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Speaker 1: Hey everybody, this is wheezy. I want to invite you

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Speaker 1: to a new event called This Stage and Sex Study.

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Speaker 1: Hall Um Ameliorities, who we had on for the Cleansier

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Speaker 1: Coucie episode, hit me up and really wanted to do

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Speaker 1: something special. I'm really excited for this event. It's going

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Speaker 1: to be on eleven eleven, a good luck number from

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Speaker 1: three to five, so at a private location in Brooklyn.

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Speaker 1: Her and I haven't decided how many people we want yet,

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Speaker 1: maybe fourty or sixty. But this is gonna be a

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Speaker 1: very intimate setting, no phones, private personal We want everyone

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Speaker 1: to feel safe in the space to have an open

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Speaker 1: discussion about sex, mental health, and relationships. This is not

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Speaker 1: us on some stage. You're not watching a show. This

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Speaker 1: is all of us talking and learning together. We're encouraging women,

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Speaker 1: I'm really excited for this. It's to help you establish

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Speaker 1: a better connection with yourself and others. If you guys

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Speaker 1: want to take pictures until after, we're definitely doing that,

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Speaker 1: but no phones during. It's going to be super great.

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Speaker 1: Um excited if you guys wanna watch a show and

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Speaker 1: talk about some more dicks. So So Talk is coming

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Speaker 1: to Miami eleven seventeen and Atlanta on twelve eight. Thank

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Speaker 1: and hope to see you soon. So what y'all welcome

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Speaker 1: another episode of Horrible Decisions. I also, um, you guys

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Speaker 1: UM also shout out to the YouTube subscribers. So we

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Speaker 1: have a guest today, guys. I know that you'll have

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Speaker 1: been y'all have been like we've been giving out a

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Speaker 1: If you guys have been watching our social media, I

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Speaker 1: posted on the Horrible Decisions page and my own UM

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Speaker 1: looking for interesting guests, right, people that would be either

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Speaker 1: I'm this is interesting for this conversation. So before we

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Speaker 1: this man, this man is fine as across. You are

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Speaker 1: a good character. I appreciate that. I appreciate that. Well,

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Speaker 1: I didn't believe him. I don't believe him now. Way

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Speaker 1: that I did meet our guests, Mr Big is because

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Speaker 1: want to know. We got five questions here. Would you

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Speaker 1: excuse the funk out of it. No, I already looked

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Speaker 1: and I want to get into that with you too. Um.

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Speaker 1: vanilla ship, my nig. You're really not that kinky at all. Okay.

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Speaker 1: and then I think you just did a show with Carlon, Right, Yeah,

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Speaker 1: pretty vanilla, Um, But I like your pretty vanilla at

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Speaker 1: this point, man, what do you want to do? Kick about? Listen?

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Speaker 1: Vanilla people are allowed van other people listen to this show,

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Speaker 1: I'm just saying, like you at this point, you're like

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Speaker 1: We haven't even got he easiest at this point. You're

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Speaker 1: He could be cheat, all right, That's probably what it is.

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Speaker 1: So I want to get into our Vanilla ships segment, okay,

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Speaker 1: um sugar sugaring, that's the term. Yes, that's dope. I

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Speaker 1: don't catch feelings. I'm gonna pay for you kind of

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Speaker 1: in one episode I think we did on Patreon how

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Speaker 1: married sugar daddies are the best because they're more more unavailable,

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Speaker 1: absolutely but emotionally unavailable. And not only that, it allows

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Speaker 1: I'm not gonna lie if I'm dealing with a man

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Speaker 1: that looks like you, and even though he's spending money,

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Speaker 1: a married nigga. If if he's paying my bills and

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Speaker 1: just gonna give him the experience he won't keep get

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Speaker 1: my coins and keep it trucking. I've never felt like,

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Speaker 1: What's it called the cry out therapy? Me and Alex?

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Speaker 1: What is this? So you get in the tube and

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Speaker 1: It doesn't sound interesting to me. I don't know why

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Speaker 1: I'm just not interested because me doing it always do it.

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Speaker 1: I mean, I ain't know athlete. I make them warm.

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Speaker 1: but that's really not who I am. Like, I'm not

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Speaker 1: I thought maybe you would like repelled them from thinking

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Speaker 1: let's call it like mm hmmm for a minute. But

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Speaker 1: Arrangement was the website that you brought up to me?

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Speaker 1: more like, uh, it's out there as towards very transparent

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Speaker 1: what's going on. There's no ambiguity about what do you

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Speaker 1: like have you ever flown a woman in from seeking arrangement?

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Speaker 1: About flown them in? No? No, it isn't. Girls around

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Speaker 1: you live in New York. You can search it's like different,

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Speaker 1: you know, like, no, guys who use tender and stuff. Man,

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Speaker 1: you can't search race, No, you can't. You can't. Really

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Speaker 1: what are you typing in? I'm interested? What is your preference?

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Speaker 1: And what kind of woman? What kind of woman? White? Blond? White?

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Speaker 1: Why do you think that think that? Yeah, you know what,

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Speaker 1: you let me let me. I don't want to say

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Speaker 1: We're being very transparent. I feel like I can't say it.

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Speaker 1: Go ahead, you don't. It's don't sound bad, it doesn't matter.

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Speaker 1: I'll say. You don't like one of the black guys

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Speaker 1: be on that and the fact that black men that

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Speaker 1: get to a certain level sometimes or like even if

423
00:21:50,880 --> 00:21:52,919
Speaker 1: you it sounds like to be able to pay for it,

424
00:21:52,920 --> 00:21:55,080
Speaker 1: like you really want it, right, And there's something like

425
00:21:55,119 --> 00:21:57,280
Speaker 1: I think it may be harder for you to meet

426
00:21:57,280 --> 00:22:00,000
Speaker 1: white women that you want and that to like start

427
00:22:00,680 --> 00:22:02,840
Speaker 1: like every type of black guy when we go to

428
00:22:02,880 --> 00:22:06,560
Speaker 1: all white places. You know in there, just because he's

429
00:22:06,560 --> 00:22:08,240
Speaker 1: a hot black guy doesn't mean that he could just

430
00:22:08,280 --> 00:22:09,760
Speaker 1: get to all the white guls, right. It might be

431
00:22:09,760 --> 00:22:11,639
Speaker 1: too taboosa. If you want to really just get it

432
00:22:11,640 --> 00:22:13,720
Speaker 1: and make it your thing. I could see him going

433
00:22:13,760 --> 00:22:16,119
Speaker 1: to look for that and paying for it. Because with

434
00:22:16,200 --> 00:22:18,679
Speaker 1: black girls, it's a dub what they gonna be like,

435
00:22:18,800 --> 00:22:20,600
Speaker 1: They're gonna be like, damn, he cute bit, you got

436
00:22:20,640 --> 00:22:22,960
Speaker 1: a night drive, you got tapsy tall? He fine? Duh

437
00:22:23,400 --> 00:22:25,280
Speaker 1: white girls. I mean not not to bring it back

438
00:22:25,320 --> 00:22:27,240
Speaker 1: to that, but I feel like if we go back

439
00:22:27,280 --> 00:22:30,120
Speaker 1: to the bullshit the guys we said, this is what,

440
00:22:30,320 --> 00:22:33,000
Speaker 1: Oh my god, you're like the tall basketball player type

441
00:22:33,000 --> 00:22:34,959
Speaker 1: looking like to me, he's a safe black guy too

442
00:22:35,000 --> 00:22:36,959
Speaker 1: that he could That could probably be by saying they

443
00:22:37,000 --> 00:22:39,960
Speaker 1: didn't like they wanted the thug. They were like, you know,

444
00:22:40,000 --> 00:22:42,679
Speaker 1: he lives uptown. He's a real black guy. Yeah, I

445
00:22:42,680 --> 00:22:46,119
Speaker 1: mean I don't know. So what is your type? What

446
00:22:46,240 --> 00:22:48,480
Speaker 1: is your type? Do you put in slim and athletic?

447
00:22:48,680 --> 00:22:56,240
Speaker 1: Put that in its black and Latino. I don't believe

448
00:22:56,480 --> 00:23:03,119
Speaker 1: as at all. Oh now gonna pull out. You're so okay.

449
00:23:03,160 --> 00:23:05,720
Speaker 1: So you're you're typing in black and Latina. What is

450
00:23:05,760 --> 00:23:08,080
Speaker 1: the age range for your ideal Yeah, that's for your

451
00:23:08,080 --> 00:23:13,159
Speaker 1: ideal question. Man. Um, First, I'm certain distance right, you know,

452
00:23:13,200 --> 00:23:17,679
Speaker 1: and I'm keeping you want them closer far close? Um,

453
00:23:17,880 --> 00:23:21,400
Speaker 1: I like out of town? Yeah, what is the allowance

454
00:23:21,440 --> 00:23:27,680
Speaker 1: that you have on your profile? Negotiable? Yeah, well when

455
00:23:27,760 --> 00:23:29,640
Speaker 1: when they asked, like how much they want monthly? What's

456
00:23:29,640 --> 00:23:33,320
Speaker 1: your cap? No? No, I'm the first rule negotiating is

457
00:23:33,359 --> 00:23:36,000
Speaker 1: like you you never said the price first, you know,

458
00:23:36,080 --> 00:23:39,879
Speaker 1: like you never you we're asking. Yeah, I'm telling you

459
00:23:39,960 --> 00:23:42,800
Speaker 1: what I do, right, Like first of all, I want

460
00:23:42,800 --> 00:23:48,200
Speaker 1: to know last time y'all yell at me said again

461
00:23:48,640 --> 00:23:54,280
Speaker 1: you must not know all some real ship though, Um,

462
00:23:54,359 --> 00:23:56,879
Speaker 1: no you don't. That's just how you negotiate, like you

463
00:23:56,920 --> 00:23:59,480
Speaker 1: never know first, like saying you see with their prices

464
00:23:59,720 --> 00:24:02,439
Speaker 1: and and you know and then you you work around. Well,

465
00:24:02,480 --> 00:24:05,080
Speaker 1: my question is more is like your personal cap what

466
00:24:05,240 --> 00:24:10,199
Speaker 1: is the max you're willing? Yeah, it depends how the

467
00:24:10,240 --> 00:24:13,960
Speaker 1: most man. Uh, we got to know what type of

468
00:24:13,920 --> 00:24:20,879
Speaker 1: sugar she was, Like the most is like twelve for

469
00:24:20,960 --> 00:24:24,359
Speaker 1: a one night Oh okay, So that was my questions.

470
00:24:24,560 --> 00:24:25,879
Speaker 1: He gave me an idea, but that was going to

471
00:24:25,920 --> 00:24:29,280
Speaker 1: be my question when you set up these arrangements and

472
00:24:29,359 --> 00:24:32,400
Speaker 1: she wasn't white when you set up these arrangements, Um,

473
00:24:32,680 --> 00:24:37,080
Speaker 1: do you only pay a sugar baby after she gives

474
00:24:37,080 --> 00:24:41,480
Speaker 1: you sex? Or are there gifts and money before sex

475
00:24:41,520 --> 00:24:44,640
Speaker 1: takes place, she might get dinner or something. She might

476
00:24:44,680 --> 00:24:47,960
Speaker 1: come and she might company me to dinner. Okay, And

477
00:24:48,000 --> 00:24:50,879
Speaker 1: how many dinners are you going to before you're expecting sex?

