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Speaker 1: All right, nephew, thank you. Subject. I guess he'd rather

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Speaker 1: pay for it. Dear Stephen Shirley, I've been married for

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Speaker 1: fourteen years and I'm a forty eight year I'm forty

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Speaker 1: eight years old and my husband is fifty five. In

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Speaker 1: all these years, I did not think I would ever

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Speaker 1: have to deal with cheating. We've always had a very

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Speaker 1: active sex life. He's always been attentive, and he spoiled

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Speaker 1: me the entire marriage. He's sweet, but he's stupid. I

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Speaker 1: found out that he's paying a thirty two year old's

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Speaker 1: rent car note and giving her money every month for

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Speaker 1: her day to day expenses. The sad part car is

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Speaker 1: that he got a part time job to do it all.

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Speaker 1: He works full time as a teacher, and he's also

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Speaker 1: got a part time job at a hardware store. He

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Speaker 1: told me he got it so he can save money

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Speaker 1: for us to go on a week long vacation for

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Speaker 1: my fiftieth birthday. I checked our savings account. I checked

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Speaker 1: our savings account regularly to see if he was putting

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Speaker 1: his extra earnings into the account, and he wasn't. I

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Speaker 1: asked him about it, and he said he put it

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Speaker 1: in a special account. I did not like that, but

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Speaker 1: I didn't press him about it. We share a Visa card,

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Speaker 1: so I opened a letter from Visa, but it was

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Speaker 1: for him. It stated that he was turned down for

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Speaker 1: a new credit card, and it listed the authorized user,

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Speaker 1: which was a female other than me. I found the

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Speaker 1: female on ig and sent her a message. She called

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Speaker 1: me right away. My husband told her that he's getting

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Speaker 1: a divorce. She said they've been looking at houses together

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Speaker 1: for the past two weeks. She didn't know he's a teacher.

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Speaker 1: He told her that he's retired and works at a

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Speaker 1: hardware store because his money is tied up in his divorce.

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Speaker 1: She apologized to me and said he's given her close

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Speaker 1: to twenty thousand dollars and asked if I wanted it back.

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Speaker 1: I told her to keep it because she earned it.

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Speaker 1: He knows he's busted, so he hasn't spoken to me

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Speaker 1: in eight days. I have no words for him except

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Speaker 1: why why would he pay for what's at home for free?

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Speaker 4: Oh?

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Speaker 1: Yeah, he doesn't want that right now, He just doesn't.

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Speaker 1: He's obviously taken with this young lady and unfortunately not

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Speaker 1: into you. His wife of fourteen years, and at fifty five,

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Speaker 1: he's also having a midlife crisis. This young lady has

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Speaker 1: rocked his world. Harsh reality for you. I know that

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Speaker 1: after fourteen years. But that's as simply and as a

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Speaker 1: sinkly as I can put this. I mean, he's not

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Speaker 1: the first man to risk everything and gamble on his marriage,

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Speaker 1: and he won't be the last, sure, But I agree

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Speaker 1: with you he is stupid because he's wearing himself out

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Speaker 1: in the process. He's got a young girl, a part

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Speaker 1: time job. He's been cheating and lying, and money's going

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Speaker 1: out and not coming in. I'm sure it's all a

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Speaker 1: bit much and taking its toll. It's catching up with him,

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Speaker 1: but typically he's flipping the script and trying to make

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Speaker 1: you the blame. This isn't your fault. He's in the wrong,

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Speaker 1: and he's got the nerve to not speak to you,

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Speaker 1: and you still want to know why. There is no

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Speaker 1: why except for what I said at the top of

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Speaker 1: the letter. He's taken with this young woman. Anyway, What

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Speaker 1: does the why matter? He is doing it, and he's

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Speaker 1: been doing it long enough to have given her twenty

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Speaker 1: thousand dollars, which she said, you know, when she talked

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Speaker 1: to you, she told you about that. She didn't know

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Speaker 1: he was a teacher. She doesn't want him, And if

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Speaker 1: you stay with him after all this, it's on you

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Speaker 1: because clearly he has moved on thinking he's going to

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Speaker 4: Steve Lord, Lord Lord, Sureley. I'm so glad i'm here,

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Speaker 4: so I'm straightening this letter out for you. First of all,

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Speaker 4: start just let it off by telling you this. It

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Speaker 4: ain't she rocked his world? Is he rocked her world?

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Speaker 4: See that's the part y'all don't never get. But now

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Speaker 4: let me walk you down through what happened. I've been

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Speaker 4: married for fourteen years. I'm forty eight, my husband fifty five.

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Speaker 4: I never thought about him cheating. We've always been.

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Speaker 2: A very active sex life. He's always been a tenive.

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Speaker 2: He spoiled me my entire marriage. He's sweet, but he's stupid.

