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Speaker 1: So we talk Back podcast the production of iHeartRadio and

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Speaker 1: the Black Effect Network.

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Speaker 2: So we're just two unapologetically black women with an opinion

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Speaker 2: who talks. What's up y'all?

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Speaker 1: Thank you for tuning in for a new episode and

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Speaker 1: we talk back the show dedicated to you dreamers and chasers.

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Speaker 1: This is your co host, A J.

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Speaker 3: Holiday.

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Speaker 4: What's up?

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Speaker 2: Tam Bam Like hi, everyone, Like this is Tamala, Like

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Speaker 2: he oh no, And I'm like in l a and.

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Speaker 3: Like I just had a kale salad.

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Speaker 4: So yeah, that's about right.

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Speaker 1: All of them like to get on my goddamn nerve,

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Speaker 1: like don't don't automatically start sounding like kim A, Like

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Speaker 1: oh my god, like this is so it's so bizarre,

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Speaker 1: like spit it out already.

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Speaker 3: The fuck.

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Speaker 1: That's one thing I can't get with the lingo. Like

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Speaker 1: there's a couple of different lingos, and that's one of

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Speaker 1: them that gets on my damn nerve.

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Speaker 3: Because hurry up and spit it out, bitch.

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Speaker 5: Speak.

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Speaker 3: How was your weekend?

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Speaker 1: So how was your weekend?

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Speaker 3: Me?

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Speaker 1: First, me, First, I ain't do shit that y'all left

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Speaker 1: the house. Okay, I've been inside fuck around with our

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Speaker 1: videos and stuff. So I've been working.

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Speaker 4: How was your weekend?

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Speaker 2: My weekend was cool. I just I actually didn't get

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Speaker 2: here till yesterday. So I was still in Charlotte over

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Speaker 2: the weekend and I was staying with my best friend,

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Speaker 2: but then she got COVID. So then I went to

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Speaker 2: a hotel and that was just the best thing. It

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Speaker 2: was free breakfast every morning. I didn't have to eat

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Speaker 2: cheerios and shit, I ain't have to hear no crying babies,

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Speaker 2: even though I love my guy kids, don't get me wrong,

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Speaker 2: but it was nice to and I wasn't on no

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Speaker 2: air mattress no more. So I just enjoyed those couple

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Speaker 2: of days in the hotel. And then I flew in

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Speaker 2: yesterday to La You guys, I just got here, and

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Speaker 2: I really was tired because I was up drinking Saturday

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Speaker 2: night and then I flew out Sunday morning, shame. So

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Speaker 2: when I got here, I was just exhausted. So I

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Speaker 2: pretty much checked in and and relaxed the rest of

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Speaker 2: the day.

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Speaker 3: I didn't do anything. So my my accent is like

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Speaker 3: so fake, like for our and then here we are ship.

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Speaker 1: It's supposed to another tropical storm is supposed to be

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Speaker 1: on the way, So I mean I'm in, I'm in

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Speaker 1: the house. I might go to Costco. That's your face,

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Speaker 1: because it's right down the street. That's why.

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Speaker 2: Yeah, y'all, I think I'm about to go. Like, there's

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Speaker 2: a Saphora down the street from me. I might go

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Speaker 2: get me a little part time job there, just so

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Speaker 2: I can make some money until Yeah, back to the

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Speaker 2: back to the old trenches, y'all know that's my family.

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Speaker 2: I used to work there a long time ago. Let

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Speaker 2: me get some gratis. Shout out to all my Sphori

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Speaker 2: girlies and guys and days. Girl.

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Speaker 1: It's a it's a matt counter here in them all.

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Speaker 1: Don't nobody even work there, like you. It's there, but

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Speaker 1: it's never anybody there.

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Speaker 2: Like. Actually, remember how important MAC was in the early

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Speaker 2: two thousands. If you didn't have some lip glass, what

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Speaker 2: was you doing with your lips, bitch? Because old baby,

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Speaker 2: old baby, that ship was so thick thick.

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Speaker 3: You put that ship off and after about two hour.

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Speaker 1: Mosquitoes sticking to that little white line, right, you got

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Speaker 1: wipe that ship off. What is it, old baby? I

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Speaker 1: still got a tube of old baby. That's your probably

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Speaker 1: really yeah, yeah, if I put it on in my

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Speaker 1: lip might breakout because I definitely still have like some

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Speaker 1: makeup from Tea I Shadow Palace.

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Speaker 3: I do not throw them away. I do not throw

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Speaker 3: them out.

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Speaker 1: Yeah, so the weekend was uneventful. It's uh, it's a

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Speaker 1: great day to day though, And let's get it get

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Speaker 1: into the sin stupid Internet. I'm gonna change it from internet.

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Speaker 1: So stupid internet.

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Speaker 3: All right.

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Speaker 2: Carisha Police came out with season two and we definitely

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Speaker 2: were like Carrisha pleased with this episode because girl.

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Speaker 1: I season one only had five episodes. Okay, really she

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Speaker 1: really finessing the podcast. Yes, so many episodes did you

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Speaker 1: see in season one?

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Speaker 3: I don't know, but they did numbers. They did numbers.

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Speaker 2: All her episodes did really big words and she started

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Speaker 2: her season two with her story is who better to

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Speaker 2: interview her than Saucy C and ten and her bestie?

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Speaker 2: But I just did not I you know, I ran

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Speaker 2: to watch it.

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Speaker 3: But I didn't get nothing.

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Speaker 2: Did you feel like it was like, ooh, she shared

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Speaker 2: some you know something that we didn't realize already. We

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Speaker 2: know you and JT ain't like that no more. We

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Speaker 2: know y'all probably still love each other, but it just

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Speaker 2: ain't what it used to be. We know you're gonna

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Speaker 2: stick beside Diddy because you ain't saying shit all this time.

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Speaker 1: And out she says she not with him, so I

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Speaker 1: mean she probably at gonna just discard him. But as

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Speaker 1: far as the relationship, she at this point is self perseverance,

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Speaker 1: So I wouldn't want to attach myself to that shit either. Okay,

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Speaker 1: she's a smart girl for that. And like she said,

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Speaker 1: they both used each other, so I agree.

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Speaker 3: With But that's something we all knew, right, didn't we

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Speaker 3: all know that?

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Speaker 1: Yeah? Yeah, I wish you would. I wish they wouldn't

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Speaker 1: even have talked about JC, y'all. I love jt Okay.

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Speaker 1: I'm trying to pick sides, but it's I don't know.

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Speaker 1: I like jt Okay and I feel like they had

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Speaker 1: already smashed whatever they had going on, let it go.

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Speaker 1: So they got into it. Yeah, they got into it online,

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Speaker 1: and I thought they had gotten past it, So for

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Speaker 1: her to then still mention, you know there, we know, y'all.

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Speaker 1: We know, y'all, not like that. We could see it.

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Speaker 1: We could tell. I especially knew when they both was

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Speaker 1: on the Breakfast Club and I heard how they travel

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Speaker 1: and from Entourage's makeup artists. They just got there separately,

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Speaker 1: and she confirmed like they they didn't really see each

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Speaker 1: other until they got on stage most of the times,

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Speaker 1: like they just you can tell she lives in Yeah,

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Speaker 1: she's in Miami. JT's in La. So they just weren't

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Speaker 1: on the same page with a lot of things. So

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Speaker 1: I can kind of it's nothing new, Okay. I do

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Speaker 1: like that she was vulnerable a little bit. I definitely

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Speaker 1: understand how she says she she was she lost her person.

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Speaker 2: I imagine, all right, so when we say shit on

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Speaker 2: this podcast, people be attacking us for our views, imagine

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Speaker 2: the magnitude that she gets attacked in this next level.

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Speaker 1: Yeah, you gotta have really you gotta have really thick skin,

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Speaker 1: and you just got to be on some some fuck

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Speaker 1: you type shit. You know, I had to tell one person,

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Speaker 1: there's nobody in this world that can say or do

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Speaker 1: anything that will appease every time. You can't, right, So

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Speaker 1: some people whatever I say might resonate with them, and

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Speaker 1: some people are and that's okay. You're not one of

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Speaker 1: my people, and that's okay, But I'm not about to

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Speaker 1: go back and forth with somebody who really, you know,

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Speaker 1: like you mad her but not to my immediate real life.

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Speaker 3: You just don't, and they crucified Jesus.

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Speaker 1: Jesus, So.

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Speaker 3: Do this, okay, then celebrate her afterwards, you know.

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Speaker 1: So I don't humans girl bye, Okay. I was sure

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Speaker 1: the best of luck on all the things she has

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Speaker 1: going on. I think we know JT was always the rapper.

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Speaker 1: You know, Karesha hell.

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Speaker 3: Locked up. She did hold him down.

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Speaker 2: I hope they can reconcile just enough to be sisters again,

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Speaker 2: to get back to who they were before the money

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Speaker 2: and the fame.

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Speaker 1: I don't think once when certain things happen in relationships,

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Speaker 1: is no really getting back. I have friends who I

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Speaker 1: consider family members, right and I don't talk to them anymore.

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Speaker 1: I still love them, but once certain things happen, is

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Speaker 1: like it's hard to get back. Like I can never

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Speaker 1: get on the phone with these bitches and tell them

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Speaker 1: about my life never again. I don't trust them anymore

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Speaker 1: in that way. So yeah, I just, you know, you

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Speaker 1: just deal with them from a distance kind of. So

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Speaker 1: I don't think that they'll probably never get back to

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Speaker 1: what they were, but they still consider themselves family. That's

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Speaker 1: most important, right, So you ain't just you know, undercutting

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Speaker 1: each other all crazy in the public. Just keep it cordial.

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Speaker 1: At this point, y'all moving in two different directions, and

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Speaker 1: it's okay. I think a lot of it is social media, right,

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Speaker 1: you allow these outside entities to disrupt the relationship you

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Speaker 1: have with this person that you've known way before the money,

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Speaker 1: way before the fame, way before anybody really knew y'all,

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Speaker 1: you know what I'm saying. So sometimes you just got

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Speaker 1: to get back to the basis basics, and they probably

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Speaker 1: will never get back.

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Speaker 3: I know, it was funny when she was like who

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Speaker 3: got left off? Bat and bougie me?

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Speaker 1: That was funny in hell, that was funny as how

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Speaker 1: she was. I didn't even know nothing about it. Like now, yeah,

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Speaker 1: I mean, y'all don't have to do everything together, you

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Speaker 1: know what I'm saying, Like, even when we talk back,

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Speaker 1: this is a platform that both of us should be

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Speaker 1: able to make next steps off of. Right, Everything does

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Speaker 1: not have to be a group effort. Okay, this is

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Speaker 1: a stepping stone for the both of us. So I mean,

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Speaker 1: that's just how they have to look at us so

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Speaker 1: they can move on and be okay with each other,

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Speaker 1: or I mean, at this point, be okay with you.

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Speaker 2: Well, I'm going to order Kresha. Uh what is it called?

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Speaker 2: Richa Roulet?

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Speaker 3: Part two?

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Speaker 4: The first one.

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Speaker 1: Questions.

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Speaker 2: I was like, these young millennials is off the motherfucking

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Speaker 2: Chaine because a lot of this stuff do not align

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Speaker 2: with my spirit and I I've never gon like it

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Speaker 2: was one question like fucking your mama boyfriend or something

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Speaker 2: like that.

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Speaker 3: Yeah.

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Speaker 1: That Priscilla has that game and we played it and

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Speaker 1: it's like a lot of the cars are the same thing.

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Speaker 1: It's like very repetitious. It's the same content on each card.

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Speaker 1: It's like it's just it's easy. Like I wonder what

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Speaker 1: the second one is gonna be, Like, I hope she

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Speaker 1: adds like, you know a little bit more substance.

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Speaker 3: Yeah yeah, but she balling, bitch.

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Speaker 1: We need to come up with a uh.

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Speaker 3: We talked back the card game. Yes, yeah, that sound fun.

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Speaker 3: Let's make it up or shut the fuck up. Oh yeah,

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Speaker 3: we shut the fuck up.

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Speaker 1: We talked.

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Speaker 2: Yeah, that'll create that soon, all right. So I don't

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Speaker 2: know if y'all saw this, but I thought this was interesting.

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Speaker 2: This black male waiter from a restaurant followed a Patriot

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Speaker 2: and that he had just served outside because she did

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Speaker 2: not provide a tip for him, and he basically confronted

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Speaker 2: her at her car about not leaving.

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Speaker 3: Him a tip. And I was looking at that, like,

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Speaker 3: what in the entire fuck is happening in the United

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Speaker 3: States right now? Girl?

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Speaker 1: I could not imagine. That wasn't even the scary part

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Speaker 1: for me, right, It's the comments in the post that

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Speaker 3: And then the little bit that they do pay.

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Speaker 2: People in the services industry they texting the fuck out

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Speaker 2: To her for saying it, Like I would have felt

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Speaker 2: going to attack me because you came to my car

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Speaker 1: Much like, yeah, he's strong on her for real, for real,

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Speaker 2: She just sent a cash out, because what's next? If

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Speaker 3: This man might hit me? What you know exactly?

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Speaker 1: So to me, she got robbed.

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Speaker 2: Because I didn't leave. If I wanted to leave a tip,

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Speaker 1: Yeah, like, what are you doing? What are you doing?

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Speaker 3: I would have something that I would have did. I

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Speaker 2: On on that, nigga, I'm already in the garbage.

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Speaker 3: What you gonna do?

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Speaker 2: He would have been holding on to what I had

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Speaker 1: So hard that ship is Oh yeah, okay, but listen.

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Speaker 2: Shout out to everybody in the service industry because that

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Speaker 1: so she maybe maybe she didn't just post us people.

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Speaker 3: Yeah, it's all it's just researching.

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Speaker 1: Is this pick on Tracy Ellis Ross week. But you

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Speaker 1: know it's attack on women. You know, we can't do

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Speaker 1: nothing right and nothing wrong, because if you're young and

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Speaker 2: I think her tits look so good. First of all,

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Speaker 2: Shout out to Tracy. And I think she looked great

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Speaker 1: It just it doesn't just complete you. Okay, that is

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Speaker 2: And believe if these titties stay sitting up at fifty

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Speaker 2: To my very first earthquake on my very first day here,

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Speaker 1: I saw it screen shaking too. I started screenshaking, Yo.

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Speaker 3: That's scared the ship out of me. I want to go.

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Speaker 2: My mouth is I want to go hanging open. I've

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Speaker 1: You never felt like a little quake before in South Carolina,

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Speaker 1: you have, like you can get away with whatever. But

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Speaker 1: for women it don't matter. Like you got too much money,

439
00:23:07,920 --> 00:23:09,920
Speaker 1: oh bitch, don't nobody give a fuck about your degree

440
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Speaker 1: or your money.

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Speaker 4: Fuck you bitch, you.

442
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Speaker 1: Don't have no money.

443
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Speaker 3: Oh you project ho, get off the project.

444
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Speaker 1: I don't know what y'all want. I don't know what

445
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Speaker 1: y'all want, but get off of us. And Kirk Franklin

446
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Speaker 1: okay said get the.

447
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Speaker 3: Fuck up off of it. Yeah, Kirk.

448
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Speaker 1: Kirk Franklin was just on Cam Newton's podcast this week,

449
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Speaker 1: and you know, he was talking about how marriage has

450
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Speaker 1: been weaponized in Western civilization because here Tracy Ellis Ross

451
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Speaker 1: is an example. She's a fifty year old woman with

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Speaker 1: no children, has never been wed. She's attached to a

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Speaker 1: couple men, you know, throughout years for fifty like a

454
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Speaker 1: couple guys maybe, and you know she's being shamed for

455
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Speaker 1: having never been married and having never had children. Kirk

456
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Speaker 1: Franklin was talking to Cam Newton about this and he

457
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Speaker 1: did say marriage is a necessary distraction. I remember t

458
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Speaker 1: I was saying how his marriage was a distraction. TI.

459
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Speaker 1: You are where you are because of the energy of

460
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Speaker 1: time in Let's be very fucking clear. So when y'all men,

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Speaker 1: you know, you're trying to figure out, okay, what what

462
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Speaker 1: what is? What do men get out of marriage? Everything?

463
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Speaker 1: You get everything out of marriage? Everything? Okay, So when

464
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Speaker 1: you're trying to take your life to the next level.

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Speaker 1: Consider getting a wife. How about that? So it is

466
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Speaker 1: a necessary distraction, is what he's saying. A lot of jobs,

467
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Speaker 1: a lot of positions. People don't even want to see

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Speaker 1: y'all ass single as a man, Like where's your wife?

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Speaker 2: Right?

470
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Speaker 3: You could be the preacher of a church.

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Speaker 1: Well, now they got their husbands up.

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Speaker 3: That's what he That's what he said.

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Speaker 2: He was like, you can't be in ministry without a partner,

474
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Speaker 2: like they'd be wanting you to be.

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Speaker 1: Well they up there what they partner? It's for real now,

476
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Speaker 1: So I mean that's also different. You know, I don't

477
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Speaker 1: think nobody wants to see a single CEO of a company,

478
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Speaker 1: a single president president, like like, where's your wife?

479
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Speaker 5: Okay?

