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Okay, first of all, you were not here 31 00:01:33,520 --> 00:01:36,040 Speaker 1: for a girl's only podcast. Well I was kicked out 32 00:01:36,080 --> 00:01:39,319 Speaker 1: of the room for that one. Yes, and Garrett had 33 00:01:39,360 --> 00:01:40,880 Speaker 1: to run the board. A couple you've missed, A couple 34 00:01:41,920 --> 00:01:44,960 Speaker 1: had a sales meeting, everybody else's. That's not perfect attendance. 35 00:01:45,000 --> 00:01:46,720 Speaker 1: By the way, I didn't know that there was attendance 36 00:01:47,400 --> 00:01:49,920 Speaker 1: when this was pitched. Originally it was you come to 37 00:01:49,960 --> 00:01:52,360 Speaker 1: the ones you can come to. Okay, I didn't know 38 00:01:52,440 --> 00:01:56,120 Speaker 1: it was mandatory because it was never told. But if 39 00:01:56,160 --> 00:02:00,040 Speaker 1: but you have had great attendance, and congratulate, thank you, 40 00:02:00,480 --> 00:02:02,800 Speaker 1: thank you. I wonder who else has had really good 41 00:02:02,840 --> 00:02:05,200 Speaker 1: attendance Bethany and me. No, I I've not had the 42 00:02:05,240 --> 00:02:08,680 Speaker 1: best attendance recovering. Thanks man, But I've had stuff that 43 00:02:08,720 --> 00:02:10,600 Speaker 1: I could not be moved a those days you weren't 44 00:02:10,600 --> 00:02:12,920 Speaker 1: here because you had stuff that I was here. Okay. 45 00:02:13,200 --> 00:02:15,520 Speaker 1: And by the way, we got a text message yesterday 46 00:02:15,560 --> 00:02:17,280 Speaker 1: at this time that said, I don't know if you 47 00:02:17,280 --> 00:02:21,560 Speaker 1: guys are recording the podcast yet, But Brody's right. Of 48 00:02:21,639 --> 00:02:24,720 Speaker 1: those texts text message comes in every day at this time, yes, 49 00:02:24,720 --> 00:02:26,600 Speaker 1: but the ones that say I'm right without even knowing 50 00:02:26,600 --> 00:02:29,680 Speaker 1: what I've said yet, love the love that those are fun. Okay, Um, 51 00:02:30,200 --> 00:02:33,000 Speaker 1: good job, scary, thank you. Yes, I'm letting for validation. 52 00:02:33,000 --> 00:02:35,359 Speaker 1: You get it. You know what you get an attendance. 53 00:02:35,639 --> 00:02:38,639 Speaker 1: One of those people that are seeking validation. Okay, don't 54 00:02:38,800 --> 00:02:42,200 Speaker 1: use validation sometimes, now, don't. Isn't there something that's similar 55 00:02:42,200 --> 00:02:44,440 Speaker 1: going on in your life with people looking for validation 56 00:02:44,520 --> 00:02:46,400 Speaker 1: or is it something completely do know you? This is 57 00:02:46,400 --> 00:02:53,079 Speaker 1: actually a very good point. Um. Do you guys have 58 00:02:53,120 --> 00:02:56,760 Speaker 1: those friends? We're the only time you hear from them 59 00:02:56,919 --> 00:03:00,360 Speaker 1: is when they're asking you if you're mad at them? Oh, 60 00:03:00,440 --> 00:03:03,000 Speaker 1: all the time I have. I have. And the reason 61 00:03:03,000 --> 00:03:04,880 Speaker 1: I'm thinking about this is because it happened this morning. 62 00:03:05,320 --> 00:03:11,119 Speaker 1: I have this friend who I adore. I adore him, 63 00:03:11,160 --> 00:03:13,840 Speaker 1: but he lives back home, and so I don't get 64 00:03:13,880 --> 00:03:17,200 Speaker 1: to see him very often. And he's always on Facebook. 