WEBVTT - Second Date Update: Plant Me A Kiss 0:00:00.360 --> 0:00:02.280 Hey, welcome to the Second Date Podcast. Thank you so 0:00:02.360 --> 0:00:04.240 much for being here. And we don't normally do this, 0:00:04.400 --> 0:00:07.280 but you are really special to us. So Jose is 0:00:07.320 --> 0:00:09.119 going to give out his personal phone number right now. 0:00:09.200 --> 0:00:11.520 Yeah, okay if you need to call him. 0:00:11.360 --> 0:00:13.680 So text seven eight, five nine two. 0:00:13.840 --> 0:00:15.600 Okay, show's text board. 0:00:15.760 --> 0:00:17.520 If you're lonely, you can text us. I'm on it 0:00:17.560 --> 0:00:18.080 all night long. 0:00:18.120 --> 0:00:23.040 Okay, so you're on it more than your own phone texting. Basically, 0:00:23.200 --> 0:00:24.600 I mean it's a better way to reach him. That's 0:00:24.600 --> 0:00:26.120 all we're saying. And don't forget. 0:00:26.200 --> 0:00:28.760 We've got forty five more minutes, a full show, an 0:00:28.800 --> 0:00:31.000 hour long. Oh my god, can you take that much? 0:00:31.080 --> 0:00:33.479 If you want it, go for it. It's over at 0:00:33.479 --> 0:00:35.919 the Brook and Jeffrey Main podcast feed. But right now 0:00:36.000 --> 0:00:38.240 we're all about the Second Date, so let's get it started. 0:00:39.360 --> 0:00:44.360 Second Date Update. We are in the month of Love 0:00:44.600 --> 0:00:49.199 right now, and because of that, today we're going to 0:00:49.280 --> 0:00:55.000 do this entire Second Date Update in the language of love. French, 0:00:55.240 --> 0:00:59.400 what Jose, take it away. 0:00:58.160 --> 0:01:00.600 Already, Welcome, I'll Second Date as. 0:01:02.680 --> 0:01:03.040 English. 0:01:04.440 --> 0:01:05.240 Second Day. 0:01:05.920 --> 0:01:08.760 I know how a French accent could be unsexy. You 0:01:08.840 --> 0:01:09.399 made it happen. 0:01:11.120 --> 0:01:13.760 Jo we're trying not to scare all of the women 0:01:13.840 --> 0:01:16.000 off from listening to this show, just a couple of 0:01:16.040 --> 0:01:16.920 the unwanted ones. 0:01:17.120 --> 0:01:17.959 So sorry, lady. 0:01:18.000 --> 0:01:19.279 You know what, maybe we. 0:01:19.240 --> 0:01:22.600 Just stick to American style English for this when we 0:01:22.600 --> 0:01:25.880 talk to our listener Cassie today, Cassie, I'm sorry. Are 0:01:25.880 --> 0:01:27.240 you okay if we do this in English? 0:01:27.400 --> 0:01:27.840 Gussie? 0:01:28.880 --> 0:01:30.800 I was, I was loving the French. But you know what, 0:01:31.360 --> 0:01:31.800 it's okay. 0:01:32.520 --> 0:01:36.960 You're gonna already, she started out of the gate line. 0:01:37.240 --> 0:01:38.960 Just for the record, if you have any other language 0:01:38.959 --> 0:01:40.920 requests or like, do you want me to do, just 0:01:40.920 --> 0:01:41.440 holler at me. 0:01:41.680 --> 0:01:43.760 Seriously, keep talking like that. You're not going to be 0:01:43.760 --> 0:01:46.480 single for long. So tell us about this guy that 0:01:46.560 --> 0:01:48.200 you went out with recently. What's his name? 0:01:48.760 --> 0:01:53.080 Yeah, his name is Derek. How'd you guys meet online? 0:01:53.280 --> 0:01:56.120 And their first day? We went to a super upstille 0:01:56.120 --> 0:01:59.200 mall here in this area. We've got like I would say, 0:01:59.280 --> 0:02:01.560 stancy mom. It's because like it's spread out. 0:02:02.000 --> 0:02:03.800 I don't have to tell us about upscale malls. 