Speaker 1: The second date of day.
Speaker 2: One of the best parts of dating is trying out
Speaker 2: new things like activities, new activities, new foods, felonies, because
Speaker 2: you never know what unique experiences you might have and
Speaker 2: how you're gonna feel when you're with this new persons.
Speaker 1: That's fine. I was jam.
Speaker 2: And that's what happened with one of our listeners, Aaron,
Speaker 2: who says he went out with a new woman and
Speaker 2: she inspired him to try doing something for the very
Speaker 2: first time.
Speaker 1: Aaron, is this your first time being on a radio show?
Speaker 3: Not my first time, but conversations?
Speaker 1: Yet she's inspired you to do at least two new things.
Speaker 4: Look at you.
Speaker 1: Wow, this woman already sounds like a keeper. What's her name?
Speaker 3: Her name is Becca, Becca, I am Becca online. It
Speaker 3: was my first foray, No.
Speaker 5: Really, is the first time you ever did online dating?
Speaker 3: Yeah? I was always like my dream was to do it,
Speaker 3: like find a person in person and connect. And then
Speaker 3: I was like, you know what, it's been such a struggle.
Speaker 3: Nobody wants to talk anymore in person.
Speaker 2: The internet is where people go to give up on
Speaker 2: their previous.
Speaker 4: So much.
Speaker 1: But where did you decide to go for your date?
Speaker 3: Okay? So the plan was we were supposed to just
Speaker 3: go me to the bar and have some beers, and
Speaker 3: that was actually good, but then kind of got a
Speaker 3: little out of control.
Speaker 5: What do you mean really good way? Yeah?
Speaker 3: Yeah, it was like in a good and bad way,
Speaker 3: if that makes sense.
Speaker 6: I don't think it means bad isn't good either, I
Speaker 6: think it just means bad bad.
Speaker 1: Yeah, I'm more confused. Tell us what happened.
Speaker 3: Okay, so it sounds weird, but we were drinking at
Speaker 3: the bar and then I noticed out the window there
Speaker 3: was a pawn shop across the street.
Speaker 5: Okay, so you're not in a very nice neighborhood.
Speaker 6: I get it, Yestars, Hey, listen, I grew up hanging
Speaker 6: out at pawn shops.
Speaker 5: They are not in the nice neighborhoods.
Speaker 1: Oh, that makes a lot of sense.
Speaker 5: Yeah, so you saw the pawn shop and what.
Speaker 3: And then I was like, this is a little bit weird.
Speaker 3: But I've always wanted to go to those, you know,
Speaker 3: can we check it out? I've never been there.
Speaker 2: Oh so this is the new experience that she inspired
Speaker 2: you to have. Yeah yeah, wow, oh.
Speaker 1: God, it could be really romantic and magic.
Speaker 5: Have you ever been to a pawn shop?
Speaker 1: Jeffrey Well, no, No, they.
Speaker 5: All smell a little weird. They're sad places.
Speaker 4: You're desperate people, go, Aaron, maybe.
Speaker 1: You had a better experience, Aaron, what was yours?
Speaker 3: Like? Yeah, So we just walked across street and she
Speaker 3: was down with it, and so I popped in, looked
Speaker 3: around and I was like, I haven't I actually have
Speaker 3: an idea, and so I went put to my car.
Speaker 3: She waited for me, and I came back and I
Speaker 3: was like, I had this whole cookie jar in the
Speaker 3: trunk and my grandma gave me. It kind of looked valuable,
Speaker 3: so you know, I wasn't your So I was like, Okay,
Speaker 3: let's see here's.
Speaker 1: A good opportunity to get of it and maybe make
Speaker 1: some money.
Speaker 4: It's getting a value.
Speaker 1: Yeah, so you brought it in.
Speaker 3: Yeah, And it was like to the guy behind the counter,
Speaker 3: I was like, hey, how much for this cookie jar?
Speaker 1: And he was like nothing, See, that's they lowball you
Speaker 1: at first.
Speaker 4: Yeah, there's a Civil War cookie?
Speaker 5: Like is there diamonds or guns inside that?
Speaker 3: I was in the family for a bit and I
Speaker 3: was like arguing with the guy. I was like, no,
Speaker 3: it's an antique, you know, and he's like, dude, I
Speaker 3: can't sell this for anything, but like, I was just joking.
Speaker 3: I was like, oh, well, what about the necklace that
Speaker 3: she's wearing, you know, and your necklace?
Speaker 4: Joe?
Speaker 3: Yeah, yeah, yeah, yeah.
Speaker 4: It's obvious.
Speaker 6: Joe isn't an obvious joke, though, what did bea say?
Speaker 3: I mean, we're both kind of tipsy, so she was
Speaker 3: a little offended at first, but she kind of laughed
Speaker 3: at it when she realized I was joking. Okay, she
Speaker 3: was like, well, actually this necklace is from her ex.
