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Speaker 1: The Best Bits of the Week with Morgan, Part one.

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Speaker 1: Behind a scene with a member of the show.

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Speaker 2: What's Up, everybody? Welcome to the weekend. Amy is joining me.

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Speaker 2: What's up? Aby? Hi Morgan, Thanks for coming on. We

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Speaker 2: got some life to update everybody on. Things are crazy

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Speaker 2: in my world. Amy, what's going on with you right now?

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Speaker 3: Well, nothing's too crazy like yours? Which are you going

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Speaker 3: to get into it? I?

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Speaker 2: Yeah, we sure, Okay, I want to hear about your

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Speaker 2: life first. It'll help me calm down.

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Speaker 1: Yeah, forget about yours for a second.

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Speaker 3: Well, before we started recording, we were talking about clothes

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Speaker 3: and getting ready, and I just feel like sometimes I

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Speaker 3: spend way too much time just standing in my closet

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Speaker 3: thinking what am I going to wear? And there are

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Speaker 3: certain outfits that I really love, and I'm like, I'm

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Speaker 3: just going to start rewaring these outfits as much as possible.

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Speaker 3: I put on exactly what I wore last week, and

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Speaker 3: I'm wearing it again this week. And not that that's

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Speaker 3: a big deal. Who cares. You can wear it the

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Speaker 3: next day if you want to.

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Speaker 1: But I'm like, what if.

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Speaker 3: I had my Monday outfit my Tuesday outfit? Am? I

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Speaker 3: went like Monday through Friday. I just had my outfits

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Speaker 3: and like, that's my like for a month.

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Speaker 1: I do that and then.

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Speaker 3: Switch it up because I I'm someone that likes to

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Speaker 3: sometimes how i'm feeling, pick an outfit or be a

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Speaker 3: little more creative. I'm not super into fashion, but I

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Speaker 3: like to try new things, and so I'm not like

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Speaker 3: going Steve jobs here where it's a black turtleneck and

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Speaker 3: jeans every day. But I as I get older, I

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Speaker 3: think I'm gravitating more towards like why am I complicating

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Speaker 3: things and continuing to buy more things? When if I've

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Speaker 3: got something cute like and I like it, can I

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Speaker 3: make that my Wednesday outfit.

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Speaker 4: It's find of funny when you think about kids going

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Speaker 4: to school and they sometimes they have uniforms, Like why

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Speaker 4: can't adults have uniforms?

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Speaker 1: Yeah?

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Speaker 3: What if we had uniforms at iHeart or the Bobby

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Speaker 3: Bone Show and we had to show up. I mean,

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Speaker 3: Bobby would probably be like, all right, everybody's wearing a

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Speaker 3: card again.

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Speaker 2: Whatever it vibe it is for that few months and

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Speaker 2: then we shift it. Those would be our uniform changes.

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Speaker 3: Yeah, I'm down for that. My kids have done both

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Speaker 3: types of school's uniform and then not. And I think

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Speaker 3: when they have the uniform they did not like it,

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Speaker 3: and then when they switched, they're kind of like a

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Speaker 3: little I missed the uniform a little bit because they

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Speaker 3: don't have to think it, just put it on.

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Speaker 4: Yeah, And so much of I feel like your daily

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Speaker 4: morning routine is what am I gonna wear? What's gonna

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Speaker 4: make me feel good today? I'm such a feel good dresser.

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Speaker 4: How am I feeling in that moment? And how am

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Speaker 4: I gonna be either the most comfortable or do I

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Speaker 4: need to feel confident that morning? Or am I doing

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Speaker 4: like need more comfy and I need more cozy because

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Speaker 4: I'm going through it, Or am I like, oh, yeah,

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Speaker 4: today's the day I'm going to pull off that new outfit.

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Speaker 4: Mine's all about my feelings. My clothes very much reflect

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Speaker 4: how I'm feeling.

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Speaker 1: Yeah, I think I can do the same.

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Speaker 3: Dopamine dressing is a thing where if you need that

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Speaker 3: hit of dopamine, you can put on something that you

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Speaker 3: know feels good and you look good and gives you

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Speaker 3: that umph.

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Speaker 1: Yeah, So that i'd be a thing, and I can.

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Speaker 1: I think I can.

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Speaker 3: Also if I don't know that depressed dressing is a thing,

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Speaker 3: but not that I'm totally depressed if I wear it.

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Speaker 3: But sometimes yeah, it's reflective of your mood and you're like,

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Speaker 3: I don't care about feeling good. I just want to

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Speaker 3: be comfy and cozy. But sometimes when I do that,

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Speaker 3: I will get to work and I do not feel

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Speaker 3: it's confident.

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Speaker 2: Yeah, it is that side of that.

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Speaker 3: Have you ever gotten to work and you look in

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Speaker 3: the mirror and you're like, what was it? What was

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Speaker 1: Like, what what, What in the world.

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Speaker 3: Is this outfit? And I don't know what I was thinking,

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Speaker 3: And then I see myself in full length and I'm like, Okay, cool,

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Speaker 1: But who Also.

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Speaker 4: Because are we used to what are we look like

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Speaker 2: And then you go to a new mirror. I wonder

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Speaker 2: if there's something to that.

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Speaker 1: I'm not sure.

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Speaker 3: I just think sometimes I don't look in the mirror

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Speaker 3: before I leave my house.

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Speaker 1: So that's that's uh.

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Speaker 3: Top of mind at the moment is my am I

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Speaker 3: I know it's people are listening to this on the weekend,

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Speaker 3: but we're recording it.

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Speaker 4: Yeah.

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Speaker 2: No, it's like the top of mine.

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Speaker 3: So don't be surprised if next Wednesday you see me

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Speaker 3: in these white pants, the white top and my tan sandals.

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Speaker 3: Although we are getting into fall, and maybe I could

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Speaker 3: wear this exact outfit, but I just throw on boots.

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Speaker 4: Oh you definitely, could you just swap the footwear. I'm

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Speaker 4: I wear so much fall in winter clothing in the

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Speaker 4: studio because I get so cold all the time, Like,

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Speaker 4: and that's where more of my comfort comes in. Because

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Speaker 4: we're talking about this the other day, you've been wearing

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Speaker 4: tank tops lightly and I every time I see you

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Speaker 4: coming with the tank I'm like, how is she doing that?

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Speaker 4: I want to be wrapped in a blanket right now,

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Speaker 4: and I have to be wearing like a full turtleneck

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Speaker 4: sweater to be comfortable in that room.

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Speaker 3: Yeah, it's freezing cold in there. Although maybe I'm appreciate

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Speaker 2: Oh that's not fun.

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Speaker 3: So I think I got to look at my count

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Speaker 3: I think they're coming today to figure it out.

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Speaker 2: Is it the acs on my head?

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Speaker 1: It's just not pumping like it should.

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Speaker 3: So I keep it at seventy seventy one, and so

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Speaker 3: that's what it's set at. But inside my house, you know,

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Speaker 3: the the box where its are hard, you know, the

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Speaker 3: little un Yeah what you don't have the word either anywhere,

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Speaker 3: neither one of us have it, but it says, you know,

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Speaker 3: I have it set to seventy seventy one, and it

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Speaker 4: So and it's you're not really lucky that's having right

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Speaker 4: now instead of when we had our heat wave or

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Speaker 4: have you been dealing with this since the heat wave?

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Speaker 1: Now?

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Speaker 3: It just kicked in about a week ago. So yeah,

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Speaker 3: I guess to your point, it came at a good time.

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Speaker 3: And also it's a thermostat.

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Speaker 2: I don't know, we just came up with it.

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Speaker 1: I don't know why that took me a minute.

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Speaker 4: I apologized early or getting into our groop this moment

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Speaker 4: in time, you're hearing us like do our You know

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Speaker 4: when people do the warm up before.

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Speaker 1: They sing, How now? How now?

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Speaker 3: Brown Cow, Unique, New York. Yeah, we're recording this before

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Speaker 3: the Bobby Bone show.

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Speaker 2: So and the kids say, go back to school.

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Speaker 1: They're already back. Yeah, we are in a groove. We are. Yeah,

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Speaker 1: it's crazy. I can't believe it.

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Speaker 4: And the uh, it feels like summer just came and went.

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Speaker 4: I don't know, I feel like summer existed.

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Speaker 1: I know we're about to just really be all in

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Speaker 1: because cross country season is starting. Stevenson's already started his practice.

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Speaker 3: That means we're going to have cross country races coming

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Speaker 3: up Friday night football games. Then my kids are like,

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Speaker 3: Sisure is not a Friday night sport girl. Like she's

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Speaker 3: She was just an assistant to that, whatever you need help, Yeah, sure,

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Speaker 3: And Stevenson doesn't play football, but they like to go

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Speaker 4: So Friday night lights and will you have a bunch

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Speaker 3: This is the first year they're not playing football, so

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Speaker 3: they have lots of practices right now. But again I

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Speaker 4: When I played club when I was a kid, I

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Speaker 3: Yes, I know they do enjoy going to games as well,

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Speaker 1: People might be going to football games.

