WEBVTT - Ep86: Sugar daddy or NAH? 0:00:03.640 --> 0:00:05.760 Hey everybody, this is wheezy. I want to invite you 0:00:05.840 --> 0:00:08.920 to a new event called This Stage and Sex Study. 0:00:08.960 --> 0:00:12.280 Hall Um Ameliorities, who we had on for the Cleansier 0:00:12.320 --> 0:00:14.360 Coucie episode, hit me up and really wanted to do 0:00:14.440 --> 0:00:17.080 something special. I'm really excited for this event. It's going 0:00:17.120 --> 0:00:19.320 to be on eleven eleven, a good luck number from 0:00:19.320 --> 0:00:21.759 three to five, so at a private location in Brooklyn. 0:00:22.120 --> 0:00:24.440 Her and I haven't decided how many people we want yet, 0:00:24.440 --> 0:00:26.040 maybe fourty or sixty. But this is gonna be a 0:00:26.120 --> 0:00:30.120 very intimate setting, no phones, private personal We want everyone 0:00:30.160 --> 0:00:32.080 to feel safe in the space to have an open 0:00:32.080 --> 0:00:35.600 discussion about sex, mental health, and relationships. This is not 0:00:35.800 --> 0:00:38.040 us on some stage. You're not watching a show. This 0:00:38.120 --> 0:00:41.720 is all of us talking and learning together. We're encouraging women, 0:00:41.880 --> 0:00:44.800 men and couples, not just women. We don't want it 0:00:44.840 --> 0:00:47.519 to be the conversation that girlfriends have behind closed doors. 0:00:47.600 --> 0:00:50.479 I'm really excited for this. It's to help you establish 0:00:50.479 --> 0:00:52.960 a better connection with yourself and others. If you guys 0:00:52.960 --> 0:00:55.240 want to take pictures until after, we're definitely doing that, 0:00:55.320 --> 0:00:58.480 but no phones during. It's going to be super great. 0:00:58.720 --> 0:01:01.400 Um excited if you guys wanna watch a show and 0:01:01.400 --> 0:01:04.040 talk about some more dicks. So So Talk is coming 0:01:04.080 --> 0:01:08.280 to Miami eleven seventeen and Atlanta on twelve eight. Thank 0:01:08.319 --> 0:01:10.240 you guys for those who came out in New York 0:01:10.440 --> 0:01:16.160 and hope to see you soon. So what y'all welcome 0:01:16.800 --> 0:01:20.280 another episode of Horrible Decisions. I also, um, you guys 0:01:20.319 --> 0:01:21.720 go ahead and support Weezy, but I do want to 0:01:21.720 --> 0:01:23.200 go ahead and let you guys know that I will 0:01:23.200 --> 0:01:27.760 be in Dallas on Thanksgiving Day weekend. Details for that 0:01:27.800 --> 0:01:30.600 event will be dropping soon. I will also be in 0:01:30.760 --> 0:01:35.959 Atlanta UM the weekend of December thirteenth through seventeenth. 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So we 0:02:35.360 --> 0:02:37.080 have a guest today, guys. I know that you'll have 0:02:37.120 --> 0:02:40.040 been y'all have been like we've been giving out a 0:02:40.040 --> 0:02:41.600 lot of little so low with us, but we went 0:02:41.639 --> 0:02:43.880 ahead and UM brought a guy into the village. Now. 0:02:43.919 --> 0:02:46.480 If you guys have been watching our social media, I 0:02:46.520 --> 0:02:49.799 posted on the Horrible Decisions page and my own UM 0:02:49.840 --> 0:02:54.520 looking for interesting guests, right, people that would be either 0:02:54.639 --> 0:02:57.080 kinky or we could you know, just figure out what 0:02:57.200 --> 0:02:59.520 kind of lifestyle they have going on. And there's someone 0:02:59.560 --> 0:03:01.679 in the student with us today. If you're watching YouTube, 0:03:01.880 --> 0:03:04.880 you're going to see a blurry little blob on the stream. 