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Speaker 1: Mom transmitting Eliza, Welcome to Monday Show Morning Studio.

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Speaker 2: I want to start with a scammeler. This is us

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Speaker 2: looking out for you. An executive has revealed how cyber

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Speaker 2: criminals managed to scam her out of four hundred thousand

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Speaker 2: dollars over her dream home. So she's bidding on the house.

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Speaker 2: She gets a message going, hey, let's do your down payment,

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Speaker 2: and so she does. Thinks she's got the house, so

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Speaker 2: she sends over three hundred and ninety eight thousand dollars

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Speaker 2: to a Chase account. Oh well, now I've made it brief.

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Speaker 2: I'm not sure. I'm sure there were some steps. But

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Speaker 2: the next day she then got a duplicate request for

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Speaker 2: the down payment, which then she realized she had been

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Speaker 2: scammed by the Oh my gosh, initial because she wants

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Speaker 2: she does her house. She then had the house. She

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Speaker 2: beat the people out or they backed out of it,

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Speaker 2: so everything was right. But somehow somebody knew and went

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Speaker 2: to her and said, okay, wire over your payment, and

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Speaker 2: she did, and then she was tricked into sitting her

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Speaker 2: life savings to a criminal rather than the title company.

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Speaker 3: That's terrible.

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Speaker 2: That's terrible.

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Speaker 4: I guess yeah, I pick up the phone called the

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Speaker 4: title company.

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Speaker 2: Make sure, I mean, but you're talking about somebody highly educated.

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Speaker 4: No, I know, I mean everything was just a reminder

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Speaker 4: that you can't trust anything.

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Speaker 3: You're gonna like double check and verify.

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Speaker 2: So there's another one, and this is this is more

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Speaker 2: of a scam that I think our listeners would fall for,

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Speaker 2: not me now, not maybe me then. But I'd just

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Speaker 2: like to say that up front. I think this is

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Speaker 2: one scam Alert too of the morning, Thank you Meta,

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Speaker 2: which is Facebook is dealing with a wave of scams

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Speaker 2: targeting It's not funny adult man. A criminal poses as

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Speaker 2: an attractive woman, basically catfishes, gets into a text texting relationship. Hey,

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Speaker 2: send me nude photos. Then they do sends nud photos

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Speaker 2: and then they go, got you. If you don't give

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Speaker 2: me money, I will extort you. They are extorting them.

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Speaker 2: I will put these out and say it's you. Yeah, man. See.

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Speaker 2: The scams are most common on Instagram and Snapchat. Meta

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Speaker 2: says it's received tons of people reporting it and remove

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Speaker 2: more than sixty three thousand accounts that we're trying to

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Speaker 2: do the scam sixty three thousand.

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Speaker 5: I can see that, I mean too, I can see

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Speaker 5: that hotty slides in and you're like, oh, man, like woo,

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Speaker 5: she wants.

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Speaker 2: A pick, I'll give her a pick. CBS News with

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Speaker 2: that story, that that is one I could see a

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Speaker 2: lot of dudes falling for I can't but wow.

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Speaker 4: But also, you know, that number is so much higher

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Speaker 4: because there's so many guys that don't want to report

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Speaker 4: it because.

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Speaker 2: They're great, they just pay the money.

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Speaker 4: They pay the money, or they're just hoping, you know, well,

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Speaker 4: my face isn't really in.

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Speaker 2: It, or yeah, that's the thing, dude, if you're gonna

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Speaker 2: do this, don't put your face in it. Then it's like, okay, go.

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Speaker 4: Ahead, still indicators that it could be you.

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Speaker 2: You gotta look real close. Okay, don't put your face

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Speaker 2: in it. Yeah, that's a big part of it.

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Speaker 4: Just don't send pictures of someone on the internet you

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Speaker 4: don't know.

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Speaker 2: But then if you want to get to know them more.

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Speaker 2: I under staying if you're single, I understand. I'm just

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Speaker 2: saying I can see where a lot of guys would

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Speaker 2: fall into that trap.

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Speaker 3: Yeah, I'm telling you it's way more than that.

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Speaker 2: Oh yeah, gidding, we probably know somebody in this room

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Speaker 2: has done that. And by the way, there's so many

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Speaker 2: scams going around. Like for me, LifeLock has been mad.

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Speaker 2: First of all, I'm not taking pictures of my junk.

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Speaker 2: I'm married. But like, LifeLock has been awesome for me

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Speaker 2: when people because sometimes I'll get those things like you,

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Speaker 2: some of your information has been discovered on the dark web.

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Speaker 2: I'll get that message. You forget that from lifelog.

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Speaker 4: Yeah, I mean I get lots of notifications, but I'm

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Speaker 4: so on guard that I'm like, is this really LifeLock?

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Speaker 2: But if you get lots of notifications, I think you're probably.

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Speaker 4: I'm just saying when they come in, when they come in,

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Speaker 4: but I appreciate them and I know that I can

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Speaker 4: truss them.

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Speaker 3: They've never failed me.

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Speaker 2: Save up to forty percent now with LifeLock. Just looked

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Speaker 2: it up promo code bones. Go to lifelog dot com

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Speaker 2: promo code bones if you want to get up to

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Speaker 2: forty percent off. I've been a LifeLock user for years

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Speaker 2: and years and years, and they'll even it'll be like, hey,

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Speaker 2: your information has been discovered, and it's like it's like

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Speaker 2: a password or go change it, and then I just

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Speaker 2: go change it and I don't click on anything. It's

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Speaker 2: just it's weird. We should go back to dumb phones again.

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Speaker 4: Everybody but me, Well, yeah, it's just I mean, it's

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Speaker 4: there's so many different ways that their website getting the links,

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Speaker 4: the links.

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Speaker 2: I don't click any links. Yeah, I don't click any links.

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Speaker 2: You friends and game mail and reading it all the air.

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Speaker 2: It's something we call Bobby fail that. Yeah, hello, Bobby bones.

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Speaker 2: After two decades of marriage, I'm back into the dating scene.

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Speaker 2: I am legitimately terrified. Things have changed so much. I

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Speaker 2: feel like one wrong move can ruin everything. One of

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Speaker 2: my big things is wondering how to pay for the

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Speaker 2: first date. Now, I just assume that if I'm the

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Speaker 2: one that asked her out, then I'm the one that's paying. However,

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Speaker 2: I haven't dated in twenty years. Times and attitudes have changed.

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Speaker 2: How do I address this without making it a thing?

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Speaker 2: Signed recently divorced Daniel, So generally speaking, recently divorced Daniel.

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Speaker 2: Just pay Yep, that's it, here's the dude.

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Speaker 3: And if that's what you want to do, do you

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Speaker 3: do it?

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Speaker 2: I would say, depending on where you live, I would

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Speaker 2: just say do it. I would just say, dude pays

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Speaker 2: on the first date. The end, and I blanket that

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Speaker 2: because it's the safest way to go back many moons ago.

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Speaker 2: I've been married three years now and my wife four

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Speaker 2: when I was dating, and that's a century ago too,

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Speaker 2: and that was only five years ago. I only had

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Speaker 2: one or two instances ever where someone was a bit

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Speaker 2: offended that I just paid up from. Mostly it was

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Speaker 2: just kind of the understood. And you know what, if

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Speaker 2: you ask you for sure, should and if she asks.

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Speaker 4: Still yeah, I think if you have a desire to

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Speaker 4: do it, and if she says, hey, no, I'd really

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Speaker 4: like to do it, you can say, look, I asked

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Speaker 4: you out, I'd love to buy your own too much.

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Speaker 2: It'd be like, no, I got it. Okay, fine, explanation.

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Speaker 2: You don't need ted talk.

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Speaker 3: That wasn't that long. It was I asked you I

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Speaker 3: was going to end like two words later.

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Speaker 2: Okay, what were the two words.

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Speaker 3: I asked you out? I'm paying boom two words.

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Speaker 2: I would say, not only that it is cool if

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Speaker 2: she goes for the grab. I always appreciated a grab.

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Speaker 2: Hell no, let me help, Yes, you would I appreciated

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Speaker 2: the grab, never accept the grab. Yes, multiple Morgan, you've

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Speaker 2: dated more recent than the of us. Your thoughts on this.

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Speaker 6: Yeah, I mean I think you go for it. I

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Speaker 6: think first dates are typically understood in that way. Whoever

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Speaker 6: asked out who is the one who's paying for it?

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Speaker 6: So if you're doing the asking out, then it's you.

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Speaker 6: I don't think that conversation starts to come up to

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Speaker 6: like a few dates in and if what you value,

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Speaker 6: if you want someone to start splitting in paying, then

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Speaker 6: you're looking for that in a person, and that you'll

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Speaker 6: figure that out pretty quickly if there's someone who's only

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Speaker 6: using you to pay for it.

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Speaker 3: So I think you offer what you're willing to put

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Speaker 2: Recently divorced Daniel, generally speaking, just pay pay, We'll pay

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Speaker 2: pay dates one through three and then you can fit

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Speaker 2: you can feel out the rest.

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Speaker 4: Something I'm not sure that I know the answer to is,

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Speaker 4: you know, lunchbox as a married man splits all the

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Speaker 4: finances with his wife. But when they started dating, how

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Speaker 4: how when did it start splitting up in the dating.

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Speaker 7: Phase really early on?

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Speaker 3: Like which date?

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Speaker 7: Amy, you know how long that was? Date number four?

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Speaker 2: Yeah? All right, thank you, Daniel, good luck. That's how

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Speaker 2: we feel about it. Close it up. We got your

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Speaker 2: gamemail and we laid it on the air. Now let's

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Speaker 2: find a close Bobby failed die Yam. The question is

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Speaker 2: is this prank funny or is it unfunny slash inappropriate? Okay,

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Speaker 2: so who did the pranking?

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Speaker 4: So my niece has a boyfriend. He's very sweet and kind.

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Speaker 4: For the summer, she's living with me and he lives

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Speaker 4: in Oklahoma, but they both go to school in Colorado.

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Speaker 4: So he's home with his parents for the summer and

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Speaker 4: they were having this family event, so they invited her

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Speaker 4: know if I can get a ticket. So they paid

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Speaker 4: for everything and booked it and he's the one that

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Speaker 4: went online and did everything well. On her flight back

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Speaker 4: to Nashville to me, the staff is speaking to her

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Speaker 4: really slowly and really loud, like she's being called to

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Speaker 4: what and they're like talking to her like she's hard

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Speaker 4: So it turns out it's really awkward for her in

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Speaker 4: the moment. But then she was telling her boyfriend about

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Speaker 4: it and he's like, oh yeah, I booked your stuff.