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Speaker 3: But Ben and I, speaking of the kids, were working

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Speaker 3: together and as a family, we're still going to give

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Speaker 3: back and serve and something we're involved in at our

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Speaker 3: church's Isaiah one to seventeen House, which is a foster

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Speaker 3: house for kids that like an interim house, so if

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Speaker 3: they are looking for placement. Sometimes kids have literally spent

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Speaker 3: the CPS office, and that's not a place for a kid,

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Speaker 3: especially in such a unstable time in their life. So

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Speaker 3: there's a house that was built out in East Nashville

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Speaker 3: in Isaiah one seventeen. House is a national organization, but

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Speaker 3: where they can go and have have a home that

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Speaker 3: can go around and collect and put in their bag

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Speaker 3: so that when they show up at their foster house,

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Speaker 3: you know Eddie'll show you too with the work he's

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Speaker 3: done or share with people too. Sometimes they show up

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Speaker 3: with just a plastic bag or nothing, and so this

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Speaker 3: things to start out with, and a good bed to

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Speaker 3: there that can nurture them and anyway, there's funding that

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Speaker 3: needs to go into that. So Ben and I are

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Speaker 3: hosting a tee it Up for the Kids event at

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Speaker 3: Top golf on Friday, September twenty sixth, so I'm sure

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Speaker 3: there's gonna be a football game that night, but just inviting.

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Speaker 1: People in Nashville.

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Speaker 3: If you happen to live here, that could be something

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Speaker 3: where you could give back. And well, I'll put the

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Speaker 3: link in the show notes. Kat and I are going

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Speaker 3: to be there at a bay with some Feeling Things

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Speaker 3: and then there was product there. But then it was

444
00:19:25,760 --> 00:19:29,680
Speaker 3: like okay, okay, thanks mom. But there was no discussion.

445
00:19:30,560 --> 00:19:37,440
Speaker 3: So I didn't avoid it, avoid it.

446
00:19:35,320 --> 00:19:36,720
Speaker 1: Not so avoid it's so weird.

447
00:19:36,760 --> 00:19:36,960
Speaker 4: It was.

448
00:19:37,240 --> 00:19:39,920
Speaker 3: It was a mix because it's not like she avoided everything,

449
00:19:41,119 --> 00:19:41,400
Speaker 3: you know.

450
00:19:41,680 --> 00:19:43,080
Speaker 2: But definitely certainly, but a lot.

451
00:19:44,200 --> 00:19:47,199
Speaker 3: I think it was maybe where I get you know,

452
00:19:47,320 --> 00:19:49,560
Speaker 3: tied up about it in my head or it just

453
00:19:49,560 --> 00:19:54,399
Speaker 3: feels confusing, is because oh, my son, my son's calling,

454
00:19:54,440 --> 00:19:55,560
Speaker 3: he must have just woken up.

455
00:19:56,040 --> 00:19:56,159
Speaker 4: Uh.

456
00:19:56,760 --> 00:20:01,119
Speaker 3: Where it gets crazy in my head about that is

457
00:20:02,000 --> 00:20:05,359
Speaker 3: later in life. I think, especially when she got sick,

458
00:20:05,400 --> 00:20:07,520
Speaker 3: when she got cancer, she started to think about how

459
00:20:07,520 --> 00:20:11,679
Speaker 3: she wanted to be and our relationship really started to

460
00:20:11,800 --> 00:20:13,920
Speaker 3: change and we talked about so much more.

461
00:20:15,520 --> 00:20:16,680
Speaker 1: But I was in my thirties.

462
00:20:17,240 --> 00:20:19,680
Speaker 2: Yeah, you haven't experienced that.

463
00:20:19,840 --> 00:20:21,880
Speaker 4: You also had to have your kids in I think

464
00:20:21,920 --> 00:20:23,840
Speaker 4: a lot of things you've learned has really come with

465
00:20:23,920 --> 00:20:27,000
Speaker 4: having the kids, So I would imagine you had more

466
00:20:27,080 --> 00:20:29,040
Speaker 4: questions now than you would have had been.

467
00:20:29,400 --> 00:20:31,240
Speaker 3: Yeah, there were some ms that I never thought of

468
00:20:31,320 --> 00:20:34,240
Speaker 3: to ask. I just think we started talking about a

469
00:20:34,280 --> 00:20:36,879
Speaker 3: lot more because I think she started realizing, oh shoot,

470
00:20:36,920 --> 00:20:41,200
Speaker 3: I may be running out of time, so let's talk.

471
00:20:41,359 --> 00:20:43,240
Speaker 3: And our relationship has started to get a lot better

472
00:20:43,280 --> 00:20:47,040
Speaker 3: even before she got sick. But I was definitely I'd

473
00:20:47,080 --> 00:20:50,520
Speaker 3: already moved out of the house and was married by

474
00:20:50,520 --> 00:20:52,119
Speaker 3: the time all of that started to happen, and then

475
00:20:52,280 --> 00:20:54,400
Speaker 3: I would have defined her as one of my best friends.

476
00:20:56,960 --> 00:21:00,240
Speaker 3: So in speaking of I remember some of my best

477
00:21:00,240 --> 00:21:06,240
Speaker 3: friends in high school always talking about how my mom

478
00:21:06,720 --> 00:21:09,439
Speaker 3: like they enjoyed talking with her, and she would she

479
00:21:09,560 --> 00:21:11,200
Speaker 3: was a good listener and offer a good advice.

480
00:21:11,240 --> 00:21:12,600
Speaker 1: I'm like, what are y'all talking about?

481
00:21:13,520 --> 00:21:16,639
Speaker 5: Like I have a vastly different experience I did, But

482
00:21:16,720 --> 00:21:19,040
Speaker 5: it's almost isn't now that I think about it. It's

483
00:21:19,080 --> 00:21:25,120
Speaker 5: just interesting because my mom wasn't she wasn't attached to.

484
00:21:25,040 --> 00:21:27,280
Speaker 3: Them, so maybe she could open up more. But there

485
00:21:27,280 --> 00:21:30,840
Speaker 3: was something about just avoiding. Who knows, maybe she was

486
00:21:30,880 --> 00:21:33,119
Speaker 3: giving tampons to my friends, I'm telling them how to

487
00:21:33,240 --> 00:21:35,720
Speaker 3: use it. I don't know, but she certainly wasn't inside

488
00:21:35,720 --> 00:21:38,480
Speaker 3: our house. But I'm glad my mom what I'm glad

489
00:21:38,480 --> 00:21:40,240
Speaker 3: my friends saw my mom as that and that they

490
00:21:40,280 --> 00:21:42,240
Speaker 3: felt like they could talk to her about.

491
00:21:42,000 --> 00:21:43,480
Speaker 1: Things, because I certainly didn't.

492
00:21:44,040 --> 00:21:47,040
Speaker 4: Yeah, maybe there's just some dissociation in the fact that,

493
00:21:47,119 --> 00:21:50,359
Speaker 4: like you, it wasn't her kids, so she didn't feel yeah,

494
00:21:50,400 --> 00:21:53,119
Speaker 4: some type of way about it for whatever reason, or

495
00:21:53,800 --> 00:21:55,679
Speaker 4: you know, it's always crazy when you think about what

496
00:21:55,760 --> 00:21:58,520
Speaker 4: gets passed down from generation, like what.

497
00:21:58,520 --> 00:22:02,359
Speaker 3: Her her mom was like available for her at all, whatsoever.

498
00:22:03,000 --> 00:22:07,200
Speaker 3: That's like me and stuff my mom would make sure. Yeah,

499
00:22:07,240 --> 00:22:10,840
Speaker 3: we I don't remember having to fin for myself a lot,

500
00:22:11,080 --> 00:22:13,639
Speaker 3: unless it was that time of the month. But like

501
00:22:13,720 --> 00:22:16,280
Speaker 3: my mom growing up, that was like I don't know

502
00:22:16,359 --> 00:22:20,160
Speaker 3: where my grandma was, maybe bowling, but my mom would

503
00:22:20,280 --> 00:22:21,639
Speaker 3: said there were times she would just go in the

504
00:22:21,720 --> 00:22:25,480
Speaker 3: kitchen and there wasn't anything to eat. She would have

505
00:22:25,520 --> 00:22:27,600
Speaker 3: to try to figure out how to piece together some

506
00:22:27,640 --> 00:22:31,680
Speaker 3: sort of a meal. And I know my grandma didn't

507
00:22:31,720 --> 00:22:34,520
Speaker 3: talk to her about anything. My grandma didn't have much

508
00:22:34,520 --> 00:22:37,520
Speaker 3: of an appetite. She was a chainsmoker, so I don't

509
00:22:37,560 --> 00:22:40,960
Speaker 3: think food was okay. She likes to burn bread and milk.

510
00:22:41,160 --> 00:22:41,480
Speaker 2: Okay.

