Speaker 1: Why don't you point zem at least why we still
Speaker 1: have it? I saw this on TikTok. I don't know
Speaker 1: what's going to happen. Everbody keeps asking, I know, people
Speaker 1: asking you like, hey, what do you think is gone
Speaker 1: with TikTok? I don't know. I know, I know, like
Speaker 1: I have the end inside scoop. What are you gonna
Speaker 1: my friends? What do you think is go on with TikTok?
Speaker 1: Tensions are high, you know between our country in China,
Speaker 1: tensions are high, and we're in a fragile international environment
Speaker 1: right now. So I saw on TikTok and I found
Speaker 1: this interesting about the negative things we say all the
Speaker 1: time without even thinking about it. We always talk about
Speaker 1: cutting down the negative self talk, but they're so common
Speaker 1: they just come out. So there's a science plans. The
Speaker 1: brain is wired to filter out whatever you're not directly
Speaker 1: focused on. So if you're not focused on it directly,
Speaker 1: then you know your brain is wired to not retain it.
Speaker 1: So if you're obsessing at your pimples or you don't
Speaker 1: like your nose, you're not going to see how amazing
Speaker 1: your eyes are or great your smile is. So we
Speaker 1: focus on the positive instead we filter out the name. So,
Speaker 1: for example, phrases to stop saying. They say, when something
Speaker 1: is funny, don't say I'm dead I'm dying. Instead say
Speaker 1: I'm living. For that. I say that all the time.
Speaker 1: Everyone says that. Everyone says, which everyone says, Oh, I'm dead.
Speaker 1: That's like the phrase to say when something is hilarious,
Speaker 1: or send like the skull and crossbones emoji, dying, laughing, dying.
Speaker 1: When you love it, you say I'm dead, right, they're saying,
Speaker 1: say I'm living. I like that and I like it too.
Speaker 1: Or when you're dreading something, when you're dreading it, dreading, dreading,
Speaker 1: dreading anything in life people say kill me and staid,
Speaker 1: they say, don't say that. They say, I'll be so
Speaker 1: happy when I get over through this, basically and stronger
Speaker 1: for it. No one's wordy. It seems like a lot
Speaker 1: to me makes me that much stronger. When you forget something,
Speaker 1: I mean, you beat yourself up. Maybe say I'm so dumb,
Speaker 1: so stupid, Just say I will do better. These are
Speaker 1: what TikTok so positive. That's good kind of though I
Speaker 1: know what you mean. Though it's crazy. It's crazy that
Speaker 1: you feel that. It's corny like that we need to
Speaker 1: change our mindset. I know, I know, well, I guess when.
Speaker 1: So if you get the flu and you say how
Speaker 1: are you doing? You say I'm sick. They say, don't
Speaker 1: say I'm sick, say I'm healing. Yeah, I'll be better soon.
Speaker 1: I'll be better soon. No, I feel like crap. You
Speaker 1: have a healing day? Do you take a healing day?
Speaker 1: Last year? Any any healing days? Only two more healing
Speaker 1: days left? Do you think we give each other positive
Speaker 1: reinforcement here and use positive words? I feel like in general,
Speaker 1: I mean, sure we can be like trying to be
Speaker 1: funny cynical, but I think in general we're pretty positive.
Speaker 1: I don't know what do you think? Yeah? Curious to
Speaker 1: note if you always text me to four, one to two, seven,
Speaker 1: where is the positivity level of this show? Where are we?
Speaker 1: One to ten? Where's the positivity level of this show?
Speaker 1: I forget the entertainment value of our sarcasm and sentences sometimes,
Speaker 1: but or used to talk back feature on ai at
Speaker 1: radio appon Lenna play some of that back one to ten? Sisne,
Speaker 1: where's the positivity factor on this show? I would say?
Speaker 1: If you were to say to me, what do you
Speaker 1: want this show to be I would say I wanted
Speaker 1: to be positive. What would you say? Yes, right, happy, happy, escapism, levity,
Speaker 1: sometimes like full of nothing. It depends on the day
Speaker 1: of the week because I think sometimes on Tuesdays we
Speaker 1: can be a little like draggy. Yeah, but we're supposed
Speaker 1: to be so that Wednesday's upbeat. But if you didn't
Speaker 1: drag on Tuesday, Wednesday, what's Wednesday? But then you started
Speaker 1: this morning if talking about his long nail, Yeah, well
Speaker 1: you dragged me down. But I came out of it
Speaker 1: because I'm positive. Fifteen minutes of NonStop kiss music is next.