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Speaker 2: I listened because Roden and Karen are hot.

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Speaker 1: Heartbreak feels good in a place like an AMC theater.

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Speaker 1: Somebody was lying because Game of Thrones that crashed the

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Speaker 1: app y'all and sometimes therapists need a little therapy too.

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Speaker 1: All that more coming up on the Black Out Tips.

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Speaker 1: I listened to The Black Guy is Always on the Coast.

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Speaker 1: I listened to The Black Guy Who Tips because right, uh,

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Speaker 1: and we're back until yesterday. Off Uh, it was a

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Speaker 1: monumentous Cajun House of the Dragon premiere on our HBO.

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Speaker 1: So Game of Throws is back. I was tweeting with

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Speaker 1: the hashtag them throws, but I saw a lot of

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Speaker 1: sticking to them throngs, even though some people say them

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Speaker 1: dragons and all that shit. And there was stuff I

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Speaker 1: just like, hey, we're chilling, tired, And I said, yeah,

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Speaker 1: and the number one thing before because I know some

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Speaker 1: people don't listen to regular shows. Yes, yes, I'm thinking

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Speaker 1: I'm back. We're gonna recap the House of the Dragon

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Speaker 1: on Wednesdays. Shout out to y'all that don't listen because

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Speaker 1: we have mentioned it several times at this point they

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Speaker 3: They was like, we got questions, nigga.

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Speaker 1: My mentions was full, Okay, it was. Hey, the winter's

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Speaker 1: the recap, Like, man, y'all don't got rested. Y'all forgot that.

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Speaker 1: We don't recap till the last the end of the week.

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Speaker 1: I like the rewatch make notes at my jokes, and

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Speaker 1: it's the reason why shit is the best. Yes, put

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Speaker 1: this shit file about. But yeah, so we'll definitely be

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Speaker 1: recapping on Wednesdays, and uh, trying to think, oh yeah,

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Speaker 1: official weapon of the show, the unofficial sport bulletbar, extreme

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Speaker 1: that's what. No, actually, no, no, no, no, my bad. Let's

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Speaker 1: Tech Coronavirus News. Let's hurry up and get to this bullshit. Okay,

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Speaker 1: it's happening still again. Look here we go again.

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Speaker 5: We got every yans really need to keep a mask

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Speaker 5: on hand and follow the plan. Get the vaccine and

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Speaker 5: second shots. Whether woman, the man black out who tips

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Speaker 5: is doing their part, but the dumbies expand niggas would

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Speaker 5: rather believe a bunch of misinformation. Fuck y'all idiots not

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Speaker 5: getting shots now. We gotta regrets. If we keep going

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Speaker 5: in this direction, we never can rest, never can't get

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Speaker 5: back to the less we be living the best.

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Speaker 1: Damn fool stuff.

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Speaker 5: The lion stop the intubation crying because it's your fucking

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Speaker 5: motherfucker's dying.

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Speaker 5: The lion stopped the benilated crying because it's your fucking

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Speaker 1: I do not.

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Speaker 3: Understand this shit.

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Speaker 5: I'm not a fan of this.

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Speaker 1: We would like one.

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Speaker 5: Win from the Pandemic Championship. The fuckers want to leave

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Speaker 5: it in game seven with Yati Stelf to coupo block

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Speaker 5: Tim looks like it's no June holiday for you when

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Speaker 5: So I'm just writing this snoo piece to let you

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Speaker 5: know how I feel. Corona virus. Yeah, fuck that COVID

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Speaker 5: nineteen is unseen. It's creeping in the air for you

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Speaker 3: It's unseen. It's creeping in.

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Speaker 1: Yet coronaviruses talk about it. That's happening things and still

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Speaker 1: going down. Uh. This is an article from Bloomberg that

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Speaker 6: I am doing things like everybody else, but I am

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Speaker 1: a study published Wednesday in the Universe in the journal

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Speaker 1: Lancet Psychology is what it's called. Okay. The findings, based

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Speaker 6: Yes, And it's also one of those things where I

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Speaker 3: Everybody else off. And so the people that can't.

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Speaker 6: Afford and have the privilege to actually have health care,

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Speaker 6: It it, and it's going to be a problem. I

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Speaker 1: It's good news that the higher risk of depression and

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Speaker 1: it's worrying that some other conditions, such as dementia and seizures,

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Speaker 3: Take your ass up there and get it. That shit matters.

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Speaker 1: Yeah, it's associated with less risk or at the worst,

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Speaker 1: health issues. Tucson Nightclub won a one point six million

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Speaker 1: I take it back these people. I'm on the club side.

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Speaker 1: See what that made sense to me?

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Speaker 3: Right right?

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Speaker 1: I mean they followed the law. Why shouldn't I be

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Speaker 3: Trained your child to do. No, you don't have to

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Speaker 1: Teach them stand up for us goddamn rights, okay, right,

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Speaker 8: That the school district has decided on independently because from

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Speaker 1: So yeah, he don't want his kid to wear a

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Speaker 1: and he's just a small amount of parents. But it

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Speaker 1: don't matter because they're the ones putting the pressure and

439
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Speaker 1: the people that are willing to comply, to believe in

440
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Speaker 1: the safety and believe in the mask, believe in vaccines.

441
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Speaker 1: They're not going to school board ready to fight threatening

442
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Speaker 1: people going online and shit. So this is what we

443
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Speaker 1: end up with.

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Speaker 6: Yeah, and it's not that funny, and and it's really

445
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Speaker 6: really fucked up because you put a lot of parents

446
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Speaker 6: in in fear because for a lot of parents it's

447
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Speaker 6: like they second or third year dealing with this bullshit

448
00:23:45,560 --> 00:23:48,280
Speaker 6: and they're like, oh my gosh, I cannot wait till

449
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Speaker 6: you graduate and get the fuck out of here.

450
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Speaker 3: Or a lot of parents are like fuck it.

451
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Speaker 6: You know, if I have the money and the privilege,

452
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Speaker 6: you stay, you as an own.

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Speaker 1: Yeah, the science don't got both sides.

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Speaker 6: No, the signs don't care, you know, because it's a

455
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Speaker 6: lot of parents that are like, I don't want to

456
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Speaker 6: uh lose my child or how my child get long

457
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Speaker 6: COVID and ship like that, because a lot of this

458
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Speaker 6: ship shows up different in children, because a lot of

459
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Speaker 6: these studies are with adults, but eventually gonna come out

460
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Speaker 6: with the studies of the children and how this impacts them,

461
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Speaker 6: and how this affects them, and you know how dealing

462
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Speaker 6: with uh the death of their teachers and the death

463
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Speaker 6: of their their uh student population and people getting sick

464
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Speaker 6: and things of the like, these things affect children. And

465
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Speaker 6: you're talking about I just want to see a goddamn smile,

466
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Speaker 6: But at the same time, you don't really care about

467
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Speaker 6: the about how this actually impacts children.

468
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Speaker 1: Apple employees create a petition after the company calls for

469
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Speaker 1: remote workers, they head back to the office.

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Speaker 3: People ain't trying to hear that.

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Speaker 1: Yep, don't don't care what the petition is called Apple Together.

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Speaker 1: People ain't trying to hear it's just funny because they're

473
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Speaker 1: basically saying Apple far apart, right.

474
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Speaker 6: Right, Because I was listening to a podcast. I want

475
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Speaker 6: to say it's a daily I won't to say this.

476
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Speaker 6: They are to box one of them and they was

477
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Speaker 6: actually talking about this, talking about remote working and how

478
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Speaker 6: a lot of employers have as remote working because they

479
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Speaker 6: don't actually want to change the structure of the company

480
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Speaker 6: to actually make remote working efficient, to see what employees

481
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Speaker 6: can actually do remote learning and might not remote learning,

482
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Speaker 6: but remote working, and what employees need to come in,

483
00:25:23,880 --> 00:25:26,520
Speaker 6: like they need to managers need to be retrained, like

484
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Speaker 6: the whole structure of the company needs to change, and

485
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Speaker 6: that right there is a long term goal and they

486
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Speaker 6: don't want to do that. They were like, well, come

487
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Speaker 6: to school two threads, I not come to school, go

488
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Speaker 6: to work, three days, be off two days. Have it

489
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Speaker 6: may be, but what they finding out is that nobody satisfied.

490
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Speaker 1: What they said is.

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Speaker 6: Happening is that you have people to go I want

492
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Speaker 6: to go to work, and guess what they spend their

493
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Speaker 6: whole day sitting in there on fucking zoom meetings because

494
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Speaker 6: the other half it's like, bitch, I'm not coming in

495
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Speaker 6: you know. So this camaraderie and this I want to

496
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Speaker 6: see my cowork it ain't there because you have a

497
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Speaker 6: percentage of people that's like bitch, No. And they talked

498
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Speaker 6: about how a lot of people with children and smaller

499
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Speaker 6: children and stuff, but like, hey, if my infang is sick.

500
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Speaker 6: Guess what, I don't have to eat up PTO time,

501
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Speaker 6: I don't have to come in late, I don't have

502
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Speaker 6: to do all these other.

503
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Speaker 3: Like I can do multiple things at the same time.

504
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Speaker 6: If my child is homeschooling, I can do that for

505
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Speaker 6: a few minutes and turn back around and go back

506
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Speaker 6: to work. And they were saying, like a lot of

507
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Speaker 6: companies don't want to they want to get back to

508
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Speaker 6: know them because it's easy, Like they don't actually want

509
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Speaker 6: to do the work that's just required to make it good.

510
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Speaker 3: So they'd be like, fucking everybody to come back to work.

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Speaker 6: And they said what happens immediately is that they have

512
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Speaker 6: a percentage of the workforce that immediately start looking for

513
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Speaker 6: other jobs. They was like, fuck it, I'm not coming

514
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Speaker 6: back in because in this day talked about parents, people

515
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Speaker 6: with disabilities, and they talk about black and brown people.

516
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Speaker 6: They would say a lot of black and brown people

517
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Speaker 6: actually prefer to work from home if they have the

518
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Speaker 6: ability to this that because they don't have to deal

519
00:26:54,680 --> 00:26:56,359
Speaker 6: with the racism, and women don't have to deal with

520
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Speaker 6: the sexism and none of that stuff like that person

521
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Speaker 6: interaction ain't always a good thing. And they were saying

522
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Speaker 6: like a lot of the people that's pro come back

523
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Speaker 6: to work. That said a lot of times they white

524
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Speaker 6: and they mail and the system worked for them. So

525
00:27:06,920 --> 00:27:08,960
Speaker 6: they said fuck it, But the system didn't always work

526
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Speaker 6: for everybody.

527
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Speaker 1: Yeah, the day of the work friend is over right, right?

528
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Speaker 1: Remember the people you had to talk to them since

529
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Speaker 1: you were stuck in the same place as them all day,

530
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Speaker 1: So like you kind of become kind of friends. It's

531
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Speaker 1: over if we don't got to go to work, it's

532
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Speaker 1: over work friends, right, I ain't hanging out with your ass.

533
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Speaker 1: We was only pretending to be friends because we had

534
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Speaker 1: to be somewhere for forty hours at the same time.

535
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Speaker 1: Fuck that, right.

536
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Speaker 6: And something else they talked about on this podcast, on

537
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Speaker 6: this particular podcast that I really appreciated something that I've

538
00:27:40,400 --> 00:27:42,560
Speaker 6: felt for a while. They were bringing up a good

539
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Speaker 6: point because the person talking was like, well, I'm at

540
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Speaker 6: home and I feel lonely and things like that. And

541
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Speaker 6: the people they were they were talking to people that

542
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Speaker 6: actually done the study to come up with number of statistics,

543
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Speaker 6: and they bought up a lot of different things which

544
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Speaker 6: I completely agree with. They said, your job is not

545
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Speaker 6: a replacement for your social life. Your job is not

546
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Speaker 6: required to be your social setting. But jobs actually make

547
00:28:04,240 --> 00:28:07,359
Speaker 6: uh work a social setting. So a lot of people

548
00:28:07,480 --> 00:28:09,960
Speaker 6: associate friendship and getting out of the hospital their job.

549
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Speaker 6: They said you should not do that. They said, that's

550
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Speaker 6: not your job's responsibility. And they was like, your job

551
00:28:13,880 --> 00:28:16,200
Speaker 6: is not your family. That was like you have a family,

552
00:28:16,560 --> 00:28:18,200
Speaker 6: and you know, they was bringing out a lot of

553
00:28:18,280 --> 00:28:20,680
Speaker 6: good things. There was like you people need to learn

554
00:28:20,800 --> 00:28:23,960
Speaker 6: how to go out and actually talk to people and

555
00:28:24,160 --> 00:28:26,920
Speaker 6: find people and go to clubs and do things online

556
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Speaker 6: and not put that, not put all this responsibility on

557
00:28:30,600 --> 00:28:33,360
Speaker 6: the job, because a job at any period of time

558
00:28:33,600 --> 00:28:35,639
Speaker 6: can send you a pink slip and tell you to

559
00:28:35,680 --> 00:28:37,480
Speaker 6: get the fuck out of here, and then you're crushing,

560
00:28:37,600 --> 00:28:39,760
Speaker 6: you destroyed because you hold up, you held up a

561
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Speaker 6: standard to something that that that that never promised this.

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Speaker 6: And that's why it's a generational thing because a lot

563
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Speaker 6: of general the younger generation comes in and they believe

564
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Speaker 6: that bullshit when they tell you it's a family blah

565
00:28:51,880 --> 00:28:53,400
Speaker 6: blah blah blah, and then they gave them a pink

566
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Speaker 6: slip and.

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Speaker 3: They're all destroyed.

568
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Speaker 6: But I think for a lot of people, particularly once

569
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Speaker 6: you become older, I know I felt for that. But

570
00:29:00,960 --> 00:29:03,280
Speaker 6: once you become older and you lost a few jobs

571
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Speaker 6: and got held a pink slip, you're like, no, bitch,

572
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Speaker 6: let me do my job and go home. Like I've

573
00:29:06,640 --> 00:29:09,440
Speaker 6: been watching online, they've been talking about quote unquote quiet quitting.

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Speaker 3: That's stupid.

575
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Speaker 6: You know what you're doing, working your four hours week

576
00:29:12,720 --> 00:29:14,920
Speaker 6: and getting off the fucking clock likely like you should

577
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Speaker 6: be doing in the first place, and not overworking yourself

578
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Speaker 6: and extending yourself.

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Speaker 3: That's what you're doing.

580
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Speaker 6: But they called to quote unquote quiet quitting because you

581
00:29:22,480 --> 00:29:24,240
Speaker 6: know now, it's like you always got to be on.

582
00:29:24,360 --> 00:29:25,840
Speaker 6: No bitch, when I'm off the clock, I'm off the

583
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Speaker 6: motherfucking clock. And there have to be a work life balance,

584
00:29:28,960 --> 00:29:31,640
Speaker 6: and Americans do not have a work life balance.

585
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Speaker 3: They talked about that too.

586
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Speaker 6: How for a lot of people because of the h

587
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Speaker 6: being able to work from home, there was like people

588
00:29:39,760 --> 00:29:42,800
Speaker 6: are traveling, being on going all parts of the world.

589
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Speaker 3: That was like people are.

590
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Speaker 6: Doing shit that they never could do before. And they

591
00:29:46,680 --> 00:29:49,040
Speaker 6: was like, you are not gonna take that option away

592
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Speaker 6: from people. People will be like, fucking I go find

593
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Speaker 6: a job that accommodates me now. And the power is

594
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Speaker 6: in the hands of the employees. With employers don't like

595
00:29:58,280 --> 00:30:01,080
Speaker 6: they just they just want everybody in to watching, monitor

596
00:30:01,080 --> 00:30:03,320
Speaker 6: and all that shit, because a lot of managers feel

597
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Speaker 6: like that's managing, and it's one of those things where

598
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Speaker 6: managers need to be retrained. I think eventually working from

599
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Speaker 6: home it might not be the standard for all jobs,

600
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Speaker 6: and more jobs will begin to offer that because you

601
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Speaker 6: will have certain.

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Speaker 1: Types of jobs, times of job you can't do work

603
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Speaker 1: from home, and a lot of jobs right.

604
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Speaker 6: Right, but the jobs that have it will be able

605
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Speaker 6: to do it better because you have managers and shit

606
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Speaker 6: better trained in it.

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Speaker 1: The other thing I saw saw in the chat said

608
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Speaker 1: the Apple jobs are too good and people won't leave them.

609
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Speaker 1: I would push back on that because the other thing

610
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Speaker 1: is everybody's hiring now, like you know, seven million people

611
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Speaker 1: around the globe dit or some shit, So it's a

612
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Speaker 1: lot of openings. It's definitely an employees market at this point,

613
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Speaker 1: and having Apple on your resume probably opens up some

614
00:30:53,920 --> 00:30:58,760
Speaker 1: other cushy ass gigs with other these other countries and

615
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Speaker 1: then the other companies, and these companies, some of them

616
00:31:03,720 --> 00:31:06,680
Speaker 1: are sticking to the remote work thing, you know, so

617
00:31:06,760 --> 00:31:10,760
Speaker 1: you're seeing like a Google and a Facebook and Spotify, saying,

618
00:31:10,960 --> 00:31:13,320
Speaker 1: we're not planning on bringing people back to the office.

619
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Speaker 1: So it's a chance that you know, Apple could lose

620
00:31:18,120 --> 00:31:21,920
Speaker 1: employees fucking around, you know what I mean, just because

621
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Speaker 1: this ain't the market that was like even four years ago.

622
00:31:26,000 --> 00:31:27,480
Speaker 1: You can be like, hey, this is a good job.