511
00:22:41,520 --> 00:22:43,639
Speaker 4: We didn't pass down the corn bread and milk or

512
00:22:43,680 --> 00:22:44,600
Speaker 4: the dain smoking soap.

513
00:22:44,880 --> 00:22:50,000
Speaker 2: Yeah, we did improve the generation progress. Oh okay, Well

514
00:22:50,000 --> 00:22:51,800
Speaker 2: we're gonna take another break. Thank you for the inside.

515
00:22:51,840 --> 00:22:54,040
Speaker 2: That was cool to learn about about your mom.

516
00:22:54,119 --> 00:22:56,280
Speaker 4: Yeah, it sounds so fun because you didn't talk about her,

517
00:22:56,280 --> 00:22:58,159
Speaker 4: but then you're also learning about her in the same.

518
00:22:58,000 --> 00:23:00,440
Speaker 3: Point, and how you want to show up diff for

519
00:23:00,560 --> 00:23:03,720
Speaker 3: your kids. And sometimes I find myself behaving like my mom,

520
00:23:05,000 --> 00:23:06,520
Speaker 3: and I have to be intentional.

521
00:23:06,600 --> 00:23:08,840
Speaker 1: Don't do that. Don't do that. I think you're just

522
00:23:09,000 --> 00:23:11,159
Speaker 1: being what was done to you. And guess what, you

523
00:23:11,240 --> 00:23:13,480
Speaker 1: get to do it differently, So be different.

524
00:23:14,240 --> 00:23:16,280
Speaker 2: That's a lot of intention behind that, and that's hard.

525
00:23:16,760 --> 00:23:17,840
Speaker 2: All right, we'll be right back.

526
00:23:21,280 --> 00:23:24,200
Speaker 4: So really exciting things are happening over in my house

527
00:23:24,320 --> 00:23:26,920
Speaker 4: right now. Exciting is probably the best way I can

528
00:23:26,960 --> 00:23:30,280
Speaker 4: say it, because I'm trying to bring humor and light

529
00:23:30,400 --> 00:23:31,879
Speaker 4: to not fun things.

530
00:23:32,080 --> 00:23:35,280
Speaker 1: Well, it's your animals are keeping things interesting for you,

531
00:23:35,400 --> 00:23:35,920
Speaker 1: that's for sure.

532
00:23:36,119 --> 00:23:40,520
Speaker 4: Yeah, yeah, so Hazel has kidney damage of some kind. Now,

533
00:23:40,560 --> 00:23:42,480
Speaker 4: I've only had her since she was about eight years

534
00:23:42,520 --> 00:23:45,000
Speaker 4: old roughly, that was an estimate on her age. So

535
00:23:45,480 --> 00:23:47,280
Speaker 4: she's already kind of a seenior cat when I got her,

536
00:23:47,600 --> 00:23:49,199
Speaker 4: and she had quite a bit of neglect. She came

537
00:23:49,240 --> 00:23:51,520
Speaker 4: from a one hundred and thirty cat hoarding situation, so

538
00:23:51,760 --> 00:23:53,840
Speaker 4: who really knows what her life was like.

539
00:23:54,200 --> 00:23:59,520
Speaker 1: So when they have cat hoarders like that, what is

540
00:24:00,320 --> 00:24:01,440
Speaker 1: what is it? What's going on?

541
00:24:01,640 --> 00:24:04,639
Speaker 4: I don't know what you know about like, so just

542
00:24:04,720 --> 00:24:07,560
Speaker 4: what I've learned about cats, especially over time. One, most

543
00:24:07,560 --> 00:24:12,600
Speaker 4: of the time, horders tend to have good intentions to start, Yes,

544
00:24:12,800 --> 00:24:14,800
Speaker 4: they're like they want to save cats, they want to

545
00:24:14,840 --> 00:24:18,560
Speaker 4: help them. Then it gets quickly overwhelming. One because cats

546
00:24:19,080 --> 00:24:22,720
Speaker 4: reproduce at an insane rate, Like that's why you see

547
00:24:22,760 --> 00:24:25,479
Speaker 4: a lot of feral cat colonies, especially because if they

548
00:24:25,480 --> 00:24:29,320
Speaker 4: haven't been trapped and humanly released back to their colony

549
00:24:29,720 --> 00:24:32,480
Speaker 4: to be like Spade and neutered. Because cats, like there

550
00:24:32,600 --> 00:24:36,280
Speaker 4: was a huge statistic as soon as they turn like

551
00:24:36,320 --> 00:24:38,879
Speaker 4: six months old, they can start having kittens, and their

552
00:24:38,960 --> 00:24:41,640
Speaker 4: kittens can like double over just the course of a year.

553
00:24:42,400 --> 00:24:44,640
Speaker 4: And so if you say you have five cats where

554
00:24:44,640 --> 00:24:46,560
Speaker 4: you're taking care of them, you took them in with

555
00:24:46,640 --> 00:24:49,400
Speaker 4: good intention, but you don't have the resources or money

556
00:24:49,400 --> 00:24:50,280
Speaker 4: to spare neuter them.

557
00:24:50,640 --> 00:24:53,119
Speaker 2: Over the course of a year, you're probably gonna triple

558
00:24:53,160 --> 00:24:53,560
Speaker 2: that number.

559
00:24:53,600 --> 00:24:54,960
Speaker 1: Because this is ignorance on my part.

560
00:24:55,000 --> 00:24:55,639
Speaker 4: But so.

561
00:24:57,640 --> 00:25:00,520
Speaker 3: A cat, like five kittens are born and some are

562
00:25:00,560 --> 00:25:04,080
Speaker 3: boys and summer girls. Those cats, can the brother and

563
00:25:04,160 --> 00:25:05,080
Speaker 3: sister make a baby?

564
00:25:05,480 --> 00:25:05,920
Speaker 2: They can't.

565
00:25:05,960 --> 00:25:08,159
Speaker 1: I know they can, obviously they can't. I didn't.

566
00:25:08,359 --> 00:25:12,640
Speaker 4: It's more it's not uncommon, okay, So I meant cats

567
00:25:12,680 --> 00:25:14,520
Speaker 4: are just a different type of species and all of

568
00:25:14,600 --> 00:25:15,600
Speaker 4: their breeding and stuff.

569
00:25:15,640 --> 00:25:16,840
Speaker 2: It's definitely just interesting.

570
00:25:17,720 --> 00:25:18,920
Speaker 1: I mean, I guess dogs that do.

571
00:25:19,000 --> 00:25:21,720
Speaker 3: Honestly, this is something I've not ever thought about, obviously,

572
00:25:21,960 --> 00:25:24,040
Speaker 3: so I'm probably gonna google this later one.

573
00:25:24,400 --> 00:25:27,160
Speaker 4: I think when you have like breeder actual breeder people,

574
00:25:27,359 --> 00:25:31,159
Speaker 4: they don't. Of course, you have complications because it's no

575
00:25:31,240 --> 00:25:34,040
Speaker 4: different than humans in the fact of like genetics and whatnot.

576
00:25:34,720 --> 00:25:37,800
Speaker 4: But when they're out feral or they're in a situation

577
00:25:37,880 --> 00:25:40,080
Speaker 4: that's in uncontrolled environment, anything can happen.

578
00:25:40,119 --> 00:25:40,280
Speaker 2: Sure.

579
00:25:40,400 --> 00:25:42,280
Speaker 3: Yeah, I just guess I didn't know if, like you know,

580
00:25:42,440 --> 00:25:45,280
Speaker 3: there was a certain scent that was like, oh, my brother,

581
00:25:45,600 --> 00:25:47,560
Speaker 3: you're my sister. I'm not gonna do this.

582
00:25:48,320 --> 00:25:50,359
Speaker 4: There could be there could be an ignorance for me

583
00:25:50,440 --> 00:25:52,440
Speaker 4: there that I don't know. They're definitely couldn't ass so

584
00:25:52,480 --> 00:25:55,359
Speaker 4: if there is, let us know, but I don't think so.

585
00:25:55,800 --> 00:25:56,240
Speaker 3: So they are.

586
00:25:56,560 --> 00:25:58,760
Speaker 2: Reproduction is just super high. It's the same for if

587
00:25:58,800 --> 00:26:02,080
Speaker 2: you had feral dogs dunnies. Yes, yes, and you don't have.

588
00:26:02,720 --> 00:26:04,800
Speaker 4: You just have more feral cat colonies than you do

589
00:26:05,280 --> 00:26:07,760
Speaker 4: of any other domesticated animal for the most part. But

590
00:26:07,880 --> 00:26:11,639
Speaker 4: so that's typically what you see happening in hoarding situations.

591
00:26:12,200 --> 00:26:15,600
Speaker 4: They're well intentioned, don't have the resources, they don't get

592
00:26:15,640 --> 00:26:18,280
Speaker 4: them spay or neuter. Then you reproduce and then you're

593
00:26:18,320 --> 00:26:20,959
Speaker 4: just kind of stuck and it just keeps happening. Then

594
00:26:21,000 --> 00:26:24,800
Speaker 4: you have fifteen to spaan neuterer versus five or whatever.