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Speaker 1: Because with good women comes wisdom, right, So it's not

481
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Speaker 1: a bad thing. Ever, I don't know. It just seems

482
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Speaker 1: like in the black community, like we don't grasp that

483
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Speaker 1: the men don't grass It's not that women don't women

484
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Speaker 1: want to be single. Is that men don't want to

485
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Speaker 1: be married?

486
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Speaker 4: For real?

487
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Speaker 1: A lot of them don't.

488
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Speaker 3: Baby, I just pissed my pants a little bit.

489
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Speaker 5: I just don't.

490
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Speaker 3: I can't even folks. I got to change my draws

491
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Speaker 3: when we get deal with.

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Speaker 1: This and one other thing. Kirk Franklin also said he

493
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Speaker 1: said being married is not a prerequisite for God's hand men, Like,

494
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Speaker 1: just because you don't get married, that doesn't mean you're

495
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Speaker 1: not going to be successful. This is I'm talking about

496
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Speaker 1: for women because they act like we can't do nothing

497
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Speaker 1: great without a man next to us, and actually, to me,

498
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Speaker 1: women do pretty well without without a husband. I can't

499
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Speaker 1: say the same for men and not having a wife. Yeah,

500
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Speaker 1: like y'all don't even know how to wash your clothes

501
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Speaker 1: half the time or even wash your.

502
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Speaker 2: Draw They haveing a thousand dollars suit and they had

503
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Speaker 2: like a little joy.

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Speaker 5: Yo.

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Speaker 1: Was that your No? That was Priscilla also telling me

506
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Speaker 1: how nigga she was at a dude's house and he

507
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Speaker 1: got up off the couch and had ship on the

508
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Speaker 1: back of his uh his tink top like the tink

509
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Speaker 1: top mussel crack his ask or had like a little skinny.

510
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Speaker 3: I know y'all feel that. I know y'all feel that

511
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Speaker 3: in y'all ass Hey, y'att to be she and she

512
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Speaker 3: asked it in a thousand dollars.

513
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Speaker 1: Suit period, So if anything, get a wife so you

514
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Speaker 1: can get your hygiene up.

515
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Speaker 3: How about that?

516
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Speaker 1: I don't know, but some of these women be nasty

517
00:27:01,480 --> 00:27:04,800
Speaker 1: as hell. Okay, I've seen and they go together.

518
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Speaker 3: Everything.

519
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Speaker 1: Just look anyway, listen, Mike. While I was setting up

520
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Speaker 1: well a couple of hours before, right after we got

521
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Speaker 1: off our meeting earlier, I'm like, why the fuck am

522
00:27:20,600 --> 00:27:23,239
Speaker 1: I in here? Sweat and somebody air conditioning like froze up.

523
00:27:23,640 --> 00:27:25,040
Speaker 1: So I had to call a maintenance And when a

524
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Speaker 1: guy came, he was like, your place is so nice, man.

525
00:27:27,520 --> 00:27:29,600
Speaker 1: We go on some people's apartments, you can't even move

526
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Speaker 1: around in there, like how do you how does your

527
00:27:32,720 --> 00:27:34,680
Speaker 1: brain work? And clutter, like.

528
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Speaker 3: When people just be hoarders and stacks it up big

529
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Speaker 3: as they are.

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00:27:38,240 --> 00:27:42,840
Speaker 1: Tall hoarding too. I hoard mail and I I hoard

531
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Speaker 1: uh like hair products and ship like that. So there

532
00:27:46,280 --> 00:27:48,320
Speaker 1: are some things that I have a problem letting go.

533
00:27:48,440 --> 00:27:50,600
Speaker 1: But like just having clutter all stamped.

534
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Speaker 2: Up on the side of the wall because you are tall,

535
00:27:53,240 --> 00:27:55,800
Speaker 2: that's the next level where you can't there's only all

536
00:27:55,960 --> 00:27:57,720
Speaker 2: like a room to walk through.

537
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Speaker 3: That's next level.

538
00:28:00,320 --> 00:28:02,760
Speaker 1: My second bedroom is full of bullshit, and I keep

539
00:28:02,760 --> 00:28:05,200
Speaker 1: the door closed because if I open it, my brain

540
00:28:05,280 --> 00:28:06,879
Speaker 1: is going to automatically.

541
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Speaker 3: Get too.

542
00:28:10,160 --> 00:28:14,119
Speaker 1: Get y'all life together, and get y'all shit in order. Anyway, y'all.

543
00:28:14,520 --> 00:28:17,119
Speaker 1: So this week we have some beautiful young women on

544
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Speaker 1: We talked back this week, and we just want to

545
00:28:20,920 --> 00:28:23,800
Speaker 1: We want to get their opinion on life and living

546
00:28:23,920 --> 00:28:26,720
Speaker 1: and politics and all all the things like nobody ever

547
00:28:27,400 --> 00:28:30,120
Speaker 1: thinks about young people and what they.

548
00:28:29,240 --> 00:28:30,399
Speaker 3: What they care about.

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Speaker 1: You know, I remember feeling not having Yeah, I remember

550
00:28:33,880 --> 00:28:36,600
Speaker 1: feeling like I don't have a voice. Even little little

551
00:28:36,680 --> 00:28:40,680
Speaker 1: kids have something to say, you know what I'm saying.

552
00:28:40,720 --> 00:28:43,800
Speaker 1: So we want to get their opinion on a state

553
00:28:43,840 --> 00:28:45,280
Speaker 1: of the world and just see how they live and

554
00:28:45,320 --> 00:28:46,720
Speaker 1: what they got going, and we getting up in their

555
00:28:46,720 --> 00:28:49,720
Speaker 1: business today, y'all. So stay tuned and we'll be right back.

556
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Speaker 2: And I got to go clean my drawers. I'll be

557
00:28:51,640 --> 00:28:58,840
Speaker 2: back in a second, all right, y'all. So I came

558
00:28:58,920 --> 00:29:02,520
Speaker 2: up with this idea because me and Aja we sit

559
00:29:02,600 --> 00:29:05,040
Speaker 2: and talk with y'all. We've been talking with y'all for years,

560
00:29:05,360 --> 00:29:09,360
Speaker 2: and it's always from a perspective of a thirty something

561
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Speaker 2: and a forty something.

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Speaker 1: Bitch. Don't play on me very clear. I'm forty and

563
00:29:14,480 --> 00:29:16,640
Speaker 1: Tammy's older than means okay, so.

564
00:29:16,560 --> 00:29:18,479
Speaker 3: They say, I don't know how true that is.

565
00:29:20,360 --> 00:29:25,320
Speaker 2: So I wanted to bring on some younger women so

566
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Speaker 2: we can have a conversation with them about love and

567
00:29:29,280 --> 00:29:32,840
Speaker 2: life and their thoughts on things like politics and all

568
00:29:32,880 --> 00:29:35,760
Speaker 2: the things that they may have a different perspective than

569
00:29:35,760 --> 00:29:41,120
Speaker 2: we have right now as older women. So thank you

570
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Speaker 2: Mahogany and Naira for joining us on we time back.

571
00:29:45,160 --> 00:29:46,840
Speaker 3: I appreciate you, all right.

572
00:29:46,880 --> 00:29:49,200
Speaker 2: So these are my girls, These are my babies. This

573
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Speaker 2: is my best friend's niece, and this is one of

574
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Speaker 2: my clients and friends, Octavia's young daughter Mahogany. So I

575
00:29:55,280 --> 00:29:57,000
Speaker 2: reached out to them and I was like, would y'all

576
00:29:57,000 --> 00:29:59,680
Speaker 2: be willing to join us and talk about y'all life?

577
00:30:00,240 --> 00:30:02,440
Speaker 2: And I thought they were gonna be nervous, but both

578
00:30:02,480 --> 00:30:03,440
Speaker 2: of them was like, okay.

579
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Speaker 1: Let's sprint on the mic. Though I don't know about

580
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Speaker 1: that project.

581
00:30:10,760 --> 00:30:13,840
Speaker 2: All right, so let's get into it now. We're gonna

582
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Speaker 2: start with you tell everybody who you are.

583
00:30:17,800 --> 00:30:19,600
Speaker 3: You know what you can do? Tell lets your name

584
00:30:19,840 --> 00:30:21,479
Speaker 3: and describe yourself in three words.

585
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Speaker 1: Girl, this is a whole job. And if you go ahead,

586
00:30:25,920 --> 00:30:26,400
Speaker 1: all right.

587
00:30:27,560 --> 00:30:31,520
Speaker 4: My name is Jenirah. I'm from Youngstown, Ohio, and three

588
00:30:31,520 --> 00:30:38,960
Speaker 4: words to describe me would be laid back, go get

589
00:30:38,960 --> 00:30:45,400
Speaker 4: her period? And why am I? Why do I have

590
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Speaker 4: no words to give you a third word? I got

591
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Speaker 4: a third word. I got a third word, dependable.

592
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Speaker 1: Okay, that's a good one.

593
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Speaker 3: What about you, Mahogany.

594
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Speaker 6: My name is Mahogany Ribbons. I'm Charlie and I'm eighteen,

595
00:31:02,160 --> 00:31:06,440
Speaker 6: and three words to describe me will probably be charismatic, intriguing,

596
00:31:06,640 --> 00:31:07,640
Speaker 6: and optimistic.

597
00:31:07,960 --> 00:31:09,320
Speaker 3: Okay, that's riz right.

598
00:31:10,680 --> 00:31:19,200
Speaker 1: Okay, So we're starting with we're starting with starting with dating?

599
00:31:19,400 --> 00:31:20,720
Speaker 1: Or are we starting with politics?

600
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Speaker 3: We're talking.

601
00:31:21,800 --> 00:31:24,040
Speaker 2: I want to start with y'all goals, like I want

602
00:31:24,040 --> 00:31:26,080
Speaker 2: to know a little bit about before we get into

603
00:31:26,160 --> 00:31:29,200
Speaker 2: like the men and the conversations about love, which I

604
00:31:29,240 --> 00:31:31,520
Speaker 2: really want to talk about. I just want to know, like,

605
00:31:32,040 --> 00:31:35,560
Speaker 2: what are some of your goals as young women? Well,

606
00:31:35,640 --> 00:31:38,480
Speaker 2: right now, I want to work on getting a car.

607
00:31:38,560 --> 00:31:42,240
Speaker 2: I want to get my own car. And I'm in

608
00:31:42,280 --> 00:31:44,720
Speaker 2: school right now, so basically that's just my main goal

609
00:31:44,800 --> 00:31:45,520
Speaker 2: for right now.

610
00:31:45,640 --> 00:31:47,640
Speaker 3: But so are you still in high school? Are you

611
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Speaker 3: starting college?

612
00:31:48,520 --> 00:31:52,240
Speaker 6: I'm starting college now. I just graduated actually at June tenth.

613
00:31:52,520 --> 00:31:54,120
Speaker 3: Okay, congratulations, thank you.

614
00:31:54,400 --> 00:31:59,240
Speaker 6: Yay, y'all graduated from Maley Creek High School and I'll

615
00:31:59,280 --> 00:32:01,640
Speaker 6: go to Central pet and I'm taking a few classes there.

616
00:32:01,840 --> 00:32:05,040
Speaker 1: Okay, So what's your what you major in finance?

617
00:32:05,440 --> 00:32:08,080
Speaker 2: Okay, that's a good and they needs money, so that's

618
00:32:08,080 --> 00:32:08,840
Speaker 2: a good.

619
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Speaker 3: And what about you?

620
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Speaker 4: I'm twenty and I just graduated from cosmetology school last October. Congratulations,

621
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Speaker 4: thank you.

622
00:32:20,280 --> 00:32:21,200
Speaker 3: Where did you go to school?

623
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Speaker 4: I went to school at Charlotte. That's okay, girl. So

624
00:32:34,920 --> 00:32:37,640
Speaker 4: a few of my goals is to just have a

625
00:32:37,680 --> 00:32:43,560
Speaker 4: steady clientel, be booked out for months, and once I

626
00:32:43,600 --> 00:32:47,280
Speaker 4: get that clientele, I want to eventually like move from

627
00:32:47,280 --> 00:32:49,120
Speaker 4: behind the chair. And I want to get more into

628
00:32:49,280 --> 00:32:51,959
Speaker 4: like retail. I want to get more into like the

629
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Speaker 4: real estate part. I want to open soon suites.

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Speaker 1: Yes there, that's that's lovely, ladies.

631
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Speaker 2: Okay, now that we know, I was just making sure

632
00:33:01,160 --> 00:33:04,360
Speaker 2: y'all had some because it was import that y'all have goals.

633
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Speaker 1: Because I feel like I didn't have any graduating from

634
00:33:07,200 --> 00:33:09,640
Speaker 1: high school. I have no major goals. I know I

635
00:33:09,760 --> 00:33:12,920
Speaker 1: wanted to go to college, I did not finish my degree,

636
00:33:13,800 --> 00:33:17,240
Speaker 1: and I didn't have like I'm impressed because I didn't

637
00:33:17,240 --> 00:33:18,760
Speaker 1: know what the hell I wanted to do come out

638
00:33:18,760 --> 00:33:19,400
Speaker 1: of high school.

639
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Speaker 2: I think we live in a time now where entrepreneurship

640
00:33:23,840 --> 00:33:27,200
Speaker 2: been more pushed, and like, get into your bag has

641
00:33:27,240 --> 00:33:29,520
Speaker 2: been more push than when we was eighteen years old.

642
00:33:30,280 --> 00:33:31,920
Speaker 2: When I came out of school, I was.

643
00:33:31,920 --> 00:33:35,600
Speaker 3: Like, I wanted some new lip blows and I want

644
00:33:35,600 --> 00:33:42,800
Speaker 3: my hair. So I'm very proud of y'all.

645
00:33:44,440 --> 00:33:46,800
Speaker 2: I definitely want us because we talk about a lot

646
00:33:46,840 --> 00:33:49,640
Speaker 2: about relationships on this show, so I definitely wanted to

647
00:33:49,680 --> 00:33:54,400
Speaker 2: get into your relationships as young women, you know, because I.

648
00:33:54,320 --> 00:33:57,280
Speaker 3: Know y'all got little things going on, and.

649
00:33:58,160 --> 00:34:02,920
Speaker 2: So hand on, I wrote down some questions. Do y'all

650
00:34:02,960 --> 00:34:03,800
Speaker 2: have boyfriends?

651
00:34:04,480 --> 00:34:04,920
Speaker 7: I don't know.

652
00:34:05,120 --> 00:34:06,080
Speaker 5: I don't have a boyfriend.

653
00:34:06,080 --> 00:34:08,160
Speaker 3: You don't have a boyfriend. What about you?

654
00:34:08,280 --> 00:34:10,240
Speaker 4: I had a boyfriend, You had a boyfriend?

655
00:34:10,560 --> 00:34:12,040
Speaker 3: How long you been with your boyfriend?

656
00:34:13,000 --> 00:34:14,440
Speaker 4: It's gonna be a year in October?

657
00:34:15,000 --> 00:34:16,759
Speaker 3: You would love he love?

658
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Speaker 5: Right?

659
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Speaker 1: You bet? It's it's some wax now, you bet it

660
00:34:21,640 --> 00:34:22,120
Speaker 1: say it right?

661
00:34:25,520 --> 00:34:28,240
Speaker 3: So why are you single?

662
00:34:28,719 --> 00:34:31,080
Speaker 5: Why am I single? I don't know.

663
00:34:31,239 --> 00:34:34,480
Speaker 7: It's like I don't think that the boys who be

664
00:34:34,520 --> 00:34:36,719
Speaker 7: coming for me and I don't really chase, so I

665
00:34:36,800 --> 00:34:37,600
Speaker 7: usually just wait.

666
00:34:38,120 --> 00:34:40,879
Speaker 6: And the people who be coming for me, they don't

667
00:34:40,920 --> 00:34:43,319
Speaker 6: really live up to the standard that I won't like

668
00:34:43,600 --> 00:34:45,080
Speaker 6: a lot of them. They don't even have a car,

669
00:34:45,160 --> 00:34:47,160
Speaker 6: and I don't have a car either, So if we

670
00:34:47,239 --> 00:34:50,160
Speaker 6: both don't have cars, I don't think that's gonna work out.

671
00:34:50,920 --> 00:34:53,439
Speaker 5: Somebody gotta meet somebody in the middle, like I can.

672
00:34:54,640 --> 00:34:56,800
Speaker 3: So basically, you just want someone who's focused.

673
00:34:56,840 --> 00:34:58,799
Speaker 2: You're focused on your goals, and you want someone who

674
00:34:58,880 --> 00:35:00,040
Speaker 2: has their own goals before you.

675
00:35:00,360 --> 00:35:02,960
Speaker 6: Or at least a car, at least a car, or

676
00:35:03,000 --> 00:35:07,239
Speaker 6: at least the money to give me an uber around like.

677
00:35:07,880 --> 00:35:07,920
Speaker 7: That.

678
00:35:08,000 --> 00:35:10,560
Speaker 6: I could do that, but a lot of times that's

679
00:35:10,600 --> 00:35:13,040
Speaker 6: just not what be going on, Like their heads just

680
00:35:13,040 --> 00:35:13,839
Speaker 6: be everywhere else.