623
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Speaker 1: I ain't trying to fuck this up. Now you got

624
00:31:29,040 --> 00:31:33,080
Speaker 1: people out here like come to work, you know what,

625
00:31:33,840 --> 00:31:37,280
Speaker 1: Like they're hitting up the mother fucking LinkedIn.

626
00:31:37,760 --> 00:31:38,960
Speaker 3: Right, be like, how dare you?

627
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Speaker 6: Because and also I think for a lot of people

628
00:31:43,240 --> 00:31:46,040
Speaker 6: working in the office, depend on the person and the

629
00:31:46,120 --> 00:31:48,600
Speaker 6: position and the job, some people are actually get more

630
00:31:48,680 --> 00:31:50,440
Speaker 6: work done working at home.

631
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Speaker 3: Because and also in the study they were saying like people.

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Speaker 6: Was working like off hours, like you know sometimes people

633
00:31:58,160 --> 00:31:59,920
Speaker 6: actually work better later at night after they put the

634
00:32:00,120 --> 00:32:02,360
Speaker 6: kids to bid and things like that, something you cannot

635
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Speaker 6: do if you have to be in the office. Uh.

636
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Speaker 1: And then the last thing armor cron specific COVID booster

637
00:32:08,080 --> 00:32:13,680
Speaker 1: shots are just weeks away. Yes, let's fucking go. Anyone

638
00:32:13,760 --> 00:32:15,920
Speaker 1: age is twelve and up who has completed a primary

639
00:32:16,040 --> 00:32:20,800
Speaker 1: vaccination sent series is eligible to get the to get

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Speaker 1: it is what the CDC is saying. Ain't no, Nope,

641
00:32:23,960 --> 00:32:27,000
Speaker 1: they not, thank God, cause that was some bullshit. Yeah.

642
00:32:27,240 --> 00:32:32,600
Speaker 1: I went to I've changed pharmacies cause apparently the pharmacy

643
00:32:32,600 --> 00:32:35,240
Speaker 1: I was going to was out of network, so certain

644
00:32:35,560 --> 00:32:39,520
Speaker 1: drugs and stuff I couldn't get, which I had no idea.

645
00:32:39,560 --> 00:32:42,840
Speaker 1: They just kept telling me they were out. Fucked them

646
00:32:42,880 --> 00:32:44,640
Speaker 1: for that, cause they could have told me, hey, we

647
00:32:44,760 --> 00:32:46,920
Speaker 1: out of your network. You can go somewhere else and

648
00:32:47,000 --> 00:32:50,400
Speaker 1: get this, but instead I'm like, I'm just switching pharmacies then,

649
00:32:50,480 --> 00:32:52,560
Speaker 1: cause y'all, y'all, all you had to tell me was

650
00:32:52,640 --> 00:32:55,280
Speaker 1: just go get that other prescription field somewhere else, right,

651
00:32:55,520 --> 00:33:02,560
Speaker 1: which they didn't tell me anyway. So I uh, I

652
00:33:02,640 --> 00:33:05,520
Speaker 1: was switching pharmacists. And I went in there and they

653
00:33:05,640 --> 00:33:07,240
Speaker 1: was like, oh, the new flu shot is out. I

654
00:33:07,280 --> 00:33:09,400
Speaker 1: was like, oh shit, new shit, new shit, give me

655
00:33:09,440 --> 00:33:11,720
Speaker 1: that flu shot. So I got my flu shot today.

656
00:33:12,240 --> 00:33:14,280
Speaker 1: But they was also like, you want a COVID booster,

657
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Speaker 1: and I was like, but don was like, nah, the

658
00:33:18,240 --> 00:33:21,360
Speaker 1: new joint is only a few weeks away, so like,

659
00:33:21,920 --> 00:33:24,480
Speaker 1: I don't want to fuck up any timing with this

660
00:33:24,600 --> 00:33:27,320
Speaker 1: shit where I don't get it. Like now we're getting

661
00:33:27,320 --> 00:33:29,520
Speaker 1: too close, you know, Like if this was April, I'll

662
00:33:29,520 --> 00:33:32,160
Speaker 1: be like, yeah, shut up. But now that this shit

663
00:33:32,280 --> 00:33:34,880
Speaker 1: is like almost September, I don't want to be like

664
00:33:35,400 --> 00:33:37,480
Speaker 1: the new ship dropped in two weeks and then they'd

665
00:33:37,480 --> 00:33:39,720
Speaker 1: be like, sir, you just had a booster of that

666
00:33:39,920 --> 00:33:42,960
Speaker 1: old that don't protect against the armor cron I'm like.

667
00:33:43,040 --> 00:33:47,960
Speaker 6: No, so I will wait and wherever you go, I go.

668
00:33:48,160 --> 00:33:50,200
Speaker 6: So I guess I'd be going to new pharmacists too,

669
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Speaker 6: wherever it is.

670
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Speaker 1: Yeah, so it was it was just the publics. It

671
00:33:54,360 --> 00:33:59,200
Speaker 1: wasn't like a nothing special about it. But yeah, I said, okay,

672
00:34:00,160 --> 00:34:03,800
Speaker 1: let's get to other news. Let's see us I don'na

673
00:34:03,840 --> 00:34:10,960
Speaker 1: talk about maybe get straight into uh some fucking with

674
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Speaker 1: black people. Oh wait, you know what HBO Max crashed,

675
00:34:18,640 --> 00:34:19,040
Speaker 1: Yeah for.

676
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Speaker 6: Game of Game of Thrones, and you're not trying to

677
00:34:22,160 --> 00:34:25,600
Speaker 6: be funny. And it's one of those things where people lied,

678
00:34:26,200 --> 00:34:27,680
Speaker 6: like people just flat lied.

679
00:34:28,040 --> 00:34:28,279
Speaker 5: You know.

680
00:34:28,719 --> 00:34:31,160
Speaker 1: I told you that shit was just a hate coat

681
00:34:31,280 --> 00:34:35,160
Speaker 1: group type of that group think bullshit. Everybody was trying

682
00:34:35,200 --> 00:34:37,920
Speaker 1: their best to dog pole on the fucking show. Everyone

683
00:34:38,040 --> 00:34:39,840
Speaker 1: was trying to one up each other. It got fucking

684
00:34:39,960 --> 00:34:43,120
Speaker 1: annoying and shit, yes, to be honest, because one most

685
00:34:43,120 --> 00:34:45,719
Speaker 1: of these motherfucker's not that funny, and then it was

686
00:34:45,840 --> 00:34:48,759
Speaker 1: like you say the same tired ass. It's like the

687
00:34:48,880 --> 00:34:52,279
Speaker 1: ugly baby jokes where it's like, oh, you gotta laugh,

688
00:34:52,360 --> 00:34:54,400
Speaker 1: I said ugly baby, and it's like, well, it was

689
00:34:54,480 --> 00:34:57,000
Speaker 1: funny the first seven million times, but I'm gonna be

690
00:34:57,040 --> 00:34:59,359
Speaker 1: honest with you, you're not really giving me hard hitting

691
00:34:59,360 --> 00:35:04,799
Speaker 1: premises here of Mster seven million and one. So it's

692
00:35:04,880 --> 00:35:06,879
Speaker 1: not you know, to me, its hacked to other people

693
00:35:06,920 --> 00:35:09,600
Speaker 1: that are like, oh, look, we're all saying we're all

694
00:35:09,719 --> 00:35:13,480
Speaker 1: being naughty. So I think that's kind of what happened

695
00:35:13,520 --> 00:35:15,719
Speaker 1: on to this shit where it was like there was

696
00:35:15,920 --> 00:35:18,279
Speaker 1: nothing you couldn't say bad about Gaming Tholls for like

697
00:35:18,560 --> 00:35:20,640
Speaker 1: two years or some shit, and it was like, I

698
00:35:20,760 --> 00:35:25,400
Speaker 1: get it, you didn't like it. Apparently ninety five percent

699
00:35:25,440 --> 00:35:27,719
Speaker 1: of a show being good isn't good enough for you.

700
00:35:28,239 --> 00:35:31,440
Speaker 1: I get it. Now, go back to watching the seventeenth

701
00:35:31,760 --> 00:35:35,200
Speaker 1: Marvel spin off, like whatever it is that you know

702
00:35:35,440 --> 00:35:39,399
Speaker 1: everyone's watching. And then of course you had the people

703
00:35:39,440 --> 00:35:42,719
Speaker 1: that were like super critical, like this was a show

704
00:35:42,840 --> 00:35:46,200
Speaker 1: with two white men who didn't know what they were doing,

705
00:35:46,280 --> 00:35:48,920
Speaker 1: and that's why it's messed up because white men or

706
00:35:49,000 --> 00:35:51,040
Speaker 1: the devil. I'm like well, what about the first five

707
00:35:51,239 --> 00:35:54,000
Speaker 1: and a half seasons you loved by them two white

708
00:35:54,040 --> 00:35:56,200
Speaker 1: men with no experience. Guess what, by the end of

709
00:35:56,280 --> 00:35:58,920
Speaker 1: the series, they had the experience. It wasn't the experience

710
00:35:58,960 --> 00:35:59,720
Speaker 1: problem anymore.

711
00:36:00,280 --> 00:36:04,600
Speaker 6: It was so, you know, finish them books. Nobody right, right,

712
00:36:04,719 --> 00:36:07,000
Speaker 6: everybody lost across that when you bring it up. He

713
00:36:07,120 --> 00:36:08,360
Speaker 6: did not finish those books.

714
00:36:08,400 --> 00:36:11,359
Speaker 1: So in this case, the book's already done, right, they're

715
00:36:11,400 --> 00:36:14,160
Speaker 1: doing some old shit. He already wrote, right, don't tell,

716
00:36:15,360 --> 00:36:17,800
Speaker 1: I will see if we can tell. Honestly, it's one episode.

717
00:36:18,800 --> 00:36:20,960
Speaker 6: I mean, just just by the one episode, just from

718
00:36:21,000 --> 00:36:22,920
Speaker 6: the dialogue and stuff, I was like, okay, this must

719
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Speaker 6: be based off of stuff this.

720
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Speaker 1: Ar Oh, yeah, okay, I see what you mean. Yeah.

721
00:36:26,880 --> 00:36:31,759
Speaker 1: And so my main point was all these detractors, and

722
00:36:32,239 --> 00:36:36,200
Speaker 1: to me, the worst detractors are the ones who were like,

723
00:36:36,520 --> 00:36:39,399
Speaker 1: I didn't like that show because it wasn't feminist enough.

724
00:36:39,520 --> 00:36:44,880
Speaker 1: It was highly offensive to my feminist standards. That watch

725
00:36:45,000 --> 00:36:49,920
Speaker 1: this one. Huh, what are you doing over here? Numbers

726
00:36:49,960 --> 00:36:53,440
Speaker 1: don't lie, stop lying, y'all love this goddamn show. It

727
00:36:53,560 --> 00:36:58,000
Speaker 1: had nine point nine million viewers. This is the big stick.

728
00:36:58,360 --> 00:37:02,440
Speaker 1: This is the one ever since Dame of Thrones went

729
00:37:02,480 --> 00:37:06,200
Speaker 1: off the air. Every motherfucking one of these streaming challenge

730
00:37:06,719 --> 00:37:10,400
Speaker 1: has tried with a Game of Thrones type show and

731
00:37:10,560 --> 00:37:15,000
Speaker 1: they have all failed. None of them have made the

732
00:37:15,480 --> 00:37:18,560
Speaker 1: dent that Game of Thrones was making. They ain't getting

733
00:37:18,600 --> 00:37:21,640
Speaker 1: ten million people to stream the shit. They spending way

734
00:37:22,280 --> 00:37:27,040
Speaker 1: all this fucking money, and they're being extremely diverse, and

735
00:37:27,120 --> 00:37:30,320
Speaker 1: they trying to make the shit like PG ish. You

736
00:37:30,400 --> 00:37:33,920
Speaker 1: don't see all that hardcore killing and bore and all that,

737
00:37:34,080 --> 00:37:37,360
Speaker 1: you know, the even allusions to sexual as songs that

738
00:37:37,440 --> 00:37:39,759
Speaker 1: they're not doing that. They did exactly what you told

739
00:37:39,800 --> 00:37:42,399
Speaker 1: them to do, and nobody wanted to watch that shit.

740
00:37:42,680 --> 00:37:46,120
Speaker 1: So guess what. You back back at motherfucker Gamer Thrones

741
00:37:46,480 --> 00:37:49,879
Speaker 1: and they fucking brutal ass fantasy World. And I saw

742
00:37:49,920 --> 00:37:52,640
Speaker 1: them complaints last night and was like here we go

743
00:37:52,840 --> 00:37:55,960
Speaker 1: with them starting up the bullshit like this shit wasn't

744
00:37:56,320 --> 00:37:59,799
Speaker 1: feminist enough. It's like it never was. Stop stop coming

745
00:38:00,080 --> 00:38:02,440
Speaker 1: out here, Stop going to motherfucking subway talking aw it

746
00:38:02,480 --> 00:38:07,000
Speaker 1: ain't enough vegan ingredients like subway. You knew there was

747
00:38:07,040 --> 00:38:09,680
Speaker 1: a subway for you, walk through subways door talking mat

748
00:38:09,719 --> 00:38:10,720
Speaker 1: weather for let minyon.

749
00:38:10,880 --> 00:38:13,960
Speaker 3: You know right, it's McDonald's. Why don't you got no

750
00:38:14,040 --> 00:38:16,120
Speaker 3: beyond beef best? This is McDonald's.

751
00:38:16,120 --> 00:38:18,359
Speaker 1: And then the other part that was that I thought

752
00:38:18,520 --> 00:38:21,680
Speaker 1: was awesome because I just find it to be dishonest.

753
00:38:21,719 --> 00:38:24,240
Speaker 1: I don't like, you cannot like the show for those things,

754
00:38:24,400 --> 00:38:27,400
Speaker 1: but you're being dishonest, acting like you're not fitling to

755
00:38:27,440 --> 00:38:29,719
Speaker 1: be back at next week, like you don't love this

756
00:38:29,800 --> 00:38:33,400
Speaker 1: goddamn show. A nigga got his dick cut off of

757
00:38:33,480 --> 00:38:35,560
Speaker 1: being a rapist last night. I didn't see not one.

758
00:38:36,239 --> 00:38:39,600
Speaker 1: You know, the feminism is like that. That wasn't feminist

759
00:38:39,719 --> 00:38:42,359
Speaker 1: enough for y'all like that. It's a brutal world, that's

760
00:38:42,440 --> 00:38:45,800
Speaker 1: what they got, you know. But yeah, I watched that

761
00:38:46,000 --> 00:38:48,920
Speaker 1: motherfucking Wheel of Time and shit like that, and it's all.

762
00:38:48,840 --> 00:38:53,560
Speaker 3: Right, it's not no Thrones Thrones.

763
00:38:53,280 --> 00:38:55,359
Speaker 1: Hit that sou as the music here. I said, we back,

764
00:38:56,640 --> 00:39:01,160
Speaker 1: We're back. We were in the university and guys, it's

765
00:39:01,200 --> 00:39:03,160
Speaker 1: gonna be brutal and ugly and we all gonna be

766
00:39:03,239 --> 00:39:05,640
Speaker 1: talking about it, and yeah, I can't wait to recap

767
00:39:05,719 --> 00:39:07,840
Speaker 1: the ship and add in all the jokes and and

768
00:39:08,200 --> 00:39:13,600
Speaker 1: and stuff. But man, that shit was. It wouldn't be

769
00:39:13,680 --> 00:39:16,840
Speaker 1: so bad that they could just not watch right, but

770
00:39:17,000 --> 00:39:19,640
Speaker 1: god damn, they was watching, watching every moment in there,

771
00:39:19,640 --> 00:39:21,480
Speaker 1: and being like, I'm still better than the rest of

772
00:39:21,560 --> 00:39:27,080
Speaker 1: you because I ain't watched, but I ain't noticed they

773
00:39:27,160 --> 00:39:29,640
Speaker 1: bust up with that. I ain't watched, but I noticed

774
00:39:29,680 --> 00:39:33,759
Speaker 1: that it wasn't a womanish show. I'm sorry, was it ever?

775
00:39:34,640 --> 00:39:37,520
Speaker 1: Which which one of these is? Which one of these

776
00:39:37,560 --> 00:39:39,520
Speaker 1: shows lives up to your standards? Because I got a

777
00:39:39,560 --> 00:39:42,600
Speaker 1: feeling none of them really can saw the same high

778
00:39:42,640 --> 00:39:45,759
Speaker 1: fantasy bullshit. It's all the same. Like we know it

779
00:39:45,880 --> 00:39:47,840
Speaker 1: wasn't no niggas around, but now we're donet force them

780
00:39:47,880 --> 00:39:50,040
Speaker 1: to put niggas in the show, Like we know, we

781
00:39:50,200 --> 00:39:52,919
Speaker 1: know what we're doing. Like just sit back and watch

782
00:39:53,000 --> 00:39:55,960
Speaker 1: the dragons and the brutality and and and and.

783
00:39:56,560 --> 00:39:57,719
Speaker 3: You know why I can't.

784
00:39:57,960 --> 00:40:00,000
Speaker 1: Yeah, let's go, but yeah I can't.

785
00:40:00,040 --> 00:40:02,359
Speaker 6: And wait, God damn, we'd be recapping the whole show.

786
00:40:02,640 --> 00:40:06,000
Speaker 1: You say that ship was fucked up already one episode.

787
00:40:07,040 --> 00:40:08,200
Speaker 3: I am all again.

788
00:40:08,800 --> 00:40:11,759
Speaker 1: Uh, let's talk about other things, though there's still other

789
00:40:11,840 --> 00:40:16,319
Speaker 1: hot button issues to bring up. Matter of fact, Uh,

790
00:40:16,440 --> 00:40:19,040
Speaker 1: let's go straight into fucking with black people. But I

791
00:40:19,120 --> 00:40:21,040
Speaker 1: had to get that game of throngs take off my chest.