0:03:05.000 --> 0:03:08.200 But we can tell you. Let's talk. Let's describe. First off, 0:03:08.360 --> 0:03:11.200 I'm this is interesting for this conversation. So before we 0:03:11.200 --> 0:03:14.160 started filming, I said, Nick, I don't believe you because 0:03:14.320 --> 0:03:20.440 this man, this man is fine as across. You are 0:03:20.440 --> 0:03:24.160 a good character. I appreciate that. I appreciate that. Well, 0:03:24.200 --> 0:03:27.280 now I judged your character just on the outside. You 0:03:27.280 --> 0:03:29.720 look good. You probably still ain't shit, but you look 0:03:29.840 --> 0:03:32.680 nice from the outside. And then you also don't grib 0:03:32.720 --> 0:03:34.440 what he looks like. So we have a black man 0:03:34.440 --> 0:03:36.000 in the studio. Yeah, I would say, what are you 0:03:36.040 --> 0:03:43.000 six to? Okay, but now a great smile. There's some 0:03:43.040 --> 0:03:46.280 tattoos there. He came in with a button up baldhead. Yeah, 0:03:46.360 --> 0:03:49.119 bald head, very kind of chinky at and tall, tall, 0:03:49.200 --> 0:03:51.600 dark and handsome. And the reason that he's in the 0:03:51.600 --> 0:03:54.640 studio today is because he said that he would be 0:03:54.680 --> 0:03:58.040 a great deest guest for a Sugar Daddy episode. Now 0:03:58.120 --> 0:04:00.240 I didn't believe him. I don't believe him now. Way 0:04:00.320 --> 0:04:02.880 that I did meet our guests, Mr Big is because 0:04:02.880 --> 0:04:04.960 I was doing it back to school donation thing, and 0:04:05.000 --> 0:04:06.800 he did send me some money for how much money 0:04:06.840 --> 0:04:11.160 you sent? Remember? Remember? Not enough? I think I just 0:04:11.200 --> 0:04:15.120 sent you. Actually I do remember I sent him one 0:04:15.160 --> 0:04:16.919 list because you know, you gotta gage how much somebody 0:04:16.920 --> 0:04:19.040 gonna spend. He was like, now you can send me more. 0:04:19.960 --> 0:04:22.720 I like sending sending the good the good item. I 0:04:22.720 --> 0:04:25.360 don't remember what it was for me, Like no, Like, 0:04:25.640 --> 0:04:29.120 so I have two Amazon wish lists. I get that, 0:04:29.160 --> 0:04:31.400 but I'm saying you still have two different ones, like 0:04:31.680 --> 0:04:33.360 on one list, like even if you go to a 0:04:33.400 --> 0:04:35.440 baby shower, you got the friend that knows who to 0:04:35.480 --> 0:04:36.960 ask for papers, then you got the one who knows 0:04:37.200 --> 0:04:40.120 who to ask for a swing. Right, I wanted you know, 0:04:40.360 --> 0:04:42.920 so not the sex one. You know, not the sex No, 0:04:43.080 --> 0:04:45.920 not the sex wing. So I'm interested to know Mr 0:04:45.920 --> 0:04:47.480 Biggs a little more about it. So we just want 0:04:47.480 --> 0:04:50.159 to break the heights with a few questions. Now I 0:04:50.240 --> 0:04:52.480 want to know. We got five questions here. Would you 0:04:52.600 --> 0:04:56.920 rather have an assertive or a submissive woman? Submissive? It 0:04:56.920 --> 0:05:00.400 doesn't really matter, she's gonna end up being submissive. Okay, 0:05:01.040 --> 0:05:04.520 excuse the funk out of it. No, I already looked 0:05:04.520 --> 0:05:06.680 at the fingers. There's no rains. Now. Would you rather 0:05:06.760 --> 0:05:10.520 have a woman with no sexual experiences at all? Or 0:05:10.560 --> 0:05:15.240 an escort? Are those opposites? Does that even? I'm going 0:05:15.240 --> 0:05:18.039 I'm gonna have to go x escort right because listen, 0:05:18.040 --> 0:05:20.160 you know you can't the first time you touch a basketball, 0:05:20.200 --> 0:05:21.839 you can't say all right now, I'm gonna play against 0:05:21.839 --> 0:05:27.360 Steph Curry. I like that. Okay, gotta get I asked 0:05:27.360 --> 0:05:31.120 that question because the SV conversation is very like, oh, prostitute, 0:05:31.160 --> 0:05:32.520 but you know what I mean. I kind of wanted 0:05:32.520 --> 0:05:34.320 to see what you would say because I've seen on 0:05:34.360 --> 0:05:37.600 a lot of profiles men will say things