WEBVTT - Girl Breathe 0:00:00.200 --> 0:00:00.960 Speaks to the planet. 0:00:01.000 --> 0:00:02.520 I'll go by the name of Charlamagne the God and 0:00:02.520 --> 0:00:04.920 guess what, I can't wait to see y'all at the 0:00:04.920 --> 0:00:08.319 third annual Black Effect Podcast Festival. That's right, We're coming 0:00:08.360 --> 0:00:11.360 back to Atlanta, Georgia, Saturday, April twenty six at Poleman 0:00:11.440 --> 0:00:14.760 Yards and it's hosted by none other than Decisions Decisions, 0:00:14.840 --> 0:00:17.560 Mandy B and Weezy. Okay, we got the R and 0:00:17.640 --> 0:00:20.319 B Money podcast, were taking Jay Valentine. We got the 0:00:20.360 --> 0:00:22.880 Woman of All Podcasts with Sarah Jake Roberts. We got 0:00:22.920 --> 0:00:25.479 Good Mom's Bad Choices. Carrie Champion will be there with 0:00:25.520 --> 0:00:28.440 her next sports podcast and the Trap Nerds podcast with 0:00:28.600 --> 0:00:31.200 more to be announced. 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What's up, tam Damn? 0:01:11.440 --> 0:01:13.319 Hey, y'all. I love y'all so much. 0:01:13.360 --> 0:01:23.119 Hey, I'm well, girls, stop light. These people love him. 0:01:23.360 --> 0:01:25.080 I love him so much. They love me too. 0:01:26.400 --> 0:01:30.119 Until you do some ship, they don't like, they're gonna 0:01:30.160 --> 0:01:32.640 be dragging and it's trying to come for you for 0:01:32.720 --> 0:01:34.280 look for sucking tubs. 0:01:34.800 --> 0:01:35.160 I don't. 0:01:36.560 --> 0:01:44.800 That's a lit ma noth until April. After April girls. 0:01:46.160 --> 0:01:48.440 Drop, my mama gonna come up to me, coming told 0:01:48.520 --> 0:01:51.680 for me yikes, and then walked off. I was like, 0:01:51.760 --> 0:01:55.280 oh wow, everybody got something to say. Ye a man 0:01:55.360 --> 0:01:58.600 foot in my mouth? Y'all put on a lot of 0:01:58.720 --> 0:02:01.680 technic tests. I never put him wonder his foot in 0:02:01.680 --> 0:02:06.320 my mouth? Shame Anyway, How was your weekend? 0:02:07.720 --> 0:02:10.480 My weekend was great? Did I do something this weekend? Oh? 0:02:10.520 --> 0:02:11.240 I did go outside? 0:02:11.320 --> 0:02:13.360 Not outside for real, I just did like a little. 0:02:13.800 --> 0:02:16.160 On Saturday, I went by one of my homegirl's house 0:02:16.160 --> 0:02:19.720 who I recently reconnected with, and just talk some shit 0:02:20.040 --> 0:02:26.280 for a couple hours over some crab bags. Me shout 0:02:26.280 --> 0:02:29.280 out to Courtney girl, she'd be in roger Wood sausage. 0:02:29.600 --> 0:02:31.760 When the last time you had a roger Wood sausage. 0:02:31.760 --> 0:02:32.880 Roger Woods all the time? 0:02:33.080 --> 0:02:36.239 Are you serious? Oh my god, First of all, on 0:02:36.320 --> 0:02:38.639 you sausage, and don't put that shit in my bag 0:02:38.760 --> 0:02:39.679 in my crab bag. 0:02:39.760 --> 0:02:41.560 I don't want that in my crab bag either, because 0:02:41.600 --> 0:02:44.720 it overpowers all the other food in there. But I 0:02:44.919 --> 0:02:50.320 was have a roger Wood fried up good on spicing 0:02:50.360 --> 0:02:51.880 bread with some must period. 0:02:52.600 --> 0:02:55.120 Shame. Now back in the day when we was kids, like, 0:02:55.120 --> 0:02:57.200 if you ain't having a roger Wood sausage in your house, 0:02:57.240 --> 0:03:00.280 you really ain't have no food. As long was we 0:03:00.320 --> 0:03:02.720 had a box of roger Wad sausage like we shit 0:03:02.840 --> 0:03:03.200 was lit. 0:03:03.560 --> 0:03:07.919 You eat and eggs and rama's straight. 0:03:08.440 --> 0:03:10.960 I probably had a roger Wood sausage in middle school. 