1 00:00:00,360 --> 00:00:02,280 Speaker 1: Hey, welcome to the Second Date Podcast. Thank you so 2 00:00:02,360 --> 00:00:04,240 Speaker 1: much for being here. And we don't normally do this, 3 00:00:04,400 --> 00:00:07,280 Speaker 1: but you are really special to us. So Jose is 4 00:00:07,320 --> 00:00:09,119 Speaker 1: going to give out his personal phone number right now. 5 00:00:09,200 --> 00:00:11,520 Speaker 2: Yeah, okay if you need to call him. 6 00:00:11,360 --> 00:00:13,680 Speaker 3: So text seven eight, five nine two. 7 00:00:13,840 --> 00:00:15,600 Speaker 2: Okay, show's text board. 8 00:00:15,760 --> 00:00:17,520 Speaker 3: If you're lonely, you can text us. I'm on it 9 00:00:17,560 --> 00:00:18,080 Speaker 3: all night long. 10 00:00:18,120 --> 00:00:23,040 Speaker 2: Okay, so you're on it more than your own phone texting. Basically, 11 00:00:23,200 --> 00:00:24,600 Speaker 2: I mean it's a better way to reach him. That's 12 00:00:24,600 --> 00:00:26,120 Speaker 2: all we're saying. And don't forget. 13 00:00:26,200 --> 00:00:28,760 Speaker 1: We've got forty five more minutes, a full show, an 14 00:00:28,800 --> 00:00:31,000 Speaker 1: hour long. Oh my god, can you take that much? 15 00:00:31,080 --> 00:00:33,479 Speaker 1: If you want it, go for it. It's over at 16 00:00:33,479 --> 00:00:35,919 Speaker 1: the Brook and Jeffrey Main podcast feed. But right now 17 00:00:36,000 --> 00:00:38,240 Speaker 1: we're all about the Second Date, so let's get it started. 18 00:00:39,360 --> 00:00:44,360 Speaker 4: Second Date Update. We are in the month of Love 19 00:00:44,600 --> 00:00:49,199 Speaker 4: right now, and because of that, today we're going to 20 00:00:49,280 --> 00:00:55,000 Speaker 4: do this entire Second Date Update in the language of love. French, 21 00:00:55,240 --> 00:00:59,400 Speaker 4: what Jose, take it away. 22 00:00:58,160 --> 00:01:00,600 Speaker 3: Already, Welcome, I'll Second Date as. 23 00:01:02,680 --> 00:01:03,040 Speaker 2: English. 24 00:01:04,440 --> 00:01:05,240 Speaker 3: Second Day. 25 00:01:05,920 --> 00:01:08,760 Speaker 2: I know how a French accent could be unsexy. You 26 00:01:08,840 --> 00:01:09,399 Speaker 2: made it happen. 27 00:01:11,120 --> 00:01:13,760 Speaker 4: Jo we're trying not to scare all of the women 28 00:01:13,840 --> 00:01:16,000 Speaker 4: off from listening to this show, just a couple of 29 00:01:16,040 --> 00:01:16,920 Speaker 4: the unwanted ones. 30 00:01:17,120 --> 00:01:17,959 Speaker 3: So sorry, lady. 31 00:01:18,000 --> 00:01:19,279 Speaker 5: You know what, maybe we. 32 00:01:19,240 --> 00:01:22,600 Speaker 4: Just stick to American style English for this when we 33 00:01:22,600 --> 00:01:25,880 Speaker 4: talk to our listener Cassie today, Cassie, I'm sorry. Are 34 00:01:25,880 --> 00:01:27,240 Speaker 4: you okay if we do this in English? 35 00:01:27,400 --> 00:01:27,840 Speaker 3: Gussie? 36 00:01:28,880 --> 00:01:30,800 Speaker 6: I was, I was loving the French. But you know what, 37 00:01:31,360 --> 00:01:31,800 Speaker 6: it's okay. 38 00:01:32,520 --> 00:01:36,960 Speaker 1: You're gonna already, she started out of the gate line. 39 00:01:37,240 --> 00:01:38,960 Speaker 3: Just for the record, if you have any other language 40 00:01:38,959 --> 00:01:40,920 Speaker 3: requests or like, do you want me to do, just 41 00:01:40,920 --> 00:01:41,440 Speaker 3: holler at me. 42 00:01:41,680 --> 00:01:43,760 Speaker 4: Seriously, keep talking like that. You're not going to be 43 00:01:43,760 --> 00:01:46,480 Speaker 4: single for long. So tell us about this guy that 44 00:01:46,560 --> 00:01:48,200 Speaker 4: you went out with recently. What's his name? 45 00:01:48,760 --> 00:01:53,080 Speaker 6: Yeah, his name is Derek. How'd you guys meet online? 46 00:01:53,280 --> 00:01:56,120 Speaker 6: And their first day? We went to a super upstille 47 00:01:56,120 --> 00:01:59,200 Speaker 6: mall here in this area. We've got like I would say, 48 00:01:59,280 --> 00:02:01,560 Speaker 6: stancy mom. It's because like it's spread out. 49 00:02:02,000 --> 00:02:03,800 Speaker 4: I don't have to tell us about upscale malls. 50 00:02:03,880 --> 00:02:04,840 Speaker 5: Yeah, we got there. 51 00:02:05,120 --> 00:02:07,720 Speaker 3: Explain nowadays it's like being on Amazon, but I. 52 00:02:07,720 --> 00:02:10,640 Speaker 2: Are, yeah, the stores. 