like no professionals, 0:05:37.640 --> 0:05:39.840 and I want to get into that with you too. Um. 0:05:39.960 --> 0:05:42.239 Would you rather have a woman who is not into 0:05:42.320 --> 0:05:45.520 threesomes or any kind of kinky sex or a woman 0:05:45.560 --> 0:05:49.239 that love kink, loves kinky sex and threesomes but only 0:05:49.520 --> 0:05:54.200 mmf so two men? Oh nah, we'll go. We're gonna 0:05:54.200 --> 0:05:58.400 go with option a vanilla. Yeah, if it's only with 0:05:58.480 --> 0:06:00.560 other dudes, you are you? I don't want to be 0:06:00.600 --> 0:06:02.440 in the same you know, I have none against the 0:06:02.480 --> 0:06:05.400 home sexual community. It's just, you know, i'd rather not 0:06:05.480 --> 0:06:08.240 be around some dick. Do you find yourself to be 0:06:08.279 --> 0:06:12.919 a kinky person? Though? Depends on whose standards, you know, 0:06:13.000 --> 0:06:17.679 but I probably seemed pretty mild, you know, like, Okay, 0:06:17.839 --> 0:06:19.400 would you rather have a woman p on you or 0:06:19.440 --> 0:06:22.560 p on them? You gotta pick? I gotta pe. I 0:06:22.560 --> 0:06:25.000 gotta pick some p you gotta pick. Yeah, you gotta pick. 0:06:25.160 --> 0:06:29.400 I'd rather you keep. Okay, I'd rather no one p 0:06:29.600 --> 0:06:34.960 on anyone. That's not my ship. Yeah, there was just 0:06:36.000 --> 0:06:39.320 the standard, so you vanilla? All right? Hey, listen, if 0:06:39.320 --> 0:06:43.040 I gotta that was allowed, if I gotta pick, okay, 0:06:43.080 --> 0:06:45.039 real quick. And this isn't name on there? So is 0:06:45.040 --> 0:06:48.880 there is there any anal play at all going on? 0:06:48.920 --> 0:06:50.919 Would you a girl in the ass or could she 0:06:50.960 --> 0:06:53.760 put her finger in your butt? Oh? I'd rather in 0:06:53.800 --> 0:06:57.240 the as Okay? Yeah, ok yeah, yeah, yeah, rather lick 0:06:57.320 --> 0:07:01.359 toes or eat ass. I'm going with the that's the 0:07:01.440 --> 0:07:07.080 vanilla ship, my nig. You're really not that kinky at all. Okay. 0:07:07.120 --> 0:07:09.040 You know what that was exciting because I think the 0:07:09.120 --> 0:07:11.679 last person we had those pretty vanilla was Jesse Woo 0:07:12.160 --> 0:07:15.320 and then I think you just did a show with Carlon, Right, Yeah, 0:07:15.480 --> 0:07:18.480 pretty vanilla, Um, But I like your pretty vanilla at 0:07:18.480 --> 0:07:24.520 this point, man, what do you want to do? Kick about? Listen? 0:07:24.920 --> 0:07:27.320 Vanilla people are allowed van other people listen to this show, 0:07:27.520 --> 0:07:29.920 and the basis of you being on here is us Really, 0:07:29.960 --> 0:07:33.040 I'm just saying, like you at this point, you're like 0:07:33.080 --> 0:07:35.400 an easy as sugar daddy in real life. Like you 0:07:35.480 --> 0:07:37.800 look good and you ain't you only want to kinky show. 0:07:37.960 --> 0:07:41.880 We haven't even got he easiest at this point. You're 0:07:41.880 --> 0:07:43.560 an easy trick. That's what me and my friends will 0:07:43.640 --> 0:07:45.880 call you. Girl. He easy, that's the easy one. It's 0:07:46.000 --> 0:07:47.920 easy one. You're an easy trick, all right, go ahead? 0:07:48.400 --> 0:07:51.160 He could be cheat, all right, That's probably what it is. 0:07:51.160 --> 0:07:53.480 So I want to get into our Vanilla ships segment, okay, 0:07:53.480 --> 0:07:55.240 which is our segment where we talk about sex in 0:07:55.240 --> 0:07:58.400 the news. Um, I want to talk about Colin Kaepernick 0:07:58.480 --> 0:08:00.880 with a woman whose name I won't say, but he 0:08:01.200 --> 0:08:05.200 Um was outed by this woman because he asked her 0:08:05.240 --> 0:08:07.120 to book rome flight because he wanted to know her 0:08:07.160 --> 0:08:10.200 true intentions. Now, I