0:03:11.440 --> 0:03:16.680 Damn. I had one a couple of days ago. So 0:03:17.360 --> 0:03:23.200 this weekend it was the Black College Invitational Championship in Charlotte. 0:03:23.680 --> 0:03:27.760 Is a new tournament. My friend Russy put it on y'all, 0:03:27.760 --> 0:03:29.920 we got to support this tournament, like this is the 0:03:30.000 --> 0:03:33.840 first year. He wants all our support, all the HBCUs. 0:03:33.919 --> 0:03:36.200 He wants this involved y'all. So everyone, we got to 0:03:36.200 --> 0:03:42.080 support this black basketball tournament in Charlotte, North Carolina, and 0:03:42.120 --> 0:03:44.240 it was I saw a lot of parties surrounded just 0:03:44.280 --> 0:03:45.200 like CI double A. 0:03:45.680 --> 0:03:48.160 It's supposed to be coming back, right, CI double A. 0:03:48.760 --> 0:03:52.640 I don't know, but this is about this one, this 0:03:52.840 --> 0:03:58.120 black one brought on by blacks, presented by black people 0:03:58.760 --> 0:04:03.280 for HBCUs. Y'all get involved intellect. 0:04:03.760 --> 0:04:07.520 Yeah, did you attend any of the fescificity festivities? 0:04:08.680 --> 0:04:12.240 I actually didn't get to go out to the tournament. 0:04:12.360 --> 0:04:16.360 I did go to There's a new lounge in Charlotte 0:04:16.360 --> 0:04:19.520 called Taranga that opened up over the weekend too, and 0:04:19.560 --> 0:04:21.240 I popped out there and it was nice. 0:04:21.440 --> 0:04:25.120 It was Taranga, Topanga, Taranga whever it comes. 0:04:24.960 --> 0:04:27.600 From like that. I think it's called Tarango though, and 0:04:27.680 --> 0:04:30.960 it was cute in there. So that opened over the weekend. 0:04:31.360 --> 0:04:33.440 They're soft open, but that was soft about it. It 0:04:33.520 --> 0:04:37.360 was fully open. So I went there and that was it. 0:04:37.400 --> 0:04:40.560 You know, I don't get out too much these days, 0:04:41.720 --> 0:04:43.760 I mean in the house. M hm. 0:04:45.279 --> 0:04:46.320 Well that sounds fun. 0:04:46.560 --> 0:04:48.599 It was fun. It was a good time. Meet Jamaican 0:04:48.600 --> 0:04:49.400 and Raquel. 0:04:49.120 --> 0:04:53.680 With Ja Maka Jamaica honestae Jamaican, so damn long. 0:04:54.160 --> 0:04:55.920 Yeah, it was a good time. Shout out to Jamaica 0:04:55.920 --> 0:04:59.640 and Raquel, let's get in there now, what you got? 0:04:59.680 --> 0:05:02.120 What you I You know what? 0:05:02.560 --> 0:05:09.800 I keep seeing posts about a BBL smell. So this 0:05:10.000 --> 0:05:12.960 one woman got on there and said the bbl's is 0:05:13.000 --> 0:05:17.440 stinking and ain't nobody talking about it? That it spelled 0:05:17.560 --> 0:05:20.880 like she said, it smelled like a pot of broccoli 0:05:21.360 --> 0:05:23.240 that got to live on it and been sitting on 0:05:23.279 --> 0:05:27.480 the stove for two days. God damn, Now, listen, if 0:05:27.480 --> 0:05:29.560 you got a BBL, y'all, tell us do your shit 0:05:29.600 --> 0:05:31.599 smell like broccoli every now and then when you swear 0:05:31.680 --> 0:05:35.440 or something? And what causes that? So I looked up 0:05:35.440 --> 0:05:38.240 the BBL smell and apparently there's some truth to it. 0:05:38.760 --> 0:05:41.359 I've been hearing that for years, that the bbl's be leaking, 0:05:41.640 --> 0:05:44.240 that they be smelling, And I don't know if it 0:05:44.240 --> 0:05:46.280 has anything to do with that. Maybe, I don't know 0:05:46.360 --> 0:05:49.520 if the the fact that was transferred to it is 0:05:49.520 --> 0:05:51.680 like rotten. I don't know. I'm one of my little 0:05:51.680 --> 0:05:53.720 cousins that got a BBL one time and her shit 0:05:53.839 --> 0:05:57.000 went wrong. Tell me a motherfucker who ever got a 0:05:57.040 --> 0:06:01.480 BBL in