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Speaker 1: It's awkward.

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Speaker 2: It's Tuesday.

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Speaker 1: It's awkward Tuesday phone call.

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Speaker 3: We all see how jealous Brook gets whenever we talk

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Speaker 3: about Alexis and her dating life.

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Speaker 4: Jealous at all.

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Speaker 3: Yeah, you're a little too excited about it because Alexis

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Speaker 3: is living care free, multiple sports athletes across multiple continents,

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Speaker 3: upside down pineapples everywhere she goes.

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Speaker 2: I think that's a married people thing.

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Speaker 3: Actually, Brooks googled it earlier to that, because Brook knows

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Speaker 3: once you enter a monogamous relationship, according to her, you

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Speaker 1: Max of three partners at that point.

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Speaker 3: And that's such a bummer for Brook But the moment

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Speaker 3: check that number with my husband. The reason I bring

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Speaker 3: it up is one of our listeners recently gave up

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Speaker 3: the free swinging lifestyle because he says he finally.

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Speaker 2: For help.

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Speaker 1: You heard it, Alexis.

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Speaker 3: There is already an issue that has sprung up in

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Speaker 3: this new relationship.

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Speaker 1: Ryan, Welcome to the show.

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Speaker 4: Hey, how you guys doing?

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Speaker 5: What's good?

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Speaker 2: How are you doing?

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Speaker 4: Is? The question could be better? Hopefully you guys can

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Speaker 4: let me know what I'm supposed to be doing here.

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Speaker 4: I met a girl off Hinge a few months ago

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Speaker 4: and I think she's the one, but things are starting

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Speaker 2: Man, Alexis, are you okay? Are you hyperventilating when you

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Speaker 2: hear somebody say that? Okay?

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Speaker 1: So what's the girl's name?

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Speaker 4: Her name za za Za?

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Speaker 1: Okay.

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Speaker 4: Yes, she's an awesome, very funny, ambitious all I could

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Speaker 4: ever really want.

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Speaker 2: Cool. I mean, this all sounds great. Are you are

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Speaker 2: you with her? Are you dating her?

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Speaker 4: Yeah? Yeah, we I mean once we went out on

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Speaker 4: our second or third date, I knew it was time

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Speaker 4: to get rid of all the other girls I'm just

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Speaker 1: Little like at least like a backup plan.

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Speaker 2: Did you hear him? She moved in last week?

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Speaker 4: What?

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Speaker 3: Yeah, you can still have somebody in like the lower

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Speaker 1: That's so exciting.

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Speaker 6: Congratulations, Wow, thank you, thank you.

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Speaker 4: But the problem that I'm having is now that she's

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Speaker 4: living with me, she's like in my stuff, which, like

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Speaker 4: we all expect that to happen. It's her stuff too,

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Speaker 4: But she came across like an invoice for three hundred

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Speaker 4: dollars that I had laying around from a person in London.

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Speaker 1: I didn't want her to find one of those London escorts.

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Speaker 2: Why does this sound so sketched?

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Speaker 3: Yeah, I don't want to find Yeah, so wait, Zia

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Speaker 3: found this invoice to this guy in London.

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Speaker 1: What did you tell her?

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Speaker 4: I mean, I just I didn't want to lie to her.

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Speaker 4: So I basically just said, I don't want to tell you.

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Speaker 3: Okay, I've never even thought that you want to lie

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Speaker 1: Right, you think of a story. You never just say

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Speaker 1: I do not want to answer.

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Speaker 2: So it's not the issue. It's a response that's the problem.

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Speaker 1: It could be both. How did Zia react to that answer?

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Speaker 4: I mean, it's been a few days since that happened

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Speaker 4: and she's been very quiet.

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Speaker 3: Uh, well, you're holding something from her, Like what is

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Speaker 3: the secret?

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Speaker 1: Do we know?

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Speaker 7: Yeah?

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Speaker 4: I mean yeah, before I met her, for like a

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Speaker 2: I need that business model. I could totally.

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Speaker 3: Stop trying to jump back into the dating to god,

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Speaker 3: I give.

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Speaker 5: Three hundred bucks a month. Can you imagine like you

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Speaker 5: get ten clients, you're making three grand?