478
00:24:51,000 --> 00:24:54,439
Speaker 1: Since this is the arrangement, I'm having sex immediately after

479
00:24:55,480 --> 00:24:57,080
Speaker 1: on the first date. Now, how do you how do

480
00:24:57,119 --> 00:25:00,080
Speaker 1: you have that conversation because a lot of times, like

481
00:25:00,720 --> 00:25:03,280
Speaker 1: so I was on seeking arrangement, like when I was

482
00:25:03,320 --> 00:25:07,720
Speaker 1: maybe I'd say eighteen through two, um, and so like

483
00:25:07,760 --> 00:25:09,960
Speaker 1: I would go to dinner and like they would bring

484
00:25:09,960 --> 00:25:11,560
Speaker 1: the cash and I'd be like, okay, so this must

485
00:25:11,600 --> 00:25:14,639
Speaker 1: be just no, no, no, and they would give me cash.

486
00:25:15,840 --> 00:25:17,920
Speaker 1: I would take the cash and then be like, well,

487
00:25:17,960 --> 00:25:24,360
Speaker 1: I'll see you again now shout out for that lay

488
00:25:24,400 --> 00:25:27,120
Speaker 1: mass niked. I was kind of going the first time

489
00:25:27,160 --> 00:25:28,600
Speaker 1: and they were telling me that, you know, this is

490
00:25:28,600 --> 00:25:30,119
Speaker 1: how they want to show me they're interested in me.

491
00:25:30,480 --> 00:25:32,760
Speaker 1: Now I'm learning because I've been talking to a few

492
00:25:32,760 --> 00:25:36,480
Speaker 1: girls on Instagram the PPM pay per meat, So do

493
00:25:36,560 --> 00:25:38,600
Speaker 1: you have that discussion before you gets I have the

494
00:25:38,640 --> 00:25:42,200
Speaker 1: whole discussion, man. So basically it's like we start talking about, like, so,

495
00:25:42,240 --> 00:25:43,920
Speaker 1: what kind of like she'ld be looking for right in there?

496
00:25:43,920 --> 00:25:45,200
Speaker 1: And they were like, oh, let me give us some

497
00:25:45,320 --> 00:25:46,960
Speaker 1: blah blah blah. I don't really give a funk what

498
00:25:47,000 --> 00:25:49,000
Speaker 1: they say, right, And then I'll say um, and then

499
00:25:49,000 --> 00:25:50,920
Speaker 1: I'll say, all right, what you're thinking like some long

500
00:25:51,040 --> 00:25:54,160
Speaker 1: term or payper meat, right, And then they'll they'll say

501
00:25:54,240 --> 00:25:55,800
Speaker 1: either one. I don't give a funk what they say.

502
00:25:56,080 --> 00:25:57,480
Speaker 1: And then I was like, all right, well, let's start

503
00:25:57,480 --> 00:26:00,360
Speaker 1: off with like, you know, the paper meat you no

504
00:26:00,359 --> 00:26:04,480
Speaker 1: matter what they say. And then and then like they

505
00:26:04,880 --> 00:26:07,240
Speaker 1: they're they're in a bad situation like with me, right,

506
00:26:07,280 --> 00:26:09,760
Speaker 1: because like I negotiate for a living. What I'm saying, like,

507
00:26:09,920 --> 00:26:14,000
Speaker 1: so it's what was that? Was? That was that? For?

508
00:26:14,280 --> 00:26:17,040
Speaker 1: So I'm making this I know I'm making this space

509
00:26:17,119 --> 00:26:21,199
Speaker 1: first off, because to me, sugaring like how you're describing

510
00:26:21,240 --> 00:26:26,480
Speaker 1: it to me is more tricking on prostitute than sugaring

511
00:26:26,640 --> 00:26:29,439
Speaker 1: only because and I've had this conversation with a lot

512
00:26:29,480 --> 00:26:32,080
Speaker 1: of my friends, because I mean, maybe I'm blessed with

513
00:26:32,119 --> 00:26:34,439
Speaker 1: the with the guys that I've had um in my

514
00:26:34,520 --> 00:26:37,000
Speaker 1: life over the years, but they live in a different

515
00:26:37,320 --> 00:26:39,240
Speaker 1: state cities, and I could literally call them and ask

516
00:26:39,280 --> 00:26:43,240
Speaker 1: for money and I'm getting it without having it evolved,

517
00:26:44,200 --> 00:26:46,480
Speaker 1: evolve that. Okay, I'm gonna say I don't think that.

518
00:26:46,520 --> 00:26:48,760
Speaker 1: I don't think that that's what anybody thinks they're signing

519
00:26:48,800 --> 00:26:54,360
Speaker 1: up forever. That comes with tenure, that comes with time work,

520
00:26:56,080 --> 00:26:59,919
Speaker 1: Like I mean, maybe, but the chances they're sent right, No, no, no,

521
00:27:00,000 --> 00:27:02,320
Speaker 1: are both you and I if we did that, I

522
00:27:02,359 --> 00:27:04,720
Speaker 1: bet it would be someone that we've known. Yeah, I

523
00:27:04,800 --> 00:27:07,760
Speaker 1: mean I only disagree with this because I have friends

524
00:27:07,760 --> 00:27:10,840
Speaker 1: currently and they're they've bread bottoms, dinners, all this stuff.

525
00:27:10,880 --> 00:27:15,040
Speaker 1: Well before money, before sugaring. I will say this to

526
00:27:15,080 --> 00:27:17,640
Speaker 1: both of your points. What he's saying is not sugaring,

527
00:27:17,640 --> 00:27:19,800
Speaker 1: and where you're saying what I can call the men

528
00:27:19,800 --> 00:27:22,520
Speaker 1: and get that money, that's not sugaring either. Sugaring by

529
00:27:22,600 --> 00:27:27,200
Speaker 1: definition is not a paper meat. However, seeking arrangement has

530
00:27:27,280 --> 00:27:31,480
Speaker 1: made that a very normalized thing. Right. Sugaring by definition

531
00:27:32,080 --> 00:27:35,320
Speaker 1: is either allowance cash or gifts, but it has no

532
00:27:35,440 --> 00:27:40,000
Speaker 1: exchange during the actual act. That that's what I'm saying.

533
00:27:38,920 --> 00:27:42,560
Speaker 1: Then my fault. You just buying. You just be buying

534
00:27:42,600 --> 00:27:46,040
Speaker 1: for Pussy's the thing. You just be buying pussy. That's

535
00:27:46,040 --> 00:27:48,000
Speaker 1: what that's what he'd be doing. I'd rather do that

536
00:27:48,440 --> 00:27:51,280
Speaker 1: because because but it can evolve into more of a

537
00:27:51,320 --> 00:27:54,480
Speaker 1: relationship than you're talking about, and hopefully that's like, hopefully

538
00:27:54,480 --> 00:27:57,680
Speaker 1: it does into something more like that where it's like, um,

539
00:27:57,760 --> 00:28:00,800
Speaker 1: who one is more is more economical for me, But

540
00:28:00,840 --> 00:28:03,399
Speaker 1: it's also probably puts her in a better position to like,

541
00:28:03,840 --> 00:28:06,600
Speaker 1: you know, uh, you know, for whatever it is she's

542
00:28:06,600 --> 00:28:09,280
Speaker 1: trying to accomplish her knees and propose. Well, what is

543
00:28:09,320 --> 00:28:11,560
Speaker 1: the ideal. Is it like a college girls more ideal

544
00:28:11,600 --> 00:28:13,280
Speaker 1: for you? Is it a girl that has kids? Is

545
00:28:13,320 --> 00:28:15,399
Speaker 1: it like someone that just needs to do this to

546
00:28:15,440 --> 00:28:17,280
Speaker 1: get away? Like life? Man, I don't think I've ever

547
00:28:17,520 --> 00:28:21,960
Speaker 1: the girl with kids, like not really you the girl kids?

548
00:28:22,560 --> 00:28:28,040
Speaker 1: I have? See you just say it? Really she had kids?

549
00:28:28,280 --> 00:28:30,320
Speaker 1: Oh yeah, okay, I don't think I sucked the girl

550
00:28:30,359 --> 00:28:33,200
Speaker 1: after she had told Yeah. If that's the case, then yeah,

551
00:28:33,200 --> 00:28:36,520
Speaker 1: oh I'm Lyne I the Niga Babby mama him. Oh

552
00:28:36,560 --> 00:28:40,880
Speaker 1: I did that's right, but I had to Yeah, I

553
00:28:40,960 --> 00:28:44,120
Speaker 1: forgot that is right, and she had about for kids,

554
00:28:44,440 --> 00:28:47,760
Speaker 1: the kids. It just hasn't come up. Okay. So so

555
00:28:47,840 --> 00:28:50,400
Speaker 1: here's here's my question to you as as a man,

556
00:28:50,560 --> 00:28:52,440
Speaker 1: because we do have a lot of male listeners, and

557
00:28:52,480 --> 00:28:54,960
Speaker 1: I think a lot of a lot of our episodes

558
00:28:54,960 --> 00:28:57,680
Speaker 1: have been they've been saying it was for the ladies,

559
00:28:57,720 --> 00:29:00,480
Speaker 1: So I want to make sure we do some talking

560
00:29:00,480 --> 00:29:03,440
Speaker 1: for the men. So if there's any men listening, how

561
00:29:03,520 --> 00:29:07,720
Speaker 1: do you approach a woman outside of maybe okay, of

562
00:29:07,720 --> 00:29:09,880
Speaker 1: course there's the website, But how do you get into

563
00:29:09,960 --> 00:29:14,200
Speaker 1: these relationships where you say, Okay, I want to pay

564
00:29:14,240 --> 00:29:17,080
Speaker 1: you and I don't want to be in a relationship

565
00:29:17,120 --> 00:29:19,160
Speaker 1: with you. No, No, I don't. I don't like you know,

566
00:29:19,160 --> 00:29:22,840
Speaker 1: because it becomes one, you know, especially with the climate

567
00:29:22,880 --> 00:29:25,160
Speaker 1: right now, I feel like you offered money for sex. Man.

568
00:29:25,320 --> 00:29:28,520
Speaker 1: You know, that's like that's like more than the meet

569
00:29:28,560 --> 00:29:31,800
Speaker 1: them first, and it's like that kind of should happens online.

570
00:29:31,840 --> 00:29:34,480
Speaker 1: Like if I meet a girl in person who I

571
00:29:34,560 --> 00:29:38,080
Speaker 1: like men like, or if she likes me, unless he's

572
00:29:38,120 --> 00:29:40,320
Speaker 1: trying to smash, I probably don't want to suk with her,

573
00:29:40,440 --> 00:29:45,760
Speaker 1: right because she's gonna want to be my girl, having

574
00:29:45,800 --> 00:29:48,520
Speaker 1: conversations like hey, I'm only looking for X y Z.

575
00:29:48,600 --> 00:29:51,520
Speaker 1: Because it doesn't matter, No, it doesn't. They can say

576
00:29:51,520 --> 00:29:54,960
Speaker 1: that if it's just still want more. You can always man,

577
00:29:55,760 --> 00:29:59,440
Speaker 1: you can say you can say goddamn anything. You can

578
00:29:59,480 --> 00:30:01,360
Speaker 1: say any the man you can say, listen, you know

579
00:30:02,320 --> 00:30:04,760
Speaker 1: all that wanted to fun man? You know, Um, I

580
00:30:04,880 --> 00:30:10,320
Speaker 1: kill people, I'm about to rob a bank. I want

581
00:30:10,360 --> 00:30:14,080
Speaker 1: to play with that aids right, Maybe not the last one.