681
00:35:13,920 --> 00:35:16,520
Speaker 1: So I think the young girls usually always have a

682
00:35:16,560 --> 00:35:19,160
Speaker 1: car before the young young guys, So it's always somebody

683
00:35:19,239 --> 00:35:21,680
Speaker 1: driving somebody's daughter car somewhere.

684
00:35:21,840 --> 00:35:24,759
Speaker 2: But don't do you feel like that's a hard expectation

685
00:35:24,880 --> 00:35:26,160
Speaker 2: for an eighteen year old boy.

686
00:35:26,200 --> 00:35:30,000
Speaker 6: He's just a I do, But I mean, I just

687
00:35:30,000 --> 00:35:31,640
Speaker 6: want to get myself to get the first, Like, I

688
00:35:31,640 --> 00:35:33,640
Speaker 6: don't think that I can deal with somebody else not

689
00:35:33,680 --> 00:35:38,960
Speaker 6: having no car. I mean, I feel like, because if

690
00:35:39,000 --> 00:35:41,880
Speaker 6: you're eighteen, Like honestly, like you guys just have to

691
00:35:41,880 --> 00:35:43,000
Speaker 6: start getting your life together.

692
00:35:43,080 --> 00:35:45,480
Speaker 7: Like at this point you have to start doing something.

693
00:35:45,520 --> 00:35:48,359
Speaker 6: I mean, I could see if you offering me like

694
00:35:48,920 --> 00:35:50,360
Speaker 6: uber money or something, but you're not.

695
00:35:50,680 --> 00:35:52,040
Speaker 5: Like a lot of just don't say you're.

696
00:35:51,960 --> 00:35:52,360
Speaker 3: Not doing it.

697
00:35:52,440 --> 00:35:54,960
Speaker 1: So do you have a driver's license? Because I realize

698
00:35:54,960 --> 00:35:56,720
Speaker 1: a lot of the young boys don't even have a license.

699
00:35:56,760 --> 00:35:58,359
Speaker 1: I'm not even interested in getting one.

700
00:35:58,880 --> 00:36:01,040
Speaker 7: Y'all can't be doing that. Y'all have to step up, like,

701
00:36:02,800 --> 00:36:04,680
Speaker 7: oh my gosh, I can't.

702
00:36:05,480 --> 00:36:08,120
Speaker 1: Never been issued a license. And half of them wonna

703
00:36:08,160 --> 00:36:09,760
Speaker 1: be thirty when no drive is licensed.

704
00:36:09,800 --> 00:36:13,759
Speaker 3: Yes, the same they're gonna have licenses. So let me

705
00:36:13,800 --> 00:36:15,640
Speaker 3: ask you this. You say you're in love, Well, what

706
00:36:15,680 --> 00:36:17,640
Speaker 3: does it mean to be in love? In your opinion?

707
00:36:18,719 --> 00:36:23,000
Speaker 4: So to me, it's like I don't want to stay home,

708
00:36:23,120 --> 00:36:25,160
Speaker 4: but like you know, it's like a safe space for you.

709
00:36:25,239 --> 00:36:29,040
Speaker 4: It's like that's who you run to when like you're

710
00:36:29,320 --> 00:36:31,480
Speaker 4: you just going through anything. You know, it's like a

711
00:36:31,520 --> 00:36:36,680
Speaker 4: comfort for you, Like it's I don't know, like it's

712
00:36:36,760 --> 00:36:40,279
Speaker 4: just like it's a feeling you have, like you just

713
00:36:40,280 --> 00:36:44,319
Speaker 4: feel so secure, you feel wanted, you feel loved, all

714
00:36:44,360 --> 00:36:48,800
Speaker 4: of the things that like make you feel cozy inside.

715
00:36:49,880 --> 00:36:53,160
Speaker 2: So when you think of love is it's more about

716
00:36:53,200 --> 00:36:56,319
Speaker 2: how it makes you feel or how you want to

717
00:36:56,360 --> 00:36:57,160
Speaker 2: give love too.

718
00:36:57,600 --> 00:36:59,520
Speaker 3: Because I know you didn't mention.

719
00:37:00,480 --> 00:37:01,799
Speaker 4: You asked me what is it like to be?

720
00:37:03,000 --> 00:37:05,080
Speaker 3: What has loved me to you? But you didn't say

721
00:37:05,120 --> 00:37:07,319
Speaker 3: anything about No?

722
00:37:08,880 --> 00:37:10,319
Speaker 1: Are you love right?

723
00:37:10,440 --> 00:37:12,440
Speaker 3: Are you? Are you giving love to this person?

724
00:37:12,520 --> 00:37:12,680
Speaker 1: Man?

725
00:37:12,920 --> 00:37:13,400
Speaker 3: Yes?

726
00:37:13,920 --> 00:37:15,160
Speaker 4: Yes I am. Man.

727
00:37:16,880 --> 00:37:20,040
Speaker 3: In what ways? Did you say it's hot?

728
00:37:20,800 --> 00:37:23,320
Speaker 6: It's a little toasted, just a little bit, just a

729
00:37:23,360 --> 00:37:26,840
Speaker 6: little bit, just a little toasty, you know, go ahead,

730
00:37:27,080 --> 00:37:27,479
Speaker 6: But yes.

731
00:37:27,760 --> 00:37:32,359
Speaker 4: I feel like I feel like in this generation and

732
00:37:32,400 --> 00:37:35,400
Speaker 4: like not even in generation, but like this on social media,

733
00:37:35,440 --> 00:37:38,000
Speaker 4: Like I feel like we put out that like men

734
00:37:38,120 --> 00:37:40,799
Speaker 4: are like supposed to do all of this and like

735
00:37:40,840 --> 00:37:43,960
Speaker 4: girls are supposed to do nothing in return, and I

736
00:37:43,960 --> 00:37:46,560
Speaker 4: feel like that's not true. Like I feel like everything

737
00:37:46,600 --> 00:37:48,640
Speaker 4: that my boyfriend does for me, and like everything that

738
00:37:48,680 --> 00:37:50,160
Speaker 4: I want him to do for me, I should be

739
00:37:50,200 --> 00:37:52,640
Speaker 4: able to reciprocate, and like also I do do that

740
00:37:52,680 --> 00:37:56,800
Speaker 4: for him. So I feel like, because like fifty.

741
00:37:56,360 --> 00:37:57,879
Speaker 3: That's good. I'm glad to hear that.

742
00:37:57,960 --> 00:38:00,279
Speaker 1: I think some of the conversations we see online are

743
00:38:00,320 --> 00:38:02,879
Speaker 1: also from older people. Sometimes it's not from the younger

744
00:38:02,920 --> 00:38:05,680
Speaker 1: person perspective, because you guys are building. So when you

745
00:38:05,680 --> 00:38:08,719
Speaker 1: see older women online talking about relationships and what you

746
00:38:08,760 --> 00:38:13,960
Speaker 1: know they require and and they're hard stops, it's because

747
00:38:14,280 --> 00:38:16,280
Speaker 1: you expect this man to be in a certain position.

748
00:38:16,360 --> 00:38:19,840
Speaker 1: At this point, y'all are together. You're building two young people.

749
00:38:19,960 --> 00:38:23,280
Speaker 1: Like it's given that he might not have a car. Okay,

750
00:38:23,360 --> 00:38:25,480
Speaker 1: it's given that y'all gonna have to do fifty to fifty.

751
00:38:25,840 --> 00:38:28,680
Speaker 1: But these conversations between adult women is just a little

752
00:38:28,719 --> 00:38:32,600
Speaker 1: bit different because we have higher expectations. I think I

753
00:38:32,640 --> 00:38:33,879
Speaker 1: always wanted to live a new set.

754
00:38:35,280 --> 00:38:38,839
Speaker 2: I think you see adult conversations because that's your algorithm, right.

755
00:38:38,960 --> 00:38:41,480
Speaker 2: We ain't got no young like the young conversations. I'm

756
00:38:41,480 --> 00:38:42,279
Speaker 2: sure they haven't them.

757
00:38:42,280 --> 00:38:46,880
Speaker 3: We're just not seeing it because they're not directly.

758
00:38:46,640 --> 00:38:49,279
Speaker 1: And y'all don't be talking like, no, we just don't see.

759
00:38:49,480 --> 00:38:55,960
Speaker 1: My niece don't talk, she whispers.

760
00:38:56,080 --> 00:38:59,040
Speaker 3: So I have another question. What are your thoughts on marriage?

761
00:38:59,680 --> 00:39:00,880
Speaker 3: How do you feel about marriage?

762
00:39:00,880 --> 00:39:03,359
Speaker 2: Do you feel like that's something that you would want

763
00:39:03,360 --> 00:39:05,359
Speaker 2: in the future or you feel like marriage is an

764
00:39:05,360 --> 00:39:08,840
Speaker 2: idea of the past, Like is it something that.

765
00:39:08,840 --> 00:39:12,160
Speaker 3: You require or you could just be with someone like

766
00:39:12,440 --> 00:39:14,600
Speaker 3: is your boyfriend forever? What do you think.

767
00:39:16,000 --> 00:39:17,560
Speaker 4: I'm not gonna say that I would be with someone

768
00:39:17,560 --> 00:39:20,120
Speaker 4: from my boyfriend forever. But like right now, in this

769
00:39:20,920 --> 00:39:23,759
Speaker 4: day and age, as a twenty year old, I'm not

770
00:39:23,840 --> 00:39:26,880
Speaker 4: dating to marry. Maybe like a little later in my

771
00:39:26,960 --> 00:39:29,960
Speaker 4: life I would be dating to marry, but right now, no,

772
00:39:30,560 --> 00:39:32,359
Speaker 4: But I do want to get married at some point

773
00:39:32,400 --> 00:39:34,440
Speaker 4: in my later days. I just feel like right now,

774
00:39:34,480 --> 00:39:37,560
Speaker 4: like I'm young, like I don't want to be like

775
00:39:37,600 --> 00:39:39,759
Speaker 4: I'm in a committed relationship, like it's definitely committed, but

776
00:39:39,800 --> 00:39:43,319
Speaker 4: like marriage is like full on commitment. You know, I'll

777
00:39:43,320 --> 00:39:48,560
Speaker 4: start everything that everything comes together as one, and you know,

778
00:39:48,680 --> 00:39:51,520
Speaker 4: it's just like I'm not against it. I can see

779
00:39:51,520 --> 00:39:53,680
Speaker 4: any young people getting married on TikTok at like twenty

780
00:39:53,920 --> 00:39:57,160
Speaker 4: like I been thinking it's cute, but it's not for me.

781
00:39:58,200 --> 00:39:59,399
Speaker 4: At twenty it's not for me.

782
00:40:00,440 --> 00:40:02,240
Speaker 3: But alright, so but you would get married.

783
00:40:02,400 --> 00:40:04,319
Speaker 4: I do wanna get married in the future, And what's

784
00:40:04,320 --> 00:40:07,680
Speaker 4: a good age. I feel like t like twenty seven,

785
00:40:08,440 --> 00:40:12,560
Speaker 4: like my later twenties, early thirties, but I wouldn't want

786
00:40:12,560 --> 00:40:13,719
Speaker 4: to get married no younger than that.

787
00:40:13,880 --> 00:40:15,680
Speaker 1: And you think the person you went right now, y'all

788
00:40:15,719 --> 00:40:19,960
Speaker 1: gonna make it to early late twenties, early thirties.

789
00:40:20,680 --> 00:40:22,440
Speaker 4: My aumby asking me this all the time, and I

790
00:40:22,440 --> 00:40:24,880
Speaker 4: don't feel like okay, So I'm not oblivious to the

791
00:40:24,880 --> 00:40:28,840
Speaker 4: fact that, like we're young, so like you know, like

792
00:40:28,880 --> 00:40:32,160
Speaker 4: when you young, like relationships is like temporary, like you know,

793
00:40:32,280 --> 00:40:34,360
Speaker 4: you don't even know everything that you like right now,

794
00:40:34,520 --> 00:40:38,440
Speaker 4: like you you're growing and you outgrow stuff. So I'm

795
00:40:38,480 --> 00:40:41,560
Speaker 4: not oblivious to the fact that, like, probably not, but

796
00:40:42,320 --> 00:40:44,120
Speaker 4: I do, like I would love that, like you know,

797
00:40:44,120 --> 00:40:46,239
Speaker 4: I'm not against it, like I I love my boyfriend again,

798
00:40:46,320 --> 00:40:48,319
Speaker 4: like I would like to be able to grow with

799
00:40:48,400 --> 00:40:53,000
Speaker 4: each other versus outgrowing each other. But I'm not like

800
00:40:53,120 --> 00:40:53,680
Speaker 4: settling that.

801
00:40:53,840 --> 00:40:56,160
Speaker 3: Like and what about you in Mahogany, how do you

802
00:40:56,160 --> 00:40:57,160
Speaker 3: feel about marriage?

803
00:40:59,200 --> 00:41:02,439
Speaker 6: I mean, I mean, just like women in my life

804
00:41:02,480 --> 00:41:04,799
Speaker 6: are really married, so I don't even really have a

805
00:41:04,800 --> 00:41:05,839
Speaker 6: good example about it.

806
00:41:06,200 --> 00:41:09,920
Speaker 7: But marriage for me, like I don't, I don't really know.

807
00:41:10,040 --> 00:41:12,600
Speaker 6: I mean my angle, like I want to get married

808
00:41:12,600 --> 00:41:14,640
Speaker 6: at one point in my life, but I don't see

809
00:41:14,680 --> 00:41:17,080
Speaker 6: that as like a real big goal for me because

810
00:41:17,680 --> 00:41:21,400
Speaker 6: I feel like I'm my own person again. That's like unity.

811
00:41:21,480 --> 00:41:24,799
Speaker 6: Like once you marry somebody, you just come as one.

812
00:41:25,000 --> 00:41:26,960
Speaker 6: And I don't know, I just want to be my

813
00:41:27,040 --> 00:41:27,919
Speaker 6: hogany right now.

814
00:41:28,440 --> 00:41:32,840
Speaker 7: Yeah, but maybe like when I'm twenty eight, twenty eight.

815
00:41:32,760 --> 00:41:37,759
Speaker 1: Yes, that when your birthday it just passed, Yeah, twenty

816
00:41:37,840 --> 00:41:42,120
Speaker 1: ninth of July, Leo, that's Leo, right.

817
00:41:43,480 --> 00:41:45,960
Speaker 6: I don't know, though, I feel like marriage ties people down,

818
00:41:46,000 --> 00:41:51,120
Speaker 6: and you gotta accept a lot with marriage, like especially

819
00:41:51,160 --> 00:41:53,319
Speaker 6: from what I've seen, like people put up with a

820
00:41:53,360 --> 00:41:55,680
Speaker 6: lot just in the name of marriage, and I don't know,

821
00:41:55,680 --> 00:41:57,000
Speaker 6: I couldn't deal with it.

822
00:41:57,120 --> 00:41:58,560
Speaker 3: So yeah, that's fair.

823
00:41:58,760 --> 00:42:02,960
Speaker 1: Yeah, that's why we gonna say.

824
00:42:04,160 --> 00:42:07,239
Speaker 3: But I desire that though, you know, that's something you don't.

825
00:42:07,360 --> 00:42:10,680
Speaker 2: I don't. I don't desire to grow old alone, you know.

826
00:42:11,480 --> 00:42:13,839
Speaker 2: I mean some people are okay with that and there's

827
00:42:13,880 --> 00:42:16,040
Speaker 2: nothing wrong with it, But me, what about you is?

828
00:42:16,520 --> 00:42:18,800
Speaker 1: I think the people who are okay with growing alone

829
00:42:18,840 --> 00:42:21,640
Speaker 1: are the ones who have already had families, like, they

830
00:42:21,719 --> 00:42:24,319
Speaker 1: already had kids, they have probably already been married. Because

831
00:42:24,320 --> 00:42:27,640
Speaker 1: if you speak to a divorcee like a woman I

832
00:42:27,640 --> 00:42:30,560
Speaker 1: don't know, forty to fifty, they do not desire to

833
00:42:30,600 --> 00:42:33,840
Speaker 1: be married ever again. Nor they're not looking forward anyway,

834
00:42:34,360 --> 00:42:38,920
Speaker 1: and I think because we haven't actually done things, you know,

835
00:42:39,320 --> 00:42:43,279
Speaker 1: it might look lit, but even just cohabitating, as I

836
00:42:43,320 --> 00:42:46,880
Speaker 1: spoke about last week, Okay, on last week's episode, it

837
00:42:47,000 --> 00:42:51,080
Speaker 1: is fucking hard. So I went mahogany. When like having

838
00:42:51,120 --> 00:42:53,520
Speaker 1: to split yourself in half? You know you want to.

839
00:42:53,920 --> 00:42:55,640
Speaker 1: I like to say I like to be single in

840
00:42:55,640 --> 00:42:59,920
Speaker 1: a relationship, which could be very problematic, problematic for most people,

841
00:43:00,440 --> 00:43:02,560
Speaker 1: but that's really how I feel, and not because I

842
00:43:02,600 --> 00:43:03,960
Speaker 1: want to be able to do what I want to

843
00:43:04,000 --> 00:43:06,400
Speaker 1: do outside of this relationship. I just want to make

844
00:43:06,400 --> 00:43:10,120
Speaker 1: sure I can maintain my own independence within a union.