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Speaker 2: Yes he is.

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Speaker 4: Yes now that he is stupid because he made some

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Speaker 4: key mistakes, because he ain't done this before. I found

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Speaker 4: out that he's playing a thirty two year old's rint

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Speaker 4: card note and giving her money every month for her

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Speaker 4: day to day expensive Now, let me tell you what

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Speaker 4: happened right here. He took his old ass over here

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Speaker 4: and met this young girl and found out that he

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Speaker 4: could be the night in shining.

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Speaker 2: Arm, that he could show up.

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Speaker 4: And be somebody's all in all thirty two fifty five.

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Speaker 4: That's a nice jump. He knows some stuff she don't know.

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Speaker 4: He has taught her many things all over that house. See,

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Speaker 4: surely thinks she rocked his world. But in essence, what

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Speaker 4: didn't happen is she given him a reaction that he

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Speaker 4: don't get at the house. I'm telling you what this is.

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Speaker 4: This ain't a mid life crisis. This is an old

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Speaker 4: I still got it. Oh, this is an old. They

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Speaker 4: still won't me. This is an old I get to

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Speaker 4: walk in and be appreciated and then told how great

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Speaker 4: I am.

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Speaker 2: Over and over and over and again. Now he works

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Speaker 2: full time as a teacher.

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Speaker 4: Now right there, teachers don't make what they should make

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Speaker 4: in this country, so already know he shot so however

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Speaker 4: he spoiled you. He's done the best he can right

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Speaker 4: onto the teachers out there. But he got a part

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Speaker 4: time job at a hardware stop. He told me he

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Speaker 4: got it so he could save money for us to

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Speaker 4: go on a week long vacation for my fiftieth birthday.

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Speaker 2: Ain't that sweet?

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Speaker 4: Then you start checking around on the savings account, found

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Speaker 4: out wasn't nothing, no extra money in there.

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Speaker 2: You asked him about it, He told you got a

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Speaker 2: special account.

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Speaker 1: We'll have part two of your response coming up here

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Speaker 1: three minutes after the subject is I guess he'd rather

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Speaker 1: pay for it. We'll get back into it right after this.

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Speaker 1: You're listening Steve Hardy Morning Show.

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Speaker 4: Hey, look, you can't let the urge to sing your

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Speaker 4: favorite songs while you're driving distract you from that truck

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Speaker 4: drifting toward your lane or that lane splitting biker creeping

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Speaker 4: up beside you. Fortunately, every Honday offers advanced safety features

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Speaker 4: that can alert you to potential dangers around you.

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Speaker 3: That's right, because Hendai is always working to ensure the

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Speaker 3: road doesn't get you. Hondai vehicles have won over one

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Speaker 3: hundred and twenty IIHS Top Safety awards from two thousand

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Speaker 3: and six to twenty twenty four as of December twenty

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Speaker 1: All right, come on, Steve, let's recap today's strawberry letter.

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Speaker 1: The subject is I guess he'd rather pay for it.

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Speaker 4: You know, that's like the last subject of the letter.

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Speaker 4: I guess he'd rather pay for it, don't we all?

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Speaker 2: Anyway? First thing y'all do when y'all meet a man,

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Speaker 2: you gonna know if he working? Yeah, why so he

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Speaker 2: can pay for it? Well yeah, well.

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Speaker 4: Yeah, so let's stop with them. I guess he'd rather

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Speaker 4: pay for it. We know we had to pay for it.

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Speaker 2: Expected. So you've been dating this when you're married.

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Speaker 4: To this man fourteen years forty eight, he fifty five,

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Speaker 4: always had actual sex life.

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Speaker 2: You never thought he cheat on you entire marriage. He's sweet,

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Speaker 2: but he's stupid.

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Speaker 4: He find out he's paying a thirty two year old

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Speaker 4: girl's rint car note and giving her money every month

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Speaker 4: for her day to day expensive sad part is his

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Speaker 4: part time job to do it all. He got a

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Speaker 4: part time job to do it all. Now he's doing

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Speaker 4: it because he gets to be the hero, to walk

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Speaker 4: in there and be the hero. Shirley said, he'd have

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Speaker 4: met this girl and she'd have rocked this world. What

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Speaker 4: then happened is he'd have rocked her world. Now she

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Speaker 4: learning from him. She got him up there feeling like

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Speaker 4: he's special. Oh, you know so much. You know, he

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Speaker 4: ain't heard that from you in a long time. So

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Speaker 4: now he out here and then he can come in

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Speaker 4: here and be the hero. And I got you and

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Speaker 4: I take care of you. She didn't know it was

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Speaker 4: a teacher because he didn't tell her. He worked full

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Speaker 4: time as a teacher, which means his salary is a

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Speaker 4: little tough because teachers don't make what they should make

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Speaker 4: in this country, shout out to all the time.

