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Speaker 1: The second date of day.

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Speaker 2: With dating, people always like to talk about passion and

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Speaker 2: soulmates finding true love. That'd be great, but sometimes you

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Speaker 2: don't date for love, date for food. Oh seriously, is

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Speaker 2: there anything more romantic in this world that can bond

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Speaker 2: two people together than a good burrito bowl with a Kale.

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Speaker 3: Smoothie, especially when you're not paying You kind of lost

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Speaker 3: me at Kale smoothie.

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Speaker 2: I dare get up with something hotter than tale smoothies

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Speaker 2: and burrito.

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Speaker 3: Bowls, I mean, very fibrous.

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Speaker 2: Apparently that's what happened with one of our listeners, Amanda

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Speaker 2: the other day. Amanda claims that she bonded with a

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Speaker 2: guy over some delivery food. So, Amanda, welcome to the show.

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Speaker 4: Hi, thank you.

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Speaker 5: It's actually just a Manda oh just oh the first

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Speaker 5: day is silent.

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Speaker 2: Oh my god.

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Speaker 6: That must be really annoying your entire life.

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Speaker 5: It's okay, it's always like conversation starter.

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Speaker 6: Yeah, that's a good point.

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Speaker 2: All right. I apologize Manda for that atrochy, just butchering

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Speaker 2: of your name, But tell us about the guy that

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Speaker 2: you went out with. What's his name?

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Speaker 6: His name is Richie.

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Speaker 2: Yeah you pronounced that first star.

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Speaker 3: Yeah, okay, she doesn't find it funny.

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Speaker 2: It's okay, that's fine.

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Speaker 6: I'm sure you've heard it your whole life. I get it.

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Speaker 5: I get what you guys are doing.

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Speaker 2: That's funny, Okay, Yeah, we like to have a little

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Speaker 2: bit of fun before we get into the details of

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Speaker 2: the date. But you met with Richie over delivery food.

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Speaker 2: How did that happen?

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Speaker 5: Yeah? So I live in a really big apartment complex,

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Speaker 5: and when you order food on one of the food apps,

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Speaker 5: you go and pick it up downstairs, and then the

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Speaker 5: area of usually is like a little bit of a

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Speaker 5: hangout kind of becomes like a social gatherings.

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Speaker 4: Yeah.

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Speaker 6: I guess people are waiting for their food or that's just.

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Speaker 2: How you get into the building. A lot of times

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Speaker 2: I feel like it'd be a bunch of really angry

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Speaker 2: people down there waiting for food.

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Speaker 6: All bitter, glaring at each other.

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Speaker 2: That's okay. You met him there.

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Speaker 5: Yeah, so when I was waiting for my food, he

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Speaker 5: was there, and we just kind of started having some

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Speaker 5: small talk, and he asked what I ordered, and then

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Speaker 5: he was bragging that he got the best tacos, and

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Speaker 5: then he ended up getting taco bell. So I thought

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Speaker 5: that was really funny.

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Speaker 6: It was taco Bell. Was he being was it a

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Speaker 6: joke when he was saying it, or was he being legit?

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Speaker 4: Yeah?

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Speaker 2: Yeah, yeah, yeah, Okay, good sense of humor. What do

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Speaker 2: you mean Taco bell is delicious? I don't see the

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Speaker 2: joke in.

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Speaker 6: It just doesn't never make sense to him.

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Speaker 3: People get taco bell delivery because you were literally paying

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Speaker 3: three times what it would cost in the restaurant. That

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Speaker 3: is like the whole point of taco bell is also

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Speaker 3: that it's cheap. Usually the state I'm in eating it,

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Speaker 3: I can't get to taco be Okay, what was this

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Speaker 3: guy sober?

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Speaker 5: Yeah? She was sober?

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Speaker 4: I think.

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Speaker 2: Okay, what happened after that? After you met, Well.

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Speaker 5: We ran into each other a couple of other times.

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Speaker 5: You know, we have to know each other a little bit,

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Speaker 5: and eventually he was like, instead of just meeting in

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Speaker 6: So he asked you out.

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Speaker 5: He did ask me out.

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Speaker 6: Did he take you to his favorite taco place?

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Speaker 2: That would have been a good move.

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Speaker 5: No, we just went to kind of like an American

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Speaker 2: And how did that go?

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Speaker 5: It was great? We hung out. You know, I really

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Speaker 5: liked him. We really got to know each other. It

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Speaker 2: I thought, Okay, so what did you guys talk about?

