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Speaker 1: Call It What It Is with Jessica Capshaw and Camil Luddington,

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Speaker 1: an iHeartRadio podcast.

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Speaker 2: Hello, Hello, Hello, Hello Call It crew, and welcome to

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Speaker 2: another episode of Call It What It Is. Why are

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Speaker 2: we yelling?

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Speaker 3: We're we're an extra pep in our step.

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Speaker 1: It might be from the brisk breeze outside the walk

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Speaker 1: from Grand Central station to the iHeart studios here in

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Speaker 1: New York City. Yeah, I have you in person, I

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Speaker 3: I have how's a feel to be with me?

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Speaker 2: Decided to grace you with my presence in person and

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Speaker 2: we're having we've been talking. We've been having a little

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Speaker 2: Mary Kate and Ashley.

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Speaker 1: Morning, our New York minute, our New York minute or

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Speaker 1: maybe many my it's hours and in the.

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Speaker 2: Studio and we haven't been together in the studio since

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Speaker 2: well since you came to LA for something. So it's

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Speaker 2: been a hot second.

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Speaker 3: Yeah.

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Speaker 1: And when we got to when we got to talk

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Speaker 1: to Beanie and Julianne.

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Speaker 2: Yes, that's right, exactly right, And now we're here together.

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Speaker 3: Yeah, we are.

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Speaker 2: Perfect time of year.

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Speaker 1: Oh my gosh, the walk was so magical. You get

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Speaker 1: out of Grand Central, you get out of the train

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Speaker 1: and you go into that big Grand Room that's been

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Speaker 1: there for I mean, this is where I sound not smart.

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Speaker 3: How long has Grand Central been around. I'm gonna call

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Speaker 3: it hundreds of years.

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Speaker 2: It's thousands, been around for thousands of years. It's actually

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Speaker 2: in Gladiat or two. They come out from there, they

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Speaker 2: travel from there to the coliseum.

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Speaker 3: They take the horse and buggy downtown on the tracks. Yeah. Suit.

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Speaker 1: Anyways, we uh we we got derailed during that story.

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Speaker 1: Come out into that beautiful room, and we took a

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Speaker 1: lot of pictures with ourselves and with others.

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Speaker 2: I'm okay. I'm okay being a full blown tourist in

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Speaker 2: New York. Yeah, because even when I lived here, I

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Speaker 2: never stopped taking pictures. Yeah, the city is like, come here,

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Speaker 3: Yeah, and you because every time you turn a corner,

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Speaker 3: you're like.

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Speaker 2: What, oh, it's so good.

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Speaker 2: The light, the lights. I just I also think it

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Speaker 2: is the holiday season already in New York. There's no

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Speaker 2: way you can't come into the city and feel so festive.

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Speaker 1: You're wearing a red snowflake on your sweater side holiday sweat.

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Speaker 2: This is the first time I'm wearing one this year. Actually,

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Speaker 2: I saved it for me.

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Speaker 1: Thanksgiving does it matter no, but the city is telling me,

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Speaker 1: actually it's it's you know what though, it's it's only

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Speaker 1: it's only halfway there really, because so we so we'd

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Speaker 1: come on a Grand Central, we exit, we start walking

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Speaker 1: up Fifth Avenue. Some of the storefronts are ready for

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Speaker 1: the holiday season, some of them are not, so some

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Speaker 3: I uh, I was a little bummed.

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Speaker 1: We came around the corner and I actually was really

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Speaker 1: waiting for the Aha moment or the Rockefeller Tree and

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Speaker 2: Paris Mountain moment. Yeah, yeah, with the towers all sprinkly

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Speaker 3: Yeah, sprinkly or twinkly, but.

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Speaker 1: Yeah. It was not and it wasn't that she was

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Speaker 2: Yeah, I just won't be here for it.

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Speaker 2: So we got here today and this is it's perfect

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Speaker 2: being a festive theme.

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Speaker 1: Yeah sorts, yes, because it's never too early to start,

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Speaker 1: clearly not. I mean Josie decorated her room before Halloween

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Speaker 2: Yeah yeah, the lights are up. Yeah yeah, so let's go.

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Speaker 3: I've already listened to Mariah Carey all I Want for

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Speaker 3: Christmas multiple times in my house.

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Speaker 1: And so we're ready. So we came in New York City.

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Speaker 1: It's feeling festive. We get to be together and you know,

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Speaker 1: we got Thanksgiving coming up and just a hot minute

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Speaker 3: So what do you do for the holiday? Do you

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Speaker 3: have things that you always do?

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Speaker 2: Well, here's what I love about Thanksgiving. I didn't grow

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Speaker 2: of you know, friends giving traditions around me. And I

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Speaker 2: love cooking the turkey on the day. I say cooking,

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Speaker 2: but really I get it from Whole Foods. I get

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Speaker 2: can't go wrong. Honestly, you could serve it as is

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Speaker 3: Uh huh. It'd be hard to fit it in there.

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Speaker 2: And the reason I did that is because one year

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Speaker 2: I was cooking a turkey from scratch. I actually have

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Speaker 2: And I was, they absolutely lie to you on a

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Speaker 2: package for how long the turkey's going to take? Yeah,

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Speaker 2: multiply that by three. They're like, yeah, it's gonna be

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Speaker 1: Well but okay, wait pause, because it's my understanding that actually,

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Speaker 2: But the pack one hundred percent, but the packet is

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Speaker 2: assuming that you have the thermometer. And they're saying, hey,

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Speaker 2: guess what, it's a quick three hours that twenty pound turkey,

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Speaker 2: and you're like, great, great, so we're having dinner at four. Yeah,

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Speaker 2: The turkey I got that year was an asshole and

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Speaker 2: twelfth hour, my family members and friends that had come

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Speaker 2: was like at ten pm. I'm not even kidding. It

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Speaker 2: Oh see, I'm not kidding. I've never given food poisoning

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Speaker 3: I'm so glad I wasn't there.

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Speaker 2: So now I get the ready the cooked turkey.

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Speaker 3: Yes, let's yes, get it done right. Yeah I have.

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Speaker 1: I hosted it when or I cooked when you're And

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Speaker 1: I thought, especially with my Missouri roots, having washed my

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Speaker 3: And I wouldn't think you could mess those up.

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Speaker 2: Do you do like the instant package on Thanksgiving?

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Speaker 2: No, no, are you at are you really cooking on Thanksgiving?

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Speaker 2: I just realized in this moment that this you don't

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Speaker 1: In our family we have, We've done it a bunch

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Speaker 3: We we will cook some dishes.

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Speaker 1: And sometimes certain members of our family will get you know,

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Speaker 1: you know what's surprising to me when I cook for

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Speaker 3: Butter is involved. I love butter.

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Speaker 1: I know there's so much good, but it's every dish, yeah,

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Speaker 2: Yeah, you can't go wrong, though.

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Speaker 3: I could have a butter turk.

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Speaker 2: Nobody's but no. Oh I put a lot of butter

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Speaker 3: I'm serious.

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Speaker 2: You gotta smother the turkey and butter, and you gotta

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Speaker 2: do a little salt pepper, and you gotta throw those

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Speaker 1: I could talk about this forever because truly I love

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Speaker 3: I really do.

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Speaker 1: They were a magical time When I was younger, it

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Speaker 1: felt like such just ugh, exciting, full of possibility, a

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Speaker 3: Yeah, so much that I love the holiday movies. I

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Speaker 3: could watch the same ones over and over again.

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Speaker 2: What do you think it's like Thanksgiving movie for the holidays?

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Speaker 3: I don't know that.

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Speaker 1: I have a Thanksgiving movie that comes top of mine.

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Speaker 1: I was thinking about The Family Stone.

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Speaker 3: Do you see that one? Really that's holidays? Yeah? I

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Speaker 3: think it is it Christmas?

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Speaker 3: First. It's been a while, it's been it's been a

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Speaker 2: That's kind of a yeah, we need more Thanksgiving movies.

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Speaker 3: Oh, new genre. I'm on it. Yeah, don he's watching

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Speaker 3: Christmas movies. Listen.

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Speaker 1: I would watch you stuff get cape.

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Speaker 2: Over stuffing a turkey this opening scene.

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Speaker 3: Yeah, I'm in told me your sister. Yeah, I love this.

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Speaker 3: So much to be grateful for. Yeah, I love Thanksgiving,

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Speaker 3: I love Christmas.

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Speaker 2: What's the dish you could do without.

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Speaker 1: Hmmm, let's name them. I love mashed potatoes when done correctly.

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Speaker 3: The hero dish is stuffing for me. Hero.

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Speaker 1: I could eat stuffing all day long. Stuffing with a

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Speaker 1: I don't I Actually this is gonna be sound crazy.

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Speaker 2: I was gonna say the turkey can get a little dry.

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Speaker 2: I absolutely hate the cranberry sauce that has it berries in.

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Speaker 3: Want the canned one, the clear can. Yeah yeah, I.

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Speaker 2: Want to be able to see through it. Jelly.

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Speaker 3: I'm in. I'm in.

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Speaker 2: New Year's is where.

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Speaker 3: You start to lose my holiday spirit.

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Speaker 2: Get it out of here.

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Speaker 3: I just am like, h it's you're done.

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Speaker 1: A kin to It's a kin to Valentine's Day, A

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Speaker 2: Do you like Valentine's Day?

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Speaker 1: I decorate and I get all excited about it for

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Speaker 3: No, no, no, man.

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Speaker 2: I actually like two years ago forgot it was Valentine's

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Speaker 3: That sounds delightful.

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Speaker 2: She was great.

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Speaker 2: The cocktails were strong, yeah, and the sodium was giving, yeah,

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Speaker 2: giving an extra twenty pounds.

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Speaker 1: You had some shrimps, and this is what loves all about.

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Speaker 2: Could you a favorite holiday song?

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Speaker 1: I do well, I've succumbed to them. I've succumbed to them.

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Speaker 1: I've just given a surrendered to Mariah Carey.

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Speaker 2: You have to pick something other than Mariah all I

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Speaker 1: I have to pick something different. Yeah, oh, I mean

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Speaker 3: Now, silver bells.

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Speaker 1: Oh yes, I sang a Christmas song. Krista Vernoff wrote

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Speaker 1: me singing a Christmas song with Jim Pickens and Kevin

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Speaker 1: Camilla and I white knuckled throughout that entire experience. I

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Speaker 1: never sang on films song baby it's cold outside.

