WEBVTT - Don't Be Afraid To Ask For Help 

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<v Speaker 1>Everybody, It's Bill Courtney, Welcome into the shop. What's up, Alex,

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<v Speaker 1>It's living the dream, baby, live in the dream. Me too.

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<v Speaker 1>I've I've been traveling too much lately, and I'm so

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<v Speaker 1>glad to be home and back in the shop.

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<v Speaker 2>I feel so bad for your going to weddings and vacation, and.

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<v Speaker 1>Well, vacation's fine. Weddings. You know, who actually goes to

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<v Speaker 1>a wedding that's not in the family or being married,

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<v Speaker 1>that actually looks forward to it? I think most wedding.

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<v Speaker 2>It looks like it was in a beautiful spot though

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<v Speaker 2>I saw Malli post pictures of is it ESTs Parker?

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<v Speaker 2>You guys right, I don't know.

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<v Speaker 1>I don't even remember.

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<v Speaker 2>I think you don't even know where you were hurt.

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<v Speaker 1>Well, I mean it's you go to weddings more is

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<v Speaker 1>an obligation than anything else. I mean, that's what people don't.

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<v Speaker 2>I hope this couple here is this episode and that'd

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<v Speaker 2>be amazing.

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<v Speaker 1>I love them and I hope they have a wonderful life.

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<v Speaker 1>And I was so happy to be at their wedding.

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<v Speaker 2>How was that that was obligatory to keep going?

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<v Speaker 1>It was shop talking number fifty four. Everybody, this one

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<v Speaker 1>is titled Don't be Afraid to ask for Help, which

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<v Speaker 1>reminds me of like the nineteen seventies parody where people

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<v Speaker 1>before cell phones. People would drive around but the husband

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<v Speaker 1>would never get out ask for help at the gas

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<v Speaker 1>station and would just stay lost for hours because they're

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<v Speaker 1>unwilling to admit they're loss to need help.

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<v Speaker 2>But pride of every man.

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<v Speaker 1>Yes, that's it. So Shop Talk number fifty four, don't

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<v Speaker 1>be Afraid to ask for help. Welcome in the shop.

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<v Speaker 1>We'll talk about this right after these brief messages from

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<v Speaker 1>our general sponsors. Welcome back to the shop, everybody. Shop

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<v Speaker 1>Talk number fifty four, Don't be Afraid to ask for help.

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<v Speaker 1>In Chicago Booth Review a publication of the University of

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<v Speaker 1>Chicago's Booth Business School. That's where really smart people go

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<v Speaker 1>to school.

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<v Speaker 2>I think, yeah it is.

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<v Speaker 1>I mean University of Chicago's Booth Business School. I mean

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<v Speaker 1>when it says in the University of Chicago's Booth Baby,

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<v Speaker 1>if you have to have six names, six words to

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<v Speaker 1>describe your school, it's probably hard to go to school.

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<v Speaker 2>Now speaking of a normal folks. Thing for a little diversion, yeah,

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<v Speaker 2>one thing like me go and all these fancy schools

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<v Speaker 2>like that Sam Natius I was telling you about. By

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<v Speaker 2>the way, they're not a church school. They're found in

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<v Speaker 2>the eighteen hundreds. No, right, yeah, but or even UVA

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<v Speaker 2>like living in Oxford, missive be now that all these

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<v Speaker 2>people went to Old Miss It's amazing how many people

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<v Speaker 2>make more money than me despite the fancy schools. Yeah,

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<v Speaker 2>so it's like who cares, like the u went to

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<v Speaker 2>these fancy schools?

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<v Speaker 1>Whatever? Yeah, I mean we're in Oxford. Who cares? Right? Okay.

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<v Speaker 1>In Chicago Booth Review, publication of the very fancy University

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<v Speaker 1>of Chicago's Booth Business School, Cassandra ra Ball I don't know,

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<v Speaker 1>I don't know. Br A ba w under Braba wrote

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<v Speaker 1>an awesome article titled Don't be afraid to ask for help.

