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Speaker 1: that eight oh five on The Fred Show. Good morning,

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Speaker 1: glad you here, Thanks so much for having us on

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Speaker 1: Why were you left waiting by the phone? How are you?

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Speaker 1: Adam good? We are well happy to be here. Let's

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Speaker 1: do waiting by the phone with you. I have the

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Speaker 1: email you met this woman named Lily on Bumble and

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Speaker 1: what happened after that? Yeah, so I met Lily Bumble

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Speaker 1: like you said, and we went out at a great time.

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Speaker 1: We actually hung out twice. H you know, and it

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Speaker 1: felt natural, it felt great, and be real with you,

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Speaker 1: I really like her and h now she's ghosted me,

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Speaker 1: So I don't know. I don't want to be like

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Speaker 1: crazy it keep txting her a bunch, but I want

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Speaker 1: to know what's going on because I really like her. Okay,

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Speaker 1: two dates and how many times have you reached out

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Speaker 1: unresponded to since the second date? Yeah, I've sent her

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Speaker 1: a few text messages, which is more than three, and

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Speaker 1: I called her twice and I just you know, a

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Speaker 1: don't want to keep calling and keep texting, but you

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Speaker 1: know I've made it never Christie, I don't think that's

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Speaker 1: the reason why she's not calling. I mean she wasn't

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Speaker 1: lot to keep preaching out like that though, I mean

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Speaker 1: least like a month of dating to where you owe

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Speaker 1: anyone an explanation. Really, Yeah, I know you say that,

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Speaker 1: He's out like you may as well, I guess make sure.

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Speaker 1: But anyway, now we're we're taking the additional step to

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Speaker 1: what's going on. We will, hopefully we can straighten out

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Speaker 1: whatever her issue is. Maybe it's something that if she's

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Speaker 1: if we can fix it, then we'll set you guys

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Speaker 1: up on a third date and we'll pay for that. Okay,

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Speaker 1: to hear what happens next Part two of Waiting by

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Speaker 1: the Phone After this song Fred Show one three five

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Speaker 1: Good Morning Guys, Freend shows on one three five Kiss FM,

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Speaker 1: Chicago's number one hit music station. Waiting by the Phone, Adam,

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Speaker 1: welcome back. You met Lily on bumble exchange numbers two dates.

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Speaker 1: You haven't heard from her after three plus phone calls.

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Speaker 1: You said a few phone calls after the second date

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Speaker 1: text messages messages, So we're sure. We are now sure

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Speaker 1: that she's avoiding you. There's really no other way around it. Um,

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Speaker 1: figure out what happened. Okay, okay, cool? Hello? Hi is

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Speaker 1: this Lily? Yeah, good morning Lily Fred from the Fred Show.

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Speaker 1: The whole crew is here one or three five Kiss

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Speaker 1: FM in Chicago. I have to tell you that you

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Speaker 1: you very much. We appreciate you. Maybe you know what

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Speaker 1: we're calling about. Um, you kind of giggled, But it's

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Speaker 1: called waiting by the phone. And a guy named Adam

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Speaker 1: Who could forget Adam? Why? Why is Adam on forgettable?

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Speaker 1: Because he he thought that the two dates went well,

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Speaker 1: hoping to figure out why. Oh no, I have absolutely

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Speaker 1: creepiest dude I've ever been on a date with. Creepiest

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Speaker 1: that's not why he's creepy. Why is he creepy? Oh no,

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Speaker 1: Adam and I were out on our second date and

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Speaker 1: he told me he had gotten me a gift, which

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Speaker 1: a little presumptuous. And he will he will not be

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Speaker 1: hearing from me now because I know. I know you

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Speaker 1: guys can tell me, but for what I understand, women

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Speaker 1: Does it cost a lot of money, and I wanted

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Speaker 1: give you an expensive, inappropriate gift, and the fact that

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Speaker 1: There was no pressure. It was just like a nice

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Speaker 1: taking a big leap hugely. But did you keep it? Though? Okay?

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Speaker 1: not trying to pick on you, Adam, but I mean

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Speaker 1: that's a that's a big aspect to leave out, which

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Speaker 1: people often do they're a little clueless. But you gave

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Speaker 1: getting creepier, Adam, I don't Yeah, I know I would

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Speaker 1: How much did you spend on it? And are you're

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Speaker 1: I've bought a woman some nice longree before. I'm a

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Speaker 1: too sure where we're gonna go next. Anyway, I won't

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Speaker 1: even I won't even speculate. Adam, Hey, look too too much,

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Speaker 1: too soon. We hear it a lot. I appreciate your time,

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Speaker 1: and now you have your answer. Yeah. Look, she just

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Speaker 1: sounds a little ungrateful. So I'm glad. No, nothing's gonna happen.

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Speaker 1: So Christie, this guy buys you long gerae, you don't

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Speaker 1: want to go out with him, so you keep it? Yes,

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Speaker 1: but you don't think that that, I mean, if you're

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Speaker 1: but don't you think you're I mean, aren't you sort

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Speaker 1: I don't want it? Then you know I mean no. No. Also,

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Speaker 1: not on me. Your expectations are your own fault, not mine.

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Speaker 1: If you buy me something, I can keep it. It

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Speaker 1: Have a good day. Man. Hey, Heather, yea, Heather, you're

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Speaker 1: made a lot of mistakes at the end, so he

421
00:20:33,200 --> 00:20:39,000
Speaker 1: feels responsible for how my life. Still paying for things?

422
00:20:39,160 --> 00:20:40,879
Speaker 1: And have you dated other people while he pays for

423
00:20:40,920 --> 00:20:44,600
Speaker 1: all this stuff? Yeah, and he's aware. Oh okay, wow,

424
00:20:44,840 --> 00:20:50,800
Speaker 1: is that for you? You got some power girl magic?

425
00:20:51,320 --> 00:20:53,800
Speaker 1: She got some magic stuff going on there? Is there

426
00:20:54,000 --> 00:20:56,280
Speaker 1: is there any chance you think that you know? This

427
00:20:56,359 --> 00:20:58,680
Speaker 1: is how he attaches himself to continues to attach himself

428
00:20:58,720 --> 00:21:00,240
Speaker 1: to you so that maybe one day you'll take him back,

429
00:21:02,440 --> 00:21:05,320
Speaker 1: but you don't care because it's saving you money. Yeah,

430
00:21:05,359 --> 00:21:07,800
Speaker 1: and I have you know, it was a bad situation.

431
00:21:07,920 --> 00:21:10,560
Speaker 1: He's now in another country, so at this point he's

432
00:21:10,560 --> 00:21:13,080
Speaker 1: thinking sometime for himself. But I think, you know, there

433
00:21:13,160 --> 00:21:16,080
Speaker 1: might be some intent behind it. But if it's been

434
00:21:16,119 --> 00:21:22,159
Speaker 1: a very comfortable start another country and still pay your bills. Wow, wow,

435
00:21:22,240 --> 00:21:25,480
Speaker 1: I know. I wish somebody put it on me like that.

436
00:21:25,680 --> 00:21:27,639
Speaker 1: I want to pay their bills. Two years later, CO

437
00:21:27,760 --> 00:21:31,639
Speaker 1: sign on some stuffing, Heather, I don't know if he's

438
00:21:31,640 --> 00:21:33,280
Speaker 1: paying for your credit card. They take me to dinner,

439
00:21:34,840 --> 00:21:38,040
Speaker 1: let's do it. Have a good day. Thank you. Bye.

440
00:21:38,359 --> 00:21:42,359
Speaker 1: Hey Jackie, Jackie, you're not with the person anymore, but

441
00:21:42,400 --> 00:21:46,119
Speaker 1: you're still paying the bill. I am with him. Um.

442
00:21:46,440 --> 00:21:50,920
Speaker 1: I was engaged once upon a time and we decided

443
00:21:51,000 --> 00:21:53,919
Speaker 1: to call off the wedding and I got stuff paid

444
00:21:54,000 --> 00:22:00,720
Speaker 1: to the entire reception hall. Uh, the remainder of the photographer,

445
00:22:01,920 --> 00:22:05,359
Speaker 1: the rest of our honeymoon, and I had to pay

446
00:22:05,359 --> 00:22:08,639
Speaker 1: off the remainder of my engagement rate. O wow, And

447
00:22:08,720 --> 00:22:10,440
Speaker 1: how did you get stuck with all of this? Why

448
00:22:10,440 --> 00:22:16,160
Speaker 1: didn't he do any of it? But I was Harriet,

449
00:22:16,520 --> 00:22:18,399
Speaker 1: I don't know, you don't know, you know, did you

450
00:22:18,440 --> 00:22:20,520
Speaker 1: take that? I just so. I guess he didn't feel

451
00:22:20,520 --> 00:22:23,560
Speaker 1: like it was his obligation. And I wasn't going to

452
00:22:23,680 --> 00:22:27,800
Speaker 1: let these spenders. I mean, you're under a contract. Yeah.

453
00:22:28,119 --> 00:22:31,720
Speaker 1: I thought terrible. It was a terrible time, and that

454
00:22:31,880 --> 00:22:34,199
Speaker 1: just made it even better. Did you at least go

455
00:22:34,240 --> 00:22:36,359
Speaker 1: on a honeymoon with somebody else? Like not? You know,

456
00:22:37,280 --> 00:22:40,040
Speaker 1: didn't I'm very happily married now with two kids and

457
00:22:40,440 --> 00:22:44,160
Speaker 1: think that every day that that didn't work out. Yeah,

458
00:22:44,160 --> 00:22:45,639
Speaker 1: I mean that would have been weird. I guess it

459
00:22:45,680 --> 00:22:48,360
Speaker 1: worked out. Yeah, I paid for it in the end.

460
00:22:48,440 --> 00:22:50,400
Speaker 1: But you know, it is what it is. No good

461
00:22:50,400 --> 00:22:51,960
Speaker 1: for you. But I mean if a woman had approached

462
00:22:51,960 --> 00:22:53,879
Speaker 1: me and been like, hey, I broke up, but I

463
00:22:53,880 --> 00:22:55,520
Speaker 1: still have the honeymoon where you go with me, I

464
00:22:55,520 --> 00:22:57,879
Speaker 1: would totally go on the honeymoon with Yeah. I should

465
00:22:57,880 --> 00:22:59,840
Speaker 1: have totally thought about that. Yeah, I mean, at least

466
00:22:59,840 --> 00:23:01,840
Speaker 1: take advantage, you know what I'm saying. Yeah, all right,

467
00:23:02,119 --> 00:23:04,160
Speaker 1: thank you Jackie. Good for you. By the way, that's

468
00:23:04,160 --> 00:23:06,639
Speaker 1: a happy ending of that story. I liked it. It is.

469
00:23:07,520 --> 00:23:11,960
Speaker 1: Have a great day. Thanks for calling um. So I

470
00:23:12,000 --> 00:23:13,760
Speaker 1: went to Dallas over the weekend to visit my sister.