Charleston, South Carolina. I don't know, but she did, okay, 0:06:02.200 --> 0:06:04.800 and they I remember going with her to an appointment 0:06:04.800 --> 0:06:07.200 and they had to put guds in that thing, like 0:06:07.279 --> 0:06:09.800 she had a whole back there because her body was 0:06:09.839 --> 0:06:14.719 actually rejecting her own fat in that area. So she 0:06:14.760 --> 0:06:17.480 got an infection. So I don't know if maybe because 0:06:17.480 --> 0:06:18.919 you know these girls, they be having to get that 0:06:18.920 --> 0:06:22.640 shit cut out now well wait wait, wait, let me 0:06:22.680 --> 0:06:26.680 back up. Yeah, so that was a fat transfer. That's 0:06:26.680 --> 0:06:30.159 different the bbls A lot of the women have, maybe 0:06:30.440 --> 0:06:34.359 like the saline. Yeah, it's like the foreign matter that 0:06:34.360 --> 0:06:40.120 they're putting into the body. It's not their own fat. Yeah, 0:06:40.160 --> 0:06:44.240 I did see your titty, bitch you. This girl is 0:06:44.279 --> 0:06:46.440 such a whole like, yeah, I saw the nipple. But 0:06:46.480 --> 0:06:50.480 why you gotta put it in the audio. She just 0:06:50.480 --> 0:06:57.040 want everybody know her fucking pities is out your ass, 0:07:00.960 --> 0:07:05.120 crazy ass. But look, I did google BBL smell and 0:07:05.160 --> 0:07:09.120 it just said this is from South Shore Plastic Surgery, 0:07:10.680 --> 0:07:14.640 it says, identifying the BBL smell. The BBL smell is 0:07:14.680 --> 0:07:19.000 often described as musty or slightly sour, so that there 0:07:19.080 --> 0:07:21.800 goes that broccoli with the lid on. But it should 0:07:21.840 --> 0:07:25.640 not be overpowering. You may notice the order more prominently 0:07:25.680 --> 0:07:28.920 after sweating or sitting for extended periods. However, the smell 0:07:29.040 --> 0:07:34.920 is a company accompanied by other symptoms like redness, swelling, 0:07:35.000 --> 0:07:38.880 or fever. These could be signs of infection. So if 0:07:38.880 --> 0:07:40.400 the booty is smelling. 0:07:40.920 --> 0:07:43.400 So that must be like a new BBL. The old 0:07:43.400 --> 0:07:45.840 bbls can't be having this smell, right. 0:07:46.120 --> 0:07:48.480 I think people be having problems with the old bbls. 0:07:48.480 --> 0:07:52.320 They've had this thing sitting in their bodies for years rottening. 0:07:54.320 --> 0:07:59.800 It's crazy. Yeah, I don't know. If it can rotten 0:08:00.040 --> 0:08:02.520 your own fat, I don't know. 0:08:02.560 --> 0:08:06.080 And it says maintaining optimal hygiene after BBL can be challenging. 0:08:06.120 --> 0:08:08.560 I don't know why. Maybe because y'all put too much 0:08:08.600 --> 0:08:12.920 as back there, especially when using the restroom. Residual stool 0:08:13.000 --> 0:08:16.160 or urine on the skin can lead to bacterial growth 0:08:16.160 --> 0:08:20.280 and older development if not clean thoroughly. Be extra diligent 0:08:20.320 --> 0:08:25.480 about cleansing after bio movements and urination to prevent unwanted smells. 0:08:25.840 --> 0:08:27.000 But ain't that to everybody? 0:08:27.680 --> 0:08:32.800 Yeah, I'm like that is not exclusive to booties, right. 0:08:33.040 --> 0:08:36.320 Wipe your head is a thing for everybody, you will 0:08:36.440 --> 0:08:38.480 think of your ass dirty, like what the hell? 0:08:38.920 --> 0:08:41.400 Yeah, I believe it's rottening though, I believe if it's 0:08:41.400 --> 0:08:43.560 not just like the BBL with the fat transfer, like 0:08:43.679 --> 0:08:46.160 using your own fat, which your body can also still 0:08:46.240 --> 0:08:48.720 reject that, right, But you do have a lot of 0:08:48.720 --> 0:08:52.640 women that were getting the asses added on before the 0:08:52.720 --> 0:08:57.319 BBL fat transfer. It's been around, but yeah, they were 0:08:57.320 --> 0:08:59.200 doing injections in the back of the club or in 0:08:59.240 --> 0:09:02.400 some basement in New York City, like yeah, and people 0:09:02.400 --> 0:09:05.079 were going to prison for performing these things. Fix a 0:09:05.120 --> 0:09:08.640 flat in the ass all type of shit and your 0:09:08.720 --> 0:09:09.680 ass is crazy. 