65 00:03:17,240 --> 00:03:20,200 Speaker 1: And I don't use Facebook. I only use Facebook for work, 66 00:03:20,280 --> 00:03:23,079 Speaker 1: but I don't use it for personal stuff at all. 67 00:03:23,160 --> 00:03:25,079 Speaker 1: By the way, is that's why were we are still 68 00:03:25,080 --> 00:03:27,440 Speaker 1: not friends on Facebook after four years? Also, when you 69 00:03:27,480 --> 00:03:30,560 Speaker 1: say back at home, you're referring to twelve states west 70 00:03:30,560 --> 00:03:34,520 Speaker 1: of where you live now, correct? Okay? So um? Yes? So, 71 00:03:34,520 --> 00:03:36,960 Speaker 1: so we just never connect because he's always he I 72 00:03:37,000 --> 00:03:38,640 Speaker 1: guess what I found out this morning is he's always 73 00:03:38,640 --> 00:03:40,440 Speaker 1: trying to reach out to me on Facebook. And that's 74 00:03:40,440 --> 00:03:42,680 Speaker 1: why I never see it. And so there have been 75 00:03:42,720 --> 00:03:44,960 Speaker 1: several times in the past like year, where he'll just 76 00:03:45,040 --> 00:03:46,880 Speaker 1: randomly text me and go, are you mad at me? 77 00:03:47,400 --> 00:03:49,000 Speaker 1: And I'm like, no, I'm not, of course not. Why 78 00:03:49,000 --> 00:03:50,520 Speaker 1: would I be mad at you? Because I never hear 79 00:03:50,520 --> 00:03:53,320 Speaker 1: from you. You never respond. So this morning, are you 80 00:03:53,320 --> 00:03:55,880 Speaker 1: mad at me? And I was like no, that came 81 00:03:55,920 --> 00:03:59,560 Speaker 1: doing Facebook on a text message and and I finally 82 00:03:59,600 --> 00:04:03,400 Speaker 1: realized is what had happened in the miscommunication? What happened? 83 00:04:03,440 --> 00:04:06,000 Speaker 1: What happened. But it made me realize, like I've had 84 00:04:06,000 --> 00:04:08,160 Speaker 1: friends in the past as well. Who were those are 85 00:04:08,160 --> 00:04:11,520 Speaker 1: you mad at me? Friends? And they were only they 86 00:04:11,560 --> 00:04:14,000 Speaker 1: only reached out when they were worried about me. Two 87 00:04:14,040 --> 00:04:17,839 Speaker 1: things regarding this. First of all, don't try and reach 88 00:04:17,880 --> 00:04:20,359 Speaker 1: out to me on Facebook as your first means of 89 00:04:20,400 --> 00:04:21,800 Speaker 1: trying to reach out to me, because I'm not going 90 00:04:21,839 --> 00:04:23,480 Speaker 1: to see your ship. I'm not going to see your 91 00:04:23,480 --> 00:04:26,440 Speaker 1: invite to your party. You want me text me, send 92 00:04:26,480 --> 00:04:30,000 Speaker 1: an email even that, or sit sad something that gets 93 00:04:30,040 --> 00:04:32,840 Speaker 1: in my face other than a notification that runs in 94 00:04:32,880 --> 00:04:35,839 Speaker 1: the background while I have five other notifications on Facebook, 95 00:04:35,960 --> 00:04:37,720 Speaker 1: I'm going to miss your party if that's the only 96 00:04:37,760 --> 00:04:40,800 Speaker 1: way you're gonna invite me to same thing. Don't direct 97 00:04:40,800 --> 00:04:43,240 Speaker 1: message me on Facebook. Facebook to me is this is 98 00:04:43,279 --> 00:04:46,760 Speaker 1: a tertiary way of communication, and so is Instagram d 99 00:04:46,960 --> 00:04:48,680 Speaker 1: M or Twitter d M or any of that crap. 100 00:04:48,920 --> 00:04:51,320 Speaker 1: So get in my