471
00:23:13,960 --> 00:23:15,800
Speaker 1: I'm staying in a hotel because my sister has a

472
00:23:15,880 --> 00:23:17,520
Speaker 1: my mom stayed there. She has one guest in. My

473
00:23:17,520 --> 00:23:18,960
Speaker 1: aunt and I stay in a hotel. So we're in

474
00:23:19,000 --> 00:23:22,040
Speaker 1: the hotel bar and this beautiful woman walks into the

475
00:23:22,080 --> 00:23:26,120
Speaker 1: lobby she's so pretty, and I'm like, well, she's pretty,

476
00:23:26,160 --> 00:23:27,840
Speaker 1: and I'm just thinking this in my head. And then

477
00:23:27,880 --> 00:23:30,840
Speaker 1: as I'm thinking this, out of her like bag, she

478
00:23:30,960 --> 00:23:34,800
Speaker 1: pulls out a clear water bottle and proceeds to put

479
00:23:34,800 --> 00:23:37,200
Speaker 1: it up to her lip and spit her tobacco. Oh,

480
00:23:39,280 --> 00:23:44,119
Speaker 1: dip into the plastic you know thing this, you know whatever,

481
00:23:44,200 --> 00:23:47,280
Speaker 1: whatever that sounds and so and then from that, from

482
00:23:47,280 --> 00:23:49,119
Speaker 1: like the next five minutes in the lobby, she's holding

483
00:23:49,160 --> 00:23:52,800
Speaker 1: it and just every now and again. So in college,

484
00:23:52,920 --> 00:23:56,240
Speaker 1: my freshman year, I had a roommate who dipped, and

485
00:23:56,320 --> 00:23:58,840
Speaker 1: he would use solo cups. But the thing about him

486
00:23:58,880 --> 00:24:01,679
Speaker 1: is he wouldn't he wouldn't throw the solo cups away,

487
00:24:01,760 --> 00:24:03,919
Speaker 1: So he'd sit there and play a video game whenever

488
00:24:03,920 --> 00:24:05,520
Speaker 1: he'd dip into the solo cup and then set the

489
00:24:05,520 --> 00:24:07,080
Speaker 1: solo cup down, and then this look up live there

490
00:24:07,160 --> 00:24:11,159
Speaker 1: until I threw it away. Nasty. It is a disgusting habit,

491
00:24:11,320 --> 00:24:13,399
Speaker 1: it really is. I'm sorry if you do it. It

492
00:24:13,560 --> 00:24:15,800
Speaker 1: is gross. I mean, it's it's nice that to people

493
00:24:15,840 --> 00:24:18,040
Speaker 1: spit into it and cups. There's some people that just

494
00:24:18,680 --> 00:24:22,600
Speaker 1: spit into the street or the clear plastic bottle. Now

495
00:24:22,640 --> 00:24:24,720
Speaker 1: I can see the contents. I would think you would

496
00:24:24,760 --> 00:24:26,479
Speaker 1: look at that and say that was in my body,

497
00:24:26,920 --> 00:24:30,800
Speaker 1: and that was in my mouth. This isn't good for me. Um.

498
00:24:30,880 --> 00:24:33,000
Speaker 1: But I was instantly not that I was going to

499
00:24:33,040 --> 00:24:35,239
Speaker 1: approach her, but I was instantly turned off by that.

500
00:24:35,280 --> 00:24:37,680
Speaker 1: Like there's no way, there is no way that I

501
00:24:37,720 --> 00:24:40,439
Speaker 1: could date the hottest girl, the hottest girl in the

502
00:24:40,720 --> 00:24:43,200
Speaker 1: Warler could walk in here and be like, hey, Fred,

503
00:24:43,200 --> 00:24:45,359
Speaker 1: take me now, and then pull out a dip cup

504
00:24:45,359 --> 00:24:47,600
Speaker 1: and spit in it. I'd be like, I'm done. I'll

505
00:24:47,600 --> 00:24:51,760
Speaker 1: take you. Never uninterested. Um, but is there what comes

506
00:24:51,800 --> 00:24:55,280
Speaker 1: to mind? Three five and I'll go around the room, Jason,

507
00:24:55,280 --> 00:24:56,840
Speaker 1: I'll start with you before you go into the funnel.

508
00:24:57,000 --> 00:25:00,680
Speaker 1: What comes to mind immediately as as an immediate turn off?

509
00:25:00,960 --> 00:25:04,000
Speaker 1: Oh my gosh. Um, I think like, if you can't

510
00:25:04,040 --> 00:25:06,199
Speaker 1: like have a conversation with me like I have, you

511
00:25:06,240 --> 00:25:08,000
Speaker 1: have to be funny and like be able to talk

512
00:25:08,000 --> 00:25:09,480
Speaker 1: to me if that's not going to happen, and have

513
00:25:09,560 --> 00:25:12,760
Speaker 1: to be funny. You have to be funny because so

514
00:25:12,920 --> 00:25:16,200
Speaker 1: they like to laugh. You're very funny though. You are

515
00:25:16,240 --> 00:25:18,200
Speaker 1: the best hype man. No, because I feel like Chris

516
00:25:18,280 --> 00:25:20,479
Speaker 1: Rock when I'm with you. Because you're just cracking up

517
00:25:20,640 --> 00:25:24,000
Speaker 1: and everything I say, I'm like, oh, I'm so funny. Yeah,

518
00:25:24,000 --> 00:25:25,960
Speaker 1: why do you think we've had you here all the time?

519
00:25:26,520 --> 00:25:29,639
Speaker 1: Because you boost my ego everything. But that's the thing.

520
00:25:29,680 --> 00:25:32,120
Speaker 1: I have to, like have good conversations and be able

521
00:25:32,119 --> 00:25:34,920
Speaker 1: to laugh. Could you could you date a person who

522
00:25:35,040 --> 00:25:39,280
Speaker 1: valued Christina Aguilera more than breakin? No deal breaker? Oh

523
00:25:39,320 --> 00:25:41,800
Speaker 1: my gosh, I give you the car and you know

524
00:25:42,080 --> 00:25:44,040
Speaker 1: he puts on his music and it's gene a bottle.

525
00:25:44,080 --> 00:25:48,000
Speaker 1: I'm out. You don't give me, I'll do a stop

526
00:25:48,080 --> 00:25:51,760
Speaker 1: drop and roll right out there. Okay, Jaws of Life. Yeah,

527
00:25:51,960 --> 00:25:54,760
Speaker 1: prim out of the um. Okay, I want to know

528
00:25:54,880 --> 00:25:56,879
Speaker 1: immediate turn off. Show Bish Shelley just walked in so

529
00:25:57,000 --> 00:25:58,720
Speaker 1: I don't have to push this this show Bish Shelley

530
00:25:58,760 --> 00:26:03,920
Speaker 1: button because yours was late today. Oh yeah, it's good

531
00:26:03,920 --> 00:26:06,000
Speaker 1: for you. Do you know? Apparently there's like a limit

532
00:26:06,040 --> 00:26:08,879
Speaker 1: on the bus. They're so so I take it. There's

533
00:26:08,960 --> 00:26:11,119
Speaker 1: three people at a stop trying to get on the

534
00:26:11,119 --> 00:26:13,120
Speaker 1: bus and the guy says one person can get on,

535
00:26:13,080 --> 00:26:16,000
Speaker 1: one person gets on, the other guy waiting almost gotten

536
00:26:16,000 --> 00:26:17,800
Speaker 1: a fight with the bus driver. So you're sitting there

537
00:26:17,800 --> 00:26:20,959
Speaker 1: for ten minutes a lot of drops, yea, anyway, keep

538
00:26:21,000 --> 00:26:23,640
Speaker 1: this social distance going. Um, what is it for you?

539
00:26:23,760 --> 00:26:30,880
Speaker 1: Immediate turny? I would say, what's an immediate turn off? Probably? Um,

540
00:26:30,920 --> 00:26:32,880
Speaker 1: just like if you're rude, you know, like if because

541
00:26:32,880 --> 00:26:34,800
Speaker 1: I've been on dates before and they're rude to the

542
00:26:34,840 --> 00:26:38,480
Speaker 1: waiters or they're rude to like are serving us or whatever,

543
00:26:38,560 --> 00:26:42,800
Speaker 1: that's not turn on. Yeah, it's not good, No you guys, Paula.

544
00:26:42,960 --> 00:26:45,360
Speaker 1: For me, I would have to say, as of recently,

545
00:26:45,640 --> 00:26:48,720
Speaker 1: height just because like I tried going out with somebody

546
00:26:48,720 --> 00:26:50,719
Speaker 1: who was my height and I just felt like it

547
00:26:50,760 --> 00:26:52,360
Speaker 1: was like a little teddy bear. I couldn't do it.

548
00:26:52,480 --> 00:26:54,200
Speaker 1: I'm only five two at this point. You've got to

549
00:26:54,240 --> 00:26:58,480
Speaker 1: be taller than me yet literally and it shall take

550
00:26:58,520 --> 00:27:05,240
Speaker 1: an in Well, no, I won't take any I know

551
00:27:05,320 --> 00:27:12,720
Speaker 1: that's not true, that right, rufio. I mean I make

552
00:27:12,880 --> 00:27:15,040
Speaker 1: shoe contact before I make eye contact. I mean, you

553
00:27:15,119 --> 00:27:17,960
Speaker 1: gotta have some kind of sense of fashion or style.

554
00:27:18,320 --> 00:27:20,920
Speaker 1: You can't just be wearing I don't know, I don't

555
00:27:22,240 --> 00:27:26,520
Speaker 1: outfits make a huge If he's exasperated, I just can't.

556
00:27:27,040 --> 00:27:29,359
Speaker 1: I just can't. I can't. I just I can't. Even

557
00:27:29,920 --> 00:27:32,760
Speaker 1: got to be pretty good too, yeah, he took mine shoes,

558
00:27:33,040 --> 00:27:38,840
Speaker 1: shoes all day or day. Yeah, okay, Frankie, Frankie, good morning.

559
00:27:38,920 --> 00:27:45,399
Speaker 1: Automatic deal breaker turn off. For me, it's dipping. I

560
00:27:45,480 --> 00:27:49,200
Speaker 1: have to say when when guys have long nails that

561
00:27:49,480 --> 00:27:58,440
Speaker 1: actually you know what hands that's another way to nail. Yeah, yeah, yeah, yeah,

562
00:27:58,520 --> 00:28:01,239
Speaker 1: that is that is gross. I would agree, Thank you man,

563
00:28:01,280 --> 00:28:05,840
Speaker 1: have a great day, especially um Or. I don't think

564
00:28:05,880 --> 00:28:07,240
Speaker 1: you know what. That was a hard one for me

565
00:28:07,320 --> 00:28:08,720
Speaker 1: to break. I used to bite my nails. I was

566
00:28:08,760 --> 00:28:12,960
Speaker 1: so bad about it. It's a hard one to break. Myra. Hi,

567
00:28:13,000 --> 00:28:16,480
Speaker 1: good morning, Hi, Myra, good morning. Automatic turn off? What

568
00:28:16,640 --> 00:28:20,320
Speaker 1: is it? Um I'm like a big I love teeth.

569
00:28:20,400 --> 00:28:22,200
Speaker 1: So like somebody who does not brust your teeth or

570
00:28:22,240 --> 00:28:25,440
Speaker 1: like have crusty teeth is like an automatic. Like yeah,

571
00:28:26,880 --> 00:28:29,000
Speaker 1: I would say somebody doesn't brush your teeth, it's probably

572
00:28:29,040 --> 00:28:32,440
Speaker 1: a good one. Yeah, crusty, crusty teeth. I have crusty

573
00:28:32,520 --> 00:28:35,639
Speaker 1: teeth like stuff. I don't know, Like some people just

574
00:28:35,800 --> 00:28:38,200
Speaker 1: have like stuff like at the top of their teeth,

575
00:28:38,240 --> 00:28:40,320
Speaker 1: like it shows that they don't brush them correctly, or

576
00:28:40,360 --> 00:28:43,200
Speaker 1: like they don't floss enough. And that's just like I

577
00:28:43,760 --> 00:28:46,280
Speaker 1: just care, all right, that's fair. That's fair. Thank you, Myra,

578
00:28:46,400 --> 00:28:50,240
Speaker 1: have a great day. Thanks for calling. Hey, Natalie, good morning,

579
00:28:50,240 --> 00:28:53,520
Speaker 1: How are you all right? Good morning, Automatic deal Breaker.

580
00:28:53,560 --> 00:28:57,440
Speaker 1: For you come hand in hand with smoking and teeth,

581
00:28:57,760 --> 00:29:00,920
Speaker 1: as you can tell when they're smoking from that. It's

582
00:29:00,960 --> 00:29:06,120
Speaker 1: just that smoking is a tough one because I'm not

583
00:29:06,160 --> 00:29:08,200
Speaker 1: gonna give anyone to speech about how bad it is

584
00:29:08,240 --> 00:29:11,600
Speaker 1: for you. But if you don't smoke, then you you

585
00:29:11,760 --> 00:29:13,720
Speaker 1: better start if you're gonna be with somebody who does,

586
00:29:13,760 --> 00:29:15,760
Speaker 1: because you're gonna smell it. You're gonna smell it on

587
00:29:15,800 --> 00:29:18,520
Speaker 1: their clothes, on their skin, on their breath, on their hands.

