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Speaker 1: Scrubbing In with Beca Tilly and Tanya rad and iHeartRadio

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Speaker 1: and two times People's Choice Award winning.

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Speaker 2: Podcast, Hello everybody, Happy Monday. We're scrubbing in Tanya.

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Speaker 3: Happy Monday.

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Speaker 2: How are you feeling off the Golden Globes?

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Speaker 3: So good and unslept? So you know it's gonna be

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Speaker 3: a great show because I like, actually can't form words anymore.

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Speaker 2: Do you see what I wrote?

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Speaker 3: Cecil B. Demill?

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Speaker 2: What is that?

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Speaker 3: So it's this award that went to Jane Fonda at

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Speaker 3: the Globes last night. But for some reason, I don't

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Speaker 3: I don't. I don't know if I haven't spoken or

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Speaker 3: I don't know, like why I was so nervous, But

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Speaker 3: I was so nervous about mispronouncing stuff at the Globes

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Speaker 3: last night.

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Speaker 1: For sure, especially this year. There's so many unfamiliar names

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Speaker 1: this year.

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Speaker 3: Daniel Kaylujah and yeah, just like a bunch of news.

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Speaker 3: So I was spelled Cecil B. Demill. That's an award

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Speaker 3: that goes out every single year, and yet for some

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Speaker 3: reason I needed to spell it out the way that

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Speaker 3: it sounds like I.

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Speaker 2: Would love to see the real spelling.

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Speaker 3: I'm like, it's like it's like ce I so did

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Speaker 4: C no cecil ce c e C I L b.

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Speaker 2: M I l l e cecil B.

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Speaker 4: Well in his case is cecil.

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Speaker 3: That's why I wrote it like that love that well,

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Speaker 3: I do have to say.

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Speaker 2: I mean I walked, I walked into Tanya's place and

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Speaker 2: I was like, listen, I think you had one of

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Speaker 2: the best looks of the whole evening. And I say

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Speaker 2: that not even being biased as your best friend. Like

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Speaker 2: I when you couse you sent me the dress when

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Speaker 2: you had your fitting, but you weren't like all you know.

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Speaker 2: There was no like hair makeup and.

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Speaker 3: No no, no, the opposite of hair makeup. I was like,

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Speaker 2: But I still was like, oh my gosh, this is

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Speaker 2: one of my favorite dresses. And then when I saw

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Speaker 2: the photo, I was like, this is unreal, Like I

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Speaker 2: do it every time there's every time you do an

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Speaker 2: award show, I go, this is my favorite look, yet

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Speaker 2: you continue to top it. But this one was like

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Speaker 2: your favorite. You shined, shown, you sparkled like a diamond.

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Speaker 3: Thank you. I honestly I felt like I feel like

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Speaker 3: I have this new mojo in me, like inside, and

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Speaker 3: I almost like and I don't want to give credit

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Speaker 3: where credit is due because I'm not really big on

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Speaker 3: that I wanted my look to be. They did the opposite,

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Speaker 3: like hair and makeup, and it turned out amazing. So

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Speaker 3: like this is one of those things of just trust

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Speaker 3: the people that know what they're doing, and are you

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Speaker 3: know what I mean like that, trust the X trust,

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Speaker 3: trust the experts, and let them do their thing. Because

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Speaker 3: I just gave everybody just said do what you want,

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Speaker 3: I trust you, And I ended up feeling and like

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Speaker 3: really feeling like a million bucks.

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Speaker 2: Did you hear anything? Did you have you heard anything

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Speaker 2: from Jason to how do I say this last thing?

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Speaker 3: Sadakis?

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Speaker 2: Have you heard anything from him? After your just shout

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Speaker 2: out directly into the screen the camera Linn.

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Speaker 3: They were like they said, Jason Sudiquez is watching right now,

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Speaker 3: what do you want to say to him about Ted Lasso?

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Speaker 3: And I just like went off on just a tangent

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Speaker 3: about the show and the character and how like just

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Speaker 3: positive and beautiful it is and how you deserve you.

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Speaker 3: I just like I went I went to town. I

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Speaker 3: have heard a lot from a lot of people about that.

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Speaker 2: But not him, not Jason, Jason and.

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Speaker 3: Jason, Jason and Jason.

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Speaker 1: Oh oh, by the way, Jason and Jason's are fun.

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Speaker 2: Phrase, just just fun Jason and Jason.

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Speaker 3: But honestly, it was such a weird feeling because the carpet,

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Speaker 3: and it was so empty, you know, it was so interesting,

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Speaker 3: searching Instagram to find people's looks because they're not Like

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Speaker 3: it was just not like that.

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Speaker 2: I applaud them for making it happen, you know, it's

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Speaker 2: so we're in such weird times and like everything being

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Speaker 2: over zoom and virtual, but the fact that they're like

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Speaker 2: I have to say it was I mean, I think

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Speaker 3: I know, and you know what it's it's the effort

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Speaker 3: and it's like people are trying and they're making the

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Speaker 3: was entertaining to watch. Did you watch any of the gloves?

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Speaker 2: Sure didn't.

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Speaker 3: Just I don't even seeing the array of just outfits.

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Speaker 2: Like I don't know, sure I'll hop on total fun. Well,

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Speaker 2: I have to say, I you know, after our conversation

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Speaker 2: and Tanya's scene that she was that she used as

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Speaker 2: an example to sell me on it came up. I

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Speaker 2: don't think I've never not laughed so hard.

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Speaker 4: Wow. I know.

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Speaker 2: You know what, though, I think it's just a different

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Speaker 2: kind of humor, Like I really enjoy sarcastic, kind of

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Speaker 3: And I love wholesome humor.

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Speaker 2: But even I was telling Tanya, like when I watch Friends,

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Speaker 3: And I think it's wholesome. It's wholesome. It's wholesome, but Likenky.

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Speaker 2: It's snarky, it's witty. Like every time I watch I

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Speaker 2: when I watch a comedy, I want that feeling where

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Speaker 1: So so you're gonna keep watching and see if you

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Speaker 1: like it more So, I actually I watched like a

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Speaker 2: Well, so I watched it with Haley and she was

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Speaker 2: we were both quite underwhelmed. That's I feel like Haley

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Speaker 3: It, okay, but she she goes, she goes.

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Speaker 2: I'm not opposed to like continuing to give it, you know,

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Speaker 2: always you know, sometimes you don't jump on board, right,

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Speaker 2: And so I took the same approach because y'all aren't

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Speaker 2: so I do like to give things a chance. But

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Speaker 2: then I did. I did not get I almost felt

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Speaker 3: The best part, that's the best line ever.

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Speaker 2: I almost felt like it was over my head, which

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Speaker 2: I don't like that feeling. And then I watched it

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Speaker 3: I mean, apparently my pitch worked because a lot of

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Speaker 3: scrubbers DMed me last week saying that they watched it

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Speaker 3: because we talked about it and that that specific line

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Speaker 2: Oh, there's a lot of there's a lot of people

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Speaker 2: who identify as a Tania. In our Facebook group.

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Speaker 3: Less than fifty percent i'd say, but.

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Speaker 2: I don't know. I think it's pretty. I think it's

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Speaker 1: I think it's even, and I would put a slight

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Speaker 2: I agree. I think so too, Like the Becca's aren't

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Speaker 3: Well, because it kind of explains because you don't love

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Speaker 2: But okay, so Shit's Creek. Though a lot of people

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Speaker 2: Two episodes maybe I can get through it, But a

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Speaker 1: I have to say, it does get better and I

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Speaker 4: That is a gauntlet if you're not enjoying it to

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Speaker 3: That's a lot of hours. But I do want to

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Speaker 3: I just appreciate them for letting that, letting me be me.

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Speaker 3: I really wanted to do this Alexis Rose a little

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Speaker 2: Been a viral moment.

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Speaker 3: Probably would have been a viral moment, but just for

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Speaker 3: really wonderful, wonderful time doing the show. So thank you

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Speaker 2: I think he hires you because they love you, and

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Speaker 2: that is part of you. Wanting to do The dance

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Speaker 2: from Shit's Creek is very on brand. So they were like,

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Speaker 2: They're like, yeah, of course, Tanya, anything you want. Well,

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Speaker 2: I so what time did you get home and go

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Speaker 3: That's the problem. So I was like ready to to

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Speaker 2: I could tell from your stories. I was like she's

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Speaker 3: I was like red d to go out, and I

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Speaker 3: one thirty or two. It's not looking good over here.

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Speaker 2: Okay.

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Speaker 1: I've always said the best shows when you haven't slept,

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Speaker 2: Yeah she did. It was a few yeah in comparisons.

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Speaker 2: No, I think there's the whole second season she's shedding

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Speaker 1: Yeah, wearing skin tight leather pants.

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Speaker 2: Yeah, she lip syncs lil bow wow like little Bow.

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Speaker 2: It wasn't great, It wasn't great, but the grease thing,

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Speaker 2: No, she got her mojo and her confidence and she

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00:21:07,640 --> 00:21:10,600
Speaker 2: started to feel sexy in her own skin, and she

444
00:21:10,760 --> 00:21:13,119
Speaker 2: was like, if you're gonna be with me, then you

445
00:21:13,160 --> 00:21:14,120
Speaker 2: better shape up.

446
00:21:17,440 --> 00:21:19,840
Speaker 1: But the point is, why would she want to be

447
00:21:19,960 --> 00:21:21,680
Speaker 1: with him He's been awful to her.

448
00:21:21,680 --> 00:21:23,840
Speaker 3: Because her heart is set on you.

449
00:21:24,240 --> 00:21:26,280
Speaker 2: They had summer loving, they.

450
00:21:26,200 --> 00:21:29,400
Speaker 1: Had they had she met the real Danny Zuka when

451
00:21:29,400 --> 00:21:31,040
Speaker 1: she realizes how awful this guy is.

452
00:21:31,080 --> 00:21:32,720
Speaker 4: She said, bye boy bye.

453
00:21:32,880 --> 00:21:35,919
Speaker 2: I know, but you know that because her heart was

454
00:21:35,960 --> 00:21:37,320
Speaker 2: set on someone and there.

455
00:21:37,320 --> 00:21:39,480
Speaker 1: The ries to grab her boob at the drive in,

456
00:21:39,680 --> 00:21:41,760
Speaker 1: that was when she should walk away from that guy.

457
00:21:41,880 --> 00:21:44,800
Speaker 2: Oh, I said he was he was disrespectful. He was

458
00:21:44,840 --> 00:21:47,119
Speaker 2: a boy. And she was saying, if you.

459
00:21:47,560 --> 00:21:51,840
Speaker 3: Need a man, because I needed a man and my

460
00:21:51,960 --> 00:21:53,280
Speaker 3: heart is set on you.

461
00:21:53,800 --> 00:21:55,840
Speaker 2: Yeah, in her heart. She had a summer.

462
00:21:55,680 --> 00:21:58,600
Speaker 3: Loven and you know what Selina Gome says, The heart

463
00:21:58,800 --> 00:22:05,640
Speaker 3: was what it was. And you know what Demie Levando.

464
00:22:05,400 --> 00:22:07,320
Speaker 2: Says, cool for the summer.

465
00:22:10,160 --> 00:22:11,679
Speaker 3: Sometimes you have to give your heart a break.

466
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Speaker 2: Oh yeah, and you know what Taylor says. The hate

467
00:22:17,320 --> 00:22:22,119
Speaker 2: is gonna hate hate, hate the right. Okay. You know

468
00:22:22,119 --> 00:22:24,719
Speaker 2: what Taylor says, You're fearless.

469
00:22:25,920 --> 00:22:29,800
Speaker 3: No, that's not it, she says you she said this morning, Yeah,

470
00:22:30,320 --> 00:22:31,000
Speaker 3: so good?

471
00:22:31,400 --> 00:22:36,359
Speaker 2: WHOA Yes, she did. My friend Taylor tweeted retweeted it

472
00:22:36,400 --> 00:22:39,959
Speaker 2: and said, Taylor Swift woke up and chose a violence.

473
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Speaker 3: I don't get it, like just like she chose sad.

474
00:22:46,320 --> 00:22:52,119
Speaker 2: Yeah, she went for it. Yeah she really did. I mean, listen,

475
00:22:52,800 --> 00:22:55,680
Speaker 2: I think Taylor's like, quit dragging my name through them

476
00:22:55,720 --> 00:22:56,400
Speaker 2: if you want to.

477
00:22:56,400 --> 00:22:59,680
Speaker 3: Have a joke, then it's not even about her name.

478
00:22:59,760 --> 00:23:01,520
Speaker 3: And I get she is the guinea. She is the

479
00:23:01,600 --> 00:23:04,919
Speaker 3: not the guinea, not the guinea, the pinpointer or the

480
00:23:05,200 --> 00:23:07,879
Speaker 3: poster child, post your child, post her child for the

481
00:23:08,000 --> 00:23:13,520
Speaker 3: like things that just expaminute, you know, like buffering uh

482
00:23:13,960 --> 00:23:17,200
Speaker 3: for the you know, she goes through men like toilet

483
00:23:17,200 --> 00:23:20,399
Speaker 3: paper or whatever. And it's just like guys do that

484
00:23:20,680 --> 00:23:24,840
Speaker 3: all the time, all the time, and they don't get

485
00:23:24,960 --> 00:23:27,200
Speaker 3: dragged through the mud, they don't get it brought up

486
00:23:27,440 --> 00:23:30,200
Speaker 3: all the time. It's like so crazy that she's still

487
00:23:30,240 --> 00:23:31,000
Speaker 3: living in this.