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Speaker 1: Like work?

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Speaker 5: Family? He had a cat named.

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Speaker 2: Joe, and the food was good. It sounds like it

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Speaker 2: all sounds normal. Were there any any issues that came

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Speaker 2: up during the date.

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Speaker 5: No issues that I can really think of. I mean,

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Speaker 5: we were talking a lot. So at one point the

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Speaker 5: which is a big pet peeve of mine.

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Speaker 6: But so you threw a fork at him?

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Speaker 5: Yeah? No, I just kind of polightly asked him that

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Speaker 5: he didn't need to take our main plates because you're

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Speaker 5: still eating.

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Speaker 4: You know.

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Speaker 2: Okay, Okay, yeah, how did it end?

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Speaker 5: The bill came, he paid. I offered a venmo him.

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Speaker 5: He turned it down.

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Speaker 6: A good offer.

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Speaker 3: I feel like you should always offer, yeah, even if

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Speaker 6: It's just I do fake offer. But I'm never going

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Speaker 6: to vent okay.

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Speaker 2: And then the guy said, yes, it's like oh my working.

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Speaker 4: For everyone.

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Speaker 2: Okay, so he covered the whole bill.

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Speaker 5: Yeah, he covered the whole bill.

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Speaker 6: Okay.

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Speaker 5: I thought things were going really well and I thought

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Speaker 5: he was going to kiss me, but then he just

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Speaker 5: hugged me.

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Speaker 3: Oh, I mean maybe he got scared.

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Speaker 1: Yeah, it is is so like tough and scary.

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Speaker 3: And did you feel like you guys had chemistry?

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Speaker 5: Yeah, I mean I really liked him. I don't know,

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Speaker 5: maybe he just didn't like me as much as I

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Speaker 5: liked him.

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Speaker 3: Oh, that is a rational thing to say, my friend.

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Speaker 2: Yeah, we're actually taking.

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Speaker 4: The Roman.

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Speaker 2: Responsible and mature thought it was.

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Speaker 6: It's hard to admit that sometimes.

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Speaker 2: But so it's kind of weird though, because you live

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Speaker 2: in the same building. You haven't seen him again since

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Speaker 2: that happened, or have you run into him down at

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Speaker 5: No, I haven't.

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Speaker 2: Huh.

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Speaker 5: It's a pretty big building, so it's not necessarily going

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Speaker 5: to run into someone all the time. But I had

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Speaker 5: seen him there pretty frequently before we had hung out,

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Speaker 5: and now I haven't seen him at all.

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Speaker 6: And he didn't mention like going out of town or anything.

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Speaker 2: No, the day was so bad he moved. He's like,

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Speaker 2: you know what, I'm breaking the leaves. I'm out of here.

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Speaker 2: We're going to play a song and then we're going

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Speaker 2: to do the very practical thing and ask rich for

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Speaker 2: you if there is a legitimate reason why he's not

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Speaker 2: calling you back.

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Speaker 5: Okay, sounds good. But also his name is Richie.

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Speaker 2: Not oh god, did I releast grew up both names

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Speaker 2: in one segment?

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Speaker 3: You're good.

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Speaker 1: Yeah, it's a skill par for the course for me.

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Speaker 4: Here, here we go.

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Speaker 2: I'm gonna quote Aanda, not Amanda, but Manda without that

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Speaker 2: first day because she's our second dat today she said,

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Speaker 2: quote I really liked him, but like, maybe he didn't

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Speaker 2: like me as much as I liked him.

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Speaker 4: M yea.

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Speaker 2: And even though she said like four times in a

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Speaker 2: single sentence, Professor Brooke Fox still gave her a gold

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Speaker 2: star for being practical and having a well thought out

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Speaker 2: explanation for her ghost.

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Speaker 3: There's some emotional intelligence right there that she displayed.

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Speaker 2: Brook any other clinical pragmatic commentary. You'd like to have

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Speaker 2: us document on the podcast for posterity reasons.

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Speaker 3: But I am taking notes for later so he might

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Speaker 3: get forward next to me and uh, we can review

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Speaker 3: it a later time.

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Speaker 2: Sounds fun for everybody.

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Speaker 4: All right?

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Speaker 5: Why do you even give it that opportunity?

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Speaker 2: Regret it?

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Speaker 3: Yeah?