Speaker 3: So she was like, I wouldn't mind really getting rid
Speaker 3: of it.
Speaker 2: She was wearing her ex boyfriend's necklace on her first date.
Speaker 5: Choice you could just get a sometimes exes give good jewelry.
Speaker 3: I'm sure, Okay, it was nice enough, but so we
Speaker 3: started negotiating with the guy and then he was like,
Speaker 3: I'll give you eighty dollars for it, and she's like sure,
Speaker 3: and she got rid of it. So, like, yo're drinking
Speaker 3: money man the black in the bar.
Speaker 7: Are you worried?
Speaker 4: What if it was worth a lot more than that?
Speaker 5: They're always worth a lot more than that if they're
Speaker 5: going to give you eighty bucks.
Speaker 2: Yeah, but to get rid of an ex boyfriend's necklace.
Speaker 2: It kind of feels good to get rid of.
Speaker 4: It emotional weight.
Speaker 2: All right, So now you have eighty dollars to keep drinking.
Speaker 3: Yeah, we went back to the bar and we spent
Speaker 3: all eighty dollars. Now it was fun.
Speaker 6: Was she just mad that she ended up having to
Speaker 6: pay for the date then that way?
Speaker 3: No, she didn't say anything about that. Like, you know,
Speaker 3: we left the bar. We ended the night with the hugs.
Speaker 1: Okay.
Speaker 3: I decided. I was like, I can't drive home because
Speaker 3: I'm not I'm like really wasted at this point. So
Speaker 3: I slept in the back of my car, but we
Speaker 3: got her a uber oh an uber back with her.
Speaker 4: I know I'm fine here.
Speaker 1: I'm still sleep across from the part.
Speaker 5: I mean, it's okay.
Speaker 3: It's responsible, Like I I didn't want to leave my
Speaker 3: car there in the parking lot, and then my grandma's
Speaker 3: cookie jars in there too. You know, it's like with it, not.
Speaker 4: The cookie jar jars, like sleeping with it.
Speaker 5: Did your date see you sleeping.
Speaker 2: In the car?
Speaker 3: I don't remember, but I know she got home safe, so.
Speaker 2: Okay, and I've been able to keep the conversation going
Speaker 2: with her after the date.
Speaker 3: Well, that's the thing. It's like, I haven't gotten any
Speaker 3: responses from her. I mean she liked one of my texts,
Speaker 3: so I know she saw.
Speaker 6: It, okay, but she didn't send liked great time. No, no, no,
Speaker 6: I mean maybe she regrets selling the necklace and felt
Speaker 6: like kind of pressured by you and she sobered up.
Speaker 3: Well, I mean I hope not, because I mean we
Speaker 3: had a good time doing something we've totally never done before,
Speaker 3: and I mean same with her, so you know, sure, Okay, Well.
Speaker 2: We're gonna give Bech a whole other thing she's never
Speaker 2: done before.
Speaker 1: A random fun call from a bunch.
Speaker 2: Of radio hosts when we come back and do your
Speaker 2: second date update Right after this se.
Speaker 1: What was supposed to.
Speaker 2: Be an ordinary date turned into a semi drunk episode
Speaker 2: of pond Stars.
Speaker 5: With this music.
Speaker 1: It was crazy how it happened.
Speaker 2: Because Aaron saw a pawn shop out the window of
Speaker 2: the bar that they were at. They ambled over across
Speaker 2: the street and he sold his date's necklace for beer money.
Speaker 4: Dude, why.
Speaker 5: You say it in that sentence?
Speaker 1: Exactly, I'm not even exaggerating.
Speaker 2: Then they went back to the bar and drank more
Speaker 2: with the eighty bucks that they scored until he decided
Speaker 2: to spend the night in the.
Speaker 1: Back seat of his own car. God's honest truths.
Speaker 4: Any of that story up?
Speaker 3: When you recapped a date like that, Yeah, no, is
Speaker 3: that creepy?
Speaker 5: It just sounds like you're from my hometown. Like all
Speaker 5: of that, it's very familiar.
Speaker 4: You're one of those friends in low places.
Speaker 5: Yeah.
Speaker 2: I mean, it's not the date that you envisioned for yourself, clearly,
Speaker 2: but maybe it ended up better than you ever expected.
Speaker 4: And you said you had fun.
Speaker 3: I had a great time. I would love to see
Speaker 3: her again, no regrets.
Speaker 2: I can't believe that a girl wouldn't call a guy
Speaker 2: back after he couldn't sell his own grandma's cookies.
Speaker 3: So that's what I'm talking about.
Speaker 2: Yeah, all right, we're sure George Clooney did that one,
Speaker 2: and look where he is now, billionaire.
Speaker 1: So that's going to be you soon. Aaron.