want to know your thoughts on 0:08:10.200 --> 0:08:14.600 this as a man with money as someone who works 0:08:14.600 --> 0:08:17.280 in media and you're popular so to speak. Have you 0:08:17.360 --> 0:08:19.679 ever had a girl spend money to try to prove 0:08:19.720 --> 0:08:22.640 their love to you or like prove their interests or 0:08:22.680 --> 0:08:31.280 that they're not using you? No, because I don't give 0:08:31.320 --> 0:08:34.680 a funk like they like, I don't want her to 0:08:34.720 --> 0:08:38.800 be interested in me. Like that's the point that I don't. 0:08:38.840 --> 0:08:41.120 I don't. I don't want that. So you find that 0:08:41.160 --> 0:08:43.000 if a woman is doing all that that it's like 0:08:43.080 --> 0:08:45.880 she's getting too far. Yeah, that's that's the whole point 0:08:45.880 --> 0:08:48.120 of this, like of why I got I got into 0:08:48.520 --> 0:08:52.000 um sugar sugaring, that's the term. Yes, that's dope. I 0:08:52.080 --> 0:08:55.280 just learned that, um but for sugaring, because you know, 0:08:55.520 --> 0:08:59.680 I don't have the time nor the will to be 0:08:59.800 --> 0:09:03.040 some more boyfriend. When's the last time you've dated? I 0:09:03.040 --> 0:09:05.360 don't know, last time. Some bitch convinced me to do 0:09:05.440 --> 0:09:11.240 that three years time. It's time. It's funny because I 0:09:11.320 --> 0:09:15.000 oftentimes when when I have dealt with sugar daddies in 0:09:15.040 --> 0:09:17.520 the past, or dealt or matt men who were into it, 0:09:17.720 --> 0:09:21.199 a lot of times it is because they're emotionally unavailable. 0:09:21.400 --> 0:09:24.040 So normally by marriage, which is why I was looking 0:09:24.080 --> 0:09:26.560 at your hand and saw no ring. So it's odd 0:09:26.600 --> 0:09:29.960 to me that you are a single man who just listen, bitch, 0:09:30.000 --> 0:09:31.640 don't catch feelings. I'm gonna pay for you kind of 0:09:31.679 --> 0:09:33.160 not to catch feelings, which a lot of athletes do 0:09:33.280 --> 0:09:36.839 the same thing. Were talking about how you were saying 0:09:36.840 --> 0:09:38.679 in one episode I think we did on Patreon how 0:09:38.720 --> 0:09:41.720 married sugar daddies are the best because they're more more unavailable, 0:09:41.880 --> 0:09:45.760 absolutely but emotionally unavailable. And not only that, it allows 0:09:45.800 --> 0:09:48.120 the woman to kind of know her role as well, like, 0:09:48.360 --> 0:09:50.839 I'm not gonna lie if I'm dealing with a man 0:09:50.880 --> 0:09:53.079 that looks like you, and even though he's spending money, 0:09:53.320 --> 0:09:56.359 if I'm giving you the jffee, which is a girlfriend experience, 0:09:56.920 --> 0:09:59.720 it leaves me room to catch feelings as a woman, 0:09:59.760 --> 0:10:03.400 even though I know what the situation is. Now, I'm 0:10:03.440 --> 0:10:05.920 kind of open. He's available. Technically now I may try 0:10:05.960 --> 0:10:08.320 to try to take you since I know you're available 0:10:08.480 --> 0:10:10.880 a married nigga. If if he's paying my bills and 0:10:10.960 --> 0:10:14.120 he's my sugar daddy, I'm able to in my mind 0:10:14.160 --> 0:10:16.760 mentally know what my role is in this and I'm 0:10:16.800 --> 0:10:19.520 just gonna give him the experience he won't keep get 0:10:19.559 --> 0:10:22.320 my coins and keep it trucking. I've never felt like, 0:10:22.679 --> 0:10:25.640 you know, I've never felt like a single sugar daddy's 0:10:25.679 --> 0:10:28.920 like I had never had a married one. I've never 0:10:28.960 --> 0:10:31.360 had it just never happened to me. But I I 0:10:31.480 --> 0:10:33.720 just felt like they wanted to be single because they 0:10:33.800 --> 0:10:35.320 knew they was gonna be Hold. Well, that's just what 0:10:36.280 --> 0:10:38.440 