1 00:00:00,120 --> 00:00:02,400 Speaker 1: My parents tried to cancel my wedding and cut me 2 00:00:02,440 --> 00:00:04,320 Speaker 1: out of their life on my birthday. 3 00:00:04,480 --> 00:00:06,880 Speaker 2: Okop, this is Okayop. 4 00:00:07,080 --> 00:00:09,479 Speaker 3: I'm Samuel daughter, I'm John Fry and we tell the 5 00:00:09,520 --> 00:00:13,480 Speaker 3: funniest stories on Reddit and the Internet. To John, can 6 00:00:13,520 --> 00:00:16,360 Speaker 3: you tell me your story they have for me today? 7 00:00:16,560 --> 00:00:19,040 Speaker 3: That is going to make me raffle in play. It's 8 00:00:19,040 --> 00:00:20,439 Speaker 3: a little rhyme for your little haiku. 9 00:00:20,560 --> 00:00:25,840 Speaker 2: Bores bores, bors, bores. Thanks. 10 00:00:27,200 --> 00:00:29,520 Speaker 1: My parents tried to cancel my wedding and cut me 11 00:00:29,560 --> 00:00:32,000 Speaker 1: out of their life on my birthday. 12 00:00:31,800 --> 00:00:35,760 Speaker 3: On the birthday. Terrible birthday gift. Happy birthday, not me 13 00:00:36,680 --> 00:00:39,600 Speaker 3: to no one. That's the worst time. Definitely the worst 14 00:00:39,640 --> 00:00:41,120 Speaker 3: birthday gift of all time. 15 00:00:41,200 --> 00:00:42,839 Speaker 2: Guarantee Ajeed agreed. 16 00:00:43,080 --> 00:00:45,360 Speaker 1: Our parents came to us and offered to help pay 17 00:00:45,400 --> 00:00:47,519 Speaker 1: for our wedding. We didn't just ask for money. They 18 00:00:47,560 --> 00:00:50,000 Speaker 1: offered it after the engagement and wanted to help us 19 00:00:50,040 --> 00:00:52,600 Speaker 1: out financially. Now, the debt we are in is partially 20 00:00:52,600 --> 00:00:55,280 Speaker 1: our fault. Granted we did get our financial information stolen. 21 00:00:55,800 --> 00:00:58,440 Speaker 1: Never get a loan unless you know with complete certainty 22 00:00:58,520 --> 00:00:59,280 Speaker 1: you can pay it back. 23 00:00:59,400 --> 00:01:02,680 Speaker 3: Yeah that's fox, dude. Sounds like some bad money management. 24 00:01:02,720 --> 00:01:05,640 Speaker 3: To start this off. If only there was a show 25 00:01:06,080 --> 00:01:10,839 Speaker 3: that we could do about crypto and money for shadowing. 26 00:01:10,880 --> 00:01:13,039 Speaker 1: A while back, my fiance did leave her job at 27 00:01:13,040 --> 00:01:16,320 Speaker 1: the post office because of unsafe working conditions. Anyone who 28 00:01:16,400 --> 00:01:18,880 Speaker 1: works there or has worked there can probably relate to 29 00:01:18,920 --> 00:01:19,600 Speaker 1: it in some way. 30 00:01:20,280 --> 00:01:20,520 Speaker 2: Joint. 31 00:01:20,680 --> 00:01:22,240 Speaker 1: Some of you have done some digging and seen the 32 00:01:22,240 --> 00:01:25,640 Speaker 1: situation I was in. It's slightly improved since then, as 33 00:01:25,640 --> 00:01:29,600 Speaker 1: they gave me a two dollars an hour raise at work. Yikes, 34 00:01:29,640 --> 00:01:30,520 Speaker 1: not not too much. 35 00:01:31,480 --> 00:01:35,320 Speaker 3: Yeah, that's enough to probably pay off whatever alone you got. 36 00:01:35,360 --> 00:01:38,640 Speaker 1: Yeah, when your raises are in like dollars, it's