WEBVTT - 2nd Date Update PODCAST: Sorry Not Sorry

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<v Speaker 1>jubile In the morning second Date update, they say that

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<v Speaker 1>one man's trash is another man's treasure. I already don't

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<v Speaker 1>like the start of today's second date update, and that's

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<v Speaker 1>why Tim is on the phone for a second date update. Today.

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<v Speaker 1>He found a discarded date and then he sweeped in

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<v Speaker 1>and got a date with her. Started Tim, Now, I

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<v Speaker 1>don't want to call your date trash. It was just

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<v Speaker 1>an analogy. Okay, Yeah, I get to tell us about

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<v Speaker 1>the garbage pickup. How'd it go? Um? Yeah, well, let's

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<v Speaker 1>move back up. I went out that night to go

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<v Speaker 1>see a play and I just went by myself. So

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<v Speaker 1>I go to the theater and I'm there and down

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<v Speaker 1>the row, a couple of seats down there's this girl

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<v Speaker 1>and she was pretty cute. So I smiled at her

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<v Speaker 1>and she sort of smiled back. Did you throw her

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<v Speaker 1>a wink too? No? No, I did the polite you know,

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<v Speaker 1>like smilehead. No, just like hello y, like bite the

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<v Speaker 1>lower lip, like any of the proper moves are just

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<v Speaker 1>simply a smile. Maybe I should have done that. Maybe

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<v Speaker 1>you start talking about how this woman sounds like a

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<v Speaker 1>sweater from Goodwill, and now you're all right? So he

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<v Speaker 1>smiled at her. I did, And the seat next to

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<v Speaker 1>her is naked. So I get a little courage and

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<v Speaker 1>I kind of like walk down a little bit to

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<v Speaker 1>the aisle and I just said, hey, is anybody sitting

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<v Speaker 1>the seat? And she said yeah, someone else is going

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<v Speaker 1>to come take the seat. And then that's when you

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<v Speaker 1>yelled at out. Why are you yell at her? Now?

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<v Speaker 1>He was upset. No, no, no, no, oh you didn't

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<v Speaker 1>yelled at her. No, I just said, oh, okay. I

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<v Speaker 1>didn't ask who you know the seat was for, right,

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<v Speaker 1>because it's none of your business because she's a complete

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<v Speaker 1>stranger in a theater. Yeah, but she also didn't say

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<v Speaker 1>you know who it was for either, Like if it

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<v Speaker 1>was her husband, I imagine she would say, like, no,

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<v Speaker 1>it's for my husband or or my boyfriend. Right, she

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<v Speaker 1>probably would have let you know, stop hitting on me, exactly. Yeah,

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<v Speaker 1>and the nicest way possible. I feel like seat taken

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<v Speaker 1>has already stopped hitting on me. Why would you guys

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<v Speaker 1>saying no actually I married him in a very long relationship,

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<v Speaker 1>and the seat has been taken by him. Maybe there's

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<v Speaker 1>this possibility that the seat is, you know, just for

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<v Speaker 1>one of her, a girlfriend, you know, a friend of

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<v Speaker 1>hers that she went to see the play with. Yeah, right, okay, okay,

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<v Speaker 1>so you went back to your regular seat, then I did.

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<v Speaker 1>I did. I said, okay, well, you know, and enjoy

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<v Speaker 1>the show. And then I went back and the show

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<v Speaker 1>started a few minutes later, and and it was good, okay,

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<v Speaker 1>But then through the show I sort of kept the

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<v Speaker 1>eye just looking over by her to see if him

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<v Speaker 1>in a hat showed up, because you almost sound like

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<v Speaker 1>you're starting to get a little creepy guy that keeps

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<v Speaker 1>looking over at her during the play. I did it.

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<v Speaker 1>That's that's the thing. I didn't want to, So I

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<v Speaker 1>kind of did, like the perfuel vision to see if

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<v Speaker 1>there's any action happening over there. Um anyway, So intermission

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<v Speaker 1>comes and no one had showed up. Oh the mysterious

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<v Speaker 1>vacant seat. She's either lying to you or the person

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<v Speaker 1>didn't show up. So you know, I went out, I

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<v Speaker 1>got something to drink, do the intermission stuff, and and

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<v Speaker 1>when I came back in, I came in, so I

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<v Speaker 1>walked past her to get into the aisle, and as

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<v Speaker 1>I walked past her, I just said, hey, the seats

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<v Speaker 1>still taken, and she said no, they didn't show and

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<v Speaker 1>I said, oh, well, do you mind if I sit there?