792
00:40:21,120 --> 00:40:26,520
Speaker 1: I you motherfucking lions. Goddamn y'all, ain't shit. I'm not

793
00:40:26,719 --> 00:40:29,799
Speaker 1: watching guys. I can't get on the app. It's anyone else.

794
00:40:31,560 --> 00:40:33,160
Speaker 1: I thought, why are you looking to get on the app?

795
00:40:33,200 --> 00:40:34,160
Speaker 1: Why you won't be at here?

796
00:40:34,800 --> 00:40:35,239
Speaker 2: Go home?

797
00:40:35,440 --> 00:40:38,000
Speaker 6: People had them jokes about you know, you're paying for cable,

798
00:40:38,960 --> 00:40:40,840
Speaker 6: go home. Didn't have a problem with the cable.

799
00:40:41,120 --> 00:40:42,600
Speaker 1: Yeah, but go home. That is what I'm saying. You

800
00:40:42,640 --> 00:40:45,440
Speaker 1: say you weren't gonna watch, remember you disgusted. I hate

801
00:40:45,480 --> 00:40:49,239
Speaker 1: y'all Little Dragon show. Mm hmm. I'm so also hurt

802
00:40:49,280 --> 00:40:52,319
Speaker 1: by the last season. I'll never again. Okay, Well, then

803
00:40:52,400 --> 00:40:56,040
Speaker 1: what you're doing? How did you.

804
00:41:06,480 --> 00:41:07,320
Speaker 5: With them people?

805
00:41:07,600 --> 00:41:08,160
Speaker 3: Because they.

806
00:41:12,400 --> 00:41:15,719
Speaker 1: Because because.

807
00:41:16,960 --> 00:41:17,560
Speaker 3: People and.

808
00:41:32,160 --> 00:41:35,200
Speaker 1: Another thing. Someone brought it up in the chat. Thank you.

809
00:41:35,400 --> 00:41:38,680
Speaker 1: I almost forgot to make this point, HBO. We are

810
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Speaker 1: going we are going to let's lesson abuse of women

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Speaker 1: in toxic things displayed first episode literal brutal see section.

812
00:41:46,480 --> 00:41:48,120
Speaker 1: First of all, that ship was all the letter section.

813
00:41:48,320 --> 00:41:53,520
Speaker 1: But secondly, secondly, I'm glad you brought that up, because

814
00:41:53,560 --> 00:41:56,239
Speaker 1: if there is one thing that did annoy me is

815
00:41:56,320 --> 00:42:01,560
Speaker 1: the fact that they responded to these goddamn bad faith

816
00:42:01,760 --> 00:42:05,359
Speaker 1: critics that were acting like the gamer Thrones universe could

817
00:42:05,440 --> 00:42:09,959
Speaker 1: ever be depicted in a way that is truly quote

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00:42:10,080 --> 00:42:13,680
Speaker 1: unquote twenty twenty two Woke The book was not written

819
00:42:13,719 --> 00:42:16,560
Speaker 1: in that way. The fucking interpretation is not gonna be

820
00:42:16,600 --> 00:42:19,040
Speaker 1: that way. You're gonna have to change everything that happened

821
00:42:19,040 --> 00:42:22,239
Speaker 1: in the goddamn books to truly make this heroin world.

822
00:42:22,680 --> 00:42:24,920
Speaker 1: That was brutal to all these people. It's brutal to

823
00:42:25,120 --> 00:42:27,160
Speaker 1: motherfuckers getting they dicks cut off like thing. Ho the

824
00:42:27,200 --> 00:42:31,240
Speaker 1: shit you niggas are full of shit. You didn't expect

825
00:42:31,280 --> 00:42:34,719
Speaker 1: that to happen, and full of shit for HBO people

826
00:42:34,760 --> 00:42:38,600
Speaker 1: to even do interviews entertaining that nonsense. They should have

827
00:42:38,719 --> 00:42:41,239
Speaker 1: just I know that it would have. They would have

828
00:42:41,280 --> 00:42:43,640
Speaker 1: people would have been outraged, but them outraged people gonna watch.

829
00:42:43,960 --> 00:42:46,440
Speaker 1: They should have turned straight to the motherfucker interviewer when

830
00:42:46,480 --> 00:42:49,080
Speaker 1: he asked that, or she asked that, and said, ma'am, listen,

831
00:42:49,800 --> 00:42:53,400
Speaker 1: they gonna watch. Now, Well, what do you mean I mean?

832
00:42:53,520 --> 00:42:54,440
Speaker 1: Is it gonna be feminist?

833
00:42:54,520 --> 00:42:54,719
Speaker 3: Ma'am?

834
00:42:54,800 --> 00:42:57,640
Speaker 1: What I mean is they gonna watch? Well, you said

835
00:42:57,640 --> 00:42:59,680
Speaker 1: it's not gonna be as brutal. It's it's a brutal,

836
00:42:59,760 --> 00:43:03,040
Speaker 1: fucking the world. It's gonna be fucked up, and they

837
00:43:03,160 --> 00:43:04,640
Speaker 1: know it's gonna be fucked up. Matter of fact, if

838
00:43:04,640 --> 00:43:06,359
Speaker 1: it's not fucked up, they gonna say I shouldn't mean

839
00:43:07,200 --> 00:43:10,000
Speaker 1: they gonna watch what do you is? It gonna be

840
00:43:10,040 --> 00:43:12,520
Speaker 1: different than Latin. It's gonna be fucked up, and it's

841
00:43:12,520 --> 00:43:15,719
Speaker 1: gonna be fucked up in ways that are different, still

842
00:43:15,760 --> 00:43:17,719
Speaker 1: gonna be fucked up. It's not gonna be good for

843
00:43:17,880 --> 00:43:22,000
Speaker 1: anybody to live in this world. Everybody is fucked up

844
00:43:22,280 --> 00:43:24,920
Speaker 1: or getting fucked up, right, you know you're.

845
00:43:24,800 --> 00:43:28,239
Speaker 6: Talking about before the other one, so you know the

846
00:43:28,400 --> 00:43:32,440
Speaker 6: medicine was in this advanced, the medical procedures wasn't advanced.

847
00:43:32,480 --> 00:43:34,759
Speaker 3: Like, yes, it's not gonna be crude, it's not gonna

848
00:43:34,760 --> 00:43:35,120
Speaker 3: be nice.

849
00:43:35,600 --> 00:43:37,680
Speaker 1: Yeah, I just that shit got on my nerves. I

850
00:43:37,760 --> 00:43:40,799
Speaker 1: read them quotes and was like, why are y'all even

851
00:43:40,880 --> 00:43:44,000
Speaker 1: pretending like it's people not even gonna like it if

852
00:43:44,040 --> 00:43:46,239
Speaker 1: it's not people having sex in the background and shit

853
00:43:46,480 --> 00:43:49,880
Speaker 1: like who was this impressive? Who are the people that

854
00:43:49,960 --> 00:43:53,000
Speaker 1: were out there? Like all right, I'm thinking I'm back in.

855
00:43:53,600 --> 00:43:55,480
Speaker 1: You just want to excuse to hit play? It's no

856
00:43:55,680 --> 00:43:57,840
Speaker 1: reason to fuck with this show if you own that

857
00:43:58,160 --> 00:44:02,040
Speaker 1: oh man. Oh all right, so now yeah, fucking with

858
00:44:02,120 --> 00:44:06,480
Speaker 1: black people. There's a lot of stuff happening right now. Okay,

859
00:44:07,760 --> 00:44:12,920
Speaker 1: this one went viral over the weekend. There was a

860
00:44:13,160 --> 00:44:20,759
Speaker 1: woman who got fired as a therapist from her job

861
00:44:21,080 --> 00:44:26,759
Speaker 1: because she went viral on TikTok and uh, I guess

862
00:44:26,920 --> 00:44:31,160
Speaker 1: you know, people wasn't impressed with that shit. Uh and

863
00:44:31,880 --> 00:44:39,319
Speaker 1: her original video people were sharing, you know, like, uh yeah,

864
00:44:39,400 --> 00:44:41,600
Speaker 1: y'all need to listen to this, you know, because it

865
00:44:41,719 --> 00:44:45,120
Speaker 1: all started from there was an article about the rise

866
00:44:45,200 --> 00:44:49,640
Speaker 1: of lonely men, uh, lonely single men, and talks about

867
00:44:49,680 --> 00:44:57,320
Speaker 1: how women have got you know, like men are psychology todays,

868
00:44:57,360 --> 00:45:01,239
Speaker 1: like men are no longer uh find as many relationships

869
00:45:01,239 --> 00:45:04,960
Speaker 1: because they don't have emotional skills and all that stuff.

870
00:45:05,080 --> 00:45:08,120
Speaker 1: And you know, I totally understand that. The thing I

871
00:45:08,160 --> 00:45:10,600
Speaker 1: would add is, I don't think men ever had great

872
00:45:10,680 --> 00:45:13,879
Speaker 1: emotional skills. I think the main thing that always gets

873
00:45:14,000 --> 00:45:16,239
Speaker 1: swept under the rug and these fucking discussions that it's

874
00:45:16,280 --> 00:45:19,160
Speaker 1: the number one most obvious thing reading this book called

875
00:45:19,200 --> 00:45:21,879
Speaker 1: poorly understood, and one of the mess it talks about

876
00:45:22,000 --> 00:45:24,960
Speaker 1: is the marriage myth of getting out of poverty. It's

877
00:45:25,000 --> 00:45:27,560
Speaker 1: like if more people got married, there'd be less poverty.

878
00:45:28,400 --> 00:45:30,960
Speaker 1: And the reason that part of that is a myth

879
00:45:31,080 --> 00:45:34,200
Speaker 1: is because this book doesn't talk about love and emotions.

880
00:45:34,239 --> 00:45:40,200
Speaker 1: It talks about economics. Women have more choices now when

881
00:45:40,239 --> 00:45:42,799
Speaker 1: they had less choices, such as I need a man

882
00:45:42,960 --> 00:45:48,160
Speaker 1: to get a bank account, I can't vote, I can't

883
00:45:48,280 --> 00:45:51,879
Speaker 1: own property, I can't drive. When you needed a man

884
00:45:52,200 --> 00:45:56,160
Speaker 1: to have things, then, of course your ability to get

885
00:45:56,239 --> 00:45:59,840
Speaker 1: and attain a marriage to a man was not just

886
00:46:00,080 --> 00:46:02,879
Speaker 1: a emotional thing. It was a financial thing, and people

887
00:46:03,040 --> 00:46:04,759
Speaker 1: use it. That's why we still use it as a

888
00:46:04,760 --> 00:46:07,640
Speaker 1: cudgel to day. You ain't got no man like there's

889
00:46:07,680 --> 00:46:10,080
Speaker 1: still an old school thinking attached to that like, and

890
00:46:10,200 --> 00:46:15,520
Speaker 1: you don't have the economic latter movement to move around

891
00:46:15,640 --> 00:46:17,400
Speaker 1: and do things that your own agency.

892
00:46:17,520 --> 00:46:17,680
Speaker 3: You know.

893
00:46:18,000 --> 00:46:22,080
Speaker 6: Yes, and years ago before women had a lot of

894
00:46:22,120 --> 00:46:24,839
Speaker 6: the choices that they have. Even with colleges and universities,

895
00:46:25,239 --> 00:46:27,520
Speaker 6: some girls actually went to college to get a man.

896
00:46:27,719 --> 00:46:27,759
Speaker 2: Like.

897
00:46:28,120 --> 00:46:31,239
Speaker 6: They would have a high dropout rate. They would go

898
00:46:31,320 --> 00:46:33,360
Speaker 6: to college, get a man, and then they would no

899
00:46:33,400 --> 00:46:37,360
Speaker 6: longer go to college. But now people are like, no, no, no, no,

900
00:46:37,600 --> 00:46:39,239
Speaker 6: I fuck that, I'm going to.

901
00:46:39,280 --> 00:46:39,960
Speaker 3: Get my degree.

902
00:46:40,280 --> 00:46:41,920
Speaker 6: I'm one of a brother like I don't have to

903
00:46:42,000 --> 00:46:46,120
Speaker 6: be attached to you anymore. And this is why they're

904
00:46:46,200 --> 00:46:49,399
Speaker 6: making the laws to strip women. We can't have y'all

905
00:46:49,440 --> 00:46:52,480
Speaker 6: out here being free and making choices in quote unquote

906
00:46:53,080 --> 00:46:55,919
Speaker 6: leaving the men behind. Our egos are broken, y'all making

907
00:46:56,040 --> 00:46:57,799
Speaker 6: us feel bad and we don't want to step up

908
00:46:57,800 --> 00:47:00,480
Speaker 6: and do what we have to do. So what we do,

909
00:47:00,600 --> 00:47:03,239
Speaker 6: we've fucking passed these fucked up as lolls to make

910
00:47:03,320 --> 00:47:03,800
Speaker 6: you crawl.

911
00:47:04,640 --> 00:47:07,319
Speaker 1: It's just patriarchy, is all that shit. So she made

912
00:47:07,360 --> 00:47:11,520
Speaker 1: this video based off of this article, and apparently she

913
00:47:12,239 --> 00:47:14,799
Speaker 1: does on TikTok, and you know she does, a lot

914
00:47:14,880 --> 00:47:18,040
Speaker 1: of her stuff has come about even before this, what

915
00:47:18,120 --> 00:47:22,880
Speaker 1: about black men being you know, trash or whatever. But

916
00:47:23,040 --> 00:47:26,040
Speaker 1: in this video she specifically reverences being a therapist some

917
00:47:26,120 --> 00:47:29,279
Speaker 1: of her clients being black men. But I'll play the

918
00:47:29,360 --> 00:47:30,680
Speaker 1: video sday.

919
00:47:30,760 --> 00:47:33,080
Speaker 10: You need to expand your emotional vocabulary.

920
00:47:33,400 --> 00:47:37,080
Speaker 2: It's so your life can be easier. Don't you want

921
00:47:37,120 --> 00:47:38,920
Speaker 2: to be able to communicate with your bitch?

922
00:47:39,400 --> 00:47:40,719
Speaker 3: I think I think yes.

923
00:47:41,200 --> 00:47:44,440
Speaker 1: Now, keep in mind the article was not about black

924
00:47:44,520 --> 00:47:48,920
Speaker 1: men specifically, just men. But oh, I'm sorry, it's not

925
00:47:49,000 --> 00:47:54,120
Speaker 1: showing Okay, give me one second. Everybody, there you go,

926
00:47:54,680 --> 00:47:57,239
Speaker 1: thank you all? Right, there you go, say you need.

927
00:47:57,200 --> 00:48:01,040
Speaker 10: To expand your emotional vocabulary. It's so your life can

928
00:48:01,200 --> 00:48:04,320
Speaker 10: be easier. Don't you want to be able to communicate

929
00:48:04,400 --> 00:48:05,040
Speaker 10: with yo, bitch?

930
00:48:06,200 --> 00:48:09,879
Speaker 2: I think yes, right? Long gone are the days where

931
00:48:09,880 --> 00:48:13,640
Speaker 2: you can just shut down. Bitch is not tolerating that

932
00:48:14,200 --> 00:48:18,759
Speaker 2: like it used to be, where men provided financially or

933
00:48:19,440 --> 00:48:22,600
Speaker 2: with shmi and bitches can make their own self come

934
00:48:22,719 --> 00:48:24,920
Speaker 2: and we can pay for our own shit. So I'm

935
00:48:24,960 --> 00:48:27,560
Speaker 2: gonna need y'all to catch up on the emotional part.

936
00:48:27,960 --> 00:48:29,719
Speaker 2: If a bitch is telling you, I need you to

937
00:48:29,800 --> 00:48:31,200
Speaker 2: communicate more, open.

938
00:48:31,040 --> 00:48:33,920
Speaker 10: Your fucking mouth. But you know what I realized, and

939
00:48:34,160 --> 00:48:35,000
Speaker 10: let me let me back.

940
00:48:34,920 --> 00:48:35,600
Speaker 3: Up, Let me back up.

941
00:48:36,160 --> 00:48:38,840
Speaker 2: A common misconception about me as a clinician is that

942
00:48:39,200 --> 00:48:43,759
Speaker 2: ninety percent of my clientele have been men, black men specifically.

943
00:48:44,160 --> 00:48:48,480
Speaker 1: And now that part right there is so I guess

944
00:48:48,640 --> 00:48:52,400
Speaker 1: her previous thing. She doesn't necessarily break down like that.

945
00:48:52,560 --> 00:48:55,160
Speaker 1: Her clientele is so much black men, even though a

946
00:48:55,239 --> 00:48:57,920
Speaker 1: lot of her content is about black men being you

947
00:48:58,000 --> 00:49:01,839
Speaker 1: know what, you know, talking to black man like this right.

948
00:49:02,400 --> 00:49:06,080
Speaker 2: What we specifically work on is expanding their emotional vocabulary

949
00:49:06,160 --> 00:49:08,680
Speaker 2: because a lot of y'all motherfuckers don't even have the words.

950
00:49:08,440 --> 00:49:12,320
Speaker 10: To express how you're feeling. So when you expand your.

951
00:49:12,239 --> 00:49:15,839
Speaker 2: Vocabulary and knowledge of what you are experiencing, because y'all

952
00:49:15,840 --> 00:49:20,080
Speaker 2: are human beings who experience feelings and emotions and don't.

953
00:49:19,880 --> 00:49:21,640
Speaker 10: Have to choke that shit down no more, y'all have

954
00:49:21,719 --> 00:49:23,640
Speaker 10: to choke that shit down since twenty sixteen.