588
00:29:19,040 --> 00:29:22,480
Speaker 1: You're gonna and my husband quit. I'm like, if you

589
00:29:22,600 --> 00:29:26,000
Speaker 1: keep smoking, I'm gonna say I can't. Yeah, that's the thing.

590
00:29:26,000 --> 00:29:27,560
Speaker 1: Either you do as a couple or you don't do

591
00:29:27,600 --> 00:29:31,160
Speaker 1: it all I think, because if one person's not doing it,

592
00:29:31,160 --> 00:29:35,680
Speaker 1: it's gross. Kind of really. Thank you. Have a good day,

593
00:29:36,120 --> 00:29:41,800
Speaker 1: Loupe friends up. Hey, I'm good morning, Automatic deal breaker.

594
00:29:43,000 --> 00:29:46,400
Speaker 1: Oh women with body order and I'm not talking a

595
00:29:49,080 --> 00:29:57,760
Speaker 1: little don't go there, don't go there, little there as

596
00:29:57,800 --> 00:30:02,200
Speaker 1: a guy. Yeah, I know when my you my very smell,

597
00:30:02,720 --> 00:30:04,840
Speaker 1: so yeah, you know you're going there. You wash up.

598
00:30:05,200 --> 00:30:07,040
Speaker 1: Thank you. We're gonna go on the date? Oh boy,

599
00:30:07,080 --> 00:30:11,680
Speaker 1: are you gonna put on the break down there? Come on?

600
00:30:12,000 --> 00:30:16,160
Speaker 1: Would you actually go on the seat? Look, I don't

601
00:30:16,200 --> 00:30:20,600
Speaker 1: disagree with you, but I you know, oh I know,

602
00:30:21,400 --> 00:30:25,680
Speaker 1: I know you pay you say the field, play the field,

603
00:30:26,040 --> 00:30:29,320
Speaker 1: and that's a nice way of putting up. Yeah it must.

604
00:30:29,880 --> 00:30:32,280
Speaker 1: I mean that this matter have pretty to grow. Is

605
00:30:32,400 --> 00:30:35,880
Speaker 1: if you guys are making at the pants come off

606
00:30:35,960 --> 00:30:42,120
Speaker 1: and a little bit. Look, I get it. If it's

607
00:30:42,120 --> 00:30:44,840
Speaker 1: a matter of hygiene, then yes, she made me to

608
00:30:44,840 --> 00:30:46,960
Speaker 1: go to the guy. Know though it's opposed to a date. Yeah,

609
00:30:47,160 --> 00:30:49,320
Speaker 1: you go to the I mean we all been there, ladies,

610
00:30:49,400 --> 00:30:51,680
Speaker 1: less what happens? We've all been? Have we all been there?

611
00:30:51,800 --> 00:30:54,200
Speaker 1: I mean, how is it? How is that even an

612
00:30:54,200 --> 00:30:56,440
Speaker 1: instant turn off? Like you you just noticed that right away?

613
00:30:56,480 --> 00:31:02,760
Speaker 1: Like well you, I will say, I don't want to

614
00:31:02,760 --> 00:31:10,520
Speaker 1: talk about this. I want to go Yeah. Yeah, I

615
00:31:10,960 --> 00:31:16,360
Speaker 1: don't want to make people know. It's too early for this.

616
00:31:17,920 --> 00:31:22,480
Speaker 1: We'll just we'll just say higie, We'll leave it there. Trish, Hi, Trish. Hey,

617
00:31:22,560 --> 00:31:25,560
Speaker 1: let's don't know. I just I'm recovering from Lupe. What's

618
00:31:25,560 --> 00:31:29,120
Speaker 1: an automatic turnoff for you? Well, the first thing guys

619
00:31:29,120 --> 00:31:31,160
Speaker 1: want to talk about is how much money they make.

620
00:31:31,240 --> 00:31:34,240
Speaker 1: I think it's so tacky. Hey, And for some reason,

621
00:31:34,600 --> 00:31:36,760
Speaker 1: it seems to be worse when you're like married or

622
00:31:36,800 --> 00:31:39,000
Speaker 1: engaged to They'll see your ring and some guy will

623
00:31:39,000 --> 00:31:41,240
Speaker 1: come up to you literally be like, hey, how much

624
00:31:41,240 --> 00:31:44,280
Speaker 1: money your man makes? Like, oh my gosh, does that work?

625
00:31:44,400 --> 00:31:47,600
Speaker 1: How insecure are you that you're gonna lead with how

626
00:31:47,680 --> 00:31:50,640
Speaker 1: much money you have because that because you think that's

627
00:31:50,640 --> 00:31:53,160
Speaker 1: your best asset, or maybe that is your best asset

628
00:31:53,160 --> 00:31:56,800
Speaker 1: and that should tell you everything you need to know. Wow, Yeah,

629
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Speaker 1: it's just so terrible. Yeah, I don't thank you, Trich,

630
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Speaker 1: have a great day. Glad you called Hellosa? Hi? Yes

631
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Speaker 1: you were on one h three five. What's up, Melissa?

632
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Speaker 1: So the biggest turn off is tiny man hand? Yeah,

633
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Speaker 1: a good one can't have little hands, huh no, or

634
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Speaker 1: like skinny fingers. Now I was worried. I was momentarily worried.

635
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Speaker 1: Are you relating it to like other things? Are you

636
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Speaker 1: just saying it just doesn't look good to have little, tiny,

637
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Speaker 1: dainty hands on a man? Or are you saying it's

638
00:32:36,120 --> 00:32:38,360
Speaker 1: because other things may not may also be little tiny

639
00:32:38,400 --> 00:32:42,120
Speaker 1: and dainty? Well that, but it just doesn't look right,

640
00:32:42,160 --> 00:32:45,320
Speaker 1: and I don't know. It grosses me out. Okay, all right,

641
00:32:45,320 --> 00:32:48,040
Speaker 1: fair enough the little tiny hands, thank you. Melissa looks

642
00:32:48,080 --> 00:32:53,440
Speaker 1: big when you hold it good. That's why you need her.

643
00:32:54,000 --> 00:33:01,640
Speaker 1: Her hands need to be tiny, she needs turn up.

644
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Speaker 1: Life from the Winters Studios in America's Greatest City, Chicago.

645
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Speaker 1: I heart radio station. It's the frend Show. Good morning everybody, Hi, Christy,

646
00:33:16,480 --> 00:33:20,160
Speaker 1: good morning, Kay morning, Paulina, Good morning morning. Just going

647
00:33:20,200 --> 00:33:23,000
Speaker 1: on Jason Browner bon Rufie in the other room. Ay

648
00:33:23,080 --> 00:33:26,720
Speaker 1: rufy definitely gonna beat Pauli at a time. Let's play

649
00:33:26,840 --> 00:33:29,600
Speaker 1: everyone's favorite game on Game Show Wednesday. These are a

650
00:33:29,720 --> 00:33:36,760
Speaker 1: general knowledge questions can you beat? Are incredible? Multi talented?

651
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Speaker 1: We had occasionally random Paulina That sums it up. Yeah,

652
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Speaker 1: are you ready? I'm nervous today. I'm jitters all day.

653
00:33:46,240 --> 00:33:49,800
Speaker 1: But the entertainment reporting there too. What do you have

654
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Speaker 1: big engagement for a reality star? I'm pretty surprised about

655
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Speaker 1: this one. We'll talk about that. I'll get to it

656
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Speaker 1: in a few I'm not sure. It's the Fresh show

657
00:33:59,440 --> 00:34:02,560
Speaker 1: on one of five, Kiss of Him? Do you have

658
00:34:02,720 --> 00:34:06,479
Speaker 1: what it takes to battle? You're definitely gonna be Callina battle.

659
00:34:06,640 --> 00:34:16,760
Speaker 1: Not today's right. It's a classic, right there. Hey, hey, hey, hey,

660
00:34:14,760 --> 00:34:27,879
Speaker 1: hey Plina, Paula is polishing Mexican. Yeah yeah, just deepens

661
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Speaker 1: on the day. Hey, what day is it's that shooing?

662
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Speaker 1: I won Jewish muzzle to to Asian two like three

663
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Speaker 1: percent two percent Asian? Imnna start rupping my Greek t

664
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Speaker 1: Yeah you should just hey, Lizette, how you doing? Good morning,

665
00:34:54,080 --> 00:34:57,399
Speaker 1: Good morning. Definitely gonna be Paulina Wi. We were really

666
00:34:58,120 --> 00:35:01,359
Speaker 1: we're really clutching for con when when Shelley went out

667
00:35:01,400 --> 00:35:03,920
Speaker 1: with the Roan Roan and so we developed this. We

668
00:35:04,040 --> 00:35:06,400
Speaker 1: brought this back from the you know, the vaults. We

669
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Speaker 1: got a vault full oft of a broad back and

670
00:35:08,160 --> 00:35:10,719
Speaker 1: then people liked it. So now it's every Wednesday, we're

671
00:35:10,719 --> 00:35:15,439
Speaker 1: gonna do this. No no, no, no, no, no no no,

672
00:35:15,440 --> 00:35:17,359
Speaker 1: no need to be nervous. You know, you're just among

673
00:35:17,400 --> 00:35:19,680
Speaker 1: friends here, we're just hanging out. So here's the thing

674
00:35:19,719 --> 00:35:21,239
Speaker 1: about Paulina. I want to make this very clear. We're

675
00:35:21,239 --> 00:35:23,480
Speaker 1: talking about this off the year Paulina, and I'm not

676
00:35:23,520 --> 00:35:27,120
Speaker 1: I'm not patronizing you. Paulina is a very smart woman.

677
00:35:27,320 --> 00:35:30,680
Speaker 1: Paulina is very street smart. Paulina if I need if

678
00:35:30,719 --> 00:35:34,719
Speaker 1: I need something and I need some creativity, what would

679
00:35:34,719 --> 00:35:37,320
Speaker 1: you need? You never know? Whatever I would might you

680
00:35:37,400 --> 00:35:42,680
Speaker 1: never know. She's a resourceful, street smart woman, intelligent woman.

681
00:35:42,719 --> 00:35:46,600
Speaker 1: I want to make that clear. But definitely, like many people,

682
00:35:46,760 --> 00:35:50,359
Speaker 1: a lot of people, your brain doesn't really retain sort

683
00:35:50,400 --> 00:35:55,640
Speaker 1: of facts the way that other people has. And more importantly,

684
00:35:55,680 --> 00:35:59,000
Speaker 1: the things that you do believe are right are fantastic

685
00:35:59,560 --> 00:36:02,080
Speaker 1: because you say when when you have an answer to something,

686
00:36:02,080 --> 00:36:05,760
Speaker 1: you just you you pronounced it with such passionate figure

687
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Speaker 1: in conviction, it's incredible and we love it. So we're

688
00:36:09,480 --> 00:36:11,120
Speaker 1: making fun of you, but we're not. I just want

689
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Speaker 1: you to know that. Listen, I love it, and I

690
00:36:14,200 --> 00:36:17,000
Speaker 1: feel like I represent that population of people that just

691
00:36:17,120 --> 00:36:20,200
Speaker 1: may not get it sometimes. Is there a popular is

692
00:36:20,200 --> 00:36:23,600
Speaker 1: that a whole population? Yes, she's leading the charges, you know,

693
00:36:23,680 --> 00:36:26,280
Speaker 1: because I'm kind of halfway between you. Because I Rufio

694
00:36:26,360 --> 00:36:29,960
Speaker 1: can remember minute details that I can. I could never

695
00:36:29,960 --> 00:36:32,040
Speaker 1: be on Jeopardy. I think I'm a pretty smart guy.