488
00:23:32,359 --> 00:23:39,280
Speaker 2: Thing. She just writes master songs about these relationships and

489
00:23:39,440 --> 00:23:43,119
Speaker 2: it makes people feel threatened, threatened.

490
00:23:44,320 --> 00:23:46,160
Speaker 4: It's so funny because I had never heard of that show.

491
00:23:46,200 --> 00:23:49,040
Speaker 1: I have no idea what that thing is, but now

492
00:23:49,080 --> 00:23:51,240
Speaker 1: it's everyone knows about it because of Taylor, So that

493
00:23:51,240 --> 00:23:52,800
Speaker 1: could be the other side. She drew a lot of

494
00:23:52,840 --> 00:23:55,040
Speaker 1: attention to the show. But what a stupid joke. It

495
00:23:55,080 --> 00:23:58,000
Speaker 1: reminds me that dumb Saved by the Bell? Do Selena

496
00:23:58,040 --> 00:24:00,920
Speaker 1: Gomez have a kidney? Remember that thing? Like, Yeah, what's

497
00:24:00,960 --> 00:24:03,840
Speaker 1: happening here? Like is this just like fifty something white

498
00:24:03,880 --> 00:24:05,840
Speaker 1: dudes trying to be young and hip and make current

499
00:24:05,880 --> 00:24:07,320
Speaker 1: references because that's what it feels like.

500
00:24:07,600 --> 00:24:12,720
Speaker 2: I don't know, but it's so bizarre, bizarre, and she's

501
00:24:12,920 --> 00:24:14,960
Speaker 2: I mean, Taylor's just like she does not have to

502
00:24:15,040 --> 00:24:18,439
Speaker 2: give to fs anymore. So she's just gonna take. Like

503
00:24:19,320 --> 00:24:21,160
Speaker 2: you know, during especially.

504
00:24:20,880 --> 00:24:22,800
Speaker 3: The last she's not gonna shake shake, shake it off.

505
00:24:23,080 --> 00:24:25,520
Speaker 3: She's gonna fight, fight, fight, fight it off.

506
00:24:26,680 --> 00:24:27,320
Speaker 2: She should make it.

507
00:24:29,240 --> 00:24:31,560
Speaker 5: I don't know, she should make a follow up to

508
00:24:31,560 --> 00:24:33,639
Speaker 5: shake it off, because shakes off is just like whatever,

509
00:24:33,760 --> 00:24:35,040
Speaker 5: let them say whatever they want.

510
00:24:35,880 --> 00:24:39,440
Speaker 3: But now she's not doing that. She is going for it.

511
00:24:40,280 --> 00:24:45,240
Speaker 2: I so I the other day, uh, Krishelle from selling

512
00:24:45,280 --> 00:24:48,000
Speaker 2: Sunset and she was on Dancing with the Stars this

513
00:24:48,080 --> 00:24:53,199
Speaker 2: last season, but she and Keo were dating he's a

514
00:24:53,240 --> 00:24:55,280
Speaker 2: dancer on Dancing with the Stars, and they broke up,

515
00:24:55,280 --> 00:24:59,440
Speaker 2: and the original article was that it was a mutual breakup,

516
00:24:59,480 --> 00:25:03,560
Speaker 2: and then I a source, which by her post it

517
00:25:03,640 --> 00:25:06,920
Speaker 2: led to believe that he was the source, basically said

518
00:25:06,960 --> 00:25:09,639
Speaker 2: like I was one hundred percent in it, insinuating that

519
00:25:09,680 --> 00:25:14,359
Speaker 2: she wasn't. And she was like, you know, who cares

520
00:25:14,359 --> 00:25:16,880
Speaker 2: about taking the high road. Normally I take the high road,

521
00:25:16,920 --> 00:25:20,280
Speaker 2: but I'm over it. I'm over it, like I'm gonna

522
00:25:20,480 --> 00:25:23,240
Speaker 2: last you. And she basically was like, I was trying

523
00:25:23,240 --> 00:25:27,520
Speaker 2: to keep this mutual and keep it like friendly, and

524
00:25:27,640 --> 00:25:30,119
Speaker 2: you're gonna go and say all this stuff at insinuating

525
00:25:30,200 --> 00:25:32,359
Speaker 2: that was a one hundred percent in it. So how

526
00:25:32,400 --> 00:25:34,920
Speaker 2: am I supposed to believe you if I can't even

527
00:25:34,960 --> 00:25:38,320
Speaker 2: trust that you can order a coffee without lying? And

528
00:25:38,359 --> 00:25:42,800
Speaker 2: I was like, oh, I could have messed that up.

529
00:25:42,800 --> 00:25:46,160
Speaker 2: That was a worm for word, but basically she went off,

530
00:25:46,359 --> 00:25:48,640
Speaker 2: and it is true, like a lot of I'm I'm

531
00:25:48,760 --> 00:25:51,439
Speaker 2: definitely the type who's like, oh, I'm just gonna shake it.

532
00:25:51,480 --> 00:25:53,880
Speaker 2: I'm not gonna address it, you know. But I do

533
00:25:53,920 --> 00:25:56,520
Speaker 2: think sometimes you're like people just get over it. They're like,

534
00:25:57,160 --> 00:25:59,120
Speaker 2: I'm not gonna be the one who gets my name

535
00:25:59,240 --> 00:26:02,760
Speaker 2: slandered or look to look bad too, so that I

536
00:26:02,800 --> 00:26:04,879
Speaker 2: can take the high road and not say anything.

537
00:26:05,440 --> 00:26:10,480
Speaker 3: Yeah, it's interesting because I think it's hard, I guess,

538
00:26:10,840 --> 00:26:13,000
Speaker 3: to be in the public eye like that and have

539
00:26:13,080 --> 00:26:15,359
Speaker 3: everybody kind of like if he says something, then she

540
00:26:15,440 --> 00:26:18,320
Speaker 3: says something, it just gets totally. You know. I'd rather

541
00:26:18,520 --> 00:26:20,760
Speaker 3: be from my own mouth, you know what I mean.

542
00:26:21,160 --> 00:26:23,160
Speaker 3: But it is interesting when you know, it's like breakups

543
00:26:23,200 --> 00:26:25,080
Speaker 3: happen and all that stuff. But then when you start

544
00:26:25,080 --> 00:26:29,600
Speaker 3: hearing rumors about things that supposedly this person said to

545
00:26:30,040 --> 00:26:32,320
Speaker 3: this person and then other people that were involved, it

546
00:26:32,359 --> 00:26:33,639
Speaker 3: gets back to you and it's just like that kind

547
00:26:33,680 --> 00:26:36,160
Speaker 3: of stuff starts getting so messy. And I think that's when,

548
00:26:36,960 --> 00:26:39,480
Speaker 3: at least for me, when people say that like, oh,

549
00:26:39,600 --> 00:26:41,760
Speaker 3: you know this was amicable or you know, we left

550
00:26:41,760 --> 00:26:43,920
Speaker 3: on good terms, and then you just start hearing all

551
00:26:43,960 --> 00:26:46,879
Speaker 3: of this crap through the grape vine and it's just like,

552
00:26:46,960 --> 00:26:47,520
Speaker 3: screw you.

553
00:26:48,240 --> 00:26:51,520
Speaker 2: So so Becky just gave me the direct quote. But

554
00:26:52,240 --> 00:26:54,760
Speaker 2: so she said, he basically in the article said that

555
00:26:54,840 --> 00:26:59,760
Speaker 2: he was really struggling after his mom passed away, and

556
00:26:59,800 --> 00:27:04,040
Speaker 2: she said, Okay, I that's sad. Yeah, I mean, yeah,

557
00:27:04,080 --> 00:27:07,119
Speaker 2: it's horrible. But her response was, Okay, I truly wanted

558
00:27:07,119 --> 00:27:09,320
Speaker 2: to keep this drama free, but playing the victim and

559
00:27:09,359 --> 00:27:12,080
Speaker 2: bringing your mom into it is a step too far

560
00:27:12,160 --> 00:27:15,359
Speaker 2: from me. Taking the high road is overrated. Sometimes. I

561
00:27:15,400 --> 00:27:18,439
Speaker 2: was also one hundred percent in it as well, until

562
00:27:18,520 --> 00:27:21,719
Speaker 2: revelations told to me recently have made me question if

563
00:27:21,760 --> 00:27:26,840
Speaker 2: you could even order a coffee without lying. But anyways,

564
00:27:26,920 --> 00:27:28,639
Speaker 2: what I was gonna say, is that Taylor Swift is

565
00:27:28,680 --> 00:27:30,800
Speaker 2: kind of like at first I told you to shake

566
00:27:30,840 --> 00:27:32,879
Speaker 2: it off. We were gonna just shake it off, And

567
00:27:32,920 --> 00:27:36,040
Speaker 2: now I'm like, no, I'm gonna call you out if

568
00:27:36,040 --> 00:27:39,600
Speaker 2: you're if you're slandering my name or or you know,

569
00:27:40,040 --> 00:27:42,000
Speaker 2: making me look bad or make me feel bad, I'm

570
00:27:42,040 --> 00:27:43,320
Speaker 2: gonna say something, it's.

571
00:27:43,200 --> 00:27:46,280
Speaker 3: So good, Like it's so good. We need to get

572
00:27:46,320 --> 00:27:49,439
Speaker 3: a hold of her and get a song called not

573
00:27:49,560 --> 00:27:52,880
Speaker 3: fight Fight Fight, but needs to be something like.

574
00:27:52,840 --> 00:27:55,239
Speaker 2: That stand up, stand up, stand up?

575
00:27:55,440 --> 00:27:57,440
Speaker 3: Yeah, Like no, like shake it off? Like what's another

576
00:27:57,560 --> 00:28:03,359
Speaker 3: shake it off term? Like shake it off, throw it down?

577
00:28:03,480 --> 00:28:06,439
Speaker 3: Maybe that could be a great title.

578
00:28:08,200 --> 00:28:10,960
Speaker 2: I'm sure she will, like she's just the gift that

579
00:28:11,040 --> 00:28:14,480
Speaker 2: keeps on giving, especially if she records all of her

580
00:28:14,480 --> 00:28:16,720
Speaker 2: old albums and gives us Taylor version of.

581
00:28:17,000 --> 00:28:18,520
Speaker 3: But that's where she could do because I'm like, it's

582
00:28:18,520 --> 00:28:21,480
Speaker 3: not really vibing with the evermore you know situation that

583
00:28:21,520 --> 00:28:24,720
Speaker 3: we have going on right now. But if she re

584
00:28:24,720 --> 00:28:28,520
Speaker 3: records those albums and she could throw a different version

585
00:28:28,520 --> 00:28:34,440
Speaker 3: of shake it Off on there, Oh, somebody call Taylor Swift, Inc.

586
00:28:38,120 --> 00:28:40,640
Speaker 2: She really is like the ultimate dream guest. If we

587
00:28:40,680 --> 00:28:43,000
Speaker 2: could ever have someone that I would just love to

588
00:28:43,160 --> 00:28:43,640
Speaker 2: chat with?

589
00:28:43,800 --> 00:28:45,720
Speaker 3: I mean, could you imagine, is she.

590
00:28:45,760 --> 00:28:49,120
Speaker 1: Number one for scrubbing in your number one guest? If

591
00:28:49,120 --> 00:28:51,320
Speaker 1: you give one person, you can each pick one. I

592
00:28:51,360 --> 00:28:53,960
Speaker 1: know Allen Pompeo's on there, Shonda.

593
00:28:53,640 --> 00:28:59,880
Speaker 2: Rhymes, Jen Aniston's really high shack. But everyone laughed at

594
00:28:59,880 --> 00:29:02,440
Speaker 2: me when I submitted that from my manifestation list.

595
00:29:03,400 --> 00:29:07,160
Speaker 3: Yeah, yeah, because it's like, okay, yeah, we'll all we

596
00:29:07,240 --> 00:29:11,720
Speaker 3: have our we all have our dream guests, like I

597
00:29:11,720 --> 00:29:15,000
Speaker 3: would say Beyonce, but she's not really realistics, you know

598
00:29:15,000 --> 00:29:18,520
Speaker 3: what I mean? So it's like we need to be realistic.

599
00:29:18,800 --> 00:29:20,240
Speaker 3: I guess right in our dreams.

600
00:29:20,400 --> 00:29:24,960
Speaker 2: You know what that I don't know that we do. Yeah,

601
00:29:25,160 --> 00:29:28,920
Speaker 2: Chris Evans in character is Captain America. That's the dream guest. Okay,

602
00:29:28,960 --> 00:29:35,200
Speaker 2: so okay in character in character, you know what I'd

603
00:29:35,200 --> 00:29:37,520
Speaker 2: love to have on is Galgado too, because I just

604
00:29:38,440 --> 00:29:43,200
Speaker 2: love her, love her. Yeah, I could name a few.