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Speaker 2: So, uh, Amanda, how are you feeling before we call

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Speaker 2: Richie for you? Here? You're doing okay?

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Speaker 5: Yeah, I'm a little nervous, but I'm interested to hear

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Speaker 5: what he has to say.

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Speaker 3: Yeah, and have you been like nervous to run into him,

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Speaker 5: Of course, you know, I've kind of guess been rehearsing

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Speaker 6: Oh yeah, we all do that in our minds, right, Yeah.

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Speaker 2: And she totally hasn't been camping out down at the

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Speaker 2: like a key into the mailbox hole, just like, oops,

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Speaker 2: what are you doing here? That's funny.

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Speaker 5: I haven't done anything like that.

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Speaker 2: Good, Okay, that's very practical of you. Let's just call

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Speaker 2: Richie though and see what he has to say. Here

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Speaker 3: Oh, you got the name right, Hey, look at you,

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Speaker 3: jeff you remembered something?

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Speaker 2: Oh way you wrote it down? Well, yeah, I practiced

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Speaker 2: it seven times before we go. Here we go.

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Speaker 7: Richie has to say, hello, Hello, is this Richie? This

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Speaker 7: is he was this, This is Jeffrey with.

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Speaker 2: A Y at the end.

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Speaker 6: You would start with the J I mean is. You

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Speaker 6: would always spell it with a Y. Some people spell it.

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Speaker 4: With a G.

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Speaker 2: I don't know. Some people get confused on these things. Words,

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Speaker 2: Hello Richie.

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Speaker 4: Hi, So you're you're Jeffrey from a.

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Speaker 2: Morning radio show called Brook and Jeffrey.

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Speaker 4: Oh okay, So why are you guys telling me?

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Speaker 2: Very astute question there, Richie. We're calling because we're trying

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Speaker 2: to dig a little bit into your dating life.

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Speaker 4: What what are you talking about?

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Speaker 6: Well, I think it's a good thing.

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Speaker 2: Intrusively, yeah, yeah, yeah, it was brought to us. Yeah,

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Speaker 2: I mean just that, I mean a little bit intrusively,

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Speaker 2: but in a nice way because one of our listeners

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Speaker 2: named Manda went out with you recently and would like

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Speaker 2: to go out with you again.

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Speaker 4: She'd like to go out with me again.

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Speaker 2: M hmm, yeah, would give you that idea, she told us.

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Speaker 2: I literally emailed the show saying I would like to

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Speaker 2: see Richie again.

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Speaker 6: It was very direct.

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Speaker 2: We read between the lines on that one a little bit,

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Speaker 2: but we figured out she wants another date.

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Speaker 4: I'm just like totally confused right now. I mean, I

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Speaker 4: thought that we had a really good time, but I

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Speaker 4: I just thought she didn't like me, so I kind

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Speaker 6: Wait, wait, she tried to get hold of you. I thought,

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Speaker 6: did she tell us that or did she not tell

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Speaker 2: I don't know if I asked that question. I was

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Speaker 6: Wow, did you text her? Call her though, Richie?

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Speaker 4: No, I mean usually a girl at least, I mean,

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Speaker 2: Or even like a thank you for dinner and paying

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Speaker 6: Ask if she got home safe.

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Speaker 3: Do you guys they live in the same building.

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Speaker 2: She walked the door.

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Speaker 2: Legs. I've been stuck in the elevator for a week.

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Speaker 2: It happens, so it does not happen.

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Speaker 3: So wait, so you liked her, she liked you, and

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Speaker 6: Okay, well that seems that seems easy.

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Speaker 2: It does seem easy because you're in luck. Ritchie. Aanda

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Speaker 7: Amanda, Hey, Richie, Hey, oh, this is so strange to

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Speaker 5: Totally say, well, it's kind of just your your perspective

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Speaker 4: Well, it was from what she just said that she

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Speaker 3: It seems like you both are, like we both liked

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Speaker 5: Well, I mean I did. I was pretty clear that

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Speaker 6: What what?

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Speaker 2: Whoa where did that come from?

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Speaker 4: So now I'm a liar and a bad person because

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Speaker 6: I don't think you can take that one back.

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Speaker 2: Yeah, I thought when you were talking to us earlier

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Speaker 4: Yeah.

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Speaker 5: Sure, But I'm just you know, I'm sorry. I didn't

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Speaker 5: think that, Rittie. I didn't think you're going to be

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Speaker 2: Now he's sensitive.

