 1: I can't tell you how long it will take you

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Speaker 1: to get that, and I can't tell you how daunting

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Speaker 1: it is, because every path is different. But once you

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Speaker 1: get that, let me tell you something. The work has

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Speaker 1: just begun. If you think it's hard to make it,

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Speaker 1: let me tell you how difficult it is to maintain.

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Speaker 1: Because now now hold up, see listen to me. I'm

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Speaker 1: gonna tell you a real quick story what happened to

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Speaker 1: me when I first became a millionaire. I became a

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Speaker 1: millionaire one day and my manager, Wan Hull, came up

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Speaker 1: to me and saying, hey, man, we're gonna go out

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Speaker 1: and celebrate. I said, celebrate for one. He said, dog,

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Speaker 1: you're a millionnaire. You've made a million dollars. You got

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Speaker 1: a million dollars. Man had that countant and said, here

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Speaker 1: it is. You got a million dollars. I said, cool,

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Speaker 1: I had one million, like just over the million mark,

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Speaker 1: one million, one thous. I took everybody out to dinner

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Speaker 1: that night. I spent three thousand dollars at dinner. The

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Speaker 1: next morning, my accountant called me laughing. He said, Man,

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Speaker 1: I hope you enjoyed a millionaire status. You had one million,

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Speaker 1: one thousand some dollars. You spend three thousand dollars on dinner.

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Speaker 1: You got nine hundred ninety eight thousand. You ain't a

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Speaker 1: millionaire no more. And that taught me a valuable lesson

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Speaker 1: that one day, because now that you become this star,

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Speaker 1: what you have to do to maintain it is far more,

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Speaker 1: far more difficult, because now you have to replicate what

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Speaker 1: you've done over and over and over and over and

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Speaker 1: over in a sustained period of time, over the course

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Speaker 1: of years to be able to hold onto your stardom. Man,

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Speaker 1: that's so hard, y'all. That is so hard. That is

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Speaker 1: so hard. It's like you trying to hold onto the

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Speaker 1: starting quarterback position for forty years. You know how many time, bradies,

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Speaker 1: it is out there. The average quarterback in the NFL

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Speaker 1: ain't gonna last that long, man, because somebody got your

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Speaker 1: position in mind. If you to manage it down at

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Speaker 1: the plan, if you're the CEO, if you're the top driver,

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Speaker 1: somebody gonna replace you as top salesman one day. Unless

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Speaker 1: you keep grinding hard or heart or harder, and you're

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Speaker 1: gonna get older. Man, thing's gonna change. You need some

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Speaker 1: more grace and some more mercy. You need God to maintain.

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Speaker 1: Let me tell you so here the truth. You need

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Speaker 1: God to get there, and you need Mo Good to

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Speaker 1: stay there. That's my closing remarks. That's what I'm gonna

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Speaker 1: tell you, buddy. You need God to get there and

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Speaker 1: you need Mo Good to stay there. You think I'm lying,

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Speaker 1: try Uncle Steve in the building. Y'all have a good

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