582
00:30:14,480 --> 00:30:16,760
Speaker 1: Maybe not the last one. That's that's how you take

583
00:30:16,760 --> 00:30:19,760
Speaker 1: it too far. Yeah, but my first relationship actually, and

584
00:30:19,800 --> 00:30:21,920
Speaker 1: it's the reason that I refused to date married men

585
00:30:21,960 --> 00:30:24,040
Speaker 1: because I feel like the carim was awful. I met

586
00:30:24,040 --> 00:30:26,239
Speaker 1: a dude in the club Roxy and Orlando if Andy

587
00:30:26,320 --> 00:30:30,120
Speaker 1: Orlando listeners. Um, he never told me he was married,

588
00:30:30,160 --> 00:30:32,280
Speaker 1: never told me he's going through separation anything. Three months

589
00:30:32,360 --> 00:30:33,760
Speaker 1: later I found out he had a wife, broke up

590
00:30:33,760 --> 00:30:35,640
Speaker 1: with him, and then he left her and was with me.

591
00:30:35,720 --> 00:30:39,880
Speaker 1: We were together for two years. And I always blame myself, like,

592
00:30:39,880 --> 00:30:42,760
Speaker 1: oh my god, even though I didn't know. And I

593
00:30:42,800 --> 00:30:46,600
Speaker 1: really think it doesn't matter. And that's why, because chicks

594
00:30:46,600 --> 00:30:48,719
Speaker 1: proved time and time again that it don't matter what

595
00:30:48,760 --> 00:30:51,400
Speaker 1: you say, you might end up with me. And and

596
00:30:51,440 --> 00:30:53,600
Speaker 1: it's other thigs that say they don't want nothing that

597
00:30:53,680 --> 00:30:57,480
Speaker 1: things happen, which is why chicks really don't believe you. Yeah.

598
00:30:57,600 --> 00:31:00,200
Speaker 1: I mean, I can't speak for the boyfriend I had

599
00:31:00,200 --> 00:31:02,400
Speaker 1: in Florida. Let you know do that Dad. It was like, Nope,

600
00:31:02,440 --> 00:31:04,880
Speaker 1: I want this to be a one night stand, bam meeting.

601
00:31:04,920 --> 00:31:08,160
Speaker 1: Mama's we in love talking about marriage. That's how ship.

602
00:31:08,400 --> 00:31:11,440
Speaker 1: It's crazy, and that's why. That's why to your point,

603
00:31:12,200 --> 00:31:14,440
Speaker 1: I got into this ship in the first places, because

604
00:31:14,800 --> 00:31:17,040
Speaker 1: you know, I just want to set expectations from the set.

605
00:31:17,080 --> 00:31:19,880
Speaker 1: Do you ever have sex where you're not paying It's been,

606
00:31:19,960 --> 00:31:22,240
Speaker 1: it's been, it has I don't remember the last time.

607
00:31:22,560 --> 00:31:27,240
Speaker 1: Whoa And then because you're that scared of these girls

608
00:31:27,840 --> 00:31:30,080
Speaker 1: having that emotional attachment to you and you just don't

609
00:31:30,080 --> 00:31:32,760
Speaker 1: want to deal with that bad experience. You're that scared

610
00:31:32,800 --> 00:31:35,520
Speaker 1: of emotional attachment because you might need to see a therapist.

611
00:31:35,560 --> 00:31:38,240
Speaker 1: Let's the average you're paying per per per time you

612
00:31:38,240 --> 00:31:42,120
Speaker 1: have sex. I'm trying to think, oh yeah, there or

613
00:31:42,160 --> 00:31:44,280
Speaker 1: would be some girls who just like, you know, like

614
00:31:44,400 --> 00:31:46,960
Speaker 1: just some you know, I'm paying some rents. I'm paying

615
00:31:46,960 --> 00:31:51,320
Speaker 1: some rents and some phone building ahead and send s. Yeah.

616
00:31:51,680 --> 00:31:53,800
Speaker 1: I get into those situations where where it becomes like

617
00:31:53,840 --> 00:31:55,520
Speaker 1: a little bit more what's it. I mean these checks

618
00:31:55,560 --> 00:31:56,800
Speaker 1: that you said, live in New York, what's the rent

619
00:31:56,840 --> 00:32:01,320
Speaker 1: you pand oh man, Yeah, it's just some rints man. Now,

620
00:32:01,360 --> 00:32:08,120
Speaker 1: I'm curious. It's like twelve in the Bronx. Yeah, yeah, yo, man,

621
00:32:08,160 --> 00:32:09,920
Speaker 1: I was on the I was on the side right,

622
00:32:09,920 --> 00:32:12,560
Speaker 1: and it's just like yo. She was like, yoo, can

623
00:32:12,600 --> 00:32:18,560
Speaker 1: you give me uber from the Alright, broke? Don't First off, pause,

624
00:32:18,720 --> 00:32:22,640
Speaker 1: that doesn't mean you're broke. I tell niggas all the time.

625
00:32:22,680 --> 00:32:24,240
Speaker 1: I'm not taking a train to go see no niggas.

626
00:32:24,280 --> 00:32:25,640
Speaker 1: So if you want to see me, you're gonna pay

627
00:32:25,680 --> 00:32:27,800
Speaker 1: my my uber and I live in the Bronx. Okay,

628
00:32:28,240 --> 00:32:29,880
Speaker 1: So it doesn't mean I'm broke. I just don't want

629
00:32:29,880 --> 00:32:32,560
Speaker 1: to pay my uber. Reaction that he had that was

630
00:32:32,600 --> 00:32:35,880
Speaker 1: the same reaction that Andrew had, which is really interesting

631
00:32:35,920 --> 00:32:39,400
Speaker 1: to me because you just said, and I feel like

632
00:32:39,440 --> 00:32:42,120
Speaker 1: there's this underlying thing, right and I'm not shaming you,

633
00:32:42,520 --> 00:32:44,440
Speaker 1: but like I've heard two men on the show say

634
00:32:44,480 --> 00:32:46,880
Speaker 1: something like this about the uber thing, and I'm very

635
00:32:46,960 --> 00:32:49,960
Speaker 1: interested to know what it is about that holds the

636
00:32:49,960 --> 00:32:52,040
Speaker 1: whole reason I'm doing this ship is like one is

637
00:32:52,080 --> 00:32:55,200
Speaker 1: to keep emotion on it, but also because I want

638
00:32:55,200 --> 00:32:57,240
Speaker 1: to keep you convenient for me. Right now, she's adding

639
00:32:57,360 --> 00:33:00,720
Speaker 1: levels of inconvenience right here, adding if I know I'm

640
00:33:00,760 --> 00:33:04,840
Speaker 1: dealing with a man, hey, who I'm not putting no

641
00:33:04,920 --> 00:33:07,840
Speaker 1: investment in, and you're paying for my pussy. What we're

642
00:33:07,880 --> 00:33:10,760
Speaker 1: doing is sex. There's no reason why I'm gonna put

643
00:33:10,800 --> 00:33:17,200
Speaker 1: the investment out of my pocket. Take it easy, now,

644
00:33:17,240 --> 00:33:24,440
Speaker 1: you guys on entitled to that continue. I just don't

645
00:33:24,440 --> 00:33:26,960
Speaker 1: mean I gotta like it, and I might thinking, all right, maybe,

646
00:33:27,000 --> 00:33:29,000
Speaker 1: just maybe if I gotta get this bit every time

647
00:33:29,000 --> 00:33:30,960
Speaker 1: if you don't work, I don't know, that's what I'm thinking.

648
00:33:31,000 --> 00:33:35,040
Speaker 1: I don't know, because entitled to listen where I live

649
00:33:35,960 --> 00:33:38,960
Speaker 1: on the Upper east Side. Okay, So anyway, so I

650
00:33:39,240 --> 00:33:41,400
Speaker 1: get the fun I'm about to get and you don't.

651
00:33:42,080 --> 00:33:51,000
Speaker 1: But then I'm thinking, not Harlem. Okay, that's true. Um,

652
00:33:51,640 --> 00:33:53,920
Speaker 1: but let me search his address for quick man? Am

653
00:33:53,920 --> 00:33:56,360
Speaker 1: I going? It's the project? I'm just curious. Right, it

654
00:33:56,440 --> 00:34:02,440
Speaker 1: was high school and I was like the day wait,

655
00:34:02,520 --> 00:34:04,800
Speaker 1: it was like high school. I didn't I didn't. I

656
00:34:04,840 --> 00:34:12,759
Speaker 1: didn't even call it. Man, We'll watch out nig a lot.

657
00:34:12,760 --> 00:34:14,960
Speaker 1: I think I might have right out of high school. Yo. Yo,

658
00:34:15,320 --> 00:34:17,360
Speaker 1: I'm just saying, man, you can get I don't know

659
00:34:17,400 --> 00:34:18,920
Speaker 1: what the age consent is here. I mean I was

660
00:34:18,920 --> 00:34:22,080
Speaker 1: getting flown out of high school by NBA players. But

661
00:34:22,120 --> 00:34:26,600
Speaker 1: I mean I was eighteen eighteen. I don't know, that's

662
00:34:26,600 --> 00:34:27,800
Speaker 1: just now. I wouldn't want to pick up on a

663
00:34:27,800 --> 00:34:31,359
Speaker 1: bitch from high school. So okay, it could have been

664
00:34:31,360 --> 00:34:35,319
Speaker 1: the cops. So you're having you're having first date dinners, right,

665
00:34:35,880 --> 00:34:40,640
Speaker 1: first date dinners, and then she's at dinner, but should

666
00:34:40,680 --> 00:34:43,080
Speaker 1: have set up from the onset like oh great, So

667
00:34:43,200 --> 00:34:45,440
Speaker 1: you're like, hey, if it goes well, can you come

668
00:34:45,480 --> 00:34:49,239
Speaker 1: to my place? Yeah? OK, like I got Have you

669
00:34:49,320 --> 00:34:52,200
Speaker 1: ever had such a great chemistry with a sugar baby

670
00:34:52,320 --> 00:34:54,960
Speaker 1: that it came to where she didn't want you to pay?

671
00:34:55,080 --> 00:34:58,440
Speaker 1: Like she didn't even care? Yeah? Yeah? Is that often?

672
00:34:58,600 --> 00:35:01,040
Speaker 1: Like how does that work? I mean that that's happened. Uh,

673
00:35:01,719 --> 00:35:07,040
Speaker 1: that's happened. Happened as women still trying to trying to

674
00:35:07,040 --> 00:35:09,920
Speaker 1: shift the narrative, still trying to shift the narrative. It

675
00:35:09,960 --> 00:35:12,840
Speaker 1: goes into the to the it goes out pretty frequently,

676
00:35:12,920 --> 00:35:15,000
Speaker 1: you know, if if it's like something that prolonged, like

677
00:35:15,120 --> 00:35:17,719
Speaker 1: if it's like after multiple times whatever, it's like, yes,

678
00:35:17,800 --> 00:35:19,759
Speaker 1: she tries to she said, he I just want to know,

679
00:35:20,880 --> 00:35:24,759
Speaker 1: you know, do you let it happen? Uh to a

680
00:35:24,880 --> 00:35:26,920
Speaker 1: certain extent, you know, since you're acting a little cheap

681
00:35:26,920 --> 00:35:30,200
Speaker 1: about it. It's not it's not it's not cheap. It's uh,

682
00:35:30,560 --> 00:35:35,879
Speaker 1: it's inconvenient for me. I'm just press are there any

683
00:35:35,960 --> 00:35:40,640
Speaker 1: off limits? I'm entitled to feel like you got? I mean,

684
00:35:40,680 --> 00:35:42,040
Speaker 1: I guess if you're paying for it every time and

685
00:35:42,080 --> 00:35:44,479
Speaker 1: you attack on Uber from the Bronx, right, maybe forty bucks.

686
00:35:44,680 --> 00:35:47,160
Speaker 1: So you're already saying I'm spending other hundred dollars. It's

687
00:35:47,160 --> 00:35:50,240
Speaker 1: not even about that. It's just more like, all right, whatever,

688
00:35:50,719 --> 00:35:52,920
Speaker 1: more steps. How often are you you said you haven't

689
00:35:53,120 --> 00:35:54,719
Speaker 1: you can't remember the last time you didn't pay for it?