696
00:36:32,160 --> 00:36:33,800
Speaker 1: I could not be on Jeopardy. I would lose. I

697
00:36:33,800 --> 00:36:36,120
Speaker 1: don't remember things like I remember concepts and sort of

698
00:36:36,120 --> 00:36:39,080
Speaker 1: broader ideas um but like I can't remember, but I

699
00:36:39,160 --> 00:36:41,279
Speaker 1: actually all the answers to these questions, so you know,

700
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Speaker 1: did you? Because I can never gauge. Also, I was

701
00:36:44,360 --> 00:36:47,319
Speaker 1: a little gone off illegal edible and I wrote them

702
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Speaker 1: see you know, okay social arrangement. Yes, because I had

703
00:36:51,560 --> 00:36:54,200
Speaker 1: an edible arrangement and apparently the edibles went to you.

704
00:36:54,320 --> 00:36:57,680
Speaker 1: I kind of done the other way around. You should

705
00:36:57,680 --> 00:37:00,000
Speaker 1: have celebrated my eleven years with me getting the edible

706
00:37:00,120 --> 00:37:02,600
Speaker 1: and you get in the edible arrangement. But whatever, it's fine. Um,

707
00:37:02,640 --> 00:37:06,600
Speaker 1: so Lizette's five questions, your elementary level questions. It's called

708
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Speaker 1: definitely gonna be Paulina. Are you ready? Yeah, okay, good Paulina,

709
00:37:10,560 --> 00:37:12,719
Speaker 1: if you would please, yes, good luck to the sound booth.

710
00:37:12,719 --> 00:37:15,480
Speaker 1: Poof you go by the way, Lizen. Tell us a

711
00:37:15,480 --> 00:37:17,040
Speaker 1: little bit about you. What do you do? What's your

712
00:37:17,080 --> 00:37:19,839
Speaker 1: life about? Well, I actually just got a job at

713
00:37:19,800 --> 00:37:23,200
Speaker 1: seeing Xavier University. Yeah, I actually send any thirty so

714
00:37:23,239 --> 00:37:26,080
Speaker 1: I'm walking it now. So you tell them, you tell

715
00:37:26,120 --> 00:37:28,720
Speaker 1: them at your new job, I'm a professor of something.

716
00:37:30,080 --> 00:37:33,440
Speaker 1: You're a professor of elementary knowledge. She said, no, I'm

717
00:37:33,440 --> 00:37:36,640
Speaker 1: actually a transferred mission counselor. Okay, well, if if they

718
00:37:36,800 --> 00:37:38,880
Speaker 1: give you any hard hard time for being late. I

719
00:37:38,920 --> 00:37:42,000
Speaker 1: just gave Saint Xavier a plug on the radio. I

720
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Speaker 1: just you did well, you did too, So that's two

721
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Speaker 1: for free. Okay, here we go. Listen. Question number one?

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Speaker 1: What color is a ruby red? What was Poseidon said

723
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Speaker 1: to be the god of? That's in France? What kind

724
00:38:00,080 --> 00:38:05,360
Speaker 1: to food is scr go? That would be? I suppose

725
00:38:07,160 --> 00:38:12,799
Speaker 1: in which sport is the term love used? Oh? It's over?

726
00:38:15,400 --> 00:38:19,719
Speaker 1: And how many items? How many items are in a

727
00:38:19,800 --> 00:38:25,239
Speaker 1: Baker's dozen? Wow? Okay you have four? You got four.

728
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Speaker 1: That's that's a that's a winning score. I have no

729
00:38:28,080 --> 00:38:32,880
Speaker 1: question about. I really feel like that's a winning And

730
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Speaker 1: if you were called, we did change the rules of

731
00:38:34,520 --> 00:38:37,400
Speaker 1: tigers to paul Yes, correct, because there's really no there's

732
00:38:37,440 --> 00:38:41,080
Speaker 1: no real pride in dying in this game. Um, okay,

733
00:38:41,200 --> 00:38:46,480
Speaker 1: you're ready? Four four, Paulina TI you need a tie, Paulina,

734
00:38:46,560 --> 00:38:50,399
Speaker 1: I'm so scared, Paulina. Question number one and definitely gonna

735
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Speaker 1: be Paulina. What color is a ruby red? Do you

736
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Speaker 1: remember that? Because like ruby red mountain or whatever? Um,

737
00:39:02,400 --> 00:39:06,520
Speaker 1: squirt ruby red slippers? What was Poseidon said to be

738
00:39:06,600 --> 00:39:11,040
Speaker 1: the god of? Isn't it like the ocean or the water.

739
00:39:11,280 --> 00:39:16,920
Speaker 1: Let's go, guys, I'm telling you pull this off. My goodness.

740
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Speaker 1: In France, what kind of food is scar go? Snail's

741
00:39:28,360 --> 00:39:36,359
Speaker 1: gonna get five the first three, PA is gonna get

742
00:39:36,400 --> 00:39:38,640
Speaker 1: them all. She's got it, you guys, you don't have

743
00:39:38,800 --> 00:39:41,000
Speaker 1: I'm the only one with faith in questions to go?

744
00:39:41,320 --> 00:39:43,879
Speaker 1: Are I just I just gave this whole speech about

745
00:39:43,880 --> 00:39:46,560
Speaker 1: how smart she is. I know she's gonna lose. I

746
00:39:46,600 --> 00:39:48,759
Speaker 1: didn't say that. I did say that she was gonna listen,

747
00:39:48,760 --> 00:39:52,719
Speaker 1: all right. Two questions to go? And which sport is

748
00:39:52,719 --> 00:40:05,640
Speaker 1: the term love used? Yeah? Three? Golf? Now? Bettis tennis? Tesnis?

749
00:40:06,560 --> 00:40:09,000
Speaker 1: That next? Okay, all right, this is it. This is

750
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Speaker 1: for the time. Finally, how many items are in a

751
00:40:14,680 --> 00:40:24,920
Speaker 1: Baker's dozen? Twelve dozen? A Baker's dozen is thirteen. A

752
00:40:25,160 --> 00:40:32,960
Speaker 1: baker's does in this thirteen? That means lost three dollars

753
00:40:33,040 --> 00:40:35,960
Speaker 1: and fifty cents? You one, you're honestly I thought that

754
00:40:36,160 --> 00:40:39,399
Speaker 1: I thought she was going to get at least four. Yeah.

755
00:40:39,400 --> 00:40:42,600
Speaker 1: I was literally like, stoot, I'm not even getting armstaking.

756
00:40:42,640 --> 00:40:51,080
Speaker 1: I'm like devil smart. She's smart, which she missed bakers doesn't?

757
00:40:51,400 --> 00:40:54,440
Speaker 1: She said twelve as well? Never heard of that Baker's dozen.

758
00:40:54,800 --> 00:40:56,960
Speaker 1: It's thirteen thirteen. I think it would just be called

759
00:40:57,000 --> 00:40:59,360
Speaker 1: a dozen if it was twelve. They were trying to

760
00:40:59,360 --> 00:41:01,560
Speaker 1: trick me. That's the bakers. Doesn't you get that bonus

761
00:41:02,040 --> 00:41:05,880
Speaker 1: an extra one? Yeah, it's the difference between bakers and

762
00:41:06,160 --> 00:41:08,880
Speaker 1: just regular job regular propalling to be ordering a Baker's

763
00:41:08,880 --> 00:41:18,320
Speaker 1: doesn't be like, damn they gave me thirteen. Yeah, yeah, Hey, Lizzette,

764
00:41:18,320 --> 00:41:21,000
Speaker 1: hold on, have a good day one more time. Where

765
00:41:21,000 --> 00:41:25,359
Speaker 1: do you work? Say an Xavier again? You tell if

766
00:41:25,400 --> 00:41:26,919
Speaker 1: they're like, hey, what do you do? You aren't showing

767
00:41:26,960 --> 00:41:29,480
Speaker 1: up late, Lizette? You just your first day? First day?

768
00:41:29,520 --> 00:41:31,800
Speaker 1: You late? What do you just? You just cruise it

769
00:41:31,880 --> 00:41:33,279
Speaker 1: in here like you don't get to be like no, no, no, no,

770
00:41:33,680 --> 00:41:35,640
Speaker 1: go listen to the French show. You have three plugs

771
00:41:35,680 --> 00:41:39,759
Speaker 1: on there? Give me a right? Can't this morning? You go,

772
00:41:39,880 --> 00:41:41,440
Speaker 1: I'll have a great day. Hold on, okay, we'll get

773
00:41:41,440 --> 00:41:44,960
Speaker 1: you the money. Stay right there, all right, Cargo. I

774
00:41:45,080 --> 00:41:48,320
Speaker 1: knew that one. I'm rich. I never had a scargo. No,

775
00:41:48,600 --> 00:41:51,200
Speaker 1: but I want it's really good. I love it. It

776
00:41:51,280 --> 00:41:53,439
Speaker 1: tastes like butter. Yeah, I mean you have to really

777
00:41:53,600 --> 00:41:56,320
Speaker 1: put stuff on it. And some bread. But consistency is

778
00:41:56,440 --> 00:42:02,399
Speaker 1: with slimmy. I don't. I don't not an octopus guy.

779
00:42:02,760 --> 00:42:05,120
Speaker 1: I think it tastes okay, but I just it's too

780
00:42:06,080 --> 00:42:09,120
Speaker 1: visual aspect of it, Like I don't need Yeah, the tentacles,

781
00:42:09,320 --> 00:42:11,319
Speaker 1: I don't need to see you know, what's going on there?

782
00:42:11,400 --> 00:42:13,480
Speaker 1: Like I don't. I know, a whole fish taste good too,

783
00:42:13,560 --> 00:42:15,640
Speaker 1: but I don't need to see that. Oh I don't either.

784
00:42:15,800 --> 00:42:18,000
Speaker 1: My friend's funny. You know that documentary you loved about

785
00:42:18,080 --> 00:42:20,719
Speaker 1: the octopus, and did you finally watch it? So no, no,

786
00:42:20,800 --> 00:42:24,200
Speaker 1: I didn't. But one of my best friends watched it

787
00:42:24,280 --> 00:42:26,760
Speaker 1: and we were out to dinner and we ordered octopus

788
00:42:26,800 --> 00:42:28,160
Speaker 1: and she was like, she took a deep breath. I'm like,

789
00:42:28,200 --> 00:42:30,000
Speaker 1: what song. She's like, this is the first octopus I've

790
00:42:30,000 --> 00:42:32,759
Speaker 1: eaten since I watched that documentary. And I'm like, all right,

791
00:42:32,800 --> 00:42:35,239
Speaker 1: you got this. It's you need to watch. I think

792
00:42:35,239 --> 00:42:37,560
Speaker 1: it's what my friend the octopus or something. I don't know,

793
00:42:37,600 --> 00:42:40,439
Speaker 1: it's it's the whole thing that happens. I know, well,

794
00:42:40,440 --> 00:42:42,600
Speaker 1: I said, it's sort somewhat predictable, of course what happens,

795
00:42:42,680 --> 00:42:45,880
Speaker 1: But it's an incredible documentary. I highly recommend this. It

796
00:42:45,880 --> 00:42:48,480
Speaker 1: will it will make you cry, but it is fascinating.