595
00:26:25,040 --> 00:26:26,879
Speaker 2: So it just kind of the cyclopace.

596
00:26:27,200 --> 00:26:29,239
Speaker 1: Okay, so Hazel is a part of that. And then

597
00:26:29,359 --> 00:26:31,119
Speaker 1: now and so yeah, you don't know.

598
00:26:31,520 --> 00:26:33,640
Speaker 4: For eight years, I should no idea what her life

599
00:26:33,760 --> 00:26:35,800
Speaker 4: was like, or what food she was given, if she

600
00:26:35,920 --> 00:26:39,280
Speaker 4: was given water or attiquette the adequate diet, even just

601
00:26:39,680 --> 00:26:41,120
Speaker 4: was she getting fed dog food?

602
00:26:41,160 --> 00:26:43,800
Speaker 2: Or was she getting food human food. I have no idea.

603
00:26:44,560 --> 00:26:48,720
Speaker 4: So now we're definitely dealing with some kidney issues that

604
00:26:49,480 --> 00:26:52,000
Speaker 4: I never would have known about until now. In all

605
00:26:52,080 --> 00:26:54,919
Speaker 4: of this, and like what started as a kidney infection

606
00:26:55,680 --> 00:26:59,120
Speaker 4: in Uti and E Coalie is all because she's basically

607
00:26:59,280 --> 00:27:02,000
Speaker 4: not the throughing out the waste product that's in her

608
00:27:02,040 --> 00:27:05,239
Speaker 4: kidney's which is not uncommon for cats, especially as they

609
00:27:05,240 --> 00:27:07,960
Speaker 4: get older. And she's roughly around ten years old, so

610
00:27:08,320 --> 00:27:11,320
Speaker 4: it's possible that this is just something that was going

611
00:27:11,400 --> 00:27:13,359
Speaker 4: to happen in her aging. It's also a thing with

612
00:27:13,520 --> 00:27:17,200
Speaker 4: her breed Siamese, so all of it was still possible

613
00:27:17,320 --> 00:27:20,960
Speaker 4: regardless of her background. It's just it's more likely to

614
00:27:21,040 --> 00:27:22,840
Speaker 4: happen quicker given you.

615
00:27:22,880 --> 00:27:23,919
Speaker 2: Know her history.

616
00:27:24,040 --> 00:27:27,240
Speaker 4: So now we just are she's probably gonna be on

617
00:27:27,320 --> 00:27:29,520
Speaker 4: fluids for the rest of her life most likely. That's

618
00:27:29,560 --> 00:27:32,000
Speaker 4: kind of what we're looking at. So IV's right now

619
00:27:32,080 --> 00:27:33,960
Speaker 4: to help her flush and get her on a kickstart,

620
00:27:34,040 --> 00:27:37,240
Speaker 4: and then I'll have to start doing SubQ fluid at home,

621
00:27:37,760 --> 00:27:39,439
Speaker 4: which is a lot different than IVY. You just kind

622
00:27:39,480 --> 00:27:41,080
Speaker 4: of stick it in the top of their back and

623
00:27:41,160 --> 00:27:44,040
Speaker 4: it goes right under the skin and it helps them

624
00:27:44,080 --> 00:27:46,720
Speaker 4: stay hydrated because when you keep the kidneys hydrated, it

625
00:27:46,760 --> 00:27:50,359
Speaker 4: helps them moving and working properly as they should. Cats

626
00:27:50,359 --> 00:27:52,400
Speaker 4: are also notorious for not drinking a lot of water,

627
00:27:52,760 --> 00:27:54,600
Speaker 4: so that's why they always end up with kidney problems.

628
00:27:54,680 --> 00:27:57,720
Speaker 4: Like why Vet was like, it's not a question of if,

629
00:27:57,840 --> 00:28:00,720
Speaker 4: it's a question of when your cat will have kidney issues. Okay,

630
00:28:01,080 --> 00:28:03,199
Speaker 4: So it is something to be like prepared for Maggie's

631
00:28:03,240 --> 00:28:03,760
Speaker 4: drinking water.

632
00:28:04,040 --> 00:28:04,520
Speaker 1: Yeah, and.

633
00:28:06,040 --> 00:28:07,840
Speaker 4: Wet food is so much better for cats than dry

634
00:28:07,880 --> 00:28:10,520
Speaker 4: food because it gives the more hydration. That's the thing too,

635
00:28:11,119 --> 00:28:13,720
Speaker 4: So it's definitely stuff to be aware of with cats.

636
00:28:13,760 --> 00:28:15,720
Speaker 1: And Maggie won't eat wet food. I've tried.

637
00:28:16,040 --> 00:28:18,399
Speaker 4: You can sprinkle, what I've learned, it's the transition with

638
00:28:18,480 --> 00:28:20,840
Speaker 4: wet food. You can sprinkle on dry food on top

639
00:28:20,880 --> 00:28:23,480
Speaker 4: of it and kind of coerce them into getting a

640
00:28:23,520 --> 00:28:26,199
Speaker 4: little bit of both. Okay and the Yeah, cats are

641
00:28:26,240 --> 00:28:27,479
Speaker 4: finicky about food anyways.

642
00:28:27,600 --> 00:28:30,520
Speaker 3: Shows me if her food sits out for too long,

643
00:28:31,359 --> 00:28:34,760
Speaker 3: she don't give her too much food. If there's too

644
00:28:34,840 --> 00:28:38,720
Speaker 3: much food, she won't touch it, and then it's so

645
00:28:38,800 --> 00:28:40,760
Speaker 3: it sits there even longer, so then she's definitely not

646
00:28:40,840 --> 00:28:43,880
Speaker 3: going to touch it, so you have to, like sometimes

647
00:28:43,920 --> 00:28:46,760
Speaker 3: when I have other people watching her if I'm out

648
00:28:46,800 --> 00:28:49,160
Speaker 3: of town, I think because with a cat, you don't

649
00:28:49,200 --> 00:28:51,280
Speaker 3: need to stop buy as much as you would a dog.

650
00:28:52,000 --> 00:28:54,640
Speaker 3: So they're sort of like, oh, I'll just stop buy

651
00:28:54,640 --> 00:28:56,400
Speaker 3: once a day, but I'll give her more food, and

652
00:28:56,440 --> 00:28:57,600
Speaker 3: so I have to be very specific.

653
00:28:57,640 --> 00:28:58,680
Speaker 1: I'm like, you can stop by one day.

654
00:28:58,680 --> 00:29:00,480
Speaker 3: I don't care, but don't give her more food, thinking

655
00:29:00,480 --> 00:29:03,160
Speaker 3: you're doing her a favor because it's just gonna end

656
00:29:03,200 --> 00:29:05,200
Speaker 3: up sitting there because then it sits out and then

657
00:29:05,240 --> 00:29:06,400
Speaker 3: she's just turned off by it.

658
00:29:06,600 --> 00:29:07,880
Speaker 1: I don't it's so weird.

659
00:29:08,280 --> 00:29:09,920
Speaker 2: She's like, don't feb me that, U peasant.

660
00:29:09,960 --> 00:29:12,680
Speaker 1: I don't want that that much food. I don't know.

661
00:29:12,840 --> 00:29:14,360
Speaker 3: I think it's just there and then I don't know

662
00:29:14,440 --> 00:29:16,160
Speaker 3: what it is about it, but then it sits there

663
00:29:16,240 --> 00:29:19,640
Speaker 3: longer and then she's definitely not touching it. So then

664
00:29:19,680 --> 00:29:21,120
Speaker 3: you have to just have to feed it to my

665
00:29:21,240 --> 00:29:24,000
Speaker 3: dog because she'll eat whatever and then start over with

666
00:29:24,120 --> 00:29:27,280
Speaker 3: a smaller batch and then she'll work her way through that.

667
00:29:28,000 --> 00:29:29,200
Speaker 2: That's so funny they are.

668
00:29:29,320 --> 00:29:32,320
Speaker 4: Cats are so much more finicky about food, which also

669
00:29:32,400 --> 00:29:35,480
Speaker 4: makes it difficult on their organs. Because they love to

670
00:29:35,560 --> 00:29:39,640
Speaker 4: be difficult and they're eating habits. There's also like, I

671
00:29:39,680 --> 00:29:41,239
Speaker 4: don't know what kind of wet food you've tried with her,

672
00:29:41,280 --> 00:29:44,440
Speaker 4: but there's like shredded meat wet food that you can

673
00:29:44,480 --> 00:29:46,320
Speaker 4: give them, and that always they tend to like. Because

674
00:29:46,440 --> 00:29:50,040
Speaker 4: cats are more they love to what's the word I'm

675
00:29:50,040 --> 00:29:53,080
Speaker 4: looking for, They like to like go after prey.

676
00:29:53,240 --> 00:29:55,600
Speaker 2: Cats are more like they have more activity in that.