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Speaker 4: I put that you were hard of hearing and need

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Speaker 2: And that's hilarious.

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Speaker 3: She's kind it was awkward.

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Speaker 2: That's a keeper. He's a keeper. I don't know, he's

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Speaker 2: a keeper. That's so funny. I don't know. People may

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Speaker 2: be offended by me saying that's funny, that's so funny.

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Speaker 4: Well, it wasn't like he went so far to take

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Speaker 4: resources from someone that really needed them, you know, like

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Speaker 4: it wasn't that far.

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Speaker 3: It was just she just was like, why what.

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Speaker 2: That's so funny.

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Speaker 3: She's like, I can hear you.

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Speaker 2: She's got to be wondering, why are people treating me

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Speaker 2: like this? What is happening? She didn't understand that I do,

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Speaker 2: or say he clicked a button that said she needed

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Speaker 4: If you can ride in something when you're doing it,

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Speaker 4: I don't know, but he's like, oh yeah, that was me.

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Speaker 4: He just laughed, and then she laughed with him. But then,

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Speaker 4: of course we were debating it at home. We're like, oh, yeah,

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Speaker 4: this we don't want to be insensitive, but then I

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Speaker 4: don't I didn't want to be stick in the mud

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Speaker 4: because I think it's fun that she's found someone that

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Speaker 4: can be a little playful and that will poke fun

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Speaker 4: at her and you know, pull a trick on her

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Speaker 4: like that.

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Speaker 2: I'm sure there are people that are going to find

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Speaker 2: it insensitive.

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Speaker 8: I do not.

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Speaker 2: I think it's very funny. I think that nobody was

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Speaker 2: hurt right, and she was confused. I think it's hilarious.

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Speaker 2: I give it a plus. And I think this is

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Speaker 2: the kind of stuff that like continues to last to

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Speaker 2: a relationship and always keeps you on your toes in

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Speaker 2: a good way. That's funny, lunchbox, you have to love that.

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Speaker 2: And one time, all I need to do is be

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Speaker 3: Yeah, but then if you end up crashing, you're likely

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Speaker 2: No, most people survived plane crashes. Oh gosh.

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Speaker 4: Yeah, well I was assuming your yours wouldn't.

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Speaker 2: And I've learned how to survive. I've taken classes on YouTube.

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Speaker 2: like we like it, ninety five percent, that's the plane

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Speaker 3: Is it considered a plane crash though?

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Speaker 4: If they like lose their wheel and even that's high.

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Speaker 2: But I don't know, but even that would be high

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Speaker 2: that would be even ninety five percent there would be high.

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Speaker 7: Yeah, like where you clip wings.

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Speaker 2: All right, thank you. That really wasn't what it's all about.

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Speaker 7: That was tell me something good.

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Speaker 2: Maybe what is your list?

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Speaker 4: So I came across a list of things that our

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Speaker 3: Day to day.

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Speaker 4: Obvious It's not like what you breathe Okay, got it, okay,

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Speaker 2: Sleep is a big, big, big part.

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Speaker 2: Favorite versus what do I eat are two different things.

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Speaker 2: My favorite is chicken fried steak with white gravy, fried

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Speaker 3: This is who makes up who you are.

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Speaker 2: Yeah, okay, that's who I want. That's who I wish

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Speaker 3: Your favorite book, the type of book to read.

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Speaker 2: Favorite book. The book I've read the most is called

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Speaker 2: Born Standing Up by Steve Martin. I'm not a big

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Speaker 2: That book I've read twice or maybe three times and

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Speaker 2: read that three times. Oh the thing four Agreement or

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Speaker 2: agement four Agreements. It's super small. That book will change

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Speaker 2: your life for like three months at a time. Really, yeah,

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Speaker 3: I just still can't get down the not being offended

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Speaker 2: Those are three books. I don't know why am I

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Speaker 3: When it comes to habits that build you, what's your best.

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Speaker 2: Habit Making sure that I exercise, and not even for

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Speaker 3: Yep, I was going to do you have you've always

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Speaker 2: I'm miserable and I hate it and I don't even know.

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Speaker 2: Sometimes it's terrible. I hate it.

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Speaker 3: But being on time is another good habit you have.

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Speaker 2: Yeah, I would say that, but to me, it's not.

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Speaker 2: It's not that hard to be on time a little early.

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Speaker 3: That makes sense.

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Speaker 4: Yeah, your favorite media to consume TikTok?

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Speaker 3: Your favorite relationship to nurture.

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Speaker 2: Well, that one's easy. It's my wife. But I think

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Speaker 2: because I never had that. So with my wife, I

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Speaker 2: It's not about that. It's about me just dedicating myself

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Speaker 4: But I would also say, like, in your effort to

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Speaker 2: That's even harder for me. We talked about that in

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Speaker 2: can you go and hand me the remote. I don't

437
00:19:45,240 --> 00:19:46,359
Speaker 2: ever ask her to do any of that because I

438
00:19:46,440 --> 00:19:48,040
Speaker 2: was like, I don't want to. I'm gonna be weak.

439
00:19:48,760 --> 00:19:50,840
Speaker 2: It's vulnerable. I'm getting get at myself. It's such a

440
00:19:50,840 --> 00:19:55,320
Speaker 2: tiny thing. But we talked about that where it's like, again,

441
00:19:55,480 --> 00:19:58,280
Speaker 2: not a masculinity thing. It's a vulnerability thing where if

442
00:19:58,280 --> 00:20:01,399
Speaker 2: I can't get up and get something, I guess I'm weak.

443
00:20:02,240 --> 00:20:04,960
Speaker 2: It's so baseline like child, But.

444
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Speaker 4: That's speaking of a child, Like wait till you have children,

445
00:20:07,800 --> 00:20:10,760
Speaker 4: because that's when stuff about you really starts to come out.

446
00:20:11,000 --> 00:20:13,080
Speaker 4: Like you're learning more about yourself as you learn how

447
00:20:13,119 --> 00:20:15,200
Speaker 4: to nurture your relationship with your wife.

448
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Speaker 3: I mean, you get kids, bring all kinds.

449
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Speaker 4: Of things right well, and then your thoughts, like what's

450
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Speaker 4: the thought you try to focus on each day?

451
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Speaker 2: Oh, I think it's probably the unhealthy thought. Not unhealthy,

452
00:20:36,520 --> 00:20:38,399
Speaker 2: how much I focus on it has been. Unhealthy is

453
00:20:38,400 --> 00:20:40,800
Speaker 2: making sure that I get in and out of everything

454
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Speaker 2: at the dedicated times. My calendar is kind of my

455
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Speaker 2: daily guide to where I'm going, when I'm going, and

456
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Speaker 2: what I'm going to do. And if I have an

457
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Speaker 2: hour set with somebody. Let's say you and I have

458
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Speaker 2: a meeting for an hour and it's a big meeting,

459
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Speaker 2: but I have a meeting coming up after that for

460
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Speaker 2: an hour, it doesn't matter what we're At that fifty

461
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Speaker 2: nine minute mark, I gotta go. I'm out. I leave

462
00:21:00,440 --> 00:21:03,000
Speaker 2: because it's not fair to the next person. And I

463
00:21:03,040 --> 00:21:06,040
Speaker 2: want the understanding of if we dedicate an hour, you're

464
00:21:06,040 --> 00:21:08,600
Speaker 2: gonna get my full hour. But then I gotta go

465
00:21:09,160 --> 00:21:11,040
Speaker 2: and do the next thing. And I think all the

466
00:21:11,080 --> 00:21:13,120
Speaker 2: time about how am I gonna get the most out

467
00:21:13,160 --> 00:21:16,440
Speaker 2: of this situation. That's my thought about every situation all day.

468
00:21:17,080 --> 00:21:18,760
Speaker 2: Like today, I'm thinking of four things I've got to

469
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Speaker 2: do today, and I wish I did it as much,

470
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Speaker 2: but I also understand like without that, whatever that trauma is,

471
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Speaker 2: I wouldn't be successful. So it's definitely I've.

472
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Speaker 3: Been on my podcast what are the four things?

473
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Speaker 2: The four things are Number one, I just want to

474
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Speaker 2: be liked.

475
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Speaker 3: And then lastly, how the amount of sleep you're getting

476
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Speaker 3: each night?

477
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Speaker 2: So I can tell you last night at a pretty

478
00:21:38,960 --> 00:21:42,080
Speaker 2: good night night before I didn't because I came on

479
00:21:42,160 --> 00:21:43,600
Speaker 2: there and I was like, I don't get any sleep.

480
00:21:44,080 --> 00:21:46,159
Speaker 2: But I'm and again not a commercial here, but the

481
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Speaker 2: sleep number. What's I got an eighty three sleep score?

482
00:21:49,560 --> 00:21:53,280
Speaker 2: That's massive for oh, well, it's a massive great night.

483
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Speaker 2: And I got six hours and twenty six minutes of sleep,

484
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Speaker 2: which is amazing for me. That is like the ninety percentile.

485
00:22:00,880 --> 00:22:02,800
Speaker 2: The night before I got four hours and fifteen minutes.

486
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Speaker 2: What has helped us a bunch because my wife freezes

487
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Speaker 2: at night, because I keep the ear on sixty one

488
00:22:07,560 --> 00:22:12,639
Speaker 2: when we sleep, we now use that sleep number cool

489
00:22:12,760 --> 00:22:14,480
Speaker 2: one side of the bed and not the other. And

490
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Speaker 2: because my bed is cooler, we don't turn the air

491
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Speaker 2: down as much. It's helped tremendously hurt in me.

492
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Speaker 3: And your bill.

493
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Speaker 2: Sixty one, dude, Sure I have an idea that's expensive? Yeah,

494
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Speaker 2: I don't see the bill. I don't know.

495
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Speaker 4: And thinking of that too, that's thinking of like how

496
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Speaker 4: we evolve in life, because I'm sure a lot of

497
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Speaker 4: your thoughts that you used to focus on each day

498
00:22:35,119 --> 00:22:36,679
Speaker 4: when you were younger would be like, how am I

499
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Speaker 4: going to pay for this?

500
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Speaker 3: How am I going to do this? How am I

501
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Speaker 3: going to be?

502
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Speaker 4: Like?