797
00:42:49,320 --> 00:42:53,160
Speaker 1: I can't believe. I can't believe that this dude. I

798
00:42:53,200 --> 00:42:55,080
Speaker 1: won't give it away, but what I will say is

799
00:42:55,120 --> 00:42:58,960
Speaker 1: that the guy. There's a guy who becomes essentially friends

800
00:42:59,080 --> 00:43:02,520
Speaker 1: with an octopus in the ocean, and every day he

801
00:43:02,600 --> 00:43:04,879
Speaker 1: goes to visit the octopus, and the octopus knows it Tim,

802
00:43:05,400 --> 00:43:09,960
Speaker 1: and it's pretty wild thing. Uh, it was Poseidon who

803
00:43:10,040 --> 00:43:13,719
Speaker 1: was swimming in the ocean with the octopus, but everybody knows. Yeah, No,

804
00:43:14,120 --> 00:43:16,880
Speaker 1: that was so easy, you guys. Yeah that's an easy one. Okay,

805
00:43:17,400 --> 00:43:20,200
Speaker 1: so the Baker's doesn't. But was it for you? Is

806
00:43:20,239 --> 00:43:22,160
Speaker 1: that easy? Yeah? Okay, See I don't I never know

807
00:43:22,200 --> 00:43:24,680
Speaker 1: what people are gonna know. Yeah, and the tennis one

808
00:43:24,880 --> 00:43:28,840
Speaker 1: was pretty easy too. But love, you just told us

809
00:43:28,880 --> 00:43:30,439
Speaker 1: how rich you were, so I just figured you would

810
00:43:30,440 --> 00:43:33,440
Speaker 1: also know about tennis, okay, other other sorts of rich

811
00:43:33,520 --> 00:43:40,200
Speaker 1: people activities. Yeah. Barrington Barton had my my what it

812
00:43:40,239 --> 00:43:43,920
Speaker 1: called again, You're you're real, You're a real tour call

813
00:43:44,040 --> 00:43:46,280
Speaker 1: Viga the day and said, you've expanded your search to Barrington.

814
00:43:49,160 --> 00:43:50,680
Speaker 1: You can get a Baker's does in the best cargo

815
00:43:50,760 --> 00:44:09,360
Speaker 1: out there. Yeah, you're rich. Remember Kiss FM. The latest

816
00:44:09,440 --> 00:44:12,560
Speaker 1: entertainment news is on The Fred Show Jersey Shore star

817
00:44:12,760 --> 00:44:16,960
Speaker 1: Jenny j Wow Farley. She's engaged to her on again,

818
00:44:17,080 --> 00:44:22,239
Speaker 1: off again boyfriend Zach Carpinello aka twenty four. He's at

819
00:44:22,280 --> 00:44:24,360
Speaker 1: twenty four anymore, but that's what they called him. She

820
00:44:24,600 --> 00:44:27,439
Speaker 1: posted a photo on Instagram saying on two twenty seven,

821
00:44:27,719 --> 00:44:30,280
Speaker 1: I said yes on top of the Empire State Building.

822
00:44:30,680 --> 00:44:34,719
Speaker 1: If you remember, Zach aka twenty four flirted with Angelina

823
00:44:35,000 --> 00:44:39,080
Speaker 1: on camera in Vegas at the beginning of their relationship.

824
00:44:39,520 --> 00:44:42,000
Speaker 1: They broke up for a short time as a result

825
00:44:42,080 --> 00:44:45,120
Speaker 1: of that. Unsure if the engagement will play out on

826
00:44:45,200 --> 00:44:47,560
Speaker 1: the show, but they're currently filming a new season at

827
00:44:47,719 --> 00:44:51,320
Speaker 1: Woodlock Resort in Pennsylvania. This will be Jenny's second marriage.

828
00:44:51,440 --> 00:44:54,000
Speaker 1: She was married to Roger Matthews from twenty fifteen to

829
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Speaker 1: twenty nineteen, and the couple had two children together. Disney

830
00:44:58,760 --> 00:45:02,360
Speaker 1: Plus has stripped its Dren's movie selection of classic movies

831
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Speaker 1: like Dumbo, The Aristocrats, Lady in the Tramp, Swiss Family, Robinson,

832
00:45:07,440 --> 00:45:10,640
Speaker 1: and Peter Pam because of their racist stereotypes. On the

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Speaker 1: Stories Matter section of their website, they gave a detailed

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Speaker 1: explanation as to why each movie was being pulled. Adults

835
00:45:17,400 --> 00:45:19,600
Speaker 1: will still be able to access the movies, but they'll

836
00:45:19,600 --> 00:45:23,200
Speaker 1: be shown with disclaimers warning viewers of what's about to come.

837
00:45:23,840 --> 00:45:26,799
Speaker 1: We will post all those explanations on our website if

838
00:45:26,800 --> 00:45:29,880
Speaker 1: you want to read more about that. So, singer Zane

839
00:45:30,040 --> 00:45:32,960
Speaker 1: is slamming the Grammys ahead of the sixty third annual

840
00:45:33,000 --> 00:45:36,360
Speaker 1: award show, The Pillow Talk singer tweeted, f the Grammys

841
00:45:36,440 --> 00:45:39,839
Speaker 1: and everyone associated. Unless you shake hands and send gifts,

842
00:45:40,080 --> 00:45:43,400
Speaker 1: there's no nomination considerations next year. I'll send you a

843
00:45:43,520 --> 00:45:48,120
Speaker 1: basket of confectionery, which I think that's sweet. Yes, right, yeah,

844
00:45:48,320 --> 00:45:52,440
Speaker 1: British people say that, yeah, that's sweet in British if

845
00:45:52,480 --> 00:45:55,680
Speaker 1: you couldn't tell. Zane has yet to receive a Grammy nomination.

846
00:45:56,280 --> 00:45:59,239
Speaker 1: Hours later, he tweeted again clarifying what he was saying.

847
00:45:59,280 --> 00:46:02,080
Speaker 1: He said he was to the need for inclusion and

848
00:46:02,280 --> 00:46:06,160
Speaker 1: the lack of transparency of the process. He said, the

849
00:46:06,239 --> 00:46:10,800
Speaker 1: space that creates and allows favoritism, racism, and network networking

850
00:46:10,880 --> 00:46:14,160
Speaker 1: politics to influence the voting process. We've heard this about

851
00:46:14,200 --> 00:46:16,480
Speaker 1: the Grammy's time every time. Again. It happened with the weekend,

852
00:46:16,560 --> 00:46:18,040
Speaker 1: you know, what I'm saying, Like the one of them

853
00:46:18,080 --> 00:46:20,680
Speaker 1: to perform at the Grammys and he chose a super

854
00:46:20,719 --> 00:46:24,160
Speaker 1: Bowl and bay him no nominations. I'm yeah, are you crazy?

855
00:46:24,280 --> 00:46:26,719
Speaker 1: Right now? Yeah? It doesn't see I mean, how many

856
00:46:26,760 --> 00:46:28,480
Speaker 1: times have we heard it's it's not very fair. You

857
00:46:28,560 --> 00:46:30,399
Speaker 1: have to do what they want. You have to send

858
00:46:30,440 --> 00:46:33,319
Speaker 1: them stuff right, which is a bummer because it's such

859
00:46:33,360 --> 00:46:35,719
Speaker 1: a huge award and an honor or it used to

860
00:46:35,800 --> 00:46:37,680
Speaker 1: be at least, but now if that's the way people

861
00:46:37,760 --> 00:46:41,000
Speaker 1: get them, yeah, i mean when Beck wins like Album

862
00:46:41,040 --> 00:46:42,320
Speaker 1: of the Year, I'm like, well, okay, that was a

863
00:46:42,360 --> 00:46:48,520
Speaker 1: good album. Okay, don't you comfort back. He's a talented artist. Okay,

864
00:46:49,239 --> 00:46:52,200
Speaker 1: I'm more to talk out online today a full explanation

865
00:46:52,680 --> 00:46:55,520
Speaker 1: on why each of those Disney movies is being pulled

866
00:46:55,920 --> 00:47:00,720
Speaker 1: foot giggles. Also, the singer that's bagging the Grammys to perform,

867
00:47:00,880 --> 00:47:03,439
Speaker 1: he's actually like, please let me perform. That's un French

868
00:47:03,680 --> 00:47:09,120
Speaker 1: radio dot com. Um, okay, this is a very important

869
00:47:09,120 --> 00:47:11,880
Speaker 1: debate that we're going to have now, Um and welcome

870
00:47:11,920 --> 00:47:14,960
Speaker 1: show BICHELLI just in time to the important debate. So

871
00:47:15,120 --> 00:47:17,480
Speaker 1: there's a woman, she's a COVID nineteen survivor. Her name

872
00:47:17,560 --> 00:47:20,719
Speaker 1: is Shanda, she's forty eight, and she's become overcome by

873
00:47:20,800 --> 00:47:26,720
Speaker 1: persistent and disgusting odors, including rotting meat, burning grease, and gas.

874
00:47:27,600 --> 00:47:31,320
Speaker 1: Um that she is only this is only a symptom,

875
00:47:31,400 --> 00:47:34,759
Speaker 1: a byproduct of having coronavirus. Because she has a coronavirus,

876
00:47:34,840 --> 00:47:38,080
Speaker 1: she survives, and now apparently all she can smell is

877
00:47:38,360 --> 00:47:41,520
Speaker 1: rotting meat. She says that wine tastes like butter. Now

878
00:47:42,120 --> 00:47:48,840
Speaker 1: it's cold. Yeah, parros parros mia, prosa parros mia is

879
00:47:48,880 --> 00:47:50,680
Speaker 1: what it's called. I'm a doctor and I know this

880
00:47:51,080 --> 00:47:55,359
Speaker 1: so um. She says that she couldn't smell or taste

881
00:47:55,400 --> 00:47:58,400
Speaker 1: anything after she got the coronavirus, and the lingering effects

882
00:47:58,480 --> 00:48:02,279
Speaker 1: six months on have been my worse than the initial symptoms. Um.

883
00:48:02,560 --> 00:48:05,520
Speaker 1: She suffered from depression, anxiety, fog, brain, lost thirty five

884
00:48:05,520 --> 00:48:08,000
Speaker 1: pounds that sense up ben and also suffers from this

885
00:48:08,080 --> 00:48:10,840
Speaker 1: a condition of thestorts natural odors and makes them extremely

886
00:48:10,960 --> 00:48:17,360
Speaker 1: unpleasant or even vomit inducing. She said she was finished

887
00:48:17,400 --> 00:48:20,240
Speaker 1: with COVID nineteen and then an odor came from nowhere,

888
00:48:20,280 --> 00:48:23,280
Speaker 1: and for months she struggled with persistent odors, including burning,

889
00:48:23,360 --> 00:48:26,280
Speaker 1: grease and gas that has made her sick and unable

890
00:48:26,320 --> 00:48:31,000
Speaker 1: to eat, so she so she smells it. So I

891
00:48:31,040 --> 00:48:33,200
Speaker 1: guess this is the oldfactory. Like the smell tastes, the

892
00:48:33,239 --> 00:48:35,680
Speaker 1: whole thing's messed up and right, it's not even there. Wow,

893
00:48:35,840 --> 00:48:38,040
Speaker 1: So what's the debate? So the debate is it? Got

894
00:48:38,080 --> 00:48:43,800
Speaker 1: this caught me thinking, what is it? I love that

895
00:48:43,880 --> 00:48:47,879
Speaker 1: I sucked you in? This is great? So I thought

896
00:48:47,880 --> 00:48:50,600
Speaker 1: about going about this two ways. You know? Do you say,

897
00:48:51,000 --> 00:48:53,920
Speaker 1: if you could, if you could have one heightened sense,

898
00:48:54,680 --> 00:48:57,759
Speaker 1: which heightened sense would you want? But what I think

899
00:48:57,880 --> 00:49:01,359
Speaker 1: is a more important conversation is if you could only

900
00:49:01,480 --> 00:49:05,040
Speaker 1: have if you had to give up one sense, what

901
00:49:05,160 --> 00:49:08,160
Speaker 1: would it be? One sent you have to give it up?

902
00:49:08,239 --> 00:49:10,879
Speaker 1: In this case, this woman now basically has no taste

903
00:49:10,920 --> 00:49:14,000
Speaker 1: and smell, but you got to give up one. What

904
00:49:14,120 --> 00:49:18,160
Speaker 1: would it be? Which which sense? Of the five would

905
00:49:18,200 --> 00:49:22,239
Speaker 1: you give up? A touch? Smell? You got sight, you

906
00:49:22,360 --> 00:49:26,520
Speaker 1: got hearing, and you got a taste. And you guys

907
00:49:26,560 --> 00:49:28,400
Speaker 1: were saying you would give up taste because then you

908
00:49:28,400 --> 00:49:30,560
Speaker 1: wouldn't eat as much, and you would you love to eat.