955
00:49:24,080 --> 00:49:28,000
Speaker 2: Anyway, if y'all are not in therapy expanding your emotional vocabulary,

956
00:49:28,160 --> 00:49:29,360
Speaker 2: your life just.

957
00:49:29,440 --> 00:49:31,160
Speaker 10: Off top is going to be more difficult.

958
00:49:32,080 --> 00:49:35,360
Speaker 2: When you expand your emotional vocabulary, you expand your awareness

959
00:49:35,400 --> 00:49:41,880
Speaker 2: of yourself. When you expand your emotional vocabulary, you understand

960
00:49:41,920 --> 00:49:42,359
Speaker 2: how you can.

961
00:49:42,400 --> 00:49:45,600
Speaker 10: Navigate in this bitch, this fucking weird ass world that

962
00:49:45,760 --> 00:49:46,759
Speaker 10: is so hard on y'all.

963
00:49:47,040 --> 00:49:49,640
Speaker 2: Like, let's acknowledge that the world is very difficult for y'all,

964
00:49:49,800 --> 00:49:52,040
Speaker 2: but ya are not making it any easier.

965
00:49:52,120 --> 00:49:53,000
Speaker 3: Bro, Bro, You're not.

966
00:49:53,960 --> 00:49:56,359
Speaker 2: When bitches are telling y'all to go to therapy, it's

967
00:49:56,480 --> 00:50:01,240
Speaker 2: not for us, it's for y'all. Sad motherfuckers, go to therapy,

968
00:50:01,360 --> 00:50:02,320
Speaker 2: talk about that shit.

969
00:50:02,160 --> 00:50:03,800
Speaker 10: That's on our chest. You don't have to choke that

970
00:50:03,880 --> 00:50:07,200
Speaker 10: shit down. The more y'all are doing a disservice to y'allself,

971
00:50:07,600 --> 00:50:09,400
Speaker 10: and so let me let me, let me sum this

972
00:50:09,440 --> 00:50:09,840
Speaker 10: shit up.

973
00:50:10,920 --> 00:50:14,840
Speaker 2: Y'all told bitches to elevate our standards, and at the

974
00:50:14,960 --> 00:50:18,520
Speaker 2: cost of us elevating y'all standards, y'all got asked because

975
00:50:18,560 --> 00:50:22,960
Speaker 2: y'all didn't elevate either. Bitches are not tolerating emotional abuse,

976
00:50:23,160 --> 00:50:24,080
Speaker 2: emotional neglect.

977
00:50:24,440 --> 00:50:26,320
Speaker 10: Step it up, Go talk to somebody.

978
00:50:26,520 --> 00:50:31,640
Speaker 2: Go expand your emotional vocabulary so your life can be better, bitch, All.

979
00:50:31,560 --> 00:50:33,080
Speaker 10: Right, go on, piece.

980
00:50:35,120 --> 00:50:38,600
Speaker 1: I feel like every TikTok is this TikTok is kind

981
00:50:38,600 --> 00:50:40,719
Speaker 1: of evolved and not evolved. I guess it's always just

982
00:50:40,800 --> 00:50:43,880
Speaker 1: been this of just like, where as little clothes as

983
00:50:43,920 --> 00:50:48,360
Speaker 1: possible to be a certain light of a village of

984
00:50:48,680 --> 00:50:51,600
Speaker 1: attractive or your content won't do it because like slapping

985
00:50:51,600 --> 00:50:53,560
Speaker 1: your ass, it didn't really have nothing to do anything.

986
00:50:53,600 --> 00:50:55,760
Speaker 1: Its like and I know y'all need to see some pittoes.

987
00:50:55,760 --> 00:50:58,759
Speaker 1: All right, here we go. But yeah, so that was

988
00:50:58,800 --> 00:51:02,160
Speaker 1: the video that went viol and she ended up getting

989
00:51:02,200 --> 00:51:03,200
Speaker 1: fired this.

990
00:51:03,440 --> 00:51:06,400
Speaker 2: Well, hello, it's your friendly neighborhood therapist who thought she

991
00:51:06,440 --> 00:51:09,320
Speaker 2: could save these hosts but got her job terminated.

992
00:51:08,880 --> 00:51:12,520
Speaker 10: As a result story time, I think, yes, should you.

993
00:51:12,560 --> 00:51:15,200
Speaker 1: Know, I don't know I would. I'm gonna be honest,

994
00:51:15,400 --> 00:51:17,680
Speaker 1: and I mean, I guess all of it's kind of oversharing,

995
00:51:17,760 --> 00:51:22,880
Speaker 1: but I would definitely feel a way sharing that I

996
00:51:22,920 --> 00:51:24,919
Speaker 1: got fired for that shit a couple of days later,

997
00:51:25,080 --> 00:51:28,080
Speaker 1: Like some of this I would hold in private, you

998
00:51:28,160 --> 00:51:30,360
Speaker 1: know what I mean. Obviously everybody's different, but it's like,

999
00:51:31,280 --> 00:51:33,320
Speaker 1: I wonder what could happen that you would be like,

1000
00:51:33,400 --> 00:51:34,960
Speaker 1: I don't need to run to the internet and telling

1001
00:51:35,040 --> 00:51:36,600
Speaker 1: my innermost thoughts on this That.

1002
00:51:38,200 --> 00:51:40,560
Speaker 3: People do it across the board regardless of the age.

1003
00:51:40,640 --> 00:51:43,040
Speaker 6: But I realized that it's a generational thing to me

1004
00:51:43,200 --> 00:51:46,840
Speaker 6: to an extent, because our generation was not raised on

1005
00:51:47,239 --> 00:51:50,040
Speaker 6: telling everything all the time, and our generation was not

1006
00:51:50,239 --> 00:51:53,320
Speaker 6: of the internet like we we the Internet was around,

1007
00:51:53,360 --> 00:51:55,239
Speaker 6: but we actually came into the Internet. But you're talking

1008
00:51:55,239 --> 00:51:57,840
Speaker 6: about generation, well, the Internet has been there since that

1009
00:51:57,880 --> 00:52:01,239
Speaker 6: they've been born. So to them, their social circles and

1010
00:52:01,320 --> 00:52:05,000
Speaker 6: everything is aligned like like like that's what they go friends,

1011
00:52:05,239 --> 00:52:07,600
Speaker 6: like everything is connected online.

1012
00:52:08,080 --> 00:52:11,160
Speaker 1: Yeah, if it was, this just feels like a l

1013
00:52:11,280 --> 00:52:13,040
Speaker 1: I would take in private. I wouldn't want to want

1014
00:52:13,080 --> 00:52:16,279
Speaker 1: these niggas to know they won or whatever. But you know,

1015
00:52:16,400 --> 00:52:18,719
Speaker 1: but I guess it is content, and if TikTok is

1016
00:52:18,840 --> 00:52:21,120
Speaker 1: your content, then this is what you're gonna do.

1017
00:52:21,640 --> 00:52:25,160
Speaker 2: I've hosted a video on Monday telling men that their

1018
00:52:25,239 --> 00:52:28,120
Speaker 2: dusty behavior is only harming them and that they would

1019
00:52:28,120 --> 00:52:31,080
Speaker 2: benefit from emotional intelligence, and I shit you not by

1020
00:52:31,200 --> 00:52:32,800
Speaker 2: Friday didn't have employment.

1021
00:52:33,960 --> 00:52:35,200
Speaker 10: All of this started with.

1022
00:52:35,280 --> 00:52:38,360
Speaker 2: The Psychology Today article stating that men are lonelier than

1023
00:52:38,400 --> 00:52:41,759
Speaker 2: ever because they have no fucking emotional skills. And I

1024
00:52:41,960 --> 00:52:45,080
Speaker 2: agreed and doubled down and told y'all that y'all lives

1025
00:52:45,120 --> 00:52:48,239
Speaker 2: looked radically improved if you expanded the shit that came out.

1026
00:52:48,320 --> 00:52:51,240
Speaker 1: Now, I will say, if you read the Psychology Today article,

1027
00:52:51,480 --> 00:52:55,080
Speaker 1: is not in this tone at all, because it's Psychology

1028
00:52:55,200 --> 00:52:58,480
Speaker 1: Today article. It's not calling you bitches and dusty and

1029
00:52:59,280 --> 00:53:02,360
Speaker 1: motherfuckers shit like that, which I understand that's how you

1030
00:53:02,440 --> 00:53:06,279
Speaker 1: make content go viral online. But that like, if you

1031
00:53:06,320 --> 00:53:09,759
Speaker 1: would have just said I agreed with the article, one

1032
00:53:09,840 --> 00:53:11,799
Speaker 1: that went to war viral, that you agreed, but then

1033
00:53:11,880 --> 00:53:13,920
Speaker 1: two like you probably wouldn't have got fired because it

1034
00:53:13,920 --> 00:53:15,640
Speaker 1: wouldn't have been that spicy of a take because a

1035
00:53:15,680 --> 00:53:19,120
Speaker 1: lot of people agree with that article about y'all mouth.

1036
00:53:19,400 --> 00:53:23,000
Speaker 2: But instead of healing, y'all will do anything but that,

1037
00:53:24,160 --> 00:53:26,439
Speaker 2: instead of being accountable, like, hey this is bitch, see

1038
00:53:26,520 --> 00:53:29,760
Speaker 2: me as certain a little bit, y'all got so hurt,

1039
00:53:30,719 --> 00:53:35,960
Speaker 2: so hurt that you contacted Massa. Mm hmmm, that's exactly

1040
00:53:36,040 --> 00:53:36,640
Speaker 2: what happens.

1041
00:53:37,400 --> 00:53:41,239
Speaker 1: So Massa, they went to the white man on her,

1042
00:53:42,160 --> 00:53:44,160
Speaker 1: that's what That's what it was, Karen, they went to

1043
00:53:44,280 --> 00:53:46,120
Speaker 1: massive and that's what happened.

1044
00:53:47,560 --> 00:53:50,359
Speaker 2: First, the post goes viral on Twitter because y'all need

1045
00:53:50,480 --> 00:53:53,520
Speaker 2: fucking help and y'all wanted to argue with bitches blue.

1046
00:53:53,360 --> 00:53:54,799
Speaker 10: Until they fucking blew in the face.

1047
00:53:55,520 --> 00:53:55,880
Speaker 1: Some of you.

1048
00:53:55,960 --> 00:53:58,320
Speaker 10: Host is not gonna be saved. And that's the conclusion

1049
00:53:58,360 --> 00:54:01,160
Speaker 10: that I've come to. Because this shit's gone.

1050
00:54:01,000 --> 00:54:03,320
Speaker 2: Viral, I'm thinking, okay, cool, we're starting to discussion on

1051
00:54:03,400 --> 00:54:06,000
Speaker 2: mental health and people are Then you might not like

1052
00:54:06,080 --> 00:54:08,239
Speaker 2: my fucking delivery, but motherfuckers is starting to.

1053
00:54:08,280 --> 00:54:12,640
Speaker 1: Talk, you know, keeping mine. Also, we've talked about said

1054
00:54:12,680 --> 00:54:15,480
Speaker 1: this just last week. Social media is not a conversation.

1055
00:54:16,719 --> 00:54:17,920
Speaker 1: I think it was last week, maybe it was the

1056
00:54:17,960 --> 00:54:19,640
Speaker 1: week before, but we were talking about that where we

1057
00:54:19,760 --> 00:54:25,400
Speaker 1: talked about Chrissy Tea. It's like social media is not

1058
00:54:25,560 --> 00:54:32,759
Speaker 1: a conversation is if anything, that's where conversation goes to die. Yeah,

1059
00:54:32,800 --> 00:54:35,879
Speaker 1: they're also not your friends, man, Like this shit goes viral,

1060
00:54:36,040 --> 00:54:38,600
Speaker 1: it is now a bunch of one. It was already

1061
00:54:38,600 --> 00:54:40,880
Speaker 1: a bunch of people that don't really know you, but

1062
00:54:41,040 --> 00:54:43,279
Speaker 1: it wasn't going viral. Once it goes viral, Now it's

1063
00:54:43,360 --> 00:54:45,239
Speaker 1: super a bunch of people that don't know you and

1064
00:54:45,320 --> 00:54:47,960
Speaker 1: people using it as a cudgel to like fight with

1065
00:54:48,120 --> 00:54:52,640
Speaker 1: people and feed into this gender wardshit. There's repercussions for that.

1066
00:54:53,200 --> 00:54:55,680
Speaker 1: You know, someone brought up they only got her fired

1067
00:54:55,680 --> 00:54:58,239
Speaker 1: because she's a black woman. I'll say that that's not

1068
00:54:58,360 --> 00:55:04,520
Speaker 1: true because Kevin Samuel never attached his job or said

1069
00:55:04,560 --> 00:55:06,600
Speaker 1: what his job was, if it wasn't just being what

1070
00:55:06,760 --> 00:55:10,000
Speaker 1: the fuck ever it was, because he knew if a

1071
00:55:10,040 --> 00:55:12,600
Speaker 1: motherfucker could if I knew what he worked, he'd be fired,

1072
00:55:12,800 --> 00:55:16,279
Speaker 1: you know what I'm saying. Like he he was, Uh,

1073
00:55:17,000 --> 00:55:19,960
Speaker 1: he was definitely shitting on black women under this like

1074
00:55:20,000 --> 00:55:23,480
Speaker 1: brutal honesty shit that people think it's so fucking great

1075
00:55:23,520 --> 00:55:25,080
Speaker 1: and we need to all be talking to each other

1076
00:55:25,160 --> 00:55:29,040
Speaker 1: like shit at the time. But yeah, he I was like,

1077
00:55:29,160 --> 00:55:31,400
Speaker 1: if this if we knew what he worked, he'd be gone.

1078
00:55:32,160 --> 00:55:34,360
Speaker 1: It wouldn't matter if he worked at Kroger, It wouldn't

1079
00:55:34,400 --> 00:55:36,840
Speaker 1: matter what he did for a livid Let alone be

1080
00:55:36,920 --> 00:55:40,160
Speaker 1: a fucking psychiatrist or a psychologist, or somebody that a therapist,

1081
00:55:40,239 --> 00:55:42,439
Speaker 1: somebody that actually would have if he would have ever

1082
00:55:42,719 --> 00:55:45,600
Speaker 1: his at any point been like and I'm a clinical

1083
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Speaker 1: therapist and ninety percent of my clients are black women.

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00:55:49,000 --> 00:55:52,239
Speaker 1: Everybody would be like, what what? What's the name of

1085
00:55:52,320 --> 00:55:54,719
Speaker 1: that again? Let me write this down? What's the phone number?

1086
00:55:55,160 --> 00:55:55,319
Speaker 5: Oh?

1087
00:55:56,080 --> 00:55:57,319
Speaker 3: The tables under the fuck?

1088
00:55:58,120 --> 00:56:01,120
Speaker 2: But then it turns into this entire cruider of attacking

1089
00:56:01,200 --> 00:56:05,120
Speaker 2: a black woman who serves the fucking black community. There

1090
00:56:05,160 --> 00:56:07,800
Speaker 2: were comments like I'm gonna find her credentials and report

1091
00:56:07,840 --> 00:56:08,600
Speaker 2: her because.

1092
00:56:08,320 --> 00:56:11,399
Speaker 10: I told y'all to be better. Yeah, y'all are fucking weird.

1093
00:56:12,320 --> 00:56:16,000
Speaker 10: Y'all scream that y'all want to protect women, protect.

1094
00:56:15,680 --> 00:56:18,960
Speaker 2: Black women specifically, but have done nothing to protect this

1095
00:56:19,120 --> 00:56:21,719
Speaker 2: black woman who has been serving the communities. I've been

1096
00:56:21,800 --> 00:56:25,000
Speaker 2: violated in several areas, and I'm gonna outline each one.

1097
00:56:26,160 --> 00:56:29,520
Speaker 2: This article was written by a fucking black woman putting

1098
00:56:29,560 --> 00:56:32,160
Speaker 2: my full government and my place of employment.

1099
00:56:32,400 --> 00:56:34,000
Speaker 10: So being docks by a black woman.

1100
00:56:34,000 --> 00:56:38,120
Speaker 1: Can't fake honestly, Like, I know she's in the middle

1101
00:56:38,120 --> 00:56:41,279
Speaker 1: of it, so she can't see it, but you're not.

1102
00:56:42,000 --> 00:56:45,279
Speaker 1: You put this content out there? Are you? How many

1103
00:56:45,320 --> 00:56:48,000
Speaker 1: times do we have to see this happen? There are

1104
00:56:48,160 --> 00:56:50,520
Speaker 1: no rules to this shit where it's like, I call

1105
00:56:50,680 --> 00:56:55,080
Speaker 1: myself this, you are going that you put your whole

1106
00:56:55,200 --> 00:56:58,799
Speaker 1: face on it. They're gonna you said what you did

1107
00:56:58,880 --> 00:57:02,520
Speaker 1: for a living. They're gonna find out, you know, And

1108
00:57:02,640 --> 00:57:04,799
Speaker 1: then like, and she's making it about this one video

1109
00:57:04,840 --> 00:57:07,439
Speaker 1: that went viral, but people was pulling up old shit

1110
00:57:07,520 --> 00:57:09,960
Speaker 1: of just shitting on black dudes, like what about this one?

1111
00:57:10,160 --> 00:57:11,880
Speaker 1: What about this one? She got a habit, you know,

1112
00:57:11,920 --> 00:57:14,080
Speaker 1: and all this shit too, where so now you got

1113
00:57:14,120 --> 00:57:17,080
Speaker 1: people that probably been mad, been hoping to get some

1114
00:57:17,240 --> 00:57:20,120
Speaker 1: kind of retaliation, and they can attach more than just

1115
00:57:20,200 --> 00:57:24,040
Speaker 1: this one time, but attach all this shit. And you know,

1116
00:57:24,880 --> 00:57:28,120
Speaker 1: this shit isn't professional, you know, and.

