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Speaker 1: Best Bits of the Week with Morgan Listener Q and A.

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Speaker 2: Here we are in part three. It's time for listener

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Speaker 2: Q and A. We're gonna start with some shout outs. Amy,

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Speaker 2: you want to feel good real quick, sure, so I'll

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Speaker 2: take it. So happy for you and know you will

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Speaker 2: have a blast in Charleston, Britt in North Carolina, you

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Speaker 2: two are my fave.

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Speaker 3: That comes from Haley.

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Speaker 2: Just love you ladies from Nina and North Carolina. Love

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Speaker 2: and appreciate you both for being real and then loving

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Speaker 2: these versions of both of you right now from Sarah

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Speaker 2: like do you feel good? Yeah?

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Speaker 3: Little start you guys.

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Speaker 2: We love little shout outs. You guys are awesome. Okay,

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Speaker 2: kicking things off, What is your favorite part about your

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Speaker 2: kids at this age stage? From Bree in Virginia.

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Speaker 4: I probably their personalities taking shape. Like I did a

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Speaker 4: post around my birthday talking about that, and uh, I

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Speaker 4: just pulled it up because Stevenson got me a card

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Speaker 4: that said, you know you're getting old when you're boo

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Speaker 4: hang so low and then you open it up and

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Speaker 4: it says that you can have a mammogram and a

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Speaker 4: pedicure at the same time. Happy birthday, And I don't

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Speaker 4: even think he knows what a mammogram or a pedicure is.

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Speaker 4: But he just died laughing at this card and was

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Speaker 4: so proud of it. And I just love that that's

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Speaker 4: the card he picked out for me. And then he

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Speaker 4: gave it to me, and then his note inside was

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Speaker 4: really precious, and he even said, he wrote, I hope

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Speaker 4: you look at the front of the paper, just I

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Speaker 4: don't miss like the first part of the joke. And

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Speaker 4: then Stashira gave me a really sweet card and then

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Speaker 4: on the inside she put a bunch of coupons and

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Speaker 4: she said, good for one dot dot dot, like I

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Speaker 4: get to use them. These are good for anything, whatever

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Speaker 4: I decide. And then she said, to use your coupons,

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Speaker 4: you must let me stamp it. And it just reminded

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Speaker 4: me of her personality and how she's not going to

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Speaker 4: let anybody take advantage of anything. If I use her

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Speaker 4: those coupons, She's going to stamp it. And that coupon

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Speaker 4: is now null and VOYD is done.

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Speaker 5: It's over. I cannot cash it in again.

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Speaker 4: But she wrote the most thoughtful letter or any word

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Speaker 4: she's ever shared with me. It was written in that card.

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Speaker 4: And I think now that she's seventeen, she's able to

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Speaker 4: express herself more and she has more vocabulary than she's

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Speaker 4: ever had before. And so I think that that's my

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Speaker 4: favorite part is watching them grow up and their sense

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Speaker 4: of humors like Stevenson's is just amazing. And then with

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Speaker 4: Stashira us just being able to talk about things more

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Speaker 4: like friends.

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Speaker 3: In a way.

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Speaker 4: I'm still her mom, but once she turns eighteen and

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Speaker 4: then in the next two years will shift from some

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Speaker 4: parenting stuff and coaching vibes to more friend vibes. And

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Speaker 4: I'm excited for that because it's fun getting to know

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Speaker 4: her in that way.

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Speaker 3: Yeah.

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Speaker 2: Oh, it's so crazy that they're growing up. It feels

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Speaker 2: like just yesterday that they were so young. Do Amy's

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Speaker 4: Stevenson does not, and Sashia kan a little bit, and

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Speaker 4: she's taking French in school, so which Creole and French

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Speaker 4: I would say with Sashira, she can understand it more

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Speaker 4: we'll get back. We've been in touch with her aunt,

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Speaker 4: who has moved to America from Haiti. And they have

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Speaker 4: been communicating on WhatsApp and talking more, and she's even

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Speaker 4: is still in Haiti, and I think we're going to

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Speaker 1: Oh.