face. So, first of all, where 101 00:04:51,320 --> 00:04:55,159 Speaker 1: he got went wrong is he should have started dialogue 102 00:04:55,320 --> 00:04:59,599 Speaker 1: with you on its via text because you he knows 103 00:04:59,640 --> 00:05:02,040 Speaker 1: it's going to pop up. And now if he does 104 00:05:02,080 --> 00:05:05,200 Speaker 1: two or three unanswered text throughout the week, then I 105 00:05:05,200 --> 00:05:08,200 Speaker 1: would assume, Okay, she's mad at me. Yeah, But so 106 00:05:08,200 --> 00:05:10,000 Speaker 1: so there's that. But The second thing that I think 107 00:05:10,000 --> 00:05:13,120 Speaker 1: he think he has going on is he's an insecure bastard. 108 00:05:13,320 --> 00:05:20,640 Speaker 1: No no, no, no, well he's he's actually he's really lovely. 109 00:05:20,640 --> 00:05:22,520 Speaker 1: And I think that the reason that he was so 110 00:05:22,560 --> 00:05:25,960 Speaker 1: concerned is because we have been friends for a really 111 00:05:25,960 --> 00:05:29,320 Speaker 1: long time, and you know, just like have a I 112 00:05:29,440 --> 00:05:32,320 Speaker 1: just adore him. So how do you treat the people 113 00:05:32,360 --> 00:05:34,480 Speaker 1: you don't adore? Know he can get away with it 114 00:05:34,520 --> 00:05:39,040 Speaker 1: because it's been a miscommunication, Like it's legitimately been a miscommunication. 115 00:05:39,360 --> 00:05:42,200 Speaker 1: But like I've had friends in the past, especially in college, 116 00:05:42,600 --> 00:05:44,560 Speaker 1: who if you just don't talk to them for like 117 00:05:45,760 --> 00:05:48,400 Speaker 1: a month. If you don't, if you're like long distance 118 00:05:48,440 --> 00:05:50,600 Speaker 1: friends or people you went to high school with, they 119 00:05:50,640 --> 00:05:54,560 Speaker 1: get really passive. Aggressive. Communication works both ways. Why curse 120 00:05:54,640 --> 00:05:56,520 Speaker 1: the doctors when you could light a candle? You just 121 00:05:56,560 --> 00:05:59,080 Speaker 1: stole my line, which I stole from eleanor Rose. But 122 00:05:59,200 --> 00:06:01,640 Speaker 1: it's true, though, Why don't these people just jump in 123 00:06:02,240 --> 00:06:04,960 Speaker 1: rather than start with are you mad at me? Start 124 00:06:05,000 --> 00:06:08,279 Speaker 1: with something positive that moves the conversation because they can't 125 00:06:08,320 --> 00:06:11,119 Speaker 1: imagine that Bethany wouldn't contact them or write them back. 126 00:06:11,480 --> 00:06:14,679 Speaker 1: She must be mad. But do you need a starting 127 00:06:14,720 --> 00:06:18,480 Speaker 1: point that says, I never mad at you unless I say, hey, 128 00:06:18,480 --> 00:06:21,640 Speaker 1: I'm mad at you. There needs to be that because 129 00:06:21,920 --> 00:06:25,320 Speaker 1: because the flip side of this is the person who, 130 00:06:25,440 --> 00:06:28,800 Speaker 1: when you don't contact them, is mad at you. I got. 131 00:06:28,839 --> 00:06:29,960 Speaker 1: I don't know if you guys saw that on my 132 00:06:29,960 --> 00:06:33,000 Speaker 1: birthday in January. I have a somebody I grew up with. 133 00:06:33,000 --> 00:06:35,760 Speaker 1: We were friends through our childhood and into the early teens, 134 00:06:35,880 --> 00:06:39,520 Speaker 1: and then we weren't and our families were friends, so 135 00:06:39,720 --> 