53 00:02:10,639 --> 00:02:14,640 Speaker 4: That's okay, And that sounds like a nice yeah, it 54 00:02:14,639 --> 00:02:17,000 Speaker 4: could be fun, something something to do, things to look 55 00:02:17,040 --> 00:02:17,320 Speaker 4: at and. 56 00:02:17,280 --> 00:02:19,640 Speaker 2: Talk about, like shop, you can drink. 57 00:02:20,480 --> 00:02:23,120 Speaker 6: It's like in public, so if it gets weird, you're 58 00:02:23,160 --> 00:02:24,040 Speaker 6: not alone. 59 00:02:24,040 --> 00:02:26,960 Speaker 2: Right yeah, safety sure. 60 00:02:27,320 --> 00:02:27,560 Speaker 6: Yeah. 61 00:02:27,639 --> 00:02:29,960 Speaker 2: So what was it like when you very first met Derek? 62 00:02:30,360 --> 00:02:32,120 Speaker 6: So honestly, I felt like we hit it off, like 63 00:02:32,240 --> 00:02:36,160 Speaker 6: right off, that there was chemistry there. We walked around 64 00:02:36,760 --> 00:02:38,720 Speaker 6: just like looking at stuff, and we ended up going 65 00:02:38,760 --> 00:02:41,919 Speaker 6: to like a nursery, not like the baby like the 66 00:02:42,000 --> 00:02:44,120 Speaker 6: kind of plants plant nursery. 67 00:02:44,320 --> 00:02:46,480 Speaker 3: It was like, Okay, sounds like a perfect date to me. 68 00:02:46,520 --> 00:02:49,200 Speaker 2: But they don't. They don't have stores where they sell 69 00:02:49,280 --> 00:02:50,280 Speaker 2: babies Jose. 70 00:02:50,120 --> 00:02:52,960 Speaker 3: At the mall, even a baby watching day. 71 00:02:53,080 --> 00:02:55,600 Speaker 4: I know, we just got a brilliant business idea to 72 00:02:56,360 --> 00:02:59,120 Speaker 4: sponsored by Brook and Jeffrey in the morning window. 73 00:02:59,360 --> 00:03:01,040 Speaker 2: You better work on your return policy. 74 00:03:01,080 --> 00:03:03,120 Speaker 4: I'm going, you know, we got the discount band over 75 00:03:03,160 --> 00:03:07,000 Speaker 4: here for too long. We have the whole business plan ready. 76 00:03:07,000 --> 00:03:09,959 Speaker 1: But sorry, okay, I mean cute plant shops are so 77 00:03:10,160 --> 00:03:11,000 Speaker 1: fun right now. 78 00:03:12,360 --> 00:03:14,720 Speaker 6: I'm not like a super big plant person, but I 79 00:03:14,800 --> 00:03:17,280 Speaker 6: really loved looking at all the stuff they had, Like 80 00:03:17,280 --> 00:03:19,040 Speaker 6: I'm into it. He was a little bit more into 81 00:03:19,080 --> 00:03:21,720 Speaker 6: it than me, but I was really feeling it. Yeah, 82 00:03:22,160 --> 00:03:25,480 Speaker 6: because traditionally, like I haven't really been a plant person, 83 00:03:25,520 --> 00:03:26,880 Speaker 6: but I had it. I had a lot of fun, 84 00:03:27,000 --> 00:03:27,720 Speaker 6: so sweet. 85 00:03:28,040 --> 00:03:30,760 Speaker 2: So he was knowledgeable. He obviously has plans. 86 00:03:31,040 --> 00:03:32,640 Speaker 6: Yeah, and he was like, you know what I think 87 00:03:32,639 --> 00:03:34,880 Speaker 6: we should do. I think we should pick out a 88 00:03:34,920 --> 00:03:35,720 Speaker 6: plant for each other. 89 00:03:35,920 --> 00:03:38,760 Speaker 2: Oh that's cute, and it's kind. 90 00:03:38,600 --> 00:03:41,240 Speaker 1: Of forward thinking, like it's like he wants to see 91 00:03:41,240 --> 00:03:43,400 Speaker 1: if you could keep it alive, you know what I mean. 92 00:03:43,480 --> 00:03:46,360 Speaker 6: Yeah. I think it's like when you have some like 93 00:03:46,360 --> 00:03:47,880 Speaker 6: picking up for you because it's like, Okay, what do 94 00:03:47,880 --> 00:03:49,640 Speaker 6: you really think of me? Let's see what you pick 95 00:03:49,680 --> 00:03:51,680 Speaker 6: out based off what you think my personality is. 96 00:03:52,320 --> 00:03:54,280 Speaker 3: That's why you make someone plant a tree that's more 97 00:03:54,280 --> 00:03:55,360 Speaker 3: of a commitment. 98 00:03:54,920 --> 00:03:58,880 Speaker 4: Than y Yeah, okay, that's an interesting idea. 99 00:03:59,080 --> 00:04:01,000 Speaker 2: I like it. What did you picked out for him? 100 00:04:01,360 --> 00:04:03,440 Speaker 6: So the one I picked was super cute. It was 101 00:04:03,480 --> 00:04:11,480 Speaker 6: like very whimsical. It was called a figety fig. 102 00:04:10,360 --> 00:04:12,680 Speaker 2: Better than a venus fly trap or something, you know. 103 00:04:12,640 --> 00:04:15,400 Speaker 6: Right, Okay, So that's like literally what I'm getting to 104 00:04:15,480 --> 00:04:19,760 Speaker 6: because what he picked for me was a freaking snake. 