it's. 37 00:01:38,280 --> 00:01:39,160 Speaker 4: Not solid now. 38 00:01:39,280 --> 00:01:41,959 Speaker 1: My fiance and my family have always been a bit 39 00:01:42,040 --> 00:01:44,840 Speaker 1: rocky when we first started dating because I come from 40 00:01:44,880 --> 00:01:48,520 Speaker 1: an upper class family and she did not. That doesn't 41 00:01:48,560 --> 00:01:50,840 Speaker 1: matter to me, of course, I'm engaged in over the 42 00:01:50,880 --> 00:01:51,320 Speaker 1: moon in. 43 00:01:51,280 --> 00:01:52,080 Speaker 2: Love with this woman. 44 00:01:52,600 --> 00:01:53,080 Speaker 4: AnyWho. 45 00:01:53,240 --> 00:01:55,680 Speaker 1: We are planning on having the wedding next year. Just 46 00:01:55,720 --> 00:01:58,360 Speaker 1: finished our first semnester in film school and got approved 47 00:01:58,360 --> 00:01:59,520 Speaker 1: for an internship this summer. 48 00:02:00,240 --> 00:02:00,480 Speaker 4: Nice. 49 00:02:00,560 --> 00:02:01,840 Speaker 2: Hey, things are looking up. 50 00:02:01,960 --> 00:02:04,080 Speaker 1: Let's go if we moved out of state for school 51 00:02:04,120 --> 00:02:07,200 Speaker 1: and have been there for about two years. During that time, 52 00:02:07,320 --> 00:02:09,600 Speaker 1: we've had some money troubles trying to make it on 53 00:02:09,680 --> 00:02:11,919 Speaker 1: our own, so we were heading back down to see 54 00:02:11,919 --> 00:02:14,360 Speaker 1: our family for the holidays, and we had made it 55 00:02:14,400 --> 00:02:16,760 Speaker 1: a point to set up a dinner so our dads 56 00:02:16,800 --> 00:02:19,280 Speaker 1: could meet with us and talk about the wedding budget. 57 00:02:19,280 --> 00:02:22,160 Speaker 1: Seems straightforward, so we met at a restaurant for dinner. 58 00:02:22,160 --> 00:02:24,920 Speaker 1: Her dad and my fiance were expecting a conversation about 59 00:02:24,919 --> 00:02:27,240 Speaker 1: a wedding budget. First thing out of my parents' mouth 60 00:02:27,480 --> 00:02:30,000 Speaker 1: is that we should cancel the wedding all together. 61 00:02:30,240 --> 00:02:31,320 Speaker 2: Let cancel the wedding. 62 00:02:31,320 --> 00:02:33,359 Speaker 1: Why So you're coming here like, okay, let's, you know, 63 00:02:33,560 --> 00:02:35,840 Speaker 1: set the budgets, make sure, you know, we stay in line, 64 00:02:36,200 --> 00:02:38,840 Speaker 1: and they're like, we're let's cancel this wedding. 65 00:02:39,000 --> 00:02:41,040 Speaker 2: Let's know, let's not do it all together. 66 00:02:41,120 --> 00:02:43,560 Speaker 1: But now keep in mind, this is a full year 67 00:02:43,600 --> 00:02:46,600 Speaker 1: from now, after we would be done with school and 68 00:02:46,960 --> 00:02:49,080 Speaker 1: in our new job. They want the wedding called off 69 00:02:49,160 --> 00:02:51,960 Speaker 1: to focus on us being more responsible with our money. 