503
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Speaker 10: How?

504
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Speaker 3: And then now your.

505
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Speaker 2: Thoughts are if I don't keep it going I'm gonna

506
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Speaker 2: be pay for anything, but I'm not gonn worry about that

507
00:22:44,600 --> 00:22:46,200
Speaker 2: because i got ten things to do. Yeah yeah, yeah

508
00:22:46,240 --> 00:22:48,959
Speaker 2: at all. But I feel, i mean, healthier now than

509
00:22:48,960 --> 00:22:52,120
Speaker 2: I've ever felt. But that one constant influence on that

510
00:22:52,200 --> 00:22:54,600
Speaker 2: health physically and mentally is my wife, because she is

511
00:22:56,200 --> 00:22:59,000
Speaker 2: she has a time early on beat it into me,

512
00:22:59,240 --> 00:23:03,239
Speaker 2: and now she can can unicate it pretty effortlessly. Just

513
00:23:03,480 --> 00:23:08,159
Speaker 2: priorities what is going to last and what isn't and

514
00:23:08,200 --> 00:23:08,840
Speaker 2: not in a bad way.

515
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Speaker 4: I mean, I think it's you. You met, you finally

516
00:23:12,000 --> 00:23:13,920
Speaker 4: met someone that is just the worst match.

517
00:23:13,760 --> 00:23:17,480
Speaker 2: And she hate I hate it when she's right, and

518
00:23:17,520 --> 00:23:19,200
Speaker 2: it happens all the time. So sometimes I don't argue

519
00:23:19,200 --> 00:23:20,760
Speaker 2: back because I know her record of being right is

520
00:23:20,920 --> 00:23:24,520
Speaker 2: really high. It sucks and it's great.

521
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Speaker 3: And it's worth it, like you met someone that was.

522
00:23:27,000 --> 00:23:29,240
Speaker 2: Oh yeah, that's worth me, because it is.

523
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Speaker 3: Otherwise you just hate losing.

524
00:23:31,720 --> 00:23:34,639
Speaker 2: Yeah, And there I lose, and I shouldn't look at

525
00:23:34,640 --> 00:23:37,320
Speaker 2: everything as a competition. According to my therapist, sometimes I lose.

526
00:23:38,119 --> 00:23:42,520
Speaker 2: I hate it, but losing more to her makes you go, well,

527
00:23:42,560 --> 00:23:44,240
Speaker 2: it's not so bad losing because actually learned from it.

528
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Speaker 2: There you go.

529
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Speaker 1: I know.

530
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Speaker 2: She's also almost twelve years younger than I am, and

531
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Speaker 2: that isn't I'm like, how can someone be that she

532
00:23:51,440 --> 00:23:53,720
Speaker 2: still but she grew up way different than I did,

533
00:23:53,760 --> 00:23:56,280
Speaker 2: has way different priorities, learned a lot of different things.

534
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Speaker 2: It's also far more educated than I am too, but

535
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Speaker 2: I think that matters less than like her life experiences.

536
00:24:03,080 --> 00:24:05,720
Speaker 4: Yeah, and y'all's yeah, your upbringings were so different and

537
00:24:05,720 --> 00:24:09,920
Speaker 4: a lot of that early like attachment stuff. We all

538
00:24:09,960 --> 00:24:12,280
Speaker 4: have the things, but she would, I would say, was

539
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Speaker 4: in a more secure environment.

540
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Speaker 2: Shout out China, shout out sleep number Yeah, second tig

541
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Speaker 2: talk in my bed, which is which is changed it? All?

542
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Speaker 10: All right?

543
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Speaker 2: Amy, thank you for that. There were going on the

544
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Speaker 2: Bobby Bones Show. Now, seeing you guys in a few years.

545
00:24:24,880 --> 00:24:25,760
Speaker 2: Good to see you guys again.

546
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Speaker 11: Good to see you.

547
00:24:26,800 --> 00:24:29,080
Speaker 2: What's been crazy? Is the last time that I talked

548
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Speaker 2: to you? Because you came over to the house and

549
00:24:31,000 --> 00:24:32,920
Speaker 2: we did an hour together. I think's the first time

550
00:24:32,920 --> 00:24:35,879
Speaker 2: we met. And at that time, and I'll tell this

551
00:24:35,920 --> 00:24:38,920
Speaker 2: to Amy, they were awesome. I mean, they were as good,

552
00:24:38,920 --> 00:24:41,280
Speaker 2: but they were still playing on Broadway down at the

553
00:24:41,280 --> 00:24:44,119
Speaker 2: bar scene. They were like making it. But I was like, man,

554
00:24:44,119 --> 00:24:46,720
Speaker 2: they're so good. They're playing at Dirks's bar like a residency,

555
00:24:47,160 --> 00:24:48,600
Speaker 2: and now they were playing the ACM or the song

556
00:24:48,720 --> 00:24:51,879
Speaker 2: last at the ACM Awards on Amazon's really cool.

557
00:24:52,000 --> 00:24:52,480
Speaker 3: Quite different.

558
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Speaker 4: When you're at the ACM Awards you're like, so can

559
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Speaker 4: we put the tip jar out right?

560
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Speaker 8: I mean, I hate to bring it up, but since

561
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Speaker 8: we're talking about it, yeah, I know.

562
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Speaker 11: Really ye difference.

563
00:25:00,800 --> 00:25:02,520
Speaker 10: We haven't shared this story, but actually on the way

564
00:25:02,520 --> 00:25:04,159
Speaker 10: home because we had a radio show the next day

565
00:25:04,160 --> 00:25:07,159
Speaker 10: after the ACM Awards, on our flight home, Dirks was

566
00:25:07,200 --> 00:25:09,919
Speaker 10: actually on our flight and he was sitting first class.

567
00:25:09,920 --> 00:25:13,360
Speaker 10: We were not, but I walked by him and I said, hey,

568
00:25:13,400 --> 00:25:15,600
Speaker 10: derk X tirely Gold and he's like, oh my gosh.

569
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Speaker 10: From Whiskey Row to winning your first ACM Award. That

570
00:25:18,600 --> 00:25:20,240
Speaker 10: was a really full circle moment for us.

571
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Speaker 11: So that was really really.

572
00:25:21,400 --> 00:25:25,639
Speaker 2: Cool and not uncommon, meaning a lot of our favorite

573
00:25:25,720 --> 00:25:28,479
Speaker 2: artists played Broadway, you know, and there early. I just

574
00:25:28,960 --> 00:25:30,399
Speaker 2: it was cool enough for me to talk to you

575
00:25:30,480 --> 00:25:34,160
Speaker 2: guys then. And now you're here and you've won an ACM,

576
00:25:34,240 --> 00:25:37,280
Speaker 2: you played a big national show. It's it's crazy to

577
00:25:37,280 --> 00:25:38,800
Speaker 2: see the success you guys have. Had. Do you feel

578
00:25:38,840 --> 00:25:40,320
Speaker 2: the success or do you still feel like you're in

579
00:25:40,359 --> 00:25:42,280
Speaker 2: the grind just begging for anybody's attention.

580
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Speaker 8: Both?

581
00:25:43,160 --> 00:25:43,680
Speaker 2: Yeah, both.

582
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Speaker 8: We're very much in the middle of it, like we're

583
00:25:46,080 --> 00:25:48,680
Speaker 8: getting to do everything we've ever wanted in cool huge

584
00:25:48,680 --> 00:25:51,520
Speaker 8: moments like ACMs, but then we're still renting an SUV

585
00:25:51,560 --> 00:25:53,840
Speaker 8: and driving ten hours to make our first stadium show.

586
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Speaker 11: It's such a weird, fun time that we're in right now.

587
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Speaker 8: We're just in the middle of everything, but we feel

588
00:25:59,119 --> 00:26:02,120
Speaker 8: like career starting to boom. People are really starting to care,

589
00:26:02,160 --> 00:26:04,160
Speaker 8: which is awesome. But we go home and live very

590
00:26:04,200 --> 00:26:05,480
Speaker 8: normal lives otherwise.

591
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Speaker 2: Have you guys been back to North Dakota.

592
00:26:07,640 --> 00:26:10,520
Speaker 10: Yeah, we've been back twice this summer. We went and

593
00:26:10,520 --> 00:26:11,920
Speaker 10: did two headlining shows, one.

594
00:26:11,800 --> 00:26:14,560
Speaker 8: In Fargo that's awesome, and one in man Dan It

595
00:26:14,600 --> 00:26:15,800
Speaker 8: was our biggest headlining show.

596
00:26:15,920 --> 00:26:17,560
Speaker 2: Yeah, you felt like home showed up.

597
00:26:17,720 --> 00:26:19,440
Speaker 10: Oh yeah, I mean we've been doing this for almost

598
00:26:19,480 --> 00:26:21,439
Speaker 10: twelve years now, and a lot of those people they

599
00:26:21,480 --> 00:26:24,520
Speaker 10: supported us, you know, since we started writing songs, you know,

600
00:26:24,560 --> 00:26:26,760
Speaker 10: in the basement of our house. And so to go

601
00:26:26,840 --> 00:26:29,679
Speaker 10: back and just say thank you for being part of

602
00:26:29,680 --> 00:26:30,600
Speaker 10: this journey.

603
00:26:30,359 --> 00:26:33,320
Speaker 11: Is We'll always do that. That's always a goal of ours.

604
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Speaker 2: The record came out on Friday called Blonde. You're both

605
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Speaker 2: very blond.

606
00:26:37,560 --> 00:26:39,160
Speaker 11: Yes, really very blond.

607
00:26:39,359 --> 00:26:42,440
Speaker 2: Yeah, you're both very blond. And so you know we

608
00:26:42,480 --> 00:26:44,400
Speaker 2: want to play something. I know you have your guitar. Yeah,

609
00:26:44,440 --> 00:26:46,240
Speaker 2: I didn't ask you to bring it to just hold

610
00:26:46,280 --> 00:26:46,960
Speaker 2: it so that it.

611
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Speaker 11: Does look pretty.

612
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Speaker 2: It does, it's very shiny. Yeah. How about by the way,

613
00:26:51,680 --> 00:26:54,679
Speaker 2: Tiger Lily Gould, they are here. Do you want to

614
00:26:54,720 --> 00:26:55,760
Speaker 2: do I try to ring on?

615
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Speaker 11: We would love that.