105 00:04:19,520 --> 00:04:23,320 Speaker 2: Plant snake flip snake. But average they live a long 106 00:04:23,360 --> 00:04:25,520 Speaker 2: time though hard to kill. They are very hard to kill. 107 00:04:25,560 --> 00:04:28,080 Speaker 2: They're sturdy, they're a good first plant for people. You 108 00:04:28,200 --> 00:04:30,120 Speaker 2: don't have the first plant. 109 00:04:30,920 --> 00:04:33,320 Speaker 4: So he obviously doesn't trust that you're able to maintain it, 110 00:04:33,360 --> 00:04:35,400 Speaker 4: which is why he bought you a super easy plant. 111 00:04:35,920 --> 00:04:38,159 Speaker 6: I didn't really think about it that way, honestly. I 112 00:04:38,200 --> 00:04:40,080 Speaker 6: was like, should I be Offendedis. 113 00:04:39,800 --> 00:04:41,760 Speaker 2: Because of the snake title? Is that why? 114 00:04:41,960 --> 00:04:42,359 Speaker 4: Yes? 115 00:04:42,920 --> 00:04:44,560 Speaker 6: I was just like surprised, you know what I mean, 116 00:04:44,560 --> 00:04:46,760 Speaker 6: because like the one I picked for him was flirty, 117 00:04:46,960 --> 00:04:47,600 Speaker 6: cute or whatever. 118 00:04:47,880 --> 00:04:49,719 Speaker 4: So how did you tell him that you didn't like 119 00:04:49,800 --> 00:04:51,279 Speaker 4: the plant that he bought. 120 00:04:51,440 --> 00:04:53,120 Speaker 6: I kind of just made a joke of it, because 121 00:04:53,120 --> 00:04:55,840 Speaker 6: it's like he's still buying me something, right, So I'm 122 00:04:55,960 --> 00:04:56,839 Speaker 6: not going to be a jerk. 123 00:04:58,480 --> 00:05:00,800 Speaker 4: You could be a jerk just saying that's always on 124 00:05:00,839 --> 00:05:03,839 Speaker 4: the table to slap the plant down out of his 125 00:05:03,920 --> 00:05:05,159 Speaker 4: hands and be like try again. 126 00:05:05,360 --> 00:05:07,520 Speaker 1: Well, then I don't think she'd be calling us and 127 00:05:07,560 --> 00:05:08,520 Speaker 1: asking why he's. 128 00:05:10,200 --> 00:05:10,520 Speaker 2: Obvious? 129 00:05:11,080 --> 00:05:12,880 Speaker 6: Well, it was like so fun because we after that 130 00:05:12,920 --> 00:05:14,359 Speaker 6: we went out for drinks because there was like a 131 00:05:14,400 --> 00:05:16,720 Speaker 6: bar inside them all, but we brought our plants with 132 00:05:17,320 --> 00:05:19,280 Speaker 6: and it was like super cute and like everybody was 133 00:05:19,320 --> 00:05:21,240 Speaker 6: like coming by and looking at them and saying, like, 134 00:05:21,240 --> 00:05:25,039 Speaker 6: what's the story on this? It was funny and the 135 00:05:25,120 --> 00:05:27,839 Speaker 6: whole time I felt super comfortable and like it even 136 00:05:27,960 --> 00:05:28,800 Speaker 6: ended with a kiss. 137 00:05:28,839 --> 00:05:33,720 Speaker 1: So okay, yeah, all right, this all sounds good, Like 138 00:05:33,960 --> 00:05:36,600 Speaker 1: I mean, I could totally understand why you're so confused 139 00:05:36,600 --> 00:05:37,680 Speaker 1: why he's not calling back. 140 00:05:38,040 --> 00:05:41,720 Speaker 6: Yeah, me too, especially since we even named our plants. 141 00:05:41,839 --> 00:05:45,480 Speaker 1: Oh they're real plant baby after each other, like what 142 00:05:45,680 --> 00:05:46,240 Speaker 1: you name them? 143 00:05:46,440 --> 00:05:53,320 Speaker 6: So his plant was Gertrude, yes, okay, and my plan 144 00:05:53,520 --> 00:05:57,960 Speaker 6: was leaf Ericson like the Explorer. 145 00:05:58,720 --> 00:06:02,400 Speaker 1: Yeah all right, have you texted as leif Ericson? 146 00:06:02,760 --> 00:06:06,400 Speaker 2: I mean, that's the obvious, like misses you. 147 00:06:08,160 --> 00:06:08,839 Speaker 6: It is. 148 00:06:08,839 --> 00:06:12,120 Speaker 4: Anybody worried here that maybe the plant joke went on 149 00:06:12,240 --> 00:06:13,479 Speaker 4: a little bit too long? 150 00:06:13,880 --> 00:06:15,719 Speaker 2: All I think it was the love forern from the 151 00:06:16,000 --> 00:06:19,160 Speaker 2: rom com. You know, you killed our love for your 152 00:06:19,200 --> 00:06:20,640 Speaker 2: plant is still alive? Right? 