70 00:02:52,080 --> 00:02:54,080 Speaker 1: But at this point they haven't even looked at our 71 00:02:54,120 --> 00:02:57,000 Speaker 1: budget yet, so they don't even know what bills that 72 00:02:57,040 --> 00:02:59,760 Speaker 1: we have to pay. Her dad who already paid for 73 00:02:59,800 --> 00:03:03,320 Speaker 1: the so her dad has already put money down. 74 00:03:03,240 --> 00:03:06,080 Speaker 3: Well, and the upper and like and like, the upper 75 00:03:06,120 --> 00:03:07,840 Speaker 3: class family isn't going to do it. 76 00:03:07,919 --> 00:03:11,040 Speaker 1: Yes, the upper class family is, wow, so the lower 77 00:03:11,080 --> 00:03:14,000 Speaker 1: class dad has all ready put his money down. My 78 00:03:14,040 --> 00:03:16,799 Speaker 1: fiancee's dad was completely taken aback by all of this 79 00:03:17,200 --> 00:03:19,480 Speaker 1: and is hearing it from people he has never met before. 80 00:03:19,560 --> 00:03:23,799 Speaker 4: This is the first thing they say when they ridiculous. 81 00:03:23,800 --> 00:03:25,760 Speaker 2: You're not a good impression. You're not even a good 82 00:03:25,760 --> 00:03:26,520 Speaker 2: impression at all. 83 00:03:26,600 --> 00:03:27,799 Speaker 4: Care of my fiance and. 84 00:03:27,760 --> 00:03:30,600 Speaker 1: I immediately got pissed because we had planned to come 85 00:03:30,639 --> 00:03:33,280 Speaker 1: down to see the venue, thinking we could all go 86 00:03:33,440 --> 00:03:36,080 Speaker 1: together and then get the money thing sorted out. Then 87 00:03:36,280 --> 00:03:39,480 Speaker 1: my dad said, in addition to canceling the wedding, we 88 00:03:39,520 --> 00:03:42,720 Speaker 1: should give up on school he never approved on it 89 00:03:42,760 --> 00:03:45,600 Speaker 1: from the get go and move in with him. 90 00:03:45,760 --> 00:03:51,200 Speaker 3: Wait, this is this, This dinner has gone very differently 91 00:03:52,240 --> 00:03:54,840 Speaker 3: where they thought it was going to be. Not only 92 00:03:55,480 --> 00:03:57,320 Speaker 3: is he going to stop the marriage, but he's like, 93 00:03:57,400 --> 00:04:00,040 Speaker 3: drop out of school, just stay at ours, Like it 94 00:04:00,040 --> 00:04:02,200 Speaker 3: seems like the worst parental advice ever. 95 00:04:02,120 --> 00:04:05,440 Speaker 1: Literally, and he just like he just disapproves of literally 96 00:04:05,480 --> 00:04:07,120 Speaker 1: every single life choice that. 97 00:04:06,960 --> 00:04:07,480 Speaker 4: That his son is. 98 00:04:07,520 --> 00:04:08,840 Speaker 2: Oh my god, this is crazy. 99 00:04:08,920 --> 00:04:11,400 Speaker 1: And then my mom chimed in, saying that if we 100 00:04:11,400 --> 00:04:14,520 Speaker 1: were having money troubles and needed their help, we weren't 101 00:04:14,600 --> 00:04:17,239 Speaker 1: really living on our own at all, and should cut 102 00:04:17,320 --> 00:04:19,279 Speaker 1: back and sell all of our pets. 103 00:04:19,279 --> 00:04:22,160 Speaker 3: How many pets do they have, question, I don't know. 104 00:04:22,320 --> 00:04:26,560 Speaker 3: That's very expensive. It's very expensive. We just got a 105 00:04:26,600 --> 00:04:28,200 Speaker 3: very cute cat by the way. 106 00:04:28,279 --> 00:04:30,960 Speaker 1: Yeah yeah, my my girlfriend's cat from New York is 107 00:04:31,000 --> 00:04:33,440 Speaker 1: now living with us. Although she's like she's got a 108 00:04:33,480 --> 00:04:35,680 Speaker 1: lot of anxiety. So I I kid you not. She's 109 00:04:35,720 --> 00:04:41,960 Speaker 1: literally hiding like eight feet up in our tallest, tallest cat. Now, 110 00:04:42,040 --> 00:04:43,040 Speaker 1: you're a cat dad. 111 00:04:43,240 --> 00:04:45,880 Speaker 4: Now I'm a cat dad. Here we go, cat deadio. 