00:06:41,719 Speaker 1: we would see each other occasionally, but we weren't like 136 00:06:41,760 --> 00:06:45,359 Speaker 1: friends friends. A good guy. And then I think I 137 00:06:45,360 --> 00:06:49,279 Speaker 1: saw him at a funeral seven or eight years ago. Yeah, 138 00:06:49,320 --> 00:06:52,320 Speaker 1: but not socially in since I got married. He was 139 00:06:52,360 --> 00:06:55,720 Speaker 1: at my wedding and it was my birthday, and my 140 00:06:55,839 --> 00:07:01,800 Speaker 1: birthday wish from him was happy birthday, even though to me, 141 00:07:02,160 --> 00:07:04,359 Speaker 1: my brother and I are dead to you and you 142 00:07:04,440 --> 00:07:07,560 Speaker 1: probably don't even remember who we are anymore. But I 143 00:07:07,600 --> 00:07:12,520 Speaker 1: guess happy birthday. But I guess happy birthday. It was 144 00:07:12,560 --> 00:07:19,040 Speaker 1: something like that about to play No, it's not the 145 00:07:19,040 --> 00:07:23,280 Speaker 1: curb your enthusiast. I was ready for that. I wrote 146 00:07:23,280 --> 00:07:28,800 Speaker 1: that one. No. You know what, though, those people are 147 00:07:28,920 --> 00:07:32,880 Speaker 1: fun to like have around a little bit because they 148 00:07:33,000 --> 00:07:35,600 Speaker 1: remind you how not to live your life. Yes, but 149 00:07:35,760 --> 00:07:39,520 Speaker 1: is that my My guess is the intention there was 150 00:07:39,560 --> 00:07:43,040 Speaker 1: that I would see it feel bad and say, this 151 00:07:43,120 --> 00:07:45,800 Speaker 1: is the kind of person I really want to cultivate 152 00:07:45,840 --> 00:07:50,120 Speaker 1: a friendship with. Again, he won me over because now 153 00:07:50,160 --> 00:07:51,920 Speaker 1: I know if I don't call him for two weeks, 154 00:07:51,960 --> 00:07:54,880 Speaker 1: once the friendship is back on, he'll give me guilt 155 00:07:54,920 --> 00:07:56,640 Speaker 1: about how if I was dead, you wouldn't know it. 156 00:07:58,360 --> 00:08:01,800 Speaker 1: I no, now you're more dead to me. But the 157 00:08:01,840 --> 00:08:04,119 Speaker 1: best thing, this is the best thing about those people 158 00:08:04,560 --> 00:08:06,120 Speaker 1: is that if you don't want to be friends with 159 00:08:06,200 --> 00:08:09,400 Speaker 1: them anymore, it requires nothing from you because they're going 160 00:08:09,440 --> 00:08:12,840 Speaker 1: to terminate the friendship themselves because we've already terminated it 161 00:08:12,880 --> 00:08:15,680 Speaker 1: in their heads up. And the difficult thing with friendships 162 00:08:15,720 --> 00:08:20,240 Speaker 1: is that friendships we've all you know, experienced this, and 163 00:08:20,800 --> 00:08:24,000 Speaker 1: some friendships just fizzle out and they are no longer 164 00:08:24,960 --> 00:08:28,160 Speaker 1: they didn't know longer work. But it's not like relationships. 