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Speaker 4: I guess being sensitives better than being a total jerk.

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Speaker 6: What happened with the waiter?

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Speaker 5: I know, she asked, Yeah, what are you trying to say?

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Speaker 4: Okay, so when he tried to take your plate the

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Speaker 5: I feel like I was pretty polite. I wasn't done,

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Speaker 2: But it was probably the toll. Yeah are we? Are

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Speaker 2: we forgetting that you guys both really liked each other

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Speaker 4: I'm just big on like manners and just etiquette and

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Speaker 2: Are you sure you're not just being defensive right now

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Speaker 6: She wouldn't stay pathetic.

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Speaker 2: Yeah, okay, Well, I'm just reading between the lines. We

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Speaker 5: So you're saying that I'm not polite because I offered

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Speaker 4: I mean masculating. You got to know that, right, easculated?

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Speaker 4: That's emasculating, Like I'm a dude on the first date.

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Speaker 4: What kind of dude doesn't pay for the first date.

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Speaker 2: Well, I'm sorry. In Amanda's defense, you did order taco bell,

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Speaker 6: It's a polite thing to do.

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Speaker 2: Yeah, says money bags Brook over there to offer.

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Speaker 3: You know, even if you don't do it, at least

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Speaker 2: Is it rude like assuming that he can't afford it

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Speaker 6: That's not what she was assuming at all.

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Speaker 2: This is going to come as a news Flashbrook, but

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Speaker 1: All of a sudden, now are fighting with each other

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Speaker 1: because I like you before this call started, cat guy,

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Speaker 1: is that what daring?

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Speaker 6: And I don't even know?

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Speaker 2: How do you disrespect cats? There's nothing wrong with having cats.

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Speaker 2: Brook's should fight. You know what, buy me lunched work.

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Speaker 2: I'm going to offer to pay for half of it.

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Speaker 2: How do you like that?

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Speaker 4: Oh?

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Speaker 2: Yeah, you.

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Speaker 4: Stop?

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Speaker 3: Stop.

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Speaker 2: Maybe you got the meal order right one time instead

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Speaker 2: of getting me a burrito bowl. I don't like torchi

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Speaker 6: You didn't need the car. Richie and Manda, are you

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Speaker 2: Come on, Richie, Manda, were doing this or not? We

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Speaker 2: and Book's gonna offer to pay for half. Yeah, whether

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Speaker 2: you like it or not agree, Look, yeah, okay, well

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Speaker 2: that and like I thought, it was to go out

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Speaker 2: And this is how you get treated, blowing off when

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Speaker 6: I think it'sating. Yeah, you can't used to it.

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Speaker 2: Well, sorry, Amanda and Richie.

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Speaker 5: Yeah, I kind of got out of hand there, you know,

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Speaker 5: Okay from you.

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Speaker 2: That's offensive to people that don't have hands.

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Speaker 4: Brooke and Jeffrey in the morning, all.

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Speaker 2: Right, we've calmed down a little bit. And sometimes I'll

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Speaker 2: be honest, I wonder why our listeners keep asking for

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Speaker 2: our help. Honestly, they keep on asking us to help them.

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Speaker 2: You know what's going to happen.

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Speaker 3: Even therapists have their own issues, right, they have to

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Speaker 2: Usually not in front of the clients.

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Speaker 6: But you get paid as a therapist.

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Speaker 2: We don't on the show get paid more than others,

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Speaker 2: and it's a little bit unfair.

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Speaker 4: But.

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Speaker 6: Pay gap.

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Speaker 2: All right, Admit it got out of hand, but I

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Speaker 2: I graciously offered to give both of them restaurant gift

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Speaker 2: each other just for the trouble Brooke, what did you

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Speaker 6: I offer them that first?

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Speaker 2: Oh did you? Anyway? I don't know why you'd want to,

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Speaker 2: but if you ever want us to help you with

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Speaker 2: your love life, you can always email the show and

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Speaker 2: maybe maybe you.

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Speaker 6: End up helping us out in the end.

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Speaker 4: There you go.

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Speaker 2: Actually, maybe we should call another show to help with issues.

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Speaker 2: That's a good idea. Anyway, you can always find the

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Speaker 2: second date updates on our Brook and Jeffrey YouTube. Go

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Speaker 2: check it out, subscribe. That's it.

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Speaker 6: That's the end.

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Speaker 2: That's the end.