112 00:04:47,440 --> 00:04:47,600 Speaker 2: Now. 113 00:04:47,640 --> 00:04:50,640 Speaker 1: The thing is, my fiance has some issues when it 114 00:04:50,680 --> 00:04:52,400 Speaker 1: comes to controlling her field though. 115 00:04:52,839 --> 00:04:54,159 Speaker 4: I think you know what's about to happen. 116 00:04:54,720 --> 00:04:56,960 Speaker 2: Oh no, this is going to be World War three 117 00:04:57,000 --> 00:04:57,360 Speaker 2: over here. 118 00:04:57,440 --> 00:04:58,080 Speaker 4: Oh yeah. 119 00:04:58,200 --> 00:05:01,880 Speaker 1: So she basically went off on my parents, saying how 120 00:05:01,920 --> 00:05:04,800 Speaker 1: it is not right for them to do this to us, 121 00:05:04,880 --> 00:05:06,800 Speaker 1: and how wrong it is for my dad to put 122 00:05:06,839 --> 00:05:09,520 Speaker 1: me down all the time in regards to my schooling, 123 00:05:10,240 --> 00:05:15,520 Speaker 1: which I completely agree with. My dad immediately saying how 124 00:05:15,560 --> 00:05:18,640 Speaker 1: disrespectful we are being, even though he started it all 125 00:05:18,680 --> 00:05:22,400 Speaker 1: by saying we should cancel the wedding. The most disrespectful 126 00:05:22,400 --> 00:05:25,159 Speaker 1: thing you can start with this. 127 00:05:25,160 --> 00:05:26,800 Speaker 2: This is going downhill, dude. 128 00:05:26,520 --> 00:05:29,000 Speaker 1: Just like you think, like, oh, it can't get any 129 00:05:29,000 --> 00:05:31,039 Speaker 1: crazier or even harder. 130 00:05:32,040 --> 00:05:32,880 Speaker 4: Now here's the thing. 131 00:05:33,600 --> 00:05:36,400 Speaker 1: My dad had already agreed to pay for parts of 132 00:05:36,440 --> 00:05:39,560 Speaker 1: the wedding before all of this. So, prior to this conversation, 133 00:05:39,960 --> 00:05:42,720 Speaker 1: the dad had said, yes, I will pay for some 134 00:05:42,760 --> 00:05:46,719 Speaker 1: parts of the way, Like, guy, say that. In the beginning, 135 00:05:46,960 --> 00:05:48,680 Speaker 1: the only thing we asked them to do was cover 136 00:05:48,800 --> 00:05:52,280 Speaker 1: catering for about seventy people we invited at dinner. He 137 00:05:52,360 --> 00:05:55,360 Speaker 1: said he wasn't going to throw twenty thousand dollars out 138 00:05:55,400 --> 00:05:55,800 Speaker 1: the window? 139 00:05:55,880 --> 00:05:56,960 Speaker 4: Is it really out the window? 140 00:05:57,000 --> 00:05:57,279 Speaker 1: Though? 141 00:05:57,320 --> 00:05:58,359 Speaker 2: Like, this is the wedding. 142 00:05:58,440 --> 00:06:00,520 Speaker 1: Here's the thing though, Ope goes on to say, we 143 00:06:00,640 --> 00:06:04,000 Speaker 1: only asked my dad for three thousand dollars after he 144 00:06:04,000 --> 00:06:05,480 Speaker 1: said he wanted to contribute. So he's like, oh, I 145 00:06:05,520 --> 00:06:08,480 Speaker 1: don't want to throw twenty k. Yeah, we only asked 146 00:06:08,480 --> 00:06:11,479 Speaker 1: for three k for the caterer. Now, he's a successful surgeon, 147 00:06:11,680 --> 00:06:13,560 Speaker 1: so three k is not way. 148 00:06:13,720 --> 00:06:16,279 Speaker 4: Dad's a surgeon. Daddy is a surgeon. 