165 00:08:28,160 --> 00:08:30,200 Speaker 1: There's never we've never been taught how to break up 166 00:08:30,200 --> 00:08:32,960 Speaker 1: in a friendships. So so it's really nice. When do 167 00:08:33,080 --> 00:08:35,040 Speaker 1: people do it themselves when the other friend just does 168 00:08:35,040 --> 00:08:37,520 Speaker 1: it themselves, Well, let me ask you this. Then if 169 00:08:38,960 --> 00:08:41,160 Speaker 1: somebody falls out of your life over the course of 170 00:08:41,240 --> 00:08:44,240 Speaker 1: years because it was a childhood thing and then all 171 00:08:44,240 --> 00:08:47,480 Speaker 1: of a sudden they're trying. There's a couple of dudes 172 00:08:47,520 --> 00:08:49,960 Speaker 1: that I know from college. I'm not going to give names, 173 00:08:50,760 --> 00:08:55,600 Speaker 1: my guest know in your neighborhood, Anthony and Mike, Joe 174 00:08:55,880 --> 00:08:59,760 Speaker 1: and Veto. The thing is, I haven't Back then, we 175 00:08:59,840 --> 00:09:02,120 Speaker 1: were weren't that great friends. We were kind of acquaintances. 176 00:09:02,480 --> 00:09:04,959 Speaker 1: But it's like I don't have room in my life 177 00:09:05,000 --> 00:09:07,240 Speaker 1: now to make them full time friends. But I know 178 00:09:07,280 --> 00:09:10,319 Speaker 1: that sounds like such a jerky but it's scumback thing. 179 00:09:10,880 --> 00:09:14,959 Speaker 1: But I don't you know, I'm not gonna I'm not 180 00:09:14,960 --> 00:09:17,320 Speaker 1: gonna entertain it because I I have to at some 181 00:09:17,440 --> 00:09:20,320 Speaker 1: point put the stuff, you know, put a kabash on this. 182 00:09:20,480 --> 00:09:22,880 Speaker 1: I have to stop it. I can't because I have 183 00:09:22,920 --> 00:09:25,040 Speaker 1: other things and other people in other relationships. It's like 184 00:09:25,080 --> 00:09:27,800 Speaker 1: my whole life is balancing plates, you know, along with 185 00:09:27,840 --> 00:09:31,000 Speaker 1: business and other things. So they just don't they're not 186 00:09:31,040 --> 00:09:33,280 Speaker 1: a fit for me right now. I can't they you're 187 00:09:33,280 --> 00:09:35,400 Speaker 1: telling me to break up with the person over text 188 00:09:35,480 --> 00:09:39,160 Speaker 1: or something up with then then how do you you 189 00:09:39,360 --> 00:09:42,440 Speaker 1: That's what I'm saying. It's really hard. I sent an 190 00:09:42,440 --> 00:09:44,559 Speaker 1: email with someone I was having a problem with where 191 00:09:44,600 --> 00:09:46,320 Speaker 1: they were like, oh, we should get together, we should 192 00:09:46,360 --> 00:09:48,839 Speaker 1: hang out because they moved within like a half twenty 193 00:09:48,840 --> 00:09:51,280 Speaker 1: minutes half hour of where I live, and they were like, oh, 194 00:09:51,360 --> 00:09:53,679 Speaker 1: you know, I'm not that far. We should oh when 195 00:09:54,200 --> 00:09:57,880 Speaker 1: So I finally wrote an email back and I said, Um, 196 00:09:57,920 --> 00:10:00,000 Speaker 1: you know, my life is really kind of crazy. I've 197 00:10:00,040 --> 00:10:02,400 Speaker 1: hectic schedule. I work very early in the morning till 198 00:10:02,440 --> 00:10:04,960 Speaker 1: very late at night, and I have three kids. I 199 00:10:05,000 --> 00:10:07,120 Speaker 1: barely have time for them. What little time I have 200 00:10:07,160 --> 00:10:09,440 Speaker 1: on the weekends I spend with them. I really don't 201 00:10:09,480 --> 00:10:12,840 Speaker 1: socialize a lot, and I really have to kind of uh. 202 00:10:12,880 --> 00:10:15,160 Speaker 1: As much as I'd love to get together, I really 203 00:10:15,160 --> 00:10:18,800 Speaker 1: have to minimize to get togethers with the really the 204 00:10:18,840 --> 00:10:21,120 Speaker 1: top of the list, stuff like my family and my 205 00:10:21,240 --> 00:10:24,240 