1117
00:57:29,400 --> 00:57:30,640
Speaker 3: With it being your job.

1118
00:57:31,040 --> 00:57:33,680
Speaker 1: Unfortunately, it's not like you gave a movie review and

1119
00:57:33,760 --> 00:57:36,520
Speaker 1: then someone was like, oh, she gave a movie review.

1120
00:57:36,600 --> 00:57:40,080
Speaker 1: I'm gonna get her fired as a therapist, Like this

1121
00:57:40,320 --> 00:57:42,440
Speaker 1: was in line with your job. This is like if

1122
00:57:42,480 --> 00:57:45,360
Speaker 1: I'm an accountant, and I'm like, you know, telling people

1123
00:57:45,400 --> 00:57:47,360
Speaker 1: how to commit tax for or something like people are

1124
00:57:47,360 --> 00:57:49,360
Speaker 1: gonna be like, damn, nigga, what you're doing? You know,

1125
00:57:50,640 --> 00:57:53,080
Speaker 1: Like I don't want. I'm not rooting for shit bad

1126
00:57:53,160 --> 00:57:56,360
Speaker 1: to happen, but I'd be alive I didn't think something

1127
00:57:56,400 --> 00:57:58,320
Speaker 1: bad would happen if I had a friend put this.

1128
00:57:58,440 --> 00:58:01,200
Speaker 1: If my friend posted this video and said this is

1129
00:58:01,200 --> 00:58:03,640
Speaker 1: what I do for a living, I would be like, yo,

1130
00:58:04,160 --> 00:58:05,880
Speaker 1: you might want to take this down for people see it,

1131
00:58:07,120 --> 00:58:10,320
Speaker 1: because not because you're wrong or I just just literally

1132
00:58:11,000 --> 00:58:13,440
Speaker 1: you know how it is. The internet is not your friend,

1133
00:58:13,920 --> 00:58:16,600
Speaker 1: and this is really putting your job on the line

1134
00:58:16,600 --> 00:58:18,160
Speaker 1: because you're not gonna be able to go into an

1135
00:58:18,240 --> 00:58:20,360
Speaker 1: office and defend this content.

1136
00:58:21,280 --> 00:58:23,120
Speaker 10: You know, kind of fucking hurts.

1137
00:58:23,200 --> 00:58:26,080
Speaker 2: And she never once reached out to me or contacted

1138
00:58:26,160 --> 00:58:28,320
Speaker 2: me so I could spend my side of the story.

1139
00:58:29,600 --> 00:58:31,560
Speaker 3: Got your side of the store with your TikTok.

1140
00:58:32,480 --> 00:58:36,720
Speaker 2: Yeah, it's the article that spookeed my fucking job and

1141
00:58:36,840 --> 00:58:40,320
Speaker 2: got me fired. Not only does she not have any

1142
00:58:40,400 --> 00:58:43,240
Speaker 2: regard for my safety, many other articles.

1143
00:58:42,920 --> 00:58:44,080
Speaker 10: Have been written as a result.

1144
00:58:45,040 --> 00:58:47,200
Speaker 2: Here are a few of them. Just to name a few,

1145
00:58:47,560 --> 00:58:50,000
Speaker 2: black Twitter has words for therapists scolding men to go.

1146
00:58:51,320 --> 00:58:53,640
Speaker 1: Yeah, I don't know. This is also a part of

1147
00:58:53,720 --> 00:58:58,080
Speaker 1: that I'm starting a conversation thing, it's not really a conversation,

1148
00:58:58,200 --> 00:59:01,360
Speaker 1: and starting a conversation always means you're gonna go violent

1149
00:59:01,400 --> 00:59:06,000
Speaker 1: to a lot of people's views that don't fuck with you. Like,

1150
00:59:07,240 --> 00:59:09,280
Speaker 1: there's other people on the other side of this, not

1151
00:59:09,440 --> 00:59:12,320
Speaker 1: all men, not all women, not all pig means not all.

1152
00:59:12,440 --> 00:59:14,760
Speaker 1: There's just people who are like this unprofessional, this is

1153
00:59:15,600 --> 00:59:19,600
Speaker 1: needlessly harsh, And you know, as a person that doesn't

1154
00:59:19,600 --> 00:59:23,800
Speaker 1: really fuck with I don't like the content that dudes

1155
00:59:23,840 --> 00:59:27,960
Speaker 1: put out bagging on women, and I definitely never defended

1156
00:59:28,040 --> 00:59:30,720
Speaker 1: with but it was true, you know what I mean. Like,

1157
00:59:30,800 --> 00:59:33,640
Speaker 1: and you see people oh, oh so because I said

1158
00:59:33,760 --> 00:59:36,600
Speaker 1: she needs the lower hush standards, Well you didn't have

1159
00:59:36,640 --> 00:59:38,960
Speaker 1: to call her a fat bitch or tell her that

1160
00:59:39,240 --> 00:59:41,280
Speaker 1: you know, don't nobody want you cause you got a baby,

1161
00:59:41,400 --> 00:59:44,760
Speaker 1: or some shit like that with them. May be people

1162
00:59:44,800 --> 00:59:47,120
Speaker 1: that feel that way, but you don't need like, I

1163
00:59:47,160 --> 00:59:50,200
Speaker 1: don't understand the harshness of you saying I remember, we

1164
00:59:50,320 --> 00:59:51,880
Speaker 1: used to have a dude that came on our show

1165
00:59:52,160 --> 00:59:55,800
Speaker 1: and back in the day and ended up cutting tires

1166
00:59:55,840 --> 00:59:58,480
Speaker 1: with him because he was putting out so much content

1167
00:59:58,600 --> 01:00:01,960
Speaker 1: that was like, you know, black women are hood rats

1168
01:00:02,040 --> 01:00:04,360
Speaker 1: and it's all that fault that the community is fucked up,

1169
01:00:04,800 --> 01:00:07,800
Speaker 1: And it was like, I don't one, I don't believe that,

1170
01:00:07,920 --> 01:00:10,720
Speaker 1: But then I feel responsible with our platform you and

1171
01:00:10,840 --> 01:00:12,960
Speaker 1: let you say these things on my thing. There may

1172
01:00:13,040 --> 01:00:15,680
Speaker 1: be people that agree with you that you may even

1173
01:00:15,800 --> 01:00:19,400
Speaker 1: have like some statistical thing that you can be like,

1174
01:00:19,440 --> 01:00:22,959
Speaker 1: well what about this is this is a fact? Yeah,

1175
01:00:23,040 --> 01:00:25,960
Speaker 1: but like what's up with the harshness? What's up with

1176
01:00:26,080 --> 01:00:29,280
Speaker 1: the like the what where is this coming from? Because

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01:00:29,320 --> 01:00:32,240
Speaker 1: I feel like it's something deeper when it's coming that

1178
01:00:32,480 --> 01:00:36,880
Speaker 1: harsh at supposed to be our sisters. I also get that,

1179
01:00:37,240 --> 01:00:40,160
Speaker 1: you know, you get angry, you get fed up, tired

1180
01:00:40,200 --> 01:00:42,520
Speaker 1: of dealing with this shit. And the main thing I

1181
01:00:42,600 --> 01:00:44,920
Speaker 1: took from even where the first video was was she

1182
01:00:45,160 --> 01:00:49,760
Speaker 1: sounded like somebody that's been in that quote unquote conversation

1183
01:00:50,400 --> 01:00:54,200
Speaker 1: that is happening between black men and women online. That

1184
01:00:54,400 --> 01:00:56,480
Speaker 1: is a lot of bad face shit, and it's how

1185
01:00:56,560 --> 01:00:59,920
Speaker 1: you get the man of spere niggas and then the

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01:01:00,560 --> 01:01:03,680
Speaker 1: y'all niggas are all bullet bags to me women, and

1187
01:01:03,760 --> 01:01:06,720
Speaker 1: it's because motherfuckers have been fighting. And of course if

1188
01:01:06,840 --> 01:01:09,680
Speaker 1: you look at what they're responding to, it's always gonna

1189
01:01:09,680 --> 01:01:14,480
Speaker 1: seem like, well that they're just they're just they're being reasonable,

1190
01:01:14,520 --> 01:01:17,560
Speaker 1: they're just defending themselves. All the men always point to

1191
01:01:17,640 --> 01:01:19,680
Speaker 1: the that. I don't know how many women it was,

1192
01:01:19,720 --> 01:01:22,560
Speaker 1: but at least this one woman who said black men

1193
01:01:22,600 --> 01:01:25,480
Speaker 1: are bullet bags and they always are, Like, see this

1194
01:01:25,640 --> 01:01:28,160
Speaker 1: black woman claiming she for us, she called us bullet bags.

1195
01:01:28,760 --> 01:01:30,600
Speaker 1: And then that woman is like, I was responding to

1196
01:01:30,800 --> 01:01:33,280
Speaker 1: fucking death threats and rape threats and all kinds of

1197
01:01:33,280 --> 01:01:36,600
Speaker 1: shit online, and you know, so it's like it's always

1198
01:01:37,040 --> 01:01:39,160
Speaker 1: somebody going no, no, he hit me first, she hit

1199
01:01:39,240 --> 01:01:41,840
Speaker 1: me first. It's never a point of somebody being like,

1200
01:01:42,640 --> 01:01:45,880
Speaker 1: I'm not gonna join you in this bullshit. I'm not

1201
01:01:45,960 --> 01:01:48,280
Speaker 1: gonna join you, like you might be a piece of shit,

1202
01:01:48,360 --> 01:01:50,880
Speaker 1: Kevin Samuels. I'm not gonna join you by trying to

1203
01:01:50,920 --> 01:01:53,760
Speaker 1: create my own viral content so I can get the

1204
01:01:53,880 --> 01:01:56,840
Speaker 1: same views or less views than you, going back and

1205
01:01:56,960 --> 01:01:59,640
Speaker 1: forth with you, hoping I can get some shine out

1206
01:01:59,640 --> 01:02:02,200
Speaker 1: for your negativity, because it's gonna end up negative because

1207
01:02:02,240 --> 01:02:05,800
Speaker 1: you're pushing back with the same negativity that they started with.

1208
01:02:07,480 --> 01:02:11,919
Speaker 1: I really don't think her message was wrong in any

1209
01:02:12,040 --> 01:02:14,720
Speaker 1: way as far as like the idea of needing therapy,

1210
01:02:14,840 --> 01:02:18,439
Speaker 1: the idea of accessing your emotions, the idea of black

1211
01:02:18,520 --> 01:02:21,480
Speaker 1: men being silent and stuff. I don't think any of

1212
01:02:21,560 --> 01:02:26,040
Speaker 1: that was wrong. But when people hear that online and

1213
01:02:26,120 --> 01:02:29,720
Speaker 1: then think of the ninety percent of your clientele and go,

1214
01:02:30,320 --> 01:02:33,680
Speaker 1: is she talking to these niggas like this or is

1215
01:02:33,720 --> 01:02:36,600
Speaker 1: this just a TikTok thing? But she's professional offline? Is

1216
01:02:37,360 --> 01:02:39,360
Speaker 1: you know what I'm saying? Like that, You're gonna invite

1217
01:02:39,400 --> 01:02:41,919
Speaker 1: those questions because you it's your maine to your job.

1218
01:02:42,040 --> 01:02:46,000
Speaker 1: So I think that's really what happened. You were looking

1219
01:02:46,080 --> 01:02:48,920
Speaker 1: for the viral content, and sometimes that's the worst thing

1220
01:02:49,000 --> 01:02:53,000
Speaker 1: you can get. Is that viral content. Reminds me of

1221
01:02:53,080 --> 01:02:55,480
Speaker 1: Bernie so Black when that shit was driving me crazy

1222
01:02:55,640 --> 01:03:00,400
Speaker 1: and people was publishing my full government name, my picture shit,

1223
01:03:00,800 --> 01:03:02,640
Speaker 1: And I was like, all right, that's just part of it.

1224
01:03:03,760 --> 01:03:06,320
Speaker 1: Like I said what I said, I don't regret it,

1225
01:03:06,560 --> 01:03:08,520
Speaker 1: I don't feel bad about it. I don't think I

1226
01:03:08,600 --> 01:03:11,560
Speaker 1: said it in a harsh way, And I still got

1227
01:03:11,640 --> 01:03:14,840
Speaker 1: harassed and it still ended up giving me anxiety. So

1228
01:03:15,000 --> 01:03:17,080
Speaker 1: I can't even imagine if I would have been like, man,

1229
01:03:17,200 --> 01:03:20,120
Speaker 1: fuck that old nigga and all this shit, like it

1230
01:03:20,280 --> 01:03:22,440
Speaker 1: went viral and then people were sharing my shit and

1231
01:03:22,600 --> 01:03:24,480
Speaker 1: people were threatening me and stuff, it probably would have

1232
01:03:24,520 --> 01:03:28,160
Speaker 1: got worse. But yeah, man, I thought it was interesting

1233
01:03:28,880 --> 01:03:33,000
Speaker 1: to see so many people just like completely folded into

1234
01:03:33,120 --> 01:03:38,080
Speaker 1: like she did nothing wrong, and the other people turned

1235
01:03:38,080 --> 01:03:42,280
Speaker 1: it into you know, she she did everything wrong, and

1236
01:03:42,560 --> 01:03:44,280
Speaker 1: it was to me it kind of felt I mean,

1237
01:03:44,280 --> 01:03:45,720
Speaker 1: I know it's your first time seeing it too, but

1238
01:03:46,520 --> 01:03:50,000
Speaker 1: it kind of felt like, I mean, yeah, I can

1239
01:03:50,040 --> 01:03:53,680
Speaker 1: see how that happened. Like like I'm not saying, you know,

1240
01:03:55,240 --> 01:03:58,560
Speaker 1: with any malicious attent, but it's like the internet is

1241
01:03:58,680 --> 01:03:59,960
Speaker 1: not your friend, and that's what happened.

1242
01:04:00,160 --> 01:04:03,480
Speaker 3: Mm hmm, yeah, that that that is what happens.

1243
01:04:03,720 --> 01:04:10,720
Speaker 6: I think for me, messaging and wording means things, and

1244
01:04:11,040 --> 01:04:15,400
Speaker 6: the internet gives people the illusion that you can say

1245
01:04:15,520 --> 01:04:17,560
Speaker 6: anything in the old type of way and it's okay.

1246
01:04:17,760 --> 01:04:20,200
Speaker 6: But that's not realistic because that's not how people function,

1247
01:04:20,320 --> 01:04:23,560
Speaker 6: that's not how the world functions. But you know, when

1248
01:04:23,600 --> 01:04:28,160
Speaker 6: you're doing the things that's professional. Odds are you odds

1249
01:04:28,280 --> 01:04:29,240
Speaker 6: of you going viral?

1250
01:04:29,320 --> 01:04:30,560
Speaker 3: Are low right?

1251
01:04:31,520 --> 01:04:34,800
Speaker 6: And you know she did it for the attention, and

1252
01:04:34,920 --> 01:04:35,960
Speaker 6: she got the attention.

1253
01:04:37,840 --> 01:04:41,080
Speaker 3: And it's one of the things where.

1254
01:04:45,680 --> 01:04:48,320
Speaker 6: For me, it's somebody who's been on the internet and

1255
01:04:48,560 --> 01:04:52,200
Speaker 6: put in particularly Twitter and and and just own social

1256
01:04:52,240 --> 01:04:54,600
Speaker 6: media as much as I can have been, this is

1257
01:04:54,680 --> 01:04:58,400
Speaker 6: what happens. And every time people are always shocked and

1258
01:04:58,520 --> 01:04:59,360
Speaker 6: surprised by the.

1259
01:04:59,440 --> 01:05:02,720
Speaker 3: End results this. But this is literally literally literally you

1260
01:05:02,920 --> 01:05:05,880
Speaker 3: could sit down and predict what was going.