616
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Speaker 2: Okay, do you guys want to hear you? Guys are

617
00:26:58,600 --> 00:27:01,359
Speaker 2: gonna leave you guys again, making we check, make sure

618
00:27:01,359 --> 00:27:01,960
Speaker 2: everybody's good.

619
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Speaker 11: Don't leave us.

620
00:27:02,880 --> 00:27:05,280
Speaker 2: No, No, we're not here. They are Tiger Lily Gold,

621
00:27:05,520 --> 00:27:07,000
Speaker 2: and this is I try to ring on.

622
00:27:07,160 --> 00:27:08,800
Speaker 11: Yes, I was gonna say this song already has a

623
00:27:08,840 --> 00:27:10,640
Speaker 11: sense of abandonment. So you can't leave us now.

624
00:27:10,760 --> 00:27:13,640
Speaker 7: So oh, I'm sorry.

625
00:27:13,880 --> 00:27:17,199
Speaker 2: We can't post the live performance on the podcast, but

626
00:27:17,280 --> 00:27:19,760
Speaker 2: if you go to our YouTube page, you can watch

627
00:27:19,800 --> 00:27:24,600
Speaker 2: it there or maybe listen live. Okay, all right, now

628
00:27:24,720 --> 00:27:25,840
Speaker 2: back to the podcast.

629
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Speaker 11: Thank you.

630
00:27:29,520 --> 00:27:31,720
Speaker 2: How do you guys feel about that performance? That was awesome.

631
00:27:32,240 --> 00:27:33,680
Speaker 2: I wouldn't say it if I didn't mean it because

632
00:27:33,680 --> 00:27:36,080
Speaker 2: my listener would be like, you're full of crap. But

633
00:27:36,200 --> 00:27:38,199
Speaker 2: that performance, how do you when you finish that? How

634
00:27:38,200 --> 00:27:39,679
Speaker 2: do you feel about that performance you just did?

635
00:27:39,880 --> 00:27:41,800
Speaker 11: I feel good. We can tell too when it's not

636
00:27:41,840 --> 00:27:42,240
Speaker 11: our best.

637
00:27:42,400 --> 00:27:44,720
Speaker 2: Yeah, you know you should feel good because that was awesome.

638
00:27:44,800 --> 00:27:45,480
Speaker 11: Thank you so much.

639
00:27:46,080 --> 00:27:48,359
Speaker 4: Do you stop each other and you're like, okay, it's

640
00:27:48,640 --> 00:27:49,679
Speaker 4: can you recognize it's you?

641
00:27:49,760 --> 00:27:52,760
Speaker 11: Or do you think it's brutal? Willis Will be like

642
00:27:52,800 --> 00:27:55,360
Speaker 11: you're off. I'm like, I know, I mean, I.

643
00:27:55,320 --> 00:27:57,919
Speaker 10: Will take accountability too if it was me. But like

644
00:27:58,119 --> 00:28:00,879
Speaker 10: we do a lot of national anthems, and if we

645
00:28:00,920 --> 00:28:03,320
Speaker 10: sing the national anthem and there was like a little

646
00:28:03,359 --> 00:28:07,159
Speaker 10: pitchy moment, we like, you know where we record ourselves

647
00:28:07,200 --> 00:28:09,639
Speaker 10: when we practice on our iPhone and we're very brutal,

648
00:28:09,680 --> 00:28:11,359
Speaker 10: like we play it back like how are people listening

649
00:28:11,359 --> 00:28:11,560
Speaker 10: to this?

650
00:28:11,640 --> 00:28:13,320
Speaker 11: And we try to perfect it as much as we can.

651
00:28:13,720 --> 00:28:15,480
Speaker 2: That's me with every show I ever did. How do

652
00:28:15,520 --> 00:28:18,640
Speaker 2: people listen to this? Yeah? When I do? So, you're

653
00:28:18,640 --> 00:28:20,959
Speaker 2: not twins? I know this, but indulging me? Are you twins?

654
00:28:21,400 --> 00:28:21,840
Speaker 4: No?

655
00:28:21,840 --> 00:28:22,720
Speaker 3: No sisters?

656
00:28:22,800 --> 00:28:23,000
Speaker 2: Yeah?

657
00:28:23,000 --> 00:28:26,240
Speaker 11: Two years apart? So we function as twins though, Yeah, and.

658
00:28:26,280 --> 00:28:28,119
Speaker 2: You're both blonde, which is the name of the record.

659
00:28:28,320 --> 00:28:31,600
Speaker 2: But what I like is that so if people meeting

660
00:28:31,720 --> 00:28:34,480
Speaker 2: the first time, they know Kendra has the shorter hair,

661
00:28:34,520 --> 00:28:36,679
Speaker 2: but you have your name on your guitar strap. It's

662
00:28:36,720 --> 00:28:39,640
Speaker 2: that strategic, so people don't call, don't mix you guys up.

663
00:28:39,960 --> 00:28:41,600
Speaker 8: Yeah, at first, I just thought it was a birthday

664
00:28:41,640 --> 00:28:44,400
Speaker 8: gift actually from Kendra. Yeah, so she really wanted people

665
00:28:44,400 --> 00:28:46,640
Speaker 8: to know my name apparently. Yeah, but yeah, it is

666
00:28:46,720 --> 00:28:50,040
Speaker 8: nice so people have like have a little name tag an' hilarious. Yeah,

667
00:28:50,120 --> 00:28:53,240
Speaker 8: I'm like Krista here I am. It's not even Tiger Lily, Golden,

668
00:28:53,360 --> 00:28:55,160
Speaker 8: no Christ, it's really self promotions.

669
00:28:55,280 --> 00:28:57,520
Speaker 2: So yeah, that's funny. Okay, So I want to talk

670
00:28:57,520 --> 00:29:00,600
Speaker 2: about some some debuts for you guys. What were your

671
00:29:00,880 --> 00:29:02,040
Speaker 2: national television debut?

672
00:29:02,120 --> 00:29:03,320
Speaker 11: What was that The Today Show?

673
00:29:03,640 --> 00:29:05,120
Speaker 2: Oh that's when you have to wake up really early?

674
00:29:05,200 --> 00:29:05,880
Speaker 11: Huh yeah, I.

675
00:29:05,840 --> 00:29:08,120
Speaker 10: Mean our band was I think it was three am.

676
00:29:08,200 --> 00:29:10,240
Speaker 10: They were there sound checking. We didn't go till about

677
00:29:10,280 --> 00:29:13,360
Speaker 10: five am, but we started glam you know, lamb early.

678
00:29:13,520 --> 00:29:15,560
Speaker 10: That was pretty cool, though, I'm not gonna lie to

679
00:29:15,840 --> 00:29:18,680
Speaker 10: Adrenaline gets you through moments like that though, And.

680
00:29:18,880 --> 00:29:20,600
Speaker 2: How did you feel about that performance.

681
00:29:21,040 --> 00:29:23,800
Speaker 11: Good God. We try to rise to the occasion.

682
00:29:23,800 --> 00:29:25,360
Speaker 10: You know, we're at the point in our career where

683
00:29:25,560 --> 00:29:27,920
Speaker 10: we've been doing this a long time. We've played Broadway,

684
00:29:27,920 --> 00:29:29,480
Speaker 10: we were playing Broadway, like you said, when we had

685
00:29:29,560 --> 00:29:30,440
Speaker 10: signed a record deal.

686
00:29:30,560 --> 00:29:32,920
Speaker 11: We only did three shows after that podcast, by the way.

687
00:29:33,360 --> 00:29:34,840
Speaker 10: But we've been doing this a long time, so we

688
00:29:34,920 --> 00:29:39,240
Speaker 10: really try to rise to every occasion and opportunity given

689
00:29:39,280 --> 00:29:39,520
Speaker 10: to us.

690
00:29:39,520 --> 00:29:39,960
Speaker 11: At this point.

691
00:29:40,040 --> 00:29:43,480
Speaker 10: I mean, we're not we are not perfect, nowhere near perfect,

692
00:29:43,920 --> 00:29:44,800
Speaker 10: but we try to.

693
00:29:44,720 --> 00:29:45,560
Speaker 11: Do our mess.

694
00:29:45,640 --> 00:29:47,280
Speaker 8: I think it's just because we've waited so long for

695
00:29:47,320 --> 00:29:49,480
Speaker 8: these opportunities that we really care and try to do

696
00:29:49,560 --> 00:29:50,440
Speaker 8: our personal best.

697
00:29:50,480 --> 00:29:50,920
Speaker 11: Obviously.

698
00:29:51,040 --> 00:29:52,280
Speaker 2: Yeah, I have a clip of you guys on my

699
00:29:52,280 --> 00:29:54,240
Speaker 2: podcast where I'm predicting you guys' future. I want to

700
00:29:54,240 --> 00:29:56,080
Speaker 2: play a clip now. I bet you guys only played

701
00:29:56,120 --> 00:29:57,640
Speaker 2: three more shows before you stopped playing and then you

702
00:29:57,680 --> 00:30:00,240
Speaker 2: went an ACM. So that was a clip from the podcast.

703
00:30:01,320 --> 00:30:02,240
Speaker 11: Did you say ACM?

704
00:30:02,440 --> 00:30:02,680
Speaker 2: Yeah?

705
00:30:02,960 --> 00:30:03,479
Speaker 11: Spot on?

706
00:30:03,600 --> 00:30:04,200
Speaker 2: No, I just made it.

707
00:30:06,360 --> 00:30:08,360
Speaker 11: Yeah, I didn't know the three shows?

708
00:30:08,440 --> 00:30:10,320
Speaker 2: Yeah, yeah, no, but I didn't even predict that then.

709
00:30:10,360 --> 00:30:12,680
Speaker 2: I was just doing it inspired us to quit, you know, Yeah,

710
00:30:13,160 --> 00:30:15,240
Speaker 2: sorry about that. Okay, So that was good. How about

711
00:30:15,240 --> 00:30:17,000
Speaker 2: the Opry, Oh, that was the.

712
00:30:17,000 --> 00:30:20,040
Speaker 8: Most nervous we've ever been, I will say for something. Yeah, o,

713
00:30:20,080 --> 00:30:22,480
Speaker 8: our Opry debut was May thirteenth of last year. Ashon

714
00:30:22,560 --> 00:30:25,440
Speaker 8: McBride asses to make our debut and we had traveled

715
00:30:25,760 --> 00:30:27,760
Speaker 8: twenty two to twenty four hours. Our parents had drove

716
00:30:27,840 --> 00:30:29,200
Speaker 8: us down to go to the Grand Ole Opry for

717
00:30:29,280 --> 00:30:30,840
Speaker 8: the first time about ten years ago.