677
00:29:55,760 --> 00:29:59,920
Speaker 4: So something about shredded meat makes them have their li

678
00:30:00,200 --> 00:30:03,480
Speaker 4: more wild instinct and it is better for them.

679
00:30:03,640 --> 00:30:04,680
Speaker 2: Okay, I don't know.

680
00:30:05,120 --> 00:30:07,160
Speaker 4: Yeah, this is information that I just keep getting given

681
00:30:07,200 --> 00:30:10,200
Speaker 4: and I'm just recurstating and I'm probably butchering some of it.

682
00:30:11,160 --> 00:30:13,200
Speaker 4: So that's what's going on with her. And funny because

683
00:30:13,200 --> 00:30:16,080
Speaker 4: I'm terrified of needles. So this will be a really

684
00:30:16,120 --> 00:30:18,560
Speaker 4: good experience for both of us. Thankfully, I have my

685
00:30:18,600 --> 00:30:20,440
Speaker 4: boyfriend who's very much prepared.

686
00:30:20,120 --> 00:30:22,400
Speaker 1: And ready to help injust her Yeah.

687
00:30:22,520 --> 00:30:24,480
Speaker 4: Yeah, so she'll probably have to get him once or

688
00:30:24,480 --> 00:30:26,120
Speaker 4: twice a week, and we can do it at home.

689
00:30:26,600 --> 00:30:29,280
Speaker 4: I just have to kind of have the fluid bags

690
00:30:29,560 --> 00:30:33,120
Speaker 4: ready whenever she needs it. So that'll likely be our

691
00:30:33,200 --> 00:30:34,800
Speaker 4: course of action for the rest of her life and

692
00:30:35,680 --> 00:30:36,240
Speaker 4: go from there.

693
00:30:36,440 --> 00:30:40,160
Speaker 2: I think that's what's happening. And then Remy, we got.

694
00:30:40,040 --> 00:30:43,440
Speaker 4: Blood work on her and hopefully by the time everybody

695
00:30:43,480 --> 00:30:45,360
Speaker 4: hears this, I'll have results and know what's going on.

696
00:30:45,600 --> 00:30:48,240
Speaker 4: But she's been shaking, she wasn't eating for me, she's

697
00:30:48,880 --> 00:30:51,800
Speaker 4: drinking more water. It's just all signs of something going on.

698
00:30:52,160 --> 00:30:55,680
Speaker 4: So hoping it's just a bug. But she's ten years old,

699
00:30:55,920 --> 00:30:58,960
Speaker 4: so you know, we're getting to that age where things

700
00:30:59,000 --> 00:31:01,760
Speaker 4: start happening. And I'm hoping though it's nothing, because if

701
00:31:01,760 --> 00:31:03,680
Speaker 4: I have both of them with problems, I'm probably gonna

702
00:31:03,760 --> 00:31:04,840
Speaker 4: just pass away.

703
00:31:05,400 --> 00:31:07,920
Speaker 1: No, don't say that will not be good for me.

704
00:31:08,120 --> 00:31:09,920
Speaker 2: So I'm hoping for the best lot.

705
00:31:10,880 --> 00:31:14,120
Speaker 4: Yeah, and then my grandma fell and broke her hip,

706
00:31:14,360 --> 00:31:18,560
Speaker 4: so she was in emergency surgery. Oh my gosh, it

707
00:31:18,680 --> 00:31:21,760
Speaker 4: was When was that all within the same day? It

708
00:31:21,840 --> 00:31:23,320
Speaker 4: all happened the exact same day?

709
00:31:24,200 --> 00:31:26,160
Speaker 1: So, but how is she recovering?

710
00:31:26,400 --> 00:31:29,920
Speaker 4: She's doing better, and she's before she even went in,

711
00:31:30,520 --> 00:31:32,480
Speaker 4: she said that her pain was like a three, which

712
00:31:32,520 --> 00:31:36,240
Speaker 4: was really awesome. And you know, when you break your hip,

713
00:31:36,320 --> 00:31:38,640
Speaker 4: you'd expect to be in so much pain. But she's

714
00:31:39,400 --> 00:31:41,960
Speaker 4: such a badass. My grandma like loves her life. She

715
00:31:42,080 --> 00:31:44,640
Speaker 4: lives out on a farm, refuses to not be on

716
00:31:44,720 --> 00:31:47,000
Speaker 4: that farm, and still to this day takes care of

717
00:31:47,040 --> 00:31:47,600
Speaker 4: animals and.

718
00:31:48,520 --> 00:31:49,280
Speaker 2: Lives her life.

719
00:31:49,480 --> 00:31:55,560
Speaker 4: So I never see her not doing well and stuff

720
00:31:55,640 --> 00:31:58,120
Speaker 4: like this because she's just so strong and very determined.

721
00:31:58,280 --> 00:32:00,720
Speaker 2: So she's been doing really well with it. But it's hard.

722
00:32:00,800 --> 00:32:02,239
Speaker 2: You know, as they get older, they definitely don't want

723
00:32:02,240 --> 00:32:04,840
Speaker 2: to be in hospitals, and that's the harder part of

724
00:32:04,960 --> 00:32:08,120
Speaker 2: all of it really. So we're just how old is she?

725
00:32:09,200 --> 00:32:10,520
Speaker 2: I want to say, she's eighty nine?

726
00:32:10,800 --> 00:32:12,360
Speaker 1: Oh wow, she's getting it.

727
00:32:12,480 --> 00:32:14,880
Speaker 2: She's I don't think she said her nineties yet. She

728
00:32:15,000 --> 00:32:19,680
Speaker 2: might have My memory sucks, so but yeah, she's out there.

729
00:32:20,160 --> 00:32:23,000
Speaker 3: Well I'm glad she's recovering, okay, And yeah, I mean

730
00:32:23,040 --> 00:32:27,720
Speaker 3: a fall in your late eighties or nineties is you know,

731
00:32:28,280 --> 00:32:28,880
Speaker 3: it's terrible.

732
00:32:29,360 --> 00:32:31,880
Speaker 4: It's so significant, it's and it's so crazy because she's

733
00:32:31,920 --> 00:32:33,160
Speaker 4: so with it. Like I'll call her and we have

734
00:32:33,200 --> 00:32:36,080
Speaker 4: full blown conversations and she'll have spent the whole day

735
00:32:36,120 --> 00:32:39,800
Speaker 4: outside working on the farm, and just it's crazy. I

736
00:32:39,920 --> 00:32:42,160
Speaker 4: also think that's good for them, right, because when you

737
00:32:42,880 --> 00:32:45,040
Speaker 4: are active and you're out and doing things, it's really

738
00:32:45,120 --> 00:32:48,840
Speaker 4: good for your health to be not sedentary, so it

739
00:32:48,920 --> 00:32:51,440
Speaker 4: is good for her, but it's definitely a worry with

740
00:32:51,560 --> 00:32:53,959
Speaker 4: all of us out there. Yeah, like we're still an

741
00:32:54,000 --> 00:32:56,240
Speaker 4: hour from her, even like my family that's in which

742
00:32:56,280 --> 00:32:56,720
Speaker 4: is jab.

743
00:32:56,680 --> 00:32:59,640
Speaker 1: Does she live alone? Oh gosh, yeah, she lives alone

744
00:32:59,680 --> 00:33:02,320
Speaker 1: on a Yeah okay, goals.

745
00:33:02,320 --> 00:33:03,840
Speaker 2: I know, and she loves it. It's so funny.

746
00:33:03,880 --> 00:33:05,600
Speaker 4: I'll call and talk to him like are you doing okay?

747
00:33:05,640 --> 00:33:07,040
Speaker 4: She's like, this is the best life. This is all

748
00:33:07,040 --> 00:33:08,800
Speaker 4: I could have ever asked for. Like, this is what

749
00:33:08,960 --> 00:33:11,840
Speaker 4: makes me happy, and I love it for her, But

750
00:33:12,080 --> 00:33:15,000
Speaker 4: you know, it's concern for us. But she won't ever leave.

751
00:33:15,760 --> 00:33:18,920
Speaker 4: We've accepted that because that's what makes her happy, and

752
00:33:19,520 --> 00:33:21,760
Speaker 4: trying to put her in anywhere else will probably deteriorate

753
00:33:21,800 --> 00:33:22,360
Speaker 4: her health.

754
00:33:22,240 --> 00:33:24,800
Speaker 2: More than help it. So and she was the one

755
00:33:24,800 --> 00:33:27,880
Speaker 2: who even called the ambulance for herself. Just crazy.

756
00:33:28,040 --> 00:33:29,960
Speaker 4: But thankfully my aunt lives out by her, so that

757
00:33:30,040 --> 00:33:33,400
Speaker 4: helps with you know, checking in on her right away.

758
00:33:33,520 --> 00:33:37,000
Speaker 2: Yeah, but that's just tells you how self sufficient she is.

759
00:33:37,200 --> 00:33:39,000
Speaker 2: Just like fell and I was like, uh, I need

760
00:33:39,040 --> 00:33:39,640
Speaker 2: an ambulat.

