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Speaker 1: jubile In the morning second Date update, they say that
Speaker 1: one man's trash is another man's treasure. I already don't
Speaker 1: like the start of today's second date update, and that's
Speaker 1: why Tim is on the phone for a second date update. Today.
Speaker 1: He found a discarded date and then he sweeped in
Speaker 1: and got a date with her. Started Tim, Now, I
Speaker 1: don't want to call your date trash. It was just
Speaker 1: an analogy. Okay, Yeah, I get to tell us about
Speaker 1: the garbage pickup. How'd it go? Um? Yeah, well, let's
Speaker 1: move back up. I went out that night to go
Speaker 1: see a play and I just went by myself. So
Speaker 1: I go to the theater and I'm there and down
Speaker 1: the row, a couple of seats down there's this girl
Speaker 1: and she was pretty cute. So I smiled at her
Speaker 1: and she sort of smiled back. Did you throw her
Speaker 1: a wink too? No? No, I did the polite you know,
Speaker 1: like smilehead. No, just like hello y, like bite the
Speaker 1: lower lip, like any of the proper moves are just
Speaker 1: simply a smile. Maybe I should have done that. Maybe
Speaker 1: you start talking about how this woman sounds like a
Speaker 1: sweater from Goodwill, and now you're all right? So he
Speaker 1: smiled at her. I did, And the seat next to
Speaker 1: her is naked. So I get a little courage and
Speaker 1: I kind of like walk down a little bit to
Speaker 1: the aisle and I just said, hey, is anybody sitting
Speaker 1: the seat? And she said yeah, someone else is going
Speaker 1: to come take the seat. And then that's when you
Speaker 1: yelled at out. Why are you yell at her? Now?
Speaker 1: He was upset. No, no, no, no, oh you didn't
Speaker 1: yelled at her. No, I just said, oh, okay. I
Speaker 1: didn't ask who you know the seat was for, right,
Speaker 1: because it's none of your business because she's a complete
Speaker 1: stranger in a theater. Yeah, but she also didn't say
Speaker 1: you know who it was for either, Like if it
Speaker 1: was her husband, I imagine she would say, like, no,
Speaker 1: it's for my husband or or my boyfriend. Right, she
Speaker 1: probably would have let you know, stop hitting on me, exactly. Yeah,
Speaker 1: and the nicest way possible. I feel like seat taken
Speaker 1: has already stopped hitting on me. Why would you guys
Speaker 1: saying no actually I married him in a very long relationship,
Speaker 1: and the seat has been taken by him. Maybe there's
Speaker 1: this possibility that the seat is, you know, just for
Speaker 1: one of her, a girlfriend, you know, a friend of
Speaker 1: hers that she went to see the play with. Yeah, right, okay, okay,
Speaker 1: so you went back to your regular seat, then I did.
Speaker 1: I did. I said, okay, well, you know, and enjoy
Speaker 1: the show. And then I went back and the show
Speaker 1: started a few minutes later, and and it was good, okay,
Speaker 1: But then through the show I sort of kept the
Speaker 1: eye just looking over by her to see if him
Speaker 1: in a hat showed up, because you almost sound like
Speaker 1: you're starting to get a little creepy guy that keeps
Speaker 1: looking over at her during the play. I did it.
Speaker 1: That's that's the thing. I didn't want to, So I
Speaker 1: kind of did, like the perfuel vision to see if
Speaker 1: there's any action happening over there. Um anyway, So intermission
Speaker 1: comes and no one had showed up. Oh the mysterious
Speaker 1: vacant seat. She's either lying to you or the person
Speaker 1: didn't show up. So you know, I went out, I
Speaker 1: got something to drink, do the intermission stuff, and and
Speaker 1: when I came back in, I came in, so I
Speaker 1: walked past her to get into the aisle, and as
Speaker 1: I walked past her, I just said, hey, the seats
Speaker 1: still taken, and she said no, they didn't show and
Speaker 1: I said, oh, well, do you mind if I sit there?
Speaker 1: And she said sure, So I say, good persistence. Okay.