Speaker 2: First, we got to get you out on another date
Speaker 2: with Becca, so we're going.
Speaker 1: To call her right now. Okay, here we go. Hello,
Speaker 1: Hey is this Becca?
Speaker 7: This Becca?
Speaker 1: Hey Becca? What's up?
Speaker 2: You're on the morning radio show called Brook and Jeffrey
Speaker 2: in the Morning.
Speaker 5: Hey Becca, by guy, Welcome to the show.
Speaker 7: So I'm like, I'm literally on the radio right now.
Speaker 2: Yes, you are so hop on board because it's going
Speaker 2: to be a little bit of a bumpy ride. Okay,
Speaker 2: because well it's actually could be smooth.
Speaker 1: It could be soon.
Speaker 2: Because we're doing something called the second Date Update, and
Speaker 2: we're trying to hook you back up with a guy
Speaker 2: you went out with recently named Aaron.
Speaker 7: Oh my god, seriously, Yeah, it sounds like you guys
Speaker 7: had a fun night together. I mean we definitely had
Speaker 7: a time. Yeah, I mean it, honestly, it was a
Speaker 7: great first date. But it kind of like led to
Speaker 7: like a kind of a bigger issue.
Speaker 1: So what kind of a thing?
Speaker 7: Well, I mean, did he tell you that we were
Speaker 7: kind of drunk and went to a pawn shop and
Speaker 7: he sold my necklace, like off my neck.
Speaker 1: On a scale of one to ten. How romantic was
Speaker 1: that to you?
Speaker 7: I mean, yeah, I mean it was all. It was
Speaker 7: definitely fun. I did not expect to walk out of
Speaker 7: that date without my necklace. The word to close the
Speaker 7: bar down afterwards, But yeah, I mean, I guess I
Speaker 7: intended on calling him back, but I took an uber
Speaker 7: home after our date, and I kind of couldn't help
Speaker 7: myself because before I parted with the necklace, I asked
Speaker 7: Aaron to take a photo of me handing over the
Speaker 7: necklace of the pawnshop guy.
Speaker 1: Okay, happy memories.
Speaker 7: Yeah, exactly exactly, because it was a gesture, it was
Speaker 7: on my ex and anyway, while I was in the uber,
Speaker 7: I sent that photo to my ex.
Speaker 1: Oh a revenge.
Speaker 5: Photo, yeow, I mean that cut that is a good revenge.
Speaker 2: I'm look what happened to your sweet precious jewelry?
Speaker 7: Yeah, I mean we had broken up probably six months
Speaker 7: ago or something, and we hooked up a couple of
Speaker 7: times and then yeah, and so like I had started
Speaker 7: an online dating profile to like help me get over him,
Speaker 7: or you know, just find other options. So I didn't
Speaker 7: keep doing that. But then this, like selling the necklace
Speaker 7: was like supposed to be the nail in the coffin,
Speaker 7: like shutting the door.
Speaker 5: And that's a huge middle finger to get in your text,
Speaker 5: Like what did your ex say?
Speaker 7: Well, he didn't really say much. He'd actually just like
Speaker 7: put question marks, and I didn't. I just honestly I
Speaker 7: got home and I passed out and I didn't really care.
Speaker 5: So okay, that's good him then what's wrong?
Speaker 7: But then the next day I woke up to my door,
Speaker 7: knock at my door, and it's my ex holding the necklace.
Speaker 5: What did he go back to the pawnshop?
Speaker 7: He had done some investigative work and figured out which
Speaker 7: pawn shop it was, bought the necklace back for three
Speaker 7: hundred and twenty dollars.
Speaker 4: Oh, I made a pretty penny.
Speaker 7: This is how much you mean to me?
Speaker 4: Oh well, and he still want to do that, dude? Yeah,
Speaker 4: that is really sad.
Speaker 1: Yeah, that's how men operate. We operate on sadness.
Speaker 7: So not every man, not every man does that.
Speaker 1: Us do.
Speaker 3: So.
Speaker 6: I mean you hailed him enough to pawn the necklace
Speaker 6: he gave you and then send it in a text
Speaker 6: like I.
Speaker 7: Was drinking, I was drinking talking.
Speaker 6: Let's guess what happened next, or you just tell us.
Speaker 7: We didn't hook up, if that's what you're implying. But
Speaker 7: I did invite him in. We have some coffee, We
Speaker 7: talked things over, and honestly, I mean it was so unexpected.
Speaker 7: Maybe it was because I was hungover, Maybe it was
Speaker 7: because like it was hot, Like it was hot for
Speaker 7: him to go through all that trouble and then take
Speaker 7: three hundred and twenty dollars to.
Speaker 4: Get it backs.
Speaker 5: Are sad you at that point too?
Speaker 4: You text an in vote right now seventy five ninety
Speaker 4: two Hot or not?