1261
01:05:06,000 --> 01:05:09,320
Speaker 1: When I saw the video being spread on like Friday

1262
01:05:09,360 --> 01:05:12,040
Speaker 1: or Saturday, whatever day it was of the last I

1263
01:05:12,160 --> 01:05:15,439
Speaker 1: wasn't paying that much attention. I didn't even impress play

1264
01:05:15,520 --> 01:05:17,560
Speaker 1: on the video. I just seen the way people were

1265
01:05:17,640 --> 01:05:20,040
Speaker 1: describing it, and not people that hate her, people that

1266
01:05:20,120 --> 01:05:22,600
Speaker 1: were like, these niggas need to listen to this, you

1267
01:05:23,000 --> 01:05:25,920
Speaker 1: actually black men need to And I said, oh no,

1268
01:05:27,040 --> 01:05:30,160
Speaker 1: that like that, like listen to this black therapist say

1269
01:05:30,200 --> 01:05:33,920
Speaker 1: what I said? That is not gonna go well, because

1270
01:05:34,040 --> 01:05:37,760
Speaker 1: y'all are even using it as as like inflamma as fuel,

1271
01:05:37,960 --> 01:05:41,560
Speaker 1: like it was an inflammatory way of putting it something

1272
01:05:41,600 --> 01:05:43,480
Speaker 1: that in the article that was done like with a

1273
01:05:43,560 --> 01:05:50,240
Speaker 1: lot more uh professionalism and all that stuff. So it's

1274
01:05:50,240 --> 01:05:52,880
Speaker 1: an inflammatory way of putting it. And then y'all know

1275
01:05:53,080 --> 01:05:56,200
Speaker 1: how this goes. Y'all do use her as a weapon

1276
01:05:56,240 --> 01:05:58,560
Speaker 1: towards these dudes, and these dudes are gonna want some

1277
01:05:58,720 --> 01:06:02,200
Speaker 1: get back, and then it becomes everyone has to play

1278
01:06:02,240 --> 01:06:05,160
Speaker 1: shock that like I can't believe what happened. I didn't

1279
01:06:05,160 --> 01:06:07,240
Speaker 1: even pay attention. It was like she getting fired for

1280
01:06:07,320 --> 01:06:10,000
Speaker 1: this or reprimented or something because someone at her job

1281
01:06:10,080 --> 01:06:12,280
Speaker 1: is gonna tell her not to do that shit. And

1282
01:06:12,440 --> 01:06:14,840
Speaker 1: now it's the black community betrayed me. It's like, ma'am,

1283
01:06:14,960 --> 01:06:18,160
Speaker 1: there is no one monolift black community. People are allowed

1284
01:06:18,160 --> 01:06:20,600
Speaker 1: to disagree with you, and the same way that you

1285
01:06:20,760 --> 01:06:22,840
Speaker 1: wanted the content to go viral, they're allowed to give

1286
01:06:22,880 --> 01:06:25,680
Speaker 1: their viral ass opinion on the shit. You don't got

1287
01:06:25,760 --> 01:06:27,320
Speaker 1: to agree with it, but you gotta be willing to

1288
01:06:27,360 --> 01:06:31,880
Speaker 1: stand ten toes down on it like either a fuck, y'all,

1289
01:06:32,160 --> 01:06:33,840
Speaker 1: I said what I said, or you gotta be able

1290
01:06:33,880 --> 01:06:36,200
Speaker 1: to say like you can't be the victim and the

1291
01:06:36,520 --> 01:06:39,040
Speaker 1: and the and the you know, the bully or the

1292
01:06:39,120 --> 01:06:40,640
Speaker 1: truth teller in my opinion.

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Speaker 6: Right, And also, it's more to it than you just

1294
01:06:44,800 --> 01:06:47,280
Speaker 6: making the video. What would happen if I was one

1295
01:06:47,320 --> 01:06:48,480
Speaker 6: of your one of your patients.

1296
01:06:48,600 --> 01:06:52,040
Speaker 1: If this was my therapist, I would would I would

1297
01:06:52,120 --> 01:06:54,680
Speaker 1: not come back. I'd be like, that was it. That's

1298
01:06:54,720 --> 01:06:58,920
Speaker 1: how you like when I'm working through shit emotionally, the

1299
01:06:59,080 --> 01:07:03,160
Speaker 1: inner voices you being like you motherfucker, you you bitch

1300
01:07:03,400 --> 01:07:06,320
Speaker 1: like if and honest to god, if you reverse the

1301
01:07:06,440 --> 01:07:09,320
Speaker 1: fucking race, I mean the fucking gender on this, there's

1302
01:07:09,480 --> 01:07:13,280
Speaker 1: zero people that are. It would literally on Twitter anyway

1303
01:07:13,320 --> 01:07:16,560
Speaker 1: and social media, it would reverse the side because that

1304
01:07:16,680 --> 01:07:18,440
Speaker 1: was the thing. And I get this part, and I

1305
01:07:18,480 --> 01:07:20,040
Speaker 1: think there's a very important part. I don't want to

1306
01:07:20,040 --> 01:07:22,560
Speaker 1: gloss over. I definitely understand the people who are like,

1307
01:07:23,000 --> 01:07:25,400
Speaker 1: how the fuck are these Kevin Samuel's loving ass men

1308
01:07:26,160 --> 01:07:29,960
Speaker 1: mad about this woman, because I definitely see the hip

1309
01:07:30,000 --> 01:07:32,040
Speaker 1: procacy in there. Wrong for that and all that shit.

1310
01:07:32,160 --> 01:07:36,720
Speaker 1: Those men, you know, they fucked up, and so I

1311
01:07:36,840 --> 01:07:40,800
Speaker 1: definitely understand. But that's also why I don't participate in

1312
01:07:40,840 --> 01:07:44,440
Speaker 1: the fighting those Kevin Samuel's loving motherfuckers. I don't whoever

1313
01:07:44,520 --> 01:07:48,040
Speaker 1: this new Andrew Tatetu is. I'm not I'm not looking

1314
01:07:48,120 --> 01:07:51,000
Speaker 1: for his people. I'm not sharing his content so we

1315
01:07:51,040 --> 01:07:53,600
Speaker 1: can have a new Kevin Samuels. We fight about I

1316
01:07:54,080 --> 01:07:57,320
Speaker 1: would like to be left out. Y'all can go through

1317
01:07:57,360 --> 01:07:59,760
Speaker 1: that shit, but don't. But just like my my friends

1318
01:07:59,800 --> 01:08:02,280
Speaker 1: that look at fucking cable news all day and when

1319
01:08:02,280 --> 01:08:04,560
Speaker 1: we talk, I'll be like, oh my god, anxiety is

1320
01:08:04,680 --> 01:08:09,120
Speaker 1: killing you. My friends who consume this shit, the anxiety

1321
01:08:09,240 --> 01:08:12,640
Speaker 1: is killing them. Talking about black men versus Black women

1322
01:08:12,720 --> 01:08:16,640
Speaker 1: twenty four to seven, it's not it's as an individual,

1323
01:08:16,880 --> 01:08:21,680
Speaker 1: I cannot see how it's edifying on any level to

1324
01:08:21,840 --> 01:08:26,160
Speaker 1: generalize each other, and especially if so negatively generalize each

1325
01:08:26,200 --> 01:08:30,400
Speaker 1: other and then try to win, like you can't win.

1326
01:08:30,640 --> 01:08:33,080
Speaker 1: The other side is never gonna give up. They're not

1327
01:08:33,120 --> 01:08:35,439
Speaker 1: gonna be like, you know what, we as black men,

1328
01:08:35,680 --> 01:08:37,840
Speaker 1: we see it now. We are all trash and we

1329
01:08:37,920 --> 01:08:41,160
Speaker 1: don't deserve good things. Thank you, thank you. Enough women

1330
01:08:41,240 --> 01:08:43,680
Speaker 1: have said it. No, they're gonna fight back, and the

1331
01:08:43,760 --> 01:08:45,760
Speaker 1: more they get called trash, the more they gonna act

1332
01:08:45,840 --> 01:08:48,360
Speaker 1: like trash. And for the women too, Like this shit

1333
01:08:48,439 --> 01:08:51,920
Speaker 1: started started with a lot of men going, these black

1334
01:08:51,960 --> 01:08:54,880
Speaker 1: women ain't shit. They angry, this's this, and now everybody's angry.

1335
01:08:55,160 --> 01:08:58,839
Speaker 1: Everybody's fighting, so it just she's it's like she stepped

1336
01:08:58,840 --> 01:08:59,879
Speaker 1: on her fucking grenade.

1337
01:09:00,160 --> 01:09:04,479
Speaker 6: That I'm like, wow, right, something that you didn't have

1338
01:09:04,600 --> 01:09:06,639
Speaker 6: to do, because, like you said, you could have made

1339
01:09:06,720 --> 01:09:10,120
Speaker 6: this video, presented it in a completely different manner and

1340
01:09:11,120 --> 01:09:13,640
Speaker 6: in still went viral. Because particularly when you do like

1341
01:09:13,760 --> 01:09:15,960
Speaker 6: tiktoks and all that stuff, some of that stuff them

1342
01:09:16,080 --> 01:09:18,840
Speaker 6: doctors and professional people go viral and they just be

1343
01:09:19,040 --> 01:09:21,439
Speaker 6: basically spinning facts of funny or whatever. It is, Like

1344
01:09:21,520 --> 01:09:24,680
Speaker 6: it is actually ways to do it without the negativity,

1345
01:09:24,760 --> 01:09:26,960
Speaker 6: but you opted to go this route.

1346
01:09:27,000 --> 01:09:29,880
Speaker 1: It's like she was trying to represent for somebody or

1347
01:09:29,920 --> 01:09:34,599
Speaker 1: something in a way. I just like, and I guess

1348
01:09:34,640 --> 01:09:37,160
Speaker 1: I'm not on TikTok enough. You know what I'm saying,

1349
01:09:37,479 --> 01:09:40,400
Speaker 1: But it's like she was trying to reach or have

1350
01:09:40,560 --> 01:09:42,880
Speaker 1: a different angle on the same thing other people say.

1351
01:09:43,760 --> 01:09:46,479
Speaker 1: And maybe that is why I went virals, because you know,

1352
01:09:46,560 --> 01:09:49,680
Speaker 1: there's an anger underlying what she's saying, and there's a

1353
01:09:49,720 --> 01:09:52,720
Speaker 1: lot of anger at black men because of the man

1354
01:09:52,800 --> 01:09:56,040
Speaker 1: of Spear and glimbing onto all that bullshit that that

1355
01:09:56,120 --> 01:09:58,760
Speaker 1: people spread. And so I get where then anger came from.

1356
01:09:59,600 --> 01:10:05,320
Speaker 1: I just can see attaching your job to it. And yeah,

1357
01:10:05,320 --> 01:10:07,760
Speaker 1: I just can't. I just can't see what. I guess

1358
01:10:07,840 --> 01:10:09,960
Speaker 1: what I'm saying, I can't see how she thought this

1359
01:10:10,240 --> 01:10:11,760
Speaker 1: was gonna go any different than any way.

1360
01:10:11,880 --> 01:10:13,439
Speaker 3: And I think, and this is just me.

1361
01:10:13,640 --> 01:10:16,080
Speaker 6: I think everybody thinks that they are an exception to

1362
01:10:16,160 --> 01:10:18,760
Speaker 6: the rule when it comes to social media and the

1363
01:10:20,560 --> 01:10:25,640
Speaker 6: uh brutalness of it. Everybody thinks that they above it.

1364
01:10:26,160 --> 01:10:28,200
Speaker 6: Everybody thinks that they are an exception to the rule.

1365
01:10:28,400 --> 01:10:30,600
Speaker 6: But when I go viral, but when people see me,

1366
01:10:31,200 --> 01:10:34,280
Speaker 6: but when I said, I you know, you know, I

1367
01:10:34,960 --> 01:10:35,640
Speaker 6: hate to see it.

1368
01:10:36,280 --> 01:10:36,880
Speaker 3: Type of thing.

1369
01:10:37,880 --> 01:10:39,599
Speaker 6: And then you have been around it in there long

1370
01:10:39,720 --> 01:10:42,439
Speaker 6: enough to see when people go viral and shit like that,

1371
01:10:42,560 --> 01:10:45,519
Speaker 6: and they and particularly people that harassed and go at

1372
01:10:45,600 --> 01:10:49,160
Speaker 6: people just relentlessly when they be on the other side.

1373
01:10:49,200 --> 01:10:51,360
Speaker 3: For a lot of them, that shit comes.

1374
01:10:51,160 --> 01:10:54,040
Speaker 6: Down there all of a sudden, the attitude changes, and

1375
01:10:54,080 --> 01:10:56,280
Speaker 6: they're gonna look at it completely different, because I can

1376
01:10:56,360 --> 01:10:59,000
Speaker 6: promise you moving forward, she's gonna look at it completely

1377
01:10:59,040 --> 01:11:01,240
Speaker 6: different because something like this not only not only did

1378
01:11:01,280 --> 01:11:04,320
Speaker 6: you get fired, you could jempardize any job moving forward,

1379
01:11:04,360 --> 01:11:05,800
Speaker 6: because guess what, when they put your.

1380
01:11:05,800 --> 01:11:07,960
Speaker 3: Name in there and google you, this ship is gonna beat.

1381
01:11:08,040 --> 01:11:11,040
Speaker 1: This ship is gonna it's your main to your job.

1382
01:11:11,479 --> 01:11:13,920
Speaker 1: You know what? I mean, like I said, I don't

1383
01:11:14,439 --> 01:11:18,599
Speaker 1: like Oh. And then so someone I had a two

1384
01:11:18,680 --> 01:11:24,479
Speaker 1: part joke that I thought was fucking aces uh uh

1385
01:11:26,120 --> 01:11:29,519
Speaker 1: that I had tweeted, tweeted the other day, and before

1386
01:11:29,520 --> 01:11:34,439
Speaker 1: I could put my punchline to the joke, somebody, you know,

1387
01:11:34,560 --> 01:11:38,840
Speaker 1: someone had responded, right. Uh, let me see if I

1388
01:11:38,880 --> 01:11:44,600
Speaker 1: can even fucking pull it up. But uh, yeah, it

1389
01:11:44,760 --> 01:11:51,479
Speaker 1: was about Kevin Samuels. I said, oh, yeah, Kevin. Kevin

1390
01:11:51,520 --> 01:11:53,640
Speaker 1: Samuels worked for himself. There was no job to get

1391
01:11:53,680 --> 01:11:56,599
Speaker 1: him fired for, at least no job he advertised having.

1392
01:11:57,240 --> 01:11:59,960
Speaker 1: And the second part of the joke was because lord knows,

1393
01:12:00,040 --> 01:12:02,160
Speaker 1: I would have been calling up there to get fired.

1394
01:12:03,040 --> 01:12:06,920
Speaker 1: And this person had responded to this tweet before I

1395
01:12:06,960 --> 01:12:12,560
Speaker 1: could even you know, put the punchline, and assuming that

1396
01:12:12,640 --> 01:12:14,640
Speaker 1: I was probably about to defend Kevin Samms in some

1397
01:12:14,800 --> 01:12:16,880
Speaker 1: type of way, which means they definitely don't know my

1398
01:12:16,960 --> 01:12:22,400
Speaker 1: wraps the people all day. Yeah, oh maybe they deleted

1399
01:12:22,400 --> 01:12:24,200
Speaker 1: it because I don't even see the quote tweet anymore.

1400
01:12:25,280 --> 01:12:30,200
Speaker 1: But the person was like, oh, so you okay with

1401
01:12:30,439 --> 01:12:33,879
Speaker 1: these other doctors, these medical doctors putting stuff on TikTok

1402
01:12:34,320 --> 01:12:37,080
Speaker 1: and trying one trying to make it seem like anybody

1403
01:12:37,200 --> 01:12:39,439
Speaker 1: with a job that post on TikTok is doing the

1404
01:12:39,479 --> 01:12:41,840
Speaker 1: same thing as this woman, which is not true, but

1405
01:12:42,920 --> 01:12:45,439
Speaker 1: she don't know my raps. I actually don't like that shit.

1406
01:12:45,479 --> 01:12:48,720
Speaker 1: I brought it up several times. I don't like the

1407
01:12:48,840 --> 01:12:52,519
Speaker 1: fucking nurses and orderlies and shit dancing around the hospital

1408
01:12:52,600 --> 01:12:54,960
Speaker 1: and putting it on TikTok. That shit feels really weird.

1409
01:12:55,520 --> 01:12:58,599
Speaker 1: I wish I was somewhere with my swen getting operated

1410
01:12:58,680 --> 01:13:00,720
Speaker 1: on and my fucking nurse was on talk doing the

1411
01:13:00,800 --> 01:13:03,680
Speaker 1: goddamn challenge, Like I would be like, damn, nigga, you

1412
01:13:03,760 --> 01:13:04,479
Speaker 1: ain't work.

1413
01:13:04,560 --> 01:13:07,280
Speaker 6: And and my thing is this Maybe I'm fucking old,

1414
01:13:08,439 --> 01:13:11,599
Speaker 6: particularly with something like this, do your mother fucking job.

1415
01:13:12,200 --> 01:13:16,280
Speaker 6: I do not need you twerking while you fucking giving

1416
01:13:16,320 --> 01:13:19,160
Speaker 6: me a C section. I don't want you dropping it

1417
01:13:19,320 --> 01:13:22,519
Speaker 6: like it's low while my chest is wide open.

1418
01:13:22,640 --> 01:13:22,920
Speaker 1: Bitch.

1419
01:13:23,439 --> 01:13:25,599
Speaker 3: No, there was a film meet, and do not put

1420
01:13:25,640 --> 01:13:26,200
Speaker 3: it online.

1421
01:13:26,520 --> 01:13:28,720
Speaker 1: There's an article. I don't remember we got to it

1422
01:13:28,840 --> 01:13:30,840
Speaker 1: or not, but I know I saved it. But there's

1423
01:13:30,840 --> 01:13:33,760
Speaker 1: an article where there was a doctor who took she

1424
01:13:33,880 --> 01:13:36,600
Speaker 1: did like LiPo section and stuff like that, and so

1425
01:13:36,800 --> 01:13:41,920
Speaker 1: she would take pictures with Pete with patients like fat

1426
01:13:42,000 --> 01:13:43,559
Speaker 1: and all the stuff they sucked out of their body

1427
01:13:43,600 --> 01:13:46,160
Speaker 1: and posted on her TikTok and social media, and she

1428
01:13:46,280 --> 01:13:48,360
Speaker 1: ended up either getting fired or reprimanded for that shit

1429
01:13:48,360 --> 01:13:52,120
Speaker 1: because the jumb was like what you're doing, Like, like,

1430
01:13:52,320 --> 01:13:55,080
Speaker 1: you know, there was We've covered multiple instances of people

1431
01:13:55,160 --> 01:13:58,840
Speaker 1: actually literally taking pictures of patients and shit like that,

1432
01:13:59,080 --> 01:14:02,160
Speaker 1: or talk described job operations they did and stuff, and

1433
01:14:02,200 --> 01:14:07,600
Speaker 1: people were suing them like this. I can't imagine. I

1434
01:14:07,600 --> 01:14:09,680
Speaker 1: don't know. Maybe she's just young but that, or just

1435
01:14:09,800 --> 01:14:13,080
Speaker 1: caught up in the like social media hype of you know,

1436
01:14:13,400 --> 01:14:16,360
Speaker 1: I'm viral. These are my friends. All this adoration I'm

1437
01:14:16,360 --> 01:14:19,000
Speaker 1: getting is real and affection and they truly want me

1438
01:14:19,080 --> 01:14:21,760
Speaker 1: to win. And maybe that's really what happened when she

1439
01:14:21,920 --> 01:14:23,760
Speaker 1: just got that wake up call of like, you know,

1440
01:14:23,840 --> 01:14:26,280
Speaker 1: a lot of people end up getting that, hey, they're

1441
01:14:26,360 --> 01:14:28,240
Speaker 1: not your friends, they're not on your side. Just because

1442
01:14:28,240 --> 01:14:30,760
Speaker 1: they hit, followed, or they share doesn't mean that they

1443
01:14:30,800 --> 01:14:31,880
Speaker 1: actually give a fuck about you.