Speaker 1: You know, I would have felt weird going back up
Speaker 1: to her, being like, yeah, hey, what's up. You said
Speaker 1: someone just come for that seat, but it's been open
Speaker 1: this whole time and I've had my eye on that seat.
Speaker 1: So yeah, and you're a liar, just lied to everybody.
Speaker 1: What's what's going on with you? I want to seem
Speaker 1: that way. I didn't want to see a creepy guy.
Speaker 1: It was more like, you know, like I felt bad,
Speaker 1: like she got food up on her dad. It's kind
Speaker 1: of awkward, though, I mean, you're putting her in a
Speaker 1: position like what is she going to do? Stick to
Speaker 1: the lie at that point. No, someone's still coming for
Speaker 1: the last half of the play. But the good thing
Speaker 1: is the play finishes and we start talking. And then
Speaker 1: I just said, do you want to go grab something
Speaker 1: to eat? And she said, yeah, sure, that'd be great.
Speaker 1: So that's cool. Okay. Yeah, So we laughed, and we
Speaker 1: walked to the place and we sit on and you know,
Speaker 1: we talked for a little while. We get a drink,
Speaker 1: we get some food, conversations great. You know, it's not
Speaker 1: creepy at all. And I noticed so that she's starting
Speaker 1: to get a little life tired, and so I was like, oh,
Speaker 1: you know what, won't we just call it a night?
Speaker 1: And she said, yeah, that'd be great. So I walked
Speaker 1: to her car, said good night, gave her a hug,
Speaker 1: and said can I call you? And she said sure?
Speaker 1: And so I texted her a couple of times and
Speaker 1: I never heard back, and I was, you know, I
Speaker 1: thought things had gone well, and you know, I didn't
Speaker 1: I emailed you guys. Did you ever find out who
Speaker 1: the seat was for? You know, we didn't talk about
Speaker 1: it at dinner because I thought if I brought it
Speaker 1: up and she could get stood up, it would be
Speaker 1: uncomfortable or make her feel bad. So I just stayed
Speaker 1: away from it. I had a good idea. So how
Speaker 1: long have been since you guys went to dinner? It's
Speaker 1: been like a week and a half. A week and
Speaker 1: a half, okay, So she's definitely blowing you off. Yeah, yeah,
Speaker 1: And you know, I just think about why, you know,
Speaker 1: who was that seat four? Maybe it was for a
Speaker 1: boyfriend or someone that she was dating and he finally
Speaker 1: showed up, or and now she's like, nine, what I'm
Speaker 1: gonna do with you? Maybe I was to forward, you know,
Speaker 1: maybe I was a creepy guy in the theater trying
Speaker 1: to steal the speed. Or yeah, so that's why you
Speaker 1: mailed you guys, Well, we'll play a song, comeback, call
Speaker 1: her and get your second date update. Okay, okay, great, thanks,
Speaker 1: all right, man, just hold on broken jubil in the morning.