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<v Speaker 1>And she said sure, So I say, good persistence. Okay.

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<v Speaker 1>You know, I would have felt weird going back up

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<v Speaker 1>to her, being like, yeah, hey, what's up. You said

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<v Speaker 1>someone just come for that seat, but it's been open

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<v Speaker 1>this whole time and I've had my eye on that seat.

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<v Speaker 1>So yeah, and you're a liar, just lied to everybody.

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<v Speaker 1>What's what's going on with you? I want to seem

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<v Speaker 1>that way. I didn't want to see a creepy guy.

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<v Speaker 1>It was more like, you know, like I felt bad,

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<v Speaker 1>like she got food up on her dad. It's kind

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<v Speaker 1>of awkward, though, I mean, you're putting her in a

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<v Speaker 1>position like what is she going to do? Stick to

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<v Speaker 1>the lie at that point. No, someone's still coming for

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<v Speaker 1>the last half of the play. But the good thing

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<v Speaker 1>is the play finishes and we start talking. And then

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<v Speaker 1>I just said, do you want to go grab something

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<v Speaker 1>to eat? And she said, yeah, sure, that'd be great.

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<v Speaker 1>So that's cool. Okay. Yeah, So we laughed, and we

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<v Speaker 1>walked to the place and we sit on and you know,

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<v Speaker 1>we talked for a little while. We get a drink,

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<v Speaker 1>we get some food, conversations great. You know, it's not

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<v Speaker 1>creepy at all. And I noticed so that she's starting

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<v Speaker 1>to get a little life tired, and so I was like, oh,

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<v Speaker 1>you know what, won't we just call it a night?

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<v Speaker 1>And she said, yeah, that'd be great. So I walked

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<v Speaker 1>to her car, said good night, gave her a hug,

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<v Speaker 1>and said can I call you? And she said sure?

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<v Speaker 1>And so I texted her a couple of times and

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<v Speaker 1>I never heard back, and I was, you know, I

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<v Speaker 1>thought things had gone well, and you know, I didn't

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<v Speaker 1>I emailed you guys. Did you ever find out who

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<v Speaker 1>the seat was for? You know, we didn't talk about

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<v Speaker 1>it at dinner because I thought if I brought it

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<v Speaker 1>up and she could get stood up, it would be

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<v Speaker 1>uncomfortable or make her feel bad. So I just stayed

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<v Speaker 1>away from it. I had a good idea. So how

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<v Speaker 1>long have been since you guys went to dinner? It's

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<v Speaker 1>been like a week and a half. A week and

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<v Speaker 1>a half, okay, So she's definitely blowing you off. Yeah, yeah,

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<v Speaker 1>And you know, I just think about why, you know,

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<v Speaker 1>who was that seat four? Maybe it was for a

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<v Speaker 1>boyfriend or someone that she was dating and he finally

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<v Speaker 1>showed up, or and now she's like, nine, what I'm

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<v Speaker 1>gonna do with you? Maybe I was to forward, you know,

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<v Speaker 1>maybe I was a creepy guy in the theater trying

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<v Speaker 1>to steal the speed. Or yeah, so that's why you

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<v Speaker 1>mailed you guys, Well, we'll play a song, comeback, call

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<v Speaker 1>her and get your second date update. Okay, okay, great, thanks,

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<v Speaker 1>all right, man, just hold on broken jubil in the morning.

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<v Speaker 1>You know, I forgot to ask the most important question

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<v Speaker 1>about today's second date update. If you just missed the

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<v Speaker 1>first part. Tim is on the phone and he wants

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<v Speaker 1>to call a girl named Sarah today. They actually met

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<v Speaker 1>at a play. She had an empty seat next to

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<v Speaker 1>her at the beginning of the play. He asked if

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<v Speaker 1>he could sit in it because he wanted to move

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<v Speaker 1>seats and sit next to her because he thought she

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<v Speaker 1>was hot, and she said it was taken, And then

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<v Speaker 1>after intermission he saw the seat was still open, so

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<v Speaker 1>he asked her again. She ended up saying yes, you

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<v Speaker 1>can sit in the seat, because whoever she was waiting

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<v Speaker 1>for didn't show up. After the play, they went to dinner,

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<v Speaker 1>had a great time, but now she's not calling him back,

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<v Speaker 1>and I forgot to ask him this, and I'm sorry

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<v Speaker 1>about that. Everybody listening, I know that you really want

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<v Speaker 1>to know, Tim, how was the play? No one cares