718
00:30:31,360 --> 00:30:34,240
Speaker 11: So it's yeah, North.

719
00:30:34,080 --> 00:30:37,880
Speaker 8: Dakotas far and we're western North Dakota's like four hours

720
00:30:37,920 --> 00:30:38,400
Speaker 8: from Fargo.

721
00:30:38,600 --> 00:30:42,560
Speaker 10: Yeah, okay, if that makes sense to anyone, But yeah,

722
00:30:42,560 --> 00:30:44,240
Speaker 10: we drove down to Nashville for the first time. We

723
00:30:44,240 --> 00:30:47,000
Speaker 10: saw Rascal Flats play there, and ever since that we

724
00:30:47,000 --> 00:30:49,320
Speaker 10: were like, how cool would it be to be on

725
00:30:49,360 --> 00:30:51,480
Speaker 10: that stage someday? And then to be there, Yeah, that

726
00:30:51,480 --> 00:30:53,200
Speaker 10: was the most nervous we've ever been. But to be

727
00:30:53,240 --> 00:30:55,960
Speaker 10: in the circle, share a hug together, really take in

728
00:30:56,000 --> 00:30:59,840
Speaker 10: that moment. And now we've played almost thirteen times since,

729
00:31:00,280 --> 00:31:02,400
Speaker 10: which is pretty pretty awesome.

730
00:31:02,440 --> 00:31:04,040
Speaker 11: We do not take that for granted one bit.

731
00:31:04,200 --> 00:31:06,800
Speaker 2: What about and talk about your award show debut and

732
00:31:06,840 --> 00:31:09,560
Speaker 2: how you felt doing a massive show like the ACMs.

733
00:31:09,880 --> 00:31:11,880
Speaker 11: Well, I will say that's all nerve. That's nerve wracking

734
00:31:11,920 --> 00:31:12,320
Speaker 11: for sure.

735
00:31:12,400 --> 00:31:14,280
Speaker 10: It didn't sit in until we went backstage and we

736
00:31:14,280 --> 00:31:16,920
Speaker 10: saw the list of performers, and then we're in between

737
00:31:17,000 --> 00:31:21,920
Speaker 10: Kelsey Ballerini and Cody Johnson and Jelly Rolls walking backstage

738
00:31:21,920 --> 00:31:23,920
Speaker 10: and He's given us a pep talk before we go on,

739
00:31:24,160 --> 00:31:28,400
Speaker 10: and then Lany's back there. I mean, just being in

740
00:31:28,400 --> 00:31:31,120
Speaker 10: that moment and knowing like we are probably the least

741
00:31:31,160 --> 00:31:33,840
Speaker 10: known person on this lineup tonight, and we are totally

742
00:31:33,880 --> 00:31:36,360
Speaker 10: aware of that, and to have that opportunity and to

743
00:31:36,400 --> 00:31:38,400
Speaker 10: go this is maybe one of the first times we're

744
00:31:38,440 --> 00:31:41,560
Speaker 10: being introduced to the country audience on this scale, on

745
00:31:41,600 --> 00:31:45,080
Speaker 10: this level. So we I told Christo, we've practiced, practiced

746
00:31:45,120 --> 00:31:46,840
Speaker 10: this song a million times. If we mess up, it

747
00:31:46,920 --> 00:31:48,160
Speaker 10: is not from lack of preparation.

748
00:31:48,320 --> 00:31:49,320
Speaker 11: It just is what it is.

749
00:31:49,360 --> 00:31:51,960
Speaker 10: But I always know that I have my sister next

750
00:31:51,960 --> 00:31:54,400
Speaker 10: to me in all situations, so if anything does go wrong.

751
00:31:54,440 --> 00:31:56,240
Speaker 10: But I will say at the end of that performance,

752
00:31:56,640 --> 00:31:58,640
Speaker 10: I looked over at her because she doesn't sing like

753
00:31:58,680 --> 00:32:01,320
Speaker 10: the last twenty second and so the song and I

754
00:32:01,320 --> 00:32:03,920
Speaker 10: could see her getting emotional and you know this it's

755
00:32:03,920 --> 00:32:07,480
Speaker 10: a more serious song. But I right away went over

756
00:32:07,520 --> 00:32:09,240
Speaker 10: to her and just I had to hugger at the end.

757
00:32:09,120 --> 00:32:09,400
Speaker 11: Of that day.

758
00:32:09,480 --> 00:32:12,480
Speaker 8: Those are moments you you're growing up in North Dakota

759
00:32:12,520 --> 00:32:15,000
Speaker 8: as young girls, and you're like, I wrote a time

760
00:32:15,040 --> 00:32:16,960
Speaker 8: capsule to myself in seventh grade, like you better be

761
00:32:17,000 --> 00:32:18,880
Speaker 8: in Nashville, you better be winning a bunch of awards,

762
00:32:18,920 --> 00:32:20,440
Speaker 8: you better be doing all these things, and for it

763
00:32:20,480 --> 00:32:22,960
Speaker 8: to actually happen is just absolutely crazy. Even if you

764
00:32:23,000 --> 00:32:26,320
Speaker 8: work super hard for it, not everybody gets those opportunities.

765
00:32:27,680 --> 00:32:29,280
Speaker 2: Did you guys play in high school together? Were you

766
00:32:29,280 --> 00:32:30,200
Speaker 2: known as the Singing Sisters?

767
00:32:30,440 --> 00:32:30,640
Speaker 4: Yeah?

768
00:32:30,680 --> 00:32:33,920
Speaker 10: Yeah, we've always been the Singing Sisters. Chris started writing

769
00:32:33,920 --> 00:32:36,200
Speaker 10: when she was ten, and I started writing when I

770
00:32:36,240 --> 00:32:39,479
Speaker 10: was thirteen. So by fourteen and sixteen we had started

771
00:32:39,480 --> 00:32:41,720
Speaker 10: our band and we were touring like schools like we

772
00:32:41,760 --> 00:32:45,160
Speaker 10: would as we'd be motivational speakers to people our own age.

773
00:32:45,360 --> 00:32:46,320
Speaker 2: Was it just you two though?

774
00:32:46,520 --> 00:32:46,680
Speaker 10: Yees?

775
00:32:46,840 --> 00:32:48,880
Speaker 11: Yeah yeah when our parents would drive us around.

776
00:32:48,960 --> 00:32:50,600
Speaker 2: Yeah, but it was just you two in the band.

777
00:32:50,720 --> 00:32:53,400
Speaker 2: Oh yeah, okay, And so get Tony Robbins to kids

778
00:32:53,440 --> 00:32:53,920
Speaker 2: your own age.

779
00:32:53,960 --> 00:32:56,360
Speaker 10: Literally, we're going into schools and we're like dream big

780
00:32:56,440 --> 00:32:59,400
Speaker 10: kids when you know, we're just getting started. Like hilarious,

781
00:32:59,440 --> 00:33:02,320
Speaker 10: but we're Tiger Lily at fourteen and sixteen. We chose

782
00:33:02,360 --> 00:33:04,120
Speaker 10: a name outed on gold a couple of years ago,

783
00:33:04,200 --> 00:33:06,920
Speaker 10: but it's been the same. But North Dakota gave us

784
00:33:06,920 --> 00:33:09,880
Speaker 10: a lot of opportunity because there wasn't necessarily a ton

785
00:33:10,080 --> 00:33:12,400
Speaker 10: of people doing what we were doing. So, you know,

786
00:33:12,720 --> 00:33:14,680
Speaker 10: an act would come into town and we get to

787
00:33:14,720 --> 00:33:16,400
Speaker 10: open the show, or you know, we'd go into a

788
00:33:16,440 --> 00:33:19,600
Speaker 10: school and do some motivational speaking and singing or whatever

789
00:33:19,680 --> 00:33:22,480
Speaker 10: local county fair was going on, we'd be booked. So

790
00:33:22,520 --> 00:33:24,680
Speaker 10: that really gave us a lot of confidence, a lot

791
00:33:24,680 --> 00:33:26,920
Speaker 10: of experience. And then when we moved to Nashville, we

792
00:33:26,960 --> 00:33:29,680
Speaker 10: knew that we were going to be starting from square

793
00:33:29,720 --> 00:33:31,600
Speaker 10: one again because we weren't going to be in North

794
00:33:31,680 --> 00:33:35,000
Speaker 10: Dakota anymore, and it kind of was starting all over.

795
00:33:35,120 --> 00:33:37,600
Speaker 10: But yeah, that really prepared us and gave us the

796
00:33:37,640 --> 00:33:39,680
Speaker 10: confidence we needed to move.

797
00:33:40,040 --> 00:33:42,640
Speaker 2: Singing family, no, not at all.

798
00:33:42,760 --> 00:33:45,360
Speaker 11: Mom and Dad. We have a younger sister named Carly.

799
00:33:45,440 --> 00:33:45,960
Speaker 11: She's lovely.

800
00:33:46,040 --> 00:33:48,120
Speaker 8: We tried to make her, you know, be in the

801
00:33:48,160 --> 00:33:50,200
Speaker 8: trio was an no go for her. She's about to

802
00:33:50,240 --> 00:33:52,560
Speaker 8: graduate college. But none of them are musical.

803
00:33:52,960 --> 00:33:53,680
Speaker 11: I don't know where we.

804
00:33:53,600 --> 00:33:56,480
Speaker 10: Got it from, honestly, but they have always supported us

805
00:33:56,560 --> 00:33:58,320
Speaker 10: in every step of the way. I mean, our dad

806
00:33:58,360 --> 00:34:01,440
Speaker 10: would drive us to show. He would he learned how

807
00:34:01,480 --> 00:34:02,000
Speaker 10: to do sound.

808
00:34:02,280 --> 00:34:04,120
Speaker 8: I did have to fire him from sound, but he

809
00:34:04,280 --> 00:34:07,400
Speaker 8: tried his best, you know, he you know, he did

810
00:34:07,400 --> 00:34:09,440
Speaker 8: good on acoustic shows. It was the full bait, A

811
00:34:09,520 --> 00:34:13,520
Speaker 8: lot to expect. He's a great respiratory therapist. Yes, respiratory

812
00:34:13,560 --> 00:34:15,040
Speaker 8: therapist needs go to crushing.