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Speaker 2: I love silver bells, I love rude to make it

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Speaker 3: Oh, that would be my least favorite. That felt like.

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Speaker 1: Wow, no no, no, no, no, no no, I'm saying no, we're

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Speaker 3: I love that you love it. It's not mine.

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Speaker 2: So I just happened to pick your least of all

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Speaker 2: the one hundred Christmas songs. I just sung a song like,

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Speaker 1: Have to disagree. Sometimes it's the spice of life. We

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Speaker 1: that when you make fun of me and when we disagree.

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Speaker 3: Once in a while.

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Speaker 2: I just felt a little disrespected.

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Speaker 3: Oh I sang sorry, it's okay, I'm sorry. I do

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Speaker 3: I just friend, we'll.

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Speaker 2: Talk about it later. When do we decorate for what?

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Speaker 3: Christmas?

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Speaker 2: What do you Easter? What do you think I'm talking about? Literally, like, I.

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Speaker 3: Just told you we are. I just told you we

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Speaker 1: The while I'm asking starts. Okay, the Christmas tree gets

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Speaker 3: But if I'm out Friday, Black Friday is Christmas Tree

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Speaker 1: But I'm usually not home then, so I'm usually with

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Speaker 3: The Christmas tree.

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Speaker 1: Oh you know what we did last year that was

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Speaker 1: a living Christmas tree.

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Speaker 3: Yeah, you just thought it.

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Speaker 2: You mean, you made it sound dramatic, but you just

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Speaker 2: bought a tree. No living. It was a tree.

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Speaker 1: It's potted, it's a live You don't have to think

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Speaker 1: about all the Christmas trees that get killed during Christmas. Yeah, yeah,

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Speaker 1: the die for your entertainment. This one got to live.

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Speaker 1: I said to this Christmas tree after he went back

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Speaker 2: That's cute.

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Speaker 3: That's my point.

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Speaker 2: That is very cute. So how big is that bucket.

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Speaker 2: You got to save the root.

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Speaker 3: It's really big.

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Speaker 1: Yeah, it gets it comes and again we don't live

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Speaker 3: It's like the roots all wrapped in the That is

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Speaker 2: But then do you get to pick him again? And

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Speaker 3: Do you name everyone and everything?

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Speaker 2: Bob is? I feel like you're a little bit jealous

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Speaker 2: of the name. Why is Bob?

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Speaker 3: Can Bob come back? I think Bob is still at

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Speaker 1: Just replanted, I don't know. This is a good question.

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Speaker 1: Can you dig Bob hang on?

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Speaker 2: You don't know where he went.

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Speaker 1: Un manage that project. I don't remember where he went afterwards.

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Speaker 2: That's a little bit about elves.

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Speaker 3: Be elves took him away.

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Speaker 2: Okay, I mean what if he's on What if they

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Speaker 1: Him outside a Walmart and he's like, no, he's at

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Speaker 2: Oh okay, okay, okay, but what okay? Yeah, No, I

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Speaker 2: just have questions about, you know, his safety.

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Speaker 1: Bob is fine, okay, And Bob might just get picked

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Speaker 3: His roots again and come back and I.

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Speaker 2: Just picked up again.

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Speaker 3: He's like, off, ao sake, I have to go my share.

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Speaker 3: And they listened to that one song so much.

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Speaker 2: He's like, hey, yeah, sill bells whatever.

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Speaker 3: Along, Yeah, yeah yeah.

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Speaker 2: What about you?

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Speaker 3: When do you get your tree?

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Speaker 2: I honestly, okay, I'm ferocious about getting a tree. I

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Speaker 2: like a very specific shape, a very specific needle. You

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Speaker 2: know when people like smell, you know, they're smelling their

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Speaker 2: wine then tasty. That's like me looking at trees. I'm smelling,

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Speaker 2: I'm touching and whispering to it, fering it. Well it

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Speaker 2: gets a little of this, I can see how it responds,

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Speaker 2: you know, gonna sense of humor or not. And I'm like,

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Speaker 2: so ridiculous, an insane person. If you see me picking

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Speaker 2: is a military operation.

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Speaker 3: I'm like Matt.

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Speaker 2: North North to the left to you know, it's like,

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Speaker 2: I'm crazy about it.

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Speaker 1: So you're asking, So you're asking the people at the

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Speaker 2: Of those like pull that out, pull that out. You

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Speaker 2: I still and then I had them spin them because

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Speaker 2: YANKI this side's good. So it honestly was so stressful

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Speaker 2: now I'm not stressed. So that bad boy sits on

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Speaker 2: of times it's a Friday. I'm away this year too.

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Speaker 3: Wait, this is a fake tree.

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Speaker 2: This is a fake tree because the stress of the

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Speaker 2: the other things, the shenanigans was.

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Speaker 3: I would literally be.

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Speaker 2: On the floor like I had a nervous break down

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Speaker 2: the middle.

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Speaker 3: Of you know what I got.

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Speaker 2: I think I have a fake tree that looks beautiful.

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Speaker 3: Yeah, I think that I would.

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Speaker 1: I think former Jessica would would have had an issue

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Speaker 1: I think that's actually great because you're not killing a tree.

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Speaker 3: Yeah, it's a perfect looking tree.

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Speaker 2: It's perfect. It I scented, it's not scented, Okay, But

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Speaker 2: to be honest that I do love the scent because

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Speaker 2: in consideration. And I do love the tradition of going

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Speaker 2: That's real, right.

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Speaker 1: I put smaller trees in my kids' tree, the ones

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Speaker 1: that want them, Josey and Poppies still want them this year.

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Speaker 2: Yeah, and so they get that feeling. But that makes

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Speaker 1: And there's just something about you and I talked about

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Speaker 1: this because when you walked into Josie's room last night, yeah,

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Speaker 1: and she had decorated. You said something that you and

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Speaker 1: I agree on that I didn't know, which was you

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Speaker 1: have to have the right Christmas tree lights because the

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Speaker 1: Led Christmas lights.

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Speaker 2: I cannot It's not the same stand in the Led lights.

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Speaker 2: The colors are off. The blue is gross. I hate it.

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Speaker 2: It has to be the I'm going to give you

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Speaker 2: an example of what they look like. They look like

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Speaker 2: the twinkle lights and stranger things. It has to be

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Speaker 2: a pinky color. It has to look like nineties warm.

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Speaker 3: Glowy warm. Literally, yeah, I know. So Josie has them all.

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Speaker 1: And then over one window there wasn't a plug, so

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Speaker 3: Out like that.

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Speaker 2: I had to lie. I said, they looked good.

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Speaker 3: Yeah, you do? You like because she's you know, she's cute.

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Speaker 2: And I was like, they look good over there, and

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Speaker 3: Child, Yeah, I get it. Does she appreciate it?

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Speaker 1: Though?

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Speaker 3: She did?

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Speaker 1: Okay, Well, I do have a question because I think

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Speaker 2: Oh, eggnog and whiskey? I love it?

450
00:20:33,840 --> 00:20:34,480
Speaker 3: This makes sense.

451
00:20:34,520 --> 00:20:36,760
Speaker 2: Spiked, what about you?

452
00:20:37,640 --> 00:20:40,239
Speaker 1: I was you went to alcohol. I went to more like,

453
00:20:40,280 --> 00:20:43,439
Speaker 1: you know, like a peppermint mocha.

454
00:20:44,040 --> 00:20:45,480
Speaker 2: What about a peppermint martini.

455
00:20:46,280 --> 00:20:50,160
Speaker 3: I'll take one of those, yeah for sure? Yeah? Okay?

456
00:20:51,160 --> 00:20:54,280
Speaker 3: And when did you do your shopping? Do you do online?

457
00:20:54,320 --> 00:20:56,119
Speaker 3: Do you go in person? Do you know, go to

458
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Speaker 3: the mall.

459
00:20:56,440 --> 00:21:00,119
Speaker 2: I'm gonna tell you what really pissed me off, and

460
00:21:00,160 --> 00:21:03,840
Speaker 2: I mean this whole heart look serious, I am really serious.

461
00:21:03,840 --> 00:21:04,960
Speaker 3: I know your eyes are narrowing.

462
00:21:06,280 --> 00:21:09,959
Speaker 2: I am so mad that Toys Rust does not exist

463
00:21:10,440 --> 00:21:13,840
Speaker 2: because as a kid going to Toys r Ust, going

464
00:21:13,880 --> 00:21:16,879
Speaker 2: through those aisles, and it was like the most it

465
00:21:16,960 --> 00:21:19,440
Speaker 2: was like being in toy Land, Like it was like.

466
00:21:19,680 --> 00:21:20,480
Speaker 3: Oh my gosh.

467
00:21:20,520 --> 00:21:24,720
Speaker 1: Well take that experience, and if you compared it to

468
00:21:24,960 --> 00:21:29,200
Speaker 1: Fao Schwartz New York City, like early two thousands, yes,

469
00:21:29,359 --> 00:21:30,480
Speaker 1: like it was.

470
00:21:31,400 --> 00:21:35,040
Speaker 3: I mean and they that time that lasted a long time.

471
00:21:35,280 --> 00:21:37,320
Speaker 2: But now I do feel like like you could have

472
00:21:37,320 --> 00:21:39,400
Speaker 2: gone into Toys r Us and you could have gone

473
00:21:39,480 --> 00:21:42,720
Speaker 2: a buzz light Year, a little Hot Wheels, a Barbie.

474
00:21:42,840 --> 00:21:45,920
Speaker 2: If you go in there in New York City, it's

475
00:21:45,960 --> 00:21:49,320
Speaker 2: a little like here's a really cute bear.

476
00:21:50,119 --> 00:21:52,680
Speaker 3: That's not true about time, No, no, no, no, there

477
00:21:52,720 --> 00:21:52,960
Speaker 3: was a.

478
00:21:52,880 --> 00:21:56,119
Speaker 2: Whole lot of buzz light Year and Hot Wheels.

479
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Speaker 1: No way, I'm trying to think of where it is

480
00:21:57,400 --> 00:22:00,560
Speaker 1: now because now it's near rock Flower Center. Well, it's

481
00:22:00,680 --> 00:22:04,760
Speaker 1: honestly genuine, I'm answering this question actually legitimately, like seriously.