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<v Speaker 1>about that, like scale of one to five stars? What

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<v Speaker 1>are we talking? Well, the first act I was a

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<v Speaker 1>little distracted because I was, you know, trying to figure

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<v Speaker 1>out what the MP feat was about. So I think

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<v Speaker 1>it was like a three. Okay, good, all right. Shouldn't

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<v Speaker 1>we even do the Seconday update now? Or have we

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<v Speaker 1>gotten that all cleared up? No, I still want to

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<v Speaker 1>know why she never thought okay, and Tim, you can't

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<v Speaker 1>remember any awkward moments you guys had when you went

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<v Speaker 1>for dinner and drinks after the play. No, everything was real,

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<v Speaker 1>like casual and cool, and I thought I was being

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<v Speaker 1>very like polite and I asked a lot of questions

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<v Speaker 1>about her, you know what she's like. I thought it

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<v Speaker 1>was a good conversation. You actually seem very charming and

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<v Speaker 1>like a good listener. So I'll give you props on that. Well,

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<v Speaker 1>thank you, thank you, horrible play reviewer. But yeah, I'm

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<v Speaker 1>gonna dollar phone number right now here we go. Okay, Hello,

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<v Speaker 1>Hi is Sarah there? Yeah, this is Sarah. Hey Sarah,

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<v Speaker 1>how are you? My name is Jebil and I host

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<v Speaker 1>a show called Brook and Jewel in the morning. Okay,

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<v Speaker 1>how are you today? Fine? Thank you? What's this regarding? Well,

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<v Speaker 1>it's regarding a date that you went on just a

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<v Speaker 1>little while ago. Okay, I know we started out so

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<v Speaker 1>business like, didn't we know? It's you might not even

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<v Speaker 1>think of this as a date, but you recently hung

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<v Speaker 1>out with somebody and they've been trying to get a

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<v Speaker 1>hold of you to get another date, but you're not

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<v Speaker 1>calling them back. So they emailed us to see if

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<v Speaker 1>we could get you on the phone and find out why.

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<v Speaker 1>Oh jeez, his name is Tim. Seriously. Yeah, he told

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<v Speaker 1>us about how he met you at a play and

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<v Speaker 1>then you had dinner after, so he contacted you to

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<v Speaker 1>get ahold of me. Yeah he did. Apparently he's been

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<v Speaker 1>trying to get ahold of you, but you're not returning

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<v Speaker 1>any of his phone calls or text messages. Yeah. I

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<v Speaker 1>don't know. I'm just not into it, I guess. Oh,

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<v Speaker 1>it sounded almost like for a second you were excited

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<v Speaker 1>that he contacted us. I was more surprised, not excited.

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<v Speaker 1>Read that wrong, then, Yeah, Well Tim told us about

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<v Speaker 1>how you guys hung out. He said that it seemed

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<v Speaker 1>like you had a great time, and he's confused. Wow.

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<v Speaker 1>I think he's an interesting person. I just I don't know.

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<v Speaker 1>I don't know how I feel about him. Can I

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<v Speaker 1>tell you what I think it is and you let

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<v Speaker 1>me know if I'm right or wrong? Okay? So he

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<v Speaker 1>said that when he saw you at the play, you

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<v Speaker 1>had an empty seat next to you, and he asked

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<v Speaker 1>you like twice if he could sit in it. The

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<v Speaker 1>first time you said you were waiting for somebody to

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<v Speaker 1>show up. The next time you said, sure, I didn't

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<v Speaker 1>show up. Were you waiting for a boyfriend or a

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<v Speaker 1>husband or something like that? Uh? No, I'm definitely single. Okay.

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<v Speaker 1>I actually just got canceled on by a friend. So,

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<v Speaker 1>I mean, why would you say yes to him sitting

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<v Speaker 1>there when he asked the second time, and yes to

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<v Speaker 1>dinner if you weren't interested in him? I mean I

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<v Speaker 1>was interested in him, but I only know him for

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<v Speaker 1>like ten seconds, and you know that kind of changed

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<v Speaker 1>once I got to know him. Oh really, I told

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<v Speaker 1>him after we talked to him that he was charming

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<v Speaker 1>and a good listener. Apparently I also had a bad

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<v Speaker 1>read on that. Yeah, I don't know. It was fine,

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<v Speaker 1>and then at dinner I just sort of got some

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<v Speaker 1>red flags. What sort of red flags can you tell us? Basically,

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<v Speaker 1>we were walking into the restaurant and he stepped on

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<v Speaker 1>my heel and he just says oops, and I so

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<v Speaker 1>he stepped on your he stepped on your shoe and

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<v Speaker 1>then said oops. Yeah, and like you know, normal people

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<v Speaker 1>would apologize if you just stepped on someone, right. Oh, yeah,

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<v Speaker 1>he didn't say sorry about that. No, he didn't say sorry.