Speaker 1: one or two close friends. It's not personal, it's my life. 206 00:10:24,240 --> 00:10:29,400 Speaker 1: It's like, it's not your people. And the only problem 207 00:10:29,480 --> 00:10:31,840 Speaker 1: is you have no family, you have no kids, you 208 00:10:31,880 --> 00:10:34,160 Speaker 1: have no plans, you don't work late, you're always out 209 00:10:34,160 --> 00:10:37,120 Speaker 1: in the clubs. I have no excuse, so you don't 210 00:10:37,120 --> 00:10:39,160 Speaker 1: you don't get to use that. You're like, oh, I 211 00:10:39,200 --> 00:10:41,160 Speaker 1: was gonna go for brunch by myself. I'm gonna go 212 00:10:41,160 --> 00:10:43,000 Speaker 1: out to dinner by You know, you go out all 213 00:10:43,040 --> 00:10:45,440 Speaker 1: the time. You don't really have a way out. You're left. 214 00:10:45,960 --> 00:10:48,120 Speaker 1: You are kind of aft because you go out. You 215 00:10:48,160 --> 00:10:50,520 Speaker 1: go out with like large groups of people a lot. Yeah, 216 00:10:50,559 --> 00:10:52,319 Speaker 1: where another guy could just swim right in wouldn't be 217 00:10:52,320 --> 00:10:54,319 Speaker 1: a problem, couldn't you like swoop that person in A 218 00:10:54,440 --> 00:10:56,439 Speaker 1: table for eleven and table for twelve is the same thing. 219 00:10:56,640 --> 00:10:59,520 Speaker 1: It's not not when the two groups don't mix. I 220 00:10:59,520 --> 00:11:01,640 Speaker 1: mean we I have a long standing rapport with my 221 00:11:01,720 --> 00:11:04,800 Speaker 1: close new group of friends. We have our own inside jokes, 222 00:11:04,800 --> 00:11:08,839 Speaker 1: our own inside language. So to bring some random outsider 223 00:11:08,960 --> 00:11:10,880 Speaker 1: to that that I knew from a different circle of 224 00:11:10,880 --> 00:11:13,200 Speaker 1: friends at a different time in my life would just 225 00:11:13,280 --> 00:11:16,520 Speaker 1: be it's a little strange, really awkward. It is really weird. 226 00:11:16,559 --> 00:11:18,480 Speaker 1: Like I have a friend, a friend. I think this 227 00:11:18,559 --> 00:11:20,680 Speaker 1: is an international problem. How do you break up with 228 00:11:20,720 --> 00:11:24,719 Speaker 1: friends in France and anywhere? Like, because I have a 229 00:11:24,760 --> 00:11:29,040 Speaker 1: friend who I am pretty sure has joined a cult 230 00:11:31,640 --> 00:11:35,400 Speaker 1: and I'm not exaggerating, and I think this friend is 231 00:11:35,520 --> 00:11:39,320 Speaker 1: trying to recruit me into the cult. Like since we've 232 00:11:39,360 --> 00:11:45,760 Speaker 1: been friends, this person has gotten so like so devoted 233 00:11:46,320 --> 00:11:53,080 Speaker 1: to this organization organization and really has started to go 234 00:11:53,200 --> 00:11:55,560 Speaker 1: from having like a really lovely smile to sort of 235 00:11:55,600 --> 00:11:59,800 Speaker 1: having crazy eyes, Like the Pussian's face has changed, and 236 00:12:00,840 --> 00:12:04,800 Speaker 1: they I don't know how to end the friendship because 237 00:12:04,840 --> 00:12:08,440 Speaker 1: they're a little bit unhinged. Well, it's like it's just 238 00:12:08,520 --> 00:12:10,800 Speaker 1: the we like and that's an extreme example of why 239 00:12:10,840 --> 00:12:13,640 Speaker 1: friendships end. But like, there is no way to end 240 00:12:13,679 --> 00:12:16,880 Speaker 1: a friendship beautifully. At some point they'll reach level five 241 00:12:16,880 --> 00:12:18,880 Speaker 1: and not be allowed to speak to the Heathens anymore. 