813
00:34:15,280 --> 00:34:19,040
Speaker 2: Yes, Yeah, music's out now. I been waiting forever for

814
00:34:19,160 --> 00:34:21,160
Speaker 2: just to be like here it is. Yeah, one of

815
00:34:21,160 --> 00:34:24,040
Speaker 2: those countdowns and your own your own internal countdown clock.

816
00:34:24,160 --> 00:34:24,359
Speaker 11: Yeah.

817
00:34:24,400 --> 00:34:26,920
Speaker 8: We started writing for this record. We wrote Blonde was

818
00:34:26,920 --> 00:34:27,959
Speaker 8: the first song we wrote for the record.

819
00:34:28,000 --> 00:34:30,320
Speaker 11: Wrote that three years ago. So it's been a while.

820
00:34:30,560 --> 00:34:33,440
Speaker 8: We've gone through so many different personal experiences in three years,

821
00:34:33,719 --> 00:34:37,239
Speaker 8: career experiences, but these songs still stand the test of

822
00:34:37,239 --> 00:34:38,680
Speaker 8: time for us. It's still what we want to say

823
00:34:38,680 --> 00:34:41,880
Speaker 8: who we are? Ten little pieces of Tiger Lily Gold.

824
00:34:42,239 --> 00:34:44,240
Speaker 2: I mean anything for the ladies from We're.

825
00:34:44,080 --> 00:34:47,520
Speaker 4: Gonna ask which song like spending three years with it, like,

826
00:34:47,800 --> 00:34:50,080
Speaker 4: what's the song like? If someone were to pick one

827
00:34:50,120 --> 00:34:51,880
Speaker 4: song to listen to, what would y'all say.

828
00:34:52,480 --> 00:34:53,080
Speaker 11: That's so hard.

829
00:34:53,080 --> 00:34:54,440
Speaker 10: Well, we just played I try to ring on. That's

830
00:34:54,440 --> 00:34:56,200
Speaker 10: my favorite song we wrote for the record, but well.

831
00:34:56,120 --> 00:34:56,719
Speaker 3: It's mine too.

832
00:34:56,800 --> 00:34:58,319
Speaker 4: But I feel like because we've been playing it on

833
00:34:58,320 --> 00:35:00,000
Speaker 4: Women of My Heart Country so much, thank.

834
00:34:59,880 --> 00:35:00,719
Speaker 11: You used to it.

835
00:35:01,000 --> 00:35:04,880
Speaker 8: So what's another one? So I think this is really exciting.

836
00:35:05,160 --> 00:35:06,840
Speaker 10: We didn't write this song, but we did put a

837
00:35:06,880 --> 00:35:11,920
Speaker 10: cover of Bleeding Love by Leona Lewis on our record. Yeah, yeah, yeah,

838
00:35:12,440 --> 00:35:14,759
Speaker 10: seventeen years old, which is crave of that song so

839
00:35:14,840 --> 00:35:17,080
Speaker 10: much growing up and yet seventeen years old. And we

840
00:35:17,120 --> 00:35:18,960
Speaker 10: would play it down on Broadway all the time, and

841
00:35:19,000 --> 00:35:21,839
Speaker 10: because it was a different cover than everyone else would do,

842
00:35:22,280 --> 00:35:24,279
Speaker 10: but it just the bar would light up when we

843
00:35:24,520 --> 00:35:26,160
Speaker 10: play it. And then when we got off Broadway, we

844
00:35:26,239 --> 00:35:29,439
Speaker 10: continued to play it again and again, and mister Shane

845
00:35:29,480 --> 00:35:32,520
Speaker 10: McAnally was like, y'all do such a cool cover of it.

846
00:35:32,520 --> 00:35:33,239
Speaker 11: It's your own thing.

847
00:35:33,280 --> 00:35:36,120
Speaker 10: You're not stepping on Leona at all, so why don't

848
00:35:36,160 --> 00:35:37,200
Speaker 10: you just cut a version?

849
00:35:37,400 --> 00:35:39,439
Speaker 11: So it's on our record. And that was the last

850
00:35:39,440 --> 00:35:40,440
Speaker 11: song we cut for the record.

851
00:35:40,520 --> 00:35:43,440
Speaker 2: Yeah, that's cool, awesome. Yeah, the record is called Blonde.

852
00:35:43,840 --> 00:35:46,000
Speaker 2: It came out Friday this is Tiger Lily Gold. You

853
00:35:46,000 --> 00:35:48,359
Speaker 2: can follow them on Instagram at Tiger Lily and I'm

854
00:35:48,360 --> 00:35:50,399
Speaker 2: a big fan and it's been really cool to watch

855
00:35:50,440 --> 00:35:54,160
Speaker 2: you guys just like blow up and not be fully

856
00:35:54,200 --> 00:35:54,959
Speaker 2: blown up yet.

857
00:35:55,360 --> 00:35:55,640
Speaker 11: Thanks.

858
00:35:55,719 --> 00:35:57,520
Speaker 8: Well, you're in the middle of it all, so we're

859
00:35:57,520 --> 00:36:00,000
Speaker 8: going to keep writing and recording and putting on music.

860
00:36:00,160 --> 00:36:01,239
Speaker 11: So we're for the long hole.

861
00:36:01,320 --> 00:36:06,319
Speaker 4: Well, since y'all were motivational speakers to hiring, what what

862
00:36:06,480 --> 00:36:09,080
Speaker 4: advice do you have for people that are working closely together,

863
00:36:09,120 --> 00:36:11,840
Speaker 4: whether it's best friends or sisters. It's gonna get hard sometimes,

864
00:36:11,880 --> 00:36:14,400
Speaker 4: So do you have like one tip of motivation for

865
00:36:14,440 --> 00:36:15,000
Speaker 4: getting through that.

866
00:36:15,040 --> 00:36:17,080
Speaker 10: I don't know if this is motivation necessarily, but just

867
00:36:17,120 --> 00:36:20,560
Speaker 10: don't have an ego. Uh, when you're working with someone,

868
00:36:20,600 --> 00:36:25,160
Speaker 10: you're working together, it's not ever versus each other. Find

869
00:36:25,320 --> 00:36:28,759
Speaker 10: like Krista is incredible at guitar and harmony and in

870
00:36:28,800 --> 00:36:31,839
Speaker 10: the writing room. She's so good at particular things where

871
00:36:31,880 --> 00:36:34,400
Speaker 10: I'm you know, maybe better at other things. And so

872
00:36:34,880 --> 00:36:36,840
Speaker 10: just focus on what you do best.

873
00:36:36,680 --> 00:36:39,360
Speaker 8: And find your strength, lean on the other person to

874
00:36:39,400 --> 00:36:41,640
Speaker 8: bring out, you know, help you with your weaknesses.

875
00:36:41,719 --> 00:36:44,799
Speaker 2: Yeah, guys, you're great. You're great. You're awesome. I don't

876
00:36:44,840 --> 00:36:47,839
Speaker 2: have enough descriptors. Can't wait to see you next time

877
00:36:47,880 --> 00:36:49,640
Speaker 2: you come in because I mean something else, biggest happening.

878
00:36:49,920 --> 00:36:52,520
Speaker 2: It's super cool to have you and I don't know,

879
00:36:52,640 --> 00:36:54,680
Speaker 2: it's almost bust time, meaning it's.

880
00:36:54,719 --> 00:36:56,479
Speaker 11: Yes, it's almost bust.

881
00:36:56,480 --> 00:36:57,239
Speaker 2: It's almost bust time.

882
00:36:57,320 --> 00:36:59,760
Speaker 11: I think by next year we're gonna be in a bus.

883
00:36:59,360 --> 00:37:00,920
Speaker 2: And that's a big that's a big move.

884
00:37:01,120 --> 00:37:02,359
Speaker 11: Well, we don't want to be in a bus till

885
00:37:02,360 --> 00:37:03,560
Speaker 11: we can always be in a bus.

886
00:37:03,400 --> 00:37:05,279
Speaker 2: Until you can afford it and you can stay in it,

887
00:37:05,360 --> 00:37:07,000
Speaker 2: because the worst is if you get a bus and

888
00:37:07,040 --> 00:37:08,160
Speaker 2: then you got to go back to the villain.

889
00:37:08,360 --> 00:37:11,239
Speaker 11: That's what I'm saying. We're making forward progress always, we're

890
00:37:11,239 --> 00:37:11,839
Speaker 11: never going back.

891
00:37:12,040 --> 00:37:14,799
Speaker 2: So yeah, well more sprinter you know, there's sprinter van,

892
00:37:14,880 --> 00:37:16,959
Speaker 2: then there's like r V. You know there's there's small

893
00:37:16,960 --> 00:37:19,000
Speaker 2: growth before the bus. Yeah, but that's the next thing.

894
00:37:19,040 --> 00:37:20,799
Speaker 2: I feel good about it. Bring it in. We got

895
00:37:20,840 --> 00:37:24,560
Speaker 2: we bought you guys a bus. I'm d that'd be

896
00:37:24,560 --> 00:37:28,400
Speaker 2: awesome though, right him in the coolest, All right, Tiger

897
00:37:28,400 --> 00:37:31,480
Speaker 2: Lily Gold. Check out their new record it's called Blonde.

898
00:37:31,800 --> 00:37:33,839
Speaker 2: Great seeing you guys, and we'll see you soon, right, Thanks,

899
00:37:36,160 --> 00:37:37,440
Speaker 2: here's a voicemail from Cali.

900
00:37:37,840 --> 00:37:41,400
Speaker 8: Hey, Bobby Bones, why shouldn't you give Elsa a balloon?

901
00:37:42,080 --> 00:37:43,920
Speaker 11: Because show let a bone?

902
00:37:45,000 --> 00:37:47,200
Speaker 7: Bye bye, Bobby Bone, show thank you.

903
00:37:47,200 --> 00:37:49,640
Speaker 2: She also is a pretty good singer. Yeah, that pretty

904
00:37:49,640 --> 00:37:49,960
Speaker 2: good pitch.

905
00:37:49,960 --> 00:37:54,240
Speaker 9: There's pile of stories.

906
00:37:54,400 --> 00:37:56,520
Speaker 4: One out of three Americans say they have an idea

907
00:37:56,640 --> 00:37:59,799
Speaker 4: that could help make them wealthy one day they come

908
00:37:59,840 --> 00:38:01,520
Speaker 4: up with a game changing product.

909
00:38:01,560 --> 00:38:02,600
Speaker 3: They're ready for sharks.