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Speaker 2: Oh my god.

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Speaker 7: Yeah, but the boy is.

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Speaker 2: Getting dates, not losing. You know what that's called in

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Speaker 2: this business? Security? Business security?

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Speaker 3: So hold on, can you clarify, Ryan, what does this

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Speaker 4: So basically he'll match up with women and message them

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Speaker 1: I was gonna say, get past to you at some.

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Speaker 2: Point, really funny.

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Speaker 4: So like sometimes we'll go on the date and like

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Speaker 4: I'll have to go back through messages to know exactly

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Speaker 1: Okay, wait, how long have you been doing this?

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Speaker 4: Like?

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Speaker 3: How many women have you met through this outsourced dater guy?

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Speaker 4: So I mean over the last year or so that

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Speaker 4: I've been using them, I'd say like seventy to eighty women.

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Speaker 2: Oh my, that's crazy, But it worked. I mean it

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Speaker 2: was money well invested. If you found the one.

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Speaker 5: You just don't want her to know because it'll come

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Speaker 5: off as I mean, it's not as a lie, Like yeah.

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Speaker 1: What are you afraid of if you told her the truth?

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Speaker 4: I don't I'm torn between telling the truth because like,

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Speaker 4: I don't know if she's going to be excited about

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Speaker 4: the first few weeks weren't mean.

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Speaker 2: It feels like I'd be like a Cafish.

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Speaker 3: Yeah, and even you backing away and not saying anything,

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Speaker 3: it feels like you're testing the trust.

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Speaker 5: I'd be mad, mad you're sketchy, mad mad.

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Speaker 2: Sketch, And I'd be like, is the British guy that's

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Speaker 3: You're on the fence now with whether or not to

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Speaker 3: tell her the truth here? What do you want from

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Speaker 4: I mean, I just kind of want to know what

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Speaker 4: you guys think would work better, like telling the truth

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Speaker 4: telling her a lie. I just know I need to

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Speaker 3: So we need to figure out in studio what your

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Speaker 3: best course of action is here. Do you call Zia

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Speaker 3: and tell her the truth that you hired a guy

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Speaker 3: some sort of lie for where that three hundred dollars

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Speaker 4: Yeah, I'm up for either one. Whatever you guys think

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Speaker 1: A blind trust. I love that.

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Speaker 3: Thank god I don't have to give advice on this one.

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Speaker 3: He's gonna be up to Brook and Jose when we

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Speaker 3: do your awkward Tuesday phone call to your girlfriend right

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Speaker 1: It's awkward.

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Speaker 2: It's Tuesday.

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Speaker 1: It's awkward Tuesday phone call.

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Speaker 3: You've heard of truth or Dare before, but today we're

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Speaker 3: playing truth or Lie because our hosts have been asked

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Speaker 3: to help one of our listeners, Ryan with a very

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Speaker 3: awkward situation that he's in. It's a new girlfriend who

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Speaker 3: just moved in after three months of dating, and she

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Speaker 3: she asked Ryan, what is this? His reply, I don't

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Speaker 1: Because the truth that.

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Speaker 3: We found out is Ryan hired a guy over in

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Speaker 3: London to take over his dating profile for a year,

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Speaker 3: matching with women, adding them up, arranging dates for Ryan.

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Speaker 1: Because he was a little bit too busy to do

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Speaker 3: Now his girlfriend doesn't know that, so it's on us

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Speaker 3: now to help him decide do we tell his girlfriend

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Speaker 1: Lie about what the invoice was really for? Jose, what's

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Speaker 1: your advice for.

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Speaker 3: Him, Well, you're obviously a horrible liar, so I think

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Speaker 3: we shouldn't make you lie. We should focus on the

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Speaker 3: and all fall into place.

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Speaker 5: That's not answering the question about what the invoice was about.

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Speaker 3: So I said, tell the truth.

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Speaker 1: So your advice is tell the truth?

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Speaker 2: Yes, oh, tell the truth, but focus on.

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Speaker 3: Her more Brook, Is your advice different than that you

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Speaker 2: No, I think we should go truth light is what

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Speaker 2: I'm gonna call it.

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Speaker 1: Truth is right, the diet truth?

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Speaker 3: Yeah?