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<v Speaker 1>Walking in a park one day, Stansford's.

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<v Speaker 2>See Stanford, it's not that I know.

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<v Speaker 1>It's us. I'm gonna say, Jean, it's spelled x u

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<v Speaker 1>A n z h A O. So. Walking in a

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<v Speaker 1>park one day, Stanford's Jean Jao noticed an elderly couple

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<v Speaker 1>trying to take a picture of themselves. She heard the

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<v Speaker 1>husband whisper that they shouldn't bother a young man using

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<v Speaker 1>a laptop on a bench nearby. Noticing their struggle, the

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<v Speaker 1>woman offered to help. Really, the wife asked, you can

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<v Speaker 1>help us take a picture? It was It was a

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<v Speaker 1>common enough interaction, and it mirrored the findings of a

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<v Speaker 1>study that Joao conducted with Booth's Nicholas Epley when she

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<v Speaker 1>was a post doctoral scholar at Chicago Booth. The researchers

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<v Speaker 1>find that people can be consistently reluctant to reach out

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<v Speaker 1>for assistance because they underestimate how happy others are to comply.

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<v Speaker 1>That's interesting. Often it is our own preconceived notions that

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<v Speaker 1>hinder us from reaching out and seeking help, even though

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<v Speaker 1>people are frequently more more than willing to lend a

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<v Speaker 1>hand when asked. This reluctance creates a barrier to a

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<v Speaker 1>social interaction that would increase the well being for both

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<v Speaker 1>the request of the helper and the helper. The researchers right.

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<v Speaker 1>In six experiments, Epl and Jall surveyed hundreds of people

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<v Speaker 1>to gather information about study participants expected and actual reactions

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<v Speaker 1>to either asking for or being asked for help. For example,

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<v Speaker 1>in their first experiment, John Epley recruited fifty visitors of

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<v Speaker 1>a public park and asked them to find someone to

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<v Speaker 1>take their picture on a Polari camera. Participants first filled

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<v Speaker 1>out a survey that gauged both how they felt about

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<v Speaker 1>making the request and how they expected the people they

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<v Speaker 1>approached to fill and react. In forty seven the side

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<v Speaker 1>of fifty now in forty seven cases, the first person

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<v Speaker 1>approached agreed to help, and three others. The first declined,

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<v Speaker 1>but the second person said yes. The researchers then approached

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<v Speaker 1>the picture takers and surveyed them as well. To participants

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<v Speaker 1>significantly underestimated the picture taker's willingness to help and overestimated

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<v Speaker 1>the discomfort involved. The surveys revealed. Another experiment tested how

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<v Speaker 1>willing strangers in a university laboratory were to help each other.

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<v Speaker 1>Participants were paired up and seated at a computer desk,

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<v Speaker 1>close enough that they could see each other but not

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<v Speaker 1>the other's computer screen. They were then tasked with, within

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<v Speaker 1>five minutes, counting the number of instances the letter E

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<v Speaker 1>appeared in an academic article. One partner was given too

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<v Speaker 1>much material to cover in that time, while the other

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<v Speaker 1>was giving so little as to have lots of time

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<v Speaker 1>left over. The overburdened participants were encouraged to ask for help,

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<v Speaker 1>whether by asking their partners directly or by tapping the

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<v Speaker 1>experiment instructor to ask on their behalf. As before and

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<v Speaker 1>the other experiments, the results indicate that the people in

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<v Speaker 1>need of help tended to underestimate how happy others were

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<v Speaker 1>to provide help, and they overestimated the perceived bother involved

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<v Speaker 1>in asking for help. We believe those asking for help

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<v Speaker 1>are likely to focus on the inconvenience of helping, as

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<v Speaker 1>the help required as likely to be their primary focus.