690
00:35:54,800 --> 00:35:57,320
Speaker 1: How often are you having sex? Not that often? You know,

691
00:35:57,400 --> 00:35:59,680
Speaker 1: Like I work really hard, you know, saying so like

692
00:36:00,560 --> 00:36:03,040
Speaker 1: actually work more than everything. How many sugar babies do

693
00:36:03,040 --> 00:36:09,120
Speaker 1: you have a rotation? Right now? You should have came

694
00:36:09,160 --> 00:36:13,960
Speaker 1: with these answers more than five? No, we belt five? Man,

695
00:36:14,000 --> 00:36:16,200
Speaker 1: But then it'll be it'll be like, have you ever

696
00:36:16,239 --> 00:36:20,160
Speaker 1: gotten them together? Do you ever pay for like three

697
00:36:20,200 --> 00:36:22,239
Speaker 1: SOMs or anything else that's like a little out there,

698
00:36:22,920 --> 00:36:25,120
Speaker 1: I haven't, you know, I'd be down for it, but

699
00:36:25,239 --> 00:36:27,560
Speaker 1: like I don't know. Man's like you said, I'm vanilla man.

700
00:36:27,640 --> 00:36:29,759
Speaker 1: So I've had my fair share three somes. You know,

701
00:36:30,640 --> 00:36:32,680
Speaker 1: I just feel like she's overrated. Man Like, I like,

702
00:36:33,280 --> 00:36:35,560
Speaker 1: I like suing one chick more than I like three SOMs.

703
00:36:36,000 --> 00:36:37,960
Speaker 1: So since you're not going to little emoil right now,

704
00:36:38,000 --> 00:36:41,200
Speaker 1: you sound like me like one chick? Do you ever?

705
00:36:41,760 --> 00:36:43,359
Speaker 1: Let's say, I think he just meant one chick at

706
00:36:43,400 --> 00:36:47,279
Speaker 1: a time. They don't make him emo your emo, Like,

707
00:36:47,360 --> 00:36:49,000
Speaker 1: oh my god, I only want one dick in me.

708
00:36:49,080 --> 00:36:53,560
Speaker 1: I can't do all these things, you know, I mean time. Yeah,

709
00:36:53,840 --> 00:36:56,279
Speaker 1: I like one dude that one time too, though I

710
00:36:56,440 --> 00:36:59,279
Speaker 1: like to get to know his body. I liked to.

711
00:36:59,760 --> 00:37:02,680
Speaker 1: Do you ever like find that? So after you pay them, like,

712
00:37:02,760 --> 00:37:05,360
Speaker 1: do you ever like them to? Do you pay for

713
00:37:05,440 --> 00:37:07,640
Speaker 1: girlfriend experience? Do you find that since you are single,

714
00:37:07,760 --> 00:37:09,440
Speaker 1: since you don't have anybody in your life, do you

715
00:37:09,520 --> 00:37:12,000
Speaker 1: pay for them to kind of hang around? You like

716
00:37:13,000 --> 00:37:15,399
Speaker 1: always always hanging around, Like it's always it's always kind

717
00:37:15,400 --> 00:37:19,640
Speaker 1: of cool. It's never like a I haven't done that

718
00:37:19,680 --> 00:37:25,000
Speaker 1: ship where it's like the opposite of that whatever that

719
00:37:25,080 --> 00:37:28,960
Speaker 1: is out. Yeah, they always kick it. Yeah, it's always

720
00:37:29,040 --> 00:37:32,240
Speaker 1: uh because I'm not trying to demean them or anything.

721
00:37:32,360 --> 00:37:34,000
Speaker 1: It's not it's not a thing where it's like, well,

722
00:37:34,040 --> 00:37:35,400
Speaker 1: that's good that you don't take it like that, like

723
00:37:35,880 --> 00:37:39,000
Speaker 1: it's not an adversarial relationship. Now, have you used any

724
00:37:39,200 --> 00:37:44,680
Speaker 1: escorting websites? Yeah, yeah, that's your favorite. That's different. That's like,

725
00:37:45,000 --> 00:37:48,440
Speaker 1: that's a different subject. That's just straight up trying to

726
00:37:48,480 --> 00:37:51,640
Speaker 1: get Yeah. Now see, I'll find that interesting because you're

727
00:37:51,719 --> 00:37:54,480
Speaker 1: telling me that you're telling excuse me that you're not

728
00:37:54,760 --> 00:37:57,359
Speaker 1: really doing gifts or anything like that. You do pay

729
00:37:57,440 --> 00:38:00,320
Speaker 1: for me. But what's the difference then for you? And

730
00:38:00,440 --> 00:38:03,120
Speaker 1: then you've noticed has been eight years between finding a

731
00:38:03,160 --> 00:38:05,239
Speaker 1: girl on a sugar Daddy website and going to get

732
00:38:05,239 --> 00:38:07,920
Speaker 1: an escort on a website. What are the two differences

733
00:38:07,960 --> 00:38:13,360
Speaker 1: in these women? Well, for one, I might be the

734
00:38:13,440 --> 00:38:15,520
Speaker 1: only guy. I might be the only guy at least

735
00:38:15,520 --> 00:38:19,640
Speaker 1: the first guy she that day. That makes sense, That

736
00:38:19,719 --> 00:38:22,240
Speaker 1: makes sense. That makes sense. My friend is on eros

737
00:38:22,360 --> 00:38:24,800
Speaker 1: and she has a limit of six, but you won't know,

738
00:38:25,120 --> 00:38:27,080
Speaker 1: like you don't know what number you are unless maybe

739
00:38:27,080 --> 00:38:28,400
Speaker 1: you get her early in the morning. But then she

740
00:38:28,440 --> 00:38:30,440
Speaker 1: could have had a really late night call. So that

741
00:38:30,560 --> 00:38:33,560
Speaker 1: makes sense. When when when all of my friends, when

742
00:38:33,600 --> 00:38:35,960
Speaker 1: we're on seeking arrangement, I've been on there. It's it's

743
00:38:36,000 --> 00:38:39,080
Speaker 1: a lot of scams now on their um, a lot

744
00:38:39,120 --> 00:38:41,040
Speaker 1: of cameras, or it's a lot of men on there

745
00:38:41,120 --> 00:38:43,800
Speaker 1: that are on there not looking for a quote unquote professionals,

746
00:38:44,000 --> 00:38:46,040
Speaker 1: but they're also not looking to pay that allowance because

747
00:38:46,040 --> 00:38:48,320
Speaker 1: they do want girl friends and relationships and it's like,

748
00:38:48,320 --> 00:38:49,880
Speaker 1: my nigga, you on the wrong site, go swipe on

749
00:38:49,920 --> 00:38:52,640
Speaker 1: tender like it's really frustrating. But also, and I do

750
00:38:52,760 --> 00:38:54,880
Speaker 1: want to make this announcement while we're speaking on seeking

751
00:38:54,920 --> 00:38:56,880
Speaker 1: arrangement a lot, we've been getting a lot of messages

752
00:38:57,360 --> 00:39:00,640
Speaker 1: asking about seeking. I will say, if anyone is on

753
00:39:00,719 --> 00:39:04,400
Speaker 1: there asking for your bank account information, that is not

754
00:39:04,560 --> 00:39:08,400
Speaker 1: the way sugaring or any of this works. Um, So

755
00:39:08,880 --> 00:39:13,279
Speaker 1: do not ever send your bank account information over there either. Well,

756
00:39:13,600 --> 00:39:15,520
Speaker 1: and if you're looking for cash, either meet him up

757
00:39:15,560 --> 00:39:17,080
Speaker 1: on a date and ask for the cash, or you

758
00:39:17,200 --> 00:39:20,319
Speaker 1: can do like a cash app. Um, that's the safe route.

759
00:39:20,320 --> 00:39:22,400
Speaker 1: But if they're saying they can do cash app or PayPal,

760
00:39:22,800 --> 00:39:26,560
Speaker 1: then honestly don't trust them because so it's a scamp.

761
00:39:26,600 --> 00:39:28,239
Speaker 1: So there's a dating scam. And I only know this

762
00:39:28,280 --> 00:39:31,520
Speaker 1: because I fucking went to Nigeria learned about it um,

763
00:39:31,600 --> 00:39:36,239
Speaker 1: but it's called dating and basically Nigerians the scam. So

764
00:39:36,520 --> 00:39:40,600
Speaker 1: Nigerians will um get on. They're using pictures. Sometimes they

765
00:39:40,680 --> 00:39:44,240
Speaker 1: do use women as decoys, like for the phone calls,

766
00:39:44,680 --> 00:39:47,800
Speaker 1: and they build relationships with men to send the money.

767
00:39:49,120 --> 00:39:54,520
Speaker 1: So so or a lot of what do you mean?

768
00:39:54,680 --> 00:39:57,080
Speaker 1: They get their bank accounts and now they have credit

769
00:39:57,120 --> 00:39:58,680
Speaker 1: card it's like a part of the credit card scam.

770
00:39:58,760 --> 00:40:01,839
Speaker 1: Now they can literally I don't know what technology they

771
00:40:01,920 --> 00:40:04,600
Speaker 1: do to use it, but they'll either get your bank

772
00:40:04,600 --> 00:40:07,400
Speaker 1: account information or for the other scamming part, this is

773
00:40:07,480 --> 00:40:10,839
Speaker 1: for men possibly seeking women. They'll do it to where

774
00:40:11,080 --> 00:40:13,640
Speaker 1: now they'll have a man like you who wants a

775
00:40:13,680 --> 00:40:16,399
Speaker 1: woman but sending her money without ever meeting her type

776
00:40:16,400 --> 00:40:19,719
Speaker 1: of man um. So there's that, but um, I don't know,

777
00:40:19,880 --> 00:40:21,680
Speaker 1: I guess do you want to go ahead and jump

778
00:40:21,719 --> 00:40:24,200
Speaker 1: into our our homemail segment or did you have any

779
00:40:24,400 --> 00:40:27,279
Speaker 1: other questions? I didn't want to know about your worst experience?

780
00:40:28,160 --> 00:40:31,200
Speaker 1: Oh the worst experience? Um, did you ever still have

781
00:40:31,320 --> 00:40:33,120
Speaker 1: someone that wasn't who they said they were? Like? How

782
00:40:33,160 --> 00:40:37,200
Speaker 1: did you get them? Yeah? You get a little less

783
00:40:37,239 --> 00:40:39,680
Speaker 1: of that, right, I think I would imagine then you

784
00:40:39,719 --> 00:40:41,400
Speaker 1: would on like Tinder or some ship. You know what.

785
00:40:41,520 --> 00:40:45,560
Speaker 1: Bitches are kind of like enhancing their appearance a little bit.