242 00:12:19,240 --> 00:12:21,240 Speaker 1: Kind of hope, So you should be fine because right 243 00:12:21,240 --> 00:12:23,520 Speaker 1: now I'm still in the recruitment phase. Are they're trying 244 00:12:23,520 --> 00:12:25,280 Speaker 1: to sell She's trying to sell you poppies like little 245 00:12:25,280 --> 00:12:27,880 Speaker 1: flowers like they're they're trying to Yeah, they're trying to 246 00:12:27,960 --> 00:12:29,960 Speaker 1: like get me to come to things. Well, don't come 247 00:12:30,000 --> 00:12:34,719 Speaker 1: to things. I don't want to yet. If you two 248 00:12:34,800 --> 00:12:36,640 Speaker 1: guys hang out all the time, you can be each 249 00:12:36,640 --> 00:12:40,840 Speaker 1: other's excuse. Scary really needs me. He's an emotional wreck. Bethany, 250 00:12:40,920 --> 00:12:43,280 Speaker 1: you know Bethany. She's she needs Bethany. I don't hang 251 00:12:43,280 --> 00:12:45,280 Speaker 1: out enough. Well, that's what I'm saying. We really need 252 00:12:45,320 --> 00:12:47,720 Speaker 1: to hang out more. By the way. I mean, I 253 00:12:47,760 --> 00:12:49,760 Speaker 1: mentioned a minute ago that there's really no difference in 254 00:12:49,800 --> 00:12:51,920 Speaker 1: a table for eleven and the table for twelve. That 255 00:12:51,920 --> 00:12:57,120 Speaker 1: will be tomorrow's podcast. Rant. Yeah, I've got a table reservations. Rant. Oh, well, 256 00:12:57,160 --> 00:12:59,080 Speaker 1: you always I don't know if you guys know this trick, 257 00:12:59,200 --> 00:13:02,800 Speaker 1: but you always start with the higher amount for the 258 00:13:02,840 --> 00:13:05,839 Speaker 1: restaurant and then just you know, tell them a lower amount. 259 00:13:05,840 --> 00:13:08,720 Speaker 1: It's easier to go from twelve to eleven if someone 260 00:13:08,760 --> 00:13:10,840 Speaker 1: doesn't show up, or twelve to eight, or you know, 261 00:13:11,120 --> 00:13:14,720 Speaker 1: six to four, rather than having a table of four 262 00:13:14,920 --> 00:13:16,400 Speaker 1: and then two extra people come to the party. And 263 00:13:16,600 --> 00:13:19,080 Speaker 1: so sometimes I kind of like when I call a restaurant, 264 00:13:19,080 --> 00:13:22,200 Speaker 1: I actually add two invisible people to the less smart 265 00:13:22,320 --> 00:13:24,959 Speaker 1: except when you're a table for eight, and then they 266 00:13:24,960 --> 00:13:26,760 Speaker 1: put two fours together and then you tell me you 267 00:13:26,800 --> 00:13:28,760 Speaker 1: were six. Then they got to move a four put 268 00:13:28,760 --> 00:13:30,679 Speaker 1: it too, and they pissed you that they didn't have 269 00:13:30,720 --> 00:13:33,480 Speaker 1: anybody because there's people waiting for that four and they're 270 00:13:33,480 --> 00:13:35,880 Speaker 1: spent in your food. No, they don't stop it, but 271 00:13:36,240 --> 00:13:38,600 Speaker 1: I needed to think that I've just accommodated two people 272 00:13:38,679 --> 00:13:40,480 Speaker 1: unexpectedly that are on their waiting. Well, you know, who 273 00:13:40,480 --> 00:13:42,600 Speaker 1: could sit at those two seats, your two buddies from 274 00:13:42,640 --> 00:13:46,800 Speaker 1: high school to be blown off, Tony and Vinnie, oh, 275 00:13:48,520 --> 00:13:58,959 Speaker 1: Zeppi and Guido and Bethany. Have you ever met a Nunzio? 