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<v Speaker 1>That Pally says, someone being asked for help, in contrast,

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<v Speaker 1>will focus on the inconvenience of helping, but will also

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<v Speaker 1>focus on an enhanced sense of agency for being identified

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<v Speaker 1>as someone who could provide help. Now that's interesting. Huh,

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<v Speaker 1>I'm gonna read that again. This is in quotes. We

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<v Speaker 1>believe those asking for help are likely to focus on

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<v Speaker 1>the inconvenience of helping, as the help required is likely

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<v Speaker 1>to be their primary focus. Someone being asked for help,

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<v Speaker 1>in contrast, will focus on the inconvenience of helping, but

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<v Speaker 1>will also focus on a hand sense of personal agency

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<v Speaker 1>for being identified as someone who could provide help. In

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<v Speaker 1>other words, we like to be helpful for the person

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<v Speaker 1>being asked for help. The social connection and positive feeling

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<v Speaker 1>of performing and active kindness most likely always outweigh the inconvenience.

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<v Speaker 1>Sal and Epley say the finding change their own behaviors.

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<v Speaker 1>Zu now proactively offers help, knowing how reluctant others are

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<v Speaker 1>to ask. She gives the example of a recent vacation

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<v Speaker 1>to Murewood's National Monument, where she offered to take photos

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<v Speaker 1>for other visitors, even suggesting she use a panorama mode

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<v Speaker 1>to capture the full grandeur of the monument's old growth

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<v Speaker 1>redrig trees. Epley no longer hesitates to reach out for help.

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<v Speaker 1>In some ways, it's actually unkind not to ask or help,

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<v Speaker 1>and someone would be quite willing and even happier if

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<v Speaker 1>you did ask. He says, pretty phenomenal stuff, But how

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<v Speaker 1>does that all really relate. It's this an army of

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<v Speaker 1>normal folks is only as good as an army, and

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<v Speaker 1>we often take on a project and feel like it's

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<v Speaker 1>our duty to finish it and oftentimes won't ask for

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<v Speaker 1>help because we feel like we're inconvenience in somebody. But

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<v Speaker 1>what the study tells us is people want to be

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<v Speaker 1>asked for help and by asking people for help, you

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<v Speaker 1>give them agency, ownership, you give them a place in

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<v Speaker 1>a project. So if you're engaged in something and you

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<v Speaker 1>want to grow an army around your idea, it might

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<v Speaker 1>be as simple as just asking for help to give

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<v Speaker 1>people agency in your idea. One, they want to help.

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<v Speaker 1>The research shows people want to help. And two you

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<v Speaker 1>grow agency and ownership by involving people into help. And three,

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<v Speaker 1>as pointed out at the very end there, you're actually

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<v Speaker 1>doing the service to other people by not asking them

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<v Speaker 1>for help, because you're not giving them the opportunity to engage.

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<v Speaker 1>It's pretty interesting stuff, Alex.

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<v Speaker 2>Yeah, curious where'd you find this?

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<v Speaker 1>This is all Alex's idea.

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<v Speaker 2>By the way, so our good friend Evan Feinberg shared

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<v Speaker 2>the article on LinkedIn.

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<v Speaker 1>Why wouldn't it be Evan fiden He.

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<v Speaker 2>Posts a lot of good stuff like this that are

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<v Speaker 2>good shop talks.

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<v Speaker 1>So this actually came from Evan Biberg. Yeah, yeah, shout

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<v Speaker 1>out to Evan. That's pretty cool. So shop talk number

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<v Speaker 1>fifty four, don't be afraid to ask for help. Here's

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<v Speaker 1>the asterisks. Why shouldn't we be afraid to ask for help? One?

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<v Speaker 1>People want to help, That's what the research shows two

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<v Speaker 1>people take on agency when they're allowed to help, meaning

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<v Speaker 1>they get involved in your work, your idea, your need.