761
00:33:39,720 --> 00:33:41,760
Speaker 1: Her phone was close by your hip.

762
00:33:41,880 --> 00:33:45,080
Speaker 2: I'm like, okay, so just crazy stuff happening.

763
00:33:45,160 --> 00:33:46,959
Speaker 1: Rand and my dad. I hate My dad wore one

764
00:33:46,960 --> 00:33:49,080
Speaker 1: of those little necklaces where he fell.

765
00:33:48,960 --> 00:33:49,640
Speaker 2: That I need help.

766
00:33:49,760 --> 00:33:52,000
Speaker 1: Then how an alarm would go off? He could press it.

767
00:33:52,760 --> 00:33:55,080
Speaker 3: Yes, we got to that point. And I had an

768
00:33:55,080 --> 00:33:59,000
Speaker 3: alarm on his bed too, to wear well. To be fair,

769
00:33:59,520 --> 00:34:01,000
Speaker 3: when he moved in with me. He only lived in

770
00:34:01,080 --> 00:34:03,320
Speaker 3: me for one night before he died, or before he

771
00:34:03,400 --> 00:34:05,479
Speaker 3: got put into the hospital and went on life support.

772
00:34:05,560 --> 00:34:09,279
Speaker 1: But I had an alarm on his bed. It's like

773
00:34:09,320 --> 00:34:09,719
Speaker 1: a pad.

774
00:34:09,880 --> 00:34:14,000
Speaker 3: So when he's laying there, I knew he was safe

775
00:34:14,040 --> 00:34:16,160
Speaker 3: and in his bed, but the minute he got up,

776
00:34:16,360 --> 00:34:17,720
Speaker 3: it would sound an alarm.

777
00:34:18,080 --> 00:34:18,799
Speaker 1: And so that's how I.

778
00:34:18,800 --> 00:34:21,200
Speaker 3: Knew he got up, and so I heard the alarm

779
00:34:21,280 --> 00:34:22,600
Speaker 3: go off. But by the time I got in there,

780
00:34:22,640 --> 00:34:25,440
Speaker 3: he had already fallen. And then that's I had to call.

781
00:34:25,640 --> 00:34:29,440
Speaker 3: He could not have called the ambulance, but I did,

782
00:34:29,800 --> 00:34:30,800
Speaker 3: and yees falling.

783
00:34:31,000 --> 00:34:34,280
Speaker 1: He was very fragile, though he wasn't like as active

784
00:34:34,360 --> 00:34:35,320
Speaker 1: as your grandma.

785
00:34:35,760 --> 00:34:37,080
Speaker 2: So in general too, when you.

786
00:34:37,080 --> 00:34:39,479
Speaker 4: Get older, it's crazy how much your bones just changed

787
00:34:39,520 --> 00:34:41,120
Speaker 4: over time and how fragile they are.

788
00:34:41,360 --> 00:34:44,520
Speaker 3: And that's why they encourage us now like now be

789
00:34:44,680 --> 00:34:48,920
Speaker 3: thinking about your eighty year old self in your thirties

790
00:34:48,960 --> 00:34:53,640
Speaker 3: and forties and fifties, because don't wait till later to

791
00:34:53,719 --> 00:34:56,120
Speaker 3: be like, oh, okay, I'll start doing this. What can

792
00:34:56,200 --> 00:34:59,839
Speaker 3: you do to build up your muscles now? To take

793
00:34:59,840 --> 00:35:04,200
Speaker 3: care of and keep your bones? Especially women, taking care

794
00:35:04,239 --> 00:35:08,080
Speaker 3: of our bones is crucial. So that's one reason why

795
00:35:08,120 --> 00:35:09,239
Speaker 3: I got into pilates.

796
00:35:09,320 --> 00:35:10,000
Speaker 1: As I saw some.

797
00:35:11,880 --> 00:35:15,279
Speaker 3: Surgeon she worked predominantly on hips, like, did a lot

798
00:35:15,320 --> 00:35:19,439
Speaker 3: of hip surgery, especially in elderly people, and she said

799
00:35:19,520 --> 00:35:22,440
Speaker 3: the top thing I would recommend to people that are

800
00:35:22,480 --> 00:35:24,080
Speaker 3: younger that are taking.

801
00:35:23,920 --> 00:35:25,800
Speaker 1: Care of their eighty year old selves is pilates.

802
00:35:26,520 --> 00:35:26,960
Speaker 2: Interesting.

803
00:35:27,320 --> 00:35:30,600
Speaker 3: Okay, So that's when I thought, okay, I better sign up,

804
00:35:30,600 --> 00:35:32,880
Speaker 3: and I got a membership and I started going regularly,

805
00:35:33,000 --> 00:35:34,279
Speaker 3: and then I got out of the groove and I

806
00:35:34,320 --> 00:35:35,359
Speaker 3: have not been going at all.

807
00:35:35,560 --> 00:35:37,440
Speaker 1: So now the is there.

808
00:35:37,680 --> 00:35:40,520
Speaker 3: This is reminding me I need to get back into

809
00:35:41,800 --> 00:35:43,640
Speaker 3: you know something, or just even doing some of those

810
00:35:43,800 --> 00:35:47,000
Speaker 3: plates exercises at home. It's like you have to be

811
00:35:47,120 --> 00:35:49,400
Speaker 3: on the machine or the reformer to do it. Like

812
00:35:49,520 --> 00:35:52,960
Speaker 3: there's plenty, and that's my thing. I think I like

813
00:35:53,640 --> 00:35:55,800
Speaker 3: working out at home, or I guess at ebbs and flows.

814
00:35:55,840 --> 00:35:58,399
Speaker 3: I go in and out of what's better for me. Yeah,

815
00:35:58,640 --> 00:36:01,960
Speaker 3: but I need to remind myself this isn't for you. Now.

816
00:36:02,200 --> 00:36:04,279
Speaker 1: Stop thinking about you. Now think if eighty year old

817
00:36:04,360 --> 00:36:05,560
Speaker 1: you so when you fall, you're good.

818
00:36:05,880 --> 00:36:08,160
Speaker 4: It is funny too, because even when I did those

819
00:36:08,280 --> 00:36:10,880
Speaker 4: interviews with the Senior Living Community, Shirley was on and

820
00:36:10,960 --> 00:36:14,479
Speaker 4: she's ninety one and she's so with it, you would

821
00:36:14,520 --> 00:36:16,960
Speaker 4: never know that she's ninety one years old, and just

822
00:36:17,080 --> 00:36:18,080
Speaker 4: her skin looks amazing.

823
00:36:18,200 --> 00:36:18,919
Speaker 2: She looks great.

824
00:36:19,120 --> 00:36:21,359
Speaker 4: And I had so many people comment on the video

825
00:36:21,520 --> 00:36:23,719
Speaker 4: just like how is she ninety one? And her one

826
00:36:23,840 --> 00:36:26,239
Speaker 4: thing was exercise. Every day I get up and move

827
00:36:26,440 --> 00:36:28,480
Speaker 4: like no matter what, I get up and I move

828
00:36:28,560 --> 00:36:32,759
Speaker 4: my body. And finally hearing from somebody like a legit

829
00:36:32,840 --> 00:36:34,360
Speaker 4: piece instead of you, don't you hear the ones like

830
00:36:34,440 --> 00:36:37,040
Speaker 4: I drink a coke every day and make sure you

831
00:36:37,080 --> 00:36:39,480
Speaker 4: have some fried chicken or whatever, this is like real

832
00:36:39,560 --> 00:36:42,040
Speaker 4: her be like, no, I feel good. I look good

833
00:36:42,120 --> 00:36:45,480
Speaker 4: because I've been exercising every day for my life. Not

834
00:36:45,719 --> 00:36:49,080
Speaker 4: just exercise that we think of like pilates and stuff,

835
00:36:49,120 --> 00:36:52,000
Speaker 4: but just like literally moving your body because we live

836
00:36:52,120 --> 00:36:56,560
Speaker 4: very sedentary lifestyles unfortunately, so hers was just get up

837
00:36:56,600 --> 00:36:59,120
Speaker 4: and move. Stop sitting here, like even right now, go move.

838
00:36:59,719 --> 00:37:03,200
Speaker 4: So it is really safe advice. I wish I could

839
00:37:03,239 --> 00:37:05,120
Speaker 4: listen to it some days. Some days I'm really bad

840
00:37:05,120 --> 00:37:05,400
Speaker 4: about that.

841
00:37:06,360 --> 00:37:08,240
Speaker 3: Yeah, I feel like you don't be hard on yourself.