153 00:06:21,080 --> 00:06:21,200 Speaker 5: Oh? 154 00:06:21,320 --> 00:06:23,600 Speaker 6: Yeah. You know what's funny is I did find out 155 00:06:23,600 --> 00:06:27,880 Speaker 6: I do have a bit of a green thumbhil to 156 00:06:27,920 --> 00:06:28,320 Speaker 6: keep alive. 157 00:06:28,320 --> 00:06:31,440 Speaker 4: But yeah, I'm actually a little bit more concerned about 158 00:06:31,480 --> 00:06:34,359 Speaker 4: getting your guys's plants back together because I feel like 159 00:06:34,880 --> 00:06:36,440 Speaker 4: maybe they had the real love connection. 160 00:06:36,560 --> 00:06:38,560 Speaker 2: You don't want a separated plant family. 161 00:06:38,800 --> 00:06:42,760 Speaker 4: Well, but also you don't want like plant parents hooking 162 00:06:42,839 --> 00:06:44,400 Speaker 4: up with the plant kids. 163 00:06:44,720 --> 00:06:45,280 Speaker 6: You know what I mean? 164 00:06:45,480 --> 00:06:47,400 Speaker 2: No, I don't think they're the same family. Now you're 165 00:06:47,440 --> 00:06:48,040 Speaker 2: making it weird. 166 00:06:48,400 --> 00:06:49,400 Speaker 3: I'm making it weird. 167 00:06:49,560 --> 00:06:51,240 Speaker 4: Okay, I took it too far. 168 00:06:51,960 --> 00:06:52,360 Speaker 6: You know what. 169 00:06:52,560 --> 00:06:55,960 Speaker 4: Fine, We're gonna call plant daddy Derek and see why 170 00:06:56,000 --> 00:06:58,279 Speaker 4: he isn't arranging another date with you when we do 171 00:06:58,360 --> 00:07:02,680 Speaker 4: your second date update. Right after this second date update, 172 00:07:04,240 --> 00:07:07,919 Speaker 4: Cassie and Derek have been on one date and already 173 00:07:08,120 --> 00:07:09,520 Speaker 4: have two kids together. 174 00:07:11,200 --> 00:07:12,760 Speaker 2: Babies babies. 175 00:07:14,400 --> 00:07:17,480 Speaker 4: Plant children that they picked out for each other at 176 00:07:17,520 --> 00:07:21,600 Speaker 4: a nursery during their date. They even named their plants 177 00:07:21,760 --> 00:07:23,560 Speaker 4: Gertrude and Leif. 178 00:07:23,560 --> 00:07:31,960 Speaker 7: Ericsson Solid Solid Day, brought their plants to the restaurant together, 179 00:07:32,120 --> 00:07:35,800 Speaker 7: put them in high chairs with little bibs on, fed them. 180 00:07:36,040 --> 00:07:38,000 Speaker 4: I mean, you can assume, you can assume that they're 181 00:07:38,000 --> 00:07:38,840 Speaker 4: good parents like that. 182 00:07:39,520 --> 00:07:41,800 Speaker 2: I'm pretty sure the rounded chicken tenders. 183 00:07:42,000 --> 00:07:47,920 Speaker 4: Yes, I mean, pretty normal first date as far as 184 00:07:47,960 --> 00:07:48,480 Speaker 4: we've heard. 185 00:07:48,720 --> 00:07:51,240 Speaker 2: It's actually an adorable first date, and they. 186 00:07:51,080 --> 00:07:52,200 Speaker 3: Bought plants together. 187 00:07:52,320 --> 00:07:55,120 Speaker 4: The crazy thing is most of the plant enthusiasm was 188 00:07:55,200 --> 00:07:58,800 Speaker 4: actually led by Derek which I didn't expect. So it 189 00:07:58,880 --> 00:08:01,920 Speaker 4: is weird that he is not initiating another meet up. 190 00:08:02,200 --> 00:08:04,400 Speaker 4: The thing is, we never asked, Cassie, how many days 191 00:08:04,400 --> 00:08:06,800 Speaker 4: has it been since that all happened. 192 00:08:07,240 --> 00:08:09,000 Speaker 6: So I haven't seen him in five days. 193 00:08:10,440 --> 00:08:13,480 Speaker 4: That's four decades in plant years. So we can only 194 00:08:13,520 --> 00:08:14,640 Speaker 4: imagine how your children. 195 00:08:15,880 --> 00:08:16,640 Speaker 2: I don't know, but. 196 00:08:18,160 --> 00:08:18,680 Speaker 4: Pretty quick. 197 00:08:18,680 --> 00:08:20,240 Speaker 2: So have you heard from him at all? 198 00:08:20,960 --> 00:08:24,440 Speaker 6: Yeah? So there's been texting, but there's been no initiation 199 00:08:24,520 --> 00:08:25,200 Speaker 6: of a second day. 200 00:08:25,440 --> 00:08:28,200 Speaker 4: Okay, okay, so you're in communication, yeah, yeah. 201 00:08:28,120 --> 00:08:29,720 Speaker 2: It just feels like it fell off a little bit. 202 00:08:29,960 --> 00:08:32,319 Speaker 6: Yeah all right, I don't think you're help in figuring 203 00:08:32,360 --> 00:08:32,760 Speaker 6: this out. 204 00:08:33,480 --> 00:08:35,760 Speaker 4: Yeah, well, let's call this deadbeat plant dad and figure 205 00:08:35,800 --> 00:08:36,760 Speaker 4: out what. 206 00:08:38,000 --> 00:08:41,560 Speaker 2: He's taking care of? Gtrude, Okay, I mean. 207 00:08:41,480 --> 00:08:44,719 Speaker 4: At least we hope. So I don't like that he's 208 00:08:44,760 --> 00:08:46,440 Speaker 4: not talking to you, Cassie, So let's call him. We'll 209 00:08:46,440 --> 00:08:47,240 Speaker 4: see if he picks up. 210 00:08:47,240 --> 00:08:48,440 Speaker 6: Okay, okay, I thank you. 211 00:08:48,720 --> 00:08:50,520 Speaker 3: If he does an answer, can we do textual healing 212 00:08:50,520 --> 00:08:50,880 Speaker 3: at least? 