605
00:29:43,240 --> 00:29:45,160
Speaker 2: I have a good I have a hefty list of

606
00:29:45,200 --> 00:29:49,720
Speaker 2: people who Yeah, sure, maybe they're not in our wheelhouse

607
00:29:50,200 --> 00:29:54,760
Speaker 2: per se per se. I think you know what though,

608
00:29:54,800 --> 00:29:56,560
Speaker 2: the Ellen Pop I'm gonna say this and then we're

609
00:29:56,600 --> 00:29:59,280
Speaker 2: gonna take a break. I think the Ellen Pompeo thing.

610
00:30:00,120 --> 00:30:03,360
Speaker 2: If we continue to have cast members come on and

611
00:30:03,360 --> 00:30:07,560
Speaker 2: they have a good experience, she might come on one day.

612
00:30:08,040 --> 00:30:10,520
Speaker 4: Yeah, I think that's in the realm for sure.

613
00:30:11,080 --> 00:30:12,680
Speaker 2: Or Bailey I would love, But that would that need.

614
00:30:12,600 --> 00:30:15,680
Speaker 3: To be like like a big episode for us, do

615
00:30:15,680 --> 00:30:18,400
Speaker 3: you know what I mean, like like our two hundredth

616
00:30:18,560 --> 00:30:21,240
Speaker 3: or something like a you know.

617
00:30:21,200 --> 00:30:21,479
Speaker 2: What I mean?

618
00:30:21,520 --> 00:30:23,360
Speaker 3: Like I feel like it should be a celebration podcasts.

619
00:30:23,440 --> 00:30:24,239
Speaker 4: It should be a big one.

620
00:30:24,320 --> 00:30:25,440
Speaker 2: Yeah.

621
00:30:25,440 --> 00:30:26,640
Speaker 1: Like maybe if you guys were to win like a

622
00:30:26,640 --> 00:30:28,920
Speaker 1: People's choice of word or something, we could like celebrate.

623
00:30:28,560 --> 00:30:30,080
Speaker 3: That, yeah, like our third People's choice of word?

624
00:30:31,640 --> 00:30:35,760
Speaker 2: Yeah, yeah, yeah. Or we can just we can just start, Yeah,

625
00:30:35,800 --> 00:30:39,080
Speaker 2: we start the manifestation now, and then by that time

626
00:30:39,560 --> 00:30:41,320
Speaker 2: we will have put in some good work.

627
00:30:41,560 --> 00:30:43,560
Speaker 3: You know what, I haven't done my future fifteen Today.

628
00:30:44,320 --> 00:30:47,200
Speaker 3: I'm gonna write about ELM Pompeo being on our podcast today.

629
00:30:47,480 --> 00:30:50,600
Speaker 2: Maybe I'll start a future fifteen today starting today.

630
00:30:50,840 --> 00:30:51,479
Speaker 3: I'm loving it.

631
00:30:52,200 --> 00:30:53,840
Speaker 2: I want to talk about that. So we're going to

632
00:30:53,880 --> 00:30:55,440
Speaker 2: take a break, and then we're going to talk about

633
00:30:55,440 --> 00:30:56,440
Speaker 2: your future fifteen.

634
00:30:56,520 --> 00:31:11,520
Speaker 3: Okay, Well here's Krusty.

635
00:31:14,840 --> 00:31:18,160
Speaker 2: Okay, we are back so you have been doing the

636
00:31:18,200 --> 00:31:23,960
Speaker 2: Future fifteen since we had Ryan on. Yes, Sir Hant, Ryan,

637
00:31:24,120 --> 00:31:29,200
Speaker 2: Sir Hant, have you had any I mean, I know

638
00:31:29,320 --> 00:31:31,880
Speaker 2: you love them. I love you. I know you love man.

639
00:31:33,320 --> 00:31:34,080
Speaker 2: You've passed on.

640
00:31:34,760 --> 00:31:37,160
Speaker 3: I I'm so sorry. It's probably my natural deodorance, so

641
00:31:37,480 --> 00:31:39,440
Speaker 3: I probably smell. It's just like it's I.

642
00:31:39,440 --> 00:31:42,120
Speaker 2: Don't value but like, I don't like you talking about

643
00:31:42,160 --> 00:31:44,920
Speaker 2: how much you smell. I tried feet at night. Yeah,

644
00:31:45,320 --> 00:31:46,360
Speaker 2: like you wash your feet over time.

645
00:31:46,360 --> 00:31:48,120
Speaker 3: Me shower in a shower. Yeah, but I shower like

646
00:31:48,120 --> 00:31:50,400
Speaker 3: twice a day, so I wash my feet multiple times

647
00:31:50,440 --> 00:31:50,680
Speaker 3: a day.

648
00:31:50,760 --> 00:31:51,920
Speaker 2: No, that's great. I'm glad here.

649
00:31:52,400 --> 00:31:57,080
Speaker 3: But I tried natural deodorant on the Golden Globes night.

650
00:31:57,120 --> 00:32:00,200
Speaker 3: I'm like, this is probably the worst idea to try

651
00:32:00,560 --> 00:32:04,440
Speaker 3: natural deodorant. So I had sweatpads on my dress, like

652
00:32:04,560 --> 00:32:07,080
Speaker 3: just so that I wouldn't get water on my dress.

653
00:32:07,040 --> 00:32:11,480
Speaker 5: Water water, and to the point where I was putting

654
00:32:11,480 --> 00:32:14,160
Speaker 5: them during commercial breaks and I almost forgot to pull

655
00:32:14,200 --> 00:32:15,960
Speaker 5: them out when we came back once and I was like,

656
00:32:16,000 --> 00:32:19,720
Speaker 5: if I had sweat pads on live television.

657
00:32:19,280 --> 00:32:20,320
Speaker 2: It would have been relatable.

658
00:32:20,360 --> 00:32:24,120
Speaker 1: Actually, yeah, he's got your thinking about this.

659
00:32:24,160 --> 00:32:24,600
Speaker 4: All wrong.

660
00:32:25,320 --> 00:32:27,800
Speaker 3: I didn't. I mean the fact that I would have

661
00:32:27,880 --> 00:32:30,800
Speaker 3: I literally had sweatpads just like folded literally like little

662
00:32:30,840 --> 00:32:32,080
Speaker 3: pillows under my armpits.

663
00:32:32,640 --> 00:32:34,880
Speaker 4: Yeah, that would have been viral and hilarious.

664
00:32:35,160 --> 00:32:38,440
Speaker 2: That's the most tawny thing to try a new natural deodorant.

665
00:32:38,480 --> 00:32:39,720
Speaker 2: A night of golden globes.

666
00:32:39,800 --> 00:32:41,440
Speaker 3: That was a mess. But where was I going? Oh,

667
00:32:41,480 --> 00:32:45,480
Speaker 3: my future fifteen Okay? So I started with this with

668
00:32:45,520 --> 00:32:48,360
Speaker 3: Rian Sirhan and uh, he said, just to think for

669
00:32:48,400 --> 00:32:51,080
Speaker 3: fifteen minutes. But my mind, if I just let wander

670
00:32:51,120 --> 00:32:53,000
Speaker 3: for it'll just it'll go to my grocery list and

671
00:32:53,080 --> 00:32:54,840
Speaker 3: it'll go to the errands I need to run, or

672
00:32:54,840 --> 00:32:56,080
Speaker 3: the reports I need to write or whatever.

673
00:32:56,360 --> 00:32:56,640
Speaker 2: Just go.

674
00:32:57,080 --> 00:32:58,760
Speaker 3: So I was like, I'm gonna start writing for fifteen

675
00:32:58,760 --> 00:33:01,400
Speaker 3: minutes every day by my future, and I just pick

676
00:33:01,480 --> 00:33:03,880
Speaker 3: something different every day. So like the other day I

677
00:33:03,880 --> 00:33:06,840
Speaker 3: wrote about my future thanksgivings and what those are going

678
00:33:06,920 --> 00:33:10,520
Speaker 3: to look like, traditions that I want to have, and

679
00:33:10,560 --> 00:33:14,360
Speaker 3: then it could be anything to work related stuff, so book,

680
00:33:14,760 --> 00:33:16,480
Speaker 3: you know, book stuff that I want to do and

681
00:33:16,520 --> 00:33:19,400
Speaker 3: be very specific. And then the other day I was

682
00:33:19,440 --> 00:33:22,000
Speaker 3: writing about other traditions that I wanted to do like

683
00:33:22,440 --> 00:33:24,239
Speaker 3: it was a big weekend and I was like, this

684
00:33:24,280 --> 00:33:26,560
Speaker 3: is what I want to do on this type of weekend.

685
00:33:26,640 --> 00:33:28,280
Speaker 3: It was more of like things I want to do

686
00:33:28,520 --> 00:33:30,000
Speaker 3: and feelings that I want to feel and how I

687
00:33:30,040 --> 00:33:33,640
Speaker 3: want to live my life versus like I want this

688
00:33:33,800 --> 00:33:36,800
Speaker 3: car or this way, you know what I mean, Like things,

689
00:33:36,880 --> 00:33:41,080
Speaker 3: It's more about feelings and traditions and it's been so

690
00:33:41,680 --> 00:33:43,240
Speaker 3: fun and I'm like loving it.

691
00:33:43,840 --> 00:33:49,000
Speaker 2: So it's almost like like you're like, it's almost like

692
00:33:49,040 --> 00:33:50,440
Speaker 2: a dream journal kind of.

693
00:33:50,520 --> 00:33:52,840
Speaker 3: Yeah. It's like I'm daydreaming and it's like I'm feeling

694
00:33:53,160 --> 00:33:54,840
Speaker 3: how I'm going to feel when I walk into my

695
00:33:54,920 --> 00:33:57,600
Speaker 3: home and what it's going to be like Like one

696
00:33:57,920 --> 00:34:00,680
Speaker 3: one day, I just specifically wrote about family dinners and

697
00:34:00,720 --> 00:34:02,200
Speaker 3: what those are going to look like, you know what

698
00:34:02,240 --> 00:34:03,960
Speaker 3: I mean, like what we're going to talk about and

699
00:34:04,080 --> 00:34:06,040
Speaker 3: just super what we're going to eat.

700
00:34:06,360 --> 00:34:09,799
Speaker 1: Wow, yeah, I know these are these just format wise,

701
00:34:10,000 --> 00:34:12,279
Speaker 1: like your dear future husband journalis address is like second

702
00:34:12,360 --> 00:34:15,440
Speaker 1: person you're talking to him? Is this talking to a

703
00:34:15,440 --> 00:34:18,880
Speaker 1: future you? Is it present you? Imagining it like present me?

704
00:34:19,160 --> 00:34:21,200
Speaker 3: It's like me writing it all down like it's happening,

705
00:34:22,680 --> 00:34:27,040
Speaker 3: happening then, Yeah, like I'm pretending that I'm there in

706
00:34:27,080 --> 00:34:27,480
Speaker 3: the moment.

707
00:34:28,080 --> 00:34:30,640
Speaker 4: So you're like, it's the year twenty thirty two.

708
00:34:30,840 --> 00:34:32,600
Speaker 3: Yeah, So I'll start it off and just be like, so,

709
00:34:33,360 --> 00:34:36,560
Speaker 3: depending on how I'm feeling that day, if it's flashbward

710
00:34:36,560 --> 00:34:39,120
Speaker 3: five years or if it's just Thanksgiving, let's say the

711
00:34:39,360 --> 00:34:41,760
Speaker 3: Thanksgiving one, I'll write it as it's like Thanksgiving.

712
00:34:41,400 --> 00:34:46,000
Speaker 1: Day, Thanksgiving Day, twenty thirty six.

713
00:34:45,840 --> 00:34:47,640
Speaker 3: And then I don't put the year or whatever. But yeah,

714
00:34:47,680 --> 00:34:49,160
Speaker 3: like this is like, these are the traditions that I

715
00:34:49,200 --> 00:34:50,880
Speaker 3: want to have, and this is kind of what this

716
00:34:50,960 --> 00:34:53,440
Speaker 3: is the vibe I want, and this is the kind

717
00:34:53,440 --> 00:34:55,080
Speaker 3: of food that I'm going to make.

718
00:34:55,000 --> 00:35:00,000
Speaker 2: And specific specifics are good.

719
00:35:00,280 --> 00:35:02,880
Speaker 3: Yeah, I don't know. I'm really liking it. It's been

720
00:35:02,960 --> 00:35:03,600
Speaker 3: so fun.

721
00:35:03,840 --> 00:35:05,719
Speaker 2: Well, I have to say when he was telling us

722
00:35:05,719 --> 00:35:09,360
Speaker 2: about it, he said that he thinks for fifteen minutes

723
00:35:09,480 --> 00:35:13,160
Speaker 2: or however long, and then he writes down like what

724
00:35:13,480 --> 00:35:17,240
Speaker 2: he should needs to do to get to his thoughts

725
00:35:17,320 --> 00:35:22,359
Speaker 2: or his goals. So it's not necessarily like I think

726
00:35:22,400 --> 00:35:24,000
Speaker 2: everyone can do it their own way internet.