0:09:10.000 --> 0:09:16.640 Yeah, nuts, Well that's proof I ain't had no BBM. 0:09:16.760 --> 0:09:18.839 My shit don't never smell like broccing now. 0:09:21.960 --> 0:09:24.079 And you know, just like with anything else, like you 0:09:24.120 --> 0:09:26.360 are the first person to smell these things. You should 0:09:26.440 --> 0:09:29.240 not be bunking that ass round the club knowing that 0:09:29.520 --> 0:09:35.160 this thing possibly be smelling like hot shit. Bunks that ass, 0:09:35.360 --> 0:09:36.400 like bunks that ass. 0:09:36.520 --> 0:09:38.920 You start experiencing that, you should probably go to a doctor, 0:09:38.920 --> 0:09:40.520 because it got to be something that you can do 0:09:40.600 --> 0:09:46.800 to help, you know, like combat the broccoli yell. 0:09:48.160 --> 0:09:52.360 So I saw online and look, and I you might 0:09:52.440 --> 0:09:56.120 think this is crazy. Personally, I don't think it is. 0:09:56.720 --> 0:09:59.080 I think it's very plausible. If I were an attorney 0:09:59.080 --> 0:10:01.080 and somebody brought this lawsuit to me, I'll be like, 0:10:01.120 --> 0:10:04.600 you know what, you might be onto something. So apparently 0:10:04.640 --> 0:10:08.720 a Russian man sued Apple for turning him gay. It 0:10:08.720 --> 0:10:14.440 says a Russian man, uh, his name is d Razommulov, 0:10:15.600 --> 0:10:20.040 fouled a lawsuit against Apple, claiming that the company's products 0:10:20.080 --> 0:10:22.680 turned him gay. This is one of the most bizarre 0:10:22.840 --> 0:10:26.439 legal cases in history, it says. It says he downloaded 0:10:26.480 --> 0:10:29.960 a crypto app onto his phone where he started receiving 0:10:30.240 --> 0:10:34.880 gay coin instead of bitcoin. The Apple apparently said, don't 0:10:35.000 --> 0:10:40.800 judge until you try. Inspiring Razummulov, whatever, how are you 0:10:40.800 --> 0:10:44.080 pronounce the last name? To begin having sex, to begin 0:10:44.120 --> 0:10:48.280 having same sex relationships, he ended up falling in love 0:10:48.679 --> 0:10:52.920 with another man, and now he is suing Apple because 0:10:52.920 --> 0:10:53.199 of it. 0:10:54.600 --> 0:10:57.120 About that the dumbest shit I ever heard. Didn't nobody 0:10:57.160 --> 0:11:01.040 to make you fuck a dude, You chose it. 0:11:01.920 --> 0:11:04.680 No, I think that, I really do think that there 0:11:04.720 --> 0:11:08.840 is subliminal messaging with this. It's direct messaging. Don't knock 0:11:08.920 --> 0:11:11.120 until you try it, you know what I'm saying? And 0:11:11.160 --> 0:11:14.400 he actually tried it. You know, I know I've said 0:11:14.400 --> 0:11:16.480 this on the show before. There's a lot of men 0:11:16.520 --> 0:11:19.120 that are probably gay in the mind before they are 0:11:19.160 --> 0:11:22.760 actually physically gay, right, or maybe some of them may 0:11:22.840 --> 0:11:27.240 never ever act on the urge right to have sex 0:11:27.280 --> 0:11:29.400 with it with the same sex, but they think about 0:11:29.400 --> 0:11:31.440 it a lot and they just haven't gotten like the 0:11:31.520 --> 0:11:36.439 opportune time or situation to do it. And now this 0:11:36.480 --> 0:11:39.320 thing has enticed him to do it. He might have 0:11:39.360 --> 0:11:39.960 a lawsuit. 