842
00:37:08,280 --> 00:37:11,560
Speaker 3: You're pretty active. But I think in those sedentary days

843
00:37:11,560 --> 00:37:12,920
Speaker 3: at work where you have a lot of work and

844
00:37:12,960 --> 00:37:15,120
Speaker 3: you have to sit, I guess what we could be

845
00:37:15,200 --> 00:37:19,200
Speaker 3: more intentional with is hourly setting some more of some

846
00:37:19,440 --> 00:37:23,640
Speaker 3: sort of a timer, as annoying or cheesy or ridiculous

847
00:37:23,680 --> 00:37:27,200
Speaker 3: as it may sound, just getting up every hour and

848
00:37:27,600 --> 00:37:31,120
Speaker 3: taking a lap around the building. I think that could

849
00:37:31,320 --> 00:37:33,200
Speaker 3: be helpful because those days that, yes, I sit here,

850
00:37:33,320 --> 00:37:36,680
Speaker 3: sometimes I leave here and it'll be you know, well

851
00:37:36,760 --> 00:37:39,040
Speaker 3: into the afternoon and we've been here all morning and

852
00:37:39,160 --> 00:37:43,120
Speaker 3: I've been sitting the entire time, and I'm like, wait

853
00:37:43,320 --> 00:37:44,279
Speaker 3: what And I.

854
00:37:44,320 --> 00:37:46,839
Speaker 4: Don't feel as good those days when my body isn't moving,

855
00:37:46,920 --> 00:37:48,440
Speaker 4: and I know, I like, I'll look down, I've had

856
00:37:48,480 --> 00:37:51,319
Speaker 4: a hundred steps just to get into the building or whatever.

857
00:37:52,000 --> 00:37:54,120
Speaker 4: That's when I know, and I am not feeling great,

858
00:37:54,160 --> 00:37:55,520
Speaker 4: and I'll get up in them I'm like, okay, I

859
00:37:55,640 --> 00:37:58,399
Speaker 4: just needed to move the juices around in my body.

860
00:37:58,480 --> 00:37:59,920
Speaker 3: Yeah, on those days, you know you're going to have

861
00:38:00,040 --> 00:38:03,560
Speaker 3: to be extra sedentary. Just maybe a challenge we could

862
00:38:03,560 --> 00:38:06,160
Speaker 3: all have for ourselves is okay, No, I'm going to

863
00:38:06,200 --> 00:38:08,560
Speaker 3: be sitting a lot today, So I'm going to get

864
00:38:08,640 --> 00:38:12,080
Speaker 3: up and do a two minute walk every hour.

865
00:38:12,800 --> 00:38:14,600
Speaker 1: Boom. That could help.

866
00:38:14,800 --> 00:38:15,839
Speaker 2: I'm trying to do that more.

867
00:38:16,000 --> 00:38:18,280
Speaker 4: I'm also you'd be really proud of me I'm about

868
00:38:18,280 --> 00:38:21,759
Speaker 4: to do after we get back from our vacations later,

869
00:38:22,000 --> 00:38:26,000
Speaker 4: I'm going to be doing a whole detox with an

870
00:38:26,040 --> 00:38:28,680
Speaker 4: integrative health specialist, trying to get rid of my long

871
00:38:28,719 --> 00:38:31,160
Speaker 4: COVID and it's going to be brutal.

872
00:38:31,360 --> 00:38:33,120
Speaker 2: She's like, I think we need an eight week cleanse

873
00:38:33,200 --> 00:38:33,400
Speaker 2: for you.

874
00:38:34,000 --> 00:38:36,400
Speaker 4: Just over the course of your life, you've had a

875
00:38:36,440 --> 00:38:38,960
Speaker 4: lot of stuff happen and your body's taken the hit.

876
00:38:39,120 --> 00:38:42,640
Speaker 2: And detox meaning I'm just going to be eating certain.

877
00:38:42,480 --> 00:38:45,840
Speaker 4: Foods that are not inflammatory, and also I have to

878
00:38:45,880 --> 00:38:48,080
Speaker 4: do an extended fast to help my body kind of

879
00:38:48,120 --> 00:38:52,080
Speaker 4: reset its cells and put it into a routine that

880
00:38:52,200 --> 00:38:55,279
Speaker 4: it can do that. So I'm a little nervous, but

881
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Speaker 4: I'll be doing a lot of different things lot sauna,

882
00:38:57,520 --> 00:38:58,399
Speaker 4: like an infrared sauna.

883
00:38:58,440 --> 00:38:59,560
Speaker 2: I'll be doing red light therapy.

884
00:38:59,600 --> 00:39:03,839
Speaker 4: I'll be doing doing grounding work, just a whole bunch

885
00:39:04,000 --> 00:39:08,200
Speaker 4: lymphatic drainage, dry brushing, all of it. Hello, Yeah, fully

886
00:39:08,280 --> 00:39:12,200
Speaker 4: try and reset my whole system because I've done ebbs

887
00:39:12,239 --> 00:39:14,640
Speaker 4: and flows of all of those things. But she's like,

888
00:39:14,680 --> 00:39:17,360
Speaker 4: there's something about a combination and the right combination of

889
00:39:17,440 --> 00:39:21,360
Speaker 4: all of it to set your body up for success

890
00:39:21,440 --> 00:39:24,960
Speaker 4: to actually drain stuff out of it. She's like, detoxes

891
00:39:25,000 --> 00:39:27,160
Speaker 4: are harder than just you know, do a juice cleans

892
00:39:27,200 --> 00:39:29,080
Speaker 4: and alcos away. That's not quite how it works. She's like,

893
00:39:29,120 --> 00:39:33,000
Speaker 4: your body actually needs support to go through a detox

894
00:39:33,320 --> 00:39:35,200
Speaker 4: because if you put your body into detox and you're

895
00:39:35,200 --> 00:39:37,480
Speaker 4: not ready, it can be more harm than good.

896
00:39:38,680 --> 00:39:40,960
Speaker 3: Oh well, I'm good. I'm glad you've got a doctor

897
00:39:41,040 --> 00:39:44,759
Speaker 3: to guide you and be by your side through it all.

898
00:39:44,760 --> 00:39:46,480
Speaker 3: Because I know the long COVID stuff has been.

899
00:39:47,080 --> 00:39:50,319
Speaker 4: Really I'm like, you know what, eight weeks is nothing

900
00:39:50,400 --> 00:39:52,440
Speaker 4: compared to having to experience fur to go again, So

901
00:39:52,600 --> 00:39:52,800
Speaker 4: do it?

902
00:39:53,320 --> 00:39:53,880
Speaker 2: Send me on it.

903
00:39:54,160 --> 00:39:58,080
Speaker 1: I was at lunch yesterday with someone my friend chases

904
00:39:58,120 --> 00:39:59,799
Speaker 1: in town, and we went to lunch with a girl that.

905
00:40:01,560 --> 00:40:06,880
Speaker 3: Has mold in her body. She found it in her condo.

906
00:40:07,880 --> 00:40:12,320
Speaker 3: She knew she felt unwell for months and couldn't figure

907
00:40:12,360 --> 00:40:15,400
Speaker 3: out why. And then when she had a specialist come

908
00:40:15,440 --> 00:40:18,400
Speaker 3: and they cut into her roof where there was this

909
00:40:18,600 --> 00:40:22,200
Speaker 3: leak and there was black mold everywhere, and she had

910
00:40:22,239 --> 00:40:25,640
Speaker 3: been and she's since moved out because they're gutting it

911
00:40:25,960 --> 00:40:29,799
Speaker 3: and redoing it. But even just moving out, obviously she's

912
00:40:29,880 --> 00:40:33,719
Speaker 3: done different things too to help detox. But she just

913
00:40:33,920 --> 00:40:37,000
Speaker 3: feels so much better. But she's like, I never would

914
00:40:37,000 --> 00:40:41,040
Speaker 3: have thought it was mold in my house. I mean,

915
00:40:41,080 --> 00:40:42,800
Speaker 3: she was testing for all kinds of other things, and

916
00:40:42,840 --> 00:40:47,359
Speaker 3: then when she did a specific test for like twenty

917
00:40:47,440 --> 00:40:51,959
Speaker 3: one different toxins, there was three that were really bad

918
00:40:52,080 --> 00:40:54,520
Speaker 3: and then one that was off the charts and it

919
00:40:54,680 --> 00:40:58,640
Speaker 3: was part of the black mold. And so now she's

920
00:40:58,680 --> 00:41:03,640
Speaker 3: on a a journey of just trying to heal her body. Oh,

921
00:41:04,600 --> 00:41:06,520
Speaker 3: it's very similar to what you're going through. She's meeting

922
00:41:06,600 --> 00:41:09,279
Speaker 3: with a doctor that's helping her do it, and she's

923
00:41:09,280 --> 00:41:11,800
Speaker 3: already Yeah, she's already feeling a lot better, and she

924
00:41:11,960 --> 00:41:13,640
Speaker 3: knows that there's light at the end of the tunnel.

925
00:41:14,000 --> 00:41:17,439
Speaker 3: But I just hate that she's having to go through

926
00:41:17,880 --> 00:41:20,120
Speaker 3: go through that, and there are so many people. Yeah,

927
00:41:20,160 --> 00:41:22,919
Speaker 3: and they may not know because you don't know what's

928
00:41:22,960 --> 00:41:23,520
Speaker 3: behind your.