909
00:49:30,800 --> 00:49:34,120
Speaker 1: But that's what I'm saying, I give up smell. Smell

910
00:49:34,200 --> 00:49:37,560
Speaker 1: would be mine. Can you imagine though, going through life

911
00:49:37,560 --> 00:49:40,560
Speaker 1: and not being able to eat your favorite meal. No way, Yes,

912
00:49:43,680 --> 00:49:46,200
Speaker 1: because I would still eat more. I would. I would

913
00:49:46,239 --> 00:49:48,160
Speaker 1: still lie you just like the comfort of something in

914
00:49:48,239 --> 00:50:00,200
Speaker 1: your mouth, of eating eating. Let's not go there. Okay, no,

915
00:50:00,680 --> 00:50:06,759
Speaker 1: let's go there. I would love to go there. One, three, five.

916
00:50:06,840 --> 00:50:08,320
Speaker 1: You have to give one up. They're telling you, you

917
00:50:08,360 --> 00:50:10,839
Speaker 1: know whatever. In this case, this one would probably give

918
00:50:10,960 --> 00:50:13,839
Speaker 1: up smell at this point, she probably would say forget

919
00:50:13,840 --> 00:50:16,000
Speaker 1: about it because her life is ruined now because she's

920
00:50:16,000 --> 00:50:18,759
Speaker 1: smelling rotting meat where rotting meat isn't I hope that

921
00:50:18,840 --> 00:50:22,000
Speaker 1: goes away as a result of the coronavirus. My friend

922
00:50:22,040 --> 00:50:24,560
Speaker 1: that happened to her really go eat like some seafood

923
00:50:24,600 --> 00:50:26,319
Speaker 1: and it smells different on her. She can't even sit there.

924
00:50:28,960 --> 00:50:31,080
Speaker 1: Friend Laura, we did a report on her before the

925
00:50:31,239 --> 00:50:33,880
Speaker 1: Tribune reporter. Oh okay, yeah, yeah, she's young too. I

926
00:50:33,920 --> 00:50:36,279
Speaker 1: feel bad during pregnancy. This happened too. Doesn't like things

927
00:50:36,280 --> 00:50:39,160
Speaker 1: start to taste and smell different and it messes people up. Yeah,

928
00:50:39,680 --> 00:50:42,440
Speaker 1: I think I would give up because I can smell

929
00:50:42,520 --> 00:50:45,120
Speaker 1: and taste are connected. I don't know. Let's assume they're not.

930
00:50:45,480 --> 00:50:48,040
Speaker 1: You could still eat your favorite meal because you could

931
00:50:48,040 --> 00:50:50,399
Speaker 1: still taste it. Just because you can't smell it doesn't

932
00:50:50,440 --> 00:50:53,000
Speaker 1: change the fact that you could still taste pizza. Smell

933
00:50:53,120 --> 00:50:55,120
Speaker 1: is the one I might give up because assuming that

934
00:50:55,160 --> 00:50:57,719
Speaker 1: we're not connecting them. He assuming I know they are.

935
00:50:57,800 --> 00:51:00,480
Speaker 1: But let's assume though, that I can still taste, but

936
00:51:00,600 --> 00:51:03,000
Speaker 1: I can't smell. That means all the bad smells out there.

937
00:51:03,360 --> 00:51:06,360
Speaker 1: I never have to smell exactly, you know, But I

938
00:51:06,360 --> 00:51:09,120
Speaker 1: wouldn't know if I smell bad, and then I could

939
00:51:09,160 --> 00:51:11,840
Speaker 1: be walking around smelling bad all the time, and that

940
00:51:12,440 --> 00:51:14,279
Speaker 1: would be an issue. Someone would tell you be like, hey,

941
00:51:14,320 --> 00:51:15,960
Speaker 1: you smell bad. Yeah, but I wouldn't be able to

942
00:51:16,520 --> 00:51:18,480
Speaker 1: stay up on it. Well, I can't smell myself. What

943
00:51:18,480 --> 00:51:20,440
Speaker 1: are you gonna do about it? I mean visions hearing.

944
00:51:20,840 --> 00:51:22,799
Speaker 1: I couldn't give up hearing music, not to be able

945
00:51:22,840 --> 00:51:26,360
Speaker 1: to hear music. No way, no no way, no way. Smell,

946
00:51:26,400 --> 00:51:28,400
Speaker 1: but like, what about like smelling babies or just like

947
00:51:28,480 --> 00:51:31,640
Speaker 1: smelling your doggies. You're gonna miss that pumpkin spice pumpkin

948
00:51:31,680 --> 00:51:34,600
Speaker 1: spice latte. I don't know that it's a smell of me.

949
00:51:34,840 --> 00:51:36,480
Speaker 1: There is a smell to the dog, but I don't

950
00:51:36,480 --> 00:51:38,400
Speaker 1: know that the dog smell is what does it for me?

951
00:51:38,760 --> 00:51:42,719
Speaker 1: I like, make the dog companionship. It's just the whole thing.

952
00:51:43,040 --> 00:51:44,520
Speaker 1: What about you, Shudy, which one you give up? You

953
00:51:44,600 --> 00:51:46,920
Speaker 1: gotta give up on No, and this would make radio hard.

954
00:51:46,920 --> 00:51:51,400
Speaker 1: I'm leaning towards hearing really. Oh yeah, I don't know,

955
00:51:52,000 --> 00:51:56,040
Speaker 1: because it couldn't be sight and I love. I can't

956
00:51:56,080 --> 00:51:59,400
Speaker 1: imagine not having taste and smell. Like you said, I

957
00:51:59,480 --> 00:52:02,759
Speaker 1: liked all this smells. Yeah, I mean i'd give up

958
00:52:02,800 --> 00:52:07,799
Speaker 1: touch over giving up. Okay, all right, let's go this way.

959
00:52:07,840 --> 00:52:12,320
Speaker 1: Then let's say that you can increase it would be touch, No,

960
00:52:12,520 --> 00:52:15,239
Speaker 1: it would be hearing. My hearing's not that great from

961
00:52:15,280 --> 00:52:17,600
Speaker 1: the start, so I would like to be able to

962
00:52:17,719 --> 00:52:20,560
Speaker 1: hear better. Imagine though, if touch were increasedly, if you

963
00:52:20,600 --> 00:52:24,640
Speaker 1: could like put touch on blast, then like every physical

964
00:52:24,719 --> 00:52:27,320
Speaker 1: experience would be that much better because it would be

965
00:52:27,400 --> 00:52:30,560
Speaker 1: mind blowing every time because you were like barely exist

966
00:52:30,680 --> 00:52:33,120
Speaker 1: you have like those kinds of receptors. Yeah, yeah, it

967
00:52:33,160 --> 00:52:41,200
Speaker 1: would be like you again, I'd like it's windy side.

968
00:52:44,280 --> 00:52:47,440
Speaker 1: I don't need anybody else in my life. I mean,

969
00:52:47,719 --> 00:52:52,560
Speaker 1: I would think that increased hearing would be troublesome because

970
00:52:52,760 --> 00:52:55,439
Speaker 1: now you're hearing everything, and maybe you wouldn't be able

971
00:52:55,480 --> 00:52:59,239
Speaker 1: to like sleep or relax or whatever. Um if if

972
00:52:59,320 --> 00:53:02,040
Speaker 1: I guess, if if you had intense taste every single

973
00:53:02,120 --> 00:53:04,759
Speaker 1: time you ate something, it was even more intense, I mean,

974
00:53:04,880 --> 00:53:09,440
Speaker 1: that would be cool. I guess, right, I don't know.

975
00:53:09,560 --> 00:53:11,200
Speaker 1: I don't know. This is hard. This is a hard one.

976
00:53:11,400 --> 00:53:13,200
Speaker 1: But even if you taste something bad, then it's one

977
00:53:13,280 --> 00:53:17,120
Speaker 1: hundred times that's true. That's true. Hey, Patty, good morning,

978
00:53:18,160 --> 00:53:19,800
Speaker 1: good morning. How are you guys? How do you like

979
00:53:19,920 --> 00:53:22,040
Speaker 1: the cerebral conversation that we're having right now? This is

980
00:53:22,120 --> 00:53:23,920
Speaker 1: very very deep. I mean, what would you do? Would you?

981
00:53:24,239 --> 00:53:26,279
Speaker 1: Would you? You can? You? You have to you have

982
00:53:26,360 --> 00:53:29,359
Speaker 1: to ditch one of your senses? Which one do you ditch? Well?

983
00:53:29,480 --> 00:53:32,759
Speaker 1: I actually suffer from something that's called anosmia, which means

984
00:53:32,800 --> 00:53:37,560
Speaker 1: I do not have any smell. You can't smell anything. No,

985
00:53:38,360 --> 00:53:40,839
Speaker 1: and you guys were talking about how you can still

986
00:53:40,920 --> 00:53:43,959
Speaker 1: taste food. You cannot like food. Does not taste food

987
00:53:44,040 --> 00:53:48,480
Speaker 1: to me because in real life they're connected. I'm isolating

988
00:53:48,520 --> 00:53:50,520
Speaker 1: them for the sake of this argument. But yeah, you're right,

989
00:53:50,560 --> 00:53:53,680
Speaker 1: they're connected, don't They say? Smells are super connected to memories,

990
00:53:53,800 --> 00:53:56,239
Speaker 1: like that's another thing that triggers me. Oh, really, smell?

991
00:53:56,520 --> 00:53:58,239
Speaker 1: Is that true? Do you forget everything because you can't

992
00:53:58,239 --> 00:54:02,239
Speaker 1: smell it? I really? No? No? Really? Do you just

993
00:54:02,360 --> 00:54:05,759
Speaker 1: hate eating? No? Door, do you hate eating? No? No,

994
00:54:06,160 --> 00:54:09,840
Speaker 1: I agree with Rufio. I just eat eating, thank you.

995
00:54:10,080 --> 00:54:13,120
Speaker 1: But you can't taste it. You really can't taste the food. No,

996
00:54:13,360 --> 00:54:16,840
Speaker 1: unless it's a very very strong taste, like very strong taste.

997
00:54:17,080 --> 00:54:20,680
Speaker 1: Have you had this since birth? Had? Like? No? No,

998
00:54:20,840 --> 00:54:24,080
Speaker 1: I got really sick at one point and something happened

999
00:54:24,360 --> 00:54:27,200
Speaker 1: with all of the stuff inside, So now I can't.

1000
00:54:27,400 --> 00:54:30,880
Speaker 1: I can't smell anything. What's the last thing you remember smelling? Like?

1001
00:54:31,440 --> 00:54:34,880
Speaker 1: Is there a memory you? It was good medicine, medicine.

1002
00:54:38,840 --> 00:54:43,080
Speaker 1: I'm sorry to hear that, Daddy. Yeah, that's fine. But yeah,

1003
00:54:43,120 --> 00:54:45,800
Speaker 1: if I were to give up something, it would be

1004
00:54:45,880 --> 00:54:52,399
Speaker 1: my smell. Yeah. Yeah, thank you, Patty, have a great day.

1005
00:54:52,520 --> 00:54:56,839
Speaker 1: Thank you so much too. Glad you called. Hey, Sarah, Yeah, sir,

1006
00:54:56,920 --> 00:55:00,560
Speaker 1: do you have the same thing you can't smell either? Yeah? Well,

1007
00:55:00,600 --> 00:55:03,200
Speaker 1: I was born without this sense of smell. You'd never

1008
00:55:03,320 --> 00:55:06,640
Speaker 1: have smelled anything, never in my life. But I can

1009
00:55:06,719 --> 00:55:10,040
Speaker 1: taste things, and that's how I've always tasted things forever,

1010
00:55:10,360 --> 00:55:13,880
Speaker 1: So you'll never smelled a flower or like perfume or

1011
00:55:13,960 --> 00:55:18,080
Speaker 1: something like that. No, never, And my parents like played

1012
00:55:18,120 --> 00:55:20,680
Speaker 1: it off as like my nose is just stuff all

1013
00:55:20,680 --> 00:55:22,759
Speaker 1: the time when I was a little kid. So I've

1014
00:55:22,800 --> 00:55:24,879
Speaker 1: actually like never gone to the doctor and like checked

1015
00:55:24,880 --> 00:55:27,399
Speaker 1: it out or anything. But maybe it's got a leg

1016
00:55:28,120 --> 00:55:31,279
Speaker 1: stuck up there or something. Yeah, yeah, go up there.