845
00:43:10,480 --> 00:43:14,600
Speaker 1: And when you marry, I feel like you sometimes lose

846
00:43:14,920 --> 00:43:20,040
Speaker 1: yourself women oftentimes I don't think men consider that, and

847
00:43:20,400 --> 00:43:23,719
Speaker 1: that's that could be our perception, but we do end

848
00:43:23,800 --> 00:43:28,760
Speaker 1: up giving up a lot to maintain relationships, that's true.

849
00:43:29,600 --> 00:43:32,120
Speaker 2: What are your what are your thoughts on motherhood? Like,

850
00:43:33,320 --> 00:43:34,759
Speaker 2: how do you feel about motherhood?

851
00:43:35,280 --> 00:43:39,000
Speaker 6: I think motherhood is very significant a persius life. I

852
00:43:39,000 --> 00:43:43,360
Speaker 6: think that everybody needs parenthood actually, like I think everybody

853
00:43:43,400 --> 00:43:46,279
Speaker 6: needs both parents. But I feel like you could raise

854
00:43:46,320 --> 00:43:49,760
Speaker 6: a daughter without her father, so motherhood is definitely important.

855
00:43:49,840 --> 00:43:53,279
Speaker 6: Like what about a son though, no, you a son

856
00:43:53,360 --> 00:43:57,960
Speaker 6: need his daddy, like to show to display what a

857
00:43:58,000 --> 00:44:00,800
Speaker 6: man's supposed to be like because because a lot of people,

858
00:44:00,880 --> 00:44:03,920
Speaker 6: a lot of my friends personally, they're like really misguided

859
00:44:04,200 --> 00:44:06,320
Speaker 6: because they don't have a father figure in their life,

860
00:44:06,680 --> 00:44:08,880
Speaker 6: but they have their mother. They see their mom struggling

861
00:44:08,920 --> 00:44:11,359
Speaker 6: and stuff, so they think it's okay for a woman

862
00:44:11,400 --> 00:44:13,080
Speaker 6: to be out here struggling. Like they think that's what

863
00:44:13,160 --> 00:44:15,160
Speaker 6: y'are supposed to do. But it's not like people need

864
00:44:15,160 --> 00:44:15,840
Speaker 6: they das.

865
00:44:15,920 --> 00:44:19,399
Speaker 2: But motherhood is very important, Like you don't do you think?

866
00:44:19,560 --> 00:44:23,040
Speaker 2: So you said, like girl, like you can raise a

867
00:44:23,080 --> 00:44:25,440
Speaker 2: girl without a father. Why do you feel like a

868
00:44:25,480 --> 00:44:26,520
Speaker 2: girl doesn't need a father?

869
00:44:26,719 --> 00:44:31,480
Speaker 6: Because I mean even though even though she do, but

870
00:44:31,800 --> 00:44:34,880
Speaker 6: it's like nine times I tend she's gonna learn how

871
00:44:34,920 --> 00:44:37,120
Speaker 6: to do most of the stuff for her by herself

872
00:44:37,320 --> 00:44:40,439
Speaker 6: because like I don't know, it's just a woman thing,

873
00:44:40,600 --> 00:44:44,239
Speaker 6: Like you're gonna learn how to take care of we're smarter, yeah, yeah, like.

874
00:44:46,080 --> 00:44:46,360
Speaker 1: Prone.

875
00:44:46,360 --> 00:44:48,239
Speaker 2: So I don't know, Yeah, I don't know if that's it.

876
00:44:48,320 --> 00:44:50,359
Speaker 2: I think it's just that that's what we've seen. We've

877
00:44:50,400 --> 00:44:53,239
Speaker 2: seen women do it on their own. We've seen women

878
00:44:53,360 --> 00:44:56,600
Speaker 2: raise women to be independent, which is a word I

879
00:44:57,080 --> 00:44:57,920
Speaker 2: personally hate.

880
00:44:58,200 --> 00:44:59,600
Speaker 3: I don't I don't subscribe to.

881
00:45:00,560 --> 00:45:06,280
Speaker 2: No other race of women is like strong, strong Asian

882
00:45:06,320 --> 00:45:08,840
Speaker 2: women or strong White women.

883
00:45:08,960 --> 00:45:10,560
Speaker 3: It's just strong Black women.

884
00:45:11,000 --> 00:45:14,400
Speaker 2: We've adopted this idea that we are supposed to be

885
00:45:14,440 --> 00:45:17,160
Speaker 2: strong and independent when we really are supposed to be

886
00:45:17,200 --> 00:45:21,880
Speaker 2: a unit and rely on our male counterpart. So so

887
00:45:21,960 --> 00:45:24,560
Speaker 2: I understand why you would feel that way, Like where

888
00:45:24,600 --> 00:45:26,880
Speaker 2: you see women doing it by theirselves, so you feel

889
00:45:26,880 --> 00:45:28,720
Speaker 2: like a woman can raise a girl to be fine

890
00:45:28,760 --> 00:45:29,399
Speaker 2: without a father.

891
00:45:29,480 --> 00:45:31,120
Speaker 3: But we need fathers.

892
00:45:31,040 --> 00:45:34,920
Speaker 1: Absolutely, especially as young women. When you start dating, you

893
00:45:35,120 --> 00:45:39,799
Speaker 1: need to know what as a woman, you need to

894
00:45:39,880 --> 00:45:42,120
Speaker 1: know what a good man looks like. You know what

895
00:45:42,160 --> 00:45:43,680
Speaker 1: I'm saying, And this is why I always talk to

896
00:45:43,719 --> 00:45:45,480
Speaker 1: men if they have a daughter. You're talking all this

897
00:45:45,480 --> 00:45:48,040
Speaker 1: shit about women. Your daughter's gonna break your heart one

898
00:45:48,120 --> 00:45:49,799
Speaker 1: day because you're gonna run into a nigga like you,

899
00:45:49,880 --> 00:45:53,840
Speaker 1: So you better be being the best dad possible to

900
00:45:53,920 --> 00:45:57,880
Speaker 1: your daughter. So girls need dads too, you know what

901
00:45:57,960 --> 00:45:59,919
Speaker 1: I'm saying. I probably wouldn't have went through half the shit.

902
00:46:00,640 --> 00:46:04,200
Speaker 1: My dad wasn't absent, but he just doesn't talk much.

903
00:46:04,680 --> 00:46:06,480
Speaker 1: You know what I'm saying like they my parents weren't.

904
00:46:06,560 --> 00:46:09,279
Speaker 1: They got divorced, but he didn't talk much, so it's

905
00:46:09,320 --> 00:46:11,240
Speaker 1: not like I could go to him for advice anyway,

906
00:46:12,680 --> 00:46:15,360
Speaker 1: So I don't know. And when I did ask for advice,

907
00:46:15,400 --> 00:46:19,600
Speaker 1: it was to be by yourself, was the advice from

908
00:46:19,640 --> 00:46:20,080
Speaker 1: my daddy.

909
00:46:21,280 --> 00:46:23,799
Speaker 6: Although he's not present with me, he tells me all

910
00:46:23,840 --> 00:46:25,400
Speaker 6: the time. He's like, he just shows me how to

911
00:46:25,440 --> 00:46:27,879
Speaker 6: love myself. But I feel like my mom, she shows

912
00:46:27,880 --> 00:46:28,760
Speaker 6: me how to love the world.

913
00:46:28,880 --> 00:46:31,160
Speaker 5: So, yeah, I hear what you're saying.

914
00:46:31,560 --> 00:46:32,440
Speaker 3: That's a good balance.

915
00:46:32,480 --> 00:46:34,799
Speaker 2: But I do think it's important for our days to

916
00:46:34,880 --> 00:46:36,240
Speaker 2: help us understand.

917
00:46:35,800 --> 00:46:39,200
Speaker 3: How to love men, you know, and not just them

918
00:46:39,280 --> 00:46:42,160
Speaker 3: you know. Like I guess that's the first.

919
00:46:41,960 --> 00:46:44,960
Speaker 2: Example of how to love a man is with your father.

920
00:46:45,360 --> 00:46:46,959
Speaker 2: But if he ain't around, then what.

921
00:46:46,840 --> 00:46:47,239
Speaker 3: Do you do?

922
00:46:49,120 --> 00:46:52,719
Speaker 1: You be looking for daddy and niggas And that's a problem,

923
00:46:55,480 --> 00:46:59,200
Speaker 1: Like you you could pick your daddy, but you can't

924
00:46:59,280 --> 00:47:06,920
Speaker 1: choose your father, right right, that's crazy.

925
00:47:08,200 --> 00:47:11,680
Speaker 2: What do you feel about our generation, me and AJ

926
00:47:11,960 --> 00:47:15,160
Speaker 2: and your moms and aunties, Like what do y'all feel

927
00:47:15,200 --> 00:47:19,400
Speaker 2: like we just don't understand, Like we just don't fucking get.

928
00:47:20,760 --> 00:47:21,680
Speaker 3: This is I don't know.

929
00:47:21,719 --> 00:47:26,120
Speaker 6: This is a really complicated topic actually, but it's mostly

930
00:47:26,160 --> 00:47:28,840
Speaker 6: just social media, like the exposure of social media that

931
00:47:29,040 --> 00:47:31,879
Speaker 6: the younger generation has caught on to, Like I don't

932
00:47:31,920 --> 00:47:35,280
Speaker 6: think the older generation will ever understand that because y'all

933
00:47:35,320 --> 00:47:39,440
Speaker 6: wasn't really there, like how much we are here at presently,

934
00:47:39,920 --> 00:47:42,080
Speaker 6: and it's like we see so much and it's like we.

935
00:47:42,080 --> 00:47:46,560
Speaker 5: Affected by so much. So I don't know.

936
00:47:46,600 --> 00:47:49,080
Speaker 6: I think it's it morphed our minds differently than how

937
00:47:49,120 --> 00:47:52,000
Speaker 6: it was for y'all growing up, especially while we developing,

938
00:47:52,120 --> 00:47:54,080
Speaker 6: Like seeing stuff like that, I don't know. I don't

939
00:47:54,080 --> 00:47:57,080
Speaker 6: think it's normal, but it's happening, Like in the world,

940
00:47:57,120 --> 00:47:57,920
Speaker 6: it's very common.

941
00:47:58,160 --> 00:47:59,000
Speaker 5: So so you.

942
00:47:58,960 --> 00:48:01,439
Speaker 2: Just feel like the access to information that y'all got

943
00:48:01,760 --> 00:48:05,279
Speaker 2: in your formative years was just more so y'all think

944
00:48:05,360 --> 00:48:06,279
Speaker 2: y'all know more than us.

945
00:48:06,400 --> 00:48:07,400
Speaker 5: No, it's not even that.

946
00:48:07,840 --> 00:48:11,080
Speaker 6: It's not even that I feel like kids have been

947
00:48:11,280 --> 00:48:14,760
Speaker 6: it's supposed to more explicit things like you're not supposed

948
00:48:14,760 --> 00:48:16,560
Speaker 6: to be watching it as a kid, Like.

949
00:48:18,560 --> 00:48:19,440
Speaker 5: It's just some things that.

950
00:48:19,400 --> 00:48:21,440
Speaker 6: You was not supposed to see right now, but you

951
00:48:21,520 --> 00:48:25,080
Speaker 6: got to see it and you can't unsee it, Yes,

952
00:48:25,160 --> 00:48:28,080
Speaker 6: And it's like it traumatizes you and it affects you,

953
00:48:28,200 --> 00:48:34,799
Speaker 6: like and controlling their emotions, like, this generation do not

954
00:48:34,840 --> 00:48:38,279
Speaker 6: know how to control their emotions. Nobody do nobody know

955
00:48:38,280 --> 00:48:39,280
Speaker 6: how to control their emotions.

956
00:48:39,280 --> 00:48:44,200
Speaker 1: Adults don't either. Okay, there teaching us and we don't,

957
00:48:44,320 --> 00:48:47,640
Speaker 1: and we just go about everything the wrong way because

958
00:48:47,680 --> 00:48:51,920
Speaker 1: we're seeing the older generation doing well. Our generation, I

959
00:48:51,920 --> 00:48:55,440
Speaker 1: feel like we had a we saw everything eighties babies,

960
00:48:55,480 --> 00:48:58,480
Speaker 1: like from the change in music or how music is

961
00:48:58,520 --> 00:49:05,280
Speaker 1: even played TV. Internet, like, we experienced all the things.

962
00:49:05,520 --> 00:49:09,399
Speaker 2: And we also grew up during an epidemic. So during

963
00:49:09,480 --> 00:49:12,400
Speaker 2: the eighties, a lot of our parents, a lot of

964
00:49:12,400 --> 00:49:15,680
Speaker 2: our uncles aunties were addicted to drugs. So we were

965
00:49:16,200 --> 00:49:18,040
Speaker 2: latch key kids a lot of us. We were home

966
00:49:18,080 --> 00:49:20,680
Speaker 2: by ourselves oftentimes, and we got to expose to a

967
00:49:20,680 --> 00:49:23,160
Speaker 2: lot of different things too. And I think the parents

968
00:49:23,239 --> 00:49:28,839
Speaker 2: now are just have sheltered our thought. They sheltered you

969
00:49:29,520 --> 00:49:32,160
Speaker 2: because of their experiences. They wanted to just keep you

970
00:49:32,239 --> 00:49:34,800
Speaker 2: safe and keep you away from all of these things

971
00:49:34,800 --> 00:49:37,319
Speaker 2: that we got to see. And in the midst of that,

972
00:49:37,520 --> 00:49:39,759
Speaker 2: you were exposed to so much by looking at your

973
00:49:39,800 --> 00:49:40,880
Speaker 2: tablet all the time.

974
00:49:41,400 --> 00:49:45,800
Speaker 1: So yeah, because parents weren't parenting, like the internet was

975
00:49:46,000 --> 00:49:47,719
Speaker 1: get where my phone at, give them the iPhone or

976
00:49:47,719 --> 00:49:49,680
Speaker 1: given them tablet. They can't even go any place without

977
00:49:49,680 --> 00:49:50,560
Speaker 1: the tablet.

978
00:49:51,280 --> 00:49:56,160
Speaker 2: Because we were outside running the street until the street

979
00:49:56,200 --> 00:49:58,640
Speaker 2: light came on. We were outside running around, and we

980
00:49:58,719 --> 00:50:01,279
Speaker 2: might've been exposed to think exact way, but you were

981
00:50:01,320 --> 00:50:03,600
Speaker 2: in the house being exposed to things all.

982
00:50:03,400 --> 00:50:08,520
Speaker 3: Over the earth. So it's just a different experience. What

983
00:50:08,600 --> 00:50:09,160
Speaker 3: about you?

984
00:50:11,480 --> 00:50:14,360
Speaker 4: Going off of what you said, Like parents like seeing

985
00:50:14,360 --> 00:50:16,160
Speaker 4: a lot, so they were like trying to shelter their

986
00:50:16,239 --> 00:50:19,440
Speaker 4: kids from stuff. I feel like parents just don't understand that,

987
00:50:19,640 --> 00:50:23,040
Speaker 4: Like it's certain stuff your kids have to learn on

988
00:50:23,160 --> 00:50:25,120
Speaker 4: the like on their own. It's certain stuff they have

989
00:50:25,160 --> 00:50:27,640
Speaker 4: to go through to get through. Like you can't preach

990
00:50:27,840 --> 00:50:30,400
Speaker 4: to the choir to death and like expect them to

991
00:50:30,480 --> 00:50:33,080
Speaker 4: just listen. Like, no, your kid's gonna want to see

992
00:50:33,200 --> 00:50:36,279
Speaker 4: firsthand how stuff is gonna play out, how the result is,

993
00:50:36,360 --> 00:50:39,160
Speaker 4: and like I feel like they don't understand that. We

994
00:50:39,280 --> 00:50:42,560
Speaker 4: understand like what could happen, and we just want to

995
00:50:42,560 --> 00:50:46,600
Speaker 4: see for ourselves. Like it's like I don't know, I

996
00:50:46,640 --> 00:50:50,200
Speaker 4: get like that. Yeah, y'all have been around and like

997
00:50:50,440 --> 00:51:03,239
Speaker 4: y'all see stuff around you've been around, You've seen it,

998
00:51:03,440 --> 00:51:06,640
Speaker 4: you went through it. Like I get that, we get that,

999
00:51:06,760 --> 00:51:10,120
Speaker 4: but it's like you can't shelter us, and like expect

1000
00:51:10,680 --> 00:51:14,600
Speaker 4: you vocally telling us something is like enough versus us

1001
00:51:14,960 --> 00:51:17,359
Speaker 4: physically seeing it firsthand on our own.

1002
00:51:18,280 --> 00:51:18,680
Speaker 2: M M.

1003
00:51:18,680 --> 00:51:22,319
Speaker 1: I agree. And what Mahogany said, I do expect our

1004
00:51:22,800 --> 00:51:25,120
Speaker 1: the younger generation to be smarter than the last one.