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Speaker 2: I love that. That's a I haven't heard that update.

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Speaker 2: What does Stashira want to do for a living? She's

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Speaker 2: so so business savvy Laura from New Mexico. Yeah, right

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Speaker 2: now she is thinking about esthetician school. Oh okay, didn't

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Speaker 2: see that one coming to me neither.

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Speaker 5: But it's just something that she's been talking about casually.

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Speaker 4: And then I have some friends that do that and

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Speaker 4: they're like, she can come shadow me anytime, and she's like, yeah,

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Speaker 4: And she texts them and ask them questions and she's

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Speaker 4: asked them what schools they've gone to and what they

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Speaker 4: recommend and oh yeah, so we'll see what happens.

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Speaker 2: But dang, yeah, it was not I always like prepared

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Speaker 4: She wants to own her own business, so yeah, and

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Speaker 4: she gets both. Yeah, she has said, well, I'll work

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Speaker 4: for myself, and then I'll have some people maybe that

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Speaker 4: work under me, and so if I ever want to

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Speaker 4: go on vacation or leave town, they can still continue

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Speaker 4: to take care of people's.

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Speaker 5: Faces and I'll go on a trip.

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Speaker 3: I love this for her. She has it all figured out.

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Speaker 3: I need to be more like Sashia.

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Speaker 2: I feel like in my life, did your cousin know

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Speaker 2: or warn you about the divorce before it happened? Don

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Speaker 4: Gosh, this would be going way back. But yes, she

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Speaker 4: did have inkling and inkling, a feeling, a knowing of

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Speaker 4: and tell me, because that's not how she operates. And

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Speaker 4: I do think she was encouraging me and guiding me

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Speaker 4: to get my affairs in order to get my ducks

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Speaker 4: in a row. I was not involved in our finances

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Speaker 4: at all. I've shared a lot about this. That was

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Speaker 4: by my choice. When we first got married seventeen years ago,

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Speaker 4: I didn't want anything to do with paying bills or

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Speaker 4: I didn't know anything, so I didn't at the time

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Speaker 4: that I knew maybe a divorce was on the horizon.

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Speaker 4: Actually it wasn't until because I didn't take my cousin's advice,

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Speaker 4: And it was so overwhelming. But I am a story

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Speaker 4: of hope and encouragement. It is possible, and you can learn,

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Speaker 4: and you can and do it without getting freaked out,

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Speaker 4: because I used to just get like a lump in

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Speaker 4: I didn't like the way I felt when I had

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Speaker 4: to deal with finances. I just like didn't trust myself

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Speaker 4: to her and she said, Amy, at this point, I

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Speaker 4: did not think I was getting a divorce at all.

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Speaker 2: Was over.

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Speaker 5: It was still not an option.

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Speaker 4: She said, you need to get involved in your finances.

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Speaker 4: And I was like, where is this coming from. That's

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Speaker 4: not even what I'm talking to you about. And she's like,

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Speaker 4: do it now. It will be empowering, And I was

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Speaker 4: thinking empowering, what is she even talking about and I

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Speaker 4: got to tell you it is it is so empowering

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Speaker 4: to know what's coming in and what's going out. And

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Speaker 4: it's not about the amount. It's just about knowing and

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Speaker 4: having control. And that's one of the first things she

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Speaker 4: said to me, and I know it's because she was like,

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Speaker 4: something's about to happen and you're about to get a

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Speaker 4: reality check and you need to have your stuff in order.

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Speaker 5: And I didn't listen to her though.

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Speaker 2: Yeah, So, so next time somebody gets a inkling with you,

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Speaker 4: It a second thought, especially if they're your cousin and

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Speaker 4: they claim to be a psyche.

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Speaker 5: Just you know, very important to tell there.