1017
00:55:31,320 --> 00:55:36,279
Speaker 1: Maybe there's a lego. Yeah, I don't know. I wonder

1018
00:55:36,440 --> 00:55:38,640
Speaker 1: is that, like is it a brain thing? If you mean,

1019
00:55:38,719 --> 00:55:40,080
Speaker 1: I'm sure there's a doctor in this thing who can

1020
00:55:40,120 --> 00:55:42,279
Speaker 1: explain this, but like is it a is it like

1021
00:55:42,520 --> 00:55:44,919
Speaker 1: other senses in the sensors in the nose that don't

1022
00:55:44,960 --> 00:55:46,960
Speaker 1: work for you, or is it a brain thing? Like

1023
00:55:47,040 --> 00:55:49,359
Speaker 1: I can only hear in one year, but I can

1024
00:55:49,440 --> 00:55:52,000
Speaker 1: only because I lost. The nerves don't work anymore because

1025
00:55:52,000 --> 00:55:53,680
Speaker 1: I had meningitis and when I was a little kid

1026
00:55:53,680 --> 00:55:56,600
Speaker 1: and I lost. But whatever, But I don't know, all

1027
00:55:56,640 --> 00:55:58,400
Speaker 1: the parts are there, they just don't work anymore. I

1028
00:55:58,480 --> 00:56:02,000
Speaker 1: just wonder how that is. Yeah, I think it's the

1029
00:56:02,160 --> 00:56:04,920
Speaker 1: brain thing. There's certain nerves, but I think it was

1030
00:56:05,000 --> 00:56:06,680
Speaker 1: born that way. I mean, maybe I got hit in

1031
00:56:06,719 --> 00:56:09,400
Speaker 1: the head when I was kids who at least you

1032
00:56:09,480 --> 00:56:12,239
Speaker 1: can taste, because I mean to lose both that would

1033
00:56:12,239 --> 00:56:15,800
Speaker 1: be catastrophic. Yeah. Yeah, but that's the one question I

1034
00:56:15,880 --> 00:56:18,520
Speaker 1: get all the time is aren't they connected? How do

1035
00:56:18,600 --> 00:56:21,800
Speaker 1: you taste things? So I've been able to taste things fine.

1036
00:56:22,680 --> 00:56:28,360
Speaker 1: Do you have in perpetually afraid that you smell bad? Yeah? Always?

1037
00:56:28,840 --> 00:56:31,759
Speaker 1: I asked my husband. I was like, welee smell me

1038
00:56:31,960 --> 00:56:33,920
Speaker 1: or he'll let me know if I'm getting a little stinky.

1039
00:56:34,160 --> 00:56:38,359
Speaker 1: Oh what a good man? Yeah? Wow, thank you, Sarah.

1040
00:56:38,640 --> 00:56:43,719
Speaker 1: Have a good day. You're welcome. Wow wow. Yeah, hearing

1041
00:56:43,840 --> 00:56:46,319
Speaker 1: is not the good I gotta hear. I gotta see. Yeah,

1042
00:56:46,440 --> 00:56:50,920
Speaker 1: if I have, we were choosing here. Um, maybe maybe

1043
00:56:51,239 --> 00:56:53,480
Speaker 1: smell and taste are not connected. Then I'm getting rid

1044
00:56:53,520 --> 00:56:56,640
Speaker 1: of my sense of smell. You are? Yeah, Okay, Well

1045
00:56:57,000 --> 00:56:59,919
Speaker 1: we got to the bottom of this. Um. I hope

1046
00:57:00,000 --> 00:57:02,560
Speaker 1: only gets the coronavirus and suffers from the rotting meat syndrome.

1047
00:57:04,880 --> 00:57:08,320
Speaker 1: Kiss FM fread show. You know why I'm I'm surviving

1048
00:57:08,400 --> 00:57:11,200
Speaker 1: so well during the pandemic during the quarantine, Well, one

1049
00:57:11,239 --> 00:57:14,719
Speaker 1: because I've been practicing for thirty nine years for isolation.

1050
00:57:14,840 --> 00:57:18,160
Speaker 1: The second is because researchers at the University of Exeter

1051
00:57:18,320 --> 00:57:23,080
Speaker 1: found that watching nature programming reduces feelings of boredom and sadness.

1052
00:57:23,320 --> 00:57:25,160
Speaker 1: So you guys made fun of me for watching my

1053
00:57:25,200 --> 00:57:27,800
Speaker 1: Little Octopus show last week. That was very sweet. A

1054
00:57:27,800 --> 00:57:29,760
Speaker 1: lot of people watched it, told me they cried and

1055
00:57:29,880 --> 00:57:33,920
Speaker 1: then it moved them. But yet now we have research

1056
00:57:34,160 --> 00:57:37,040
Speaker 1: that it minimizes the feeling of sadness in each volunteer,

1057
00:57:37,480 --> 00:57:41,480
Speaker 1: and each viewing option also significantly reduced boredom as well.

1058
00:57:41,720 --> 00:57:44,360
Speaker 1: You know, it's even better than that. What going outside

1059
00:57:44,480 --> 00:57:54,240
Speaker 1: and experiencing nature stop it? Why? Yeah, they talk better

1060
00:57:54,320 --> 00:57:57,000
Speaker 1: than they tied. These are the radio blogs on the

1061
00:57:57,080 --> 00:58:00,240
Speaker 1: Fred Show. I'm gonna do a blog today, dear, and

1062
00:58:00,240 --> 00:58:03,640
Speaker 1: I wonder if people can relate to this. Um, I'm

1063
00:58:03,640 --> 00:58:09,360
Speaker 1: I'm a young mom. She's in her early sixties, so yeah,

1064
00:58:09,400 --> 00:58:14,360
Speaker 1: she's young, but I will say, and then she's gonna

1065
00:58:14,360 --> 00:58:17,000
Speaker 1: get so mad at me for this, first of all,

1066
00:58:17,080 --> 00:58:19,000
Speaker 1: And I'm not even this is not a disclaimer, but

1067
00:58:19,080 --> 00:58:22,560
Speaker 1: my mom. There is no more generous, sweet, amazing human

1068
00:58:22,640 --> 00:58:24,520
Speaker 1: being than my mother. There really isn't. She's the best.

1069
00:58:25,440 --> 00:58:27,640
Speaker 1: But have you noticed, and maybe you guys, all of

1070
00:58:27,680 --> 00:58:31,200
Speaker 1: our parents are getting older. At a certain age, they

1071
00:58:31,320 --> 00:58:33,880
Speaker 1: begin to just not care what comes out of their mouths,

1072
00:58:34,800 --> 00:58:38,880
Speaker 1: like just no care is given. And it's beyond like

1073
00:58:40,720 --> 00:58:45,240
Speaker 1: my sensitivity for what's appropriate and inappropriate. It's beyond that.

1074
00:58:45,560 --> 00:58:48,560
Speaker 1: It's just whatever comes to mind. And I believe that

1075
00:58:48,680 --> 00:58:50,720
Speaker 1: in her opinion, it's just at a certain point, like

1076
00:58:50,960 --> 00:58:53,040
Speaker 1: what do I what do I care? You know what

1077
00:58:53,120 --> 00:58:58,320
Speaker 1: I mean. But she said one of the craziest things

1078
00:58:58,360 --> 00:59:03,840
Speaker 1: I've ever heard before. She she's really into kissing my

1079
00:59:04,000 --> 00:59:07,480
Speaker 1: brother in law's but now she's all over this guy. Now,

1080
00:59:08,560 --> 00:59:12,600
Speaker 1: thank you for giving me a grandchild? Yeah no, no, no, no,

1081
00:59:12,720 --> 00:59:16,360
Speaker 1: no no, no, like, like, are you I'm not jealous.

1082
00:59:16,480 --> 00:59:18,960
Speaker 1: It's just so far over the top. It's just like

1083
00:59:19,240 --> 00:59:24,080
Speaker 1: we got it. I'm not jealous. But she said to him,

1084
00:59:24,480 --> 00:59:29,480
Speaker 1: and I quote, thank you for putting that thing inside

1085
00:59:29,520 --> 00:59:35,200
Speaker 1: of my daughter so I can enjoy it. Wow, that's

1086
00:59:35,240 --> 00:59:37,520
Speaker 1: something I would probably say the things you're talking about

1087
00:59:37,560 --> 00:59:39,920
Speaker 1: the baby though she's talking about the baby. Thank you

1088
00:59:40,040 --> 00:59:46,040
Speaker 1: for other ways to say that. I mean, it was

1089
00:59:46,160 --> 00:59:50,880
Speaker 1: so uncomfortable. I love it. The mom Well, they're mary

1090
00:59:50,960 --> 00:59:53,560
Speaker 1: that lived together. This this I mean, of course, it

1091
00:59:53,760 --> 00:59:56,440
Speaker 1: is like everyone knows. I'm just there's other ways to

1092
00:59:56,600 --> 01:00:00,280
Speaker 1: say that. She's hugging on him. Thank you, you are

1093
01:00:00,400 --> 01:00:02,720
Speaker 1: so thank you for this. Thank you for putting that

1094
01:00:02,840 --> 01:00:04,760
Speaker 1: thing inside of my daughter so I can enjoy it.

1095
01:00:04,880 --> 01:00:09,280
Speaker 1: I'm like, oh, why are you hug mom? Thing weren't

1096
01:00:09,360 --> 01:00:18,720
Speaker 1: too okay? Well, honestly, I can't guess I'm that like,

1097
01:00:18,840 --> 01:00:25,360
Speaker 1: I just that's why I draw the line. That's where

1098
01:00:25,360 --> 01:00:30,960
Speaker 1: I draw the line. That's not what he want, that's

1099
01:00:31,000 --> 01:00:32,520
Speaker 1: what he meant. That's why you put the picture of

1100
01:00:32,600 --> 01:00:35,320
Speaker 1: my son on your Instagram to show your mom's Like,

1101
01:00:37,680 --> 01:00:40,400
Speaker 1: I just you know what, I'm not. I'm not jealous.

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01:00:40,480 --> 01:00:43,280
Speaker 1: I'm actually happy. To believe it or not, I really am.

1103
01:00:43,400 --> 01:00:46,840
Speaker 1: I'm happy because this thing has come full circle. This

1104
01:00:47,000 --> 01:00:50,560
Speaker 1: guy went from being persona non grata to now he's

1105
01:00:50,640 --> 01:00:54,880
Speaker 1: like cherished. Feel really good about that. He should know

1106
01:00:55,080 --> 01:00:57,640
Speaker 1: he should, and I'm actually happy. I'm not jealous about it.

1107
01:00:57,720 --> 01:00:59,760
Speaker 1: Is that gonna get him early entry into the circle

1108
01:00:59,800 --> 01:01:04,200
Speaker 1: of trust? Nope, it's the inner circle. Because even if

1109
01:01:04,240 --> 01:01:06,920
Speaker 1: my mom votes yes, I have a vote too, and

1110
01:01:07,040 --> 01:01:11,120
Speaker 1: it took me many it took me many decades, or

1111
01:01:11,560 --> 01:01:15,840
Speaker 1: like unanimous vote, majority are unanimous. I don't know. I'm

1112
01:01:15,880 --> 01:01:19,240
Speaker 1: not jealous of him, though, I'm happy for them. Um.

1113
01:01:19,760 --> 01:01:22,240
Speaker 1: If anything, I'm jealous of the baby. If anything, I'm

1114
01:01:22,280 --> 01:01:24,880
Speaker 1: jealous of the baby because everything's going to be dictated

1115
01:01:25,040 --> 01:01:29,080
Speaker 1: around the comfort and desires of this child. My life

1116
01:01:29,080 --> 01:01:31,720
Speaker 1: will be affected by what's best for the kid, which

1117
01:01:31,800 --> 01:01:36,120
Speaker 1: is fine. Age. No I'm not, But you're asking me

1118
01:01:36,120 --> 01:01:38,120
Speaker 1: who I'm jealous of. I'm not jealous of my brother

1119
01:01:38,160 --> 01:01:40,680
Speaker 1: in law. I'm jealous of the baby. I'm not jealous.