0:11:41.200 --> 0:11:44.000 He gonna lose, bag. 0:11:44.000 --> 0:11:45.240 I don't think so. Think about that. 0:11:45.240 --> 0:11:49.240 Accountability, Like Apple didn't make you go nowhere and fuck 0:11:49.360 --> 0:11:51.960 no man, like that was a firm decision. 0:11:52.520 --> 0:11:54.720 What if he can prove that Apple kept sending him 0:11:54.760 --> 0:11:58.040 this message to his phone, like it just kept popping 0:11:58.080 --> 0:12:00.600 up on his phone. Don't knock it to you tried. 0:12:00.480 --> 0:12:04.320 That is not that is but Erica keep sending me 0:12:04.320 --> 0:12:07.040 messages get broccoli soup. I ain't got none yet. 0:12:07.280 --> 0:12:10.280 But McDonald's has been sued for a subliminal messaging many 0:12:10.320 --> 0:12:13.400 times throughout history. Think about this young boy who just 0:12:13.400 --> 0:12:16.360 committed suicide because AI told him to come be with him. 0:12:17.640 --> 0:12:22.280 You see yeah this album, Yeah, like and if somebody I. 0:12:22.280 --> 0:12:25.640 Just don't think sexual acts count because you have to 0:12:26.600 --> 0:12:29.840 literally go do it, like you have to decide that 0:12:29.920 --> 0:12:32.280 you want to have sex with another the same sex. 0:12:32.880 --> 0:12:34.640 I think he got a lot of suit. We'll see. 0:12:35.280 --> 0:12:37.360 I'm gonna track it if you're win that. 0:12:37.520 --> 0:12:40.160 I'm suing everybody for every choice I've ever made in 0:12:40.200 --> 0:12:46.880 life that wasn't right, spending spending money on clothes. Y'all 0:12:46.920 --> 0:12:49.280 keep sending me messages about buying clothes, and I keep 0:12:49.280 --> 0:12:52.000 buying clothes and I ain't got no money. That's your fault. 0:12:52.040 --> 0:12:54.000 So I'm gonna sue y'all, and I better win this. 0:12:54.040 --> 0:12:58.640 Motherfucker win about it. Beat Apple. The Apple owe him 0:12:58.640 --> 0:13:02.160 some money for him deciding to suck some dick. That 0:13:02.320 --> 0:13:05.079 was a choice. If you want to suck some dick, 0:13:05.120 --> 0:13:08.920 it's okay, but don't don't. Don't put it on Apple. 0:13:08.960 --> 0:13:13.560 Apple ain't got nothing to do with it. It's okay, Eve. 0:13:14.640 --> 0:13:17.320 I feel like we could find some lawsuits where people 0:13:17.360 --> 0:13:19.720 probably suit him one for these things. They may not 0:13:19.840 --> 0:13:23.360 publicize them heavily because they don't want other people trying 0:13:23.360 --> 0:13:26.800 and shit, but you know, like all lawyers got to 0:13:26.840 --> 0:13:28.040 do is convince the jury. 0:13:29.040 --> 0:13:29.480 That's it. 0:13:29.960 --> 0:13:32.280 And I feel like he would be able to his 0:13:32.440 --> 0:13:37.000 attorney may be able to convince the jury that they. 0:13:36.360 --> 0:13:38.400 Got ain't no way. I don't know who else going 0:13:38.440 --> 0:13:42.320 to be able to win that kid, Me, that's who me. 0:13:43.320 --> 0:13:48.400 Look what else happened over the weekend? Oh did you 0:13:48.440 --> 0:13:53.160 see where Young Miami? She was on Shannon Shark m 0:13:54.040 --> 0:13:59.800 C Club and she explained that she'll give her significant 0:13:59.800 --> 0:14:01.920 other or four times to cheat before she calls it 0:14:01.960 --> 0:14:07.400 a rap. Four times to cheat. That number is very specific. 0:14:08.280 --> 0:14:11.240 I give my four times that I haven't watched a 0:14:11.280 --> 0:14:13.800 full interview yet. I only saw like the clips online, 0:14:13.840 --> 0:14:16.240 but I laughed my ass off where she said like 0:14:16.280 --> 0:14:22.200 four times, y'all Miami ass funny as hell without trying 0:14:22.200 --> 0:14:25.880 to be funny. She just right round the way girl, 0:14:26.560 --> 0:14:27.560 because you. 0:14:27.480 --> 0:14:29.680 Can't even you shouldn't even if that's the case, you 0:14:29.680 --> 0:14:33.280 shouldn't say it out loud. I feel like the nigga 0:14:33.320 --> 0:14:35.600 gonna be like shit, you said I had four times? 