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<v Speaker 1>And three because people want to help. When you're afraid

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<v Speaker 1>to ask them for help, you're actually doing them a

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<v Speaker 1>disservice because you're precluding them from engaging in something that

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<v Speaker 1>will make them feel better. So don't be afraid to

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<v Speaker 1>ask for help, not just because it's good for you,

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<v Speaker 1>but it's good for the people you ask for help too.

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<v Speaker 1>Pretty interesting stuff.

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<v Speaker 2>And I think for all of us to be healthy

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<v Speaker 2>as healthy as possible, we all need help. And so

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<v Speaker 2>I hate asking for help. It's not like I really

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<v Speaker 2>hate it, but you know, for me to be the

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<v Speaker 2>best version of who I can likely is going to

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<v Speaker 2>require help from other people. Therefore I'm going to be

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<v Speaker 2>a healthier person. Therefore I can actually given help more

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<v Speaker 2>people myself at the end of the day.

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<v Speaker 1>So yeah, and they're healthier too because people want to help.

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<v Speaker 1>It's good stuff. That's actually kind of an army and

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<v Speaker 1>normal folks kind of thing, isn't it.

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<v Speaker 2>How we did it is a shop talk bro.

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<v Speaker 1>Yeah, there it is Shop Talk number fifty four. Don't

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<v Speaker 1>be afraid to ask for help because you're doing yourself

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<v Speaker 1>and others are disservice by doing it.

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<v Speaker 2>Oh yeah, or a new plug. This is a good

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<v Speaker 2>playoff of our recent new plug go for it. Speaking

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<v Speaker 2>of asking.

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<v Speaker 1>For help, oh, we want your help.

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<v Speaker 2>Yes, and you can help other people by doing this too.

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<v Speaker 1>This is just a big old help thing. Yeah.

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<v Speaker 2>We're all just helping each other in one big circle.

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<v Speaker 2>So if you do a good act, whether it's like

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<v Speaker 2>giving blood like John Norman is, or you're running with

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<v Speaker 2>the homeless like Michael Lignosis and all the amazing thing

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<v Speaker 2>Army members are.

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<v Speaker 1>Doing, yes, anything, post.

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<v Speaker 2>It on social media and write some kind of message

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<v Speaker 2>like join hashtag an army of normal folks. Together, we

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<v Speaker 2>can solve our problems tagging us tag us in it too.

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<v Speaker 2>We want to shift start sharing a lot of those

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<v Speaker 2>we'll post all that on our accounts, yep. But also

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<v Speaker 2>those posts can help other people by seeing look, normal

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<v Speaker 2>folks like me can solve these problems, and together we

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<v Speaker 2>can solve almost all the problems.

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<v Speaker 1>And hopefully it brings more people to the ship. That's true,

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<v Speaker 1>So we help each other.

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<v Speaker 2>We're all helping each other. There's kind of post. You

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<v Speaker 2>just got to be humble about it, right, you can't

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<v Speaker 2>be a Turkey person bragging about how great you are.

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<v Speaker 1>Yeah, it's just do it and send it to us

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<v Speaker 1>and we'll repost it and who knows, maybe something goes viral.

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<v Speaker 1>But more importantly, growing the Army sharing our stories.

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<v Speaker 2>That's it.

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<v Speaker 1>That's it. Hey, if you liked this episode, rate and

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<v Speaker 2>You're really nailing it in right now.

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<v Speaker 1>I think I got it all, didn't I.

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<v Speaker 2>You can become a premium member of normal Folks out

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<v Speaker 2>us that one.

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<v Speaker 1>Yeah, and besides that, we'll see you next week.

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<v Speaker 2>Yes, next week, yes, next week.

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<v Speaker 1>Okay, that's shop talk at number fifty four. We just

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<v Speaker 1>ask for help. Don't be afraid to ask for help.

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<v Speaker 1>Let's grow the Army and we'll see you next week.

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<v Speaker 1>Thanks for joining