I don't have. The like, how could you be single 0:10:38.480 --> 0:10:40.640 and cute and doing this, Like clearly you want nothing 0:10:40.679 --> 0:10:45.679 for me. I felt that what I've heard from like 0:10:45.960 --> 0:10:48.400 just even listening to pods and ship like that, Like 0:10:48.800 --> 0:10:52.080 married men have caught more feelings than the single niggas well. 0:10:52.080 --> 0:10:55.400 It's also because they're with women, if they're seeking women 0:10:55.400 --> 0:10:57.560 outside of their marriage, because they're only talking to one 0:10:57.559 --> 0:10:59.920 other person, they realized, oh my god, you're doing this 0:11:00.000 --> 0:11:01.480 better than my wife. Blah bla blah blah blah, what 0:11:01.480 --> 0:11:03.600 would life be like with you? Yeah, but I mean 0:11:03.600 --> 0:11:07.160 they're seeking they're either something they're not getting um, but 0:11:07.440 --> 0:11:10.680 that's also their responsibility for setting up this arrangement, not 0:11:10.720 --> 0:11:14.800 to catch feelings. So so yeah, so so would you 0:11:15.520 --> 0:11:18.160 I guess I guess you asked the question do you 0:11:18.280 --> 0:11:21.560 know of any of your friends like that maybe have 0:11:21.640 --> 0:11:24.400 experienced that, like where because I've talked about this on 0:11:24.440 --> 0:11:27.040 Twitter and I feel like a lot of women will 0:11:27.080 --> 0:11:29.800 try to go have on a date, or try fly 0:11:29.920 --> 0:11:33.360 themselves out or do these things to make themselves more appealing. 0:11:33.640 --> 0:11:36.679 So when you reach out to women, is the independent 0:11:36.720 --> 0:11:40.480 woman not attractive to you? I mean for friendship? You 0:11:40.480 --> 0:11:42.360 know what I'm saying, Like, you know it'd be cool. 0:11:42.520 --> 0:11:47.800 It's like it's I want I like the I just 0:11:47.880 --> 0:11:53.079 like that term, okay because it um it provides a 0:11:53.120 --> 0:11:57.679 certain level of compliance. Oh you know ly, Yeah, it's 0:11:57.720 --> 0:12:01.319 an arrangement, That's what it is. Like she is not 0:12:01.440 --> 0:12:04.480 here for it, but it is. She just asked me 0:12:04.520 --> 0:12:10.840 to be in look on asshole one getting I'm interested 0:12:10.840 --> 0:12:13.920 in knowing this. So I hear you on the independence part, 0:12:15.120 --> 0:12:18.959 Like it's not really relative, But how do you find 0:12:18.960 --> 0:12:22.360 it when a girl has nothing? Let's say she arrives 0:12:22.400 --> 0:12:24.800 and she needs cash to like she won't get some 0:12:24.880 --> 0:12:26.360 neat and you gotta buy some neat like are you 0:12:26.400 --> 0:12:28.440 go away? And she's like can you now? How does 0:12:28.480 --> 0:12:30.920 that feel? How does it go from needy to like 0:12:31.160 --> 0:12:34.400 attractive for you? What's too broke? Because I'm gonna be honest. 0:12:34.440 --> 0:12:37.520 I can't see how a girl could have nothing and 0:12:37.760 --> 0:12:40.280 that be attractive answer. I have an answered to this, 0:12:40.320 --> 0:12:45.120 but go ahead, and I would love her because because 0:12:45.160 --> 0:12:48.439 I feel like that was such like a woman way 0:12:48.440 --> 0:12:52.040 of thinking. Like I've I've seen bitches flipping burgers that 0:12:52.120 --> 0:12:54.199 I thought was hot, you know, and I've also seen chicks, 0:12:54.240 --> 0:12:56.200 you know, in corporate office. I don't I just don't 0:12:56.240 --> 0:12:58.560 give a fun right now, I'm talking in terms like 0:12:58.720 --> 0:13:00.880 I guess what I mean is the lieout things because 0:13:00.880 --> 0:13:02.920 some women on seeking arrangement, which is what me and 0:13:02.960 --> 0:13:04.319 you talked about before, and I don't want to jump 0:13:04.320 --> 0:13:07.280 in that too early, talk about requiring cash before they arrive. 