213 00:08:50,880 --> 00:08:52,640 Speaker 4: Because I really want to do good idea? 214 00:08:53,120 --> 00:08:53,360 Speaker 6: Yes? 215 00:08:53,520 --> 00:08:57,240 Speaker 4: All plant therapy maybe too, So here we go. I'm 216 00:08:57,240 --> 00:09:06,199 Speaker 4: going right now. Hello, Hey, is this Derek? 217 00:09:07,600 --> 00:09:09,440 Speaker 2: Yeah, Derek. 218 00:09:09,760 --> 00:09:11,640 Speaker 4: Sorry to barge into your day here, but you're on 219 00:09:11,679 --> 00:09:13,600 Speaker 4: the radio right now with Brooke and Jeffrey in the morning. 220 00:09:13,960 --> 00:09:14,560 Speaker 3: Good morning. 221 00:09:14,760 --> 00:09:18,599 Speaker 2: Okay, that's that's weird. You said. Sorry, your phone's a 222 00:09:18,640 --> 00:09:19,720 Speaker 2: little hot to hear, Derek. 223 00:09:20,760 --> 00:09:22,920 Speaker 5: Yeah, seems is a little weird. I don't usually get 224 00:09:22,960 --> 00:09:24,280 Speaker 5: radio stations calling me in the morning. 225 00:09:25,000 --> 00:09:27,640 Speaker 4: I don't think most people do. So you're in the 226 00:09:27,679 --> 00:09:34,040 Speaker 4: general population with that one. That's fine, Derek. 227 00:09:34,080 --> 00:09:35,880 Speaker 2: I think we're calling you for a great reason though. 228 00:09:36,080 --> 00:09:37,640 Speaker 4: Yeah, it's a second we do you call it second 229 00:09:37,679 --> 00:09:38,200 Speaker 4: date update. 230 00:09:39,600 --> 00:09:42,600 Speaker 1: I don't like that you sound like one of our 231 00:09:42,600 --> 00:09:43,840 Speaker 1: commentors from the podcast. 232 00:09:43,920 --> 00:09:46,000 Speaker 4: Yeah, yeah, do you even know anything about it? 233 00:09:46,600 --> 00:09:49,760 Speaker 5: I mean, I figure it's you're calling me till somebody 234 00:09:49,800 --> 00:09:50,600 Speaker 5: wants to reach out. 235 00:09:51,320 --> 00:09:55,320 Speaker 4: Okay, smart Derek. So, yeah, you're right. There is a 236 00:09:55,360 --> 00:09:57,520 Speaker 4: girl that listens to our show who said she went 237 00:09:57,559 --> 00:09:59,679 Speaker 4: out with you recently, named Cassie. 238 00:09:59,400 --> 00:10:02,760 Speaker 1: And it sounded like an adorable date. So just so 239 00:10:02,800 --> 00:10:04,240 Speaker 1: you know, she does know that you guys have been 240 00:10:04,240 --> 00:10:06,680 Speaker 1: texting a little bit. It just feels like you're maybe 241 00:10:06,760 --> 00:10:07,880 Speaker 1: not interested or something. 242 00:10:08,640 --> 00:10:11,560 Speaker 5: I mean, I'm I'm kind of interested, but at the 243 00:10:11,559 --> 00:10:14,840 Speaker 5: moment I'm not kind of interested, kind. 244 00:10:14,679 --> 00:10:20,400 Speaker 4: Of but not kind of? Okay, you were pretty clear, So. 245 00:10:19,520 --> 00:10:21,760 Speaker 2: No, wonder she's so I don't know why she should 246 00:10:21,760 --> 00:10:22,200 Speaker 2: be complete. 247 00:10:22,840 --> 00:10:24,439 Speaker 4: Well, I hope you don't mind if we dive a 248 00:10:24,480 --> 00:10:26,600 Speaker 4: little bit deeper into that and ask you why. 249 00:10:27,440 --> 00:10:28,720 Speaker 5: I just need some more time. 250 00:10:29,400 --> 00:10:34,400 Speaker 3: Oh, what's going on? 251 00:10:34,480 --> 00:10:35,720 Speaker 2: Are you in a relationship? 252 00:10:37,040 --> 00:10:37,960 Speaker 5: No, I'm single. 253 00:10:38,040 --> 00:10:41,560 Speaker 2: I'm sing you're single? Okay? And you and you liked 254 00:10:41,640 --> 00:10:42,480 Speaker 2: Cassie right. 255 00:10:43,040 --> 00:10:45,320 Speaker 5: Yeah, I mean I like her. I just made a 256 00:10:45,320 --> 00:10:47,000 Speaker 5: big mistake mistake. 