149 00:06:16,360 --> 00:06:17,000 Speaker 2: You're not You're not. 150 00:06:17,080 --> 00:06:17,520 Speaker 4: You do bro? 151 00:06:17,640 --> 00:06:20,040 Speaker 3: You gotta you gotta spend some of those soldiery bucks 152 00:06:20,080 --> 00:06:20,599 Speaker 3: on the wedding. 153 00:06:20,640 --> 00:06:24,919 Speaker 4: You're okay, two three four, five hundred k year man. 154 00:06:24,839 --> 00:06:29,039 Speaker 3: Like yeah, surgeons, make him bag baby, make him bread baby, 155 00:06:29,560 --> 00:06:32,880 Speaker 3: like a bakery, Like a bakery inside the body. 156 00:06:33,080 --> 00:06:35,800 Speaker 4: Do you know the muffin man with the scoutfold. 157 00:06:36,400 --> 00:06:38,800 Speaker 2: I wonder, I wonder if he's eating any human feet. 158 00:06:38,920 --> 00:06:39,360 Speaker 4: Oh god. 159 00:06:39,560 --> 00:06:43,960 Speaker 1: Reference reference to yeah, our last episode whenever that crazy 160 00:06:44,000 --> 00:06:44,560 Speaker 1: thing comes out. 161 00:06:44,600 --> 00:06:45,479 Speaker 4: And now here's the thing. 162 00:06:45,839 --> 00:06:48,840 Speaker 1: My fiance's dad was contributing five K, so we didn't 163 00:06:48,839 --> 00:06:50,720 Speaker 1: ask him to do any extra work. At this point. 164 00:06:50,720 --> 00:06:53,280 Speaker 1: The dinner was an absolute flop. Both of my parents 165 00:06:53,320 --> 00:06:56,520 Speaker 1: just straight up left. I thought things were cool, but 166 00:06:56,680 --> 00:06:57,400 Speaker 1: it got worse. 167 00:06:58,520 --> 00:07:01,440 Speaker 3: If you why, they always say, but it got worse. 168 00:07:01,600 --> 00:07:02,800 Speaker 3: It's always getting worse. 169 00:07:03,120 --> 00:07:08,359 Speaker 1: It got worse, and I snapped those are the the 170 00:07:08,400 --> 00:07:10,520 Speaker 1: next day, after a meeting with my mom and exchanging 171 00:07:10,800 --> 00:07:13,320 Speaker 1: and exchanging presents. Remember, this is Christmas. 172 00:07:14,240 --> 00:07:17,320 Speaker 3: No, not only is it the wedding's not going through, 173 00:07:17,360 --> 00:07:23,400 Speaker 3: but it's Christmas. Oh my gosh, it's his birthday. 174 00:07:23,480 --> 00:07:24,440 Speaker 4: It's Christmas. 175 00:07:24,680 --> 00:07:30,200 Speaker 3: This is just the worst worst possible combination effects. 176 00:07:30,240 --> 00:07:32,200 Speaker 1: So we went on acting as if it didn'ner happened, 177 00:07:32,240 --> 00:07:35,040 Speaker 1: which was odd because then my dad called and he 178 00:07:35,160 --> 00:07:37,880 Speaker 1: canceled Christmas at his house, and he said he just 179 00:07:37,920 --> 00:07:40,520 Speaker 1: wanted to grab coffee, just me and him. I thought 180 00:07:40,560 --> 00:07:43,280 Speaker 1: he just wanted to exchange presents and talk things out. 181 00:07:43,800 --> 00:07:46,080 Speaker 1: I thought to myself, all right, he was pissed, but 182 00:07:46,160 --> 00:07:48,000 Speaker 1: now he's had time to cool off and