482
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Speaker 3: It depended because the Fao Schwartz wants are an.

483
00:22:07,480 --> 00:22:10,600
Speaker 2: Evolution I'm talking about now. If you go in.

484
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Speaker 1: Now, my last experience was that they have they kind of.

485
00:22:15,240 --> 00:22:16,680
Speaker 1: I could be using this the right way or the

486
00:22:16,720 --> 00:22:19,200
Speaker 1: wrong way. Don't hold me to it. I feel like

487
00:22:19,240 --> 00:22:21,480
Speaker 1: they private labeled all the toys they sell. Now that's

488
00:22:21,480 --> 00:22:22,280
Speaker 1: what I feel like too.

489
00:22:22,359 --> 00:22:22,919
Speaker 3: Yeah, so they do.

490
00:22:23,000 --> 00:22:25,560
Speaker 1: Like the baking department is like by fo shorts and

491
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Speaker 1: the department is That's That's what I'm saying.

492
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Speaker 3: Yeah, yeah, yeah, okay, I'm with you. I'm on book

493
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Speaker 3: ye yeah.

494
00:22:31,760 --> 00:22:34,439
Speaker 2: Back in the day maybe different. I didn't know, but

495
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Speaker 2: I but I but I don't. I don't want to

496
00:22:36,560 --> 00:22:38,040
Speaker 2: Amazon the toys.

497
00:22:38,200 --> 00:22:39,520
Speaker 3: No, I know. It's I don't want.

498
00:22:39,560 --> 00:22:41,719
Speaker 1: You know, what's a great, great shopping experience. And I'm

499
00:22:41,760 --> 00:22:46,439
Speaker 1: not paid to say this. Walmart American Girl doll. Okay,

500
00:22:46,720 --> 00:22:47,520
Speaker 1: my daughter.

501
00:22:48,320 --> 00:22:52,199
Speaker 2: Just not give as dolls. It's great if you have

502
00:22:52,359 --> 00:22:55,679
Speaker 2: that kid, but my daughter just does not.

503
00:22:56,040 --> 00:22:59,639
Speaker 3: Hash. Were gone to the long with her doll and

504
00:22:59,640 --> 00:23:00,520
Speaker 3: got this and I'm.

505
00:23:00,400 --> 00:23:02,000
Speaker 2: Going to tell you exactly what happened. We went to

506
00:23:02,040 --> 00:23:05,359
Speaker 2: this really cute American Girl doll birthday party, right, so

507
00:23:05,520 --> 00:23:07,560
Speaker 2: she had lunch with the doll. So we didn't have

508
00:23:07,600 --> 00:23:10,560
Speaker 2: a doll. In fact, no, that's a lie. We had

509
00:23:10,640 --> 00:23:12,680
Speaker 2: a doll. I'm going to post a picture on Instagram

510
00:23:12,960 --> 00:23:18,680
Speaker 2: that doll looked like she'd seen some it. Okay, she's

511
00:23:18,720 --> 00:23:21,840
Speaker 2: been through it. First off, she was naked and her

512
00:23:21,840 --> 00:23:24,400
Speaker 2: hair looked like she looked like she'd been electrocuted. Right,

513
00:23:24,680 --> 00:23:29,080
Speaker 2: So we were like, she can't she's one hundred percent.

514
00:23:29,119 --> 00:23:31,959
Speaker 2: We were barbing. I have the picture and I was like,

515
00:23:32,040 --> 00:23:36,719
Speaker 2: we can't bring her, and so we got there early. No,

516
00:23:36,800 --> 00:23:38,800
Speaker 2: she was not appropriate. She would have ruined. She was

517
00:23:39,080 --> 00:23:41,679
Speaker 2: a tea party. She was like, she needs tequila, right,

518
00:23:41,760 --> 00:23:44,800
Speaker 2: so that doll's out. We arrived early. We bought a

519
00:23:44,840 --> 00:23:48,240
Speaker 2: new doll. Dn't got the doll's haired one, and then

520
00:23:48,280 --> 00:23:50,320
Speaker 2: two seconds later we had lunch. It was such a

521
00:23:50,359 --> 00:23:53,120
Speaker 2: cute birthday party. We had lunch at the grove. No,

522
00:23:53,160 --> 00:23:56,159
Speaker 2: it wasn't the grove. It was in Sandry City, and

523
00:23:56,200 --> 00:23:58,120
Speaker 2: she had the doll, and she thought it was really

524
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Speaker 2: funny to just like throw the doll on a bush. Oh,

525
00:24:00,840 --> 00:24:02,600
Speaker 2: so we just go from me to his hair done,

526
00:24:02,720 --> 00:24:05,600
Speaker 2: and then the dolls like sticking out legs upside down

527
00:24:05,840 --> 00:24:08,959
Speaker 2: like this underwear showing, and that doll. I mean, so

528
00:24:09,000 --> 00:24:10,960
Speaker 2: she's about.

529
00:24:10,800 --> 00:24:12,720
Speaker 3: Two hundred plus dollars.

530
00:24:12,760 --> 00:24:14,280
Speaker 2: Oh yeah, because she's like, oh.

531
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Speaker 3: It's real expensive. Toss into the bushes.

532
00:24:17,680 --> 00:24:24,159
Speaker 2: It's it is us, please come back, toys or us.

533
00:24:25,040 --> 00:24:28,320
Speaker 2: What is your best tip to stay calm and unstressed

534
00:24:28,800 --> 00:24:29,600
Speaker 2: during the holiday.

535
00:24:30,200 --> 00:24:32,360
Speaker 1: Oh, this answer is very easy for me, and it's

536
00:24:32,400 --> 00:24:37,400
Speaker 1: come hard one, but I'm very proud of it.

537
00:24:37,400 --> 00:24:42,720
Speaker 3: It's not gonna surprise you. Preparation. I start preparing.

538
00:24:42,480 --> 00:24:43,320
Speaker 2: Your a psychopath.

539
00:24:43,920 --> 00:24:49,680
Speaker 1: Yeah, I start preparing for the holidays quite early because

540
00:24:50,240 --> 00:24:53,639
Speaker 1: when I was just in charge of you know, myself

541
00:24:53,760 --> 00:24:57,000
Speaker 1: or like my family members when I was younger, that

542
00:24:57,080 --> 00:25:00,000
Speaker 1: seemed manageable. And then you have kids, and I was like, babies,

543
00:25:00,040 --> 00:25:02,640
Speaker 1: first Christmas, It's so exciting whatever. Then you have another

544
00:25:03,400 --> 00:25:06,600
Speaker 1: and then you're working outside the house and you've got

545
00:25:06,640 --> 00:25:09,320
Speaker 1: your family life, and then they start school. You go

546
00:25:09,400 --> 00:25:12,439
Speaker 1: from taking care of like I don't know, four people

547
00:25:13,119 --> 00:25:17,560
Speaker 1: during the holidays. As far as gifts go to, I mean,

548
00:25:18,200 --> 00:25:20,800
Speaker 1: it becomes I mean depending on like, choose your own adventure,

549
00:25:20,840 --> 00:25:21,359
Speaker 1: it could be.

550
00:25:21,320 --> 00:25:23,840
Speaker 3: Plus, it could be forty plus. Yeah, because you.

551
00:25:23,760 --> 00:25:26,600
Speaker 1: Have teachers, you have coaches, you have people that are

552
00:25:26,600 --> 00:25:29,120
Speaker 1: in your life every day that genuinely mean something to you.

553
00:25:29,160 --> 00:25:32,439
Speaker 1: And I absolutely, so so much want to show my

554
00:25:32,480 --> 00:25:35,120
Speaker 1: appreciation and my gratitude during a time that does feel

555
00:25:35,200 --> 00:25:40,000
Speaker 1: so magical, and yet I was finding that this wonderful

556
00:25:40,040 --> 00:25:42,600
Speaker 1: thing that I was doing started to feel really bad,

557
00:25:43,080 --> 00:25:44,120
Speaker 1: like too much pressure.

558
00:25:44,400 --> 00:25:45,560
Speaker 2: Oh, it's so much pressure.

559
00:25:46,480 --> 00:25:49,560
Speaker 1: Like yeah, I just I was under it, not over it,

560
00:25:49,600 --> 00:25:55,360
Speaker 1: and it was not working for anyone. And my answer

561
00:25:55,400 --> 00:25:57,080
Speaker 1: I had to have a little talk with myself, and

562
00:25:57,119 --> 00:26:02,040
Speaker 1: I was like, self, you're either cutting this list in

563
00:26:02,080 --> 00:26:05,280
Speaker 1: a really meaningful way, or you're going with one gift

564
00:26:05,359 --> 00:26:09,400
Speaker 1: that you give to everyone, right, yeah, or you're gonna

565
00:26:09,400 --> 00:26:10,040
Speaker 1: start earlier.

566
00:26:10,400 --> 00:26:11,919
Speaker 3: And so I went with starting earlier.

567
00:26:12,160 --> 00:26:14,440
Speaker 2: What is the start time? Here? Are we talking about

568
00:26:14,440 --> 00:26:14,800
Speaker 2: a July?

569
00:26:15,000 --> 00:26:16,760
Speaker 3: I started. I started a couple of weeks ago.

570
00:26:17,640 --> 00:26:18,760
Speaker 2: That's not too early.

571
00:26:18,800 --> 00:26:21,320
Speaker 3: Well that's before Halloween. That seems a little early.

572
00:26:21,640 --> 00:26:24,560
Speaker 2: I don't think. So I've already started googling some.

573
00:26:24,480 --> 00:26:25,400
Speaker 3: Stuff, okay, yeah.

574
00:26:25,560 --> 00:26:27,760
Speaker 1: And then and then basically I just have an area

575
00:26:27,800 --> 00:26:29,280
Speaker 1: in the house that no one's allowed to go into,

576
00:26:29,359 --> 00:26:31,520
Speaker 1: and you start like creating piles.

577
00:26:32,040 --> 00:26:33,959
Speaker 3: Yeah, and then I do, and then I do.

578
00:26:34,080 --> 00:26:37,040
Speaker 1: I do end up getting similar things for you know,

579
00:26:37,080 --> 00:26:38,320
Speaker 1: the teachers and.