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<v Speaker 1>It was really strange. And then at dinner later he

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<v Speaker 1>knocks over his glass and it breaks, and when the

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<v Speaker 1>waitress comes and picks it up, he just says the

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<v Speaker 1>glass fell. He didn't take responsibility for the shoe or

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<v Speaker 1>the glass. Yeah, exactly, no apology. You know, if that

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<v Speaker 1>would have been me, I would have been so embarrassed.

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<v Speaker 1>You know, you've broken the restaurant's glass. Yeah, he didn't

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<v Speaker 1>apologize at all, So it was he kind of a

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<v Speaker 1>jerk then just pointing out, hey, glass on the ground,

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<v Speaker 1>pick it up please. Honestly, it kind of read like that,

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<v Speaker 1>and that is just not what I'm looking for. I'm

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<v Speaker 1>just not into somebody who can't say that they're sorry,

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<v Speaker 1>you know. I'm looking for someone who's more polite and

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<v Speaker 1>can admit when they've done something wrong, when they've stepped

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<v Speaker 1>on someone maybe or broken someone else property. I mean,

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<v Speaker 1>it's the first date, and you'd think on the first

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<v Speaker 1>date that's when you want to be the most polite.

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<v Speaker 1>And I think he just has some kind of problem

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<v Speaker 1>where he can't say he's sorry. Okay, I want to

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<v Speaker 1>let you know that I don't have that problem, and

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<v Speaker 1>I want to tell you that I'm sorry to break

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<v Speaker 1>the news. But Tim is actually on the other line

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<v Speaker 1>listening and wants to talk to you right now. What. Yeah,

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<v Speaker 1>I'm sorry about that. Tim. Are you there? Yeah? Hi? Tim?

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<v Speaker 1>Is that you? It's me? Hey? So awkward? Is that

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<v Speaker 1>the real reason why you didn't come it back? Because

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<v Speaker 1>I didn't say sorry? Yeah, that's the reason I'm sorry.

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<v Speaker 1>See I can say it, but I don't know why

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<v Speaker 1>you're saying it. Why I just said I'm sorry. Yeah,

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<v Speaker 1>it's just an empty sorry. Wait now you need sories

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<v Speaker 1>with depth. It just seems like for me, So okay,

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<v Speaker 1>So we were walking in the restaurant. We were in

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<v Speaker 1>the middle of a conversation, and I know he's talking

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<v Speaker 1>about I stepped on your heel, and I sort of

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<v Speaker 1>just went like oops. It went back to the conversation.

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<v Speaker 1>It was like sort of looks like a toss off

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<v Speaker 1>that it happened. It didn't happened on purpose, and it

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<v Speaker 1>was in the middle of a conversation, so it just

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<v Speaker 1>like oh, oops, and we just continued. I didn't I

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<v Speaker 1>didn't think it was that big about red playing. A

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<v Speaker 1>normal person would say I'm sorry, yeah, but I didn't

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<v Speaker 1>step on you. I stepped on your shoe. I would

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<v Speaker 1>be apologizing if are you right now? Yeah, most people would.

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<v Speaker 1>Why why would I say sorry? I didn't do any

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<v Speaker 1>of those things on purpose. Okay, sometimes you don't do

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<v Speaker 1>things on purpose, you can still say sorry, Like you

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<v Speaker 1>accidentally stepped on about the shoe. People, those are just

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<v Speaker 1>those are just empty sories because it wasn't I didn't

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<v Speaker 1>do it on purpose. It was an accident. So if

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<v Speaker 1>you were like driving your car and you accidentally hit

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<v Speaker 1>a pedestrian, you wouldn't apologize for that either, because it's

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<v Speaker 1>a no purpose. Well, whose fault wasn't seriously, are you

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<v Speaker 1>serious right now? No, I'm just your foot set's on.

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<v Speaker 1>My foot could not be my fault. It's not your fault.

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<v Speaker 1>It was an accident. No one's fault, it's an oops.