1444
01:14:32,080 --> 01:14:35,120
Speaker 6: Yeah, it's an addiction, and it's also one of the things.

1445
01:14:35,160 --> 01:14:37,439
Speaker 3: But I think it's weird too. Now it's not. It's

1446
01:14:37,479 --> 01:14:38,320
Speaker 3: completely different.

1447
01:14:38,479 --> 01:14:41,920
Speaker 6: If you're like, hey, I'm talking about the procedure or

1448
01:14:42,160 --> 01:14:45,439
Speaker 6: you know, I'm educating, but like you said, you're like

1449
01:14:46,200 --> 01:14:47,160
Speaker 6: down the hallway and.

1450
01:14:47,200 --> 01:14:47,760
Speaker 3: Shit like that.

1451
01:14:48,040 --> 01:14:53,519
Speaker 1: No, imagine a doctor who does weight loss surgery right

1452
01:14:54,080 --> 01:14:59,680
Speaker 1: gostruts in the person and they do two and a

1453
01:14:59,720 --> 01:15:03,759
Speaker 1: half minutes on fat people need to lose weight, cussing

1454
01:15:03,840 --> 01:15:07,880
Speaker 1: and call them motherfuckers and bitches and shit, any other analogy,

1455
01:15:07,920 --> 01:15:10,240
Speaker 1: because this is what happens with social media and why,

1456
01:15:10,640 --> 01:15:15,360
Speaker 1: like I said, I'm so apprehensive to so much of

1457
01:15:15,439 --> 01:15:17,040
Speaker 1: what I consider to be a lot of group think

1458
01:15:17,080 --> 01:15:21,560
Speaker 1: about shit is once you check the marginalized boxes that

1459
01:15:21,680 --> 01:15:24,839
Speaker 1: fit my shit, So oh, okay, we're doing black women TM,

1460
01:15:25,320 --> 01:15:28,679
Speaker 1: black men TM, straight black people LGB. It's like, once

1461
01:15:28,720 --> 01:15:31,120
Speaker 1: you check the boxes, then I have to defend you

1462
01:15:31,160 --> 01:15:33,640
Speaker 1: because we're on the same team as opposed to the

1463
01:15:33,760 --> 01:15:36,559
Speaker 1: principle of the shit. Because once you change any degree

1464
01:15:36,640 --> 01:15:40,080
Speaker 1: of this shit, everybody will be like, yeah, that is

1465
01:15:40,200 --> 01:15:43,320
Speaker 1: fucked up. Like once you change it, like if.

1466
01:15:43,240 --> 01:15:43,760
Speaker 2: This was.

1467
01:15:45,600 --> 01:15:48,519
Speaker 1: A straight person saying LGBTQ people come in my office

1468
01:15:48,560 --> 01:15:50,200
Speaker 1: and they don't be vocal or nothing. They need to

1469
01:15:50,280 --> 01:15:52,720
Speaker 1: fucking do that. People will be like, hey, why are

1470
01:15:52,760 --> 01:15:54,840
Speaker 1: you call talking like that? Are you talking like this

1471
01:15:54,920 --> 01:15:58,280
Speaker 1: to your patients, Like your clients get this? Is this

1472
01:15:58,400 --> 01:16:02,000
Speaker 1: what you're the the attitude Joe Harvorn, Like I said,

1473
01:16:02,040 --> 01:16:04,560
Speaker 1: if it was somebody that did weight loss surgeries and

1474
01:16:04,600 --> 01:16:07,080
Speaker 1: they was calling up fucker's fat and saying, you know,

1475
01:16:08,640 --> 01:16:10,160
Speaker 1: when you come in you need to do this. I

1476
01:16:10,280 --> 01:16:12,240
Speaker 1: told you to doing a diet or you're not gonna

1477
01:16:12,240 --> 01:16:14,439
Speaker 1: get this thing. Why people wouldn't look at it with

1478
01:16:14,600 --> 01:16:19,000
Speaker 1: that same thing? You know, and the power dynamics to

1479
01:16:19,120 --> 01:16:21,120
Speaker 1: a lot of people are very black and white. It's

1480
01:16:21,680 --> 01:16:27,280
Speaker 1: black men privilege, Black women not as privileged. But we're

1481
01:16:27,280 --> 01:16:30,599
Speaker 1: talking about a power dynamic of a work relationship her clients.

1482
01:16:31,439 --> 01:16:35,880
Speaker 1: That's a power dynamic. You're my client, you know I'm

1483
01:16:35,920 --> 01:16:38,479
Speaker 1: responsible for helping you with your mental health. Here I

1484
01:16:38,560 --> 01:16:42,120
Speaker 1: am ranting and raving online about it. Not to mention

1485
01:16:42,720 --> 01:16:45,280
Speaker 1: some of those black men could be gay. I don't know,

1486
01:16:46,320 --> 01:16:49,040
Speaker 1: and honestly I don't want to know. It's not my business.

1487
01:16:49,200 --> 01:16:52,240
Speaker 1: You made it everybody's business. So yeah, this one felt

1488
01:16:52,360 --> 01:16:54,280
Speaker 1: like it was a lot less black and white than

1489
01:16:54,280 --> 01:16:57,240
Speaker 1: folks wanted to make it. Because you can agree with

1490
01:16:57,360 --> 01:16:59,720
Speaker 1: that message, just like you can agree with a lot

1491
01:16:59,760 --> 01:17:02,839
Speaker 1: of shit. But the messenger and the way the messages

1492
01:17:02,880 --> 01:17:03,799
Speaker 1: deliver it matters.

1493
01:17:05,160 --> 01:17:08,479
Speaker 6: Yeah, it matters, and it matters a lot, like said,

1494
01:17:08,520 --> 01:17:11,200
Speaker 6: particularly when the shit is tied with your job, Like

1495
01:17:11,280 --> 01:17:13,599
Speaker 6: you openly say, this is what I do for a living.

1496
01:17:13,920 --> 01:17:16,439
Speaker 6: You put your whole test and your whole face out there.

1497
01:17:17,000 --> 01:17:19,439
Speaker 6: And we've been around long enough to know the black

1498
01:17:19,479 --> 01:17:22,600
Speaker 6: twitter CSI will find you like like that's that's the

1499
01:17:22,680 --> 01:17:24,720
Speaker 6: ship that they do. Their whole thing is we go

1500
01:17:24,920 --> 01:17:29,160
Speaker 6: find people all of the time, and we don't care.

1501
01:17:29,280 --> 01:17:31,439
Speaker 6: We go find black women, we go find the white women.

1502
01:17:31,560 --> 01:17:34,400
Speaker 6: The white men like like like like we actually don't

1503
01:17:34,439 --> 01:17:36,479
Speaker 6: have any boundaries and we are color blind when it

1504
01:17:36,560 --> 01:17:39,120
Speaker 6: comes to getting that ass. So so you know, like

1505
01:17:39,280 --> 01:17:43,320
Speaker 6: nobody is quote unquote above us going after their jobs.

1506
01:17:43,760 --> 01:17:46,040
Speaker 6: And so you know when people be like hey dog,

1507
01:17:46,160 --> 01:17:48,679
Speaker 6: like this docs and shit is gone too far, everybody

1508
01:17:48,760 --> 01:17:51,280
Speaker 6: want to act like you know, something's wrong.

1509
01:17:51,400 --> 01:17:53,240
Speaker 1: And I think people like to get caught up in

1510
01:17:53,320 --> 01:17:56,320
Speaker 1: the principle of things like you should be able to

1511
01:17:56,360 --> 01:17:59,479
Speaker 1: do anything. It's like if you believe that that's fine,

1512
01:17:59,760 --> 01:18:02,400
Speaker 1: that is not the real world. So if your whole

1513
01:18:02,439 --> 01:18:05,920
Speaker 1: thing is like it's like the people always make this

1514
01:18:06,520 --> 01:18:08,800
Speaker 1: example because I find it to be the funniest but

1515
01:18:08,960 --> 01:18:11,840
Speaker 1: most true example. It's like when the people got mad

1516
01:18:11,880 --> 01:18:15,200
Speaker 1: at the dress code at that black restaurant. But when

1517
01:18:15,240 --> 01:18:18,280
Speaker 1: you start reading the dress code stuff, you start realizing

1518
01:18:18,360 --> 01:18:20,840
Speaker 1: people were going in there acting a fucking food and

1519
01:18:21,840 --> 01:18:24,240
Speaker 1: in his own way, that owner can feel like this

1520
01:18:24,439 --> 01:18:25,320
Speaker 1: is anti black.

1521
01:18:25,720 --> 01:18:25,920
Speaker 3: Y'all.

1522
01:18:26,000 --> 01:18:28,960
Speaker 1: Don't come to white establishments and twerk on the table

1523
01:18:29,040 --> 01:18:32,080
Speaker 1: over the food at lunch and hop on Instagram and

1524
01:18:32,160 --> 01:18:34,360
Speaker 1: post it. You're not, you know. I remember there was

1525
01:18:34,400 --> 01:18:37,760
Speaker 1: a woman that fucking squirted, like literally squirted at this

1526
01:18:37,960 --> 01:18:40,720
Speaker 1: one brunch thing just to go viral or to have

1527
01:18:40,920 --> 01:18:43,439
Speaker 1: some content like look at her she's and it's like

1528
01:18:43,640 --> 01:18:46,760
Speaker 1: that is fucking disgusting, right, Like why Like I don't

1529
01:18:46,800 --> 01:18:48,479
Speaker 1: care if she's a black woman. We don't have to.

1530
01:18:49,360 --> 01:18:53,200
Speaker 1: I'm not respectability politics because I think squirting over people

1531
01:18:53,280 --> 01:18:56,720
Speaker 1: at where people are eating is a bit inappropriate where

1532
01:18:56,720 --> 01:18:58,559
Speaker 1: there's not even like an age limit, and shit, there

1533
01:18:58,600 --> 01:19:02,040
Speaker 1: could be people kids that like that. Nothing protects you

1534
01:19:02,120 --> 01:19:03,840
Speaker 1: from the fact that that it's fucked up. And I

1535
01:19:03,880 --> 01:19:06,280
Speaker 1: don't have to make an excuse of some nigga pulled

1536
01:19:06,320 --> 01:19:08,240
Speaker 1: this dick out and start jacking it. We wouldn't even

1537
01:19:08,280 --> 01:19:11,200
Speaker 1: be debating this. We just were like, that's clearly disgusting,

1538
01:19:11,720 --> 01:19:16,519
Speaker 1: so like that kind of like it's the extreme level

1539
01:19:16,600 --> 01:19:19,280
Speaker 1: of like caping. But it's like if you put on

1540
01:19:19,360 --> 01:19:22,400
Speaker 1: the cape, finish the outfit, put on the clown nose,

1541
01:19:23,000 --> 01:19:25,560
Speaker 1: put on the clown nose too, because you gotta go

1542
01:19:25,720 --> 01:19:28,479
Speaker 1: all the way to the end. I'm not on board

1543
01:19:28,520 --> 01:19:32,120
Speaker 1: with that. I'm if she would have posted this and

1544
01:19:32,640 --> 01:19:37,000
Speaker 1: it wouldn't have been you know, as you know, antagonistic,

1545
01:19:37,479 --> 01:19:39,439
Speaker 1: and she still ends up getting fired, I think I

1546
01:19:39,520 --> 01:19:43,000
Speaker 1: would have been surprised, you know, and she clearly had

1547
01:19:43,040 --> 01:19:46,160
Speaker 1: been posting stuff before this that was antagonistic, but just

1548
01:19:46,280 --> 01:19:49,000
Speaker 1: she never said, you know, my clients are ninety percent

1549
01:19:49,120 --> 01:19:53,000
Speaker 1: men and went viral with it. But yeah, I think

1550
01:19:54,400 --> 01:19:56,640
Speaker 1: there's a bunch of people posting on TikTok that are

1551
01:19:56,680 --> 01:19:59,360
Speaker 1: black women, that are therapists, that are talking about gender

1552
01:19:59,400 --> 01:20:02,320
Speaker 1: issues and stuff, that aren't having this issue right. It's

1553
01:20:02,400 --> 01:20:04,600
Speaker 1: clearly a delivery thing. And no, I don't have to

1554
01:20:04,640 --> 01:20:06,160
Speaker 1: go to the end of the world because you black

1555
01:20:06,640 --> 01:20:09,280
Speaker 1: and act like it's okay, because I you know, I

1556
01:20:09,280 --> 01:20:10,840
Speaker 1: don't want to be seen as a person that hates

1557
01:20:10,840 --> 01:20:14,280
Speaker 1: black women. Now it's still was fucked up. It's fucked

1558
01:20:14,320 --> 01:20:17,519
Speaker 1: up when these dudes do it, and you know, and

1559
01:20:17,880 --> 01:20:20,360
Speaker 1: also it was very predictable that it was gonna end

1560
01:20:20,479 --> 01:20:22,240
Speaker 1: up this white so very her.

1561
01:20:22,240 --> 01:20:23,640
Speaker 3: But very predictable.

1562
01:20:23,760 --> 01:20:26,120
Speaker 6: Like you said, it's one of those things where this

1563
01:20:26,280 --> 01:20:28,640
Speaker 6: is kind of the end result because this is the

1564
01:20:28,840 --> 01:20:30,919
Speaker 6: cycle of this process.

1565
01:20:31,479 --> 01:20:36,519
Speaker 1: Yeah, anyways, zeal T one hundred, I this right here.

1566
01:20:37,920 --> 01:20:40,000
Speaker 6: I'm going to give it a fifty.

1567
01:20:41,000 --> 01:20:45,400
Speaker 1: Yeah, I think I give it. Yeah, I give it

1568
01:20:45,479 --> 01:20:48,840
Speaker 1: like a fifty. Yeah, that's about right, because like I'm

1569
01:20:48,840 --> 01:20:51,040
Speaker 1: also not like because I think the other thing is

1570
01:20:51,320 --> 01:20:53,640
Speaker 1: people are sharing it expecting like every black man to

1571
01:20:53,720 --> 01:20:57,479
Speaker 1: be upset by it. I wasn't upset by it. I

1572
01:20:58,560 --> 01:21:00,840
Speaker 1: just because I don't think it's professional or whatever, or

1573
01:21:00,960 --> 01:21:02,920
Speaker 1: just because I think her, you know, the way she

1574
01:21:03,040 --> 01:21:07,759
Speaker 1: wented this was the message got lost in the delivery.

1575
01:21:08,560 --> 01:21:11,120
Speaker 1: It doesn't mean that I'm like, well, none of this

1576
01:21:11,320 --> 01:21:13,880
Speaker 1: is true. A lot of it's true. It's just true.

1577
01:21:13,960 --> 01:21:18,680
Speaker 1: Don't make everything okay, you know, harsh truth is not

1578
01:21:19,280 --> 01:21:22,640
Speaker 1: always good. And most importantly, like people were saying, well,

1579
01:21:22,680 --> 01:21:25,320
Speaker 1: these niggas need tough love. One that's definitely not true

1580
01:21:25,360 --> 01:21:28,560
Speaker 1: for black men. Too much of the love that we

1581
01:21:28,720 --> 01:21:35,360
Speaker 1: get and give to tough to meet. Tough love. Love

1582
01:21:35,400 --> 01:21:40,400
Speaker 1: shouldn't be tough because it's harsh. Love is tough when

1583
01:21:40,439 --> 01:21:44,200
Speaker 1: it perseveres. You know, love is tough when it lasts.

1584
01:21:44,680 --> 01:21:47,760
Speaker 1: And I'm not talking about abuse and struggle love. I'm

1585
01:21:47,840 --> 01:21:51,120
Speaker 1: just talking about, like, if you're gonna love the motherfucker

1586
01:21:51,160 --> 01:21:53,240
Speaker 1: your whole life, y'all gonna go through some times. It's

1587
01:21:53,240 --> 01:21:55,560
Speaker 1: gonna be ups and downs. People good and bad is

1588
01:21:55,600 --> 01:21:57,519
Speaker 1: gonna come into your life. And I'm not talking about

1589
01:21:57,920 --> 01:22:00,759
Speaker 1: just good and bad you calls. I'm talking people, health issues,

1590
01:22:00,880 --> 01:22:09,120
Speaker 1: job statusesarning loving through that is to me, the highest

1591
01:22:09,160 --> 01:22:11,880
Speaker 1: height of what humanity could be. I don't really have

1592
01:22:12,000 --> 01:22:15,879
Speaker 1: a religion, but to me, love is like a religion.