0:02:03.880 --> 0:02:04.840 Yeah, we got there. 0:02:05.120 --> 0:02:07.720 Explain nowadays it's like being on Amazon, but I. 0:02:07.720 --> 0:02:10.640 Are, yeah, the stores. 0:02:10.639 --> 0:02:14.640 That's okay, And that sounds like a nice yeah, it 0:02:14.639 --> 0:02:17.000 could be fun, something something to do, things to look 0:02:17.040 --> 0:02:17.320 at and. 0:02:17.280 --> 0:02:19.640 Talk about, like shop, you can drink. 0:02:20.480 --> 0:02:23.120 It's like in public, so if it gets weird, you're 0:02:23.160 --> 0:02:24.040 not alone. 0:02:24.040 --> 0:02:26.960 Right yeah, safety sure. 0:02:27.320 --> 0:02:27.560 Yeah. 0:02:27.639 --> 0:02:29.960 So what was it like when you very first met Derek? 0:02:30.360 --> 0:02:32.120 So honestly, I felt like we hit it off, like 0:02:32.240 --> 0:02:36.160 right off, that there was chemistry there. We walked around 0:02:36.760 --> 0:02:38.720 just like looking at stuff, and we ended up going 0:02:38.760 --> 0:02:41.919 to like a nursery, not like the baby like the 0:02:42.000 --> 0:02:44.120 kind of plants plant nursery. 0:02:44.320 --> 0:02:46.480 It was like, Okay, sounds like a perfect date to me. 0:02:46.520 --> 0:02:49.200 But they don't. They don't have stores where they sell 0:02:49.280 --> 0:02:50.280 babies Jose. 0:02:50.120 --> 0:02:52.960 At the mall, even a baby watching day. 0:02:53.080 --> 0:02:55.600 I know, we just got a brilliant business idea to 0:02:56.360 --> 0:02:59.120 sponsored by Brook and Jeffrey in the morning window. 0:02:59.360 --> 0:03:01.040 You better work on your return policy. 0:03:01.080 --> 0:03:03.120 I'm going, you know, we got the discount band over 0:03:03.160 --> 0:03:07.000 here for too long. We have the whole business plan ready. 0:03:07.000 --> 0:03:09.959 But sorry, okay, I mean cute plant shops are so 0:03:10.160 --> 0:03:11.000 fun right now. 0:03:12.360 --> 0:03:14.720 I'm not like a super big plant person, but I 0:03:14.800 --> 0:03:17.280 really loved looking at all the stuff they had, Like 0:03:17.280 --> 0:03:19.040 I'm into it. He was a little bit more into 0:03:19.080 --> 0:03:21.720 it than me, but I was really feeling it. Yeah, 0:03:22.160 --> 0:03:25.480 because traditionally, like I haven't really been a plant person, 0:03:25.520 --> 0:03:26.880 but I had it. I had a lot of fun, 0:03:27.000 --> 0:03:27.720 so sweet. 0:03:28.040 --> 0:03:30.760 So he was knowledgeable. He obviously has plans. 0:03:31.040 --> 0:03:32.640 Yeah, and he was like, you know what I think 0:03:32.639 --> 0:03:34.880 we should do. I think we should pick out a 0:03:34.920 --> 0:03:35.720 plant for each other. 0:03:35.920 --> 0:03:38.760 Oh that's cute, and it's kind. 0:03:38.600 --> 0:03:41.240 Of forward thinking, like it's like he wants to see 0:03:41.240 --> 0:03:43.400 if you could keep it alive, you know what I mean. 0:03:43.480 --> 0:03:46.360 Yeah. I think it's like when you have some like 0:03:46.360 --> 0:03:47.880 picking up for you because it's like, Okay, what do 0:03:47.880 --> 0:03:49.640 you really think of me? Let's see what you pick 0:03:49.680 --> 0:03:51.680 out based off what you think my personality is. 0:03:52.320 --> 0:03:54.280 That's why you make someone plant a tree that's more 0:03:54.280 --> 0:03:55.360 of a commitment. 