786
00:40:47,520 --> 00:40:49,560
Speaker 1: I mean they definitely put their their best put foot

787
00:40:49,640 --> 00:40:54,520
Speaker 1: forward in their their profile, but um, yeah, I find

788
00:40:54,560 --> 00:40:57,640
Speaker 1: ways to mitigate that, like you know, like what's what's

789
00:40:57,640 --> 00:41:00,040
Speaker 1: her Instagram or whatever? You like to see all you

790
00:41:00,280 --> 00:41:03,839
Speaker 1: after checks on Instagram? I would I don't. I don't

791
00:41:03,880 --> 00:41:07,880
Speaker 1: like giving my Instagram out, not from seeking arrangement. I

792
00:41:07,920 --> 00:41:09,960
Speaker 1: couldn't imagine being on a sugar babysitting giving out my

793
00:41:10,000 --> 00:41:12,520
Speaker 1: Instagram because then you kind of like reveal yourself. Yeah,

794
00:41:12,719 --> 00:41:15,000
Speaker 1: I wouldn't do that. What's the closest you got to

795
00:41:15,080 --> 00:41:16,759
Speaker 1: a sugar baby? Have you ever taken one to a

796
00:41:16,800 --> 00:41:19,480
Speaker 1: family vacation? And if no, no no, but you know,

797
00:41:20,360 --> 00:41:22,960
Speaker 1: just like places, you know what I'm saying, Ok, you

798
00:41:23,040 --> 00:41:26,439
Speaker 1: have vacation. Okay, so I mean okay, I hear, yeah

799
00:41:26,800 --> 00:41:30,920
Speaker 1: you know, um but no, like I keep those worlds separated,

800
00:41:30,960 --> 00:41:35,719
Speaker 1: you know what I'm saying, Like work women do they

801
00:41:35,760 --> 00:41:37,719
Speaker 1: know your real name? And then I got yeah, yeah, yeah,

802
00:41:37,719 --> 00:41:40,520
Speaker 1: I mean I'm not like I'm not sing Badman rights,

803
00:41:40,600 --> 00:41:47,399
Speaker 1: like I'm nothero. But it's like, you know, I don't

804
00:41:47,400 --> 00:41:51,640
Speaker 1: know I feel like this makes me like a more

805
00:41:52,120 --> 00:41:54,680
Speaker 1: what's the what's the word I'm looking for? You know,

806
00:41:54,960 --> 00:41:56,560
Speaker 1: like you guys probably have a lot of guy friends

807
00:41:56,640 --> 00:41:58,440
Speaker 1: who are probably just who you know, we're just trying

808
00:41:58,480 --> 00:42:01,480
Speaker 1: to fun. You were waiting for the chance, okay, um,

809
00:42:03,600 --> 00:42:05,560
Speaker 1: not trying to suck my female friends. Like it's like

810
00:42:05,600 --> 00:42:07,800
Speaker 1: because I got I got bitches man, and it's like

811
00:42:07,840 --> 00:42:09,360
Speaker 1: I don't need it. I don't know, I feel like

812
00:42:09,360 --> 00:42:13,120
Speaker 1: I'm a better friend to like my like legit female friends. Uh,

813
00:42:13,239 --> 00:42:15,239
Speaker 1: definitely not trying to fun just at work and ship

814
00:42:15,640 --> 00:42:17,960
Speaker 1: like to ship like like I got that part of

815
00:42:18,000 --> 00:42:20,600
Speaker 1: my life handle. You know, Yeah, I mean sex works.

816
00:42:20,800 --> 00:42:23,760
Speaker 1: It's great for those things. Like I mean, just imagine

817
00:42:23,840 --> 00:42:26,680
Speaker 1: if there were a few men that felt like they

818
00:42:26,719 --> 00:42:29,080
Speaker 1: could do this, I wouldn't cross that boundary line. I

819
00:42:29,160 --> 00:42:32,600
Speaker 1: don't like to say that prostitution can stop rape, because

820
00:42:32,680 --> 00:42:37,080
Speaker 1: rapist rape like nothing. But I can't understand what you're saying,

821
00:42:37,160 --> 00:42:40,200
Speaker 1: like towing the line. You know, maybe men having these

822
00:42:40,239 --> 00:42:42,560
Speaker 1: options and feeling more comfortable where they wouldn't mean trying

823
00:42:43,040 --> 00:42:45,239
Speaker 1: random girls at your job, Like no, you can just

824
00:42:45,320 --> 00:42:49,160
Speaker 1: been trying to work man, like you I've didn't hit

825
00:42:49,239 --> 00:42:52,960
Speaker 1: on at work and it's terrible. Yeah, it's weird, man

826
00:42:53,040 --> 00:42:54,560
Speaker 1: like's I think it's weird. I think it's weird when

827
00:42:54,560 --> 00:42:56,239
Speaker 1: guys are trying to suck their friends man like their

828
00:42:56,280 --> 00:43:00,880
Speaker 1: female I think it's just weird. I hate it. And

829
00:43:01,000 --> 00:43:03,719
Speaker 1: once once you know your friend zoned, I know your

830
00:43:03,760 --> 00:43:05,839
Speaker 1: friend zoned, and I don't want to take it past

831
00:43:05,880 --> 00:43:08,279
Speaker 1: the friend zone when you let me know you like me,

832
00:43:08,520 --> 00:43:10,560
Speaker 1: or like, oh you checked me out, or I look

833
00:43:10,640 --> 00:43:12,919
Speaker 1: good sending me like I don't like like, we don't

834
00:43:12,960 --> 00:43:16,600
Speaker 1: like that, We don't like. It's because they're pretending to

835
00:43:16,680 --> 00:43:20,759
Speaker 1: be your friend. You just well, like okay, in the

836
00:43:20,840 --> 00:43:23,279
Speaker 1: Animal Kingdom, right, the motherfucking gorillas and ship right, like

837
00:43:23,320 --> 00:43:26,520
Speaker 1: the alpha gorilla he foks the badest gorilla bitches with,

838
00:43:26,760 --> 00:43:28,440
Speaker 1: you know, with the biggest titties and the ship are

839
00:43:28,480 --> 00:43:31,000
Speaker 1: you I'm assuming that this is just regularly heard and

840
00:43:31,640 --> 00:43:33,880
Speaker 1: and then like that's the alpha gorilla, right, but not

841
00:43:34,000 --> 00:43:36,440
Speaker 1: the beta grillas. What they do this is a strategy.

842
00:43:37,120 --> 00:43:40,000
Speaker 1: They become friends with these girls. They start the cleaning

843
00:43:40,960 --> 00:43:42,640
Speaker 1: just hair and ship, you know what I'm saying, hanging

844
00:43:42,640 --> 00:43:44,920
Speaker 1: out with it. And then the male gorilla, the real

845
00:43:45,040 --> 00:43:48,040
Speaker 1: nigga gorilla comes through when they scattered this scatatto, right,

846
00:43:48,640 --> 00:43:50,879
Speaker 1: But every once in a while, every once in a while,

847
00:43:51,440 --> 00:43:55,920
Speaker 1: one in the middle cleaning bitch gorillas get to one

848
00:43:55,960 --> 00:43:59,040
Speaker 1: of the bad. It's a strategy, and it's this is

849
00:43:59,200 --> 00:44:02,359
Speaker 1: well documented in the primate community. It's well documented well

850
00:44:02,400 --> 00:44:07,480
Speaker 1: on the nature planet. I read about. The book I

851
00:44:07,520 --> 00:44:13,000
Speaker 1: read about is called Alpha Nigga Guerrillas. That's really primates. No,

852
00:44:15,920 --> 00:44:20,280
Speaker 1: the not the winner effect about that's interesting, the winner effect.

853
00:44:20,280 --> 00:44:22,280
Speaker 1: And if some about like guys who are like winners,

854
00:44:22,280 --> 00:44:25,160
Speaker 1: the alpha guys, how they how how society treats them,

855
00:44:25,200 --> 00:44:27,400
Speaker 1: how they behave, and they would just drawn that parallel

856
00:44:27,719 --> 00:44:30,320
Speaker 1: and that's your all, your all, your all, your male friends.

857
00:44:30,840 --> 00:44:34,520
Speaker 1: If you guys were monkeys picking your hair, helping you moving,

858
00:44:34,600 --> 00:44:37,280
Speaker 1: funny that you were like, are you high that strategy.

859
00:44:38,160 --> 00:44:40,719
Speaker 1: We interviewed a guy, one of my friends to pick

860
00:44:40,800 --> 00:44:44,440
Speaker 1: up artists we called them right. He's friends with the

861
00:44:44,520 --> 00:44:46,960
Speaker 1: hottest bottle of model bitches, all of them, right, And

862
00:44:47,040 --> 00:44:49,880
Speaker 1: eventually he's like, I'll start breaking down with their boyfriend,

863
00:44:49,880 --> 00:44:51,920
Speaker 1: who and ship and who was there? Who was dopest

864
00:44:52,200 --> 00:44:53,960
Speaker 1: this whole time? And he's like and you know what,

865
00:44:54,680 --> 00:44:57,000
Speaker 1: And he's like, I don't ever like be pressed for

866
00:44:57,040 --> 00:44:59,239
Speaker 1: posty because I'm just prolonging the post with everybody like

867
00:44:59,280 --> 00:45:02,400
Speaker 1: they all fuck me. Then I think that's whack, but

868
00:45:02,920 --> 00:45:10,279
Speaker 1: it works. You listen, guys, guys, I don't want to

869
00:45:10,360 --> 00:45:14,600
Speaker 1: use that strategy, alright, that's lame. All the guys that listening,

870
00:45:14,840 --> 00:45:16,680
Speaker 1: all right, Just what you do you be friends with

871
00:45:16,760 --> 00:45:19,239
Speaker 1: those girls? Right? Can you really give advice to this

872
00:45:19,320 --> 00:45:21,239
Speaker 1: because you just pay for the pussy. You take the

873
00:45:21,280 --> 00:45:24,120
Speaker 1: easy way out, I take it away, you know. I'm

874
00:45:24,200 --> 00:45:28,160
Speaker 1: just it's called leverage, all right, but like I'm gonna

875
00:45:28,200 --> 00:45:30,120
Speaker 1: give you guys who may not have as much you know.

876
00:45:30,800 --> 00:45:34,960
Speaker 1: Uh yeah, okay, So this is what you do when

877
00:45:34,960 --> 00:45:36,719
Speaker 1: you be friends with those girls, the baddest bitches, right,

878
00:45:36,760 --> 00:45:39,200
Speaker 1: and really just be friends with him because they got

879
00:45:39,360 --> 00:45:42,960
Speaker 1: they got friends and family members who they'll co sign

880
00:45:43,080 --> 00:45:45,560
Speaker 1: for you. Man, you're really cool man, like you say,

881
00:45:45,880 --> 00:45:48,319
Speaker 1: and then other girls will see you with this hot girls, right,

882
00:45:48,560 --> 00:45:51,600
Speaker 1: and then they'll they'll they'll like you more. You know. Um,

883
00:45:51,960 --> 00:45:55,279
Speaker 1: what's the word I'm looking for? Um? Huh, social proof?

884
00:45:55,320 --> 00:45:56,480
Speaker 1: But I'm looking for you know what I mean. It's

885
00:45:56,480 --> 00:46:00,279
Speaker 1: happened to me. Let's the pick up term? Uh uh

886
00:46:00,520 --> 00:46:04,640
Speaker 1: there's a term for this preselection. Yea, they see you,

887
00:46:04,680 --> 00:46:06,720
Speaker 1: they do. Other girls see you with these cool girls,

888
00:46:06,920 --> 00:46:08,760
Speaker 1: and they think, oh, he must be cool. He obviously

889
00:46:08,840 --> 00:46:11,160
Speaker 1: is not a weirdo, right, all these hot girls out

890
00:46:11,200 --> 00:46:13,040
Speaker 1: with him. I've had dudes invite me out, so then

891
00:46:13,080 --> 00:46:17,000
Speaker 1: I alone. He's like, that's the strategy. That's a good point.

892
00:46:17,160 --> 00:46:20,919
Speaker 1: I mean, having beautiful people around you does make people wonder, like, damn,

893
00:46:20,920 --> 00:46:23,320
Speaker 1: who are you? Makes everything easier? It makes everything easier.

894
00:46:23,400 --> 00:46:26,120
Speaker 1: And that bitch is the equivalent of a Rolex or

895
00:46:26,239 --> 00:46:29,680
Speaker 1: Lamb boat. I would love to be the show off

896
00:46:29,800 --> 00:46:32,480
Speaker 1: before all right, So I want to get into some

897
00:46:32,640 --> 00:46:34,480
Speaker 1: of our whole mails. So each week we have our

898
00:46:34,560 --> 00:46:37,760
Speaker 1: listeners send us letters and they're asking us for advice.