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Speaker 5: Yeah, yeah, because nobody wants to find out that the

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Speaker 2: Yeah, right, Like that would feel so bad.

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Speaker 5: All you need to tell her is, oh my god,

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Speaker 5: I hired a personal matchmaker. I was embarrassed to tell you,

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Speaker 5: dirty details about the DMS, about the daty naps, all

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Speaker 5: of that out though, especially don't include the seventy to

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Speaker 1: Yeah, it could make you seem more high profile, But Ryan,

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Speaker 1: what do you think.

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Speaker 4: I do think? I'm just gonna go with the honest

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Speaker 4: good lying, okay.

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Speaker 3: And I do think there was something useful in what

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Speaker 3: jose said, Like the whole reason that you did this

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Speaker 3: wasn't to meet as many women as possible.

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Speaker 1: It was to help you find the.

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Speaker 2: One seventy to eighty women. It doesn't feel like that.

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Speaker 3: If you say it, well, book, it's gonna come out

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Speaker 3: that he met other women during this.

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Speaker 2: Well, I'm just saying we don't need to delve into numbers.

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Speaker 5: I'm just advising him to stay away from the details

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Speaker 5: that she really doesn't need to know.

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Speaker 1: That's a good point.

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Speaker 4: Yeah, I think I'll stay away from that until i'm

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Speaker 4: asked the number.

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Speaker 1: Very go there.

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Speaker 3: You thousands should be impressed, and the women always round

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Speaker 3: down their numbers.

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Speaker 2: I don't give numbers.

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Speaker 3: Because nobody can count that high. Here we go, Ryan,

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Speaker 3: we got your back in case you need it.

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Speaker 1: Good luck. I'm dialing your girlfriend's number right now. Here

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Speaker 1: we go.

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Speaker 4: Hello, Hey, babe, I'm calling from work. Just wanted to

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Speaker 4: check in with you. How's your dad going?

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Speaker 8: Uh?

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Speaker 4: Hi, how's your dad going?

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Speaker 7: It's okay, what's what's up?

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Speaker 4: I just needed to talk to you about what happened

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Speaker 4: the other night. Okay, uh, I know I said I

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Speaker 4: didn't want to tell you about the invoy. Yeah I remember, Yeah, yeah,

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Speaker 4: I was just embarrassed. And I know now that since

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Speaker 4: make sure that I'm upfront and honest with you about it.

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Speaker 7: Okay, Well this is like sounding kind of scary now

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Speaker 7: with all.

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Speaker 4: This build up. Yeah, yeah, I know, I'll tell you this.

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Speaker 4: In the last year, I've just been looking for the one,

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Speaker 4: and I believe that that one is definitely you.

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Speaker 7: Mm hmm.

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Speaker 4: But but you know how busy I am with both

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Speaker 4: of my companies. You know, yes, yes, I get it.

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Speaker 7: You're a busy guy, I know.

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Speaker 4: So that's why I hired someone from overseas to run

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Speaker 4: my dating apps for me.

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Speaker 7: Hold on, wait, what are you talking about?

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Speaker 4: You did what? What? What? So there's a guy in London.

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Speaker 4: So his job is to match with girls for me

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Speaker 4: and then have chats leading up to the date.

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Speaker 8: Oh, oh my god, Oh my god.

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Speaker 4: I'm just trying to be honest here with you.

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Speaker 8: Wait hold on, but wait, you said have chat. So

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Speaker 8: you and me talked for a long time before we

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Speaker 8: went out. It was like weeks.

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Speaker 4: Yeah, and I feel I feel bad about that because

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Speaker 4: it wasn't me.

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Speaker 8: Wait, are you hitting me? I cannot believe that you

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Speaker 8: didn't tell me this.

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Speaker 4: I know, I know, but look, I'm I'm you know,

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Speaker 4: so I.

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Speaker 8: Fell in love with a different guy.

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Speaker 4: No, no, no, that was my actual picture there and all

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Speaker 4: of my hobbies and everything. It's just as.

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Speaker 8: I know, it was your picture because I know what

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Speaker 8: you look like. Do you understand that I sent what

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Speaker 8: I thought was you an inappropriate picture?

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Speaker 4: You did?

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Speaker 5: Yes?

