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Speaker 1: jubile In the morning second Date update, they say that

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Speaker 1: one man's trash is another man's treasure. I already don't

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Speaker 1: like the start of today's second date update, and that's

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Speaker 1: why Tim is on the phone for a second date update. Today.

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Speaker 1: He found a discarded date and then he sweeped in

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Speaker 1: and got a date with her. Started Tim, Now, I

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Speaker 1: don't want to call your date trash. It was just

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Speaker 1: an analogy. Okay, Yeah, I get to tell us about

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Speaker 1: the garbage pickup. How'd it go? Um? Yeah, well, let's

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Speaker 1: move back up. I went out that night to go

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Speaker 1: He was upset. No, no, no, no, oh you didn't

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Speaker 1: yelled at her. No, I just said, oh, okay. I

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Speaker 1: didn't ask who you know the seat was for, right,

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Speaker 1: because it's none of your business because she's a complete

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Speaker 1: all right, man, just hold on broken jubil in the morning.

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Speaker 1: about that. Everybody listening, I know that you really want

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Speaker 1: to know, Tim, how was the play? No one cares

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Speaker 1: about that, like scale of one to five stars? What

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Speaker 1: gotten that all cleared up? No, I still want to

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Speaker 1: very like polite and I asked a lot of questions

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Speaker 1: Hi is Sarah there? Yeah, this is Sarah. Hey Sarah,

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Speaker 1: how are you? My name is Jebil and I host

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Speaker 1: a show called Brook and Jewel in the morning. Okay,

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Speaker 1: how are you today? Fine? Thank you? What's this regarding? Well,

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Speaker 1: it's regarding a date that you went on just a

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Speaker 1: business like, didn't we know? It's you might not even

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Speaker 1: think of this as a date, but you recently hung

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Speaker 1: out with somebody and they've been trying to get a

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Speaker 1: don't know. I'm just not into it, I guess. Oh,

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Speaker 1: it sounded almost like for a second you were excited

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Speaker 1: Read that wrong, then, Yeah, Well Tim told us about

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Speaker 1: me know if I'm right or wrong? Okay? So he

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Speaker 1: husband or something like that? Uh? No, I'm definitely single. Okay.

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Speaker 1: I actually just got canceled on by a friend. So,

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Speaker 1: I mean, why would you say yes to him sitting

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Speaker 1: him after we talked to him that he was charming

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Speaker 1: red flags. What sort of red flags can you tell us? Basically,

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Speaker 1: You know what. Sorry, No, it's so immature. It's so

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Speaker 1: So did he practice that? Will say sorry for sneezing,

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Speaker 1: They went out on a date, had a lot of fun,

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