0:03:54.920 --> 0:03:58.880 Than y Yeah, okay, that's an interesting idea. 0:03:59.080 --> 0:04:01.000 I like it. What did you picked out for him? 0:04:01.360 --> 0:04:03.440 So the one I picked was super cute. It was 0:04:03.480 --> 0:04:11.480 like very whimsical. It was called a figety fig. 0:04:10.360 --> 0:04:12.680 Better than a venus fly trap or something, you know. 0:04:12.640 --> 0:04:15.400 Right, Okay, So that's like literally what I'm getting to 0:04:15.480 --> 0:04:19.760 because what he picked for me was a freaking snake. 0:04:19.520 --> 0:04:23.320 Plant snake flip snake. But average they live a long 0:04:23.360 --> 0:04:25.520 time though hard to kill. They are very hard to kill. 0:04:25.560 --> 0:04:28.080 They're sturdy, they're a good first plant for people. You 0:04:28.200 --> 0:04:30.120 don't have the first plant. 0:04:30.920 --> 0:04:33.320 So he obviously doesn't trust that you're able to maintain it, 0:04:33.360 --> 0:04:35.400 which is why he bought you a super easy plant. 0:04:35.920 --> 0:04:38.159 I didn't really think about it that way, honestly. I 0:04:38.200 --> 0:04:40.080 was like, should I be Offendedis. 0:04:39.800 --> 0:04:41.760 Because of the snake title? Is that why? 0:04:41.960 --> 0:04:42.359 Yes? 0:04:42.920 --> 0:04:44.560 I was just like surprised, you know what I mean, 0:04:44.560 --> 0:04:46.760 because like the one I picked for him was flirty, 0:04:46.960 --> 0:04:47.600 cute or whatever. 0:04:47.880 --> 0:04:49.719 So how did you tell him that you didn't like 0:04:49.800 --> 0:04:51.279 the plant that he bought. 0:04:51.440 --> 0:04:53.120 I kind of just made a joke of it, because 0:04:53.120 --> 0:04:55.840 it's like he's still buying me something, right, So I'm 0:04:55.960 --> 0:04:56.839 not going to be a jerk. 0:04:58.480 --> 0:05:00.800 You could be a jerk just saying that's always on 0:05:00.839 --> 0:05:03.839 the table to slap the plant down out of his 0:05:03.920 --> 0:05:05.159 hands and be like try again. 0:05:05.360 --> 0:05:07.520 Well, then I don't think she'd be calling us and 0:05:07.560 --> 0:05:08.520 asking why he's. 0:05:10.200 --> 0:05:10.520 Obvious? 0:05:11.080 --> 0:05:12.880 Well, it was like so fun because we after that 0:05:12.920 --> 0:05:14.359 we went out for drinks because there was like a 0:05:14.400 --> 0:05:16.720 bar inside them all, but we brought our plants with 0:05:17.320 --> 0:05:19.280 and it was like super cute and like everybody was 0:05:19.320 --> 0:05:21.240 like coming by and looking at them and saying, like, 0:05:21.240 --> 0:05:25.039 what's the story on this? It was funny and the 0:05:25.120 --> 0:05:27.839 whole time I felt super comfortable and like it even 0:05:27.960 --> 0:05:28.800 ended with a kiss. 0:05:28.839 --> 0:05:33.720 So okay, yeah, all right, this all sounds good, Like 0:05:33.960 --> 0:05:36.600 I mean, I could totally understand why you're so confused 0:05:36.600 --> 0:05:37.680 why he's not calling back. 0:05:38.040 --> 0:05:41.720 Yeah, me too, especially since we even named our plants. 0:05:41.839 --> 0:05:45.480 Oh they're real plant baby after each other, like what 0:05:45.680 --> 0:05:46.240 you name them? 0:05:46.440 --> 0:05:53.320 So his plant was Gertrude, yes, okay, and my plan 0:05:53.520 --> 0:05:57.960 was leaf Ericson like the Explorer. 0:05:58.720 --> 0:06:02.400 Yeah all right, have you texted as leif Ericson? 