276 00:13:59,160 --> 00:14:00,760 Speaker 1: You all forget You're not going to meet him in 277 00:14:00,800 --> 00:14:03,040 Speaker 1: law school. No offense to any Nunzio's name. You know 278 00:14:03,280 --> 00:14:06,520 Speaker 1: who are lawyers, but just Nunzio is the guy who 279 00:14:06,640 --> 00:14:09,319 Speaker 1: is at the pizza place when you got there, But no, 280 00:14:09,360 --> 00:14:12,040 Speaker 1: at what time you showed up. He's already Nunzio. He's 281 00:14:12,040 --> 00:14:17,240 Speaker 1: already there is Nunzio short for something. Yeah, Nunzio is 282 00:14:19,080 --> 00:14:23,600 Speaker 1: short for a plastic surgeons. How do you spell nunzio? 283 00:14:24,320 --> 00:14:26,040 Speaker 1: And you like, hold on? How do you think you 284 00:14:26,080 --> 00:14:36,200 Speaker 1: spell it exactly? That's a real name, yeah, Nunzio, nun Nunzio. Yeah, yeah, 285 00:14:36,320 --> 00:14:38,680 Speaker 1: you looking at me like that road you know that 286 00:14:38,680 --> 00:14:43,040 Speaker 1: are plastic surgeons. I don't I know, but I made it. Okay, now, Nunzio, 287 00:14:43,040 --> 00:14:46,720 Speaker 1: plastic surgeons are gonna call you unfortunate names like okay, 288 00:14:46,800 --> 00:14:50,240 Speaker 1: we don't know, Okay, hold on when we play this, 289 00:14:50,400 --> 00:14:52,480 Speaker 1: like I'm giving you an example, like when we play 290 00:14:52,520 --> 00:14:56,040 Speaker 1: all Rosalie's hold on, not TRAMPI but no, but we 291 00:14:56,080 --> 00:14:58,840 Speaker 1: play that game on the Elvis Duran Morning Show. There 292 00:14:58,840 --> 00:15:02,960 Speaker 1: are eleven people timing in and it's Elvis's show. When 293 00:15:02,960 --> 00:15:05,440 Speaker 1: there's three of us on a little podcast that, by 294 00:15:05,480 --> 00:15:08,080 Speaker 1: the way, please spread the word with a thirty seven 295 00:15:08,080 --> 00:15:10,360 Speaker 1: of you that tweet us and love this podcast, please 296 00:15:10,360 --> 00:15:12,400 Speaker 1: spread the word and send the links out with each 297 00:15:13,640 --> 00:15:17,160 Speaker 1: But here's the thing. When you, Bethany and I um 298 00:15:17,600 --> 00:15:21,160 Speaker 1: send out the Oh every Nunzio is not a rocket scientist. 299 00:15:21,600 --> 00:15:23,880 Speaker 1: Nunzio is gonna show up here and beat our ass. 300 00:15:23,920 --> 00:15:26,920 Speaker 1: So I love Nunzio. And if I don't say that 301 00:15:26,960 --> 00:15:30,400 Speaker 1: I don't love Nunzio, let's just say we've never met Nunzio, 302 00:15:30,640 --> 00:15:34,280 Speaker 1: who's a plastic surgeon. You know what. Tweet us and 303 00:15:34,400 --> 00:15:37,640 Speaker 1: use hashtag Nunzio. I've had Nunzio work on my car. 304 00:15:37,760 --> 00:15:40,320 Speaker 1: If you want to comment on Nunzio, I just I 305 00:15:40,400 --> 00:15:42,320 Speaker 1: just think you're setting your son up for failure. I 306 00:15:42,320 --> 00:15:46,280 Speaker 1: don't think you pick your own name. Oh oh in uh. 307 00:15:47,120 --> 00:15:52,040 Speaker 1: Somewhere there's a Anthony Nunzio Labruna, who is a plastic 308 00:15:52,120 --> 00:16:00,120 Speaker 1: z Bizarrow World. That's where fifteen minute morning show m.