929
00:41:23,840 --> 00:41:26,560
Speaker 4: And it's so expensive, yes, to have mold and to

930
00:41:26,640 --> 00:41:30,080
Speaker 4: have somebody one come in and diagnose it, to come

931
00:41:30,120 --> 00:41:34,200
Speaker 4: in and fix it. You're completely regutting however big it is,

932
00:41:34,360 --> 00:41:37,520
Speaker 4: or however fart spreads in your house. It's crazy that

933
00:41:37,640 --> 00:41:40,040
Speaker 4: that is such a significant thing for so many people

934
00:41:41,320 --> 00:41:43,680
Speaker 4: because mold. Like hearing you say that and talk about that,

935
00:41:43,719 --> 00:41:44,960
Speaker 4: it is not the first time I've heard it. I've

936
00:41:44,960 --> 00:41:46,200
Speaker 4: heard it from a whole lot of people.

937
00:41:47,480 --> 00:41:49,799
Speaker 1: Yeah, and it seems as though it takes.

938
00:41:51,080 --> 00:41:54,160
Speaker 3: Unless you get lucky and find that you've, oh got mold,

939
00:41:54,239 --> 00:41:55,640
Speaker 3: maybe this is it, and you go to a doctor

940
00:41:55,680 --> 00:41:57,759
Speaker 3: and you get tested. Like it was months and months

941
00:41:57,760 --> 00:41:59,839
Speaker 3: and months of her not knowing what was wrong with her,

942
00:42:00,080 --> 00:42:01,520
Speaker 3: and she was feeling so and.

943
00:42:01,560 --> 00:42:05,760
Speaker 1: She's a very active person.

944
00:42:06,120 --> 00:42:09,399
Speaker 3: Also has a lot of different work that she was doing.

945
00:42:09,480 --> 00:42:11,120
Speaker 3: She said, I would do like one work thing a

946
00:42:11,200 --> 00:42:13,440
Speaker 3: day and then think, I don't know that I can

947
00:42:13,520 --> 00:42:14,520
Speaker 3: do anymore.

948
00:42:14,600 --> 00:42:17,359
Speaker 1: What is going on? And I'm used to being here,

949
00:42:17,480 --> 00:42:20,120
Speaker 1: being there doing this, doing that. She's also something fun

950
00:42:20,200 --> 00:42:22,279
Speaker 1: that she's doing right now. She's like, I'm so glad.

951
00:42:22,320 --> 00:42:24,960
Speaker 3: I'm feeling better because I'm able to enjoy this season

952
00:42:25,000 --> 00:42:28,200
Speaker 3: of work. As she's casting for the next season of

953
00:42:28,280 --> 00:42:31,399
Speaker 3: The Bachelor. Oh, that is exciting, and she's meeting all

954
00:42:31,520 --> 00:42:34,600
Speaker 3: the women and she said, there are so many amazing

955
00:42:34,880 --> 00:42:39,600
Speaker 3: women that are auditioning, and she said, we're immediately vetting out.

956
00:42:39,640 --> 00:42:43,200
Speaker 3: One thing that has been very clear from ABC is

957
00:42:43,280 --> 00:42:46,080
Speaker 3: that we don't want people that are just trying to

958
00:42:46,120 --> 00:42:48,040
Speaker 3: get on the show to be an influencer. If they're

959
00:42:48,080 --> 00:42:51,640
Speaker 3: trying to build up their brand or just expose themselves,

960
00:42:52,400 --> 00:42:54,040
Speaker 3: cut them immediately.

961
00:42:54,120 --> 00:42:54,719
Speaker 1: We don't want them.

962
00:42:55,120 --> 00:43:00,600
Speaker 3: And she's like, we are really getting quality, six cessful,

963
00:43:01,280 --> 00:43:03,719
Speaker 3: awesome women that are truly just looking for love. And

964
00:43:03,760 --> 00:43:05,600
Speaker 3: I'm like, well, then why are they going on this show?

965
00:43:05,760 --> 00:43:09,560
Speaker 3: Because like really, And she said, one thing that is

966
00:43:09,680 --> 00:43:12,400
Speaker 3: consistent from all of them is dating sucks.

967
00:43:12,520 --> 00:43:13,160
Speaker 1: It's horrible.

968
00:43:13,719 --> 00:43:16,600
Speaker 3: There is like why not we are having zero luck

969
00:43:16,640 --> 00:43:18,279
Speaker 3: out here on the apps or in any other way

970
00:43:18,360 --> 00:43:19,920
Speaker 3: or trying to meet some many in person, So why

971
00:43:20,040 --> 00:43:22,800
Speaker 3: not shoot our shot and try to go have a

972
00:43:22,880 --> 00:43:26,040
Speaker 3: fun experience on the Bachelor. It is true, but they

973
00:43:26,440 --> 00:43:30,120
Speaker 3: have careers that are not dependent like a lot anyone

974
00:43:30,200 --> 00:43:34,680
Speaker 3: she's passing through their careers are not dependent upon a

975
00:43:34,760 --> 00:43:39,080
Speaker 3: social media following or fame, and that they're very just

976
00:43:39,280 --> 00:43:43,520
Speaker 3: intelligent and kind and fill and frop Like She's like, what.

977
00:43:43,719 --> 00:43:45,240
Speaker 1: Why are these girls single?

978
00:43:46,000 --> 00:43:48,600
Speaker 3: And so now I'm like for a long for the

979
00:43:48,680 --> 00:43:50,239
Speaker 3: first time in a long, long, long time, I think

980
00:43:50,239 --> 00:43:52,439
Speaker 3: I'm gonna be excited to watch The Bachelor. So they're

981
00:43:52,480 --> 00:43:54,799
Speaker 3: doing a complete overhaul of how they want the show,

982
00:43:54,880 --> 00:43:56,839
Speaker 3: like it kind of got off track and they want

983
00:43:56,880 --> 00:43:57,080
Speaker 3: to like.

984
00:43:57,920 --> 00:43:58,399
Speaker 1: Take it back.

985
00:43:58,520 --> 00:44:01,200
Speaker 4: Okay, I'm might have to tune. And it's been since

986
00:44:01,239 --> 00:44:02,759
Speaker 4: I was in the sorority house. I think that I

987
00:44:02,840 --> 00:44:04,120
Speaker 4: watched the batchelor a long time.

988
00:44:04,200 --> 00:44:06,600
Speaker 3: But she said it's a lot of fun and that

989
00:44:06,719 --> 00:44:08,719
Speaker 3: there are so many amazing women out there. She's like,

990
00:44:09,120 --> 00:44:10,920
Speaker 3: and she has no idea who the Bachelor is. She's like,

991
00:44:10,960 --> 00:44:13,080
Speaker 3: it's it's difficult because I don't know who am I

992
00:44:13,160 --> 00:44:15,279
Speaker 3: trying to match them with because she's not a part

993
00:44:15,320 --> 00:44:15,920
Speaker 3: of that selection.

994
00:44:16,600 --> 00:44:20,480
Speaker 1: She's only doing the girls. Oh yeah, I'm excited. I'll

995
00:44:20,520 --> 00:44:21,360
Speaker 1: have to watch it, I know.

996
00:44:21,920 --> 00:44:24,080
Speaker 4: And yes, dating does suck, so I feel for all

997
00:44:24,080 --> 00:44:26,799
Speaker 4: of them. Yeah, all right, let's jump out if you're Amy,

998
00:44:26,880 --> 00:44:28,920
Speaker 4: where can they find you? Hear you all the good stuff.

999
00:44:28,800 --> 00:44:34,479
Speaker 3: At Radio Amy on Socials and Feeling Things podcast. Also

1000
00:44:34,640 --> 00:44:36,719
Speaker 3: that's the social handle and the podcast if you want

1001
00:44:36,719 --> 00:44:39,759
Speaker 3: to search forever. I have a ghost with my one

1002
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Speaker 3: of my best friends Cat. She's also a therapist, but

1003
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Speaker 3: it is not a replacement for therapy, and we don't

1004
00:44:44,080 --> 00:44:46,960
Speaker 3: just talk about therapy, although we must to talk about feelings.

1005
00:44:46,960 --> 00:44:48,280
Speaker 3: That's why it's called feeling things.

1006
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Speaker 1: We feel things.

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Speaker 4: Feeling things is good and you can follow me at

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Speaker 4: what Girl Morgan. My podcast is Take this personally. I

1009
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Speaker 4: had Scottie hasting On. He was a army veteran who

1010
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Speaker 4: was shot ten times in combat and it's a really

1011
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Speaker 4: important sorry. He has a cool collaboration with Lee Brice

1012
00:45:03,120 --> 00:45:05,759
Speaker 4: and Dolly Parton, so his life has changed drastically and

1013
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Speaker 4: it's cool to hear it.

1014
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1015
00:45:09,920 --> 00:45:10,919
Speaker 2: All right, bye bye.

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Speaker 1: That's the best bits of the week with Morgan.

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Speaker 2: Thanks for listening.

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