1005
00:51:26,640 --> 00:51:29,120
Speaker 1: Our parents probably can't accept that we might be smarter

1006
00:51:29,200 --> 00:51:31,480
Speaker 1: than them, but we're supposed to be so. I expect

1007
00:51:31,560 --> 00:51:34,440
Speaker 1: y'all because y'all have more access to more information at

1008
00:51:34,440 --> 00:51:37,560
Speaker 1: a younger age, you should be accelerated at this point

1009
00:51:37,840 --> 00:51:43,560
Speaker 1: with life. Sometimes. But what you just said about not

1010
00:51:43,640 --> 00:51:47,239
Speaker 1: letting them do the things, Yeah, and see, this is

1011
00:51:47,239 --> 00:51:49,000
Speaker 1: why some of my friends get mad at me. I'll

1012
00:51:49,000 --> 00:51:51,480
Speaker 1: be like, fuck black moments, just fucking with them, right

1013
00:51:51,960 --> 00:51:55,480
Speaker 1: because we were just y'all age doing all the dumb shit,

1014
00:51:55,640 --> 00:51:58,920
Speaker 1: experiencing the dumb shit. Like your parents can tell you whatever,

1015
00:51:59,239 --> 00:52:00,880
Speaker 1: but you still want to do what you want to

1016
00:52:00,920 --> 00:52:03,080
Speaker 1: do because you've got to experience it for yourself. Some

1017
00:52:03,120 --> 00:52:06,480
Speaker 1: people can learn from other people's mistakes, some things, certain

1018
00:52:06,520 --> 00:52:08,200
Speaker 1: things I'll look at other people say, I ain't never

1019
00:52:08,239 --> 00:52:09,759
Speaker 1: doing that shit. You ain't got to worry about it.

1020
00:52:09,800 --> 00:52:12,279
Speaker 1: I can learn certain things from other people, but I

1021
00:52:12,360 --> 00:52:15,279
Speaker 1: always did my dirt by myself, and my mama just

1022
00:52:15,280 --> 00:52:17,319
Speaker 1: thought all these people had this influence over me. And

1023
00:52:17,320 --> 00:52:23,480
Speaker 1: I'm like, I'm the influence, I'm the problem. I'm the villain.

1024
00:52:25,239 --> 00:52:29,279
Speaker 1: But parents forget that they were young sometimes, so you

1025
00:52:29,280 --> 00:52:31,680
Speaker 1: put your child on a pedestal and you expect them

1026
00:52:31,960 --> 00:52:35,160
Speaker 1: to be better than you, hopefully right. You want them

1027
00:52:35,160 --> 00:52:37,400
Speaker 1: to be better than you, but they are also human,

1028
00:52:37,520 --> 00:52:40,759
Speaker 1: just human. They're gonna make mistakes, and you made all

1029
00:52:40,840 --> 00:52:46,759
Speaker 1: these mistakes. You forgot he was just doing this shit. Yes,

1030
00:52:46,880 --> 00:52:50,400
Speaker 1: you can't expect somebody what have the life experience to

1031
00:52:50,560 --> 00:52:53,800
Speaker 1: be able, you know, to make all the right decisions

1032
00:52:53,840 --> 00:52:56,440
Speaker 1: all the time. You will have to repeat yourself a lot.

1033
00:52:56,680 --> 00:52:59,439
Speaker 2: And then what you said, half the life experience even

1034
00:52:59,480 --> 00:53:02,680
Speaker 2: less than that, because I feel like the parents now

1035
00:53:02,920 --> 00:53:06,520
Speaker 2: are like very very sheltered of these kids, so they

1036
00:53:06,520 --> 00:53:09,000
Speaker 2: don't even get to experience nothing. I remember one time

1037
00:53:09,000 --> 00:53:13,560
Speaker 2: when my friends was like mad at her baby for

1038
00:53:13,640 --> 00:53:15,839
Speaker 2: not washing the clothes right, but never really gave her

1039
00:53:15,880 --> 00:53:17,600
Speaker 2: the instructions on how to do it.

1040
00:53:18,880 --> 00:53:23,680
Speaker 1: See, and I think I think being alive long enough

1041
00:53:23,719 --> 00:53:26,840
Speaker 1: when no children, we get to see like how things

1042
00:53:26,840 --> 00:53:28,640
Speaker 1: that you know from our childhood, what we would do

1043
00:53:28,680 --> 00:53:30,359
Speaker 1: with our kids, and then we also get to see

1044
00:53:30,400 --> 00:53:33,040
Speaker 1: other people parents, so that type of shit like clean

1045
00:53:33,120 --> 00:53:33,440
Speaker 1: your room.

1046
00:53:33,520 --> 00:53:35,319
Speaker 3: You never showed her how to do it, You just

1047
00:53:35,320 --> 00:53:37,880
Speaker 3: did it for her forever and then one day do it.

1048
00:53:39,200 --> 00:53:42,200
Speaker 1: Yeah, that's not how. It's not supposed to be like that.

1049
00:53:42,840 --> 00:53:45,240
Speaker 3: So that makes perfect sense what you're just saying.

1050
00:53:46,239 --> 00:53:47,360
Speaker 1: All right, she they's smart.

1051
00:53:47,440 --> 00:53:50,960
Speaker 3: I told you, where do you see yourself in ten years?

1052
00:53:53,080 --> 00:53:57,880
Speaker 6: Ten years, I'll be getting married and I'll be finishing

1053
00:53:57,920 --> 00:53:59,760
Speaker 6: up my degree and I have my own house.

1054
00:54:01,200 --> 00:54:03,880
Speaker 7: I'm probably not gonna have no baby, but in me

1055
00:54:03,920 --> 00:54:05,120
Speaker 7: and my husband, we're gonna.

1056
00:54:04,880 --> 00:54:05,640
Speaker 5: Go all vacation.

1057
00:54:08,000 --> 00:54:08,839
Speaker 1: That's all.

1058
00:54:11,840 --> 00:54:12,600
Speaker 5: Whatever I do.

1059
00:54:14,200 --> 00:54:15,960
Speaker 3: Yeah, what about you?

1060
00:54:16,239 --> 00:54:16,879
Speaker 1: That sounds good?

1061
00:54:17,320 --> 00:54:17,919
Speaker 3: Sound good?

1062
00:54:19,080 --> 00:54:22,520
Speaker 1: Life? Don't be like that though, Yeah they can.

1063
00:54:22,840 --> 00:54:25,120
Speaker 6: Oh no, I'm gonna make sure I get that. I

1064
00:54:25,200 --> 00:54:26,800
Speaker 6: deserve that, so I'm getting that cool.

1065
00:54:30,600 --> 00:54:31,399
Speaker 3: What about you now?

1066
00:54:32,320 --> 00:54:35,600
Speaker 4: Ten years from now, I see myself like move slowly

1067
00:54:35,640 --> 00:54:37,800
Speaker 4: moving from behind the chair like I probably wouldn't be

1068
00:54:37,840 --> 00:54:41,480
Speaker 4: fully but just about just like a toe left behind

1069
00:54:41,480 --> 00:54:45,799
Speaker 4: a chair, and I feel like I would be more

1070
00:54:45,840 --> 00:54:49,560
Speaker 4: stable than I am in my twenties. Definitely, I'm not

1071
00:54:49,560 --> 00:54:52,000
Speaker 4: gonna say that I'm gonna have everything put together because

1072
00:54:52,040 --> 00:54:54,279
Speaker 4: I feel like we look at thirty and we light dang,

1073
00:54:54,360 --> 00:54:54,840
Speaker 4: that's old to.

1074
00:54:54,840 --> 00:54:58,239
Speaker 6: Hell, but like you're gonna be thirty and that ten

1075
00:54:58,320 --> 00:55:03,360
Speaker 6: years y'all disrespectful.

1076
00:55:03,400 --> 00:55:08,320
Speaker 3: Actually, no, man, I don't ring no belt.

1077
00:55:13,000 --> 00:55:14,880
Speaker 6: I feel like we look at thirty everbody like you

1078
00:55:14,920 --> 00:55:16,640
Speaker 6: feel met supposed to be put together.

1079
00:55:19,600 --> 00:55:21,120
Speaker 1: On damn auntie, I ain't your auntie.

1080
00:55:21,160 --> 00:55:23,000
Speaker 3: I feel just.

1081
00:55:22,840 --> 00:55:25,440
Speaker 4: Starting to figure that's what about to say. Like, I

1082
00:55:25,440 --> 00:55:28,799
Speaker 4: feel like I'm gonna be like slowly like figuring out

1083
00:55:28,920 --> 00:55:32,160
Speaker 4: what is right, like what it's gonna work for me

1084
00:55:32,239 --> 00:55:35,360
Speaker 4: and what's not working for me. And I feel like

1085
00:55:35,400 --> 00:55:40,640
Speaker 4: I'm in my mature era where I'm grown sexy. I'm thriving.

1086
00:55:41,280 --> 00:55:47,160
Speaker 1: Girl. You don't even get sexy til thirty. Okay, okay, okay,

1087
00:55:47,200 --> 00:55:48,480
Speaker 1: I thought you meant like right now.

1088
00:55:49,040 --> 00:55:51,920
Speaker 4: Yeah, I just see myself like, you know, stable home,

1089
00:55:52,320 --> 00:55:57,360
Speaker 4: stable income, visiting countries, you know, just thriving.

1090
00:55:57,880 --> 00:56:02,080
Speaker 1: Yeah, I mean, how do y'all think the music now

1091
00:56:02,239 --> 00:56:07,640
Speaker 1: plays on relationships? Like what do y'all think about relationships?

1092
00:56:08,560 --> 00:56:10,880
Speaker 4: Like like literal like intimate really.

1093
00:56:10,960 --> 00:56:14,520
Speaker 1: Like yes, yes, or even just meeting people, you meeting guys,

1094
00:56:15,200 --> 00:56:16,920
Speaker 1: getting to know people, Like what do you How do

1095
00:56:17,000 --> 00:56:20,640
Speaker 1: y'all think the music plays a role in y'all dating life?

1096
00:56:22,200 --> 00:56:22,600
Speaker 1: Or does it?

1097
00:56:24,400 --> 00:56:24,560
Speaker 6: Yeah?

1098
00:56:24,560 --> 00:56:26,120
Speaker 4: I don't feel like it does. But what I will

1099
00:56:26,120 --> 00:56:27,880
Speaker 4: say is like we do not have that music that

1100
00:56:27,960 --> 00:56:29,200
Speaker 4: y'all have back and the day. We do not have

1101
00:56:29,239 --> 00:56:31,279
Speaker 4: that R and B y'all don't. We don't have that.

1102
00:56:32,000 --> 00:56:34,600
Speaker 4: We don't have that money you want. We don't have

1103
00:56:34,800 --> 00:56:39,480
Speaker 4: that jacked edge. We don't have that. So like we

1104
00:56:39,719 --> 00:56:42,719
Speaker 4: hear in songs all day about like niggas and like

1105
00:56:43,160 --> 00:56:47,479
Speaker 4: having a bunch of females and like living like quote

1106
00:56:47,560 --> 00:56:51,240
Speaker 4: unquote rock star lifestyle, and like no one's like really

1107
00:56:51,239 --> 00:56:55,880
Speaker 4: committing to relationships. No one's like putting themselves to that standard.

1108
00:56:55,960 --> 00:56:58,520
Speaker 4: So I guess like men are taking that and like

1109
00:56:58,680 --> 00:57:00,840
Speaker 4: running with it because I've like the females they be

1110
00:57:00,920 --> 00:57:03,480
Speaker 4: wanting a relationship like it be the man who don't.

1111
00:57:03,719 --> 00:57:07,120
Speaker 4: And that's the problem right there.

1112
00:57:07,640 --> 00:57:09,240
Speaker 3: Do you feel like the music is too violent?

1113
00:57:10,320 --> 00:57:10,560
Speaker 1: Oh?

1114
00:57:11,080 --> 00:57:14,600
Speaker 3: I see, I see you girl.

1115
00:57:14,680 --> 00:57:18,040
Speaker 6: I gets down with I gets down with that type

1116
00:57:18,040 --> 00:57:18,520
Speaker 6: of music.

1117
00:57:20,760 --> 00:57:23,120
Speaker 4: Sunday on the way here. Maybe I'm listening to it,

1118
00:57:23,160 --> 00:57:25,160
Speaker 4: but listen, it's not affecting me.

1119
00:57:26,760 --> 00:57:28,120
Speaker 3: So I feel like the men.

1120
00:57:28,360 --> 00:57:32,320
Speaker 4: Yeah, I separate as a girl, I separated, Okay, Okay,

1121
00:57:32,360 --> 00:57:34,400
Speaker 4: I'm just gonna say me. I feel like I don't

1122
00:57:34,440 --> 00:57:38,240
Speaker 4: allow music or like social media like really have that

1123
00:57:38,400 --> 00:57:41,400
Speaker 4: influence on me. But I know that there are people

1124
00:57:41,440 --> 00:57:45,560
Speaker 4: out here, younger adults, like my peers, that will like, girl,

1125
00:57:45,600 --> 00:57:48,280
Speaker 4: is this girl on Instagram right now posting with her

1126
00:57:48,320 --> 00:57:50,200
Speaker 4: gun every day? And it is just like, why are

1127
00:57:50,280 --> 00:57:54,560
Speaker 4: you doing that? Be a lady. But I definitely feel

1128
00:57:54,560 --> 00:57:57,400
Speaker 4: like the music has like molded that in them, like

1129
00:57:58,560 --> 00:57:59,880
Speaker 4: shooting my bang bang or something.

1130
00:57:59,880 --> 00:58:02,600
Speaker 3: I don't know. Do you agree just a little bit.

1131
00:58:02,600 --> 00:58:05,880
Speaker 6: I mean, I do think that the music don't got

1132
00:58:05,920 --> 00:58:08,840
Speaker 6: a little more violent over the years, especially with this

1133
00:58:09,040 --> 00:58:11,720
Speaker 6: gang culture y'all, Oh my god, and the people they

1134
00:58:11,800 --> 00:58:14,960
Speaker 6: so hard drugs, they think that they could kill anybody,

1135
00:58:15,080 --> 00:58:18,040
Speaker 6: do anything that anybody just be so mean. It's really

1136
00:58:18,040 --> 00:58:20,560
Speaker 6: a lot of anger in this music and they're putting

1137
00:58:20,600 --> 00:58:23,080
Speaker 6: out and I believe that it'd be like spirits in it,

1138
00:58:23,200 --> 00:58:24,040
Speaker 6: Like I believe in that.

1139
00:58:24,520 --> 00:58:26,520
Speaker 5: So I think what you're listening to.

1140
00:58:26,600 --> 00:58:29,240
Speaker 6: Is definitely like you need to be mindful of that

1141
00:58:29,520 --> 00:58:32,320
Speaker 6: because it's definitely a lot of chance going on in

1142
00:58:32,360 --> 00:58:33,520
Speaker 6: the background that you don't even know.

1143
00:58:33,560 --> 00:58:37,640
Speaker 1: Okay, come on, mahogumy see, it's the subliminals.

1144
00:58:37,720 --> 00:58:41,080
Speaker 6: Like nobody's really talking about that, and we just feeding

1145
00:58:41,080 --> 00:58:45,480
Speaker 6: into these young children. Like it's getting really scary nowadays.

1146
00:58:45,520 --> 00:58:49,080
Speaker 3: Like I agree, I agree, y'all hear that you.

1147
00:58:51,320 --> 00:58:53,480
Speaker 5: Do not play that soon. She heard curseword in the song.

1148
00:58:53,560 --> 00:58:56,880
Speaker 6: Turn it off, turn it off, turn it off, like

1149
00:58:57,520 --> 00:59:00,880
Speaker 6: because the growing up now they don't even be caring,

1150
00:59:01,240 --> 00:59:04,400
Speaker 6: because that's why you could control yourself now, like but

1151
00:59:04,400 --> 00:59:11,400
Speaker 6: back then, it's like they begin mom worked, brainwashed, whatever

1152
00:59:11,440 --> 00:59:12,200
Speaker 6: you want to call it.

1153
00:59:12,280 --> 00:59:14,760
Speaker 5: Like you gotta check on these kids, y'all.

1154
00:59:17,320 --> 00:59:18,880
Speaker 3: So let me ask you this. Do you feel like

1155
00:59:18,880 --> 00:59:20,160
Speaker 3: the music is too sexual?

1156
00:59:23,280 --> 00:59:27,400
Speaker 4: Okay, I feel like y'all generation be trying to make

1157
00:59:27,440 --> 00:59:36,160
Speaker 4: it seem like y'all didn't have Trina, which she was

1158
00:59:36,200 --> 00:59:40,600
Speaker 4: popping it. So I don't feel like it's any different.

1159
00:59:40,760 --> 00:59:43,640
Speaker 4: I just feel like right now, it's more it's a

1160
00:59:43,720 --> 00:59:45,320
Speaker 4: lot of Yeah, it's more.

1161
00:59:45,560 --> 00:59:47,560
Speaker 1: We had a couple. We had a couple. Y'all have

1162
00:59:47,640 --> 00:59:49,280
Speaker 1: a lot of them right now.

1163
00:59:49,320 --> 00:59:53,280
Speaker 4: It's very very y'all had a lot of.