0:13:08.120 --> 0:13:12.720 Has that happened to you? I mean, listen, honestly, Like, 0:13:12.800 --> 0:13:15.840 you know, I got my own business. You know, I'm 0:13:15.920 --> 0:13:18.679 running ship, you know, doing like big deals, and I've 0:13:18.679 --> 0:13:21.920 been negotiating for a long time. So some fucking twenty 0:13:22.000 --> 0:13:24.400 year old bitch ain't going to negotiate me. Man right 0:13:25.320 --> 0:13:27.480 right the first time? You know they like it puts me. 0:13:27.720 --> 0:13:30.559 I have a strategic advantage in that scenario. But I 0:13:30.960 --> 0:13:33.360 like what you also said when you were like, I 0:13:33.400 --> 0:13:35.880 find I find a female flipping burger is interesting. I 0:13:35.920 --> 0:13:38.520 think it is because a lot of well, well, and 0:13:38.559 --> 0:13:41.000 I think it's a lot of time, um, kind of 0:13:41.000 --> 0:13:44.680 how we perceive things to be. However, I'm not gonna lie. 0:13:44.760 --> 0:13:47.800 I was that bitch that couldn't afford another one way 0:13:47.840 --> 0:13:50.360 if you know, he didn't buy my round trip, like 0:13:50.679 --> 0:13:53.560 I was that bitch who slept on an air mattress before. 0:13:53.559 --> 0:13:56.120 Because I'm eighteen years old in my own apartment with 0:13:56.160 --> 0:14:00.280 not enough money to buy furniture. Yees, So I will 0:14:00.360 --> 0:14:02.560 say that, and even ship. While I was in school, 0:14:02.559 --> 0:14:04.640 I was living off student loans and whatever niggas was 0:14:04.640 --> 0:14:07.360 given me. But during that time, I will say, the 0:14:07.400 --> 0:14:09.600 men who looked out and I won't call them my 0:14:09.600 --> 0:14:12.080 sugar daddies because they listened to the show, but they're 0:14:12.120 --> 0:14:14.840 my friends. Um. They looked out for me in a 0:14:14.880 --> 0:14:17.520 lot of ways, but it's also because they saw me 0:14:17.800 --> 0:14:20.640 working towards something. And I'm not gonna lie. A lot 0:14:20.680 --> 0:14:22.560 of them felt like they were I don't want to 0:14:22.560 --> 0:14:24.760 say captain save a holes, but they loved to know 0:14:24.920 --> 0:14:27.320 that they were the reason why I was able to 0:14:27.320 --> 0:14:34.280 do anything like like, I do find some gratification, gratification 0:14:34.320 --> 0:14:36.960 in that, you know, like, you know she can fucking 0:14:37.240 --> 0:14:42.240 now she got a computer to use. You gotta think men, 0:14:42.320 --> 0:14:43.680 like a lot of these young girls men there their 0:14:43.720 --> 0:14:48.080 their their life could be turbulent, you know, uh lack 0:14:48.120 --> 0:14:50.440 of lack of money, you know, And absolutely I want 0:14:50.440 --> 0:14:52.120 to get into that with like the age and the 0:14:52.160 --> 0:14:53.840 ideal of sugar baby looking for in a minute. But 0:14:53.840 --> 0:14:56.080 before we do that, um, every week we do a 0:14:56.160 --> 0:14:58.520 kink where we talk about paraphilias and what they mean. 0:14:59.240 --> 0:15:04.520 So I found one called psychrophilia, and it's, uh, psychrophiliacs 0:15:04.640 --> 0:15:09.480 have fantasies of watching people freeze, like freezes in cold 0:15:09.560 --> 0:15:14.440 or freezes in everything. You still have a freeze? Are 0:15:14.480 --> 0:15:17.760 you talking about? Like freeze? Like literally, like did you 0:15:17.800 --> 0:15:20.560 look into this? I need to know, like shivering, it's 0:15:20.560 --> 0:15:22.960 like girls that are like shaking. It's like icicles dripping 0:15:22.960 --> 0:15:26.520 from people and sickles dripping from people. You did. But 0:15:26.640 --> 0:15:29.120 then but then I was just like, oh what if it? 0:15:29.280 --> 0:15:30.720 Like you know, because I