0:06:02.760 --> 0:06:06.400 I mean, that's the obvious, like misses you. 0:06:08.160 --> 0:06:08.839 It is. 0:06:08.839 --> 0:06:12.120 Anybody worried here that maybe the plant joke went on 0:06:12.240 --> 0:06:13.479 a little bit too long? 0:06:13.880 --> 0:06:15.719 All I think it was the love forern from the 0:06:16.000 --> 0:06:19.160 rom com. You know, you killed our love for your 0:06:19.200 --> 0:06:20.640 plant is still alive? Right? 0:06:21.080 --> 0:06:21.200 Oh? 0:06:21.320 --> 0:06:23.600 Yeah. You know what's funny is I did find out 0:06:23.600 --> 0:06:27.880 I do have a bit of a green thumbhil to 0:06:27.920 --> 0:06:28.320 keep alive. 0:06:28.320 --> 0:06:31.440 But yeah, I'm actually a little bit more concerned about 0:06:31.480 --> 0:06:34.359 getting your guys's plants back together because I feel like 0:06:34.880 --> 0:06:36.440 maybe they had the real love connection. 0:06:36.560 --> 0:06:38.560 You don't want a separated plant family. 0:06:38.800 --> 0:06:42.760 Well, but also you don't want like plant parents hooking 0:06:42.839 --> 0:06:44.400 up with the plant kids. 0:06:44.720 --> 0:06:45.280 You know what I mean? 0:06:45.480 --> 0:06:47.400 No, I don't think they're the same family. Now you're 0:06:47.440 --> 0:06:48.040 making it weird. 0:06:48.400 --> 0:06:49.400 I'm making it weird. 0:06:49.560 --> 0:06:51.240 Okay, I took it too far. 0:06:51.960 --> 0:06:52.360 You know what. 0:06:52.560 --> 0:06:55.960 Fine, We're gonna call plant daddy Derek and see why 0:06:56.000 --> 0:06:58.279 he isn't arranging another date with you when we do 0:06:58.360 --> 0:07:02.680 your second date update. Right after this second date update, 0:07:04.240 --> 0:07:07.919 Cassie and Derek have been on one date and already 0:07:08.120 --> 0:07:09.520 have two kids together. 0:07:11.200 --> 0:07:12.760 Babies babies. 0:07:14.400 --> 0:07:17.480 Plant children that they picked out for each other at 0:07:17.520 --> 0:07:21.600 a nursery during their date. They even named their plants 0:07:21.760 --> 0:07:23.560 Gertrude and Leif. 0:07:23.560 --> 0:07:31.960 Ericsson Solid Solid Day, brought their plants to the restaurant together, 0:07:32.120 --> 0:07:35.800 put them in high chairs with little bibs on, fed them. 0:07:36.040 --> 0:07:38.000 I mean, you can assume, you can assume that they're 0:07:38.000 --> 0:07:38.840 good parents like that. 0:07:39.520 --> 0:07:41.800 I'm pretty sure the rounded chicken tenders. 0:07:42.000 --> 0:07:47.920 Yes, I mean, pretty normal first date as far as 0:07:47.960 --> 0:07:48.480 we've heard. 0:07:48.720 --> 0:07:51.240 It's actually an adorable first date, and they. 0:07:51.080 --> 0:07:52.200 Bought plants together. 0:07:52.320 --> 0:07:55.120 The crazy thing is most of the plant enthusiasm was 0:07:55.200 --> 0:07:58.800 actually led by Derek which I didn't expect. So it 0:07:58.880 --> 0:08:01.920 is weird that he is not initiating another meet up. 0:08:02.200 --> 0:08:04.400 The thing is, we never asked, Cassie, how many days 0:08:04.400 --> 0:08:06.800 has it been since that all happened. 0:08:07.240 --> 0:08:09.000 So I haven't seen him in five days. 0:08:10.440 --> 0:08:13.480 That's four decades in plant years. So we can only 0:08:13.520 --> 0:08:14.640 imagine how your children. 0:08:15.880 --> 0:08:16.640 I don't know, but. 0:08:18.160 --> 0:08:18.680 Pretty quick. 