0:14:35.680 --> 0:14:38.320 I seen it a club shack shade girl. 0:14:38.400 --> 0:14:41.560 I have an ex boyfriend who always, like, at least 0:14:41.920 --> 0:14:44.680 once every two years, I might speak to this nigga, 0:14:44.680 --> 0:14:50.720 and he always complains about how I didn't give him second, third, fourth, chance. 0:14:51.240 --> 0:14:53.640 You give all these other niggas a chance, you ain't 0:14:53.680 --> 0:14:56.520 never get to fuck me over again. You mad because 0:14:56.560 --> 0:14:58.640 I gave another nigga a chance to fuck me over 0:14:58.680 --> 0:15:04.800 and not you. Right, that is beyond me. These people's thinking, Nah, nigga, 0:15:04.840 --> 0:15:07.400 I just didn't feel like you were worth all these 0:15:07.480 --> 0:15:10.920 extra chances, which he had a lot. So I'm trying 0:15:10.920 --> 0:15:12.800 to figure out what the fuck are you talking about? Like, yes, 0:15:12.920 --> 0:15:15.480 I'm definitely not about to give a nigga like okay, 0:15:15.480 --> 0:15:17.720 if you want to strike off one, you got three left. 0:15:18.480 --> 0:15:22.640 I'm like some people, cheating is an ultimate deal worker. 0:15:22.680 --> 0:15:27.160 It's the ultimate disrespect for the relationships. Some people, it ain't. 0:15:27.440 --> 0:15:30.880 You know, I'm a go ahead. 0:15:32.160 --> 0:15:37.160 I always have to weigh like, am I'm more happy 0:15:37.200 --> 0:15:42.280 than not? That's always an answer for me in every scenario. 0:15:42.440 --> 0:15:46.520 Am I smiling more or not smiling enough? Then I 0:15:46.560 --> 0:15:49.440 gotta go. It don't matter what the infraction is. 0:15:49.960 --> 0:15:52.160 Right or how many times. I mean, the more you 0:15:52.240 --> 0:15:55.240 do shit, I'm losing like respect for you, I'm losing trust. 0:15:55.920 --> 0:15:57.960 You know what I'm saying. So even if you and 0:15:58.000 --> 0:16:00.280 then eventually you ain't gonna be able to trust me, nigga, 0:16:00.280 --> 0:16:02.360 because I'm gonna make you feel it, you know, So 0:16:02.400 --> 0:16:04.400 do you really want to be here after? You don't 0:16:04.400 --> 0:16:05.880 shoot on me? A lot of times I may not 0:16:05.920 --> 0:16:08.400 have left you, and that's a toxic trade of mine. 0:16:08.800 --> 0:16:14.160 I may not leave you right for cheating, but you're 0:16:14.240 --> 0:16:17.000 gonna feel my wrath and I'm not even I may 0:16:17.120 --> 0:16:19.800 I'm not gonna say nothing, but you're gonna feel like 0:16:19.840 --> 0:16:25.640 something going on. Okay, So don't play with me because 0:16:25.680 --> 0:16:28.160 I do. I'm I am a one upper. 0:16:28.360 --> 0:16:30.960 My daddy said when he had cheated on my mom 0:16:31.000 --> 0:16:34.040 when they were young, and Mama took him back, but 0:16:34.760 --> 0:16:36.600 he said we had to eat out the same plate 0:16:36.680 --> 0:16:43.080 for like two months before he trusted the eating over 0:16:43.160 --> 0:16:45.720 here with your fork because we're not eating out a 0:16:45.760 --> 0:16:46.400 different bowl. 0:16:48.360 --> 0:16:51.360 He thought she was gonna poison him. Yep, why are 0:16:51.360 --> 0:16:53.240 you still with somebody you can't trust in that? I 0:16:53.600 --> 0:16:55.920 never understand why men stay with women they still eat 0:16:55.960 --> 0:16:57.720 food from. But you don't trust me? 0:16:58.200 --> 0:16:58.320 Right? 