always try to take each 0:15:30.800 --> 0:15:32.120 kink that we do and try to take it to 0:15:32.160 --> 0:15:34.280 a little normal of a place or something we've done. 0:15:34.280 --> 0:15:37.360 I'm like I was using ice last night. No, that's 0:15:37.400 --> 0:15:39.640 not the same you can't bring up using ice as 0:15:40.040 --> 0:15:43.000 liking people who freeze. Okay, it's definitely not liking people 0:15:43.000 --> 0:15:45.240 who freeze. But I wonder if that's more of like 0:15:45.280 --> 0:15:48.920 a cold No, I mean I say this thing like, oh, 0:15:48.960 --> 0:15:53.480 I want you're gonna get like cold, like yes, like 0:15:53.880 --> 0:15:58.200 in the snow snow? Oh have you Well, I'm not 0:15:58.240 --> 0:15:59.920 like I want to ask you this question. You're a 0:16:00.040 --> 0:16:02.320 and if you were to be in the snow or 0:16:02.680 --> 0:16:04.920 I mean even say maybe fucking in super cold water, 0:16:04.960 --> 0:16:10.080 don't your dick shrink? They don't shrink in the cold. Done, 0:16:10.080 --> 0:16:12.960 the cryo shrinks. It shrinks in the cold. But like 0:16:13.040 --> 0:16:15.160 when if you have an erection is different because like 0:16:15.240 --> 0:16:18.400 the blood rushes, Oh, your skin is shriveling your I 0:16:18.400 --> 0:16:19.880 don't know, so you could have a hard dick in 0:16:20.200 --> 0:16:23.760 the cold. I didn't one of those what's it the cryo? 0:16:23.920 --> 0:16:27.120 What's it called the cry out therapy? Me and Alex? 0:16:27.160 --> 0:16:28.840 What is this? So you get in the tube and 0:16:28.880 --> 0:16:33.040 it's like below nitrogen. So I do cry of facials 0:16:33.080 --> 0:16:34.440 once a week is really good. I won't have to 0:16:34.480 --> 0:16:36.120 once the win or come. But like you know, it 0:16:36.240 --> 0:16:38.080 like makes your skin all glowy. So I go with 0:16:38.120 --> 0:16:41.000 Alex read the gym. He's going first, and he's looking 0:16:41.040 --> 0:16:42.920 down right and you can only see it from the neck. 0:16:44.240 --> 0:16:47.560 He's like, bro, my dick is like going in my 0:16:47.600 --> 0:16:52.800 body shriving. And then he's asking the nigga who's laughing. 0:16:52.840 --> 0:16:55.600 He's like, this is happening. Everybody does this happening everybody? 0:16:55.680 --> 0:16:58.920 And I'm like, yo, everybody in the gym was talking 0:16:58.920 --> 0:17:00.760 about that, like all of your can like everything. Just 0:17:01.320 --> 0:17:03.120 I don't know if your dick like hides like a turtle, 0:17:03.240 --> 0:17:04.920 you know, it just goes back in. Well maybe if 0:17:05.000 --> 0:17:09.720 it's uncircumcised, right, Circumcised dicks don't hide level of cold, 0:17:09.840 --> 0:17:11.840 Like that's like a un natural level code. Like the 0:17:11.840 --> 0:17:17.000 crowd there be goes like two four, What you gotta try. 0:17:17.000 --> 0:17:18.960 It's it's really good for like if your muscles now. 0:17:19.000 --> 0:17:20.960 It doesn't sound interesting to me. I don't know why 0:17:20.920 --> 0:17:22.360 you've been trying to get me to do white people ship. 0:17:22.440 --> 0:17:24.959 I'm just not interested because me doing it always do it. 0:17:25.119 --> 0:17:27.560 I mean, I ain't know athlete. I make them warm. 0:17:28.720 --> 0:17:33.639 So sugar, I want to give you the floor. Mr Bigs. 0:17:34.080 --> 0:17:36.520 Tell us how you started? How long ago you started? 0:17:36.680 --> 0:17:40.320 All right? So I would be in a I found 0:17:40.320 --> 0:17:45.360 myself in a dilemma where, you know, really I'm focusing 0:17:45.400 --> 0:17:47.760 on like other things, you know, trying to conflise things, 0:17:47.800 --> 0:17:53.600 you know, and and I wouldn't have the time or 0:17:53.600 --> 0:17:56.720 the wherewithal to devote, you know, attention to a relationship. 