0:08:18.680 --> 0:08:20.240 So have you heard from him at all? 0:08:20.960 --> 0:08:24.440 Yeah? So there's been texting, but there's been no initiation 0:08:24.520 --> 0:08:25.200 of a second day. 0:08:25.440 --> 0:08:28.200 Okay, okay, so you're in communication, yeah, yeah. 0:08:28.120 --> 0:08:29.720 It just feels like it fell off a little bit. 0:08:29.960 --> 0:08:32.319 Yeah all right, I don't think you're help in figuring 0:08:32.360 --> 0:08:32.760 this out. 0:08:33.480 --> 0:08:35.760 Yeah, well, let's call this deadbeat plant dad and figure 0:08:35.800 --> 0:08:36.760 out what. 0:08:38.000 --> 0:08:41.560 He's taking care of? Gtrude, Okay, I mean. 0:08:41.480 --> 0:08:44.719 At least we hope. So I don't like that he's 0:08:44.760 --> 0:08:46.440 not talking to you, Cassie, So let's call him. We'll 0:08:46.440 --> 0:08:47.240 see if he picks up. 0:08:47.240 --> 0:08:48.440 Okay, okay, I thank you. 0:08:48.720 --> 0:08:50.520 If he does an answer, can we do textual healing 0:08:50.520 --> 0:08:50.880 at least? 0:08:50.880 --> 0:08:52.640 Because I really want to do good idea? 0:08:53.120 --> 0:08:53.360 Yes? 0:08:53.520 --> 0:08:57.240 All plant therapy maybe too, So here we go. I'm 0:08:57.240 --> 0:09:06.199 going right now. Hello, Hey, is this Derek? 0:09:07.600 --> 0:09:09.440 Yeah, Derek. 0:09:09.760 --> 0:09:11.640 Sorry to barge into your day here, but you're on 0:09:11.679 --> 0:09:13.600 the radio right now with Brooke and Jeffrey in the morning. 0:09:13.960 --> 0:09:14.560 Good morning. 0:09:14.760 --> 0:09:18.599 Okay, that's that's weird. You said. Sorry, your phone's a 0:09:18.640 --> 0:09:19.720 little hot to hear, Derek. 0:09:20.760 --> 0:09:22.920 Yeah, seems is a little weird. I don't usually get 0:09:22.960 --> 0:09:24.280 radio stations calling me in the morning. 0:09:25.000 --> 0:09:27.640 I don't think most people do. So you're in the 0:09:27.679 --> 0:09:34.040 general population with that one. That's fine, Derek. 0:09:34.080 --> 0:09:35.880 I think we're calling you for a great reason though. 0:09:36.080 --> 0:09:37.640 Yeah, it's a second we do you call it second 0:09:37.679 --> 0:09:38.200 date update. 0:09:39.600 --> 0:09:42.600 I don't like that you sound like one of our 0:09:42.600 --> 0:09:43.840 commentors from the podcast. 0:09:43.920 --> 0:09:46.000 Yeah, yeah, do you even know anything about it? 0:09:46.600 --> 0:09:49.760 I mean, I figure it's you're calling me till somebody 0:09:49.800 --> 0:09:50.600 wants to reach out. 0:09:51.320 --> 0:09:55.320 Okay, smart Derek. So, yeah, you're right. There is a 0:09:55.360 --> 0:09:57.520 girl that listens to our show who said she went 0:09:57.559 --> 0:09:59.679 out with you recently, named Cassie. 0:09:59.400 --> 0:10:02.760 And it sounded like an adorable date. So just so 0:10:02.800 --> 0:10:04.240 you know, she does know that you guys have been 0:10:04.240 --> 0:10:06.680 texting a little bit. It just feels like you're maybe 0:10:06.760 --> 0:10:07.880 not interested or something. 0:10:08.640 --> 0:10:11.560 I mean, I'm I'm kind of interested, but at the 0:10:11.559 --> 0:10:14.840 moment I'm not kind of interested, kind. 0:10:14.679 --> 0:10:20.400 Of but not kind of? Okay, you were pretty clear, So. 0:10:19.520 --> 0:10:21.760 No, wonder she's so I don't know why she should 0:10:21.760 --> 0:10:22.200 be complete. 0:10:22.840 --> 0:10:24.439 Well, I hope you don't mind if we dive a 0:10:24.480 --> 0:10:26.600 little bit deeper into that and ask you why. 0:10:27.440 --> 0:10:28.720 I just need some more time. 0:10:29.400 --> 0:10:34.400 Oh, what's going on? 0:10:34.480 --> 0:10:35.720 Are you in a relationship? 