0:16:58.840 --> 0:17:01.720 Just be eating up this food, asking me what I'm cooking, 0:17:02.160 --> 0:17:05.440 asking me what we eating? But you but you scared? 0:17:06.440 --> 0:17:10.560 You ain't scared enough. You ain't scared, You are not 0:17:10.640 --> 0:17:13.360 scared enough? All right, y'all? So for this week's episode. 0:17:13.359 --> 0:17:15.959 Tell me when the last time you watched Wayne Takes Hell? 0:17:16.280 --> 0:17:21.159 The other day for realm So I have watched it 0:17:21.200 --> 0:17:23.280 as like a super adult because I feel like we 0:17:23.320 --> 0:17:26.199 would have been teenagers when it came out, right, Like 0:17:26.320 --> 0:17:35.320 I have watched it, Girl beat it. I wasn't born yet. 0:17:35.560 --> 0:17:37.840 I saw it last week. Girl Get out of Here. 0:17:37.960 --> 0:17:39.359 A vintage movie for me. 0:17:40.480 --> 0:17:43.720 Like I don't know if we were watching Wayne Takes 0:17:43.760 --> 0:17:46.639 Hell like when we actually got into these like serious relationships. 0:17:46.640 --> 0:17:48.800 When you have watched Waiting Takes Heil, And I do 0:17:49.240 --> 0:17:52.119 suggest y'all to go watch it now if you haven't 0:17:52.280 --> 0:17:55.840 in the last five years, six years, ten years, whatever 0:17:55.920 --> 0:17:56.199 it is. 0:17:56.480 --> 0:18:00.520 I the other day on the plane, right he has 0:18:00.560 --> 0:18:01.639 one of those movies. 0:18:01.400 --> 0:18:03.560 On the flight, Go watch it because I want to 0:18:03.600 --> 0:18:04.960 talk about it with you, but I also want to 0:18:04.960 --> 0:18:06.679 talk about it like with the listeners. What y'all think 0:18:06.680 --> 0:18:09.360 about Waiting Takes Heale as it pertains to like our 0:18:09.400 --> 0:18:12.359 life now and dating, did anything change? Is it the 0:18:12.400 --> 0:18:16.040 same shit we now experiencing what we saw them as 0:18:16.119 --> 0:18:21.040 you know, grown women, career women, mothers, single fine bitch, 0:18:21.119 --> 0:18:24.760 you know what I'm saying, Like, like, are we experiencing 0:18:24.800 --> 0:18:25.639 the same things. 0:18:26.240 --> 0:18:27.200 Let's get into it. 0:18:27.760 --> 0:18:34.879 Yeah, we'll be right back, all right now, asorry from 0:18:35.480 --> 0:18:38.440 you know, just thinking about the characters on Waiting the 0:18:38.480 --> 0:18:40.560 Waiting Takes Hell. I actually came across this post and 0:18:40.600 --> 0:18:42.040 I sent it to Tamman. I just want to read 0:18:42.080 --> 0:18:45.080 a couple of parts of it, right, because it says, 0:18:46.040 --> 0:18:50.680 after watching excuse me, after we watching Waiting Takes Hell 0:18:50.760 --> 0:18:53.640 for the first time since I was younger, same shit, right, 0:18:54.320 --> 0:18:57.960 it felt to me. Excuse me, It left me with 0:18:58.080 --> 0:19:00.880 a lot to unpack. And here's a whole thread, right. 0:19:01.320 --> 0:19:04.199 So it begins with saying, like, so this movie is 0:19:04.280 --> 0:19:08.879 classically known for the infamous scene of Bernadine, that character 0:19:08.880 --> 0:19:13.959 that was played by Angela Angel Bassett, Yeah, setting her 0:19:14.080 --> 0:19:17.159 soon to be ex husband clothes on fire in his car. 0:19:17.520 --> 0:19:20.600 But that wasn't the only thing that exploded, right, So 0:19:20.640 --> 0:19:23.400 she's saying, like, mentally, now, let's just unpack that one 0:19:23.400 --> 0:19:26.879 part because I literally have that the scene where she 0:19:26.920 --> 0:19:29.520 walked up in the ballroom and slapped that white bitch. 0:19:29.560 --> 0:19:31.680 I got that shit saved on Instagram. 0:19:31.720 --> 0:19:32.720 I seen it one day, and I. 0:19:35.040 --> 0:19:37.720 Love that part of the movie. Bernardine. 