580
00:26:38,760 --> 00:26:40,919
Speaker 3: Oh the last year, I do remember I should I

581
00:26:40,920 --> 00:26:41,840
Speaker 3: forgot to follow up on this.

582
00:26:41,960 --> 00:26:46,200
Speaker 1: I do actually think that teachers and.

583
00:26:46,840 --> 00:26:48,960
Speaker 3: That kind of like teachers, teachers and coaches and all that.

584
00:26:49,920 --> 00:26:52,119
Speaker 3: I feel like you really should just give them money.

585
00:26:53,440 --> 00:26:56,639
Speaker 2: Well let's ask, yeah, yeah, what do you guys want?

586
00:26:57,040 --> 00:26:57,600
Speaker 3: Yeah?

587
00:26:57,800 --> 00:26:58,960
Speaker 2: I always get stuck.

588
00:26:58,960 --> 00:27:01,080
Speaker 1: How many robes? How many cups with their name on it?

589
00:27:01,160 --> 00:27:02,720
Speaker 1: How many to go cups with their name on it?

590
00:27:02,720 --> 00:27:04,480
Speaker 2: I don't know though, because like, does a gift cards

591
00:27:04,520 --> 00:27:06,600
Speaker 2: seem like kind of like whatever? Yeah?

592
00:27:06,640 --> 00:27:08,800
Speaker 1: It does, for sure it does, but it also it

593
00:27:08,800 --> 00:27:10,480
Speaker 1: could be like whatever I want?

594
00:27:10,920 --> 00:27:11,200
Speaker 2: True?

595
00:27:11,359 --> 00:27:12,359
Speaker 3: Right, they get to get.

596
00:27:12,280 --> 00:27:15,880
Speaker 2: Whatever they want, true, true, true. Well, okay, if you

597
00:27:15,920 --> 00:27:18,200
Speaker 2: are listening to this and you are a teacher, please

598
00:27:18,480 --> 00:27:21,480
Speaker 2: help Justina, I know, yes, please what you guys really

599
00:27:21,480 --> 00:27:21,920
Speaker 2: do want?

600
00:27:22,080 --> 00:27:23,680
Speaker 3: Yeah, because we will give it to you.

601
00:27:23,800 --> 00:27:41,480
Speaker 4: Yeah, all right, call it cru submissions, call it chritmsubmissions.

602
00:27:41,560 --> 00:27:46,040
Speaker 2: Okay. Isabelle says, I always learn a Christmas piece on

603
00:27:46,119 --> 00:27:49,240
Speaker 2: the piano and buy tons of Christmas candles.

604
00:27:49,840 --> 00:27:50,520
Speaker 3: That's really cute.

605
00:27:50,520 --> 00:27:51,920
Speaker 1: I wish you were in my family because I would

606
00:27:51,920 --> 00:27:54,000
Speaker 1: like to hear you play that Christmas piece on the piano.

607
00:27:54,080 --> 00:27:56,159
Speaker 3: And and I do love a Christmas candle.

608
00:27:56,680 --> 00:28:02,000
Speaker 2: I have so many Christmas candles.

609
00:28:00,160 --> 00:28:03,520
Speaker 1: The ones that smell like something real though, like once,

610
00:28:03,640 --> 00:28:07,600
Speaker 1: like you're the ones that are like gingerbread spiced punkin

611
00:28:07,760 --> 00:28:09,440
Speaker 1: latte with.

612
00:28:09,400 --> 00:28:11,879
Speaker 3: A dash of mocha. Yea, yeah, no, that's not a

613
00:28:11,880 --> 00:28:12,480
Speaker 3: real scent.

614
00:28:12,720 --> 00:28:15,960
Speaker 2: Yeah, what do you need depression? Like what do we talk?

615
00:28:16,080 --> 00:28:19,080
Speaker 2: What's what's real? You need that? That's what you need?

616
00:28:19,760 --> 00:28:24,600
Speaker 3: No, I like a cedar candle. Fine. Wow.

617
00:28:24,680 --> 00:28:26,679
Speaker 1: Gianna wrote in and she said I make a Google

618
00:28:26,680 --> 00:28:29,840
Speaker 1: doc with Christmas list decorations needed at links and photos.

619
00:28:30,040 --> 00:28:34,359
Speaker 2: That's fun. That would bring me joy, love it, Okay.

620
00:28:34,760 --> 00:28:38,120
Speaker 2: Jesslyn said, my anniversary and birthday are in November, so

621
00:28:38,120 --> 00:28:41,880
Speaker 2: we don't decorate or get into the spirit until after Thanksgiving.

622
00:28:42,080 --> 00:28:45,120
Speaker 2: I think that's pretty common. Yeah, tradition for a lot

623
00:28:45,160 --> 00:28:45,520
Speaker 2: of people.

624
00:28:45,640 --> 00:28:46,000
Speaker 3: Mm hmm.

625
00:28:47,240 --> 00:28:49,080
Speaker 1: Jay roden And said, I'm from Poland, and we put

626
00:28:49,080 --> 00:28:51,040
Speaker 1: a coin and a dumpling and whoever finds it will

627
00:28:51,080 --> 00:28:52,880
Speaker 1: be lucky for the whole year we have.

628
00:28:53,040 --> 00:28:56,480
Speaker 2: We we have a tradition like this in England. You

629
00:28:56,520 --> 00:28:57,920
Speaker 2: put a little in the Christmas pudding.

630
00:28:58,560 --> 00:29:00,000
Speaker 3: That's not a cake, it's an actual pudding.

631
00:29:00,320 --> 00:29:04,000
Speaker 2: Uh. It's like it's confusing because like yeah, it's kind

632
00:29:04,040 --> 00:29:07,200
Speaker 2: of like a fruitcake almost, and then like light it

633
00:29:07,240 --> 00:29:10,400
Speaker 2: on fire. Oh yeah, and you shove like ten p

634
00:29:10,560 --> 00:29:12,480
Speaker 2: in there, a twenty p in there, and whoever finds

635
00:29:12,480 --> 00:29:15,560
Speaker 2: that you're talking about doesn't choke pe a pence.

636
00:29:16,280 --> 00:29:18,640
Speaker 1: Yeah yeah, you just you said a pete. You're not

637
00:29:18,640 --> 00:29:20,920
Speaker 1: talking about like a round green pea. You're talking about

638
00:29:20,920 --> 00:29:21,200
Speaker 1: a pence.

639
00:29:21,280 --> 00:29:23,880
Speaker 2: Yeah, but we call it ten p p.

640
00:29:24,080 --> 00:29:26,040
Speaker 3: I was just trying to help the American listeners.

641
00:29:26,080 --> 00:29:32,560
Speaker 2: Okay, sorry you don't yeah, yeah, So anyway.

642
00:29:31,160 --> 00:29:33,640
Speaker 3: I don't know how I feel about money and my food.

643
00:29:34,600 --> 00:29:37,360
Speaker 2: It's gross, but growing up, like I mean you, it

644
00:29:37,560 --> 00:29:40,960
Speaker 2: is gross, and I there's no way my dad washed

645
00:29:40,960 --> 00:29:45,120
Speaker 2: that penny. That's what I'm so you're like, yeah, yeah, yeah,

646
00:29:46,240 --> 00:29:49,680
Speaker 2: Irene says, I dressed my kittens up like their little

647
00:29:49,800 --> 00:29:50,720
Speaker 2: Christmas Eus.

648
00:29:50,760 --> 00:29:51,440
Speaker 3: That's cute.

649
00:29:52,240 --> 00:29:55,840
Speaker 2: I love that cute. It's really cute. I think the

650
00:29:55,880 --> 00:29:57,760
Speaker 2: dogs are going to be Christmas elves now this year.

651
00:29:58,200 --> 00:29:59,520
Speaker 2: I've been inspired.

652
00:29:59,800 --> 00:30:00,680
Speaker 3: O ooh abe.

653
00:30:00,760 --> 00:30:03,320
Speaker 1: I am aligned with your thinking. It's the first year

654
00:30:03,320 --> 00:30:04,960
Speaker 1: that we are doing this. I give my nieces and

655
00:30:05,040 --> 00:30:09,360
Speaker 1: nephews their Christmas gift after Thanksgiving and their new holiday pjs.

656
00:30:09,800 --> 00:30:11,880
Speaker 1: So I think you get your holiday pjs after Thanksgiving

657
00:30:11,960 --> 00:30:14,320
Speaker 1: so that you can wear those bad boys every single

658
00:30:14,400 --> 00:30:16,000
Speaker 1: night up until Christmas.

659
00:30:16,040 --> 00:30:16,680
Speaker 3: You ran that down.

660
00:30:16,920 --> 00:30:19,760
Speaker 2: No, no, no, I'm not writing it down. I tweeted

661
00:30:19,760 --> 00:30:23,280
Speaker 2: this out into the Twitter sphere and there was very really,

662
00:30:23,360 --> 00:30:27,640
Speaker 2: really cute on this subject. Danielle wrote, every year, on

663
00:30:27,720 --> 00:30:30,440
Speaker 2: Christmas Eve before bed, I used to get to open

664
00:30:30,560 --> 00:30:34,280
Speaker 2: one present that would always be new Pj's. It's something

665
00:30:34,360 --> 00:30:37,720
Speaker 2: my nan, my grandma always did, and when she died,

666
00:30:37,760 --> 00:30:40,160
Speaker 2: my mom started doing it. And I'm thirty six now

667
00:30:40,200 --> 00:30:42,960
Speaker 2: and I still get them. Really, I like the PJ

668
00:30:43,160 --> 00:30:44,320
Speaker 2: gift before Christmas.

669
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Speaker 3: I might have to do.

670
00:30:45,160 --> 00:30:48,920
Speaker 1: That because this reminds me. I love traditions. I love

671
00:30:49,000 --> 00:30:52,040
Speaker 1: something that happens every year and that you can rely

672
00:30:52,120 --> 00:30:53,880
Speaker 1: on it. You do it, you know it, you see

673
00:30:53,880 --> 00:30:56,000
Speaker 1: it coming, you look forward to it, you cherish it.

674
00:30:56,000 --> 00:30:56,400
Speaker 3: It's great.