he wants 183 00:07:48,040 --> 00:07:50,880 Speaker 1: to go over the details. So I asked him if 184 00:07:50,920 --> 00:07:53,640 Speaker 1: I could bring my fiance's dad so they could have 185 00:07:53,760 --> 00:07:57,200 Speaker 1: a do over. My dad said no. I asked him 186 00:07:57,240 --> 00:07:59,960 Speaker 1: if I could bring a general budget of our finances 187 00:08:00,040 --> 00:08:01,840 Speaker 1: a week, could go over it and I could get 188 00:08:01,840 --> 00:08:03,920 Speaker 1: some advice from him, man to man. 189 00:08:04,360 --> 00:08:07,080 Speaker 4: He said no. So he's reaching out. 190 00:08:07,080 --> 00:08:09,880 Speaker 1: He's like, all right, you know, let me get my 191 00:08:09,920 --> 00:08:11,360 Speaker 1: life together if you know so much. 192 00:08:11,560 --> 00:08:12,800 Speaker 4: And he's like nope. 193 00:08:12,840 --> 00:08:16,200 Speaker 1: So he pulls up in his Porsche Classy, Oh my God, 194 00:08:16,560 --> 00:08:18,800 Speaker 1: to come pick me up from my fiance's dad's house. 195 00:08:18,840 --> 00:08:21,600 Speaker 1: Doesn't even get out to say hello. I get in 196 00:08:21,640 --> 00:08:24,000 Speaker 1: the car and instead of driving off to get coffee, 197 00:08:24,080 --> 00:08:26,280 Speaker 1: we drive to my mom's house. Okay, so now it 198 00:08:26,360 --> 00:08:29,120 Speaker 1: was both of my parents, No big deal. I go in. 199 00:08:29,880 --> 00:08:32,760 Speaker 4: It is literally my entire family. 200 00:08:32,960 --> 00:08:36,800 Speaker 1: They had set up an intervention to get me to 201 00:08:37,040 --> 00:08:40,240 Speaker 1: leave my fiance in another state, just ditch her completely. 202 00:08:40,520 --> 00:08:42,760 Speaker 2: What, Yes, this. 203 00:08:42,760 --> 00:08:44,000 Speaker 4: Gets so much worse. 204 00:08:44,040 --> 00:08:46,600 Speaker 3: And also the coordination that you need to set up 205 00:08:46,600 --> 00:08:50,400 Speaker 3: a whole intervention like that, and and a coordination need 206 00:08:50,480 --> 00:08:51,560 Speaker 3: without anyone knowing. 207 00:08:51,640 --> 00:08:52,800 Speaker 2: That's impressive. You know what? 208 00:08:52,840 --> 00:08:54,760 Speaker 4: Could use that coordination a wedding? 209 00:08:55,360 --> 00:08:58,640 Speaker 3: Yeah, have you put in like a modicum of the 210 00:08:58,679 --> 00:09:01,680 Speaker 3: amount of effort that you into this, into this freaking 211 00:09:02,600 --> 00:09:04,120 Speaker 3: uh the circus. 212 00:09:04,200 --> 00:09:05,760 Speaker 2: You would have a great wedding on your hands. 213 00:09:05,840 --> 00:09:08,079 Speaker 1: They said that I could stay with them, They could 214 00:09:08,160 --> 00:09:10,520 Speaker 1: drain all the bank accounts I have with her, and 215 00:09:10,679 --> 00:09:14,120 Speaker 1: I could start over. They accused her of stealing cash 216 00:09:14,240 --> 00:09:17,800 Speaker 1: from their house. They said she was abusive, and they 217 00:09:17,840 --> 00:09:21,600 Speaker 1: said I could find someone better back home with them. 218 00:09:22,040 --> 00:09:24,719 Speaker 1: They wanted me to walk away from everything we were 219 00:09:24,720 --> 00:09:27,680 Speaker 1: trying to accomplish. I could quit school and I could 220 00:09:27,679 --> 00:09:30,200 Speaker 1: go into a more successful occupation. 