Speaker 1: You know, I forgot to ask the most important question
Speaker 1: about today's second date update. If you just missed the
Speaker 1: first part. Tim is on the phone and he wants
Speaker 1: to call a girl named Sarah today. They actually met
Speaker 1: at a play. She had an empty seat next to
Speaker 1: her at the beginning of the play. He asked if
Speaker 1: he could sit in it because he wanted to move
Speaker 1: seats and sit next to her because he thought she
Speaker 1: was hot, and she said it was taken, And then
Speaker 1: after intermission he saw the seat was still open, so
Speaker 1: he asked her again. She ended up saying yes, you
Speaker 1: can sit in the seat, because whoever she was waiting
Speaker 1: for didn't show up. After the play, they went to dinner,
Speaker 1: had a great time, but now she's not calling him back,
Speaker 1: and I forgot to ask him this, and I'm sorry
Speaker 1: about that. Everybody listening, I know that you really want
Speaker 1: to know, Tim, how was the play? No one cares
Speaker 1: about that, like scale of one to five stars? What
Speaker 1: are we talking? Well, the first act I was a
Speaker 1: little distracted because I was, you know, trying to figure
Speaker 1: out what the MP feat was about. So I think
Speaker 1: it was like a three. Okay, good, all right. Shouldn't
Speaker 1: we even do the Seconday update now? Or have we
Speaker 1: gotten that all cleared up? No, I still want to
Speaker 1: know why she never thought okay, and Tim, you can't
Speaker 1: remember any awkward moments you guys had when you went
Speaker 1: for dinner and drinks after the play. No, everything was real,
Speaker 1: like casual and cool, and I thought I was being
Speaker 1: very like polite and I asked a lot of questions
Speaker 1: about her, you know what she's like. I thought it
Speaker 1: was a good conversation. You actually seem very charming and
Speaker 1: like a good listener. So I'll give you props on that. Well,
Speaker 1: thank you, thank you, horrible play reviewer. But yeah, I'm
Speaker 1: gonna dollar phone number right now here we go. Okay, Hello,
Speaker 1: Hi is Sarah there? Yeah, this is Sarah. Hey Sarah,
Speaker 1: how are you? My name is Jebil and I host
Speaker 1: a show called Brook and Jewel in the morning. Okay,
Speaker 1: how are you today? Fine? Thank you? What's this regarding? Well,
Speaker 1: it's regarding a date that you went on just a
Speaker 1: little while ago. Okay, I know we started out so
Speaker 1: business like, didn't we know? It's you might not even
Speaker 1: think of this as a date, but you recently hung
Speaker 1: out with somebody and they've been trying to get a
Speaker 1: hold of you to get another date, but you're not
Speaker 1: calling them back. So they emailed us to see if
Speaker 1: we could get you on the phone and find out why.
Speaker 1: Oh jeez, his name is Tim. Seriously. Yeah, he told
Speaker 1: us about how he met you at a play and
Speaker 1: then you had dinner after, so he contacted you to
Speaker 1: get ahold of me. Yeah he did. Apparently he's been
Speaker 1: trying to get ahold of you, but you're not returning
Speaker 1: any of his phone calls or text messages. Yeah. I
Speaker 1: don't know. I'm just not into it, I guess. Oh,
Speaker 1: it sounded almost like for a second you were excited
Speaker 1: that he contacted us. I was more surprised, not excited.
Speaker 1: Read that wrong, then, Yeah, Well Tim told us about
Speaker 1: how you guys hung out. He said that it seemed
Speaker 1: like you had a great time, and he's confused. Wow.
Speaker 1: I think he's an interesting person. I just I don't know.
Speaker 1: I don't know how I feel about him. Can I
Speaker 1: tell you what I think it is and you let
Speaker 1: me know if I'm right or wrong? Okay? So he
Speaker 1: said that when he saw you at the play, you
Speaker 1: had an empty seat next to you, and he asked
Speaker 1: you like twice if he could sit in it. The
Speaker 1: first time you said you were waiting for somebody to
Speaker 1: show up. The next time you said, sure, I didn't
Speaker 1: show up. Were you waiting for a boyfriend or a
Speaker 1: husband or something like that? Uh? No, I'm definitely single. Okay.
Speaker 1: I actually just got canceled on by a friend. So,
Speaker 1: I mean, why would you say yes to him sitting
Speaker 1: there when he asked the second time, and yes to
Speaker 1: dinner if you weren't interested in him? I mean I
Speaker 1: was interested in him, but I only know him for
Speaker 1: like ten seconds, and you know that kind of changed
Speaker 1: once I got to know him. Oh really, I told
Speaker 1: him after we talked to him that he was charming
Speaker 1: and a good listener. Apparently I also had a bad
Speaker 1: read on that. Yeah, I don't know. It was fine,
Speaker 1: and then at dinner I just sort of got some
Speaker 1: red flags. What sort of red flags can you tell us? Basically,
Speaker 1: we were walking into the restaurant and he stepped on
Speaker 1: my heel and he just says oops, and I so
Speaker 1: he stepped on your he stepped on your shoe and
Speaker 1: then said oops. Yeah, and like you know, normal people
Speaker 1: would apologize if you just stepped on someone, right. Oh, yeah,
Speaker 1: he didn't say sorry about that. No, he didn't say sorry.