1120
01:01:40,800 --> 01:01:44,360
Speaker 1: Is exactly what someone who's jealous jealous. But I just

1121
01:01:44,480 --> 01:01:46,920
Speaker 1: admitting when I'm jealous of the baby, Well that's we

1122
01:01:47,040 --> 01:01:49,720
Speaker 1: got to talk about that too. Cool. It's a baby.

1123
01:01:49,920 --> 01:01:53,120
Speaker 1: That baby's gonna live the most beautiful life ever. Look,

1124
01:01:53,120 --> 01:01:54,520
Speaker 1: if I had happy for the baby, if I have

1125
01:01:54,600 --> 01:01:56,560
Speaker 1: to reincarnate, I want to come back happy for it.

1126
01:01:56,640 --> 01:02:00,200
Speaker 1: I'm jealous of At the same time, it's taking way

1127
01:02:00,200 --> 01:02:02,320
Speaker 1: a lot of my shine, okay, and I like the

1128
01:02:02,440 --> 01:02:05,320
Speaker 1: shine in my family, and now the baby's getting all

1129
01:02:05,320 --> 01:02:07,200
Speaker 1: the shine, and so I need to make a baby

1130
01:02:07,280 --> 01:02:09,560
Speaker 1: someday is what's gonna But the other issue that I'm

1131
01:02:09,600 --> 01:02:12,480
Speaker 1: having more important is I have a little bit of

1132
01:02:12,520 --> 01:02:17,600
Speaker 1: baby fever. You know, I have a little bit of

1133
01:02:19,680 --> 01:02:21,640
Speaker 1: you know, I don't want one. I don't want one.

1134
01:02:22,120 --> 01:02:24,440
Speaker 1: You know, I'm not ready for that. But I'm really

1135
01:02:24,520 --> 01:02:27,680
Speaker 1: embracing this uncle life. Like even with little Ashland, I

1136
01:02:27,880 --> 01:02:29,720
Speaker 1: was he didn't like me too much, but boy, I

1137
01:02:29,840 --> 01:02:32,760
Speaker 1: like hugging him. Yeah, maybe maybe he come around some more. Friend,

1138
01:02:32,800 --> 01:02:35,240
Speaker 1: he know who you are. Well, you know I don't

1139
01:02:35,240 --> 01:02:40,400
Speaker 1: typically invite myself over to other people's solves. So yeah,

1140
01:02:43,840 --> 01:02:48,200
Speaker 1: I mean uncle friend just knocked every now and again.

1141
01:02:48,200 --> 01:02:50,080
Speaker 1: It would be like, did we in my chair? No?

1142
01:02:50,200 --> 01:02:53,800
Speaker 1: We definitely we didn't. If you say come during these

1143
01:02:53,880 --> 01:02:56,680
Speaker 1: times that I will. I will get visitation. Okay, but

1144
01:02:56,840 --> 01:02:58,640
Speaker 1: I need to do better. I need to do better

1145
01:02:58,800 --> 01:03:01,160
Speaker 1: with Ashland. I need to do better with my godson.

1146
01:03:01,440 --> 01:03:03,600
Speaker 1: I need to do better that I will do better

1147
01:03:03,680 --> 01:03:06,080
Speaker 1: with my my assumed to be niece. But I'm I'm

1148
01:03:06,320 --> 01:03:09,080
Speaker 1: I'm very much embracing this uncle role. I think it's

1149
01:03:09,160 --> 01:03:12,560
Speaker 1: perfect for me. It's exactly what I need. It's that

1150
01:03:12,720 --> 01:03:17,600
Speaker 1: touch of a baby without all the responsibility of the photos.

1151
01:03:19,520 --> 01:03:21,640
Speaker 1: You're gonna go viral. A lot of people commented on

1152
01:03:21,720 --> 01:03:23,480
Speaker 1: that one I put on my Instagram friend on air

1153
01:03:23,640 --> 01:03:25,720
Speaker 1: from Yeah, someone was just like, yo, I'll give you

1154
01:03:25,800 --> 01:03:29,520
Speaker 1: a baby, friend, and whatever you would say and yes,

1155
01:03:29,640 --> 01:03:32,520
Speaker 1: he you know, he was a little frightened. But you know,

1156
01:03:33,000 --> 01:03:35,040
Speaker 1: I think we've come a long way since my awkward

1157
01:03:35,120 --> 01:03:37,080
Speaker 1: holding of him a year ago. You know, we've come

1158
01:03:37,080 --> 01:03:39,760
Speaker 1: a long way and I have and he did smile.

1159
01:03:39,920 --> 01:03:43,320
Speaker 1: I mimicked Kaylin's you know, baby whisperer stuff. But it

1160
01:03:43,440 --> 01:03:45,480
Speaker 1: worked a little bit. He was okay with me, you

1161
01:03:45,600 --> 01:03:48,800
Speaker 1: know whatever. He didn't scream, he didn't cry. No, he

1162
01:03:48,960 --> 01:03:53,360
Speaker 1: just wanted to be with you. Yeah, you know. So anyway,

1163
01:03:53,880 --> 01:03:57,400
Speaker 1: you got baby fever oway, Yes, I do really being

1164
01:03:57,440 --> 01:04:00,880
Speaker 1: an answer that wouldn't do it. No, And I don't

1165
01:04:00,880 --> 01:04:03,640
Speaker 1: expect anybody to have babies in my family for a

1166
01:04:03,680 --> 01:04:05,680
Speaker 1: long time. Some of responsibilities on me. Well, that was

1167
01:04:05,680 --> 01:04:08,800
Speaker 1: a big question. You're gonna pull the goalie? Interesting? Uh

1168
01:04:09,240 --> 01:04:10,960
Speaker 1: do you do you? And this is a personal question.

1169
01:04:10,960 --> 01:04:12,280
Speaker 1: You don't even have to answer this, but do you

1170
01:04:13,000 --> 01:04:14,440
Speaker 1: do you see this happening? I know you have a

1171
01:04:14,480 --> 01:04:16,600
Speaker 1: boyfriend of two years? Do you see this happening in order?

1172
01:04:16,880 --> 01:04:29,800
Speaker 1: Three years? Sorry? I'm sorry two yeah too too? Really, relationship?

1173
01:04:32,960 --> 01:04:35,440
Speaker 1: Do you do you want it to happen in order?

1174
01:04:35,520 --> 01:04:37,439
Speaker 1: Or do you care? Would you take the baby before

1175
01:04:37,480 --> 01:04:40,720
Speaker 1: the wedding? I would take it before the wedding cabably. Yeah,

1176
01:04:40,880 --> 01:04:43,480
Speaker 1: so are you trying No, well I have to see

1177
01:04:43,560 --> 01:04:48,320
Speaker 1: my boyfriend first for that to happen. Yeah try, um

1178
01:04:48,760 --> 01:04:52,920
Speaker 1: no not. I'm like right on the cusp. I'm like like,

1179
01:04:53,120 --> 01:04:56,280
Speaker 1: screw it. Yeah, we're doing it. Yeah, because I get

1180
01:04:56,360 --> 01:04:59,080
Speaker 1: that and I respect that. You were like, hey, look,

1181
01:05:00,000 --> 01:05:02,160
Speaker 1: I'm not gonna I'm not gonna rush a wedding to

1182
01:05:02,320 --> 01:05:04,040
Speaker 1: have the baby, but I know I'm gonna be with you,

1183
01:05:04,160 --> 01:05:07,320
Speaker 1: So whatever happens happens. I respect that. That's sort of

1184
01:05:07,400 --> 01:05:09,600
Speaker 1: my feelings. Yes, that is there. Those are my feelings.

1185
01:05:09,640 --> 01:05:16,280
Speaker 1: You can start a frangie or not a daycare. Are

1186
01:05:16,320 --> 01:05:20,520
Speaker 1: you trying to wait so he's not long distance? Yeah,

1187
01:05:20,600 --> 01:05:23,480
Speaker 1: we're trying to figure out his schedule and what's gonna

1188
01:05:23,480 --> 01:05:25,840
Speaker 1: go out because he's in the military. So did you

1189
01:05:25,960 --> 01:05:29,520
Speaker 1: tell him like I am Shobi Shelley, I am lay

1190
01:05:29,560 --> 01:05:32,760
Speaker 1: in that day Chicago. No, I'm so, I don't know

1191
01:05:32,880 --> 01:05:39,320
Speaker 1: it from whatever I am. I am chic Chicago is

1192
01:05:39,400 --> 01:05:42,520
Speaker 1: me when I said, because when we first started dating

1193
01:05:42,640 --> 01:05:44,200
Speaker 1: and we had that question like what do you do

1194
01:05:44,320 --> 01:05:45,880
Speaker 1: for a living? I was like, Oh, I'm on the radio,

1195
01:05:45,880 --> 01:05:48,360
Speaker 1: and then oh, and like you know, that's oh, I'm sho.

1196
01:05:48,880 --> 01:05:53,720
Speaker 1: He's like, what what is that? What a great feeling?

1197
01:05:53,760 --> 01:05:56,480
Speaker 1: I actually really enjoyed it, Like like he he's gonna

1198
01:05:56,520 --> 01:05:58,960
Speaker 1: have to adjust to the fact that you live in Chicago, right,

1199
01:05:59,040 --> 01:06:00,880
Speaker 1: Like that's the way that goes. We'll have to see

1200
01:06:01,240 --> 01:06:04,920
Speaker 1: yeah really, yeah, you'd leave town for him? Yeah? What

1201
01:06:05,120 --> 01:06:07,880
Speaker 1: did for him? Yeah? I mean she's in love. I

1202
01:06:07,920 --> 01:06:14,560
Speaker 1: don't know. We have to see how wow wow on No,

1203
01:06:15,000 --> 01:06:17,560
Speaker 1: I know that, but I mean, you know, you've established

1204
01:06:17,640 --> 01:06:19,160
Speaker 1: this media I mean not' that you would be off

1205
01:06:19,200 --> 01:06:21,320
Speaker 1: the radio, but you've established this media empire. I just

1206
01:06:21,440 --> 01:06:24,760
Speaker 1: figured that that was like if somebody dates me, we

1207
01:06:24,920 --> 01:06:29,440
Speaker 1: live here, that's I mean, you know, yeah, but I

1208
01:06:29,600 --> 01:06:31,720
Speaker 1: live here. You risk it all, you know. You know,

1209
01:06:31,760 --> 01:06:33,920
Speaker 1: you put in twenties plus years to get to the

1210
01:06:34,080 --> 01:06:36,200
Speaker 1: you know. And I'm not saying that anyone else's life

1211
01:06:36,240 --> 01:06:38,520
Speaker 1: is less important than mine, because it's not. But I

1212
01:06:38,640 --> 01:06:40,840
Speaker 1: mean there are certain you know, I feel like there's

1213
01:06:40,880 --> 01:06:43,400
Speaker 1: certain career paths where you get to a certain point

1214
01:06:43,880 --> 01:06:46,480
Speaker 1: and you can't leave it, you know what I mean, Like,

1215
01:06:46,640 --> 01:06:48,320
Speaker 1: I don't know, you get to the pros in the

1216
01:06:48,840 --> 01:06:51,640
Speaker 1: Major League Baseball, you move, you get to the NBA,

1217
01:06:51,840 --> 01:06:54,680
Speaker 1: you move. This is radio's NBA. You're looking at it.

1218
01:06:54,880 --> 01:06:57,360
Speaker 1: The woman you meet is a baller, and you don't

1219
01:06:57,360 --> 01:07:01,840
Speaker 1: need to work anymore for you guys. Later a Food

1220
01:07:01,880 --> 01:07:02,439
Speaker 1: Fred show