910
00:38:02,960 --> 00:38:05,000
Speaker 2: So just randomly they have the million dollar idea.

911
00:38:05,040 --> 00:38:06,120
Speaker 3: You have you one out of three?

912
00:38:06,200 --> 00:38:07,719
Speaker 2: Yeah, well let's look at us three. Here met you

913
00:38:07,760 --> 00:38:09,200
Speaker 2: in lunchbox. He has anyone every week.

914
00:38:09,800 --> 00:38:13,040
Speaker 4: Yeah, yeah, yeah, he does picture himself on Shark Tank.

915
00:38:13,160 --> 00:38:15,040
Speaker 2: I'll tell you what coming up in a fifteen minutes

916
00:38:15,120 --> 00:38:18,080
Speaker 2: or so. He has a new idea, a new business idea. Okay,

917
00:38:18,480 --> 00:38:19,719
Speaker 2: I wanted even to talk about it because he has

918
00:38:19,719 --> 00:38:21,160
Speaker 2: a business idea all the time and we always lose

919
00:38:21,200 --> 00:38:22,640
Speaker 2: money and get mad at each other. But he has

920
00:38:22,680 --> 00:38:23,840
Speaker 2: a new one. If you want to talk about it.

921
00:38:24,080 --> 00:38:25,400
Speaker 3: Is it a new ceiling fan idea?

922
00:38:25,640 --> 00:38:27,160
Speaker 2: You know, I'm gonna let him pitch it now. We're

923
00:38:27,200 --> 00:38:29,160
Speaker 2: not begetting it, but we'll talk about it in a minute. Okay,

924
00:38:29,160 --> 00:38:30,799
Speaker 2: But yeah, I have another friend that calls me about

925
00:38:30,800 --> 00:38:32,560
Speaker 2: once every three months. I got a million dollar idea.

926
00:38:32,600 --> 00:38:35,719
Speaker 2: I just need a million dollars. Yeah see, I'm like, well,

927
00:38:35,760 --> 00:38:37,360
Speaker 2: why don't you raise that million?

928
00:38:38,120 --> 00:38:39,200
Speaker 7: That's what he's coming to you for.

929
00:38:39,760 --> 00:38:40,439
Speaker 2: We're good. Look.

930
00:38:42,000 --> 00:38:44,399
Speaker 4: Yeah, it's so funny this whole article too. Like there

931
00:38:44,440 --> 00:38:47,120
Speaker 4: they did a side note that if people's projects don't

932
00:38:47,120 --> 00:38:50,200
Speaker 4: work out, or their invention, their creation, whatever they feel

933
00:38:50,200 --> 00:38:53,320
Speaker 4: in their bones, that they may win the lottery someday.

934
00:38:53,400 --> 00:38:55,680
Speaker 3: So I feel like that about lunch lunchbox.

935
00:38:56,200 --> 00:38:58,799
Speaker 2: I think, you know, the reason people are successful with

936
00:38:58,840 --> 00:39:00,840
Speaker 2: these ideas when they have them, it's just the idea

937
00:39:00,920 --> 00:39:02,600
Speaker 2: is the fact they'll put all the risk, they'll have

938
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Speaker 2: all the risk take they will take big risk and

939
00:39:05,520 --> 00:39:07,120
Speaker 2: do all the work. And sometimes you do all the

940
00:39:07,120 --> 00:39:08,799
Speaker 2: work and the risk still doesn't pay out. But it's

941
00:39:08,840 --> 00:39:12,600
Speaker 2: those type of people who can exert that much energy

942
00:39:12,600 --> 00:39:15,200
Speaker 2: and take that much risk that can actually get the rewards.

943
00:39:15,239 --> 00:39:17,440
Speaker 2: But he doesn't do that, but he'll pitch a new

944
00:39:17,480 --> 00:39:18,680
Speaker 2: idea coming up. Try what else?

945
00:39:19,200 --> 00:39:23,279
Speaker 4: If you want fluffier scrambled eggs. Breakfast hack that's going

946
00:39:23,360 --> 00:39:26,239
Speaker 4: viral on TikTok right now, is adding a little Seltzer

947
00:39:26,840 --> 00:39:30,240
Speaker 4: to your eggs. It doesn't take much, just one teaspoon

948
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Speaker 4: for every two eggs that you're making, and not flavored

949
00:39:32,960 --> 00:39:36,160
Speaker 4: like you can't do like grapefruit lacroix because it's gonna

950
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Speaker 4: taste weird. But if you just do plain seltzer.

951
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Speaker 2: Water I like strawberry waterloo.

952
00:39:41,080 --> 00:39:42,480
Speaker 3: Yeah, that would be problem.

953
00:39:42,840 --> 00:39:43,839
Speaker 2: Strawberry your eggs up.

954
00:39:44,440 --> 00:39:46,480
Speaker 3: No, I may you can test it out if you

955
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Speaker 3: want the flavor.

956
00:39:47,280 --> 00:39:49,719
Speaker 4: But the hack is just a plain seltzer and it

957
00:39:49,760 --> 00:39:52,120
Speaker 4: works because the bubbles quickly expand from the heat and

958
00:39:52,160 --> 00:39:55,840
Speaker 4: they fluff everything up. Okay, So BuzzFeed got people to

959
00:39:55,920 --> 00:39:59,759
Speaker 4: name celebrities that no one could ever dislike. They just

960
00:40:00,320 --> 00:40:03,120
Speaker 4: these celebrities don't disappoint us for whatever reason, and that's

961
00:40:03,120 --> 00:40:03,840
Speaker 4: really difficult.

962
00:40:04,000 --> 00:40:06,040
Speaker 2: It is difficult. Go ahead, give me the top three.

963
00:40:06,320 --> 00:40:09,920
Speaker 3: The top three, and these are in no particular. She's

964
00:40:09,960 --> 00:40:10,839
Speaker 3: not even in the top.

965
00:40:10,880 --> 00:40:13,440
Speaker 2: I guess she did get really political and some people

966
00:40:13,480 --> 00:40:17,920
Speaker 2: will really dislike her last political last last election, she

967
00:40:18,000 --> 00:40:20,520
Speaker 2: was very anti Trump, so I guess, okay, but she's

968
00:40:20,560 --> 00:40:22,600
Speaker 2: as positive as a cat's like. Who has loved more

969
00:40:22,600 --> 00:40:28,040
Speaker 2: than Taylor Swift ahead Keanu Reeves, Yeah, yes, count Raeves,

970
00:40:28,040 --> 00:40:30,040
Speaker 2: who me is perfect. However, I think like people don't

971
00:40:30,040 --> 00:40:33,239
Speaker 2: know who he is. He's an actor for older you know,

972
00:40:33,560 --> 00:40:35,759
Speaker 2: thirty five, forty and older A right, go ahead.

973
00:40:35,520 --> 00:40:39,279
Speaker 4: Yeah, so you're yeah, these are older people, Dolly Bardon. Yeah,

974
00:40:39,440 --> 00:40:40,720
Speaker 4: they just don't let us down.

975
00:40:41,040 --> 00:40:43,880
Speaker 2: Big History A being awesome, Big History being awesome, Dolly, Yes,

976
00:40:43,960 --> 00:40:44,320
Speaker 2: go ahead.

977
00:40:44,600 --> 00:40:45,560
Speaker 3: And Michael J.

978
00:40:45,680 --> 00:40:47,879
Speaker 2: Fox, Yeah, he's been sick for a long time.

979
00:40:48,400 --> 00:40:51,839
Speaker 4: It was just very likable guy. Just honorable mentions real quick.

980
00:40:51,920 --> 00:40:53,719
Speaker 4: Betty White and mister Rogers.

981
00:40:53,760 --> 00:40:56,920
Speaker 2: Betty White, she's dead. He likes the wh they're dead

982
00:40:56,920 --> 00:40:57,680
Speaker 2: because they can't mess up.

983
00:40:57,680 --> 00:40:57,920
Speaker 8: And now.

984
00:40:58,040 --> 00:41:00,160
Speaker 4: But there's still celebrities who just made the list that

985
00:41:00,640 --> 00:41:02,719
Speaker 4: you know, at some point in their career you would

986
00:41:02,719 --> 00:41:05,400
Speaker 4: expect for them to disappointed people in some way, and

987
00:41:05,440 --> 00:41:08,040
Speaker 4: they've people don't think that way about them.

988
00:41:08,040 --> 00:41:12,719
Speaker 2: So I feel about Ray ye like all I thought, Yeah,

989
00:41:12,960 --> 00:41:15,560
Speaker 2: doesn't disappoint that's awesome. He does nothing except let you

990
00:41:15,600 --> 00:41:16,600
Speaker 2: love him. All right.

991
00:41:16,640 --> 00:41:18,000
Speaker 3: Cool made that's my file.

992
00:41:18,920 --> 00:41:20,960
Speaker 7: That was Amy's pile of stories.

993
00:41:21,160 --> 00:41:28,720
Speaker 9: It's time for the good news, like Bobby.

994
00:41:27,440 --> 00:41:29,960
Speaker 2: Really one of the best Clayton Kershaw pictures for the

995
00:41:29,960 --> 00:41:33,600
Speaker 2: Dodgers and now he's doing stuff to help kids go

996
00:41:33,680 --> 00:41:35,839
Speaker 2: back to school and actually have the supplies they need.

997
00:41:36,760 --> 00:41:39,920
Speaker 2: His group is called Kershaw's Challenge, and so they handed

998
00:41:39,920 --> 00:41:43,399
Speaker 2: out twenty five hundred backpacks filled with school supplies and

999
00:41:43,480 --> 00:41:46,120
Speaker 2: free clothes kids and families getting ready for the upcoming

1000
00:41:46,120 --> 00:41:48,920
Speaker 2: school year. And so what was fun though, is a

1001
00:41:48,960 --> 00:41:51,480
Speaker 2: lot of the players, not only the Dodgers, but they

1002
00:41:51,480 --> 00:41:53,240
Speaker 2: are pictures like the Angels do it. They were wearing

1003
00:41:53,280 --> 00:41:55,520
Speaker 2: a bunch of the kid backpacks. So you see like

1004
00:41:56,040 --> 00:41:59,359
Speaker 2: a Mic Trout with a Barbie backpack walking and all

1005
00:41:59,400 --> 00:42:01,799
Speaker 2: of these backpack twenty five hundred them were donated to

1006
00:42:01,840 --> 00:42:05,320
Speaker 2: the neighborhood Town area. Yeah, I thought it was really cool.