Speaker 1: It was really strange. And then at dinner later he
Speaker 1: knocks over his glass and it breaks, and when the
Speaker 1: waitress comes and picks it up, he just says the
Speaker 1: glass fell. He didn't take responsibility for the shoe or
Speaker 1: the glass. Yeah, exactly, no apology. You know, if that
Speaker 1: would have been me, I would have been so embarrassed.
Speaker 1: You know, you've broken the restaurant's glass. Yeah, he didn't
Speaker 1: apologize at all, So it was he kind of a
Speaker 1: jerk then just pointing out, hey, glass on the ground,
Speaker 1: pick it up please. Honestly, it kind of read like that,
Speaker 1: and that is just not what I'm looking for. I'm
Speaker 1: just not into somebody who can't say that they're sorry,
Speaker 1: you know. I'm looking for someone who's more polite and
Speaker 1: can admit when they've done something wrong, when they've stepped
Speaker 1: on someone maybe or broken someone else property. I mean,
Speaker 1: it's the first date, and you'd think on the first
Speaker 1: date that's when you want to be the most polite.
Speaker 1: And I think he just has some kind of problem
Speaker 1: where he can't say he's sorry. Okay, I want to
Speaker 1: let you know that I don't have that problem, and
Speaker 1: I want to tell you that I'm sorry to break
Speaker 1: the news. But Tim is actually on the other line
Speaker 1: listening and wants to talk to you right now. What. Yeah,
Speaker 1: I'm sorry about that. Tim. Are you there? Yeah? Hi? Tim?
Speaker 1: Is that you? It's me? Hey? So awkward? Is that
Speaker 1: the real reason why you didn't come it back? Because
Speaker 1: I didn't say sorry? Yeah, that's the reason I'm sorry.
Speaker 1: See I can say it, but I don't know why
Speaker 1: you're saying it. Why I just said I'm sorry. Yeah,
Speaker 1: it's just an empty sorry. Wait now you need sories
Speaker 1: with depth. It just seems like for me, So okay,
Speaker 1: So we were walking in the restaurant. We were in
Speaker 1: the middle of a conversation, and I know he's talking
Speaker 1: about I stepped on your heel, and I sort of
Speaker 1: just went like oops. It went back to the conversation.
Speaker 1: It was like sort of looks like a toss off
Speaker 1: that it happened. It didn't happened on purpose, and it
Speaker 1: was in the middle of a conversation, so it just
Speaker 1: like oh, oops, and we just continued. I didn't I
Speaker 1: didn't think it was that big about red playing. A
Speaker 1: normal person would say I'm sorry, yeah, but I didn't
Speaker 1: step on you. I stepped on your shoe. I would
Speaker 1: be apologizing if are you right now? Yeah, most people would.
Speaker 1: Why why would I say sorry? I didn't do any
Speaker 1: of those things on purpose. Okay, sometimes you don't do
Speaker 1: things on purpose, you can still say sorry, Like you
Speaker 1: accidentally stepped on about the shoe. People, those are just
Speaker 1: those are just empty sories because it wasn't I didn't
Speaker 1: do it on purpose. It was an accident. So if
Speaker 1: you were like driving your car and you accidentally hit
Speaker 1: a pedestrian, you wouldn't apologize for that either, because it's
Speaker 1: a no purpose. Well, whose fault wasn't seriously, are you
Speaker 1: serious right now? No, I'm just your foot set's on.
Speaker 1: My foot could not be my fault. It's not your fault.
Speaker 1: It was an accident. No one's fault, it's an oops.