1164
00:59:55,720 --> 00:59:58,720
Speaker 3: Everything. It has just the same type of.

1165
01:00:00,760 --> 01:00:05,040
Speaker 6: Basically extremely sexual because sex sells, that's what it is.

1166
01:00:05,160 --> 01:00:06,320
Speaker 5: Sees a lot of.

1167
01:00:14,320 --> 01:00:14,360
Speaker 3: It.

1168
01:00:14,480 --> 01:00:17,479
Speaker 1: Okay, everybody ain't buying that shit either. Everybody ain't making

1169
01:00:17,520 --> 01:00:19,800
Speaker 1: money off sex either. They just doing the thing.

1170
01:00:20,440 --> 01:00:23,120
Speaker 4: Yeah, sometimes it be like, you know, like cringe, like

1171
01:00:23,160 --> 01:00:26,520
Speaker 4: were clutching our pearls a little bit. But some of it,

1172
01:00:26,600 --> 01:00:27,400
Speaker 4: like y'all can't lie.

1173
01:00:27,440 --> 01:00:31,160
Speaker 6: Sexy Red is very catchy, like she she's.

1174
01:00:30,920 --> 01:00:33,160
Speaker 4: Doing her thing right now. But I do feel like

1175
01:00:33,240 --> 01:00:39,800
Speaker 4: it's definitely a little too much right now. It's it's

1176
01:00:39,560 --> 01:00:41,200
Speaker 4: it's a young girls.

1177
01:00:41,400 --> 01:00:44,960
Speaker 2: Yeah, it's like okay, like if you're twenty and above

1178
01:00:45,000 --> 01:00:47,640
Speaker 2: and you're listening to Sexy Red and you can, you know,

1179
01:00:47,720 --> 01:00:51,960
Speaker 2: distinguish art from reality, you know, but if you in

1180
01:00:52,000 --> 01:00:54,880
Speaker 2: the car with your four year old and she is

1181
01:00:55,000 --> 01:00:57,560
Speaker 2: like this is her you know where she's absorbing the

1182
01:00:57,600 --> 01:01:01,240
Speaker 2: most information and she's listening to Sexy Read, you know,

1183
01:01:01,320 --> 01:01:03,120
Speaker 2: this is what this is what she's learning how the

1184
01:01:03,120 --> 01:01:03,720
Speaker 2: world is.

1185
01:01:04,400 --> 01:01:06,400
Speaker 3: And so that's how it starts. And then like by

1186
01:01:06,440 --> 01:01:09,000
Speaker 3: the time she's twenty, what will the music be? You know,

1187
01:01:09,080 --> 01:01:10,960
Speaker 3: what will the music be? What will society be?

1188
01:01:11,480 --> 01:01:14,200
Speaker 1: If you know it's gonna be. It ain't even gonna

1189
01:01:14,200 --> 01:01:17,800
Speaker 1: be fuck my baby, Dad, It's gonna be fuck my baby.

1190
01:01:18,440 --> 01:01:21,280
Speaker 1: People already be rapping about playing bees and abortion like

1191
01:01:21,320 --> 01:01:22,840
Speaker 1: that shit is like cool.

1192
01:01:22,840 --> 01:01:28,800
Speaker 2: Right, So it's very scary. So I wanna do you

1193
01:01:28,800 --> 01:01:30,280
Speaker 2: have any more relationship questions?

1194
01:01:30,320 --> 01:01:33,000
Speaker 1: Because I shift, go ahead and shift it.

1195
01:01:33,680 --> 01:01:34,360
Speaker 5: So let's talk a.

1196
01:01:34,360 --> 01:01:37,400
Speaker 2: Little bit about politics because this is both of your

1197
01:01:37,440 --> 01:01:38,560
Speaker 2: first time voting.

1198
01:01:38,400 --> 01:01:41,680
Speaker 3: This next election. Correct, Yeah, so that's exciting.

1199
01:01:41,720 --> 01:01:42,600
Speaker 1: Are y'all registered?

1200
01:01:42,680 --> 01:01:45,920
Speaker 3: Are you registered? You're registered? How do y'all feel about

1201
01:01:45,920 --> 01:01:49,000
Speaker 3: this next election? Do y'all care? Do y'all feel like

1202
01:01:49,000 --> 01:01:50,000
Speaker 3: you're affected by it?

1203
01:01:50,080 --> 01:01:54,960
Speaker 6: Like I do care, and I feel like we affect it,

1204
01:01:55,320 --> 01:01:56,560
Speaker 6: especially as black women.

1205
01:01:57,160 --> 01:02:02,520
Speaker 7: And I'm going to be voting for Kamala this year,

1206
01:02:03,080 --> 01:02:04,040
Speaker 7: but it's only just.

1207
01:02:03,960 --> 01:02:08,480
Speaker 6: To avoid going into Agenda forty seven and Project twenty five.

1208
01:02:08,800 --> 01:02:11,880
Speaker 6: But I mean, I think that they both puppets and

1209
01:02:11,920 --> 01:02:14,240
Speaker 6: the government. I think that we need to be voting

1210
01:02:14,360 --> 01:02:18,240
Speaker 6: like year round. So like y'all need to be focusing

1211
01:02:18,240 --> 01:02:22,320
Speaker 6: on them mayors, them governors, them centers for y'all states,

1212
01:02:22,600 --> 01:02:24,480
Speaker 6: cause that's what we be making the laws, Like that's who

1213
01:02:24,520 --> 01:02:25,680
Speaker 6: passing on bills and stuff.

1214
01:02:25,680 --> 01:02:27,240
Speaker 5: So that's what we need to be focusing on.

1215
01:02:28,320 --> 01:02:31,200
Speaker 3: So your low collection. Okay, yeah, okay, I'm gonna hung me.

1216
01:02:31,840 --> 01:02:32,880
Speaker 1: What do you think it's smart?

1217
01:02:35,840 --> 01:02:36,160
Speaker 3: Yeah?

1218
01:02:36,280 --> 01:02:38,160
Speaker 4: I definitely. I'm definitely gonna vote this year.

1219
01:02:41,800 --> 01:02:43,080
Speaker 3: Is it important to you though?

1220
01:02:43,680 --> 01:02:46,800
Speaker 4: Yes, it is important. I feel like I feel like

1221
01:02:47,000 --> 01:02:51,080
Speaker 4: our generation kind of like I feel like that's where

1222
01:02:53,360 --> 01:02:55,800
Speaker 4: the disconnect is with the generations. Like I feel like

1223
01:02:55,880 --> 01:02:59,160
Speaker 4: y'all are more aware. I mean, of course, but y'all

1224
01:02:59,160 --> 01:03:02,440
Speaker 4: are more like aware, y'all know more about politics. I

1225
01:03:02,480 --> 01:03:05,959
Speaker 4: feel like the younger generation they don't really like feel

1226
01:03:06,040 --> 01:03:08,960
Speaker 4: like they get it. I feel like we understand voting,

1227
01:03:09,080 --> 01:03:12,600
Speaker 4: and like I feel like our generation isn't making it

1228
01:03:12,600 --> 01:03:15,560
Speaker 4: a priority. Like they don't feel like if they don't vote,

1229
01:03:15,600 --> 01:03:17,800
Speaker 4: then like what would that do? Just like one person

1230
01:03:17,840 --> 01:03:18,760
Speaker 4: I vote in but like.

1231
01:03:18,720 --> 01:03:20,240
Speaker 1: You know a lot of people in our generation feel

1232
01:03:20,280 --> 01:03:20,680
Speaker 1: the same way.

1233
01:03:21,040 --> 01:03:23,360
Speaker 4: Yeah, Like it's like many people that have the same

1234
01:03:23,400 --> 01:03:25,600
Speaker 4: thought process, so like it's not one person I vote

1235
01:03:25,600 --> 01:03:29,040
Speaker 4: and it's all of all that's not voting, so like yeah,

1236
01:03:29,040 --> 01:03:32,920
Speaker 4: and then when the person that they wanted to get

1237
01:03:32,920 --> 01:03:35,480
Speaker 4: an office that they didn't vote for doesn't get an office,

1238
01:03:35,480 --> 01:03:38,440
Speaker 4: they like on Instagram or on social media looking at

1239
01:03:38,440 --> 01:03:40,920
Speaker 4: the world crazy and it's like you didn't like you

1240
01:03:41,800 --> 01:03:44,160
Speaker 4: have a choice, Like you have the right to vote,

1241
01:03:44,360 --> 01:03:46,160
Speaker 4: and if you didn't vote, then like you can't be

1242
01:03:46,240 --> 01:03:49,160
Speaker 4: mad that the outcome wasn't what you wanted.

1243
01:03:49,480 --> 01:03:50,840
Speaker 3: Yeah, I ain't gonna hold y'all.

1244
01:03:50,880 --> 01:03:55,080
Speaker 2: When I was eighteen, I wasn't very politically inclined. I

1245
01:03:55,080 --> 01:04:00,240
Speaker 2: didn't really care as much about politics. And I remember, y'all,

1246
01:04:00,240 --> 01:04:02,520
Speaker 2: I swear to god, I was it was election day

1247
01:04:03,120 --> 01:04:04,320
Speaker 2: and I was in the bed.

1248
01:04:04,400 --> 01:04:05,040
Speaker 3: Now I was home.

1249
01:04:05,120 --> 01:04:07,400
Speaker 2: I was home, and I was in the bed and

1250
01:04:07,440 --> 01:04:09,760
Speaker 2: I got hit in the back with a cane by

1251
01:04:09,760 --> 01:04:10,320
Speaker 2: my grandma.

1252
01:04:10,720 --> 01:04:12,960
Speaker 3: Get your ass up and go to the pole.

1253
01:04:13,440 --> 01:04:15,520
Speaker 5: She made me go to the pole and vote.

1254
01:04:15,560 --> 01:04:17,520
Speaker 2: And she really hit me like that, and that is

1255
01:04:17,560 --> 01:04:21,320
Speaker 2: what started my Like, damn, she carried as much. Let

1256
01:04:21,360 --> 01:04:24,880
Speaker 2: me get up and go participate in this process. Yeah,

1257
01:04:24,920 --> 01:04:27,600
Speaker 2: and that's how I got. I got beat to the pole.

1258
01:04:29,760 --> 01:04:30,240
Speaker 3: So I'm.

1259
01:04:32,040 --> 01:04:34,160
Speaker 1: To go to the poe, but get up and go vote.

1260
01:04:34,200 --> 01:04:36,680
Speaker 1: Did she have a conversation with you about the people

1261
01:04:36,680 --> 01:04:38,920
Speaker 1: who are running and that's who you're voting for? Did

1262
01:04:39,000 --> 01:04:40,040
Speaker 1: you know at eighteen.

1263
01:04:40,920 --> 01:04:43,280
Speaker 2: As I walked to the cause, it was the elementary

1264
01:04:43,320 --> 01:04:44,840
Speaker 2: school right up the street. I didn't even have to

1265
01:04:44,880 --> 01:04:47,520
Speaker 2: go that far to vote. She rode behind me with

1266
01:04:47,560 --> 01:04:50,560
Speaker 2: her fuck hover around, talking to me about why it

1267
01:04:50,640 --> 01:04:53,640
Speaker 2: was important for me to vote and who the candidates were,

1268
01:04:53,920 --> 01:04:56,160
Speaker 2: and I need to get my lazy black asses to

1269
01:04:56,280 --> 01:04:59,360
Speaker 2: do something with myself. So that was the conversation that

1270
01:04:59,440 --> 01:05:01,400
Speaker 2: happened with my grandmother, who's right here on my neck.

1271
01:05:01,440 --> 01:05:02,120
Speaker 3: I've missed her so.

1272
01:05:02,120 --> 01:05:04,600
Speaker 2: Much because she cared that much, and I think it's

1273
01:05:04,640 --> 01:05:07,320
Speaker 2: important for us to, you know, instill that in the

1274
01:05:07,360 --> 01:05:10,840
Speaker 2: younger people now. And I think like when Kamala had

1275
01:05:11,960 --> 01:05:14,640
Speaker 2: what was a Kamala I always say Kamala, Kamala Harris

1276
01:05:14,680 --> 01:05:19,360
Speaker 2: had Meg thee Stallion come on stage. Everybody said it

1277
01:05:19,440 --> 01:05:22,919
Speaker 2: was cringe, but that was in an effort to pull

1278
01:05:23,000 --> 01:05:26,080
Speaker 2: in the younger voters so they could start listening to

1279
01:05:26,120 --> 01:05:29,320
Speaker 2: the politics and not just be concerned just with Meg

1280
01:05:29,320 --> 01:05:31,680
Speaker 2: thee Stallion and sexy Red. Did y'all feel like that

1281
01:05:31,760 --> 01:05:35,520
Speaker 2: was a cringe moment for her to have a sexy Red?

1282
01:05:35,760 --> 01:05:37,720
Speaker 6: I think it was obvious. I think it was an

1283
01:05:37,760 --> 01:05:41,360
Speaker 6: obvious move. I think that anybody could see that from

1284
01:05:41,440 --> 01:05:43,240
Speaker 6: like a mile that you were trying to pull in

1285
01:05:43,280 --> 01:05:46,920
Speaker 6: a younger generation. Ain't nobody, No, ain't nobody over fifty

1286
01:05:46,960 --> 01:05:48,080
Speaker 6: listening to No Sex Red.

1287
01:05:48,320 --> 01:05:50,840
Speaker 2: But they already voting, you know, so the over fifty,

1288
01:05:51,240 --> 01:05:54,160
Speaker 2: they don't have to pull them in because they're already Yeah. Yeah,

1289
01:05:54,200 --> 01:05:59,800
Speaker 2: so yeah, because Trump Trump people gonna vote like like,

1290
01:06:00,360 --> 01:06:03,440
Speaker 2: I don't know, but do you feel like Trump's younger

1291
01:06:03,560 --> 01:06:05,360
Speaker 2: can't like the younger people who know?

1292
01:06:05,600 --> 01:06:06,560
Speaker 5: Yes, them too.

1293
01:06:06,680 --> 01:06:10,720
Speaker 6: It's like a whole family like like no, like the sister,

1294
01:06:10,840 --> 01:06:13,400
Speaker 6: the brothers, daddy's and mamas, y'all gotta get out there,

1295
01:06:13,400 --> 01:06:16,080
Speaker 6: like m hm, Trump is coming.

1296
01:06:15,800 --> 01:06:28,600
Speaker 7: Like.

1297
01:06:26,640 --> 01:06:27,600
Speaker 3: Trump is coming.

1298
01:06:30,040 --> 01:06:31,880
Speaker 5: In the Washington in the in Washington, d C.

1299
01:06:32,480 --> 01:06:35,919
Speaker 3: They went very January six.

1300
01:06:36,120 --> 01:06:40,160
Speaker 5: Yes, yes, that is bad. You've never seen nobody Biden

1301
01:06:40,280 --> 01:06:40,520
Speaker 5: doing that.

1302
01:06:40,720 --> 01:06:44,640
Speaker 2: No, nobody has scaled the wall for Obama.

1303
01:06:45,640 --> 01:06:50,120
Speaker 1: Yeah, you know, I'm getting my thoughts to myself. But yeah,

1304
01:06:50,480 --> 01:06:55,320
Speaker 1: just do you make sure you know about everybody exactly

1305
01:06:55,360 --> 01:06:57,320
Speaker 1: before you make a decision or anything. Because we talk

1306
01:06:57,400 --> 01:07:00,920
Speaker 1: back does not endorse any political parties, okay, in particular,

1307
01:07:01,080 --> 01:07:10,600
Speaker 1: any people in particular. Okay, fyi, because everybody has different perception,

1308
01:07:11,240 --> 01:07:14,440
Speaker 1: which we talk about a lot. Okay, people perceive things differently.

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01:07:14,520 --> 01:07:16,560
Speaker 1: We can I could see one thing, you could see

1310
01:07:16,560 --> 01:07:19,320
Speaker 1: something else, and we can both interpret it two different ways.

1311
01:07:19,920 --> 01:07:22,560
Speaker 1: And that's really what we're dealing with a lot of things,

1312
01:07:22,880 --> 01:07:27,680
Speaker 1: which you know, religion and politics. It starts arguments a lot.