899
00:46:37,840 --> 00:46:39,880
Speaker 1: If you guys want to send some homemail, send it

900
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Speaker 1: to Horrible Decisions at gmail dot com. UM the ones

901
00:46:43,760 --> 00:46:45,080
Speaker 1: that I picked up, I think you may have this

902
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Speaker 1: one also, UM is Stomp the Yard. I really like

903
00:46:49,440 --> 00:46:52,120
Speaker 1: this one. Ladies love the podcast. Listen to you guys

904
00:46:52,120 --> 00:46:53,839
Speaker 1: all the time. I need someone's opinion, and I'm too

905
00:46:53,880 --> 00:46:55,560
Speaker 1: embarrassed to ask my friends. So I figured to be

906
00:46:55,600 --> 00:46:57,719
Speaker 1: the perfect time to write in. Me and my man

907
00:46:57,800 --> 00:46:59,920
Speaker 1: have been having sex together for two years. It's amazing,

908
00:47:00,040 --> 00:47:02,399
Speaker 1: pretty much the best I've ever had. We always try

909
00:47:02,480 --> 00:47:04,960
Speaker 1: new things, but recently he's requesting to do something that

910
00:47:05,000 --> 00:47:06,920
Speaker 1: I don't really want to do. I don't know if

911
00:47:06,920 --> 00:47:09,760
Speaker 1: you guys have heard of it, but it's called gumba stomping,

912
00:47:10,200 --> 00:47:13,120
Speaker 1: a massacus sex act that involves a man laying down

913
00:47:13,600 --> 00:47:16,120
Speaker 1: and his sexual partner jumping up and down, stomping on

914
00:47:16,200 --> 00:47:18,759
Speaker 1: his crotch with both feet. Feeling like Mario stomping on

915
00:47:18,800 --> 00:47:21,160
Speaker 1: a gumba. My first thought is I don't want to

916
00:47:21,200 --> 00:47:23,000
Speaker 1: hurt the best dick I've ever had. I mean, how

917
00:47:23,080 --> 00:47:26,120
Speaker 1: could I possibly how can we possibly have sex after

918
00:47:26,160 --> 00:47:28,200
Speaker 1: I stop on your dick? But to the point now

919
00:47:28,520 --> 00:47:30,239
Speaker 1: that he doesn't even want to have sex unless I

920
00:47:30,280 --> 00:47:32,400
Speaker 1: do it, I've expressed to him that I don't want to.

921
00:47:32,520 --> 00:47:34,359
Speaker 1: But of course that goes in one year out together.

922
00:47:34,560 --> 00:47:36,160
Speaker 1: Should I just do it to please my man? Or

923
00:47:36,239 --> 00:47:38,400
Speaker 1: is it time for a new man? Did you need

924
00:47:38,440 --> 00:47:40,960
Speaker 1: to jump on that dick? Maybe I would jump on

925
00:47:41,000 --> 00:47:43,080
Speaker 1: the dick cloth on somebody news. So it's it's hard

926
00:47:43,160 --> 00:47:45,520
Speaker 1: for me because I think we talked about this austin

927
00:47:45,840 --> 00:47:50,560
Speaker 1: um that kinks like when people enjoy certain kinks. Maybe

928
00:47:50,680 --> 00:47:52,960
Speaker 1: you may not find the right partner to fulfill those kinks,

929
00:47:53,120 --> 00:47:55,279
Speaker 1: and you need to be open enough to say it.

930
00:47:55,400 --> 00:47:58,400
Speaker 1: But I think at this point he's being very selfish,

931
00:47:58,840 --> 00:48:00,360
Speaker 1: and I think that that's something that she needs to

932
00:48:00,440 --> 00:48:03,040
Speaker 1: just discuss with him, like, listen, I'm doing this to

933
00:48:03,239 --> 00:48:07,359
Speaker 1: please you. However, it's not something that I genuinely enjoy doing.

934
00:48:07,520 --> 00:48:11,000
Speaker 1: And sex is very mental, and so if this is

935
00:48:11,080 --> 00:48:15,120
Speaker 1: something that she just doesn't really understand, it can cause

936
00:48:15,200 --> 00:48:17,560
Speaker 1: her arousal to not be there all the way because

937
00:48:17,680 --> 00:48:19,919
Speaker 1: she doesn't understand that she knows. I guess she doesn't.

938
00:48:20,280 --> 00:48:23,520
Speaker 1: She doesn't, she's not right. So, like when someone has

939
00:48:23,560 --> 00:48:25,759
Speaker 1: a kink that I think of is quote unquote more

940
00:48:25,840 --> 00:48:29,880
Speaker 1: extreme like this. For example, I'd say maybe six out

941
00:48:29,920 --> 00:48:32,040
Speaker 1: of every time I have sex, I'm getting choked, which

942
00:48:32,920 --> 00:48:37,080
Speaker 1: more than half. Yeah, right, The other four odd times

943
00:48:37,200 --> 00:48:40,600
Speaker 1: just doesn't happen to me. Choking is not that extreme.

944
00:48:40,680 --> 00:48:43,000
Speaker 1: But if someone really felt like they were inflicting pain

945
00:48:43,120 --> 00:48:45,759
Speaker 1: on me and they were like confused about doing it,

946
00:48:45,880 --> 00:48:48,800
Speaker 1: I would expect it maybe too at ten times, and

947
00:48:48,920 --> 00:48:51,320
Speaker 1: I would accept that if somebody thought it was hurting me,

948
00:48:51,480 --> 00:48:52,920
Speaker 1: or if they couldn't handle it. Well, that's what I

949
00:48:53,000 --> 00:48:54,960
Speaker 1: was gonna say. I think at this point, the fact

950
00:48:55,040 --> 00:48:56,640
Speaker 1: that she said that he doesn't even want to have

951
00:48:56,719 --> 00:48:58,680
Speaker 1: sex unless I do this. This needs to be a

952
00:48:58,719 --> 00:49:02,120
Speaker 1: conversation where she's sits down with him and lets him

953
00:49:02,200 --> 00:49:04,000
Speaker 1: know her feelings, Like, listen, I don't want to do

954
00:49:04,080 --> 00:49:07,040
Speaker 1: this to you every time. If he's willing to compromise

955
00:49:07,200 --> 00:49:08,919
Speaker 1: and maybe you only have to stomp on his dick,

956
00:49:09,440 --> 00:49:14,000
Speaker 1: you know, every other time, then I'm a lot. But

957
00:49:14,040 --> 00:49:16,840
Speaker 1: I mean it happens a lot, but it'll it's a compromise.

958
00:49:19,440 --> 00:49:25,359
Speaker 1: Hills or some guys like somebody Hills. The Asian dude

959
00:49:25,400 --> 00:49:26,800
Speaker 1: that I went on a date with brought up this

960
00:49:26,920 --> 00:49:30,400
Speaker 1: guy can the human Rug? I googled it. This guy

961
00:49:30,520 --> 00:49:32,680
Speaker 1: used to roll himself up in a rug and bars

962
00:49:32,719 --> 00:49:34,480
Speaker 1: in New York. I've been trying to find him to

963
00:49:34,520 --> 00:49:36,359
Speaker 1: interview him, but he would just like to sit there

964
00:49:36,360 --> 00:49:38,279
Speaker 1: all night and we get super turned on. People just

965
00:49:38,440 --> 00:49:41,839
Speaker 1: like stepping on him, people just making out on top

966
00:49:41,880 --> 00:49:44,400
Speaker 1: of him, ordering drinks, just treating him like people are

967
00:49:44,480 --> 00:49:46,960
Speaker 1: into this, but like I wouldn't expect it every time

968
00:49:47,040 --> 00:49:49,359
Speaker 1: during sex, Like do you expect to have dessert? Every

969
00:49:49,400 --> 00:49:51,320
Speaker 1: time you go out to heat. Know, sometimes you do,

970
00:49:51,400 --> 00:49:54,000
Speaker 1: sometimes you don't. This ship is dessert. Not to mention.

971
00:49:54,320 --> 00:49:57,560
Speaker 1: I fuck that sick nipple. Fuck that always wanted me

972
00:49:57,840 --> 00:49:59,440
Speaker 1: to have my hands on his nipples, and he was

973
00:49:59,560 --> 00:50:01,920
Speaker 1: redic you listen, it's legit. The reason I have not

974
00:50:02,040 --> 00:50:04,880
Speaker 1: given him more pussy. I couldn't even touch my clip

975
00:50:05,120 --> 00:50:07,400
Speaker 1: without him pulling my hand off of myself to put

976
00:50:07,440 --> 00:50:10,919
Speaker 1: it back on his nipples. Absolutely not. If you can't

977
00:50:10,960 --> 00:50:14,279
Speaker 1: consider me while we're having sex fun yourself, can I

978
00:50:14,280 --> 00:50:16,520
Speaker 1: actually all questions me because y'all y'all probably talk to

979
00:50:16,600 --> 00:50:18,960
Speaker 1: more women than I do about this. We have live

980
00:50:19,000 --> 00:50:23,440
Speaker 1: homemale live home ahead and ask a questions. Okay, ask

981
00:50:23,520 --> 00:50:27,040
Speaker 1: a question male homemail. All right, So listen, do some

982
00:50:27,239 --> 00:50:31,200
Speaker 1: girls not like getting choked and slapped around? Yes? Yeah,

983
00:50:31,640 --> 00:50:36,239
Speaker 1: I'm never. Oh yeah I've never. I'm I mean, but

984
00:50:36,400 --> 00:50:38,759
Speaker 1: if you said most of your women you want them

985
00:50:38,800 --> 00:50:42,680
Speaker 1: to be submissive and submissive traits, I'm more of a

986
00:50:43,480 --> 00:50:46,680
Speaker 1: to put your hands on their next or anything like that. Yeah,

987
00:50:46,719 --> 00:50:50,600
Speaker 1: I would definitely like Like, honestly, if you if you

988
00:50:50,680 --> 00:50:54,560
Speaker 1: were like to just walk into a room it sult

989
00:50:54,640 --> 00:50:56,600
Speaker 1: me having sex, you would have to assume you were

990
00:50:56,680 --> 00:50:58,359
Speaker 1: witnessing a rate, like if you didn't know it from

991
00:50:58,480 --> 00:51:01,319
Speaker 1: be like, yeah, you would have to assume you don't

992
00:51:01,320 --> 00:51:04,800
Speaker 1: talk about how rough you are before. No, that's probably

993
00:51:04,920 --> 00:51:07,920
Speaker 1: something that should change because I know that I have

994
00:51:08,080 --> 00:51:10,800
Speaker 1: had sex with guys um And I actually had to

995
00:51:10,880 --> 00:51:13,000
Speaker 1: have this conversation with Fellam Bay actually, and I just

996
00:51:13,040 --> 00:51:14,520
Speaker 1: assumed it was because he had just gotten out of

997
00:51:14,600 --> 00:51:16,520
Speaker 1: jail why he was so fucking rough, Like I'm not

998
00:51:16,560 --> 00:51:19,239
Speaker 1: gonna lie, like when we first sucked, like he was

999
00:51:19,280 --> 00:51:20,880
Speaker 1: sucking me like he tried to prove a point and

1000
00:51:20,880 --> 00:51:23,080
Speaker 1: you know, I'm really dominant, Like what the point you

1001
00:51:23,160 --> 00:51:25,960
Speaker 1: trying to prove? Bro, Calm down, I'm not I'm not

1002
00:51:26,000 --> 00:51:28,600
Speaker 1: gonna lie like, And because I do normally take the

1003
00:51:28,640 --> 00:51:31,759
Speaker 1: dominant stance in the bedroom or like me, it's like

1004
00:51:31,840 --> 00:51:34,680
Speaker 1: a really good balance to where he knows like what

1005
00:51:34,800 --> 00:51:37,440
Speaker 1: I'm not into. Yeah, but it's to the point like

1006
00:51:37,520 --> 00:51:39,880
Speaker 1: where even his hands like my chest hurt because he

1007
00:51:40,000 --> 00:51:42,520
Speaker 1: was like sucking me but like all my chest very hard,

1008
00:51:42,560 --> 00:51:46,960
Speaker 1: the choking. He didn't really slap me, um, but it

1009
00:51:47,080 --> 00:51:48,960
Speaker 1: was still just very rough. And I had to tell

1010
00:51:49,040 --> 00:51:51,600
Speaker 1: him like, hey, bro, next time, you gotta cones down

1011
00:51:51,760 --> 00:51:56,279
Speaker 1: like like that from things that they're seeing or like

1012
00:51:56,640 --> 00:51:58,840
Speaker 1: had to be that porn ship because I'm not gonna lie, Like,

1013
00:51:59,200 --> 00:52:01,240
Speaker 1: what's the nigga that All Aways wears the Timberland boots

1014
00:52:01,320 --> 00:52:07,640
Speaker 1: in a porn um Wesley Pipes, So Wesley Pipes Fox

1015
00:52:07,760 --> 00:52:11,480
Speaker 1: every bitch hardest fun it's him really with him. It

1016
00:52:11,520 --> 00:52:16,080
Speaker 1: says real rough, like bitch ten and it's just like whoa, whoa, whoa.