727
00:35:24,120 --> 00:35:25,960
Speaker 3: Yeah, and like also there was something like I really

728
00:35:25,960 --> 00:35:28,000
Speaker 3: want to when I was journaling one day. It's always

729
00:35:28,000 --> 00:35:30,040
Speaker 3: been something I've always wanted to have some sort of

730
00:35:30,280 --> 00:35:33,279
Speaker 3: I've always wanted to not work with my uh with

731
00:35:33,320 --> 00:35:37,279
Speaker 3: my partner, my husband or whatever. I've never wanted to

732
00:35:37,440 --> 00:35:40,440
Speaker 3: specifically work with him, but I want to have some

733
00:35:40,440 --> 00:35:43,120
Speaker 3: sort of project with him. Does that make sense? Like

734
00:35:43,160 --> 00:35:44,680
Speaker 3: I've always wanted to have like a side thing that

735
00:35:44,680 --> 00:35:47,480
Speaker 3: we do together as a team, as a couple. And

736
00:35:47,600 --> 00:35:49,359
Speaker 3: so one of the a few of the days, I've

737
00:35:49,400 --> 00:35:53,200
Speaker 3: actually been focusing on that. And it is interesting because

738
00:35:53,280 --> 00:35:56,000
Speaker 3: I think it will It does kind of change the

739
00:35:56,000 --> 00:35:57,840
Speaker 3: direction of who I want and a partner, you know

740
00:35:57,840 --> 00:35:59,319
Speaker 3: what I mean. Like I want a partner that wants

741
00:35:59,400 --> 00:36:00,839
Speaker 3: to do that with me, you know what I mean.

742
00:36:01,560 --> 00:36:03,800
Speaker 3: So it does kind of give you subconsciously a little

743
00:36:03,800 --> 00:36:06,440
Speaker 3: direction in your life because you're like, oh, like, these

744
00:36:06,440 --> 00:36:08,000
Speaker 3: are the things that I want to do, and I

745
00:36:08,040 --> 00:36:11,879
Speaker 3: don't know specifically exactly what that is, but it does

746
00:36:11,960 --> 00:36:15,080
Speaker 3: kind of guide you in the direction that you want

747
00:36:15,080 --> 00:36:15,279
Speaker 3: to go.

748
00:36:15,600 --> 00:36:16,000
Speaker 2: Mm hmm.

749
00:36:18,160 --> 00:36:19,960
Speaker 4: Is it hard to fill the fifteen minutes? Or does

750
00:36:19,960 --> 00:36:21,040
Speaker 4: that alarm? Do you set an alarm?

751
00:36:21,120 --> 00:36:23,640
Speaker 3: Yes, an alarm. It goes by the blink of an eye.

752
00:36:23,760 --> 00:36:25,239
Speaker 4: Blink of an eye. Do you ever just keep going?

753
00:36:25,480 --> 00:36:28,000
Speaker 4: Just go right by it? Oh? Strict strict.

754
00:36:28,280 --> 00:36:30,239
Speaker 2: It's a strict cut off, a strict cut off.

755
00:36:30,320 --> 00:36:32,080
Speaker 4: Finish the sentence here in the middle ofvel, then put

756
00:36:32,080 --> 00:36:32,359
Speaker 4: it down.

757
00:36:32,480 --> 00:36:36,359
Speaker 2: Yeah. Interesting, Speaking of alarms, we uh. I was at

758
00:36:36,400 --> 00:36:40,000
Speaker 2: a friend's like, uh, it was a social distance lingerie

759
00:36:40,000 --> 00:36:41,480
Speaker 2: shower in the park yesterday.

760
00:36:41,760 --> 00:36:43,640
Speaker 3: Oh cute. Oh we have to get lingerie.

761
00:36:44,360 --> 00:36:45,600
Speaker 2: Oh yeah for us. Shoot.

762
00:36:45,719 --> 00:36:51,839
Speaker 6: Yeah, And and one of my friends had to go,

763
00:36:52,000 --> 00:36:53,920
Speaker 6: and so she said an alarm, And I was like,

764
00:36:54,400 --> 00:36:56,320
Speaker 6: I'm doing that everywhere I go from now on.

765
00:36:56,360 --> 00:36:58,440
Speaker 2: I'm just gonna have an alarm go off so that

766
00:36:58,640 --> 00:37:02,640
Speaker 2: if I'm ready to go, I'm like, oh, set an

767
00:37:02,680 --> 00:37:04,320
Speaker 2: alarm because I have to be out of here.

768
00:37:04,440 --> 00:37:06,840
Speaker 3: For what though. You have to have a thing you

769
00:37:07,000 --> 00:37:07,239
Speaker 3: just set.

770
00:37:08,040 --> 00:37:09,719
Speaker 2: No, I can be like, oh my gosh, I have

771
00:37:09,760 --> 00:37:12,879
Speaker 2: to work thing, you know. But like if I'm having

772
00:37:12,880 --> 00:37:14,440
Speaker 2: a good time of it, Oh, I just said that,

773
00:37:14,680 --> 00:37:19,240
Speaker 2: just you know, and just as a reference. It's a plan.

774
00:37:19,719 --> 00:37:22,360
Speaker 4: I don't love it. It's just a little shady. Really,

775
00:37:22,920 --> 00:37:24,200
Speaker 4: I don't think anyone's gonna buy it.

776
00:37:24,680 --> 00:37:26,440
Speaker 3: Yeah, I would be like, where are you going?

777
00:37:27,239 --> 00:37:28,440
Speaker 4: What do you.

778
00:37:29,800 --> 00:37:31,920
Speaker 2: Okay, I'd be more confident I would. I would have

779
00:37:31,960 --> 00:37:33,840
Speaker 2: a plan, Like I'm gonna come up with what I

780
00:37:33,920 --> 00:37:36,520
Speaker 2: have to go do when my alarm goes off based

781
00:37:36,560 --> 00:37:40,360
Speaker 2: on where I go when these social events, can you know,

782
00:37:40,440 --> 00:37:41,040
Speaker 2: happen again.

783
00:37:41,080 --> 00:37:43,719
Speaker 3: This just sounds terrible because, in my opinion, it's like

784
00:37:43,760 --> 00:37:46,640
Speaker 3: those people that do that if they're, you know, going

785
00:37:46,680 --> 00:37:49,160
Speaker 3: on a bad date and they're like call me minutes.

786
00:37:49,600 --> 00:37:51,560
Speaker 3: But it's like that you're just setting yourself up to

787
00:37:51,680 --> 00:37:52,799
Speaker 3: like not have fun.

788
00:37:55,200 --> 00:37:57,680
Speaker 1: For everything if you say to them, oh, I just

789
00:37:57,719 --> 00:37:59,759
Speaker 1: said that because I was gonna leave if you guys suck.

790
00:37:59,880 --> 00:38:03,040
Speaker 4: But it turns out that's a weird thing.

791
00:38:03,520 --> 00:38:05,239
Speaker 2: No, but I wouldn't. Well, first of all, I'm not

792
00:38:05,280 --> 00:38:07,240
Speaker 2: going on any dates, so I'm not really worried about

793
00:38:07,280 --> 00:38:09,960
Speaker 2: that aspect. Mine's more of like being at a social

794
00:38:10,000 --> 00:38:13,720
Speaker 2: event where I'm just kind of like, eh, I could

795
00:38:13,960 --> 00:38:16,120
Speaker 2: do more at home. I could have more fun at home,

796
00:38:16,719 --> 00:38:18,919
Speaker 2: And then my alarm goes off and I'm like, oh

797
00:38:19,000 --> 00:38:21,920
Speaker 2: my gosh, I'm so glad I said that, like otherwise

798
00:38:21,960 --> 00:38:26,759
Speaker 2: i'd be late for my blah blah blah. I think

799
00:38:26,800 --> 00:38:27,480
Speaker 2: it's genius.

800
00:38:27,560 --> 00:38:31,200
Speaker 3: I just think it's setting it setting a negative vibe

801
00:38:31,200 --> 00:38:32,000
Speaker 3: for the party.

802
00:38:32,280 --> 00:38:35,080
Speaker 2: No, I'm just setting a prepared vibe for the party.

803
00:38:35,280 --> 00:38:38,240
Speaker 3: It's so funny because everybody asks me, like our mutual

804
00:38:38,239 --> 00:38:40,600
Speaker 3: friends that we have, They'll be like, how's Becka doing,

805
00:38:40,640 --> 00:38:45,799
Speaker 3: And I'm just like thriving in quarantine, Like truly, quarantine

806
00:38:45,880 --> 00:38:47,320
Speaker 3: was made for the Beckas of the world.

807
00:38:47,440 --> 00:38:49,880
Speaker 2: Like literally I have sometimes I feel the pressure to

808
00:38:49,920 --> 00:38:51,799
Speaker 2: be like, oh, you know, it's hard, but.

809
00:38:51,920 --> 00:38:55,840
Speaker 3: Like home but hate watching TV.

810
00:38:56,080 --> 00:38:58,879
Speaker 2: Yeah, I hate just like I hate being at home,

811
00:38:59,000 --> 00:39:01,000
Speaker 2: not having to go to any not having anything to

812
00:39:01,000 --> 00:39:04,319
Speaker 2: go to. But now I've just kind of accepted that

813
00:39:04,480 --> 00:39:08,560
Speaker 2: I do. I am thriving in quarantine, and I'm just like, yeah,

814
00:39:08,640 --> 00:39:13,600
Speaker 2: it's been pretty nice. Well now with like things opening

815
00:39:13,680 --> 00:39:16,400
Speaker 2: up a little bit and being able to like go

816
00:39:16,440 --> 00:39:18,520
Speaker 2: outside and have a dinner every now and then, kind

817
00:39:18,600 --> 00:39:21,600
Speaker 2: of really makes that that I'm just thrilled, Like I

818
00:39:21,600 --> 00:39:23,520
Speaker 2: couldn't be happier with how things are right now.

819
00:39:23,520 --> 00:39:25,839
Speaker 1: You maybe eating indoors in the next couple of weeks

820
00:39:25,880 --> 00:39:29,160
Speaker 1: in La County. Really, Yeah, the numbers are getting really

821
00:39:29,160 --> 00:39:29,799
Speaker 1: close to being.

822
00:39:29,719 --> 00:39:30,319
Speaker 4: Able to do that.

823
00:39:30,560 --> 00:39:33,439
Speaker 3: I can't even tell you, like the amount of things

824
00:39:33,480 --> 00:39:35,520
Speaker 3: I used to do in a day. I don't even

825
00:39:35,520 --> 00:39:38,759
Speaker 3: know how I did it, because I do I run

826
00:39:38,840 --> 00:39:43,560
Speaker 3: two errands and I'm like, oh, my exhausted, been out

827
00:39:43,560 --> 00:39:46,200
Speaker 3: of the house for quite some time, Like, got to

828
00:39:46,320 --> 00:39:49,000
Speaker 3: really hunger down tomorrow, got some stuff to do in here,

829
00:39:49,040 --> 00:39:50,280
Speaker 3: Like it's so wild.

830
00:39:51,200 --> 00:39:54,520
Speaker 2: I know. Yesterday, So yesterday I had it was probably

831
00:39:54,800 --> 00:39:58,760
Speaker 2: literally maybe the most the busiest day I've had since

832
00:39:58,920 --> 00:40:03,480
Speaker 2: quarantine started. But I went and saw two houses. I

833
00:40:03,520 --> 00:40:06,120
Speaker 2: had that shower, and then I ended up driving down

834
00:40:06,200 --> 00:40:10,279
Speaker 2: to Newport to have a dinner with my sisters, and

835
00:40:10,320 --> 00:40:12,879
Speaker 2: then drove up and I was like, that's what I'm saying.

836
00:40:12,880 --> 00:40:17,600
Speaker 2: I was so exhausted. I had jeans and healed booties

837
00:40:17,600 --> 00:40:20,839
Speaker 2: on all day. I was like physically exhausted.

838
00:40:20,880 --> 00:40:23,120
Speaker 3: And then I get in bed, I'm just like, oh yeah,

839
00:40:23,160 --> 00:40:26,680
Speaker 3: Like the minute we finished this podcast, I'm literally gonna

840
00:40:27,000 --> 00:40:29,560
Speaker 3: probably just go straight to bed after because that's how

841
00:40:29,600 --> 00:40:31,120
Speaker 3: tired I am. And I'm like, I only did one

842
00:40:31,160 --> 00:40:34,480
Speaker 3: show yesterday, Like I literally did one show for Grammys.

843
00:40:34,520 --> 00:40:37,319
Speaker 2: I'm doing two Just so you know, it's three point

844
00:40:37,320 --> 00:40:40,640
Speaker 2: fifty pm in the afternoon where we are, and she's

845
00:40:41,160 --> 00:40:42,920
Speaker 2: going to go to sleep after this, Just so you

846
00:40:42,960 --> 00:40:45,719
Speaker 2: have a reference of when Tanya's gonna go to bed.

847
00:40:45,800 --> 00:40:48,719
Speaker 3: I'm gonna send the file for this audio to easton Mark.

848
00:40:48,920 --> 00:40:51,160
Speaker 3: I'm gonna send Mark my trending reports for the morning show,

849
00:40:51,280 --> 00:40:53,600
Speaker 3: and I will be in bed, showered and in.

850
00:40:53,520 --> 00:40:56,960
Speaker 2: Bed watching TV or like actually asleep asleep.