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Speaker 2: Have you learned anything new about yourself since dating someone,

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Speaker 4: Yeah, I have learned that our nervous systems are fascinating

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Speaker 4: and they can change, which we know that, but to

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Speaker 4: experience it is really awesome. And I've experienced it, like

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Speaker 4: now I know what it's like. And this has nothing

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Speaker 4: my own nervous system and things I probably even brought

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Speaker 4: into our marriage. So I was part of the problem.

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Speaker 4: Ben was part of the problem. There's nothing against Ben,

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Speaker 4: but how I was living and operating. I don't have

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Speaker 4: that in this relationship, and it is It feels calm

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Speaker 4: and secure, and I'm not looking for chaos. And I

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Speaker 4: chased cachaos for a while because chaos is what I

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Speaker 5: This is boring.

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Speaker 4: And so I have learned what that feels like to

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Speaker 4: that shift had happened because of the work I was

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Speaker 4: doing without this relationship. But this relationship is showing me

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Speaker 4: what it's like to have what my new baseline is,

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Speaker 4: and how great it is to sort of stay there

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Speaker 4: chase like a high. Yeah.

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Speaker 2: And because it's also testing your new baseline, you would

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Speaker 2: have never been able to test it until you entered

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Speaker 4: Unless been and I did a complete which we you

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Speaker 4: know that could have been possible, but that just wasn't

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Speaker 4: what was in store for us. But I do think

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Speaker 4: So I don't want people to give give up because

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Speaker 4: you can find a new baseline in your current relationship.

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Speaker 5: But it takes probably.

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Speaker 2: Both people, definitely both, but I don't think it could

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Speaker 2: be a one sided journey. Okay, we're gonna take a

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Speaker 3: We'll be right back.

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Speaker 2: Do you have lots of birds at your new home?

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Speaker 2: Fellow bird guardian and angel believer Ashley from Louisiana.

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Speaker 4: Yes, I've got my cardinals and a blue jays and

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Speaker 4: my little chickadees, and I feel like. There was some

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Speaker 4: much that I went to google what does a cardinal

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Speaker 4: baby look like? Because they didn't have the bright orange beaks.

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Speaker 5: And they were red. No, they were sort of like.

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Speaker 4: A grayish brownish. But the babies they could look they

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Speaker 4: look like all kinds of they evolve into what they're

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Speaker 4: is that the mom and the dad and these are

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Speaker 4: baby cardinals? And this is a sign that I'm gonna

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Speaker 4: have a baby.

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Speaker 3: This is a new sign.

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Speaker 4: I didn't know about this sign. But then I was like, also,

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Speaker 4: oh is that? I'm like, are my eyes working? Because

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Speaker 4: that could just be like another baby bird or a

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Speaker 5: So I went to google what does a baby cardinal

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Speaker 5: look like? And I don't know. These are pretty close.

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Speaker 4: So I've been looking for a little nest to see

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Speaker 4: But that the bright orange beak develops over time, they

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Speaker 4: are not born with it.

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Speaker 2: that makes sense too. I wonder with like eagle babies,

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Speaker 2: if they're born with their yellow beaks.

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Speaker 4: Okay, I already have this planned out in my mind.

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Speaker 5: We would be with the expert, and then we'd probably.

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Speaker 3: This is like kind of intertwined to like a well treat.

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Speaker 4: It would be it would be we're taking care of ourselves,

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Speaker 5: Yeah, massages like this would be great. He's paying for it,

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Speaker 4: It works out. Yeah, so thank you, Bobby. But yes,

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Speaker 4: I don't know what activities we need exactly, but I

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Speaker 4: could do certain we'll call them games, but they would

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Speaker 2: Yeah, I still think you should keep trying to make

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Speaker 5: Let's call it. It's actually experiential therapy.

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Speaker 4: Okay, you're using your body, you're getting up, you're interacting.

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Speaker 2: Yes, I'm on board.

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Speaker 5: Bonding. Let's go gropes core stuffed, the trust fall.

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Speaker 2: The trust fall. Maybe maybe we can start with the

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