1017
00:52:17,280 --> 00:52:19,120
Speaker 1: But a lot of men watch and a lot of

1018
00:52:19,200 --> 00:52:21,960
Speaker 1: That's why I don't really like straight porn because it's very,

1019
00:52:22,200 --> 00:52:24,840
Speaker 1: very very aggressive on the man's side compared to the

1020
00:52:24,880 --> 00:52:28,680
Speaker 1: women until we interviewer and so to me, I would say,

1021
00:52:28,760 --> 00:52:32,160
Speaker 1: if that's your you know, preference and fucking you should

1022
00:52:32,160 --> 00:52:34,560
Speaker 1: definitely let them know. Just I'm gonna tear that out up,

1023
00:52:35,200 --> 00:52:36,800
Speaker 1: like you need to let them paid for it doesn't

1024
00:52:36,840 --> 00:52:38,719
Speaker 1: mean that they have to accept it, right, and like

1025
00:52:38,800 --> 00:52:41,320
Speaker 1: we should all remember that, like, yeah, you know, I'm

1026
00:52:41,320 --> 00:52:43,440
Speaker 1: not doing anything gets you will obviously I don't think

1027
00:52:43,480 --> 00:52:46,640
Speaker 1: that you are. But I also think that a lot

1028
00:52:46,680 --> 00:52:48,480
Speaker 1: of men. I think this is a really good learning

1029
00:52:48,560 --> 00:52:53,160
Speaker 1: moment in a teaching moment. Excuse me, because you just

1030
00:52:53,280 --> 00:52:55,719
Speaker 1: assume and so you may not know how the girl

1031
00:52:55,760 --> 00:52:58,000
Speaker 1: feels when she leaves, Like what if she really doesn't

1032
00:52:58,040 --> 00:53:00,360
Speaker 1: like being roughed up? Can you imagine being paid for

1033
00:53:00,440 --> 00:53:03,359
Speaker 1: sex and then being funk like that? You're probably like damn,

1034
00:53:04,000 --> 00:53:08,839
Speaker 1: m hmm, be sucked up and so like, I think

1035
00:53:08,880 --> 00:53:11,759
Speaker 1: it's really good, especially when and I don't really like

1036
00:53:11,880 --> 00:53:14,879
Speaker 1: talking about sex so far in the beginning with dating.

1037
00:53:15,080 --> 00:53:17,239
Speaker 1: But for what you're doing, like yeah, be like, hey,

1038
00:53:17,760 --> 00:53:19,480
Speaker 1: like I like to get rough to? Would you enjoy that?

1039
00:53:19,719 --> 00:53:22,200
Speaker 1: Like our hands are cool, like there's nothing wrong. We're

1040
00:53:22,239 --> 00:53:24,400
Speaker 1: talking about that and if they say no, then they like,

1041
00:53:26,520 --> 00:53:30,359
Speaker 1: you know it. We probably shouldn't continue, are you if

1042
00:53:30,400 --> 00:53:32,520
Speaker 1: these girls get off? Do you give a ship? If

1043
00:53:32,520 --> 00:53:35,319
Speaker 1: these girls get off? I could see you not caring.

1044
00:53:35,400 --> 00:53:38,680
Speaker 1: He doesn't care. I'm never it's not it's not something

1045
00:53:38,760 --> 00:53:44,240
Speaker 1: I consider. I know how that sounds. No, it's normal

1046
00:53:44,680 --> 00:53:47,080
Speaker 1: who don't pay, don't consider. It's not something I consider,

1047
00:53:47,280 --> 00:53:51,359
Speaker 1: and and or even even when I'm I don't know. Man,

1048
00:53:51,480 --> 00:53:54,200
Speaker 1: some girls, some girls, Man, do you think that you

1049
00:53:54,280 --> 00:53:56,680
Speaker 1: have to care about a girl to maker want to come? Well,

1050
00:53:56,760 --> 00:53:58,719
Speaker 1: here's the thing, man, Like some girls, it's a fucking

1051
00:53:58,800 --> 00:54:02,239
Speaker 1: ruby's cute, you know, like some most some girls come easy,

1052
00:54:02,480 --> 00:54:05,000
Speaker 1: Like every every girl is different, right, It's like trying

1053
00:54:05,040 --> 00:54:08,480
Speaker 1: to find a different combination that's different lock every time.

1054
00:54:08,719 --> 00:54:11,520
Speaker 1: And that's cool. Um, but you're paying for the service,

1055
00:54:11,560 --> 00:54:16,839
Speaker 1: so you feel like you just want to come. You're paying,

1056
00:54:16,920 --> 00:54:18,880
Speaker 1: so I just want to get my I kind of

1057
00:54:19,040 --> 00:54:21,640
Speaker 1: that's the most reasonable thing. Like I don't more something

1058
00:54:21,640 --> 00:54:23,719
Speaker 1: I agree than like asking what the women want, Like

1059
00:54:23,800 --> 00:54:27,160
Speaker 1: I don't agree with that, but I kind of get that.

1060
00:54:27,360 --> 00:54:29,480
Speaker 1: Like if I'm getting paid to funk, like I don't

1061
00:54:29,480 --> 00:54:32,319
Speaker 1: expect you to go all out for me. I mean,

1062
00:54:32,480 --> 00:54:34,680
Speaker 1: it's so funny. I'm a deal with some super simps

1063
00:54:34,680 --> 00:54:36,600
Speaker 1: because I don't had a nigger like give me money.

1064
00:54:36,640 --> 00:54:38,040
Speaker 1: And he wanted his dick stuck and I didn't want

1065
00:54:38,040 --> 00:54:39,240
Speaker 1: to suck his sick and I told him I don't

1066
00:54:39,239 --> 00:54:40,680
Speaker 1: want to suck a sick. I don't be riding dick.

1067
00:54:40,719 --> 00:54:42,560
Speaker 1: This one thing. I was like, I'm a big ass

1068
00:54:42,560 --> 00:54:44,800
Speaker 1: spoiled brat, like even if a nigg is paying me

1069
00:54:44,920 --> 00:54:46,759
Speaker 1: or helping me with bills, like I'm gonna do what

1070
00:54:46,800 --> 00:54:48,200
Speaker 1: I want to do in the bedroom. I mean, and

1071
00:54:48,320 --> 00:54:50,200
Speaker 1: you you made a comment earlier that you didn't believe

1072
00:54:50,239 --> 00:54:52,239
Speaker 1: he did it because he's good looking, now do you

1073
00:54:52,320 --> 00:54:56,080
Speaker 1: believe it? I feel like he needs a therapist. But um,

1074
00:54:56,480 --> 00:55:00,800
Speaker 1: I definitely think this ain't the only reason. I definitely

1075
00:55:00,840 --> 00:55:03,320
Speaker 1: feel like there's some sort of not only entitlement, but

1076
00:55:03,760 --> 00:55:06,800
Speaker 1: um the fact that you don't want emotional attachment with

1077
00:55:06,840 --> 00:55:08,600
Speaker 1: a woman right now for whatever reason. Maybe it's a

1078
00:55:08,600 --> 00:55:11,800
Speaker 1: commitment phobia that you have. But not only that. I

1079
00:55:11,960 --> 00:55:16,040
Speaker 1: could see a woman who might also be fed up

1080
00:55:16,080 --> 00:55:18,239
Speaker 1: with that. If she was dating him and you're telling

1081
00:55:18,280 --> 00:55:20,520
Speaker 1: me you have sex with you and mind and not

1082
00:55:20,680 --> 00:55:22,800
Speaker 1: her in mind, that could be an issue even in

1083
00:55:22,840 --> 00:55:25,680
Speaker 1: the long run, Like you're not caring if I even come.

1084
00:55:25,760 --> 00:55:27,160
Speaker 1: And I think a lot of men move in that

1085
00:55:27,280 --> 00:55:29,800
Speaker 1: way and that's what causes maybe some women that she

1086
00:55:30,200 --> 00:55:33,239
Speaker 1: step out like he doesn't know these girls and he's paying. No,

1087
00:55:33,440 --> 00:55:35,440
Speaker 1: I'm saying if he wasn't in the paying round. And

1088
00:55:35,440 --> 00:55:37,839
Speaker 1: I'm talking now to the to the men who might

1089
00:55:37,920 --> 00:55:40,320
Speaker 1: have this mentality who when they have sex they're worried

1090
00:55:40,320 --> 00:55:43,200
Speaker 1: about them nutting and not really the pleasure of a woman. Well,

1091
00:55:43,239 --> 00:55:45,160
Speaker 1: he's the girls who are like more long term, like

1092
00:55:45,200 --> 00:55:48,319
Speaker 1: I know how to make them come right. I really

1093
00:55:48,360 --> 00:55:49,759
Speaker 1: feel like you don't know how to make anyone come.

1094
00:55:49,800 --> 00:55:52,520
Speaker 1: I just have I really have that feeling right now

1095
00:55:52,640 --> 00:55:55,600
Speaker 1: with you. I mean, and I could be wrong. I

1096
00:55:55,640 --> 00:55:58,640
Speaker 1: could be wrong, you know, I could be honestly be right.

1097
00:55:59,480 --> 00:56:01,840
Speaker 1: I mean, I just wait, I feel like, you know

1098
00:56:02,120 --> 00:56:08,160
Speaker 1: the long term women, do you give a ship like yea, yeah, yeah,

1099
00:56:08,280 --> 00:56:10,520
Speaker 1: if they are yeah, because like we have a different

1100
00:56:10,640 --> 00:56:15,080
Speaker 1: sort of attachment, you know, Okay, it's just a girl,

1101
00:56:15,560 --> 00:56:18,440
Speaker 1: just like I don't feel like he got no attachment

1102
00:56:18,480 --> 00:56:22,520
Speaker 1: to nobody is how did this become an adversarial It's

1103
00:56:22,520 --> 00:56:26,000
Speaker 1: not an adversarial relationship. I genuinely just feel like everything

1104
00:56:26,080 --> 00:56:28,719
Speaker 1: that you're having to super think about or whatever, Like

1105
00:56:29,080 --> 00:56:31,040
Speaker 1: I don't know, your responses to me are just like, okay,

1106
00:56:31,040 --> 00:56:33,760
Speaker 1: you pay for pussy, that's it. Like any type of connection,

1107
00:56:33,880 --> 00:56:37,400
Speaker 1: any type of caring what the other person cares about.