851
00:40:57,120 --> 00:40:59,560
Speaker 3: Oh my god, i'd say by seven easy.

852
00:41:01,400 --> 00:41:03,600
Speaker 2: Well I can't say the same. I have some work

853
00:41:03,600 --> 00:41:05,560
Speaker 2: stuff to do after this, and then I'm gonna watch

854
00:41:05,560 --> 00:41:08,040
Speaker 2: The Bachelor. But like, I don't even feel excited about

855
00:41:08,040 --> 00:41:10,400
Speaker 2: the Bachelor anymore. Like this season has like made me

856
00:41:10,440 --> 00:41:13,399
Speaker 2: not feel excited anymore. So I might skip it, might

857
00:41:13,440 --> 00:41:15,319
Speaker 2: skip it and watch tedh Lasso again.

858
00:41:15,800 --> 00:41:18,319
Speaker 3: Let me tell you, throw on some crosses panties and

859
00:41:18,360 --> 00:41:22,439
Speaker 3: watch Ted. That's great Monday night. It is a girl.

860
00:41:22,520 --> 00:41:23,919
Speaker 2: Oh my gosh, speaking of.

861
00:41:24,280 --> 00:41:25,840
Speaker 3: I would panties.

862
00:41:25,960 --> 00:41:28,960
Speaker 2: No. But when I was going when I was getting

863
00:41:28,960 --> 00:41:33,000
Speaker 2: the lingerie for my friend, they had like some sex

864
00:41:33,080 --> 00:41:36,399
Speaker 2: toys and like vibrators and stuff, and they had the

865
00:41:36,760 --> 00:41:38,480
Speaker 2: vibrator underwear.

866
00:41:39,719 --> 00:41:40,560
Speaker 3: There's vibrator.

867
00:41:40,800 --> 00:41:44,200
Speaker 2: Yeah, and it's like remote control. Have you seen What's

868
00:41:44,239 --> 00:41:45,480
Speaker 2: the Ugly Truth?

869
00:41:46,160 --> 00:41:46,359
Speaker 3: No?

870
00:41:46,560 --> 00:41:49,399
Speaker 2: Catherine Heigel the jar butler. No, And she has him

871
00:41:49,400 --> 00:41:52,080
Speaker 2: on a business dinner and and then this little kid

872
00:41:52,120 --> 00:41:54,359
Speaker 2: gets the controller because she drops it and he's like

873
00:41:54,440 --> 00:41:57,440
Speaker 2: going up and down with like the level of intensity

874
00:41:57,800 --> 00:42:01,040
Speaker 2: and she's trying to like have a serious conversation with

875
00:42:01,120 --> 00:42:07,919
Speaker 2: the people that she's having dinner with, and she's like, oh.

876
00:42:06,400 --> 00:42:08,399
Speaker 3: No, but those sound delightful.

877
00:42:08,840 --> 00:42:11,400
Speaker 2: So I was like walking out the door when I

878
00:42:11,400 --> 00:42:13,120
Speaker 2: saw them and the girl it was like a small

879
00:42:13,160 --> 00:42:15,280
Speaker 2: store and she was helping another customer, so I didn't

880
00:42:15,280 --> 00:42:17,799
Speaker 2: really feel like waiting around. But if any of you

881
00:42:17,960 --> 00:42:22,479
Speaker 2: listening have tried the vibrator underwear, I am curious because

882
00:42:22,520 --> 00:42:26,520
Speaker 2: it feels a little like gimmicky, you know, but.

883
00:42:28,160 --> 00:42:30,279
Speaker 3: I know I wouldn't imagine I just would. I'm out,

884
00:42:30,320 --> 00:42:31,440
Speaker 3: like when would I put those on?

885
00:42:32,160 --> 00:42:34,160
Speaker 2: That's what I'm saying, Like, I don't know if you

886
00:42:34,200 --> 00:42:36,120
Speaker 2: were gonna be like kinky and go to dinner and

887
00:42:36,160 --> 00:42:38,560
Speaker 2: your significant other was like.

888
00:42:38,760 --> 00:42:40,600
Speaker 3: Let me tell you, I got some plan. I got

889
00:42:40,960 --> 00:42:43,280
Speaker 3: girlfriend's got some plans this week.

890
00:42:43,440 --> 00:42:43,680
Speaker 2: You know.

891
00:42:43,840 --> 00:42:46,920
Speaker 3: I'm saying plans for what I'm hitting town.

892
00:42:47,320 --> 00:42:49,240
Speaker 2: What with who and where?

893
00:42:49,760 --> 00:42:52,240
Speaker 3: Just a lot of things I put So the problem

894
00:42:52,280 --> 00:42:54,160
Speaker 3: is like before award shows, I put everything off. I'm

895
00:42:54,160 --> 00:42:55,799
Speaker 3: like I have gloves on Sunday. I can't. I can't.

896
00:42:55,840 --> 00:42:57,640
Speaker 3: I can't. Like I literally was locked in this apartment

897
00:42:57,680 --> 00:43:00,920
Speaker 3: for like a week before, and now I'm just like

898
00:43:01,200 --> 00:43:05,200
Speaker 3: free willy, free Willy nilly for one week and then

899
00:43:05,200 --> 00:43:06,280
Speaker 3: I have Grammys.

900
00:43:06,360 --> 00:43:09,480
Speaker 2: Okay, so you're gonna rage this week? Yeah, I want

901
00:43:09,480 --> 00:43:10,040
Speaker 2: to rage.

902
00:43:10,520 --> 00:43:13,359
Speaker 3: Come on, come on, grab your vibrating underwear and come

903
00:43:13,400 --> 00:43:13,799
Speaker 3: on over.

904
00:43:15,120 --> 00:43:17,640
Speaker 2: I'm gonna leave. I'm gonna I want to hear more

905
00:43:17,880 --> 00:43:20,359
Speaker 2: feedback about those before I am best is it?

906
00:43:20,400 --> 00:43:23,600
Speaker 4: Is it for a long distance relationship or the remotes

907
00:43:24,000 --> 00:43:24,680
Speaker 4: like in the room.

908
00:43:25,040 --> 00:43:26,880
Speaker 3: I imagine that it's like it's like if you go

909
00:43:26,960 --> 00:43:29,239
Speaker 3: to dinner with your significant other and it's like kind

910
00:43:29,239 --> 00:43:30,080
Speaker 3: of like four play.

911
00:43:30,200 --> 00:43:33,080
Speaker 2: Yeah. Yeah, I think it's more like that. I think

912
00:43:33,120 --> 00:43:34,799
Speaker 2: the range is that great on those things, right, Yeah,

913
00:43:34,800 --> 00:43:38,439
Speaker 2: it was like distance. You have an idea there.

914
00:43:39,200 --> 00:43:42,080
Speaker 1: I feel like we've talked about those before on the show,

915
00:43:42,719 --> 00:43:45,759
Speaker 1: some sort of long distance in a way to stimulate

916
00:43:45,800 --> 00:43:47,440
Speaker 1: your partner across the internet.

917
00:43:47,840 --> 00:43:51,359
Speaker 3: Yeah, Beck and I got those, but friendship bracelets. They

918
00:43:51,360 --> 00:43:52,440
Speaker 3: were friendship remember.

919
00:43:52,960 --> 00:43:56,040
Speaker 2: Yeah. You wear them on your wrist and they vibrate

920
00:43:56,080 --> 00:43:58,960
Speaker 2: your wrists. Yeah, you can do that.

921
00:43:59,160 --> 00:44:01,360
Speaker 3: You can do the other one, right, I agree, the

922
00:44:01,440 --> 00:44:04,280
Speaker 3: technology exists. Potato potato, tomato tomato.

923
00:44:04,440 --> 00:44:06,960
Speaker 2: Yeah, like like the best friend bracelets I mean, I

924
00:44:06,960 --> 00:44:08,799
Speaker 2: guess you could use them if you're if you're in

925
00:44:08,800 --> 00:44:11,279
Speaker 2: a relationship, but you like double tap or triple tap

926
00:44:11,360 --> 00:44:14,600
Speaker 2: to say certain messages, so like I miss you, you

927
00:44:14,600 --> 00:44:17,399
Speaker 2: could do like three or whatever. I guess you could

928
00:44:17,440 --> 00:44:19,560
Speaker 2: do the same with like underwear you just like.

929
00:44:21,040 --> 00:44:23,799
Speaker 3: And you're like, oh, yeah, we should have somebody. What's

930
00:44:23,800 --> 00:44:27,640
Speaker 3: our email? iHeart scrubbing in heart. Yes, it's like it's

931
00:44:27,640 --> 00:44:31,160
Speaker 3: like there's something in there, but it's not computing with

932
00:44:31,239 --> 00:44:31,680
Speaker 3: my mouth.

933
00:44:31,960 --> 00:44:34,400
Speaker 1: We did like eleven podcasts. None of the hosts have

934
00:44:34,480 --> 00:44:35,680
Speaker 1: ever once remembered the email.

935
00:44:36,320 --> 00:44:43,040
Speaker 2: I remember it's scrubbing in iHeartMedia dot com.

936
00:44:40,920 --> 00:44:42,879
Speaker 3: Yes, or iHeartRadio dot com.

937
00:44:42,920 --> 00:44:43,719
Speaker 4: It's your it's your pick.

938
00:44:43,719 --> 00:44:46,360
Speaker 3: They both go the same place. Oh great, Yeah, so

939
00:44:47,280 --> 00:44:50,279
Speaker 3: I'm actually really interested to see anybody emails about that.

940
00:44:50,800 --> 00:44:52,600
Speaker 4: Well, speaking of emails, shall.

941
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Speaker 2: We Well, first I have something I want to talk about.

942
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Speaker 2: All right, Well, I think we all can agree that

943
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944
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945
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946
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947
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951
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Speaker 2: the right one, so I think I'm I'm gonna have

952
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Speaker 2: to double check that.

953
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Speaker 3: And I was thinking about how spring break is coming

954
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955
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957
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964
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Speaker 2: My N ninety five mask has made a huge difference

965
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Speaker 2: because they they they're not flattering. They go out like

966
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Speaker 2: a beak, but you have so much more room to breathe.

967
00:46:15,200 --> 00:46:16,399
Speaker 3: Is there a flattering one?

968
00:46:16,480 --> 00:46:17,080
Speaker 2: Like? Who cares?

969
00:46:17,160 --> 00:46:17,880
Speaker 3: Just put a mask on?

970
00:46:18,000 --> 00:46:20,960
Speaker 2: Well, I'm saying like some people try to like match

971
00:46:21,000 --> 00:46:23,280
Speaker 2: their mask and stuff. It's like, fine, I've.

972
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Speaker 3: Never been one of those I want to be. You know,

973
00:46:26,800 --> 00:46:30,720
Speaker 3: you strive to be, strive to be a mask matcher,

974
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Speaker 3: and I'm just not there.

975
00:46:32,440 --> 00:46:32,640
Speaker 2: You know.

976
00:46:32,719 --> 00:46:37,240
Speaker 3: It's like Jason sudeikis adjacent, Jason adjacent, Jason adjacent.

977
00:46:39,080 --> 00:46:42,200
Speaker 2: Okay, So now that we've talked about mask with Yes,

978
00:46:42,440 --> 00:46:44,759
Speaker 2: important email business to take care of.

979
00:46:45,200 --> 00:46:47,400
Speaker 4: This is from Lacan, which is the name I've always

980
00:46:47,440 --> 00:46:48,480
Speaker 4: really liked. Lacan.

981
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Speaker 3: I've never heard that name.

982
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Speaker 4: Pretty, isn't it.

983
00:46:51,040 --> 00:46:51,320
Speaker 3: Yeah.

984
00:46:52,160 --> 00:46:53,279
Speaker 1: I just got out of a two and a half

985
00:46:53,360 --> 00:46:55,680
Speaker 1: year relationship less than a month ago. We ended things

986
00:46:55,719 --> 00:46:59,200
Speaker 1: fairly amicably. We've texted a couple of times since the breakup,

987
00:46:59,239 --> 00:47:02,480
Speaker 1: with the most recent being last week. Then on Super

988
00:47:02,480 --> 00:47:05,160
Speaker 1: Bowl Sunday, his dad posted a picture on Instagram of

989
00:47:05,280 --> 00:47:07,560
Speaker 1: him cozied up to some girl I've never seen.

990
00:47:08,440 --> 00:47:09,959
Speaker 4: I instantly started.

991
00:47:09,640 --> 00:47:12,440
Speaker 1: Crying because it makes me feel like I meant absolutely

992
00:47:12,480 --> 00:47:14,600
Speaker 1: nothing to him if he can be with someone else

993
00:47:14,760 --> 00:47:18,080
Speaker 1: so quickly, especially when he asked me less than a

994
00:47:18,120 --> 00:47:20,200
Speaker 1: month ago if I'd be willing to get back together

995
00:47:20,239 --> 00:47:22,920
Speaker 1: one day. How do you work through feeling like you

996
00:47:23,000 --> 00:47:25,200
Speaker 1: meant nothing to someone you loved so much?

997
00:47:25,280 --> 00:47:26,920
Speaker 4: This is Olivia Rodrigo.