0:10:37.040 --> 0:10:37.960 No, I'm single. 0:10:38.040 --> 0:10:41.560 I'm sing you're single? Okay? And you and you liked 0:10:41.640 --> 0:10:42.480 Cassie right. 0:10:43.040 --> 0:10:45.320 Yeah, I mean I like her. I just made a 0:10:45.320 --> 0:10:47.000 big mistake mistake. 0:10:47.360 --> 0:10:51.680 What no, girlfriend, but you made a mistake. But you 0:10:51.840 --> 0:10:53.439 like her, but you also don't like her yet? 0:10:53.480 --> 0:10:56.079 But a mistake with who? Because she really likes you? 0:10:56.720 --> 0:10:59.040 Okay, I'll just tell you, but you can't tell her. 0:10:59.840 --> 0:11:02.000 You We won't say we none of us here will 0:11:02.000 --> 0:11:02.920 say anything to her. 0:11:03.240 --> 0:11:05.840 Yes, deal, So I don't know if she told you. 0:11:05.880 --> 0:11:08.120 But we bought each other plants on our date. 0:11:09.280 --> 0:11:12.160 Yeah, it seemed kind of like cute and movie ish. 0:11:12.240 --> 0:11:14.600 Yeah we even knew Gertrude and Leif Erickson or. 0:11:15.480 --> 0:11:16.360 Okay right right? 0:11:16.440 --> 0:11:18.200 Yeah we named him Okay. 0:11:18.000 --> 0:11:20.840 But when we weren't eating them all, I didn't realize 0:11:20.920 --> 0:11:24.360 I left Gertrude the roof of my car. So I 0:11:24.440 --> 0:11:28.679 drove away. Yeah, I heard a bump. I didn't know 0:11:28.720 --> 0:11:31.680 what it was, so I backed up and I ran over. 0:11:33.120 --> 0:11:41.400 Your own plants, baby killed Trude? 0:11:43.559 --> 0:11:47.600 Hello, yeah, Derek, she was supposed to wait. But that 0:11:47.600 --> 0:11:50.040 that's Cassie. I wanted to talk to you on the 0:11:50.040 --> 0:11:56.040 other line. Okay, Gertrude, Oh god, oh my god. 0:11:56.280 --> 0:11:58.079 Didn't you try it to seame her? 0:11:59.160 --> 0:12:04.480 So wait, Cassie, I really didn't know you were on 0:12:04.520 --> 0:12:05.960 the phone. I didn't know you heard any of that. 0:12:07.559 --> 0:12:11.760 I cannot believe because I can't believe this. She's dead. 0:12:12.160 --> 0:12:14.920 Did you try at least bring her back to life? 0:12:15.280 --> 0:12:17.960 What did you do with Gertrude afterwards? 0:12:18.280 --> 0:12:18.480 Yeah? 0:12:18.520 --> 0:12:19.440 Where in her body? 0:12:19.559 --> 0:12:26.440 I mean, my god, like plants just as much as 0:12:26.480 --> 0:12:28.839 everybody else, but you guys directly like it's a human being. 0:12:32.080 --> 0:12:34.560 But listen, listen, why would you not be calling her 0:12:34.600 --> 0:12:36.680 back just because the plant fell off the car. 0:12:37.360 --> 0:12:40.120 I was gonna go ahead and get a new plant to. 0:12:40.200 --> 0:12:42.880 Try and take it the second day. 0:12:43.200 --> 0:12:46.880 You were going to try and replace her, you mean 0:12:46.920 --> 0:12:47.240 with the. 0:12:47.280 --> 0:12:49.320 Same exact plan. 0:12:49.720 --> 0:12:52.880 Yeah, So I went back the next day to see 0:12:52.880 --> 0:12:57.319 if they had the same plant, and they didn't. 0:12:57.720 --> 0:12:59.640 Yeah, you were going to pass off the new plane 0:12:59.720 --> 0:13:02.560 as Gertrude and try and trick Cassie to thinking it 0:13:02.640 --> 0:13:03.280 was the same one. 0:13:03.640 --> 0:13:05.840 Just tell her the truth. Cassie would think it's a 0:13:05.880 --> 0:13:06.680 cute story. 0:13:06.800 --> 0:13:07.120 I don't know. 0:13:07.200 --> 0:13:08.160 She sounds pretty upset. 