221 00:09:30,880 --> 00:09:33,040 Speaker 2: Uh. They see there. They have a problem with the 222 00:09:33,040 --> 00:09:35,720 Speaker 2: film major. They want. I want him to be a 223 00:09:35,800 --> 00:09:37,080 Speaker 2: rocket surgeon or something. 224 00:09:37,360 --> 00:09:38,160 Speaker 4: Rocket surgeon. 225 00:09:38,559 --> 00:09:39,079 Speaker 2: I love it. 226 00:09:39,200 --> 00:09:42,960 Speaker 1: You took surgeon and a rocket scientist one mega mega 227 00:09:43,040 --> 00:09:44,360 Speaker 1: careers the best. 228 00:09:46,640 --> 00:09:46,720 Speaker 3: No. 229 00:09:46,880 --> 00:09:50,240 Speaker 1: Oh, here here's what they do they repair rockets while 230 00:09:50,280 --> 00:09:51,319 Speaker 1: performing surgery. 231 00:09:51,400 --> 00:09:52,880 Speaker 4: That's the rocket surgeon. 232 00:09:53,000 --> 00:09:54,960 Speaker 2: That's the best. That's the you know that. I think 233 00:09:55,000 --> 00:09:59,079 Speaker 2: that is the ideal job to anyone. Double salad, that's what. Yeah, 234 00:09:59,160 --> 00:10:00,000 Speaker 2: double the salary. 235 00:10:00,080 --> 00:10:02,599 Speaker 3: It's it's like, it's if you're if you're ambidextrous, that 236 00:10:02,720 --> 00:10:05,480 Speaker 3: you could do surgery with one hand and rocket science 237 00:10:05,520 --> 00:10:08,559 Speaker 3: at the other, creating careers over here. Okay, yeah, you're welcome. 238 00:10:08,760 --> 00:10:12,800 Speaker 3: We're hiring only rocket surgeons, only rocket surch op. 239 00:10:12,840 --> 00:10:15,040 Speaker 1: He goes on to say, uh, they said I could 240 00:10:15,080 --> 00:10:17,800 Speaker 1: go back to my old job, which actually pays less 241 00:10:17,800 --> 00:10:20,400 Speaker 1: than what I'm making now, and start classes for an 242 00:10:20,480 --> 00:10:23,320 Speaker 1: online bachelor's degree instead of going to trade school. 243 00:10:24,000 --> 00:10:24,800 Speaker 4: I said no. 244 00:10:25,000 --> 00:10:27,480 Speaker 1: They said that they are cutting me off as their son, 245 00:10:27,960 --> 00:10:29,880 Speaker 1: and they are not coming to the world. What's not 246 00:10:29,920 --> 00:10:31,760 Speaker 1: only financially as their son. 247 00:10:32,520 --> 00:10:36,880 Speaker 2: Escalated way out of line. Seriously, this escalated so much. 248 00:10:36,760 --> 00:10:40,920 Speaker 1: I said, fine, I'm heading back home. Her dad offered 249 00:10:40,920 --> 00:10:41,480 Speaker 1: to help us. 250 00:10:41,360 --> 00:10:43,800 Speaker 4: With the whole wedding and our money struggles. 251 00:10:43,840 --> 00:10:46,360 Speaker 2: In the end, this is a this is a crappy 252 00:10:46,360 --> 00:10:48,240 Speaker 2: situation right here. Terrible. 