998
00:47:26,880 --> 00:47:33,480
Speaker 3: Girl and ially were perfect. There's no I mean, I'm

999
00:47:33,480 --> 00:47:35,080
Speaker 3: gonna go on a limb here. I'm just gonna go

1000
00:47:35,160 --> 00:47:41,240
Speaker 3: out on that little branch and just there's no greater

1001
00:47:41,400 --> 00:47:45,640
Speaker 3: pain than feeling when you love somebody feeling disposable to them.

1002
00:47:46,400 --> 00:47:51,000
Speaker 3: That is heartbreak. And I don't even have advice for

1003
00:47:51,040 --> 00:47:55,080
Speaker 3: you because it truly just breaks your heart into pieces

1004
00:47:56,360 --> 00:48:01,160
Speaker 3: and it makes you question everything. And I don't even

1005
00:48:01,320 --> 00:48:06,080
Speaker 3: I literally don't even have advice because that's the worst feeling.

1006
00:48:06,080 --> 00:48:09,359
Speaker 2: I'm sorry, yeah, like, and I'm I think we can

1007
00:48:09,400 --> 00:48:12,120
Speaker 2: all say that we're sorry that you're going through this

1008
00:48:12,200 --> 00:48:15,880
Speaker 2: and feeling this. I would ask him to stop reaching

1009
00:48:15,920 --> 00:48:18,640
Speaker 2: out to you or block him, because if he is

1010
00:48:19,680 --> 00:48:23,600
Speaker 2: just wanting to date around and do what he wants

1011
00:48:23,760 --> 00:48:26,439
Speaker 2: and then expect you to wait around to get back

1012
00:48:26,440 --> 00:48:31,400
Speaker 2: together with him, then that's that's not your responsibility anymore,

1013
00:48:31,440 --> 00:48:34,600
Speaker 2: and you deserve the freedom to move on. So I

1014
00:48:34,640 --> 00:48:39,239
Speaker 2: would say, I, you know, I'm struggling right now in

1015
00:48:39,280 --> 00:48:42,160
Speaker 2: your text to me asking if we're going to get

1016
00:48:42,320 --> 00:48:44,239
Speaker 2: back together when I see you hanging out with other

1017
00:48:44,320 --> 00:48:49,080
Speaker 2: girls is too painful and I need to move on. Yeah,

1018
00:48:49,200 --> 00:48:51,560
Speaker 2: So respectfully, please leave me alone.

1019
00:48:51,960 --> 00:48:54,200
Speaker 3: I don't even think she's saying like she's not even

1020
00:48:54,239 --> 00:48:57,319
Speaker 3: saying how to respond to the to the guy, She's

1021
00:48:57,400 --> 00:49:00,800
Speaker 3: just like, how do you cope with this? You know

1022
00:49:00,800 --> 00:49:01,200
Speaker 3: what I mean?

1023
00:49:01,440 --> 00:49:03,959
Speaker 2: Well, I think it's just time. I mean, I don't

1024
00:49:04,000 --> 00:49:06,879
Speaker 2: think there's any like cure for this type of like.

1025
00:49:06,880 --> 00:49:10,520
Speaker 3: There is something about that though, like you know, when

1026
00:49:10,560 --> 00:49:14,040
Speaker 3: you hear I guess in her case, she saw a photo,

1027
00:49:14,120 --> 00:49:17,239
Speaker 3: but when you hear things about your ex like moving on,

1028
00:49:17,560 --> 00:49:21,760
Speaker 3: I think it can be so got wrenchingly painful, and

1029
00:49:22,360 --> 00:49:24,640
Speaker 3: like it's almost like you just kind of have to

1030
00:49:24,640 --> 00:49:26,320
Speaker 3: feel the pain almost like let it hit you like

1031
00:49:26,360 --> 00:49:30,120
Speaker 3: a bullet, and then just carry on, you know what

1032
00:49:30,160 --> 00:49:33,680
Speaker 3: I mean. You'll heal. It's a wound. It's gonna stick

1033
00:49:33,719 --> 00:49:35,920
Speaker 3: with you, but like you just pick up and you

1034
00:49:35,960 --> 00:49:36,200
Speaker 3: move on.

1035
00:49:37,360 --> 00:49:43,760
Speaker 2: Well, like and whatever he's doing, it's you're in control

1036
00:49:43,840 --> 00:49:48,440
Speaker 2: of how you handle this from your perspective, and I

1037
00:49:48,480 --> 00:49:51,399
Speaker 2: think you, just like Tanya said, you let yourself feel

1038
00:49:51,440 --> 00:49:56,319
Speaker 2: the pain and the hurt. Don't distractions only distract for

1039
00:49:56,400 --> 00:49:58,800
Speaker 2: so long before you're forced to feel the hurt and

1040
00:49:58,840 --> 00:50:00,920
Speaker 2: the pain. It's gonna come up some point, So just

1041
00:50:01,360 --> 00:50:06,359
Speaker 2: let yourself feel it and know that Unfortunately, time, even

1042
00:50:06,400 --> 00:50:08,880
Speaker 2: though it sometimes feels like it moves so slowly, it

1043
00:50:08,920 --> 00:50:09,520
Speaker 2: does heal.

1044
00:50:09,880 --> 00:50:13,080
Speaker 3: And that is and almost like use it to your

1045
00:50:13,120 --> 00:50:15,160
Speaker 3: advantage in a weird way, you know what I mean. Like,

1046
00:50:15,200 --> 00:50:17,560
Speaker 3: I think, obviously breakups are so hurtful, and so they're

1047
00:50:17,680 --> 00:50:21,160
Speaker 3: really hard. But if he's doing something that is making

1048
00:50:21,160 --> 00:50:24,160
Speaker 3: you feel this way, and and the hurt has turned

1049
00:50:24,160 --> 00:50:28,520
Speaker 3: into disappointment, and the disappointment, disappointment is so different than

1050
00:50:28,600 --> 00:50:31,759
Speaker 3: hurt because it's just like this was somebody that you

1051
00:50:31,800 --> 00:50:33,879
Speaker 3: loved and you held on a pedestal, and then when

1052
00:50:33,880 --> 00:50:36,040
Speaker 3: they start disappointing you and treat and doing things in

1053
00:50:36,080 --> 00:50:38,799
Speaker 3: a certain way, that makes it just I feel like

1054
00:50:38,840 --> 00:50:40,840
Speaker 3: it just changes that person for you. So it's just

1055
00:50:40,920 --> 00:50:43,520
Speaker 3: kind of moving into that new season, that new direction,

1056
00:50:43,600 --> 00:50:45,480
Speaker 3: seeing that person in a different light, and using it

1057
00:50:45,520 --> 00:50:47,960
Speaker 3: to your advantage because it's true, like you can't control

1058
00:50:47,960 --> 00:50:51,680
Speaker 3: what he's doing. You can only control yourself, So use

1059
00:50:51,680 --> 00:50:53,760
Speaker 3: it to your advantage and your moving on process.

1060
00:50:54,560 --> 00:50:57,759
Speaker 1: All right, let's do another one here from Anonymous. I

1061
00:50:57,760 --> 00:51:00,440
Speaker 1: grew up in a pretty strict Christian household, still have

1062
00:51:00,480 --> 00:51:03,400
Speaker 1: those beliefs now. One topic that has always been a

1063
00:51:03,400 --> 00:51:05,640
Speaker 1: hard and confusing one is sex. I always thought I

1064
00:51:05,680 --> 00:51:07,759
Speaker 1: would wait until marriage until I fell in love and

1065
00:51:07,800 --> 00:51:10,600
Speaker 1: lost my virginity to my now fiance. We have been

1066
00:51:10,640 --> 00:51:13,359
Speaker 1: together four years and the guilt of having premarital sex

1067
00:51:13,440 --> 00:51:15,080
Speaker 1: is still an issue for me and something that has

1068
00:51:15,120 --> 00:51:18,480
Speaker 1: caused a lot of anxiety. Long story short, we have

1069
00:51:18,480 --> 00:51:20,359
Speaker 1: not had sex and over a year because of how

1070
00:51:20,400 --> 00:51:22,960
Speaker 1: guilty I feel. He says he understands and does not

1071
00:51:23,000 --> 00:51:24,759
Speaker 1: want to make me continue to do anything I feel

1072
00:51:24,800 --> 00:51:28,560
Speaker 1: uncomfortable with. Obviously he's a keeper, but I feel horrible

1073
00:51:28,640 --> 00:51:30,719
Speaker 1: with holding sex from him after we already brought that

1074
00:51:30,760 --> 00:51:34,440
Speaker 1: into our relationship. You ladies, are both openly Christian women,

1075
00:51:34,560 --> 00:51:35,919
Speaker 1: you still have a healthy sex life.

1076
00:51:35,920 --> 00:51:38,040
Speaker 4: How do you balance the two without feeling guilt?

1077
00:51:43,040 --> 00:51:43,560
Speaker 2: You want to go?

1078
00:51:43,880 --> 00:51:50,120
Speaker 3: Okay? To me, being a Christian is not is about

1079
00:51:50,239 --> 00:51:56,359
Speaker 3: being It's hard. I don't know how. It's like, how

1080
00:51:56,360 --> 00:51:59,919
Speaker 3: do I explain this thoughtfully when I'm like sound sleep?

1081
00:52:02,040 --> 00:52:04,920
Speaker 3: To me, being a Christian isn't doesn't mean x y Z.

1082
00:52:05,160 --> 00:52:06,879
Speaker 3: It's like you don't just put Christians in a box

1083
00:52:06,920 --> 00:52:08,480
Speaker 3: and say like you can do this. You can't do

1084
00:52:08,520 --> 00:52:10,600
Speaker 3: this the Bible, Like if you really read the Bible,

1085
00:52:11,840 --> 00:52:14,120
Speaker 3: you can come up with something for everything, you know

1086
00:52:14,160 --> 00:52:16,200
Speaker 3: what I mean, Like women aren't supposed to be doing

1087
00:52:16,239 --> 00:52:18,880
Speaker 3: you know what I mean That there's you can really

1088
00:52:18,960 --> 00:52:22,399
Speaker 3: make a rule for anything. And so for me, being

1089
00:52:22,440 --> 00:52:25,319
Speaker 3: a Christian is about my relationship with God and my

1090
00:52:25,480 --> 00:52:29,280
Speaker 3: faith in Him and his and his purpose in my life.

1091
00:52:29,719 --> 00:52:32,080
Speaker 3: So I pray a lot, I lean on prayer, and

1092
00:52:32,160 --> 00:52:35,759
Speaker 3: I live in a hopeful place because I know that

1093
00:52:35,760 --> 00:52:40,799
Speaker 3: that's my relationship with God. So for me, I never

1094
00:52:40,880 --> 00:52:44,520
Speaker 3: had this guilt or pressure in terms of my sex

1095
00:52:44,600 --> 00:52:47,319
Speaker 3: life because I never I never had that where I'd

1096
00:52:47,320 --> 00:52:50,560
Speaker 3: wanted to be a virgin until I was married. But

1097
00:52:50,600 --> 00:52:54,400
Speaker 3: for me, for Tanya purposes, I knew I couldn't have

1098
00:52:54,520 --> 00:52:57,080
Speaker 3: unattached sex. So that was just something that I had

1099
00:52:57,080 --> 00:53:00,160
Speaker 3: to like learn about myself through the process. And it

1100
00:53:00,200 --> 00:53:05,400
Speaker 3: was a it was almost like a what's the word,

1101
00:53:05,760 --> 00:53:08,239
Speaker 3: I'm not a promise, but like a pact I made

1102
00:53:08,280 --> 00:53:10,799
Speaker 3: with myself, you know, like don't put your heart and

1103
00:53:10,800 --> 00:53:13,279
Speaker 3: your body in this position until you're really really ready,

1104
00:53:13,280 --> 00:53:15,520
Speaker 3: and this is a man that deserves it. So for me,

1105
00:53:15,600 --> 00:53:20,520
Speaker 3: it was always treading the water lightly in that aspect

1106
00:53:20,520 --> 00:53:22,959
Speaker 3: because it was what's best for me. Tanya, not because

1107
00:53:23,320 --> 00:53:25,279
Speaker 3: of my relationship with God.