675
00:30:56,800 --> 00:31:00,040
Speaker 2: Yeah, Lizzie said, holidays are hard for me because my

676
00:31:00,080 --> 00:31:02,920
Speaker 2: parents divorced and my dad moved out, so it's always

677
00:31:02,920 --> 00:31:06,520
Speaker 2: an awkward family reunion for us on Christmas Eve. I

678
00:31:06,560 --> 00:31:09,840
Speaker 2: think a lot of people listening to this have this experience.

679
00:31:10,040 --> 00:31:13,960
Speaker 3: Yeah. I get that. Yeah, my parents were divorced, and

680
00:31:14,120 --> 00:31:16,920
Speaker 3: I remember it could be a hard time of the year.

681
00:31:17,000 --> 00:31:18,959
Speaker 1: It could be a hard time of the year, and

682
00:31:19,040 --> 00:31:23,440
Speaker 1: I remember still finding the magic in it and just

683
00:31:23,480 --> 00:31:26,200
Speaker 1: sort of trying to stay hopeful that everyone was going

684
00:31:26,280 --> 00:31:28,400
Speaker 1: to behave themselves and we were all going to be

685
00:31:28,400 --> 00:31:31,480
Speaker 1: filled with the Christmas spirit and that it would be

686
00:31:32,160 --> 00:31:35,600
Speaker 1: it would be okay, because everything's gonna be okay. Yeah.

687
00:31:35,600 --> 00:31:38,840
Speaker 2: I also I also think sometimes you take comfort in

688
00:31:39,040 --> 00:31:44,000
Speaker 2: just knowing, like listen, today is gonna be not the best,

689
00:31:44,160 --> 00:31:47,880
Speaker 2: not so fun. Yeah, take the pressure off it being perfect. Yeah,

690
00:31:48,400 --> 00:31:52,600
Speaker 2: and just know that there's millions and millions and millions

691
00:31:52,640 --> 00:31:56,360
Speaker 2: of other people sitting here on this day feeling like

692
00:31:56,720 --> 00:32:00,000
Speaker 2: this is annoying. Yeah, Like I find comfort in things

693
00:32:00,240 --> 00:32:02,280
Speaker 2: like listen, I'm not the only person in the world

694
00:32:02,360 --> 00:32:04,640
Speaker 2: going through this for sure. By the way, there are

695
00:32:04,680 --> 00:32:08,800
Speaker 2: people that are together their families, are not divorced, and

696
00:32:08,840 --> 00:32:10,000
Speaker 2: it's still super.

697
00:32:09,760 --> 00:32:13,719
Speaker 3: Annoying and they're miserable. Yeah.

698
00:32:14,240 --> 00:32:18,760
Speaker 2: Just a little lighthearted comment for the holiday season, No.

699
00:32:18,800 --> 00:32:22,840
Speaker 1: But I think it's worth saying that people talk about

700
00:32:23,400 --> 00:32:26,360
Speaker 1: what it's like to still be in their situations or

701
00:32:26,400 --> 00:32:28,920
Speaker 1: in their in their you know, still dealing with the

702
00:32:28,920 --> 00:32:30,760
Speaker 1: same issues that they're dealing with any other time of

703
00:32:30,760 --> 00:32:32,200
Speaker 1: the year, but during a time of the year that

704
00:32:32,240 --> 00:32:34,760
Speaker 1: everyone wants everybody to be happy and sometimes you're not happy,

705
00:32:35,080 --> 00:32:39,360
Speaker 1: and that's okay. If you're bullied by the Christmas spirit

706
00:32:39,400 --> 00:32:41,640
Speaker 1: and you can sort of like park those problems somewhere

707
00:32:41,680 --> 00:32:42,920
Speaker 1: and be like, I'm gonna get back to you after

708
00:32:42,920 --> 00:32:45,840
Speaker 1: the new year, then great. But if they're still there

709
00:32:45,880 --> 00:32:47,680
Speaker 1: and they're still you know, holding on to you, then

710
00:32:47,680 --> 00:32:49,200
Speaker 1: you have to just sort of honor that moment too

711
00:32:49,280 --> 00:32:52,239
Speaker 1: and try your hardest to be around people who make

712
00:32:52,280 --> 00:32:52,920
Speaker 1: you feel good.

713
00:32:53,200 --> 00:32:53,400
Speaker 3: Yeah.

714
00:32:53,440 --> 00:32:55,080
Speaker 2: I think it's I think Christmas is hard because of

715
00:32:55,120 --> 00:32:57,840
Speaker 2: the pressure, right, the pressure to feel so much.

716
00:32:57,920 --> 00:33:00,760
Speaker 3: People are spending a lot of money, which is hard.

717
00:33:01,480 --> 00:33:03,240
Speaker 3: It's a lot. The holidays can be a lot.

718
00:33:03,320 --> 00:33:07,840
Speaker 1: Yeah, two things can be true, Nayak said. Argentinian traditions

719
00:33:07,880 --> 00:33:10,400
Speaker 1: are epic for Christmas because it's summer here. You need

720
00:33:10,440 --> 00:33:11,520
Speaker 1: to look it up on TikTok.

721
00:33:11,520 --> 00:33:15,120
Speaker 2: I've always wondered what the summer Well does the summer

722
00:33:15,240 --> 00:33:18,400
Speaker 2: Christmases look like? Yeah, yeah, I know, it would be

723
00:33:18,480 --> 00:33:22,640
Speaker 2: very weird to it's just not Yeah, yeah, okay, Jason.

724
00:33:22,720 --> 00:33:26,200
Speaker 2: Every year my family does filet mignon and baked potatoes

725
00:33:26,320 --> 00:33:27,520
Speaker 2: for Christmas dinner.

726
00:33:28,160 --> 00:33:31,160
Speaker 3: Ooh yeah, Well.

727
00:33:30,960 --> 00:33:33,400
Speaker 2: We were talking about the turkey not being our faves,

728
00:33:33,400 --> 00:33:35,160
Speaker 2: so maybe it's a Filet Mignon change out.

729
00:33:35,440 --> 00:33:38,080
Speaker 3: Oh yeah, yeah.

730
00:33:38,120 --> 00:33:40,600
Speaker 1: Morgan wrote in and said getting older, realizing your family

731
00:33:40,640 --> 00:33:42,680
Speaker 1: is toxic and still having to spend Christmas with.

732
00:33:42,680 --> 00:33:47,240
Speaker 2: Them sucks again. There you go, nog and whiskey. Morgan

733
00:33:47,600 --> 00:33:49,040
Speaker 2: makes everything a little bit nice.

734
00:33:49,040 --> 00:33:49,640
Speaker 3: You're not alone.

735
00:33:49,720 --> 00:33:51,680
Speaker 1: See, this is where you can come to understand that

736
00:33:51,800 --> 00:33:54,080
Speaker 1: all perspectives and feelings are welcome.

737
00:33:54,360 --> 00:33:56,520
Speaker 2: I gotta say, I've just so that I'm relating and

738
00:33:56,560 --> 00:33:59,760
Speaker 2: being honest and calling it what it is. The biggest

739
00:33:59,880 --> 00:34:03,880
Speaker 2: art events my family has had, not me and Matt,

740
00:34:03,960 --> 00:34:06,120
Speaker 2: like I'm talking about you know, your family of origin,

741
00:34:06,240 --> 00:34:10,440
Speaker 2: the Luddington's yep, have always been on Christmas Day. Yeah,

742
00:34:10,520 --> 00:34:14,480
Speaker 2: in fact, and they're ridiculous. Like I remember there was

743
00:34:14,520 --> 00:34:17,960
Speaker 2: an argument that started over whether the Beatles or Oasis

744
00:34:17,960 --> 00:34:21,440
Speaker 2: were better. And I'm not kidding my subjective it got

745
00:34:21,680 --> 00:34:22,440
Speaker 2: dark cool.

746
00:34:24,040 --> 00:34:28,600
Speaker 3: Yeah, that's unfortunate, I know. Yeah, well it's funny.

747
00:34:28,800 --> 00:34:30,719
Speaker 1: I mean, I'm glad that people wrote in about their

748
00:34:31,080 --> 00:34:34,120
Speaker 1: their real feelings and their real experiences because it is

749
00:34:34,200 --> 00:34:38,520
Speaker 1: reminding me that I can definitely do a little revisionist

750
00:34:38,520 --> 00:34:41,960
Speaker 1: history because I like to move towards the light and

751
00:34:42,000 --> 00:34:46,239
Speaker 1: the and the joyous, but yeah, yeah, there's some there

752
00:34:46,280 --> 00:34:49,720
Speaker 1: were some dark. There's some moments, yeah yeah, yeah, yeah yeah.

753
00:34:49,760 --> 00:34:52,400
Speaker 1: And also when you get older because actually my grandparents

754
00:34:52,400 --> 00:34:55,680
Speaker 1: and my parents were divorced, so I actually.

755
00:34:55,280 --> 00:34:58,680
Speaker 3: I bopped around. Yeah yeah, and when.

756
00:34:58,560 --> 00:35:01,320
Speaker 1: People are there's so much pressure for people to feel

757
00:35:01,320 --> 00:35:03,200
Speaker 1: like they're with a ton of people during the holidays

758
00:35:03,280 --> 00:35:05,680
Speaker 1: or be some part of some like you know, jubilant

759
00:35:05,760 --> 00:35:09,040
Speaker 1: celebration that they've seen in a movie or television show.

760
00:35:09,040 --> 00:35:10,960
Speaker 3: But that's not everybody's reality. You know.

761
00:35:11,080 --> 00:35:14,880
Speaker 1: Sometimes you're alone and guess what it's. It's a Christian tradition.

762
00:35:14,960 --> 00:35:19,279
Speaker 1: It's a Christian holiday. That's that's not what everyone else

763
00:35:19,320 --> 00:35:21,440
Speaker 1: is celebrating. And so you kind of have to just

764
00:35:22,000 --> 00:35:24,359
Speaker 1: make some room for where everybody else is coming from.

765
00:35:24,360 --> 00:35:25,000
Speaker 3: And that's okay.

766
00:35:25,600 --> 00:35:29,800
Speaker 2: Yeah, Eden said, for Honkah, we light the manora together

767
00:35:30,000 --> 00:35:32,840
Speaker 2: and eat and sing. It makes me so happy.

768
00:35:33,280 --> 00:35:34,360
Speaker 3: These were some good.