0:13:08.400 --> 0:13:12.640 I don't even know what to say. I mean, Gertrude. Man, 0:13:12.679 --> 0:13:15.240 there's only one Girtrude, I. 0:13:15.360 --> 0:13:16.880 Know, the only one. 0:13:17.200 --> 0:13:18.920 Yeah, I mean, Cassie, you're. 0:13:18.800 --> 0:13:22.440 Being like funny right now, right, you're not being serious. 0:13:22.160 --> 0:13:23.280 Kind of my guys. 0:13:23.520 --> 0:13:24.760 It's really troubling though. 0:13:27.360 --> 0:13:30.040 Well, because he ran it back over agains come up 0:13:30.880 --> 0:13:32.160 and then disposed of the body. 0:13:33.000 --> 0:13:34.840 It's not like it says anything about who he is. 0:13:34.880 --> 0:13:35.800 You're a good person. 0:13:38.400 --> 0:13:42.079 She meant something to you, just grows back. 0:13:42.600 --> 0:13:45.120 Obviously did mean something to you, Cassie. That's why he 0:13:45.160 --> 0:13:46.880 went back to the store the next day. 0:13:46.920 --> 0:13:50.440 That's a good I'm a good guy. I don't murder 0:13:50.480 --> 0:13:54.120 plants all the time. I buy them. I try and 0:13:54.200 --> 0:13:54.880 keep them alive. 0:13:55.600 --> 0:13:56.319 He tries to keep. 0:13:57.240 --> 0:14:00.960 I mean, Cassie, I never run over one before. 0:14:01.880 --> 0:14:05.520 This was the first, Jemmy, technically, you've ever driven on grass, 0:14:05.640 --> 0:14:06.360 you've ever driven I. 0:14:06.400 --> 0:14:09.200 Mean, yeah, we mean that he hasn't been driven over 0:14:09.200 --> 0:14:13.559 his own plant child, like your husband does work? Okay, 0:14:13.840 --> 0:14:15.920 I mean, Cassie, can you see what he's saying? Like 0:14:16.040 --> 0:14:18.280 only a good guy would go through all of that 0:14:18.400 --> 0:14:22.160 effort to hide the evidence of destroying your plant, baiting together, 0:14:22.400 --> 0:14:24.880 and try and cover it up with a different plant. 0:14:24.600 --> 0:14:26.520 And then ghost you until the new plant comes in. 0:14:26.880 --> 0:14:29.320 Oh wait, so the new plant is coming. 0:14:29.760 --> 0:14:31.800 So yes, it took five days to get here. It's 0:14:31.800 --> 0:14:33.560 coming tomorrow. That's what I've been waiting for. 0:14:33.920 --> 0:14:35.840 Okay, So you were. 0:14:35.720 --> 0:14:38.600 Gonna one more day, you were going to just ask 0:14:38.640 --> 0:14:38.960 her out? 0:14:39.000 --> 0:14:39.200 Then? 0:14:39.960 --> 0:14:42.080 Yeah, I was waiting for tomorrow making sure the plane 0:14:42.120 --> 0:14:44.440 got here. So in case she came over and saw 0:14:44.600 --> 0:14:46.760 that there was no plant, I wouldn't get in trouble. 0:14:48.080 --> 0:14:49.920 Caess is a lot for you to process. What are 0:14:49.920 --> 0:14:50.720 you thinking right now? 0:14:51.120 --> 0:14:53.920 I mean, I am, I'm honestly heartbroken. I'm surprised at 0:14:53.920 --> 0:14:57.520 how heartbroken I am over true, but I can understand 0:14:57.560 --> 0:14:58.960 the sentiment. Okay. 0:14:59.040 --> 0:15:00.440 Well, the good news is it's sounds like if you 0:15:00.480 --> 0:15:02.680 guys ever got married, he definitely wouldn't be the type 0:15:02.720 --> 0:15:04.680 of person try and hide money from you or like 0:15:05.040 --> 0:15:14.160 keep secrets until like they came up years later Yeah, that. 0:15:14.200 --> 0:15:15.880 Was a weird jump there. 