1593
01:22:16,160 --> 01:22:18,679
Speaker 1: The love I have for my friends, my family, my wife,

1594
01:22:18,880 --> 01:22:23,519
Speaker 1: my everybody that I'm attached to, that I have love

1595
01:22:23,640 --> 01:22:27,920
Speaker 1: for that is the ultimate goal, the ultimate thing you

1596
01:22:28,000 --> 01:22:31,720
Speaker 1: can have for another person. And so whenever I hear

1597
01:22:31,760 --> 01:22:34,280
Speaker 1: people talk about stuff like this and say it's tough love,

1598
01:22:35,479 --> 01:22:39,280
Speaker 1: it's like saying, you know, getting burned with a cigarette

1599
01:22:39,320 --> 01:22:42,280
Speaker 1: is tough love, or getting you know what I'm getting

1600
01:22:42,360 --> 01:22:46,280
Speaker 1: yelled at and hit is tough love. I don't agree.

1601
01:22:47,400 --> 01:22:49,439
Speaker 1: You know, I don't think love has to look like that,

1602
01:22:49,760 --> 01:22:51,479
Speaker 1: and I think a lot of times when it does,

1603
01:22:51,520 --> 01:22:55,280
Speaker 1: it's because something else is wrong inside of you. Because

1604
01:22:55,840 --> 01:22:58,880
Speaker 1: we've been married, how we've been married twenty years this year,

1605
01:22:59,400 --> 01:23:02,639
Speaker 1: we've been together since we were sixteen. I have never

1606
01:23:03,439 --> 01:23:06,280
Speaker 1: and will never yell at you like the way this

1607
01:23:06,439 --> 01:23:10,040
Speaker 1: person was yelling. This is insane to me, you know,

1608
01:23:10,120 --> 01:23:12,160
Speaker 1: And I get that that's normalized for a lot of people.

1609
01:23:12,280 --> 01:23:15,639
Speaker 1: But if I wanted you to truly understand something, I'm

1610
01:23:15,720 --> 01:23:19,200
Speaker 1: not gonna be yelling at you, calling you bitch and motherfucker.

1611
01:23:19,040 --> 01:23:22,000
Speaker 6: Right, And I think that for a lot of people

1612
01:23:22,320 --> 01:23:26,320
Speaker 6: that's normal because it is just for all the years

1613
01:23:26,360 --> 01:23:30,599
Speaker 6: that we've been together, it's just amazing. And I actually

1614
01:23:31,160 --> 01:23:39,720
Speaker 6: thank you for that because I've been around men and I,

1615
01:23:40,240 --> 01:23:43,160
Speaker 6: you know, it being my family situation, stuff like dad,

1616
01:23:43,240 --> 01:23:46,040
Speaker 6: and you know, I hear the way men talk to

1617
01:23:46,160 --> 01:23:49,120
Speaker 6: their women and their spouse and significant or the raising

1618
01:23:49,160 --> 01:23:52,680
Speaker 6: their voice and stuff, and I'm like, who is you

1619
01:23:52,800 --> 01:23:53,160
Speaker 6: talking to?

1620
01:23:53,720 --> 01:23:57,800
Speaker 1: Well, people normalize that stuff, you know, we've seen it.

1621
01:23:57,960 --> 01:24:02,000
Speaker 1: We've seen it, like not just one not just for

1622
01:24:02,160 --> 01:24:05,160
Speaker 1: men either, Like we've seen that shit. I don't want

1623
01:24:05,240 --> 01:24:08,240
Speaker 1: that for myself. I don't know. I know it's normalized.

1624
01:24:08,240 --> 01:24:12,200
Speaker 1: I know most people have relationships where they eventually end

1625
01:24:12,320 --> 01:24:13,920
Speaker 1: up talking to each other like that and they just,

1626
01:24:14,479 --> 01:24:16,720
Speaker 1: I don't know, apologize later or brush it under the

1627
01:24:16,760 --> 01:24:18,120
Speaker 1: table or pretend it didn't happen.

1628
01:24:18,160 --> 01:24:21,000
Speaker 3: And I got good, and I can hear you. You

1629
01:24:21,080 --> 01:24:22,160
Speaker 3: do not to raise your voice.

1630
01:24:22,439 --> 01:24:24,840
Speaker 1: Yeah, And I'm not saying it's impossible for somebody have

1631
01:24:24,920 --> 01:24:26,560
Speaker 1: a bad day or so, I'm not saying that, but

1632
01:24:26,800 --> 01:24:29,880
Speaker 1: just ideally, when you shut your eyes and you think

1633
01:24:29,920 --> 01:24:33,479
Speaker 1: about the love you want, it ain't that. It's not

1634
01:24:33,640 --> 01:24:37,719
Speaker 1: somebody scolding you like a child. It's not somebody telling

1635
01:24:37,800 --> 01:24:41,479
Speaker 1: you harsh things and then going, well's because I love you.

1636
01:24:41,600 --> 01:24:43,439
Speaker 1: And tough love a lot of times is just an

1637
01:24:43,479 --> 01:24:46,639
Speaker 1: excuse of like cause you know who else they said

1638
01:24:46,720 --> 01:24:52,240
Speaker 1: had tough love. Kevin fucking Samuels. I remember the people

1639
01:24:52,360 --> 01:24:54,840
Speaker 1: that defending him told me was because of his tough

1640
01:24:55,320 --> 01:24:58,240
Speaker 1: he just loved black people so much, died with a

1641
01:24:58,320 --> 01:25:03,280
Speaker 1: Mexican woman by alone in his apartment. But but he

1642
01:25:03,479 --> 01:25:05,840
Speaker 1: had tough love for black folks and we needed to

1643
01:25:05,960 --> 01:25:10,080
Speaker 1: all accept his harsh truth. And I and I'm not

1644
01:25:10,200 --> 01:25:12,360
Speaker 1: gonna be a hypocrite. I want. I didn't want it

1645
01:25:12,400 --> 01:25:15,200
Speaker 1: from him, and I don't want it in this fashion

1646
01:25:15,240 --> 01:25:18,640
Speaker 1: from her. And like I said, you could say a

1647
01:25:18,760 --> 01:25:20,920
Speaker 1: lot of things that I could agree with and then

1648
01:25:21,040 --> 01:25:23,600
Speaker 1: lose me because of how you say them right that.

1649
01:25:23,760 --> 01:25:27,080
Speaker 1: I don't know everything Kevin Samuel said, but maybe maybe

1650
01:25:27,200 --> 01:25:28,880
Speaker 1: some of his fans are right, and he would have

1651
01:25:28,920 --> 01:25:30,479
Speaker 1: said some things I would be like, oh, okay, I

1652
01:25:30,520 --> 01:25:33,000
Speaker 1: can see that. Well, the way he was saying them

1653
01:25:33,040 --> 01:25:37,200
Speaker 1: to me lost everything right because words me and just

1654
01:25:37,200 --> 01:25:40,320
Speaker 1: because some people just because this is the last thing

1655
01:25:40,320 --> 01:25:43,719
Speaker 1: I'll say, just because some people will tolerate being talked

1656
01:25:43,720 --> 01:25:46,800
Speaker 1: to like that and go I need. That doesn't make

1657
01:25:46,880 --> 01:25:50,160
Speaker 1: it right, right, It still doesn't make it right if

1658
01:25:50,240 --> 01:25:53,960
Speaker 1: that if it's like saying, well, some people need to

1659
01:25:54,040 --> 01:25:57,280
Speaker 1: be burned with a hot curling iron, well I'm sorry

1660
01:25:57,479 --> 01:25:59,559
Speaker 1: you can't go around with hot curling I was burning

1661
01:25:59,600 --> 01:26:03,439
Speaker 1: people because occasionally somebody might think it's okay. I know

1662
01:26:03,560 --> 01:26:08,360
Speaker 1: a woman who she mourned Kevin Samuels because she was

1663
01:26:08,479 --> 01:26:12,640
Speaker 1: convinced that it was his harsh love that made her

1664
01:26:12,800 --> 01:26:15,280
Speaker 1: lose some weight and all this other stuff. But I've

1665
01:26:15,280 --> 01:26:19,320
Speaker 1: been knowing that woman. She even having that issue with

1666
01:26:19,880 --> 01:26:23,680
Speaker 1: the way she looks internally with herself for years, way

1667
01:26:23,760 --> 01:26:27,800
Speaker 1: before Kevin simums existed, and wait, you know, like and

1668
01:26:27,880 --> 01:26:30,960
Speaker 1: it's not like that's gonna change anything to these niggas

1669
01:26:31,000 --> 01:26:33,200
Speaker 1: that ain't shit. If a nigga ain't shit, they not

1670
01:26:33,320 --> 01:26:36,040
Speaker 1: looking at you like, well, now that you're twenty pounds less,

1671
01:26:36,760 --> 01:26:39,439
Speaker 1: I'm gonna treat you right like they still would have

1672
01:26:39,479 --> 01:26:41,920
Speaker 1: treated you bad or whatever. And some of those issues,

1673
01:26:41,960 --> 01:26:44,599
Speaker 1: it's just you're never gonna be able to solve looking

1674
01:26:44,640 --> 01:26:47,439
Speaker 1: for some man to solve them, or looking for this

1675
01:26:47,640 --> 01:26:49,559
Speaker 1: nigga to give you the advice out of these issues

1676
01:26:49,600 --> 01:26:50,960
Speaker 1: that societal issues and shit.

1677
01:26:51,080 --> 01:26:51,240
Speaker 2: You know.

1678
01:26:51,439 --> 01:26:55,760
Speaker 1: But my point being like, even with her saying thank

1679
01:26:55,800 --> 01:26:58,479
Speaker 1: you Kevin Samuels, oh rest in peace, I'm like he

1680
01:26:58,640 --> 01:27:01,920
Speaker 1: still was a bad dude. Even if it was one

1681
01:27:02,000 --> 01:27:04,519
Speaker 1: hundred percent truth. The only way to reach you was

1682
01:27:04,600 --> 01:27:07,479
Speaker 1: to call you out your name, and he still had

1683
01:27:07,520 --> 01:27:10,640
Speaker 1: a negative impact on the discussion on the race, on

1684
01:27:10,760 --> 01:27:13,400
Speaker 1: these gender wars. It's terrible and I don't think we

1685
01:27:13,439 --> 01:27:17,280
Speaker 1: should be matching energy with these niggas. It just seems

1686
01:27:18,160 --> 01:27:20,560
Speaker 1: like it's self destruction. I'm just one person and this

1687
01:27:20,640 --> 01:27:22,400
Speaker 1: is just my opinion and somebody else so have a

1688
01:27:22,439 --> 01:27:25,360
Speaker 1: different one, and I'm sure they'll be having a GoFundMe

1689
01:27:25,840 --> 01:27:27,960
Speaker 1: and you know, trying to make her into some type

1690
01:27:28,000 --> 01:27:31,680
Speaker 1: of hero or whatever, because that is also kind of

1691
01:27:31,680 --> 01:27:33,880
Speaker 1: the way people were acting with they be acting with

1692
01:27:33,960 --> 01:27:36,360
Speaker 1: these manuscript dudes. It's like, now you in, we gotta

1693
01:27:37,040 --> 01:27:39,320
Speaker 1: make sure that you feel supported. But I just don't

1694
01:27:39,400 --> 01:27:42,640
Speaker 1: know that. I don't think that stuff was good that

1695
01:27:42,960 --> 01:27:45,000
Speaker 1: you know, And so yeah, it fucks with me on

1696
01:27:45,080 --> 01:27:49,519
Speaker 1: that level because I think I'm very sensitive to the

1697
01:27:49,760 --> 01:27:54,000
Speaker 1: black man versus the black woman, the black man versus LGBTQ.

1698
01:27:54,280 --> 01:27:57,320
Speaker 1: I'm very sensitive to that shit because I think it's

1699
01:27:57,400 --> 01:28:04,080
Speaker 1: the biggest, most fucked up thing we have going online,

1700
01:28:04,400 --> 01:28:06,680
Speaker 1: and everybody just thinks it's part of.

1701
01:28:06,720 --> 01:28:10,360
Speaker 6: This game, right right, and like you said, online, uh,

1702
01:28:10,640 --> 01:28:14,599
Speaker 6: And to me it frustrates me because you can always

1703
01:28:14,800 --> 01:28:17,479
Speaker 6: tell what all these conversations and arguments are going to go,

1704
01:28:18,840 --> 01:28:21,080
Speaker 6: and it's never a shock and it's never a surprise.

1705
01:28:21,520 --> 01:28:22,719
Speaker 3: And also I think.

1706
01:28:24,160 --> 01:28:27,880
Speaker 6: For me, these particularly my person the person and in

1707
01:28:28,040 --> 01:28:31,679
Speaker 6: real life different, but online they are fruitless and pointless

1708
01:28:31,720 --> 01:28:33,920
Speaker 6: because at the end of the day, you're not changing

1709
01:28:34,040 --> 01:28:36,519
Speaker 6: their mind and they're not changing your mind.

1710
01:28:36,600 --> 01:28:39,160
Speaker 3: You realize I'm sorry about to say.

1711
01:28:39,520 --> 01:28:41,240
Speaker 6: Nobody at the end of this is gonna be like,

1712
01:28:41,320 --> 01:28:43,320
Speaker 6: you know what, You're right, you know what, I'm gonna

1713
01:28:43,320 --> 01:28:44,439
Speaker 6: stop calming a female.

1714
01:28:44,520 --> 01:28:45,360
Speaker 3: That's not gonna happen.

1715
01:28:45,600 --> 01:28:48,800
Speaker 6: Nobody's gonna you know, nobody's gonna gonna say, you know what,

1716
01:28:49,000 --> 01:28:51,439
Speaker 6: all this is hurting pain and stuff that I'm dealing with,

1717
01:28:51,680 --> 01:28:52,400
Speaker 6: I'm gonna stop.

1718
01:28:52,840 --> 01:28:54,280
Speaker 3: That does not happen.

1719
01:28:54,680 --> 01:28:57,519
Speaker 1: You don't see clips from our show go viral like

1720
01:28:57,640 --> 01:29:00,640
Speaker 1: you see all these other podcasts have clips that go

1721
01:29:00,800 --> 01:29:05,800
Speaker 1: viral because their clips are normally rooted in this type

1722
01:29:05,840 --> 01:29:09,320
Speaker 1: of disrespect and it's rewarding. How many of these shows,

1723
01:29:09,400 --> 01:29:11,599
Speaker 1: the fresh and fit type shows, how many of these

1724
01:29:12,760 --> 01:29:15,639
Speaker 1: unhealthy relationship shows, Or let's just bring on a black

1725
01:29:15,680 --> 01:29:18,280
Speaker 1: woman antagonizer until she blows up and have a fight,

1726
01:29:18,560 --> 01:29:21,000
Speaker 1: and we'll send that clip out of us being like,

1727
01:29:21,160 --> 01:29:23,400
Speaker 1: you know, it's really bitch's fault or whatever the fuck

1728
01:29:23,479 --> 01:29:25,200
Speaker 1: it is, and then all of a sudden it blows up.

1729
01:29:25,560 --> 01:29:29,720
Speaker 1: We have two thousand some episodes of us respecting each other,

1730
01:29:29,880 --> 01:29:32,559
Speaker 1: listening to each other, hearing each other, loving each other,

1731
01:29:33,600 --> 01:29:36,519
Speaker 1: talking to each other like we have some fucking common sense,

1732
01:29:37,880 --> 01:29:42,840
Speaker 1: enjoying each other and even when we disagree, never sitting

1733
01:29:42,920 --> 01:29:45,639
Speaker 1: up here raising our voice and calling each other out

1734
01:29:45,880 --> 01:29:50,320
Speaker 1: or any of this shit. And yeah, that shit don't sell. No,

1735
01:29:50,560 --> 01:29:53,120
Speaker 1: that shit is not like. That shit is not the

1736
01:29:54,800 --> 01:29:58,679
Speaker 1: We'll never have to worry about the motherfucker our shit

1737
01:29:58,800 --> 01:30:03,560
Speaker 1: going to groural interesting. They don't give people. Yeah, like

1738
01:30:03,840 --> 01:30:06,040
Speaker 1: they like. This is the Game of Thrones thing. Matter

1739
01:30:06,080 --> 01:30:08,000
Speaker 1: of fact, full circle, let's wrap this up. It's the

1740
01:30:08,080 --> 01:30:11,360
Speaker 1: Game of Thrones thing. Motherfuckers said they hate it. It's

1741
01:30:12,240 --> 01:30:14,840
Speaker 1: not feminist enough. It's terrible. I'm tired of this. And

1742
01:30:14,960 --> 01:30:16,519
Speaker 1: what do they do? Tune the fuck in.

1743
01:30:18,640 --> 01:30:20,560
Speaker 6: But you know what, they weren't watching The Will of

1744
01:30:20,640 --> 01:30:23,200
Speaker 6: Time and all these other spinoffs.

1745
01:30:22,760 --> 01:30:24,680
Speaker 1: So were the Will of Time. I think we just

1746
01:30:24,840 --> 01:30:29,160
Speaker 1: solved everything. All right, y'all, that's a good place to

1747
01:30:29,240 --> 01:30:30,479
Speaker 1: end it. We've been going for an hour and a half.

1748
01:30:30,520 --> 01:30:32,960
Speaker 1: We got a late start. Thanks for listening, everybody. We'll

1749
01:30:33,000 --> 01:30:35,919
Speaker 1: be back tomorrow and then and then of course, Wednesday

1750
01:30:36,080 --> 01:30:39,040
Speaker 1: is our Game of Thrones recap, so we'll talk to

1751
01:30:39,120 --> 01:30:42,040
Speaker 1: y'all on Wednesday for the niggas that only listen for

1752
01:30:42,120 --> 01:30:44,840
Speaker 1: Game of Thrones, so you'll never hear this, but for

1753
01:30:44,960 --> 01:30:49,240
Speaker 1: the rest of y'all will see you tomorrow. No sword ratching.

1754
01:30:49,320 --> 01:30:53,880
Speaker 1: It's until next time. I love you, and I mean it.

1755
01:30:54,520 --> 01:30:55,040
Speaker 2: I do too.