Speaker 1: I have never really dissected the word sorry like we're
Speaker 1: doing right now. No, it's just I grew up that
Speaker 1: if you're gonna say sorry, it's meaningful, and you should
Speaker 1: say sorry for something that that you did, and then
Speaker 1: you realize it was wrong, then you're like, oh, you know,
Speaker 1: you say, you say I'm sorry for that. But when
Speaker 1: it's like this an accident, like you know, if you
Speaker 1: bump into somebody, she's like, oops, it's not mean, it's
Speaker 1: not negative, it's just like oops, and then the lights
Speaker 1: goes on. Yeah. But I, like everybody else, grew up
Speaker 1: with common courtesy. So even if you weren't going to
Speaker 1: say sorry, you say excuse me, or I didn't mean
Speaker 1: to do that. I just don't agree with that. Like
Speaker 1: if Sarah and I continued and we got a new relationship,
Speaker 1: and then later on something happened where I should say
Speaker 1: I'm sorry, and I say hey, Sarah, I'm sorry, it
Speaker 1: would have such a huge meaning and she would really
Speaker 1: know it. Wow, he's really sorry. Hey, I cheated on you,
Speaker 1: but I'm really sorry. And you know I don't throw
Speaker 1: that word around willy nilly. No nothing, Yeah, you shouldn't
Speaker 1: throw it. You're right, you shouldn't throw it around, willy nilly.
Speaker 1: That is so not what I expected your response to
Speaker 1: beat all this, Tim, Well, I'm not really sorry about
Speaker 1: it's sorry. I'm not sorry. Sarah's yeah, and you know, guys,
Speaker 1: I'm not surprised. Okay, so are we done here? No?
Speaker 1: Not yet, Sarah, we're almost one. But I do have
Speaker 1: to ask you if you would like to go on
Speaker 1: a second date with Tim, we will pay for it.
Speaker 1: You know what. Sorry, No, it's so immature. It's so
Speaker 1: immature to say that with that tone, like now you're
Speaker 1: ruining sorry, he ruined the word climate immature that you
Speaker 1: can't use your manner that a six year old can use.
Speaker 1: So did he practice that? Will say sorry for sneezing,
Speaker 1: they'll say sorry for anything. I am an adult, I'm
Speaker 1: a grown man. I only say sorry when it counts
Speaker 1: and when it's needed. I like that. Oh man, all right,
Speaker 1: well sorry, all right, well sorry I can't even say
Speaker 1: sorry now without thinking about it. I won't say sorry
Speaker 1: because it's not my fault. Tim, you didn't get a
Speaker 1: second date. Broken Jewil in the Morning checks in at
Speaker 1: seven eighty five to nine two says that dude Tim
Speaker 1: is right. People throw apologies around with zero meaning these days.
Speaker 1: He's not wrong. Talking about today's second eight update, if
Speaker 1: you missed it, this guy Tim wanted to call Sarah.
Speaker 1: They went out on a date, had a lot of fun,
Speaker 1: but she wasn't calling him back. And the reason why
Speaker 1: I was during the date he accidentally stepped on her foot,
Speaker 1: but he didn't say sorry. That's why she wasn't calling back.
Speaker 1: And then they got into an argument about sorry because
Speaker 1: he felt like he shouldn't have to apologize because it
Speaker 1: was an accident, he didn't do it on purpose, and
Speaker 1: she says he still should have apology. Guys, and then
Speaker 1: we went back and forth and back and forth talking
Speaker 1: about what you should and shouldn't say sorry for. In
Speaker 1: the end, it doesn't really matter because he's not getting
Speaker 1: another date. Yeah, there's a lot of a lot of
Speaker 1: debate now about the word sorry. People are very strong
Speaker 1: about it. Yes, they are a lot of people actually
Speaker 1: supporting him for not saying sorry. And then a lot
Speaker 1: of people calling him an a hole, So texts of
Speaker 1: an eight five to nine two what should you say
Speaker 1: sorry for? And what shouldn't you say sorry for? And
Speaker 1: it'll be a hot topic we won't probably won't discuss
Speaker 1: further because it's kind of boring. Anyway, if you want
Speaker 1: to do a second day update, all I have to
Speaker 1: do is email the show and we will call the
Speaker 1: person who didn't call you back