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Speaker 2: So he got a part time job at a hardware store.

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Speaker 2: He told you he got it.

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Speaker 4: So you found out about this extra job, he said,

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Speaker 4: because he could save money take you on a special

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Speaker 4: trip for your fiftieth anniversary. I checked that saving his account.

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Speaker 4: See if he putting that show and that is in

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Speaker 4: it and he wasn't. You asked him about it. He said,

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Speaker 4: it's in a special account. I didn't like that, but

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Speaker 4: I didn't press him about it. Here wadn't get stupid.

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Speaker 4: We share a Visa card. So I opened a letter

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Speaker 4: from Visa.

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Speaker 2: It was for him.

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Speaker 4: It stated that he was turned down for a new

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Speaker 4: credit card and it listed the authorized user, which was

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Speaker 4: a female other than me. Now, dog, now you trying

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Speaker 4: to play hero, but you stupid. You applied for another

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Speaker 4: credit card in your name. I mean, you applied for

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Speaker 4: he put it in her name. And then they sent

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Speaker 4: a letter to your house. You didn't see that.

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Speaker 2: Mail in that dress.

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Speaker 4: You thought you was gonna beat your wife to the

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Speaker 4: male box. You stupid, all right. So then you found

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Speaker 4: the female's name on IGN. You sent her a message.

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Speaker 4: She called me right away. My husband told her that

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Speaker 4: he's getting a divorce.

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Speaker 2: She said.

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Speaker 4: They've been looking at housing together for the past. House, Dog,

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Speaker 4: you can't get no house. You're a teacher and you

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Speaker 4: work part time down at the Ace Hardware, but you're

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Speaker 4: giving her the money to.

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Speaker 2: Pay for her lifestyle.

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Speaker 4: You can't go looking at no house though, And she

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Speaker 4: didn't know he was a teacher. He told her that

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Speaker 4: he's retiring and works at the hardware store because his

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Speaker 4: money is tied up.

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Speaker 2: In the divorce.

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Speaker 4: She apologized to me and said he's giving her close

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Speaker 4: to twenty thousand dollars and asked if I wanted it back.

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Speaker 4: I told her to keep it because she earned it.

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Speaker 4: Now he knows he's busted, so he ain't spoke to

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Speaker 4: me in eight days. That's a good move, right there, dog.

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Speaker 4: I don't know how long you think it's gonna last,

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Speaker 4: but that's a good movie. Don't talk to her, ignore her.

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Speaker 4: He ain't talked to her, ain't now what he doing

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Speaker 4: is he don't know what to say. He stick, He

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Speaker 4: don't have a plan. He don't know how to worm

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Speaker 2: So in eight days he ain't thought of nothing.

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Speaker 4: And I'm gonna tell you some lady, he not fitnyh

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Speaker 4: thinking because he.

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Speaker 2: Don't know how the game go.

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Speaker 4: I have no words for him except why why would

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Speaker 4: he pay for what's at home for free?

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Speaker 2: Naw, let me help you.

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Speaker 4: Out, because what's at the house ain't the same that's

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Speaker 4: out there in them streets.

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Speaker 2: It just ain't. It ain't that same.

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Speaker 4: You'll get mad all you won't conviction. It ain't just same.

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Speaker 2: That was in New.

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Speaker 4: Street It don't come with the chatter. It don't come

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Speaker 4: with the responsibility. Yeah, it don't come back, don't. It

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Speaker 4: don't come with the pressure. See this beautiful life that

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Speaker 4: you built with this wonderful woman at the house, it

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Speaker 4: come with a lot of strain and stress, some pressure.

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Speaker 4: We gotta talk about bills. We gotta talk about these kids.

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Speaker 4: We gotta talk about the future. We gotta talk about

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Speaker 4: what I owe. We gotta talk about what I did

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Speaker 4: over here at this new spot. I ain't gotta talk

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Speaker 4: about none of that. I'm here for today. I just

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Speaker 4: come in and were just sitting down and making coffee.

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Speaker 4: It's all good. Why would he pay for something out

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Speaker 4: there when he can get it at the house for free. Well,

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Speaker 4: first of all, let me tell yo, bo soap, but

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Speaker 4: at the house ain't really free it. We've been paying

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Speaker 4: since we met you, and.

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Speaker 2: No matter where you go to get it, it ain't

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Speaker 2: ever gonna be free.

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Speaker 4: And we've learned to accept that you're not getting nothing

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Speaker 4: at the house with free to come with conditions and

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Speaker 4: chatter and talk back and authority and future and all

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Speaker 4: like that.

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Speaker 2: And it's the same.

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Speaker 4: Listen to me, he loved your steak, that you've given

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Speaker 4: him at the house, but you're trying to tell this

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Speaker 4: man he don't want no fish or no chickens.

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