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<v Speaker 1>I have never really dissected the word sorry like we're

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<v Speaker 1>doing right now. No, it's just I grew up that

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<v Speaker 1>if you're gonna say sorry, it's meaningful, and you should

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<v Speaker 1>say sorry for something that that you did, and then

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<v Speaker 1>you realize it was wrong, then you're like, oh, you know,

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<v Speaker 1>you say, you say I'm sorry for that. But when

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<v Speaker 1>it's like this an accident, like you know, if you

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<v Speaker 1>bump into somebody, she's like, oops, it's not mean, it's

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<v Speaker 1>not negative, it's just like oops, and then the lights

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<v Speaker 1>goes on. Yeah. But I, like everybody else, grew up

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<v Speaker 1>with common courtesy. So even if you weren't going to

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<v Speaker 1>say sorry, you say excuse me, or I didn't mean

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<v Speaker 1>to do that. I just don't agree with that. Like

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<v Speaker 1>if Sarah and I continued and we got a new relationship,

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<v Speaker 1>and then later on something happened where I should say

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<v Speaker 1>I'm sorry, and I say hey, Sarah, I'm sorry, it

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<v Speaker 1>would have such a huge meaning and she would really

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<v Speaker 1>know it. Wow, he's really sorry. Hey, I cheated on you,

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<v Speaker 1>but I'm really sorry. And you know I don't throw

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<v Speaker 1>that word around willy nilly. No nothing, Yeah, you shouldn't

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<v Speaker 1>throw it. You're right, you shouldn't throw it around, willy nilly.

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<v Speaker 1>That is so not what I expected your response to

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<v Speaker 1>beat all this, Tim, Well, I'm not really sorry about

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<v Speaker 1>it's sorry. I'm not sorry. Sarah's yeah, and you know, guys,

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<v Speaker 1>I'm not surprised. Okay, so are we done here? No?

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<v Speaker 1>Not yet, Sarah, we're almost one. But I do have

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<v Speaker 1>to ask you if you would like to go on

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<v Speaker 1>a second date with Tim, we will pay for it.

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<v Speaker 1>You know what. Sorry, No, it's so immature. It's so

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<v Speaker 1>immature to say that with that tone, like now you're

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<v Speaker 1>ruining sorry, he ruined the word climate immature that you

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<v Speaker 1>can't use your manner that a six year old can use.

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<v Speaker 1>So did he practice that? Will say sorry for sneezing,

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<v Speaker 1>they'll say sorry for anything. I am an adult, I'm

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<v Speaker 1>a grown man. I only say sorry when it counts

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<v Speaker 1>and when it's needed. I like that. Oh man, all right,

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<v Speaker 1>well sorry, all right, well sorry I can't even say

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<v Speaker 1>sorry now without thinking about it. I won't say sorry

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<v Speaker 1>because it's not my fault. Tim, you didn't get a

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<v Speaker 1>second date. Broken Jewil in the Morning checks in at

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<v Speaker 1>seven eighty five to nine two says that dude Tim

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<v Speaker 1>is right. People throw apologies around with zero meaning these days.

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<v Speaker 1>He's not wrong. Talking about today's second eight update, if

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<v Speaker 1>you missed it, this guy Tim wanted to call Sarah.

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<v Speaker 1>They went out on a date, had a lot of fun,

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<v Speaker 1>but she wasn't calling him back. And the reason why

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<v Speaker 1>I was during the date he accidentally stepped on her foot,

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<v Speaker 1>but he didn't say sorry. That's why she wasn't calling back.

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<v Speaker 1>And then they got into an argument about sorry because

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<v Speaker 1>he felt like he shouldn't have to apologize because it

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<v Speaker 1>was an accident, he didn't do it on purpose, and

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<v Speaker 1>she says he still should have apology. Guys, and then

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<v Speaker 1>we went back and forth and back and forth talking

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<v Speaker 1>about what you should and shouldn't say sorry for. In

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<v Speaker 1>the end, it doesn't really matter because he's not getting

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<v Speaker 1>another date. Yeah, there's a lot of a lot of

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<v Speaker 1>debate now about the word sorry. People are very strong

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<v Speaker 1>about it. Yes, they are a lot of people actually

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<v Speaker 1>supporting him for not saying sorry. And then a lot

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<v Speaker 1>of people calling him an a hole, So texts of

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<v Speaker 1>an eight five to nine two what should you say

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<v Speaker 1>sorry for? And what shouldn't you say sorry for? And

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<v Speaker 1>it'll be a hot topic we won't probably won't discuss

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<v Speaker 1>further because it's kind of boring. Anyway, if you want

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<v Speaker 1>to do a second day update, all I have to

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<v Speaker 1>do is email the show and we will call the

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<v Speaker 1>person who didn't call you back