253 00:10:49,080 --> 00:10:53,720 Speaker 3: I would say, I would say, like top ten crap 254 00:10:53,800 --> 00:10:56,520 Speaker 3: situations that you could have not only as all this 255 00:10:56,880 --> 00:11:00,800 Speaker 3: like happening, but it's happening on your birthday, Christmas Day. 256 00:11:01,080 --> 00:11:04,560 Speaker 2: Like that's that's hard, dude, that's tough, man. 257 00:11:05,040 --> 00:11:08,679 Speaker 1: Yeah, these parents are freaking no, thank you. 258 00:11:08,800 --> 00:11:12,760 Speaker 3: Yeah, and like like to to disown your son because 259 00:11:12,760 --> 00:11:13,120 Speaker 3: of this. 260 00:11:13,480 --> 00:11:16,760 Speaker 1: That's that's so much insecurity and ego and like stuff 261 00:11:16,760 --> 00:11:20,160 Speaker 1: from the parents, Like they're not comfortable with their son 262 00:11:20,240 --> 00:11:23,199 Speaker 1: not being you know, a doctor or a rocket surgeon, 263 00:11:23,360 --> 00:11:26,040 Speaker 1: a rocket surgeon exactly, Like they're like, oh, you can't 264 00:11:26,040 --> 00:11:30,319 Speaker 1: be in film school, like god, just so so sad. 265 00:11:30,600 --> 00:11:33,000 Speaker 3: Also, like you know, there there's the there's like the 266 00:11:33,080 --> 00:11:37,760 Speaker 3: trope where strict parents want you to be a lawyer, doctor, 267 00:11:37,800 --> 00:11:41,079 Speaker 3: engineer and want you to study that in college. Right, 268 00:11:41,120 --> 00:11:46,560 Speaker 3: But like I studied engineering U c l A. And like, dude, 269 00:11:46,600 --> 00:11:51,000 Speaker 3: those classes taught me nothing, Like like I learned everything 270 00:11:51,080 --> 00:11:55,599 Speaker 3: I needed from freaking con Academy and YouTube. That was 271 00:11:55,640 --> 00:11:59,920 Speaker 3: the only education I got, uh, the like like call 272 00:12:01,000 --> 00:12:04,360 Speaker 3: in a university degree is nothing but a piece of paper. 273 00:12:04,760 --> 00:12:08,080 Speaker 3: Everything I think worth doing you can learn on the internet. 274 00:12:08,640 --> 00:12:11,360 Speaker 3: And there's way more money to be made by being 275 00:12:11,400 --> 00:12:13,600 Speaker 3: a creator than by being a doctor. 276 00:12:13,640 --> 00:12:15,480 Speaker 1: Just so many I mean think like like real estate 277 00:12:15,800 --> 00:12:18,600 Speaker 1: or like you know, there's just a million paths that like, 278 00:12:18,840 --> 00:12:24,600 Speaker 1: just by researching doing it, you know, so much more money. 279 00:12:25,040 --> 00:12:27,960 Speaker 2: Yeah. So that's all to say, follow your dreams. 280 00:12:28,040 --> 00:12:31,920 Speaker 1: Follow your dreams, and you know what else your path 281 00:12:32,040 --> 00:12:33,680 Speaker 1: that your finger should follow. 282 00:12:34,160 --> 00:12:36,720 Speaker 2: Follow the subscribe But. 283 00:12:37,640 --> 00:12:40,240 Speaker 4: I realized now I could have pathed to the follow button. 284 00:12:40,280 --> 00:12:42,560 Speaker 2: But you know you got you gotta try. 285 00:12:42,720 --> 00:12:43,080 Speaker 4: We try. 286 00:12:43,240 --> 00:12:47,480 Speaker 3: Yeah, follow us on Spotify, subscribe on YouTube, and if 287 00:12:47,480 --> 00:12:51,480 Speaker 3: you really want to help us out, join our main 288 00:12:51,600 --> 00:12:56,359 Speaker 3: lady Kathy quickly Jay as our first supporter on Patriots. 289 00:12:56,720 --> 00:12:59,199 Speaker 2: Kathy, we love you. 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