257 00:10:47,360 --> 00:10:51,680 Speaker 3: What no, girlfriend, but you made a mistake. But you 258 00:10:51,840 --> 00:10:53,439 Speaker 3: like her, but you also don't like her yet? 259 00:10:53,480 --> 00:10:56,079 Speaker 2: But a mistake with who? Because she really likes you? 260 00:10:56,720 --> 00:10:59,040 Speaker 5: Okay, I'll just tell you, but you can't tell her. 261 00:10:59,840 --> 00:11:02,000 Speaker 4: You We won't say we none of us here will 262 00:11:02,000 --> 00:11:02,920 Speaker 4: say anything to her. 263 00:11:03,240 --> 00:11:05,840 Speaker 5: Yes, deal, So I don't know if she told you. 264 00:11:05,880 --> 00:11:08,120 Speaker 5: But we bought each other plants on our date. 265 00:11:09,280 --> 00:11:12,160 Speaker 4: Yeah, it seemed kind of like cute and movie ish. 266 00:11:12,240 --> 00:11:14,600 Speaker 2: Yeah we even knew Gertrude and Leif Erickson or. 267 00:11:15,480 --> 00:11:16,360 Speaker 5: Okay right right? 268 00:11:16,440 --> 00:11:18,200 Speaker 4: Yeah we named him Okay. 269 00:11:18,000 --> 00:11:20,840 Speaker 5: But when we weren't eating them all, I didn't realize 270 00:11:20,920 --> 00:11:24,360 Speaker 5: I left Gertrude the roof of my car. So I 271 00:11:24,440 --> 00:11:28,679 Speaker 5: drove away. Yeah, I heard a bump. I didn't know 272 00:11:28,720 --> 00:11:31,680 Speaker 5: what it was, so I backed up and I ran over. 273 00:11:33,120 --> 00:11:41,400 Speaker 7: Your own plants, baby killed Trude? 274 00:11:43,559 --> 00:11:47,600 Speaker 4: Hello, yeah, Derek, she was supposed to wait. But that 275 00:11:47,600 --> 00:11:50,040 Speaker 4: that's Cassie. I wanted to talk to you on the 276 00:11:50,040 --> 00:11:56,040 Speaker 4: other line. Okay, Gertrude, Oh god, oh my god. 277 00:11:56,280 --> 00:11:58,079 Speaker 6: Didn't you try it to seame her? 278 00:11:59,160 --> 00:12:04,480 Speaker 5: So wait, Cassie, I really didn't know you were on 279 00:12:04,520 --> 00:12:05,960 Speaker 5: the phone. I didn't know you heard any of that. 280 00:12:07,559 --> 00:12:11,760 Speaker 6: I cannot believe because I can't believe this. She's dead. 281 00:12:12,160 --> 00:12:14,920 Speaker 6: Did you try at least bring her back to life? 282 00:12:15,280 --> 00:12:17,960 Speaker 4: What did you do with Gertrude afterwards? 283 00:12:18,280 --> 00:12:18,480 Speaker 7: Yeah? 284 00:12:18,520 --> 00:12:19,440 Speaker 6: Where in her body? 285 00:12:19,559 --> 00:12:26,440 Speaker 5: I mean, my god, like plants just as much as 286 00:12:26,480 --> 00:12:28,839 Speaker 5: everybody else, but you guys directly like it's a human being. 287 00:12:32,080 --> 00:12:34,560 Speaker 1: But listen, listen, why would you not be calling her 288 00:12:34,600 --> 00:12:36,680 Speaker 1: back just because the plant fell off the car. 289 00:12:37,360 --> 00:12:40,120 Speaker 5: I was gonna go ahead and get a new plant to. 290 00:12:40,200 --> 00:12:42,880 Speaker 4: Try and take it the second day. 291 00:12:43,200 --> 00:12:46,880 Speaker 6: You were going to try and replace her, you mean 292 00:12:46,920 --> 00:12:47,240 Speaker 6: with the. 293 00:12:47,280 --> 00:12:49,320 Speaker 4: Same exact plan. 294 00:12:49,720 --> 00:12:52,880 Speaker 5: Yeah, So I went back the next day to see 295 00:12:52,880 --> 00:12:57,319 Speaker 5: if they had the same plant, and they didn't. 296 00:12:57,720 --> 00:12:59,640 Speaker 4: Yeah, you were going to pass off the new plane 297 00:12:59,720 --> 00:13:02,560 Speaker 4: as Gertrude and try and trick Cassie to thinking it 298 00:13:02,640 --> 00:13:03,280 Speaker 4: was the same one. 299 00:13:03,640 --> 00:13:05,840 Speaker 2: Just tell her the truth. Cassie would think it's a 300 00:13:05,880 --> 00:13:06,680 Speaker 2: cute story. 301 00:13:06,800 --> 00:13:07,120 Speaker 6: I don't know. 302 00:13:07,200 --> 00:13:08,160 Speaker 3: She sounds pretty upset. 303 00:13:08,400 --> 00:13:12,640 Speaker 6: I don't even know what to say. I mean, Gertrude. Man, 304 00:13:12,679 --> 00:13:15,240 Speaker 6: there's only one Girtrude, I. 305 00:13:15,360 --> 00:13:16,880 Speaker 3: Know, the only one. 306 00:13:17,200 --> 00:13:18,920 Speaker 4: Yeah, I mean, Cassie, you're. 307 00:13:18,800 --> 00:13:22,440 Speaker 2: Being like funny right now, right, you're not being serious. 308 00:13:22,160 --> 00:13:23,280 Speaker 7: Kind of my guys. 309 00:13:23,520 --> 00:13:24,760 Speaker 6: It's really troubling though. 310 00:13:27,360 --> 00:13:30,040 Speaker 4: Well, because he ran it back over agains come up 311 00:13:30,880 --> 00:13:32,160 Speaker 4: and then disposed of the body. 312 00:13:33,000 --> 00:13:34,840 Speaker 2: It's not like it says anything about who he is. 313 00:13:34,880 --> 00:13:35,800 Speaker 2: You're a good person. 