0:15:16.560 --> 0:15:17.200 You want to ask. 0:15:18.240 --> 0:15:20.320 I think he is so cute and he's going to 0:15:20.560 --> 0:15:22.800 all this effort just to make sure that you feel 0:15:22.840 --> 0:15:25.280 good and feel happy, Cassie, that should be a huge 0:15:25.360 --> 0:15:26.080 plus for you. 0:15:26.360 --> 0:15:29.200 It's not like we've been texting back and forth. 0:15:30.400 --> 0:15:32.760 True, he's been talking, just not committing well. 0:15:32.800 --> 0:15:36.160 So instead of asking him first, I'm gonna ask Cassie, 0:15:36.440 --> 0:15:40.000 would you like to see Derek again despite what you've 0:15:40.000 --> 0:15:42.080 heard here on the show today? 0:15:42.360 --> 0:15:45.360 Honestly I would. I think I'd give it another try. 0:15:45.440 --> 0:15:49.520 Wow, you have to come with a new name for 0:15:49.600 --> 0:15:52.240 that plant if Derek says yes to the second day, 0:15:52.320 --> 0:15:55.320 because we will pay for it. Derek, It's up to you, 0:15:56.040 --> 0:15:58.720 the dame. 0:15:58.800 --> 0:16:04.720 This is your opportunity to get any reminder of Gertrude. 0:16:04.760 --> 0:16:06.320 We have to call her something out. 0:16:06.760 --> 0:16:10.240 Okay, the plant Murderer's Daughter is a good place to start. 0:16:10.520 --> 0:16:11.440 That sounds like a novel. 0:16:11.640 --> 0:16:16.720 Read Yeah, three part series coming soon to Amazon and 0:16:16.800 --> 0:16:17.760 get your orders in now. 0:16:18.320 --> 0:16:20.680 By the way, By the way, how's Lee Ferrison doing. 0:16:21.040 --> 0:16:24.360 Oh he's thriving. He is thriving and surviving. 0:16:25.000 --> 0:16:29.200 Driving is growing up so fast, you guys, Plants and 0:16:29.200 --> 0:16:30.080 cars do not mix. 0:16:31.120 --> 0:16:37.400 That's the murder mystery. Leaf killed Gertrude the insurance money 0:16:37.400 --> 0:16:37.960 for himself. 0:16:38.280 --> 0:16:40.040 No, I'm not going to read it. 0:16:40.200 --> 0:16:43.160 Looking Jeffrey in the morning, I think we were all 0:16:43.240 --> 0:16:46.600 kind of leaning heavy into the drama of what happened 0:16:46.600 --> 0:16:47.880 there when Derek's. 0:16:47.520 --> 0:16:51.320 Playing Yeah, let's crack that statement real quick. Well way 0:16:51.400 --> 0:16:54.840 you mean you and jose Yeah, you were doing lots 0:16:54.840 --> 0:16:55.160 of like. 0:16:55.160 --> 0:16:59.000 WHOA, I know we're being dramatic. The good news is 0:16:59.040 --> 0:17:03.200 that Clearer did prevail in the end, and Cassie was 0:17:03.600 --> 0:17:05.679 I don't want to say like able to get over Gertrude, 0:17:05.680 --> 0:17:08.000 because we never will. She's always going to be in 0:17:08.040 --> 0:17:11.560 our hearts and in our compost bins. But to Gertrude, 0:17:11.960 --> 0:17:15.280 we just want to say you were a bright light 0:17:15.640 --> 0:17:18.199 in this world and in all of our lives and 0:17:18.240 --> 0:17:21.040 in the lives of all of our listeners. Taken from 0:17:21.119 --> 0:17:22.120 us far too soon. 0:17:22.160 --> 0:17:23.919 Can you just start this with maybe we were a 0:17:23.920 --> 0:17:24.960 little over dramatic. 0:17:25.600 --> 0:17:27.639 Yeah, but now I'm getting back into it now, just 0:17:27.880 --> 0:17:30.760 because I know, Gertrude, you are smiling down at us 0:17:30.800 --> 0:17:33.400 from Plant Heaven right now, watching over all of us 0:17:33.480 --> 0:17:36.159 and blessing our show with your good green vibes. 0:17:36.400 --> 0:17:38.720 I'm still confident if we bury a plant and it 0:17:38.760 --> 0:17:41.200