0:17:56.720 --> 0:18:00.639 With attention, it deserves your relationship for real. So I 0:18:00.720 --> 0:18:02.760 was like, but at the same time, here's the thing, 0:18:03.040 --> 0:18:09.200 I still want some pussy, right, So good questions about 0:18:09.960 --> 0:18:18.560 the middle range. I'm thirty eight, okay, okay, okay, okay, 0:18:18.800 --> 0:18:21.200 So you're thirty eight because a lot of times when 0:18:21.440 --> 0:18:24.120 women think of sugar daddies, we think of seventy year old, 0:18:24.320 --> 0:18:28.600 eight year old white men who are just about to die. Ye, 0:18:28.760 --> 0:18:31.639 my misconception as well. Like until I said, see how 0:18:31.680 --> 0:18:33.480 I got into it because I was thinking, all right, 0:18:34.040 --> 0:18:36.080 you know I would, I would stay these girls. And like, 0:18:36.359 --> 0:18:38.720 here's the thing, man, A lot of times, tell me, 0:18:38.760 --> 0:18:41.200 if you guys had this experience, if a girl like 0:18:41.200 --> 0:18:44.399 likes you, sometimes some girls won't fuck you. And I 0:18:44.440 --> 0:18:50.639 don't know, Yeah, another n she knows what I'm talking about. 0:18:50.840 --> 0:18:53.000 And I'm doing that right now. Yeah, yeah, you fucking 0:18:53.040 --> 0:18:54.600 someone else because you're trying to make someone else, the 0:18:54.600 --> 0:18:58.160 guy that I'm interested in, and that the guy that like, man, 0:18:58.400 --> 0:19:00.880 he's doing everything right and he's not getting pussy. You see. 0:19:01.200 --> 0:19:05.640 You see it's okay. I understand the logic. I understand him, 0:19:05.640 --> 0:19:07.199 and I think that there could be more. And I 0:19:07.240 --> 0:19:09.119 feel like sex is going to ruin it too early. 0:19:09.320 --> 0:19:10.639 But I know I can just get a dick from 0:19:10.640 --> 0:19:13.680 a nigga and ship. So that's what I'm doing with you. 0:19:13.720 --> 0:19:17.000 Expect imagine. Okay, So with you, what's the problem. I 0:19:17.000 --> 0:19:19.480 don't want to be that. You just don't want to 0:19:19.480 --> 0:19:21.840 be the nigga that don't get pussy. Well, he's saying 0:19:21.840 --> 0:19:23.240 he's gonna do the right thing. He's gonna take him 0:19:23.240 --> 0:19:24.800 to dinner, he's gonna treat them well, so it may 0:19:24.880 --> 0:19:27.920 push the pussy away, right, Yeah, so I can I 0:19:27.920 --> 0:19:30.479 can understand that. I was thinking, all right, well, maybe 0:19:31.080 --> 0:19:35.280 I'll portray myself as more of a motherfucking asshole. Um, 0:19:35.320 --> 0:19:38.560 but that's really not who I am. Like, I'm not 0:19:38.600 --> 0:19:41.159 like a mean person or a bad guy like. So 0:19:41.640 --> 0:19:45.040 I thought maybe you would like repelled them from thinking 0:19:45.080 --> 0:19:48.520 that that wouldn't work out or or it would have 0:19:48.560 --> 0:19:52.199 the opposite effect, you know. Um where the girls might 0:19:52.320 --> 0:19:55.520 like you more, right, because you're mean to him. Yeah, 0:19:55.560 --> 0:19:58.440 you've been sugaring for how long maybe let's call it, 0:19:58.520 --> 0:20:03.159 let's call it like mm hmmm for a minute. But 0:20:03.240 --> 0:20:12.040 let's let's about about eight years okay, okay, and you've 0:20:12.040 --> 0:20:14.160 had about how many sugars you've had about how many 0:20:14.440 --> 0:20:18.959 sugar babies over the span of that started. I mean, 0:20:18.960 --> 0:20:20.840 I'm sure you've spent money on women and giving them money, 0:20:20.840 --> 0:20:23.400 But when did you start using websites? That's what I'm saying. Yeah, 0:20:23.400 --> 0:20:24.959 so that that that may have been that it may 0:20:25.040 --> 0:20:28.240 have been like five years ago. Okay, So like Sinking 0:20:28.320 --> 0:20:30.480