1007
00:42:05,960 --> 00:42:08,200
Speaker 2: So being able to help the community remains a big

1008
00:42:08,239 --> 00:42:11,560
Speaker 2: focus in Clayton's life, says his wife and his foundation,

1009
00:42:11,680 --> 00:42:13,359
Speaker 2: and a big shout out to Clayton Kershoff for doing

1010
00:42:13,400 --> 00:42:16,440
Speaker 2: that and you know, helping a lot of families not

1011
00:42:16,680 --> 00:42:19,880
Speaker 2: have that stress of figuring out how to get their

1012
00:42:19,960 --> 00:42:22,879
Speaker 2: kids back to school without everything they need. That's from

1013
00:42:22,920 --> 00:42:25,120
Speaker 2: ABC seven dot com and that is what it's all about.

1014
00:42:25,719 --> 00:42:27,239
Speaker 7: That was telling me something good.

1015
00:42:28,520 --> 00:42:30,840
Speaker 2: A few minutes ago, Amy said that most people, a

1016
00:42:30,880 --> 00:42:32,880
Speaker 2: lot of people feel like they have the million dollar idea.

1017
00:42:32,880 --> 00:42:35,240
Speaker 2: They just don't know what to do. But Lunchbox always

1018
00:42:35,239 --> 00:42:36,719
Speaker 2: comes in with this new idea. He's got a new

1019
00:42:36,719 --> 00:42:39,520
Speaker 2: idea for a business. Lunchbox, this is your moment. Take

1020
00:42:39,520 --> 00:42:39,839
Speaker 2: it away.

1021
00:42:39,920 --> 00:42:44,480
Speaker 5: Yeah, it's like birthday party or anniversary surprises in person.

1022
00:42:44,920 --> 00:42:46,000
Speaker 7: Like I do the cameos.

1023
00:42:46,040 --> 00:42:49,040
Speaker 5: That's cool and everything, But let's say someone has to

1024
00:42:49,080 --> 00:42:52,000
Speaker 5: go out of town for work and their significant other,

1025
00:42:52,120 --> 00:42:55,319
Speaker 5: their best friend, whatever, has a big event like a

1026
00:42:55,360 --> 00:42:57,799
Speaker 5: birthday and anniversary, and they can't be there.

1027
00:42:58,440 --> 00:43:02,480
Speaker 2: They hire me to go or celebrity in town or.

1028
00:43:02,520 --> 00:43:05,600
Speaker 5: Celebrity in town, like we started small with just you,

1029
00:43:06,080 --> 00:43:09,719
Speaker 5: and then we expand to other cities, other celebrities. It's

1030
00:43:09,760 --> 00:43:13,400
Speaker 5: a cameo in person and you show up and you

1031
00:43:13,480 --> 00:43:15,880
Speaker 5: do a surprise birthday or anniversary.

1032
00:43:15,360 --> 00:43:17,560
Speaker 2: Wish for them. So how did this come to you?

1033
00:43:18,120 --> 00:43:20,960
Speaker 5: Someone on Instagram DMed me it was like, Hey, dude,

1034
00:43:21,360 --> 00:43:24,960
Speaker 5: it's my girlfriend's thirtieth birthday this weekend and I had

1035
00:43:25,000 --> 00:43:28,200
Speaker 5: to go out of town for work. Any chance you

1036
00:43:28,239 --> 00:43:31,560
Speaker 5: could show up in my honor and give her a speech.

1037
00:43:32,160 --> 00:43:34,600
Speaker 5: That way, she's not mad at me and I'm still

1038
00:43:34,680 --> 00:43:35,680
Speaker 5: part of her birthday.

1039
00:43:36,520 --> 00:43:39,080
Speaker 2: And did you say yes or no, or say how much?

1040
00:43:39,160 --> 00:43:41,520
Speaker 5: He said he would pay me one hundred bucks and

1041
00:43:41,560 --> 00:43:42,880
Speaker 5: it was here intown, here in town.

1042
00:43:42,960 --> 00:43:43,839
Speaker 2: Okay, did you do it?

1043
00:43:43,920 --> 00:43:46,600
Speaker 7: So this is me going in for the restaurant.

1044
00:43:46,800 --> 00:43:49,440
Speaker 3: Well, so, my.

1045
00:43:49,520 --> 00:43:54,560
Speaker 12: Amazing girlfriend, did you really think that I was gonna

1046
00:43:54,640 --> 00:43:58,640
Speaker 12: let you spend your birthday without me? I got you

1047
00:43:58,680 --> 00:44:02,080
Speaker 12: some amazing flower. They are gonna die by the end

1048
00:44:02,120 --> 00:44:04,000
Speaker 12: of the night because I didn't think about how they're

1049
00:44:04,040 --> 00:44:06,160
Speaker 12: gonna live, like I didn't think about how I'm gonna

1050
00:44:06,200 --> 00:44:06,680
Speaker 12: be out.

1051
00:44:06,520 --> 00:44:08,480
Speaker 7: Of town for your birthday.

1052
00:44:08,719 --> 00:44:11,359
Speaker 12: My love, this is the best version of me. I

1053
00:44:11,400 --> 00:44:12,359
Speaker 12: can't talk back.

1054
00:44:13,000 --> 00:44:13,920
Speaker 2: I'm not gonna.

1055
00:44:13,719 --> 00:44:14,840
Speaker 7: Argue with you.

1056
00:44:14,840 --> 00:44:16,000
Speaker 2: You tell me what to do.

1057
00:44:15,960 --> 00:44:16,960
Speaker 7: And I'm gonna do it.

1058
00:44:17,440 --> 00:44:20,520
Speaker 12: I love you, I appreciate you, and you are the

1059
00:44:20,600 --> 00:44:22,440
Speaker 12: damn fining this thirty year old I've ever.

1060
00:44:22,320 --> 00:44:26,480
Speaker 7: Seen in my life. And when I get back, I

1061
00:44:26,480 --> 00:44:29,520
Speaker 7: can't wait to make out with you. Happy birthday.

1062
00:44:29,640 --> 00:44:33,239
Speaker 2: I love you. Now, give me a kiss. So you

1063
00:44:33,239 --> 00:44:34,280
Speaker 2: did that for one hundred bucks.

1064
00:44:34,080 --> 00:44:37,000
Speaker 5: That hundred bucks, and I had the guy's picture on

1065
00:44:37,120 --> 00:44:39,760
Speaker 5: a stick in front of in front.

1066
00:44:39,520 --> 00:44:40,160
Speaker 2: Of my face.

1067
00:44:40,400 --> 00:44:41,960
Speaker 3: Okay, their friends.

1068
00:44:41,920 --> 00:44:43,600
Speaker 2: Like, what's happening? Who is this guy? Yeah? They just

1069
00:44:43,600 --> 00:44:46,000
Speaker 2: think there was just somebody, anybody being her boyfriend.

1070
00:44:46,760 --> 00:44:49,359
Speaker 5: One person in her group knew so that she could

1071
00:44:49,360 --> 00:44:52,920
Speaker 5: film it. Like the boyfriend gave the heads up. Everyone

1072
00:44:52,920 --> 00:44:55,680
Speaker 5: else was looking like what is going on? And then

1073
00:44:55,719 --> 00:44:58,720
Speaker 5: about ten to fifteen seconds into the speech, they started

1074
00:44:58,719 --> 00:45:01,040
Speaker 5: getting oh this is so so wait. At first they

1075
00:45:01,040 --> 00:45:05,600
Speaker 5: were very confused and did he pay you pre pre mo? Yep,

1076
00:45:06,080 --> 00:45:08,960
Speaker 5: you got it, got it. It's a pretty dark, good business.

1077
00:45:09,000 --> 00:45:10,359
Speaker 4: I wish I'd known about the head on the stick

1078
00:45:10,440 --> 00:45:12,000
Speaker 4: before the audio because that would have helped me with

1079
00:45:12,040 --> 00:45:13,680
Speaker 4: the full picture. But I get it now because I'm like,

1080
00:45:13,719 --> 00:45:14,480
Speaker 4: this feels weird.

1081
00:45:14,560 --> 00:45:15,360
Speaker 3: This feels weird.

1082
00:45:15,400 --> 00:45:16,360
Speaker 2: So you're open for business?

1083
00:45:16,560 --> 00:45:20,120
Speaker 7: Open for business? That I haven't come up with a name.

1084
00:45:20,560 --> 00:45:21,960
Speaker 2: What if it's out of the town. What if it's

1085
00:45:21,960 --> 00:45:23,040
Speaker 2: like new city at different city.

1086
00:45:23,520 --> 00:45:24,280
Speaker 7: Oh that's tough.

1087
00:45:24,400 --> 00:45:27,640
Speaker 5: I mean rate, different rate, I mean travel time, all

1088
00:45:27,719 --> 00:45:31,680
Speaker 5: that what celebrit we gotta find? But hey, no, no you, hey, hey,

1089
00:45:31,719 --> 00:45:34,240
Speaker 5: I'm willing to travel. Open for business?

1090
00:45:34,400 --> 00:45:34,960
Speaker 7: Hit me up?

1091
00:45:35,880 --> 00:45:37,840
Speaker 2: All right, let's go to hang me to the morning Corny.

1092
00:45:41,280 --> 00:45:45,040
Speaker 4: The morning Corny, what prisoners used to call each other?

1093
00:45:45,280 --> 00:45:46,920
Speaker 3: What cell phones?

1094
00:45:47,160 --> 00:45:54,719
Speaker 2: Cell phones? Got it? That was the Morning Corny? But

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Speaker 2: you're in town, right, lunch box one hundred bucks, one

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Speaker 2: hundred bucks. How long do you stay? Oh? That was it.

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Speaker 5: I was there, took a picture with the girl. See

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Speaker 5: you later. I was there for about three minutes. I'm

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Speaker 5: not involved in it. By the way, if something goes

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Speaker 5: hey wire, you don't want to invest, I don't.

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Speaker 2: I'm good stocks going up, Okay, I'll check the market.

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Speaker 2: And that is the end of the first half of

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Speaker 2: the podcast. Is the end of the first half of

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Speaker 2: the podcast, the firstep of the podcast. That is the

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Speaker 2: end of the first time of the podcast.

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Speaker 12: You can go to a podcast too, or you can

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Speaker 12: wait till podcast to come out.