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Speaker 4: Oh, I never got that.

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Speaker 2: Of course he did.

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Speaker 5: What do you think the benefits of running other people's

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Speaker 5: daty profiles are? For?

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Speaker 7: God?

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Speaker 8: Excuse me?

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Speaker 5: What is this.

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Speaker 3: Another surprised Yeah, welcome to the radio show Brooke and

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Speaker 3: Jeffrey in the morning.

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Speaker 1: You're on with us for an awkward Tuesday phone call.

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Speaker 5: Your boyfriend is terrible at delivering bad sensitive news.

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Speaker 1: Okay, diet truth over there.

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Speaker 2: He's like saying it with a smile on his face.

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Speaker 3: They're on the phone here, and we're trying to be

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Speaker 3: helpful to Ryan in this situation because he felt very

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Speaker 3: uncomfortable with what happened when you found the invoice. He

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Speaker 3: wasn't sure whether or not he wanted to tell you

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Speaker 3: the truth.

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Speaker 2: Because he was buried. I mean, he loves you, he

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Speaker 2: really does.

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Speaker 8: He does, he does, right, But the guy I was

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Speaker 8: connecting with wasn't you. And that explains why on the

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Speaker 8: first date you seemed really confused when I was like

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Speaker 8: talking about things that we had talked about in depth.

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Speaker 4: Yeah, but that's in the past.

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Speaker 6: We're good now, right, But you didn't even take the

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Speaker 6: time to read through old d ms between the guy

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Speaker 6: you hired and heard so that you knew what you

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Speaker 6: were saying on a date.

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Speaker 4: Just to be fair and I mean fear to me.

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Speaker 4: I was going on a lot of dates, so d yeah, well.

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Speaker 8: On wait, you were going on a lot of dates.

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Speaker 8: Dude in London was chatting up all these women for you,

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Speaker 8: just being like.

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Speaker 4: You he me see you.

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Speaker 8: And yeah and he's got my picture for his thing.

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Speaker 1: Oh it's a compliment that he kept it, if anything.

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Speaker 3: So the park that we haven't mentioned is after he

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Speaker 3: met u Zia, Ryan got rid of the other guy,

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Speaker 3: completely broke contact with any other woman that he was

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Speaker 3: talking to because he was that Yes, that's what I

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Speaker 3: think we really need to focus on. No matter what

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Speaker 3: Brooks says, we don't want to focus on all the

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Speaker 3: other women that he was with.

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Speaker 5: I know, we don't want to focus on that.

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Speaker 9: Hold on I just there is a big piece here

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Speaker 9: and that I just need to understand. The invoice that

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Speaker 9: I saw was from a previous month, and you like,

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Speaker 9: that's done.

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Speaker 4: Yeah ever since? Yeah, as soon as I met you

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Speaker 4: and knew that it was over for everything else, I

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Speaker 4: canceled with that guy.

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Speaker 5: And yeah, you can tell by this conversation how good

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Speaker 5: he is it communicating, could you.

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Speaker 3: Yeah, if the guy didn't step in for him, you

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Speaker 3: probably never would have met each other, and that would

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Speaker 3: have been the big tragedy. And I look, we're running

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Speaker 3: out of time. I know this news alone is never

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Speaker 3: anything you expected. You probably need more time to process this.

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Speaker 3: But my suggestion is just hang out with Ryan a

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Speaker 3: little bit more and maybe down the road someday this

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Speaker 3: could end up being a really really funny story.

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Speaker 2: They together, Well, you don't have a choice.

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Speaker 3: Signs together, so at least hang out that you're still

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Speaker 3: early in the relationship, learn more about each.

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Speaker 7: Othereah, Okay, I'm not really sure how to respond to

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Speaker 7: all this, but yes, Ryan, you and I are going

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Speaker 7: to have a long chat well, we've forever to.

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Speaker 3: Talk, yes, and now you can retake that photo and

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Speaker 3: send it to Ryan directly.

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Speaker 2: I wouldn't suggest that.

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Speaker 3: Okay, send it to the back to the guy the

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Speaker 3: guy forward photo.

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Speaker 2: Now, now, who's the one that's been detrimental Death Station

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Speaker 2: Brooke and Jeffrey in the morning