1108
00:56:37,719 --> 00:56:40,480
Speaker 1: I feel like you have no no sense of that,

1109
00:56:40,600 --> 00:56:42,800
Speaker 1: Like you don't give a funk what they want, what

1110
00:56:42,920 --> 00:56:45,879
Speaker 1: their feelings are, if they come or if they don't come.

1111
00:56:46,120 --> 00:56:47,719
Speaker 1: So you're telling me, yeah, some of the people have

1112
00:56:47,880 --> 00:56:53,600
Speaker 1: relationships with their yet you don't know. I'm just saying,

1113
00:56:53,920 --> 00:56:56,000
Speaker 1: like I feel like you're saying it sounds good, but

1114
00:56:56,080 --> 00:56:59,600
Speaker 1: I genuinely feel like you have maybe a huge sense

1115
00:56:59,680 --> 00:57:03,200
Speaker 1: of health worth where you kind of just don't value anyone.

1116
00:57:03,640 --> 00:57:06,680
Speaker 1: That's why you have to pay for pussy. Because I

1117
00:57:06,719 --> 00:57:12,360
Speaker 1: feel like in a dating yet we had one they do.

1118
00:57:14,400 --> 00:57:16,480
Speaker 1: We can see that narrative, like you just see like

1119
00:57:16,560 --> 00:57:18,400
Speaker 1: a woman being like, oh, you're too arrogant. But you

1120
00:57:18,440 --> 00:57:21,080
Speaker 1: know what, this is exactly why I pay bitches because

1121
00:57:21,080 --> 00:57:23,240
Speaker 1: you don't want to hear. But not only that, but

1122
00:57:23,320 --> 00:57:26,680
Speaker 1: I don't know or to know that you're having sex

1123
00:57:26,760 --> 00:57:29,880
Speaker 1: without without To be fair, I've never been with a

1124
00:57:29,960 --> 00:57:32,760
Speaker 1: man that's given me. I'm not talking about man with money.

1125
00:57:32,760 --> 00:57:34,680
Speaker 1: I'm talking about men that have dropped thousands on me

1126
00:57:34,800 --> 00:57:37,920
Speaker 1: that weren't arrogant. Yeah, but I'll deal with arrogant men.

1127
00:57:38,040 --> 00:57:40,680
Speaker 1: But I feel like, and maybe it's because of how

1128
00:57:40,880 --> 00:57:43,479
Speaker 1: open a person is able to get with me, even

1129
00:57:43,520 --> 00:57:45,760
Speaker 1: the men that I have dealt with who have dropped money,

1130
00:57:46,120 --> 00:57:50,280
Speaker 1: I feel like there's been an eager sense to kind

1131
00:57:50,320 --> 00:57:52,840
Speaker 1: of please me. And maybe because I've openly talked about

1132
00:57:52,840 --> 00:57:54,680
Speaker 1: how men make me orgasm, now they feel like they're

1133
00:57:54,680 --> 00:57:57,640
Speaker 1: in competition to also make me orgasm. But I think

1134
00:57:57,680 --> 00:57:59,760
Speaker 1: that's speaking to the persons who write like you have

1135
00:57:59,880 --> 00:58:04,440
Speaker 1: to keep in mind that you are the one. In

1136
00:58:04,600 --> 00:58:07,440
Speaker 1: my opinion, from what it's sounding like, I don't mean

1137
00:58:07,480 --> 00:58:10,600
Speaker 1: this how it sounds. You're asking, and he's searching for

1138
00:58:10,680 --> 00:58:14,560
Speaker 1: these women. They they've come to me, and now we've

1139
00:58:14,840 --> 00:58:17,680
Speaker 1: gotten arrangement. I'm talking about, Are you on seeking arrangement? No,

1140
00:58:17,800 --> 00:58:20,240
Speaker 1: I'm not on seeking right now, because he's on seeking arrangement,

1141
00:58:20,320 --> 00:58:23,320
Speaker 1: looking for women, screening for you know, a certain level

1142
00:58:23,400 --> 00:58:26,560
Speaker 1: of uh, you know, for a certain sort of relationship.

1143
00:58:27,400 --> 00:58:30,520
Speaker 1: He's technically so on seeking arrangement right when you're having

1144
00:58:30,840 --> 00:58:33,400
Speaker 1: like like in this case. To me, I feel like

1145
00:58:33,600 --> 00:58:36,320
Speaker 1: there's more of a surplus of women than there are

1146
00:58:36,400 --> 00:58:39,439
Speaker 1: men that are really willing to pay, which is why

1147
00:58:40,040 --> 00:58:43,360
Speaker 1: he can do ship like this opposed to what you're

1148
00:58:43,440 --> 00:58:47,680
Speaker 1: going through where they're finding a hot girl that's willing

1149
00:58:47,720 --> 00:58:50,080
Speaker 1: to suck them and they're like, ship, well, what else

1150
00:58:50,080 --> 00:58:51,520
Speaker 1: do I have to do for you to keep sucking me?

1151
00:58:52,440 --> 00:58:54,040
Speaker 1: When they know you've got niggas on your line. The

1152
00:58:54,120 --> 00:58:57,000
Speaker 1: frame is different, you know, like they came in from

1153
00:58:57,200 --> 00:58:59,640
Speaker 1: with a different understanding. To me, I feel like it's

1154
00:58:59,760 --> 00:59:02,080
Speaker 1: not that hard for you to find a dude to

1155
00:59:02,200 --> 00:59:05,080
Speaker 1: break you out, and these guys experience, right, the ones

1156
00:59:05,120 --> 00:59:07,640
Speaker 1: that you're meeting right, you can and you're open about

1157
00:59:07,640 --> 00:59:09,440
Speaker 1: the men that are hitting up at least right now

1158
00:59:09,640 --> 00:59:12,200
Speaker 1: at this point in the game. Whereas for you, these

1159
00:59:12,240 --> 00:59:13,840
Speaker 1: are girls that really need to go to give them

1160
00:59:13,920 --> 00:59:16,160
Speaker 1: some cash. And if you're paying three hundred dollars to fun,

1161
00:59:17,280 --> 00:59:18,640
Speaker 1: if a bit just sucking for three and dollars, she

1162
00:59:18,680 --> 00:59:21,560
Speaker 1: needs money? Yeah, just need money, man, you know. And

1163
00:59:21,640 --> 00:59:26,160
Speaker 1: in in uh, you know, it's it's not that I

1164
00:59:26,240 --> 00:59:30,160
Speaker 1: don't care, it's just it's not you know what, I

1165
00:59:30,200 --> 00:59:31,680
Speaker 1: don't even want to touch on that. The part I

1166
00:59:31,760 --> 00:59:34,720
Speaker 1: want to get on is when you say you said,

1167
00:59:35,200 --> 00:59:38,240
Speaker 1: And that's why he has to write. Here's the thing

1168
00:59:39,920 --> 00:59:41,880
Speaker 1: I if I had to, I wouldn't be ashamed of

1169
00:59:41,880 --> 00:59:47,840
Speaker 1: that either. Rice with um because I can cook a

1170
00:59:47,960 --> 00:59:54,840
Speaker 1: pizza better than Dominoes. That's a lot of that's more effort.

1171
00:59:54,840 --> 00:59:56,160
Speaker 1: I gotta go buy this ship, I gotta go to

1172
00:59:56,160 --> 00:59:57,760
Speaker 1: the grocery store, I gotta come on, I gotta prepare it,

1173
00:59:58,200 --> 01:00:01,040
Speaker 1: or I gotta hit the fucking the app. And that's

1174
01:00:01,080 --> 01:00:04,400
Speaker 1: just shows up, right, and and it's not even being

1175
01:00:04,480 --> 01:00:07,400
Speaker 1: being lazy. It's more like, you know, times your most

1176
01:00:07,480 --> 01:00:10,360
Speaker 1: valuable asset. Right, So if if I really don't, I

1177
01:00:10,360 --> 01:00:13,560
Speaker 1: don't want to be the relationship, not not just because

1178
01:00:13,600 --> 01:00:16,560
Speaker 1: I'm an asshole or dick. It's probably some of that too, right,

1179
01:00:16,960 --> 01:00:19,680
Speaker 1: but it's more so I don't have the the time

1180
01:00:19,800 --> 01:00:22,360
Speaker 1: to give a relationship what it deserves, right for real,

1181
01:00:22,440 --> 01:00:26,040
Speaker 1: I'm gonna be honest about that. Uh So the circumvent that,

1182
01:00:26,120 --> 01:00:30,120
Speaker 1: all right, I set up the situation where, um, you know,

1183
01:00:30,160 --> 01:00:33,840
Speaker 1: I know what's up. They just they can just come

1184
01:00:33,920 --> 01:00:36,560
Speaker 1: through if they're done with that, and then that's you

1185
01:00:36,800 --> 01:00:40,600
Speaker 1: make problem. Yeah, that's probably the most sense you made. Yeah, yeah,

1186
01:00:40,760 --> 01:00:43,960
Speaker 1: kind of you don't really make none, but it's cool. Anyways,

1187
01:00:44,000 --> 01:00:47,440
Speaker 1: we appreciate you coming onto the show. You are anonymous,

1188
01:00:47,480 --> 01:00:51,160
Speaker 1: so unfortunately, ladies, you can't know who this guy is, um,

1189
01:00:51,240 --> 01:00:53,600
Speaker 1: but we appreciate that. Um. Fellows. If you have any

1190
01:00:53,680 --> 01:00:58,880
Speaker 1: questions UM relating to sugaring or maybe any experiences or stories,

1191
01:00:58,920 --> 01:01:00,600
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01:01:00,640 --> 01:01:03,440
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Speaker 1: me every day well at full core Pumps. Before we

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01:01:11,160 --> 01:01:13,880
Speaker 1: cut this show off, let's talk about in November six. Okay,

1196
01:01:14,400 --> 01:01:16,640
Speaker 1: we're both from Florida. There was a piece of ship

1197
01:01:16,720 --> 01:01:19,200
Speaker 1: governor that I had in my time named Rick Scott,

1198
01:01:19,520 --> 01:01:23,439
Speaker 1: a dick. Okay, he could have definitely helped convict Georgie's nan,

1199
01:01:23,520 --> 01:01:25,480
Speaker 1: but he didn't. And I hate to get on this

1200
01:01:25,600 --> 01:01:27,880
Speaker 1: with y'all, but we finally have a black man who's

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01:01:27,920 --> 01:01:30,400
Speaker 1: running for governor in Florida and he's dope. Go out

1202
01:01:30,440 --> 01:01:32,360
Speaker 1: and vote, and you guys should go and vote and listen.

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01:01:32,880 --> 01:01:37,000
Speaker 1: If you can't vote right, use your car to pick

1204
01:01:37,040 --> 01:01:40,360
Speaker 1: people up to vote, convince other people, use your social

1205
01:01:40,400 --> 01:01:42,760
Speaker 1: media if you're an influencer, if you've got some leverage,

1206
01:01:42,880 --> 01:01:45,800
Speaker 1: like there's a fucking asshole in office, because y'all, motherfucker's

1207
01:01:45,800 --> 01:01:48,840
Speaker 1: in Florida's less the fuck down. Okay, So do me

1208
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Speaker 1: a favor, Wheezy, take a picture of you with your

1209
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Speaker 1: voting sicker, and I'm gonna send you a kiss or

1210
01:01:54,960 --> 01:01:59,360
Speaker 1: maybe a cleavage shot. Yeah that so um, go ahead

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Speaker 1: and vote again, And thank you guys so much for

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