0:19:37.800 --> 0:19:38.800 I'm in a meeting here. 0:19:39.000 --> 0:19:40.960 If you need something, I suggest, would. 0:19:40.800 --> 0:19:42.919 You mind terribly if I had a few words with 0:19:43.000 --> 0:19:46.920 my husband? Oh? What the hell are you doing? I've 0:19:46.920 --> 0:19:50.760 been to the bank. Thank you, thank you for thanking 0:19:50.800 --> 0:19:55.880 of your children. Everybody out, yes, out, you're comfort wife, 0:19:56.320 --> 0:19:59.159 and start throwing some tantrum because you can't finish what 0:19:59.280 --> 0:20:01.800 you started. What am I supposed to do for money? 0:20:01.920 --> 0:20:03.640 I gave you the house now, sun. 0:20:04.480 --> 0:20:05.960 I think we all enjoyed that part. 0:20:09.359 --> 0:20:10.760 That looked like it was a real slap. 0:20:11.400 --> 0:20:11.800 It was not. 0:20:12.520 --> 0:20:14.879 It looked really real, like they acted the shit out 0:20:14.920 --> 0:20:15.360 of that part. 0:20:15.960 --> 0:20:17.480 She's like, do you excuse me? Do you think I 0:20:17.480 --> 0:20:19.920 could talk to my husband for a second. She's like, sure, 0:20:20.000 --> 0:20:21.240 I didn't. 0:20:26.280 --> 0:20:28.680 So the next threat, the next party threat says, there's 0:20:28.720 --> 0:20:32.200 a heavy depiction of a loneliness and how women can 0:20:32.359 --> 0:20:36.040 consistently say yes to things that say no to them. 0:20:37.000 --> 0:20:41.480 That's true, right when you like kind of lonely? 0:20:42.440 --> 0:20:48.840 Mm hmm, this is definitely uh me, you be settled 0:20:48.880 --> 0:20:55.000 up for shit, right, entertaining old shit just because it's familiar, 0:20:55.880 --> 0:20:58.880 but it don't really align with what I really want 0:20:59.040 --> 0:21:03.200 or desire, honestly, and the loneliness get to you. Man 0:21:03.280 --> 0:21:06.240 that ship, I'll tell you, and your body will betray 0:21:06.280 --> 0:21:07.240 your mind every time. 0:21:07.600 --> 0:21:11.840 Yeah, and then you asking asking different you asking a 0:21:11.960 --> 0:21:14.160 universe for one thing, right, but you're not doing your 0:21:14.200 --> 0:21:17.440 part because you're lonely. And I say this a lot. 0:21:17.480 --> 0:21:20.280 I remember when one of my friends, her daughter is 0:21:20.320 --> 0:21:23.399 my goddaughter. She she sent me a text message one 0:21:23.440 --> 0:21:26.280 day and asked me like to help her basically write 0:21:26.280 --> 0:21:31.120 a letter to my goddaughter graduating from high school. And 0:21:31.160 --> 0:21:33.679 one of the main things I said for her to 0:21:33.680 --> 0:21:37.399 put in this letters like get comfortable being alone, you know, 0:21:37.520 --> 0:21:42.760 be okay with yourself. You know. Yeah that And it's 0:21:42.840 --> 0:21:45.320 really not though, because I do like solitude. I do 0:21:45.480 --> 0:21:46.560 like being by myself. 0:21:48.119 --> 0:21:52.720 And you're ever seeing you be single. I've been you 0:21:52.840 --> 0:21:55.639 be like a man, you be like consistently with a 0:21:55.720 --> 0:21:56.800 new nigga. 0:21:57.160 --> 0:22:01.560 That's not true. See it's mental though, right. I might physically, 0:22:04.160 --> 0:22:05.720 but they don't God me, mentally. 0:22:07.280 --> 0:22:10.439 You got another nigga already. God damn, I can't have 0:22:10.520 --> 0:22:13.200 a nigga. I never have a nigga. This nigga have 0:22:13.320 --> 0:22:16.520 a new nigga every couple of months. 0:22:18.800 --> 0:22:21.840 It's the physical, not the mental anyway, girls, I'm telling 0:22:21.920 --> 0:22:24.879 my business like I want to be telling it. It 0:22:24.920 --> 0:22:29.760