769
00:35:35,719 --> 00:35:38,719
Speaker 1: Celebrate I do the whole thing, all of it, all

770
00:35:38,760 --> 00:35:41,800
Speaker 1: of them, I know, some of my favorite favorite favorite

771
00:35:41,840 --> 00:35:44,600
Speaker 1: memories as a teenager, especially because I was the oldest

772
00:35:44,600 --> 00:35:46,239
Speaker 1: and so we always had it felt like all the

773
00:35:46,280 --> 00:35:48,360
Speaker 1: youngers and the babies and just all the lights in

774
00:35:48,400 --> 00:35:51,200
Speaker 1: their eyes and was celebrating Hanukah and.

775
00:35:51,160 --> 00:35:53,920
Speaker 3: I love love love, like right after you light.

776
00:35:53,800 --> 00:35:56,840
Speaker 1: The candles and and then there was just the singing

777
00:35:56,960 --> 00:35:59,759
Speaker 1: it is we did, we did, We sang a lot

778
00:35:59,800 --> 00:36:01,719
Speaker 1: and we danced and then we would get that dance.

779
00:36:01,719 --> 00:36:03,879
Speaker 1: That dance would go on for a lot longer than

780
00:36:04,040 --> 00:36:05,600
Speaker 1: just you know, the lighting of the candles.

781
00:36:05,600 --> 00:36:08,000
Speaker 3: My mom, it was really a congo line. Going back

782
00:36:08,040 --> 00:36:10,680
Speaker 3: to thee. It was a congo line. It was a

783
00:36:10,760 --> 00:36:14,879
Speaker 3: Jewish congo line. God, please take a video. I will.

784
00:36:14,920 --> 00:36:17,279
Speaker 3: I've got some for sure. No, we made it the best.

785
00:36:17,400 --> 00:36:22,040
Speaker 1: And you know what, my my family just that going

786
00:36:22,280 --> 00:36:24,400
Speaker 1: back to what I just said, right, it doesn't have

787
00:36:24,480 --> 00:36:25,520
Speaker 1: to be a big family.

788
00:36:25,600 --> 00:36:27,160
Speaker 3: Sometimes you have a small family.

789
00:36:27,719 --> 00:36:29,120
Speaker 1: There were a lot of times I was around a

790
00:36:29,120 --> 00:36:31,080
Speaker 1: big family, and so there's some there's some shit that

791
00:36:31,080 --> 00:36:34,920
Speaker 1: comes with that, you know, people disagree or whatever, but

792
00:36:34,960 --> 00:36:38,480
Speaker 1: there's also just tremendous togetherness and light and everybody can

793
00:36:38,480 --> 00:36:41,040
Speaker 1: pretty much hold on for that one conga that line

794
00:36:42,280 --> 00:36:43,520
Speaker 1: just there's the conga line.

795
00:36:43,440 --> 00:36:45,960
Speaker 3: Yeah, maybe that's maybe.

796
00:36:47,920 --> 00:36:51,440
Speaker 1: Party all dance a whore. I can't stop it. The table,

797
00:36:51,600 --> 00:36:52,560
Speaker 1: I give you a treat.

798
00:36:52,600 --> 00:36:58,840
Speaker 2: Hate amazing Kristen The Day the tree goes up.

799
00:36:58,880 --> 00:37:01,279
Speaker 1: We watched the nineteen fifty one Black and White a

800
00:37:01,400 --> 00:37:03,160
Speaker 1: Christmas Carol, and it's a wonderful life.

801
00:37:03,200 --> 00:37:06,040
Speaker 3: I love it. There's a great business.

802
00:37:06,120 --> 00:37:07,520
Speaker 2: I hate a wonderful life.

803
00:37:08,480 --> 00:37:09,479
Speaker 3: Hate is a strong word.

804
00:37:09,719 --> 00:37:10,040
Speaker 2: I do.

805
00:37:10,160 --> 00:37:10,440
Speaker 3: I don't.

806
00:37:10,520 --> 00:37:13,440
Speaker 2: I find it so depressing, and some of my members

807
00:37:13,440 --> 00:37:14,680
Speaker 2: of my family love it. I just can't.

808
00:37:14,760 --> 00:37:18,480
Speaker 1: I don't like it, you say, I can't tell you

809
00:37:18,480 --> 00:37:21,040
Speaker 1: the last time I watched it in its entirety.

810
00:37:21,400 --> 00:37:26,960
Speaker 2: There's a reason, okay, as you Lily, Lily said, my

811
00:37:27,120 --> 00:37:30,280
Speaker 2: church has Thanksgiving and Christmas services and we serve food

812
00:37:30,400 --> 00:37:33,680
Speaker 2: and sing. I always loved midnight Mass. Did you do

813
00:37:33,719 --> 00:37:36,400
Speaker 2: the midnight Mass? Yeah, yeah, I loved it.

814
00:37:36,520 --> 00:37:36,799
Speaker 3: We did.

815
00:37:36,840 --> 00:37:38,520
Speaker 1: We did all the masses in all the different ways.

816
00:37:39,200 --> 00:37:42,560
Speaker 1: You know, something is brought up in Lily's uh right

817
00:37:42,640 --> 00:37:45,400
Speaker 1: in and it's we serve food. I don't know if

818
00:37:45,400 --> 00:37:48,080
Speaker 1: she's talking about just serving her family food. But one

819
00:37:48,080 --> 00:37:51,400
Speaker 1: of the most rewarding things that I've done with our family,

820
00:37:51,680 --> 00:37:56,640
Speaker 1: like now our our our Gabagan family, our family is

821
00:37:57,360 --> 00:38:00,279
Speaker 1: be of service. So we have gone to do, you know,

822
00:38:00,440 --> 00:38:03,720
Speaker 1: serving Thanksgiving meals to those who are party of ones

823
00:38:04,040 --> 00:38:06,520
Speaker 1: right where they go to a local place where they

824
00:38:06,560 --> 00:38:08,840
Speaker 1: can be at a dinner table and you dress up

825
00:38:08,840 --> 00:38:12,400
Speaker 1: the table really nice, and the kids have been servers,

826
00:38:12,400 --> 00:38:15,200
Speaker 1: and it's funny, they've always been really nervous about doing it.

827
00:38:15,200 --> 00:38:16,680
Speaker 3: They've always been very nervous, like am I going to

828
00:38:16,719 --> 00:38:18,360
Speaker 3: do it right? Yeah?

829
00:38:18,400 --> 00:38:21,799
Speaker 1: And pushing through that discomfort and not knowing or even

830
00:38:21,880 --> 00:38:22,680
Speaker 1: just you know, talking to.

831
00:38:22,680 --> 00:38:28,680
Speaker 3: People they don't know or whatever. I've never my heart

832
00:38:28,760 --> 00:38:31,239
Speaker 3: is so full when we leave experiences like that. I

833
00:38:31,280 --> 00:38:32,719
Speaker 3: almost have been.

834
00:38:33,920 --> 00:38:38,000
Speaker 1: I've almost had the thought that service might actually be selfish,

835
00:38:38,160 --> 00:38:41,880
Speaker 1: like you feel so good about having helped someone else.

836
00:38:42,360 --> 00:38:43,280
Speaker 2: Yeah.

837
00:38:43,360 --> 00:38:44,920
Speaker 1: I think there's a lot of opportunities to do that.

838
00:38:45,120 --> 00:38:46,640
Speaker 1: I think there are a lot of opportunities to do

839
00:38:46,680 --> 00:38:49,319
Speaker 1: that during the holidays. And I also think for those

840
00:38:49,360 --> 00:38:51,560
Speaker 1: who are feeling a little lonely or feeling like maybe

841
00:38:51,560 --> 00:38:54,840
Speaker 1: they don't have that you know, picture perfect holiday celebration

842
00:38:54,880 --> 00:38:57,360
Speaker 1: ahead of them, I would encourage you to look for

843
00:38:57,440 --> 00:38:58,400
Speaker 1: ways you can help people.

844
00:39:00,080 --> 00:39:00,279
Speaker 3: Yeah.

845
00:39:00,320 --> 00:39:01,279
Speaker 2: I like that a lot.

846
00:39:01,440 --> 00:39:05,359
Speaker 1: Jess yeah ood, Yeah, I like that distracts you from

847
00:39:05,360 --> 00:39:05,920
Speaker 1: your worries too.

848
00:39:05,960 --> 00:39:07,279
Speaker 3: If you want to look for how it helps you.

849
00:39:09,040 --> 00:39:10,920
Speaker 2: Can I just skip straight to Natalie.

850
00:39:11,040 --> 00:39:11,560
Speaker 3: Yeah.

851
00:39:11,800 --> 00:39:14,640
Speaker 2: Nallie says I get drunk at the airport before I

852
00:39:14,719 --> 00:39:16,400
Speaker 2: treat myself to a trip.

853
00:39:17,120 --> 00:39:18,719
Speaker 3: I wonder if Natalie always makes her flight.

854
00:39:19,520 --> 00:39:23,480
Speaker 2: I bet she does. I bet she loves it. I

855
00:39:23,600 --> 00:39:25,920
Speaker 2: just there's nothing. No, we don't even need to make

856
00:39:25,960 --> 00:39:29,600
Speaker 2: a comment on that. Good job, Nallie, as you should.

857
00:39:30,080 --> 00:39:32,120
Speaker 1: Becka says, I just want to meet the love of

858
00:39:32,120 --> 00:39:34,080
Speaker 1: my life so we can start our own traditions. Is

859
00:39:34,120 --> 00:39:36,040
Speaker 1: that too much to ask?

860
00:39:36,440 --> 00:39:38,319
Speaker 3: Nope, and guess what you will get it.

861
00:39:38,960 --> 00:39:43,640
Speaker 2: I think that like friends giving and friends miss you make,

862
00:39:44,040 --> 00:39:46,480
Speaker 2: making the traditions with your friends is really fun too.

863
00:39:46,520 --> 00:39:46,800
Speaker 3: Though.

864
00:39:47,400 --> 00:39:49,319
Speaker 2: Yeah, it doesn't just have to be love of your life,

865
00:39:49,400 --> 00:39:53,040
Speaker 2: oh for sure. Yeah. Jenny said, we do a gingerbread

866
00:39:53,040 --> 00:39:55,919
Speaker 2: house competition with my kids, who are in their twenties.