1313
01:07:30,160 --> 01:07:32,520
Speaker 1: So yeah, just be informed when you go do that vote,

1314
01:07:32,560 --> 01:07:35,200
Speaker 1: because I can remember the very first time I voted

1315
01:07:35,280 --> 01:07:38,680
Speaker 1: eighteen in college, Benedictte College. They told us to go

1316
01:07:38,800 --> 01:07:42,760
Speaker 1: vote Democrat. They told us who to vote for, right

1317
01:07:42,840 --> 01:07:45,000
Speaker 1: when nobody was informed for real, this is our first

1318
01:07:45,040 --> 01:07:47,880
Speaker 1: time voting. I remember one student and she might have

1319
01:07:47,920 --> 01:07:51,560
Speaker 1: been a senior at the time, and she was kind

1320
01:07:51,560 --> 01:07:53,920
Speaker 1: of like a like a little chunky girl, pretty girl,

1321
01:07:54,440 --> 01:07:56,400
Speaker 1: stuck up though, like she acts like a white girl,

1322
01:07:56,400 --> 01:07:58,920
Speaker 1: people would say. But I remember her standing up and

1323
01:07:59,400 --> 01:08:03,720
Speaker 1: this is the age, okay, standing up in the gym,

1324
01:08:03,760 --> 01:08:06,200
Speaker 1: and she was like, y'all don't have to vote for

1325
01:08:06,280 --> 01:08:08,880
Speaker 1: this person. Y'all can vote for that person, you know,

1326
01:08:09,200 --> 01:08:13,280
Speaker 1: telling the students you don't have to vote straight Democrat,

1327
01:08:13,400 --> 01:08:16,679
Speaker 1: you don't have to vote for this one particular person,

1328
01:08:16,760 --> 01:08:18,719
Speaker 1: just because the majority of the people at the school

1329
01:08:18,720 --> 01:08:21,200
Speaker 1: are telling you to do that same thing. I'm telling y'all,

1330
01:08:21,240 --> 01:08:23,760
Speaker 1: so be informed about everybody, So to go to the

1331
01:08:23,840 --> 01:08:28,439
Speaker 1: polls and vote straight Democratic never made sense to me, right,

1332
01:08:29,280 --> 01:08:31,960
Speaker 1: because these other there's gonna be other things on the

1333
01:08:32,000 --> 01:08:34,519
Speaker 1: ballot to also vote for, So you needn't know who's

1334
01:08:34,600 --> 01:08:37,280
Speaker 1: running for each of those things and what matters to you.

1335
01:08:37,280 --> 01:08:41,240
Speaker 1: So you vote based on policies, right, based on what

1336
01:08:41,320 --> 01:08:43,960
Speaker 1: you want for your future and who's the best person

1337
01:08:44,000 --> 01:08:46,000
Speaker 1: to give it to you. What do y'all think about

1338
01:08:46,000 --> 01:08:49,880
Speaker 1: the current state of America? Because y'all are young, Like

1339
01:08:49,920 --> 01:08:53,680
Speaker 1: I said, we grew up and we saw everything. We

1340
01:08:53,760 --> 01:08:57,240
Speaker 1: saw the world change, and to me, it's progressively gotten

1341
01:08:57,280 --> 01:08:59,880
Speaker 1: worse in the last couple of years in our lifetime.

1342
01:09:00,520 --> 01:09:01,439
Speaker 1: What do y'all think.

1343
01:09:01,360 --> 01:09:04,200
Speaker 4: The economy is in a downward spiral? Yeah, a fast

1344
01:09:04,200 --> 01:09:06,080
Speaker 4: time in real pace, in reural life.

1345
01:09:06,160 --> 01:09:06,640
Speaker 1: It's like.

1346
01:09:08,520 --> 01:09:09,200
Speaker 4: It's going to ship.

1347
01:09:10,000 --> 01:09:12,679
Speaker 3: Because why a pack of cheese six dollars?

1348
01:09:12,840 --> 01:09:15,240
Speaker 4: Girl, I went to the story yesterday and I got

1349
01:09:15,280 --> 01:09:18,960
Speaker 4: a juice and a chip. It was six dollars, Like

1350
01:09:19,080 --> 01:09:20,840
Speaker 4: that should have been three dollars back in the day.

1351
01:09:20,840 --> 01:09:22,599
Speaker 4: That's one fifty and fifty back.

1352
01:09:22,479 --> 01:09:25,599
Speaker 1: In your day. Y'all already got it back in the day.

1353
01:09:26,080 --> 01:09:29,960
Speaker 1: Imagine that seating up so fast, y'all got it back

1354
01:09:29,960 --> 01:09:31,719
Speaker 1: in the day when we were.

1355
01:09:31,680 --> 01:09:34,160
Speaker 3: When I was your age, bag of you could get

1356
01:09:34,160 --> 01:09:34,519
Speaker 3: a bag of.

1357
01:09:34,560 --> 01:09:37,559
Speaker 4: Chips, I know. And when I was running up there

1358
01:09:37,640 --> 01:09:40,439
Speaker 4: was fifty y'all.

1359
01:09:40,920 --> 01:09:43,160
Speaker 1: Y'all they had a dollar twenty five.

1360
01:09:45,040 --> 01:09:47,120
Speaker 2: All right, let me ask you this, speaking of your

1361
01:09:47,160 --> 01:09:51,679
Speaker 2: back in the day, if if you could have given

1362
01:09:51,720 --> 01:09:54,880
Speaker 2: your ten year old self advice about life right now,

1363
01:09:54,920 --> 01:09:56,679
Speaker 2: what would you say to her? What would you say

1364
01:09:56,960 --> 01:09:58,160
Speaker 2: to your ten year old self?

1365
01:09:58,320 --> 01:10:00,519
Speaker 4: Listen to yallama, Please.

1366
01:10:00,320 --> 01:10:01,439
Speaker 5: Listen to your mama.

1367
01:10:01,680 --> 01:10:03,760
Speaker 6: Oh my god, my mama don't got me out of

1368
01:10:03,760 --> 01:10:06,080
Speaker 6: so much stuff, like I should.

1369
01:10:06,160 --> 01:10:08,760
Speaker 5: Just listen to her like I should.

1370
01:10:08,960 --> 01:10:22,120
Speaker 1: So she does understand, So parents do understand. But she

1371
01:10:22,160 --> 01:10:24,400
Speaker 1: don't know everything because y'all don't tell everything.

1372
01:10:24,320 --> 01:10:26,120
Speaker 3: Because y'all don't share enough.

1373
01:10:27,479 --> 01:10:28,040
Speaker 5: I don't know.

1374
01:10:28,720 --> 01:10:31,120
Speaker 1: We were trying to help y'all through the dumb bitch

1375
01:10:31,160 --> 01:10:34,160
Speaker 1: stages of life. This is gonna take us back to relationships,

1376
01:10:34,360 --> 01:10:37,439
Speaker 1: so you can bypass that stage, so you can make

1377
01:10:37,520 --> 01:10:39,960
Speaker 1: the best choices. Because what I want to tell you

1378
01:10:40,080 --> 01:10:42,280
Speaker 1: is make sure you keep all your grets to minimum.

1379
01:10:42,560 --> 01:10:44,880
Speaker 1: That's the best device. And maybe try to get a

1380
01:10:44,880 --> 01:10:47,479
Speaker 1: business loan instead of a student loan or some ship

1381
01:10:47,560 --> 01:10:50,800
Speaker 1: like that. So yeah, keep your regrets to a minimum,

1382
01:10:51,120 --> 01:10:54,120
Speaker 1: and mamas are going to help you because we already

1383
01:10:54,120 --> 01:10:58,720
Speaker 1: did the thing. Okay, it's nothing that I'm telling you

1384
01:10:58,760 --> 01:11:00,559
Speaker 1: not to do that I haven't done and already.

1385
01:11:01,240 --> 01:11:02,519
Speaker 3: And that's the biggest thing.

1386
01:11:02,560 --> 01:11:05,120
Speaker 2: Your mama always say everything you're thinking about doing, I

1387
01:11:05,160 --> 01:11:05,920
Speaker 2: already done that.

1388
01:11:06,120 --> 01:11:07,400
Speaker 1: Ain't nothing new under the sun.

1389
01:11:07,439 --> 01:11:10,040
Speaker 3: But there are new things there are. There are new

1390
01:11:10,080 --> 01:11:11,200
Speaker 3: things that mama.

1391
01:11:11,720 --> 01:11:20,519
Speaker 1: Y'all gay the kids already.

1392
01:11:23,560 --> 01:11:30,480
Speaker 6: I'm very yay o God.

1393
01:11:31,120 --> 01:11:35,200
Speaker 2: Y'all, I want you to plug yourselves, plug your social media,

1394
01:11:35,280 --> 01:11:35,960
Speaker 2: plug anything.

1395
01:11:36,240 --> 01:11:39,640
Speaker 1: No, we need dumb bitch stories. They're old enough, they

1396
01:11:39,800 --> 01:11:43,400
Speaker 1: got one. Listen. I stopped telling my niece giving her

1397
01:11:43,439 --> 01:11:45,439
Speaker 1: advice at a certain age because at that point I

1398
01:11:45,520 --> 01:11:48,240
Speaker 1: realized she had her own dumb bitch stories. So I

1399
01:11:48,240 --> 01:11:49,840
Speaker 1: don't need to tell you about my shit no more,

1400
01:11:49,880 --> 01:11:52,480
Speaker 1: because you already made some mistakes to learn from.

1401
01:11:52,680 --> 01:11:54,360
Speaker 2: So give me one, all right, So let me tell

1402
01:11:54,400 --> 01:11:56,479
Speaker 2: them what the dumbit story is so they can't understand

1403
01:11:56,479 --> 01:11:58,880
Speaker 2: they've never I don't think y'all listen to the show

1404
01:11:59,280 --> 01:12:03,599
Speaker 2: like that. So can you share a time where one

1405
01:12:03,600 --> 01:12:07,120
Speaker 2: of your boyfriends might have played you or done something

1406
01:12:07,160 --> 01:12:10,440
Speaker 2: that made you feel unhappy or just feel stupid.

1407
01:12:12,520 --> 01:12:13,759
Speaker 3: You got a story, everybody.

1408
01:12:13,760 --> 01:12:15,439
Speaker 4: I'm so scared to sell this story, y'all.

1409
01:12:17,000 --> 01:12:22,320
Speaker 6: It's not my worst story.

1410
01:12:22,880 --> 01:12:23,880
Speaker 5: But I don't know.

1411
01:12:23,960 --> 01:12:27,120
Speaker 7: I was talking to this dude and I got his

1412
01:12:27,280 --> 01:12:29,639
Speaker 7: initial on my nail.

1413
01:12:30,640 --> 01:12:32,800
Speaker 6: That was really a big step for me, okay, because

1414
01:12:32,800 --> 01:12:34,640
Speaker 6: I don't I don't do stuff like that ever in

1415
01:12:34,680 --> 01:12:37,160
Speaker 6: my life. So I did that, and he wouldn't even

1416
01:12:37,240 --> 01:12:40,760
Speaker 6: believe me, like he was not believing me, Like he

1417
01:12:40,840 --> 01:12:42,280
Speaker 6: barely was texting me back.

1418
01:12:42,600 --> 01:12:45,960
Speaker 5: Like y'all, it was just I mean, and you.

1419
01:12:45,920 --> 01:12:48,760
Speaker 3: Had to wait to get the nails done again. Yeah,

1420
01:12:49,000 --> 01:12:50,160
Speaker 3: like it was.

1421
01:12:50,280 --> 01:12:51,240
Speaker 5: It was really bad.

1422
01:12:51,439 --> 01:12:54,360
Speaker 6: Like I didn't even show like when I was taking

1423
01:12:54,400 --> 01:12:56,200
Speaker 6: pictures and stuff, I wouldn't show that nail.

1424
01:12:56,520 --> 01:12:58,599
Speaker 5: Like, I don't even know why he got it.

1425
01:12:58,760 --> 01:13:03,400
Speaker 1: I was so was it somebody were dating? No, So

1426
01:13:03,479 --> 01:13:05,360
Speaker 1: you think once you got the nail and then he

1427
01:13:05,520 --> 01:13:08,880
Speaker 1: kind of got kind offy, like maybe that you realize

1428
01:13:08,920 --> 01:13:09,800
Speaker 1: he ain't like you for real?

1429
01:13:10,160 --> 01:13:10,360
Speaker 3: Yeah?

1430
01:13:10,800 --> 01:13:13,519
Speaker 6: Most Oh, yeah, I knew he didn't like me because

1431
01:13:13,520 --> 01:13:14,759
Speaker 6: while you're not texting me back.

1432
01:13:15,120 --> 01:13:18,879
Speaker 3: Right after I got on my like you should be excited.

1433
01:13:19,080 --> 01:13:21,000
Speaker 5: He's telling me that you don't believe me.

1434
01:13:21,040 --> 01:13:30,280
Speaker 6: I'm one, Like, okay, yeah, okay.

1435
01:13:28,720 --> 01:13:31,600
Speaker 1: This, don't tattoo nigga face on your face. What's that

1436
01:13:31,760 --> 01:13:37,960
Speaker 1: with that generation tattooing a dude's face on your face.

1437
01:13:38,880 --> 01:13:39,920
Speaker 3: Tattoo on your faces?

1438
01:13:41,080 --> 01:13:45,040
Speaker 4: It is keep your face normal right now?

1439
01:13:45,720 --> 01:13:46,679
Speaker 3: Yeah, don't do that. Okay.

1440
01:13:46,680 --> 01:13:48,599
Speaker 2: I'm glad we're all in alignment that we're not taking

1441
01:13:48,600 --> 01:13:49,759
Speaker 2: any tattoos on our face.

1442
01:13:50,320 --> 01:14:00,000
Speaker 4: Okay, thank you. I'm so embarrassed because Hoggies was nothing.

1443
01:14:02,000 --> 01:14:06,240
Speaker 4: I don't even want to tell, y'alla, but it's the

1444
01:14:06,280 --> 01:14:09,240
Speaker 4: same space I'm gonna tell y'all. Okay. So I was

1445
01:14:09,240 --> 01:14:13,080
Speaker 4: talking to this boy, y'all. And okay, so he had

1446
01:14:13,080 --> 01:14:16,400
Speaker 4: an ex girlfriend and she had a kid, m and

1447
01:14:16,479 --> 01:14:20,080
Speaker 4: he would like lay faw the road to the key, y'all.

1448
01:14:20,400 --> 01:14:24,360
Speaker 4: But it wasn't his kid. Yeah, it was weird, but

1449
01:14:24,520 --> 01:14:26,880
Speaker 4: like I wouldn't like I didn't, I wasn't against Like,

1450
01:14:26,880 --> 01:14:28,479
Speaker 4: I can't tell you nothing because like you were already

1451
01:14:28,479 --> 01:14:30,040
Speaker 4: trying to be this kid father. Like what I'm gonna

1452
01:14:30,040 --> 01:14:32,040
Speaker 4: tell you, that's not your kid, nigga. Now you gotta

1453
01:14:32,040 --> 01:14:35,120
Speaker 4: stop seeing this kid. Like I just left along. So

1454
01:14:35,200 --> 01:14:37,760
Speaker 4: I pulled up. It was my graduation day, y'all, I

1455
01:14:37,760 --> 01:14:42,960
Speaker 4: would ever forget it. I just graduated, literally, I just graduated,

1456
01:14:43,240 --> 01:14:45,320
Speaker 4: and I went over there and I had my little

1457
01:14:45,320 --> 01:14:48,680
Speaker 4: brother in the car, and I had my friend, my

1458
01:14:48,760 --> 01:14:52,040
Speaker 4: homeboy in the car, y'all. And as soon as we

1459
01:14:52,080 --> 01:14:54,439
Speaker 4: put up, girl, some girl comes to the choir and

1460
01:14:54,520 --> 01:14:56,960
Speaker 4: she was like, you here to pick up such and such?

1461
01:15:02,360 --> 01:15:03,639
Speaker 1: What's y'all think? Happy? Y'all?

1462
01:15:06,640 --> 01:15:09,799
Speaker 3: Yeah, you said no.

1463
01:15:10,840 --> 01:15:13,240
Speaker 4: I said yes, because like, yes, that's.

1464
01:15:13,120 --> 01:15:13,639
Speaker 3: What I am.

1465
01:15:14,040 --> 01:15:16,120
Speaker 4: I am girl.

1466
01:15:17,320 --> 01:15:19,080
Speaker 1: She put your hand through the window.

1467
01:15:19,720 --> 01:15:25,160
Speaker 6: Oh girl, that girl fought mell.

1468
01:15:30,400 --> 01:15:31,439
Speaker 3: Just one question.

1469
01:15:31,600 --> 01:15:34,479
Speaker 1: She didn't want no clarity or nothing. That bitch is

1470
01:15:34,600 --> 01:15:37,160
Speaker 1: like on site, who you com here for? Girl?

1471
01:15:37,200 --> 01:15:42,880
Speaker 6: It was crazy because like I don't even know you. Yeah,

1472
01:15:42,960 --> 01:15:45,599
Speaker 6: so let me paint the picture because I was probably like,

1473
01:15:46,479 --> 01:15:52,960
Speaker 6: so you ain't know that was the ex girlfriend, no idea.

1474
01:15:55,800 --> 01:15:58,040
Speaker 4: Yeah, it's funny, y'all. It's not. It's really funny. It

1475
01:15:58,080 --> 01:16:03,439
Speaker 4: wasn't funny at the time, but it was. It's funny now, y'all. Yes,

1476
01:16:03,520 --> 01:16:06,120
Speaker 4: that's the fake baby mama, y'all, So mind you it's

1477
01:16:06,160 --> 01:16:08,200
Speaker 4: no females in the car not then. So my little brother,

1478
01:16:08,240 --> 01:16:10,400
Speaker 4: he's in a passenger seat at the time, I'm eighteen.