Speaker 1: He didn't spend no three hundred dollars on it?
Speaker 5: I mean, what was it worth to begin with? Did
Speaker 5: he ever tell you?
Speaker 7: I don't know. He never told me, but it could
Speaker 7: not have been more than I was to say, hello, Hello, Aaron.
Speaker 1: Is that Aaron?
Speaker 5: I think your ex boyfriends in the back room.
Speaker 1: He's been listening on the other line this entire time,
Speaker 1: wanting to jump in.
Speaker 7: Are you serious? Yeah?
Speaker 3: So wait, hold on, so you you had an amazing
Speaker 3: time with me, but then you got back with your exes.
Speaker 3: That was you hooked up with your ex.
Speaker 7: I did not hook up with my ax. But we
Speaker 7: have decided to I think we, I mean we want
Speaker 7: to try. You know, we're trying it again. It's like,
Speaker 7: thank you so much. I mean, we had a fun day,
Speaker 7: and I mean I think you're a really great guy.
Speaker 7: I was one hundred percent anticipating having a second day
Speaker 7: with you.
Speaker 3: I'm just being really honest, Like this really hurts actually,
Speaker 3: Like I didn't expect like this would happen. That I
Speaker 3: thought we had a great time and it was, like
Speaker 3: you said, it was six months ago, Like, really, you
Speaker 3: want to try that again instead of trying something new
Speaker 3: like we did.
Speaker 4: You're getting with very risk.
Speaker 1: Aaron basically teed up her ex to.
Speaker 3: Like, yeah, yeah, I didn't. I didn't mean to do that.
Speaker 3: It just happened, you know.
Speaker 6: I mean honestly, I know, but you thought that you
Speaker 6: were ridding her of the X instead of you know
Speaker 6: what I mean, like, you're you're getting rid of the necklace.
Speaker 5: We're washing ourselves clean, we're moving forward.
Speaker 2: You were probably just asleep in your car when he
Speaker 2: was across the street.
Speaker 3: You're actually that good thing happened, So that's what I'm
Speaker 3: in your car? Oh sorry, oh god, yeah, I didn't.
Speaker 1: Want to leave my car.
Speaker 3: I just didn't. I don't want to leave the car there,
Speaker 3: and I couldn't drive home, you know, drunk, I was no.
Speaker 7: I mean, I'm glad you didn't drive home, but I
Speaker 7: definitely didn't think you would sleep in your car.
Speaker 3: Say, I think I think you're great and.
Speaker 4: Good timing.
Speaker 5: Okay, he's really sweet.
Speaker 2: Maybe you should offer to buy the necklace back for
Speaker 2: even more than three hundred and twenty dollars the ultimate.
Speaker 7: I don't know. I think if you're not taking an
Speaker 7: uber home like I doubt you're gonna spend more than
Speaker 7: three hundred and twenty dollars on this reclass, you're price.
Speaker 5: Shaving him now.
Speaker 3: Yes, it's just a gesture of money. We had a
Speaker 3: great time, he just said, with money.
Speaker 1: I think that's important to keep in mind here.
Speaker 2: And also it's important to keep in mind that she
Speaker 2: hasn't hooked up with her ex boyfriend yet.
Speaker 1: So with that being said, I think.
Speaker 2: I'm going to propose the two of you go out
Speaker 2: on another date, you and Aaron, and you can use
Speaker 2: it as a competition now to see who do you
Speaker 2: want to get with more.
Speaker 5: Aaron or your ex boy or maybe Aeron will lead
Speaker 5: you to another X and then you can.
Speaker 7: Good god, this has already been like kind of a
Speaker 7: shock for the system. But I mean, oh, I hear,
Speaker 7: but I think it's I feel I feel like a
Speaker 7: second date. Would that? Would that be awkward? I mean you'd.
Speaker 4: Cheating on your new boyfriend.
Speaker 1: Yeah, only if you're wearing that necklace again, then might
Speaker 1: be a.
Speaker 5: Little longer just talking.
Speaker 3: Hey, hey, look after a couple of whiskey, sours, whiskey, cokes,
Speaker 3: whatever you want. We're gonna sell that thing again.
Speaker 5: Oh let's see how many times your exploit friend will buy.
Speaker 4: It some time.
Speaker 1: Come on, go out one more time, and we'll pay
Speaker 1: for it. Yes or no?
Speaker 7: All right, if you guys are paying for it, I
Speaker 7: will do a second date.
Speaker 2: It's a sloppy second date, just the way that we
Speaker 2: like it. We'll even throwing a free radio station blanket
Speaker 2: that the two of you can cuddle up underneath in
Speaker 2: the back seat of Aaron's car.
Speaker 7: I was going to ask if you can definitely put
Speaker 7: the uber beltier
Speaker 5: Brook and Jeffrey in the morning