1108
00:53:27,360 --> 00:53:32,879
Speaker 2: Yeah, I no, that sounds good, And I don't think

1109
00:53:32,880 --> 00:53:35,080
Speaker 2: there's a right answer. Like I think we all have

1110
00:53:35,160 --> 00:53:40,520
Speaker 2: our own I literally can't think of any word other

1111
00:53:40,600 --> 00:53:42,480
Speaker 2: than journey when I hate using the word journey. But

1112
00:53:42,480 --> 00:53:46,200
Speaker 2: we all have our own journeys that we go through

1113
00:53:46,239 --> 00:53:48,520
Speaker 2: with certain things in our lives. And I think this

1114
00:53:48,560 --> 00:53:51,560
Speaker 2: one always continues to come up in a lot of

1115
00:53:51,600 --> 00:53:55,960
Speaker 2: the emails that we get. And I grew up in

1116
00:53:56,000 --> 00:53:59,000
Speaker 2: a Christian home and I still consider myself a Christian,

1117
00:53:59,040 --> 00:54:02,080
Speaker 2: and I was going to wait until marriage, and I've

1118
00:54:02,120 --> 00:54:04,120
Speaker 2: talked about this before, but there was a lot of guilt,

1119
00:54:04,200 --> 00:54:06,319
Speaker 2: but I it was on me, like it was never

1120
00:54:06,400 --> 00:54:09,040
Speaker 2: I felt like God wouldn't love me, or God wanted

1121
00:54:09,040 --> 00:54:13,080
Speaker 2: to approve, or my my family didn't. My family didn't

1122
00:54:13,080 --> 00:54:15,680
Speaker 2: even like really push me to do that, like they

1123
00:54:15,840 --> 00:54:18,560
Speaker 2: just it was my decision. And it was also my

1124
00:54:18,640 --> 00:54:23,359
Speaker 2: decision to lose my virginity. And so I think it's

1125
00:54:25,080 --> 00:54:26,400
Speaker 2: first of all, I want to say, you have a

1126
00:54:26,440 --> 00:54:28,640
Speaker 2: really good guy. You have a really good man, because

1127
00:54:28,680 --> 00:54:31,799
Speaker 2: there's a lot of men who would shout out, yeah,

1128
00:54:31,840 --> 00:54:34,560
Speaker 2: shout out to him, because a lot of men would

1129
00:54:34,640 --> 00:54:36,560
Speaker 2: be like, wait, you've already given this to me, how

1130
00:54:36,560 --> 00:54:38,400
Speaker 2: are you going to take it back? But it is

1131
00:54:38,440 --> 00:54:42,359
Speaker 2: your body and it is your decision. And I've had

1132
00:54:42,400 --> 00:54:46,319
Speaker 2: I have a few different friends who have brought sex

1133
00:54:46,360 --> 00:54:48,600
Speaker 2: into their relationship and then made the decision to wait

1134
00:54:48,680 --> 00:54:50,680
Speaker 2: until marriage. So if that's what you want to do,

1135
00:54:51,440 --> 00:54:53,600
Speaker 2: I would have that conversation and let him know.

1136
00:54:53,920 --> 00:54:56,680
Speaker 3: You know, it's interesting though, guilt because use the word guilt,

1137
00:54:56,719 --> 00:54:59,239
Speaker 3: and that really kind of triggers me because I think

1138
00:54:59,400 --> 00:55:02,600
Speaker 3: guilt is such an interesting thing because it's it's put

1139
00:55:02,680 --> 00:55:06,719
Speaker 3: on by something other than yourself. And I think at

1140
00:55:06,719 --> 00:55:09,200
Speaker 3: the end of the day, you deserve just as much

1141
00:55:09,239 --> 00:55:13,279
Speaker 3: as we all deserve to be happy and to live

1142
00:55:13,400 --> 00:55:18,000
Speaker 3: freely and do the things that make us happy, and

1143
00:55:18,239 --> 00:55:21,120
Speaker 3: being in a place of freedom is a beautiful place

1144
00:55:21,160 --> 00:55:24,040
Speaker 3: to be. And so guilt, I struggle so much with

1145
00:55:24,239 --> 00:55:27,439
Speaker 3: the term guilt because it's like it's it's pressure from

1146
00:55:27,600 --> 00:55:29,960
Speaker 3: some sort of outside something, whether it's a person or

1147
00:55:30,000 --> 00:55:35,160
Speaker 3: society or whatever it is church that's put on you.

1148
00:55:35,480 --> 00:55:38,520
Speaker 3: That isn't you gotta go with what makes you happy?

1149
00:55:38,600 --> 00:55:39,480
Speaker 3: Like life is short.

1150
00:55:40,200 --> 00:55:43,319
Speaker 2: I also and I've just kind of gone down this

1151
00:55:43,400 --> 00:55:47,160
Speaker 2: path of like watching and listening to certain things that

1152
00:55:47,200 --> 00:55:50,640
Speaker 2: talk a lot about how unhealthy purity culture is and

1153
00:55:50,640 --> 00:55:54,160
Speaker 2: how it's done a lot of cause a lot of

1154
00:55:54,239 --> 00:55:56,200
Speaker 2: hurt and damage and cause a lot of guilt and

1155
00:55:56,600 --> 00:55:59,600
Speaker 2: shame in people's lives. And I don't think that that

1156
00:55:59,840 --> 00:56:02,440
Speaker 2: is of God, Like, I just don't believe that that

1157
00:56:02,520 --> 00:56:05,520
Speaker 2: comes from people, That comes from human who are imperfect.

1158
00:56:05,600 --> 00:56:10,400
Speaker 2: But I just I would like, really just think about

1159
00:56:10,440 --> 00:56:15,080
Speaker 2: what you want and not let the outside perspectives or

1160
00:56:15,120 --> 00:56:18,000
Speaker 2: opinions or beliefs of what they want you to do

1161
00:56:18,160 --> 00:56:20,239
Speaker 2: guide your decision. If it's your decision, it's what you

1162
00:56:20,239 --> 00:56:23,399
Speaker 2: want to do. I think it's beautiful. I think you wait,

1163
00:56:23,440 --> 00:56:26,120
Speaker 2: I think you have a conversation with this wonderful man

1164
00:56:26,160 --> 00:56:29,080
Speaker 2: you're with. But make it about you and what you

1165
00:56:29,160 --> 00:56:34,800
Speaker 2: want and not about the guilt you feel from outside sources.

1166
00:56:35,200 --> 00:56:37,200
Speaker 2: Because I'm with you. I don't like the guilt. I

1167
00:56:37,239 --> 00:56:38,840
Speaker 2: have experienced a lot of guilt, and I'm kind of

1168
00:56:38,880 --> 00:56:40,439
Speaker 2: I don't want to feel guilt over there.

1169
00:56:41,000 --> 00:56:44,880
Speaker 3: Hashtag it over it. In twenty twenty one.

1170
00:56:44,080 --> 00:56:46,240
Speaker 2: I need Taylor to write a song called anti guilt.

1171
00:56:47,120 --> 00:56:49,840
Speaker 3: Freedom. Freedom is such a beautiful place to be in

1172
00:56:49,920 --> 00:56:53,279
Speaker 3: because when you're in freedom, you can really experience happiness.

1173
00:56:53,560 --> 00:56:57,960
Speaker 1: Yeah, it's true, but you found a good one and

1174
00:56:58,000 --> 00:57:00,440
Speaker 1: that's half the battle. So good for you. Always said

1175
00:57:00,560 --> 00:57:02,040
Speaker 1: the best way to figure out what's in a guy's

1176
00:57:02,040 --> 00:57:04,919
Speaker 1: hard is to remove that from the equation and see

1177
00:57:04,960 --> 00:57:05,480
Speaker 1: what happens.

1178
00:57:05,520 --> 00:57:10,720
Speaker 2: He sounds like Easton Mark type. Ye are rarefying, seriously

1179
00:57:10,760 --> 00:57:13,080
Speaker 2: like hearing that is like that's a good that's a

1180
00:57:13,080 --> 00:57:16,840
Speaker 2: good man. And I think he's gonna respect you no

1181
00:57:16,880 --> 00:57:19,320
Speaker 2: matter what you decide. But I just I know a

1182
00:57:19,320 --> 00:57:22,400
Speaker 2: lot of that guilt, especially growing up in the church,

1183
00:57:22,680 --> 00:57:26,680
Speaker 2: that that can be very heavy and it can cause

1184
00:57:26,720 --> 00:57:28,120
Speaker 2: a lot of shame and a lot of pain. And

1185
00:57:28,160 --> 00:57:29,400
Speaker 2: I don't think that's how we're supposed to.

1186
00:57:29,400 --> 00:57:35,160
Speaker 3: Have our lives. No, sir, shame and pain, No, m

1187
00:57:35,400 --> 00:57:39,640
Speaker 3: m no, sir. Not here.

1188
00:57:40,520 --> 00:57:42,720
Speaker 2: I kept thinking, if she's gonna add another.

1189
00:57:42,760 --> 00:57:46,080
Speaker 3: Yes he's not. Guess who's not experiencing pain and shame

1190
00:57:47,000 --> 00:57:47,520
Speaker 3: this girl?

1191
00:57:48,760 --> 00:57:50,960
Speaker 2: Or I'm working I'm working through it. I can't say

1192
00:57:51,000 --> 00:57:52,920
Speaker 2: I'm fully free, but I'm working through.

1193
00:57:56,520 --> 00:57:57,120
Speaker 3: Happiness.

1194
00:58:01,040 --> 00:58:03,520
Speaker 2: This is where it starts to go. No kind of like,

1195
00:58:03,560 --> 00:58:07,200
Speaker 2: do we keep going so we get some good Tanya content?

1196
00:58:07,400 --> 00:58:12,120
Speaker 2: Or do we let her off off the hook. Okay, So.

1197
00:58:13,800 --> 00:58:14,720
Speaker 3: Was that? That was it?

1198
00:58:14,880 --> 00:58:16,360
Speaker 2: That was it? That was it, that was all. That

1199
00:58:16,440 --> 00:58:18,520
Speaker 2: was all we have. That's all she wrote.

1200
00:58:18,600 --> 00:58:19,480
Speaker 3: That was sage advice.

1201
00:58:20,040 --> 00:58:22,520
Speaker 4: Sage, I thought so. And we are ten days from

1202
00:58:22,520 --> 00:58:23,560
Speaker 4: the return of grace anatomy.

1203
00:58:25,000 --> 00:58:28,080
Speaker 3: See I told you guys, blink of an eye, did

1204
00:58:28,120 --> 00:58:28,320
Speaker 3: I not?

1205
00:58:29,160 --> 00:58:32,720
Speaker 2: Okay? Well, in our defense, January lasted like fourteen months,

1206
00:58:32,760 --> 00:58:34,160
Speaker 2: and then February was like.

1207
00:58:35,960 --> 00:58:41,680
Speaker 3: A snap, Yes, in an afternoon, was so fast. Let

1208
00:58:41,680 --> 00:58:43,400
Speaker 3: me tell you, February was not fast.

1209
00:58:44,000 --> 00:58:45,840
Speaker 4: And we think of how fast this year's going. Don't

1210
00:58:45,840 --> 00:58:49,439
Speaker 4: you think we're in March again? The whole world shut

1211
00:58:49,480 --> 00:58:51,640
Speaker 4: down and it was March, and now we're still stuck

1212
00:58:51,640 --> 00:58:53,120
Speaker 4: in our houses and it's March again.

1213
00:58:53,480 --> 00:58:56,880
Speaker 3: I feel like that went fast a year. Yeah, yeah,

1214
00:58:56,960 --> 00:58:57,760
Speaker 3: it did go fast.

1215
00:58:57,760 --> 00:59:01,080
Speaker 2: There were there were the whole the whole year of

1216
00:59:01,120 --> 00:59:05,160
Speaker 2: it feels fast. But like in the months the trenches,

1217
00:59:05,280 --> 00:59:07,280
Speaker 2: there were some long days.

1218
00:59:07,520 --> 00:59:10,040
Speaker 3: There were some long days. There were some long days

1219
00:59:10,040 --> 00:59:14,840
Speaker 3: in February. I will say that this month, this last month, yeah, ok,

1220
00:59:16,000 --> 00:59:16,760
Speaker 3: some long ones.

1221
00:59:16,840 --> 00:59:18,960
Speaker 2: Yeah. Well, it went by fast.

1222
00:59:19,000 --> 00:59:24,720
Speaker 3: Some valleys though, peaks, peaks and valleys the peaks, some

1223
00:59:24,800 --> 00:59:26,040
Speaker 3: peaks were nice though.

1224
00:59:26,600 --> 00:59:31,160
Speaker 2: What were some of your peaks of February the globes

1225
00:59:31,680 --> 00:59:33,160
Speaker 2: okay really ended it on.

1226
00:59:38,080 --> 00:59:39,960
Speaker 3: I met some cool people in February.

1227
00:59:40,080 --> 00:59:42,320
Speaker 2: Oh yeah, Becca Beca the Doula.

1228
00:59:42,480 --> 00:59:45,600
Speaker 3: Oh yea in February.

1229
00:59:45,680 --> 00:59:47,480
Speaker 2: Hold on, boit, I have to talk about this. Did

1230
00:59:47,840 --> 00:59:50,920
Speaker 2: did you see this? This like dark theory that one

1231
00:59:50,960 --> 00:59:55,200
Speaker 2: of our covers wrote that that Beca the Doula listens

1232
00:59:55,240 --> 00:59:57,560
Speaker 2: to the podcast and so she wanted to get close

1233
00:59:57,640 --> 01:00:00,640
Speaker 2: to Tanya. And then so she's said her name was

1234
01:00:00,680 --> 01:00:03,200
Speaker 2: Becket because she knew Tanny would be so excited about that,

1235
01:00:03,800 --> 01:00:06,040
Speaker 2: and then she like tries to get closed. It's like

1236
01:00:06,080 --> 01:00:07,560
Speaker 2: a swim fan kind of thing.

1237
01:00:08,200 --> 01:00:08,880
Speaker 4: Siman.

1238
01:00:09,320 --> 01:00:12,439
Speaker 3: I know her social account and her name is really Becca.

1239
01:00:12,720 --> 01:00:14,680
Speaker 2: So you think anyone can have it?