1479
01:16:10,439 --> 01:16:13,040
Speaker 4: So my little brother he's sixteen. And when I was

1480
01:16:13,040 --> 01:16:14,880
Speaker 4: seventeen because my birthday didn't come out, I was seventeen,

1481
01:16:14,920 --> 01:16:17,439
Speaker 4: my brother fifteen. So then my friend is in the backseat, y'all,

1482
01:16:17,680 --> 01:16:21,000
Speaker 4: literally head out the window, seat belt on, car still on.

1483
01:16:21,120 --> 01:16:23,120
Speaker 4: My brother is on the phone. My mom like some

1484
01:16:23,240 --> 01:16:25,280
Speaker 4: girl trying to fight, no right, And in my head,

1485
01:16:25,280 --> 01:16:27,120
Speaker 4: I'm like, is she trying to fight not right? Or

1486
01:16:27,200 --> 01:16:27,920
Speaker 4: is she fighting not?

1487
01:16:28,320 --> 01:16:28,400
Speaker 2: Like?

1488
01:16:29,080 --> 01:16:29,519
Speaker 6: Just stress?

1489
01:16:29,640 --> 01:16:30,719
Speaker 5: Somebody come quick?

1490
01:16:32,920 --> 01:16:37,719
Speaker 3: So lied in the car now stressed.

1491
01:16:38,240 --> 01:16:40,719
Speaker 4: I was stressed, very stressed.

1492
01:16:41,040 --> 01:16:43,840
Speaker 3: Seatbelt yes, no seatbelt off?

1493
01:16:43,880 --> 01:16:46,760
Speaker 6: Like this was supposed to be a pick up like

1494
01:16:46,760 --> 01:16:52,479
Speaker 6: like this was so I was so bum rushed, y'all, y'all,

1495
01:16:52,520 --> 01:16:54,439
Speaker 6: she could have told the world anything. I whooped that

1496
01:16:54,560 --> 01:16:59,480
Speaker 6: whole girl, Yes she did. I was not ready.

1497
01:16:59,760 --> 01:17:02,680
Speaker 1: But listen, you ain't a dumb bitch yet, no I was.

1498
01:17:02,800 --> 01:17:04,200
Speaker 1: Did you keep talking to the guy?

1499
01:17:04,479 --> 01:17:08,120
Speaker 4: I was the dummy, y'all? I kept talking to.

1500
01:17:08,080 --> 01:17:10,719
Speaker 1: Her later when she was gone.

1501
01:17:16,680 --> 01:17:22,439
Speaker 5: Why do you mess with her? That's what he gonna do.

1502
01:17:22,680 --> 01:17:25,559
Speaker 5: Non mess with the winner and the loser girl.

1503
01:17:26,760 --> 01:17:29,719
Speaker 4: He messed with the winner and the loser. Boom, because y'all,

1504
01:17:29,800 --> 01:17:33,200
Speaker 4: So what did he say, so okay. So at this

1505
01:17:33,240 --> 01:17:36,080
Speaker 4: point my mom then pulled up my homegirls and pulled

1506
01:17:36,120 --> 01:17:38,160
Speaker 4: up we like we have to whoop her, like we

1507
01:17:38,320 --> 01:17:38,760
Speaker 4: have to.

1508
01:17:39,560 --> 01:17:40,680
Speaker 3: So she was.

1509
01:17:40,680 --> 01:17:42,799
Speaker 4: Acting so scaredy she wouldn't come off the course anyways.

1510
01:17:43,000 --> 01:17:46,120
Speaker 4: So he was like blowing up my phone, like blowing

1511
01:17:46,160 --> 01:17:48,280
Speaker 4: me up, because she ended up saying like, well we

1512
01:17:48,320 --> 01:17:49,840
Speaker 4: can go here and we can fight, because I don't

1513
01:17:49,840 --> 01:17:52,160
Speaker 4: want to fight you at his house. So I had left,

1514
01:17:52,600 --> 01:17:56,040
Speaker 4: she had left, everybody left, and he was blowing me up,

1515
01:17:56,080 --> 01:17:56,800
Speaker 4: blowing me up like.

1516
01:17:56,920 --> 01:17:58,879
Speaker 7: She was here to talk to my mom.

1517
01:17:59,160 --> 01:18:01,479
Speaker 4: I was about to was like blowing me up, child,

1518
01:18:01,520 --> 01:18:03,360
Speaker 4: and I was so mad, Like I was so mad.

1519
01:18:03,360 --> 01:18:09,519
Speaker 4: I was not yees. So he has no kids, no no,

1520
01:18:09,600 --> 01:18:13,920
Speaker 4: that's what she said, no kids biologically, And I was

1521
01:18:14,000 --> 01:18:18,600
Speaker 4: just like give me her address. I don't want to

1522
01:18:18,640 --> 01:18:22,120
Speaker 4: hear anything else. Give me her address. And I remember

1523
01:18:22,160 --> 01:18:23,680
Speaker 4: like I wouldn't. I didn't talk to him for a

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01:18:23,680 --> 01:18:25,519
Speaker 4: few days, and my mom was like, girl, you so sad,

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01:18:25,640 --> 01:18:27,599
Speaker 4: Like just go talk to him, like go go hear

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01:18:27,680 --> 01:18:30,559
Speaker 4: him out, like go go see and like hear the

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01:18:30,560 --> 01:18:32,679
Speaker 4: full story and then like make a decision or whatever.

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01:18:33,240 --> 01:18:34,960
Speaker 4: And girl, I had went up, girl, And I didn't

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01:18:34,960 --> 01:18:37,880
Speaker 4: even go over there, but I had called him. We talked,

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01:18:38,240 --> 01:18:41,040
Speaker 4: and I don't know.

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01:18:41,000 --> 01:18:43,440
Speaker 5: Why I really believed she was there to see his mom.

1532
01:18:44,080 --> 01:18:45,519
Speaker 3: Like, I don't know why I believe that, y'all.

1533
01:18:45,520 --> 01:18:51,160
Speaker 1: I can so convincing, like like I went to the therapist.

1534
01:18:53,520 --> 01:18:54,120
Speaker 1: It was bad.

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01:18:54,240 --> 01:18:57,160
Speaker 4: And then a couple of weeks, like a couple of

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01:18:57,160 --> 01:18:59,559
Speaker 4: weeks later, like fast forward to my birthday, Like he

1537
01:18:59,640 --> 01:19:01,000
Speaker 4: was weird me on my birthday, y'all.

1538
01:19:01,320 --> 01:19:04,400
Speaker 1: Oh, that's a rap. You're playing with any woman's birthday,

1539
01:19:04,439 --> 01:19:05,599
Speaker 1: young or old. It's a rap.

1540
01:19:05,800 --> 01:19:07,679
Speaker 4: Are you crazy? Like what are you trying to do?

1541
01:19:08,000 --> 01:19:12,639
Speaker 4: Like ruin my life right now? And grew up eventually. Okay, wait,

1542
01:19:12,680 --> 01:19:15,200
Speaker 4: so let's let's start with that had all started. She

1543
01:19:15,200 --> 01:19:18,439
Speaker 4: had knew about me and everything because he posted me.

1544
01:19:19,280 --> 01:19:22,479
Speaker 4: I didn't post this man nothing, y'all. It was not me.

1545
01:19:23,160 --> 01:19:25,800
Speaker 4: You mad at me, and he posted me. So fast

1546
01:19:25,840 --> 01:19:31,720
Speaker 4: forward this man exactly. So fast forward to like a

1547
01:19:31,760 --> 01:19:34,000
Speaker 4: couple of weeks after this man had told me, like, girl,

1548
01:19:34,040 --> 01:19:40,080
Speaker 4: you're tripping. This is not a relationship, y'all. It could

1549
01:19:40,120 --> 01:19:45,760
Speaker 4: have been first work, it could have been Yes, that's

1550
01:19:45,800 --> 01:19:47,200
Speaker 4: my dumb, that's my dumb. History.

1551
01:19:47,320 --> 01:19:48,200
Speaker 3: That was a good one.

1552
01:19:53,840 --> 01:19:56,080
Speaker 1: I'm glad we can all laugh about it now because.

1553
01:20:00,160 --> 01:20:02,800
Speaker 4: Literally my mom just said, my mom is so messy.

1554
01:20:02,840 --> 01:20:03,920
Speaker 4: I love my mom, y'all.

1555
01:20:04,720 --> 01:20:07,280
Speaker 6: When I was younger, you know, hellod on, mom, she

1556
01:20:07,360 --> 01:20:09,000
Speaker 6: just sent me some messy stuff about them, And I

1557
01:20:09,080 --> 01:20:10,519
Speaker 6: was like, girl, I cannot wait to me and my

1558
01:20:10,560 --> 01:20:12,920
Speaker 6: friends jump her. I will never be over it. You

1559
01:20:13,040 --> 01:20:15,599
Speaker 6: still here, I will never be over it, yeah, Cause

1560
01:20:15,720 --> 01:20:18,559
Speaker 6: like so you never fought her again, no.

1561
01:20:18,560 --> 01:20:21,200
Speaker 4: Like I. And that was like like I literally did

1562
01:20:21,200 --> 01:20:23,160
Speaker 4: not know the girl. Like when I tell the story,

1563
01:20:23,160 --> 01:20:24,639
Speaker 4: it's like, dang, you ain't know what I was a girl.

1564
01:20:24,760 --> 01:20:26,880
Speaker 4: Hell no, Like I don't know her, Like she's older

1565
01:20:26,960 --> 01:20:28,639
Speaker 4: than me. She's like twenty one. I was seventeen.

1566
01:20:28,960 --> 01:20:30,880
Speaker 6: So it's like she a different, Like she's a different

1567
01:20:30,920 --> 01:20:33,600
Speaker 6: type of girl, like that we were not piers, Like

1568
01:20:33,640 --> 01:20:34,720
Speaker 6: we would never be in the same place.

1569
01:20:34,760 --> 01:20:36,080
Speaker 4: I never seen you before in my life, Like I

1570
01:20:36,080 --> 01:20:39,280
Speaker 4: don't know you. So yeah, like I didn't know her.

1571
01:20:39,320 --> 01:20:45,280
Speaker 4: And it's just like, girl, you like unprovoked, like you

1572
01:20:45,320 --> 01:20:47,040
Speaker 4: were very like I did nothing to you. I did

1573
01:20:47,040 --> 01:20:48,800
Speaker 4: not know who you were. I said nothing to you,

1574
01:20:48,840 --> 01:20:52,000
Speaker 4: said nothing about you, like you unprovokedly like snuck me

1575
01:20:52,200 --> 01:20:53,960
Speaker 4: in my car. Girl, Yes, me and my friends have

1576
01:20:54,040 --> 01:20:54,519
Speaker 4: to jump in.

1577
01:20:54,840 --> 01:20:58,360
Speaker 3: Well, don't fight her, move on.

1578
01:21:00,800 --> 01:21:02,840
Speaker 1: Because how your current man supposed to feel about you

1579
01:21:02,880 --> 01:21:05,960
Speaker 1: fighting over old nigga? I know it's the principle at

1580
01:21:05,960 --> 01:21:10,240
Speaker 1: this point, but girl, men don't see things that way.

1581
01:21:10,360 --> 01:21:12,400
Speaker 4: They don't already know. They don't.

1582
01:21:12,520 --> 01:21:15,040
Speaker 1: You're gonna walk around and get beat up again?

1583
01:21:16,000 --> 01:21:24,559
Speaker 2: Whoa, whoa, So don't go Yeah, she's twenty four years old.

1584
01:21:25,280 --> 01:21:26,400
Speaker 3: Yeah, I wouldn't even give that.

1585
01:21:26,479 --> 01:21:28,880
Speaker 1: No, I had another baby, hurt and the guy so

1586
01:21:28,920 --> 01:21:30,960
Speaker 1: together they together.

1587
01:21:31,479 --> 01:21:35,160
Speaker 7: Oh, let them have that, Let them have that.

1588
01:21:35,640 --> 01:21:37,880
Speaker 2: You got your man, you love him? You were in Charlotte,

1589
01:21:37,880 --> 01:21:40,240
Speaker 2: because that's in Ohio. I'm assuming right they did. Yeah,

1590
01:21:40,280 --> 01:21:43,400
Speaker 2: I wouldn't be going out there with that. Stay bossing

1591
01:21:43,479 --> 01:21:44,799
Speaker 2: up and that's the best reviews.

1592
01:21:44,840 --> 01:21:46,880
Speaker 1: Oh yes, girl, make sure you should follow her so

1593
01:21:46,960 --> 01:21:48,519
Speaker 1: you can follow you back, so you can see.

1594
01:21:49,200 --> 01:21:52,600
Speaker 4: Right she's looking.

1595
01:21:54,960 --> 01:21:55,920
Speaker 3: She's all right.

1596
01:21:56,000 --> 01:21:58,360
Speaker 2: I have one more question before we get out of here,

1597
01:21:58,800 --> 01:22:02,360
Speaker 2: and I need a really creius answer from y'all, because

1598
01:22:02,400 --> 01:22:04,519
Speaker 2: all right, y'all, we in here sweating, it's hot as

1599
01:22:04,520 --> 01:22:07,880
Speaker 2: fucking here. I ain't gonna hold you why, y'all wear

1600
01:22:08,000 --> 01:22:12,880
Speaker 2: hoodies and a hundred I need a serious answer for

1601
01:22:12,920 --> 01:22:15,120
Speaker 2: that question. Why the fun do y'all have that ship on?

1602
01:22:15,200 --> 01:22:17,040
Speaker 2: I don't understand it any degrees?

1603
01:22:17,080 --> 01:22:18,080
Speaker 3: And y'all got on a hoodie.

1604
01:22:20,800 --> 01:22:22,840
Speaker 5: I don't do that. My little brothers do that.

1605
01:22:23,200 --> 01:22:28,200
Speaker 6: But I could tell you they stinking lazy.

1606
01:22:28,240 --> 01:22:29,400
Speaker 5: They don't want to do nothing else.

1607
01:22:29,439 --> 01:22:34,439
Speaker 6: They don't want to change their clothes, sofia to or.

1608
01:22:34,479 --> 01:22:37,439
Speaker 3: Bright ysphoria morphia, morphia.

1609
01:22:37,560 --> 01:22:39,400
Speaker 6: Yes, they be ascared about their body, so they be

1610
01:22:39,400 --> 01:22:41,320
Speaker 6: trying to pide it with on fat hoodies.

1611
01:22:42,000 --> 01:22:45,400
Speaker 3: Look at that damn that. I never thought about it.

1612
01:22:45,560 --> 01:22:47,960
Speaker 3: It might be like a comfort.

1613
01:22:48,400 --> 01:22:53,400
Speaker 4: Like a hug, right when you think of it that way?

1614
01:22:54,280 --> 01:22:55,120
Speaker 3: Is that what it is?

1615
01:22:55,800 --> 01:22:57,400
Speaker 4: I don't know. I don't wear that either, but I

1616
01:22:57,400 --> 01:22:59,360
Speaker 4: do be putting on a little hoodie with some shorts

1617
01:23:00,040 --> 01:23:04,280
Speaker 4: in the summertime sometimes, but not one hundred degrees, whether

1618
01:23:04,439 --> 01:23:12,720
Speaker 4: you know, just a little eighty.

1619
01:23:13,080 --> 01:23:15,599
Speaker 2: All right, y'all, plug your Instagram, plug your social media,

1620
01:23:15,800 --> 01:23:17,080
Speaker 2: all the things that you have now.

1621
01:23:17,000 --> 01:23:19,280
Speaker 3: Well, plug your hair business. Please do all the.

1622
01:23:19,240 --> 01:23:24,920
Speaker 4: Things, okay me First it's j Dot Jana j H

1623
01:23:25,040 --> 01:23:27,639
Speaker 4: E N E. And then my hair page is Jane

1624
01:23:27,640 --> 01:23:28,440
Speaker 4: on the sleigh.

1625
01:23:28,760 --> 01:23:32,920
Speaker 6: Hey, all right, Well, my Instagram is just mahogany m

1626
01:23:32,960 --> 01:23:34,920
Speaker 6: A h A g O n E.

1627
01:23:35,120 --> 01:23:36,719
Speaker 5: Y y'all can go follow me over hair.

1628
01:23:37,600 --> 01:23:39,680
Speaker 2: Yeah, but if you grown me, do not follow neither

1629
01:23:39,720 --> 01:23:41,439
Speaker 2: one of these ladies. I slap the shit out.

1630
01:23:41,360 --> 01:23:42,160
Speaker 3: Of you, period.

1631
01:23:44,640 --> 01:23:46,599
Speaker 1: All right, y'all, have you enjoyed this episode? Y'all? Tune

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01:23:46,640 --> 01:23:50,040
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01:23:50,080 --> 01:23:52,240
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01:23:52,400 --> 01:23:55,360
Speaker 1: This is your co host, AJ Holiday. What's up?

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01:23:55,439 --> 01:23:58,280
Speaker 3: Tam Bank can get this official tam Bam on Instagram.

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01:23:58,360 --> 01:24:02,120
Speaker 3: Y'all follow me there. I love y'all. Remember speak now and.

1637
01:24:03,760 --> 01:24:04,200
Speaker 1: I don't know.

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01:24:04,400 --> 01:24:05,679
Speaker 3: Never hold your children back.

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01:24:13,800 --> 01:24:17,840
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