867
00:39:56,000 --> 00:39:59,759
Speaker 2: We love to bake. I love this too, I love it,

868
00:40:00,000 --> 00:40:00,399
Speaker 2: love it.

869
00:40:01,440 --> 00:40:03,360
Speaker 1: Casey said, I get two trees, a cute one for

870
00:40:03,400 --> 00:40:07,359
Speaker 1: the living room and and.

871
00:40:07,360 --> 00:40:09,520
Speaker 3: An ugly one for my kids room. That's cute.

872
00:40:09,560 --> 00:40:14,080
Speaker 1: That's like the Charlie Brown Christmas tree, right, that's very funny.

873
00:40:14,239 --> 00:40:14,920
Speaker 3: That's cute.

874
00:40:16,400 --> 00:40:19,400
Speaker 2: Oh my god. Maya said, I try to catch a

875
00:40:19,440 --> 00:40:22,480
Speaker 2: cold to avoid going to my family for the holiday.

876
00:40:22,560 --> 00:40:26,520
Speaker 3: This makes me just think she's like licking, like licking.

877
00:40:26,440 --> 00:40:29,280
Speaker 2: You know, an elevator, Yeah, all the things buttons.

878
00:40:29,360 --> 00:40:30,120
Speaker 3: Yeah, yeah, Maya.

879
00:40:30,160 --> 00:40:32,440
Speaker 2: I'm gonna tell you a little secret. You can just

880
00:40:32,480 --> 00:40:35,600
Speaker 2: say you have a cold. I don't have to get it.

881
00:40:38,160 --> 00:40:40,000
Speaker 3: Oh yeah, here we have the Charlie Brown and.

882
00:40:40,040 --> 00:40:44,200
Speaker 1: Christmas Tree Aslan Ashlin. Yeah, Ashlyn says, we purposely try

883
00:40:44,239 --> 00:40:46,279
Speaker 1: to find a Charlie Brown tree that needs love.

884
00:40:46,360 --> 00:40:48,640
Speaker 2: I think I'm going to get one. I think I

885
00:40:48,680 --> 00:40:57,080
Speaker 2: gotta go get that tree. Yeah, cutesy, cutesy. After eating,

886
00:40:57,120 --> 00:40:58,960
Speaker 2: we all say one thing we love about the person

887
00:40:59,000 --> 00:40:59,640
Speaker 2: to the left of.

888
00:40:59,640 --> 00:41:02,560
Speaker 3: Us, like my birthday. But they're all about me.

889
00:41:02,640 --> 00:41:03,600
Speaker 2: They're just all about you know.

890
00:41:04,520 --> 00:41:07,000
Speaker 3: Yeah. I'd like everyone to go around the table and

891
00:41:07,040 --> 00:41:08,759
Speaker 3: talk about, yeah, how much they love me.

892
00:41:08,840 --> 00:41:10,200
Speaker 2: Yeah, no justice about other people.

893
00:41:10,360 --> 00:41:13,560
Speaker 1: Oh sorry, anyways, Mimi says, a shot of tequila before

894
00:41:13,560 --> 00:41:14,359
Speaker 1: the family comes over.

895
00:41:14,440 --> 00:41:17,439
Speaker 2: It's a must, agreed, can't go wrong with a shot

896
00:41:17,440 --> 00:41:18,080
Speaker 2: aut tequila.

897
00:41:19,160 --> 00:41:19,680
Speaker 3: Mai said.

898
00:41:19,680 --> 00:41:22,920
Speaker 2: We go to the cinema, the movie theater on Christmas Eve.

899
00:41:23,120 --> 00:41:25,680
Speaker 2: There's no one there and it's something we love doing.

900
00:41:25,880 --> 00:41:29,560
Speaker 2: I can see that being really cute. Always good movies

901
00:41:29,600 --> 00:41:32,000
Speaker 2: out of Christmas time. Mm hmmm, great.

902
00:41:31,840 --> 00:41:34,160
Speaker 1: Thoma says, growing up, I stayed up late making to

903
00:41:34,280 --> 00:41:35,400
Speaker 1: Molly's with my mom.

904
00:41:35,480 --> 00:41:36,880
Speaker 3: On the twenty third and twenty.

905
00:41:36,600 --> 00:41:42,040
Speaker 2: Fourth, Rina said, we do our annual Christmas karaoke. We

906
00:41:42,200 --> 00:41:42,640
Speaker 2: love it.

907
00:41:43,040 --> 00:41:43,520
Speaker 3: That's fun.

908
00:41:44,440 --> 00:41:45,160
Speaker 2: That's fun.

909
00:41:46,560 --> 00:41:49,680
Speaker 3: Ella says on December first, my younger siblings sprinkle glitter

910
00:41:49,719 --> 00:41:52,080
Speaker 3: outside to show Santa that my kids live there.

911
00:41:54,360 --> 00:41:58,320
Speaker 2: That's very cute. When do your kids write their Christmas

912
00:41:58,400 --> 00:41:59,640
Speaker 2: letters to Santa?

913
00:42:00,040 --> 00:42:01,719
Speaker 3: There's not like a formal tradition around it.

914
00:42:02,239 --> 00:42:02,600
Speaker 2: There's not.

915
00:42:02,760 --> 00:42:06,120
Speaker 1: Yeah. Yeah, and you know now that the world, I mean,

916
00:42:06,239 --> 00:42:08,080
Speaker 1: as we have all things get a little more digital.

917
00:42:09,040 --> 00:42:10,239
Speaker 3: I feel like I've got you know.

918
00:42:10,280 --> 00:42:13,600
Speaker 2: What they're emailing Google docs. But what are they doing?

919
00:42:13,920 --> 00:42:14,600
Speaker 2: Snap chatting?

920
00:42:14,640 --> 00:42:17,440
Speaker 1: Sannah, Yeah, there's nothing, okay, all right, snapping them with

921
00:42:17,480 --> 00:42:19,160
Speaker 1: the Santa snap Sannah.

922
00:42:19,400 --> 00:42:23,640
Speaker 2: Yeah. Laura said, my mom makes my sisters and I

923
00:42:23,800 --> 00:42:26,759
Speaker 2: sing Christmas songs on the video so she can send

924
00:42:26,760 --> 00:42:27,920
Speaker 2: them to friends and family.

925
00:42:27,960 --> 00:42:31,719
Speaker 3: I hope Laura's under fourteen. Can you imagine?

926
00:42:32,480 --> 00:42:35,160
Speaker 2: But you know what's cute about this is like every year,

927
00:42:35,239 --> 00:42:37,080
Speaker 2: if you do it as a tradition, you see yourself

928
00:42:37,120 --> 00:42:39,799
Speaker 2: growing older. Like it could it could be a really

929
00:42:39,840 --> 00:42:42,320
Speaker 2: cute little mashup later in life.

930
00:42:42,360 --> 00:42:42,719
Speaker 3: Hm hmm.

931
00:42:43,760 --> 00:42:46,200
Speaker 1: Sophia said on Thanksgiving, me decorate paper turkeys with a

932
00:42:46,239 --> 00:42:47,640
Speaker 1: theme and we vote for the winner.

933
00:42:48,600 --> 00:42:52,239
Speaker 3: Oh. I remember making turkeys, real paper turkeys as a kid.

934
00:42:52,280 --> 00:42:54,400
Speaker 2: Yeah, I don't even know what that is. How do

935
00:42:54,440 --> 00:42:56,640
Speaker 2: you make them? Well?

936
00:42:56,880 --> 00:42:59,000
Speaker 1: Remember the ones with the were your hand, Yeah, the

937
00:42:59,000 --> 00:43:03,040
Speaker 1: outline of your hand. I remember doing those and cutting

938
00:43:03,080 --> 00:43:06,400
Speaker 1: it out, and then I remember it's getting you paper tissue,

939
00:43:06,719 --> 00:43:09,520
Speaker 1: tissue paper, yes, getting tissue paper and then getting little

940
00:43:09,520 --> 00:43:11,880
Speaker 1: dots of glue and like you would like make it

941
00:43:12,080 --> 00:43:12,680
Speaker 1: the feathers.

942
00:43:14,080 --> 00:43:15,320
Speaker 3: Yes, not that artistic.

943
00:43:15,440 --> 00:43:16,400
Speaker 2: I love the parade.

944
00:43:17,760 --> 00:43:20,360
Speaker 1: You how are we not hosts for the parade? That

945
00:43:20,440 --> 00:43:21,759
Speaker 1: was what a bucket list thing for you?

946
00:43:21,640 --> 00:43:24,440
Speaker 3: You really wanted to host you guys giving this podcast.

947
00:43:24,800 --> 00:43:26,920
Speaker 2: I was like, I'm very excited about the podcast, but

948
00:43:27,040 --> 00:43:31,600
Speaker 2: also we need to be hosting the parade. Yeah, and

949
00:43:31,719 --> 00:43:33,600
Speaker 2: we can make it happen for next year. And then

950
00:43:33,840 --> 00:43:35,560
Speaker 2: I think that that's what I'm saying right now. I

951
00:43:35,560 --> 00:43:38,000
Speaker 2: think this is twenty twenty five. We're going to make

952
00:43:38,040 --> 00:43:40,640
Speaker 2: sure that we're we have a float. If that's how

953
00:43:40,680 --> 00:43:44,480
Speaker 2: it happens, Oh my gosh, god, I'm not sure I

954
00:43:44,520 --> 00:43:46,399
Speaker 2: want to do on the sidelines, being like, and here

955
00:43:46,560 --> 00:43:53,120
Speaker 2: comes the barney like that, I think we'd be really good.

956
00:43:53,239 --> 00:43:55,399
Speaker 3: Yeah, yeah, yeah, I think we would too. I think

957
00:43:55,400 --> 00:43:55,879
Speaker 3: we would too.

958
00:43:55,920 --> 00:43:58,439
Speaker 2: Do you guys want to see us help host the things?

959
00:43:58,520 --> 00:44:02,440
Speaker 1: Yeah, start the start petition, Let's find the powers that

960
00:44:02,520 --> 00:44:06,360
Speaker 1: be and let's just start, you know, a deluge of requests.

961
00:44:06,880 --> 00:44:07,560
Speaker 3: Yeah.