314 00:13:38,400 --> 00:13:42,079 Speaker 6: She meant something to you, just grows back. 315 00:13:42,600 --> 00:13:45,120 Speaker 2: Obviously did mean something to you, Cassie. That's why he 316 00:13:45,160 --> 00:13:46,880 Speaker 2: went back to the store the next day. 317 00:13:46,920 --> 00:13:50,440 Speaker 5: That's a good I'm a good guy. I don't murder 318 00:13:50,480 --> 00:13:54,120 Speaker 5: plants all the time. I buy them. I try and 319 00:13:54,200 --> 00:13:54,880 Speaker 5: keep them alive. 320 00:13:55,600 --> 00:13:56,319 Speaker 2: He tries to keep. 321 00:13:57,240 --> 00:14:00,960 Speaker 5: I mean, Cassie, I never run over one before. 322 00:14:01,880 --> 00:14:05,520 Speaker 1: This was the first, Jemmy, technically, you've ever driven on grass, 323 00:14:05,640 --> 00:14:06,360 Speaker 1: you've ever driven I. 324 00:14:06,400 --> 00:14:09,200 Speaker 4: Mean, yeah, we mean that he hasn't been driven over 325 00:14:09,200 --> 00:14:13,559 Speaker 4: his own plant child, like your husband does work? Okay, 326 00:14:13,840 --> 00:14:15,920 Speaker 4: I mean, Cassie, can you see what he's saying? Like 327 00:14:16,040 --> 00:14:18,280 Speaker 4: only a good guy would go through all of that 328 00:14:18,400 --> 00:14:22,160 Speaker 4: effort to hide the evidence of destroying your plant, baiting together, 329 00:14:22,400 --> 00:14:24,880 Speaker 4: and try and cover it up with a different plant. 330 00:14:24,600 --> 00:14:26,520 Speaker 3: And then ghost you until the new plant comes in. 331 00:14:26,880 --> 00:14:29,320 Speaker 2: Oh wait, so the new plant is coming. 332 00:14:29,760 --> 00:14:31,800 Speaker 5: So yes, it took five days to get here. It's 333 00:14:31,800 --> 00:14:33,560 Speaker 5: coming tomorrow. That's what I've been waiting for. 334 00:14:33,920 --> 00:14:35,840 Speaker 3: Okay, So you were. 335 00:14:35,720 --> 00:14:38,600 Speaker 2: Gonna one more day, you were going to just ask 336 00:14:38,640 --> 00:14:38,960 Speaker 2: her out? 337 00:14:39,000 --> 00:14:39,200 Speaker 7: Then? 338 00:14:39,960 --> 00:14:42,080 Speaker 5: Yeah, I was waiting for tomorrow making sure the plane 339 00:14:42,120 --> 00:14:44,440 Speaker 5: got here. So in case she came over and saw 340 00:14:44,600 --> 00:14:46,760 Speaker 5: that there was no plant, I wouldn't get in trouble. 341 00:14:48,080 --> 00:14:49,920 Speaker 4: Caess is a lot for you to process. What are 342 00:14:49,920 --> 00:14:50,720 Speaker 4: you thinking right now? 343 00:14:51,120 --> 00:14:53,920 Speaker 6: I mean, I am, I'm honestly heartbroken. I'm surprised at 344 00:14:53,920 --> 00:14:57,520 Speaker 6: how heartbroken I am over true, but I can understand 345 00:14:57,560 --> 00:14:58,960 Speaker 6: the sentiment. Okay. 346 00:14:59,040 --> 00:15:00,440 Speaker 4: Well, the good news is it's sounds like if you 347 00:15:00,480 --> 00:15:02,680 Speaker 4: guys ever got married, he definitely wouldn't be the type 348 00:15:02,720 --> 00:15:04,680 Speaker 4: of person try and hide money from you or like 349 00:15:05,040 --> 00:15:14,160 Speaker 4: keep secrets until like they came up years later Yeah, that. 350 00:15:14,200 --> 00:15:15,880 Speaker 2: Was a weird jump there. 351 00:15:16,560 --> 00:15:17,200 Speaker 3: You want to ask. 352 00:15:18,240 --> 00:15:20,320 Speaker 1: I think he is so cute and he's going to 353 00:15:20,560 --> 00:15:22,800 Speaker 1: all this effort just to make sure that you feel 354 00:15:22,840 --> 00:15:25,280 Speaker 1: good and feel happy, Cassie, that should be a huge 355 00:15:25,360 --> 00:15:26,080 Speaker 1: plus for you. 356 00:15:26,360 --> 00:15:29,200 Speaker 5: It's not like we've been texting back and forth. 357 00:15:30,400 --> 00:15:32,760 Speaker 3: True, he's been talking, just not committing well. 358 00:15:32,800 --> 00:15:36,160 Speaker 4: So instead of asking him first, I'm gonna ask Cassie, 359 00:15:36,440 --> 00:15:40,000 Speaker 4: would you like to see Derek again despite what you've 360 00:15:40,000 --> 00:15:42,080 Speaker 4: heard here on the show today? 