1240
01:00:14,880 --> 01:00:17,240
Speaker 4: So yeah, until you see a birth certificate, I.

1241
01:00:19,320 --> 01:00:19,640
Speaker 1: Forgot.

1242
01:00:19,680 --> 01:00:22,160
Speaker 3: I have to set up that date that needs to happen.

1243
01:00:22,520 --> 01:00:25,560
Speaker 2: Yeah, I'm gonna be studying her now. They got that

1244
01:00:25,640 --> 01:00:32,439
Speaker 2: in my head like looking got my eye. Yeah, because

1245
01:00:32,480 --> 01:00:35,360
Speaker 2: you love fan fiction Easton, I do, and I love

1246
01:00:35,400 --> 01:00:35,959
Speaker 2: swim fans.

1247
01:00:36,000 --> 01:00:37,960
Speaker 3: So anytime swim fan gets brought up, I'm.

1248
01:00:37,800 --> 01:00:39,040
Speaker 4: Just here for it.

1249
01:00:40,840 --> 01:00:43,880
Speaker 3: Yeah, I agree, it does not I don't even know

1250
01:00:43,960 --> 01:00:45,000
Speaker 3: what that is. Sounds dark.

1251
01:00:46,040 --> 01:00:48,959
Speaker 2: I always it is dark. My friend Alie always says

1252
01:00:48,960 --> 01:00:51,200
Speaker 2: her dog is like swim fan because she always looks

1253
01:00:51,200 --> 01:00:53,480
Speaker 2: across the room and he's like staring at her, like

1254
01:00:53,520 --> 01:00:54,400
Speaker 2: around a corner.

1255
01:00:55,200 --> 01:00:57,400
Speaker 4: So who was in that? Was that? Erica Christensen?

1256
01:00:59,040 --> 01:01:03,000
Speaker 1: Yes, And it's a basic stalker thing, right, like high

1257
01:01:03,000 --> 01:01:04,400
Speaker 1: school age, college age stalker.

1258
01:01:04,440 --> 01:01:06,760
Speaker 3: Oh my gosh, Becca the dula is not a soccer

1259
01:01:06,920 --> 01:01:08,480
Speaker 3: she's so cute.

1260
01:01:08,720 --> 01:01:10,240
Speaker 4: This is just just infatuated.

1261
01:01:10,360 --> 01:01:15,960
Speaker 2: They're wrong with that. Tanya might be the swim fan

1262
01:01:16,040 --> 01:01:22,560
Speaker 2: of the Becca. Yeah. I actually think that's it's the

1263
01:01:22,640 --> 01:01:24,560
Speaker 2: reverse the reverse theories.

1264
01:01:24,640 --> 01:01:27,240
Speaker 3: It's true because it was almost like my first taste

1265
01:01:27,360 --> 01:01:30,000
Speaker 3: of like meeting or like how I used to be

1266
01:01:30,160 --> 01:01:32,960
Speaker 3: where I was just out and about and met people,

1267
01:01:33,120 --> 01:01:35,720
Speaker 3: you know, out in the wild and just really connected.

1268
01:01:35,760 --> 01:01:39,480
Speaker 3: Like her and her fiance are just the coolest like

1269
01:01:39,680 --> 01:01:41,000
Speaker 3: power couple, Like do you know what I mean? You

1270
01:01:41,040 --> 01:01:42,480
Speaker 3: don't even like meet couples and you're like, I want

1271
01:01:42,520 --> 01:01:43,080
Speaker 3: to be your friend.

1272
01:01:44,320 --> 01:01:46,320
Speaker 4: They're the type to have a sidehousehole those two.

1273
01:01:47,640 --> 01:01:48,320
Speaker 3: Exactly.

1274
01:01:48,480 --> 01:01:50,360
Speaker 2: Oh yeah, like they probably have a side thing going

1275
01:01:50,400 --> 01:01:50,880
Speaker 2: on together.

1276
01:01:51,360 --> 01:01:54,680
Speaker 3: Yeah, like some sort of venture together. For sure, they do,

1277
01:01:54,760 --> 01:01:56,800
Speaker 3: Oh for sure they do. Because she's like super cool

1278
01:01:56,800 --> 01:01:59,120
Speaker 3: in her own like Dodula world, and he's like really

1279
01:01:59,240 --> 01:02:00,959
Speaker 3: cool in his world. Then they probably have some.

1280
01:02:01,680 --> 01:02:03,280
Speaker 2: Like a charity or charity to get.

1281
01:02:03,320 --> 01:02:05,880
Speaker 3: Yeah for sure. Oh my god, it's gonna be so

1282
01:02:05,960 --> 01:02:07,320
Speaker 3: cute when I can have a double day with them.

1283
01:02:08,880 --> 01:02:10,520
Speaker 4: Yeah for sure.

1284
01:02:10,760 --> 01:02:11,760
Speaker 3: Yeah.

1285
01:02:12,000 --> 01:02:17,600
Speaker 2: Now I'm like, wait, our screver needs to readjust the theory,

1286
01:02:18,240 --> 01:02:21,960
Speaker 2: because we now have the answer. It is a swim

1287
01:02:22,000 --> 01:02:29,040
Speaker 2: fan situation. But it's not Becky, it's me. Okay. On

1288
01:02:29,080 --> 01:02:32,680
Speaker 2: that note, we're gonna go. I hope you all have

1289
01:02:32,960 --> 01:02:37,640
Speaker 2: a wonderful week. We will be back next Monday, which

1290
01:02:37,800 --> 01:02:40,360
Speaker 2: will that be the week of Gray's Anatomy returning.

1291
01:02:40,400 --> 01:02:43,560
Speaker 4: Yes, it's gonna be a good week.

1292
01:02:44,280 --> 01:02:45,840
Speaker 3: Waitak, I told you it's gonna be there like a

1293
01:02:45,840 --> 01:02:47,000
Speaker 3: blink of an eye, like a flash of.

1294
01:02:47,000 --> 01:02:50,720
Speaker 2: A stat Okay, so she got We got to put

1295
01:02:50,720 --> 01:02:51,040
Speaker 2: her to.

1296
01:02:51,000 --> 01:02:54,080
Speaker 3: Sleep this We got to go.

1297
01:02:54,560 --> 01:02:56,840
Speaker 2: All right, We love you all, have a great week.

1298
01:02:57,040 --> 01:02:58,000
Speaker 2: Be nice to each other.

1299
01:02:58,120 --> 01:03:00,320
Speaker 3: I feel like there's something really big or forgetting though.

1300
01:03:02,480 --> 01:03:05,280
Speaker 2: I'm glad that that popped up in your mind at

1301
01:03:05,280 --> 01:03:07,120
Speaker 2: the very end, literal.

1302
01:03:06,840 --> 01:03:09,280
Speaker 3: Last something, and I don't know how to jog my

1303
01:03:09,360 --> 01:03:13,400
Speaker 3: memory it's like, what did we miss.

1304
01:03:13,920 --> 01:03:17,760
Speaker 4: Lady Gaga's dogs. I'm just going through the headlines.

1305
01:03:17,840 --> 01:03:19,919
Speaker 2: And that was pretty crazy though, because I got the

1306
01:03:20,000 --> 01:03:23,360
Speaker 2: notification of my citizen app that a dog walker was shot,

1307
01:03:24,080 --> 01:03:26,120
Speaker 2: and then I was like, that's so scary. It was

1308
01:03:26,160 --> 01:03:29,320
Speaker 2: so close to me. And then uh, the next day

1309
01:03:29,320 --> 01:03:33,320
Speaker 2: it was Lady Gogs dogs. Luckily they got the dogs

1310
01:03:33,360 --> 01:03:37,680
Speaker 2: back and the dog walker is on the mend.

1311
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Speaker 3: A lot of butterflies lately.

1312
01:03:39,320 --> 01:03:43,440
Speaker 2: But that's per un significant. I mean, it is significant,

1313
01:03:43,480 --> 01:03:47,120
Speaker 2: but it's it's very significant. All right. Well, well we'll

1314
01:03:47,200 --> 01:03:48,440
Speaker 2: touch on this noodle on it.

1315
01:03:49,080 --> 01:03:51,400
Speaker 1: There's a street and right near us that's there's a

1316
01:03:51,400 --> 01:03:52,880
Speaker 1: bunch of houses at the top of this hill and

1317
01:03:52,920 --> 01:03:55,400
Speaker 1: they call it a Monarch butterfly sanctuary. They have signs

1318
01:03:55,480 --> 01:03:57,640
Speaker 1: up and everything, and sure enough, you look around you

1319
01:03:57,680 --> 01:03:59,480
Speaker 1: see a bunch of them and they put out special

1320
01:03:59,760 --> 01:04:01,960
Speaker 1: you know, nectar or whatever they like to eat. And

1321
01:04:02,000 --> 01:04:04,800
Speaker 1: so they warned you that you're entering a butterfly sanctuary.

1322
01:04:04,880 --> 01:04:06,520
Speaker 1: The homes on this block. I feel like you should

1323
01:04:06,520 --> 01:04:07,120
Speaker 1: live in one of.

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01:04:07,040 --> 01:04:10,320
Speaker 3: Those, for sure. I went to brunch the other day.

1325
01:04:10,720 --> 01:04:13,240
Speaker 3: You guys, they sit us at this table. There are

1326
01:04:13,320 --> 01:04:16,040
Speaker 3: three paintings of butterflies on the wall next to us,

1327
01:04:16,080 --> 01:04:20,040
Speaker 3: So just three stagnant butterflies. Then they bring out our food.

1328
01:04:20,560 --> 01:04:23,800
Speaker 3: My food is on a plate with little butterflies on it.

1329
01:04:23,840 --> 01:04:25,720
Speaker 3: Mine's the only plate with the butterflies on it.

1330
01:04:26,040 --> 01:04:29,040
Speaker 1: You went to a butterfly themed restaurant, but.

1331
01:04:29,160 --> 01:04:30,480
Speaker 3: It was not a butterfly themed at all.

1332
01:04:30,520 --> 01:04:31,840
Speaker 2: It was a very nice maas.

1333
01:04:33,960 --> 01:04:36,520
Speaker 3: I was just like, my plate has butterflies on it,

1334
01:04:36,560 --> 01:04:38,920
Speaker 3: and your plate is just a white plate with just

1335
01:04:38,960 --> 01:04:39,560
Speaker 3: nothing on it.

1336
01:04:40,000 --> 01:04:42,640
Speaker 1: When Easton goes the cheesecake factory doesn't freak out because

1337
01:04:42,640 --> 01:04:44,600
Speaker 1: he loves cheesecake. It must be some sort of a sign.

1338
01:04:45,480 --> 01:04:49,480
Speaker 3: I'm just telling you, guys talking to me.

1339
01:04:50,640 --> 01:04:54,560
Speaker 2: Did you know there's a butterfly uh like little museum

1340
01:04:54,560 --> 01:04:58,800
Speaker 2: in the Singapore Airport though yeah, it's like you go in,

1341
01:04:58,840 --> 01:05:00,280
Speaker 2: they're just like flying every where.

1342
01:05:00,680 --> 01:05:01,640
Speaker 4: Have you ever been to one of those?

1343
01:05:03,400 --> 01:05:04,920
Speaker 2: Can you imagine the content?

1344
01:05:05,520 --> 01:05:07,160
Speaker 3: Oh my gosh, Taylor.

1345
01:05:07,280 --> 01:05:10,600
Speaker 2: Stand there and you what, Oh yeah, they're all over.

1346
01:05:11,680 --> 01:05:13,240
Speaker 2: We should look one up and see if there's a

1347
01:05:13,640 --> 01:05:14,720
Speaker 2: but I would need to like stumble.

1348
01:05:14,760 --> 01:05:17,040
Speaker 3: The whole thing is that just they stumble on my path,

1349
01:05:17,160 --> 01:05:18,600
Speaker 3: so I can't seek them out.

1350
01:05:19,200 --> 01:05:21,080
Speaker 1: But maybe if you had a half a dozen butterfly

1351
01:05:21,200 --> 01:05:22,960
Speaker 1: perching on you at any given time, you would have

1352
01:05:23,000 --> 01:05:24,040
Speaker 1: some sort of revelation.

1353
01:05:24,760 --> 01:05:27,680
Speaker 3: I could use a revelation, Yeah, I could use one of.

1354
01:05:27,680 --> 01:05:30,680
Speaker 4: Those guidance your path would be revealed.

1355
01:05:30,840 --> 01:05:32,800
Speaker 3: Yeah, because that's the whole thing. Like, I'm not sposed

1356
01:05:32,800 --> 01:05:34,480
Speaker 3: to seek them out there, let them come to like

1357
01:05:34,680 --> 01:05:37,120
Speaker 3: I'm they mm hmmm.

1358
01:05:38,000 --> 01:05:40,640
Speaker 2: Alright, note we're gonna go.

1359
01:05:41,120 --> 01:05:42,840
Speaker 3: I'm a noodle on what I was thinking about.

1360
01:05:42,920 --> 01:05:45,320
Speaker 2: Okay, you noodle on that, and we'll noodle on out

1361
01:05:45,320 --> 01:05:46,600
Speaker 2: of here and we'll see you next week.

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01:05:47,000 --> 01:05:47,800
Speaker 3: Love you bye,