962
00:44:07,600 --> 00:44:09,600
Speaker 2: I'm like how people like really want to be in

963
00:44:09,640 --> 00:44:12,440
Speaker 2: Marvel movies. I want to be on the sidelines of

964
00:44:12,440 --> 00:44:19,360
Speaker 2: that parade. Here we do, Jessica, amazing, I'm not getting

965
00:44:20,680 --> 00:44:22,839
Speaker 2: all right. You end with Charlotte.

966
00:44:23,080 --> 00:44:28,200
Speaker 1: Charlotte says, we blast Christmas music and put up our decorations.

967
00:44:27,760 --> 00:44:29,320
Speaker 3: Way too early.

968
00:44:29,760 --> 00:44:31,920
Speaker 2: You know, they're blasting Christmas music on the streets of

969
00:44:31,920 --> 00:44:33,600
Speaker 2: New York right now. Yeah, then, Jessica and I have

970
00:44:33,719 --> 00:44:35,880
Speaker 2: full on this is not a joke. We've been dancing

971
00:44:36,920 --> 00:44:39,759
Speaker 2: in the middle of the street. Yeah, we do that.

972
00:44:40,239 --> 00:44:41,040
Speaker 2: We do do that.

973
00:44:41,120 --> 00:44:42,800
Speaker 1: We say we want to live a low key life.

974
00:44:43,360 --> 00:44:45,640
Speaker 1: We say we just want to blend in. Yeah, and

975
00:44:45,680 --> 00:44:47,480
Speaker 1: then that cus to us.

976
00:44:47,320 --> 00:44:48,359
Speaker 3: Dancing in the middle of the street.

977
00:44:48,440 --> 00:44:49,080
Speaker 2: A lot of blending.

978
00:44:49,360 --> 00:44:49,720
Speaker 3: No.

979
00:44:49,719 --> 00:44:53,160
Speaker 1: No, you know what I'm remembering about what the holidays

980
00:44:54,560 --> 00:44:56,840
Speaker 1: and Christmas list is that a lot of times they'll

981
00:44:56,880 --> 00:45:00,719
Speaker 1: be well, I think it's probably a marketing scheme, but

982
00:45:01,320 --> 00:45:04,000
Speaker 1: there's a there's like the thing to get and I

983
00:45:04,040 --> 00:45:06,000
Speaker 1: remember when I was a kid, the thing to get

984
00:45:06,640 --> 00:45:07,880
Speaker 1: there was a cabbage patch.

985
00:45:08,400 --> 00:45:10,680
Speaker 2: I know that. Do you know why I know this?

986
00:45:10,920 --> 00:45:14,160
Speaker 2: I know this because Matt always talks about this too.

987
00:45:16,800 --> 00:45:19,600
Speaker 1: And they were nowhere to be found, no, and my

988
00:45:19,800 --> 00:45:24,600
Speaker 1: mother reports like going to I mean like a secret

989
00:45:24,680 --> 00:45:29,680
Speaker 1: room somewhere. Yeah, yeah, to get a I mean it

990
00:45:29,719 --> 00:45:31,719
Speaker 1: was a it was a it was a it was

991
00:45:31,760 --> 00:45:35,279
Speaker 1: an official cabbage patch, yeah, doll, but it was like

992
00:45:35,320 --> 00:45:37,759
Speaker 1: you couldn't find them on the shelves of toys r

993
00:45:37,840 --> 00:45:39,000
Speaker 1: us so you had to.

994
00:45:39,360 --> 00:45:40,279
Speaker 3: I don't know how they did this.

995
00:45:40,600 --> 00:45:42,880
Speaker 2: Back Alley, back Alley deals.

996
00:45:42,560 --> 00:45:45,359
Speaker 3: With the cabbage patch of patches. I love that doll though.

997
00:45:45,880 --> 00:45:48,080
Speaker 2: Oh yeah, they were huge. But I have the memory.

998
00:45:48,120 --> 00:45:50,080
Speaker 2: This isn't something that I wanted. But I do have

999
00:45:50,120 --> 00:45:53,160
Speaker 2: the memory of my little brother. He's born in nineteen

1000
00:45:53,280 --> 00:45:55,600
Speaker 2: ninety so I don't know what this was, maybe ninety

1001
00:45:55,640 --> 00:45:59,440
Speaker 2: five whatever. Whenever the first toy story came out the

1002
00:45:59,480 --> 00:46:03,480
Speaker 2: buzz light years that Christmas, they literally did not make

1003
00:46:03,600 --> 00:46:06,520
Speaker 2: enough and it was the toy in fact, I think

1004
00:46:06,520 --> 00:46:08,960
Speaker 2: that's why they jingle all the way. The movie with

1005
00:46:09,440 --> 00:46:13,000
Speaker 2: Arnold Schwarzmacker is based on that Christmas Oh they're all

1006
00:46:13,040 --> 00:46:17,520
Speaker 2: after this like action toy and it was the same

1007
00:46:17,520 --> 00:46:20,560
Speaker 2: thing like the lions outside toys r us to be

1008
00:46:20,600 --> 00:46:22,400
Speaker 2: the first one in there to try and grab a

1009
00:46:22,400 --> 00:46:23,120
Speaker 2: buzz light Year.

1010
00:46:23,360 --> 00:46:24,399
Speaker 3: Yeah, it's real.

1011
00:46:24,600 --> 00:46:28,200
Speaker 1: Yeah, we cannot end this episode without me giving a

1012
00:46:28,239 --> 00:46:31,520
Speaker 1: special shout out to my favorite Christmas movie.

1013
00:46:32,440 --> 00:46:36,960
Speaker 3: Do it? No one makes me laugh like Will Ferrell Enolf.

1014
00:46:37,840 --> 00:46:40,960
Speaker 2: Really yeah, that's your very favorite.

1015
00:46:40,400 --> 00:46:44,359
Speaker 1: Well for comedy and for sheer enjoyment, and I could

1016
00:46:44,360 --> 00:46:45,880
Speaker 1: watch it a million different times.

1017
00:46:46,080 --> 00:46:49,280
Speaker 2: Yes, this episode made me so happy.

1018
00:46:49,440 --> 00:46:51,440
Speaker 1: Well you should be so happy because we get to

1019
00:46:51,520 --> 00:46:53,719
Speaker 1: leave this episode and walk out onto the streets of

1020
00:46:53,760 --> 00:46:56,279
Speaker 1: New York City where Christmas music is already blasting, and

1021
00:46:56,320 --> 00:46:57,600
Speaker 1: are going to be amusing dance.

1022
00:46:57,480 --> 00:46:58,000
Speaker 3: In the streets.

1023
00:46:58,000 --> 00:46:59,800
Speaker 2: But I'm just excited to spend it with the call it.

1024
00:47:00,440 --> 00:47:02,439
Speaker 3: Yeah, me too, I know.

1025
00:47:02,680 --> 00:47:04,640
Speaker 2: Can you guys send us all your pictures? Do you

1026
00:47:04,680 --> 00:47:06,600
Speaker 2: want to see what you're decorating? Well, you know what,

1027
00:47:06,640 --> 00:47:08,120
Speaker 2: we'll be on the Instagram.

1028
00:47:08,200 --> 00:47:11,040
Speaker 1: Yeah, yeah, yeah, yeah, send us, send us all your

1029
00:47:11,040 --> 00:47:14,440
Speaker 1: things and you know what, only because we started with

1030
00:47:14,480 --> 00:47:17,640
Speaker 1: the joy and thanks to you all, we were reminded

1031
00:47:17,719 --> 00:47:19,399
Speaker 1: of some of the parts of the holidays that can

1032
00:47:19,440 --> 00:47:23,640
Speaker 1: be really tough. And I just want to say that

1033
00:47:24,040 --> 00:47:26,759
Speaker 1: it's very easy to think that something's going to be

1034
00:47:26,920 --> 00:47:29,520
Speaker 1: a certain way for forever, and when we're stuck in

1035
00:47:29,640 --> 00:47:34,520
Speaker 1: a thing, a fear, a challenge, a situation of a

1036
00:47:34,560 --> 00:47:36,520
Speaker 1: relationship that's not going the way we want it to,

1037
00:47:37,800 --> 00:47:40,279
Speaker 1: it's it's just really easy to think it's going to

1038
00:47:40,320 --> 00:47:42,080
Speaker 1: be like that and it's never going to change. And

1039
00:47:42,120 --> 00:47:43,759
Speaker 1: I think one of the greatest things that we can

1040
00:47:43,800 --> 00:47:48,759
Speaker 1: remember is that nothing stays the same forever. Things are

1041
00:47:48,800 --> 00:47:52,480
Speaker 1: constantly changing and evolving, and having hope is something that

1042
00:47:52,520 --> 00:47:54,879
Speaker 1: you can have in any situation. And hoping for something

1043
00:47:54,960 --> 00:47:57,920
Speaker 1: that's better and closing your eyes and maybe even thinking

1044
00:47:58,000 --> 00:47:59,720
Speaker 1: about what it's going to look like when it's better

1045
00:48:00,160 --> 00:48:02,600
Speaker 1: or sound like is not a bad idea.

1046
00:48:03,520 --> 00:48:05,160
Speaker 3: And I also would love to say that we are all.

1047
00:48:06,200 --> 00:48:10,239
Speaker 3: We're here with you, so whatever that means to you,

1048
00:48:10,320 --> 00:48:12,160
Speaker 3: please know that I feel that it's true.

1049
00:48:13,200 --> 00:48:15,319
Speaker 2: I agree, I like that. I like that For our

1050
00:48:15,360 --> 00:48:17,160
Speaker 2: sign off, bigger picture.

1051
00:48:17,239 --> 00:48:22,279
Speaker 1: Bigger picture, bigger picture, This two shall pass YEA and

1052
00:48:22,320 --> 00:48:24,000
Speaker 1: for those of you that want to play Christmas music

1053
00:48:24,040 --> 00:48:24,600
Speaker 1: all year round.

1054
00:48:24,960 --> 00:48:28,040
Speaker 3: Yeah, this too shall stay. Yeah yeah.

1055
00:48:29,719 --> 00:48:30,080
Speaker 2: All right.

1056
00:48:30,160 --> 00:48:34,400
Speaker 1: Let's call I love being with you here, all right,

1057
00:48:34,440 --> 00:48:38,239
Speaker 1: thank you all, and let's call it the end of

1058
00:48:38,320 --> 00:48:48,040
Speaker 1: the episode.