361 00:15:42,360 --> 00:15:45,360 Speaker 6: Honestly I would. I think I'd give it another try. 362 00:15:45,440 --> 00:15:49,520 Speaker 4: Wow, you have to come with a new name for 363 00:15:49,600 --> 00:15:52,240 Speaker 4: that plant if Derek says yes to the second day, 364 00:15:52,320 --> 00:15:55,320 Speaker 4: because we will pay for it. Derek, It's up to you, 365 00:15:56,040 --> 00:15:58,720 Speaker 4: the dame. 366 00:15:58,800 --> 00:16:04,720 Speaker 6: This is your opportunity to get any reminder of Gertrude. 367 00:16:04,760 --> 00:16:06,320 Speaker 6: We have to call her something out. 368 00:16:06,760 --> 00:16:10,240 Speaker 4: Okay, the plant Murderer's Daughter is a good place to start. 369 00:16:10,520 --> 00:16:11,440 Speaker 2: That sounds like a novel. 370 00:16:11,640 --> 00:16:16,720 Speaker 4: Read Yeah, three part series coming soon to Amazon and 371 00:16:16,800 --> 00:16:17,760 Speaker 4: get your orders in now. 372 00:16:18,320 --> 00:16:20,680 Speaker 5: By the way, By the way, how's Lee Ferrison doing. 373 00:16:21,040 --> 00:16:24,360 Speaker 6: Oh he's thriving. He is thriving and surviving. 374 00:16:25,000 --> 00:16:29,200 Speaker 3: Driving is growing up so fast, you guys, Plants and 375 00:16:29,200 --> 00:16:30,080 Speaker 3: cars do not mix. 376 00:16:31,120 --> 00:16:37,400 Speaker 4: That's the murder mystery. Leaf killed Gertrude the insurance money 377 00:16:37,400 --> 00:16:37,960 Speaker 4: for himself. 378 00:16:38,280 --> 00:16:40,040 Speaker 2: No, I'm not going to read it. 379 00:16:40,200 --> 00:16:43,160 Speaker 4: Looking Jeffrey in the morning, I think we were all 380 00:16:43,240 --> 00:16:46,600 Speaker 4: kind of leaning heavy into the drama of what happened 381 00:16:46,600 --> 00:16:47,880 Speaker 4: there when Derek's. 382 00:16:47,520 --> 00:16:51,320 Speaker 2: Playing Yeah, let's crack that statement real quick. Well way 383 00:16:51,400 --> 00:16:54,840 Speaker 2: you mean you and jose Yeah, you were doing lots 384 00:16:54,840 --> 00:16:55,160 Speaker 2: of like. 385 00:16:55,160 --> 00:16:59,000 Speaker 4: WHOA, I know we're being dramatic. The good news is 386 00:16:59,040 --> 00:17:03,200 Speaker 4: that Clearer did prevail in the end, and Cassie was 387 00:17:03,600 --> 00:17:05,679 Speaker 4: I don't want to say like able to get over Gertrude, 388 00:17:05,680 --> 00:17:08,000 Speaker 4: because we never will. She's always going to be in 389 00:17:08,040 --> 00:17:11,560 Speaker 4: our hearts and in our compost bins. But to Gertrude, 390 00:17:11,960 --> 00:17:15,280 Speaker 4: we just want to say you were a bright light 391 00:17:15,640 --> 00:17:18,199 Speaker 4: in this world and in all of our lives and 392 00:17:18,240 --> 00:17:21,040 Speaker 4: in the lives of all of our listeners. Taken from 393 00:17:21,119 --> 00:17:22,120 Speaker 4: us far too soon. 394 00:17:22,160 --> 00:17:23,919 Speaker 2: Can you just start this with maybe we were a 395 00:17:23,920 --> 00:17:24,960 Speaker 2: little over dramatic. 396 00:17:25,600 --> 00:17:27,639 Speaker 4: Yeah, but now I'm getting back into it now, just 397 00:17:27,880 --> 00:17:30,760 Speaker 4: because I know, Gertrude, you are smiling down at us 398 00:17:30,800 --> 00:17:33,400 Speaker 4: from Plant Heaven right now, watching over all of us 399 00:17:33,480 --> 00:17:36,159 Speaker 4: and blessing our show with your good green vibes. 400 00:17:36,400 --> 00:17:38,720 Speaker 3: I'm still confident if we bury a plant and it 401 00:17:38,760 --> 00:17:41,200 Speaker 3: gets sunlight and water, it will just regrow again. 402 00:17:41,400 --> 00:17:41,640 Speaker 6: Yeah. 403 00:17:41,760 --> 00:17:43,680 Speaker 2: Well, you know, Brooke is forgetting her name for sure 404 00:17:43,680 --> 00:17:44,240 Speaker 2: in one hour. 405 00:17:45,400 --> 00:17:47,560 Speaker 4: We'll never forget, Gertrude, never forget. 406 00:17:47,760 --> 00:17:48,800 Speaker 3: We'll never let you forget. 407 00:17:48,880 --> 00:17:50,040 Speaker 2: Brus is not worth. 408 00:17:49,920 --> 00:17:53,880 Speaker 4: It, Gertrude, we love you. Okay, do well up there 409 00:17:53,920 --> 00:17:56,600 Speaker 4: and texting seven A five nine to email the show 410 00:17:56,880 --> 00:17:59,040 Speaker 4: if you need help for a second date update, we'll 411 00:17:59,040 --> 00:17:59,880 Speaker 4: call that person who's 412 00:17:59,880 --> 00:18:02,719 Speaker 2: Not I'm calling you back Brooke and Jeffrey in the morning.